Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 211 - Alex is into Wrestling and Pantyhose

Episode Date: January 1, 2018

Alex calls in to talk all about his pantyhose fetish and how he started wrestling in high school to get off. When did his pantyhose fetish start? How did it play out in his dating and married life? How did he get a bunch of kids in high school to start wrestling with him? What went down when they wrestled? Tune in to find out and hear a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What else? I have on a guy named Alex today who's into Panty Hoes and Rust. And the pantyhoes thing I've had on before, it's just such a hot topic. I have to tell you that every time I get a Panahos guy on my show, I get other ones emailing me to be on and talk about it. So I had him on and of course because even though they have the same fetish, everybody sort of lives it out in a different way and talk about it. Their experiences are what gets them off in a different way. So, you know, he brings that to the table. We talk about all different things and how like the Panii Host thing sort of plays out in his

life as well as in his marriage and in his dating life before he got married. We also talk about this whole thing about wrestling because that's kind of like where it all started. And a lot of things that you told me about wrestling. I mean, like I think there's always like that joke that is just like, kind of has like homo undertones. Like it's like sort of, right? Wrestling, right? Don't people always think that kind of?

And he's here to say that, yeah, uh-huh. I mean, he's not by at all is what he says in this podcast, but he definitely was turned on by wrestling. And we talk a lot about that. That was interesting to me because I don't know. I think people always like allude to it, but I've never really heard anybody cop to it. And I wonder if it's just him because,

he's into tights and pantyhoes and so, you know, put that and the physical contact and whatever and it turns him on, but maybe other guys, it doesn't, I don't know. But he seems to think that other guys were getting turned on too. So I'm curious about that. So if you're listening right into the show and tell me your story. But anyway, so he's in pantyos, he's into wrestling. And let me just tell you, I taped this podcast a while ago. And recently, I reached out to everybody asking for updates, because I'm going to be doing a where are they now segments all in January, which I typically do, where I have on guests that, you know, all the people that came on my show for the past year, I get them to call in and give updates of what's going

on in their scenario now. And let me tell you, Alex's update was really fucking interesting. And I was actually going to put it on the end of this podcast because I'm airing his podcast right so close to the update. But I'm like, no way. I'm going to make you wait because it's good. And that's what stupid TV shows do to me. Like, they don't give me the end right away.

They make me wait a whole week. it's so irritating. I fucking hate that shit, but I think it works. So I'm just going to make you wait to the Where Are They Now episode to hear where this story goes because it took a fucking left-hand turn. For me, at least, and I tend to think that I kind of pat myself on the back all the time saying how great I am at reading people and sort of knowing the situation. But I didn't really see this other side of him that comes.

out on the update show, so it's really interesting. But I can't tell you about that. You're going to have to wait for that episode, but it'll be in January. But for now, you could get the backstory on the update and hear all about, like I said, his panty hose fetish as well as his whole thing that went down wrestling when he was younger. So stay tuned for my call with Alex. I mean, I'll be right back with Alex. Do you have a story, lifestyle?

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Hey, Alex, welcome to Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Your Honor and Kathy, how you doing today? Very good. How are you? I'm good. So you're another panty hose guy. I really need to like, I mean, I say this all the time that it's like a very, like, like, widely, uh, what would be the right word?

Like, widely experienced fetish or widely, what is the, what would I, what would be the way? I'm going to tape this over. I'm not even going to edit out because I'm so retarded. Desired fetish or something. I don't know. That and feet. And I haven't had on a foot fetish guy in so long. I used to have one on this one guy who came on very, very early on my podcast.

And I feel like if I had a foot fetish guy on, I'd have his million people emailing me afterwards as well. And then I'd have like 10,000 foot guys. So I just always, after I air these, or just always, I always have panty hose guys emailing me because it really is a big thing that people are into. More guys than you know, right? And you're another guy and you had found my podcast. I'm assuming because you went Googling for pantyho's stuff?

Yeah, exactly. That's exactly what I did. and I listened to a couple of them. It's funny, too, because for the longest time, I was absolutely positive that I was the only guy in the planet that had a little any of us. But with the Internet, it's amazing. You find like people very easily.

And, you know, in a way, isn't that so, you know, freeing? And doesn't that make you feel so much better about yourself? Because you did, like, before the Internet, right? before you could sort of, you know, get the fact that like other people are just like you. Like you would live, maybe sometimes like feeling very shameful about the things that you were into or whatever, you know? I think sometimes people, right? It sometimes work the opposite way.

Some people I think to think that they're just so much more interesting than they really are. And then you go online and then now you go online and you can find out that everyone's thinking the same shit. So many people have your same problems. You're just not really that unique, you know? Like a lot of people are like a lot of people, right? Like we're all kind of the same and different. Yeah.

Yeah, but it's comforting to me to find that I really thought that I was like the only person that was into this. And it was kind of a weird feeling, but now it's amazing how many guys are into panty-hose. It's unbelievable. It really is. It's like I said when I go on Craigslist. I see so many ads about, you know, when I'm looking for people to call in about panty-hose, when I'm looking under fetishes. and then I have so many people just randomly emailing me. Most of my Panyos, I think maybe I got one Panyos guy from going on to Craigslist.

