Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1615 - Kyle is Into MFF & MFM Threesomes with His Wife But Had Performance Issues?

Episode Date: October 7, 2026

Kyle is into mff and mfm threesomes with his wife but had performance issues and he called in to ask all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when they decided to start playing with other people together, the threesome they had with his wife’s friend and what went down, the hotel takeovers they attended and what they do while they’re there, how they started looking for a guy for a threesome and the guy they chose who showed up with a massage table, exactly what went down during the threesome including how and why Kyle couldn’t stay hard, why not being able to perform freaked him out so much, the exact changes he made to his diet, exercise routine, and overall lifestyle afterward, how he wound up losing 40 pounds, why he decided to start taking ED medication and what it did for him, the second threesome they had with the same guy after Kyle fixed his issue and exactly what went down and how far Kyle went with him, the swinger club they recently checked out and why that particular club wasn’t for them, plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join ANNUALLY, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠https://qualialife.com/ANONYMOUS⁠⁠⁠ Magnesium, multiplied. 10 forms for total support. For 50% off and save an extra 15% with the code ANONYMOUS  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! + 10% OFF first order, Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.Health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2634-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://DipseaStories.com/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get first week FREE then 25% off Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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He wanted to call in and talk about how like, you know, he one time he was playing around with his wife and another guy. Okay, him and his wife definitely play around and do a lot of things. They're not a vanilla couple for sure. And we talk all about that. But what he did want to call in and talk about was the fact that one time when they were playing with another guy and having a threesome, he couldn't get it up and it fucking freaked him out so much so that he like wound up like really kind of changing his life, changing how he ate,

changing how he worked out, changing what he did for exercise. And he also like did some other things. And he talks about exactly what he did to sort of change his life when it came to his health so that he would never have to worry about not having an erection again. When he gets a point where he starts talking about his diet and how he changed it. He says a word so fucking funny to me and I'm like, you'll hear it. I'm like, I'm like, I can tell you what the word is. You're going to have to listen to it. And I'm like, what the fuck is that word?

And we go off on this whole word. And then he says another word. And I'm like, oh my God. And I want people on Spotify to comment and tell me what you think about his word. Am I saying it right or is he saying it right? I don't know who the fuck is saying it right. But I want to know what you think, me comments. But besides talking about like how he changes diet and his workout and all that kind of

and what he did outside and, you know, for exercise, he does talk a lot about all their hookups. I mean, this is a couple that's like down to fucking play, like his girl and him are very into, or into a lot of things, okay? So you get a lot of sex stories in here too. And he ends with the last time they hooked up with the guy that he had a getting up issue with. He hooked up with him again after all his changes and he didn't have a fucking issue. He tells you all about that. And it's a hardcore scenario. I mean, his wife likes sex and he talks all about it. So anyways, whole journey is super interesting. So I'm going to get right to and be right back on Kyle.

This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Hi, Kyle. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Very best yourself. You are doing your very best, but you aren't always your very best. You like change your whole life when it comes to what was going on in the bedroom and just overall in your life because sometimes like what's happening in the bedroom does sort of pull. point to maybe issues you're having or right to your health. I did, you did say that you like reached out to me because I do a sexual health Saturday series now and I love to hear people's like journeys, health journeys, right? You were having performance anxiety, not performance anxiety.

You were having performance issues in the bedroom and you. I'm not too sure what it was, but it's okay, but like, you wound up like just changing your whole life and like losing weight, working, right? Like just changing your whole way of living and you don't have performance problems anymore. the bedroom, right? No, no, definitely not. Yeah, amazing. So let's start off with, first of all, like, how long were you married? And when did the performance issues show up?

And how did they show up? Well, it was basically just the one time it happened. Oh, I like you. You had it happen one time and you're like, fuck this. I'm going to figure out what the fuck's wrong and fix it. Like you're a problem solver that much. Well, yeah, that's just kind of one of the hottest. Not being able to.

Oh, no, no, no. You need to explain that. I didn't explain that. It was during a threesome. You need to explain that. I forgot. But like a lot of times people just have issues when like performance issues in the lifestyle when they're performing for more than one person because it's like they get in their head

about it. You know what I mean? Yeah. No, definitely it was definitely more of a mental thing, I think. Yeah. I went with it like I wanted to cross off all boxes. I wanted to cover all bases and not have that happen ever again. I like that.

I like it. You're like a problem solver. Yeah, yeah. I went off the deep end with health and it wasn't going to be because of health that. That would ever happen again. Yeah. Well, let's just talk about that threesome really quick. Like how do you wind up going from like, you know, being married to your wife and I'm assuming being monogamous having a threesome? Well, we actually were, we've had experiences that like we went to hotel takeover.

We went to house parties. Well, how did that come up in your relationship? Well, we always just kind of joked about it, joked about it. joked about hooking up with other people. We watched porn together, and we'd always kind of joke, like, it'd be hot to have them here with us, or be there, or whatever. And she has this very sexy friend that we joked about having sex with,

and she was kind of, let's say, promiscuous. And one day, we kind of joked about it in front of her, and she reciprocated that joke. And a couple weeks later, she was in our bedroom. Yeah, but what about the hotel takeovers? Which came first? Her in the bedroom or the hotel takeovers? Oh man, I want to say we went to the house party first.

