Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1564 - Fisting, Deep Throating, Lesbian Encounters, Safe Words & More: Q&A with Julie

Episode Date: August 23, 2026

Julie is back for a Q&A answering Kathy’s questions about sex, relationships, turn-ons and more. Tune in to hear how long she actually wants to be pounded and why Kathy thinks guys get this all wrong, when she lost her virginity, how often and how she masturbates, how many fingers she enjoys and her experience with fisting, what went on during her six-year relationship with a woman, whether she swallows and can deep throat and how she learned, her body count with men vs. women, why she never really got into porn, her favorite toys and props, the kind of pain she enjoys and how far she’ll go, whether she’s a dom, sub or switch, the most guys she’s been with in one day, her favorite sex position, why she prefers PIV over oral, the kinds of orgasms she has, why she can outlast most guys in the bedroom, some of the crazy scenarios she enjoys, where she likes guys to finish plus something she reveals at the end that even shocks Kathy and a whole lot more. You can here her interview me on her podcast here: Kink Me Slow GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of JULIE pus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much. It's real problems. Do your friend know that you're banging her or no? No, he has no idea. And anything goes.

Mono of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and change. is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast

on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Okay, so this is a Sunday episode and for Sunday episodes, I don't get into everything, but one thing I do want to tell you, and I'm going to tell you at this Sunday, is that my audiobook is coming out this week.

Finally, most of the time audiobooks come out the same time as the book, but not mine. It's like eight, months later, it's coming out, okay, but it is coming out in two days. August 25th, my audiobook will be available. So make sure to get it. The link will be in the description. If you get it, you'll get into my Discord. You'll get a private link to my Discord. Send me a pick of a screenshot of your purchase, and I'll send you my Discord link. But the audiobook, like I said,

will be out. You could hear a sample over online. The link is in the description. Anyway, So today is another Q&A with a kinkster. It's super fun episode. Julie's been on my show before. She's very into kink and BDSM and she answers all kinds of questions. I ask her a lot of irregular questions that I ask everybody like how long you want to be pounded? How many guys have you fucked?

How do you like to jerk off? Can you, you know, swallow? I mean, do you swallow? Can you deep throat? When did you lose your virginity? I get so much information. She talks about whether she's ever been fisted. She talks about how long she likes her sex sessions to go.

You won't believe some of her answers to some of these questions. Okay, she's very super interesting. She's bisexual, so she's been with women and men, so some of these questions say answers for both of them, you know. But she has super interesting questions. It doesn't matter how many times I ask the same questions to the people. I always get such different answers, and it winds up to be such a different conversation.

This one's super fun because she's also very into BDS. I'm in kink. So we get so many more questions about that kind of stuff. And when you hear the shit that she's into, you're not even going to believe. Like, when she got towards the end and talked about one thing that she's into, I was like,

what? I'm like, you're a sick fuck. She's like, I'll take that as a compliment. You're going to have to listen to hear what she's talking about or what she brought up. But her whole Q&A is fun.

This is a Sunday Q&A episode. So I'm going to get right. She's super hot, by the way. I have pictures of her over there. And she has her own podcast. So you can see her there too. So I'll put a link to. or podcast in the description.

But anyway, I'm going to get right tuned to be right back on with Julie. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Julie. Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi. Hi, Katie.

Very nice to hear you again. Yeah, listen, I've been on your show. You have a new podcast now. Why don't you give a shout out to it? I'll put a link in the description. What was the name of your podcast again? Sorry. Terrible way names.

Yeah. I noticed. Yes, with everyone. So it is kink me slow, and it's about kink and BDSM more from the psychological perspective. Which is what it's all about if you ask me, right? So it's perfect. Yes, exactly. Yeah.

So that's what we're, so that's your, that, I came on your show. That's what you're doing now over there. Some people could do more of that. And then what I decided to do with you now on this episode is do a Q&A with you, but it's going to be more kink BDSM based, right? Because that's what you're into. I've been doing these fun Q&As on Sundays with girls, other podcast hosts, with guys. You know what I mean?

And with some guests now, I'm doing it. And, you know, some of them I do a lot of the same questions because you're always going to get a different answer, which is super interesting. And then some of them are going to be a little bit different because you're into Kink and BDSM. So it's going to be a Q&A, a little bit more skewed to Kank and BDSM, which is fun. So I'm just going to ask you a bunch of questions and you're going to have to answer. Now, my first question is one that I asked. everybody and I always start out with it and it always turns into a conversation but I'm going to

ask you but wait and I just want to make sure because I have some questions about women. Weren't you in a relationship with a woman? Yes, I was. I was for six and a half years. Okay, cool. So that's okay, cool. Because I have some questions about, you know, hooking up with women. So I hope you don't mind.

These are all like, a lot of them are sex questions. No, I don't mind. You know, it's a sex podcast. I'm calling you. Yeah, I give you my consent to do this. Okay, cool. All right. So the first one I like to ask everybody, and like I said, it's becoming very controversial is like how long do you like to be pounded? And this is what I need to tell you when I ask this question. This is what the parameters are. Like this is what I'm talking about. Like not pounded like in one sex session if it lasts for an hour and you change and everything and you know you're pounding. Then you stop and you change and then you're pounding. You know like pounding like I mean like in one session without moving right. Like say you're coming to completion at the end. You know what I'm saying? And you know. And And that's how you're, you've done everything, you're ready to go.

He's going to put his dick inside of you and pound you out until you orgasm. Like I said, no coming out of you. There's no, the dick isn't coming out and then turning you around and pounding you from the back. We're not adding that in. It's one dick inside you, pounding you until you're done being pounded. How long do you want that to happen before he takes his dick out? Oh, my God. You wouldn't believe the answers I get.

