Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1573 - Sindywife is Into Solo Hotwifing, Gangbangs, Lifestyle Resorts & More

Episode Date: August 31, 2026

Sindywife (1032) is into solo hotwifing, gangbangs, lifestyle resorts and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the crazy setup her husband arranged for her first hotwife experience, the hooks her husband installed in their bedroom to recreate a St. Andrew’s Cross, their cuck quean hookup where she watched her husband hook up with another woman and exactly what went down, how and why they got a bad reputation for being picky in the swinger community, the first gangbang her husband set up for her, how many guys attended and exactly what went down, the one guy she hooked up with cat fished her, her hotwife body count, their trip to Hedonism and what they thought about the resort, the hottest experience she had at Hedo and what exactly went down, the fetish group that was there when they first arrived and what they saw them doing, the nude and prude sides at Hedo and how they’re run, the guy with the biggest dick from my show she hooked up with and what went down with him, how her solo hookups are set up and how her husband “watches” when he does, how her husband wants her to hook up without him knowing and why she hasn’t done that for him yet, the guy she hooked up with on a work trip and what went down with him, what they do when they go to swingers clubs, the chicken experience they had there and why they typically don’t hook up with others, how she creates content but keeps it separate from her personal hookups, and a whole lot more. 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Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Sanford, Thailand. You can't not do it.

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You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun. You're going to find it all on SDC.com. Like I said, you get a free trial. if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Alexis, aka Cindy Wife. Okay, listen, Alexis does not disappoint with her stories. She's been on before. About a year ago she called in. She started hot wifing with her husband and she's a little bit of a cuck queen and we start off with a hot cuck queen story. We end with another cuck queen story, but in the middle, you get all the crazy things her guy sets up for her. She reminds me of how her guy got her into hot wiping. I remember when she first called in, and I'm going to put her origin story number in the description so you could go listen to it if you want.

I remember getting really stuck on her first experience with her guy and how her guy set it up because I was like, this is the craziest story I've ever heard. But she reiterates that story, okay, how her husband got her into it and how things were set up because it's important. for this situation because it's like how they kind of really roll moving forward and always. They're a couple that is kind of like in the lifestyle and that they go to like hotel takeovers and swinger clubs, but they don't really fuck around there as much. They talks about what she does like to do at those places, but they really like the whole hot wiping thing. They have been to hedonism.

She talks all about that experience. Her husband set up a couple of gangbings. She talks about those gangbings. She talks about her solo play. We talk about so much. You get a lot of stories. She gives me her body count. You won't believe how many guys she's been with in the past two years.

Cindy's super hot. Okay, I've seen her. I say that she's like a scale of 110. She's a 12. She's like perfect body, beautiful face. She's all over my Discord if you want to see her. She's also on X and on Fansley. She talks about that.

She talks about how she doesn't really like to hook up with content creators. All of her stuff is just like the fun stuff that she does. she's definitely into sex and she's definitely into guys and her guy is a definite stag, slight cuck. He really, he sets things up a little bit like a little bit of a cuck and I know people get really mad when I say that, but whatever. But anyway, her story's great. You're going to love her and her stories.

She and her husband started a podcast. She talks about that too. So the links to everything will be in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Alexis. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous podcast. Oh, hey Alexis, A.K.A. Cindy Wife.

How you doing today? Welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Thank you. How are you? Good. So listen, Alexis or Cindy Wife. You've been on my show before. You're also all over my Discord.

I will tell people ahead of time so they can picture you in their head while they're listening to all these hot stories that you're like a 12 on a scale of one to 10. on Cindy Hodge, perfect body, beautiful face from what I could see. Like people, like you're, these are not only hot stories or like hot stories from a hot check, right? So people could see you over on my Discord as well as like on all your content, right? Because you are a content creator and you do put yourself out there.

You also happen to be a hot wife. And one of my favorite things that I claim I am even though I've never really done anything is you're also like a cut queen. You do like to see your guy with other women too, right? Oh my God. I love it. It's kind of a, I feel like that was like a new thing. Maybe in the last two years, something I kind of realized I liked. So, yeah.

Oh, really? Okay, good. So that's like something new. And then, so listen, everybody could listen to your whole backstory, right? We'll touch on certain things here in this episode. They'll come up. Your first episode was 1528. That's the number you called in last year, actually, about a year ago.

But you've been up to a lot of different things. And your guy really likes to, like, set up crazy scenarios for you. That's like what I remember about your hookup, right? I think the first time you even hooked up with someone, it was like a set up your husband set up for you, right? And he wasn't even there. Can you remind me? Yes.

Right? Yeah, he, I had no clue. We had never talked about anything like, like trial related. Yeah. It's crazy. I know. And he always jokes that he wanted an obedient wife. This was prior to us being married.

And he's like, so this was my test. And no, but he had this guy just come over. And I was super confused. I had just moved to the area. and he's like, hey, someone's here for you. And I'm like, I don't know anybody. I literally thought he had let a stranger in our house. And I'm like, I don't know him.

And he said, I know you don't. You're going to suck his dick and I'm going to watch it. And I was so confused. I just stood there for a minute. And then I'm like, okay, fine. And so that's how it all started. I mean, that has to be one of the craziest stories I ever heard. And I know that I was so stumped on it that I didn't get past it for a while.

And I questioned you a lot about that first story because that makes like no sense to me. but if people want to hear your origin story, they could go listen to your first episode. You are a subservient girl, I assume, because you did blow that guy and you've been hooking up with other guys for your husband, as well as I'm assuming for yourself, right? I mean, did you get into it right from the get go? I mean, I get that, you know, it was your husband idea, your husband's idea at first. But like, when did you realize that you were into all of this as well? you know I feel like it's changed and evolved a little bit

but I mean as soon as he did it I was like this is hot but it was one of those like feeling it out like is he going to be mad how do I feel about it but no I mean we're both pretty sexual people so it didn't take me very long to be like yep this is great yeah yeah and then I always joke that I take testosterone and I'm like I think that that just like amps it up because sure you know I'm like women your age are not that into sex I'm like no I'm like I love it Like every day, three times the day is fantastic for me. Oh my God.

Well, wait, you're not that old. You're not in your 50s. You're in your 40s? I'm in my 40s. Early 40s, yeah. Yeah, well, let me just tell you, if you were on testosterone on top of being in your early 40s, that's why you're doing this shit. Okay, because without testosterone in my early 40s, that was like the hornyest time of

my life. And I was always a very high testosterone woman. Like I just always had a high sex drive, but like literally perimenopause in the beginning, before it starts to kind of fade, it gets fucking ramped up. So it is naturally the horniest time. And the fact that you're taking testosterone on top of it, it's like you're like a straight up dude. You know what I mean?

