Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1566 - Maverick and His Wife Started Hotwifing But Now Prefer Swinging

Episode Date: August 25, 2026

Maverick and his wife (ep #1533) started hotwifing but now prefer swinging and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how How and why Maverick and his wife started out hotwifing, why he realized he wasn’t into her solo play with other guys and why they decided to start swinging instead, their first couple swap and exactly what went down and how his wife felt about being with another woman, their first swingers house party and the orgy they participated in, the swinger weekend they threw for his 40th birthday and what went down, the local couple they met up with and why the experience didn’t go so well, the next couple they met who they’ve now hooked up with a bunch of times and how they’ve become real friends outside of swinging too, all the hardcore stuff they’ve done together and how this couple has helped them push their boundaries, how they got them to try double penetration and what went down when both wives tried it, why Maverick prefers meeting and connecting with couples over going to swinger clubs, the kind of couples they enjoy hooking up with, how you can hook up with them plus a whole lot more. You can find them on OnlyFans and Telegram @lakelovers1 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of MR. & MRS. MAVERICK plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and dating website and it's not just a place where you could hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun. You're going to find it all on SDC.com. Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Maverick. Maverick is Mrs. Maverick's husband. Mrs. Maverick was on 1533. It went from like hot wiping to swinging. And that's what's super interesting to me because most people, it's like the opposite. Once people get to hot

wiping, it's like the end all be all. It's very rare that you hear people switch it up. But they did. And where he picks up, because he called in before, he picks up from when they stopped hotwifing. He talks about why they did, why he wasn't that into it and why they decided to get more into couple swapping and group sex and all the kind of crazy things that they did ever since. And he gets very detailed about all their experiences since. His wife touched on a lot of the experiences, because she was saying their whole story, she didn't get as detailed as him. You know, on his episode, you're going to get all the details of that, of like all

their hookups with couples. He starts off with the first couple they hooked up with and that was a big deal for them because they had only done hot wiping. And then he talks about like their big group sex orgy party. He gets very detailed about that and what went down. And then he talks about all the couples they have hooked up with and done crazy stuff with ever since. They're very into the couple swapping. They have a couple there with now and he says like they really push their boundaries and gets them to do things. He talks about their DP experience with them and he gets detailed about everything. So you're going to get, like I said, more details of specific couple situations with Maverick than you got on his wife's episode. But if you want to hear her story too, it's 1533.

His story now from where they went from hotwifing to now them, you know, really finding their people and finding what they're like into, which is couple swapping and not swingers clubs. He talks about why they're not into going to swingers clubs. But the whole episode is super interesting. He gives a lot of details, like I said. So it's hot too. So you're going to love his episode. I'm going to get right to it and be right back on. Oh, and by the way, they're super hot and I got their pictures over on my Discord.

But anyway, I'm going to get right tuned and be right back on with Maverick. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hey, Maverick. Welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Excellent. Thank you.

I get you confused with Mr. Maverick sometimes because I have a Mr. Maverick and then I have a Maverick. You are Mr. Maverick. Your girl, Mrs. Maverick, has been on my show. She was just on a little while ago. I don't know when I'm going to be airing your episode. But you were on before because, and what I love about you and your wife's story is that you started, you're very like different than a lot of my collars because a lot of people start out like

one way, but they all wind up hot wiping. And then it's the end all be all. And they never look back and that's all they do. You know, you guys started out hot wiping. And then we're like, eh, like, like let's try something else. Like it wasn't the end all be all. And now you guys are having group sex and couple swaps and all that kind of good stuff.

So what I'd like to do, because you called in a while ago, I'll put the episode number of your first episode. Do you remember it? Because I don't remember it offhand right now. I don't offhand. It's okay. I'll put it next to your name in the description. People want to listen to it. But like, you know, I remember that there was a solo experience or like, what turned you off to hot wiping?

Or like, what was the transition? Like, let's start where we like ended last. episode and then we'll take it from there. And I'll even maybe could back up a little bit. Sure. I think looking back on this last three years experience, we've been more or less involved in the lifestyle, I think I was very comfortable with my wife with another man.

And so my thought was like the hot wifing was the easiest way into the lifestyle. And I don't think I was so strategic minded at the beginning. But in hindsight, that was probably what my goal was to get into the life. lifestyle and that's like a path of loose resistance because I knew she wasn't into women. Right. And I think as the hot wiping thing happened, it worked itself out to kind of get us into what's now what I would say swingers more than anything.

Right. But you didn't think like, but it was not just your wife not into women. Didn't your wife also have a problem a little bit with maybe you being with another woman? So that's why like couple swapping wasn't on the table at first, right? So maybe that's even right. Right. So all of that together is like really the only thing, the only option to open up your relationship was just her to fuck guys.