And then after that it was like all people that emailed me like, hey, I'm also into Pannios. And I get that because like I said, I look on Craigslist and I scroll through hundreds of ads, you know, all over. And I'm always seeing tons for Pannios and tons for feet. And to me those are like the very sort of lightweight fetishes compared to other things. But each one I think could go in different degrees, right? Like I've had like, and I don't know where you stand in the degrees of Panty Ho's fetish thing because like I've had one guy who actually emailed me recently and wanted to do a part two who was like really hardcore into Panty Hose.

Like I mean he would put him on top of his head and like jerk off and stuff like I mean he had all kinds of stuff that he was into when it came to Panty Hose. And then I've had like like my last guy on who was like pretty much as like, I would say as tame as you would get when it came to Panty Hose. I don't even know that he wore them that much. He was more into women wearing them. but it just shows that even within the whole specific fetish, there's all kinds of people, right?

Because you could have different degrees of it or you're into it in different ways. I don't know how you're into it and where you are on that scale. Like what would you say you are? I would say I'm pretty into it. I mean, I wear them. I really like to wear them.

But I also love them on women too. So it's both for me. No, but I mean like how hardcore, like, because I've had like, guys that are stealing pantyhose from like, I mean, that one guy was like, I think the one with the hand jobs, like he was stealing pantyose from his sister-in-law. And like, I mean, it was like pretty, I would say, you know, not as tame as somebody that just like likes to see women in them. You know what I mean? He was doing all kinds of crazy things, which was interesting, you know, but whatever, whatever.

When did you start getting, when did you realize that you were like into panty hose? It was pretty good in grammar school, like sixth or seventh grade. I really recognized that I loved, you know, tights or pantyhose on girls' legs. And it just kind of grew from there. But I remember all the way back to probably like sixth grade. Liking the panty hose. And it would be like a sexual turn on for you? Like when you were like, when you started to like sort of get off by yourself and like jerk off and stuff?

Would you use, like, girls in pantyhose as, like, a fantasy? Yeah, I actually, well, I had a sister. So I could, I wound up, you know, obviously stealing her pantyhoes and using her pantyhoes, and I would put them on. Because I love the way they looked on women, but I was, like, dying to try them on. So one day I took hers and in private, and I tried them on.

And then it became, pretty much a regular thing where I would put them on and get myself off. Right. So just having them also on your body and on your legs would be a turn on as well. Yeah, because I love the way they feel wearing them and I love the way to look. So yeah, as soon as I put them on, I was very turned on. And are you like mostly all of the panties guys, like you're very into the nude ones or do you not care? I like I really like sun tan and black

Those are probably the two colors That do it for me Oh interesting sun tan Yeah Not the nude It's got to be like I mean isn't the suntan a little orangey It can be

But most of the time it's just It has like a nice shine to it It's like what the Hooters girls wear You know Oh right right right That's kind of color Uh huh And so those

or black, and you would be interested in putting either one of those, besides just seeing girls in one of those colors, does that also apply to you, like when you're jerking off, like you could do either the tan or the black for yourself? Yeah, yeah.

Those are the two colors I have most pairs of. Now, I could imagine when you're sixth grade, right, and you're doing this behind anyone's back, and I'm assuming you're a little bit older, there wasn't no internet when you were younger, right? Correct.

you know, did you ever get caught or anything? I never got caught. I was always pretty careful about returning them. Yeah, returning them and making sure that, you know, nobody was home and nobody was supposed to be home from. And that never, and you never got busted. No. Right. And so, and so you kept them on and like you were always wearing them and you would jerk off to them.

I mean, like, did you feel any shame about it? Were you confused about it? Like, because you know, you're pretty young, right? And like you said, there's no internet, so you think you're the only guy that likes to do this. So this is like your real secret, right, that only you know about yourself. Like, how did that make you feel?

Like, do you feel shame about it? Or were you okay with it? Were you confused? Well, I liked it so much that I knew I wasn't going to stop. I did feel like, well, you know, like I shouldn't be doing this. God, can you imagine if anybody ever found out? I was putting on panty hood and getting off. I figured, you know, that would be the end of the world. So I felt, I did feel like, wow, this is like pretty outrageous. I shouldn't be doing this.

But it was such a turn on there's no way that I was going to stop. Right. Did you ever wonder, like, are you gay? Are you by? Are you straight? Like, what are you now anyway? I'm assuming because I think you said you had to see women in them. you're straight or you buy or you get like what are you? No, I can I consider myself straight. I never ever had any doubt about that because I never, I never wanted to do anything with a guy that never, that was never a concern of mine. I was like, oh my God, I'm gay.

No, I never had that thought. I knew exactly where it was good and I like women all the way. Right. And let me ask you this. Did you ever think like, oh, maybe I should be some. Pantyhose I should try on my sister's mini skirt or her high heels. Like did it ever sort of go further as far as like totally dressing up as a woman or did it always just stay with the panty hose? No, the furthest that went, because I do, I mean, I think it's very natural if you have a pantyhose that you also expand X.

Right. So I did get into leotors. I really love to wear leotaur, the panty hose. that's just an outrageous feeling because it's skin tight and it just feels and looks so good. So it's a leotard. But never dresses, you know, bras, high heel, never any of that stuff. Right. So it doesn't really bleed into that.

It really is its own specific thing. It's not like, oh, the gateway fetish for like transgender people or something, right? No, that role. Because I, like, and it's true because, I mean, I've talked to maybe, I mean, This is how I do scientific studies. I talk to a couple people and then I make a decision about the way things are. But I'm like from all the Pantyhose people I spoke with, which is like five. Like none of them ever sort of took it any farther than Panihose.

