Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1614 - Candi Enjoys Domming Her Cuck Husband, Caging Him Up, Pegging Him and More

Episode Date: October 6, 2026

Candi enjoys domming her husband, caging him up, pegging him and more and she called in and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she first brought up chastity to her husband and when he admitted he was into cuckolding, how and why he becomes a much better husband when he’s caged, how she dominates him and how long she keeps him locked up, the “menu” of female characters she created for him and exactly what fantasy each one is down for, how he admitted he fantasized about her being with a Black guy and how that ed to them deciding to go to Splash Mocha, what she plans on doing and not doing when there, the toys they bought and how they use them to role play his fantasies, when and how she got him into anal play and pegging, what they both enjoy about it and why he had reservations at first, how their marriage has changed and gotten even better since he’s been caged and she’s been dominating him, her reservations about actually being with another man in front of her husband and why a gloryhole is more appealing to her, plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    To see HOT pics of CANDI plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join ANNUALLY, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠https://qualialife.com/ANONYMOUS⁠⁠ Magnesium, multiplied. 10 forms for total support. For 50% off and save an extra 15% with the code ANONYMOUS  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! + 10% OFF first order, Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.Health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2634-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://DipseaStories.com/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get first week FREE then 25% off Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.

The temptation is just too much. It's real problems. Your friend know that you're banging her or no? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. Motto of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whip.

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You could also learn about the lifestyle. Find out about all the events and meetups and all kinds of things that are going on in your neighborhood or wherever you're traveling to. You're going to find it on SDC.com. And if you use my code 37712, you're going to get a free trial. That's code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Candy. Oh my God, Candice, like, she's got, she's, candy is like a lot of different people.

Wait till you hear her. Like at some point she was like going into character for me. And I'm like, what the fuck? You're like changing even the way you change your voice. And she's like, oh, we have a menu of all these other characters. She becomes for her guy. Her whole story that she talks about on this is she is in like a female-led kind of scenario with her guy. They're very into chastity play. At this point, he's caged up all the fucking time. And she talks about how and when that started, you know, it started out slowly what she does to him and for him and with him when he's caged as well as what he does when he's caged outside of the bedroom and how what he does for her outside of the bedroom when he's caged has brought them closer. She enjoys him more as a man when he is caged up. It has changed his

personality. She talks about that. It's super interesting. And she talks about how that progressed to like her pegging him, him like fucking her when he's caged up. And she talks about the menu, quote unquote. Those are the character she plays. She has a whole bunch of different girls. One is Candy. That's why she named herself Candy. She talks about all the different girls. She is for him and who they are and what their role is. It's such an interesting setup, you wouldn't believe. He's very into hot wafing and he loves to hear stories about other guys, pretend she's with other guys. They are going to splash mocha coming up and we talk about that at the end because they're going to come back on. She talks about what they're planning on doing when they're there.

And then I talk about like what does she think will actually happen when she's there and that you need to listen to. That's at the end. But anyway, I'm going to have a hot pics of her over my Patreon. But I'm going to get right tuned to me right back on candy. Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Candy with an eye. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I am well. How are you? Good. So listen, we picked Candy because you're like, that's one of my favorite girls or my husband's favorite girls to fantasize about or some shit like that. I'm like, oh, are you a cook queen? You're like kind of. You're like a lot of things, okay? Oh my God. We have a lot

to talk about because you're a key holder, okay, which means your husband is locked. up, all right? Correct. You guys, you know, so you're very, you guys are into chastity. You must have like a dom-sub, like, relationship. Like, is that the dynamic that you guys have? He's the sub year the dumb? Yeah. Yeah. Right. And you guys have been to Splash Mocha, so I'm assuming you have an open marriage. You're also into cuckolding, correct? So, so here's the thing. We are going on our first splash mocha trip in November. We have not done it. Oh, interesting. I like it. We'll work up to to that, okay? So let's go all the way back.

Let's first get a snapshot of where you guys are at. How long you guys been together, married, all that kind of good stuff? Oh, goodness. So we've been together for like 23 years probably. Okay. Married for 17. Okay. Okay.

So tell, get me to the, like, and so like, how was your sex life throughout your marriage and then work up to the point where things started to become like what they today. Yeah. So, I mean, we had, we had a great sex life. I mean, we have a great sex life. But I think that kind of what happened is we did spend a little bit of time apart. Like we were together and then we were young in college and like we split up for a little bit and then we got back together. But I think while we were apart, it took some time to get this out of him. But it's kind of like he would fantasize about me with other men. How many years into your marriage and got to that.

It took a little while. I can imagine. Yeah. And, you know, for me to be like, okay with it, too, because I was like, I don't want to talk about that. Like, you know, like that's before, you know. And so it took, I don't know, we're, God, probably like seven years in maybe or so. Before, you know, we kind of, we're like, let's try this.

And actually what happened was, I didn't know anything about it. I knew nothing about chastity, male chastity in particular. but I knew nothing about it. And one time we were like sending each other like little, you know, like porn pictures or whatever just to like, you know, we're set in the mood or whatever, you know, for the day. And I came across this photo of this guy that is like standing at this bathtub and he's got, he's in chastity and he's like serving his wife. And I immediately was like, what is that?

What is that? I need that. Oh, you liked it. It was you. I did. So I like to, I didn't realize that he actually. actually likes this. Like I didn't, it just sort of opened the conversation of like, what is that?

