Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1582 - Henry Got His Wife Into Hotwifing & Threesomes With Men and Women

Episode Date: September 8, 2026

Henry got his wife Harlow (ep. 1557) into hotwifing and threesomes with men and women and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he got a free pass from his wife to hook up with guys, how he finds guys online while deployed and what really goes on, their first threesome with a woman that didn’t work out, their next threesome with his lesbian friend and what exactly went down, the one hookup he had with a guy while he was deployed, how and when he brought up that he was into hotwifing and how she reacted, the first guy they picked up and had an MMF threesome with and what went down, the next guy they met online and what went down with him and why it wasn’t ideal, the third guy they met up with and what went down leading up to their hookup, what went down during their weekend hookup including her being fisted, DVP and his creampie, the second time they hooked up with him and what Henry did with the guy this time including his wife seeing him hook up with another guy, how and why his wife calls him her “boyfriend” and the rules they have around her talking to him, their reclaiming sex after their hookups, how and why he loves guys watching his wife on OnlyFans and what she does over there with guys, plus a whole lot more. Her Onlyfans is @Harlowgraves GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. Get the killer AUDIO BOOK VERSION ⁠ or PAPERBACK OR EBOOK VERSION ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠https://bathmatedirect.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get up to 20% off + free shipping + 2 year warranty use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY⁠⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY #indacloud ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I'm on Henry. Henry is Harlow's husband. Remember Harlow? She was on recently. Herlo's really hot. I think people on my Discord remember Harlow because she got like a thousand likes on her pictures that she posted. She's a super hot young girl who's married to Henry. She called in already and told the story about their like hookups. They've had three sons with women with guys. He's, he has a free pass to hookup with guys. He came on to tell the story from his personal. perspective, which is always interesting. It's always a very different story from the guy's point of view and the girl's point of view. So I'll always have couples on separately. He called in to talk about,

you know, first we went over the fact that he's into dudes and how he brought it up to her and when he did. And then we talk about his free pass that he got from her when he was like deployed. And we talk about like how we found guys over there and his hookups over there. And then we talk about their first failed threesome with the girl. And then their second threesome with a lesbian and how that went. And then when they get really got into the hot wiping thing. And they had two separate guys. One guy they saw a bunch of times and we talk about that. And then the first guy, we talk about that as well. That guy wasn't such a great experience and he explains why. It's really kind of funny actually. And then the second experience wasn't so great. But for another funny reason that was kind of opposite, the first funny reason. And then the third guy was a charm. And they've seen him a bunch of times and he goes through all

those details. He gives a lot of details about everything that went down. She even got fisted and she forgot to tell me that, okay? She likes to be stretched out and he wound up fisting her in one of their three sons with the last guy and he goes through all of it. And also talks about, you know, what's on their bucket list and where they want to take this whole hot wiping scenario in the future. But anyway, his story is just as interesting as Harlow's. She's super hot. You could see her. He's going to send me in some more picks for my Patreon on my Discord. Plus, she has an only fans and she he told me she does like lives with guys she's like well you could call her up and face time her like live on her only fans i didn't know only fans girls does that but she does that

and she's super hot so you like love her so anyway uh i'm gonna get right tune and be right back on with henry this is the strictly anonymous podcast strictly anonymous podcast uh hi henry welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast how are you today i'm doing great how are you good so you were going to use your Discord moderator name. I don't know how you weaseled your way into being my Discord manager moderator, but you did. And I kept you, which is kind of crazy because I've fired every single other person that's tried to work with me because people don't have good work ethic

anymore. But you are my Discord manager and moderator and you're like, over there, you're Panda. You're like, let's use Panda. I was like, let's not. Let's use Henry because who you are, okay, you are Harlow. Harlow and Henry. I like that. Okay, Harlow and Henry. Your girl, Harlow called in recently. Okay, people could go listen to her episode. And there's a funny update to Harlow's episode in you.

I have to just say something once we start talking. But she called in already. She was like hot waving for you, but first she started doing like three sons with women. You also, she also gave you like a free pass to hook up with dudes. You guys are pretty young. You're a married couple. You've been with each other for a long time. She does like in this, in the story, in the episode though, okay, I'm just going to tell you, Henry.

she did say she calls her bull that you guys are seeing and we're going to get the whole story from you right like your interesting guys her giving you her fee pass your hookups with guys your guys your guys threesomes her hot waving for you all that kind of good stuff but i just want to start off by saying and i said this in my in case you missed it episode because she had talked about calling her boyfriend a boyfriend her bull her boyfriend i'm like what the fuck is that mean you know what i mean and i got like a little worried for you guys like why is she calling her boyfriend and then i'm like is your husband being deployed to me you know what the fuck is that mean you know what i mean and i'm like is your husband being deployed anytime soon and she's like no but then I just found out okay that you are going and fucking away and I worry for you and your fucking boyfriend okay like and her boyfriend let's at the end okay when we get to the point where you're she's got her bowl

and he she calls him her boyfriend and you're leaving let's discuss that at the end of the episode okay because I'm worried for you yeah but let's start with your story sorry I took a long time to get to him you you and your girl have been married forever right like been together forever right

Yeah, we're actually coming up on being married for eight years now. I believe we were together before marriage for a little under two years. Right, but you're young. So you've been together in like your formative year, like your whole life practically, right? Your whole adult life. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yeah. How old are you guys now? I am 33 and she is 30. Yeah. So you guys are from that generation where I think people are much more open-minded to the point where like, you came to her and let her know that you were into dudes and you were like deployed and we're like, hey, like, could I hook up a guys while I'm here? And she's like, hey, sure. Or like, you know what I mean? Like, that would not have happened in my day. Maybe it happened on

the DL, but I don't know. It's like, I think younger people are cooler or is she just really cool? I don't know. You tell me. Yeah. So, uh, pretty much in the beginning of our relationship, she was just like always cool with like the boys. Like, I would always hang out with my friends. and she was never really into hanging out with other females. She didn't like all the drama. She didn't like all the bullshit. So when we would hang out, she would be with me and my guy friends. And she just kind of became one of the boys, you know, like we tell her everything.