And my answer was first. and was very controversial, but I want to hear yours. I mean, like, the first thing is coming to my mind is like, I don't know, 20 minutes, something like this? Yeah, I mean, the first thing I came to my mind was like five minutes. I mean, if you really count the time, like, I don't want to be, you know, 20 minutes to me is a long time. But you like to be pounded for that. I mean, I've had people say an hour and then she was telling me I had two hours. I'm like, there's not what you're fucking being pounded for that long.

Now, like if you, if you ask me about the whole session. No, no, this isn't about the whole, I don't care about the whole session. I care about, because this is what I think, and this is why I asked this question, because I think a lot of guys, okay, and this is all because of porn. And me and Susan Brand just discuss this, that, like, you know, and I discuss this with another sex expert, too, because I've been talking about this exact topic with a lot of people because I think porn sort of makes it seem like girls want to be pound for a long time and that guys need to pound. for a really long time. And they want to pound you and show you how long they could fucking pound you. And I don't think girls are that interested in being pounded, like a marathon pounding. Okay.

I'm not, I mean, your pussy is going to hurt. Well, first of all this. And second, like, you need to take in consideration the guy because, like, I was having bagging experience. And I know that it's not very easy to fuck a girl. Right. Yeah. Take a lot of work.

It's a good workout. They're like sweating. Yes. Right. But my whole point really in asking these questions is more for guys to understand that. Like, I don't think typically. And most girls are like me, like when they're being really honest and they're answering it properly, like five minutes, six minutes. You know what I mean?

It's never like 45 minutes. But I do think that guys are of the mindset that girls want to be pounded for a lot longer than they do. Okay. You know, you like to be pounded though for like 20 minutes. Well, yeah, maybe next time I need to put on a time clock. Yeah. I think people need every people listening now, please do me a favor next time you pound your girl to orgasm. Ask her to put on a timer and tell her to tell you when to stop because sometimes a girl doesn't open her mouth and she lets the guy pound her for longer than she wants.

And this is the problem. Like I just think guys are pounding girls way too long and they don't really need it. So you're saying about 20 minutes as the first thing that comes. comes to your mind? Yeah. Yeah, I think so. Yep, because, like, I need a lot more. Okay.

And usually. How old were you when you lost your virginity? I think it was 17. Okay, 17. Okay, and how many times, are you single or dating someone? Single. Single. Okay, so how many times a week do you masturbate?

Well, I actually don't masturbate. very often. I see this is why I love asking people questions. That's interesting. Yeah. Yeah. It's like I can have sexual fantasies or like maybe watch something but not every time I masturbate

maybe like few times a week. Oh well that's not nothing. I thought you were going to say maybe twice a month. You're just you're not doing it every day. That's okay. I don't think any woman is masturbating every day unless it's like the time of the month that she's ovulating. You know what I mean? Yeah, I try to have sex more than masturbate.

Yeah, okay. But all right. So you're being taken care of mostly. So if you're, but let's say you have a dry week, right? That's when you'll do it like when you're not having sex on top of it, right? Is what you're saying. Yeah, yeah. But like even when the week is dry, how you're saying.

I don't feel like, oh, I'm like not happy or I need to do something. No. Like some days I'm super into this and some days not. So it depends on the words. Yeah, I think that's how most girls are. You know, and we definitely have a cycle, right? Get so horny when you're ovulating. Yeah.

Oh, yeah. I don't think we're as horny as guys. We have way less testosterone than them. But we do have it. And sometimes the wind just blows over you and you're horny for no reason and you jerk off. You know what I mean? Like that's normal. But that's not happening to girls like every single day, five times a day.

Like I think it happens to guys. right? Yeah, I think guys are more into it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. And then my last question with the masturbation is like, how do you masturbate when you do? Do you finger yourself? Do you play with your clip? Do you use a toy and do you use porn? So I am mostly using my fingers. I think it's the best tool ever. And recently I started to use Dildo. So I have a glass one and the like, you know, like, Like, what is it, rubber? Yeah. Yeah, so I like to have stimulation from the inside and from outside together.

Uh-huh. So it works the best. So you kind of like have an G-spot and the clitoral orgasm at the same time. Yeah, yeah. So, yeah. Okay. I typically ask the finger question later later and it wasn't even on your list because this is more BDSM. But I do like to ask people if there are going to be fingered.

How many fingers do they like? So usually, now I'm looking at my hand, usually I put two fingers inside. And when it's a guy? And when it's a guy fingering you, same thing? Oh, no, usually I think it's more. Because like when I put my fingers inside, I tend to like press the G-spots. So you kind of like need more space to move your fingers. And when God is doing this, like sometimes like sometimes like some,

guy will fist me. So it's like you. Oh, that was on my list later, whether you've ever been fisted. And that was more for the girls. Because I know you, you know, been in a girl-girl relationship. Okay, wait. But I like to just go wherever it fucking takes me. So with guys, you like a lot of fingers and you'll take a whole fist.

Well, it's not like all the time. I think it was two times. One time it was, I was fisted by a girl. And the second time by the guy. but his hands were not huge. So it's kind of like interesting. In the beginning, it's a bit painful because like, well, it's a fist. Right.

But and then you have this kind of like overwhelming, pleasurable feelings. So it's very nice. I like it. But it's not something like you want every day. Right. And even though you're with a girl for six years, you only got fisted once by a girl. I don't even know if it's that girl, but it wasn't something that you did in your relationship with your partner, right? No, it's not that partner because my ex-partner, she was very conservative and like we didn't have a lot of variety in our sex life.

