Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 254 - Brad has a Lifelong Pantyhose Fetish

Episode Date: October 22, 2018

Brad has had a pantyhose fetish for as long as he can remember and he calls in to talk all about it. When did he realize he was into pantyhose? What kinds pantyhose is he into and what does he like to do with them? Did he ever get caught wearing them? Tune in to find out plus hear all about how did his significant others reacted when he told him about his fetish, how his fetish transformed from sexual to functional over time, the difference between US and European pantyhose and which he prefers and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Today I have on a guy named Brad who is into the most common fetish out there, panty hose. I've had a couple panty hose guys on more than a couple of couple now. I just learned like maybe like last year like a couple means three. I mean two and a few means three and like I don't know. I just never knew that. I've had on numerous panty hose guys and they're all fall into different sort of degrees of fetish people. He's like a regular fetish guy when it comes to panty hose. He was but like everybody else he was into them at a very young age and he's still into them at his age now. He's like more like my age. He's I think in his 50s or 60s. Like I said, he got into him when he was really young. He talks all about when he first started wearing them and how he still

wears them now and how his fetish has kind of changed. Like he said it went from like kind of being, well, from definitely being a sexual thing to being like now a functional kind of practical thing. He just likes to wear them out. And I've heard that before. And it's interesting to hear how that makes a transition in his life. He talks about like I said, how he started wearing them. When he got caught, he's got caught a couple times, both by his mom and a couple doctors. I mean, you would expect if you're wearing hose all the time

and you're a guy, like, you probably are going to get busted every now and then. He got caught a couple times. We talk about that. We talk about how he wears them out now, how he started wearing them out a long time ago, how he's told a couple of girlfriends and his wife knows about it and how that played out in his relationships and how hardcore they were.

able to go with his panty hose fetish. Because like I said, it started out sexual, and he did sexual things with pantyhose and his girlfriends. And I think his wife, too, I forget. I just edited this yesterday. You think I'd remember. But I am a single mom and I have an under three-year-old child, so, you know, do the math.

It's like mom-brain. But anyway, so we talk about all that. And he also discusses the difference in the types of hose out there, which most of these guys, like I'm telling if you're a girl and you have to wear them every now and then panty-hose, these are the kind of guys you want to talk to because they really, They're so into it that they really do all the sort of studying of it because I'm like, I fucking hate Fanniehoes. And he's like, yeah, but that's because you haven't used the European ones.

He knows the difference when we talk about that. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Brad. How are you doing today? I'm well, thank you. How are you today? I'm good. You're another panty hose guy, right? You found my podcast through probably Googling about panty hose, right?

And then found my other panty hose episodes. Yeah, that's exactly right. I just stumbled across it a couple of months ago. Yeah, it's so funny because I always, like, before my podcast, I would have never known these things. But like when I started to do it and before I have like Craigslist went down and under, that was where I got all of my callers from, right? So I would just go on Craigslist in the personal section. I would just email people and ask them if they want to be on my show. That's how I started, right?

And I remember thinking like, oh my God, like the things that I would see the most were pantyhose and foot fetish emails, like so many of them that I was just like, this is like a lot more common. people know. Do you know what I mean? And it's like nobody really talks about it. I mean, a lot of people have talked about it on my show. And whenever I air one, I always get like five more guys emailing me. And here you are. Another one guy who's into Panias. Let me ask you real quick before we get into your whole history. Is it something, because you're older and we spoke a little bit about this in like your email. You were talking about how like it's a very different time now and stuff, but you know, very different than when you grew up, right? Is you, like, is this a secret kind of a thing that you have or does it like does you anyone in your life know about it?

No my a lot of people know about it now. At the time, you know, for many, many years, I just thought I was the I was the only one. Like, you know, prior to the advent of the internet, you didn't know there was other people out there. Yeah, totally. But, you know, I mentioned in my email that, you know, I was brought up in the early 60s. And I think it was a very, very different time then. It was, you know, you look at even the old television shows, something like Leave it to Beaver.

Yeah. And it was, you know, it was so prim and proper. Didn't the parents live in separate beds? Like, they didn't even live in the same room, right? Like, or they weren't even sleeping in the same bed. I don't think the husband and wife. My parents did, but I remember my grandparents did not. Right.

But, you know, it was so prim and proper and, you know, you didn't talk about, you know, about sex or anything like that. And, you know, it was considered totally, you know, unacceptable for someone to have, you know, like for a woman to have their bra strap showing. That was just scandalous, right? So or to even talk about something like, you know, for, you know, somebody to say panties, you know, was, oh, that was just scandalous. So when you, when you saw a flash of underwear, it was, it was really naughty. Right. Nowadays, you know, hell, it's just, you know, that's nothing. Yeah, you could scroll the internet and see, like, the most hardcore things.

And it's just like it's never enough. Like, because there's just so much, right? it's such a different time. Yeah. So I think that, you know, when I started to, you know, develop an interest in, in nylons, you know, it was, it was that, you know, it was, it was just something that was, that was naughty.

And so are you trying to say, are you, is the point you're trying to make that you think that maybe if you were born now that you wouldn't have that same. you wouldn't have maybe not been into, you wouldn't have gotten into it because it wouldn't be naughty, like because it's so not naughty. You know, there's so many other things that can be naughty now.

Is that what you're trying to, because that's kind of like an interesting point. I wonder. I, you know, I've been thinking about that. And I, you know,

I often wonder if, if it would be the same. Because now, you know, it's just considered, you know, another piece of, well,

I mean, now they're outdated. girls don't want anything to do with them but um you know even 10 years ago when they were still in style you know it was just it was just a piece of clothing right it was it was nothing well i was just but you know what i just thought i i just had a guy on and he was a young guy he talked more about like fucking hookers and tranny escorts stuff but he was really into pantyhoes too it wasn't a total panty hose episode but he had a big thing for panty hose and he was not an old he was an older like us he was a young guy and he was into it so i don't know

if it's like if it is because of the time and that's just what was naughty or if it just has to do with some sort of like tactile stimulation or something because a lot of the panty-most of the panty-hose guys all say the same thing it's like the way that it feels and the way that it makes them feel and the way that it looks like I don't know that that changes just because it's not there's you know I mean yeah no there's there's a there's a lot of that You know, a lot is the look and the feel, and, I mean, that even goes down to, you know, the type that I like. Like, I absolutely hate any with the reinforced top because I like it, you know, the sheer top and the feel of it. But, you know, if I think back to originally, what's what got me going was, you know, at a very, very early age, you know, I was really young. and, you know, I would see my mom after she had finished the housework and she was getting dressed up for the evening for my dad to come home.

And she'd put on, you know, a nice dress and nylons and her high-heeled shoes so that she was dressed up to the nines when my dad got home. Wow. Imagine women had to do that now. Well, and the thing is that was the norm. You know, when we stumbled across when we were cleaning out my parents' house. you know, a book, and it's just absolutely hilarious, you know, and it was this guide as to, you know, what a perfect wife should do. And that was one of the things is that, you know, you get dressed up and you, and you do the, do up their meal. And you don't ask about, or you ask about their day, but you don't tell them about your troubles, right?

Oh, yeah. That was the way. Do you remember the name of that book? That's the way things were. Yeah, yeah. Imagine guys that are listening now are like, they wish it was that way now, too. Yeah, I don't. You know, I can email it to you when I get home.

Yeah, yeah. But it's quite funny. But anyways, so where I was going with that was, you know, every day I would, or not every day, but, you know, periodically, you know, I would see my mom getting ready and she'd go through this ordeal of, you know, pulling on stockings and hooking them up to this girdle, corset kind of contraption, you know, with these clips. And it would, you know, it would kind of fascinate me about, you know, this whole. whole ordeal and also the look of these things and the, you know,

the sheerness and so on. And so I was always kind of curious about that. And the one day, you know, when she wasn't around, you know, I just tried them on just to see what they were like. And I thought all these are kind of cool, right? Uh-huh. How old were you

at this time, like five or six? Yeah, maybe, maybe not even. Right. You know, really, really young, right? Okay. And then And then, you know, a few years later, you know, I've got, you know, three sisters and the one oldest one, you know, she would have been old enough that she was wearing, you know, stockings. And the younger ones at that time would have been wearing leotaur, or what do you call them, tights, you know, every day. Because, again, back then, you know, a proper girl wore skirts or dresses every day. Yeah.

And so, you know, I would say. see, you know, my two younger sisters, you know, with leotards on, or tights on. And so the one day, these sisters, they stored some of their clothes in the bottom drawer of my dresser because I had more dresser space and people. And I was, I don't know why. I was putting something away for them, whatever. And I noticed that there was a pair of blue tights in the bottom. corner.

Didn't think too much about it. And then the, you know, one night in bed, I'm thinking, geez, you know, I wonder what those would feel like to put on. So I got up, you know, and it was late at night. The rest of the family had probably gone to bed. And I tried them on. And I thought, oh, these are kind of cool, right? And so I tried them on, you know, several times after that.

Well, then, you know, it might have been a year or two later when, when Patty Hos kind of made their audition onto the market. Yeah. And, you know, this would have been, you know, probably mid-60s, you know, 65, 67, something like that. And that was when, you know, kind of the whole environment was changing. You know, you've got, you know, Beatlemania, the British invasion, you know, the introduction of miniskirts.

And as part of that fashion change came the advent of, of paddyholes and really the whole change in the way of thinking. And I'll tell you, when paddyhows hit the market, it was something big. You know, it was like the advent of the iPhone or maybe even more. Oh, really? I can remember, oh, it was crazy. You wouldn't think about that, you know, something that now is considered, you know, underwear, right? Yeah.

But it was crazy. I can remember my mom on the phone talking to my grandma and they were talking. about panty hose and oh how wonderful these were and how you know you no longer because what you're saying right right right because i was thinking well wasn't your mom wearing them before you saw it but what it was was that they only had like the leg part and they had to attach them nobody had made the whole hose oh interesting exactly right because it was it was a panty and hose all in one yeah and and also the way that they were being advertised was that you know that you didn't necessarily need to wear panties

because it was an all-in-one garment. And it was just, you know, so that prompted my interest. And then right away, you know, all my sisters are wearing them and everyone around me was wearing them. And it was, you know, there wasn't a lot of television back then. It's not like where you've got 200 channels now. You know, you have two local channels. But even then, you know, the advertisements, you know,

every hour there were several advertisements about patty holes and every every bus stop you went past and every billboard there's things you know about patty holes like it was it was crazy and perfect for you because that's what you were into well it was and i mean that was what prompted my interest because the fact that it was it was so out there and you know you go from this kind of puritan atmosphere where where girls are going to school. And like when my oldest sister was in high school, she was in a Catholic school, and the nuns would come around with rulers

and measure the length of their skirts. Right. They couldn't be more than three inches, you know, above their knee. And then all of a sudden you go to mini skirts where, you know, it's the width of a wide belt and you're seeing all of these beautiful legs all in sheer nylons, right?

So it's a very different world all of a sudden. But, you know, it kind of goes against what you were thinking maybe before because when it was like naughty and not out there, you thought maybe that's why you were interested in. But you said that it kind of like took it to a whole other level when it was like just right there in your face and accessible, right? It didn't lose its naughtiness, right? It was still hot to you because you were just like into them, right?

So maybe that's why it. You remember what we were just trying to think? grew up before. Yeah, no, it was it was hot to me, but at the same time, it was, you know, it was so, it was so naughty for me to, to be trying them on. You know, I know I've heard you say on your, on your program before that, you know, nowadays, you know, you could, you could approach a girlfriend or a spouse or whatever about, you know, wanting to wear them and a lot of females don't give it a second thought, right?

It's like, well, it's a piece of clothing, you know. Well, no, I don't think that they wouldn't give it a second thought. I think a girl might, you know, pause a bit and be like, whatever. But if she really likes the guy, she'll be like, okay, that's not a big deal. I don't think it's at the point where it's like, well, I mean, we'll get to the point where you've made it sort of common knowledge to people that you know and everyone's kind of cool with it and whatever. But I don't think we're at the place yet in society where, like, guys are walking around with panty hose and it's no big deal, right? Like, it kind of still is a little bit. I mean, people still would call it a fetish.

I still have people calling my show and wondering whether they should tell their partners, you know. Right? I mean, I think that there's still a naughtiness to it. And I think. Yeah, I think that's right. But I, you know, what got me, you know, so I saw it all in the news, would hear about it and everything, would see my sisters and my aunts, you know, all wearing them and so on. And every day getting ready for school, you know, I'd be.

at the back step, you know, at the back door, putting my, my shoes on. And as my sisters would walk up, you know, I was a couple of steps below. And, you know, I could always see up their, up their miniskirt and, you know, see their panties through the panty holes. And so, I mean, that was, you know, even for me to be looking, you know, I knew it was, it was, it was naughty. It wasn't, you know, necessarily the appropriate thing. but it was it was kind of exciting right yeah and so you know over over a period of time to realize that like it was like a sexual like that you were having sexual feelings about it or did you know for sure that you're having sexual feelings about it no it was it wasn't

initially it wasn't a sexual thing right um you're probably too young to connect it that way right you know yeah you know initially i i just went and and try to on and I thought, oh, this is, this is cool. And I really like the feel. And, you know, you would kind of rub yourself and you think, oh, that feels, that feels nice, but I didn't, I didn't know what it was about. Yeah. And, you know, over, over a period of time, you know, I would, I would, you know, try to

to masturbate. I didn't even know what that meant or what it was. Yeah. And again, the difference in, the difference in time, You know, people didn't talk about that kind of thing, right? They didn't even talk about jerking off, right? Yeah, yeah, totally. And it was quite honestly, you know, as a good Catholic boy, you know,

I learned that that was, once it was talked about, once you got the birds and the bee talk, you know, you learned that that was not something that was, that should be done. That's what you were told, right? Right. So, you know, over time, I grew this. this, you know, this fascination, this love for the feel and the look of the panty holes. And I, and I, you know, like the feel of touching myself through them.

And, you know, it kind of went from there. And so it, you know, quickly became something that was, that was sexual. And everything sexual became kind of tied to panty holes. Mm-hmm. And so, but like how, like, from the, you know, you're like five or six when you start to sort of realize that, you know, you have an interest in them, right? When do you, how old do you think it was when you connected it to like a sort of a sexual thing? Or I guess you started jerking off, but like you didn't even know it was, right? Like, you were probably still really young at that time, right?

it was it was probably five or six you know when when the when I first tried on nylon and then you know a little very little bit later when I tried on those you know those cotton tights that I wore you know maybe at the most half dozen times over a period of time and then I would say probably by about the time I was let's say by the time I was about eight, you know, I was, you know, trying on paddy holes on a fairly regular basis because, you know, you've got to remember if I got, you know, three sisters and a mom in the house and they're wearing patty holes every day. Right.

Yeah, I mean, there is a constant supply of them hanging on the curtain rod that have been washed out, right? So, plus, you know, many drawers of them. Yeah. So, you know, it's, it, I started wearing them on a regular basis, you know, probably at about, at about eight. And when you say on a regular basis, you mean like after school in your room alone or do you mean under your clothes out and about? No, yeah, after after school, you know, as I got, as I got older, like I'll say by. By, you know, junior high, like by grade seven, you know, I would say that I was, you know, wearing them, trying them on, you know, on a daily basis.

You know, it wouldn't, because I was doing a lot of sports, you know, it wouldn't be unusual for me to, you know, go home after school. And between school and dinner, I'd go. and, you know, have a bath. And, you know, while I was in the bath, I would put on panty hose and rub myself. Right. Right.

And that was, that was on a daily basis. And then very often, you know, over a period of time, I'd, you know, made a little bit of a collection of them, ones that I had kept on my own. And, you know, very often I'd, I'd, put them on, you know, when I went to bed and wear them in bed as well. Did you, did anyone ever, do you think anyone ever knew what you were doing? Like, did anyone ever catch you at all?

Did anything like that ever happen? I mean, because you had a stash. Do you think anyone ever found out about it? No, I, no, I don't. I did, my, you know, stash got found when I was in about, I think it was my ninth grade. you know like an idiot I was storing them under my mattress between the mattress and the box spring and I can remember coming home from school to one day

and my mom called me in and she had this you know green garbage bag full of something and it turned out to be my nylon and she confronted me with it so you did get caught I thought you just said you did it well I didn't get caught wearing them Well, what do you think she thought you were doing? Oh, right. Maybe you were just looking at them thinking they were in girls right,

not thinking you put them on and wear them, right? Yeah, you know, and she asked me what I did with them, and I'm like, oh, you know, I don't. And, and. What did you say? Well, you know, I kind of stumped because, again, you know, I didn't even, I didn't know what, what masturbation was. Yeah.

By that point in the game, I was getting, you know, pretty good at it. Uh-huh. But honestly, I didn't, I didn't know what it was that I was doing. I just knew it felt real good. Um, and, uh, you know, it certainly wasn't anything that was, that was talked about, right? Yeah. So I kind of skirted the question and, and, you know, my dad was, was out of town at the time.

And, you know, I just kept saying, oh, I haven't, you know, I have, I have, I, I, I, I was wearing them and, you know, I haven't worn them in a long time and managed to, you know, kind of, you know, skirt the issue that way. Oh, so you told her you wore them. My mom was, was, well, no, I said that I had been wearing them. Yeah, that's telling her that you wore them. But that I'd stop because, you know, between that time and when my dad got back from wherever it was, New York, law, there, just whatever on business, you know,

know, maybe a week or two weeks later, you know, she was like, oh, you know, we're going to send you to a psychiatrist or whatever. And I'm breathing out, like it was, you know. Of course. And I managed to, you know, kind of convince them that it was a, you know, it was a passing trend. And so things actually did, well, they stopped completely for a period of time. Because you got busted?

Yeah, because, you know, and I can't. remember exactly how long that would have been or I didn't touch them at all. But, you know, slowly, you know, I started to get, you know, back into it. But I need damn sure that, you know, my hiding spot was something that wasn't going to be found. Right. But after that, you know, nobody knew again until, you know, I disclosed it many years later to, you know, a girlfriend in university and that was you know, quite a bunch of years later, you know, the last year of university

probably. Right, right, right. But so at this point you're in seventh grade when you get when your mother finds them, right? I think ninth grade. Right. By seventh grade, I was wearing them on a you know, on a regular basis, you know, like I said,

normally in the tub. When did you start dating girls in university, that first girl that you told? Or did you have other girlfriends for that? No, university. I, you know, I had, I dated one girl briefly, you know, prior to grade 12 grad, just to kind of get to know her. But other than that, you know, I was, I was brought up in a very, very strict family. And, you know, it was, I think being the, being the youngest of a family, too, you know, and constantly getting teased and this kind of thing. And, you know, like if a, if a girl

would phone, and I, you know, I used to get phone calls. all the time from girls, you know, wanting me to ask them out. And, you know, then my, my siblings said, oh, you know, you got a girlfriend and, you know, this kind of thing. And so that's, I just kind of steered away from it just because I didn't want the abuse from my family. Right. When did you lose your virginity?

How old were you? My first year of university, so I would have been between 18 and 19. Right. Okay. Yeah. But, yeah, I mean, I mean, going through high school and that kind of thing I was or really all the way through school. I was so into all kinds of athletics that I just, I really didn't have time for for girls anyways.

Yeah, that's cool. But so the girl that you told, you didn't tell your first girlfriend or the girl that you lost your virginity for, but through, through university and through college and all that stuff, like you were wearing them still and doing like your thing and it was just like this secret that you just didn't want anyone to know about. What gave you the courage to tell the girl at that time? Because that's still a long time ago. I think it's pretty ballsy that you did tell her. Well, again, that first, you know, real serious girlfriend in university.

And we went out with each other for, you know, five years. Yeah. And it was probably the last year that we went out, that, you know, the total secret came out. but she knew that I, you know, liked the feel of them and that kind of thing. You know, I'd always be caressing their leg and that kind of thing. And, you know, I would, you know, I would ask her to rub me with nylon. So she put her, you know, hand in the leg of penny hose or a knee high and, you know, rub me with it. And I would ask her to put nylon's on.

And, you know, she'd often say, oh, you know, because she's one of these ones where, you know, again, she'd been brought up in a family that, oh, a decent girl doesn't go outside with a dress or a skirt on without panty hose. Like, you just, you had to have your legs covered. Yeah. But at the same time, she hated the feel of them herself. So, you know, when I'd ask her to put them on, she would. But, you know, quite often she'd say, oh, well, if you're. liked them that much. Why don't you put them on, right? Oh, she said that.

And yeah. That was good for you. And then finally one night, I'm like, you know, she was rubbing with them and I said, oh, you know, I'll put them on or whatever. And, you know, kind of, you know, so that that's where the, that's where the tide swung. She, she

opened the window for you on that one and you jumped in. Like, you're lucky. Like, she totally gave you the end. Same to, you know, I don't know if that was what, you know, the start of the ending of the relationship or just the fact that, you know, we were both getting ready to graduate and kind of, you know, potentially go our separate ways anyways. But we ended up breaking up not too, too long after that. So I don't know if that was, you know, a big, you know, a huge shock for.

Well, I don't know. You put him on that time that she said, why don't you do it? And then eventually you said, okay. And then you did. and then did you like let your freak flag fly and be like, oh my God, I've been wearing panty hose all my, and like tell her everything? Or did you just like wear the once or twice after that? Like what did, how hardcore did you open up after you wore them that one time?

I didn't, I didn't say, oh, I've been wearing them since, you know, for 10 years or what it. No, I just, you know, I said, oh, these feel kind of nice, you know. Yeah, you were acting as if it was something new. Yeah. And, and, you know, I wore them, you know, periodically. around her while at the same time having you know many pairs of them stored you know in the in the back of my closet or down in the bottom of my bottom drawer kind of thing right was she into it when you wore them do you think no i would was kind of still i'm not sure she really got over the the shock of it

but she's the one that kind of threw it your way like she said oh why don't you wear them You could try them on. Yeah. No, but again, like she was, she was really, you know, old school, very prudish kind of girl, a very, very prim and proper. And, you know, she described herself as, you know, very naive. And I think that, you know, she was, you know, one of the sweetest people I've ever met, but she was just so pure, right? Like, in so many ways. Right.

And I think that that, you know, I, you know, I. I think that that was a little bit much for her. So that may, it may have been a factor in us breaking up. I don't, I don't know. Right. Now, did you get married? Are you married? Yeah.

Yes, I am. And did you ever tell your wife? Yeah, my wife is, is aware of it. She accepts it. She's not really into it. I have, you know, prior to getting married, I had a couple of other girlfriends that were very into it. One in particular that was really, really into it. And, you know, it was a matter of, you know, Halloween costumes and that's kind of what, you know, broke the ice on that one.

And, you know, after, you know, some hysterical laughter and, you know, me not taking them off, then she realized that, oh, you know, he kind of likes these, right? Yeah. And she quite honestly liked the look of them on me. So it, you know, for the two of us, and again, we went out with each other for, you know, about five years. I was one of these guys that didn't have very many relationships, but I had, you know, when you had them, they were a long term. Yeah.

And this particular one, you know, she. She was really into the patty hose thing, and, you know, she knew that it turned me on. And, you know, so the two of us would, you know, would wear them together all the time. Right. And maybe she had a thing for it, too, maybe a little bit. Right? Don't you think? Yeah, it could be.

Yeah, I don't know. I wonder if there's like, I mean, I always hear from men, right? but there was another guy who told me like he had a girl that seemed really into it too like I'm sure there's women that have Paniho's fetish right I don't know yeah I think in her case I mean she was another one that you know that didn't really

enjoy wearing them you know like to going out and that kind of thing she was a little bit of a she was a little bit of a tomboy but you know anytime if she was wearing a dress, you know, she would wear panty hose. But she was into it when you guys were fooling around

though, right? Like that's when it would Oh yeah. Right? Yeah, very much. That's what I mean. So maybe she had a fetish for it. She didn't give a shit about it in regular life, but when it came down to SEX, she liked the panty hose. You wearing them? Well, yeah. And I think

that she saw that, you know, very easily that that, you know, when pantyhose were involved, you know, I got me, you know, that ex kind of kicked it up a notch, right? Yeah. And so she enjoyed that. And so I think it was just kind of an amplifier for our whole relationship, you know,

in that case. And that must have felt good for you considering, like, you know, I don't know. You still don't know whether that first girl dumped you because your panty hose. But so at that time, you must have been a little confused and maybe ashamed of what you were into thinking maybe, you know, first of all, you didn't want to tell anyone, it was still like kind of like a secret thing. And that girl sort of might have broken up with you about it. It must have been really nice to finally meet somebody that was totally down with it. Well, yeah, because, you know, I always used to have, you know, I'd put them on and I'd kind of have this, you know, this fantasy.

Like, well, I was touching them. If I close my eyes, you know, I was, what was going through my mind is that, oh, you know, I was touching a girl's. legs, right? But then I was also going through my mind that, you know, that there was a girl touching me rubbing, rubbing me while I'm wearing panty hose. So when that actually came to fruition, where I did have a girl, you know, wearing panty hose and she was rubbing me while I was wearing them as well, you know, that was kind of a fantasy come true. Yeah, that was your thing. And, and, you know, the fact that you know, all these years, just the fact that I was wearing them, you know, I knew that it was, you know, that it was something, it was something naughty. Like it, that just kind of added a

bit of spice to it, right? Mm-hmm. So. And so after her, it progressed that, did you eventually meet your wife and then you didn't tell her for a while? Yeah, I didn't, I didn't tell her for a while, although, you know, she, she knew that, that I, you know, again, you know, I'd constantly be, you know, kind of feeling her legs. And she, she knew that I, that I liked, you know, I certainly had an interest in patty hose.

And, you know, I've always been a, you know, a leg man, right? Uh-huh. And again, it was a case of, you know, a Halloween costume. Right. And, you know, the same kind of thing where it was hysterical laughter. and, you know, I wore them several times after that. And then, and then it was a matter of, you know, I mean, you know, wearing them more and more. And like I said, she's never really gotten into it, but she, you know, accepts it, right?

Right. So you kind of eased her into it without making it like a big production. It wasn't like you sat her down and was like, hey, listen, I got to tell you something. Right? to just well and even in even in her case i mean it's never been a case with any of these girls where i've sat down and said oh you know i've had this right better since i was seven or eight or whatever and da da da da like that right it was just you know i just kind of did it and they could tell about my actions that that it was something that i had been doing that i enjoyed and in my wife in the

case of my wife you know even though she didn't really you know necessarily well she accepts it But even though she didn't really like it, it was something that I wasn't going to, it was fairly obvious to her. It was something that I wasn't really going to give up, right? Yeah. Well, that's cool that she was. And I mean, I know that you said that you actually wear them out now, right? Like, out and about? In public?

I mean, not all the time. No. When did you start going from keeping it like inside to like, like going out? Well, it just over time, I would say, you know, it was funny, the first time that I ever wore them out, and I mean underneath a pair of jeans, you know, with running shoes but no socks, right?

I can remember wearing them to the mall one time and thinking, oh, you know, and it was, again, I just, you get kind of a kick because, you knew it was something, you know, naughty, right? And, oh, you're going to get, you're going to get caught, but you don't. And I was, I was absolutely sure that everyone in that mall was just staring at me and everybody knew. Right. And the reality is, I mean, I don't know how the hell they would unless they were pulling out my pant leg, right?

Right. But that was kind of the kind of the thing. And then. That was a part of the turn on for you. Yeah. And then, you know, now, you know, not all the time. but I mean there are times where, you know, I'll go to the store. Excuse me.

And in the summer I'll be wearing, you know, a pair of shorts and a pair of, you know, very sheer patty hose. And I'll, you know, walk through the mall or do grocery shopping or whatever. And I don't give it a second thought. And quite honestly, I have never had someone, you know, take a, you know, or appear to take a second look. or anyone say anything to me. Maybe they don't look down and they don't see it. Maybe it's only like the people if you're standing in line right behind you. Because if I saw a guy wearing shorts walking by me,

I don't necessarily know that I would be able to tell if he was wearing panty hose, right? Because maybe you're looking into his face or, you know, you'd have to really look to see them, don't you think? Yeah. Well, and I think that, you know, that's the other thing too, is that, you know, over time, because I had, you know, tried so many different types of of nylons, I, you know, kind of honed my, my likes, and I learned what, what times I liked and what times I didn't. Yeah. And, you know, I found that, you know, 99.9% of the North American

panty holes are, you know, are very uncomfortable and they, and they look like your legs are wrapped, you know, in a sausage wrapper. But a lot of the European ones are, you know, extremely sheer, very, very comfortable. And quite honestly, you don't even, they don't even look like you've got them on. It just gives your leg a nice even look. And, you know, in some cases it might give it a shine. I prefer ones that are not, you know, shiny. Right.

But they're, you know, way, way more comfortable as well. I've often thought that if, you know, if those kind of pantyhoes were available in North America on a regular basis over the last 15 years, I think they would have remained to be, you know, much more popular. Right, right, right. Yeah, women are they're so uncomfortable for women. Yeah. But, you know, growing up. You know, again, things have changed.

It used to be you'd go into any department store and you go in and like they typically will have the, what do you call it, the perfumes and that kind of thing right near the front door because that's a draw for the women. But the other thing was that you would, the panty hose displays were almost always right by the entrances. And they were, in many cases, they were huge. You know, it would be several aisles.

of different kind of pantyholes. And they would always have, you know, these pantyhose mannequins. It was just upside down legs. Right. Yeah, yeah. Different tiles and colors of pantyholes, right? And I can remember as a kid, and to a certain extent even now, but really when I was younger, man, I'd go in and I'd see that.

And it was like a, you know, like a raven, how they're attracted to a shiny object. It's like it was a magnet drawing me to them, right? I just, I had to look. Yeah. And, you know, when it got to the point where, you know, when I was buying my own, I would always go and, you know, look and, you know, buy a new kind. If there was a new kind that I hadn't tried before, you know, I would try it out, right? So, I mean, over the years, my God, I've tried, I don't know how many different brands, but a lot.

And, you know, even on the street, and one of your callers mentioned this, you know, I would be, you know, waiting at a traffic light, you know, as I'm walking, you know, through downtown and I'd see the girls and I'd look down and, you know, you'd see a certain weave of pantyholes and you'd get to the point where you'd recognize, oh, that's such and such. Right. It's funny how that. Yeah, that's crazy. But you'd become a bit of a connoisseur. Yeah. Do you like, I mean, I always find that they most of the time say they like nude stockings, right? Do you also like colored ones, like fishnets or is it just nudes?

Primarily nude. You know, sometimes black or gray, but yeah, primarily different shades of nude or, you know, something nowadays something that's you know close to you know very close to flesh tone and again that's one thing with the European styles is that there are so many shades that are you know

close to a natural flesh tone right they have a variety when you were younger before you were older and like we're living with your wife right like where do you get your panty hose from like you couldn't steal them from your mother or your sisters anymore would you go out and buy them I mean nowadays you could just order them on Amazon but like what did you do in the days when you would have to like either buy them yourself or steal them like where'd you get them from? Yeah so initially it was a matter of you know taking them off the curtain rod.

Yeah. But you know typically that was that was if I was you know wearing them in the bath and then I would do my thing and clean them up and hang them back up again, right? or you know sometimes I would you know when nobody was home I'd rummaged through the drawers and you know borrow them out of there and then you know there was always you know again a constant supply of them in the garbage cans and those were the ones that you know if I found a pair that I liked the feel of those were the ones that I would would keep and then as I got older I would buy my own right and and go into the store and, you know, initially you'd kind of, you know, at a very early age,

it was kind of this ruse that, oh, you know, your mom sent you to buy them or whatever, right? Yeah. And then over a period of time, you know, as I got older, it's just, you know, I'm very upfront, but if a saleswoman approached or whatever, it's like, you know, oh, yeah, no, this is my size or whatever. and, you know, I don't think twice about it now. You know, I've gone into department stores, you know, in the summertime, you know, wearing nylon shopping for nylon. And so, you know, I'm...

Wearing them underneath pants so they can't see them, but like, right? No, wearing shorts. With the nylons. Right. With the nylons. So, you know, I'm pretty sure, you know, in. In recent years, I've done that and, you know, have never had, you know, comments or, you know, like a shock look or anything. And they let you go in the same dressing room with all the women because, like, if you're in the panty hose section, right, and you're in a department store, it's like all women.

Well, I'm not trying, I'm not trying them on in the store. Right, you just buy them. Okay. Yeah, because, you know, it's underwear, so you can't try them, you can't try them on. Oh, right. I don't know what I'm talking about. I haven't worn a hose in a long time, but I do know. I have worn them, so I should remember that.

Right, so you're not taking them, you're just buying them in the store and then while you're wearing them. And now you don't care. You're not pretending. You're buying them from somebody else. Right. Now, there's been, you know, a couple of times where, you know, I've been in situations where I had no intention of, you know, showing or making it so obvious that I had pantyhoes, but just because of the way. that the circumstance changed, it became very, very obvious. Now, the one time was, you know, I went to a doctor's office, and I was just supposed to pick up a machine, a sleep machine.

And, you know, so I didn't think that there was going to be any sort of exam or anything. It was just a matter of, you know, filling out some paperwork or whatever and picking up this machine, right? Well, it turned out it was whatever, an intern or whatever that was. that I was meeting with that particular day. And so she decided to, you know, that she needed to do a little bit of history as well, you know, as part of the learning process for her. So she was sitting down doing history. And then she's asking about, well, do you get swelling in your lower lakes?

And I'm like, no. And I said, well, you know, periodically or whatever. and she says, well, can you take your shoes off? I want to, you know, feel your ankles, right? I'm like, oh, shit. You know, I had, I knew that I had, you know, these very light gray pantyholes on underneath that, you know, that I had no intention of, you know, making obvious when I went there. Yeah.

And, you know, so I kind of hummed and hawed and had. And, you know, it wasn't a matter. that, you know, oh, can you change and put on this gown or whatever. It's just, you know, just slip off your shoes and pull up your pat leg. Oh, shit. Yeah, wow. So, so I did it. And I think, you know, I think I mentioned, oh, you know, I've got tights on or something, right?

I didn't say pantyos. I said, you know, tights. Well, they were, you know, very, obviously, you know, very, very sheer panty holes. Yeah. And so anyways, then she's going and, you know, kind of groping it, you know, my legs, not groping, but, you know, feeling my legs, you know, from the knee down and everything and examining very, very closely. And, you know, it just took it like nothing, you know, like there was nothing out of the

ordinary about it, right. Yeah, no, she was very professional. But I can remember leaving, leaving there. And, you know, my heart's kind of racing. And the one, you know, part of me was kind of terrible. verified part was kind of turned on. It was just, you know, again, because it went back to this whole mentality that it was, you know, it was something so naughty and I'd been

caught, right? Yeah. And, you know, that had happened to me two occasions where I went in to get x-rays on my knee. And, you know, again, normally they take you to, an area where there's a dress room and they say we'll put a gallon on and so whatever and and you know I would just take them off and and go in and get the x-ray done and then put them back on again well there was two particular cases where they kind of changed the process and it's like

well just come right in here and I'm like oh geez oh no and you know the one time I had you know I had a black a black pair on I mean it was it was very very obvious and I'm And I said, well, I've got, you know, I've got tights on. I said, can you can you do it through that? Oh, yeah, no, it's no problem. They were professional too, right. So, but, you know, there's been cases like that in, you know, somewhat recent years. You know, I don't, I don't wear them, you know, out in the open.

all the time. That is infrequent. I do wear them all the time under my clothing or almost all the time under my clothing. Right. That's become a part of your clothing. Like it's like if a woman did it. I mean, for you, it's like every day. Yeah.

I mean, for, you know, it's interesting how even my perception of them has changed over the years. You know, it went from being something that just really felt cool. you know that I didn't know what it was but I loved the feel of it and I knew it was naughty to something that was just purely sexual and the only time I wore them was you know when I was when I was jerked gnaw or and now it's it's something that for the most part is is absolutely non-sexual for me it's just a part of my natural natural clothing yeah there was another guy on I don't know if you listen to him but I think it that that's how it became for him too.

And I think it was very much, like, that's how it played out for him. I forget which guy it was. I've had so many panty those guys on. You know, each one's a little different, but he was a little bit more similar to you in that. He really just liked the way they felt, like the support it gave him, right? Like, more like a functional kind of a thing than sexual. And there are certainly, you know, still times where, you know,

they they turn me on but yeah for the most part it's just it's just another piece of just another piece of clothing for me now do you have kids and yeah and i i don't uh i don't uh i don't uh you know flaunt it around them yeah i kind of you know i don't involve them in that yeah i was wondering if they knew that their dad because that might be like depending on their eight you know that might be like, they might get to an age where they're like super embarrassed about that. Do you know what I mean? You know kids, teenagers. Yeah.

And I, no, and that's kind of the way I looked at. So, no, I've kind of, you know, purposely, you know, kept it under wraps around them. Mm-hmm. But again, even though, even the way things have changed in culture, you wonder, I don't know how, you know, they're doing. Because, you know, there's so many things that were considered, you know, deviant or whatever, you know, years ago are just absolute mainstream now. Yeah, totally. And, you know, there's so much, you know, on the internet now. Like, you know, it's amazing when the internet first came out, I mean, when it first came out, it was not a usable tool at all.

But very quickly it came to the point where you could go on and you could do that. some kind of rough queries and get some information. And, you know, one of the first things that I've started to do, I remember, was, you know, putting in a query about panty-holes and then you started seeing that, oh, there are other people that are, that have this interest. Right. And now you go on and, oh, my Lord, it's just, you know, pages and pages and pages of pictures and videos and stories.

Yeah, when I used to go on Craigslist, there was tons of just. regular guys like out there like you know talking like with ads about it you know so it was just like besides all that stuff to get you off there was like real personal ads of a ton of guys that was the majority was panty hose second was foot fetish but panty hose was like the majority of them so that's exactly right you know i wonder what it's like one and every how many guys are wearing hose. I was trading with my trainer take. And I was like, oh, I have a podcast to tape, but as the pantyhose guy, I'm like, you know,

panty hose are really like common. It's like a common fetish with guys. He's like, what are you talking about? I'm like, trust me, you know somebody that wears panty hose. He's like, I don't know anyone that wears panty. I'm like, no, I'm not saying you know and you're not telling me. I'm like you, someone you know is wearing them, but they're not telling you. You know what you're like, yeah, okay. Well, that's what

you know, you read a lot of stuff that says that's the case and that That's what I think. You know, the major, the major market for pantyhoes sales is, is male, you know, online. Yeah. You know, they're sold as, there's, well, in most cases, they're sold as a female garment. But even nowadays, there's, there's a lot of different brands that are sold specifically as male pantyholes, right? I wonder what it is, one in every how many.

Like, I got to Google that. I'm so unprofessional. I never give the facts of things. find out what that fact is like how many you know if you put 10 guys in a room would one person be wearing them or did you have to put 50 is it one in every 50 one and every 10 like I just wonder you know one every thousand I don't think I think it's lower than that you know I'm gonna do that I'm gonna gogle that I'm gonna give that in my intro I don't know what it would be podcast I wonder but you're one and then like whenever I air these podcasts they're always like hugely downloaded like more so than other ones I

always see an increase. Those are always like slightly higher than other ones because I just think that it's a very common fetish. But I still think even though things are so open and out there in a lot of ways, I don't think that the panty hose is. I think cross-dressers and transsexuals are more common than a guy who just wants to wear a, like a regular guy, a heterosexual guy that just wants to wear a hose. Like I haven't seen that guy represented yet out and about like so. So, hardcore that it's like no big deal that your kids wouldn't mind i still think it's like a little bit or a lot like not mainstream you know but i think i think i think you kind of answered your own question though i think the fact you know anything that i've read says that the majority of

males that are wearing pantyholes are heterosexual yeah um you know it's they're not gay they're not transsexual or whatever and so for those individuals it's still you know something that's kind of you know deviant it's totally i don't think it's i don't think just because of what's how the culture is now and how things have changed i still think that that is something deviant it's still considered a fetish it's not mainstream um i like i feel like i do my show so that i could help for these things to be more out there like i want to show people what like people real people are really doing, you know, and what is really going on, right? With men and women or whatever, you know, and I think people learn a lot.

Because, like, even before I started doing my show, I didn't know that this shit was going down, you know? And I wouldn't have known that Panty Hoes was so common. It's just I still don't think it's like a mainstream thing, even though there's still that naughtiness there to it, which is maybe a good thing for all the Pantyhose guys. I don't think it's I don't think that it's necessarily it's not mainstream but I think it's the fact that nowadays people talk about so many topics much more

more openly and yeah it's still considered somewhat deviant but at the same time it's something that people talk about where 10 15 years ago you know any of us out there that had this this pleasure you just thought we were the only ones on earth.

Yeah, well, that's like you said, that's what's so great about the internet. Just when you think you're interesting and unique, you could just go online and be like everybody else is like just like everybody else, which is a good thing, right? Yeah. And maybe a bad thing if you have a big ego. But yeah, I mean, but like I said, I just don't think there's been anybody that's come out totally yet to make it more mean-shy. But that'll happen eventually.

But I still do think there's a little bit taboo. Like when I said it like my trainer is a millennial and he was like what I don't know anyone that wears panty hose I'm like you could be wearing panty hose underneath there. How do I fucking know like I don't you know what I'm like you're not telling me like I you know so if the millennials are like no way I don't wear you know it's still not out there you need like someone famous to sort of be like this is what I do like look at what like Caitlin Jenner did for transsexual you know like stuff like that like really helps you know um but I think that it's it is more common yet on the internet and people are talking about it i get like so many emails like i said from guys that are calling up and uh it's not just older people like you who grew up in a time where you know pantyhoes were like so different and like and it was so puritanical because i have like i said younger guys that are into it as well there's something about pantyos the feel the touch the way that they feel on you the way that they feel the way that they look on the legs that guys are fucking into what i want to know what i want to know

and then we're going to wrap this up is like, are there any women out there that have a panty hose fetish? Like I wonder if it's a female thing too, right? Like I wonder, because I feel like you mentioned that one girl really kind of into it. I mean, if it's like a touch thing,

there's got to be women. My sister was saying she loved the way they felt at her and stuff, and I was like, maybe you got a fetish for her. She was like, no, but like I feel like there's got to be women out there too, right? I think it would only make sense that there is.

Yeah, right? That's what I think. I want to hear from the women. I want to hear from a woman. I know I'll get emails and there'll be more panty-hose episodes to come. And thank you for your story. Yeah. For me, one of the things is, you know, the fact that they're so sheer and you're wearing

something, but it's, you're wearing something, but it's like you're not because they're so, so sheer, right? And that's what you like or that's how what you like. the feeling of it now that it's not sexual? That's one of the underlying things that I really liked about it. What kind of drew me to them is the fact that you're wearing something, but you're, it's almost like you're not, right? Yeah, I guess.

But it would just feel so irritating when you're walking with them. I don't know. Like I said, a lot of women find them to be, I couldn't stand them. You couldn't pay me to wear a pair. Yeah. Again, I think it comes down to finding that right. Right, like you said, the European ones or the good ones. I would completely agree with you for probably the majority of brands where they don't stay up or they're way too tight at the waist or they're too this, to that.

But, you know, it seems like the Europeans have put more science into them and they fit the leg better and they fit without being restrictive and they're more breathable and more. everything. Like I said before, I think that if the European holes were available in North America on a regular basis, I think their popularity nowadays would be much higher. Right. Well, there you go. Because, yeah, I think most people got into, women don't wear them because they're just like, they don't feel good and they're not great. But maybe the women that do, they know the other ones. I was never that into it. But you could email me those as well. Maybe I'll give them a. intro. I'm going to Google how many guys, how many one and how many are wearing hoes.

Thanks for your story. I want to next hear from a woman and, you know, get the skinny on that because there's got to be females out there. But it's good to hear another guy story because it's, like I said, it's a very common thing. And the more people talk about it, the better, right? Yeah, it's been very nice talking to you. Yeah, you too, Brad. Thanks so much for calling in. Thank you. Have a nice day. two by. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th,

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