We talk about everything. And like we just built that great relationship. For you to be very open, you mean, with her, like you would be to another guy as opposed to, right? Is that what you're saying? Is that the point? Yeah, yeah. And I mean, don't get me wrong. I would never really open up to my friend.

Tell my guy. Exactly. Like, obviously, I grew up in a small town and there's that stigma of, like, being a man, and it's kind of like a conservative area. So, like, I would never be open about the stuff that I do now. But with her, I just felt so comfortable that I was able to share those things. Right. Okay.

And so what kind of, so when you went to her in the beginning, you let her know she was cool with it, right? Now, when you went to her, like, was the free pass something that happened wait after you had told her already? Yeah. So in our, the beginning of our relationship, I can't remember how far in. I told her that I liked anal stuff pretty much. And she was cool with it. And I brought up the whole pegging thing. And she did that for me.

And I obviously told her like in the past, I have been with guys. I've blown guys. I've, you know, all this other stuff. stuff and she was cool with it. So like when I got deployed, I was gone for a year. And I just mentioned, I'm like, I'm really horny over here. I don't know what it is, but like being away from her makes me more horny. And I was like, do you care if I try to hook up with another guy?

And she was like, no, I don't care at all. I was like, listen, it's better than what probably all the other guys are doing, which is like fucking other women, you know what I mean? Oh, 100%. And I seen it firsthand when I was over there. There's a lot of the, a lot of people in the military when they're deployed or away, they'll take their wedding rings off and just pretend like they're not married while they're. Go into town, right?

And there's plenty of girls there, right, to fuck all you guys. Exactly. Now, let me ask you this. Are there just a lot of guys? Like, how do you know which guys there are down to hook up with guys? Because it kind of is like still very taboo, right? And like there is this stigma, right? So how do you know how to find guy and guy action when you're deployed?

Is it like Grindr. Oh, oh duh. So they have grinder in other countries or were you deployed in the U.S.? I don't know. I'm so stupid. Well, I mean, yeah, I think it's a lot of American people over in these other countries. Right.

And a lot of other countries ban stuff like this. Exactly. You have to use, like you have to use VPNs. Oh. So that's what all you guys do? Yep. I don't even know how that works, but it works. Yeah, it pretty much takes your IP address and says that you're

somewhere else than where you're actually at. Right, but grinder works in your area, though. So it's like it still will work in your area, but it's saying you're not in your area. But your grinder, you turn it on and all you horny guys are into guys on the DL can see each other. Yep. Wow. And are there just tons of guys in your barracks? Oh, yeah.

Oh, my guys, like Sniffy's. Wait, does Sniffy's work over there? I'm obsessed with Sniffy. I've never even heard of that. What? No. Okay, listen to me. Are you out of your fucking mind?

you're being deployed again. Do me a favor. Get on to fucking sniffies, okay? You are going to be obsessed with sniffies. I went on and I live in New York City and I saw all the guys' dicks in my neighborhood. Okay, they're all right there in pictures. Okay, right across the street, right behind me. I mean, you can't believe.

And it's just for fucking hookups. And you don't even need to create a profile or anything. You just go online and it's live. Make sure to listen to a guy named Scott's episode. He's a total cock sucker. That's what I wrote next to his name. And he's all about Sniffies. I'm obsessed with Sniffies.

You'll be obsessed with it too. Okay, so you were like hooking up with guys talking about it. But like, how did you guys wind up hooking up with girls when you came back? So while I was deployed, like I had mentioned before, I'm a gamer. And I game with a lot of friends back home. One of them happened to be a girl I knew that played video games as well. She was bisexual, I think, growing up. and she ended up kind of veering towards women after she got out of high school.

So I knew she was lesbian and I was just kind of playing with her. I don't know, but you had a bad, you had a bad threesome before the lesbian girl. Right. Oh, sorry. So this one was, the bad one was actually before I got deployed. Like Harlow said, this one was kind of just out of the blue, the first random one. Unfortunately, I wouldn't say unfortunately, but it was actually one of my co-workers' girlfriends at the time. So she would come and hang out with all the guys and hang out with us and everything.

And like I said, we all went out to the bar one night and her boyfriend wasn't there. And she was kind of into us, like kind of dancing all up on us. And I honestly don't even remember the conversation because we were all drunk. But she ended up coming home with us. We went up to the bedroom and my wife was riding me and she sat on my face and they were about to start making out. And my wife like got a blank stare in her face. And I was like, oh, no. She flipped out.

And yeah, she was like, I don't like this. We need to stop. Yeah. Okay. Cool. Right. Yeah. I remember that's her.

So now you decide to bring it up again, right? Because you're like with this friend, the gamer friend is like, you know, she's down for checks and you're like interested in doing her or something? Like, how does it come up with her? Yeah. So like I said, we actually got married in the courthouse right before I got deployed and we were going to have our wedding when I got back. But I was overseas playing games with her.

and I can't remember if we were talking about her and one of her girlfriends or what was going on while we were playing video games and I was like, oh, me and my wife had a threesome with a girl before and she's like, wait, really? I was like, yeah. And now that she's like, oh, well, I'm into girls too. I was like, well, I mean, I'll send you some pictures of her and let me know what you think. So I sent her some pictures of my, some naked pictures of my wife and she was like, bam, she's hot.