Oh, I was going to ask in that relationship with the girl, you know, were you the strap on her or the strap E? Like, I mean, did you get fucked by her when she and she strapped it on or did you strap it on and you fuck her? we even didn't use strap on stuff. Ever? No, never, with her never ever. Okay, did you scissor? I'm going to go through my lesbian questions really fast since it sounds like you had boring experiences with her.

Did you guys scissor? That's always my favorite question. Well, yeah. Well, we did all this kind of like, let's say it's like rubbing stuff. Yeah, that's scissoring, right? All of this, like fingering, Whirl and everything, but like nothing original. How come there was no strapping it on or anything like that?

Was she really not into that? Or like, why was that never a part of your guys? Because six years was a long time. Would you use toys maybe and just not strap it on? No, we were not even used toys. I was offering to buy some. But every time we would like look through or like and didn't end up buying or like using, I don't know, she

she had this thing, like, she liked few ways how she would come and that's pretty it. Was it just like oral? Maybe she, was like, because you're actually, you're obviously bisexual, right? Was she more like straight up lesbian? And maybe she didn't like anything inside her. Maybe she wasn't into that kind of penitentate of sex.

She is, she is just lesbian, but she had a relationship with a guy like when she was very young but she's not into like penetration or penetration yes at all so that's why she was not even asking for it so right and you never said hey because you obviously

like dick right you never said hey could you use a toy on me or strap it on and fuck me like did you just know on some level that she was never going to do that so you didn't even bring it up yeah probably probably I asked a few times, and like we, I remember we were sitting and looking through some websites, speaking up a strap on. Yeah. Yeah.

Yes. And no, we didn't up doing anything. So did you, like, so did you go six years without anything inside you? Or did you, like, use toys and stuff when maybe when she wasn't around? Yes. Okay. That would be a long time without putting something inside you, if you're into it. you know I mean?

Right? Yes, yes, exactly. Yeah, I kind of like, in the beginning, it was totally fine for me because I was very much in love and everything and everything was very satisfying. But then at some point, well, like our sex life, like slow down a little bit. And I was trying to figure out how I can fix it, but like not I can fix it. how we can fix it. But I don't know, probably we had like different libidil level.

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Or something. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Mismatched libidos. Yeah.

Do you swallow when you give blowjobs? Yes. Okay. I do. Can you deep throat? Yes. You can? I'm always impressed.

These are the kind of things I wish I could do. I'd be bragging about it. Yeah. Actually, a blow job is. one of my favorite things and deep throating is something like very vulnerable but it's an amazing thing. Now can you orgasm? Because there are some, there is such a thing as a throat orgasm. It's very true. My girl, Erica, that used to be on my show all the time learned it by Susan Bratton. I have Susan Bratton coming on again and talking about all the orgasms that people can have. And that's like a thing. You can have a throat gasm. Do you have them when you like do blow orgasm? But you can by the way. By the way, you can. Yeah, I heard about it.

I heard that you can have an orgasm from everything from like touching your muscles or whatever. I forget what the move was, but Erica learned how to do it. Like she said that if you don't put it down all the way, there's some sort of tissue spot in there that if you move it around and you put your focus there, it's like, like, you know, like rubbing your clit. You know what I mean? Like in it, it's a real thing.

Yeah. But anyway, but how did you learn how to deep throat? Can I ask? I mean, these are the questions I ask. It's a Q&A. Well, so there was, I think, one partner, play partner. And like I like to have a blow job. And he just liked it rough.

Yeah. So, and it was kind of like happened naturally. Like in the beginning it was a bit scary because like you were choking on a dick. But at the same time, when you. you kind of like relax or I don't know and do it very slowly so when he allowed me kind of like to take the control not he's fucking my throat but I'm kind of allowing him to go inside so it's like it's like the slow thing and then you're kind of you're feeling this um your throat opens up more and you're like, well, having it.

But you don't have a gag reflex? Well, yeah, I do have, but it's not like, you know, crazy that I will throw up. Yeah, yeah. So you work through it. Yes, you kind of like, you, like I can't hold it for, I don't know, for a long time. But you kind of like you have there, like you can move a bit, but still you need some up to this. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

That's impressive. So you must give good head considering you you love it and it's like the thing that you really enjoy, right? Well, these are reviews. I was kidding. Listen, there's no way.

There's no guy out there that loves going down on a girl that's terrible at it. Like, I don't know. I just think that like when you really love doing something and you're like devouring it, like it just makes it good.

Like I feel like that's one of the keys of doing something good. You know what I mean? Of course it's mechanical. I'm assuming you use your mouth in your hand and you're doing it like you but the fact that you love it must make you great at head sorry you could brag about it I'm good at I give good head I give good head I'll say it it's just a fact but because I like to please a guy and I'm into it you know what I mean and I think that that's a very big

thing when it comes to sex and it goes it's both ways right you ever have a guy go down on you that you could tell is not into it which is weird to me but like but when a guy is like fucking devouring you like how could it be bad yeah yeah yeah exactly. Right. Yeah, I heard like one guy told me that I'm like worshipping a dick. Yeah. I mean, you think any guy out there's going to be like, oh, it was okay.

I mean, she worshipped my dick, but it was okay, blowjob. There's no way. You probably give like the best hat. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yes. Yeah. All right.

This is a controversial question that I always say to guys like, don't ask girl this question, but I ask girls this question. Like, what is your body count for men and for women? because we know you hook up above. Oh, shit. So, well, with girls, I don't have like a lot, a lot because like when I was dating girls, I was dating them. I was not like having random connections.

Right. So maybe in my life it was like 10. Yeah, right. Of course, because you were in a six-year relationship and then in relationship. Yeah. that sounds about right, but that's still a lot considering, you know, you're not old. Yeah. Yeah.

