Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1576 - Catherine Joined the Lifestyle and Started Hooking up with TONS of Guys After she Went on HRT

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Starting point is 00:04:26 I love Catherine and her stories and the way she tells them. She's super interesting. She got inspired to call in by listening to Linda's episode. Linda was the older woman who started to have a gangbangs after she got on to HRT. Catherine's sort of similar, though. She didn't have gangbings, okay, but she did go on HRT and then she got involved in the lifestyle. She did a bunch of things in the lifestyle at resorts, at clubs, and everything. And then she got out.

Starting point is 00:04:50 She wasn't that into it. She explains that whole process. She was married, got divorced. And then she just started to have fun. and she just like was fucking all these guys and loving sex. And she talks about how it was very healing for her to really come into her own sexually. She's in her 60s. And she's having a great time.

Starting point is 00:05:07 And she talks about all the guys she's fucking now. One guy that she just has phone sex with. And you're like, oh, who cares about phone sex? When you hear her talking, you're going to be like, oh, that guy is a one lucky guy. Okay. She talks about her phone sex guy. Then she's got another guy that she would go to glory holes with. And he's got to really, I think he's the guy with the big dick.

Starting point is 00:05:23 I don't know. You got to listen to all her stories. her super hot. Her story, I think, is really interesting. She's really lovely, Catherine. You're going to love her. You're going to want to date her because she's very into by guys. Okay? You'll hear her whole story. I do have hot picks over my Patreon. If you want to put a picture to this episode, join my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Catherine. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Hi, Catherine. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you this morning?

Starting point is 00:05:58 I'm doing, I'm doing well. Thank you for having me. No, thank you for coming on. I love like an older woman who loves to bang still. I think it's always inspiring. I think you got inspired by Linda's episode. And Linda is like an older woman who had like went on HRT and it started having fucking gangbangs. I loved her story. I did too. I just thought she was so eloquent and so in. And she just owned herself and I loved it. And it healed her heart. And I think that we, you know, that heart healing can occur through sex.

Starting point is 00:06:34 Yeah, yeah, I love that. Yes, I think it is, it can be deep. Here we are. We're talking about sex, but I have a lot of deep fucking episodes that do help people, you know, and inspire people. So let's get your story. Now, you're an older woman and you're having a lot of sex now. I need to know, are you also on HRT? Like, is that kick you off to be like doing all kinds of crazy things now?

Starting point is 00:06:54 the other parts of your story that we will talk about is you have been in the lifestyle and you've been to swinger clubs and we'll talk about that and you have a couple guys you're banging now and you're doing crazy things with them but let me ask you this are you on hr t like linda yes i am i have been on hrt for about 15 years i yeah and now did you start let me ask you this because i started when i was like in peri menopause did you start the minute you got into menopause did you start so many years later like when did you pick it up No, no, no. I picked it up almost immediately upon menopause. Okay. I did not recognize myself. I was like, who is this woman? And it was so distressing. I remember looking in the mirror saying, who are you? Because I lost my sex drive, my mood. I became somewhat like a cry baby. And I was never a cry baby.

Starting point is 00:07:48 And my hair changed and my skin changed. and I was determined to find something. Right, I have to have it back. I have to. I'm going to take my period back. Well, it's funny because, you know, everyone has this word carins. And I think a lot of the carins you see out and about are women that just like are in menopause and not on hormones. Me and my son were in a store the other day and some lady went mental because we like bumped into her cart and she was still going mental like 20 minutes later to some guy.

Starting point is 00:08:18 And I said to my son like, you know, when you see me do those needles, you know, a couple times a week. that's why I do it, so I'm not like that woman, that poor woman, you know, because she looked, you know, she looked like in her 50s, probably like, you know, a woman without hormones. I know, I know. Stupid shit. That's what it is. You become a Karen. You become a Karen.

Starting point is 00:08:35 What I, well, what I call them is I said, look at that woman. I said, does she look like a woman who's getting fucked? Hell no. Oh, my God, I like yours better. I can't say that to my nine-year-old son, but we could talk like that. So let's get, so let me ask you this. How do you get your hormones? Because there's so many different ways, you know?

Starting point is 00:08:52 Right, right. So I probably initially did the creams. So I did them back in like 207. You know, when they first came out and there were thousands of dollars, but I didn't care. I was bit. And now I do pellets. Okay. And yeah. And I do them every three months. And I will do my pellets before anything else. Yeah. Like those are priority. Yeah. And I love them. I absolutely love them. I mean, I am 64 years old and I still have, you know, great energy. I have a great spirit.

Starting point is 00:09:32 I still get very horny. I can feel my, I can feel my kitty just purred away. Oh, my God. I love the way you talk, Catherine. You're going to give me a good episode I can tell already. Oh, my God. Right. It's just amazing.

Starting point is 00:09:46 Yeah. Now, did you notice the difference that the pellets kick that all that stuff in more than all the creams and stuff that you were using previously? You know, I really, I honestly do not remember. How long you've been on the pellets for? I've been on the pellets since 2017. Okay, so at some point when they came out, you switch from the creams and stuff to the pellets and you've been happy with them.