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with someone before we play with them. Yeah. So we had a lot of conversations. It was, it wasn't all about sex, but it was like getting to know each other, you know? And she finally got comfortable with her. And when I got back home, we went to an event in my hometown, not a sexual event or anything, just a event that was going on. And we were out drinking and we got her back to the hotel room and had our fun. Now, let me ask you this, because this girl was a lesbian, was it like set up where she wasn't going to do anything with you so your girl felt more comfortable? Like, was it going to be, you know her with the girl and her with you but the girl and you nothing yeah so i mean we kind of established a little bit of rules obviously my wife didn't want me to fuck her anything like that but like

she was cool with me like going down on her herself in my dick whatever isn't that what caused the problem in the first one though the girl said on your face and she was not into it yep but like i said i think it was more of like her getting comfortable with the person i think that's what she said to yeah yeah So, yeah, the main rules was like me not fucking her and whatever. And we got back to the hotel room and they were eating each other out, doing all this other stuff. And my wife was like, she looked at the other girl and she was like, do you care if he fucks you? And I looked at her. I was like, wait, what?

It's like, this wasn't, this wasn't part of the plan. Yeah, crazy. I didn't want another bad experience. Yeah. She's like, no, like, she's like, I'm really into this. And like, I want everyone to have a great experience. And I was like, okay. So she let me do it.

And yeah. And that one was all good. She had, she had so, like, she had no regrets. And she wound up hook it up with that chick after when you went away again, right? Like, would hook up with her solo? She did. So I can't remember where I was at. Actually, I think, I think our first hookup, so like I took a little break in my deployment and I came

home for like two weeks and that was the first hookup. Yeah. And then I went. back overseas. And I told her, I was like, hey, if you want to have your fun, because like, you're letting me get my fix over here with guys. If you want to get your fix with her, I don't mind. And she was like, okay, so she went back and she stayed the night with her one night. And they played around and sent me some videos. And yeah, it was super hot. Yeah, I was going to say, we all know you have the hot wife fantasy. We're going to get to

that next. But like, it would be hot. Like, you were also getting off on the fact of she's with that girl and you would get videos and stuff. Absolutely. Right. Okay. But she wasn't getting videos of you with guys, right? Like that wasn't her thing at that point. I did, yes and no. I did take a couple pictures with her or with the other guy. I did try to respect other people's boundaries as well. Some guys don't like to be photographed or videoed. So I respect that. I'll tell my wife like, hey, he wouldn't let me take pictures. She's like, okay, that's fine, whatever. Oh, but she would like to see them too. Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. Good. Real quick question about the guys and then we're going to get to the hot wave. stuff. The guys that you're hooking up with over there, like, who are they? Are they typically, like, married guys doing this on the DL, gay guys that are in the military? Like, who, what is, like, who are, who are the guys that are hook, you're hooking up with? So when I was over there, I think I

only actually did do one hookup. Okay. But it was with, I believe it was a gay black male. Uh-huh. And he broke the stigma for me because he wasn't very hung like most black men are, but. Yeah. Yeah, that was the one guy to hook up with. He was, I believe, a gay black male, and I think he was in the Navy. I don't know. Right. But you had to have seen a lot of guys on Grindr there, right?

Like, were there a lot of guys there or no? Yeah, there was. Right. It's weird. Like, when I was over there, I was always hanging out with friends and, like, going to the bar. So, like, I was pretty busy over there when I wasn't working. So you didn't have time to have a whole secret life of begging tons of guys. Exactly.

Did you fuck that guy like a bunch of time? Like did you hook up with that guy a bunch of times? Nope. It was just one meeting. You had a free pass and you only used it once? Yeah. What a waste. I know.

Like I said, I'm a very discreet person. Yeah. So being over there, like I don't know. Like I feel like if I was in and out too much, people would start catching on. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I would overthink. I overthink things like that.

So if that's how you roll a little bit, like you're so afraid of getting caught that, that that's why you're like overly cautious that makes sense okay so you come back and when does it get come into like play where you start to like cough to the fact that you want to see with another guy because that hasn't been talked about yet correct correct so i think so this this event that i was talking about that we hooked up with the second girl i believe we were at that event again the following year because it's an annual event and we were drunk and we got back home from the bar and we were having sex and I had brought it up to her. I was like, I really want to see you get fucked by another guy. Yeah. And she just kind of like looked at me like, that's fucking not happening.

Like, no. And I was like, I'm serious. I want to see it. And she's like, no. Well, we kind of just, I just kind of brushed it off. I was like, whatever. I'll maybe just bring it up another time. And I brought it up like one or two more times while we were having sex. And she kept saying no to it. Well, I brought it up again while I was sober. And she was like, you actually wanted see me with another guy. And I was like, yeah, I think it'd be super hot. Like me fucking you while you're sucking another dick or other way around, you know? Yeah.

And she was like, I don't know. I'll think about it. I was like, okay. So time goes past and I actually found your podcast and I was listening and listening. And I found an episode that sounded super hot to me like something that I wanted. And I told her, I was like, hey, you should listen to this episode and tell me what you think about it. And she was, ended up listening to it. And she was like, okay, that actually was super hot.

You're kidding. She had actually started getting into like the dark romance books and like smut books. So like she was kind of opening up a little bit more to like different sexual things, you know? So she finally was like, okay, how are we going to find someone? And I was like, well, there's Swinger subreddits all over the place. So I was like, I'll post some photos in there. I'll be discreet about it. I'll just post like neck down.

I'll keep your tattoos out of it because we're both heavily tattooed. So because we were trying to be discreet. So I made the first post and it blew up. She's a young, hot piece of ass. We've seen her over on Discord. That's how I know. Yeah, like thousands of messages. Oh, my.

God, yeah. And then we didn't end up actually following through with the first one. I think I just kind of got overwhelmed with how many messages there were and like looking at 12,000 dick pictures. It was just like, okay, I'm going to, I'm going to wait a little bit. Well, we went to this event that I keep talking about for the third year in a row. And we were at the bars. And I ended up talking to this gay guy, me and my friends, we were just sitting there talking. And he had. like a little bottle of poppers. Yeah. And he was like passing them around for us all to sniff. Well, I ended up dropping the bottle. It didn't shatter, but I dropped it. And we heard him picked it up. I was like, all right, whatever.

