Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1598 - Beau Is a Bi Cuck Who’s In the Lifestyle & in a Female-Led Relationship
Episode Date: September 22, 2026Beau is a bi cuck who’s in the Lifestyle and in a female-led relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their first experiences hooking up with oth...er people, their first trip to a swingers club and what went down, all their trips to Desire resort and what they enjoy doing while there, the first time her got pegged by another woman during a foursome as well as the train him and his wife took part in and her first bi experience at FetCon, how his once-shy wife became increasingly dominant and how they wound up in a female-led, total power exchange relationship, exactly how their FLR works and what she expects from him on a daily basis, how their swinging eventually evolved into him becoming a cuck, why he loves watching his wife with other guys, her hookups with a former football player and a much younger guy and what went down, the almost-gangbang his wife took part in and what went down, how he eventually started exploring his bi side even though he'd never previously been into guys, how his first experiences with men happened and exactly what went down those experiences, how and when he eventually started bottoming for guys, why he now considers himself fully bi, why fully bi swaps have become him and his wives fave way to swap, plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To see HOT pics of VERONICA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: http://DipseaStories.com/STRICTLYANON — Get first week FREE then 25% off https://Loadboost.com - To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://beduc.at/pd2634-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness https://inda.shop/STRICTLY If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY #indacloud Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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description and click on the link. Oh my God, today I have probably one of the top three
callers, one of the top three storytellers on my show. The guy's name is Bo. And he is like so
great at telling a story like every now and then I said something just because I felt like I had
to so people knew that I was still there. Even he said I just wanted to make, he's like a couple
times I wondered if you were like needed to chime in but I didn't he was so good at dishing out his
whole story in chronological uh order with all the details I mean he just did it exactly the way I
fucking like it on my show and everybody that thinks I interrupt will be very happy because I don't
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story. He's a cock and he wasn't always a cock. This is like a CEO guy that like was a boss man,
okay? And eventually realized he's a cock. He was also started out being very into BDSM and him and his
girl, never really vanilla. They entered into the lifestyle early on in their marriage. And he talks about
their experience at lifestyle resorts and then couples that they met and them swapping with
couples and all the stuff that they did when they were like in the lifestyle as a regular
couple doing the lifestyle. And then eventually he talks about how he eventually got into living
out a female-led relationship. He also calls it TPE. I forget what that fucking stands for. He's
told me like 10 times and I keep forgetting. Oh, total power exchange. Yeah, total power exchange
relationship and he explains that exactly how their relationship went from being a normal
relationship and her being actually the more quiet, less dominant one to her being leading
the relationship and him not, like I said, he was the boss man and they completely switched roles.
He talks about how their whole female-led relationship is set up. It's super interesting, okay,
when you find out all the shit that you did. And if you're a woman out there, you're going to start
to think like, well, maybe I should, you know, ask my guy if he's, you know,
he wants this kind of relationship because it's a pretty good deal for the girl.
Okay.
Wait until you hear the shit that he does.
And he does it happily for her.
And then he talks all about becoming a cuck and how, you know, he went from just like
regular couple swapping to him like sitting in the cuck chair, sometimes him sitting there watching,
sometimes him being outside listening and all that kind of good stuff.
He's a total cuck.
He tells so many cuck stories.
He's got a lot of them.
They've been playing for a long time.
And then he gets into the whole buy side of his story.
It's super interesting because he was somebody that was like very not buy, okay?
And he explains how he wound up hooking up with a guy.
And then many guys.
And he tells so many stories about that as well.
And each time he sort of does a little bit more.
He gets to the point where he does bottom for guys and they're doing full buy swaps with
other couples now.
And that's like top of the mountain for him.
He's very into guys now and would definitely consider himself.
And he talks about how that wasn't always the case.
It's a super interesting story.
He goes from like beginning to middle to end.
You see the transformation.
And that's what's so fascinating.
You're going to love his story.
And then I'm going to air Izzy's story, which is his wife.
And you're going to hear all the stories from her point of view is super interesting.
So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Bo.
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Oh, hey, Bo. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today?
I'm great, Kathy. Great to be on the show.
Great to have you on because I love to get
the same story, the couple story, from the female and from the guy, especially when
it's a female-led relationship type of story. I feel like there's some kinds of stories
that are best told by both people separately, right?
because you are in a female-led relationship,
and it's interesting for me, for sure,
to talk to the wife,
what kind of woman likes to boss her guy around?
You know what I mean?
And then we always love to talk to the guy who digs it, right?
Would you consider yourself a cockbow,
or what would you call yourself if you had to?
Yeah, definitely.
I mean, I kind of go through, you know,
we have the FLR, some people refer to it as TPE, I'm a cuck.
We definitely do a lot of kink, BDSM,
Chastity play, pegging,
Bai has come swinging.
We've kind of got it all, really.
Yeah, you guys are both by.
You both came out, right?
And we're going to get the whole story
from the beginning for you.
Can you explain what TPE was?
Because I didn't know what that was either.
Yeah, it's total power exchange.
So you've got FLR's female-led relationship
and then total power exchange.
Some people more in the kink world
tend to refer to it as a TPE.
So I just usually use both acronyms
just to make sure everyone knows what I'm referring to.
Yeah.
And would you say that you would kind of consider
yourself a cock or no?
Oh, absolutely. Yeah, we definitely spend a fair amount. I've got a handful of stories that I can tell about the cut side of our relationship. I love the cuck word. I've learned the compersion. I absolutely love it. It's amazing. Oh, my God. I love the cuck word. I love the cuck chair. I love guys that sit in the cuck chair. I love the whole fucking cuck thing, especially when it's like a real cuck. Because like I sometimes and people get mad at me, but sometimes I'll use the word when someone like slightly likes a little denial and a little angst and everything.
you know what I mean but they're not like you like you're the real deal cock in like the TPE the
f L.E what all those things you know it all comes along with the cuck vibe so let's go back to like
in the beginning of like you and Izzy's relationship how long you guys been together again remind me
well we've been this year we'll have been together 40 years we've been married 36 oh my goodness
you guys been together since the dawn of time right and so for the first 20 years it was just she and I
And I mean, we definitely were not vanilla.
I mean, we did some, you know, kind of BDSM.
And we might, you know, sometimes I would top her, you know, like we might play a game and see who gets to control the other one tonight or this weekend or something.
And pretty quickly we learned that she did not like, you know, being the sub or the bottom.
And I didn't like being the top.
And so we, you know, over a few years graduated to where she's always the top.
And now, you know, and then over time, and I can get to that.
but over time it graduated to where it's a full power exchange,
a female-led relationship type of situation.
And I'm the classic, you know, 25-plus-year corporate executive.
I was the boss at work, that type of thing.
And then when I came home, the last thing I wanted to do was make decisions.
So it kind of started gravitating in that direction.
Yeah, I get it.
And isn't that like the typical thing a lot of times?
That is, I think if there's a scene in Wolf of Wall Street
where he's getting like fucking pegged by a domenatrix, right?
You know what I mean?
and that boss man.