Starting point is 00:10:10 Yeah, that's awesome. And so the pellets are injected every three months. Literally, I've had, after I had Linda on who went on to the pellets and then started having gangbangs, I went and got on the pellets because I've done, hormones in every way, shape and form. I've done the creams. I've done the patches. I've done the pellets and I've done the injections. Now, I prefer the injections only because of my body metabolizes things so fast and I work out so hardcore that it was like, it went away my pellets so fast and I just didn't want to keep up that keep up because when you say it is important to do in first priority,

Starting point is 00:10:41 like if you're on hormones to keep them regulated, like you can't miss a month and you know what I mean? Like it would fuck you up. Oh, no, no. So it's right. Yeah. So I think I just went on the injections because it was easier to keep me stabilized and not miss shit and not have to get an appointment and all that stuff. But people talk about the pellets being like the best thing ever. So now were you married when all this was going on or were you single? So no, that's the irony was I had gotten married. I had, I was in my second marriage and went into menopause relatively soon after getting married. And, and was, you know, I'm generally like a size two, size four.

Starting point is 00:11:20 Yeah. And went to like a size 14. Horrifying. Yeah. I mean, it was just, I was like, wait a minute. I remember going to the GYN, your typical GYN, right? You know, just your regular old guy, right? And I, you know, I told him, I said, something's not right.

Starting point is 00:11:38 He said, oh, you just a menopause. He really, really just, like, kind of dismissed what I was going through. Of course. And I remember breaking down in his office and saying, look at me. I look like a football player. I am not a football player. Yeah, no, I get it. And he just didn't get it.

Starting point is 00:12:01 And I was like, you know, fuck you. I am going to fight. And so I just researched and researched. And I found a physician in Dallas, flew to Dallas. And come to find out years later. I found out that this doctor was pretty much, you know, world renounced. So I kind of lucked up. Wow, I love that.

Starting point is 00:12:25 What was the doctor's name? Maybe I'll have them on. I'm starting to do a series, a sexual health series thing. If you could think of the name, just send it to me after. Don't want that. Kathy, Kathy, Caster, I believe. I'll email it to. Yeah, email it to me.

Starting point is 00:12:39 So go on. And so went on the pellets. You know, the weight just came off. The move became both. the sex drive was better. My hair went back to the way it used to be, my skin, and I just felt better. And I felt like myself again. And that's, I just can't recommend it enough, you know, when I was, I'm semi-retired right now.

Starting point is 00:13:03 But, you know, with some of my colleagues, I was just looking at it. I'm like, girl, get on some pallets. I know. I know. I mean, nowadays, thank God, there's so many more people coming out and talking about how that one study that was so anti-hormones that freaked everybody the fuck out, including the whole medical community, you know, they've sort of refuted it. And, you know, and now everyone's realizing they're not as dangerous as they were. I was always on them and I've been on them. And I always did

Starting point is 00:13:31 my research search beyond that one study that everyone stopped at and was like, oh, fuck that, you know. So I always felt like, and, you know, like you're actually going to be healthier if you're on them and if you're not. It's not the opposite. But, and I love the way you roll. Like, listen, I always say there's like problem havers and there's problem solvers. I mean, you got on a fucking plane. That's a problem solver. You're a problem solver. You're a problem solver. Like when you were like, I got on a plane, I'm like, I like this bitch. She's got a problem and she's going to solve it. That's the way I am. If I get a problem, I do not stop until I solve it and then I move on with my life. You know what I mean? That's right. That's right. Yes. Yeah, I love it. Okay, so you get on your pellets. Now, are you, so are you married at that time? Like, you said, you got married at a size two.

Starting point is 00:14:11 You gained all this weight. Like, did you get divorced around that time or were you still with your husband? Well, just career paths took us in opposite directions, literally, and, you know, to different parts of the country and whose career was more important. And then eventually was divorced. Okay. So let's get to the point where you're doing like lifestyle stuff because I know that that is not happening anymore. So it happens previously. Like when did you start getting freaky? So let me tell you, this is a great story.

Starting point is 00:14:41 You got to love this. So right before, you know, the end of that marriage occurred, I remember saying to him, hey, we've been invited to go on this really cool trip down in the Caribbean, let's go. And we had spent the summer with a bunch of my friends. And he said, hell no, I'm going home. We've spent the whole summer with your friends. I'm not interested in doing that. And so I was in a different part of the country.

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Starting point is 00:17:59 Both of us relatively successful in our careers. You know, had plenty of money. And I was like, come on, let's go play. let's go have fun like here's the time yeah he said no so i said i'm going shopping right so i went shopping and the more i went shopping the more i thought about well i'm gonna go buy me a fucking vibrator so i go and buy me a vibrator because i was horny you know i was i was and so i go and buy vibrating and lo and behold they have this like advertisement at the counter or something about a lifestyle club.

