Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1575 - Scott Sucks D on Weekdays & Gets His D Sucked on Weekends & He's Married?!

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Starting point is 00:05:30 and click on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, I have a very interesting episode. I got Scott on today. Scott is a dick sucker during the week. No, a dick sucker. No, he sucks dick during the week and he gets his dick sucked on the weekend. I think that's what it is. It's one of the other. But anyway, and he started out with one. He started out just getting his dick sucked out first, and then he got into Dick sucking himself and hand jobs and more, okay, for sure. But before we get to that part of the story, I do talk about, you know, how he wound up getting into guys. I mean, he was a guy in a sexless marriage, and it was very sexless for like 10 years. I couldn't get information out of him, and I know people are going to be like, oh,

Starting point is 00:06:17 you were so hard on him. And you're not for other people. But, You know, the way I go, you know, if I'm harder on somebody compared to somebody else, it's typically because of the information I get back from them. You know, this is a guy that was in a very sexless marriage. They, you know, and I tried to get, you know, answers to why it was sexless and if they ever tried to do anything before he went out sucking a dick, because this is a guy that, like, was otherwise very monogamous, you know what I mean? And wound up going after guys because there was nothing at home.

Starting point is 00:06:48 And, you know, that's an. interesting story. And I've heard it before, you know. So people might think that I'm a little bit hard on him, but I wasn't. It was just because of the answers that I got from, you know, back from him. But he obviously wanted to move on and just talk about sucking dick. So I did move on. Don't worry about it. We do get the backstory, though, of how he wound up. Because this was a guy that was like never into guys, okay, in his life before. It was just from the lack of sex at home. He started watching a lot of porn. And he talks about how that got him, uh, event. eventually into having a guy suck his dick.

Starting point is 00:07:24 That's what he did at first. He talks about his glory hole experiences with this one guy. And then he talks about all his first experiences of like, like I said, getting his dick sucked. And then how and why he turned to doing hand jobs with guys. And then eventually, uh, him doing the BJs himself and then actually doing more. He talks about where he meets up. You think Home Depot is a popular place. He gives me other places that I'm just like dying when I'm talking to him.

Starting point is 00:07:49 his stories. It's pretty crazy what goes down. He's living a whole double life. He doesn't really feel bad about it. We talk a little bit about that. Of course, Sniffy comes up. I'm obsessed with Sniffy's. I'm going on it today. Okay. And I'm going to do some reporting back on what I found because I'm obsessed with Sniffies whenever it comes up. This whole story is super interesting. I tried to get more layers out of it and that's where people are going to get mad at me. But, you know, I kind of couldn't. And that made me even more interested. him. So anyway, you'll see what I'm talking about. I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Scott.

Starting point is 00:08:25 This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Hey, Scott, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Excellent. Thank you. Scott, now listen, you have a really easy intro. I'm going to do your short story. Then you're going to give me a long story. Basically, and that's how you put it in your email to me is like, you like to suck dick during the week. And then you like, to get your dick sucked on the weekend. Now, I don't know, are you like living a double life?

Starting point is 00:08:55 Is this a secret life that you live? Are you a married guy? Is this a secret life that you're living? Yes, I'm married. Okay, so that's another layer. So you're a married guy cheating on your wife with guys. You're doing this all behind your wife's back? Yes.

Starting point is 00:09:12 Okay, so how long you've been married to your wife? Oh, 40 plus years. Okay, how long have you been, like, doing dudes behind her back? Well, it started out about three years ago. That? Okay. Well, yeah, started out about three years ago getting blow jobs from guys and going to glory holes. Oh, my God. What were you doing before that, though? Were you like always a guy that was into guys? Had you ever had any experiences, like maybe when you were younger in high school, like with dudes?

Starting point is 00:09:42 No, no, no. Basically, I was just jerking off a lot. To do, to the thought of it, you mean? Well, I was taking care of myself and then, you know, you watch different kinds of porn and stuff. And, you know, sometimes you just, it was just one of those things that I wanted to try because it wasn't, I wasn't getting any satisfaction at home. Oh, interesting. That's interesting. All right. So let's get to your sexless marriage.

Starting point is 00:10:05 Like you're married for 40 something years, you know, how many years are you not getting anything at home? Oh, oh, man. Oh, probably about 10. You're kidding. 10. No, well, unfortunately, unfortunately, your wife, she has some medical issues. So she can't pleasure you and stuff like that. For 10 years?

Starting point is 00:10:28 Yeah, yeah. Physical issues or mental issues? Physical. Okay, so physical issues for 10 years. Now, do you guys ever have any kind of serious conversations about what happens to, like, to you in this scenario, considering for 10 years she can't pleasure you at all? like it happens in a relationship if that's the case because that's a serious thing you know what I mean and I get it does she ever say to you like oh like should she ever give you a free pass or like is there ever like

Starting point is 00:10:56 you know is there something she could do for you instead of you doing stuff for her like what's the solution no it's pretty much you know we just kind of she's kind of we just kind of stopped and but because of medical issues what are the can you tell me what the medical issues were or are It's just medical issues. I really can't go into it. I know, but what kind of medical issues last for 10 years that you can't have sex? She can't give you a hand job, a blow job? Not really.

Starting point is 00:11:29 It's not, you know. I mean, earlier on it started out where she was, you know, I would jerk off on her tits and stuff. That was pretty good. Why did that stop? Just pretty much got out of, you know, just got, got out of the habit of, you know, doing it every once a week or once or twice a week for a while. And we just kind of just stopped doing it all together.

Starting point is 00:11:54 What was the sex life before she had medical issues? It was pretty good. I have a pretty high sex drive. So, I mean, I could jerk off, you know, three, five times a day. So I had a pretty high sex drive. And she was kind of not so much as a match. No girl's going to be. No girls a match for that, just so you know.

Starting point is 00:12:17 Yeah. No fun. I mean, I feel like my doctor guy friend who had that kind of sex try. I've met a girl who was his match. But she's a rare. She's not the norm. You know what I mean? So most women are not going to want to fuck you four times a day to get you off.

Starting point is 00:12:30 You know what I mean? Like that's an impossibility. But like, you know, and listen, most relationships after 40 years, the sex, you're not having sex as much as you did before. But to go 10 years without anything at all. Is there any kind of like physical closeness with her at all? What's your marriage like? Oh, it's good.