And as we like, you know, just talked more about it. And then I came to realize, oh, like he, like he really likes it. Right. And now he really likes it. Yeah. Yeah. Now he likes it. But so you're talking about it then, right?

And is this when he also brings up that he likes the, like, or you're already talking about the other guys as well, right? Of you banging the other guys. Like he's already copped to that, that he's into that to you? He, so he liked to hear like stories. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. You know, like that kind of thing.

So it wasn't until actually he was in chastity and I realized how much he really liked this that I was like, okay, like I can talk about this and it's not like shameful or, you know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. It's not bad. He's totally into it. Yeah. All right. And he loves it.

Okay. So wait, do you fuck other guys while he's like sitting there watching in the cuck chair? Is that how far it goes? So not. So not yet. Okay. We're getting there. Right.

We're getting there. But like right now we have, we just have like lots of toys. No, no, no, we're going to get the whole story. This is enough for, we don't want to jump to where you're at now, which is taking that next step and putting him locked up in the cuck chair while you fuck another guy and splash mocha. We know the end of the story, but we want to hear the whole story now. So he's like, you see, let's go back to that moment where you see that whole chastity thing and you're like, oh, like that kind of turns me on.

And then, you know, he was like, it turns me on two. And then did you guys decide to go buy a chastity cage? Like, what came next? Yes. So he bought it. He bought himself his own chastity. And mind you, there are so many different kinds out there, right? Yeah.

And it took, honestly, it took probably almost a year to like find the right one. Oh my God. Did you hear my recent episode I had? I just aired a chastity episode all about someone in day. It was my sexual health Saturday series recently. because, and we talked for at length about how getting the size correct is a real problem. Yeah. Right?

Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. And just like comfort and like sometimes. Because if the size is. Yeah, if it's not the correct size, it's a problem, right? So that's, so it took you a whole year? Yeah. He tried lots of different ones.

We had like plastic ones, metal ones, like all these different kinds. and he found the right one. Okay. Now, were you always dominant in the bedroom? Because, listen, it's one thing that he's putting it on, but you're all, there's like an aspect of you, like, sort of creating a scenario where you're making him do this, right? I mean, this whole dynamic includes like a lot of mental foreplay, correct? For sure. This is such a mental thing.

Yeah. And it took me a while to even realize how mental this is. Yeah. But, yeah. So I wasn't. isn't always dominant. Now, with what I do at work, I have a position where I am pretty dominant at work. And so, I do like that. He will tell you, like, I love, I like control. And I do. I mean, who doesn't like the little control. But more than anything, when he's in it, he is like the best husband anybody could ask for. Oh,

that's kind of interesting. In one sense, how does he change? Who was he, like, who was he uncaged and who is he law-caged? Uncaged, he's just kind of like, I mean, he's not like a bro, but like he's, he just doesn't, like, care as much about me. Like, for example, yeah. Okay, whenever I get home, I work 12-hour shift, I come home, I'm tired. And he's in his cage. Like, he will have the bathtub drawn for me. He will have, like, charcutory boards.

He's got wine. He has a massage table set up. Like he caters to me, loves, like wants, wants to please me. Right. Beyond belief. Yes. And it's amazing. Yeah, because that's all of it, like being a submissive and being like female-led kind

of dynamic, it is all about, you know, they get pleasure out of being of service to their women. For sure. I mean, the guy that, by the way, the guy that did the whole Chastity episode talked about his dominatrix who got him caged up and how he now cleans her house and does her laundry. And I'm like, you know, and he talked about how he gets pleasure out of that. That is enjoyable for him. And I was like, I need one of those too.

And it's interesting. Girl, you do. There's sweeper marks in my bedroom. I'm like, what is happening? Oh, my God. It's so funny. So he just, he just like caters to you and does all the things that every woman wish their guy would do.

them, right? Like help a little bit more around the house. Tend to you, right? More. Text me just like loves, loves the shit out of me. Like, and I know he loves, I know he loves me regardless. Of course. It just comes out way more intense when he's caged. Yeah, it's like the love language is all there. Yeah. It's every woman's favorite love language. Acts of service, right? And that's what he. Oh, yeah. And who is he? And so is he very dominant in his regular life? So he, when he is caged, he enjoys being submissive too? Like what would he say? Yeah, he's, he's a boss at his job. So, and he's always, you know, the guy everybody goes to, he's got to do everything, you know.

And so I think he likes that when he gets home, I get to boss him around. Right. So he enjoys that flip. How long, okay, how long into your marriage did this come into play? Because you guys have been together for a while. Like, how many years has this been going on? So it's been going on for like 10 years. Wow.

Wow. So we're talking 10 years ago. Yeah, but I would say like that we really, you know, just like, like, researched it and really got into like understanding it because like it's so mental. It's so mental. Yeah. I would say for like probably a solid year and a half or so that we've really embraced it. Oh, interesting. And like he's okay with it, you know, because I think for a while it was kind of like, do you think I'm a man because I like this?

you know, like, do you think less of me? And it's not that at all. Like, I think it's so much hotter that he does it for me. Well, so. Let me ask you this, okay. Like, as far as, like, I know that you're putting him in a cage and, like, what are you instructing him to do besides, like, all the things he does for you, those things. Like, do you, is there any kind of humiliation that goes along with it? Or is it, like, just you need to be cage and you're denying him?

