Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1637 - Lexie Meadows Is a Hardcore Hotwife Married to a True Cuck

Episode Date: October 26, 2026

including how she was a hotwife before meeting her current husband, why she didn’t tell him about her hotwifing experience right away, when he revealed his hotwifing fantasy and how their lifestyle evolved into cuckolding, where she finds guys to hook up with and what she looks for in a bull, their first threesome and why it was disappointing, her next hookup at a sex club while her husband watched, why he doesn't hook up with other women, her first solo overnight experience and what happened when her husband briefly had second thoughts, why she enjoys solo hookups and when her husband watches, how she bosses her husband around without taking the humiliation too far, how they arrange her hookups now including having him wait in another room, how they handle flaky bulls and establish boundaries, why their lifestyle has brought them closer together, how and why skipping reclaiming sex turns her husband on, their wild honeymoon foursome with two guys they picked up and exactly what went down, why they started a Fansly account and podcast together and why she's out and proud about their lifestyle, plus a whole lot more. You can find her here: https://cuckoldresslexie.com GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR AUDIO BOOK COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    To see HOT pics LEXIE plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join ANNUALLY, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors:  https://bathmatedirect.com/strictly — For 20% off world’s best pumps! Use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/anonymous⁠⁠ — Take the quiz and then use code ANONYMOUS for 50% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY #indacloud  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! + 10% OFF first order, Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://DipseaStories.com/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get first week FREE then 25% off  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I have on Lexi Meadows. Lexi Meadows is a true cuckold dress. And she's got a super interesting story. And let me tell you, her guy, he's going to come on the show. I can't wait to talk to him because he had the fucking jackpot with her because she was a woman who had like hot wiped in. the past with other guys and then she meets this new guy, which is her husband now. And he winds up

bringing it up to her. Like this is something that I've always been into. And oh my God, did he hit the jackpot? Because it was something that she had done in her past. She was down for it. And she talks about that whole story in the beginning as well as then what happened after that. Of course, they started having threesomes with guys. You know, he was a stag in the beginning, but he definitely morphed into being much more of a cock. She's definitely a cuckledress. She talks about that morphing and how it happened. You know, eventually they were doing threesomes and then she was like doing solo play overnight solo play. And you got to hear about the first overnight solo play experience. What happened. That wasn't so great. How she dealt with it. How her husband

dealt with it and how they got past it. And then how they've rolled since. Her honeymoon story is out of control, like she had a little orgy. Or like maybe it was mini gang bang on her honeymoon night. She tells that story. And she talks about like, you know, how he morphed into a cock and like how far he takes that, you know, and what's involved and what he digs. It's a lot of that tease and denial, you know, not letting him reclaim for a while, him being in another room or her being in a hotel, all that kind of good stuff. And she talks about how it's like, you know, hard to sort of ride the line and understand, you know, what he's into and what he's at. And she talks about like how she reads him and how she knows what he's into and what's not because she's like doming him a little

bit. You'll hear all about it. It's a super interesting story. She's super hot. They have their own podcast called the Cuckled Marriage podcast where they're on together. So there are a couple talking about cuckolding. You could check that out. I'll put the link to her website in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right tuned to be right back on with Lexie. The strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Lexi Meadows. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast.

How are you today? Oh, I'm great. How are you, Kathy? Good. So listen, Lexi Meadows, you are a cuckled dress, okay? And you have a husband. You're married. You cuckled him.

And we're going to get your whole story. I do want to give a shout out, though, because you and your husband have your own podcast called the Cuckled Marriage Podcast, and you guys are both on together. I think that's super interesting. and you also, you know, I'm going to put your website in the description so people driving don't have to remember anything, everything, you know, but like on your website, you also have a Fansley account. They could reach it there, right, from your website as well as a book and all that kind of good stuff. We'll talk about that at the end and talk about Fansley when that comes up like in your life story, right? But why don't you just tell people what you do on your podcast too as well, real quick? Great. So on the podcast, we do one each week and we just talk about. the lifestyle. We talk about our experience. We have guests on that also talk about their experience.

And we just kind of go over the fun stuff, stories and also kind of some of the psychology behind it sometimes, that sort of thing. Yeah, I love it. So anyone looking for more of this specific content, you got it over there. And I love that it's you and your husband. So give me a little backstory on you and your husband. Like how long ago did you meet him? So we've been together about three years. Okay. And Mary. for two years. Okay, cool. So now, where you were cuckleding a little bit before him, right? Like, you were doing this before, so right? Before him? Yeah. Right. I did this in previous relationships. So I've been doing it for a better part of a decade and a half. Okay, but like when it first came up with whoever it came up with,

because we're going to go mostly towards your husband and talk about that when you meet him and what happens and, you know, how you bring it up or how that even comes up between you guys. But like, how did it come up first in your life to begin with? Was there one, guy at some point that said it to you or did you always feel like you had the desire to be with more people so you brought it up? Like how did it and like how did you become a cultist even before your husband? So I did have a guy bring it up and that tends to be very common in this dynamic. It's usually the guy that brings it up. Totally. And my husband brought it up too. And so you're kidding. Wait, and without even knowing that this was something that you were into? Right. You are.

So you're like dating this guy and you don't tell him though that this is what you're into. He brings it up to you first. Right. Why didn't you tell him by the way? It honestly did not occur to me to be like, by the way, in the past, I've, you know, fucked other men besides the person I'm in a relationship with. Are you cool with that? I was okay with, you know, not doing that if it wasn't going to be something that he was into. And he brought it up really early on.

so I didn't even have a chance to think about it. And he was like, hey, would you be interested in doing this? It's kind of been a fantasy of mine. And I was like, oh, that's old news. I've done that forever. Sure. Oh, my God. He must have got a witty right then and there.