So it doesn't seem to be sort of tied into, you know, sort of people who are cross-dressers or whatever. There's none of that going on. No. No, no. Leotards is as far as I meant. Leotards. It's so weird that you say that word. I haven't heard that word in like 10 fucking years.

Like not even 10 years. like 30 years. Do you know what I mean, a leotard? Maybe if I had a little girl, I would like remember that word, but like this is such a weird word now. Now, like, right, so you never got caught, like you were jerking up and doing that, but you knew you liked girls, right?

And then you start dating girls at some point, I'm assuming, right? Like, when, did you ever tell any of your girlfriends about this? No, the only girl I've ever told is a girl I'm married to now. That's the only girl that I ever told. And now I never had the nerve to tell anybody part of that because I was so afraid of the reaction. Right, I could imagine. But like, let me ask you this. Did you ever go on dates and, like, when, would you be wearing, like, like, how far did you take your wearing the panty hose thing?

Like, did you wear them out in public to school on dates? Or did you only do it when you were home and you were, like, ready to jerk off you went and got your stash of, like, panty hose jerked off and, like, put them back in the closet? Or did you wear them out in, like, your regular life? No, at that time, I only wore them to get off. Years later, as I got older, then I started wearing them under my jeans. I'd wear them out and stuff like that. But at that time, when I was dating, no, I only wore them in private. Right.

And then when you got older, is this after you were married and told your wife? Or this was like, no, this was even before you met her? No, it was even before I met my wife. I'd wear them under my jeans in the wintertime and things like that. To stay warm or like because of the warmth aspect of it or because you just could and you wanted to? Well, first of all, it feels really good to wear them on like a really cold day under your jeans. Yeah. But honestly, I was just doing it because I love the way they feel on.

So, you know, if I could have, if during the summer my wardrobe didn't, you know, consisted mostly short, so I would, I probably would have worn during the summer. But, you know, it is kind of hot and uncomfortable. So it was mainly at wintertime. Right, right. Yeah, duh. Of course. I don't even know why.

Right. I don't know why I didn't think of that. I get it. So let me just ask you this. How long into, like, so you're not telling anybody. You're living your whole life. Like, how old were you when you? your wife, the girl that you wound up marrying.

Like, how old were you when you met her? Early 20s. How old are you now? 50. So you've been with her for a long time. How, like, how long did it take you to actually tell her before you were married? Did you tell her after you were married? No, I told her before we were married.

I just, you know, I was always waiting for the right situation to bring it up. and Halloween is the perfect excuse to do it because the first Halloween that we were together, we were discussing, we were going to go to a costume 40, and we were kicking around what we were going to go as, and I suggested, you know, that I go as Superman. And I was, you know, then, you know,

I used that to say, hey, you know, I'm going to need a pair of tights, you know, come on the other pair of tights. And, you know, she obviously did, and I tried a mom. then, you know, I kind of eased into it that, wow, these feel really good on. And we got it from there until I admitted to her that I had worn them before, and I really liked her. And did she get freaked out by that? How long into, so that was like the first Halloween that you guys were dating? Yeah.

It was probably less than six months after I met her. Let me ask you this before that. Did you date a lot of girls? No, not a whole lot. I mean, I think, you know, probably like an average number, nothing excessive. No, because I'm just wondering, like, what made you feel, like, what was it about her? You know, was it something about her or was it just where you were at in your life that made you feel comfortable enough to finally tell somebody about it? Because, you know, this is a girl that you just kind of met. It wasn't that deep into your relationship.

So I'm wondering, did you never have a girl that you were, like, really close with? And this was the first one that you did. or maybe you just felt super comfortable with her. That's why she was the one that you wound up marrying, or you just felt ready at that time that you would have told anybody. Like, why tell her then? Well, because I think we got pretty serious, pretty fast, and I kind of knew she was going to be the one.

Okay, right. So I just felt, I didn't feel like, I mean, I'm not going to lie, I was nervous. Yeah. Because there's always the chance that she might go, oh, my God, they're like a total freak. Mm-hmm. end of relationship, but I figured I had to do that before, you know, we got married.

For sure. I probably wasn't going to give it up. So I think I thought she needed to know. And so I told her, and she was absolutely super cool about it. And you let her know that you like to wear them too, was it? Because I remember one guy acting like it was like, and I was like, wow, it's so great that you were able to tell someone. And then he just told me, like, it was just really just about the fact that he liked

to see other people in them. I'm just like, that's not really something hard, I don't think, to tell somebody that you're really into seeing a girl in panty house. I think what's hard and which is something that you had to tell someone, you know, your girl, is that you like to wear them, you know, which is a whole different thing. You know, so it's, you know, like you said, you knew she was the one and you guys were super serious even though, or you got like super serious fast. So even though this was early on in your relationship, you felt close enough and you trusted her to tell her. And that's, great. Yeah, like you said,

it was, I really don't think it's a big deal with tell a girl that, you know, you think they're super hot a fanny hose. Yeah, who cares? Because my wore pantyhose ever since the first time I met her. So I'd obviously told her many times that I thought she was great.

Right, right. The big deal is, big deals telling her that you're wearing. Exactly, right? And so you said, like, I've worn them before and I like wearing them, and she was like just totally fine with it. And like did you like, did you immediately then start like wearing them when you were out with her? Or did you start wearing them when you guys were having sex?