Like, what, how are you, like, sort of dominating him? in what way. Yeah. So there's definitely that, like, he can't, he can't touch his dick. Like, he can't touch it. It's mine. Yeah. Which makes them want me even more.

But, like, there is not, like, complete humiliation. Now, he does enjoy if I'm, like, you know, your little white, like, a little white hawk or whatever. Like, he does like to hear that because I have big black toys. And so he likes to hear that. He likes to hear, you know. That he's less than. Correct. Okay, guys, want to walk into the bedroom and know you're going to be able to perform, but also know you're going to feel more aroused and connected all at the same time. Well,

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A lot of times they want the dick to be bigger for some reason. Yes. It's very, it's typical. And it's not to be humiliated per se. I mean, your guy goes a little bit in that way because he's, you know,

getting into being cuckled and stuff and he's a little bit more into being submissive, but it's along those same lines for sure. You know, that's very common. So did you start playing, like when did it come into play, like now that he's caged and, you know,

how long would he say? Well, let's let me ask you this first. When he first started, you know, you put him into the cock cage. Like, how long did you make him stay in it in the beginning? So in the beginning, it was just like, you know, honestly, to be like 24 hours in it. Like, we would, we went slow because, I mean, you know, your cocks in a cage. So it takes some time getting used to. Yeah.

Now he's in it pretty much all the time. Like, I'll let him out to like go. I mean, I'm not a total bitch about it. like if he wants to go golf from something, I'll let him come out because it's like a problem. You know what I mean? Yeah. So like there are times where I let him out of it too, but then he wants to go back in. Like when he gets home, he can't wait to get back in it.

Wow. That's interesting. And that just happened over time, right? Because in the beginning, it's 24 hours. And now let me ask you this. Like I've never been with a guy that was into chassis play. Like how do you engage? Like what's the kind of engagement that good?

down. Like would you, in the beginning, when he was just doing it for 24 hours, like, would you be like put that fucking cage on and then you'd make him like go down on you or you just make him sit there and watch TV with him? Like what is what how does it? No, no, no. He would he would serve me like he, oh gosh, when he's cage and he eats pussy, it's next level. Really? I can, I mean, honestly, you're in character. Like I could hear you sometimes get into character. You got a whole thing going down. Don't you? When you talk to him. Don't you? I do. I do. And then I made him that menu. Tell me about the menu. So the menu's fun. So we like to have fun with it. So I just, I did this for him just to kind of make it more playful. And I kind of created these characters. These women are characters, but they're all me. They just have different names and they act differently. They like different things. Right. And so I made up this menu up. And they all have, you know, candy is one of them. she's, you know, a cum-guzzling whore who, you know, like she's a real dirty bitch. He loves her. And then there's other ones, too. I have one, like, she's a little spa girl, and she massages him, takes care of him after work, caters to him. She sucks his dick till it comes. She takes the cage off.

She takes the cage out. She's a girl that takes the cage off. That's his little spa girl. She takes care of him. Okay. Okay. Who's next? How many girls are on this menu?

I wish I could, I don't even have it on me. There's like four or five girls. I mean, his favorite ones are candy. There's a Nadia. She like dresses up in different kinds of clothing, like, you know, cheerleader outfits. Like she's into like the play. Right.

Playing a role. And then there's Victoria. And Victoria is, you know, she's a dominatress. She wears leather. She smacks him around. like she'll fuck his ass like she's a different girl right oh my god

he likes her too I need to can you think of any more cause those are his favorite ones who else do I have I don't I don't remember the other that's okay let me ask you this how did this menu and these other girls

come into play do you remember it was just one day I was I was just trying to be more playful and just more creative with sex. And I was just, I don't know, it came to my head. And I just started writing. And I wrote out these girls and like a description of what they were, what they liked, you know, who they were.

And then I would say, okay, so we will play games too, like with a dice. Okay. Like, so I'll say, if you roll a five, you can pick which girl you want. Or if you roll a six, you know, this girl comes. Like, what, like, but I just make it up. I just make it up as I go. And so, yeah, I created this menu for him. And that's okay, this week on Friday night, it's like, freaky Friday, you pick a girl you want and I'll be her.

Like, I'm her. That whole day, I'm her. Right. So that's that. So it was really for you. It wasn't like he said, hey, I want you to, like, be someone else. You decided because you were having fun sort of putting him in the cage and stuff. Like, you wanted to sort of expand your scenarios with him, right?

It was turning you on, too. obviously. Yeah, yeah. No, he never asked me. Like he has never said like, I'm going to be with another girl. No, this isn't about being with another girl. It's more about scenarios because it's you, right? Yeah, yeah, correct, correct. Yeah. And he didn't even say like, I want you to be somebody else. But I mean, he always liked if I would dress up in different outfits and stuff. So then I just, I just created these characters. And for me, too, it was kind of easier. Like, I would know who he wanted and I could like be that girl. for the day. Yeah, I kind of love that. Yeah, I think it's really smart because it's like, you know, it's not like, like you said, it's not like it's not about him wanting to be with somebody else because you are these people, right? But you're creating these like super hot scenarios. He does get to, you know, use his imagination and he's in different scenes and everything, but you're there, but you're these people and you get

to switch it up. Who do you like the best? Yeah. I mean, I do I like, I mean, I kind of I like Victoria. You do? How come? I do. I do. Probably just because she has her way with him. Like he, you know, he can crawl around on the floor for her.