Because, like, honestly, like, listen, I get, like, you know, the reason I ask you that question is like, you know, why wouldn't you tell him? Because maybe I was thinking, like, it's either, like, you did that for many years, right? And you actually enjoyed it so much that you could never imagine being in a monogamous relationship. but what you just told me was that like, you know, you met this great guy after doing it for all those years. If he never brought it up to you and just wanted to be monogamous, you were down with that, right? Like you wouldn't have brought it up to him? Right. Yeah. It's not, you know, it's nice being able to have the variety and everything, but, you know, I would have, I would have been okay if that had not been an option.

Okay, that's kind of interesting. So you, so you meet him and he winds up bringing it. Like, isn't that crazy kind of that? What meets the one girl that's done this a lot? Because it's not a, listen, on my show, it's common. And, you know, I learned about how common it is from doing my show. You know, I see the downloads. I get the emails from people. You know, so many people are doing it. A lot of guys are just into it and wishing that their girl was, you know, it just is this common thing. I'm, I think it's like actually kind of cool of your guy to have brought it up really early on, right? Were you surprised? I was very surprised. I was the irony, you know, that he'd brought that up. I was like, oh my gosh, here we go again. Yeah, this was meant to be. So wait a second. Now, had he had a history of doing it in the past,

or he was just like, oh, let me try with this girl to see if she'd be into it? Yeah, he had never done it before, and he'd always wanted to for years and years and years. And so I think that he brought it up so early because he was really, really wanting to find someone that would be into it. Right. Like he didn't want to have another relationship where he wasn't getting like this strong need met, right? So he was just going to weed it out from the beginning. We'd people out in the beginning. And I don't think that he was dead set. Like I think that, you know, he, if he had met someone that he really, really, really liked and they were like,

no way, I think he would have stayed with him. But he really, really wanted this so bad. Oh my God. So do you remember like where you were and what he said to you? Like did he just say, Did he call it hot wiping or like, how did he bring it up? He, I was, I was at my place and he sent over an article. Oh. Okay. I think it was cuckolding, not hot wiping at the time. But he sent over an article and I can't remember which article it was now.

But he's like, yeah, so I'm kind of into this. And then he basically just held his breath for what I would say. He texted it to me. So, and I texted him back, you know, been there, done that, sure, you know, like something like that. Oh my God. Now, were you happy because you enjoy the lifestyle? Was it like, no, like neither here nor there or were you, you know what I mean? Like, how did you feel when he brought it up to you? Oh, no, I was thrilled. Yeah. Like, I was like, what are the odds? This is, this is fabulous, you know? Now I can continue to

have variety and have, you know, all, all the options that I want and everything. Like, I was, I was thrilled with it. Right. And then you could be honest. honest about all your past, like your past and bring it up, right? Because, listen, if you did it for like 10 years, like, how do you not tell a partner that you're married to your whole life that you didn't do, like that you had this whole secret life? You know what I mean? Like, you didn't have to keep it a secret, right? Oh, I wouldn't have kept it a secret. I would have told him eventually. Oh, okay. I thought you were like, well, how do you tell a guy? Like, you know, whatever. But so you would have told him if he didn't bring it up is what you're saying. Right. Okay. Okay. So you, so he's like so happy.

So in that texting thing, like, do you guys just like get on it right away? Like, where do you go from that initial tax of him telling you he's into it and you saying, oh my God, I've done this before and I'm down? You know, we did get on it, you know, fairly quickly, not immediately, but within a few months, I think we met up with a guy and had a threesome and it was a lot of fun and, you know, just kind of took off from there. Well, let me ask you this. In your previous relationships, was it always good? Like, you know what I mean? Like, did you have any problems and discuss anything with him ahead of time? Like, oh, by the way, like, this has been my experience and this is what I like and this is what I don't like. I mean, did you guys have any kind of conversations before that threesome? Because you do have a lot more experience than him going in. Yeah. I mean, I think that we, you know, kind of went over everything and our preferences, what we were comfortable with. We kind of had some boundaries that we, you know, verbally.

set down. Yeah, those are the kind of things I like to get. You know, so that's the stuff that we could expand on. You know what I mean? So what, so you didn't just have the threesome. You had conversations about it and had and communicated about it going in. So what were the boundaries that you guys created and the stuff that you guys discussed? So we originally, the boundaries we had were like, he had to be always involved. He had to be in the room. You know, he had to be in on the action. And, you know, that sort of thing. It's funny how boundaries change over time. Yeah, but, you know, that was a big thing.

Also, you know, it was at the time, it was more on the hot-wifing spectrum, you know, and there was, there wasn't any real, you know, humiliation or, you know, that sort of thing. It was very much more just hot-wifing type of thing. We were Stag Vixen when we first. started off basically. That was more of our dynamic originally with Stag Vixen, and then we slowly progressed into cut-holding. Yeah, that's the journey that we're going to get, which I think is super interesting. So you go and you have this first threesome. What kind of guys are you into when you go looking for guys? Like, I'm assuming you're the one that went on the app and found the guy for

yourself? Yes, back then, that's what happened. And I, I mean, I like, you know, the typical tall, tall, dark, handsome, but they have a good personality. Yeah. And, and, and, you know, and, So that's kind of what I look for. I look for people who actually have a personality instead of just maybe put a couple of pictures of them. Yeah, some dickpicks, some bathroom, gym bathroom mirror picks. And selfies? Yeah, and then they don't say anything on their profile

and they write like sup, you know? Oh my God. I cannot stand those guys. Yeah, you like the guy that actually introduced themselves, maybe get a little conversation going and right I mean I think most women need that I don't know and this is where like guys it's like maybe you'd be happier if you were just like gay because you could do that to a guy maybe you know and send a dick pick and the next minute you're blowing him but girls don't roll that way typically do you know I mean we need a little bit more exactly right okay listen everyone I have had so many stories on my show about