Starting point is 00:18:39 I thought, well, shit, I'm going to check this out. So I went to check it out. By yourself, meaning check it out? Like, go in person to that place? Yeah. By yourself. Yeah, by yourself. Oh, my God, I love you.

Starting point is 00:18:51 Okay. And, oh, my God, walk me through that. I had a good time. I had a good time. It was very, you know, for the most part, I had led a very vanilla life. Yeah. And I had a strong sex drive. And I was, you know, a little naughty here and there.

Starting point is 00:19:07 But, you know, I went and checked it out and, you know, learned some things about the lifestyle and started partaking in that. Met a really amazing man. He and I flew down to Mexico and did the lifestyle club thing down there. It was a little overrated. But he's a great guy. Oh, the resort or him? Well, no, he is a great guy. The resort is just a little overrated, in my opinion.

Starting point is 00:19:35 But we had fun. But let me ask you this, though, your first experience at a lifestyle club. Do you do anything? Did you, like, participate? Did you just watch? Were you horny seeing people? Did you realize you're a voyeur or an exhibitionist? Like, give me some more details about that kind of thing.

Starting point is 00:19:50 Because you're just like walking through it like it's a normal thing. It's really not. No, it's not. But I was basically initially just observing. Okay, yeah, cool. Just observing, really. I was a little nervous. You know, say, what the hell if you do with me?

Starting point is 00:20:09 But I was, I was curious, too. Well, listen, the great new thing is, is that you can go to a swingers club and just observe. It's a very good way to sort of dip your toes into the lifestyle or non-monogamy just to see what's going on. No one's going to pressure you, right? You didn't feel pressured. No, and the people were cool. And I liked the energy. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:20:30 I was like, this is fun. There's sexy dancing. There's great music. The energy's good. You could go in those back rooms and check out the playrooms. That was fun. I enjoyed watching. And then as time progressed, you know, I met another single guy and we went back to the club.

Starting point is 00:20:47 And we partaked and had fun. Like in front of people or like, you know, how hardcore did we got? I think they have like these little bunk things. And, you know, some of them are completely private and some are like semi-private. We were in the semi-private area. But it was fun. I enjoyed it. I don't consider myself really like I don't like live the lifestyle like I see, you know, or from people I've met in the past.

Starting point is 00:21:21 Yeah. But I do like the energy. And I think that it goes back to, you know, it's that energy you had when you were younger. And the HRT helps, you know, maintain that or sustain. sustain that. And, you know, now I'm older and I'm wiser and I'm, you know, I'm riper. And I have, and I have more poise and grace. And so, you know, I still like it. I confess, I do. I like it. And, you know, I think about going to one here and there, but, you know, I do have a life and I do have other priorities. But I do have, you know, I have a, I have a profile on SDC. So.

Starting point is 00:22:04 But let me ask you when you went, like, when you went to the resort with that other guy, did you do anything there? Or did you always do stuff private and just sort of watch people? No, we had some pool action and we played in the pool a little bit. You know, most of the time the women are wearing a thong. And the guys are completely nude. And there's a lot of flirty talk. And then there's touching.

Starting point is 00:22:31 And, you know, I had a guy start, I have big breast. So I had a guy start kind of rubbing my breast and putting his hand up in my hair. I just, I love my hair being played with. And then we started kissing. And then we moved in. They had like these cabanas. And we just kind of went over there and he started licking me. And it was very nice.

Starting point is 00:23:00 And, you know, the fellow I went with, he was over there doing his. thing and I was doing my thing and yeah it was super hot. Now for you was it kind of crazy because here you are, were you still married at the time or that was after you divorced? Like because you said kind of like you were married at the time that you got invited and then you just decided to go by a vibrator and then you decided to go. So but at that same time you got divorced like you weren't doing these things behind your husband's back. Okay. No. No. No. So then when you go to these places where you like did you ever, by the way, did you ever hook up with a woman? Did you know that you were not into that?

Starting point is 00:23:35 Did you try anything new? You know, Kathy, I have been with women, but it's really not my thing. Like you've tried it. I've tried it. Yeah. And I can appreciate, I really, truly can appreciate group sex. I can so appreciate that. But I'm not looking for a woman.

Starting point is 00:23:58 I like men. Right. You know, and I, yeah. Now, have you ever been in any group sex experience? I have. I have. I've been in a couple and they were very, very unplanned, just kind of jumped in and participated and loved it. Now were those at the clubs, were those at parties or were those when you were like young? There was at parties. Okay. So you eventually started going to parties too now. Do you do that with the guy? You're not with the guy you're with now, right? We're eventually going to work up to your guy now. But like these sex parties and stuff, this continues while you're going to these resorts and these clubs with the, this guy or by yourself?

Starting point is 00:24:36 No, no, I was going with a guy. I was going with another guy. But we really were kind of companions. Right. But were you fucking? Were you fuck buddies? Yeah, we were fucked buddies. Yeah, we were definitely fuck buddies.