Starting point is 00:12:50 Yeah. It's good. I just don't understand how people could go 10 years without sex in a marriage. And it's never discussed or talked about like what is the solution. Because like that to me is like a big problem. Yeah. Well, you know, it's pretty much I handled it myself. Well, like my whole point is that like maybe if these things are discussed inside of the marriage,

Starting point is 00:13:10 then the man or the woman that's not getting anything. thing in the marriage won't go out behind that person's back and be like getting blow jobs from guys and cars. Do you know what I mean? Because that's not really the best solution, right? The best solution would be like somehow figure out what's going on or what should happen considering your wife cannot be intimate with you at all for the past 10 years and maybe never. I don't know. I mean, if she has something physical for 10 years, maybe that will last forever. I don't know. Is this a type of physical thing that's going to pass? No, no. Okay. So for the rest of your life while you're married, you're never going to get a blowjob, a hand job. Do you guys make out? You can't go down on her. She's no sex whatsoever. And there's no conversation about what should be done. Because like it's a part of a marriage. And by no means is it everything. Of course, like you say, your marriage is great otherwise, right? But you just don't have this physical thing and you're not about to leave her, I would assume. But your solution then is to go and get blow jobs from guys because it's probably easier to do that than to go find women.

Starting point is 00:14:12 man to satisfy you, right? Like that is kind of easier for a guy to do. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. I use your, I use your favorite app's grinder and sniffies. Oh my God, I can't wait. But I just got to get through this part first because I just have to say that like it's like it doesn't make sense to me that people, you know, here you are with this woman. You're with her for, you know, 30 years. You have this whole life with her. Something horrible obviously happened to her medically, physically that changed her whole life, you know what I mean? And no one's talking about the fact that you're never going to get fucked or have any kind of pleasure for the rest of your life. There's never any kind of discussions of like what should actually happen. And I don't know how that conversation would go

Starting point is 00:14:55 or what the solution is, but it's interesting that like nobody talks about it because what does she think you're going to do for the rest of your life? Like does she like what does she think you're going to do about your hard ons and your like just use porn forever? And look, what porn did to you? It wired you into, like, getting into guys, which was something you were never into. Yeah, pretty much. I mean, she knew I watched porn and I was handling myself.

Starting point is 00:15:21 Yeah, so she just, so, but, and that's a, but obviously that's not like the, a great solution, you know, I mean, and I'm just saying this because it's like, I'm always thinking about people listening. I mean, like, you know, woman, if you're in a marriage and you can't fuck your husband or if you're a guy and you can't fuck your wife or the rest of your life, like maybe to talk. about, I don't know, figure out what's going to happen or what should be done. Like, she can't

Starting point is 00:15:43 lean over and jerk you off. She can't put your dick in her mouth? No, that's not happening. Because she doesn't want to or because she physically can't open her mouth? Like, this is what I don't. Well, no, she can, no, she was never into blow jobs. Right. So it's not just, that's what I'm getting at. I don't believe that it's just physical. It sounds like the intimacy has also just left, maybe the physical, it started with that. But even though there are solutions, like she can't open her It doesn't matter that she's not into blow jobs. If she physically can't fuck you, maybe she needs to be blowing you or else you wouldn't be going out and getting blown by guys. Do you understand what I'm trying to say?

Starting point is 00:16:19 Yeah, I understand. It's just not happening. And it's not going to happen. Right, because nobody talks about these things. That's my whole point. And that's what to me is the saddest thing, right? Because cheating, like, isn't the solution, right? But the reason why it becomes the solution is because conversations don't happen.

Starting point is 00:16:36 And it blows my mind that I've never been with someone. for 30 years. But I would just assume that if you're with someone for that long, you can have a conversation about anything. I mean, you know this person. It's not going to happen. It's not happening. It's about why didn't the conversation ever happen? It probably did, but it's not, it's not

Starting point is 00:16:55 going to, you know, she just kind of left it to me to handle myself. Okay, so there were conversations when it first started, but she just like to take care of yourself. That was her thing. That was the solution. Yes. Take care of yourself. So now So you're like just using porn furiously because you have no outlet, right, for sex.

Starting point is 00:17:14 So you become probably addicted to porn now. Like you're just, that's all you do to get yourself off, right? Yes. Right. And so eventually you start to think, oh, maybe I'd like to suck a dick, even though you never were into it, right? Well, in the beginning, it was more of getting my dick sucked. By anyone is what you're saying. And like guys were just easier?

Starting point is 00:17:36 Oh, yeah. It's loaded with guys that are. that want to suck a cock. I know. And listen, you're not the first story of a guy that can't get action at home with his woman and probably would prefer action with women, but they literally resort to guys

Starting point is 00:17:50 because it's just a quicker, easier way to get your needs met, right? Yeah. Okay, it's the end of the summer, and I don't know about you, but I'm trying to be outside and enjoy every last nice day, which means rest is definitely not high on my agenda.

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Starting point is 00:20:49 It's pretty much you show up either at a guy's house. Yeah. And then, you know, you drop your pants. He sucks you off and you leave. Yeah. Yeah. And I could assume, and I would assume that, you know, sometimes given, and I don't know,

Starting point is 00:21:05 you know, like if a guy is like backed into a corner where he is a type of guy that has a sex drive that's as high as yours, which most guys is, after 10 years of nothing, that they wind up doing something like that because it is a solution to the problem. Like, what else are you going to do, right? You're not going to be able to find random girls to do that, you know? No, no. Again, it's so easy to find a guy. It's kind of like if the guy's in prison, You know, the question always is, like, if you're in prison for the rest of your life, aren't you eventually going to wind up sucking dick? Like, you know what I mean? And getting your dick suck.

Starting point is 00:21:41 Like, or are you just never going to have any kind of sex ever, right? So you suddenly start to think like, so how does it come up that you're like, oh, I'm going to go get a guy? Because that's a big thing for you because this is something that was never like on your radar. No, it was, you know, it started watching, you know, some bisexual or gay porn. but you had never watched it before is what you're saying did you ever think to cheat on her with women or did you ever cheat on her with women no no it was uh it was you know you got so there are you know several apps you can download and once you open the app it's like oh my god it's like it's like uh it's like a field day no i know i know cindways i'm obsessed but why not women

Starting point is 00:22:30 though first i just want to know why not women too too too too too too hard, you know, too much, you know, it's not transactional, it's more of like, it's a lot of work. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's a lot of work. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:22:43 It's a lot of work and then, you know, I don't have a lot of time. Exactly. You know, my free time is, you know, a few hours or so. And it's like, I can find somebody within, you know, an hour or two hours. And if I'm looking to have my cock sucked. Yeah. It's pretty easy to find a cock sucker out there on garage. or sniffies.

Starting point is 00:23:05 Yeah, you're just really just like proving my point that I've noticed and it really kind of makes sense if you think of it logically that this is the type of thing that guys would revert you strictly for like all the reasons that you're saying. You know what I mean? Like probably if there was, if women were wired like guys, right? And there was an app like sniffies for girls called panties and you could like go on to it and find girls in Home Depot that'll like suck your dick. You probably would have done that, right?

Starting point is 00:23:32 But it just doesn't exist. So you do the guy thing. And I feel like a lot of guys wind up going down that route for the same reason. Yeah, it's just easy. Yeah, I mean, it's just so easy to, to, you know, and then you get yourself off and, you know, you're good for, you know, another couple of days. Yeah, you don't have to, you don't have to be afraid of some guy with pounding on your door, freaking out crying. No, and then, you know, I mean, there, you know, not, you know, there's like, I, I can't tell you, you would know being a woman that there's a lot of women that don't like to give oral.