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Yeah. So are you a size queen like our friend Venus Cuckoldress? I know you've been on her show too. You know she's a big size queen. She needs the big dick. Well, I mean, who doesn't love a big dick? It's hard. It's hard not to, you know, be really excited by those. Right. But are you like, oh, is that something that when you say tall, dark, and handsome,

do you also look for like someone who's well hung or you just down for it's more important that they're like, you know, your type in every other way? I mean, I would say that it's more important that they're my type in every other way. Right. But do I try and. try and find the bigger guys and get really excited when I actually find a bigger guy. Hell yes. I mean, every girl wants that. Like the size, it does matter. And it doesn't every cock like that too? And even the stags like it. Like because really like a lot of times, you know, what the guys are getting out of it is like,

you know, seeing their girl being pleasureed, right? And sorry as a girl, like not that we're not going to be happy with a guy who's average, but when a guy has a bigger dick, a lot of times it feels better, right? So you are being more pleasure. And isn't that what your guy's looking for? So I find that most of these guys that are into hotwifing want the guy to have a bigger dick too. Oh yeah. They absolutely do. Yeah. So your guy likes that too. So how was that first threesome for your guy? I feel like his story, like him telling this story is probably more interesting than you because you've been there, done that so many threysms. But this is like a guy who had never experienced us before and always wanted it. Like what would he say about that experience or what?

did he say? I mean, I think that it was very, the sex was mediocre. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, it wasn't, it wasn't our, our favorite experience. But that's okay, because, you know, we got another chance later and we had a blast then and we've, we've had fun since then. So, but the first one was kind of a lot down. Why? Why? He couldn't get it up or he just was like, he fucked like a rabbit. Like, what was the problem? A little, little of both. Really? He just, yeah, he, he, He was having a little bit of trouble, you know, keeping it fully hard. And he just didn't have a rhythm, you know. So it just, it wasn't the best, but.

That, I mean, you know that that happens, right? Because you were in the lifestyle before him, right? And that's very common. And how do you vet somebody really? You're not going to know that until you're actually with them. So how was the next experience like good one with your husband? The next one was fabulous. We were at a sex club.

Oh, okay. Yeah, and we've been to sex clubs multiple times, but this was the only time that we actually, like, you know, met a single guy there and had fun that same night. And it was fabulous. We went to one of the back rooms, and I, and he sat in his cuck chair next to the bed. Your husband.

Your husband. He did. That's the time. Oh, and this is just the second time he's already morphing into the cock. Yeah, right? Yeah, yeah. And, yeah, he's slowly morphing. But it was funny because we didn't know the rules of the sex club that, you know, if you do not, in that big room, if you don't, I'm like the biggest room, but if you don't close the curtains on some of those rooms, it basically means that you're okay with other people coming in and joining.

Yeah. Can you believe that like that's, I've done so many episodes just on like that, those kinds of tips and that, because I feel like if how would you know if you don't know? You know what I mean? Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. We learned. Yeah. We learned. Why's because you're like having sex and everyone's walking in. Oh my God. Yes. I literally like, you know, I'm, I'm pretty focused. Yeah. But at one point I come up for air and I look around and I realize that there's two other couples. One of them is like having sex on the couch that's next to the bed. And one of them's like actually on. the bed because it was a big big bed and there had me sex on the edge of the bed and I'm like oh there's people in here oh my god it's kind of surprising but did you continue well yeah I wasn't about to let that that good time go yeah yeah but you're not down for that kind of action like you're not interested in like having being involved in orgies or like hook doing swapping or anything like that like you guys just stayed with the sort of a hot wiping thing at first yeah Yeah, we don't really do orgies or any swapping.

He doesn't, my husband doesn't play at all, which it thankfully works perfectly for both of us because he has absolutely no interest in anyone else. And I'm not a sharer. I don't share. I don't play well with others. Like he's not allowed to be getting with any other girls. Yeah. And listen, I love that because, first of all, that's very honest.

And I think a lot of people wouldn't want to share their partner, right? And typically, because, you know, whenever I air episodes where, like, the woman is like, oh, I would be so jealous if my guy fuck someone else where I'm not downward sharing him, but like she's fucking guys for the guy. Like, people would be like, oh, that's what a bit, like, whatever, you know, they say weird things. But it's like, why is there any problem? Like, they're actually perfectly suited. Because I would say all the guys that I've talked to that are into it, most of the time, like, they're not into hulking up with other women. If they were, they'd be swingers. They wouldn't be stags or cocks.

You know what I mean? Like most of the time those guys that have this kink, what their variety is is seeing their girl with other guys. They don't give a fuck about fucking other girls. Like that's just the way that it is. So you're just like perfectly suited for each other because he doesn't want to fuck other women, right? Exactly. Yes.

Yeah. Yeah. So I think that that's great. And do you have you ever hooked up with women yourself? I have. I have had a few experiences here and there. Right. But is it when you go to sex clubs with your husband?

or was it like in your past? It was like sex clubs with my husband. You know, it was never pre-planned. You know, it was never like, oh, let's find a, you know, girl for me to make out with for an event. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, you know, sometimes you're partying, the drinks are flowing, and, you know, things happen.

Right. Whose idea was it to go to the sex club to begin with? Had you been before and you said, hey, let's go? No. So he, you know, it's funny, like I had all this experience. and, you know, more partners than, you know, previously. And, you know, so he wanted to be in part of this world and everything. But he had been to sex clubs a few times.

Your kid. Not long before he met me, yeah. And so I was terrified to go. He was like, yeah, we should really go. And I was like, I don't know about this. And it's, that just sounds scary. It's a sex club. Like, how intimidating.

And so we went and it wasn't intimidating. I mean, it was fun. We, you know, it was, it was a good time. And so we've, we've gone a handful of times. Right. And you know, and you have those boundaries, right? Like, he doesn't play with other women. You guys don't do, like you, you can be with a guy when you're there, right?