She can smack him around a little bit. And she fucks him. Right. He loves it. How many times does she fuck him like a month? Oh, we tried. So if it was up to him, honestly, it would be more. But it's not.

But it's not. But it's not up to him. Plus, it's like a, it's like a little bit of a freaky special thing, so I don't want to do it all the time. But, okay, so this month alone, I would say five times. Mm-hmm. Five times. Okay, that's not bad. Okay.

Oh, my God. You're like, I love how you get into like your little characters. Do all of, like, I mean, do some of them, like, they all have different personalities, right, a little bit? Yeah. Yeah. Did you always want to be an actress when you were younger? Like, it's like, because I'm like. Because you've got to be really good

You got to be really good at it You know And it sounds like you are I could tell Yeah Like I didn't realize the menu was you You know And I like literally

Picked up on the fact that you were getting Into character Like all your voice would change When you answered some questions And I'd be like oh my gosh She's doming me now Like it sounds like you go to like this other place Right?

Yeah probably That sounds accurate Yeah but that must be kind of of like a release for you as well in a weird way? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I guess it is. Yeah, I guess it is. I mean, because here you are,

you're escaping into these other things as well, just like he is, and you're going into this whole other world. And you have so many different people to think, to create, to be. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah, really, it's limitless, to be honest.

Yeah, there's wigs. There's all kinds of things. Oh, really? Oh, yes. Yes, there's different, Yeah. Oh, yeah. And when I do it, I do it. Okay. So how has it evolved over time? So it started with the chastity once, you know, 24 hours, right? Eventually worked up to all the time. Somewhere along the line, these menus came in, right? Did all of this happen before the year and a half recently when you dove had on into it? Or is this when the menu and everything came out like in the past year and a half? the menu came out before we were super like into it even more so the menu came out probably like two or three years ago okay so if you say that in the past like you got way more into it what

happened in the past i think honestly like he even he started listening to you and he might have listened to other people too but he listened to you he would send me some of your podcast and it just kind of opened our eyes that like this isn't like we're not weird like other people are into this too it's just like a kink we have like it's okay you know yeah interesting but it's interesting that you didn't even know that before for so long no no yeah because you guys were in this doing this for a long time having all this fun but never and then he somehow went looking found out he's not along then alone then started sharing it with you and then when did it start when did you guys start talking about

you know, the other guys and stuff. I know that he was asking for stories. Let's talk about that whole kink in him and then how it progressed from him hearing stories to him, you going to splash mocha to fuck other guys. Well, like even just talking about like other guys that I was with because I didn't like to talk about that kind of stuff. And once I realized that this isn't like a judgment,

there's no judgment. He literally wants to hear it. like it gets him hard to hear it. And so once I, I think, was able to grasp that concept that was really real, it just kind of flowed. And he's always wanted me to be with a black guy. Well, when did he first cop to that? I mean, so he always asked me about it, like, even before we got married, like, have you ever been with a black guy? He would always ask me that for whatever reason.

And I was like, no. Well, now you know the reason. Yes. Well, now I know. But for a while, I was like, I mean, no. I wasn't, you know? But now I would. But, yeah.

So, yeah, I mean, that was that was that. And the whole Splashmoka thing, I think, again, I think it's just he became more comfortable with, like, his role. Like, he was comfortable being a cuck. Like, this is who I am. I love this. I love who I am. I'm a better man when I am, like all these things. And just being comfortable with it and realizing that it's not weird.

And it works for us. and then he found the splash mocha. I didn't even realize. I didn't even know that was a thing. I'm so naive. I had no idea that this was even like a party. I had no idea. Yeah.

So he says to me, you know, this is splash mocha. It's like this year, do you want to go? And I just said, no, fuck it. Let's go. Like, let's try it. What's the worst that can happen? I don't like it. I don't do anything.

Like, let's try it out. And so we're going. We're going. And the only thing, I mean, I did promise. miss him that I would do some like no panty dancing with some men and that I made I really happy. Right. So that's as far as you want to go as far while you're there, but eventually you want to start with other guys in real life? Honestly, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. Like I don't know. I've never done it.

So I don't want to say yes or no because I just, I don't know. And but it's interesting to me and It's intriguing, and I'm definitely curious. He's obviously very curious. And so, yeah, we booked it for November, and we're going to go, and we'll just kind of see what happens. Maybe I'll give you a call back and give you an update. Yeah, we'll definitely get that update then. But we still have, like, a whole half hour and I need just so much more.

Okay. So, you know, you said you had toys that were like black dildos and stuff like that. Like, was it your husband sort of always prying and asking you about black guys that got you into doing it or have you always been into it? Had you been with black guys before? No. No, I had never, I had never been with a black guy before. Okay. Just never was. And then he is the one he brought home a black dodo. And initially, oh my God, he did. He did. He's dead. Yeah. And to be quite honest, I was like, oh my God, that thing is huge. Like, I don't know if I can do that. But it's, I've gotten much bigger since then.

So, you're kidding. Oh, yeah. Like, now I'm basically a size queen. That's this where it leads to. But he brought it in. And then I just kept getting more and more into it as time went on. Right. And so how big did you go?

