Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 258 - Nicole's Boyfriend Discusses their Naughty Sex Life

Episode Date: November 19, 2018

Nicole's (episode #256) boyfriend Brett calls in to discuss their highly sexual, long distance relationship. What are his biggest turn ons and how did he get her into them? How do they keep things super hot even when they're not with each other? When did he realize he was into guys and what does he think his type of guy is? Tune on to find out plus hear all about the exhibitionist sex they had while on vacation, which includes sex on a cliff and sex in a tree, how he's a pleaser and once gave Nicole 35 orgasms in one day and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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wanted to because I was a fucking wreck. Anyway, today I have on Nicole's boyfriend, Nicole, from a... Two weeks ago, she was episode, what episode was she? She was shit. I should have, I got to delete that. No, she was episode 256. I should have had Nicole and her boyfriend on together, but I decided to have them on separately to see how that would go.

Kind of get like a really hot relationship story from both sides. We got Nicole's view of things two weeks ago. You could listen to her episode. It was really great. And today we get her boyfriend's side of thing. her much younger boyfriend. And he talks all about their long-distance relationship, how they keep it hot,

how he got into all the kinds of kinky things they're into, or how he got her into all the kinky things that they're into because I think he turned her on to some of the stuff. And he also brings up a couple hot stories about them. Hot stories that she didn't talk about, stuff that they did, like some naughty stuff that they did on a vacation in front of people. A little bit of exhibitionist, these two.

So he reveals some more, but also just gives some background and some more insight into all the stuff that she talked about, as well as discussing, you know, his interest in hooking up with guys. So I'll be right back on. How you doing today, tonight?

Thank you. Is it tonight? Is it tonight where you are? Yeah, it's eight o'clock. Okay, cool. Yeah. So Brett, You're Nicole's boyfriend.

Nicole was a guest on recently. People could listen to her episode. It was really good. And we talked about the fact that we were going to have you on. At first, you guys were going to come together as a couple. I think next time I have you guys on, I'm going to bring you on as a couple. But I decided to have you guys come on my show separately. She talked about a lot of stuff that you're into.

And then we're going to talk about that with you and get some more information from you. So now, you date Nicole, right? You guys are in kind of an open relationship. relationship. You got, you're the younger one in the relationship. I am indeed, yeah. Yeah, she's 32. You're 22, right? Now, she's a little bit older than you. And so she was more experienced, right? She had some stuff under her belt. Like, because you guys are into some pretty kinky things and we're going to get into that. But like, yeah, we both had a few things up our sleeves. Well, that's what I want to know. We've already talked to her. I know about her stuff. So

I want to know about you before you met Nicole, right? Uh, because you're 20, you were 22 when you met her, how long you guys been together, I forgot? 22 years? Yeah, just coming close to two years now. So were you 22 when you met her, or are you 22 now? 22 now, so I met her when I was 20. Oh, so she was 30 and you were 20, even better. So what the fuck did you do before you were 20?

Like, what were you into? Like, when did you get into, like, doing kinky things yourself? Because you guys, like, listen, you guys, we and her last left off with her saying that she was getting you for a birthday gift, you guys were going to be going to torture club or torture garden it's like a fetish place right where you go and you

yeah yeah people watch like a big sex club yeah yeah a very big sex club right are they having a big party there tonight yeah it's um it's one of the events so they have big uh Halloween yeah so they have about four or five big events per year and we try and go to at least a few of them yeah so you

you guys are going tonight and you're going to get down and dirty and we're going to talk about that the next time you guys both come on together but what and I know that She mentioned that you guys have like kind of a fantasy. You guys have a lot of fantasies you could do together, but like one of them involves like you and her sucking cock together. And I asked her, but I need to really ask you because she didn't really know.

Like when did you, and maybe we'll just start with this, when did you realize, maybe it's just recently, I don't know, that you were kind of into guys or that you'd be open to it. Or have you been into guys before? I don't know. No, it's too bad. It's quite easy and maybe complex to explain. but basically it's only quite recent that I've actually thought about this in a way.

Yeah. It's actually coming to our fantasy play and we've sort of got turned on by it. And it's purely at the moment by the by the object. And when I'm making an object, I mean purely by when Nicole is sucking me off or whatever. Uh-huh. She's be so good at it to the point where I'm sort of jealous that I'm not down there doing it with her. Interesting. Yeah.

And so like maybe just talking about that with her and getting really into it. because you guys are like really into like sort of fantasy and communication, and you guys are so on the same page. Exactly, yeah. And because obviously you would have spoke to Nicole, we obviously don't live in the same country. So we're based on the phone a lot and FaceTime or whatnot. So we like to, you know, I like to view it as, you know, over FaceTime,

we can explore anything because the mountain can take us, you know, anywhere. Right. But do you think that if it can't, you know, down to it and there was a dick right in front of your face that you would do it like would you be open to it? I'd be open to it yeah, but obviously at the moment it's still, it's still fresh for us. Right. It's something story.

And I'm purely enjoying the fantasy side of it. But saying that, you know, you're going to go into the party tonight and bad a bin, bada bim, bada bum could happen. Wow, I hope it does so we can talk about it. I don't know. It would just be interesting. But no, we're just, we're sorry. you go, yeah. No, considering you're a guy

who like really, I mean, but you're super young still, right? I mean, a lot of times I'm talking to people in their 40s and they've been there done that, right? You know, and so it could be like something like 10 years from now that you're totally like, you know, you would maybe label yourself as bye and you're totally open to it,

right? But this is like a new thing for you. I've always been, I've always been quite open as a person. I've never, you know, I've always been the way I view life and especially sex is just fucking to explore. You know, you only got one life and you only, you why not explore as much sensations and, you know, pleasures as you can. Yeah.