Starting point is 00:24:10 Yeah, I don't understand. And it's like, it's like, to me, in that relationship that you're in, I mean, that would be the thing that your wife, if she's, you know, if she's not in a coma and she could still talk and walk and stuff, like, I get that. she doesn't like blow jobs, but if she physically can't fuck you. I don't think she wants to give me hand jobs three times a week. Well, sorry. I mean, even once a week, maybe like that would have been better than nothing.

Starting point is 00:24:39 Like, it's nothing is what you're saying, correct? Well, yeah. Well, again, it started out, you know, like that. And then it kind of just faded. Because it wasn't good? No, it was great for me. I loved it. Right.

Starting point is 00:24:52 But I mean, but it faded. I mean, that's what I'm just trying to say. I don't know what your life thinks. in her head that you're doing for 10 years. She actually thinks you're just going to be satisfied, jerking off for the rest of your life. I don't know how old you are, but you could probably live another 30, 40 years, right? How old are you? Well, I'm...

Starting point is 00:25:10 Are you in your 50s or 60s or 40s? 60s. 60s, but I look 50s. Yeah, so you could... Nowadays people live till their 90s, 100, right? So like 30 more years, your wife just thinks you're never, like, you're just going to be happy jerking yourself off? I don't know, you know, I don't...

Starting point is 00:25:24 Yep. Yeah. Well, no. Well, I still jerk off. but I still find guys to suck my cock. So she was my friend, I'd be like, that's a good, that's a good thing. If she was my friend, I'd be like, just suck his dick. I mean, just throw, you have to.

Starting point is 00:25:37 You know what I mean? I guess she doesn't like it, but things changed in your relationship. You have to change with them, you know? I mean, I just don't understand the issues in your house, but like, you don't want to talk about that. Let's go back to all your cocks that have been in your mouth. So let's get to the point where you decide to, you get onto the apps. The first apps you go on to a grinder and sniffies, correct?

Starting point is 00:26:00 Yeah, Grindr, Sniffies. There's Jacked. I've never heard of Jacks. Yeah, Jacked is more, supposedly more for BBC. But it's hit or miss. Pretty much all the apps are hit or miss, but because there's a lot of flakes. Yeah. But is Sniffy's hit or miss?

Starting point is 00:26:17 Because isn't Sniffy's sort of like in real time? Yeah, it's, well, no, they've changed where you can download it to your phone now. so it's more of an app based. But a lot of it is you can't, you know, the problem with most guys is the place to do it. So it's either, you know, car play or bathroom or, you know, guy's house. Right.

Starting point is 00:26:41 You know, typically some of the guys that you're going to, they're married. So they're on the DL. So they can't suck a dick at their house. Yeah, like you. You can't suck a dick at the house. Right. And obviously probably all these hookups you're having are going on. and all those places you just spoke about.

Starting point is 00:26:57 Yep. Yeah. Okay, let's get to your first hookup. Like, what app do you find them on and walk me through that whole experience? So it was Grindr. Guy advertises, I still visit him. I still visit him. He's a regular.

Starting point is 00:27:12 He's got a glory hole. And he sucks cock. And it's like, oh, my God, first time I went there, I sucked my cock. And I hadn't had my cock sucked in years. And it's like, oh, my God, it was fantastic. And this guy's usually on. But you don't see him, right? Because he's on the other side.

Starting point is 00:27:28 But you know it's a guy. No, he has a homemade glory hole. So he cuts a hole in a sheet or a curtain. And, you know, I come in, I drop. He's got it kind of set up in his hallway. So I come in through the door. Oh, I got his little curtain. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:27:42 He's got his little curtain hung up. Yeah. And I dropped my pants and stick my cock through the hole. And he sucks me off. And you just left. Now, did he have guys coming in and out of that? house that first night do you remember oh he has he has he like advertises on the weekend so he's pretty much open from from eight o'clock to about three o'clock oh my god i need that guy on my shower

Starting point is 00:28:06 okay so you so that's your first experience is like a glory hole experience yeah now was that by design or was it just the first thing that like got like was like hot to you or was it interesting to you because maybe you felt weird about being with a guy and you couldn't see a guy or was it because it was like, because it was like, oh, this is hot, the glory hall. Well, you know, I'd never done anything before. So I was trying to like be DL and, you know, wasn't, didn't want to like meet a guy at his house. The glory hill thing kind of was more of, you know, appealing. Yeah, I would assume that maybe there was a little bit of that going on.

Starting point is 00:28:43 That's why I asked. Okay. So that was amazing, obviously, because you haven't been blown probably your whole marriage. It's a, it sounds like. Oh, my God. So did you feel guilty afterwards because you never cheated on your wife before and you're cheating on her. Yeah, somewhat. But, you know, it's like, it's, again, this guy was, this guy's available like every weekend.

Starting point is 00:29:05 So what does that have to do with it? I'm asking you about guilt, your feelings. So were you so far gone of being like deprived that you just felt like at this point, you know, it's just, you're just getting your needs met and it's not that like, you know, how do you like sort of, sort of. look at it to not have any kind of bad feelings about it. Considering, listen, you're sound like a very monogamous guy. You've been with your wife forever. You know, you've never cheated on her. All of a sudden, this is the first time you do something crazy behind her back. It's majorly cheating, you know, and what, like, how do you not have feelings about it or any guilt? It's okay that you don't. I'm wondering how you're framing it in your mind that you don't feel guilty. That's what's interesting always to me,

Starting point is 00:29:48 because I feel like we could all frame things in different ways to feel differently. It probably was a little bit guilty, but pretty much my horniness overcomes my guilt. No, I know, but there's something called Postnut Clarity, Scott, that, you know, when it goes away, the feelings come up. Did you just drive away and feel like, okay, that was like fucking great? Or did you feel like, oh, my God, I fucking just... Nope, I still want my dick sucked. Nope, I still want my dick sucked.

Starting point is 00:30:14 Yeah, you don't have to feel bad for not feeling guilty. I mean, you don't have to lie. I just like tell the truth. I still want to get off. I just, you know, I enjoy getting blow jobs. That's simple as that. And because she won't give it to you, you could go get it someplace else and you feel like that's justified. Yes.

Starting point is 00:30:35 All right. So you drive away and you're like, this is the fucking best blow job I ever got. I mean, maybe it's like I'm stupid that, you know, guys are just like one note and I'm trying to get more from you. And guys are like, shut the fuck up, Kathy. He's a guy. He doesn't have any feelings. but I believe guys do and sometimes they're just like underneath there and some guys are more in touch with them than others. So you drive away, you don't feel much guilt. It's like a great thing. And I mean, to me it's like so, and this is why I ask, it's like, to me it's so major. It's like the first time you're being a non monogamous to this woman you've lived your whole life with. Also, you're just like with a guy, which is the big thing for a guy that was like considered himself heterosexual his whole life. You know what I mean? And now all of a sudden, you're like a cheating guy with.