Horny like a guy. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. It's the best times of your life. Like fucking love every minute of it. It's great. So obviously your guy didn't send over a guy for you to blow and you're like some, you know,

vanilla housewife. He knew you were open sexually. You guys are both down open sexually. So right from the get go, you're like totally into it. And you had a bunch of experiences in the beginning. Had you had some cut queen experiences the first time we talked as well? You know, I don't remember. I don't think so.

We had kind of been going to the clubs, things like that. I was super nervous. But, you know, the last, I don't know, six months maybe, I've really been like, oh, my God, this is amazing. So for my birthday, I even was, there's a girl. It's a couple that we've had over before. And the girl, she was like, hey, can I just come over alone? and I'm like absolutely

and it was so hot we have my husband has installed chains in our bedroom that like hang from the ceiling and then there's two things in the floor so you can like do your ankles to the floor and then your chains to the top oh my god wait where are these in our bedroom does your cleaning lady

know what the fuck they are for you know it's funny you asked them because she did look at them and was like when she did the initial walkthrough of our house and just stared and I was like and here's the bathroom we're going to keep moving she's got a fucking no because they all line up right two on top two directly beneath it

yep yep yep just like a st. Andrews cross and I mean they're permanent in there so they're legit chains oh my god so you did you buy that when you just got into hotwaving or were you guys always rolling like that like you got you like to be tied up I think actually that came from one of the uh we came home from a club once and we had done the St. Andrews cross and we were both sort of into it so I was just sitting on the couch one day and I heard my husband up here with the drill. I'm like, what are you doing? And he was installing. I'm like,

what the hell? Oh, my God. That's great. They're bolted in. Okay. So you're hooking up with this couple. You bring them back and you're down to hook up with the chick as you tie her up. So actually this particular day, it was just her. She wanted to go over alone. And she asked if she could. We took her for dinner. And then she came over. And yeah, he put her in the chains. And that was like for me that like solidified. Holy shit, this is so hot. I just want to lay in the bed and play with my posty and watch them. And he doesn't, he does not play very often at all. And it takes a lot to kind of get him interested, I think. For whatever reason, the chain situation, it just worked that particular night. And he was super into it, which made me super into it. And yeah, so it was,

that was probably like the hottest thing I've seen. And then also was like the, you know, solidified. I definitely like this. Right. Because he's like a typical guy. A lot of times these guys that are very into hotwifing. They don't have the desire as much to be doing women themselves. You know what I mean? Yeah. Right? Or else you guys would be like professional swingers, right? But mostly you're doing like the hot wifing thing. But it's interesting that he got down for that girl and you like loved it. Did you wind up hooking up with her too? Or do you just like to watch your husband with girls or are you into chicks as well? So I always say I'm not really bisexual. In fact, I have a I had a cup made that says I'm not bisexual to go to the club. stuff. You're kidding. But also to let people know, so you don't have to say anything, right? I don't know. Yeah. Well, because women can be so aggressive in those situations. But I think it's more just of a situational thing. Like, every once in a while, I'm like, okay, the situation in particular, I'm feeling it. The vibe is right. And then, you know, I will. So in that particular situation, yeah, we both hooked up with her. And it was great. But I prefer to just watch him if I can. So I do get a little

annoyed. I wish he would do it more. But here we are. Yeah. And that just goes to show you. Because a lot of times some people think, like, whether it's a guy or a girl, if you get all, like, some people think, oh, if a guy like seeing his guy with a girl, you know, his girl with a guy, he must be into dudes or something. But it has not, it, I don't think it's that really. I mean, sometimes it is, right? But it's, that's not really what it's about, you know, because you're sitting there like a cock queen totally into it, but it's not, it's really watching him enjoy her, right? It's not necessarily like you need to be involved for you to get off on that scenario. No, I would prefer to not be involved, actually. So, But it's, yeah, it was, it was a good time, though.

Yeah, that's, now have you fucked her husband? Yes, I have a few times, actually. Oh, really? Yep. Is he, and while your husband, like, is this a couple that you do like couple swaps with? Or like, like, how do you know the couple? Like when you're hanging out? Yeah, we met him on an app.

And the first time we actually just went out and then ended up at their house in the hot tub. And that's sort of how that started. And then they've, as a couple, they've been over to our house as well. So we'll just go grab dinner. and then, you know, they'll come over or whatever. But that, yeah, so it's, I guess, twice with both of them. Right. And then just the one time with her.

Right. Now, you're really super hot. So I would assume your guy's hot too. I don't know why I assume that. She is. Okay. Okay. So I would assume that you guys get hit up on apps if you're on there, right?

Like, there's plenty of people. What is your type when it comes to the guys that your guy is going to, like, hook you up with? Like, remind everybody, because I'm sure I asked you this the first time. But, like, what do you typically look for? and the guys that your guy sets you up with? You know, honestly, he, I don't know what his thing is, he loves seeing me with black eyes in particular, but he, we both work out, we both take care of ourselves.

So in general, you know, I think he's always looking for somebody else who has a great dick and has a, you know, reasonable body. And I think as far as like just the, some of the apps in general, it's sort of gotten around that my husband is Uber picky and he doesn't hope not very often. And so I think that sometimes, like we've sort of, we know we've been talked about, so to speak, and some of the groups that we don't play enough, which is fine. So, but I think in general it's just like a normal person that has a good, nice body and a nice dick. Okay, it's the end of the summer and I don't know about you, but I'm trying to be outside and enjoy

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Yeah, someone told us we were at drinks with another couple. They're like, oh, FYI, the group's been talking about you. We're like, really? Why? And they're like, oh, they think that you guys think you're too good for them and that you guys don't play. And, you know, but it comes down to everybody says, oh, the lifestyle is about making friends and blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, well, then obviously that's not how they feel, you know?

I mean, we enjoy making friends in the lifestyle as well. In general, we're like being around people who just don't take life too seriously. Right, but you're not going to fuck people. people just because you're friends with them is what you're saying. You are picky when it comes to hook up and you shouldn't have to be. But it's interesting that those people told because, listen, they must have felt very good that they were the ones that were invited considering everyone else is talking about how they, I mean, was this a couple you wound up hooking up with that you were out with that told

you? No, there's another couple that are friends of ours. But I mean, we have a blast every time we go out with them. Right. Yeah. And they're cool with not like doing anything with you and that you guys are picky. Yeah, I mean, I think it's honestly, it's more my husband than I am. He's always like, I have to get to know someone a little bit.