And that's personally what I love to do to Nicole. I love to try and event or create more fantasies or pleasures or, you know, it turns me on and it helps her out. When did you lose your virginity? 15. When you were 15. And from 15 to 20, what was like the hardcore stuff that you did? I mean, because you guys do hardcore stuff now, but what stuff were you into before?

I wasn't really doing too much hardcore stuff. Like I always had it in the back of my brain, but it was more just, you know, on the dating apps and whatnot. It was more just random meetups and stuff. It wasn't really too crazy stuff. It was also because I never, so Nicole, my first, first and only girlfriend. So I never had a relationship prior to that.

So I never had a girl really stick around enough to explore as much as I would have wanted to. Yeah, that's like the fun thing I think about. I personally think about having a partner, a long-term partner, because you could get, especially if you have the type of mind that you guys have, I was always like that. 100%, yeah. You could really start to do all those kind of things with somebody if you're around them and you're talking about it for longer than a one-night stand. I view it as levels.

So, you know, the first three months say we met each other, we're on level one. After level, after level one, each time we just grow, grow, grow on to level. So each time we have sex, we're already on level 37. Right. Okay, well, let's start at level one. So what was level one? Well, obviously, I just, you know, from the first time I met her, I knew I wanted to eat her. Uh-huh. So I was craving that, to be honest with you.

And then I finally, well, to be honest, I wanted to wait. I wanted to wait, but that she did really like her. But bless her, she can help herself. Right. Well, she mentioned that because, like, I mean, you guys have like an intense sexual sort of chemistry and you guys do a lot of things. but it's not like you guys are just fuck buddies i mean you're in a real relationship you're going to be moving in with her soon and you guys have a lot more going on than just that but you happen to have a really i'm gonna marry one day yeah you happen to have though a really healthy

uh sex life with each other which is great going into a marriage and a relationship you know i mean that's like a great thing um but so how did you know that she was the one when you first met her. It's just, it's one of those things where, you know, you hear on fairy tales all this love,

love crap and, you know, you sort of, I knew that personally, it was never going to happen until I felt that feeling. And when I felt that feeling, I mean, you can't miss all you ain't had.

And anyone that doesn't have that love feeling, you know, can't really understand me. But when you have it, you feel it. So I sort of knew it as soon as I met her, really.

not women. I think a man, because, like, I think women have intuition about everything. And some women do have it about the guy that they're with, but guys don't tend to have, like, intuition about anything. But the one thing they fucking do have it about is the girl they're going to marry. Like you, I hear it so much from guys that say, whether I'm listening to a celebrity interview or I'm talking to my friends, that like the minute I saw her across the room, I knew, like, that was the girl I was going to marry. You know, you hear that time and time, I, again, from guys and I really think like that's like guys have that kind of

intuition like they know yeah she was the exotic little girl when I met her yeah so I do love that's what you like that was like your thing so looks wise I mean one time my friend said to me you know Kathy what it is what guys is they wait around until they meet the hottest girl they think

they could ever get and then that's the one they marry so like you have to be the hottest girl that guy thinks he could ever get to you know and that's the guy that's going to like you, right? So she was like the hottest girl. She was probably like the hottest girl you've ever seen. Yeah, yeah. And so also, to honest with you, I call her the Titanic iceberg because, you know, the iceberg on the outside of the top of the water is the looks, but the personality on the bottom of the water is what's done the damage. Oh, yeah, please. I mean, that's what kept you there, right? Because you guys are like on the same page across the board. But the thing that we're going to talk about is like the fact that you guys like to do all the kinds of stuff sexually.

that like you're both into. And she even said that she, you got her into stuff that she wasn't into. Like that's how, right? You got her into spit and calm. Like you like that. She wasn't. Yeah, I like that shit, yeah.

I mean, so you've always, like she, she's the one that sort of opened you up to this stuff, right? I'm assuming maybe. Or did you open her up to it? In terms of what the, the, the, the world. Let's start with the bondage. Who got into that? Who got who into that?

To be honest with I think we both sort of both sort of had it in had it in our minds to pursue it but we just never met the right person and just so happened that she enjoyed the submissive side of it

and I really enjoyed the dumb side of it so we sort of just clicked and buddabin bada bim bada boom and we sort of both developed from there and created a lot more memories and fun stuff to do. Right.

But now you guys also have like a lot of fantasy stuff that you guys talk about and if people haven't heard her episode. I mean, you guys take fantasy to a whole level. Like I mean, you guys have like Facebook, WhatsApp chats where you guys have different people that are talking to each other and create like. One of the fantasies is gang bang for you, right? A huge gang bang with and so I'm assuming you fuck a lot of girls, right? Like the gang bang or what is the gang bang? You are watching her in a gang bang? Yeah, I'm watching her.

Right. But obviously, that's just one thing's that, one of the gangbangs that I enjoy at the moment, but, you know, me banging a lot of girls would be sweet as well. But at the moment, I'm enjoying watching her, too honestly of you. Right. And now she said that you guys have an open relationship, but it's kind of like you guys are open in the fact that you guys would be into being with other people in front of each other, but you don't do anything separate, right?