It was like Leo DiCaprio's guy, you know, the main guy.
Because that is kind of like a lot of times people who are,
and I think it's the same for women too.
Like a lot of people want to switch out, right?
Like that's their release.
It's being opposite of what you are.
So how did it go from,
you guys just like kind of switchy and having fun with BDSM
and both trying both sides to you sort of realizing
that you were more interested in being the more submissive one
and you being dominated?
yeah definitely and we did a fair amount of you know your classic swinging for a number of years before we
yeah and i can jump in that i mean we you know as many people do it's like it was a friend that came over
and you end up in the hot tub and she starts and eventually looks over and at at izzie and ask is it
okay if i give your husband a blowjob and she was like oh yeah go for it and so she watched and
and learned that she was very much into compersion,
even though we didn't know what that word meant back then,
because we're talking about 20 plus years ago.
And so it was amazing,
but just the BJ there,
and then not long after that,
a different set of friends came over that we had known a while,
but we had not really gone out.
We just kind of worked.
We could call us acquaintances.
And one of us asked the other one out,
hey, do you guys want to go out for the days?
We went out and had dinner and then came back to the house,
ended up in the hot tub.
And at some point, the husband looked over at us and was like, how long have y'all been in the lifestyle?
And we were like, we had no clue.
We didn't even know what that word meant.
And so we were like, and then once he exprived it, we were like, we're not.
We had one minor experience recently with someone, but we didn't even know what the word meant.
So, so we went, we continued to play with that couple.
We did that particular night was Izzy's first night actually getting to experience oral sex from a female, both giving and receiving.
So that was kind of one of our first things.
you check off the box, you know, things you've done and you haven't done.
And we continued to play with that couple for a while longer,
and then eventually they split up.
And we kept playing with the wife for quite some time and actually are still friends with her today.
So anyway, so we heard about lifestyle club, didn't know what they were initially.
And so we actually went to a local one first before going to Cancun to go to Desire.
Most got through the night, enjoyed it.
It was an off-premise.
So there's nothing that you're not seeing any actual sexual acts.
They're definitely are topless people.
and things of that nature and sexy act and people kissing and things of that nature.
But we had a great time and we're about to leave and then a really sexy couple came in,
started chatting with them.
And we've been connecting with them for 10 years.
We lived in different areas.
So it's maybe once or twice a year kind of thing.
But it was really fun because I think Izzy told you that I had struggled and didn't even know about it until more recently that I was low in testosterone.
And so I always, I always.
I always needed like, almost like when you hear the people talk about, well, women need to be warmed up. Well, I'm almost that way. I need time to kind of have some foreplay and get aroused and things like that. And this particular female, her husband was blessed with, he was kind of like a porn start. He had a large cock. And he could, if the wind blew, he was erect and he was a pound and go kind of guy. And she was so, she had always been with him. And so she and I connected great because we both like the more sensual approach to.
it and we had great sex and it was amazing we had mindful sex and and just so we were at anytime we
get together it it was great and one year several years ago on valentine's day he actually called me and
he was like hey do you mind if i give you to my wife for valentine's day and so i'd like you to get a
hotel near us and you can just take her back to your hotel room by yourself and me and izzie'll just
go dancing in a local club and so that was an amazing night so that was my first time ever and i haven't done it many
times, but first time ever being alone with another female and actually got to have, you know,
we did everything we wanted to do. And, you know, an hour or so later, we went and joined them in
the nightclub and then we danced for a little while. So, you know, it's kind of, so, so that was
a, you know, big, big, big, big, big, aha moment from going, finding them at the lifestyle
club. And so then someone told us about desire. So we've been going there for almost 15 years now.
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God, I just heard about the nude and prude side of the pools.
Well, that's Hito.
That's Hito.
Oh, that's Hito.
But, yes, we had not been to Hito.
Oh, okay.
Sorry.
Okay, go on.
No, no, it's good.
But I do love that concept too.
Yeah, that's funny.
But now, I guess Desire has the kind of quiet end where the music is really low at that
end and people tend to be more nudist down there.
And then they have the more kind of with the entertainers and the crazy stuff.
and, you know, games and things like that.
So I guess Desire has their version of it.
They just don't call it nude and prude.
And you can be naked or not naked in either end if you want to, unlike keto.
But, yeah, so we've met people there.
And, you know, they talk about lifestyle.
I mean, my gosh, we've met so many people there that we are still friends with,
message with all the time.
Actually, a sad story.
One of the people in the group actually passed away about a year ago.
And, I mean, to tell you something, we're such a community,
we ended up, several of us went to the funeral.
I mean, you know, it's, you don't think about that kind of stuff, but, but it really is a
lifestyle.
You start to become, like, best friends with these people, and you may or may not have sex with
them.
You just, you just enjoy your time with them, and everybody's open and everybody 100% knows who you
are.
And so that's a great part of the lifestyle and everything that you're, that you're able to play
in that way.
But, but, yeah, we've been going a long time there.
You know, a lot of times it's just, you know, naked time and playing like that.
Izzy is a major squirder, so we've definitely gotten up on the side of the bed at the hot tub
and stood her up with me under her and I've made her squirt and it rains over on top of me.
You're kidding.
Do you get an audience?
The crowd from the hot tub erupts.
You'll get the bartenders that start cheering and, you know, cheering us on as it's happening and stuff like that.
That's awesome.
But, yeah, and then, you know, when we went from that and during that time, we also ended up meeting a couple
a different couple that was as about as close.
I'm not Polly.
I'm not in favor of it.
I don't judge when people are,
but probably as close to Polly as we'll ever get where they live very close to us.
We vacationed with them.
And when we were out and about,
I mean,
it was like I was her boyfriend and the guy was Izzy's boyfriend.
Interesting.
We sat separately.
I mean, we would sit at the same table,
but we sat as mixed couples than the way we were married.
And so it was just an ongoing thing that that continued for probably six or seven years.
until they decided to split up and get divorced.
So those things happened and, you know, in the lifestyle too.
And it had nothing to do with the lifestyle.
It was just they kind of grew apart and everything.
But, but, yeah, when you start talking about the, you know, the TPE and the Kink kind of side of things,
several years ago, Izzy got a friend of hers to build a dungeon in our house in a secret room.
I remember.
I remember.
And so she had this built.
He was a contractor handyman guy and built this amazing dungeon, you know, probably 20 feet by 15 feet.
painted it red and had all these sexy lights in it and built a St. Andrew's Cross.
And so anytime I came home and that room was open, came home from work, I kind of knew
it was going down at that point. So, you know, it was, that kind of was all the building blocks
to that. And most recently in the last month, we actually went to FedCon, which is a fetish convention
that really is tailored toward, what you call it, professionals, you know, people on only fans or
And so they're going to do collaborations and things like that.
And so there's lots of classes on how to improve your video editing or how to market your only fans better or things like that.
But then they had other classes that we went to.
So they still, but it's still great for non-professionals to go to.
So we ended up going to classes like FemDong class where Izzy was trained on being a better dominatrix.