I'm like, I don't even need to know their fucking name. I could care less. Oh my God, I'm obsessed with girls that are wired like you. It's so interesting. And this isn't a Q&A that I've, like I've been doing these really fun Q&As and I always ask girls their body count, especially because you're not supposed to ask and just because I think it's interesting. And especially because at my show, like women who got married, like their their, their, their,

their body count goes up after they're married, which it shouldn't be the case. Oh my God, so do you know your body count before and after you're married? I, you know, I don't know what it was before, but certainly, I mean,

I think even just, we were talking about this last night, trying to kind of come up. And I think it's been like over 200 in the last year. Wait a second. Are you? Yeah. Fucking kidding.

One year, 200. Do the math with how many days. It's almost like a guy a day. But like, okay how many times like what's the most amount of guys in one day you've done? I think it was like nine. So we've done.

So he's set up a few gangbangs for me. Well, and then we were joking because one of them ended up being two people. And my husband's like, you're not much of a gang. But like, and we went to Hito and did like this. I don't for if anyone's been to Hito,

there's like a little play area right by the hot tub in the pool. And he just thought it was so hot. There was like a line of these guys. And he was like, come on in, come on in, come on in. It was wild. Oh, my God. It was one of those things you're like, we're here once. Let's just do it.

Okay, now that we're into these stories, let's hear them all, okay? Because now that we know over 200 people, in the past two years, I have a whole year that I need to be cut up on. So do your thing and tell me like all the crazy things that your husband has set up for you and to give us some stories. I think the ones that he has set up specifically would be the gangbangs. and we've done two of those. And I wasn't sure how it's going to feel about it because I'm like, oh, I got to pay attention to how many people at one time and am I going to be overwhelmed? But no, it was so hot.

And like all these guys that we've met have been so sweet and gracious. But the first one we had was just, I think the first one was when we had like four. And then the second one was when only two of them showed up. But both times it was so hot. And then he's just recording. And of course, they know how to time he's going to do that. and you know we get everyone's permission of course but it's it's so hot like at one point I remember there was like four guys over me and I was laying on my back and I see my husband come over trying

to get kind of over the top of the guys to like get a good shot with the camera and we sort of made eye contact and it was like the hottest thing of like this is you know and from my perspective is like this is hot as fuck and I could tell like he could tell that I was having fun and then that turns him on so much and so it's like then after the fact he's like I have to fuck you. So it's fun for both of us. And then the second one was pretty much the same thing. Like I said,

unfortunately, only two of the guys showed up. But it's like this crew of guys. That's their thing. They go around and do gangbangs. It's hilarious. Oh, yeah, I've heard about this.

But let me ask you this, because I never had a gang bang. And I feel like everyone thinks that a gang bang is a little bit different, right? And sometimes I get, I think, you know, I'm wrong in that. I always think that a,

like, a train is a gang bang. Like, what I think is a gang bang is probably a train. And what really is a gang bang is like, what you said, which is like all these guys together with you by yourself. I don't know. Because I always used to think like a gang bang is like a girl laying there and like a guy fucks her and then he walks away like a line of guys, right? But I'm not correct. Right. Like that's on it like is that a train? I don't know. I think that's more of a train. This is like more these, all these guys are

on the bed with me and I'm like trying to play with as many dicks as I can at one time. Oh my God. That's what I was like, oh my God. Tell me like how that works. Like what are you doing with all the dicks? Like Well, that was my fear is that I wouldn't know. What do you do with all the dicks? It's like one in your pussy, one in your ass, one in your mouth, two in your hands. Like how does it work? Like what are the configurations you did? I, you know, it's, I guess I hate to say that it just like kind of naturally happened.

I don't know if that's natural. But I mean, obviously just, you know, like, yeah, one in my mouth. One's fucking meat. I'm trying to grab one with my hand. And then I'll like kind of switch it up just to keep everybody in my brain. I'm like, I got to keep everybody hard. So just kind of keep going back and forth. and that was sort of it.

And then this was, I guess this must have been right before Christmas because then I'm like opening my Christmas gifts and my husband freaking got me a, a, anklit. And I was looking at it and I'm like, what the hell is this?

And then I realized it was like to commemorate the gang bang. It had like a thing, like a charm for all the guys. I was like, how many guys again? It was for the first, it was for the first one where there was four of them. So they had,

he had like a charm for each. And I was like, you are. ridiculous. They're like the only person that would do that. It was pretty funny. Yeah, he loves that. If only, yeah, because you know, he's getting off on that when you're like sitting down someplace when you're out and about and other people are looking at your ankle and he already remembers what the fuck that's about. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my God, that's so fucking funny. So you, okay, so, but you love the gangway. Now, I have heard that like a

gangwang thing scenario is like every girl's like fantasy. It doesn't sound like it was your fantasy before, but you went with it and you wound up really liking it, right? I think I kind of like I'm always a little nervous with the unknown for anything in general. And so yeah, I wasn't quite sure. But afterwards I was like, when's the next one? And so then he like set up another one. So I mean, that's kind of how that number stacked up is just we've had a few of those. But they're hot.

Like I, you know, and here's my thing. I have, for example, like when I travel for work, I will kind of hook up with some random guys at bars sometimes. And a lot of these guys like they last like a minute and a half. And so the fun part of the gang bang is like it lasts a little bit. longer because it's so disappointing when you go to hook up, you're horny as hell, and then they last a minute and a half. You're like, that's it. I'm done. Okay, fine. Oh, yeah. And this is the thing. I mean, the more professional gangbanger you become, the more, like, I've heard from professional gangbang girls like, you know, these guys, it's okay if someone will last one and a half

minutes, but like, everybody there needs to perform because if a girl's at a gangbbing, she wants to get fucked and people better, like, be able to perform, you know, because I know it's like very disappointed. If there's four dicks in the room, them, they better all work because that's what you're looking for, right? Yes, exactly. Exactly. Yeah. I mean, you know, another, like, example of the letdown is there was a guy, there's a guy

on X and I won't like call out his name, but his handle name says how many inches he is. And so I met him when I was out of town for work. And let me just say, I think he added his girth and his length together because what came out of his pants was not at all what he is showing. And I'm like, he is definitely modifying his photos and videos to make that look way bigger. And I was recording. And so when my husband saw it later, he was like, I could tell by your face that it was not right. Why would anyone do that?