Yeah, we don't do anything separate, yeah. So now has she been with other guys in front of you Or do you feel like in reality like you'd be cool with that? Well, no, not at the moment. She hasn't been with anyone in front of me And nor of I being with anyone in front of her. But at the moment, we're very content in just Enjoying the fantasy side of it.

But we, you know, we never say never and we're very open-minded. So, you know, it could happen in the future. It probably will happen in the future. But, you know, we just take every day it comes and enjoy enjoy the ride that we're doing really right i mean it could happen tonight at that club i mean right it most certainly could yes right because you guys have fooled around in front of other like you went at that club she told a hot story where like you went down on her right in and everyone was watching yeah there's a watch there's a watch room and uh we go there and that's our favorite

place so it's actually a new venue tonight um so we're praying that there's a little place where we can go if not then we'll just have to do on the dance floor and she'll enjoy that anyway so So you could just like go down on her on the dance floor? Yeah, 100% yeah. Right. There's the kind of club it is. Yeah. And so would you, so you don't think that in like when it came down to it,

like you feel like you would be open to her being with other people. Now in your regular life before her, I know that you just did random hookups. Did you ever have a three-sum? Did you say I wouldn't be open, no, you would. You would. Yeah, I would be open. Yeah. And before you met her, would you, did you have any threesomes or anything like that with other people?

Any of your random hookups? Yeah, I've had like a freeson before with two, like me and my friend and the girl. But not really anything too extreme, too honestly. But I've always had in my mind to do a lot of, a lot of kinky and a lot of stuff that I've sort of wanted to do. And I haven't had that girl to do it with. So Nicole was that one.

Right. And now who was the first person to sort of start talking about all the stuff that they were into? Was she the one because she was older? To be honest with you. It's only been two years. We've done a lot of stuff for that two years. I think it just happened naturally.

It was straight away that sexual connection that we had when we first met. And I think it just sort of, I think like, because obviously when we first actually had sex, she came and surprised me. And prior to that, we were on FaceTime having FaceTime sex. So we all sort of always sort of kinky and getting bold and stuff. I just don't know who brought it up first. We just sort of went with it. I remember one time she, to start off,

she went down to the shops and got an icy pole, bless her. Oh, what? Like an ice cream. Oh, okay. Icey pole. This is obviously when we're very young in the relationship. So that was the start. And she sucked out in front of me and we just grew from there, really.

Right. And that was over FaceTime because you guys had to be kind of out of the box and be creative, right, to get each other off. because you see each other like you live in different countries right i mean you're not that far right because you see each other like once a week is it uh once once no probably once uh once a month oh once a month try and try and do two two times a month if we can right and so it's totally fine like you're so you're just jerking off all those other times with her though right like it's always with her on on face time yeah yeah yeah that's what i mean like that's how you keep yourself

Like how is it like is it okay to just be having actual sex with somebody once a month and the rest of the time like because you guys are living at all these fantasies and everything and you're doing the face time is that keep you sort of okay the rest of the time? Because it's a long time if you're only really fucking, you know. Yeah, yeah. You're right. Yeah. It obviously does, you know, it does, is annoying sometimes due to the obvious reasons that we actually can't kind of sex. but we were so, you know, we enjoy the, we have it every day. You know, we have to face some sex every day and we create new fantasies every day

and we'll build on the old ones we had. And I always view it as over FaceTime, she sort of does a lot more for me. And then when I'm, when in real life, I'll do a lot more for her. Right. So she's really satisfying you because you're far away and probably needs, not need sex, but like you might be, that itch might be a little stronger. So she really gives you a lot via FaceTime.

And then when you get there, you pay her back by going to town. Yeah, she knows that. So it's all sweet. We've got a healthy, healthy relationship. Right. She's a smart girl.

She knows that her guy's really fucking far away, right? And you need to be turned on. You're 20-something years old, right? You're like probably at your horniest you'll ever be. Yeah, although she's a little horny girl as well. Yeah. Yeah, no, totally. People can listen to her episode to hear how horny she's.

she is. I mean, so you guys, that's why I think a lot of times younger guys and older women, and she's only going to get hornier, just so you know. Yeah, I know, yeah. You don't have to worry about that. Like, I mean, she's like at, she's not even at her peak. Like, if she was 40 or 45, I'd be like, you guys might have a problem if you're only 20 and she was 45, but like, she's not even going to hit her peak till she's, like, late 30s and, you know, so you guys have a, would be well matched, right? Yeah, yeah. Because you're both, like, sort of at your, you're, you're, you're, you're, you're going to be like really sexual. By the time you're like winding down,

she'll be winding down too. It's really not a bad age gap. For long term. It's a match made in heaven. Yeah, for a long term. I mean like, and so what are some of the things that you've done with her that we could talk about that you love that she does?

Well, I personally, I've got a fetish for spit. So I love when she, she plays with spit via FaceTime or, you know, in real, life. I really love her bummer.

The what? Her asshole. Oh, a bumhole, right. I know I heard her saying that too. Right. A bumhole, right, the asshole. Yeah. She's got

she's got the best one I've ever seen in my life. And if anyone else got a better one, I don't believe it. Really? And what makes a good asshole? Like just the color or the shape? I don't know. Yeah, it's, it's, you know, like everyone,

everyone obviously has different ones and whatnot, but it's the shape, the kind of, obviously, what I like, might not be what someone else likes, but. Yeah, no, we're always talking to you, so I want your specific. Because really what you're doing is you're explaining your girl's butthole to other people.