Starting point is 00:24:50 We would, I would go down and see him and he'd, you know, we'd have, he'd go out on the water or something and we'd play around. But so wait, so tell me a couple of your group sex experiences. I know you have one guy and you're banging a bunch of guys right now or you've had some guys, you know, that you really love. And we're going to get to your one guy now. But I want to hear like that previous stuff. And then I want to end with, you know, this lifestyle of stuff why you stopped it. But you're with this guy and you're having group sex experiences.

Starting point is 00:25:23 Like when, you know, give me a story or two. Okay. So one time we were at this club and it is predominantly. a younger crowd. And so generally, you know, there's a lot of dancing and hot music going on. And then as the night goes on, you go out to the pool. And so you go out there and there's people fucking everywhere. And so if it lets you join in, they'll say, hey, come over here.

Starting point is 00:26:01 And the next thing you know, you're sucking. the guy's cock and his wife is loving it and he's getting so hard and then she's fingering you a little bit and you're getting really wet. But is this you or you're talking like about somebody else? Well, you're like you're talking about me. No, I'm talking about me. Okay, so talk from the first person. Okay.

Starting point is 00:26:24 Talking from third person. So, after the dancing and everything, you know, I sashay out to the pool and I'm with a friend. Okay, I'm with a male friend. And we're both out checking it out and everything. And then we see, you know, this like couple who is fucking and definitely make eye contact with the fella. I do. I make eye contact with the fellow.

Starting point is 00:26:46 He's very attractive. It's just my style. He's a little bit, you know, bigger. I like a big man. And, you know, he kind of pulls his hand out. And I take his hand and he kind of pops up out of the pool. And then I just went down and started sucking on his car. talk and I just, you know, it was amazing.

Starting point is 00:27:07 I was just sucking it and sucking it and sucking it. It was getting harder and harder. I could just feel him pulsing in my mouth. Anyway, so I look over. I'm really not paying attention too much of what's going on around me, but I did notice my friend next thing I know. He's kissing the girl and sucking on her nipples and everything. And then,

Starting point is 00:27:27 and then we start, then me and that fella started fucking. on the side of the pool like right there like people could be walking by and they'd just see you fucking and it was at night though it was at night

Starting point is 00:27:41 and it was amazing it was just I mean he fucked me good he fucked me the way I like to be like but where's the group sex are the other people just watching is that considered group sex would be like everybody's like in a fucking pile maybe I don't know that's what I think

Starting point is 00:27:57 but maybe not 100% yeah yeah I guess I guess maybe I there are people all around. It wasn't so much. I didn't feel like it was being like exhibitionist. It's just,

Starting point is 00:28:11 and it wasn't with you were multiple men. There were lots of people fucking all around. Right. In that pool area. So I guess that's why I call it group. Yeah, I got that right. And you're with your guy?

Starting point is 00:28:26 And you're with your guy and this other guy? How many guys are you with at that time? on that evening, just those two. Right, okay, cool. How long were you in the lifestyle for? I was probably in it for about a year and a half. And then it's, and then I just, it just became mundane and most.

Starting point is 00:28:49 So I kind of, how and why did it become mundane? Well, because it's just, it just seems there, I think that generationally speaking, I was probably not in the same generation. and it just felt, I mean, I don't want to be a Debbie Downer, but it felt like we were in high school again in a way.

Starting point is 00:29:10 What do you mean? Real clicky. It was clicky. Oh, interesting. Yeah, I've heard of that. Some clubs are different. Uh-huh. Yeah, and I also felt like, so I'm a girly girl, all right?

Starting point is 00:29:20 I am a girly girl, but I'm also at the same time somewhat of a feminist. I mean, I grew up in the 70s, right? So I can't. And I just felt like that a lot of times. like this female on female action was you know kind of pushed by the men and like the girls had to get the party rolling and I really don't like that I mean personally like I mean there's lots of beautiful women and I can appreciate that but you know I want you know I've gotten to the point now where I'm like hell no give me two cocks I'm not doing two pussy I'm not doing two pussies and a cock I'm not sharing I want to too. Right. I get it. Let's get to your guys that you have now, okay, because you have a bunch of them. One, it used to take you to a glory hole. So we have some stories there too. Okay. So let's get to all the guys you started hook it up with after you got out of the lifestyle and then you start to

Starting point is 00:30:17 have crazy sex with them too, right? Right. Okay. So let me see. So I basically, the three stories that I want to share with you start with, I have a, I met a man on a trip. at a piano bar and we exchanged numbers and we talked at the bar for a few minutes maybe about 30 minutes he was very very very attractive we exchanged numbers

Starting point is 00:30:44 seven years later we are still texting each other we have yet to see each other again however we have this amazing phone sex and we've actually become very very intimate and how do I say

Starting point is 00:31:00 like trusting like I feel like you know, like he really knows me and I really know him, although we don't even see each other. And so we're having this amazing sex over the phone. And so what happens is he gets me all riled up. And so then I have to go get something real. Right. You're getting people, let me just tell you right now, you're getting people riled up the way you're talking. You're like, oh, you could be a phone sex operator.