I know. I really, sometimes I'm very obsessed with people's brains that work so differently than mine. I'm so interested. It's almost interesting to me. Like, you know, like, what would he think? And why would he ever meet you? Like, if you're going to lie like that, don't ever like, like, meet the person in real life. So they know, like, how could he have?

had the nerve to actually come in person and fuck you when he knew that he was going to be 10 times smaller. Like, oh my God. Well, and the thing is, it's like, I wouldn't care, but you set yourself up with your expectation. That's what I mean. It's insane. Someone like that. Well, he actually, I had posted the video and he posted the video.

And then I think a few people saw both of them and realized he had altered his. Oh. And he immediately deleted his. And a few people like message me and they're like, I've heard that he's not actually that big and blah blah blah so words obviously getting around and I'm like I'm not going to call him out I'm not going to say anything to him but I was like dude come on yeah he's digging his own grave and like I said every world is small whatever world you're in it's a small world and word like that will get out okay so he set up those two gangbangs right because he's into those yep yep okay well we had the one at

hedo okay talk about that so you guys went to hedonism how long were you there for so we went for my husband's 50th birthday. I took him. I'm like, how great of a wife am I? So we went there. And we were there for, I think, four nights, five days. Honestly, very disappointed with the resort itself, but I know that that is some people's jam. So what do you mean? Tell me why. Like not good batting? It was a dump. It was a dump. I was disappointed. I paid that much money for what we got. And, you know, actually, so I'm diverting a little bit here, but we actually started and we've only done three episodes, our own little podcast, but we're basically just bishing about the lifestyle and some of the people. And like that was one of the things we bitched about is people are like, oh, Kito's so great. It's so great.

And then we got there. And I'm like, why are people saying this? We spent so much money to come here. And it is an absolute dump. Like the room has 18 layers of paint. They had wires hanging out of like the ceiling fans with no ceiling fan in the dining room, broken steps. It was just not. Yeah. What's the name of your podcast? I think that's interesting that you're giving like real information that maybe you can't find anywhere. I don't mind that. I like that kind of info. What's the name of your podcast? Well, it's so, okay, hold on. So what we're doing with it is it's a a little bit like we're just kind of talking about the lifestyle in general because we feel like lifestyle podcast typically, you know, with sponsors and whatever, they're just talking about these

places that are so great. And, you know, a lot of them, that is their full-time gig. And that's how they make their money and I totally respect that. But we're not looking to make, you know, any money off of it. And so I want to just keep it as real as possible. Yeah. These are real reviews, real reviews. So it's kind of like lifestyle review podcast where you're giving the real review. A little bit.

So it's called the Critical Swinger. Okay. I like that. And, you know, we just kind of talk about going to the, you know, what we've seen. And Sohito was one of the things we talked about or, you know, people who are like editing their photos and then you show up and they're not that who they say they are in real life or you know just all those kinds of things yeah interesting so the accommodations in the whole place you were that into but it sounds like you had some good like situations happening while you were

there yeah okay so this was probably one of the hottest experiences of my life okay we were we had just had dinner we went down to the hot tub this is at hito and we were in there and i don't even remember like exactly how it all came together, but I ended up sitting on the side of the pool and my husband was eating my pussy and I look across and there's this hot ass Jamaican man sitting there and he had a woman sitting kind of close to him and I couldn't quite tell if they were together or not but he just like locked eyes with me and I just stared at him as my husband's like going down on me and then I got into the water and I turned around and just backed up to him. I never said a word and he starts touching me and then I just like sat on him and started

fucking him and it was like I don't even think I ever said a word to him. Were you even looking at his face or you're still behind him when he like fucks you? Well, I had just backed up to him originally but then we did go into the play area. Oh, okay. By the hot tub. Yeah. Yeah. But it was like like I said, just him locking eyes with me and watching me as my husband's

going down. It was like the hottest thing. Yeah. I could say like that is of course. Yeah, that's a crazy kind of a thing. But like all the stars, like everything just like happened perfectly for that hot scenario. It's like a porn scene. You know what I mean? Yeah. It was real for you. Yeah. That's that's something I learned in the very beginning is that you can talk something to death. And if you like try to make a plan for something, it never goes that way. And that's also why like when my husband set stuff up for me because if I know too much, I have all these questions. So it's better if it just doesn't tell me. or he gives me very minimal information because then I'm more likely to be like, yeah, fuck it, let's do it. Let's just go with it.

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Yeah. I learned that the hard way. Yeah. In the beginning, I tried to set stuff up and it was so, and my husband was like, you can't like get hard when you're sitting here trying to tell me like how this is at 7 o'clock we're going to do this. And at 7.30 we're going to do this. I'm like, okay, I get it.

Yeah. Yeah. So yeah. So that guy you did him. I know that there's a time where I went on that same Hito trip that he sends nine guys into the room. It was the same time. So that guy like finished in like 30 seconds.

And I was like, oh, I was. so bummed. And this other guy just kind of happened to be lingering and he was like, can I go? And my husband was like, yep. And then it just sort of, and then that other, the other Jamaican guy like came back around. I was like, like, a ferris wheel or something. I'm like, yeah. No, I feel like this is a train. I feel like this is a train. No? Yeah. Yes. I guess you're right. That's exactly what it was. Yeah. I haven't hadn't thought about it. But yeah. So how many guys came in? I think total there was nine of them. I'm, I'm pretty sure there was nine of them. I'm pretty sure there was nine of them. And that was like the hottest night there. We hooked up with another couple while

we were there. And oddly enough, like you're in another country. And they were from the same town as us. Oh my God. That's crazy. I know. And then I saw them if I saw them a few weeks later at Costco. And I looked like shit. I had no makeup on. I was like in pajamas. I just like turn around and went the other way. And I'm like, why did I do that? I don't even know why. Because you don't want to ruin the illusion. They saw you all hot and everything. Yeah. No, I think you did the right thing. Exactly. And you just don't expect it, you know, to see somebody at Costco of all places. Did you hook up with the townspeople or they weren't your type? Yeah, we did. Yeah, we did like a swap while we were there. Oh my. So how does it come up that you guys are from the same? Like you're just hooking up with them.