My wife was over talking with people. And we were about to leave. And I was like, hey, there's a gay guy here. I was like, do you want to go back to the hotel and see if he'll come back with us? And she was like, sir, I'll go ask him. And I was like, okay. So she went over and was like, hey, do you want to come back to the hotel and fuck my husband and he was like sure so we all hopped on the shuttle and went back to the hotel and we got

back and we started off with just like me and him blowing each other and he couldn't really stay hard I don't know if it was because he was drunk or if because there was a woman around I don't really know yeah maybe because of the girl I mean he's a gay man he's having to perform there's a woman there he's not interested in you know what I mean yeah and And I wanted to fulfill my hot wife experience while he was there. And I was like, okay, I have the opportunity. Did you think he was going to fuck her? Okay.

So here you know. So I got him kind of hard. And I was like, hey, I got a fantasy of me watching my wife be fucked. Yeah. I was like, have you ever been with a woman? He's like, no, I've never fucked a woman. Oh my God. This is great if you get him to fuck her.

I was like, would you be willing to fuck her? And he was like, I'll try. So he ended up fucking her, but like my wife was riding him, but he couldn't stay hard. He was like semi soft, semi hard. And he was fucking her. I was like, oh my God. Like, this is like I was kind of in all. I was like, oh my God, this is fucking awesome.

Like, this is so hot. Even though he was gay and like not really for it, it was still super hot to me. Yeah, you're a dirty fuck because it's so interesting that it or maybe that just how guys are wired that. Like he's not even interested. He's like gay, barely even hard. and you're like horny for it. Like not even a fully hard dick. I was like,

oh my God, like just watching another dick going into my wife was fucking amazing. Yeah, I got it. Yeah, because this is, I mean, listen,

this is like a big deal for you for the first time. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So he ended up going completely soft. And he's like, guys,

I'm so sorry. Like, I really underperformed here. Like, I was like, you're good, dude. Like,

I understand what's going on. whatever. And he's like, I'm going to get a taxi and head back to my hotel. Did you blow him or anything? Like, what did he get from you? Again, what happened between you? Yeah, yeah, I blew him. Oh, okay. I was going to say, poor guy. Okay. Yep. So like I said, I even tried with him as well. And like, I even tried riding him, like, because I told my wife to go take a shower and I was like, I'll see if I can get him hard. But it wasn't working because I think he was just too drunk. Oh, right, that part. Yeah, I forgot again. Okay, okay, go on. So that would like slightly,

hitting your hot right fantasy right it's like a little a taste of it yeah exactly so i got the taste she got the taste of kind of doing it so i can't remember how long we waited until the next one it had to have been oh man at least a year or two and i was like hey do you want to try this out again she's like sure so i made a rattip post again fucking million car messages again and we were kind of going through and I found a guy that was actually close to where we lived. And I was like, okay, this is kind of cool. Like, you're close, whatever. I was like, we kind of talked for a little bit.

And I was like, all right, once the kids go to bed, you can come over. We'll just play around in our guest room. Yeah. And he was a younger guy, decently long, but not a super thick cock. So he came in. We gave him a beer. We sat and chatted for a little bit. And I was like, all right, well,

our kids wake up all the time. I was like, well, I don't know how long the kids are going to stay asleep for. So, like, if we want to do this, let's just go to the room. So we went in there, and she started blowing him. And he was, like, one of the person that, like, when he starts fucking, he's just, like, straight to pound town. Right. And she's like, she likes to start off slow and, like, deep thrusts. And it's like, this guy's just going straight for it.

And I was like, right. Yeah, guys, that was a little clueless. It's just a guy that doesn't understand women. You know what I mean? Because we're very different. Yeah. Exactly. So she was blowing him.

I think we did some spit roasting with her. And then we were, I was like, all right. So she was blowing him. And I went down to go blow him as well. And then I think that's when he started going soft. Was he by? Was he into dudes? So I don't think so.

I think he was mainly just trying to sleep with my wife. Obviously, in my post, like I put, looking for a buy mail. like whatever and we talked to him about it and he's like yeah i'm willing to let you blow me like i'm not going to blow you stuff like that i was like okay cool but i think once the time came he got nervous and didn't like it oh my so yeah i don't even know if anybody even got off in that situation but uh the kids ended up waking up wife had to go upstairs and like it's kind of ruined it all i was like all right well maybe we'll try again another time yeah it's interesting because first guy, like, was gay and not into your girl.

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And she's like, absolutely. I was like, cool. So I made a Reddit post and I vetted through all these guys and I found this one. And I was like, hey, send me some pictures that I can send to Harlow and let her decide whether she's interested or not. So he sent me one dick pick and it was the worst fucking angle ever. I was like, dude, no offense, but that picture does you no justice. Oh, yeah, go to my Discord and look at the dick pick contest, remember? I was like, you need to, like, send me a different angle or something.

Yeah. So he sends me another angle. And I was like, holy fuck. Like, this guy's actually hung. Like, it's a huge dick. I was like, okay, like, why didn't you send that one to start off with? Because, like, your dick looks amazing in that picture. Yeah.

So I sent it to her and she's like, oh, shit. Okay, yeah. Like, he's fit. He's about the same height as me, maybe like an inch taller. But he's fit. He's got a massive cock. And she's like, okay, cool. I like that one.

I was like, all, cool. So added them on Snapchat, and I added her into the group message, and we started talking. And it was the first, like, I don't know, a couple weeks was, like, a lot of sexual dirty talk, like, kind of building up to everything. But with his job, he's actually super busy at, like, random times. So, like, there would be a couple days where he wouldn't respond. And I had to, like, message, like, hey, just to let you know, like, she likes, to know

like if you're interested or not because like some days like you seem like you don't want to talk some days you do whatever he's like no no no like sorry this work whatever I was like yeah that's fine just let us know whatever so we chatted for probably a month or so

and we had like three months to go until the concert and the sexual tension between all of us was just so high we're like we need to fucking do this now So I scheduled another hotel for her birthday weekend. And we went, I think it was like two weeks and then we went down there before the concert and met up with him. So we went to the hotel and we were messaging and he said he was on his way and the wife like instantly was like, I'm nervous. I was like, you can't be nervous now.

like we've talked to this guy for months on it now. Yeah. And like, this is what you like. You like to talk to people. So he finally gets there and we meet him like in the upstairs bar lobby area. And we sat and chatted for a little bit. I was like, well, you guys want to go back up to the room? You want to go sit in the hot tub for a little bit?