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Starting point is 00:33:56 Register today at pmcf walk.ca.ca. So, anyways, I mean, so, you know, this is all kind of simultaneously all occurring at the same time, sort of speak. So I have this fella that I met, like, I don't know, four or five years ago on Tinder. And I could tell immediately we really didn't click. He's a nice man. It's just that we didn't really click. We don't have the same interests. We don't have the same values, yada, yada.

Starting point is 00:34:28 So, but I go out on a couple days with them. about like on the third date, you know, we sleep together. It's kind of vanilla stuff, you know. I could tell he was a little kinky. You just buy some of his conversations that he was trying to lead leads towards. Anyway, so we sleep together. And holy cow, man, fucks amazing. I was like, I remember, I was like, oh, oh, look at this cock.

Starting point is 00:34:50 It's just so big. And I was like, oh, yeah. And he just knew how to fuck me. But with that being said, it was nice and everything. but there really was nothing there except that. And so I just have a little more depth in myself than just, you know, I'm like, well, I can find, you know, I've got to find something else. So anyways, I do find somebody else. So I let that go.

Starting point is 00:35:15 And I am down in the Caribbean. I meet a man sailing. And we have this like, you know, two-week amazing love affair. Just like, send the breath, Disney, Disney story. Okay, it's just amazing. I come to find out he's married, which I really am not into that. And so, but we continue seeing each other and we have this like over the top energy. I mean, it's just over the top.

Starting point is 00:35:45 Both of us just feed off of each other, our personalities, everything. And so we go down to the Keys in Florida and we do some scuba diving and we come back. and we're having drinks and our conversations were always just so intriguing and we'd like to tease, a lot of banter and so forth. And all of a sudden, he gets up and he says, come on, we're going. I said, where are we going? He says, just come on, just come on. And I said, I was like, okay, I'm in.

Starting point is 00:36:19 Because I always knew, you know, he had something up his sleeve and it was going to be fun. And I like to have fun. And so, lo and behold, we go to this like, I don't even, I didn't even think these places really existed anymore, but like a sex movie shop place where they have the little rooms in the back. I'd never been to one. Lo and behold, he takes me back in the room. And I'm thinking, what the hell is this? And all of a sudden, a black, a black, a black cock just pops out of the wall. I'm like, oh, shit. what's not banging stop you're pressing your buttons you're ruining your story you're doing so good

Starting point is 00:37:00 you are a great storyteller keep going and so then oh and he was like baby come on and so hell we start sucking the cock together but see I also yeah so there's definitely a part too but anyways so we just have the you know it was just I think he was kind of freaked actually because I didn't like pose it I was like wow this is kind of, this is, this is, this is, wow, we're going to have amazing sex when we get back. Oh, my God. And so, anyways, we leave there. Of course, we go back to, you know, our place. And, yes, have amazing sex.

Starting point is 00:37:40 Well, I fell in love with this man. I fell in love. Head over heels in love. And this is what led me to Linda's story. is so I had broken up with the big cock guy who knew how to thought me so good and I had a broken heart because this guy broke up with me and he reaches out like a year and a half later and says hey how you doing I said I'm doing well how are you and he goes do you have a boyfriend I said no not interested in a boyfriend but I can do friends with benefits because I remember I remember honest a guy when I got that text message It's my first thought. Oh, yeah, it's that big cop. I don't want to interrupt you because you're so fun, but you're so funny to me.

Starting point is 00:38:30 Okay, keep going. He said, you know, of course he said, yeah, I'll be friends with benefits. So I did like, I've been doing like friends with benefits with him for about three or four years now. And initially, you know, it was just very transactional. and but as time went on he started you know becoming less vulnerable or loosened up and started sharing some of his you know fantasies with me

Starting point is 00:39:02 and you know I mean I like consider myself like sexually aware and open and open mind but I guess I'm naive because I didn't even know about this cuckolding thing like I said I didn't know about a glory hole thing here I am sucking oil. I mean, anyway, he starts talking to me about

Starting point is 00:39:22 how he wants to be a cuck-call. So I started calling him a slut. And I was like, you slut. He loved it. And so I started talking really naughty to him, and he would just fuck me so good. And I was like, oh, my God. So, long story, short,

Starting point is 00:39:40 for me, personally, was that I healed my heart. He healed my heart for me, because he fucked me so good in places that I didn't know I could even feel that good. Wow. And it was just amazing. And really, over the last few years, you know, I've just come to such a, you know, like a great place. And now it's like I can fuck and not like, I don't want to get married.

Starting point is 00:40:13 I don't, you know, I don't want to do that. And it's okay for me to enjoy all this amazing. pleasure that, you know, it's inside of us that we can experience. I just love it. And so I have great fun with him. I tease him a lot and kind of boss him around a little bit. And he's just, you know, as you can probably tell from this conversation, I've fucked a lot of men.

Starting point is 00:40:42 I really have this means. No, how can I tell that? What? That's because of the way you talk. So you fucked a lot of men. Okay. But this man is the best. Man.