So just like explaining that, like what do you like? It's like the color or the shape is what's right for you. And her whole ass. I mean, I remember her telling me that you love her ass. Yeah, yeah, she's got a nice ass, yeah. She's got a really nice ass. Right. She's just sexy all around to her on a two of you,

and she just, uh, she's got a lovely. skin. And yeah, she's a sexual around to her own, yeah. Right. So you like spit. What do you mean you like, like what does she do? Like when like what is the whole spit thing? I don't really understand it. Like you like what to see the spit over your cock and stuff like that or you like when

she's like to put it on her or just coming out of her mouth. Yeah. Yeah, just in that mouth. In her mouth on my on my cock. Even like this is so over FaceTime. I like it. sort of when she puts her tongue out and she'll have spit on it. And then obviously that creates, you know, fancies in my mind because it could be anything. It could be, you know, my come, could be someone's come,

could be spit, could be, you know, could be anything. Yeah. And then obviously in real life, then I enjoy when she spits my mouth or spits my dick and sucks up and gives it to me and stuff like that. It just turns me on, I guess. Yeah. And, yeah. No, I think that that, like, listen,

I think there's a whole spit porn category. I mean, I think it's the thing. I was just wondering how it plays out when you're via FaceTime, right? Because you're not together. And I know that she does that for you, you know. So that's why I was wondering, like how it works. Yeah, well, for instance, she, you know, she'd, like I said, she'd spit, she'd open her mouth and she put her tongue out and there'll be spit all over it.

And then she'll get a finger, get a finger, get a finger, a pussy. Taste it. And then obviously, you know, depending on what our fantasy and what we're talking about at the time I'll associate the spit with whatever it is sort of thing right right right and I know you said she's so good at it you've told her she could be like a porn star yeah she could be a great actor yeah yeah it's hard to do like you know maybe I should have hired you guys together because it's hard to do like the interview with you because like I know so much about her like she told me everything do you know what I mean it's like like I said I haven't heard her I haven't heard the interview yet so I obviously don't know exactly what she said either

Yeah, no, I have. So I know everything. So it's like reiterating. And if people heard her interview, you know, so it's like, I mean, so maybe I'll just walk you through like the history and see what you say. But like to me, it's like, you know, when you guys first met, I know that like she told me that the first time you guys, like one of your first dates was at that fetish club, right? At the fetish club that you're going to tonight, right? And was that your idea or whose idea was that? it was my

idea because obviously when we first met I spoke to her about it and it just so happened that the time she came over was the exact same time it was on but she always was intrigued and wanted to go to someone like that she just never had the option to so it just so happened

I enjoyed that stuff and I took her to it and she loves it but so wait had you gone to that party those parties and that fetish club before her oh yeah I went I went I went I went once before. With who? With my friend.

Like a guy friend or a girlfriend? What'd you say, sorry? Like a guy friend or a girlfriend? I went with friends, sorry. I went with two guys and one girl. And so what made you guys, because it's like a big sex party, right? Like who was the person that said, hey, let's go to the sex party? And like, what was that?

Like, how did that happen? It was actually just random sort of, we just decided to go. we were actually going to go out somewhere else, but it was too late because the club, the club closed, and that was one of the things that was open because of the event. It was actually Halloween as well the first time we went. Oh, really? Okay. We just decided to go, and we, you know, I obviously loved it. I always wanted to go and fell love with it.

And then just so happened that a few months down the line, I met Nicole, and we went to the next one. Right, but that first time that you went, did you guys know it was a sex club? Yeah, yeah, 100%. Yeah. Right. You got to dress appropriately to get into the club. Oh, okay. So you guys decided to go, and because you weren't going to the other place,

so you all decided so you went home and dressed up and then you went. And now, did you guys fool around? Did you fool around with anyone that first time that you went or do anything? Or were you just like a voyeur? The first time I was, I didn't actually pull around. I kissed. I just had a bit of fun with a girl, but I didn't actually do anything serious. We got there quite late, so it was only like a few of hours.

were there and I was just more enjoying watching everything and you know watching the scenes and just looking around and seeing what was all about really right it was a big turnout so when you met your girl and you guys started to talk yeah and you guys started talking and did she tell you that she was open to going to like one of those clubs or did you bring it up that you had gone there once before uh I just I think it just came up in general chat and I said I've been there and she was always intrigued to go and we just knew straight away that we were going to go. Right.

And we just, you know, we spoke about it and went to it. And then the fun began, really. Right. And then that's where you went. Now, when you guys got into, like, did you always know, like, that you were into bondage or is it the same kind of situation where it just came up when you were, like, with her? No, I always knew. I always knew judging from sort of like the porn.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I sort of watched more hardcore stuff. and I've always been into that but like I said I've never had the opportunity to do it fully to what I thought in my head prior to me and

and she said on her episode that you like are the person that does a lot of like she brought up sex candles now and that you guys have used them and a certain way that you tie her up so that she doesn't really it doesn't create it totally ties her up but it's like safe and doesn't create some kind of pain.