Like what happened after you told her? Both. A lot of times where we both were in them during sex, which I really, really liked. And I did wear them out, you know, when we went out under my jeans and stuff. So yeah, we did. both things happened. And, you know, she was super cool about it. You know, I'll be honest with you.

She, you know, she would prop, she didn't make a big deal out of it. But, you know, if I asked her, you know, you want me to wear them during sex or not, she would prefer I didn't, but she was fine if I did it. Right. So she was, like, satisfying your desire. Like, she was, like, letting you do it because she knew that it was something that you were into, but it didn't necessarily turn her on. No, to this day, I don't think it really turns her on at all.

I think, you know, I think women view that really is just like an article of clothing. Yeah. It's just, it's like men have a huge socks, you know. It really is not a turn-on to them. I just, I've read, you know, accountants of some women who do think of Taney'sos are really sexy, but I think most women, I think most women understand why guys like her. them on women, but when women are wearing them, I don't think it really does anything for them. No, I find them to be completely irritating, actually, to wear. I don't like the way they feel.

And that's why it always blows my mind that men do. Like, I don't like the feeling of them. And then my last guy who I just aired, I had taped his podcast a long time ago, and then I aired it, like way later than we had taped it because I had so many Pannios people on, I have to space them out, you know? And he sent me an email, like right after it was like, oh, like, have I changed your mind. Do you like, are you really into panty hose now? And I was like, no, I fucking hate panty hose. I'm never going to like them. I don't know. I find them like annoying and tights. I don't like any of that stuff. But so it always is interesting to me that like, because I think you're the same way. It's not just a sexual turn on. You also just like the way they feel on your legs,

right? Like you say, because when you're wearing them out on a cold day or whatever, it's not because you want to be horny all day, right? It's also like you just like like the way it feels like comfort wise, right? Oh, definitely. Yeah, I love the way they feel on. You know, like you said, you don't like the tightness and uncomfortable. To me, having them, you know, skin tight, and I just love that feeling. Right. Like, listen, I mean, I don't think I was ever really wearing tights underneath like jeans. It was always like under a miniskirt or something. And then you have them like riding down in your crotch area. And that's like what's the most irritating. But I guess like you're never doing that. So maybe it's a different thing. Maybe I should try to put on some tights underneath.

And you were making me think, like, when you were saying, like, it's nice when it's cold out, you know, that like, oh, maybe, because I live in the city and I'm always out and about, like, rain, sleet or snow, you know, even if it's negative 20 degrees, I'm out with my baby, you know, because you've got to get the fuck out of your house in New York. And so I'm like, maybe I should buy some tights and wear them underneath my jeans. Like, they probably maybe keep me warm. I don't know. I could be definitely what. The other thing, too, is, you know, you're talking about them sliding down and riding down and all that stuff. A lot depends on the quality of the pantos if you buy.

If you buy the 99 cents stuff in the drugstore, that's probably what you're going to get. I mean, you don't have to spend a ton of money, but if you spend five or six bucks on a pair with bandex in them, believe me, I've gone running in them, I've worked out in them. They do not fall in them. So you go running in them and working out in them? Like, where do you work out in tights?

Or are you doing wearing spandex like just like a guy would wear like like a girl would wear like stretchy black spandex pants? Is that what you mean? I'm wearing like spandex with panty hose underneath. Oh, so you wear the pantyos underneath. So nobody would ever see you. Nobody would know. Exactly. Right.

Yeah, I just wonder how many guys I walk by on the street or at work, you know, like that are like wearing them. underneath because it is such a big sort of fetish. And I think most of the time of the fetish is it's always like not just about seeing somebody in them, but like also about wearing them themselves, you know? So there must be so, I think that there's so many guys walking around with panty hose on. Like, you know what I mean? Like maybe you even have friends. Like, you know.

And now let me ask you this. Do you think your wife's ever told anybody she knows? I doubt it. I doubt it because she's always breaking. she's always breaking my chops, you know, like when I wear them out. She's like, you're going to get caught someday and stuff like that, which I think would kind of really embarrass her more than me. But, no, I don't think she's ever told any of her friends.

I think she'd be, I think she'd be afraid of the reaction. Yeah, well, you know what? I mean, maybe she watches a lot of date line like I do. Like, I don't know. I just always think a lot, maybe too much. So I would think, like, oh, my God, I'm wearing panty hose that I'm going to get hit by a car and then the ambulance is going to come and they're going to take my pants up and see. You know what I mean? Like you don't ever think like it could be that

day that you're wearing it that like something happens and you, you know, you're exposed. You know, what do you do? But like whatever. I mean, it's never happened, right? That's probably like the odds of that happening are so slim to none that. I mean, what would you say on an average of like, like, how much are you wearing them and how much are you not wearing them like in a month or like in a week? Is it like a weekly thing? Is it like a daily thing? Is it daily? thing or is it like once in a blue moon thing? I probably I'd probably wear them at least

three or four days a week. Really? Yes. Do you share them with your wife? Yes, I do. It's funny because when we go out, it's extremely common for her to ask me if she can borrow a pair of my panties. When you're going out, she'll be like, oh, do you have a pair

of whatever? Do you have more than she does? Oh, I have way more than two others. Oh, that's so funny. And so, like, and that first time when you asked her, did she ask a million questions then, or did the questions come later? I mean, like, did she start to, did she, like, ask you, like, when did this happen? Like, all the stuff that I'm asking you, like, or did that come out? No, actually, she was pretty quiet about it.