Yes. And guys, oh, that's, uh, ah. This is a terrible question for me to ask? Nobody, nobody ever cares about answering it. Some people are very proud. Venus Cuckoldress was like over 100 and she was like, I fucking love this question. She was so into it. And it's into her high body count.

I mean, it's probably 50. Okay. There you go. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And that was before and after the girl. It wasn't like you started out just with women, right? You were always into men and women, correct? Yeah. So I dated men for quite a while. And then there was like a 10-year period where I was dating just girls. Right. Okay, cool. And then you went back to guys or both now. I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like, yeah, I consider myself bisexual. I don't date. anyone now, but like I sleep with both. Yeah, okay, cool. Do you watch porn? Oh, very rare. Very rare.

Yeah. Okay. So all your life, you never really got into it and you just always use your imagination when you do jerk off if you are. Yes, exactly, because I don't know, like my imagination is much more vivid, I guess. And sometimes even I don't need to imagine like, particular thing. Yeah. Like you just, you have this like corny mind and you just go into the process. I don't really, I don't know how to explain it,

but it's like, you know, I, usually when I masturbate, I close my eyes and I just fly away somewhere. I don't have to imagine like a person or a situation. So it's just like, you're just like lost in space and blackness and you're just being pleasureed by the actual sensation. and not thinking about anything else.

Yes, yes. That's interesting. But I do believe because I was always like, I do believe like watching porn and drinking off the same time. It's just being lazy because I always used to see this. And I think it's very true and you're just living the good life all the time because you're never watching porn that like for me, I would always just watch porn because it was easier and quicker and you just think

and nowadays there's such a variety that you're like, oh, it's like a kid in a candy store. Let me go have a piece of candy. But I always felt like when I didn't use porn, right? And I decided to use my imagination, which for some reason, always seems like so much more work beforehand that I give up and I just go to porn. But when I would not, when I would just do it, it's really not that much work and I would use my mind. It would be so

much better. It's always 10 times better. The orgasm when I would use my imagination than when I would use porn, right? Like for sure. Oh yes. Exactly. Like recently, I was like, okay, I will watch porn. Yeah. And I was watching some kind of porn with gangbanks. Yeah. And I'm, um, I'm, I was trying to find something that I like. Yes, I was turned on, I was wet and everything. But I was very disappointed by all the videos. And when in the end, when I decided to finally masturbate, I'm putting my dildo inside and I come in like three seconds.

And I'm like, oh, that's disappointing. Yeah, right, right. It's very different. So it's kind of like you put all your mind and all your feelings into watching instead of like feeling this inside. So yeah, for me, we're so disappointing. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. And it's very true. And I think what you explained is exactly the difference between the orgasms. When you're getting off on porn, you're horny and everything by the visuals and that is like a turn on and stuff. But when you're using your own mind, you're still in your body and that horniness and everything is like connected to you. So it's just a much more intimate experience or something I don't know, but I know for a fact

that whenever I use my mind I get so much better orgasms but I would always, to me it's just out of laziness that I would go to porn you know what I mean? Well, yeah, a little bit. Yeah, yeah, for sure. But I think to myself like why do I think,

like I said, it's like right before I'm going to do it I'm like I could use my imagination oh, I'll just go to porn because I, for some reason my mind thinks it's going to take so much work to use my imagination but it's not really true. It's just your fucking imagination. But it's like clicking into it and going to that other place in your brain, you know what I mean?

it really is an escape. And I think that's why some people don't do it. I think a lot of people just use porn because it's quick and easy, right? That's what I think. Yeah, it's like fast food. Yes, exactly. Like I said, candy. I don't really eat candy, but that's like what porn is.

It's like a guilty pleasure. And there's so much of it. It can really be like a mind fuck because you just get it in the rabbit hole. Okay, what kind of, I mean, you're into BDSM and kink and stuff. Like, in that world, in that part of your life, what are your favorite, like, toys or props that you like to use? So, it called impact

when you use stuff to impact on other people. No, on you. What you like to use on you? First let's do what you like to use on other people and then what you like to use on you. So, flogger is my favorite.

On you or they use on someone else? Both. Both. Oh, okay. Yeah, it's an amazing tool. cool, like, it can be very soft, but it can be very hardcore. Right. I like a crop, like a riding crop, a horse crop.

What else? Both ways, both ways. These are all both ways, riding crop on someone as well as on you. Yes, yes. And ropes. So you like to be tied up? I like to be tied up. And recently I started to learn to tie.

So it's, yes. And also with the rope, you can use it not only for tying. You can use it for choking and for playing. So it's like, just use your imagination. Again, there's an imagination. When it comes to pain, do you like stingy or thuddy or are you into both? I'm into different type of pain. Oh, tell me.

What's the other one? Yeah. I mean, like for example, choking. what kind of pain is it like it can be very painful when someone is pressing down your throat so it's like heavy thing so maybe I don't know how to call this type of pain or like slaps on the ass yeah are the I think that's stingy that's more stingy than like because I typically hear people in your world call it either stingy pain or thuddy pain and different props and different things that you use give different types of pain.

Stingy pain, I think, comes more so from spanking, right? Like that would be a stingy pain. And thuddy, maybe would be from a flogger, I don't know. But you liked it's, and a crop I think would be stingy. I don't know, you're supposed to tell me these things. Yeah, stingy, like when you say stingy, I imagine like a bamboo stick. Yeah. It's a hard or a thing.