And they would do like paddling or impact play one-on-one type of thing.
So they had things for both sides, but it was disproportionately professionals there,
and it was really cool to be around.
But we actually met another couple there.
And she was starting her only fan, so that's kind of why they went.
But she had pegged many a girls, but had never pegged a guy, and her husband or boyfriend wasn't into it.
And so Izzy was like, well, you can peg Bo if you'd like to.
So we set up a time to just come over to our hotel room.
and so I was being pegged by, you know, a complete stranger that I just met like, you know, a couple of hours before.
So that was that was a very amazing scene.
Was that a first, though, for you?
Being pegged or you?
Izzy had pegged me before.
Okay.
But I had never.
And by this time, and I'll get to it, I had actually had sex with a guy, anal sex with a guy, too.
And, and but I just kind of jumped to kind of talk about that.
It's okay.
You're doing so good.
I don't have to say one fucking word.
Okay.
Just do your thing.
So, yeah.
So we had this amazing time at FatCon.
It was so wonderful.
I mean, you're dressing up in these crazy costumes, and everybody's just open to whatever you're in.
There were people in, like, pony play, there was pet play.
There was just more traditional dom subs, whether it was the guy or the girl being the dom.
And they had this huge dungeon you could play in.
So, you know, one of the nights, we went in there, and Izzy did a scene with me where she was doming me.
And then, you know, then we met this couple, and we ended up going back to the room.
that night when she was pegging me, all of a sudden they had the idea to create a train.
So I would say it was more fun and entertaining than it was sexy, but we had a blast doing it.
So I was bent over a ottoman being pegged by this other female.
And then Izzy was pegging her because she brought her pegging stuff for female play.
So she was being pegged by her own strap that she had brought.
And then the husband was in the very back fucking Yves.
So all four of us were connected while this thing was going on.
And there was lots of laughter, but a lot of sexiness and a lot of fun and stuff.
So it was so, you know, a great time.
And the next day we got together, same couple, and they basically wanted to start off with the two ladies.
So Izzy got, which can sometimes be hard to find.
And you hear this, almost everybody, it seems like in the lifestyle that's female, says they're by or by curious.
But so many of them are more like by situation.
and they kind of do it to get the guys going and the thing.
But Izzy is truly bisexual, and she really enjoys time with a lady when she gets the chance.
And so this was a nice opportunity because this person as well was bisexual.
So it really, really worked out well for that type of situation because she could really just enjoy herself, me and the other guy just sat back and had our drink and just kind of watched for a while.
And they really enjoyed themselves.
So, and then eventually we kind of jumped in and joined the party as well.
But, yeah, Fetcon, I highly recommend if people haven't done it.
I'd been saying for years I wanted to go to an event like that as we've gotten more and more into the kink world and so happy we finally did it.
So now we can't wait to go to it again or to another one.
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I did not.
Do you know who I'm talking about?
Oh, yeah, I know who he is.
I love him.
I did not run into him.
So many people are in such costumes too.
Yeah, he's the latex guy.
And things like, it's hard.
Yeah, I saw that.
And I was like, oh, he was probably.
I know he was there.
I just didn't.
For sure.
Didn't recognize him or anything like that.
Okay, go on.
You're doing such a good job.
I was like, but trying to see what else I was.
But anyway, when, actually, if we start kind of talking about the more transformative kind of time into, like the FLR thing that we were talking about at the beginning, we,
Izzy comes across and she is now very confident and dominant and kind of embraces that.
Growing up, that was not her.
She was the quiet girl in the school that never talked in.
class. She always had her little small group of friends, but you would never kind of put her as a
dominant type person. And so, and then I was the, you know, the breadwinner. And, you know, when I came
home, she had the kids in order and, you know, doing her thing with that. And then, you know,
it was like whatever, whatever boat needed, she would kind of take care of kind of thing. And then
as we got closer to retirement, we started kind of going down the road of an FLR-type relationship.
And it really started building. And I'd say over the last really two years,
it's it's skyrocketed I mean to now it it's very much you know she she decides what
vacations were going on oftentimes we'll be going somewhere and I might not even know where
we're going and it and it may be some old friends we're going to visit that has nothing to do with
sex it may be that we're going to you know we may be going somewhere like to a to a fetish event
or to a club somewhere in another state or something like that so she kind of picks where we're
going on vacation she has full autonomy
to pick, you know, whatever she wants to do, if she wants to kind of back to the cuck thing.
She, she on the apps like SDDC, SLS, and those types of things, she is the one fully communicating
with the guy. So unlike some of your guests where the guys kind of vet it and filter through
it all, she does all that herself. And then comes to me and I'll be like, oh, I set up a, we generally
meet the guys in, you know, all three of us together as opposed to her going by herself.
but she has the full autonomy if she wanted to she could go go do that but so she does all of that
vetting herself she just you know she'll invite she'll all sudden indict and tell me oh beau i've
got three girlfriends come we're going to this class uh Tuesday afternoon and then they're all
coming over and i need you to cook dinner for all of us will be there about six o'clock or something you
know so she's it's not just sex people think of FLR and TPE as just being you know completely sex she is
in control in the bedroom as well.
And that couples down to also
she loves denial play,
you know, chastity play.
So even if, even if I'm not in chastity,
she's denying me in some way.
So even we had,
we had someone over two nights ago and I had
not had an orgasm for several days.
I'm thinking, okay, I got a pretty good shot.
We had a play session with this person.
And then after she was like, no, I'm pretty
satisfied. I'm good. And so she kind of keeps
holding me off. And, and, and for
those of you that know, it's the more the guy doesn't get to come, the more excited and service-oriented
they are to their mistress. And so you just get more and more service. And so it makes it even
harder for the, for the mistress to then finally want you to come because she knows as soon as you
come, then you're going to kind of start that process over. You've got to build the hormones back up
and all the, you know, all the excitement has to build back up because it kind of drops off for
at least 24 hours where you don't quite have the same mentality.
But if you haven't come for a week or 10 days or 15 days,
then you're just like, oh, my gosh, I'll do anything for this person.
And so Izzy loves that aspect of the FLR side of the relationship.
So anyway, so we've been doing some version of FLR for probably 15 years,
and it's really grown, I would say, over the last nine months to a year,
to the point where she is fully, fully embracing it.
she's totally comfortable calling me out on something.
I mean, just something as simple as I had a golf outing.
I was going to a day before yesterday.
And time slipped away.
And all of a sudden, I was like, oh, I've got to go.
I've got to leave right now to get there before tea time.
And I had not done, like, you know, made the bed.
I hadn't cleaned all the dishes up from breakfast.
And so when I got home, then that was a discussion because Izzy had made the bed and
had cleaned the dishes.
and pointed out to me that, you know, there would be payback for that.
So, so, you know, it's, it's, uh, so it, there's, there's expectations there that are just,
if, if you're into it, you know what I'm talking about.
It is so exciting.
If you're not into it, you're like, he's crazy.
This is so, but every woman.
Yeah, guys.
It is so exciting.