Starting point is 00:31:17 guys, you know, it's kind of like major, but you just like happy, right? Yep. Okay, cool. So what happens after that? So I met more guys on the apps, and a few of them had glory holes. A few of them didn't. It was just more of a, if I could fit them into the time slot that I had, it was like, yeah, I'd go to their house and they'd give me a blowjob, and that's it.

Starting point is 00:31:43 Okay. So at this point, though, in the beginning, you're just getting. your dick suck, right? Like at no time are you sucking anyone's dick at this point? So where were the other places? I find it, you know, kind of interesting to find out where all this cheating sex is happening. I mean, one time, that first time is very interesting. Some guy has some, like, crazy glory hole with a sheet in his doorway.

Starting point is 00:32:04 You know, where are the other hookups going down? Sometimes the guy's house, another guy's house, but no glory hole. Just I sit down in a chair and take my pants off. and he blows me. Okay. Other times. Cars like ever, and public places.

Starting point is 00:32:21 Like, I'm interested in those places. Not so much cars. I'm not a big car guy. I'm pretty tall. So not so much cars. I don't think I've had my cock sucked in the bathroom at one of the local places, but I have sucked a cock. Okay, we'll get to that.

Starting point is 00:32:38 Yeah. Okay. So who are these guys that are like on these apps? Do you feel like they're mostly like guys like you who are married? Are they mostly gay men? Are they younger, older? I'm assuming all of the above. I don't know.

Starting point is 00:32:49 You tell me. It's pretty much a gamut. Yeah. I mean, you know, I mean, probably be insightful for you to download Grindr or Sniffies and just look around. Yeah. I mean, I was on my list. I don't know. You know, I'm a single mom and I do everything myself.

Starting point is 00:33:06 So I'm just like sometimes, I forget. But it was, I was like, when I did that recent episode where the guy told me all about Siffies, I was like obsessed with Sniffies. And I live in New York City. in Manhattan, you know, and I was like, I'm going to turn that shit on and walk around with my son and see what's going on secretly, you know what I mean, but like, you'll be surprised. You may have somebody in your building. I know for sure.

Starting point is 00:33:26 And I just don't know why. That's sucking cock or, or wants his cock suck. Yeah. I don't know why I have not done it yet. And I said, I think I'm going to do it and do a whole episode about it. You would thank you for reminding me. So anyway, so it's all. So, but, you know, my interest, the thing that I find interesting is probably, there are probably a

Starting point is 00:33:46 of guys like you that are married and doing this on the DL, I would assume. Yeah. Yeah, I would assume they're married. Yeah. I mean, or single, you know, some guys are single, but a lot of guys are married. That's why they can't, like, they can't, so the biggest problem is finding a place to do it. To do it. Yeah. So guys that are, are either single or their wife's away at work and they got free time, you can come over to the house, you know. And, but, you know, it's a little harder in public places because it's a little, you know, it's hard to find places that are private or semi-private. Yeah. But it's, you know, pretty much if you want to get off, it's, you just download one of those apps and look around and you'll find either a guy that will suck your cock or if you want to suck a cock, there's plenty of guys on the app that will accommodate you.

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Starting point is 00:37:52 once you realize this is something that you could kind of easily set up and as long as there's a location, you could just go get this amazing blowjob and you never got them, like how often were you doing it? It was... It's... It's almost like a nonstop search. Because when you get hooked into it, it's like you're constantly on the app looking for, you know, somebody to suck your cock.

Starting point is 00:38:19 I mean, it's just, you know, if you have free time and you're out, you're on the app looking for, you know, somebody that's available that can get your cock suck. So my question to you is like, are you ever like with your wife watching TV with her or at dinner with her and you're just like on your phone and she has, she thinks you're scrolling the internet but you're like scrolling for dick? Oh, yeah. Oh, my God. Can you believe? All the time. You know, I appreciate your honesty. Yeah, because that's what I would assume.

Starting point is 00:38:49 If you're so deep into this and you're doing it constantly and, you know, your wife has no idea why you're doing it right there, probably in front of her all the time, like you said. You, well, it's, you know, like I said, Monday through Friday, I'm usually looking to suck cocks. Yeah. And then the weekend, I'm looking to get my cock sucked. Yeah. So let's talk about when you get into now you want to suck hot. Because at this point in the story, you start off just getting blow jobs, right? Yes.

Starting point is 00:39:19 Okay. When does it transition and how does that come to be? Mostly from, you know, I wanted to maybe try it. And so I started out doing, you can set up your profile like on Grindr. Yeah. Or like what you're looking for. So I started out doing like hand jobs. Oh, for you.

Starting point is 00:39:39 That was after the... No, not for me, for me to give hand jobs. No, no, I know. That's what I'm saying. After the you getting your dix, like the first thing you started to do with guys, like, being the initiator was hand jobs. Yes. Okay.

Starting point is 00:39:52 Yes. Mm-hmm. And that was, that was pretty good. So I gave a few guys hand jobs. And that went over pretty well. I had, I had, I had, well, some guys want the edging and the hand job. Yeah. So they'll, like, I'll milk their cock till they,

Starting point is 00:40:09 come. And they, some guys like that better than blow jobs. Yeah. Or pussy. Yeah. So I had, you use two hands?

Starting point is 00:40:20 Hmm? Two hands? It depends on the, depends on the guy's cock. Yeah. Some cocks are, some cocks are average size and some cogs aren't. Yeah, yeah.

Starting point is 00:40:30 Okay. So you're doing hand jobs first. Yeah. And then I suddenly decided, well, let me see what, let me see what, let me see what,

Starting point is 00:40:39 all this cock sucking is about. So I decided to try to suck a cock and, you know, met a guy at his house and sucked them off. How was it? It was good. I liked it. I liked it a lot. Did you swallow? So, yeah, there's a whole thing with swallowing. So a lot of times I don't swallow because the guy likes me to jerk his cock off and play with his balls. So you'll come from that. Yeah. So I don't have to swallow. But I did meet a guy

Starting point is 00:41:15 that I met at an apartment complex. The guy worked as like a maintenance guy. So we went into a vacant apartment that they were renovating and I was a black guy. And I sucked his cock and he came in my mouth. He didn't tell me he was going to come

Starting point is 00:41:31 but I was just sucking him and he came in my mouth. So the whole swallowing thing is, you know, because guys will ask if you want to swallow. It's like, well, it depends. And then I've had a guy that I met, oh, yeah, I stuck the guy off in the bathroom once.

Starting point is 00:41:46 And he asked me if I swallow it. And I said, it depends. Told him the same thing. What does it depend on? What is the depends for you? Depends on the situation in the moment. Because a lot of times, again, I'm, you know, using my mouth. And sometimes I'm using my hand.