It's a small prop, but it's so fucking painful. No, stingy is more like just. stingy. It's not about like what's more painful or not. It's like a type of pain. You don't know the difference in your world? Maybe I don't divide it. No, maybe you don't know the terms. Yeah, maybe. Maybe. Like, I never, like, I never discussed it with like, what type of, I've heard these from, like, people in your world. You know what I mean? In the impact world, stingy versus thuddy is like a big thing. Here, look, I prefer 30 thuddy pain of a paddle, belt, whip, or hand, as opposed to stingy pain.

Like, stingy and thuddy is like a major thing in your world. You got to go Google it. You'll see. Okay, okay. This is what I'm going to do next. It's like, it's used, I mean, I only know this from people in the BDSM world that talk about it, you know, for sure. And they typically will have a definite one or the other, you know what I mean?

They're physical, it's like a physical sensation. It's not actually like the pain level or anything like that. You know what I mean? It's more the type of sensation. One is stinging, one is pain. Since you don't know the difference, we don't know. I have another good question for you. Like, what is your pain threshold when it comes like if we say one to 10? Ooh. I would say like, so 10 is like hardcore pain. You tell me, yeah, 10 is like, you know, in your world, whatever. It's instead of 100, one to 10. 10 is like a very massive pain. I would say maybe leaving. bruises, the harshest, the harshest you could get, you know, whereas three is like, oh, you like, you know, more soft impact stuff, you know, and seven. So it's like nine and a half. Oh, you're hardcore. Hey guys, this is your sex drive not exactly where you wanted to be all the time. Or do you just want to take things up a notch and put a little bit more drive into your sex life? Well,

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what is the word, slapping my face. Yeah. And I had bruises on my face. and it's not fun. It's like when it's done not properly, it's not good. Yeah.

But like bruises on your ass, on your back, it's totally fine. Right. So. What is your actual safe word? I usually use red. Red?

Okay. That's interesting. And is green like your keep going word? Like do you use those kinds of words while you're playing? You know, honestly, every time, like, for example, when I'm tied or something, we discuss this. But I prefer, like, with tying, with ropes, I prefer to communicate with words. With the play, if we're having a scene, for example, a role play, you don't use green or anything. You just have one safe word, and that's it.

Right. So you just, you only can stop it. You don't tell in this, like, I'm not. saying like, oh yes, yes, please continue. Like, you're a play partner, see that, like, you're not using the safe word or he's checking you, like with eyes or with questions.

So, yeah, just read. Just read. Okay. Now, I'm assuming because you like to flog and you like to be flogged, that you're like a switch Dom and Sub depending on your partner, correct? Yes, yes, that's true. So, but if you had to choose, okay, if I said for one week, you have to choose

one this week. Let's just say this week. Maybe it'll give you, you know, would you rather be a like dominant 24-7 or submissive 24-7 if you had to choose one? Well, for for next week, I would choose to be a submissive. Okay. How come? Well, it's just, because it's not very often I can find someone that will vibe with me and who can dominate me actually. Yeah. Because it's not very easy with me because I'm like dominant person in my life. So I need someone to be like psychologically much stronger than me. Yeah.

So like if you would ask me, I would choose someone to be dominating me because it just gives me. this kind of like... So that's being a submissive then now? Yes, yes, yes. To be a submissive for a week. Yeah, I would love to. Oh, I thought you, for some reason I forgot, you said it's the missive, right? That would be your thing.

Typically, right? Anytime, right? But you do like to dominate sometimes as well. Oh, yes, yes. I love it. Now, is there a difference when it comes to men and women like, because that's sometimes I've heard that, like, oh, I like to be this way with men, but when it comes to women, I feel this way. Like, do you like to switch with both? Do you feel more dom with women or submissive

with men? Like, how do you roll? No, it's just depend on a person. Like, I like to be dominant with women, but at the same time, there are a specific type of men I like to dominate. And it's, like, I feel amazing about it. Are they the more alpha guys? Do you like to dominate a guy that's, like, hard to dominate, like, do you like to get over on him, the alpha? No, actually, I like this pretty young guys that are like, they're nice, good looking. Interesting. So I call them puppies. So they're like just with their eyes and they're looking at you and they're sitting on their

knees. Oh, it's, oh. Oh my God. I had the scenario painted so differently. I get it, though. I get it. Okay. So you like like the guy that just looks.

like he could be fucking sub just so easily? Well, yes, but at the same time, like, his feet, like, I have a specific, like, type in my mind. He's feet and younger, and, like, he usually works on some, like, high-level position. But he's cute. Yeah, I guess. I don't know why. I have my weakness for cute guys. Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with that.

Do you ever use a spreader bar? No, never. Like you mentioned it. Yeah. And yeah. That's why I'm asking you because you like to be tied up. Yes, it's actually an nice thing to try because it's like, yeah, it's like ropes. But you know what I used?

One guy, he had this special set. Like you fix it onto the bed. So he can kind of fix your legs like. a spreader bar. So you have them on, how to say, like fixed. So you can't put them together. So it was pretty much the same effect. Yeah. Right. Of course. But the point being and why I like a spread board, I would like that too is like I like if I can't move my legs and they're open. You know what I mean? And you can't sort of close them. Yeah. Yeah. With this thing, you can't move like because you're fixed to the bed. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. That's the point. Yeah. I like it. Are you into being degraded?

No, no, that's completely not my thing. Right. Yes. Yeah. Okay. It's my, it's my boundary. Yeah, no, I think that's one of those things that either you're into it or you're not. Are you like a voyeur or an exhibitionist or both?

I would say both. I enjoy both things because in the beginning, I felt very uncomfortable when someone was watching. Because, like, I even heard the term how it called when you. you think, oh, how I look like, how my belly looks like and everything. But now I notice that like if I go to the play party and I know that people are watching, I'm like, let's put on a show. Right. Okay.