For him, with him watching. And sometimes if you're into it for whatever reason, just because of the moment, you will hook up with a woman if you're turned on by her. Right. Right. Right. Okay, cool. So that time.

he sat and watched and like and so how did it progress from there so you know now you finally had a good threesome you know did he get involved that time or just stay in the chair the whole time so he pretty much stayed in the chair at first and then he he kind of joined in later uh-huh but from there we actually with that same guy not long after i had my first overnight with that guy in a hotel room without my husband oh my god that's fast you guys are working It was to solo play. Overnight solo play. Crazy.

Yeah. Yeah. And at first, you know, we made the mistake of, or he made the mistake at one point in the middle of the night of jacking off and coming. And then he had post-nut clarity and was like, crap, can you come home now? Like your husband? Yes. Yeah.

He wanted me to come home. And I was like. Yeah, God. Sorry. I was like, this is, it's the middle of the night. I'm not like, I'm about. to go to bed. I'll be home in the morning. This is what we discussed. Hang tough. You'll be fine. And when he came and got me in the morning, he had the biggest smile on his face. And he was like,

that was amazing. Let's do this again. Oh my God. Wait a second. I need that whole story slowed down a little bit. How does it get to the point where, you know, I'm assuming you get this guy's number, right? Because you're into him, the guy from the sex club, right? How does it go from you guys just being like kind of new at this, right, and doing three sums that he's involved? And you, that was one of your rules, right? Like he's always involved to you playing not only solo, you know, for a couple of hours, but like literally overnight without him. Like how does that come up and what was that conversation like?

Yeah, you know, it was surprising that, you know, we did the overnight portion at least so quickly. You know, who's idea was it? You know, I don't remember. I think we both, I think it might have been my husbands, but we, we just, decided that it would be nice to not have to rush for this one. You know, we, we had played and, you know, been with other people and he had been in the room and stuff, but we just decided that it'd be nice if I could go out on a date and go out to dinner and we could grab a hotel room and have drinks and not feel rushed and, you know, it could just be a full thing. And we both

liked the idea of that. So even though he always wanted to be involved, he was like, I think I want to try it where I'm not involved and see if I'm turned on by that because it's a very different thing. You know what I mean? To me, it's a very big step. And to me, it sounded like in your story that this was like your third time with a guy because it sounded like the first time was the bad threesome. The second time was at the sex club with this guy.

And then you go straight to solo play. So it seems like a big jump. But maybe there was other guys before you met this guy second. I don't know. There were. Yeah. Sorry, I'm not doing a very good job

of the story telling. That's why I'm here. That's why I'm here. I keep you good. Okay, so, okay, so don't miss. Listen, we're only at 20 minutes. You have an hour. Okay, like, don't matter.

Like, it didn't go from that guy to doing solo with him. You did do other guys, a bunch of other guys with your husband in the room. Well, we slowly progress from him being in the room to him being in the next room. Okay, see, this is why you tell the story like this,

because then it makes sense that you jump to a hotel. You know what I mean? So, okay, so now after the sex club, he goes into another room. And that's like super hot for a cock. You know what I'm saying? Right? Okay. Right. So that's, we stuck with that for quite a while where he would just be in another room and not actually in the room. Yeah. And he would enjoy listening. And, you know, sometimes if the guy was okay with it, you know, I would have like a camera in there so he could watch from the other room. Oh my God. And yeah, we both like that because I felt like. you know pressure and I felt like I could really just you know enjoy the moment and and again we were still stack fix and then and so you know we just we thought that that was a really fun thing and we stuck with that for a while before I actually was in a different building from him you know and we did the hotel overnight yeah so wait when you were when he was in the other room right was that like in hotels or was that at your house or your someone's house it was usually

like in our house. In your house. So he would just go in the other room. So and so now he realizes that he likes kind of just kind of like that angst of like not knowing, right? Like that turns him on, right? Now he's becoming the cock for sure. Exactly. Right. And you like it.

And I've heard this from other hot wives before. Like some people only want it to do it when their guy is there and they have their reasons for it. But I've heard from a lot of other women that said exactly what you just said, which is that they do. like solo play sometimes more because they feel more free to do whatever, right? Is that what you, is that how you feel? Yeah. Yeah, you just feel a little less like all the attention is on you, but it's nice sometimes to have that. So, you know, we, we do both, but it's nice sometimes not to have that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it. And your husband's getting something out of it too because he's got the camera, he's got the hearing you and everything. Okay, so now you go to the hotel and your poor husband. Oh my God.

So he's so fucking horny that you're there and doing it. And now, like, were you going to, like, let me ask you this. Were you just going to go home from the hotel and tell him details? Or were you going to film or take pictures? Like, what was he waiting for? Like, how was it set up? Because you're not, like, you know, you're not there at all. Is he have to wait to the morning to get, like, the skinny on what's going down?

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and use strictly for up to 20% off your order. Oh my God. So you're having fun with this guy. You send your guy stuff. He jerks off. And then does he, and he immediately texts you like, you have to come home now? Yeah. He starts calling and texting. And he's like, hey, you know, this is fun and all. But can you just come home? I'd like you to come home now. And I knew that, you know, he was okay. Like, you know, I didn't think that he was, you know, I talked to him on the phone. He wasn't like experiencing any sort of like emotional crisis or anything. He just, you know, I didn't. just was like, okay, I came and now like I just prefer you to come home. Can you please come home? And I was like, no, this isn't what we talked about. And I'm exhausted. It's like, I don't even know,

like three in the morning or something. Like you don't want to get dressed, fix your makeup, like get in the car, drive home, pack up, all your shit and everything. I get it. Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, it just, I was like, I'm about to go to sleep. And, you know, I'm going to be, you're picking me up in the morning and I'll see you in the morning. And he finally was like, all right, fine. And I was worried, you know, in the morning. I was like, oh gosh, you know, is he going to be upset that I didn't, you know, give in and just come home? Is he going to, you know, what's this going to be like?