Starting point is 00:42:02 And, you know, if I'm jerking him with my hand and then he may climax, then that's, you know, I don't. Right. But if you're giving a blow job, Do you always swallow or why would it depend on if you're giving a blow job, whether you swallow or not? Well, a lot of times guys can't come from just that alone. They like the friction of the jerking off. Well, you don't use your hand when you blow guys at the same time.

Starting point is 00:42:25 You know that that's the key to giving, you want me teach you how to give good head? You want me teach you? Okay, yeah, let me tell you, Scott, okay, this is what you don't know because your wife was never given you blow jobs, okay? The key, but all these guys are giving you blow jobs. You got to do it like that. Okay, the key to a blow job, you never blow a guy with just your mouth. You use your hand at the same time, always, the whole time. Never do you just use your mouth?

Starting point is 00:42:47 I mean, unless he's rolling a micro penis and you can't use your hand. I mean, you use your hand and your mouth at the same time. That's the key to a good blow job. Never do you blow with just your mouth. And then every guy is going to come, and then you're going to have to decide whether you want to swallow or not. Because they're going to be coming in your mouth if you're using your hand and your mouth. Exactly. Exactly. Well, like the black guy I did, he came in my mouth. I swallowed.

Starting point is 00:43:11 And then I met the, that was great. I mean, and I had another guy that asked me about swallowing, and I told me the same thing. It depends. And he told me, he goes, you're going to swallow. So I kind of like that. I kind of like that when they're, you know, they kind of take over and be a little more dominant, you know. Yeah, well, because I think that sometimes, like, because there's specific guys and I'm sure you've heard them on my show who are, like one or the other, right? Like there are, and a lot of guys are just the guys who want to be sucking a dick, right, instead of getting their dick sucked. There's a lot of guys that want to suck a dick out there more so than the opposite, right?

Starting point is 00:43:49 A lot of times, and I feel like that is a very sub-y position to be in, right? And not, you know, and for some reason, you know, I think of like the, like, who is, if you're thinking in the scenario of a guy getting his dick sucked and the dick sucker, like, who's the more dom and who's the more submissive. To me, it's the guy on his knees, you know what I mean, with the cock in his mouth. And that's what some guys, a lot of these guys are calling to my show

Starting point is 00:44:15 that are just want to do that. And they never want to get their dick sucked ever. They want, you know, it's a little bit subby. You know what I mean? And that's a little bit of a kind of the fun thing to do every now and then because they're very, you know, not subby in their regular life.

Starting point is 00:44:28 And that's like a release, you know? Yes. Yeah. Yeah. And then, yeah, I've had guys where, I mean, I sucked this guy off once and then I came back and then he like face fuck me. And that was the first time that happened. And it was like, oh my God, I've never had that happen.

Starting point is 00:44:45 I was scared. I was like, holy shit. You know, and it's like, but after he did it, it was like, oh, shit, I'm turned on. I really like this. Right. Like maybe that fear and all the stuff and not knowing afterwards you realize that was a part of it, right? Yep. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:45:01 Yeah. Yeah, that makes sense, you know? It's like interesting. So you start sucking the dick. Do you wind up having a preference at this point once you've done both? Or do you just like it all? Hand jobs, blow jobs, getting the blow jobs, giving the blow jobs, swallowing, not swallowing, like all of the above? Pretty much all of the above.

Starting point is 00:45:19 It's, again, like, you know, I have like a almost like a switch where it's like, you know, I'll Monday through Friday, I'll be looking for cocks to suck. and then on the weekend I have a couple of regulars that suck my cock so isn't that interesting why do you think it's like set up that way for you any idea could you psychoanalyze yourself I don't know I guess it's a turn on for me both ways it's like I but there's more days of the week than there are weekend days so during the week you're more of a cock sucker wait during the week which one are you doing which one are you doing during the week days it's usually I'm looking to suck a cock Oh, okay. You're the cock sucker during the week. In the weekend, you want to relax and enjoy yourself and they get your dick sucked. Yes. Yeah, that kind of makes sense. Yep. Well, that in my one of my regular guy that has the glory hole, he's usually only available on Saturday and Sunday.

Starting point is 00:46:16 Oh, yeah. It's interesting. Yeah. It's interesting that you set it up that way without even really realizing it maybe at first. Well, that's when he's on. He's not, I mean, guys aren't always on Grindr. sometimes they're just on, you know, they're either passing through town or they're in a hotel or local, but, you know, they only, like, maybe they do stuff on the weekends versus the weekdays.

Starting point is 00:46:40 And so it's just, this particular guy is only available usually on the weekends. Right. You said he's open for business, always on the weekends. Let me ask you this as a guy, you know, because women are so different, but I'm assuming you're a guy you roll a little different. Like, do you give a shit? Like, there's no, like, exchange. of picks or anything like that before like do you just like show up and who's ever there it's like a go or do you vet people beforehand usually vet people sometimes it's picks usually usually it's pigs dick pics or face picks well when you're a cock sucker you're looking at their cock so face pick is like it's okay but you know really looking at the guy's cock to see if he that's what

Starting point is 00:47:25 I would assume because my whole point is like do you give a fuck about what that guy's face looks like, what his body's like, are you just there to suck a dick? Like, do you even care? Nope, I'm there to suck a dick. Right. So, like, you show up, the guy could be a one or a 10. He could be 80. He could be 25.

Starting point is 00:47:43 Like, I mean, you know, it doesn't matter, right? You're there for the dick. I'm there to suck a dick. So what kind of guys have you been with? Well, sometimes they're young guys, you know, in their 20s or 30s. And then, you know, sometimes they're older guys. I try to look for, for unfortunately, or fortunately, I kind of like interracial. I kind of like big black cocks.

Starting point is 00:48:07 Right. I, and, I mean, I had a guy that was contacted me for a couple of months. He contacted me early in the morning, and I drive up and go into his apartment and suck him off and then start my day. Right. And, you know, so he was kind of a regular for a couple of months, but then he kind of dropped off. And so I don't know if he moved or whatever, but, you know, I'm still, I'm still searching for regulars. Right. Well, you got your one regular on the weekend, right? Well, he's a, he's, he's, he's where I can unload and have my cock suck.

Starting point is 00:48:46 Right. But I'm still looking for regulars for, for, for, to suck a cock. Yeah. Where I get a regular guy that, you know, I can suck off, you know, a couple times a week. Right. Because you enjoy that too and that's harder to find. It's, well, it's harder to find only because I don't host. So I'm just telling you, I'm telling you why it's harder to find. And this is what I think from doing my show is because there's so many guys out there that are the cock suckers versus the guys that want their dick sucked.

Starting point is 00:49:18 There's just more of them. Yep. Yep. But, but I mean, if I host it, I'd have a gloryhole set up in my house. I was just going to say. There'd be nonstop guys coming to my house all day. I believe you. I mean, I would be, I'd be sucking cock off every day, all day. Just like that guy on the weekend. It's, yeah, I would definitely set up a glory hole in my house. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Have you ever set up like anything at a hotel or do you ever go that far for any of these hookups or are you typically like meeting wherever they can? Meeting wherever they can, but I did, I did go to the local Hampton in and suck the guy off. hotel room. Right, because it's cheap. Or he was there.