What do you guys want to do? And like, oh, let's go sit in the hot tub. So we went down or we went up to the room and got changed and went down to the hot tub. There was kind of a lot of people down there. so we couldn't really talk about a whole lot. We just kind of talked about regular life stuff, but I was kind of like sitting there, like signaling to my wife, like, hey, touch his cock under the bubbles,

like rub his leg, do something, get him horny. Yeah. So she started doing that to kind of both of us, like almost given, she was sitting in between both of us, pretty much giving us both hand jobs and the hot stuff. And I was like, all right, so you need to stop touching me for a little bit so we can get out of this hot tub because I can't stand up right now because there's 100 people in here.

and everything finally settled down so we went back up to the room we're like hey let's rinse off so we all got in the shower and she started blowing him in the shower and then i started uh started with her and then they both got out of the shower and started drying off while i was still in there and he started like he bent her over the the bathroom sink and started fucking her like right there i was like oh my god this is so fucking hot and I got actually one of my favorite pictures that I got from any of our experiences was like that moment right there, him bending her over the sink. And like, I got her reflection of her face, like looking at herself in the mirror while she's getting fucked. It was super hot.

Right. And then they did that for a minute. We ended up going to the bed and doing all of the fun stuff. I blew him a little bit. He blew me a little bit. And then he just kind of put her in a bunch of. of different positions while I sat back and recorded and then I joined in a little bit and did a little bit of spit roasting. I don't think the first night, I don't think we did DVP. I believe

that was the second night. Yeah, so after the first night was all done. He left. We did our kind of thing during the day and then he came back at night. Kind of the same situation. We started off in the hot tub. Excuse me. And I just did a little bit more that night between me and him and then the DVP, obviously, which was super hot. Like, she loves, we found out before all this that she likes to be stretched. So to go back on that a little bit, I was fingering her one night.

And I just kind of slowly kept putting more fingers and more fingers in just to see how much she could handle. Yeah. And I got four. fingers in and then I was like fuck I'm going all the way and she was like she was like how many fingers are in me right now I was like don't worry about it and I just kind of kept going and pretty much got my whole fist in you're kidding did she tell me about that on our first no she did she did not why do you think yeah she forget who forgets that they were fisted probably you think yeah yeah so I found out I found out she like being fisted so I was like okay we need to try DVP with him right so we did

and that was amazing. Yeah, so we were DVPing, and he was like, all right, I'm getting close. Like, we can't have two cocks in here anymore. This is going to fucking make me come. I was like, all right, I'll sit back and watch you again. So I kind of sat back and he was fucking her. And he pulled out because he's like, all right, I'm about to come. He's like, where do you want me to come?

And my wife looked at me, and I was like, where do you want it? I was like, I don't care. Right. I was like, do you want him to come inside you? And she was like, are you serious? And I was like, I don't give a fuck. He's got a vasectomy. Like, whatever.

Fucking do it. So, and she fucking loves to be, came inside of like, that's her favorite thing. Oh, really? Yeah. She likes feeling it all like, like the cock pulsating inside of her. Right. So I was like, fuck it. Go for it.

And he cream pieed her. And it was super fucking hot. And then I ate the cream pie out of her. and then I fucked her afterwards. And I love, I don't know what it is, but I love the feeling of used pussy. That's a big thing. They call it like sloppy sack-ins, but like I had a guy on recently. He's like, it sounds worse than it is, but it's amazing.

Like I prefer like a sloppy pussy over a super tight pussy. Right. Mm-hmm. I don't know why. Really? Yeah, but I think that because maybe that's like, It's like, I think it goes with the hot wife kink, don't you think? Because you know that she, like, it's like you really know she was with somebody, right?

Yeah, like it was just used and abused. Yeah, yeah. Do you like the cream pie action too? Oh, yeah. Right. It's watching the come ooze out of her pussy is super hot. Right. Mm-hmm.

And then pretty much just using it as lube. Right. Yeah. Some people have said, like when you go inside that as well, right? When that's inside, like that's super hot as well, correct? Yes, absolutely. Right. Okay. So that was that last experience? No, that was the one before the concert.

Okay. So the concert finally came a couple months later, and we went down and we were pretty much scheduled to do two nights with him again. So our first night was obviously the concert night, and it went pretty late. I think we didn't get back to the hotel until about 11 o'clock. And so we started late, and we kind of did our thing. I think we played. for like, I don't know, two hours, maybe an hour and a half, I don't know. But he let us know, he's like, hey, just so you guys know, like, while as we were traveling down for the concert, he's like, I just found out that I have to work on Sunday or Saturday. I can't remember what day we went down, but he had to work the following day. And he's like, so I can only play one night. And we were both pretty upset about it, but because we had to drive like almost four hours for, like, that's about how far he lives from us, about four hours.

So it's like, man, only getting one night kind of sucks, but it was definitely worth it. And what happened that time? Pretty much the same as the second night of the first time. Right. He fucked her, and then she wanted a little bit of a break. And I was like, this guy's got a massive cock. I was like, I've never taken a dick that big, but I was like, I'm willing to try. So I sat on him and rode him for a little bit of a little.

little bit and I was trying to get my wife to record it obviously because like we like documenting all of our stuff because we pretty much use it as our porn nowadays like I rarely watch porn anymore I just watched my wife being fucked by other guys it's super hot to me so I was like you record it so we have some videos of this oh my god she is terrible at recording that's what you told me now I remember yeah all of the worst angles why what the fuck's our problem she can't see her she's like horny and dropping the thing like I don't understand So this was actually like her first time ever seeing me be fucked by a guy, right? And I think she was kind of starstruck a little bit.

