Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1638 - Chris is a True Cuck who Loves Sharing His Hotwife

Episode Date: October 27, 2026

Chris is a true cuckold who loves sharing his hotwife Lexie (ep. #1637) and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he started eroticizing jealousy and what turns him on about it, how he met Lexie and how he revealed his cuckold fantasy to her, how they found a guy to fulfill her DP fantasy and what went down during their first threesome, their experience at a sex club where he watched her hook up with another guy and how it changed their dynamic, her first solo overnight with a bull and why he freaked out and asked her to come home and how she responded, how and why the angst turned him on, why they both prefer her playing solo even though he sometimes watches or participates, how he experiences compersion through serving his wife and how that carries over into their everyday lives, how he keeps his cuckold tendencies from becoming too extreme, how they first got into chastity play and how he wound up loving it, the humiliation and teasing he enjoys and where he draws the line, where they find bulls and why finding reliable guys is so difficult, the foursome they had with two other guys on their honeymoon and what went down, how open he is with other people about their lifestyle, how he handles jealousy when it comes up plus a whole lot more. You can find his podcast and his wife's stuff here: ⁠https://cuckoldresslexie.com⁠ GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR AUDIO BOOK COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    To see HOT pics of CHRIS & LEXIE my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join ANNUALLY, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  https://bathmatedirect.com/strictly — For 20% off world’s best pumps! Use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/anonymous⁠⁠ — Take the quiz and then use code ANONYMOUS for 50% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY #indacloud  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! + 10% OFF first order, Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://DipseaStories.com/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get first week FREE then 25% off  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Because what's interesting about Chris is like he knew he had like a jealousy kink, if that's what you want to call it, before he ever met Lexi. And now when you listen to Lexi's episode, you'll know, you'll hear about her backstory, which was super interesting to what she was into before she met up with him. but before he met with Lexi, he knew he was into turning that jealous sort of feeling into a turn on. And that's what he did. And then when he met Lexi, he talks about how he brought up the fact that he was into,

like his girl being with other guys, how she reacted and why he hit the fucking jackpot. And then what took place after that? I mean, he started out much more as a stag and her a vixen, but eventually it morphed into him being a cuckold. he talks about how far he gets into that, how he works it, how much he loves it. He talks about her first solo experience overnight. And she told the story. And then we're getting the story from him too. And I think it's important to hear both sides of that story. And he talks about how he kind of freaked out a little bit. And he talks about how they worked through that and why that became like his hottest experience ever. And then he talks about how, you know, they sort of

continued on with that. He does tell her like DP experience. He talks about their honeymoon experience where she did other guys and the whole hotel knew. He tells you why. But mostly we talk about how the cuckold and the cuckled dress dynamic works for them. And it's super interesting. He loves serving her. He loves being cuckold. He totally is into compersion. they eventually got into Chastie Play and they also started doing content and they have a podcast and a YouTube channel and all that kind of good stuff.

I'll have pictures of them over my Patreon. The link to her website will be in the description. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Chris Meadows. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Chris Meadows. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

Hey, I'm doing well. Thanks for having me. Thanks for calling in. I talked to your wife, Lexi Meadows, already. You're calling in to get the story, her story from you, you know. She has a whole, I mean, you guys both have the podcast right together. We do. What's the name of your podcast again?

Sorry. That's exactly the name. The name. Oh, okay. That's why it's in front of me. That's why I wrote it down. I haven't written. I just did the right title.

Yeah. And you guys go on together and talk about your story, which I think is really good. because like, you know, nowadays, because there's so many podcasts out there right, you want to, like, fill a niche, right? And I don't think there are any other, uh, even, you know, like couple, cuckled, dress, cuckled podcasts out there, right? Where the both people are talking. You're a man, she's a woman where you're coming from different places. And that's why typically I love, I used to always do couples together. And a lot of times, I mean, some couples are still fine to talk to them together. But a lot of times I like to get two separate episodes like I'm doing with you and your

wife where I get the same exact story from the guy's point of view, but it's always completely different, right? She's a cuck old dress. You're a cuck old. You guys are living two different experiences, right, but you're perfect together. So. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. So now listen, I tape two people a day every day, you know, I don't remember probably anything about Lexi's exact interview now. So you're going to tell me the whole story, right? So remind me how long you guys have been together. So we've been actually our two-year anniversary, wedding anniversary is coming up in about three weeks or so, and we've been together like four total. Okay. And now were you guys married before? Yes.

Each other. I was. I was. She was not. Okay. And what's your story with your first marriage where you, like, did you have any cuckold tendencies in that marriage? Or were you guys totally vanilla and you didn't realize this until later? No, that was a pretty vanilla marriage, actually.

But I had had these desires for a long time. And it just wasn't something that I was able to live out or act. out. So no, but my first marriage was very vanilla. Well, let's talk about your desires and when they showed up, because I think that's super interesting. Yeah. So gosh, I mean, I remember this dating all the way back to like high school as a way to kind of take back some power within, like, I'm kind of a jealous person. And so it was a way to kind of eroticize jealousy, which is, which is something that you see in this dynamic a lot with, you see a lot of people like some people might get cheated on and they try to take power back by making this their fetish of choice.

For me, it was about just eroticizing jealousy, and it kind of just build up from there. Yeah, and I think, oh, my God, isn't that? When I first heard someone talking about that, because I was a jealous person when I was younger, and I was cheated on many times, I was like, oh, my God, I'm never going to be jealous again. I'm going to be fucking turned on. It's so much better. Why? Because feeling jealous is terrible, right?

So why isn't it? And feeling turned on is so much better. So why not fetishize it? Like, I just think it's a very smart way to channel that energy. It really is, but you know what's interesting about this dynamic is that I still get jealous. It's just, it's in a fun way. Yeah, well, that's, yeah. Yeah, exactly.

It's not in the torture way. That's smart. Exactly. I love it. It's so much fun. Actually, the jealousy and the angst is some of my favorite parts. Yes, that has to be there. I get it.

It's like, was so fascinating to me. I don't remember, you know, I've been doing this for like 11, 12 years. And a lot of times, it's not like I was talking to every kind of person I talked to you now in the beginning, you know? There was always that first couple times I talked to someone who was into something like this. And I was like, oh, it really opened my mind and blew my mind that you can do that with jealousy, right? And it kind of really made sense to me. So do you know, were you just jealous by nature?