Starting point is 00:49:57 He's there on business. Oh, he was there. He's there on business. Right. He's a salesman or whatever. Yeah, totally. Yeah. And, you know, a company's paying for his room and he's, you know, he's searching the app and he wants his cock sucked. Yeah. It's like same thing, man. He's out of town and he figures, you know, hey, I can get my cock sucked. Anything interesting you found on sniffies, like in your neighborhood or anything? Um, they're sometimes they're close by.

Starting point is 00:50:23 But I don't have a, I mean, no, unfortunately, I don't have a wish I should, I wish I had a neighbor up the street that, you know, had a big cock I could suck every day. But do you ever worry though? Like because you are meeting people that, you know, you're not seeing their face most of the time I would assume before you meet them. Like you ever worry that you're going to show up and it's like a guy you worked with or, you know, your wife's brother? You know what I mean? Like you ever worry about like that? I overthink. So those are the things I would think of.

Starting point is 00:50:52 But like, like, because it sounds like you're doing business and, you know, not, you're not driving two hours to get a blowjob. No, no. No. I mean, I haven't run into that. where I knew somebody. But again, a lot of times we change, we exchange pictures. You know, a lot of times they've sent face pictures. It just depends.

Starting point is 00:51:09 But you don't get nervous about it being somebody that maybe knows your wife or you know or anything because you're like rolling in, you know, your hood. No, yeah, yeah. It's always, it's not, it's pretty rare that you find somebody that's local in your neighborhood. I mean, it's, that's, you know, it's usually up the street or the next town over or. I know, I think it's somebody. This is where I admire people like you because I, you know, I would, I'm an overly cautious person. You know what I mean? So I would just be like, there's no way I could do that because I would believe that I would get caught somehow.

Starting point is 00:51:42 You're not even thinking that. How many dicks do you think you've sucked? How many blowjobs do you think you've gotten since you've been doing this? It's three years. Oh, I don't know. I don't. Hundreds. Hundreds.

Starting point is 00:51:53 I don't keep count. So, no, it's way more. Yeah. It's one of those, well, some days you're on the app. Yeah. And it's like it's raining cocks. And other days, it's a desert. Oh my God, really?

Starting point is 00:52:06 Oh my God. It's so funny. Yeah, it's, some days it's raining cocks. You have like three or four guys that want their cocks suck. And you'll do it. And other days, it's like, oh, yeah, I'll do it if they show up. Okay, wait, that's a better question. What's the most amount of dicks you've ever sucked in one day?

Starting point is 00:52:22 Three. Okay, three. And is that like hot to you because you are doing multiple guys in one day? Oh, I do. I'd do more if they were available. Right. Like with the glory hole, right. Did that guy in the glory hole since you've been going in for so long,

Starting point is 00:52:35 do you ever wind up meeting him in person outside of that or becoming friends with him or is you still, like, is he still just some, you never seen him? Nope. Right. Interesting. Do you ever see guys going in and out of there when you're leaving or coming in? No.

Starting point is 00:52:49 Well, he usually times it where it's just one-on-one. Yeah. And then he wanted to, he had a BBC that wanted to, had two guys suck his cock. Yeah. But we haven't, he hasn't arranged that yet. Right. That would be pretty cool.

Starting point is 00:53:06 Right. So you've never done it in public anywhere. I'm just looking to see if there's any. Now, let me ask you this, because this is what I've been thinking this whole time, but I wanted to wait it closer to the end. Like, have you ever thought of going further with a guy? Yeah, I had a guy that, it was a black guy that I, that contact me on Grindr. And, you know, it's like, hey, how you doing?

Starting point is 00:53:29 And then, you know, he wanted me to meet him. And he told me that he couldn't orgasm from just a blowjob. Yeah. But if I wanted to have a taste to meet him at the store bathroom, at this particular store bathroom, and, you know, we would meet up. Uh-huh. So I go into the stall first, and then I message you. What store? Is it Home Depot?

Starting point is 00:53:57 No, it was Home Goods. Oh, Home Good. Holy fuck, I'm going there today. It was home goods. That's normally a busy store. Well, yeah, but the men's bathroom is not. You're right, because there's mostly women in it home goods. Exactly.

Starting point is 00:54:13 And they have, you know, big hands. Oh my God, wait, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. Today is the day. I'm going to do a whole episode on Ziffy's. Today is the day I'm going fucking sniffies, okay? That's what today. I'm going to turn it on today because I'm going home goods.

Starting point is 00:54:24 You've given me a great idea. Anyway, go on. So, so I meet him. And I, you know, he comes in. He's a, he's younger, like, in his 20s. Yeah. And, you know, he takes out his cock. I go on my knees.

Starting point is 00:54:38 I start sucking him. And he's, like, rubbing my ass. And I've got, like, shorts on and I don't wear underwear. So he's rubbing my ass. And then all of a sudden, he picks me up, spins me around and pushes me up against the bathroom mall. And he's rubbing his cock on my asshole. So I'm like, I'm like, oh, my God, I'm excited.

Starting point is 00:54:58 I'm thrilled. I'm scared to death. I'm like, because it's like, yeah, this guy wants to fuck me in the ass. And he tries. He tries,

Starting point is 00:55:07 but I don't know if he was new or what, but he didn't have any lube or anything. And it was like, he was trying to penetrate me and it was painful. So, and just about that time, somebody walked into the bathroom. So we quickly like,

Starting point is 00:55:23 like, you know, get dressed. Yeah. Yeah. Stop. And, you know,

Starting point is 00:55:27 and but I do see him again. And so I do see him again a different store, Michaels. Oh, okay. Another place where it's mostly women. Arts and craft store. Mostly women or gay men. Yep. So, and then he emails me or, you know, he messages me that this time he doesn't want to get his cock sucked.

Starting point is 00:55:49 He just wants my ass. Okay. So we, you know, I ask him if he has condoms. He said yes. And I bring the lube. And so we meet up. Same thing. I get into the stall first.

Starting point is 00:56:00 I message him that I'm in the stall. He comes in. I bend over and he, you know, he looms up his cock. You know, he puts a condom on, loops up his cock, and he fucks me in the ass. Wow. So you did go further. I did go further. Right.

Starting point is 00:56:16 Just that one time? It's always the funniest answer to questions like that. That's a yes. No, I met him a few more times. So, yeah, more than once, but just not more than one person, right? Yeah, yeah. No, no. But no, pretty much anytime he contacted me, I was like, yeah, I drop everything and run up the store about a few miles from my house. And I have to just ask this question because you're cheating on your wife. Like, you use condoms when you're having anal sex with him. Yes.