Yeah I do I do my research because like I said that before that I like to please so if you know I view sex and does try and create as much pleasure and sensation for her as I can so I obviously if I think in my head one day walking down the road obviously be cool I'll look it up and and you know see what I can do and and and then I will try out her and you know go from there really but it turns me on that she's enjoying it and she obviously she obviously likes it as well so where did you get them from so what is the how do you I mean, I thought the sex candle thing was interesting.

I didn't know that they may because apparently what you found out was two different candles, yeah. Right. And what is the deal with the sex candles again? Like they don't get your body as hot. It's like candles and you could drip wax. Basically, it's sort of obviously normal candles. It will burn your skin to the point where it will cause damage in your scar. But these sex candles, I don't actually know what was in it, but it's different to the point where it will burn your skin to the sensation.

but it won't actually mark your skin to the point of, you know, scarring anything. So it still feels painful as fuck. To honestly, if you've tried it, it's not my cup of tea. Right. Nicole loves it. So it doesn't actually burn your skin to the point of scarring, but it does feel the same as normal candles. And now what do you like, as far as like the hot wax is concerned?

Like, where do you pour it on her? I had a boyfriend to try to do that with me once and we tried. But we did it with a regular candle. really fucking hurt, okay? That's why when she was like, oh, there's sex candles. I was like, that's interesting. That's like good to know, you know. It's kind of like safer.

Everywhere really, like obviously there's each part of the body is more sensitive. Uh-huh. So leading up, it depends how far we are into the zone I am. To honestly, we'll depend on how close I put the wax. to certain body parts. Right. Because obviously, you know, you can put it on a body part

and it would be too painful to the point where it will just wreck the mood, I mean. Yeah, of course. But yeah, I just lead up to, you know, I put it around her breast or on her thighs. And I play along with it so, you know, I could blindfold her in and she wouldn't know exactly where it was coming next.

And just, yeah, it's funny because sometimes, I don't actually told you this, but sometimes, well, when I say sometimes, I mean, every time. We have sex and we get in the zone that we get pretty hardcore and that her head and her brain will say no sometimes. And she'll actually like get out of character and say no, but a pussy will say yes. Oh, really?

So what do you listen to? I listen to the pussy because that's all I care about at the moment. Because you're the dog. Outside sex. Yeah, exactly. Outside sex, I'll listen to her. But if a pussy keeps saying yes, then I know she'll thank you later. So you keep going.

And then does she find that pleasurable? Like there's obviously never been a problem. But how could you tell? Well, because, you know, when we're in the zone, I always, obviously there's a percent, you know, there's a percent in my mind that I do care about her. Of course. Obviously, obviously, you know, really hurt. Yeah.

Really hurt. But I can gauge and sort of, you know, you know. You know, I'm experiencing new things, and we're both growing. So, you know, I just know that there's pleasure upon pleasure, upon pleasure. So it's just different levels of pleasure, deeper and deeper and deeper. And so you feel like, if you feel like there's a little bit of a yes coming from some part of her, you're going to go with that because you know she's going to enjoy it? 100%.

And you've been right. And I've been right, yeah. Like she's had, well, because she did tell them. because we were talking about how she's multi-orgasmic, right? Now, you strive to give her, like, as many orgasms when you see her in person, right? Or even sometimes over FaceTime, right? And what is the most you've ever given her? Well, we're trying to do 50 in a day, but we only managed to do 35 due to her being sore and just sort of her being sore,

we couldn't actually go any further. But we're trying to do 50. We're going to do 50 sometime soon. Now, the day that you had 35, did you guys just never leave your house, the little house? No, we actually, we actually, it actually was quite, I think it only took us, I don't know, like half a day, maybe like that, half a day. And we, oh, then you guys could have totally done 50. You had the next half of the day to do 20 more, so she was just too sore. Yeah, exactly, yeah, that's the thing.

Right. And so what did you do to get her off 50 times, 35 times? I just devout her pussy. I'll just eat her out so that she came 35 times. Yeah, obviously different ones. So I could eat her. I could finger, I could fuck her. But majority would be eating and fingering there.

Right. And she squirts. That's one of my favorite things to do. So I enjoyed it. And then, yeah, and then obviously, I fuck her and she'll come out of that. but the majority would be eating and fingering. And she squirts, right?

So how many times did you make her squirt that day? I can't remember maybe like five, six. I can't remember. Right. And you must love that. Yeah. Because you're really into, I remember her saying that you're really into pleasing, right? Like that's like your thing.

You're one of those guys that like you want to, like you could probably hold off on you coming because you want to make the girl come, right? Yeah, exactly. Yeah. Yeah, for me, for me, it turns me on for her to be pleased. So, you know, it could get to the stage where, you know, it could be hours and hours and hours in the bedroom to the point where I'm not going to come because not because I don't want to come just because my mindset on, I'm just pleasing this girl tonight. So she will be the one that says we have to stop. And then I'll be like, in my mind, I'll be like, sweet. I've done my job.

Right. Yeah, I know guys like that. I don't understand it. but it's like a thing. Like some guys are just wired that way and they could hold off and they just want to make you come like 10 times and they don't want to come.

They want to hold it. Like why does it? Obviously, obviously I want to come. But no, at the end though. Yeah, yeah, exactly. But then saying that, you know, I've come and I can, you know, there's been times where we try and do a long session

and I just get turned on too much and I come straight away. But then five, 10 minutes, 15 minutes later, I'll start eating again. We just go on again. So, right, and then you could do that long time. Right. No, I know.