Had you been cheated on? I don't think it sounds like you did because you said some people do. Was that that not your story? It wasn't my story at all. No, it didn't come from any of that. You were just jealous by nature. I was just a jealous guy. And I still am.

I just have learned how to channel that into a way that is more productive. Yeah, right. It didn't go away. You just channel, you take that energy and turn it into something else, but it's still there. So you're in high school. You're feeling these feelings. So how does it play out that, like, how do you figure out you could fetishize it even? I mean, because you're kind of young.

How do you even know that's possible? I didn't. There's just thoughts I started to have, to be honest with you. Yeah, of course. Like I said, I mean, it was 20 years before I actually acted it out. So it was kind of dormant in there. So it was just like a fantasy that you would like jerk off to? Yeah, I guess you could say that.

I mean, yeah, because like if it's something that's there and you know about it and you're turning your jealousy into feticide, like what are you doing when you're feeling jealous with all these girlfriends? Because you're, you know, you live 20 years with this. So you were doing, you were acting out somehow, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no, that's exactly the way. But no, it was never in reality. I honestly, I didn't even think that this lifestyle was real. Of course. I thought it was, yeah. I mean, my eyes had been completely opened. I had no idea all this stuff was going on right underneath kind of the surface. Of you? Or what do you mean?

Of just society. I just had, I had no idea like the lifestyle was like a real thing. I just, I didn't walk in that world at all. So, you know, during my, when I had my first kind of lifestyle experience ever a couple years ago, before I met Lexi, I was just, I was kind of blown away. Right. Okay. So you somehow know when you're very young. that you find being jealous erotic. Somehow you're doing that, but you really don't put it together as anything yet. Well, I didn't, I mean, yeah, no, and I didn't really know, obviously, I mean, the word cuckold and stuff.

Like, I didn't never heard of that stuff. I mean, it was at least a decade after that that I had first heard the word. No, I know. I didn't even hear the word. 20 years ago it didn't exist. You know what I mean? Right, exactly.

And it's not like, it's like just recent that it's coming out more, I feel like, you know, past five or six years. So, you know, because I've been doing this like 11 years. So let me ask you this, you know, with your wife, like, did you ever bring that fantasy of being jealous, like, into your, like, role playing in the bedroom or anything? Or did you just never really bring that side of yourself up to, in that marriage? No, I did bring it up. Oh, okay. It just wasn't something she was interested in. How do you bring that up? What do you say? Well, so I wasn't as good at it.

I am now after actually living this lifestyle, but it was kind of just the typical dumb dude, hey, you want to do other guys? Like, that would be hot. Like, it was just such a dumb, immature way to bring it up and not the deep conversation that this kind of thing, you know, actually requires. Although when I brought it up to Lexi, it was in a silly way too. But we actually had good conversations about it. So, yeah, we never really sat down and had a good conversation about it, to be honest with you.

It just wasn't her thing. You threw it out there. She shot you down and you didn't continue talking about it. didn't go anywhere. When you get shot down, bringing up something that you're so vulnerable about, you kind of don't bring it up again. It kind of leaves the scar. No, I know. That's why people keep things secret. That's why they're showing people living secret lives because, you know, you're revealing a very vulnerable side of yourself. And if you get like an ill or what the fuck, you know, it could, it could really shut people down. That's why it's so important when someone does, you know, for the other

person on the other side of that conversation to understand how to communicate back, even if they're not interested because you can scar somebody for sure by the way you react to something that they're you know opening up to you about right yeah yeah so how do you meet lexie when you're after your divorce gosh we we met on tinder we just met on a vanilla dating and it wasn't even like a we were trying to find a hook up on there it was just we were on there both trying to date and uh we were both single at the time and and both kind of newly single and uh and met her on there and she she took a while to get back to me. She was very slow at replying on there, but I was persistent because she was so darn beautiful, and I couldn't wait to meet her. And so it probably took two months from the time we

connected to actually sit down and have lunch together. But I have to assume on Tinder, both of you were presenting as like vanilla people. You're not the cuckled and cuckled dress at this point, right? No one knows any of that stuff about each other from the profiles, right? Yeah, that's correct. I mean, it's not like we were on field. We were on Tinder. Well, Tinder can be like just a fuck-up, a fuck, like a let's fuck thing and maybe get more to the point? I don't know. I've never been on Tinder. Yeah, yeah, it can be. That's not why we were there.

I mean, frankly, I was on there because there's just more fish in the seas. Just so much bigger. Right, right. Yeah, but you don't think of it typically as like a dating site, really. But you, but, so you bet her, she was super fucking hot. You're like, okay, so when does it, when do you guys start having these kinds of conversations? Like, who's the first one to bring up? Because you guys are like two pieces in a pot.

And now, do I remember correctly, is this something that Lexi had had in her life a lot of times previously before you, right? Isn't that Lexi? Yes. Yes. Yes, she had. And so, I mean, it's just like I won the cuckolders lottery. Yeah. Maybe, yeah, on some level, you like didn't stop even though she wasn't getting back to you because you knew this was your matchmate in half.

I couldn't believe it. Save for her, though. Yeah. Yeah. How we brought it up is just. So we were talking about, we were finally starting to get in, I mean, this was relatively early. It was maybe like a month, maybe a month and a half into our relationship. Yeah.

I don't even think we're exclusive yet. And she was talking to me about sexual fantasies. We were talking to each other about it. And she had mentioned something about being with two guys at once. And so that kind of set something off in my mind. I was like, oh, she's open to other guys in the bedroom. I wonder if she'd be open to, you know, cuckolding hot wifing. And so one night I was at my place.

She was at her place. And I just shot her a text message with a. article about hotwifing. I said, I've always had a fantasy of doing this. Would you be into it? And her reply was, been there, done that. And she said, sure, I'd be into that. I mean, it was literally over a text. And then obviously we sat down and had a deeper conversation about it. But that's how I first brought it up to her. And I mean, she was extremely receptive. And I just, I was blown away. I couldn't believe that it was actually happening. I just, for months, I was just like, I can't believe this is my life. This is amazing. Okay, listen up, guys. Today is your lucky

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you know, because I remember asking her like, when do you bring something like that up, right? Because she's not thinking, just like you're not thinking that she hit gold too, right? Like, she's not thinking you're someone that's like all these other guys she's been with that's into it. What are the odds, you know, with all these guys that are. And then you throw out something and now she could completely be honest about her whole past. Because she hadn't been honest about it before you brought it up, correct? Yeah, well, I mean, I just don't, it's not like she was lying. It's just we haven't, we hadn't been together that long.