Starting point is 00:56:46 Okay. Two and five Canadians will hear the words, you have cancer. That's why every step and dollar raised matters. On September 19th, join thousands in Toronto for the Princess Margaret Cancer Foundation Walk. Challenge yourself, friends, and family to walk 21 kilometers in support of life-saving research. Together, we can carry the fire and help create a world free from the fear of cancer. Register today at pmcfwalk.ca.ca. And I don't want to ruin this episode by saying this, but you do know that you could get oral gonorrhea. like I've had Robert from Shameless Care on.

Starting point is 00:57:25 Like, do you ever take SDI testing like on the side just to make sure like you're fucking clean and everything? Considering what you're doing. Okay. Yes. Because, you know, there are throat swabs. That's like a test that most STI testing kits don't do, you know. And it's a silent thing. And this guy, Robert, who has been on my show, Robert from Shameless Care, he's a swinger.

Starting point is 00:57:47 He was in that community. And he wound up finding out that he had gonorrhea in his mouth for years. He had no idea. And he only found out because he gave it to somebody. And he's like, I don't fucking have it. And then he got it tested a throat swab. And so now he owns this company called shameless care. com.

Starting point is 00:58:02 They have SDI testing. And he does the throat swab in his testing kit. You know what I mean? That he provides. And most regular doctors and most STI testing places don't do that. But that, you know, you can get that via blowjobs. You know what I mean? So you just want to always make sure because the last thing you want to do is ever get

Starting point is 00:58:20 busted doing what you're doing. Would your wife be like, oh my God, who the fuck are you? I don't know. I hopefully nothing. No, I'm just saying like what your wife, she knows you, right? Like you're on my show being exactly who you are. I'm seeing this whole side of you. You know what I mean?

Starting point is 00:58:37 But your wife does not know any of this, right? Like this is your wife at home. Like would she be like, oh my God, like who the fuck is it? Like I would assume, you know what I mean? If she found out that you're doing all this stuff, I mean that you're doing. She'd be like, who the fuck are you? You know what I mean? Like I'm living with you 40 years. Like I never knew that you had all of this in you, right?

Starting point is 00:58:59 Most likely, yeah. How do you hide your shit? Well, the apps are on the phone. And you just never think that anything will pop up on your phone's left or you go out one day and you forgot your phone at home and your wife just sees something pop up. No, no. Well, okay, so actually a few months ago. So I have a regular that comes by that I give head to. Comes by where?

Starting point is 00:59:21 He comes by I usually have coffee at Panera in the morning And This guy was on sniffies Okay And And And uh

Starting point is 00:59:32 Bannara Brad? No, not the bathroom No, no no He picks me up We do a carp Car play Okay, so you do Corpola So we get in the back seat

Starting point is 00:59:40 And I give him a blowjob And he comes by pretty At least once Sometimes twice a week Okay Panera bread is where you typically meet up though I love these little stories I like those details

Starting point is 00:59:50 Just by the way Yeah, no, Home Depot. I've never done the Home Depot thing. Okay, no, but I prefer Panera and all these new places. I've heard Home Depot before. You've given me all the best places. I've never, Home Goods, Michaels, and Panera Pratt? I mean, come on.

Starting point is 01:00:04 This is way better than Home Depot. Oh, at Target. I've done it in Target. I sucked a black guy off in Target. That was great. I just met him like about two or three weeks ago. Oh, my God. He contacted me, wanted head, and it's like, yep, Target opens up at 8 o'clock in the morning.

Starting point is 01:00:21 Oh, you're right. And so it's like early on, there's not many people there. So it's pretty safe. Yeah, no, no. Yeah, pretty safe, pretty empty. You know, stall's pretty empty. And it's a big bathroom there. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:00:32 So this is, like I said, these are the kind of details I find interesting. Okay, so go on. So this guy meets you at Panera, but I'm assuming that this rolls into something where you almost got caught. No, no, no, no. He picks me up. I get in his car. And then he drives down by disheartedly because it's a, empty parking lot.

Starting point is 01:00:51 No, no, no, the Panera bread guy. Oh, so that guy, you meet a Panera bread? No, he picks me up at Panera. Yeah, and then you go to this car. But I had asked you, like, do you ever get worried about getting caught or blah, blah, blah, and you said no, but there was this guy recently I went. I thought it was maybe tied into something about getting caught or maybe getting it. No.

Starting point is 01:01:10 No, no, no, because we, it typically, it's, you know, I mean, it's preferred if I go to a guy's house, but this guy's a regular for getting his cock suck. He comes by usually once or twice a week. Right. And, you know, he's good to get his cock sucked. He's got a, like a seven and a half inch uncut. Beautiful. He's a regular. So he just drives when he, when I see his car, it's like, yeah, I go out and to his car and getting his car. Because he knows you're up in a panera. Yeah. Oh, yeah. He's, yeah. He, well, he wants a, he wants a blowjob. Right. And, oh, well, he's also fuck me too. But. So another guy. Not as much. More than one guy.

Starting point is 01:01:48 Okay. So your answer, that's why that was like it started. Because whenever someone says, they're probably not going to be totally truthful right after. Pretty much. The same guy, more than once. Now it's another one. I'm pretty easy. If you take what you want, I'll give you my ass, okay?

Starting point is 01:02:05 So how many guys have you done that with? Just the two. Handful? Maybe more than two. Just the two guys? Just the Panera bread guy and the other, the other. the other guy? Yeah, yeah.

Starting point is 01:02:19 I mean, I might have somebody tomorrow that I'm meeting maybe. Okay. Have you ever talked someone? Yeah, I did once. I tried it, but I didn't like it. Okay, good. Interesting. I figured, yeah.

Starting point is 01:02:32 It's one of those I tried it once and it was like, no, not for me. But everything else are not. Yeah. Yeah, I like blow jobs better. Let me ask you this. Like, how would you define your sexuality now? If you had to, would you say you're bisexual?

Starting point is 01:02:45 Would you say you're heterosexual? I mean, I feel like those are very similar. Would you say you're, you know, heterosexual? But you just like to suck a dick sometimes and you were not into guys. Like, how do you, how would you describe yourself? Why are you laughing? Because I'm straight on the weekends and then I'm a cock sucker during the week. So you think, that's so interesting to me.

Starting point is 01:03:09 This is why I love asking people questions because everyone sees things differently. And I love that. That's why we're all so unique. you know what I mean. I could talk to a million guys like you and every story is so different and your story has a lot of fascinating things to it and this is fascinating too. You see, say that again because I want to get it straight of what I'm saying. When are you straight during the week?

Starting point is 01:03:28 So, no, I'm straight on the weekends. Okay, and what are you doing on the weekend? You're getting... Weekend, I'm getting my cock suck. Okay, so that's what's interesting. Okay, so to me, this is what's so interesting and I'm sure a lot of guys maybe see it this way. Like to you, whether it's a, even though it's a guy sucking your dick, you don't see that as like a guy on guy action or have anything to do with being into guys because you're not, you don't have a cock in your mouth. You only see being into guys if you're the cock sucker.