And that amazed me, because over the years I've set to her a number of times, like, do you have any questions? and I'm not sure if it's because she really doesn't, or maybe she doesn't want to know. Maybe she's not interested in how I got it. I mean, I volunteered a lot of stuff to her, but she's never really inquired and wanted to know, which to me is amazing,

because if the roles were reversed, I'd be asking her a million questions. Yeah, right? I don't even know you, and I'm asking a million questions. This is like a woman who married you, right? and this was before you were married. So you were like her guy that she was really into.

So this was like a thing that you think she'd want to know. But maybe, I don't know, maybe that's just not her personality. I don't know her. You do, you know. Maybe she's not that type of person that would push the envelope or maybe she's someone that would rather not know because maybe she's afraid that, like, something else could sort of like, you know, she could find out something else. But like, I mean, yeah.

And I think there was one of the stories I told her, I think, I think it might have scared her a little bit because, you know, we kind of skipped ahead, but if I can go back a little, you know, when I was like in high school, you know, I was, you know, again, I was still wearing them and, you know, you get to a point where you get kind of tired of wearing them alone, so you want to try to reach out. And I knew I wasn't going to be able to find, you a girl most likely. So I'll tell you a funny story. One day I'm reading the sports section

of the newspaper of a local paper and I see high school wrestling. And there's a picture of two guys in a wrestling match and what are they wearing? Tight. Yeah, yeah. Totally. Because back then, high school wrestlers used to wear an outfit.

I don't know if you know what a singlet is, a wrestling singlet is like, it looks like a combination of like a girl's tank leotard with like bike pants attached, except it's all one piece. Right. You know what I'm saying?

And underneath that, they wore wrestling tights, which were really nothing more than girls' tights maybe a little bit thicker. So an idea went into my head, some of my male friends you know we were talking

we were very athletic and we always were looking to work out and I said I grew up, you know, wrestling and that was really kind of strange because I'm not really an aggressive person and not the type that would be interested in wrestling

but I was because of the outfits. Yeah. I suggested that we you know maybe form like a little wrestling club and work out and to my shock they were like, yeah, that sounds like a good idea. And so then I worked my angle like, oh, well, what are we going to wear? And back then, you know, you're always trying to imitate, you know, people who do things like football players, whatever.

You'd want to wear uniforms like they wear and stuff like that. So I suggested, you know, we have to, you know, wear like wrestling stuff. And they were like, well, where are we going to get that? And so I said, well, you're not going to believe this, but it's very similar. to, you know, like a girl's leotard and girls' tights, and it's way cheaper, you know. So you're not going to believe it. They bought that. And so we formed a little wrestling club.

And so, you know, everybody was kind of raised in their sister's drawers and everything. And so I, I wound up, you know, we wound up at this little wrestling club where you'd wrestle like, you know, in my, in my friend's house in private, you know, when nobody was home. And it got kind of hot, really. It was a very cool experience. And I told her about that. She was like, uh-oh, I can see some alarms were like, what are you trying to tell me?

But it really was pretty innocent. Right. It wasn't like you were getting turned on by the other guys. Or did you, was there a little bit of, that or was it just the fact that you were wearing them and being so physical at the same time or wearing them out in front of people? Now, it was totally, it was totally just how I felt in them and it was just the ability to like have some eye contact, you know, with another person in them.

So, you know, you were sliding against each other and, you know, things like that. So it felt so good. And it never went, you know, further than that. But, you know what? You know, in the course of wrestling, you know, there's body contact and there's, you know, there's wrestling holds that, you know, are kind of sexual in nature. So, I mean, it was definitely a turn one. But it wasn't because of being with another time.

It was just because I felt so hot. And you know, okay. Right. But maybe if she didn't ask a million questions after hearing that story, you might have thought that's where you were going with that. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. If you don't ask those questions afterwards,

it sounds like you were, anybody would assume that it was you were turned on because you were like wrestling with a bunch of guys. Right. And so I volunteered information and, you know, made it clear that that's not the case. But, you know, I still think, you know, it was not that you wanted to hear.

Right. Exactly. She was like, let's not go away for it. So maybe right. Maybe it's that she doesn't want to know, anything, but yet if she did question you, she's not going to find out anything more than that, right? Like, I don't know what I'm missing here, but you'll tell me other stories, right? But it's not like it's gone any further than the kind of the stuff that you're telling me.

You're not by, you're not wearing other things. You're not really doing this behind her back because she knows about it, right? No, none of that. Yeah, no, that's totally true. The wrestling, the wrestling is definitely was a turn on though back then. And I mean probably the worst thing that happened during an act

and I told me that is that I came during a couple months and she was like I understand why you know you're in that outfit and these guys are rubbing you and you're rubbing them

so she was very cool about it. And do you think other guys came? Oh yeah, they definitely did. I know they did. How did you know? Would you guys let it be known that you were coming? No, it was actually extremely embarrassing, but a couple times, you know, a guy would have you, like, I'd be down on my stomach, and a guy was, like, you know, controlling me, and he was on top of me from behind, and a couple times I just, you know, I could feel him shudder, you know, and I just, I knew he was coming. Oh, my God.