No kidding. I'm not saying she was lying. I'm saying she hadn't yet even brought that up. This is early on your thing. Because listen, that's not something you're going to bring up on the first date. No, thankfully not. So, yeah, it was, I mean, honestly, I felt seen for the first time. I felt heard for the first time.

I felt, you know, I felt so validated. It was just an amazing feeling And it wasn't even like a sexual feeling at first I just felt like I felt like I could actually be my authentic self with her Which was really cool Yeah And I believe for a woman who has a past like that

Which a lot of guys maybe if they found out Would judge She has to feel some of that as well That she's sitting across from a guy Who is going to be okay with all of it Don't you think? Oh yeah I think so too You know I think a lot of guys might judge

Somebody's past or something like that I just, you know, I just don't. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so she says, you send her that thing. It's like the complete opposite of when you first put it out to your other wife, right? Yeah, 180. Yeah, and so then what happens after that? So, gosh, it wasn't too long after that that we decided we were going to try to fulfill her first fantasy, which was being with, which was the DP, being with two guys doing that.

And so we went on kind of a quest online to find a guy. and we found a guy and we met him at a bar one night. And it was a lot of fun because, I mean, I was nervous as hell. And actually, the first guy we met that night ended up being a dud. So we had a guy come that night and he was a dud. I had to kind of send him away. But there was another guy. We had another bull on backup.

I thought you came over. Smart. Yeah, you always got to have a backup bowl. Totally. The bulls are flaky. Yeah. So we had a backup bowl and he came over and this guy was perfect. I mean, he was dressed well.

He smelled well. He just treated her well. He was flattering her. And so Lexi was really into him. And so we're sitting outside on the patio, you know, having a few drinks just talking to each other. And I need to go to the restroom. So I get up and go. And by the time I get back, I'm walking back outside and I can see through the window those two are making out.

And I'm just, my heart goes into my feet in the best way possible. Yeah. And I'm like, this is what it feels like it's happening right now. Like my, she wasn't my wife yet. I think we were maybe engaged then or maybe we were still just dating. But I thought my person is making out with somebody else right in front of me. So that lasted a while. And then we headed back to our place and proceeded to have what she wanted, which was a DEP.

Wow. And so that, even though she had been with a lot of these kinds of guys in these situation, she had never done that before is what you're saying, right? Yeah, that was right. That's what, that's what she brought up as a fantasy that she wanted to do. Yeah. Okay. And so how was that for you, this first experience?

Because you're participating, right? You're not like on the cuck chair or anything, correct? No. Well, we didn't start off like that. We started off more Steg-Vixen, more like hot-wife. Yeah, but no, I was fully participating, but I thought the funniest part was, I mean, the guy was so excited to be with Lexi. Lexi is really beautiful.

And so I'm barely taking off my shoes and he already throws her on the bed and starts to go after her. And so I'm barely, and I'm like, holy crap. So I guess I was in the cut chair for a little bit because I was picking off my shoes slowly. But that was fun to watch. It was just, it was just awesome. I couldn't believe my fantasy was coming true. Yeah, amazing.

And so like, and it does eventually progress, though, to the point where you become much more of the cuckle than the stag, right? Yes, yes, yes, it does. And that progressed through one of our experiences. So her first kind of solo experience. And that was we decided to go out to a, to a sex. club to a lifestyle club one night. Was that going to be your guy's first time? We had gone to a lifestyle club once before and we did hook up with a couple in there

that night, but I was fully participating. It was still very staggy, very hot wife kind of thing. Okay. And so this was the second time we had gone to a lifestyle club together and we're in there and we're just kind of looking around and nobody is catching Lexi's eye and she goes to the restroom and when she comes back, she mentions to me, hey, there's a cute guy at the bar that winked at me and I immediately popped up I was like I'll go get him right now for you like like the good cuck I am so I ran over there all giddy and told the guy hey my wife asked if

you wanted to come sit with us and he said of course and came and sat down and he was a younger good looking guy her type I know her type and he was her type and they flirted for a while then they went on to the dance floor he was spinning her around like he was a big strong guy like spinning her around like on the dance floor like lifting her up and stuff and she was just in her own little world and that was the first moment when she was out there dancing that I felt what is what is referred to as cuck angst where I just I was angsty in my chair I was like oh my gosh are they are they going to come back like did they forget I existed yeah and it was just so fun and they did eventually come back and within probably another hour or so Lexi turned to me and

said hey should I fuck him and I said as long as I can watch and that was going to be the first time that I just watched. And so we went back to the back room. So in these clubs, there's often back rooms where you can play on premises. And we went into the large room with a big giant bed. So it was the gang bang room, but we didn't realize that you had to. We didn't realize you had to close the curtain or else that is like an invitation that everybody can just come in.

Oh, I remember this. Yeah, go on. Yeah. And so anyway, so Lexi and this guy are doing it on the bed. and I'm kind of sit, there's like, almost like a bench around the bed that they put in. So I'm sitting on the bench around the bed and then other couples just start to come in and I don't even think Lexi noticed them. And there was like three or four other couples in there that started to have sex around the bed while Lexi and this guy were in the middle of the bed. And eventually I joined in

with that a little bit. I joined in to that one. So I wasn't completely cut chair yet in that night. But Lexi really liked this guy and we had a great time that night. And so we got home later that night and the next morning we were talking about it. And I asked her, I said, why don't you, would you ever want to spend the night just you and him together? Would you ever want to just go solo with him? And she immediately was like, yes, that sounds amazing. Because one of our initial rules was no overnights. Like we had said that. You know, everybody starts in this lifestyle with a long list of rules and boundaries. And a lot of them just kind of go out the window as you kind of go along. So I brought up her doing it overnight with him. And so she accepted it. And the guy was

super excited. And so like three nights later, they went out to dinner, had sushi and I stayed home, and then they went to a hotel and spent the night together. And she was sending me pictures and videos. I mean, it was super hot. Somewhere around like 2 a.m. We had the post-nut clarity take place, and that's when I had a minor freak out and asked her to come home. Oh, I remember this. This is where I love to get your side of this. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So at one point, I had a little, little minor freak out and I was like, uh, we're done. Can you come home now? And she was like, no. I'm like, I called her and she was already asleep. So she was playing. She was like in bed and I woke her up. So yeah, but she did not come home. She said, look, I'm going to see you in like six hours. Just go to

bed and we'll see each other in the morning, which, which I did. And I mean, that was just angst. It was just all angst that I've learned how to deal with now. And she made the right call because the next morning, I was so happy to get her back. And it was such an awesome experience that I said, this, this is what I like. This is what I like. So that's where I kind of switched from the stag lifestyle to more the cuck lifestyle, where she was more solo. And listen, only, you know, a born cuckoldress knows that that's the right fucking answer when you call. Because it does, listen, for the average person, I remember talking to her about this, right? For the average person, she seems cold, right?