And she was just like watching me and not watching the camera. Oh, so she's like veering off. Like she's like, yeah. Yeah. Okay. Well, that's good. That's good. She's like into it.

Yeah. So after we were all done, she was like, all right, I'm ready again. He was like, cool. So they started fucking and they were like, making out and like super sensual fuck pretty much it was super hot he was ready to come again and i was like yep going inside her again because i want to eat the cream pie again so he cream pied her again and yeah went down on her and then i fucked her afterwards and and she loves so that was like that's a big deal for her because that was the first time she really saw you with a guy and did she realize

she was like very horny for like into it yeah she's super into it. She loved it. Right. Interesting, right? I mean, because how would you know? Sometimes you don't know as a woman or a man, whether you're going to be into something unless you try it, right? Exactly. Yeah, that's what's kind of crazy. Are you into this guy? Yeah. I mean, sexually, yes. I mean, I'm not the type of person that would ever have like a relationship with a dude or like, like a mental or emotional relationship or anything like that. But like, I, I love the sex. with him. I love the way he converses with us. He chats with us daily. Super nice guy. But yeah. Now, you guys both have a fantasy of like getting caught, correct?

Or something with the guy. Like you both want to be with him separately, right? Is that something? Yeah. I mean, I, I, I, so me being alone with him personally, like, it's not a kink for me. but my wife wants to like catch us together you know like like he comes over a weekend and she doesn't know about it and me and him are up fooling around in the bedroom and she comes home and walks upstairs and catches us like fucking or blowing each other or something right and i got like the same kink for her to where like i want to actually tried planning this recently for our wedding anniversary that's coming up soon. I messaged him separately and I was like, hey, are you free this weekend to come up and surprise Harlow? And he was like, I got to check my work schedule. I was like,

all right, cool, just let me know so I can see if I can get someone to watch the kids. And ended up not working out. But my plan was to have him kind of show up at the house like 30 minutes before I got home from work and like knock on the door and surprise harlowe and it would be just the two of them there and i come home and they're up fucking in the bed oh my god why didn't it go down uh he had to work oh fuck did you tell her that you had that all planned out i did oh that would have been perfect right yeah well she also was like immediately like oh my god like my heart like my i got butterflies in my stomach because like she's a very anxiety driven person. She's like, I don't know if I would have been able to handle that. Oh my God. That's so funny. But now she knows, if you set it up again, maybe she won't be as flipped out by it. Yeah. Yeah. I definitely think it would be a super cool experience, especially like, I'm on my way home from work and I'm like 30 minutes away and I get a Snapchat of him fucking her in the bed. And I'm like, oh, fuck. This is going to make me want to get home faster, you know? Yeah. Now, tell me about this whole, oh, I want him to, like, I want to call him.

my boyfriend. Are you going to let her fuck him when you're gone? Because you're going away for a little while. How long are you going away for? It's only going to be like a month and a half. Okay. Before that month and a half, is she going to be allowed to fuck this guy?

Um, if it was up to me, I would let her, but she, I don't think she will personally do it. She likes for me to be around and be there for the experience. And if I'm not there for the experience,

she wants me to like at least be on my way like we had talked about. I, yeah, I don't think she would do it. She's just too anxiety driven to do the buyer's up. But you would be down. But you would be down to do it. Right. So her fantasy of getting caught is not so much her getting caught. It's more you getting caught.

Her not solo. She doesn't have the fantasy of solo play so much. And the boyfriend thing for her again is what? Say that again? And the boyfriend title is like what to her? So she, it's hard to explain. So like, I don't think it would ever be like a physical or like an emotional thing. Like she's not going to have like an emotional connection with him, but like physical, sexual.

Like obviously we talk every single day. With him. Yes. Okay. Well, that's not like we don't know that. You have to tell us that. Yep. Yeah.

So we're all in a group. chat. There's always a good morning text, kind of talking about what our day is going. Sometimes there's sexual stuff in there. Harlow will send the occasional titty your ass pick just to kind of start our days off. But yeah, we talk every single day, kind of like having a boyfriend, you know, but it'll never get to the point where she is like falling in love with this man. Because you're always involved in the conversations too. Exactly. Right. So when you go away, Will it still be three-way combos? Oh, 100%.

Okay. Yeah. And like I said, he also lives four hours away. Right. And it's actually super hard to coordinate with him. So we're only seeing him maybe three times a year. Right. Because he's far away.

Are you looking for someone more like, you know, closer to you guys? Not necessarily. We already told him we're like, hey, we're not going to have sex with anybody else. He said he's not going to have sex with anybody else. That way we don't have to like, like obviously we're getting tested and stuff, but like that way we kind of have a little bit of security knowing like, hey, you haven't been with anyone, we haven't been with anyone, you know. Yeah, but it's one thing for you guys don't have to be with each other, anyone else, because you're fucking each other. How is he not going to be with anyone else? He's by himself. I don't get it.

So he is actually like a super busy person with work and he doesn't really have the time to do all that stuff. So he has nobody that he fucks in real life besides you guys, is what you're saying. No. He has no partner, no girlfriend, no booty call, no nothing. No, he's a, he's divorced. Okay, he's a divorced guy. So he's happy just fucking three times a year.

Yeah. And like I said, like he's also the type of person that's open and he'd be like, hey, I'm going to go fuck this person tonight. Like, you know. He would tell you is what you're saying. Yeah. Right. But you know what, and like I said, like we don't even care.

Like if he wants to go fuck with someone like it's his life, you know? Yeah, because it could be a long time before he fucks you guys again. Like, why do you think only three times a year? Honestly, just getting schedules to line up. So we have two younger kids. So it's hard for us to get someone to watch them, find a weekend that we're not going to weddings or doing stuff with the kids. And then his job has him working weekends. And getting everything to line up is just hard.