Starting point is 00:40:55 I mean, I'm looking for the next best because this guy is the best. But we don't connect. The only place we connect is in bed. And I respect him. I like him. He's hardworking. He, you know, is a good guy and everything. But we don't connect.

Starting point is 00:41:13 You know, we connect sexually. So I have great fun with him. You said the other guy, the glory hole guy, you're like, there is definitely a part two. What's the part two to that story? That's probably for one a year, like Girl Friday things. Because you know what I'm finding out, Kathy, is that I think that a lot more men are bisexual than they lead on to be. 1,000 percent. There are as many by guys as there are girl by girls.

Starting point is 00:41:48 You don't know what I mean? That's, yes. Of course. And see, I think I think Mr. Glory Hall is bisexual. Yeah. And when I look back that, you know, I mean, you know, we, we had a, you know, a good year and a half sling thing going on. When I look back at all the conversations and all of that, he, you know, I suspect that. that. Well, let me ask you this. I mean, did you ever, did you ever do anything else with him with

Starting point is 00:42:20 another guy, except besides that one experience? Or was that the only one? No, no, that was the only one. Right. Okay. Okay. But we did have a fun, a fun thing. So we had, you know, he and I had really high energy. We were very, very, you know, magnetic in many ways. And so we were at a, at a, outdoor bar and we were enjoying the music and we love the food and love the people around us. Well, we end up attracting this woman and, you know, we're having this, you know, sexy banter talk with her. This is so great. I just loved it.

Starting point is 00:42:58 So she was trying to tell, she wanted to know who could kiss about her, me or him. So I go first. I kiss her and now it's his term to kiss her, right? Well, lo and behold, I wouldn't even paying attention. There's a man sitting right next to us at the bar there. And he must have been, you know, he was obviously eavesdropping in on this and thinking, holy cow, these two are crazy. So when he goes and when my, my, you know, glory hole man goes and kisses this woman so she can determine who's better kiss her.

Starting point is 00:43:32 The guy sitting next to us grabs me and starts making out with me. So when he finishes making out with the girl, he turns around to try to see. like, okay, who's going to, you know, who's going to win? I'm over there kissing another. Oh, my God, hello. Did he care or was he into it? No, he loved it. He was like, God damn, you.

Starting point is 00:43:53 It was great. He loved it. Yeah. He loved it. You know, because that's kind of our energy was just really, like I said, over the top. It was just a lot of fun energy. But I do suspect when I look back and remember the conversation, I definitely think that he's bisexual and see that actually you know I would love to have you know to buy guys.

Starting point is 00:44:22 Hell yeah. Oh, so I mean why wouldn't you hit him up and see if he wants to take it a little bit further? Well, because he's gone off with some other woman. Oh, right, right. So let me, well listen, you want some by guys. Okay, like you said, when you said, hey, I think that there's a lot more guys out there that are into that than they cop to. you would be, if you put it out there that you're open to that kind of guy in your age category, there would be so many fucking guys that would be like, oh my God, I hit the lottery because the younger generation are much more open-minded. So I think it's a lot easier for younger guys to be open about being into guys. But the older generation, it's so hard. And there's so many women that are anti-Inda would never even consider it that, you know, you're like a unicorn. If you put that out there on any of these apps that you're on, you'll find two guys. or a guy that wants to fuck a guy with you.

Starting point is 00:45:12 Okay, you're not going to have a problem finding it. You're going, I'm going to give you free access to my Discord. You'll get dates there, okay? Trust me. Because so many guys are into that, and they can't admit it because there's such a stigma attached to it, and they're so afraid a girl will be turned off and they can't, you know. So the fact that you're down makes you like a great catch for a lot of guys

Starting point is 00:45:33 that want to, you know, be themselves and not have to do it on the DL and, you know, to have a good time just like you're having. me a good time. Exactly. And, you know, I'm, I'm okay with it completely. Yeah, that's great. You're going to get a lot of dates on this episode, trust me. So anyway, keep going on with your stories you want to tell.

Starting point is 00:45:53 So let me think. So I did have another fun story I thought I might share with you. So I had a handyman come over to the house one time. And this was recently probably in the last, I don't know, five or six months. Mm-hmm. And, you know, he's very, very attractive. And we were having some florida fun. And so I kind of, you know, I really was like, oh, my God, this man.

Starting point is 00:46:21 Of course, you know, the HRTs are always going. And so. How old was he, though? Paint the picture. Like, was he hot? He's, yes, he's, to me, he's hot. Okay. He is probably like 57, eight, nine maybe.