Like you're having flipping out a little bit. you know what I mean? And she's like, no, not tending to your feelings. But for you, in this specific kind of thing, you know, dynamic that you guys have set up, she couldn't have done anything better. Like, that's completely kind of like how you want to be treated, right, with your kind of kink. Yeah, 100%. Well, not only that, but like, I know for a fact, if I would have pushed her, she actually would have come home. No, I know. She's played, but she knows the line. It's that line. Right. She knew the game. Yeah, that's what I mean. What's so incredible. incredible because and I remember questioning her a lot about it because because I know the average person that's listening might just hear it and it's like it takes you back right like no I'm not coming you know what I mean like whatever but it really is there is that fine line and you have to know where and she said like she's intuitive enough to know like if you were really upset she wouldn't have done that right like and that is this kind of back and forth that you guys need to be be aware of but you guys are in tune like that and she's very in tune like that with you and that's why we're

why she did that. Yeah, well, 100%. Well, I think a lot of times people don't understand the cuck holding is like Dungeons and Dragons with your pants off. Oh, interesting. I like that analogy. I've actually never played that game, but I understand the concept. Me neither.

Me neither, yeah. And so it's really, it's a role play game, right? And so you're playing this role. And so we have safe words. We have all that stuff where we can know if she's really pushing it too far. We're very honest with each other. But cuck holding is a game. And so she plays it very.

very, very well. Yeah, no, totally. And because you, like you said, I mean, there you were, having a little angst, wanting her come home. How do you feel when she, like, when she says, no, like, just relax. I'll be there in the morning. Is it, like, do you get the benefits of it, like the next morning when you see her? Were you, like, angst, like, were you upset right after? Like, what are the actual feelings that go through, like, after that phone call and then the morning when she comes back? Oh, that's a really good question. I mean, the angst continued. I was not sad or anything like that. I was just angsty.

And just the thought of her spending the night in the bed. So it wasn't like the sex was fine. Yeah. It was the fact that she was like spending the night in the bed with the guy. Yeah? Like I was thinking she's not really a cuddler, so I knew they weren't cuddling. But I was just thinking of like all of the parts that were more the romantic parts that I was uncomfortable with, which now I'm totally fine with.

But I was just super angsty. I remember the next morning getting up and I was kind of almost like shaking and I was taking a shower. I was listening to probably, probably listen to your podcast, to be honest with you. I was listening to Tino's sex podcast just to try to stay turned on in that frame of mind, which now we do chastity. So that's not a problem anymore. But back then I was trying to get back in that state of mind. And then when I picked her up, see, that's when it all comes together is when you actually reconnect with your partner. That's when that's when everything really hits its maximum peak. Right. And once you know that, right, in the future, you know like that's where it's eventually

getting. Like at the end of the story is not when she says no one hangs up and you're going to feel that angst, right? Like it doesn't end there. You know how it's going to end. She's coming home to you and that's the payoff. That's the moment. That's really great for you. I think she said like you, like that's like your favorite fucking experience. Oh my gosh. I love it when she spends the night with somebody. I think it's so fun because I don't know what's, it's almost like you're in a a haunted house. You know that the, it's scary, but you know it's fake, right? You know, you're, you know, You know you're not really in danger. Yeah.

But I love the not knowing what she's doing. Maybe she's having a drink. Maybe she's having sex. I don't know. And I find that part so fun. And then she will send me random pictures or little videos. I don't know when. And so I'm like Pavlov's dog.

When I hear my phone ping, I get like automatically triggered because I see her little face pop up. I'm like, what is this going to be? Like what kind of crazy shit is she doing right now? And she's just amazing at teasing. She is the goddess of teasing. That is for sure. Okay, listen, everyone, I have had so many stories on my show about vanilla couples, totally changing things up in the bedroom and having way better sex. And that just proves that it's never too late for

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dopamine hit, not at the same time. You never know when it's coming, you know? And it's just like, you're like dying for it. That just only adds to the whole thing. So all right, so once you realize that you like solo is did you just like continue to just have her do solo play all the time so every once in a while we still do me me involved maybe maybe two times a year like i'll do something where where i'm involved i'll watch sometimes but i would say the vast majority i'd say 70 75 percent of the time she's by herself and we just found that's a better dynamic for us you know because i've gone we had we recently had a kind of a date where I was involved and it just it gets so it gets so awkward and so part of this is is the compurgent piece where I just really want her to be happy and if I'm there making it awkward

like that's that's not accomplishing that part of it and the conversion piece grew for me that wasn't my initial thing initially it was just like me right I wanted my needs met but as I grew into this dynamic I started to understand about compersion about just taking pleasure for somebody else's happiness. And so that's where it becomes not just a sexual thing, but an entire lifestyle, where your life starts to look a little bit different. Yeah, I remember I just did an episode with the woman who wrote the Compersion book. I forget her exact name. That's terrible. I'm terrible what names. But, you know, it was very interesting to me because I think it would just very much sort of help me realize conversion. And I don't think that I ever really got it as clear until just

recently when I talked to her that compersion, like you said, is not like, oh, I want, my, like, my partner being happy gets me turned on and therefore I love it because that's still about you. It really is just about the other person, right? Really just wanting the other person to be happy.

I have an unquenchable need to serve Lexi. Right. I just, I love it. You know, she's just, she's my queen. She's my goddess. And so I love, I love serving her. Well, how does that play out after you start like, like in regular life and not even in the bedroom? Does it sort of, you know, bleed into other areas of your life when you're just at home?