Yep. And then also maybe another reminder too is we started with the only fans thing. Right. And so it was like, hey, how do we make the only fans a little bit more than just the two of us? Yeah. And that's when we're like, hey, let's do the boudoir shots. And I found that person through a lifestyle website. And then that became our first kind of.

Hot Wife experience. It wasn't really a hot way. I forget the terms, but he was basically a solo male that joined us. Right. We talked about it on the first episode, but that was really successful. And I think that the good feelings that we got from that and the good adventure we got from that led us ultimately down the path of trying the hot wiping thing. So it was really more of a solo male joining us, whatever that term is called. That's hot wiping, I think. Even if you're involved, that's like Stagg Hot Wife kind of vibe, right? It was always threesome with you there. So that's really how it all started because it was that experience in the desert. And then we did the same experience on the boat.

And then that was then after the boat experience was really when the hot wife, the first hot wife experience happened. Right. I should say solo play without me. Yeah. And I think that's the term. I think hot wife thing. I think of like a.

You think of solo play. You think of sending the wife off and solo play. Yeah. And that's ultimately what I didn't care too much for, at least from that first experience. It's not that I was turned off by it or I was pissed off by it. I just was like, it didn't really do anything to me. I felt I was happy she was out having a good time for like an hour. But when she came back, I wasn't all horned up.

I was just like, all right, cool, good. But I did have a fun time. And the only thing that bothered me, I would say, was when I encouraged her to develop a connection with the guy that she wanted to have sex to them. Why? Well, I wanted her to feel safe and be able to talk to him. And that was good. But when it was like, like I look over it and see like them texting or, you know, telegrams, how we use it.

That's the part that kind of got to me a little bit. I was like, yeah, this isn't quite my favorite thing. Yeah, heed those warnings. That's your, that's like your gut instinct is correct there. Like, uh-uh, this, you stop this immediately. Yeah. But, you know, progressing on through the story, now that we've gotten more into being, I think, you know, swingers would be the title. Yeah.

You know, she can text other couples, solo guys or wives in the group. And that doesn't bother me whatsoever. But there's a big difference because she's not playing solo with them. You're involved. It's a whole community. You know what I mean? It's a very big difference. Yes.

Seriously. And listen, if you guys have like the greatest, it's not like a wife can't like develop a connection with a bull or anything. Like, you know, as long as everything is 100% at home, there's not going to be that window of opportunity for her to fall for him. But what I'll tell you and what I've heard many times and, you know, the, the stories that go wrong. And sometimes you guys don't hear about it, but I hear about it from people on the back end. They don't want to come back to tell their bad stories, but I hear about them.

Like when you, that solo play, you know, starts out kind of fucking fun. But when there's feelings that develop and everyone's happy about that. And, you know, if there are problems at home or something might, something's lacking, you know, you could lose your girl to that guy. but it's not always, you know what I mean? If you're and your wife are totally great, like, that doesn't mean that she's going to leave you just because she's forming a connection with somebody, but that's what you just,

I just don't see like what's the point. Plus, you didn't even like it anyway. So it doesn't matter. You know what I mean? It wasn't your thing. And I need to interject the thought that we do have the perfect household and we're so blessed. We have two great kids.

And there's nothing that would come between us in a million years. So I always try to keep that in check. My wife's never going to leave me, but the fact is she is the coolest person in the world. and a guy would be stupid, a solo guy would be stupid not to, you know, say, you know, want to hang out with her. So anyway, yeah, yeah, yeah. All that to say, you know, the solo stuff wasn't our favorite thing. And so we've progressed into swinging and that's probably the new part of the adventures that we have.

Yeah, that's fun. It just means you're not like a cuck. You know, there's a little bit of like, you know, the guys that like the solo play, there's like an angst that sort of goes down when the guy isn't involved that gets him off, right? Like you didn't feel any of that when she wasn't there or anything, you know what I mean? Nor did you love the details when she came back. So you're just not wired that way, but plenty of guys are. So, okay, so start with this swinging experience. Now I know, like, was that big, like, party that your wife didn't get into the party that much.

You could get into the details more, right? Yeah. Was that like your first big group experience in that world? That was definitely our first group experience. Okay, so tell that story because some people, right, like, I'm sorry to interrupt, but, like, some people, you know, you just like don't go right into the story. Just set it up because some people might have not heard your wife's episode yet. So just like set up that story and how it happened and everything. Yeah.

So my wife became a part of a telegram group. And actually, I was part of it too where there was a whole bunch of swingers in this telegram group in our state. Yeah. And my wife ended up meeting this one guy. And they developed kind of a connection and who had a really sexy Brazilian wife. And so my wife basically set up our first. She actually set up our first Swinger experience. So our first experience, these people, we ended up doing like a FaceTime call with them to kind of get to know them a little bit.