I don't want to displease her, but then when I do and then she calls me out on it, it's like,
oh my gosh, it's all, you know, it's all I can do to, but think about that type of
thing. And so it's it's it's such a sexual arousal to me to have someone who used to be so
docile literally going you fell short of the expectation. You know what you're supposed to do.
You could have set your alarm and gotten up earlier. You could have not sat around after breakfast
so long. You had plenty of time. That was your fault. I'm like, yes, ma'am, it was.
So so so that's kind of kind of a snippet into our, our, our, the FLR side. But, but you had asked a little bit
about the cuck stuff and whether I. But wait, right?
Before we get to the Cucks stuff, a real quick question, because you say like if, you're in the world, you know, but if you're not, you can't imagine.
That's very true.
But like also if you're not in the world, you don't realize like how many things or like how these kinds of situations are set up, not just in the bedroom, but outside of the bedroom.
Like besides you cooking, like cleaning and all that other kind of stuff, like what else was put on your plate?
well I mean even little simple things like I mean her car needs to be clean her car never should never be out of gas I do and I'm I'm kind of a personal I learned I went to like online chef culinary school so I prepare all meals I do all the shopping I mean she hardly knows where even things are in the kitchen she she doesn't I mean she kind of knows where little things are if I happen to be gone if she needs to heat up something or whatever but so it involves
you know, taking care fully of the house.
And we actually sat down and I've actually suggested this to several people on
Reddit when they're trying to take their,
their wife from being open to the idea of FLR,
but not really doing it yet.
So one time, you know, six or nine months ago,
we were sitting on the porch,
just kind of having a drink.
And I said,
tell me about everything that you feel like you have to do that you don't like doing.
And then, you know,
because really what we want to do is how do we open it up for,
And I said, or let's start with what types of things do you want to do.
She loves to, she works out a lot.
She loves to exercise.
She loves to have time for that.
She loves to read.
She loves to go to the beach.
You know, there's always things she loves to do, like many of us.
We have things that we love to do.
And oftentimes the day got in the way of it.
So I was like, well, what types of things are those?
And it was, you know, and it was all the boring stuff.
It was things like, I've got to run this stuff to the post office.
I need to run in our houses.
We kind of downsize a little bit.
So we've got a storage unit, 15 minutes.
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So obviously things like going to get her annual mammo, I can't do for her. And then the other thing
is, is we have also opened up kind of the financial domination, Fendom. So,
So she always has paid the bills at home.
And even once I retired, we continue that.
And she said, the one thing that I don't, even though I don't love doing it,
I've heard too many bad stories about not that we're getting a divorce or anything like that.
But, you know, if you became ill or, you know, the worst happened,
I hear horrible stories about women trying to figure out how to pay bills and where things are stored.
She goes, you could learn that easily if I was gone, but I couldn't learn it as quickly.
So she said, I don't want to give that up.
So she actually pays the bills, and that's about it in terms of just day-to-day household kind of things.
But that's still, like you said, that's still a little bit more of the doming position, right?
Because a lot of times the women wind up not knowing anything about it because they're not doing it.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
So it still is the flip.
It's still a flip of the situation.
And if you went back a year and a half or two years ago, you know, if she wanted to like send money to
a charity or even a family member that needed a little bit of money or needed something like that.
She would kind of ask me slash tell me, but I was, yeah, go ahead.
And now she, you know, there's been times when someone thanks us for something and I didn't
even know we donated to it, you know, kind of thing, because she doesn't ask anymore kind
of thing.
So she has full control to do any of those types of things.
And before we get to the cuck thing, one more like last question.
Because listen, I got to say, like some guys are probably listening and are like, oh my God,
I can't believe he would like do all that shit.
Like I'd never want to clean the house.
But women are listening like, oh my God.
Like all I have to do is like switch the position up and dom my guy and I could get him to do all these things.
Do you think that there are a lot more men out there?
Because you said you're like on Reddit and stuff, you know, do you think there's a lot more men out there that are into this than people would it would suspect?
I think there's a lot.
I think it's just and we'll get to the byplay later for men.
I think it's smaller to the byplay for men that I think there's a lot of guys that would be into it.
Me too.
Because you get a lot back from it, too.
You know, once you do the things that you're supposed to do, then, you know,
then she's, you know, she's wanting to take care of me.
But, you know, like one thing every night.
While we're watching TV, she sets a little timer on her phone and I rub each of her feet for a certain.
I have no idea how long the timer goes.
And over time, she keeps raising it and not telling me how much it's being raised by.
But so she likes foot massages and so she gets one every night kind of thing.
So that type of thing.
But, but yeah, I think there's a lot of guys that do this.
tell you a story. This goes back to a desire thing. We were on our last day, and usually we would
set the shuttle to pick us up at noon or 1 o'clock, and so we would kind of get up, get ready,
get packed, take our bags to store them at the hotel, and then we would go to the pool and hang out.
We met a couple, barely known them, like an hour or so, you know, and then we're jumping on the
shuttle to head home. And Izzy invites them to come visit us. So, lo and a whole whole, like a month or two
later this couple we've known for a total of an hour haven't played with them haven't done anything and the and the thing around it is she wanted to learn more about FLR so she was somewhat of an executive he was a cop and he got home at 4 430 or something and and so she was like I doesn't even know how to make this work and then and then he was going to be retiring and so they actually came and spent like three days with us and Izzy like trained her and him and then like she was like I love to cook and so Izzy
He's like, well, don't give up cooking.
Keep cooking.
Do the things you want to do.
Right.
But she was like, could he help in some way?
I mean, most people that cook don't love, you know, chefs don't like chop all the vegetables and stuff.
They have someone under them that does that.
And she goes, oh, my gosh, yeah, I get home and I'm in a scramble trying to get this stuff done.
So Izzy told me to train the husband.
And so we had like a whole weekend of knife skill work that I trained the husband on how to do that so that when he gets home at four o'clock, she can tell him, hey,
I need bell peppers chopped or onions chopped or celery chopped or whatever it is and just have it out in these bowls for me.
And then she could come home and do that.
And we actually did a side by side.
Me and him were tied up on a rack.
And so they were taking turns and Izzy was training her on that.
So about a year later, it was about a year from, past, you know, earlier than where we sit now,
we went to their house and it was so cool because all of a sudden that we were going to eat a meal.
and the husband was getting all the plates out and he was setting the table.
And then he had prepped stuff for her to cook with.
And then as soon as the dinner was over, like when we were sitting at our house,
the wife started to get up to pull the dishes away.
Like oftentimes the women will kind of grab the plates.
And Izzy was like, sit your butt down.
And she told me and him, get the dishes.
We're going to sit here in chat and bring us some fresh drinks.
And so go wash the dishes, get them in the dishwasher, whatever.
And so me and him went and did that.
And so it was just so cool.
to a year later go to their house and you could see they weren't as far long as we were but they
had progressed so much into him supporting her and doing the things that she needed while she's
still working as an executive so it was pretty cool yeah it's amazing I think it's the same reason
why by guys there's it's more rampant we're gonna talk about that too because you you discover your
but like I think it's the same stigma it's like you're you know whether you're a guy into guys or a guy
into, you know, being more submissive when you're home.