Like, you do the laundry and stuff because I know some cucks that, you know, serve outside of the bedroom as well. Yeah, yeah. I do do that stuff. I mean, there is a little bit more balanced than that in our life. I mean, she does a lot of stuff too. But, I mean, I try to take off things off her plate. Right. Whether that's the laundry or cooking dinner or even small things like, hey, would you mind going upstairs to go grab my flip-flops or something like that, something easy?

Would your mind refilling my glass of wine? But a lot of times she doesn't say it that nice, right? She'll be like, Cuck, go do this. And she's not doing it to be mean. She's doing it because that's part of the game. Yeah. Right? Like she knows that her natural personality would be like, honey, would you mind going to grab me and have another glass of wine?

But she knows how to play the game. So she'll say, Cuck, how are you failing? And I'll look in the wine glasses like empty, right? So that's her thing is, how are you failing or Cuck, get me some more of this or Cuck, do this. But it's not, it's part of the game. She's not really a mean person. He's actually super nice. No, I know that's the whole thing with, you know, because I've talked to some women and some guys who are extreme cucks.

And I always get a little bit nervous sometimes when guys are so extreme and want it all the time. Because I think for some women, it might be hard to ride the line of like, oh, my guy wants me to always humiliate him, right? And stay attracted at the same time, right? Like there has to be a balance, don't you think, or else? Because you have to know that there. There's this distinction between this is just a game and it's not, you know, because if it becomes too much and one-sided, I think a woman can lose an attraction. The guy can be denied too much and there can eventually, because I've seen it.

I've had cuck gone wrong stories galore on my show, but it's typically when it's very extreme, you know? Oh, yeah, I agree with you. And we're kind of down the line. I'm a very staggy cuck. So I'm not, you know, a beta by nature. Right. But it's just within this dynamic.

only like within my wife and so she does see me as this you know alpha guy most of the time yeah yeah most of the time and and you know like i'm i don't you know a lot of cucks will will want to be submissive to the bull or something like that like i'm not like that you know me and the bowler are if anything equals but if more like i'm i'm i'm the husband like i still like if i'd say get the fuck out of my house you're going to get the fuck out of my house exactly so like i'm still I'm still that guy. So I think I still have that part, which I can't ever see me changing. Yeah. And what would you say to other cucks? Like, how do you keep moderate with it? Because haven't, like, have you seen like some cucks go overboard? Because I know I have.

Oh, I've seen, I've seen people go really extreme. But the thing is, I never want to provide somebody else relationship advice. I would say, make sure that you're having a podcast. That's what you're doing. Well, well, I think, I think that. You know, you're just being general and talking. Listen, and who else? the better to give people advice than people who live it. I mean, there's nothing wrong with giving advice. Well, my advice to them would be have good conversations. And your conversations have to be centered around, like, how is our core relationship doing? Anytime you displace your core relationship for another one, that's where you're going to get into potential problems.

Right. Women won't leave, women won't leave a cuck for another bowl just because the other bowl is better in bed. They will leave if you are not providing, you know, a meeting their. needs. So you have to make sure that that you two are on the same page. So that's where I say, like, if you are being extreme, but your relationship is still working, then okay. Like, I can't really judge or knock something else. Yeah. No, I think it's typically what I see is when it's the extreme thing that typically gets people in trouble is when they're denying themselves a lot and they get very into that. And then there's like this lack of connection that happens, right,

between them and their partner and then the humiliation, and then they leave that room for them to sort of develop that connection, especially if it's like a long-time ball, a regular, you know. But you always reconnect. I mean, let's talk about Chastity, like, because you are into Chastity play too. That eventually came up for you guys, right? It did.

It did. And it started honestly, so she has a Fansley. And so it started as I got a cage to do content. It was just for content. And then I had a conversation with her. I was like, what do you think if we actually started to incorporate this into kind of our dynamic more? And she's like, I think at first she was a little skittish. She's like, okay, we can try.

But at first it was very, very short lockups. I'm talking like 10 minutes, 20 minutes, like half an hour. And then it just grows longer and longer and longer. And now it's most of the time when I'm not like out and about in the world. Like I don't wear it 24-7. I'm not like in it like at work. if you see me at the grocery store, I'm likely not wearing it. But when I'm at home, I'm usually in it. And it's a, it's a physical reminder of that kind of submissive role that we play. And we are participating in October. I am participating in October. So we're going the whole month without having sex with her, which, which I'm finding more difficult. I didn't realize how much I actually needed from her still. So we're on day 16 of there, 17 of October now. It hasn't become easier over time. No, it sucks. It's getting it.

worse because if you saw my if you saw my wife she like when she does like even she bends over to like feed the pets i'm just going nuts so yeah oh my god but do you like the angst of that and feeling yes yeah i do and i mean she's already been with one bowl this month and next week she's supposed to have another one that i'm supposed to watch for and so i think that's going to be difficult because normally there is some kind of a release or something like that after she's with a bowl and this time there's not going to be So I'm interested to see how it goes. This can be interesting. So what's the longest before this October that you're doing for a whole month?

What's the longest that you would actually even stay at caged up? Well, I mean, the longest I would really stay like if I wasn't going anywhere for like a weekend, it would be like a weekend. Like if I was just hanging out around the house, it would be like I think that's the longest I've ever gone. It's like a Friday to like a Monday morning. Right. And tell me this as a guy, right? Like because I know I've talked to guys that are very into chastity and I sometimes it's very hard finding the exact size.

But once you got it, I mean, the size is important because you want to leave no room for, like, getting hard, right? Because then it could, like, hurt. Like, does it really stop you from getting hard, but not stop you from being aroused? So it depends on the size. So, like, I went through like, I went through like King 3D, which they do the whole, like, sizing for you. It's like pretty awesome how they do that.

Oh, okay. That's a good record. They have that because I know that sizing is probably one of the hardest things for guys to figure out. Yeah, Kathy, it was the first time in my life, believe it or not, I had sent dick picks to anybody. When I sent my dick picks into Kink 3D and they sized me and all that stuff and got a perfect match. So you don't want it to be too terribly small because that can be painful if you have a longer lockup. But you can get a little bit erected still.

It's just not the top of your dick gets erected. If you have a tiny one, then you can't. But, I mean, you can still get turned on. You can still get a little erect. It's just really hard to come in them. like there's really no way to do it unless you use a big vibrator or something. But you can't come at all in them, right? That's the whole point, right?