They're cool people. And then you're like, where are you from? And they're like, we're from the same fucking place. Yeah. No, we were just, we were in the pool having drinks. And I, which I think is like where everybody meets at heat. But we were in the pool having drinks. And we just, you know, it's kind of natural. I was like, oh, where are you guys from? And usually people just say the state. And then when they were like, Indiana, we're like, wait, so are we? We're in Indiana. And then we're like, wait, what street? Like, it was really close.

Wow. And so, but did you know mutual people and stuff? You had to have. Do you know? Like, were they around your same age? Yeah, they were. I don't recall if we, I don't know a lot of people down here because I didn't. Yeah.

And so, and the people I do know around here, like that they worked for me. And so I don't socialize, you know, with. people that I work with. Okay, that makes sense. Yeah. So you hooked up with them. Anything else that crazy that went down at hedonism? No, that was kind of, well, when we got there, they were, we overlapped one day with a fetish group and there was some really weird shit that I have never seen. Oh, tell us, tell us.

So there was like, we were sitting at the bar. We had just gotten there and it was a little bit rainy and so we just like changed, went to the bar, we're having a drink and we're like booking. and these two guys come down and the one starts putting on like a scuba suit and I'm like what's happening? So I'm just watching and he puts this full rubber like legitimate thick suit on and it has like the whole it goes over his head and then he has like a like the hole that opens so they slide that open for him to breathe and then he goes and sits in a lawn in a chair and his husband starts like taking photos of him but I'm like it's like 90,

degrees outside. Oh, my God. So then he just sits there. I'm like, wait, what are we, what are we doing? What are we supposed to do? Are we supposed to watch him? I didn't understand what the fetish was. And then somebody was like, I think it's a sweating fetish.

So the bartender told us, they ended up sitting there for like four hours. You're kidding. No. It was wild. And they had people like, you know, the whole rope thing where you, they'll hang people with like, I forget what that's called. But they had a bunch of those like in the cabanas. And some of these chicks were like turning purple because they had the ropes tied so tight. And I'm like, like my eyes were bugging out of my head the entire first day. And then we're in our hot tub, which is like on the main level at night and like off of our room. And I'm looking out and it was hard to kind of tell. But I'm like, I think there was like four people standing over someone in the sand. Like on the beach. And I'm like, what are they doing? And then I realize they were pissing on them. And I'm like, this is way out of my lady.

I've done some weird shit, but this is way out of my league. Yeah, like, I'm about to fuck nine people in a row and run a train, but this fucking pee shit is like where I draw the line. Yes, I draw the line. No peeing on me. Oh my God. On the beach, nonetheless, that's hilarious with sand. Oh, my God. Yeah, that's so hilarious.

That's so fucking funny. But you, so the place wasn't very good. And people, listen, I think it's interesting. If people want to get a little bit more information on. They could go, right, and hear the negatives about it and the real sort of reviews. They could go to your podcast. But like, so that was a cool. But the sex was good while you were there.

It was, yeah. I mean, we still had a good time. It was an overall good trip, you know. And I think it's the thing is, is there's not many places in the world that you can do that, right? So your options are limited. And I think it's really, that's why people love it. It's just it's a place you can go and be naked and do whatever you want. And it's very open.

Like, are you walking around naked? Are you in a bikini in a thong? Are you topless in a thong? Are you naked? Like how do people, how do people roll around the pool? They take that very seriously. So they have two what they call sides, a nude side and a prude side. Nude and prude?

Yep. If you're on the prude side, you can be covered. If you're on the nude side, you cannot have clothes on. So in fact, we were leaving the pool and we were going to grab a snack really quick. There was a little snack cut by the pool. And then we were going to walk back. And my husband put on his like, swimming. I had bought on these like, you know, this like pineapple like speedo.

Yeah, yeah. And he put that on and he, and I was just sitting on a towel. And security approached him. It was like, sir, you need to disrobe. And he looked at me and he was like, you're done with your fucking French fries. This is ridiculous. And I'm like, but I still want my French fries. But you're naked.

You're naked eating your French fries? Yeah, but it's like weird. You know, I'm sitting on a towel. But his whole thing is he's like, can I not just cover my dick while I'm eating my french fries? Like, it's, you know, so. Yeah, oh my God, but how, they, how, it's kind of like they're shaming you if you go to the other side. Like, even if you want to go. Nobody's done.

Yeah, I was like, like, I don't really like to walk around naked. I have to say, I don't know. I don't know why I don't think that that's hot, but I just don't. But I mean, I've been to a nude beach, right? But like, I don't know. I think a little bit of something is like hotter than nothing. I just wouldn't want to sit around and just talk people just totally naked, you know. But I would feel so embarrassed to go to the prude side.

I feel like I just forced myself. That's what I mean. They're shaming you. Yeah. If you would have gone to the prud side, you wouldn't have talked to anybody. Literally nobody was there. Because you can't go to the prud side. It's so rude.

It's so funny. The point you're walking around and you're like, I, you know, I think it's great having some tithies out, but I still kind of would prefer to have my bottoms on. Exactly. But it's like, you know, now I've seen it all. But there's a lot of things you don't want to see there too. And but everyone ends up just being. in the water and you know it's like it's so cloudy from sunscreen and whatever else is happening

in that water god knows so it's you kind of can't see people other than their titties once they're in the water yeah yeah okay so you come back from hito what other kind of crazy things has your husband done in the past year um you know i think aside from like gang banks he's set up actually like just last night i had another somebody that's been on your podcast uh came over that was fantastic okay wait we need names we need details we need details who the fuck from my podcast came over. Was it Jack Chocolate? No, but you know, he's on my ex.

I've seen him and I don't remember where he lives. But, no, this, I actually, I'd have to look at my phone to see what episode he was. What's the name? I know it's Mike and I think it's Jones, if I'm not mistaken. Okay. But he was the sweetest, sweetest man with probably the best dick I've ever seen in my life. Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, walk me slow. Like, how did you hook up with Mike Jones?

Has he ever been in my annual dig pick contest? Mike Jones went from being a bull to navigating sex parties solo to content creating in an open relationship. Okay. He was on my show recently. How did you mean him? Just on X. He had messaged me on X.

But yeah, because I actually told him I was coming on your show again today. Yeah. And so sweet. But yeah, I don't know if he hasn't been in a dick contest he needs to be because it was fantastic. What was so great about his dick? It was just like so thick. I love a thick dick. Yeah.

But it was just like so thick and like gorgeous, big, I don't know. It was just like perfect all the way. Like I felt like the, it was the first one where I felt like I could, there was no way I was going to get my mouth all the way around this without like I was trying to not get my teeth on him. Like it was just that big. Oh, okay. I am looking at him right now on my Patreon. She's hot. Yes.