So this is another one that goes back to just like regular cycle. What is your, or no, this is a good one. How many guys have you had sex with in one day? Have you ever done more than one guy in one day? the same day? Yes, because I've been going to play parties. Yeah. But it was not crazy, actually.

It was three, I think. Three in the same day. Okay. Yeah. Okay, what's your favorite sex position? Doggy. Oh, you like to be doggy style. You guys must love you.

Oh, yes. By the way, that's like every guy's favorite sex position. My wife and told me, like in nature, there's something like, you know, we're animals, right? First and foremost, and then we're human beings. But like the animal instinct, the male animal, like when the female animal bends over, right, and puts her ass up and the male animal could see her pussy in her ass in that position, that supposedly is like the most perfect position for the male animal. Do you what I mean?

So like, guys, I mean, fucking love you. You love that. You're telling it now. And I'm turned on. Yes. You're a guy. Every animal likes that position. Yeah, it's supposedly a fast.

I only like it if a guy doesn't have a big dick, you know what I mean? Because I don't like my cervix to be touched. So if some guy's like really long, like I don't want him to fuck me in the ass, I get afraid if he's going to pound me that I could feel it. You know what I mean? I can't explain it. I must have like a small pussy or something. Like, you know, a short one.

Okay. Yeah, you like it. but you'll take any size dick from behind. Yes. Yes, but not, like, it's not anal. It's,

yeah, well, I was going to ask you, are you a three-in-put girl? No. No. I'm not like, I'm not against it,

but, uh, I don't have a big experience with anal. Uh-huh. And if I will have it, I need, like, trust to the partner and like,

good connection. and everything. So it's not like one night stand or like at the party. So no, like now when I, when I meet the person for the first time, it's, uh, it's another boundary. So no anal. Yeah. Okay, cool. Now, it's, normally I ask like, if you could only do one thing. Like, say some guy is coming over tonight to pleasure you. And he says, I'm only going to do one thing to you to get you off. Like you could only have one thing tonight. And typically, I, the question is like anal, penetrate,

you know, like a pussy and vagina sex or oral sex, you know, which one would you pick? Let's take anal out of the equation since you're not into it. So your guy, the hottest guy that you're with that,

and he does, he fucks you great and he goes down on you great, right? Like, so it's all equal. But if you could only have one and he's coming over and he's just going to do one thing to you, which would you choose if you had to?

Penetration. Okay, cool. That's interesting. Okay. So penetration for sure. Okay, hold on. Let's get to... Oh, are you multi-orgasmic?

I would say no. No. I can have a few orgasms in a session, but it's not like in a role or something. And I need some time to... Yeah, it's not like... I've heard this stories about women who are like having one by one by one.

Yeah, can you believe? I know. You know what? Yeah. And told me. That were me and you, people like me and you, because I'll have to wait like 20 minutes and then I could go again, right? Like I could have five orgasms in a night. I've had that before, right? But like there has to always be time in between for like my, to get not so sensitive and be able to go again. And what Susan Bratton taught me that people who can't have multiple orgasms are getting too much sensation like for their, like you know what I mean? Like you're overstimulating in the first orgasm. And that's the problem. okay well because my orgasms they're usually very strong so it's like they last for long and I'm like

I'm having all this weight no no actually not actually often orgasm I can run a marathon and like you know compared to the guy like he's usually like dead and I'm like okay I'm ready for more right so even though it's really long and intense and it goes all over your whole body. You feel energized by it. Oh, yes, yes, yes. Yeah. Yeah, that's great. And the guy is just like, you know, exhausted after what I'm done now. Yes, this is what I'm saying. Like, for me, it's a problem to find a guy who would keep up with me. Like, in my life, there were just few guys like this. Because, like, you were asking about time for bounding and like time for the session for me the perfect session would be like from three to six hours you are fucking kidding me yes yeah that's like that's my time

and well i would remember now only maybe two guys in my life that were able to keep up yeah The rest were like, no, no, I'm done. Yeah, three to six hours. I mean, I don't have, I always make jokes about how, like, I remember the days when I was younger and I could have sex for so long and all the time. You know, I mean, I just don't have the time. I'm too busy now to do that kind of long sessions. But, and also, for me, I have to, like, you know, when I say, like, I remember when I just

said I came five times a day, like, that was with this one guy that I used to be with one of my last guys I was with. And, like, I was, like, really, it was at the height of, like, being, really into him. You know what I mean? If I'm just using like a booty call guy or someone I'm not that into like I don't want him to cut it. I don't want to be with him for that many orgasms. You know what I mean? I don't want it that long. But you like even if you're not connected to somebody, right? And you're just having a guy that you're hooking up with. You want your sessions to be like three hours or longer. I mean, I still, I need to be into that person not maybe like in love or something. No, no, I know.

I'm into my booty calls. Yeah, no, no, I like all the people I have sex with. I'm saying, but I don't want three hours section unless someone is like boyfriend material. You know what I mean? So I know the difference. You're saying it's just you, you like the people and you are connected to them, right, on some level. But it's not like you're really into them that you wanted that long. It's really about what you just, that's how you experience pleasure.

That's how you want your pleasure, which to me is super interesting. The right guy is out there. So like, why can't I fucking, like, what's her problem? Like, I could do that. I want to do that. I feel like there's a lot of guys. Because there's so many guys out there that are like real, like, because the guy that gave me five orgasms, like he's a pleaser.

You know what I mean? Like, there's a lot of guys out there that all they want to fucking do is please a girl and they get so off on it. And that's like the perfect guy for you. Because any pleaser guy is going to fucking love that you want marathon three hours and you're going to come that whole time and you want him to please you that whole time. they're going to fucking love it. Maybe those little twinks you're with aren't the pleaser types.