Oh, you can. Oh, you can't. Yeah, if you use like a big vibrator or something like that on you, like you can come. It's called a ruined orgasm. A lot of cucks actually really like it. Oh, yeah, for sure, of course. It's actually really powerful. It's like a crazy, crazy sensation.

So you've done that before? Yeah, we've done it before where she's gotten back from like a bull and it's just been amazing. and she's in her like cuck culture's 5,000 mood. And she's like, okay, I'm going to let you come, but it's going to be this way. And it's pretty intense. So as far as like when you're with, because you're, you know, you've gotten as far as chastity, do you do any kind of humiliation besides her calling you like, oh, cuck, go get me this or that?

Is there any other kind of humiliation involved for you? We don't really do a lot of that. We do more like hard teasing. Like she'll say things about the bull. Like he was so good at this. He was bigger, you know, here. And it's all, it's all in fun. You know, sometimes she'll go a little bit too far and I'll have to be like, whoa, honey, dial it back a little bit. But it's mostly comparison. Like, that's mostly what she does is comparison type stuff. We don't do any, like, physical humiliation really? Right. And is it like, do you feel like your cuck you like all the time? Do you feel like you click in and out of it? Do you feel like it's two, you have two sides of yourself? Like, how do you feel? as like, because you have that part of yourself, right? But you obviously, you know, go out into the vanilla world. You said your wife sees you as this alpha guy.

Like, how do you, how do you feel as those two people? Is it just you're the same person? And sometimes you're into that when you're just intimate or like, how does it work? I'm the same person. I'm pretty consistent no matter what. If you met me, you would, I'm the same person you're hearing on this, on this podcast. And I just, I have no shame in telling people I am submissive to, well, not submissive. But I would probably say my wife is my queen.

I serve her. She's the boss. Like I have no problem saying that I may wear the pants in the house, but she picks them out for me. I love my wife to death. And I love that I get to elevate her. And I think all men should elevate their wives in whatever way that they see fit within their relationship dynamic.

Right. And so when did you, when and why did you guys get into content creating? Was that a part of like, do you as a cuck enjoy sharing her? in that way and sharing yourself and having people see you as well. Like, does that help you too? Yeah, actually, that's exactly why we started. And we started on it. We started on a site actually called Feet Finder.

What's that? It's a foot fetish site. So, and there's a lot of models on there. And it's mostly just feet picks. And that's where we started as, we were like, maybe we'll do this, but just like, just like feet. And she was thinking nobody was going to care. Nobody was going to. And then we had people coming out of the woodwork for pictures.

of her feet. And then they, and what was interesting about this that I didn't realize is there's like a crossover between like cuckolding and like fetish kind of things. Yeah, that's what I was going to say. Why did you even start at feet? I didn't realize there was a connection. Yeah, I mean, I didn't, I didn't have that connection. We just started at feet because it wasn't her face, right? Like, so we just started because it was just more privacy. But eventually it grew and she had more and more guys coming to her asking for more cuck holding type stuff, like cuckold role plays, which she which she still does now with her fansly and her fans and all that stuff. So that's how it started was on there and then progressed into Fansley and then progressed

into us having our own podcast now. So it kind of just, it started very, very small and it got, it got larger rather quickly. And you enjoy it. I mean, it is something that you went further into it because you realize, oh, this isn't just like good for like making a couple bucks. Like on some level, it's adding something more to your dynamic. Oh, yeah. Hell yeah. Like, it's super fun. Like, I love that. that she has fans and I love that I love it when her fans send her new lingerie. It's just, it's so fun to get to see her and new stuff and take pictures of her in that content.

And no, I love that she has guys that that want her and all that stuff. And I talk to these guys because we have like fan groups, you know, like you do, you know, telegram groups and that kind of stuff. And so I talk to these guys as well and they're all super nice. Like we're all good with each other. Yeah. And so what, like who does she have like regular bowls that she sees now, you know, or does she do one off?

I'm like, where do you find these guys? Oh my gosh, we have been trying to find her a regular bowl for like our entire relationship. And it's proven like impossible. Guys are so flaky. I don't understand. And you believe it's that hard to get fucked for nothing? You know what I mean? You think it's easier than it should be, right?

Yeah, we find guys in three primary places. So online like sites like field has been like our go to lately. We find guys in like, sex clubs or in or in like house parties or we'll go to like vanilla bars and and she'll she'll find a guy in there so but lately it's been a lot of guys from field and a lot of them are flaking I mean we got stood up the other night it was like a week ago that we got stood up so that's no fun yeah can you believe it that happens more I think it was your wife that she said she doesn't even book the hotel anymore ahead of time like she waits until she's there with him right no I know it's normally the guy who who does that but

One thing is like we stop going, we stop, like a lot of times she'll be going to a date and I'll like drop her off, right? Like a drop her off at the restaurant. Like now at times I'll like wait. It's like drop her off to make sure the guy actually shows up and she'll text me and be like, okay, he's here. He's normal. Like we're going to have dinner.

See you later. Oh my God. So what's the name of like a, tell me a story like a really hot story that happened recently or one of your hottest besides that first time where you felt that angst the most. You know, what else tops that one? Anything else? Oh gosh. Our honeymoon.

I think she probably told you that story. I don't know if your listeners want to hear it again, but I'm happy to tell again. Let's hear it from your story. Oh my gosh. So when we were going to get married, the one thing that we made absolutely clear is on our wedding day, there is zero talk about cuck holding or other guys or anything like that. Like that was our special day. But that didn't include the honeymoon.

So I brought it up to her. Just that one day, just the wedding day. Just that one day. And so I brought up to her. I said, honey, when we went to Europe for honeymoon, I said, When we're in Europe, would you, you know, are we going to play a little bit? And she said, we can do that. And I said, you know what we should do for a honeymoon?

Our honeymoon is like, it's a big deal. We should have a gang gang. And I just kind of threw it out there. I wasn't even fully serious. And her response was, yeah, sure, that sounds fun. I mean, my wife is so freaking cool. And so we went over and our first stop was in London. And we went to a lifestyle club.