All right, so how did that come up? That was kind of the same thing. We were just kind of joking about getting into the lifestyle before we finally weren't joking about it. We looked up some clubs online and found this one. And this one was quite a bit of a drive away, a couple hours away from us. So we went there. We were probably the youngest couple there probably by 20 years. How old are you?

Why? How old are you guys? We're at the time, we were probably 31. Okay. Now, let's say 28. Okay. That was before our marriage. So we did that then.

But the house was awesome. It was set up for swingers. It had a hot tub inside, hot tub outside. It had mirrors all over the ceilings. They had this kind of a cool system where they had a bedroom, but the upper wall had a cut out. And there was a mirror angled on the outside so people could watch. From above?

From outside of the room, they could watch up in the mirror to see the people in the inside. Did you guys hook up with other people that time? We did, yeah, we did meet a cool couple, and we were all very inebriated. So the sex wasn't high quality, but it was still a lot of fun. We got back to the hotel after the party, and we continued our adventure with each other. But, no, that was our first experience. It was kind of nerve-wracking. Right.

Well, it doesn't sound nerve-wracking. You were both just totally drunk and you just like land. Yeah. And you could get it up that time, right? Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, that wasn't a problem. No. Okay.

And then you continue on in the lifestyle. So you guys are like not monogamous for a while. Like before you're even fucking married, married your guys are doing other people. Yep. Yeah. So you're never really monogamous vanilla. No.

Like we weren't hardcore in the scene, but it's just something we'd like to try to do once, maybe twice a year. Uh-huh. Okay. But yeah, we, yeah, I wouldn't say we're open,

but we like to hook up with other people together. Yeah, it's interesting, because I've heard other people say this. Like, and it's just, it's like everyone

sort of sees it differently. I remember I had a guy on recently, who had a great story, by the way, too. And he talked about how he didn't say they were open because they

fuck other people with each other. And he considers being open, like having sex with other people without each other. I consider, being open when you allow each other to be with other people in front of each other. Like I don't consider, I don't make the, you know what I mean?

Like that to me is open, right? But it's interesting that other people don't think that. You know what I mean? So, but it doesn't matter. The fact is that you guys were like able, you guys did like to play with other people together sometimes, once in a blue moon. Yeah, it's just, that's nice to have different flavors. Of course.

Listen, I mean, you know, you, you have. a great girl that was like right there with you like feeling the same way obviously that you were both like always on the same page right yeah we're definitely on the same page when especially when it comes to our sex life yeah that's amazing and you guys were young when you started and so how many years like so did you went to other sort of clubs and stuff and did other things yeah so before we got married i think like you said we hooked up with after that we hooked up with her friend okay that the three something that you had the problem no No, the threesome was with another guy.

Oh, okay. We'll get to that. But how did the friend threesome go? It was awesome. She brought over a strap on. My wife, she's very bi-friendly. So she's even dated girls before me. So she was all for it.

And yeah, no, it went great. I had no issues. She had no issues. No one had any issues. And yeah, I got to see her get fucked with a strap on. Okay. And I got to have fun with her as well. Right.

So you guys have no rules or regulations with each other when it comes to like hookups with other people? No, really. We talked about rules and it was like it's kind of a game time decision when it comes to rules. Meaning like what does that mean? What does game time rule means? Like meaning like when you're in it, you decide. We never really. Yeah.

If like we've never heard the kissing thing was we talked about it. I was like, well, we both like kissing. So as long as everyone else is on board, we're going to kiss you. Right. So you're saying that you guys had no rules. You would just go by the other couple's rules. Yeah, essentially. I think condom was the only rule we had.

Okay. Anything goes. Okay. So let's, all right. So you're having all this fun with each other every now and then. I mean, you're not like professional lifestyle people by no means. No, no. But you were like when the mood hit, you both and the opportunity was there.

You guys would have some fun. So do you wind? been hooking up with her friend more than once? It was just the once. We had tried to try to get some other sessions going with her, but it just didn't work out. She had moved away now. Okay.

But we still, we actually just saw the other night, and there were some kids at the table, so we couldn't quite talk about other things. But yeah, no, she's still attractive, and she was telling us on her way out, she was telling us about a swinger cruise that she got invited to, so she's still doing her thing. Okay, so let's get to the, so then you eventually have the threesome with the guy?

Eventually, after we did a hotel takeover. How was the hotel take? It was a lot of fun. We did it twice. The second time we actually never ended up leaving our room. But the first time we got out on the dance floor, met a couple. We, on the way back up to their room, there was an open door we went in. And this guy had this big, I think, Sibian machine set up.

and girls were taking their turns right in that thing. And so that was fascinating to watch. But when we got back to the room, they informed us that they're kind of just a soft swap couple. So it was a little disappointing, but we still rolled with it and did our thing with them. What does soft swap mean? There was only oral?

Just oral. Yeah, no penetration. Okay. Go on. Is that all that happened at that hotel takeover? Yeah, with us. After we finished up with them, we went home because we actually.

just lived down the road from the hotel conveniently. Okay. But it was kind of funny, actually, the group we went there with, the hotel, the people who organized the event, there's a woman there that you got kicked out of the group a couple weeks later. So then that woman went on like some Yelp page and completely ratted out this hotel for having swinger parties. Why did she get kicked out, by the way?

Do you know? I think she was just talking shit on Facebook to a bunch of other members. She was just one of those. Yeah. And they had to know. that she was going to, the minute they kicked her out, she was going to go talk shit about them. That's what she is. She's a shit talker.