Starting point is 01:03:57 Yes. Okay. Interesting. Love that. You know. Yeah. So, and again, some days it's raining cock. Some days it's a desert.

Starting point is 01:04:06 So. Oh, yeah. But, you know, it's interesting. But there's a lot of flakes. There's a lot of people that don't show up. They send you a picture. You know, it's like, oh, yeah, you know, my cock stuck. But then the guy's 25 miles away.

Starting point is 01:04:21 And it's like, well, that's not going to happen because, you know, or the guy's 200 miles away. And it's like, well, that's going to be a long blow job. But it doesn't sound like you're not getting a lot of action. I mean, you're probably getting a lot of a lot more action than those guys your age that are married 40 years. Well, personally, I would like a lot more. I'm sure. I'm sure. Again, if I could set it up at my house, I'd be sucking guys off all day long.

Starting point is 01:04:44 Yeah. Just be careful, you know, because I think like, you know, you're like, you know, I don't know. You got everything on your phone right there. Like if your wife looked at your app, she'd see sniffies and grinder right there on your phone. Well, Grindr has a thing where you can change the icon. Oh, smart. So it doesn't show up as a, it doesn't show up as the little. like face for grinder.

Starting point is 01:05:09 Oh, okay. You can have it, you can set it up like to be incognito. Uh-huh. And what about Sniffy? That's a different. That's smart. Sniffies, no, there's two ways to do sniffies. You can either do, you can either do sniffies online as anonymous.

Starting point is 01:05:21 Right. Then you don't have to have it on your app. And then it's just a web browser. Right. And then they recently had it where you can download like the icon and then it makes it so like it's on your phone. Yeah. But before that it's snippy.

Starting point is 01:05:35 Yeah. Sniffies, there's two ways to hook up or to do it. You don't have to, and in Sniffies, you don't have to have a profile. No, I know, walk me through it because I'm going to do it today. And I've been doing these, like, little episodes called in case you missed it. And I always give, no, just hold on before you start talking. Okay, let me say what I'm going to say, and then you could jump in. I'm going to give people my Sniffies update and my next, in case you missed it, episodes, okay?

Starting point is 01:05:57 Because that's where I give little extra stuff. Those are the little bonus episodes I've been doing during the week. I am going to go. I mean, unless I get so much action on. Sniffies that I could talk about it for an hour. I doubt it because I'm not going to be hooking up with anybody. But walk me through how I get onto Sniffies. And then I'll let you go.

Starting point is 01:06:12 So Sniffies, you just type in Sniffies.com. Okay. And you can log in either with an email or Gmail or anonymously. If you do anonymously, it's going to ask you like your birth date. Yeah. And then it's going to ask you, are you a real cruiser and you have to like swipe and match up like a hat or a shoe butt plug? And once you're on anonymously, you can,

Starting point is 01:06:35 look around and see who's ever on. And some people are registered users, so they'll have like an icon or a picture. And there's usually, if it's a peach, that means they're a bottom. If they have a little eggplant next to them, that means they're looking to get their top. So there's, there's like top versus sides and bottoms. And so there's different. Yeah, yeah. And classifications. Yeah, yeah, that's important information, right? And then yeah, and then any of the anonymous you can click on or, and there's no information, but the regulars you can click on and then, you know, usually they give it the age and they're, and then they're like a profile of what they're looking for. So, you know, they're going to be a top and they're looking for a bottom.

Starting point is 01:07:26 They can host. And then Sniffies is a little different than Grinders. So Sniffies actually has it where you can set up a group. So you can set up like, a gang bang if you want, which is pretty interesting. They start, they have that too? Wow. And can you see where those are happening to? Yeah, they usually have a time and a date and then you, you, you basically contact them and then the person that's holding it either accepts you or, or, I don't, I don't know, I've never gone to one of those, but they're, you know, they're not a whole lot in my area, but when I travel to Orlando, though there's usually several there where they're holding them in hotels and stuff.

Starting point is 01:08:07 And it'll it'll be like a group gang bang kind of deal. Yeah, I'm going on Sniffy's ASAP, okay? And I'm going to go and do a whole, like an investigator reporter. You know what I mean? Girl on Sniff's. Oh, you can sign up for Grindr too. I mean, it's no big deal. No, no offense to Grindr.

Starting point is 01:08:24 I'm more interested in Sniffies. Okay, that's the... Oh, yeah. And again, if you just do it by browser, it's like once you're done, you're done. I'm doing it by browser. Don't worry about it. And then you're anonymous. You can go on anonymously and just look around.

Starting point is 01:08:37 You'll be absolutely amazed. Oh, yeah. I am got a full report back, okay? Listen, Scott, I love your whole story. Okay, you gave me, it was just so fascinating from grilling you about your relationship and not getting much to your fucking stories. I loved this whole conversation. I think it's super interesting.

Starting point is 01:08:56 I hope you never get caught. I hope you never get oral gonorrhea. Just be careful, okay? And thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. I think it's really interesting. It's like, you know, unfortunately, I don't think you're alone. You know what I mean? I've heard this story many times before, right?

Starting point is 01:09:13 But I could have a million guys on that are like you, and it's always going to be a new story, and yours was, did not disappoint. So thanks so much for calling in, Scott. And when we hang up, you're going to get a link to my Discord, which you'll love. I think you'll enjoy my Discord. You could sign into there. It's private. And then you'll also, I will email you.

Starting point is 01:09:31 a link to Patreon when your episode goes up. Okay, there'll be lots of comments probably you'll see. I think people will comment and be like, oh, you were so hard on him in the beginning about cheating. You're not that way with girls. People always see all this shit about me being unfair, which isn't, which I'm not, but people will probably be commenting this episode for that reason. But go look at the comments on Spotify and you'll see comments on Patreon.

Starting point is 01:09:52 I'll give you a free month of Patreon for you to see them when your episode airs. Okay, I'll send you an email. All right. Sounds great. All right. Awesome. Thanks. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:10:00 Enjoy your search. I am. I am. You are going to be. You inspire me. You're going to be amazed. I am. Listen, I put it up while we were talking. I'm going to home goods today. Like, I am doing it, and I'm going to put it on my, in case you missed it episode, the same week that I air your episode, it's going to be up, and I'm going to give my whole, like my whole investigated report. What is that called? Like, you know what I mean? I'm going to give the details of what I experienced. So thanks for calling in and reminding me to get on to my sniffies, get on sniffies. All right. Thanks, Scott. Have a great. You too. Bye. All right. Bye. Two and five Canadians will hear the words you have cancer. That's why every step and dollar raised matters.

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Starting point is 01:12:36 There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct.

Starting point is 01:12:56 It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe. right, but these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. point, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me,

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1575 - Scott Sucks D on Weekdays & Gets His D Sucked on Weekends & He's Married?!

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