And same thing, did that happen with you? Like, they would probably know. That's a little like, you know, but I think people always make fun of the whole guy, high school wrestling thing, and they always say there's something homo erotic about it, right? Because is men in tights, like totally groping each other, right? Oh, absolutely.

High school wrestling is joked about it all the time for, you know, being a gay sport. And I can see from the outside why people would think that. I mean, you're in skin-tight outfits. They don't, I mean, they show everything. And, I mean, a lot of the holds are very sexual. You know, they're between the legs. You know, you have a guy on his stomach.

You're riding them from behind. It's definitely homoerotic. And you came, and you said other guys are coming. So put that on top of it. That's something I didn't know. On top of all of that, the fact that people are actually, oh my god something just popped up with my thing. The fact that all the people

like are actually coming and you know that they are when you're in top of them and then like that's a little gay now or not really I mean it is what it is you know it just is a physical thing that you can't have it's like if

right? I think it's you know guys are horny and if you put them in I don't think you have to be like and admitted gay or buy or whatever. I think if you're put in certain situations, I think, you know, that can happen.

And being in pantyhills and a leopard and being rubbed and stuff, I don't think you have to be gay. I think, you know, I think it's a recipe for losing your load. Yeah, especially when you're young and you're like, you know, really horny, right? Your testosterone is just kicking in, right? Totally. It's not like you're getting late all the time by girls, right?

Because you're super young. So it's just like the wind blows and you come, right? It's like so easy. The littlest stimulation. Yeah, remember those days? Yes, I do. Those were like the good old days, right? When you first started coming,

that it would just be like so easy and so quick because it was just like, you know, anything could do it, right? So it is a very different time. And like I said, I would have rather be wrestling a girl for sure. But you're not going to find girls who were interested in doing that. So it was, you know, kind of take what you'd get.

Yeah, exactly. But you volunteered the information up to your girl since she didn't ask so she knew what the deal was. So she didn't have to worry about it. No. And she allows you to have sex with her with her things on she wears them. What else to happen in high school? Because I know that I jumped into like where you're at now

with your girl and everything besides the wrestling or do you have any other stories? No wrestling was the main thing and you know after marriage I mean I I I'll be honest because I've always had like the wrestling thing never left me there's something about being in that outfit wrestling that it's still a turn on and the wrestling? Yeah it really is um I don't know what it is. I guess I have a panty-ho, a wrestling in panty-hows. No, this is what I think.

And I could be totally up, but I don't really care. I think that we get wired certain ways depending on, like, what happens, right? It's like a wiring thing. Like, you were super young, right? You were just forming your, like, sexual wires in you, right? Of, like, what was going to be the thing and what was not, you know? And you probably had a lot of experiences where, like, oh, your dick gets robbed and your in this situation and it's a turn on, right?

So what happens is, like, you created that sort of thing in your brain, right? Because it was, like, very powerful. It was at, like, this pivotal time in your life when you're super young and you're just starting out, you know, figuring out who you are and what was going on with you, like, you know, sexually speaking. So I think it makes sense that that would be something. It's, like, imprinted on you. And you created, like, sort of that link, you know, and it's like there.

Yeah, I agree. You know, it totally makes sense. Do you want, are there like, are like, they're, like, they're, porn wrestling videos or like do you still look at stuff like that and like jerk off to that kind of stuff? There's not really many that do anything for me. There's maybe one or two that I found that will get me off. But there's very few.

There's a lot of like, most of the wrestling is like thighs that are nude and they're like having out and out sex, which really is a major turn off me. Right. You wanted to be exactly like what you did. Like what you should do for, well, no, this would be like pedophilia because you could go look at high school. So really, right? I mean, like what would you do? It's more like you'd have to like look back at pictures of you in wrestling outfits, right?

Or just think about those times because I'm assuming. Someone should make that kind of porn though because I bet you listen, if you were coming and the other guys were coming, right? That means that most guys like in these wrestling things, people were like there's probably like a big group of guys out. there, right? A large community of people who would totally be into that porn, but not the gay in the gay aspect of it because you're not gay, right? And probably a lot of the other guys that were coming, right, weren't. You're not necessarily gay. That's not what it was about. Like you said, it was just like your dick was being rubbed a certain way. Like, how could you help it, right? So, you know, if they made some like porn, right, where it was just guys wrestling, but they didn't

fuck each other, you know, it was just the rubbing and the whatever and it was like how it went down in high school, there would probably be a lot of guys that would be able to jerk off to that, don't you think? Yeah, I do. I mean, that would be something that I would definitely be interested in. But, like I said, most of the stuff out there is completely nude. And the opposite is everything to me. So, first of all, I'm not interested not interesting in other nude guy at all.

No, you want to see them in the real leotard thing. And the other thing is, is you can't go look at real high school stuff because that goes into like being illegal, right? And that's probably gross to you too because it's like, you know, maybe you're not gay, but you're probably not like, you're definitely not a pedophile, right? So you don't want to be looking at 15 year old boys wrestling each other. So it has to, right, that, that right, so it really, someone should make porn with, you know, guys that are older, you know, and of age, legal age, right, wrestling and mocking up like a sort of a high school wrestling thing. But without like, you know, they don't need to fuck at the end or get naked or anything like that because that would

probably like that. It's because it would ruin it for you. It would probably ruin it for all those other guys that were out there doing the same thing like you that weren't necessarily gay at all. But, you know, we're getting, having orgasms and it imprinted in them and they're still horny for those thoughts, right? And so where do you go with that besides all your stories in your head? But if they made some more, I'm giving someone a really good idea. Somebody should make that kind of porn. Don't you think? I agree. I have a friend actually who's in production and once in a while.