Is everything going to be okay? And he was just grinning from ear to ear when he picked me up. Yeah, well, that's a straight up cuck for you. Do you what I mean? they kind of like that, right? That kind of treatment, right? Because some guys would kind of be pissed, right? Because typically in the lifestyle, and I'm not saying anything against you, but typically in the lifestyle, like if one partner is not feeling right about something, right? Like the whole thing is like really in order, you know, you got to like sort of accept their feelings about it and be cool with it, right? You know what I mean?

instead of saying like, no, sorry, we discussed it. And even though you're feeling different, I don't really care. But in your situation with your husband, like this is where he really is a true cuck, because some other guys listening right now will think you're like a bitch, right? Because you were like, sorry, I don't care that you feel different. Whatever. You know, put it in a woman's position, right? The guy was there. The woman said, go do it. And now she's crying. And the guy's like, sorry, no. You kind of seem like cold. But the fact that your guy is, he really is a cuck because a cuck actually, that's like the kind of treatment he enjoys. Yeah, exactly. And that's something that I've like learned over time is when to push it and when not to. Yeah, smart. Sometimes it's hard to know. Yeah, you have to ride that line. Yeah. Yeah. And you've learned that over time.

Yeah. And I mean, it's very much you have to learn, you know, the person that you're cucking. You have to know kind of what their personality is when they want you to do something, when they don't want you to do something. when they might, you know, yeah, it's just you have to learn like kind of them inside and out and what they want. And it's the learning curve. Yeah, that makes sense because like you, like, but you said, what you said was very telling because you said like I could tell he was, this wasn't like a make or break it moment, right? Like on. Right. Like he wasn't hurting. Right. Right. So you decided to make that decision. And the decision did pay off because he was the hot for that scenario. when you came home the next morning, right? He was back to being horny for it. And I was like, can we chill? Let's not do it again tomorrow night. And had any of your partners before that you did this with,

had they ever been like a cuck like this guy or were they always more like stag guys? No, they were cucks. My husband was the first one that was, that we were more stag first. And then, you know, kind of evolved. Oh, okay. So it makes even more sense of why you just made that decision in the hotel because

you had experience with these guys before. Do you know what you're, you know what you're doing. You're just making him more horny. Yeah. Oh, my God. Okay. So he's like, so now do you, so you still wind up doing like stuff with him, but also solo play, right?

Like, you know, does he ever get into like humiliation or anything like that? How far does he take him like his cuckolding or you cuckolding him? So, you know, there is, there are some aspects of humiliation that he likes that we like. We don't take it as far as maybe a good amount of, or, you know, a chunk of the cuck population do. Yeah. You know, it's more, it's more teasing and, you know, saying kind of not hurtful things, but, you know, teasing things that can be construed by people who are not in the lifestyle as being kind of mean.

Yeah, let's hear some of those things. Kind of like you're not so big. Like, this guy fucks better than you. His dick feels much better than yours. That kind of stuff. Exactly. Like, you know, he's not really, we're not really like into the small penis humiliation because, you know, thankfully my husband's not small.

Yeah. But, you know, we, I, there is always the, you know, gosh, his dick was so huge. It was bigger than yours. It felt so much better. This guy, you know, he did me longer. I can't wait to feel him inside me. You know what? You don't get sex tonight.

You just wait. Right. Oh, my God. Right. And so, how did it progress from there? Because, like, he got so, because, you know, probably, like, he's at the top of the mountain, right? The Cuck Mountain, as far as, like, you know, not knowing, you know, the angst of that

night for him was probably supercharged, right? And a super turn on. So does he like, he's begging you to do it the next night and is that what you continue to do for him? Yeah, I mean, we did eventually do a couple more overnights, you know, like not too soon after. But yeah, like I've done several since then. So we, it's a mix, you know, it's a lot of, you know, him still in the next room. It's, there's me going out and being with these guys without him at their place at a hotel, wherever. And then, you know, every, every now and then he gets to actually, like, be involved.

But he actually prefers the solo play. That's why I said I feel like that was probably he realized that's what he likes the best, you know? Yeah, he does. And so you continued on. Now, is your guy into guys at all? Not at all. Okay. So there's never any crossing of stores or anything even when he's involved.

How many bulls do you have or have you seen since you've been with your husband? Can you count? No. How do you find them all? Well, they're difficult to find. You know, these guys are very flaky. We're always complaining about how hard it is to find a good bull. And it also, there seems to be a recurring theme that when you do find a good-looking, you know, guy with a, you know, at least somewhat, decent personality that, you know, is, is good in bed and everything. They're always, the reason why they're single is because they travel. They're always traveling for work. And so it's hard to, like, get to see them regularly so that, you know, we're always on the lookout to try and find,

you know, a more regular thing that actually lives here. And it's, it's hard to find. But we have so many guys that will, we'll meet them online. And then they'll flake and disappear. Yeah, and it's terrible because do you have, do you have the hotel booked and everything? Because it's, like, hard to figure out how to, like, do it because you know that so many people flake, right? How do you coordinate anything? Well, so what I've started doing is I don't even book the hotel first. I go out and I meet them and we have drinks and sometimes I don't even do them the first time I meet them. Yeah.

Sometimes I wait till the second time. But if for some reason that first time, we're just like, we need. to fuck right now. Yeah, yeah. Then we'll go get a hotel. Right. And so, right. So now you've learned the hard way not to book the hotel because people flake and

everything. Exactly. Yeah, that's cool. And now when you go, so your guy is typically not going on these dates with you, right? And are you always sending pictures and videos? Not always. But, you know, I try to, you know, send at least like one picture. One of my, one of our favorites is to send him.

picks of me, like, in the bathroom with my lingerie on right before I'm about to, you know, go get fucked. Yeah. So I try to do those. We like those. And he gets really excited. He's like when his phone dings when I'm gone, it's like he said the adrenaline rush is amazing. Oh my God.