Everything seems great. And ultimately what they did is they flew to our town and they had an Airbnb for two nights. And we had two nights of a lot of fun. It started off basically sitting outside on the bonfire. And we were all just kind of there as a group talking. And my wife actually took the lead, kind of getting my hints. But she took the lead. I think she went and sat on the guy's lap and they started kissing and the wife, the other wife,

she put her legs across my lap and I was just kind of massaging her legs as we were watching my wife and her husband make out. And eventually that led to hurt the wife straddling my lap and I started making out. And next thing was got down to blow jobs and they were both giving us head and as we were sitting next each other and then both the wives were given us head then they would swap and then they'd start giving their husband's head and we were just having a fantastic time and it led into full sex and spit roasting and the girls playing and everything all sharing a bed together that's like jumping off the deep ends from right so it's it's funny because my wife said this in her episode too and it

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And I think it, and because she's not, she wouldn't call herself bisexual, you know, maybe that bi-curious label might show up in her world, my wife's world, a little bit. But that wasn't really, her thing. But in the moment, she had a fantastic time. Everybody did. And yeah, that was our first

swinger experience. Okay. So let's get to the party. There was a party after that, right? Where your girl didn't go too much details, right? But you could go into the details of it. Yeah. So we were on Cassidy and we had this one guy to reach out to us and he says, hey, we're going to throw a house party at my house on whatever date. It was like, this is last winter of 2025. And so wife and I talked about it a little bit and we decided just to go to it. We didn't know anybody at the party. We're not really party people per se. You know, we're not like drinkers. We don't, we don't do any drugs or anything like that, but we just felt like a social environment would be fun. And we were pretty nervous drive up the hill. He had this big mansion of a house in our town. And, but we walked in and

we're probably 25, 30 minutes. Yeah, actually, it was like an hour late from when the party started. had just youth sports or whatever and we told the host but uh so we get there and everybody's pretty much just naked just having conversation having a drink around the pool and the hot tub or we're looking this amazing view and we kind of show up there in clothes and uh they were getting ready to have dinner and this guy this host was serving a full-on five-course meal steak and lobster oh nice appetizers i mean it was everything it was it was actually funny everybody's like just so you know this isn't like all lifestyle parties because they're right yeah i've heard yeah i've heard of like uh i don't know french toast and a toaster oven being served now before yeah we got

we got the royal treatment it's not like and so we ended up doing dinner and we were dressed this whole time everybody else gets dressed and we sit around the table and and there's probably 25 30 people there maybe 15 20 somewhere there and we all have a meal and everything was great and drinks and actually kind of a funny story as much as I said drugs are not part of my life yeah I actually took a hit of somebody's weed yeah in the pool prior to it I got so fucked up that I was getting ready to I was getting ready to walk out of the dinner table like I was looking over my wife like I was freaking I was like I was just waiting for her to give me a sign like this isn't our jam it was funny if that would

happen, that could have been the end of our lifestyle, you know, world. Yeah, totally. But I was, I thought he was giving me Mali or something and I was like, what the fuck am I on right now? The weed nowadays is so much different than like the little bags of weed that they use

and sell in my day. You know what I mean? It's like, I don't know. It's like modified differently. Yeah, okay, go on. Anyway, so that, okay, so we have dinner. Everybody gets out. We jump in the pool. The hot tub wasn't working or whatever. So we were all freezing. And this guy's house, he has, like, basically a playroom.

I think it was probably an old pool house, like the old, the original pool house, windows on all the sides, overlooks the view. And it was really dark and they have, like, all the lights on that kind of the party lights are on. And it kind of starts off, everybody just kind of with their partner, I guess. And actually, no, it was more dancing. There was like a dance scene happening kind of in the middle. And the girls were in lingerie, just dancing with one another, having a good time. And at some point, I think my wife started blowing me and end up being like three or four guys, like, in her face kind of a thing. And mind you, I don't mean to go too faster, but we did develop some friendships in the group.

Like, it wasn't complete strangers at that moment. We had three hours of getting to know people and talking and having conversations. And these, they were good looking people. But it ended up being my wife, I think she was dancing with this other. guy for a while and then they were in just doing blowjobs on the floor on the dance floor and there was like three or four party beds and a couch

all in this room and it ended up being you know basically like an orgy I mean everybody's just kind of going everywhere everybody's wearing condoms everybody's being safe everything is cool in that way but it was it was a really a fun time

I think I probably fucked three four people that night, five people, I don't know. I'd have to really go back to memory. Which is funny because prior to this night, I'd only ever been with my wife and had one swinger event. Oh, crazy.