He's got a great body. Yeah, and he's married. He's got that wife, right? Like, he's got a whole interesting backstory, too, and everything. So did you just meet him on X separately for my show? You didn't even realize that you guys were both on? Correct. Oh, my God. See, another small world. It's crazy, right? Yeah, fucking crazy. Oh, my God. So he had the best dick. And so, and that just happens? Yeah, that, yeah, that was last night. For the first time? Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It's one of those, like, it's funny enough, we both have kind of, kind of, kind of, you know, it's funny enough, we both have kind of, kind of. similar professional jobs. And so just trying to like coordinate because he lives like an hour away from me. So just trying to coordinate. So, you know, the real life stuff.

Sometimes that's the hardest is just like when do you have time? You know? Yeah. But there's, yeah, there's another. My husband's got somebody else coming over tonight that I, I think it's been like since I think I saw him in January. So this would be my second time. But last time it was just him and I and this time my husband's going to be here and

record, which normally it's just me and somebody. Yeah, explain that. Yeah, like what are your like solo hookups like? Like, because listen, you've been with 200 people in the past two years, so there's probably been a lot of one-offs too. How do those go down and, you know, and does your husband set them up and like walk me through a couple that have taken place since we last spoke? He usually sets him up.

And I don't know if I told you about this one the first time or not, but like we've had one even where he was watching me, but we could see him. It was like it was live streaming. So like I could see my husband's face on the TV. and he was watching us. He was at work and had his earbuds in and he was like watching us. It was hilarious.

And where were you guys at your house or the guy's house? Like you guys are fucking and he's watching like through what a FaceTime or something? I don't remember how I had it like I think it was through my computer but I had it connected to the TV. And so the guy and I could both. Yeah. So it was like full so we could see him and then he could see us. He didn't talk. He was at work.

He just had his earbuds in. But it was like so we've had like weird shit like that. In general, it's usually just me and the guy. And normally, like, my husband will kind of set it up and then, you know, maybe I'll do the details, like, text them with details of, like, time and whatever. But in general, he typically sets him up. I've tried, but I'm, like, the worst secret keeper ever. So, because he's always like, just do it and tell me about it later, you know, that's

taught me. I remember this. Yeah. Yeah. And he's a, he's a little bit of a, like, not a cock, a full cock. But that's like the stuff that, like, you know, it's like, you know, it's like, cucks like, you know, a little angst of that kind of thing. Yeah, it's almost like, you know, someone was fucking my wife while I was gone today, okay, you know, but it's, I'm just bad,

like one time I tried to do that. Actually, the guy that's coming tonight, I was like, what time are you going to be home? And he was like, I don't know, fine. I'm like, okay, are you sure you're not going to come home before that? He was like, you just ruined it. Oh my God. You can't get it together. Does he like want to walk in on you? Like, have you said of those kinds of scenarios? Like, what kind of scenarios does he really enjoy and set up? No, we've never done that. I also feel like I don't ever want to freak a guy out and do something like that, you know, but even if they knew,

I feel like it's a little bit awkward for me. I don't know. Well, that's very planned and set up. So some people do like that, but you tend to not like the stuff that's very prepared, you know? Yeah, no, we don't. I think it was kind of, I have had two when I'm traveling for work. And the first time I texted him, I was like, I found this hot dick at the bar.

And he was like, again, stop telling me. Just do it. Yeah, so the second time I did it, I didn't tell him until afterwards, but he, I think, you know, he knew because it was like 10.30 before I called him or texted him, which is unusual for me if I'm traveling. but yeah it was just like I met this guy at the bar and it was that was probably the most like random we just got to talking and then I'm like oh well you know my husband I iron lifestyle and then it just kind of and then he's like well tell me about that I'm like well you're kind of hot and then you know the bar is like last call and so we grab another one and it's I'm like well do you want to just come to my room and he's like fuck it yeah I do oh my god and he was a hot guy he was and those are

just fun because it's like you're never going to see that person again you know and I don't know. It's just something to remember your trip by, I guess. Oh, yeah, totally. That's like stranger's sex. So you bring him up and like, did your husband, did you text your husband? He knew you were going up with the guy? I don't think I texted him that time. I was trying to kind of surprise, but he sort of knew when he hadn't heard from me. Right. But no, I don't think I did. It was, it was, you know, and in hindsight, I probably should from a safety perspective. But, you know, my husband always knows where I am. I was, you know, has my location and things like that. But you're in hotel.

But it was hot. Right? You were in a hotel. Exactly. You scream loud enough. Yeah. Yeah. But wait a second.

Do you, like a for a scenario like that and when you're playing solo and stuff and far away like, you know, and I know you're not always taping for content, but do you like tape stuff or take pictures for your guy or does he just want details? Like how does he get off on those kinds of situations? So he, it all depends on like who I'm hooking up with and what their comfort level is. But my husband said he prefers to not be there and he likes the video because he said when I'm watching the video back, I see I can stop and I'll see like your facial expressions. And he's like that's the turn on for me where I can tell you're enjoying it. So he actually prefers a video. And then he'll sort of, he does like my video editing for me. And so he'll, you know, sometimes take like a screenshot of a video. And I'm like, shit, that's a hot picture. And it all, you know, and it's because he's like, yeah, I screenshot it from the video. So it's interesting, you know, Sometimes I'll be in the other room and I hear him in the home office and I hear myself moaning. I'm like, are you in there editing videos?

But he loves it. Do you have, I mean, do any of your girlfriends know what you do? Because girls talk, you know, so I'm wondering. I mean, is this a very secret life that you're living or are you the type of girl that has told a couple of your besties? I mean, honestly, I feel like most of the girls I talk to are in the lifestyle. So. Oh, okay. Those are all your friends. Most of your friends are in the lifestyle. Now, at this point. Yeah, most of them. Yeah, I've got a few girlfriends that know, like one of them I've told just a little bit, but in general, no, I don't. And I think, again, like, people would be shocked if they knew some of the stuff that, you know, I do. So. Yeah, because listen, here you are. And listen, it's nobody's business. You don't know what those people are doing behind closed doors anyway, really. At the end of the day, a lot of people make rude comments to my guest sometimes and they'll be, like, oh, what if their family knew what they were doing? I'm like, does your family know what you do at night? Even if it's vanilla sex, nobody talks to their friend, like there, a lot of people

don't share their intimate details with their friends or family, regardless of whether it's vanilla or totally crazy. You know what I mean? I just think it's like it seems like you guys are so at this, right? Plus, you're doing all this content and we're going to talk about that, but like, you know, that it's such a big part of your life. Like, how do you keep it from your friends? but it seems like maybe you moved to this place and didn't have a lot of friends anyway. So all the friends you made are in lifestyle. So it's not like you're living where you grew up and all your girlfriends. Correct.