I know that whole scene. It's a lot of pressure. I mean, she's multi-orgasmic. She's squirt. She's hornier than you are the same, right? So, like, I mean, she's good to go. And she could give you all those fucking organs. I find it so, like, I find it too much pressure.

Like, is it? I'm going to have to come like 10 times before you come. You know, it's a long. No, I, I enjoy it. I, um, that's, I sort of set the, uh, when I first met, I sort of set the ratio challenge, meaning like when we first started out in our relationship, I would, it would go no less than three to one, which means I'd make a come three times for my one come. Uh-huh.

And then that was minimum for me. Yeah. And over time, obviously, grew to, my, five, six, seven, ten to one, you know, 15 to one or one. It just grew. So for me, it's not pressure to all. I enjoy it, and it's fun to understand a suicide. No, it's pressure. for it would be pressure for me like as the woman I'm just saying that she it she doesn't find it

pressure she loves it because she's a mul that's why you guys are so perfect for each other because she's a multi-orgasmic woman someone that isn't multi-orgasmic is is there's pressure in that right because you just can't go one after that's what I'm saying no not of course you don't find the pressure I know guys like you you're built for that like that's what you like it's like a big turn on you could stay hard for a really long time and you could come and then get hard again for like hours. I know that kind of guy. I've fooled around with that kind of guy. And I know it's not any pressure. Like you're just, if you're into the girl, you want to please her. She said something that was interesting. I don't know if she's brought this up to you, but she obviously said it on air. So like,

you know, that there was a girlfriend of yours that put you down or somebody put you down and said something to you like you couldn't please her or something. And she was like wondering if like maybe that had to do with the reason why you really like to please. It's more of like an inside joke. So prior to me, obviously, me and Nicole, we used to have me and my other friend, and she used to say, oh, you've never had a girlfriend. You know, you can't please a girl sort of thing.

Oh, okay. And I used to say, so you've never had sex. And I don't know. Right. And then obviously, then I met Nicole, and it was just sort of an inside joke that, you know, now I can actually prove to her. Not really, I really cared.

I just knew that, you know. But it's interesting. Because I feel like the guy that wants to please so much and is down there going to town on making the girl come a million times. Like, I don't see that guy as the dominant one. I see that guy as like more submissive. And it is interesting because you guys have started to kind of switch, right? As much as you like to be the dom. You guys have switched roles, right, as well?

Yeah, at the moment. Yeah, we've started doing a bit of switching, which I personally enjoy. and she enjoys. But before we've, it's always been, in a way, it's sort of like, although yes, I'm pleasing. I'm eating it's, it's because I want to in a way. Yeah, yeah. Although yes, it may sound that I'm just the submissive wine and stuff like that,

but it was more, obviously there's more things we do than just eating. Of course. Obviously, over the time, yeah, we've sort of now gone to the submissive. So I'll be submissive and should be dominant or we've switched or a thing. that's a new that's a new thing for me I'm enjoying it at the moment so we're just chop and changing so yeah no you guys are open and do all things

I just always with I just think like if you have it in you that you want to please right the other person so much and you're like the pleaser in that role right and that's like a big part of who you are and that's what she really pleases her pleases me

of course it's not it's not to the point that I'm just pleasing her for the sake of it because it pleases her pleasing her, pleases me. So it's up to me to actually take the initiative to please her while she ain't going to get pleased. Right.

So it's not really like a submissive thing. It's like it has nothing to do with Dom submissive. It's just a thing. I'm just trying to analyze that kind of guy because I know, I know some. It's not really about you. You know what I mean?

I'm just trying to get to the bottom of it. If there's anything behind it because I was always like, oh, you know, the couple of guys that I know that did it were kind of similar. So I just, I like to analyze everything and figure out if something comes from someplace else.

Do you know what I mean? So that's just what I'm doing. But like, because I know that she said you were the dom. She says she's more dominant in regular life. So she loves to be sort of submissive when she's with you. And since you take the dominant role, I asked her, I'm like, is he like more submissive in regular life? But she said, no, not really. I mean, why do you think you like to be the dom?

Is it just what turns you on? Do you find that it's like a switch for like? who you are in your regular life. In real life, I'm quite chilled. Yeah. I'm not really, like, I'm not, like, I know how you, there's obviously the classic tale of, you know, a big CEO manager. Yeah. Multi-million dollar business is get sworeked like a dog. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They want to do the switch opposite. Yeah, switch stuff like that. But I'm, I'm quite a tool bloke, too honestly. I just enjoy that side of it. No, but that would make why you like, you're not the CEO. that wants to be walk like a dog, you're more like the dog, but you're not a dog. Like you're more passive, like you're more chill and relax. So when you get in the bedroom, you want to be like the fucking C.

Yeah, yeah. Do you know what I mean? It's the opposite. Right? Kind of maybe. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. You could say that, yeah.

You could say that. You know, so you like to be sort of the dominant one, even though you're not maybe so dominant in your regular life, like you said, because you're like super chill. Yeah. You could definitely say that. And so what are some of like the hottest things that you guys have done that you could tell me about? I mean, you've done a lot of stuff, but she's told me something, but I want to hear stuff from you. I'm trying to figure out what we've done. Obviously at the torture garden, which is the sex club, we did some stuff.