Starting point is 00:46:38 he's probably around 6-2 broad shoulders Bill good-looking fellow really good-looking and you know we're having a little flirty fun he had to do some plumbing work for me and so I had to go into the bathroom

Starting point is 00:46:53 and I remember thinking to myself oh my God you're having such naughty thoughts you're going to fuck them right here in the bathroom and anyway so you know that didn't happen but I was you know my kitty was purring so i called up you know mr cumslock the cuckold guy and so i had him

Starting point is 00:47:15 fuck me really good and then my guy that i so and of course i didn't plan this so i get nice and satisfied and you know you know just juicy wet squirting all over the place for oh my god and so then i come home and uh i get in the bed and lo behold i start getting you know these naughty text this from my guy I met eight years ago and I did it with him on the phone. I was like, oh my God, you are so insatiable. You are, meaning you, right? You know, me. Oh, my God. Yeah, you got activated. That's those pellets. Let me tell you. It's those pellets, right? I really wish you fuck that handyman. But it's not, you know, it's not porn. It's real life. But I love that. You were honest about it. Like, you didn't fuck him,

Starting point is 00:48:04 but you fucked the other guy and then you got you sexted up with your other guy. I mean, you must be, when you do this sexting with that guy, do you do phone sex, like you're on the phone talking like you're talking to me with him, right? Yeah. Yeah, you must love it.

Starting point is 00:48:17 You can do it for a living. I'm really naughty. Yeah, you sound it. Yeah. And then you get the voice and you get the whole tone. I mean, you're just talking to me and I'm just like interviewing it. It's not, you know, but like I can imagine if you get into that mode,

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Starting point is 00:49:08 So you know, you didn't mention real quick, you're like, oh, you know, this did heal my heart. Like what was your issues that you feel like sort of, you know, opening up and being free sexually and coming into your own healed? Like, what was your past trauma? Was it just growing up in a society where you couldn't do what you wanted as a woman or you were a whore? Like, what was it that you said it healed, you know? I think so. I really don't have any, like, emotional trauma. major trauma. I wasn't sexually abused, physically abused. I grew up in, you know, my parents

Starting point is 00:49:43 were married forever, lots of kids around the house. So nothing there. It's just that I do know that, you know, I've always, you know, innately, you know, been sexual. You know, I enjoy it. I was always intrigued by it. I'm curious about it to a degree would push the limits on it. And what, you know, when I, when my heart was broken, I mean, I think truth be known is, I think my heart was so broken. I mean, I don't think I'd ever had heartbreak like that. When you got divorced? No, not even when I got divorced. When?

Starting point is 00:50:26 I'm talking about Glory Holman. Oh, okay. He broke my heart. Oh, interesting. Okay. And, I mean, really broke it. Just really broke my heart. And I, you know, I'm kind of intellectualized.

Starting point is 00:50:40 And, you know, when the cuckold cum slut called me, you know, I realized, you know, God's given us all these amazing, you know, endorphins and hormones. And, you know, you got to use them. You know, they make you feel good. And I was like, you know, I just need to get thought. That's what I need to do to help me get out of this. this sadness, this heartbreak. And so he, you know, truthfully,

Starting point is 00:51:11 like he provided me with such beautiful, beautiful pleasure. And it felt so good. It was the goodness that we all have in us and that's been gifted to us. And so, you know,

Starting point is 00:51:29 just over the last, you know, what, three or four years, you know, I just has healed me and I've come out I guess on the other side you know just confident in my you know in my self-awareness of who I am and owning who I am and not being ashamed of it and I you know I pay my own bills I follow the rules I'm you know I'm a good neighbor I'm a good mother and I'm a good sex partner you know I like sex yeah why not you're a squatter too I know you want to do DVP you love Ain't all like when you want to go to a BDSM club.

Starting point is 00:52:06 I mean, you want to just continue on, correct? Yeah, yeah, I do. I mean, I am a scorer. Oh, my God. I was with a guy a couple nights ago, and he was just fingering me. We're saying goodbye. He was fingering me. I scored it all over his floor.

Starting point is 00:52:24 I was like, I'm so sorry. I couldn't help it. Where did you meet that guy? Is he one of your guys that we talked about, or just a random? He's just a random. Where do you meet your guy? Catherine. I mean, on either

Starting point is 00:52:38 like, you know, like SDC or I... Oh, you're on SDC. Yeah, but I'll give them my phone. Like, if I see somebody and I find him attractive and we're just kind of talking, like, I'll just go back to my car and

Starting point is 00:52:54 grab, you know, a piece of paper or something and say, hey, give me a call sometime. Right. Well, and you're, let me just tell people for SDC. I always have to give my shameless plug. Like, that's my favorite adult website and I got I partnered up with them so I could give my listeners a free access a free trial so you could sign up there too and what's great is you just can't you know you could meet people and date on there but you also could get in the know of like all the stuff that's going on

Starting point is 00:53:17 in your neighborhood so you're on there and you pimp yourself out like looking for what like guys that just want to have like fun sex do you know I really yeah yeah it depends you know I do want, you know, someone who's, you know, seems grounded. Of course, but I'm just saying that's where you look to get play partners. Maybe is the better work. Right now. That's my, that's my, my good. I mean, I just went back to it a few months ago.

Starting point is 00:53:46 And, yeah, but right now that's where I'm looking. And I know you said you wanted to get into BDSM. Is that something that you're looking for? I kind of do. I kind of do. You really do want to meet, like you really want to try. No, BDSM, you were saying. Yeah, PDS.