I would say the biggest one I have is probably like a 12-incher. Oh, my God. How do you take that all in? Not the whole thing. But a good amount, yeah. Wow. Do you have cervical orgasms? So here's a thing.

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Sometimes I send them videos. I send him pictures when he's working. And most the time he like will wear them. Like he has a whole, you know, set like an underwear set and he will wear them and fuck me with them. Oh, really? Mm-hmm. Yeah. And how did that come into play?

He just, well, I always liked, like, he would fuck me with him because he could do it better than I could. Right. And so I was like, if you could just wear this, that would be great. And then he just bought a pair of underwear that have like a hole in them and you put it in and stuck away. You're kidding. So he's caged and using that? Is that how it was? Is that what it is?

Yep. Yep. It goes like over him Like the underbar go over top of him And then the Dilda goes like in the hole And so it's like he does it all Oh my God Is he tortured by that? Is that what he loves about it?

I mean because Yeah Yeah he loves it How many times of a month do you get fuck like that? Like with a big big guy Or just no Just with your husband using it That's what I'm most interested in at this point

Yeah A couple of times a week Oh, you're getting fucked that way more than you are with his regular call, right? Oh, absolutely. Oh, absolutely, yeah. And do you, and is that just because you prefer, because he prefers it, you both preferred at this point? I would say we both prefer it. I would say we both prefer it. Because, I mean, you know, after I get fucked by, by like a big black cock, then I will, sometimes I'll take him out and I'll fuck him too. Right. And it's, like, I don't always feel him the same way. So, and he tells me. He's like, I can feel you.

Like, he always gets off. But I don't know. Does he ever orgasm while in his cage? So I have got him to do that a handful of times. How? It's a little bit tricky. So usually, like, if I put a vibrator, like, under his balls, like, at his taint, and if he's really worked up and if he hasn't came for a while, I can get him to leak out of his cage.

I still would like to get him to leak when I fuck him And I haven't been able to do it yet But I'm working on it When you fuck it Because he really likes it In the ass Yeah You peg him

Yep All right let's talk about that Okay So you know this The pegging didn't This is a more recent discovery I would say Like I would sometimes use a finger

You know When I was down there play around and try to massage his prostate. Because here's the thing is, I want him to have the most incredible orgasm that he can have. Yeah, of course. Like he gives me all these incredible orgasms, and I want him to feel the same way. And so that's kind of how it started with my finger. Then it's like, you know, your finger's not big enough.

Like, I need something bigger. And so I have a dildo for him. But it's smaller. It's not like anything massive. But I'll fuck him with it. I put it on. And I'll fuck him with it. it and he loves it.

Well, how did he go from a finger to that? Did you bring it up? Did he like, how does that come into play? Um, I think that, I think I did. I did. I mean, the finger thing, because at first it was like, he was real, kind of waited out by it, like, oh, I don't know. Like, does this make me get?

You know, kind of thing. I'm like, no. It's pleasure. It's pleasure. I want to pleasure you. But you, wait, but wait, like, how the fuck did. pegging come into play? You saw it and thought, oh, I want to

fucking peg him. Like, how does it? You were turned on by it or him? Obviously, not him, because it sounds like he was anti it at first. So at first, like, just with the finger, it was kind of like he didn't know how he felt about it. And so I would say,

like, I would do it every once in a while. And then I just, I got a smaller dodo and I just said, like, I just did I'm doing it. Like I kind of just took charge. With it like a strapped on to you or just like with your hands? When it with it strapped.

So I can use the same like the pants that he wears that has the hole on it. Yeah. I can wear the same thing on me. Okay. So you both could strap it on and you both do. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

That's interesting. I mean you just throw these things out there. This is like normal shit and we're supposed to know this. I know. Like dragging it out of you. Like extracting. Wait a second. So what started first?

Him fucking you with that or did those things wind up like in his drawer because you started pegging him first? So we have a drawer that's just full of toys. Yeah. The pegging thing didn't come into play until about two months ago that I actually used an object other than my finger. Correct. Okay. I love that. That's interesting.

And who said you were like, I'm going to fucking peg you because you were like candy at the time and she wanted to dom him or because yeah yeah basically like I just I was in that kind of mood where I just wanted to to fuck him like and and so I did it and he really liked it and we talked about it you know we talked about it like the next day or whatever like you know did you like were you okay with that did that turn you on and I would have to say that at first at first it was really just the goal of me getting him to come because I really wanted to get him to leak that way. Like I wanted him to come with me fucking him. So that was really my goal. Right. And I would have to say that now that we've been doing it, he actually likes it for me to be more of like the power,

like a power thing, like that I have power over him. Like shut the fuck up. I'm going to fuck you. Right. Like it didn't start that way. It was more, it was more like just me wanting to get him to come in the best way that I, that I could. Right. And so then it kind of just progressed. I mean, in fact, last night, I did last night. And, you know, he, he wanted me to be, you know, like a powerful, like, treat him more like a cuck. And so I did.

Yeah, well, that eventually comes into play recently, too, that he wants to be cocked, right? That he enjoyed that. But asking for the stories is kind of like, you know, a tell that he's into that a little bit. I mean, not every guy that wants to hear stories is a cuck. But that was a part of that part of his personality, right? Him listening to stories about you with other guys and watching you like fuck your dildos and shit like that. But he's caged up, right? Mm-hmm.