Yeah, just a troublemaker. Yeah. So they had to move the event to like two hours away. So we never actually ended up going to another one, unfortunately. Yeah. So she ruined that for us. She ruined it for a lot of people. And honestly, and the hotel too, because they had like a night where they guaranteed sellout.

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Because, you know what I mean? They were making money. Okay, so let's get to the- Popular spot. Let's get to the point where you have the threason with the guy. Okay, yes. So I think during our honeymoon, I kind of confess that I'd love to, like, have a threesome with a guy with her and kind of take a more of a boy or stick.

role as well. But so... You just watch her. You just want to watch her do the guy? Not just watch, but sit back for a couple minutes at a time and come back and join in, maybe take a break and join back in. I can't just sit there and watch for however long. I get too horny.

But you did say you wanted a little bit more of a voyeur experience. So there was a little bit of that that you wanted because you specifically pointed that out. Right. Definitely. Like my ideas, like I said, get things started, sit back, watch, join back in. He's in a nice position. Maybe sit back and watch again.

Yeah, yeah, that's a part of the fun, I would think. You know what I mean? Yeah, definitely. That's what people say is like, honestly, a lot of times the biggest turn on is like seeing the person that you're normally with that you can't see from afar actually seeing them in action, right? Because it's like you typically don't get that viewpoint when you're with her, you know? No.

My wife actually has that fascination as well. we hooked up with these couples. She really got off on looking over and watching me with another woman. Yeah, for sure. That's a total thing that girls have too. So what happens with that guy? So you're like going in that you're not just going to watch, but you want to watch, but you also will participate. Yep. So we, yeah, spent some time looking for a quality guy. I'm a kind of picky. And what sense? I just want, you know, obviously there's a hundred guys, a hundred of them will, are willing to fuck my wife, but I want someone that's going to be, yeah,

yeah, I want someone who's going to be able to, you know, be cool. But as looks and dick size important too? Is it just the personality? Like, what are you picky about? Just the vibe? I would say just a little bit of everything. Okay. Dick size isn't important, but it's,

it would be nice to have someone, someone of size. Okay. And looks, obviously she wants looks. She's, I don't, she's not as picky as I am when it comes to God. But I also just want a guy that's going to respect her. But are you also picky with his looks as well? Not so much. Okay.

I'm more that, attitude. Like, I think I want a guy that's going to respect me and then respect like, hey, that's my wife. Yeah. And he's not coming in looking to change anything.

Yeah, that makes sense. But he's also like bi-friendly. Okay, because you're a bot. Yeah, where does that come in? Yeah, buy flexible. One of the couples we hooked up previously,

He had sucked my dick and the reacting of the girls was really hot so that's kind of what I wanted to look for and the guy if he was going to be cool with any kind of biactivity. It wasn't necessary but it was more or less I think a vibe check that if a sword's crossed

that he wasn't going to freak out or anything. Okay. And he was cool with that. So yeah, we planned a date. We actually took the days off and he came over during the day and he brought his massage table and he brought us some cocktails as well.

So interesting that a lot of times these guys like, you know, bring in the whole massage thing. It's like a thing, you know what I mean? But I think it's smart because it's a very great way to get a girl to get in the mood, relax, right? Yeah, it's comfortable. It's easy.

She can say no at any time. Plus you get your voyeur. That's perfect for your voyeur fantasy, right? Because you get to watch all of that. You're not participating in that part, right? No, definitely, no. Right. So perfect thing.

to watch. He was super cool. He, like you said, we got down to business there. We had some drinks and the table came out. She had some lingerie on. So she got on the table. He started to massage her and slowly strip her down. And once she was naked, he actually invited me over to put some more hands on her.

So that was awesome. And that's when she started sucking both our dicks. And it was hot. And, you know, you get hard. And then, you know, a minute later, it starts to go soft. And I was like, all, whatever, I'll start to eat her out. And we did that. It gets hard.

And then it goes soft again. So then I was like, well, let's just go to the bedroom and get things going here. So once we got to the bedroom, I did a lot less watching and more trying to participate. And yeah, it was kind of the same story. It gets hard, soft, hard, soft. And I stood back and tried to analyze it and like, yo, do I actually enjoy this? And I was like, no, this is definitely one of the hottest things I've ever seen. But my dick has other plants.

Yeah, which is not normal for a guy because typically it's like, you know, the dick is out of tension more so than your brain. You know what I mean? Yeah, she looks at me in a certain way and it's springing right up. Yeah. Yeah. So I get hired one more time and I was like, all right, let's just get this finished up. And we finish. and we had the rest of the day.

So he left and I'm sitting down on the couch trying to analyze the situation. What happened? Why? And I decided like I'll commit to another threesome, but I'm going to do all these things in order for that to never, ever happen again. Did your wife say anything about it? No, no, she don't care.

She didn't. Right. It was actually that we hooked up with him again and he had issues. And I was like, it was kind of funny he had issues. He was like, oh, I didn't even notice. Did you have issues the next time yourself or no? Absolutely not. Okay, so just because of the one time you go nuts on yourself and change your whole life?

Yeah. Yeah, that sucked. Yeah, I didn't want that to happen again. But it didn't happen again. But did it, did you hook up with him the second time after your health journey or before your health? Yeah, this was after I've, this was after I kind of done everything. Okay, so don't go there yet.