Starting point is 00:54:00 Yeah, I'm curious. I want to learn more. Yeah, you also want to do DVP, you said, or DP, like, so you're looking to do, like, hook up with two guys at the same time? Oh, yeah, I'd love that. Have you told any of these randoms or these guys that you're with? Like, I'm sure. I do.

Starting point is 00:54:16 I do. And what do they say? They just look at me. Some of them look at me, like, holy shit. You know, I haven't had anybody comment and say, hey, I got two. guys for you. Yeah, you might have to put it together. Let me out. Let's do the last thing I want to do is like give a little shout out to, you know, maybe you'll get some guys emailing me that want to talk to you. Let's give a little shout out to like what you're looking for in a guy in case there's any guys out there.

Starting point is 00:54:43 First of all, what I love about you is that you're open to a by guy, right? What else do you look for in the guys that you, you know, would hang out with? Well, I want somebody that who's, you know, who's, you know, it's attractive. But, you know, you know, if you can get into my head. I'm really, I like that. I like, I like smart people. I like good looking. I like fit, open-mindedness. I don't want any damn hypocrites. Don't give me a hypocrite. I thought you weren't saying hip-cracks. Don't come to me with a cracked hip, but you're saying a hypocrite. A hypocrite. Yeah, I don't want that man that's going to tell me. Oh, yeah, I love how hot you are and how open you are and then get all pissy about, you know. How open and hot you are.

Starting point is 00:55:32 Yes, 100%. Yeah, like, come on. You know, like, yeah, so you have to be real, real in that respect. And, of course, you know, I want you established. I want you to have, you know, some funds so that we can go and do. I can take care of myself. I do enjoy being treated here and there, but I'm not looking for a sugar daddy or anything. But I do want to have, like, fun.

Starting point is 00:55:55 weekends, you know, full of sex and, you know, good food and laughter and some drinks and a beautiful setting. So I guess that might be, you know, but that's, that's what I'm looking for. I'm not looking to get married. Somebody that wants to have, you know, some sexual fun and then is also active, likes to ride bikes, kayak, go to art museums. Yeah, I love that. So you're looking, and what's your age range. I'm just putting a call out in case anyone wants to email me. Probably from 50 to about, you know, 68ish. Okay, cool. Well, listen, I'm going to give you free access to my Patreon so you could see comments. People are going to love your

Starting point is 00:56:40 episode. You should really start a phone sex. I don't know if people still do it. Nowadays, it used to be a thing when I was growing up, but like you were really good at Dirty Talks. You got the good voice for it. Like, you're so good. So many guys, if you're not close enough, I don't know where you are. We're not going to out where you are. because you don't want to give yourself away. But, you know, if guys aren't close enough, you could have plenty of probably, like, phone sex companions right now for my show.

Starting point is 00:57:03 People are going to love your episode. Hopefully you're going to send me in some anonymous picks for my Patreon, and then I'm going to give you free access to my Discord, though, too. Okay, thank you. Thank you. I will. I'll send you some pics. Okay, anonymous, you know, on Discord,

Starting point is 00:57:16 and don't send me like pussy shots or anything like that. Like, I always say R-rated. I would not do that. Okay, cool. So you could send me just like a hot pick if you have one for my Patreon. then on Discord, you could do whatever, you know, but I will send you links to all that stuff. After we hang up, you could join, you know, when the Patreon will start when your episode airs. It'll be up very soon.

Starting point is 00:57:35 I love your story. I love the way you talk. I think it's always so inspiring to hear from older people, not just women and men too, you know, who call in and talk about the fact that they're still fucking and having fun and being naughty. You know what I mean? Like, I just think sometimes people don't think that. that goes on, but it can and it does, and you and Linda and my girl Crimson and plenty of men who are in your age range. I've called it and talked about that. I had a couple on recently who talked about their in their 60s and they're fucking every day like five times a day, you know, because they went on hormones.

Starting point is 00:58:13 I love it. I think it's also like a great ad for hormones and I'm going to put my hormone place. I use Defy Medical, which is like it's a telemedicine place so it's super easy to sign up no matter where you are. You don't have to like go. into the doctor. Everything's done over the phone, but they're like a well-oil machine. That's where I do my hormone. So I'm going to put a link to that there because people are always email me after episodes like this because everyone's going to want to be you, you know, horny and wanting to fuck and still having so much fun, right? And it's really those hormones, those pellets. But anyway, thank you so much, Catherine, for calling in. I love your story. You told a great story. Yeah, and I, and I love it. So thanks so much for calling in and sharing. I think it will inspire others as, you know, Linda's inspired you.

Starting point is 00:58:56 Thank you so much, Kathy. I appreciate it. You're the best. Thank you so much for calling in, Catherine. All right. All right. Take care. You too.

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1576 - Catherine Joined the Lifestyle and Started Hooking up with TONS of Guys After she Went on HRT

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