Sure. For sure. Yeah. And did it change? Did the whole thing about him like wanting to be overpowered by you when you're pegging him change like because it became very pleasurable for him? or was it pleasurable right from the beginning? Like, did he like it in the beginning?

So in the beginning, I don't know that he really loved it. I think it was still, like, for him it was still mental of like, there's a dick of my ass. Like, it was very, he didn't. Like, he wasn't sure that he was okay with, like, his mindset. Like, he enjoyed pleasure. Like, he enjoyed it. But when it was over, it was like, oh.

Like, he felt like, am I gay? And I'm like, you're not? No. Imagine you felt that way Every time he went down on you Because that's what lesbians do by the way Imagine every time he went down on you Like lesbians go down on each other

You thought to yourself Oh my God am I gay? That's stupid It doesn't make any sense I know I know I'm like baby I turn you on It's okay

So So yeah I mean have you ever asked him If he ever fantasized about Having a guy fuck him Have you ever asked him Maybe he has a part of him That maybe he would

enjoy it. I, so I've never just like flat out asked him that, but he's been very clear that, like, if we're ever in a situation where there is another guy with us, that he wouldn't be okay with, like, sucking the guy's dick or anything. Like, he's, he's flat out. So, like, I don't, like, it's fun to play, but he told me anyway, told me anyway. But I'm going to tell you something about these guys that are like him. And you should listen to my Saturday episode. I put out with the guy. You know, a forced buy scenario is hot to a guy like your husband, specifically because they don't want it. Do you get that? Yeah.

It wouldn't be hot to them if they actually want it to be a dude. So if your husband ever comes to you one day or you as candy decide to make him suck a dick one day, you know, he would probably do it, you know, and they enjoy it because. it's something that they're doing for you. Do you understand? Like a lot of guys, these guys wind up doing shit like that. But like, it's kind of like weird

to wrap your head around. But when someone finally explained to me, I'm like, oh my God, that makes sense. He was like, I'm not into guys at all. I like fucking would never be with a guy. But I'm like, but you do it in the dungeon.

He's like, yeah, that's the whole point. Like the only reason why I do it is because I don't like it. And that's what's great about it. You know what I mean? He's being forced to do something he's not into. Yeah. Just like being to,

you know. So you never know. That's what I'm sorry. Yeah. Yeah. But I will tell you that I do love like fuck-licking. What's that? So that would be when I'm getting fucked.

So this would be I'm actually fucking myself with a dodo. And then he eats me out while it's happening. Right. Okay. So it's like fuck-licking. Right. And he is really into that. And I like it too, but he's really into it.

He really likes it. So it kind of goes, I think, along with that same thing you just said. Like the dick might be right. Right, yeah, because it's like he's being forced to do something that he's not into. Yeah. You know, in all the things like, typically a lot of times guys like him wind up, you know, if you tried one day, by the way, to like make him, you know, blow one of your dildos, he might do it because you're telling him to, but it also doesn't make him gay.

Like, the whole point is that like he's doing it because he's not into guys. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So he's listening to this right now. okay because he listens to my podcast and maybe he'll he can't wait

now he'll be more open to it maybe you know he realized that the pegging is great because he's not gay but he fucking likes it same shit yeah yeah and I will tell you that his orgasms are totally different so when I peg him like I'll peg him

and then I finish that and then I'll take him out and I'll fuck him and he comes like he comes so hard and he and he tells me that any time that I do that and and then we and then we fuck his orgasm is is that out through the roof right and I can tell and how do you experience pegging him yourself are you into it is it a turn on for you especially when it became more of a power thing or do you are you just doing it for him I mean at this point

right now I'd say I'd do it more for him but I could see myself turning more into enjoyment for me I just I think it's still kind of new that I'm just getting my feels for it. Right. So as of right now, it's more of like I do it for him because he has great orgasms. He enjoys it. He likes and he wants it. Right. And so that's truly what I'm doing right now.

But I could see myself, because I know myself too, and I could see myself as we do it more to be, you know, more of like a power thing. Like I could get into that. I could get into that character. Yeah. some women wind up being into, let me ask you this out of all the things that you guys do, what it turns you on the most? I would say I really like the fuck-licking. Right.

I really like that. Right. And now are you fantasizing that he's somebody else ever on the menu? Are there ever any scenarios like that? Or is it he's just, he's just him always? No, he's him. Yeah, no, I don't. He's your little bitch.

No. He is. He is. He's so good. such a good boy. Let me ask you this because, you know, you have this whole dynamic in the bedroom and everything, but typically this kind of dynamic bleeds out into, you know, your regular life a lot of times, right? I don't know.

You tell me. Like, has it changed your guy's relationship outside of the bedroom? I mean, we're closer. It has made us so much closer. As far as, like, you mean, like, how I act or? No, I mean. mean like or let me maybe the question is has it bled out like from like from the bedroom into your regular life whereas like you know like and it sounds like it kind of has because when he's home he's

doing tasks for you he's doing you know things for you know so it's like you're living a very different life than you used to before and maybe you already answered the question when you said you just like him so much more he's like a better husband and maybe that's like the big that's really like the answer to my question is like it has actually changed your relationship outside of the bedroom because you experience him as like a better version of himself. Yeah. And he says it too. Like he will fully admit to it and say, you know, I'm a better man when I'm when I'm caged. Like he totally will tell you that. Oh my God. That's why you have them in 24-7 now. I know. You know, suck a. But let me ask you this. Is he able to go in and out of that part of

himself because like like you know when you guys go to family functions and when you guys are at you know work related things like is he able to like is he back to his bro self like and you take the cage off so he could like be less submissive or does he have it down like he knows who he is home and he's different when he's out i would say he's different when he's out i would say he's still he's different when he's out but i mean do you keep him caged during a family function oh yeah i will you will interesting oh yeah okay Yeah. Yeah.