So you didn't hook up with him yet. At this point, you just, at this point, in your story, you just couldn't get fucking hard, you're flipped out, and you need to, like, do something about it? So what, what do you do? How do you figure out what to do? So, first thing I did was commit to going to the gym more. I was only going to the gym, maybe two, maybe three times a week. I committed to going, getting up early before work and starting a routine. So I'd went five days a week in the morning. And before the gym even opened up, I'd do a run. around the park close to the gym.

And so I got my cardio up. I had a nice weightlifting program. Were you doing that before? You were doing all of that before, but just like not as consistent or is not as hardcore? Not as consistent, not as hardcore. I didn't really have a plan.

I was doing no cardio, but this time I wrote down, you know, I had a legit weightlifting plan, a legit cardio plan. And, you know, every day was a different activity. Where did you find?

find those plans? Google chat GPT, that person on Instagram? It was just some free app I downloaded off of whatever. Listen, I asked these questions because if people want to do the same thing, you know what I mean? It's helpful to know.

You know what I mean? What helps. So like, do you remember what the app was? The app, I think, is just like a basic that might work out free or something like that or workout plan or something. I actually don't know. But there's hundreds of apps that will do all the same.

thing. You're just picking, you just, you know, build your own plan. You pick what type of exercises you want to do that day. Set your sets. Set your reps. And away you go. But it keeps it all in the app for you. So you could just like easily access it so you don't forget it and stuff. Yeah, that's right. You keep track of, okay, well, last week I lifted, you know, 90 pounds. This week will do. Yeah. Yeah. You add. Keep back on. Yeah. Okay, go on. So you got the app. you started working out more committed, added in cardio, and you were always doing weights, going five times a week, plus running before you went. Yep.

You're an excheelist. So after that, after that, we started counting calories, which I've never done in my life. And that was probably the hardest thing, realizing, like, I've been overeating my entire life. And what was your, what was the, like, what would you eat? Let's go through, like, what you were eating in a regular day. you realize like, oh, you were overeating. Because sometimes, listen, I started to do count calories with ChachyPT because it was telling me, oh, if you want to lose three pounds, you have to do all this.

And I was like, what the fuck? Like, basically, I could barely eat anything if I want to lose one pound. I was like, fuck that. But like, it is crazy when you start counting calories, like every little thing that you don't think about. You know what I mean? And I was a very healthy eater. Were you actually a healthy eater or like a garbage eater before?

No, that was a garbage eater. Oh, you were? I love snacks. I love chips. I love bars. I had a bad habit of buying a chocolate bar every time I filled up with gas. What kind of chocolate bar was your favorite? Oh,

any kind? It was those Reese's pieces, wafers. Oh, yummy. Yeah. Okay. All right. Hardcore.

Anyway, those were my guilty pleasure. Okay, but also just tons of other garbage food. Like, would you eat fast food and all that kind of stuff? Oh, yeah,

fast food. Wendy's was my go-toe. Oh, my God. Your calories must have been off the chart. Oh, yeah. Once I started counting.

the weight was just coming right off because I'm jealous of you you want to know why I'm jealous of you because you want to know why like when you're like me and you're so fucking healthy and you barely eat anything and you're carb free like fabric like you know it's like it's so hard to lose the last three pounds

because you're doing everything you need to do and those other pounds that's like the hardest but when you're like you and this is what's actually great for people like you because I've helped other people like you lose weight I've had friends and I'm just like just do this this and that and like when you are somebody like you who eats so terribly, right? And like not even thinking and eating whatever you want, like you're 12 again,

you know, it's so easy for you to lose weight because all you have to do is like change your diet and eat healthy. And it's in, you know what I mean? Or even just cut out soda. Sometimes people are drinking soda and you're going to lose it. Or just, yeah, or just cut out your fucking chocolate bars. You're going to lose five pounds. You know, it's like there's so much you could do with your diet because you're doing it so wrong that even a slight change would have been great for you. So And that, and it's not even, it's not even like you have to even cut out the garbage. Exactly. If you're going to eat, if you're going to eat chocolate bars and chips that night, you just have a much smaller supper.

Right, right. That was kind of my thing. Like you just, you get calories. If I knew I was going to have beers and cocktails that night, you know, I was going to have an easy, easy lunch, an easy supper. Right. And then that gave me, you know, let's say 400 calories to have a couple cocktails. Right. So you pick and choose.

figure it out so you can still like right here so you're not being but like the good news is is when you do make those little changes it's like the the weight does come off really fast right yeah once it started it took three weeks before things started clicking but once it started I was losing yeah two pounds a week yeah it's amazing and I took no tie yeah it was awesome and so a part of that losing weight is I actually started cooking so I got into cooking and cooking my own meals which my wealth loved and what were your like favorite things to cook well it was pastas so it wasn't it was looking at all these pictures of these tasty meals and then there's the healthy stuff and then these pastas i was like oh i want to cook a pasta

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Wait, so tell me what, but listen, if you're, you could eat, listen, the truth is, especially because you're counting calories and stuff, the truth is you can have pasta or pasta if you want. You just have to have a specific amount, right, so that you're meeting your calories, right? Yeah, that's right. You just have a smaller bowl. Yeah. Or if I knew I was going to have a lot, like there were some nights, my wife would make wings. Yeah.