And it just so happened to be in that lifestyle club. It was hot wife night. It was a Thursday night and third Thursday. were hot wife nights. So we went and so it was a bunch of single dudes and then some couples. So we kind of had our pick of the litter that night. And we met, I think we met three guys initially. And the club closed relatively early. So after we were in the club and there was just a lot of flirting. There really wasn't any more than that in the club taking place. We decided we weren't done. So we all went to a strip club after that in London. It was really nice. And one of the guys there got a

little bit too belligerent. So we had to shed him. He was just a little bit too drunk. And so there was three guys left. There was me. There was a guy from Russia and there was a guy from London and we ended up inviting the two of them over to our hotel room with me. So we get there and immediately it started pretty quick after we walked in the room. I'm talking within within seconds, the guy from Russia who was a younger guy with a, he was working with a really big package. He threw her on the bed and started to get really rough with her. Me and London had to say, dude, calm down a little bit. You're going a little bit too rough. But this, this lasted like, I mean, we went for like four hours, Kathy. I mean, it was, it was an impressive feat by my new wife.

And the funniest part was that at one point in time, she got like two hours in, she got like hungry or maybe it was three hours in. She said, can you guys go down and go get some snacks in the lobby? So me and the guy from London leave the room as the guy from Russia is still doing her. And there's two security guys coming towards my room as we're walking down the hall and I could hear my wife down the hall. She's very loud. And I asked the security guys, are you going to that room? And they said, yes. And I said, don't worry. It's not like, nobody's in danger. That's just my wife. She's, she's in pleasure right now. And they looked at me kind of weird. They're like, wait, that's your wife, but she's being loud in the room. They looked at me super confused. And then the guy kind of clicked.

the guy's like, oh, okay, and like gave me a bro hug and walked away. And then probably about half an hour later, they called back. They called the room. They're like, no, really? Like, you guys need to chill out. You guys are being too loud. Like other rooms are calling in. So they quieted down a little bit.

But we went for a good another hour. So it was a four hour gang bang. And it was hot. I mean, it was hot. I saw her in every position, Spitter. I was involved. So I wasn't sitting in a cut chair. So it was the three of us on her at the same time.

It was pretty cool. Yeah, I remember that story. them people complaining that she was so loud. I mean, it's just crazy also that it's like your honeymoon, you know. How long into your guy's relationship did you guys get married? Like you met each other on field, right? It was super fast. I mean, we were engaged probably within six, seven months of meeting, and then we were

married less than a year after that. So we got married pretty darn fast. It's funny, you know, in your second one, you really know what you're looking for. I really knew. Like, I was positive about this person. Yeah. There was no doubt. So like I figured why wait? Yeah, exactly. So let me ask you this because I asked her and, you know, because your face is like right on your podcast logo, right? And I'm like, oh, does your family know? And she was like, no. But we felt, you know. And so like, are you also like very out with your face in your content as well? Are you on the side? Is it just her? Like to do people know in your life what's going on? No, I mean, I believe in equal risk. That's not fair for me to ask to have her or.

allow her to put her face out there and me not do the same. So I'm out there too on like the content and we have a YouTube channel and all that kind of stuff. But I mean the most important people in my life, no. Oh, they do. Okay. That's interesting. Yeah. Yeah.

And like my best friends, like I ask them for advice on the podcast and on some of our other stuff like on fans. Like I asked them for advice on stuff. I don't go into detail. Like that's the thing I did. Like they know it exists. They know that we do a podcast and that kind of stuff. But I don't feel the need to go into detail. But them, obviously, it's family and close friends.

Right, but they know you have a podcast. They know that you're a cuckold. Don't they have, any of them have questions? I always wonder. It's like, it's interesting that nobody like asked you. I would, if you were my friend, I'd be like, really? Like, da-da-da-da-da. I would do like what I'm doing now.

Yeah. One of my friends was like, wait a second. So, but you don't play, but wait, what? He was just so confused. And he's like, he didn't understand the terms. He was asking all this. Because in today's society, like the term cuckold, the term cuckold, the term cuck has become like a political insult almost.

So it's really misunderstood. So he was asking me questions about it, asking me, like, just couldn't wrap his hand around the fact that I didn't want to play, which I just, I just have zero, zero, zero desire to play. Like, it's just not my, like, I just don't want it. And so that was the thing that that one friend was having trouble wrapping his hand around. But the most of them don't really, they don't really ask too much. Like a couple of my friends have, like, listen to the podcast and, you know, they like it.

You know, it's funny. We're a very funny couple together. So, yeah. Yeah, well, let me just tell you when I had a, YouTube channel. I was thrown off, but I had a YouTube channel. Do you remember? I mean, I would get like 500,000 downloads there at like 42,000 subscribers. My show did really well on YouTube, with just a fucking logo, by the way, and it was killing it, but they took me down. I hate YouTube. But let me tell you that what I loved about YouTube, and now Spotify has it, was the comment sections. Like, I do

love what I do, and then I love the conversations that are started by my show, and I love talking to people, you know, like, I could be doing this 24-7, that's what I do for my show, and that's what I enjoy. And I do, though, Like, you know, the conversation a lot of times when you have these hot wives on who are like fucking other guys for their husband. But, you know, maybe the girl says like, oh, but I would never want him to be with anyone. But he doesn't want to be. Or for whatever reason, that's the way it's set up, right? And people just go mental over that. They just cannot understand it.

They think it's unfair. But it's just like, no, it's, that's typically, you know, when I'm talking to guys like you, they have no desire to be with other women. They're getting all the variety and all the action and everything from exactly what they have, which is their wife being with other guys, you know, and people will be like, that's not fair. It's like it's not about being fair. It's about being like a perfect setup because both you and her are like down for the same exact thing. You know what I mean? If you wanted to be with other checks, you guys would be swingers.

Yeah, yeah, totally. And we're not. And I mean, I think it's more fair than people think. The amount of work that she puts into this is a lot. I mean, the teasing and the constantly, I mean, she made it, one thing she made clear. when I first brought it up to her and we had our first sit down conversation, she said, I don't need this. I don't need to do this. I don't need any other guys. I'm just good with you. So if you're doing this so I can have variety, like, I'm good. And I said, no, it's not, it's genuinely I want this.

So I, and I just don't have any desire. I mean, all of my personal needs, whether that be physical or emotional or being met by her. Yeah, let me tell you, I had a woman on named Betty. She was a hot wife that was into like gang bangs and stuff. and she did talk about how it was a lot of work, hot wifing for her husband, and eventually she gave that up, left her husband, and wound up with a guy, and she's, you know, swinging with him because she did say exactly what you said. For her, it was a lot of work, you know, and a lot of, like, she felt it was very one-sided. I mean, because for her, it didn't work because of that, but that's, like you said, it is very fair because she, it's actually less fair for her, right?