So obviously I started eating out. eating her ass and eating her pussy and just got in the zone and we're both in the zone for a good 10, 15 minutes and then I looked up and we both looked up and there was like, you know, people all around just, you know, play with themselves watching us.

And it was actually, the first time we actually went to the fetish club. Yeah. She actually didn't realize that that was one of her fetishes. Yeah, being like watched, being an exhibition. It was kind of. Yeah.

So this was, you know, And ever since then, it's obviously built and built and built. So she loves, you know, people watching her and stuff. So, and I obviously love pleasing her. So it just wins a win-win. In terms of other stuff, we've done, you know, the WhatsApp thing, the WhatsApp group. Yeah. We enjoy the WhatsApp group, which is basically, you know, it's me and her, basically, just us to win the group.

But we create different people who come in. And, you know, for instance, we've got a person now who comes in and wants to bang, to have sex with Nicole. Right. And so do you let me ask you this in these WhatsApp chats, because you put together like gangbangs, but you're both playing other people as well as yourselves, right? That's how it goes down. Do you typically play all the guys and she typically plays the girls? Sort of, yeah, but we sort of change.

Like, I'm just, obviously, you know, at the moment, yeah, I've got, I've got a few characters. And I switch, I switch between both the characters and she's obviously got the female characters. But the Pentu's free to understand a view. So we could be, you know, we could be going on in our day. I could be working. She could be working. And then, you know, I could take over her character. Uh-huh.

And so you do sometimes. Yeah, she could take her my character. It's just whoever is free at the time and just roll with the scene. We're playing, sort of thing. But we've been to also another, in terms of what we did, we went to an island a few months ago, and we just basically had sex everywhere we could in the island. And like, was it a sex island or was it a regular island

and you guys were having sex? No, it was just a regular island. Went to a church, had sex around the church in the cliff. overlooking people watching us and you're kidding like regular people on the beach or people walking by so you kind of do a little bit of the exhibition stuff she didn't get into

that stuff yeah no we yeah we enjoy that stuff um we'll just we'll just enjoy nature too honestly and then obviously I when I view nature obviously I obviously think you know this be a great place to eat eat Nicole right so uh so you're walking down a path when tell me about the time you're on the cliff and people

were watching you so you're like walking down the path and then you you guys start to full around right now who's walking beneath you no so we so we were at the top of the cliff we were pulling around she was giving me a blow job and then we decided to go sort of down downhill of the cliff and explore and then we could look up and see people uh-huh and then obviously she pulled down her pants and i started eating at and that's all she wrote right and there were people walking by and totally people watching you guys. Yeah. But that was like the turn on, right?

I mean, you didn't stop. Nobody got, nobody said anything to you, right? No, not really, no, because we're only on the island for a couple of days, so we didn't really good fight, so we just enjoyed it. Right, you didn't care, like, you didn't care if you saw those people at dinner. Where else do you guys fuck? It would just laugh at off. Yeah, yeah. Where else did you guys fuck in front of other people?

Is that the one time that you did it in front of other people, the one time on the cliff? Well, we've done Like we've obviously done Out and about like you know In the change rooms or In the Like we did On the island we actually climbed the tree

Believe or not And did it overlooking people So you were in the tree In a tree Yeah I don't even know how that's been What would you do Do you fuck her or went down on her?

No we were we fucked her I fucked her On a tree That was a little dangerous We got very high high enough where people couldn't really see us but we could see them walk underneath and you know it's just one of those things where it's the it's the you know it's the you know it's the art of getting caught that turns you on the net so yeah totally so if anyone looked up they would have seen you guys like actually having sex above each that yeah but nobody did but that's kind of hot right there's like all these people just walking by yeah yeah think i you guys didn't fall or anything i mean you must have known you were safe but like and on good branches and stuff. It took us, it took us a while to get down, but, you know, it was worth it.

Did you know when you were going up the thing that that's what you guys were going to do? Not really, no, I just thought, that's a trigger, I want to climb it, and then she came along, and once again, I just thought this would be a cool place, and we just run out of it. Right. So that, it's always like kind of your idea, and she goes with it? No, we, no, it's mutual. You know, you ever comes up the idea first, really. Right, right, right, but the tree thing was yours. So you're like up in the middle of the tree and then you're like, oh, I'm horny.

And she's like, okay, let's get, I'm horny too. Yeah, I always, I always think of cool places like it to do. And I think, oh, this, what of you like, overlooking, you know, overlooking the water or something. How cool it would eat her here sort of thing. Right, right, right. So the nature thing, like you said, is that actually adds to it. It gets you horn. Yeah, yeah.

And we film, we film a lot about a lot of our stuff as well. Yeah, that's hot. So like you take the video of it and then you guys watch it together separately, both. That's exactly, yeah, both or separately. So that's also also another thing that that turns me on is that because we obviously don't live together and we live in a separate country. So no FaceTime, she does more for me than I do for her. Yeah.

On the videos when we film, there might be certain things she would do that at the time might not really be like might not really be. much of a turn on as such, but I know that late in a later date, while watching their back, it would turn me the fuck on. Right. Like what kind of stuff? Well, like, for instance, in the time, you know, she might do a lot of spit or a lot of come, play with a cum, and at the time, obviously, I've just come, so I'm not really, you're done, right?

You don't need it anymore, but you know it's going to get your turn on later, for sure. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And also, you know, she could send me a video of her talk about certain things. and then I could watch it back and sort of thing. And you do a lot of stuff like that. And you send her videos too? Yeah.