So if I knew, oh, man, I want so many wings tonight, I'm just going to skip lunch all together. Right. so you can hog out. Yeah, yeah. Okay. So, I mean, it's not the healthiest way to go about it, but. Listen, it was probably a lot healthier. I'm sorry, it was probably a lot healthier than what you were doing before.

Yeah, no, definitely. I had no vegetables before. Yeah, there you go. How do you say vegetables? Vegetables. Vegetables. Oh, my God. Who taught you out of fucking talk?

Everyone. What do you mean? How do you say it? Vegetables, vegetables. What do you say? Vegetables. Okay, that was more. I'm adding more syllables in life.

Is that what you're complaining about? I don't know. I don't know. Maybe it's my ears say, okay. I love what I like this stuff, but it's funny to me. I've heard you say Mira before. Mara. Oh, and Mountain.

I mean, I have really bad words too. Trust me. I like it. I'll go there. I don't mind. You don't know what I can insult my. I dig it. I dig it.

Yeah, yeah. Mountain Mara. Like, I'm so bad. All right. So you're, so you're, listen, like you, and I think, but I think actually what you're saying is actually really interesting and it gives a hope to other people. Like, you don't have to be psychotically overly healthy, right? Because some people will never want to live their life like that.

You know what I mean? But it's all about, like you said, counting calories. Like you still were eating like really yummy things that you actually really liked and you were still able to have cocktails and, you know, carbby stuff. and everything, but you just had less of it and you were and you lost a lot of weight. Yep. Which is good news for people that like stuff. It was awesome.

And actually the cooking thing actually led me into cooking or cooking making cocktails, which which really got me kind of a new hobby of mine. What do you why? How did that? Because you're like cooking and like having like you wanted to perish stuff with cocktails at home. You know, download a, download a cooking app and you're scrolling through all these menus and then, you know,

a fancy drink comes up. I thought, well, that kind of looks tasty. I think the first cocktail I made was something called a blueberry smash. Oh my God, that's fun. Yeah, you make blueberry syrup and blueberry simple syrup and rum and then lime. And it was killer. Wow. I got my wife drunk, so that's sick.

And it actually, which actually led to me getting anal for the first time. Oh, my God. That's what it takes. Yeah. So, I mean, it was always, she could always. take it, but it was more like just set it in there and let her do her own thing. Uh-huh. But when I started making her cocktails, I was finally able to actually fuck her ass.

And so that changed my life too. People want that. People are like, wait, people are rewinding. Like, wait, what's that? What's that recipe for blueberry smash? Blueberry smash her ass. Blueberry smash. That's what it should be called.

That's what it came down to. Yeah. You should fucking make that a thing. That's so fucking funny. So it got your wife, okay, so now you're cutting calories, you're going to the gym. What else did you add into your life that change?

How much weight did you lose, by the way? I lost 40 pounds. That's a lot. Did you, like, how was your skin after that? My skin? Yeah, was it fine? I don't know.

Sometimes you see people, I don't know what 40 pounds, like 40 pounds all over, probably not that much. Oh, like wrinkles and stretch marks and shit? Well, just like sometimes like skin hangs if it's been so bad, you know, when it's like a lot.

But I don't think 40 pounds is enough to really. change your skin and your elasticity, right? No, my weight was all my gut. Right, but when you lost your all, if it's all in your gut and you lost it, wasn't that skin hanging down or it went back? It was fine. No, it looks good. Okay, good.

That's good. Well, you're young. How old are you now? What are we? Just turned 37. Okay, cool. All right, so you lost 40 pounds. Yep.

Okay. What else did you do? 30 pounds. What else? Did cardio. I started doing more swimming, actually, instead of lifting weights, because the, I don't think I was resting well and I ruined some of my tendons. But so I just started doing that.

More activities outside. Just picking up more like hobbies outside like disc golf. What is it called? And like like disc golf. Disgolf. Right. Yeah. Disgolf.

Yeah. Yeah. So. I mean, I think the point of what you're saying, which is actually a really good message to people because like I love lifting weights and I've always been somebody who trains what weights and I enjoy it. But not everybody does, right? And just because it's not for you, it doesn't. mean like something else wouldn't be like everyone has to find the thing like the workout thing that

they actually really enjoy because if it's not something you enjoy you're not going to stick with it and you have to stick with it you know that's what's most important and listen I never had injuries when I was younger working up but so many my guy friends do because you know you guys are all like the same you're want you push yourself way harder than you should you're not really you know what I mean like you're throwing weights on that you shouldn't be doing and then you wind up fucking having an injury You know? Yeah. So exactly what happened.

Right. Yeah. That happens. All the guys I ever worked out with were always like that because they just push themselves. Girls were overly. We don't do that to ourselves. But that's like a typical thing.

So you took up swimming and other things. And that's what's great. There are so many things that people could do besides working out in a gym if they don't want to that is like a good exercise. The point is to just be fucking moving. Yeah. At the end of the day, just, you know, that's another thing. If you do want to eat a little more, then you have.

you have to work out a little more that day. Right. Maybe I'll go to the gym and cycle for 40 minutes. That buys me another two cocktails that night. But yeah. And I think the last thing that helped me out, probably the main factor that helped me out, was I got a prescription for Cialis as well. Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that.

Yeah, no. Why do you laugh? Well, I don't know. It's kind of probably the cheat, probably a cheat to everything I did. But like I said, I wanted to cross off all factors. Yeah, but, you know, there's certain benefits to those medications. Aren't there for overall health? Like, I feel like I just saw Dr. David Sinclair saying something about it being good for some other things.