And once we finally do, it's like, all right, every four to five months where we can actually meet up. Yeah, interesting. So, okay, so the boyfriend thing is that scary. I'm so glad you're not letting her fuck him when you're not around and he doesn't live close and all that kind of good stuff. You know what I mean? Because that's where like the problems can be because like women are wired very differently than a guy. You know what I mean? Like, yeah. Well, and that's a nice thing about my wife. She's not like a girl. Yeah, like I mentioned in the beginning like she she, I wouldn't say she dresses like a boy, but she's more guylike. I guess. She come, like, if you met her in person, you'd probably do like, this, this chick's a lesbian. Oh, really? Yeah. She's, she is, like, likes to hang out with the boys. She, like, told me, she's like, you're never getting divorced from me.

Like, I'm not leaving you. Like, she's totally, like, with me and, like, with me forever. Right. No, I get it. She's like, she's like, even if you want a divorce, I'm not letting it happen. Oh, my God. That's kidding. Yeah, yeah.

Well, listen, you guys are perfect for each other. And listen, I only think that it's. in the solo play relationships that have gone wrong, you know, in the couples that were a couple and then played solo and then that led to like the ending of the couple. I would say those couples had issues going into the solo play, which maybe they didn't really pay attention to and didn't talk about in the initial episode. You know what I mean? But way later on when everything went bust, all of a sudden comes out that things weren't so great back at home. to begin with. And that's what you want. But like, you know, it sounds like you guys are like you're young. You're totally into each other. You've been with each other from the get go, right?

Like you're so into each other. You're so on the same page, you know, that I don't think when you're like rolling like that, there's room for somebody to sort of look in another direction. I think the problem comes when there is room, when something is missing in the relationship. And people don't want to believe that because they don't want to take sort of accountability for why maybe somebody else strayed that something was lacking, you know, and it takes two people to have a lack sometimes. You know what I mean? Like there's got to be something missing for that. So there's nothing missing with you guys. Yeah, I think if someone has issues in their relationship, bringing another person into the bedroom is not the answer. I think it's just going to go south.

Like it might be awesome in the beginning where like you guys are all playing together. But like you said, like if that person eventually goes to solo play, they're going to think back on those issues and they're going to see how this new guy is treating them and then they're going to fall in love with them. And then it's just going to be... Yeah, problems. I've heard those masses and they're real. But tell me a little bit about like the reclaiming sex and like does like these kinds of situate or these kinds of hookups like last for a really long time afterwards as far as like

adding to your sex life. Like even just one time hookup lasts for like three weeks of great reclaiming. Or is it the videos? It's the videos. I'm honestly just like the mess. memories of it. Obviously, I do do reclaiming sex and I usually do it like instantly after. Yeah. But you don't find out like right out like for two weeks like after that event. You're just so fucking horny for each other because of what you guys just did. A lot of times people say that.

That's what I mean. Does it give you steam for like a while after? Because typically I hear that it's not just like right after. It sometimes lasts for like three weeks. You could live off of it. Even four weeks, right? Yes. The high definitely stays for a little bit. Yeah. Just having those. those vivid memories. Yeah. Obviously those memories of like the little pieces start to fade away. But yeah, a couple weeks after is definitely still a high. Right.

And you let you dig all that. Now what is on your bucket list? Are you just happy with like the guy that you have and everything? Are you looking for the, are you going to take the free pass when you're away for a month and a half again? I don't know. Probably not because I'm not going to like a. super, I mean, yeah, I'm not going the way

long and I'm not going to like a super populated area. Oh, interesting. Bucket list, though, I don't know, like I said, just that, that kink of catching her and like letting her have her solo play for like 30 minutes before I get home.

Obviously, not like a full solo date, but just a couple minutes before I get home, I think would be kind of hot. Yeah. And then I've been trying to talk her into a BBC just because, obviously, I like seeing her stretched and she loves being stretched. Right.

But she's not super into black guys, but we'll see. She doesn't know. She doesn't know. Yeah, exactly. She's never experienced it. Yeah, she didn't know she was into seeing you a guy. She didn't know she was into being fisted. You never know until you know.

Do you know what I mean? So like I said, we're at right now. We're both super happy with the guy we're with. So. Yeah. And with women, you know, all it would take is like, you know, maybe she's just never been like really close with a black guy. You know what I mean?

Because sometimes it's like women get wired more so to be attracted to people that they know for a little bit. You know what I mean? Like this guy she talked to for a long time. You know what I mean? So, you know, if you introduced her to a black guy and she started rapping with him for a while, she'd wind up probably being fucking into him. You know what I mean?

Like you just, it's more than, I think so. So you just, you never know. You know, why don't you talk about her only fans and like what people get over there? Yeah, so her only fans is Harlow Graves on there. She does a lot of solo play. I'm in some of the content, but very discreetly, I don't show, like, face or tattoos or anything, just because of my job, obviously. Solo play, she's actually very interactive with all of the people.

She's the one messaging, so she's actually talking to everyone. Do you get off on that? I do. Yep. Right. Do you share? Do you watch? do you look?

I actually help her manage the only fans. So, like, I have access to, like, obviously when she makes content, she sends me all the pictures and I'll do, like, the posting and stuff. Right. But is it a turn on for you to see all these guys ogling at her and, like,

writing comments and all that shit? Right? I would think if you're, like, a little cuck and you like that. You're not a cuck, but I'm not. Not a cuck. You're, like, a guy that's into his wife being a hot wife. Because, like, you know, somebody once explained the hot wife thing, like, she said her husband described it like, you know, if a guy has like a Porsche or a brand new

like sports car, you know, he always wants his guy friends to come over and take it for a ride, you know, to show it off. And that's typically what the hot, and he, you know, the guy was explaining that's the same thing about the wife. It's not about being like some loser that can't please his wife so he's letting some other guy to it. No, it's that he thinks his wife is so fucking hot like his brand new Porsche that he wants his friends to take it for a ride and see how great it is, right? Like, that's what it's about, right? And honestly, I think the biggest thing for me is just, like, seeing her please, like, watching her orgasm is super hot for me and, like, just her, like, like, the guy that we're with now, he's not a whole, a whole lot bigger than me, but he is

bigger. So, like, I obviously prefer her to play with bigger dicks, you know, but. Because you want to see her more, because you feel like she's more pleasureed by that. Yes, right. Because, like, she likes to be stretched. And what people have said about seeing the pleasure is like, you know, sometimes when you're like fucking somebody, you know what I mean? Like you're kind of like in the middle of it. You don't see as much as if you're like away from it, right? And see. Exactly.