She's doing more work than you. You're at home. I mean, she enjoys it and likes it. You know, that's the whole point of me. But, you know, Betty was here to say, like, yeah, it is a lot of work for the woman, you know, and she gave it up because of that. And she's a swinger now. But, like, you know, you're both, is so perfect for each other because you both love your exact roles. When was the last time you did engage?

Like, do you sometimes, like you said, like, every, like two times a year, maybe you decide to, like, join in on the fun? Gosh, the last time I actually, gosh, it's October. gosh, the last time I was probably involved in one was maybe over the summer. I just, you know, for content, I just videoed her with another guy maybe a week ago and I'm going to again next week. So there's been times, I mean, the recent past I've been present, but the last time I actually was like physically involved was maybe over the summer. It's been, it's been a minute. And I mean, she's with, she's with a pretty decent number of guys. So it's been in several guys since I've been involved.

Right. And last question, like the whole jealousy thing, like you have that mastered, right? Like I would assume there has there ever that there has never been a time where the angst was too much or the jealousy was a little bit more than you could handle and you had to like sort of work through that. Has that ever come up? Yes. Oh, yeah. Oh, it does come up because again, I mean, I use this as a way to kind of mask jealousy. So it does come up.

I mean, she was recently with a couple of guys that were, the young guys. guys come out of the woodwork for Lexi. So whether, you know, 26, 27, you know, 32 years old, you know, a lot younger than me and they're in good shape and they're, they're cooler than me. And so, yeah, I'll get insecure. I'll get insecure and I'll ask her. I'll be like, hey, like, I'm still attractive to you, right? Like, you still, I'll ask her those questions. And I know the answers, but it's good to, it's good to hear it from her. I remember one time she went on a, she went on a date with a guy and she was gone for a couple days with the guy and came back and he had showered her with gifts and all these giant flowers and all that stuff and I got a little insecure on that one I was like whoa like I didn't

expect that because they went and did so many things and so yeah it does it does happen I don't think I'd be I don't think it'd be normal if it if there wasn't some kind of a reaction that would make us just almost platonic friends and not romantic partners so I definitely do still have reactions I definitely do ask her for reassurance every now and then but for the most part like I'm very very very comfortable in this lifestyle we've really we've really got a good pace going with each other we just we're on the same page almost 100% right so a little reassurance goes a long way right in times like that because like you said it's even and I always say this too whatever kind of non monogamous relationship you have if you're human beings right no one's ever it doesn't matter how professional

you are what you're doing like every day and then it might you might feel a certain way that you never felt before you know what I mean and it's like it's because you're a human being who knows it's because of the way the wind blows that one day you feel a certain way. But it's about being able to communicate and work through it with your partner. And they, you right, and then be open to hearing. Yeah. And then the other thing is you have to remember that this is, you know, a couple things that three-person relate dynamic.

So there is like another human being, right? The bull. The bull isn't just a giant dick walking around. You know, he's a guy. So if they're cool with me, like I have less of a problem. But there are a lot of guys who did. They want to pretend like I don't exist. That's stupid.

It's really dumb. And it really just spoils it. And like, I mean, I don't need to be best friends with the guy, but I need to be able to shake the guy's hand. You know, and so if you can at least do that with me, I mean, this coming Wednesday is actually my birthday. And her bowl is, one of her bowls is coming over and we're going to all hang out together and, you know, have drinks and just the party together. And it's going to be a lot of fun. And like, that's the kind of guy that we're both looking for is somebody who can just be cool with everybody. Most of the time can be alone with her that I can trust that I know is, is not just calling, you know, every.

six months for a booty call. Like that's, that's not what either of us want. We want to find a decent guy. Yeah, well, what's interesting is, you know, I have over 1,600 people have been on my show, and I've had many bull episodes. And I always ask questions about this for my Patreon members, like, why are the least listened to episodes, right? Here I am bringing you like a very professional bull, a bull who knows how to fucking play the game, who gets called back by every couple, who knows the deal, who will tell you exactly how. to fuck Lexi Meadows if you want to fuck her and she's hot right and yet nobody listens to that like out of the whole you know out of the cuckle the cuckled dress the bull that's like the least downloaded person when I air their episodes and I feel like they're the most sort of they should be listened to the most right because here's a guy telling you exactly what to do what not to do you know because and a lot of guys are fucking clueless you know and here and and I bring episodes like that all the time because I think it's super important because what guys don't understand is that you need to build a relationship with the guy like that's what all these guys always say everything that you just said is always like the thing that they do the most you know and uh but people don't listen to those episodes as much as they listen to like your episode Lexi's episode but they should I have a lot of great fucking bull episodes and a lot of great balls on my show they really they really should they really should because I mean guys just the vast majority of guys don't know how to be a good bowl yeah they don't get it they just don't yeah they don't get it and I

I hand over gold with the like how to be a bull with these very successful guys that fucking know how to do it. But anyway, anyone listening that wants to go listen, just put bull in Spotify and you'll find those episodes. But listen, Chris Meadows, thanks so much for being a loyal listener, by the way, of my show. And for sending me your wife first to talk. And I'm super glad that you came on as well. And to get the story from you, it was great.

And I'll air probably hers first or yours first or second. I don't know. but you guys will be like one after each other. Can you do me a favor and send me some picks for my Patreon? Sure. I'll send a couple of me and Lexi together. Yeah, yeah, perfect. And you don't mind faces, right?

I mean, typically I say anonymous, but you guys aren't, right? So yeah, some whatever you want. Okay, awesome. All right. Thanks, Chris. Thanks so much for calling in. All right. Thank you, Kathy.

Bye. Oh, wait, and give a shout out. Give a shout out against your cuckold marriage podcast. And by the way, I will put a link to your, what do you want me? Do you have a link tree, like a one link that has like her fans Lee and your podcast and YouTube and everything together? Her website is kind of the central hub for everything. It's Cuckholdersress, Lexi.com, and Lexi's L-E-X-I-E Cuckholderslixie.com.

That's where you can get her book. You can go to her fans, you can go to our Patreon, you can find our podcast, all that stuff is on there. Okay, cool. So I'll put that link on there. So for people to know so you can find that. Okay, awesome. Thanks, Chris. Thanks so much for calling in.

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