But like, you know, listen, a lot of guys take that kind of stuff. You know, was that the first time in your life you ever did? So I got the prescription. I took it maybe four times. Okay. Since I got it. I got it two years ago. I've only taken it four times.

I actually just got the prescription renewed literally two days ago. So did it help and, you know, when you used it and what were the times that you used it? The time, so I used, I got it, I had to try it immediately. And I tried it and you're just rock hard for like so long and for no reason. Is that like annoying or is that good? Well, when you're home alone, it's awesome. but when you're trying to take care of your little guy, and it happens.

You got a boner. Oh my God. Yeah. Because it lasts like the medication is supposed to. You take one and it'll last like two days. You're kidding. But it's not like you're hard. It won't last two days.

But no, no. But you know, like you said, she even turns in your direction. You're just sprung up. Right. So what were the time? So why did you get that at the end of the day? Were you still so in your head? head and worried that like you would have a problem again that you're like I just want to

fucking back up just to make sure that never happens again yeah like I said I wanted to cover all bases I definitely did not want to have to have to go through that again and I didn't want to have to think about it leaning up to it I didn't want to be like man she's I hope I'm not going to have that issue again yeah it's interesting because I just talked to a girl named patty and she was like you know oh I was with this guy and he couldn't get it up and guys just need to know like you know if they can't get up they should just like fucking go down and i'm like you don't understand like if a guy can't get it up do you understand how in his fucking head he is like yeah in the perfect world he's going to be thinking oh who cares my dick won't get hard i'll just go down

you know what i mean but like for guys it's like their biggest fucking fear right like it's like so for you and i think you're like a regular guy like for you it literally just happened once and you're so freaked out that to not have it again, that you're doing all this stuff because I think that that's like how important being able to get your dick up and make it work is for guys. Yeah, you got this awesome scene in front of you. You want to be able to enjoy it. God forbid it happens again. You just can't. Yeah. So there's things you can do. Yeah. And sometimes it's, I don't know, like I was enjoying myself, but it still wasn't going up. Yeah. So I don't know, I don't know what was going on. And the last and the worst thing is. Yeah. And the worst thing is,

that because and I know that this is like a vicious cycle that could happen. You know, of course it happens once and you get in your head about it. And then if you're the type of person that thinks too much or you're just wired into like not, you know, you could be in a loop with that. Like you know what I mean? Like it now that in your head thing is going to happen all the time. You know what I mean? And it could really then become a thing that you can't get past because you're thinking about it because it just happened one time. Do you know what I'm saying? Like because. Yeah. Well, that was one of my fears was Yeah. If we were hooking up with another couple or another girl or if we, you know, had him back or someone else, like, am I going to have to think about that?

Am I going to have to. Yeah, you're already in your head about it. Yeah. So, like I said, it could have been, it could have been placebo pills for all I care. But as long as doctor said that that's what they were. Yeah. And I bet you anything, placebo pills would have worked because it sounds like it was a lot in your head. But it did help.

But, you know, but they obviously weren't placebo because you were getting fucking. work hard all the time. They definitely were not. Can't confirm. But wait, do you, does it like, because like, like, does it also just create, like, besides keeping you hard, was it like making you more horny? Does it do that too? Or no?

I mean, I would say because you're hard, you're like, you feel, I'm going to do something with this thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Interesting. I mean, I don't have a dick, so I don't know. I'm just asking because there's probably plenty of guys who have never tried to see Alice because they're young like you and they just haven't. and, you know, so it's interesting to hear your experience with it.

Yeah, no, it's, I mean, if you have issues, I'd recommend. If you don't have issues, you'd probably better off not taking it. Like you said, I've been careful of how I use it. Like, I've only used it four times the last two years. And what were those times? The first time, the trial night. So my wife was kind of, she's very, like, she takes a lot of medication. She does a lot of research on medication.

And she was like, you're just going to take that without doing any research on the, you know, side effects? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I'm like your wife. I'm more like your wife. So she did, she like, yeah, did a deep dive into it. Well, she tried to, but I had popped it before she could. But so we tried it that night. That was a trial night.

Uh-huh. Worked awesome. And then I think there was another time where we thought we were going to hook up with someone or we were going to go downtown and try to pick up somebody. And I popped it that night. nothing came of it. Meaning you never, you couldn't find somebody to hook up with? Yeah, we couldn't hook up with anybody. Okay.

And then the next time I took it was with, we invited him back over. The same guy, right? We actually went over to his place. Yeah, same guy. And he's got an awesome little setup downstairs. He got like a couple hooks in the ceiling. We tied my wife to and kind of had our way with her. It was, oh, I was sick.

Why don't you explain that whole scenario? We're only at 40 minutes. We could do another 10 minutes. Like we tell that whole details. Yeah, sure. So he invited us to his place this time. And we went over. She was already in lingerie.

She just wore a big coat. Oh, wow. With that lingerie underneath, that's it? Yeah. So as soon as we got in the doorway, she kind of just took off her coat and she was right there in lingerie and soon as we got in. And we kind of went straight to it. And so we started on the couch.