Right. And you're also seeing people a lot more. I mean, you've never really been in a group situation like this. That's right. Never been in a group. And we never had college years where we fucked around with people. We got married at 21 years old, dating at 16. Wow. So this is our first thing. But I'll say, I always go back to saying nothing actually never caught me too off guard in this lifestyle experience. Like, it feels so much just like a leisure activity that happens to be sex.

Like, I think some people I hear stories of people, the buildup being so incredibly insane. And even like this night, the party is, I think, as exciting as it was, it was a fun night, but it wasn't anything super crazy. Right. Well, my emotions or my takeaway from it wasn't anything too crazy. But was it hot? Was it fun? Super fun. And I think the part that was really fun about it and what continues to be fun for us a year later is the people that we've met in the lifestyle have all been really fun, exciting people. Let me take out the word exciting and say really fun, nice people who are like-minded as us.

So I think originally when I was looking on telegram years ago for exciting people to share photos with or meet up with, it was really much just about sex. That was the idea. I was like, hey, let's meet for five minutes. Fuck. This is like the idea in my head. And then go several ways. And actually, it's turned into be more to the friendships that we've made. And I'll tell the story later.

But like we have this one couple that we've seen probably seven or eight times now. We go out to dinner. We see them at each other at our kids baseball games. Right. And we are literally good friends more than anything. But whenever we meet up for dinner, we just get a hotel room and we fuck for a while afterwards. Sounds like an added bonus.

Yeah. Yeah. So that party, that was a good time. And that was our first. Like having a group experience, it's very different than what you were doing before. Like, do you are, like, is, what's the turn on, you know, during this for you. you. Is it you watching your wife? Is it like all the people? Like do you like the group experience? Like what's your like what is it about that? Like was that so much better than the hot wiping thing?

Yeah. I mean, I definitely enjoy especially this is becoming more and more true now as I've been more comfortable in it. I enjoy watching my wife. Fuck other guys. Yeah. Suck their cocks and have any time. I sincerely do enjoy it. I don't know if I would enjoy it so much if I was there by myself watching or even just like double teaming my wife. Yeah. I like having the other females in the room also. Yeah. And getting to kind of parallel play.

Yeah. I guess that means you with your own spouse. But, you know, playing with somebody else, sharing a bed, and I's having like a foursome experience. Yeah. That's definitely a lot more attractive than me than even just the idea of playing with just a female by myself. That doesn't sound very appealing.

Right. It's all of that together. Yeah. So we really enjoyed the swinging. lifestyle experience more so in the group play and just developing close connections with friends. After that party, we had a good time and that was in late fall. And I think pretty quick after that, my wife had the idea of, for my 40th birthday, booking a mountain cabin that we ended up booking and we invited three of the couples that we met at that first party.

So we actually rented a cabin for two nights, I believe. Right. About three hours away from us. And we had six, no, two, four, six, eight people in the house. And it was super fun. Everything from just, like, we wake up in the mornings and be coffee laying out and everybody just talking is having a good conversation. And we do walks around the neighborhood and stuff.

And then, but it was kind of this constant flirtatiousness always happening in the house between all the different people. Right. You know, all the girls with the guys and the girls with the girls a little bit. We had some great moments and photos of them sunbathing out in the back deck and it was really fun. And then at nighttime, it would just be like three or four hours of just straight fucking all the different positions, all the different people, all different places in the house. You know, same room, separate rooms. We kind of did everything.

Right. You know, there was one night, I went to bed like at nine because I wasn't feeling good for wisdom, teeth. were pulled. And, but, but, but, but it was fun. Like, my wife was in the other room fucking for like two hours with this other guy. But what made that really fun for me, why I enjoyed that, I had no negative feelings from it, was that I had a connection with that guy at this point, myself. Like, I knew him as well as I could have known him, you know, for the hours we've known

each other. And it was like somebody I knew, I trusted. He had a great wife and his wife was, they were in a committed relationship. There's no questions about that whatsoever. and it was literally just sport fucking. And that made it where I could sleep no problem and I had no remorse or no bad feelings at all. So that was that trip. And then I think as we came home, we basically have been utilizing Cassidy and just our friendships.

And we've probably had a play session or two a month ever since we really started from that first party. So the next story probably goes to this couple that we met who actually lived locally to us, which originally was one of our boundaries. Like we said, we weren't really comfortable with people who lived in our area because we didn't want to cross paths at school or whatever. And this is probably the only negative story that we have. Not that it was really negative, but we ended up going on a date with this one local couple and the connection wasn't really there.

The guy was over enthralled with my wife, of course. And the other wife, like, she was kind of was a part of the whole night's conversation. and in their bio they kept explaining how shy she was. And so they're all right, maybe she's just shy and she just wants me to take the lead. So we ended up, so we get to dinner, it's a good time. The other wife is quiet the whole time. And we end up going and we get invited back to their house. So they said, hey, why don't you guys come back to the house with us?

And we're thinking, okay, cool, maybe this is where she'll open up a little bit. We both get in our own cars, my wife and I in our car, them and their car. and they drive to their house, give us the address and the gate codes and everything. And we ended up having a drink outside, got on their jacuzzi and kind of doing, like I was massaging the wife's back and, and my wife was massaging,

he was getting massage from him. And that was all good. And they started kissing. And the wife is kind of like getting into my massage, which I love doing. But it was always kind of like, I'm kind of really struggling to get to the next step in the night with her.

and my wife and the husband they end up we all go up into their living room and they start fucking right away kind of soft nothing too crazy and the wife continues to kind of go through the motions with me and I'm trying to debate like is she enjoying this is this killing her you know and it was really awkward because and that's probably our hardest part of the part of the hardest part is just understanding the difference between being shy versus possibly not enjoying the night. Yeah, you can't read someone's mind, but you're getting a vibe, right? And if, yeah, it's hard to decipher it. And it's not what I enjoy. I mean, it's definitely not what I, like, I want somebody who's excited and a part of the, you know, sharing the same energy that's in

the room. And my wife, you know, she's kind of taken up on this too. She's kind of watching to make sure I'm okay. And I'm pretty easy going. So I'm like, yeah, just keep doing your thing, have fun. And, uh, the wife and I end up fucking and having a, pretty fun fox session and she ended up squirting all over me. So I go, okay, I think the body's telling me she's having a good time. But we ended up, you know, talking and finishing and having a good finish, but we never had a connection after that night. And so that was like we never reconnected. We never, like normally we kind of send a text like, hey, thanks for the fun night or stuff. We never had anything back from her. So that was probably the one negative story where it's like, it almost felt like the

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I was going to say you're lucky. somebody who's yeah but coming off of that experience we end up having a really we met this really nice couple and through cassidy and it's funny the way we end up making a connection is that both of our kids and their kids ended up doing the same youth sport and there we saw each other's photos and they're at the same baseball field so we kind of had this way to hit it off and this this couple is extremely fit like bodybuilder type body figures, which I don't necessarily have. Like, I like to think I'm healthy. My wife is definitely super healthy and fit and has the abs.

But we end up having a great connection with these folks. And they're a couple that we've actually became really close friends with. And we're going to see them tonight, actually. And we've probably played eight or nine times. And the, we've seen each other at baseball fields. And like, you know, all of our, all the families are next to each other. and we kind of have our vanilla friendship and we have our sexy friendship and it's fun to kind of blend those two together and that's probably our sweetest spot where we like spending the most

time at this point doing the swinger stuff although we have more adventures already planned ahead too right but when we're with this couple the wife is extremely bisexual uh very hardcore like there is no limit so far that i've been able to reach we've done anal we've done a dp we've done hair pulling she's asked for like her throat to have pressure and it's really she's like the boundary pusher of for my wife and I yeah and the husband's you know he's a super cool guy a little more mellow in some ways but he I mean he'll he enjoys fucking my wife extremely hard and my wife loves it too so they're both squatters so the hotel rooms are just destroyed whenever we get one.

And it's funny. We've done everything from nice hotels to like the cheapest one in the neighborhood because we just only have like three or four hours. Oh my God. And that's led us on some pretty funny adventures as well. The dinge, that could be hot if you like, you know, you play into it. You know what I mean? CD hotels, CD sacks.

And that's exactly what it was. It was like a tweaker sitting at the bottom of the stairs. And it was fun. But it was a really, it's a fun couple. Because this couple have helped us push boundaries. They've taught us to be more comfortable with areas that we weren't sure that we were comfortable with or even explored yet. Can you get specific about that? Because that's interesting to me.

Like how did, like, you know, when did that start? How did that come up? What were the boundaries? You know, go through all of that. Because I think that that's like interesting. Yeah. I would start by saying we didn't have any rules. We just had, I suppose, boundaries.

And I'd say it's like things we just have never explored before. So, for example, double penetration. Okay. It was something that we hadn't really explored before. And I think the other wife brought it up of like, hey, do you want to try double penetration? Yeah. And we're like, all right, like, that sounds great. And I think what happened was the husband was on the bottom, the wife got on top.

and then I got to get them from the top. And it was kind of at first it was like, hey, sorry, I know our legs are touching. Like, is that okay? Like, hey, we're going to get close here. And they're like, yeah, yeah, it's fine. Whatever. Just like, you know, have fun getting in. And I'm a little larger in size.

So where were you getting in the ass or the pussy? Yeah, so I was in her ass. Okay. And this is the other way. This isn't your wife at this time, right? This is the first. Correct. This is the other wife.

Yeah. And this is probably our third. third play date we ever had with them. Yeah, go on. So we knew them pretty well at this point. Yeah. But again, like the boundaries were up. I'm sorry, there were no boundaries with these folks because they were just like,

let's try it out. Yeah. And we ended up fucking double penetration for a few minutes, but it was kind of hard because this lady is extremely small. I mean, she's probably five, seven, or five, eight, but probably 120 pounds of just muscle. And so it wasn't, it was pretty hard to kind of do the motions. but it was fun about that especially. I mean, double penetration's hot.

That's super sexy. Nothing bothered me about being that close to the guy. The wife really loved it. And my wife was taking photos and videos for us while we were doing it. Was it hard to keep position and everything? I mean, I think double Vag is actually harder than double penetration, right? That's the one that's really difficult. We haven't tried that before.

Yeah, we haven't done double. vaginal penetration. You know, I'd say double or DP, you're a pussy in the ass. Like, it wasn't super hard except for I'm pushing nine inches and relatively thick. And so it was almost like

it was hard. I felt like I was destroying her at the honest. And I was going slow. Right. And I was going super slow. But it was almost like I was so worried about how she was feeling although she never said to slow down. Right. But it was super fun. It was fun just exploring the new

positions and kind of having the views and then my wife taking the photos and videos after the fact that was really fun but wait does your wife then do the DP herself so good question and that actually happens the next time we see them okay so this is how they're pushing your boundaries and getting you to try things because they're they're doing it first and then now it's in your guys had like maybe we should try that yep and we played around with at home a little bit with toys and tried to see how works and I my wife likes anal sex as well you know once a month or something like we don't do it all the time but we have little we have little nights where we do it and it's super hot and she can take me just fine and uh so you know that night I ended up going out I showered off just there's nothing

bad but you know I do that just for the courtesy and we ended up fucking that was probably the hottest night you know my wife got back involved and started fucking the husband and they went out super hard and my wife just squirts all over the bed and that wife completely loved it and she started eating her pussy right after that and like this group just has all of a sudden no boundaries and we were just doing everything and so

we end up finishing that night and maybe two weeks later I'd guess we end up seeing each other again and that's when my wife got to experience double penetration and that was super hot and my wife took it extremely well Again, we don't go super, you don't really go hard or we never have gone hard. I can't imagine doing that.

But the sensations are really fun. The new positions are fun. Just the idea of trying something new is exciting. And that is something we've, we haven't done a lot of it. And someday I hope we will try DVP also. That's a little harder I've heard to really figure out. Because, you know, it's like, think about like where you are compared to the guy. I forget like how it works, but I mean, I've had people on my show that I've done it and they love it, but I think it seems like it's a hard thing to, a little bit harder to maneuver.

Especially if you're so big. Yeah, you just got to be comfortable with, you know, your environment and just, which we are, you know, I, if I touch legs with another guy that doesn't mean anything to me. I think some people probably don't like that, you know. Guys are ridiculous. God forbid your leg touches another guy's legs. It doesn't bother me at all. No, no, no, I'm not saying you. Yeah, no, no, I'm saying it's you're talking for all men, not for yourself.

You're cool. But, like, it is funny, right? That, like, God forbid. Yeah. Yeah. And actually, so many go to another sexy story we have with another couple. We ended up meeting. And there's another couple from Cassidy.

And this was their first time, I believe. Or they told us they spent time in Europe. And they did, like, some maybe like, I don't really know what happens in Europe, I guess. but there was some maybe burlesque thing or I think the women played together they had like an old experience in Europe doing it but they started tiptoeing around us or sorry around the lifestyle here locally they live about 30 minutes from us and my wife and I actually found it really fun to meet new couples who were just entering the lifestyle because we're such a no pressure group I mean we can go out to dinner and it can just be dinner and that could that could be it and that's fine with us

mile means. And that's how we set up with this group. But they ended up right before we meet, we were a meeting. They said, hey, just you know, we end up getting a room at the local hotel. And we're probably just going to stay the night there. So we're not in any rush to get back. And our kids, bless our in-laws' hearts, they actually spend the night at our parents, our in-laws at my-in-laws house. And so we had the whole night to ourselves, which is really rare. And they had their whole night to themselves. And we end up going to this rooftop. bar in our town, having some drinks. And it was fun. 80% was just vanilla conversation. And then maybe the last hour, we kind of get into the conversations of like, hey, so what brought you

into the lifestyle or what made you start exploring it? And we ended up developing a really fun connection with this group. The guy was a little bit darker skin. So that was fun for my wife. And for me getting to watch my wife, you know, play with a guy with darker skin. And the woman, She just had new breast augmentation done. And so that was super fun to get to kind of, and she's a little bit bigger, but her boobs are really big. And when the four of us got to get into a room together, that was a really, really fun experience too.

Right. And the idea of just they were brand new couples. And it was fun to go at their pace. And it was fun to, you know, not have any pressure whatsoever and kind of almost like flirting to the point of getting them to the hotel room and have to work on it a little bit versus like that last couple I was mentioning who were good friends now. It's like we're going to go out tonight and I know it's going to end in sex in a hotel room, which is awesome, but it takes away the game, the flirting game or the challenge, I guess. But this new couple, that new couple experience is fun to

kind of, we actually all talked to be a telegram for a while and kind of work the flirting to kind of get to, you know, the, the hotel room that night, which I think ties into what my wife was saying in her episode, and that she really likes to have the same people over and over, more or less. Like, she likes developing a connection and have that trust and that safety of the same people. And I tend to actually like meeting new people as much as possible, not from the idea of just being with anybody, but I like the. flirtatious. I like the buildup. I like the first time

to kiss them or to take their clothes off or rub their backs. I enjoy the game of meeting new people. And that works out pretty well. So my wife and I at this point we have our friends that we see regularly. And we're always open to new people and new adventures and talking to new people.

So you found your place. And you found your people. I mean, what you do like, you consider yourself swingers is what you said, right? You enjoy the couple swaps. Do you go to Swinger clubs ever or anything like that or events or anything? We don't. I'm glad you asked the question. We don't because,

A, we only have them around us and we have two young kids. So it's just hard logistically. Yeah. B, I don't think I'm really excited about doing the club scene where you're, like there's no connection. Yeah.

Like I like the flirting. I like the buildup. Yeah. Sounds like it. Yeah. And not so much just like, hey, there's somebody on a bed.

And no disrespect to those who like that. To me, that's not what's my draw though and it's definitely not my wife's all that to say my wife and I were just talking last night and this morning I think we're going to end up booking a cruise sometime in the next year whether it's October November you know three or four months or whether it's next spring or summer my wife started working as like a travel advisor recently and so we've been learning a lot about vacations and cruises and stuff and we were just saying hey I think we're going to book like a virgin cruise out of maybe Southern California and try to go on an adventure of meeting lifestyle people

on a cruise ship. And that'll be something new that we're starting to really look forward to. Yeah, and I think that is totally different than like a Swinger Club vibe. You know what I mean? I could see why you guys would, something like that would appeal to you as opposed to a Swinger Club. And a Swinger Club isn't for everybody. You know, you guys obviously know what you like and what you don't like. You know what I mean? You're very open. But you know, you know, know, and a lot of people don't like that whole Swinger Club vibe. But I think it's, I think you might enjoy the, I think you're definitely going to enjoy that Swinger vacation cruise.

Yeah. And there's so many of those cruises, like we hear about people talk about the Bliss Cruise or Temptation Cruise, which are really lifestyle focused. Yeah. Which maybe if we lived in Florida, maybe that would make sense and that would be fun. But since we're on the West Coast, the Virgin Cruise seems interesting because it's 21 and over, but it's not really designed to be a lifestyle cruise. There's not playrooms, nothing like that.

Oh, interesting. But it seems very obvious, though, that there are open-minded people, lifestyle people on the cruise. Like, you're not just going to walk and see, you know, play beds. But it sounds like a little bit of research I've done. You'll see some pineapples on doors, or you'll see people, you know, being flirtatious. And I think that kind of lends to the game that I'm looking for when meeting new people.

and then once those connections get to happen over a day at the pool or a day over dinner or something, entertainment, that my wife can develop that connection that she's looking for. And it seems like it would be five nights of super fun. Yeah, totally. And if I can say and edit out, if not, you know, we've had a number of people follow our only fans from your podcast, and that's awesome. We just call it our sexy Instagram page, you know, where we can post nudes and we can post whatever. but if there's any true like swinger couples who are interested they've found how to get a hold of us they know our telegram name which i'll just say it again is lake lovers one and you know we ask everybody to verify so if somebody just is you know not who they say there we're going to find out really quickly but if there's any swingers out there on the west coast and they want to hit us up we're not opposed to that that's okay to leave in your episode of course of course give it the fucking shout out for everything for sure

yeah so just saying like you know cassidy is how we meet people and uh you know we've i've talked on the first podcast my wife mentioned it and i mentioned it again we use telegram a lot and uh if there's any true lifestyle couples that listen to your podcast want to talk and chat or maybe he hook up someday it's not just for hooking up but if somebody's like hey we we hear people from you all the time like, hey, we heard your podcast and strictly anonymous. Yeah. You know, just excellent episode. You know, we love hearing your story.

And it turns into thank yous and, you know, we have a little conversation. And I'm just saying if there's any swingers out there who says, hey, like, we might want to do a Virgin Cruise or, hey, we might want to meet up and on the West Coast at some point, you know, let us know where you live. And maybe we can have a conversation at that point and see if there's any other swingers out there listening. Yeah. And listen, I'll give a shout out.

to you guys. First of all, you should say all this on Discord. I mean, you didn't, you guys didn't post anything on there. I did for you, but like, you should be on there because there's a lot more people than you really think on there, you know, but you, uh, you know, somebody made a comment. My moderator made a comment is like, oh my God, she's like so fucking hot. There's no way she's had kids because she looks so good, too good. I was like, no, I think that they have kids. You know what I mean? Your wife is like, you know, I'm giving the shout out to how fucking hot your wife is. I don't think I've ever seen pictures of you, but your wife's the fucking 10. How old are you guys, like give, you know, give the little specific.

40 years. Yeah, so my wife and I are 40 years old and she's extremely fit. She does like the Peloton's like her favorite thing. She is at the house every day. And she's kind of exploring fitness a little bit more and more. But she's, she's amazing. And myself, just super active. You know, we do all the hiking and surfing and wake surfing and wakeboarding and that kind of thing. Right. But you're, so you're, and what do you look for in couples. Yeah. And so in couples our biggest thing is that, you know, we want somebody to be healthy, definitely on the same page with your spouse and open to, you know, our type A group. We can find people, we'll talk to people and see if there's actually a good connection because,

you know, for us under 50, probably not to put a strict number on it, but that's kind of like our yeah, that's kind of our number. And it should be healthy type bodies and not smokers. But we're very open to anything and you know i'm sure we love to have a conversation with anybody and they'll decide if we're a good fit for them and and vice versa yeah but nothing against talking to people and having a conversation you know we don't have all the time in the world to chat and i said i tell you guys sometimes i'd try to i almost got to do a google calendar and block my days out so i don't spend all day on it but but we know we enjoy the lifestyle we enjoy the the people in the lifestyle just as much as anything else.

And I think we've been involved for 18 months, but there's no end in sight. And I think, you know, our future vacations and as our kids get older and move out of the house, I think, you know, finding lifestyle type people will be a community that we get more and more involved in. Yeah, I love it. And what do people see on your wife's only fans or your guy's only fans? It's Lake Lovers 1. I'll put the name in the description, but like what do they get if they join your only fans?

well I'll be 100% honest the last two months you get like a one post a week and that's because the kids are home but as soon as the kids go back to school in two weeks then the doors open up again I mean we have literally have two years of postings on there so don't people get that if not yeah but don't people get that back content when they sign up and you see yeah you see everything from my wife working out her tits out all the time you see us fucking there's doggy style there's a little bit of male our first bowl experience. I'll interject and thought, that's probably the biggest challenge we have with the blend of only fans and our lifestyle, the swinger lifestyle. Most swingers don't want their posts, their body pictures and stuff on our only fans,

which we don't push for a second. We almost don't even ask. Yeah, yeah, I get it. Because we want to respect that relationship so much. All of our fans kind of want to see it. Just recently, I did a Reddit post where it was like they have like a OnlyFans collab Reddit forum. And so

I think we're going to this fall, this winter, we'll probably find some more single males or swingers or maybe even single females who want to be on our page with us because we love showing off that way. Yeah, that's another thing you could do in my Discord. There's a whole content creator section. You could look for other because I've definitely have plenty of couples on my show that are content creators. Maybe you guys could collab. Yeah. Yeah. I'm going to make a point to do that today. I'm going to go on there today and log back in and figure it out. But I just want to be blunt and honest. We don't post. much of anything. Do me a favor. Just shut the fuck up. Do me a favor. Just learn how to fucking promote your shit.

Don't talk about what you don't give them. They have hundreds of content on there. Like hundreds of posts on there. It's all good. That's all they need. Don't talk about what you're not giving them. Got it. There's cum shots.

There's anal sex. There's dildos. There's everything. I shoot really big loads too. So if that's a kink anybody has, if that's a kink anybody has, then, you know, they'll enjoy our page.

Yeah, you guys are super hot. You have a really big dig. Your wife's body's like a 10. So they see all of that there. It's only fans is Lake lovers one. They could go listen to your girls episode. That was 1533. She had just called in.

So thanks for calling in and sharing your side of the story. It's always interesting to hear the story from the guys. It's always different. You got more, you got more detailed with the stories because for her she was you know talking about your whole experience from hotwifing for you we just picked up with our swinging which is super interesting so thanks so much for calling in and why don't you send me picks for your episode too one of your wife one of you if you want but like rated r picks for my patreon you got it thank you kathie yeah you're the best bye bye bye

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