Right. Like when you're fucking your girl, you're not seeing her from outside of the event, right? You're seeing. Yeah. I can't get my face right in there. Yeah. But when you're like watching, like a lot of people have said like when they watch it, they get to see it from a whole different way and seeing your girl being. pleasure from afar, whether it's on tape or you're, you know what I mean? You're in a different

angle that you're seeing her with a different guy. You're seeing it in a way that you could never see it when you're with her. Yeah. Right? And that's how... Yeah, I honestly wish our guy would let, like, didn't really care about sharing content because I feel like that would help the only fans blow up even more. But we'll obviously, we're respecting his boundaries. Oh, yeah. And you need, you know, you have to like really, people have to sign like releases and stuff if they're in your video too, right? Yep, exactly. So, and now what about Reddit?

Can people find you on Reddit too? Yes, same username, Harlow Graves. We do a lot of our teaser content on there, obviously, because we're not just going to give it all the way for free on Reddit. So it's pretty much to draw attention to the only fans. That's smart. How do people find you there? So on Reddit, it's going to be Harlow Graves.

And then her link tree is actually in her bio on Discord, on Reddit. I believe it's on Twitter as well, all the same name, Harlow Graves. Yeah, that's easy to find. We post all of the teaser content on all the other pages, and then obviously all the hardcore stuff is on OnlyFans. It's free to subscribe to her OnlyFans. She has like a menu in her little greeting message with the picture of her and her and her Tadies out.

Right. It kind of shows like she does like sexting packages, she does video calls, and then she'll do like custom photos, custom videos. Video calls, like FaceTiming and shit? Like, real life? That's where we're making most of her profit, honestly. Oh, yeah, because listen, back of my day, you could only just, like, call over, like, guys would, like, call phone sex lines.

You know what I mean? Now you could get, like, the real deal, see somebody and talk to them and have, like, this hot, naked chick that you probably couldn't get in real life, like, just totally get off with you, right? And we actually already had kind of a little bit of a hiccup with our only fans. We had one person that saved photos to their phone because she was sending them through telegram. Uh-huh. And I ended up having to message and be like, hey.

How did you find out? Because they alerted you like pictures are being taken while she was talking or something? Like, how do you know? No. So she was sending them on telegram, which she shouldn't have been doing to start off with. The person was actually kind of, he's a nice guy. He was helping us. He created like her menu and everything.

He's good with like IT stuff. But then he kind of got into like a sexual thing and he kind of got a feel, I feel a little bit obsessive with her and was like messaging her every day on telegram. And then he's like, hey, look at the new photo album I saved. And he had like a photo album in his phone of all of Harlow's like videos and photos like nude ones. And I was like, hold up. Like we're not saving that shit to the phone.

Like we're not sending stuff on telegram anymore because people can just save it straight off of there. So strictly content only on. So that's not a snafu with OnlyFans. That's a snafu with telegram. Yes. That's not the title of the story. It was kind of our mistake on sending stuff on telegram to begin with.

But lessons learned. Yeah, listen, sometimes that's how you learn by making mistakes. And at least the guy was like, he was cool about it. He was like, hey, I apologize. Like, I didn't mean to like come off that way. And he showed us that he deleted them. Yeah, that's cool. Yeah, yeah.

If you had to make a mistake, at least he made a mistake with a cool guy, than some psycho that was like, oh, I'm going to blow this shit up now. You know what I mean? And we actually had someone recently message us that found us from listening to her podcast on your show. And we've kind of been talking to him a little bit. He's still kind of far from us, but we've been chatting with him a little bit about possibly meeting up. Oh, wait, he's one of my listeners? Yes, and he, this one is more for me.

it's not for the wife. So he's, he's by, but he kind of comes off more of like a twink to me. And that's kind of the guys that I'm into personally. Oh, interesting. Femboys and stuff. So I've been chatting with him and possibly about meeting up with him. Oh my God, I love it. Then he's got to come on the show and tell me, I have Cindy wife coming back on.

And she did part two. And she fucked one of my other guests, this other guy, Mike Jones. And I had to look up. I'm like, I remember Mike Jones. And she like, fucked him just the other night. And we taped a whole episode about all of her crazy stuff. But she also like fuck one of my listeners. But it is becoming like this world and within my show.

Because I've talked to over 1,500 people, you know, where people are not only fucking other guests, but they're fucking people on disc, people on Discord have hooked up. And now it's like people, like listeners to guests and guests to guess. It's so fucking interesting. I love it. So that's great.

We actually, I actually video chatted with him last night, me and the wife while we were banging. Oh my God. Are you serious? See, I think that that's, like, fun stuff to do as a couple without, if, like, couples don't want to, like, cross the line. You know what I mean? Like, stuff like that is kind of super naughty and dirty. But, like, not crossing a line. Still, I still consider maybe that being monogamous, right?

But, you know, for people that want to be, I think that that's fun. So, listen, send me some, definitely post some hot picks when she's back up on Discord, right? like you could do that over there since you're already on there. Send me some picks for Patreon for this episode, okay? What else? I'm going to put the link, her link tree, okay, in the description for her only fans. If people want to go into my Discord, your Panda over there, that's what people need to know. You're my moderator.

Yep, I'm sure they've all seen me. Over on my Discord, yeah. But anyway, thanks so much for calling in and giving me your story. I love it. It'll be up soon because I want to air it close to Harlow's episodes. it'll be up very soon, okay? Awesome. All right, Henry, thanks so much for calling in.

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