Yeah. I'll do the slow-mo on the iPhone. You can slow-mo. So when you're about to come, it does a slow-mo come thing. Oh, right. And you like the come thing. So you probably like the slow-mo yourself.

Yeah. All right. Now let me ask you this. Like, because the guy thing has come up. We talked about it in the beginning. We're going to end with that now. we're going to talk about like do you think like because i know that like it's it's just something that's sort of percolating in your brain right and something and you're pretty open but like if i had to

ask you now like if you had a type right if like you could set up the perfect sort of threesome with you and your girl and another guy and this was the guy that maybe you know his cock was going to wind up in your mouth right and that whole for me for me yeah for me someone specific like what were you me into. For me I don't really have like in terms of like an image of the person like the guy's face or anything but I do like for instance

in the fantasy of the gangbanger what or not I do for some reason like the black or mixed race men. Right. Oh I think she's I'm sorry I think she told me that too. I know I just remember because because I think the contrast of yeah visually is appealing. Yeah visually

and I just obviously for me it's more about yeah obviously the dick would have to be a nice looking dick for me to even consider it and for her to even enjoy it so I do think it will happen

at some point in the future do I know when that's going to happen no but I think it will happen sometimes in the future and I think we'll enjoy it and it would be maybe a black guy because you are a visual guy with the nature and the views and the you know yeah I'm a visual guy yeah I'm a visual guy yeah like that's your thing

I actually am getting a lot into imagining, so not so much visual. Yeah, but imagining is visual. Everyone that has a visual person. In a way, yeah, because you're seeing things in your mind. It's totally, that's part of being creative. Yeah, that's why you're so good at it because you are a visual person. You know, I'm a very visual person. I have an intense imagination because those two are tied together, you know, that's like

seeing with your in your head, you know, making up scenarios in your mind. that's like your imagination. So those two are completely tied together, for sure, you know. That's why when you say like the black thing, just because like visually it's like hot to you, you know. And then you know like the guy, like you think you'd be into like a big dick over a tiny dick and just like a girl with you.

Yeah, obviously, yeah, that's standard, yeah. Right. And then I think it's just, yeah, the look of it and obviously I think it's also a lot to do with contrast. And I just, I just imagine her. her face enjoying it and the look of it and whatnot and then obviously the cum dripping out or her eating the cum. What about you eating the cum? Will you think you be into a cuckled situation? That's like a cuckold thing, right? Yeah, well, that's, that's, we play along with those,

those fantasies at the moment. So like I said, same with, same with me to suck in the dick with her. It could happen in the future. It probably will happen in the future. But at the moment, we're just enjoying the, yeah. No, and also, because like you're into really pleasing her and it is something that she says she would be into. It's not like she would be doing that because you're into it. She actually would be turned on by it. That's what she said. You know, you being with another guy.

So for sure, you're going to wind up doing it because that's what you guys do for each other, right? Yeah, pretty much. We'll definitely do it. And she's by, right? So you guys will probably wind up. I told her that I think you guys have much more better luck getting a girl if you get a couple together.

You guys should really get another couple to play with because that's where you could you know if you find a like-minded couple. Yeah but then I've heard yeah that like I said you know if you find a couple and we connect with him then all sweet but I've also heard that it's a lot you know it's hard enough finding one

person to connect with then two people to connect with it. No I'm just going to tell you uh-uh it's I've had I've been doing my show for four years the unicorn and the hard person to find is the one girl the girl that's going to come and fuck a couple that you know an outside person and she's not with

anybody. The couple is a lot easier to find because they're looking for another couple. A lot of times... It's easy to find, but then you might not get on with both of them as much as do one of them. Right. Yeah, no, it's, listen, it's hard, listen,

it wasn't it hard to find your girlfriend, right? Like, I mean, it's hard to find anything that works in fucking way, right? That's life. But when you do, but you have... But there are couples out there, and if you, and probably, like, at your party that you go to tonight, that's where you could meet the fucking couples, right? Like, that's where

all the people that are kind of like you guys, are going to be. So, like, look around for, you know, like people that are together as opposed to separate girls or separate guys because, you know, if you get another couple like you guys, then you get to know them and you get to be friends with them, you know, and you get to explore with them. Like, you can have the same kind of fun that you're having with each other with that couple, you know, because I've talked to a lot of couples who swing. And that's really where they have the most success.

And because the way you guys like to sort of fool around, like you guys are very, like you're very creative, you're very imaginative, you're very monogamous with each other. Like, you know, you're not like out there just fucking randoms, you know. So I think a couple that you really sort of get to know and maybe that you can be friends with and then you fool around with and do all that stuff, you know. And if you vet them properly, that would be like the best situation for you.

And that's totally doable. A hundred percent, yeah, I agree with you. Yeah. So look around at that club. tonight. And then next time I have you guys on, I feel like your girl spilled all the beans on your guys' relationships. So it wasn't like you got to say a lot of this, but like you just confirmed a lot of things. Like I said, I didn't know exactly what she said. So I wanted you to speak and I'll just answer your questions. Yeah, she said, she told us all. But next time when you guys, come on, you're going to go to the party tonight.

And then I'm going to have you guys buck on. I'm going to talk to both of you. And we'll find out what you guys have been up to since we talk now. Cool. All right. Well, have fun tonight. Thank you very much. All right. Talk soon.

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