And do you, like is a big part of the turn on for you, not just that you're fucking this guy, but that like you're doing this and your husband knows and whatever, like it's that whole sort of naughtiness of it? Yeah. it's naughty and it also you know it strengthens our bond you know yeah explain that it's something we do together it's something that that makes our it's this fun thing that we have incorporated into our relationship that has has really made it stronger you know or our communication has gotten better our honesty has gotten better you know we i think that a lot of couples that are in this sort of arrangement

tend to have more open and honest communications than maybe couples who aren't. Oh, yeah. No, I always say, like, the purpose of my show is not to tell everyone you need to go out and be non-monogamous, okay? Like, a lot of people are never going to do that, that's fine. But all my show is here to say is that, because I think the vanilla world, people out there, like, because I listen to big podcast and shows, and I hear regular vanilla people talk, and when they talk about people opening up or in their marriages,

is just like think it's doomed for failure. You know what I mean? Like that's just ever, even Dr. Drew, who I used to fucking love, I fucking hate him. All he talks about is how it's just like terrible. It's doomed for failure.

But like I've talked to 1,600 people at this point. People that have been doing it for 30 years, 40 years, plenty of people. Like I've done the study. Okay. Like not only can it work. When it does work,

it actually makes people closer exactly what you say. Like that's always my last question I asked people. It's like, how has it changed your relationship sort of doing this? And it's always like people feel so much closer, you know, than they ever have to any other partner because you're just have to, it's like overcommunication is necessary in these kinds of situations, right? Any kind, whether you're swingers too or the same way, you know, you have to, you have this new thing to talk about all the time, you know? And I always make jokes like vanilla people, maybe you don't have to go fuck other people just like find a TV show or a hobby you could talk about. It's just really about talking more to each other, you know?

And a lot of times regular couples just that goes out. the window because you get in like groundhog day you know but you guys have always these new things happening that you have to discuss right right yeah yeah it's awesome and it's it brings excitement for us yeah totally and so now with your guy like how do you ride the humiliation line because like you know he doesn't sound that extreme right like has he ever because i've heard and i've talked to cox and sometimes i worry for them because like they start to want to be denied and they don't want to get fuck themselves. Like, is your guy that extreme? Or do you always have reclaiming sex when you get home? I mean, we do, which is pay in some denial, but, and we, we used to always have reclamation sex.

Yeah. But we, we don't always. There's sometimes, you know, I'm sore. Like, super sore. Yeah. Like, I'm worn out, you know. And, you know, other times he, like, He even says that, it's not like he wants it to never have reclamation sex because he's not that extreme or anything. But he says that it just, when he's not allowed to come right after, it just prolongs it. It prolongs the intensity. And then, you know, when he does come, maybe the next day or whenever, you know, like several days later, whatever. It's like amazing. And he just says it helps like make the experience last longer.

Yeah. I mean, listen, I'm a person. My audience knows that I like T's and Denial. I like to drag something great on as long as I can. You know what I mean? So I totally understand his mindset. You know, I used to talk to a lot of guys who go to dungeons and I'd be like, you're not like calming or having an orgasm.

I never really understood it, you know, but they always talked about how they leave. Like, first of all, they don't want to have postnut clarity in a dungeon, right? But they leave and they drag it on and it just makes that last longer. So it does make sense. So your guy, like just drag. And most guys that are into like into being cucks and stuff, a lot of them are into, it's all about tease and denial. Like I understand that because like I got that in like that turns me on.

So I totally get it, you know. And so for him, that's the reason why he's doing it. He's just dragging on his turn on. That's what he's getting out of it. He's getting more out of it by dragging it on. Right. And he finds it hot at the same time. You know, there's like, and that's it's been like a, again, a learning curve like of how long and when to deny, you know.

because there are most of the time, like 99% of the time, you know, and he's like, oh my gosh, I want you, you know, please. And if I'm like, you know, no, you know, he's like, oh, fuck that's hot. Oh, so you will, you will, sorry, that's my phone. You will actually sometimes like, you know, be a little dumb. Like you'll dom him a little bit, right? Yeah. Yeah. And usually, you know, nine times out of ten, he's, he's, he's, he's. loves that and it makes it even hotter for me. He's like, I don't know, and he'll say it. He's like, I have no clue why the hell that turns me on even more. But, you know, it's, again, it's a learning curve, you know, there have been one or two times where I've, you know, pushed it too long and I didn't realize. And he was kind of like, oh, okay. And then I felt really bad. I was like, oh, I'm so sorry. Yeah, yeah. Like you say, you have to figure out that line. Because I do think it's hard,

especially when there's solo play, especially when there's denied. you know, there's a lot of sort of unspoken stuff going down, especially when you're like female led in a little way. You know, you're not in a total female led relationship. But, you know, when it comes to this part of things, you are leading stuff that's going down. Right. He likes to be a little bit more submissive to you, right? Right. Yeah. Yeah. How many, what's the most amount of guys you've had in one day? Is it typically just one? The most would be on our honeymoon. You're kidding. No. My God, you're kidding. Okay, tell me that story. So we went to a lifestyle club in London. Uh-huh. And we met a guy from London and a guy from Russia. And we actually met a third guy who, I forget where he was from. He was, we were all hanging out at the lifestyle club and we decided. to go to a strip club. And the guy who I couldn't remember where he's from is because he ended up like going off with a stripper. And he was, he didn't like leave, leave.

But I, you know, he just like was holding on to her like the whole time. And I was like, you know what? I'm the star of this show. Right, right, right. Like, you don't, this is, this is not cool. This is, I mean, you're, you've got basically a sure thing right here and you're blowing it. Yeah. So I was like, you know what, I'm going to go ahead and take these other two guys and my husband back to our hotel room.

You stay here with your stripper. He missed out. He missed out. It would have been like, you know, huge, like, gangbang at that point. But, no, so we brought the two guys back to the hotel room. And evidently, I was so loud that security got called. You are kidding. No.

Oh, it gets worse. They were called twice, actually. But in all fairness, I was not made aware that they had been called at all. The guys didn't tell me. They were just kind of like, hey, keep it down a little bit. But that was it. So had I known that security had been called, I probably would have tried a little harder to keep it down. How did you not know, but somebody else knew that security was called?