Does he act, like, will he acts subservient to you in front of other people or does he just do that at home? It's more at home. He will, he gives me more attention, I notice when we're out and about because he's, he's the talker. Like he's very, everyone has to talk to him all the time. And so like if we're out and about, he's social, he's very social. But if he's caged, he's more attentive to me. Like, I'm more like he needs me by him. Yeah.

And it's not, it's not like. he's not like serving me, I would say, at those times. But he just, he needs me close to him. Right. Is that interesting? It's great. I love it. It is interesting. Yeah. And when he's not, if he's not in it, he doesn't really need me around as much. Right. And not as like attached. And that would be really why you say you feel closer to him, right? Because you just really are. Mm-hmm. Right? I'm like his whole world. When he's in it, it's amazing. I would tell anybody to do it. my God, yeah, you sound like you're so into it when you go, you just went back into character. Let me ask you this. What do you, how do you feel about like the cuckolding in fantasy versus

cuckolding in reality? Do you think you'll ever wind up being open to it in reality? Or do you think you'll always keep it as a fantasy? I mean, you guys sound like you're very good at like living in the fantasy world and getting into it. So maybe that's enough, you know what I mean? Yeah, I mean, maybe, maybe it is. I guess a part of me feels like I don't want to, I don't ever want to mess up what we have. Yeah. And he tells me all the time, like, even when we're going on this trip, it's just, you know, like, I'm not going to be mad at you. Like, it's okay if you do this.

Like, I want to see it. And it. But what are you going to do again? It sounds like you're not going to do anything except dance, right? What did you say? Well, I promised him. I wouldn't wear panties the entire trip. Oh, right, exactly.

Like flirt with men. Oh, okay. That's a little bit more than that. Okay. Yeah, no. But as far as like actually doing it, like committing any sort of act, I don't, I don't know. I don't. I guess we'll find out.

But that's okay. You know, some people don't want to. And listen, I always think it's like I love having on couples who don't sort of go all the way and maybe live it out in real life. because I think sometimes, you know, fantasy could sometimes just be enough. And I think that gives like a lot of like the majority of people, something to think about. Like you don't have to, you know, sort of open up and go all the way and be with other people to really change things up in the bedroom.

It sounds like you and your husband are pretending to be with other people and having so much fun sort of outside of yourself all the time in this fantasy world that you created, which is amazing. It's like role play at its best. It's like amazing if you could really get into it and do it well. It's like you have all the variety you need. Mm-hmm. Right?

I mean, try. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, maybe it will happen. I just, I don't know how I feel about it. Like is he the type of guy that's like, listen, you could be with another guy like I would love it and you're the one that's like I don't really want to or are you both like, let's never go there. Like, how do you, how does he feel about it?

No. he definitely is more pushy as far as like he wants to see me with another man. Right. I am definitely the one who's more reserved. Like, oh, I don't know if I could actually do it. I don't know if I could. Yeah, I get it. And why do you feel that way?

Like, what is it about? I mean, I know how I feel about it. I'm wondering for you as a woman, why do you not know if you could, like, what is it about? I guess maybe I feel like I'm cheating on him when I'm betraying him. Yeah. Like maybe you just want to keep your marriage like sacred between the two of you. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. And it's like, well, that's not like we are. We're so close and this and that. And I agree. But I would say I'm definitely hesitant because I don't ever want to jeopardize what we have. Yeah. That makes sense.

You know, like down the road, he's like, you know, you did this, you know, or whatever. And I don't ever want him to feel any sort of animosity or towards me. Yeah, I'm sure he never would, but, you know, is that the only reason? Do you feel like you could be attracted to another guy? I don't, I could tell you, like, I've never, I've never seen a guy where I'm like, oh, I want, I want to go fuck him. Yeah, well, most girls don't feel that way. Most women don't feel that way. I don't feel that way.

I don't know if it's normal. So. No, that's why women, listen, that's the difference between, that's a very big difference between men and women. You know, women typically, and a lot of times with women who do cross the line, right? And I'm only questioning you not because I can't believe you feel this way. It's because I totally understand it. And most women would understand exactly how you feel. It's pretty typical.

Ones that have crossed the line, you know, they only did it because, you know, they sort of made it to be where they met a guy that they could, like, totally be into more than just physically. Like it was like, for most women, it's important for them to. like they get attracted through like knowing a guy talking to a guy, him doing things for them. You know what I mean? It's not like we don't get attracted by what we see physically like right off the back. Yes. Yeah. So it's hard to find a guy that you could just pick to just wind up going and having sex with.