It's like you're not manly, right?
Because like being a man, quote unquote,
is supposedly the opposite of all those things, right?
And that's probably why it exists.
There's probably so many guys out there that secretly would want,
like I think there's plenty of guys out there
that are doing it more than you would ever think.
But I think there's also a lot more guys that are out there
that would never cop to the fact that they would love that kind of situation too.
You know what I'm saying?
Absolutely.
Yeah.
And I was, you know,
I was like the, I'm well over six feet tall.
I was the captain of sports teams of any teams I played for.
I was that,
I was that jock in school.
And then boom,
you flip to now and I'm a cuck and bisexual.
So,
you know,
let's get to the cuck and bisexual parts now.
So,
I mean,
like,
you know,
one of the things that's hard to get past,
you know,
when you're first starting this is like,
do I really,
you know,
it's one thing when you're,
you're getting the opportunity to have sex with another woman.
So you're like,
okay,
I'm so excited.
I'm getting to have sex with her.
Oh,
okay, my wife, I'm on peek over every once in while, but I was always more interested in what she was doing anyway.
So we were at a lifestyle club in New Orleans, and there was a guy kind of sitting near us, and so I was like, hey, Izzy, you know, when you invite him over.
And so we had never done a single guy before.
And she was like, absolutely.
So he came over.
It was a black guy, well-endowed, you know, kind of thing.
And they had an amazing time.
He got up to, you know, after he was finished, you know, it was just your typical, you know, oral sex.
and then had vaginal sex and they had a great, great session.
And he got up to leave.
And so we were like, okay, we're done now.
And so we put our clothes on and we went down.
And there's always like a place where the music's being played and they might have snacks
and your drinks and stuff down there.
And we went down there thinking we'd see him.
And he was gone.
So it was just one of these like ultimate cuck experience because, you know, this guy
fucked your wife and had no idea who he was, didn't know his name, didn't know anything
about him kind of thing.
So that was really our very first experience there.
I think Izzy talked to you about we had a, we lived in a big major city for quite a while,
and we found a bull on, I think it was Fet Life that we found and came over.
And the first time he came over, it was probably 12 or 1 o'clock in the morning and he walked in.
And he was like, oh my gosh, she's real because he was, I'm sure, expecting someone that,
he was probably expecting me to be the fake female that he was showing up to.
And ends up having this amazingly hot lady waiting for him.
And so he'd come over a number of times.
And so the guy was probably 6-6-foot-7, huge former college football lineman guy.
And just she had a great time with him.
So that was, again, cucking.
And some of those times I would kind of sit in the room in the classic cuck chair.
But oftentimes I would sit in our living room and just be able to hear that kind of thing.
She picked up a very tall 21-year-old in New Orleans.
I think she never told you to.
I think the typical thing, you know, you drink too much.
much.
And all of some, we fell asleep and woke up at like 2 a.m.
And went out in New Orleans is always awake and open.
So we went.
And all of a sudden she goes, he's hot.
But the funniest part was this guy was 21 and he's calling her ma'am and this kind of stuff.
And she's like, do you want to go have sex?
And he was like, absolutely.
And so he goes, but I got to tell my big brother.
So she goes, well, we'll go tell him together.
And so she walks over hand in hand with this, you know, six foot seven skinny little kid.
And it's like, hey, I'm going to take your little brother and back to my room and fuck him.
Is that okay?
And he was like, oh, yeah.
And so they had a great time.
And that was one where I popped in a couple of times to take a couple of pictures.
I'd ask him if I could take some.
And he was like, sure.
Right.
And then at the end, he was like, my brother's never going to believe this.
So I was like, so Izzy was standing there naked.
He was in the process of putting his clothes on.
I was like, well, give me your phone.
So I told her to like flip her hair.
So it was across her face.
And he like reached over and grabbed her boob.
And I took several pictures.
And I was like, here, now your brother.
believe you.
Oh, my God.
You're going to be crazy.
And so enjoy your time.
I sent him off after that.
I know another time we were in New Orleans, we used to go once or twice a year.
And Easy was just having more luck finding people in the wild than she was on the apps.
We've had a little bit better luck lately.
But it's just you got it.
It's a beat down.
So she really enjoys picking up people in the wild.
So out of town and this really attractive, very muscular black guy.
that we found out after chatting with him a bit was a former NFL player.
He'd retired.
Oh, I remember this guy.
Yeah.
And so when he had a buddy or a cousin or something there with him that was just the same size as him,
and all of a sudden, that guy snuck off or took off or found somebody else or whatever,
and by that point, Izzy had gone, I want to invite him back to the room.
I think he's down.
Give me the key.
So I handed her the key to her room, and she was like, you stay here because I don't think
he's going to be comfortable with you being around.
I was like, okay, fine.
And so she went over and all of a sudden she leaned up and, you know, had him come down so she could whisper in his ear.
And she turned around and gave me the thumbs up and wave to me goodbye.
And so headed out the door with this, you know, enormous stranger.
And so I don't know, maybe an hour or so later she messaged me.
And I'm assuming maybe if you wanted details from that, she'd have to tell you in her side because I didn't, I don't have many details.
I think she told me.
I just know he was very well endowed and very, and they had a great time.
But the funniest thing was he was scared to death of me.
And I mean, I'm north of six feet, but I was nothing like this guy.
This guy was huge.
And he was scared of the angry husband.
And she goes, you know, he knows why we came here.
You know, he'll shake your hand and thank you for fucking me.
But he's not going to be upset with you.
So, yeah.
Listen, if you're not in this world, you don't know.
You don't know until you know.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
So probably the last, I've got several others, but one couple others, I'll tell you.
We go to a club in Jacksonville called Kink Club, and we love it.
There's some swingers there, but it's also a lot of bondage, a lot of Shibari play, that kind of stuff.
So you never know quite what you're going to get when you're there.
And so we kind of almost had like, I call it an almost gangbang.
It wasn't officially.
But so she found a guy.
She was like, hey, Bo, go get that guy with her.
I want to see if he would like to play with me.
So I went and talked to him, very young guy.
And it's the funny saying, I'll give people advice.
if you're trying to be a bull, no matter how much older the person that you're talking to,
don't refer to them as sir and stuff like that, you know.
So he's like, yes, sir, yes, yes, yes, let me, you know, this kind of thing.
So he was so nervous.
Well, he could never perform.
So they kind of got to being naked and they were kissing and they were fumbling and he just couldn't hold an erection.
So she was like, hey, maybe next time, you know, and so she walked off.
And so said her goodbyes to him and she came to me.
She was like, I'm so horny now.
I need to get fucked.
Come on to the room.
let's go find a room to go.
So we went in this room that was a big room that can be used for orgies or be used for separate.
And so she and I started playing and all of a sudden she's blowing me.
And I look over at the door and there's, I don't know how many guys, 10 plus guys, kind of looking in the door.
And they're being respectful.
They could have come in, but they just kind of were staying at the door.
And so I pointed two guys, just happened to be that could have been any race bills,
two black guys that were at the front.
And I pointed at the two of them and kind of waved them over.
And they pointed to each other like us.
I was like, yeah. So the two of them came over and as they were walking, I pointed at like several other guys and was like, you guys come on in too. And so, so these two guys started taking their turns. She was blowing one and bucking the other. And they would do that for, you know, I don't know, eight or ten minutes. And then they would switch positions and just going back and forth. And at the same time, there's like at least three or four of the guys standing there. They've taken their pants off. They're stroking.
themselves. They are ready. They're like lined up and ready for their turn. But I guess,
and I've always wondered this since then. I don't quite know the protocol. I definitely didn't
that night at some point to like tap them out to let the next people in. But she was having so
much fun with those two guys. I never wanted to stop it. So then finally she was like, okay,
I think I'm done. I'm done. And so the poor guys that were in line never got the chance.
But that was a fun experience. Again, I'm sitting there literally laying right next to her as she's
getting fucked and blowing these two very well-endowed guys and just going back and forth.
I think each one of them fucked her twice and she blew each one of them twice.
So, you know, had a really nice time.
I don't know if she told you about when we traveled to Italy last year, she put out on SDC
where you can put on the travel calendar that we were going to be there.
And she met a guy in Florence.
And he had asked in advance, so this is going to lead into the buy play stuff.
He had asked in advance is your husband buy.
And I didn't know again.
She's doing all the communication with him.
I learned this later.
And she goes, no, but he's very open.
You know, he's, you know, as long as you don't like lean down to blow him or want him to blow you, you know, he's okay with things being close parameters and everything.
So we met him for a drink at a bar and then took him back to our hotel room.
And he was an unbelievable showman in terms of it was like he was setting himself up so I could get these amazing videos of the two of them.
And at one point, even, like, put her in front of a mirror.
And I was, like, filming off the mirror of them fucking each other standing up and, you know, masturbating.
And at one point, he told her to, you know, make herself come in the mirror.
And you can see she's so muscular.
You can see all the muscles in the mirror, you know, popping out while she was orgasming.
Such a crazy scene.
And so I'm over in the cuck chair.
And at one point in time again, in the FLR type of thing, she looks over at me.
And she knows, you know, if I'm not playing, I'd rather do.
just be clothed and she tells me to take all my clothes off and so that makes me uncomfortable
but then makes me excited and then she starts telling me to start playing with myself so they're
continuing to play and then finally he was like i think i'm about ready to come is what i hear later
and then they come over and set like chairs like right in front of me so i'm like you know call it
eight to ten inches away from his cock and so he has her get down on her knees to blow him like
right in front of me and so then he's like okay where can i come and she was like on my
chest. So all of a sudden he pulls out and comes all over her chest literally inches from me.
And so the combination of how excited I was to be that close to that kind of action.
And also, I've been listening to your podcast for, I don't know, three or four years now.
And, you know, early on, I probably skipped the podcast that was like, you know,
God had decided or learned that he was by or something like that.
So all the guys start listening to them.
So, you know, you know, but so I started kind of, you know, I listen.
I walk for exercise and so I will kind of listen to your podcast then and stuff.
So I started talking to Izzy about what was going on.
And so flash forward to, you know, probably less than a year ago, we met this couple very briefly.
It was like outside, if you know, desire.
They have like a little disco area kind of thing.
So people dress up every night.
So some people are having late dinner.
Some people had early.
So we had the early dinner that night.
So we were already in costume and everything.
And so we met this couple that was just kind of hanging around the bar area outside where the disco was.
And Izzy and the other guy, we find out the Dom and his wife, that's his sub.
So we started talking and they send me and her, me and the other sub off to go get drinks.
And by the time we come back, Izzy tells me, we've got a date in five minutes.
So when we finished the drinks,
and we're going to head that way.
So we go to this room, and it's one of those rooms when you open the door.
It's not like a traditional hotel room where you can immediately see the bed.
It's kind of like a junior suite.
So he answers the door, leads us in.
And as you get to the end of the wall where it kind of turns into where the bed is,
I see the lady completely naked in like a subservient on her knees kind of position.
And so Izzy tells me, all right, go play.
and so
and she goes,
me and him
are going to go over
on the couch
and just watch you too.
So y'all
were putting on a show
for us.
So the two doms are,
so immediately I kind of hear
the zipper thing
and Izzy's undone
his zipper and pulls his cock out.
And so she's kind of stroking him
and they're kissing a little bit
while they're watching us.
But they basically had us
as their little showpieces
and we had,
me and the other girl
had frankly never met
other than just said hello very briefly.
those of the doms had met.
So he had asked her also that same question
that the guy from Italy had done, is he by?
And she goes, well, he's becoming more open to it.
So a little time had progressed since the Italian thing.
And I was like, I don't know where I'm at on this.
I'm still not ready to do anything,
but I think I'm kind of moving in that direction.
So she told him, you know, short of blood job or anything like that,
get close to him, be real close.
So at some point in time, I was like,
kissing or blowing or, you know, doing oral sex or whatever.
I don't even know what was exactly happening at the time.
But I was sitting and so I had the two women on top of me or kind of around me.
And again, I'm a pretty big guy, tall guy.
And so my legs are long.
So all of a sudden he comes over completely naked and sits on my lap while his wife is sitting like on the other leg.
And so I think I was like kissing her at the time.
And so he starts having her like jacking him also like this guy who's,
literally in my lap and if he orgasms
right this second it's going to go all over me
and I'm getting more and more
excited about this and and
I'm shocked at the same time because I can't believe
that I'm getting excited about this
so he ends up
finally kind of stepping up
and I don't remember if he went
and came on Izzy or on his wife
but that was kind of how that scene played out
several months later
Izzy rescheduled a
time for us to get with that same
couple and in that
time that she had prearranged for her to be able to dom the woman and him to be able to
dom me. So when we got there, he immediately was like, Bo, get on the floor and start rubbing her
feet and kissing her feet. So I'm on the end of the bed, cussing the feet in the other three
or up on the bed. But it eventually worked into a situation where Izzy was kissing me and she
didn't even know it was coming. And all of a sudden I'm feeling, I'm like, oh, wow,
I'm getting a blowjob. That's amazing. And then all of a sudden I realize it's two different
people take in turn. So I'm getting a double blow job from the guy and his wife. So that was kind of
my first foray into receiving a blow job and was amazing and, you know, couldn't say anything else.
And I was probably talked about it for for weeks on end. And it was like, but I'm waiting for my turn.
You know, I did not get a chance to blow him. I was not even sure if I was willing to at that point.
I think, and it's almost like it's a little, it's definitely FLR, CP, but it's a little bit.
that almost the C&C, the consensual, non-consensual.
As I've progressed through this, I've been telling Izzy what I'm okay with.
So at that point in time, I had said, if someone wants to blow me, whether it was in a
glory hole or something like that, I don't care if they're male or female.
You know, you can make the decision and make it happen.
I'm okay with it.
You know, I'm not sure I'll have the guts to actually ask someone to do it or something
like that.
So she had told him in advance that he could blow me, but it was just not reciprocal at this time.
So they come back, you know, eventually I did blow him.
And, you know, we moved on to a different couple that we had met a year before,
that they were openly by, and probably the wife even more so than anything,
she was just like, everybody should be by.
They should just be, and I was not there yet.
This was like probably a year ago.
And so then a year passes, and just lo and behold, they just happened.
and we don't know them, we don't have their phone numbers.
Lo and a whole, they show up with the exact same thing,
and they have that same personality,
but now I'm like, I'm kind of ready now.
And so I had opened up, you know,
giving or receiving blowjobs by this point in time.
So we ended up just having really fun,
sensual, touching, getting to know each other,
lots of chats,
but everything was, you know, sitting on,
her sitting on my lap,
and he's leaning up against the guy.
I mean, it was a four-way,
kind of interaction and then finally on the last day before they went home. We had a full. It was a
heavy soft swap kind of thing that also involved him blowing me and me blowing him. So I got my
first chance to actually give a blowjob. Why that for you? Because sometimes I have heard from
some subs, like the whole, it's not, this isn't like forced by scenarios for you, correct?
No, no. This is, this is very interested by, I want to do it.
but I need the help to get some.
It's a little bit like, I don't know, you want to jump out of a plane,
but you need someone to give you the little bit of a push once you're all.
Once you're all there, that's kind of what I need.
So I just, because she's my, if she says do it, it's happening.
Right.
And so at that point in time, you know, kind of that way.
So I think you would like this, you know, so this, we met locally, this guy that had told her.
He goes, I'm by curious, but I have done absolutely.
nothing. And so I'm kind of looking and she goes, well, my husband's, you know, beyond by
curious and, you know, but he's, the curiosity's passed and he's just by. He just doesn't have a ton of
experience. So she invited him over and we get in the bed and start playing. And so at some point in time,
she, I'm on one side and she basically is laying on her back stroking us, if you can envision that with
each hand. She's got a right hand is on my cock. Left hand is on her, his cock. And she's stroking him.
So she looks up at this guy that's a new, you know, new friend of ours and looks up at him.
And she goes, so from a consent standpoint, you definitely would like to receive a blowjob from a guy, correct?
And she goes, he was like, yes, ma'am.
And so she looks over at me and she goes, Bo, you know what to do.
And so I reach over and she's like, she tells him to lean over him.
And so his cock is like hovering over her face.
And so I'm leaning in.
So the first time she gets to really see me give a blowjob, you know, a.
close. I'm inches right in front of her face as I'm giving this blow job. And so I do it for a
while. And, you know, he doesn't come. It's not that far, you know, it's not that extensive.
And then back off. And so then she goes, and so similar, similar question, you are interested in
giving a blow job. And he was like, yes, ma'am, I am. And she goes, all right, well, here's your
turn. And so, so he then has given me the blow job in the same, you know, place that I had just
done. So Izzy's laying there just absolutely loving this kind of whole situation where everything's right on top of her.
And so we've played one more time with him. And so I'm sure we'll have more experiences like that.
But I think I was going to finish unless you have something else with this kind of week. We had this week long Dom. He was, we live in a kind of a tourist town.
And he, I don't remember which app, but he put out on an app like SLS or something that he was coming to town.
So she reached out.
and without telling me
and like normal
and then all of a sudden she's like
oh we're going to meet this guy for a drink
and he just
he walked into the bar
and he just exudes like
a dominant
I mean he he kind of
you know he's tatted up
he's got cut off sleeves
he's got metal bracelets on his arm
he's wearing a little flat cap
men's flat cap
hat chains around his neck
I mean but
so well educated
and so
that was what caught Izzy's eye in the original listing and everything.
And so we invited him to our house for the next night.
And so we're sitting on the couch and they're on one end of the couch and I'm all the way on the other end,
just kind of watching them again in the cut kind of thing.
And he is actually a bisexual dominant.
And so they're making out and he's fingering her some and all this.
And all of a sudden he looks at her.
And now this this tells you something.
him. Kathy, I don't know how much you know about this, but
if you are a dominant and
you're playing with someone else, so in this case,
Izzy's basically being his sub,
you know, and she's told him, you know, I'm not into
impact playing and all that, but you can dom me,
you know, mentally and kind of that, kind of thing.
But you still respect the dynamic
that she's my dom. So he does
not ever direct me
to do anything. He asks
her permission. So I'm sitting
over there, and by this point,
I've kind of opened up everything. I'm like,
you know, anal sex, kiss,
seeing blow jobs, whatever.
I'm scared to death, but I'm opening it all up.
And so he looks at her without even looking at me and it's like, hey, can I kiss him?
And she's like, absolutely.
And so she scoots over.
And he's like, all right, walk over here.
So he makes me walk across the room and then sit next to him.
And being a guy, you tend to be the one that reaches in and kind of holds the hip.
or, you know, sets the angle or whatever.
And it was my first time ever being grabbed by truly Domp.
You know, I haven't ever kissed a guy in my life.
He reaches in and just grabs me and then goes in and starts making out with me for a while.
And, of course, Izzy's just sitting there just losing her mind, watching all this kind of stuff.
So we left that and went into the bedroom.
And he had told us to have a chair in the bedroom with some shabari rope.
And so he proceeds to Tommy to the bed, I mean, Tommy to the chair.
they get on the bed and have sex.
And we had both been tested right before this.
We've always done safe sex.
In this case, we had both been tested and shared results and everything.
And so it had been agreed that we were not going to use condoms.
And so he eventually after, let's just say he's overly well endowed and Izzy had more than an amazing time.
And so he comes inside of her.
And so he's like, all right.
cut, get over here. He said, let me get you in Todd, and you need to go cleaner up. And so it was
my first time ever, you know, I've tasted my own come because Izzy makes me do that, but I had
never tasted, obviously, someone else's. And I don't eat. And it was plenty of volume. I mean,
I was like, oh, my gosh, this guy came like crazy in there. And so, and it was so hot. And so,
then just every day he would come back, sometimes it'd be in the afternoon, sometimes it would be at
nine. So then the next time he's there. And so we're on the bed and he's fucking
is he. And she's sitting there telling me, oh my gosh, he is so big. I just don't know that
you can take this. But I just don't know if you'll be able to take this. And she goes,
oh, hell, let's just figure it out. So and she asked him, are you okay trying to fuck him? And
he was like, oh, hell yeah. So all of a sudden within like two minutes, I'm now been over the
bed, getting things looped up. And this enormous con.
very girthy quite long as I'm taking it and so all of a sudden you know she's there like right at my face
kind of checking and she's doing super job she's like are you okay is everything but then once she knew
I was okay and I was enjoying it she was just like oh my gosh you you go you know so he starts
just really fucking me hard and she is she starts orgasming just like watching and I think he was
maybe touching her a little bit while he was fucking me and then they start
making out while he's fucking me.