And then after, you know, what was probably like 20 minutes, we went downstairs and he's kind of got this, I don't want to call it. a dungeon, but it was just like a kink room. He has his massage table and stuff set up. I think he tries to give massages to a bunch of people. I feel like I've had that guy on my show. Yeah, he's probably could. He's got some stories. Yeah, I feel like that guy was on my show. But I think that there's a lot of those guys out there, the massage guys. Yeah, no doubt. Yeah. Okay. It's an easy way in. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so you're there. So we're down there. He shows us the whole. He shows us the whole. hook in the ceiling and I did bring over a couple of restraints.

Why? Because you guys were into that and you knew? Kind. Yeah. He must have told us beforehand he's got, he's really into tying, using restraints and tying people up. Actually last time, back at the house, my wife actually mentioned, we were tying her up. He was fucking her. We were tying her up. And I remembered we had hooks in the back of the bed. So we had chained her feet, her legs wide. open to the headboard. Uh-huh. And she could feel him get harder as we were tying her legs wide open.

So he's like totally into that type of stuff. And he told us he had hooks in his ceiling to tie her up. I'm pretty sure over text. So we knew what was going to happen. Right. Okay. And you guys obviously like it too. Yeah, yeah.

It's fun. It's fun. It's not like our main vibe, but it's definitely fun to experiment. Yeah. So yeah, we tied her up. He was fucking her first. behind and I had took this daring move of taking a garbage can, flipping it over and standing on it so she could suck me while she's standing up. Oh, because that's how she's connected to those

things on top. She's like sort of tied up but standing? Yeah, her hands are tied together and they're chained up over her head. Oh, okay. Interesting. Yeah. So anyway, so she's, he's fucking her. She's sucking me off at the same time. And yeah, no, it was a good night. She loved it. She kind of loves, he was slapping her a little more than him, usually used to slapping her, and she was super into that. And that's another thing of finding out, you know, inviting more people in the bedroom. They do different things.

You realize, oh, she's actually into that a lot more than I thought she would be. Yeah, interesting. And so I incorporate that a little more in some our sessions. What? You've had three sons with women. You've had stuff with guys. Like, you are a little by. Like, do you ever do anything with this guy?

Yeah, we, we sucked each other a little bit. We didn't spend a whole lot of time on it. Okay. Like, I'm kind of fat, like, if he's got a nice hard dick, yeah, I'll probably want to put my mouth around it. Okay. But he sucked my dick a lot more than I sucked his. Interesting. Okay.

Like I said, the second time we were with him, he was having performances issues as well. I remember her like we were she was sucking us and then she was like I need someone to fuck me and this and at that point

I was like all right finally I get to sit back and watch this and I sit down and he kind of gives me a look I'm like yeah alright

I'm look down he's he's not at all hard I was like all right you should have you should have your regime yeah I know I know I should have

I should let him know hey bro this is what you got to do so you start fucking her yeah I start fucking her she starts sucking him and he gets

a little hard and then I mentioned, all right, let's get downstairs and tire up and he's all for that. So I got to sit back a little bit, but not as much I'd like. But you got to walk, but he was able to get it up when he went back downstairs? Yeah, a little bit here and there. Okay, that's cool. Did you like say, hey, dude? Let's say for the most part. Did you say, hey, dude, maybe you should try some Seattle.

You know, because you were on one that night, correct? I was, yeah. Yeah, I was. I didn't have to worry about the thing. Yeah. So advantage me. But have you played with any other people since him? Since him?

No, we haven't. We're trying to. We actually went to a sex club a week or two ago that did not go well. It is a small sex club. We got in there. We were given a tour of the place. Yeah, I've heard of that. And there's only, it's small.

So there's only maybe, maybe 20 people there, maybe 15. So we're doing a tour. we got down in like the dungeon room and there was a girl getting fucked on the swing which was sick so it's kind of funny he was giving us this tour we're going to each room and then there's this one single guy that kept he must have known the tour route because he was just in every single room we went he would get up beat us to the next room just be sitting there oh he wanted yeah yeah so So anyway, after the tour, me and my wife are like, well, let's just go sit in the corner and just kind of warm up to the atmosphere and see if we vibe. And literally, we didn't even sit down before a guy approached us and start starting.

He introduced himself. And he wasn't quite our type. And I told him, hey, man, we're cool. And literally before he could turn around, another guy was there introducing himself. And he was a little more chatty. And I told him, oh, we're cool, dude. He was like, all right. And then he kept talking and talking and talking.

And as he's talking, another guy approached us and tried to introduce himself. And it just was like, oh, damn boys, give us some time here. Yeah, too many single guys maybe at that place. Yeah, it was kind of crazy. So none of them, not to sound picky, but none of them were really our type. None of them really kept good care of themselves. Yeah, that's not good. now I asked her like yeah you want to use the washing with me he was like yeah

so we went to wash him or like what do you think she's like I don't know no one's no one's here really my thing I'm like yeah me either so we bounced we stay there for maybe maybe 15 minutes and it was very disappointing yeah it was disappointing yeah there's it was it seemed clicky like they had a lobby area where everyone was naked just kind of hanging out but everyone was kind of already in their groups. Yeah. And I think it was more or less of a community. Like, it's a very inclusive spot.

So as the tour guide describe them, it's a lot of the people are neurodivergent. Oh, you're kidding. They should do like that. They're like on the spectrum swinging. Yeah. Yeah, they do theme nights. And so we might go back on like a swinger night where it's just couples only.