I don't get it. So my husband and the guy from London left to go get, I think it's snacks or something. Oh, while you're fucking the other guy. Well, I'm fucking the Russian guy. And so they're walking down the hall and there's two security guys and they're coming that way. And they're like, are you going to broom whatever it is? And they were like, yep. And my husband's like, oh, don't worry.

Those aren't screams of pain. Those are screams of pleasure. It's just, it's my wife. And they're like, wait, we're still here the noises. your wife. Okay. So, I mean, their jaws just dropped from what I was told.

Oh, my God. And then they were just like, they basically gave him a high five. And so, but then, like, they came back a second time and they were like, okay, seriously, keep it down.

People are complaining. How fucking loud are you? You know, especially if we've been out and partying, you know, and the drinks in the flowing, you know, apparently I can be pretty loud. And the Russian guy was massive. Oh, you're kidding.

Oh, he was huge. So, yeah, and he did not take it easy on me whatsoever. So, yeah, I was loud. Okay, so you fucked him and the other guy. Like, have you ever done, like, you know? And my husband. Oh, and your husband. He got him all that night too.

Oh, yeah, it's your honeymoon. Yeah. He's going to fuck you too. Exactly. So, you know, it wasn't our honeymoon night. The honeymoon night was just us, of course. But, you know, like the wedding night, I mean. But, yeah, no, we, so it was a full-on forsome.

Yeah. Oh my God, that is crazy. And so, did you do like any kind of like crazy things like DVP or DP? I'm assuming you did spit roasting because you got like so many guys there. Yeah, I did spit roasting and I did DP like one in each hole. Okay. Was that your first time or had you done that in the past? I think that was my second time.

Uh-huh. How was it? And I think of that sounds only two times. No, wait, I've done it three times. That one was good. That one was fun. Okay. And did the guys just like leave afterwards that they crash out and you did it in the morning again?

Or like what went down in that hotel room after you guys were all done? No, they finally left. I mean, it had to have been five, six in the morning. So they just left. Oh, I got the stories they told us. We're still like Facebook friends and everything. Yeah. But I mean, did they know that you were a couple from the U.S. on your honeymoon?

Oh, yeah. We actually, the Russian at one point had my husband's phone and was, you know, filming a little bit. Yeah. Just like a brief clip. And he's who he films me being spit-roasted and then he turns the camera to himself and he goes Happy Honeymoon! My fucking God. How

hilarious. Like what a great story you gave both those guys to tell all their friends. Don't you think? Right. Now listen, you are like you do, so videos and stuff has always been a part of your guy's scenario, right? Is that why you decided to like create a fansley eventually?

Yeah. I mean, we we just kind of figured why not yeah everyone else is right exactly yeah exactly and what kind of content did you decide to put up on your fans like what would people get over there well honestly i you know i don't have like i just started it not long ago so i don't have a massive selection up but it's kind of a mix there's some some there's a couple sex videos you know there's some there's some clips of various things. There's clips of me, you know, torturing Chris, my husband. And there's, you know, some clips of me just being like the sultry cuckoldress.

So it's kind of just a mixed bag. Yeah. What do you mean by torturing your husband? Like, what's an example of that? Like, you know, there are times when he might get little light hitting the balls with the crop. I had the ball buster. There's some famous ball buster lady that smiling ball buster. I don't know. That was the first time I heard of, you know, guys would be liking their balls to be, well, she was a kicker. But you're just, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you're like, what do you use on it?

It's like a little like writing crop and it's just like, you know, it's relatively light, you know, little slaps here and there. Yeah. Does your guy ever get caged? Oh, yes. Yeah. He, He uses chastity. We started that a, I don't know, maybe a year ago. Yeah. So he's, he wears it every day, just not while he's at like work or something like that, you know. But he comes home from work and puts it on. And yeah, he loves it. Yeah, guys, yeah, it's so up his alley. That's how I would, you know, that's what I would think. And so you dom him a little bit. How far extreme does the like the light BDSM that you guys are into? it's extremely light. Oh, okay. I thought you were going to say it's extreme. I was going to be like, really? You're telling me now?

Extremely light is what you're saying. And it's all on him, right? I mean, your kink is to just like, and what you're getting out of this is you're like, you're just like fucking these guys. He's the one that's into all this other stuff, right? Right. And I think, you know, some of it is just for, you know, just for fun, you know, just for content purposes, you know, I mean, like, it's, it's entertaining.

Yeah. And it's fun for me to make. I mean, he's kind of like, oh, gosh, are we doing this? And I'm like, yep, lay down. Oh, my God, that is fun. And you like to be, you like the attention, correct? Because you've kind of alluded to that many times or even said it right out. Like you want to be the center of the attention.

Right. So you must like having guys. I'm just saying you must have guys. You must like putting yourself out there and having men see you, right? That's all I'm saying. Right. I mean, it's certainly flattering. Yeah. I mean, you know, or maybe it's more that your husband is getting off on the fact that you are, you know, guys are paying to see you and all that kind of stuff. A lot of times, I'm just saying a lot of times people are sharing content because they get off on, you know, sort of people, you know, watching it, not just to make money. That's what I'm saying.

Right. Yeah. You know, it's a mixture. And he loves it. He loves that all these guys are like, oh my gosh, Lexi. You know, I've beaten it off to you eight times today. Yeah, that's, so your husband's getting something out of it, for sure. I mean, that's what I've heard before, you know. And so tell me about, so then eventually, how recently did you start your podcast again? Sorry, I forgot. I want to say it was in March. Okay, so what made you decide to do that?