Yeah. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But you were married and you come across as this like relation like this married couple and people would be shocked is what you're saying, right? If they kind of knew.

Oh, absolutely. But I mean, I love being slutty. I mean, everybody kind of has that little like thing in the back of their head that's like, you know, and it's just fun. And at the end of the day, if it's, makes your marriage healthier and stronger and we feel like it does. It keeps things spicy and you know, we enjoy it. And at the end of the day, that's to me all that matters. But yeah, I don't think that, you know, most people would have any clue. Again, you know, I have a very

professional job and I'm sure everybody would die if they like knew anything. But again, it's like we don't talk about that stuff at work anyways. But you do go to club sometimes, right? We do sometimes. Yeah, we haven't been, I think we've been two in the last year. We sort of took a break. It was getting a little monotonous. We had done some hotel takeovers, and we enjoyed them, but they were just kind of getting to be the same thing. And we found when we took a little bit of a break and went back, we enjoyed it more. So we went back down to Temptive in Louisville, I think twice this year.

And that's a nice club. It's big. I feel like they, in general, typically have a good turnout of people. The club is well run. It's clean. It's all those things. So, yeah, we were actually just the other night saying maybe we'll do another takeover this coming year because we haven't done one in a while.

When you go to a swingers club, do you hook up? Are you just hooking up with people? Do you both hook up? Like, what did you do? Like, maybe one of those times? You know what's so funny? Normally at the clubs, we don't hook up at all. Okay, that's interesting.

We hook up with each other. Yeah. Okay. Hook up with each other. But the last time we went with some friends and they were like newer friends, lifestyle friends, and they had never been. They just actually had moved from out of state. So we took them down.

And I kind of like, we're like, it was towards the end of the night. And we were sort of showing them some of the rooms upstairs. I'd look over. and my husband's got her same thing apparently he likes chains he's got her chained up and grabs her legs puts them over his shoulders and he's a tall dude he's like 6-3 so she's like hanging and she's got her legs over his shoulders and he starts eating her pussy and so i just sit back with her husband i'm like this is fantastic oh yeah the cut queen again we're ending with oh we started with the cut queen and we're back at the cut queen well and i did blow her husband while we were sitting there but i mean that's we In general, we don't typically hook up at the clubs. It's been a very, I can count it on one hand, and we've been so many times. But we like the party.

You know, we like the environment. I love a theme. He doesn't, but I do. And I just think it's fun, again, going back to being around people who don't take life too seriously. You can dance, get sweaty, just have some fun. Right. But you can also fuck in front of people, right?

Like you get down for that? We do that. Yep. Like at the takeovers and stuff like that, we typically do. I mean, we will always. almost always at least play with each other. We just, it's rare that we hook up with anybody else at the clubs. Yeah.

That's cool. I think that that's interesting. You know what I mean? Everybody has their, like everyone's like a concoction. You know, I think that's actually more interesting than if you did. Here you are like the type that'll do nine guys in a night. But if you go to a swinger club, you're not doing any. You know what I mean?

I love that. I love that. But that's more real. I don't know. I like things that don't make sense. You know, I kind of like prefer that. It's more interesting to me at least. I like watching too.

I always just, things are interesting. I like to people watch. And so at a club, people watching is obviously a whole other level. And it's just interesting to me. So, yeah. Now, do you meet a lot of people creating content? Like, do you get a lot of content creators reaching out to? Like, how does that all work?

So that's actually, I'm glad you brought that up. When I do my content, it is not. I don't do it with other content creators. Okay. Like, I think, yeah, I think I've done two small things with somebody who has an X account. Right. But in general, no, I don't. So I do have creators that will reach out.

And I'm like, if you look at my stuff, I don't do that. Those are, so all the ones that I have are like real life, just genuine. I want to fuck situations. They're not pre-planned, premeditated with 14 cameras up in the room. And let me tell you, I think you're smart to roll like that because I have talked to many people in the past like 11 years I've been doing my show. And I got to tell you because I talk to people sometimes more than once. just like you. I do hear from people over time and it's been more than one person. I think it's

even been more than like that I could count on one hand of couples or people who were, you know, lifestylers who got into lifestyle, we're doing whatever they were doing and then got into content creating and then got sick of content creating because it became so much like a timed planned business thing once like the other content creators came in, you know what I mean? And then they're like find themselves at a place where they're not enjoying it. anymore and they want to go back to what they were doing before. And I've heard that many times, you know, so I think you're rolling the right way. So you don't hit that point. Yeah, because if I don't, if I'm not genuinely enjoying it, then why am I doing it? Because I, we don't need to do content

creation for money. And I think that's sort of the difference. You know, I don't know if you've seen a, but TLC just came out with this like secret lives of suburban wives. Yeah, yeah, yeah. What is that all about? It's, it's these, it's like this crew in St. Louis who are, content creators, but they're, you know, essentially they're like, oh, well, everybody just thinks we're normal suburban mom, but I also don't think content creating is that shocking these days anymore. You know, so many people do it. But when I was watching it, I'm like, that's just a job. You know, they go, that doesn't even look fun anymore. If I just have to plan everything and make sure there's 42 cameras up and, you know, that's just not fun anymore. So what's the point?

Yeah, yeah. You know, for somebody, you know, that they're doing that, that's their job. And that's fine. If they like it that way, I just know that I wouldn't like it that way. Yeah, you're smart because it's not even like you tried there, been there done that, and realize that. You just know that even before trying it out, that you don't need to even try it to know that that's what it would be. And I'll tell you firsthand that, like people have said that that's exactly where

they get after they did try and didn't think it through, you know, so much. So I think that that's great. And I think it's, so explain what people get over on your content. they're obviously seeing like real life hookups, right, that you're having with people. You're not, you're anonymous, correct on your thing or do people see your face on your? They see my face. Oh, interesting. Do you ever worry about getting caught or people finding out?

I mean, we went into it knowing that somebody could find out. And I mean, do I want my family or, you know, to find out? No. If they do, am I okay with it? Yes, I've made that choice as an adult. So. And you own your own business. business, correct? You're the head of a bit, like, because I did have like, who was it? It was like

hot, sexy soccer mom lady girl. She was like fucking teacher of the year. And someone like busted her. And like she lost her job and stuff. I think that's where it comes. That's where you worry. You know what I mean? But like some people have more control over their career and their jobs than others, you know. So I'm just wondering about how you feel. So I do work for a larger company. But I also, my husband owns a business or we own a business. So, you know, if God forbid that were to happen, you're not losing your life for it. Yeah. Yeah. But at the same time, I think that like, you know, it's not, you're not doing anything that's so out in the open and public where, you know, somebody could just Google my name and they find that, you know. And so it's, you'd have to be looking for it.

And, you know, to some degree, I know what our social media policies look like. And at the end of the day, you know, people are also allowed to do things in their private life. it doesn't have to reflect on a on a company either, you know, depending on, you know, how careful you are with some things, but. Right. But do you only show your face on your, on your, like, paid sites where you're locked down? Or do you show it? Okay.

So it's like, it's only people that are paying to get in. So anyone that would find you, like paid for your content and came looking. So like you say, it's like, you're here. I'm here. Let's have fun. Yeah. Well, what are you doing here? Yeah.

No need to snitch. Let's have a little good time. You know what I mean? Like it's fine. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yes, like my ex does not show my face.

I don't show my face anywhere else. Right, that's smart. Right. And so people see all that kind of content. I will put a link to like a link tree or whatever in the description for you. Why don't you explain your podcast too? Yeah. Want to?

Give a shout. Yeah. We've only done three episodes. We're trying to drop them on Sundays. So it's kind of new. We've been toying around with it for so long. And I'm like, let's just do it. But, you know, it's just my husband and I talking.

And again, we, we're not like, reviewing clubs or telling people like, this is how you get into swinging or what to expect. It's just us talking about things that we have seen. You know, like I mentioned earlier, kind of being exiled from a group because we quote unquote don't want to play or just people using fake photos or old photos or they're changing their photos or, you know, things like that that no one really wants to talk about. I mean, everybody talks amongst themselves and says, you know, but then in the big picture, it's like, no, we don't judge. Yes, you do. Everybody does a little bit.

And everybody knows when you leave an event, you're talking because that's what everybody does. But, you know, so it's just, it's like just say what's actually happening. And I feel like, you know, some of the other podcasts that are out there are a little bit more surface level. And they're more club reviews and they're more just kind of details of being in the lifestyle where, you know, I don't know. I hate to use the word rant. We're almost just kind of ranting a little bit. But like our last episode, I talked about how we got into it. And because I think, again, people just think we're insane when they hear that story.

Yeah, yeah, that's good. So you mix it up with a little, like some stories and stuff, but you're also ranting about things that people need to be aware of, like the real, like the reality of the actual lifestyle. Not so, you know, you're giving the not so polished view of things. I think that that's great. You know what I mean? Because I mean, like I love a gone wrong story.

I'm like a realist. So I like things that aren't so perfect. I have a lot of positive stories on my show, and I love that also about my show because I think, you know, my sort of mission, and I always say like what my show is here to say is not that everyone needs to be doing what you're doing or all the people on my show are doing. That's not what I believe in. I believe, you know, to each their own. But all my show is here to say is that, you know, you know, contrary to what most of the world thinks, like you can be, you know, monogamous and last in a relationship and actually be happier because of it. And I think that's something that most people don't know and that's what I like to for people to hear. But I also think it's great for people really in it, right, to hear what you guys are doing on your show, which is like, you want to like, yeah, Hito's great and you're going to fuck nine people and a thing and have great sex. But the truth is, you know, this is what it looks like and stuff. And so for somebody like me,

like, I'm sorry, when I roll on vacation, like, I like five stars. Like I'm very picky. And I wasn't that way when I was 25, okay? I'm sorry. Like I, you know. Right. Yeah. It's different as you get older. You know, and I spend your hard earned money.

Yeah. And that's where I will put money. I'm not a consumer. I'm not buying a lot of things. But like when I like I will spend money on certain things, right? And my vacation, my hotel room, like I don't want to fucking see shit hanging from this. Like that would really turn me off. You know, so I would like that information.

I mean, I go digging for that information before I go anywhere. So I think it's great that you're giving that information out to people. Do you have that? Like, do you have a link tree where all of your stuff is? Like, where are you at? And why don't you give a shout out to your only fans or wherever you are as well? Let's give all your shoutouts. I don't have a link tree.

Actually, I was just thinking about that recently, but I'm just on Fansley. Okay, fansly. Okay, cool. I never reached out to be a sponsor. And I was like, oh, I think a lot of people prefer Fansley over OnlyFans for whatever reason. So you're on Fansley. I got kicked off with OnlyFans. Yeah, ridiculous.

I mean, like, for what? You don't even have other people. Oh, you do have other people. on. I do, but no, they actually kicked me off because I made a reference to meeting up with a fan for a drink. And I took a selfie, like, fully dressed and my husband and I were getting ready to go to dinner. And because I made that reference of like meeting somebody, they banned me. Wow, they're that hardcore. Yeah. And I was like, oh my God, this is ridiculous. So anyways, but yeah, so just on Fansley. And then on X and it's Cindy wife at both places. And it's S for

South and then India, which is where we live in Indianapolis. So South Indie wife, so Cindy wife. Right. That's where that comes from. And then your podcast again, I'll put the name in the description. Thank you. Yeah, it's the critical swinger. The critical swinger. That's exciting and fun. So we'll promote it. We'll get people going over there and listening to it. And thanks so much for calling in. Send me some hot picks because we talk about how hot you are for my Patreon. For Patreon, I have to keep things like rated R. Right. So nothing with your nips or anything showing. But it can be lingerie, but it's just like, you know, or a bikini or something, you know. And then you could do whatever on Discord. Definitely go into Discord if you can, like around that time and you could put yourself

out there, okay? And you could promote your book, put your link to your podcast in your description there, you know, in your bio there. I'm sure you have your only fans in there, but you could also promote your podcast in there too because there's tons of lifestyle people in there, you know? Yeah. Well, thank you so much for having me. I appreciate it. It was fun. Yeah, this was fun. Thanks for your good stories. And send me those picks ASAP, okay? Thanks, Cindy Way. Thanks for calling in. Thanks. Okay, talk to you later. Bye-bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you that my book, Strictly anonymous Confessions,

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