I mean, he used to be so successful in his production do like huge concerts. Now sometimes he does porn shoots for some reason. I should tell him to tell the guy that he knows that does porn to mock those up. Because I think like, you know, like you said, before the internet, you would be doing something and you think you're the only person. But the chances are the fact that you said that you weren't the only one coming that the other guys were and you're just one person. Like there's got to be so many guys out there that are the same.

way and would be, you know, would have that same wrestling fantasy because the same thing happened to them. They were wired that way at that age, right? That's what I think. Yeah, I agree. I agree. Yeah, that's so interesting. So you just think of that like sometimes when you jerk off. Yeah, I do. Right. And let me ask you this as your wife ever, like, I mean, does she care, like, that you put them on and jerk off or like, does she know about that? Or is that something that you keep like hidden from her? I don't know. Because some girls are like,

I think some women don't think that guys jerk off when, even though they're, because they have that girl, you know, I don't know. But I mean, is she okay with you doing that? Well,

I don't tell her. Right. And she doesn't ask. And, you know, my sex drive is higher than her. So I have to assume that she knows on doing it and she's kind of because,

you know, she just doesn't have an equal sex driver. me anymore. Right. She went through menopause and you haven't. Or maybe, right? She's just a little bit older. She's around your age? Yeah, she's my age. Right. So she's never asked you. You've never sort of given her

like you've never told her that you jerk off. But it's like when you're jerking up, you're doing it privately, right? That's the whole point of jerking off. Right. So it's not like, I don't know. I've never been married so I always wonder. I mean, I have had some girlfriends. I remember when I was younger that like found like porn magazines at their guy's house and they're like, oh my God, why is he drinking off? He has me. It's like, are you kidding me? Like, does it matter like a guy will still jerk off.

You know what I mean? Like, it doesn't matter if they have a girl. Like, they all do. So I got to assume that she knows you jerk off, right? I just wondered if she knows you jerk off of panty-hose, but she's not the type to ask questions. If she didn't ask questions about anything else, she'd never ask that question. No, but I think she knows because I know she,

she knows how I went into panty-holy. I'm sure that she's figured that I just jerk off of them, and she could care of us. Right. Yeah, no, I mean, listen, and you've been married for what, 20-something years at this point? And, you know, you told her that, I think. And, you know, you told her before you were married. It wasn't like a bait and switch.

It wasn't like you married her. And then you told her. You know, you let her know pretty early on, even though you guys were super serious. And she was fine with it. So I think it's great. And I don't think it's that big of a deal. And what guys don't know about girls,

I don't know that guys are so much like this, but women, like, when they meet somebody that they really like a guy that they really like, you know, they're willing to put up with a lot, you know, before they dump that guy's ass. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know, because it's like, sometimes it's like hard to find that one person, right? So if you do as a woman, you're like, okay, like, I'll deal with the bandy-ho shit because he's, he's, he's, blah, well, you know, this, this and that. And that's just the way I think women are just wired to be a little bit more understanding of things than guys.

Yeah, not to mention anyway. I mean, I just think out there are all the super, super weird and really keep fetishes. There are, there's, pannieshoes is pretty tame. It's, you know, there's a million of things worse than pantyhose than I can be into. I think that's what I feel. That's how I feel, too. That's what I've always said. And I really recommend to anybody that is into pantyhose that wants to tell they're a girl that hasn't yet, like, what you should do the way you should position it.

be like, oh my God, I have to tell you I have this fetish and I'm just like so nervous and like really blow it up like it's this crazy thing. And then when you say panty hose, they're going to be like, oh, that's it. Because they're going to be thinking so many worse things, right? Because most of the fetishes, a lot of them are a lot more hardcore that I think, you know, this is not, is not that big of a deal, you know, at all. And I don't see why any woman would really give a shit, you know? I think most of them would be okay with it. So I think that if, like, you're a guy out there listening, then into pantyhose and you haven't told your girl,

I think they should, right? Because I don't think that most women would have a problem. I think the only time a problem comes, I mean, we have a very good sex life. And I think the only time a problem would occur is if, you know, I think women get, would get angry if, like, you couldn't have sex unless you were wearing panty hose. Right.

And they became like that much of like, you know, a need for you. But then it's more about the Pantioz than her. And, you know, if that's the case, then I can see why a woman is not like it. But with me, that's not the case. And there was a guy, though, that I had on where, and his girl found pictures in his phone of him. He was taking pictures of girls out in public in Panihose. And I think that that's tough, you know, for a woman to swallow. Because what, you know, she, anybody.

knows what's going on there, right? He's taking those pictures, right? And he's probably going home and jerking off to them. Now, even though we all know, okay, that guys jerk off, I mean, because I have a lot of guy friends and they tell me this. And I'm kind of like, oh, my God, how many guys have used me to jerk off to, you know, walking down the street. But, like, guys use things that they see, right?

Like, I don't know. So maybe you see a girl in pantyhose and you think about her legs when you're jerking off. But, like, your girl doesn't need to, like, see that girl's fucking face and know that what day it happened and it's in your phone, you know? I think that that's a little, that's much. That's a little much. And that's when it's going to create a problem and stuff.