Yeah, that's what you probably should. You were there at the wrong day. Let me ask you questions. This is about, yeah, go on, but what? Like, I just want to mention, like, my wife has a fantasy of using, like, the reverse glory hole and they had one here. Oh, there you go. Which is, which is her, or just torsos through the hole.

Yeah. It's just her legs or pussies for everyone. Yeah. I'll line up a guy. So we have had that fantasy, but fortunately that night, we couldn't live it out. But you will because you know that it's there. Let me ask you this. Yeah, we know it's there.

First of all, does your wife know that you're calling into the show? She does, yeah. Okay. I was like, I don't know. I got a chicken out. She's like, no, you should go. You should go. So this phone call is because of her.

Oh, good. Okay, well, maybe she could come on the show. I mean, she sounds like fun. I could love to have her. She has a lot of fun. She hates the online chatting and like the betting. Yeah, it's okay. I want to hear the whole story from her.

She just loves a good time. Any girl that's going for a reverse gang bang like sex. I'd love to talk to her on the show. so I know she's going to be listening. If you want to send in hot picks of her and you for my Patreon, that would be great. But I also want her on my show. Let me ask you this since this was like a sexual health journey episode too, but it was a lot more of like sex stuff and everything.

But like are you still keeping up with everything like if you like is it now? Like because listen, everything like starts out like as a diet or whatever. But it like has to become like your way of life, right? For it to really stick and stuff. Is that do you now live your life like the way that you like, Are you still doing all the things after you made all the changes? Yep, absolutely.

I still got the 40 pounds off. I'm trying to stay just under 200. Uh-huh. However, we just had vacation, so I'm up to 202. Okay. So I'm going to get those two pounds off. But we, yeah, no, I'm still going to the gym every morning. I'm doing a little more cardio.

I guess I'm doing more swimming and cycling now than weightlifting, but because of the injury, but we're slowly getting back into more weightlifting. But, yeah, no, I guess I'm still keeping track of calories. I'm not strictly counting calories anymore. You count calories so long, you kind of know what... Yeah, of course. How much something's going to be. So you just kind of eyeball it.

Yeah, now you know what you could eat, because you've been eating that way for so long. You kind of know what you can have and what not to have, right? Yeah, you know, burger is going to be six to 700 calories, you know. Say the word. Say the P-word again. What last time? Pasta.

Pasta. The pasta. No, no, no, no. You say it the way you fucking... say it right now. No, no, please say it the way you say it. It's so entertaining. All right. You're still eating my pasta. Yes. Love it. I'm so jealous that you get to eat pasta. I try to stay away from carbs. Like one fucking French for alligator pound. I can't stand it. But there's nothing better than pasta pasta. It's a saucy meals. I make this Tuscan chicken that is just killer. Oh, yummy. It's a lot of cheese. It's a lot of heavy cream.

Yeah, but you know, that's a lot of. Okay. Like you said, everything in moderation. It sounds like that's kind of like what you follow when it comes to like your diet or how you eat. And that works. You know what I mean? And I think it's great that you found what works. And as long as you keep doing that, like it becomes just like how you live your life. That's the way it should be. Like you'll keep that 40 pounds off. You know, and it sounds like you don't really need the Seattle since you've literally only used it four times. But it's great to know that it's there just in case, right? Yeah. The rest of it's expired. So I had to get a new one. Oh my God, that's so funny. But I think, I love your story. I'm so glad you called in. I love the way you say pasta and vegetables. I can't wait. Bulls. Very well. Anyway, I get stuck on things that I find interesting. Then I'm like, does anyone else find it interesting the way he says pasta? I don't know.

But like, that's why I'm glad it's my show. I could go off on just the way you say it for 20 minutes and it's fine. But anyway, I love your whole story. I mean, because it has a lot of different, like, listen, I had some really interesting health-related stuff, but I had a lot of sex stuff. And that's what people love on my show too. All your stories are pretty fun. guys can listen to it and take from it and, you know, change your life or better, I do think I look better in the mirror. Yeah, that's the, that's the greatest thing about like sort of, listen, I mean,

you know from going to the gym or working out or doing anything really physical, like you always feel way better when you do it, right? So it's so great for you emotionally too. But like at the end of the day, and it's great for you health-wise, right? And it's great for your dick. But at the end of the day, on top of all of that, it does make you look fucking better. And who doesn't want to look better? You know what I mean? On top of all of those great things, it also makes you look fucking good and great. And that's, there's nothing wrong with that. Part of our threesomes, we take a lot of picks and videos for us to watch later. Yeah. I mean, she looks amazing, but I look a little better now too. Yeah. Doesn't that feel good to see yourself

looking fucking good? Yeah, in those videos. I think that's great. So you see the difference. So thanks so much for calling in and sharing your journey with everybody. No, thanks for taking it. Yeah, listen, send me in picks if you want of you and your wife. Anonymous picks, rated art picks for Patreon. When you hang up, you'll get access to my Discord if you want to go in there and look around and do whatever you want. Oh, deadly. Yeah, you're going to get the link when we hang up.

There's a lot of shit. I just started a video contest, a short second, 10 second, 15 second video. You win 200 bucks if you win. We do contests over there all the time. So you could join that, do whatever you want over there. But if you're going to send me pictures, send them sooner than later. Okay, so I have them. and email them to me, okay?

And get your wife on if she wants to call in, okay? We'll just talk to her about sex. Okay, good. All right. Thanks a lot, Kathy. Have a good one. You too. Bye.

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