I don't understand why you're having a problem. Finding guys who could keep up. What are you doing in those three to six hours? Well, it's like, well, of course we have breaks. Of course. Between, yeah. So like the drink or a cigarette or something. Yeah.

What we do, it's like everything. Like, it can be, like, for example, what I have in my mind, the last guy with whom we had, like, six hours. Yeah. So it was everything. It was penetration, oral. In the beginning, it was like we had a role play. So I came to his house, and I was, like, a whore. So he kind of, like, ordered me.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it. And there was, like, we had a play there, and, like, he was telling me what to do and all the stuff. And then, like, I entered the room. There was, like, a camera there. So he was, um, uh, so on the wall, I've seen everything he was watching. So he was not filming me, but, like, he did something.

So I would see, like, my ass and everything that he sees. So it was, like, kind of, like, I like this type of perverted mind. And then we were just like having sex all the time. Yeah, yeah. And keeping that role play going down a lot of the times? No, you mean that time? Yeah. Yeah.

No, like at some point. You got out of character. Yes, yes, yes. We just started to talk and yeah. Probably like we went for a cigarette and yeah. How many times would you orgasm in that six-hour session? Any idea? Like, probably not much because for me it's not the goal.

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I've heard that many times. To orgasm, it's not the goal. Like, it's nice to have one. Probably it was like, I don't know, two, three times, not much. Are you into water sports at all? Not really. I was thinking about it. I never tried it.

I was thinking about it. Before I was saying like no, definitely. But I was talking to one of my play partners with whom I have a good connection. And I was like, okay, with you, I can try. We never tried it. But again, it's a question of trying. For me, it's everything about trust and connection with a person. Right.

And would that work both ways? Because some people, when it comes to water sports, it's like they're like, so if a guy asked you like, hey, would you pee on me? Would you be like, okay, sure, no problem. Or would you need the trust if he was going to pee on you? Or would it be that for both scenarios? Oh, both ways. I need trust both ways.

Like, I can imagine it's easier to pee on someone. Not really. That's what I've heard. I've heard, by the way, you know what I've heard, that because it's so not natural for your body, like, you know, you spend your whole life, like not peeing in places where you're not supposed to do, no matter how much you want to pee, you'd never pee in a car, you don't pee when you're walking on the street. You know what I mean? You only pee in a toilet.

So people that have told me that have gotten into World Sports and had, like, their first experience, they couldn't pee. Like, they can't get it out. Okay. Because it's not natural, right? Like, your body is not meant to do it. And so you're, like, sitting over someone's face and it just doesn't work. And it's very, it's actually not that easy.

Isn't that kind of interesting? But it makes sense. Yeah, but I remember sometimes you would go to the toilet and someone is next to you. And like, you kind of have this fear that it would be very loud. Yeah. Can't sit. And you can't do this. See, exactly.

You're exactly picking up on it. That's exactly, that's the same exact thing. It's like we're so, we don't realize how wired we are with peeing that it actually, people find a very difficult to pee on. somebody. It's kind of interesting, but makes sense, right? But when you're talking about water sports, like, I know that what a sports, it's always about being. But when I hear this, I always think about, like, another, like, what are practices in BDSM? This is what I'm into, actually. Oh, okay, you explain. Yeah, so one of my favorite scenes is, like, a drowning scene. When,

someone is like putting you underwater and it's like usually it's quite rough. So like someone is drowning you like in the pool for example. So. And you get off on that. What a sick fuck you are. I take it as a compliment. Totally, of course. So yes, once I was talking to one guy and he showed me this picture.

where he's pulling out the girl from a sink full of water. And I was like, oh my fucking God, I want to try it. So I asked my play partner if we can try it and we tried it in the pool. He was like, I know that when you're in the dominant position, you're also have fears because like you need to do it very carefully. So because you're in control of someone else's life. Yeah. So, and he was doing it very softly.

But still, it was nice because, like, for example, it was done in the pool. So he was standing in the pool and he was putting me down. And I was looking up at him so I could see his eyes and he was watching me. So it's hot. Oh, my God. I can't even breathe while we're talking about it. And I'd be fucking horrified. I could never.

And the second thing is it can be done in a shower. So when you're in a, like, I will explain what we did. So maybe it's not according to rules or whatever. So I was doing him a blow job. And at some point, he took a shower and he put it into my face. So like when you do you know this feeling when you can't breathe because you have all this water is coming to your. Yeah, it's called water torture. They do it to people like when they're prison.

prisoners, water torture. Waterboarding. Waterboarding. Waterboarding. Yes, it's the thing I want to try. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. You know, listen, if you're ever like in Thailand and you fuck up or Japan or wherever

those countries are where you do anything and they put you in fucking jail, you'd be like having a field day. All the torture they would do for you, you'd be like having orgasms. Oh, my God. Fucking water torture. That's crazy. That's a thing, though, in the BDSM world. Yes, yes, yes. But then the shower, it was very hot. So you kind of like, you're choked with a dick. And then you have this water on you. And like he switches this. And it's, oh, it's amazing. Because it's like not even about physical thing. Well, of course I'm enjoying everything. But at the same time, it's about this psychological act. Because he's in charge.

one hand. So he knows that he controls this situation. But at the same time, I understand that he trust me so much that he can do this shit to me. And like, I like it. And I will tell him if something goes wrong. And like there is so much happening there. Like there is silence there. but you communicate with this person on like on a weird and other level. And it's, oh my God, that's ridiculous. Yeah, I've never, I don't think I've ever heard of that. I mean, I know that there's all kinds of things in your world, you know, besides that that I've probably never heard of.