And then she's coming down and kissing me.
And so just an absolutely amazing experience.
And then the last day that he was here is he comes to me and she goes, by the way,
so-and-so's coming over.
He told me to get naked and wait on the bed for him.
And he wants you to wait on the porch for him.
And you're going to, you can just take a cigar out there because you're going to stay on
the porch while he's here.
I was like, yes, ma'am.
And so he showed up.
I shook his hand, asked him if he needed anything.
And he's like, no.
And so he was actually, you know, air quote, running an errand because he was there visiting with family.
And so he needed to, you know, run to the store.
So it was going to be a quickie.
So he came in for about 20 minutes, fucked her, and then came back out on the porch and was like, all right.
She said, you know, you need to come in there and clean her up.
So again, I went in and, you know, cleaned her up again.
And so to say I'm highly and very embraced on the bisexuality side is a
All of that.
You've embraced everything.
We've had a lot of activity in the, you know, in our 20 years of doing this.
But the last two or so have really ramped up.
And it's just been amazing.
But I don't know about time count or whatever.
But I've probably got other stories if there's anything else or any questions you have for me.
I mean, listen, I just can't believe how far you've come and all the things that you've gotten into.
How do you feel about the fact that now?
you're bottoming for guys and stuff like because it doesn't sound like you were a guy that
always knew that this is something that you'd be into. No, and I'll tell you, I heard someone on
your show say this and I'm probably one step back from him, but I'm not, where you may remember
it was really recently. He was like, I was almost like, you know, anti-homosexual. Oh, yeah. I had
two guys recently. Almost like a gay basher kind of thing. I was never that. And actually, years ago,
if you remember the old show, Sex and the City. Yeah, of course.
had for years dreamed of someday having a gay best friend or gay best friends.
And all of a sudden, we were moving to this big city, a job change, and we were moving there years ago.
And we started looking for dive bars, and we found one.
It ended up being a gay bar, and we don't care.
We love gay bars.
So we went in there, and this was way before I was bisexual.
So we walk in, we're holding our drinks, and it's like an outdoor kind of place, a big garden area,
and a bunch of crappy plastic chairs and stuff like this.
And all of a sudden we hear someone going,
are you looking for a table?
And it was this guy that is,
we just went to his wedding about two or three months ago,
amazing gay guy.
Everybody in their little group is gay, lesbian, transverse,
something else.
And we were probably the most normal.
And we were swingers at that point in time.
And so,
so,
so, you know,
I was always comfortable being around.
You know,
it never bothered me to see two guys kiss or hold hands or any
of that kind of stuff.
But it was absolutely the farthest thing from my feelings that I would ever want that.
But I just kind of, like I said, I kept hearing things on your show.
I would hear things on some other shows.
And I was like, I at least want to try this and see if I'm missing out on something that I might enjoy it.
And I've thoroughly enjoyed it.
And I would say I heard someone else, I can't recall if it was on your show or someone else's,
but someone else said, it's not really a full swap unless.
everybody's by and I love that concept because it's like once now we've had I don't know four sessions I guess it is three or four sessions where we've had the other couple is fully by so normally you know I'm kissing my wife I'm kissing the other person's wife I may be going down on each of the women I might have sex with either one of the women same thing the other guys doing that but then when you all of a sudden throw in you know legs are going this way and legs are going that way and all of a sudden oh there's a cock near me oh okay I'm going to suck that for a little bit or he's sucking my or he's sucking my
or it just the the dynamic of our even foursoms that we've been into since I came out as buy
has elevated so much that that I can't even can't even describe it enough it's it's been
it's been amazing yeah that's what I've heard when people talk about their fully buy fours
that real full swap that those are the best and it makes sense because there's no boundaries right
like it's like a free for all whereas like what you were just explaining sometimes there's like
oh you can't do this or this person can't do that but when everybody's down for everything of course
that's going to kind of be the top of the mountain for a four you know a swap right or a foursome or
whatever uh i just love your whole story besides loving your whole story and your wife's i'm like
really torn of who i'm going to air first because i've both your stories it's like interesting
like how do i do it because you were like i wonder if like putting your story first is super
and then having your girl come in.
Maybe I might do it that way.
You were like, besides having like the best story ever,
you were probably in my top 30 people of like delivering your story the best.
Oh, thank you.
Just so you know.
I listen to your shows and everyone's mom like, oh my gosh, I hope if I get on the show,
I hope I'm at least can tell a decent story.
Oh my God.
I think I just said stuff every now and then because I felt like I had to because I didn't really have to.
I was like, I'm not letting Kathy talk.
I need to let her tell something.
No, you don't.
No, you don't. No, you don't. Like, listen, you know, listen, most people are calling into my show.
It's the first time they're ever doing it. You know what I mean? Some people have better memories than
others. So, you know, I am needed on my show to sort of like, you know, guide callers most of the time.
But it's rare, but it happens that I do get callers and you're definitely one of them. And I would say top three that are so good at sort of just dishing it all out in chronological order the way I like it.
You know what I mean? And sort of hitting everything that I know they got a hit and do it. Like you just
fucking did the best job ever. So the fact that you, and I don't know if it's because you're a
fucking cuck and you do your homework or you're just that CEO that's fucking smart and you do
what you know how to do shit. But you're great. Yeah, you mix the cuck and an executive and a,
you know, CEO type person. What part of it is. You're used to training for and preparing for all the
details, right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's so funny. But whatever. It's been a joy. I've been
listening to you for so long and I just love absolutely love you show. It's just, it's spectacular.
And I, you know, like you say on your little summary things at the end of the week.
Yeah.
Do I like every single episode?
No, and it's not that I don't like what you're doing.
Of course.
It's just, there's certain topics that, you know, I mean, like I said, three years ago when I was listening, I wasn't that excited.
I listened to every once in a while to a buy show just because I couldn't find another one to listen to while I walk.
And then all of a sudden, it's like it opened my eyes to it.
So, so, no, I think I just love the way you provide a variety of topics and you try to hit across a broad spectrum of things.
Yeah, and I love that I do that now because it gives me the freedom to do, because first of all,
I'm curious about everything, right?
So that's how I roll.
And I know that most people aren't that way, right?
I'm like, this is like a thing that is not the norm, how curious I am, right?
But because I produce seven episodes a week, I feel like it's totally fine to throw out, like,
do whatever I really want to do because I know that at least everyone that's listening to my show is
getting one or two.
You know what I mean?
At best, right?
If I only did one episode a week, I'd have to worry about like, oh, I can't throw in something
totally different because my listeners will be like, what the fuck, right?
But I feel like I have more liberty to do that because I produce so many more different
episodes and I make everybody happy.
And it makes me happy because I like, you know, talking to everybody about everything.
And I certainly love when I have a guest on like you who does a great job.
And thanks so much for calling it and sharing your guys story and sending in picks.
Well, thanks so much for talking about talking about.
I'm going to call you Izzy.
Thanks, Bo.
Thanks for calling him.
Bye, bye.
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