You know, that's when it gets to be like a slippery zone. But I feel like you're cool the way you are with your girl. You're super open about it. You've told her everything. She allows you to do it. There's no questions that, you know, what's the big deal? I think it's great. Yeah, I agree.

I agree. And I think other people should, you know, allow for it too. You know, I mean, to be open about it because it, I think it's okay. But like there are people, though, that do take it to different extremes. You know what I mean? And I have had them. But I think if you're like a guy like you or a couple of the other guys that I had on that just like to wear them and you like to see women wear them, I think it's no big deal.

You should tell a girl. I think any girl that really likes you is not going to give a shit. Like, for real. Yeah, I was trying to explain to how strong of a fetish it was because I could look. I mean, I was up front with you about, you know, wrestling. wrestling guys, and you know that that's like out of my comfort zone. So, I mean, the fetish was strong enough to make me want to do that because it was, you know, so sexual in nature.

So I said, that should explain to you that I can't just say, okay, I'm not wearing a panty anymore if you're not okay with it. Thankfully, she wasn't okay with her. Right. And did you tell her that in the first conversation? Yeah, pretty much. because I was trying to explain to her that, you know, it's not like I just woke up yesterday and said,

wow, I want to try out a pair of pantos. I mean, it's been going on from a very early age, and it's very strong inside, so you can't just turn it off. Right, and you didn't want to live like a double life and be hiding it from her? No, I really didn't. I mean, guys that are married that have to do that, And I've heard you talk on other podcasts, you know, about hiding your stash.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I never, ever want to do that, thankfully I don't. I mean, I have a draw. It's full of panty host. And she, right, she asks for them. You share with her. I mean, how great to be able to be, you know, like they say, let your freak flag fly. Like, how great that you could just be all of who you are within your relationship.

I think it's easy, you know, because it isn't that hardcore of a fetish, right? but like, you know, that is the ultimate goal, right, to be able to be you for real with the person, because that's real intimacy, right? Just letting somebody know really who you are, you know, and your wife knew who you were before she married you and she allowed for that. And that's what, and I think that that's great. You know, I think it's harder when you get into these other kinds of fetishes, but I think it's super important, whatever the fetish is, because most of the time these things are very

powerful, like their powerful urges in somebody that you, if you're going to wind up with somebody, you know, it should be somebody that is accepting of that. Because to live the double life, to think that you're going to hide it, or maybe it's going to go away and you're not going to do it, it's not, uh, I don't think that that's the right way to go about it. I think you have to wait until you find somebody that's cool with whatever it is that you're into or that's the best way to be. Or you live a double life, you call my podcast and I have great guests on, you know. Yeah, no, I agree because, it's just not realistic to be happy to have to hide it every day.

It's just not. No, but listen, they're like when it's a guy that wants to get fucked in the ass by Dominatrix and beaten up, I mean, that's like a harder conversation to have. So, you know, you could understand why that guy that's into that might have a hard time telling, you know,

the girl that he brings home for Thanksgiving dinner, that that's what he's into, you know, every now and then. So, I mean, I get it that it's hard. But I think the point is in this conversation and what people should, take out of it is like all the people out there, all the young guys that are listening maybe that are wearing pantyos and haven't told anybody or older guys that are wearing pantyos and still haven't, that it's not that, you know, big of a deal and that you can tell your partner or people about it, the person that you're the closest, that most people would be accepting of it and it's not,

you know, and it's okay and you should and it's very freeing, you know, and especially with this kind of fetish, it's not something that you have to keep under wraps because it is, Very widespread, if you ask me. Go on Christmas. I definitely agree. I mean, I go to a website, a Paniha's website that's for guys on a daily basis just to read all the different things on there and people, you know, chiming in on different things.

And it's kind of folk music, you know, because I see hundreds and hundreds of guys or just like me. And those are the only ones. And those are the ones, those are the only people that are actually going on and logging in with the username and saying things. Like imagine all the other people that don't have the energy to do that or know to do that or feel like doing that.

You know what I mean? That's just the people that are taking the time. So there's just imagine how many more. You know what I mean? It's huge. I'm sure there's many, many more. Like you said, others that just can't do what they don't at the time.

They don't want to. They're not online. They don't have a computer. whatever. You know, there's a million reasons why, but like, you know, that's most people are not the type to go on there. So imagine how many more. I think it's so common. I think anybody listening that's wearing panty hose right now that this is their deep, dark secret, you have nothing to feel ashamed about it. It's not that big of a deal. And there's so many other men like you. Guys don't tell each other about it. And that's cool. I don't think you should. I don't think guys need to make it like,

oh, you have to everyone to know about it. But I think when you're partnered up with somebody and you're married with somebody, it's super great to be open about it. So they can, like you, just share their pantyhose with their girl. Do you know what I'm saying? That's the way to be. And I think it's very realistic to think that

most women will be okay with it with this fetish. Not other ones. I'd have to talk to them about it, but like with this kind of a thing, I think it's okay. And if your girl really likes you, she'll be okay with it. And should be okay with it because it's not that big of a deal at all. Yep. You know? So

Alex, thanks so much for calling in. Very welcome. I enjoyed it. And now, you know, and other people will enjoy it because we know there's a lot of people out there listening. I mean, like I said, I always get the emails from B-Ball. So, but anyway, thanks for sharing your story. You're welcome. All right, we'll talk to.

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