And I've had a fetish Friday for a long time and talked to a lot of people into BD a Simon Kink, but not one person talked about being drowned or being waterboarded. when a dick is in their mouth. Super interesting. I was going to ask you, I could ask you my last question, but then I'm going to end with another question of what you're just talking about. But my last question was like, you know, where if you, if someone's going to come on you, do you like, you know, where would you want it to be?

Inside you, on your face, like on your tits, like, you know, where's your favorite place for the guy to come? Oh, well, like, well, it also depends on who is this. If it's the person whom I really like, I really like when he comes into my mouth. Yeah. Like into my face. It's also for me, it's a question of connection. If it's like first time guy or something, like it can be chest or belly. Right.

Yeah. But when you trust somebody and you're into them? Yeah. Yeah. My face and my mouth and like I would like gladly swallow it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, there you go. Okay. And then my last question was going to be like besides that water crazy thing that you just

tell me, is there any other kind of crazy like thing that you're into when it comes to your world that we would, maybe you would shock me? Because that shocked me. Okay. I'm glad because you've heard a lot. Yes. Anything else you can throw in there? Well, I would shock you.

Well, I don't think. Anything else that you're into that maybe that wouldn't shock me that maybe though is extreme. Like what's the most extreme thing besides that you're into? I think I was telling you in the last interview. I'm into this kind of like roughness. Yeah. Yeah, CNC. But when person is playing good, so he's in the role all the time, he's not like smiling at you or like giggling or something.

He's like completely there. and like the person is strong and you kind of like scared of him so yeah I like I like to be scared obviously

yeah yeah obviously that's the same thing that plays into what you were just talking about you know what I mean yeah the drowning and you know being overcome yes yes

and not having any control and that's scary that's fucking scary shit you know what I'm saying yes yes exactly scary like when the person, I had a few guys that were like really very strong, like one guy is from,

from military. And like sometimes he would do something to me. And I'm like, fuck, I'm scary because he can kill me in a second. And yeah, and it's a nice feeling. Yeah, yeah, crazy.

You're a crazy fuck. That's what you are. But, you know, there's so many guys must be so into you. I don't know why you haven't found those pleaser guys that are, like, but you're going to be, a lot of guys are going to be like,

oh, where the fuck is you? I want to, they want to line up. You like to be fucked from behind. You give great head. You worship dicks. You want a three hour session. I mean, come on. Like, you like, I've got a lot of guys' fantasy. But, um, so do me a favor so that they could put, because you're super hot.

I mean, because you are like out there with your face and everything, right? So like, people could see you. So send me, um, a pick for my Patreon, right? a hot pick, but rated R for Patreon. You could go into Discord, put whatever you want over there. I'm going to put a link to your podcast because you're doing, you have a podcast now, and we're going to promote that, right, so people could hear and just explain what you do on your podcast.

Like, you get into the psychology of BDSM and Kink. Yes, so my point is, like, there is a lot of shame and guilt around BDSM and Kink, and I don't really like it. Yeah. And my goal is to dishame the Kink. Kink. So I don't want to everyone be involved in Kink and BDSM. No, it's not for everyone, but I want people to kind of like have more understanding of it, like by showing real people from the community. So I take the person and I interview him or her and I'm showing the real,

the raw story. So from the childhood, like all the traumas, problems and all the path that person is taking. So you would see that there is nothing special or there is nothing like people are not crazy there. People are just like everyone. And to show that there are a lot of, that BDSM is different, that it can be soft, it can be hard, it can be like crazy what I'm telling, or it can be like fairies and unicorns. So it's very different. And like, I'm also very open to perverted fucks to come to my show as well and share their stories. Because, yes, it's like the more you talk about it, I don't say that I'm educating people. I'm just like showing different perspectives.

It's a nice thing to do. Yeah, but typically when you do that, you do wind up educating people, I feel like. And that's not a bad thing. I think that that's a good thing. I always say the point of my show is not to tell people that everyone should be non-monogamous. I'm not even like never been non-monogamous in a relationship yet, but I will be one day. But you know what I mean? But all I'm here to say is that like, you know, you can be and you could be a happy, healthy,

and a great relationship because of it. You know what I mean? And you're doing like the same thing. And I think that that's great. There needs to be, especially when it comes to Kinkin BDS and there needs to be so much more awareness because, you know, you watch the news and you hear people, regular vanilla people talk. and, you know, most people have it very wrong, you know. So the more you talk about it and you get into it, the more people can understand it

because a lot of people have a very different view of what it is compared to what it really is. You know what I mean? They don't really get it at all. And that's because of the media and because of like 50 shades of gray. And, you know, stuff that's been out there that just paints the very wrong picture, I think, you know? Yeah, because most of the people think about it as a dark thing. for a psychopath. Yeah, totally.

Yeah. But it's not true. Yeah, but the regular person would never believe that. You know what I mean? Like they don't really get what goes down in that world. And it gets always like very consensual and stuff. So it's great that you're doing it. I will put a link to your podcast in the description, okay?

And thanks for calling in and giving me a fun Q&A. It'll be up on a Sunday, either this Sunday or next or the following. Yeah, thank you very much, Kathy. It's fun, right? Thank you. It is very fun. Okay, cool. Thanks for being so honest. And send me some hot picks for Patreon, okay? Yes, I will. Thanks, Julie. Thanks. Bye.

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It's going to be available August 25th. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. Some of the best stories, okay? I kind of picked one from each category that I talk about on my show. There's a hot wife story, a cuck queen story, a ganked girl story. Like I said, it's 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person and they're all true. Okay, this isn't like an erotica book that's made up.

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