And a lot of times these hot wives, they have to really develop a connection with somebody first. And not to say that it doesn't, you know, it takes a year for it to happen. But there has to be something more than just the way a guy looks for a woman to be hot for him. But it's not the case for guys, but it is the case for women. Yeah. Some guys are wired that way too, you know? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. So he's into it, but you're the one that's like, no. So going into Splash Moka, like you're going to flirt with guys, you're going to take your, you're going to go without panties. And he's going caged, correct? Absolutely. Right. Yes. Right.

And how many days of Splash Moka? We're there for three. nights. So four days, three nights. And if you had to place a bet, candy, because I want to take a bell. If you had to place a bet on yourself, okay? You know that. You know that yourself. And I wonder what your husband's answer would be. But I want to know your answer first. Do you think there might be a chance that you wind up like sucking a dick or doing like something more maybe with a guy while you're there? You do. Okay. Yes. So if you had to take a bet. Yeah. Okay. So if I, like if I had to take a bet, yeah, okay. So if I, like, if I had bet on myself, like I could see myself going like into like the glory hole room and like playing with

someone's cock. Yeah. And suck on their cock or whatever. But like I don't know that I would fuck them. Yeah. Because it's like it's like a separation. No I know. I just did a whole episode. No, no, no. I always talk about how a glory hole is kind of okay because you don't see like all that other stuff there. You know what I mean? It's like it's just a cog. Like I could I see that. Yeah, that's easier than fucking a guy looking at his face and his hairy chest. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah, like, don't kiss me. I don't have to do that. I had a, I just did a Q&A, and the question was like,

would you rather like a glory hole or something else? I was like, glory hole. I would do that because, you know, it's just like the thing that you want from a stranger. You don't know what I mean? All that other stuff, you just like might, like, there's more of a chance you'd get turned off if you saw all the other stuff that was surrounding it. Correct. You're so right.

You're so right. I wonder if they have them at Splash Moka, do they? They do. They do. They do. Yeah. Oh my God. Yeah. So we will see.

All right. You need to call me at that time. I need to know. But I was going to bet that you would too. So I was going to make a bet with you if you thought different. But we're on the same page. We both think you're going to wind up doing something a little bit more, right? A little bit more.

A little bit more. Yeah. Most likely. And listen, I have never. And it's not like this doesn't exist out there, right? I'm sure it has. but I'll just tell you that I have never talked to a guy who had this kink, very strong kink. Your guy has had this forever.

He's been asking about other guys since fucking college, okay? Yeah. So this kink is like, you know, he was born with it. You know what I mean? He's very into it. I've never heard of a guy who was into it and their wife eventually or a girl eventually crossed the line and he felt differently about her. sometimes he has been a little jealous sometimes that could come up it's rare it's a little bit it's not that

common but it does happen for sure there's a little angst a little jealousy but never have i heard from a guy that did that and then like looked at his wife like with disgust or oh my god you just cheated on me or i love you less because of it like that's never happened so yeah i know that you worry about it that's a typical thing that a woman worries about but the guys will always tell me, like, you know, it took them like a year to like, really get their girl to understand, like, that wouldn't happen. But that's always every woman's fear. But that's never, that never happens. Just so you know. Yeah. Well, it's refreshing to hear. Yeah. It's nice to hear that. Because I don't, I don't talk to anybody about this, right? Because it's the private thing that we have together. So

you just, just trying to figure it out. Yeah. Your husband should be sending you all the stories of the hot wives that are across the line because I have a lot of those stories. on my show. And I talked to a lot of those women and they all have the feelings that you have. And sometimes, like I said, it's always like playing the long game with your partner, especially if she's female, to get her to do something like that because most women are like, oh, you want me to fuck another guy? Great. I'm going to go do it tomorrow. You know what I mean? Like there's so much that goes into that set up that the woman at first thinks like, what are you talking about? Like, why would, is this a trap? You know what I mean? And then it's like, are you going to seem different? It's all the feelings you have,

all these other women have thought. But I've talked to so many who have actually, you know, they're in a position one step further than you and they did it. And, you know, those are the episodes you should listen to. You'd feel a lot better. Yeah, you know. But go to Splash Moka and I need an update, okay?

We don't, you know, even if you just call the confessions line, but if you do a lot of stuff, I need you back on, okay? I mean, this episode's going to air wait before that. But you need to keep me posted. I'm bet I'm on the same page as you. I think you're going to do something. I'm dying. And if you do the glory hole, I need to hear about it.

I will. I'll tell you all about it. All right, Candy. I'm so happy your husband had you call in, okay? Yeah. If he ever wants to call in, he could call in too. I sold him. I was like, we should do something together.

Yes. I would love that. Yeah. So do me a favor. Let's do that after the, if the stuff goes down, which we all know it's good on Splash Moka, like why don't you guys both call in, we'll do you guys together for that update episode, right? Yeah, I love that.

All right. Awesome. This was fun. Thanks. We called you. Andy, right? You're your favorite guys. You're your guy's favorite girl. Okay. Favorite girl. Candy, can you do me a favorite and send me like a hot pick for Patreon? Oh, sure. Okay. Do you make it R rated? Like nothing X rated, you know? People will send like

if it's lingerie or bikini shot or even if it's a body sharp, no face is anonymous, but nothing like showing. You know what I mean? Like it can't be like any nip showing or anything like that. Thanks, Candy. Send me that sooner than later so I don't have it, okay? Okay, sounds good. All right, awesome. Thanks, Candy. All right. Bye. Bye.

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