Well, I was on, I was on Venus's podcast, and my husband and I, we just kind of thought, you know, that was a lot of fun. And this is, you know, there aren't really a lot of podcasts out there and there's not really one at all that's like from a couple's perspective, you know, in this dynamic. And it would be fun, you know, just, I mean, it was just like a little like fun project. We weren't sure if we were going to do more than one or two episodes and, you know, that we didn't have like this big plan. We just kind of were like, it'd be fun. We should do it, you know. And somehow we've managed to turning out, you know, an episode each week. And it's, it's getting pretty popular. I mean, we're in like 160 something countries. Yeah, everybody's in every country. Yeah, but it's,

it's been fun. We enjoy it. Yeah, and listen, it's important. And one of the most important things to be successful in podcasting is to put out an episode every week. Like, that's, the consistency is key. Like, and that's like the number one thing you have to do. Because the minute you start building an audience, if you stop being consistent and you don't post on the day that you post, and you know what I mean? Like, that's when you lose people. And it's now, like, listen, I started 11, 12 years ago. So I started when there were like no podcasts around.

So it was easy for, way easier for me to build an audience, you know. But for people now, because there's so many podcasts out there, it's a little bit harder that it's like, you know, I don't know why people do seasons and then they take off three months. It's like you're going to lose your whole. I haven't taken off one day or one week in my whole 11 years, 12 years, ever. Oh, wow. That's impressive.

And there's no reason for it, especially when you're doing one episode a week. Listen, I do eight episodes a week and I do it all myself and I don't have any help. So to me, when I hear people, you know, I mean, it is my full-time job now. But for seven years, it wasn't. I mean, I just did it for fun. But no matter what, I never missed that episode. It's very important to do that. Because if you're building and you are getting an audience like you say you are, like,

that's killer, right? And you want to keep that up and you should never not post an episode ever. And it's not hard to do one. you know what I mean? I think it's great. And I do think it's great that you have, you filled that niche, right? Like, that's what I think is great is that you do have a couple doing it, right? Because there aren't many out there, which I think is super interesting. Last question for you, okay, is because you're out. Like when I went to your website on your podcast logo, it's your face, right? So does like everybody in your life know about what you do

and who you are and like all that kind of good stuff? No. Oh my God. Do you care? You obviously don't care if they find out. Yeah, I prefer they didn't, you know, but, you know, this is something that I do privately, you know, I mean, but, well, not privately. Yeah, I'm saying. Yeah, no, no, because your face is out there. So are you worried that I've told my family and friends about, no. Right. But are you worried about them? Like, have you, did you think it, like, listen, I, sometimes I don't understand people like you because I'm like an overthinker. Like, you know, I'm anonymous. I've been on my show for anonymously for like 12 years and no one has doesn't I've never outed myself but like you know and I have a kid and I had a kid during the time that I was and I was like oh I'm so glad I am anonymous you know so no one and

still nobody knows who I what I do or who I am but you know for for you know if I were to put my face there I would think like oh my God what if this happens or what like do you ever like if it happened right that your family and friends found out obviously maybe that would be okay considering that you're taking the chance by putting your face so out there? Yeah. I mean, I basically, I just, I'm accepting the risk. You know, I prefer it didn't happen, but I feel like I wouldn't be able to have gotten as far as I did without showing my face. And so, you know, that's why we decided to, you know, go ahead and do it.

Because you felt like you had to, to get successful. Yeah. I felt like it would have been a much, much harder thing if there was no face to put with, you know, the podcast and everything else. So. Right. Okay. No. I mean, like I said, I would be overthinking it, you know, but like at the end of the day, the way I look at it is you must not, like there must be a part of you that feels like if they did find out like I would just fucking own it.

Right. And it wouldn't, you know, because there's a very good chance people could find out because you are very very. open with your face out there so people could find out very easily. That's it. That's all I'm saying. Right, right. And I mean, what's that saying? Like the people that matter won't care and the people that care won't don't matter. You know, something like that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I get it. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. I was just curious if you, if your family or friends know. So nobody does know about what you do or what you're, it is a secret life that you and your husband have, correct? Like none of your girlfriends or your family, right? Right. Okay, cool.

Well, listen, I think that that's great. I love your whole story. I will put, you want me to put a link to your website in the description? Is that the best thing to do so they could find all your stuff there? Yes, yes. Everything can be found there. Okay, is that your Fansley, your cuckled marriage podcast. And can you send me a couple picks for my Patreon?

I always say for Patreon, don't make it like X-rated, just something like R-rated, you know? No showing any like nips or anything. But people send like women send in pictures like bikini shuts or lingerie. Like it could be that for Patreon. And send it sooner than later. So I have it because it'll probably go up not this Monday, but the following Monday. Okay. And I'll tag you.

Are you on Instagram or X? What are you on? I'm on X. Okay. So I'll tag you there. And you want to give out your X name real quick? I think it's Lexi Meadows 777. Okay, cool.

So put all that's on your website, right? Right. Okay, cool. But I'll tag you when I promote your episode. there. All right. So listen, Lexi, thanks. So I think your husband emailed me. Why doesn't he come on the show? I'd love to talk to that little cuck. Oh, he'd love to. Oh, good. I love that. I always love to get the story from the other partner's view, you know, because it's always a totally different story. So have him use the link to book too. I'll email. I'll email it again. Okay. All right. Awesome. Thanks, thanks, Lexi, thanks so much for calling in. Okay. Okay, listen, thanks so much for tuning in. If you're listening to my show on Apple or Spot. make sure to give me a five-star rating. It takes like one second. You could just press it on your phone and stuff like that really helps the show. And make sure to also follow my show on either Apple or Spotify or wherever you listen to my show. I also want to tell you that my book, Shrictly anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available in the audiobook version.

It's basically 17 stories taken from my show and they're all told in the third. third person. I wouldn't call it a total erotica book. Think more like penthouse letters. Okay. Each chapter is short. It's one story taken from my show, like I said, but told in the third person by a narrator. I picked the narrator. I made sure to get somebody hot. Okay, guys, I've been emailing me that have listened to my book and they're like, oh my God, I'm getting Woody's listening to it. So you're going to dig it. The book is also available in ebook version as well as a paperback format, but I personally think the audiobook version is the best. Anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast.