Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 265 - Twenty Three Year Old Honey Lexx is Dating a Wealthy Sixty Three Year Old

Episode Date: January 7, 2019

Twenty three year old Honey Lexx calls in to discuss the details of her relationship with her sixty three year old boyfriend who totally supports her. How did she meet him and get involved with him in the first place? How much $ has he given her since she's been dating him? Is this a typical sugar daddy relationship or is it more? Tune in to find out plus hear all about the one weird issue in their sex life, the orgy she had behind his back and the dilemma she's now having about moving forward. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Let's get to who I have on the call today because she's a 23-year-old girl. Probably could be my intern. But instead, she doesn't really need to work. Well, that's why she could be an intern because she doesn't really need the cash because she's dating a very,

wealthy older man. It's Honey Lex. She was a listener of the show. She went Googling for like Sugar Daddy podcast and found my podcast and then wrote in and said, hey, I got this situation that you like to hear about. So she's dating this guy. He's 63.

She's 23. And he's got a lot of cash. And she gets a lot from him. She's only been with him a very short time like six months. And he gives her a whole bunch of things. And she was kind of wondering whether she should like stay with him. or maybe go out there and look for more sugar daddies because she can't believe like how easy it was to sort of land this guy and then get all this stuff from him.

So we talk a lot about that, but we also talk a lot about this other sex stuff because there's some issues there with maybe the both of them, definitely with him and they have like an interesting relationship. And so we get into a whole bunch of stuff. And it's very interesting. So I'm just going to get right back on. Oh, no, but wait, let me just say this really quickly because it's been working. A lot of people who've been listening to the podcast, have.

been writing in because they want to be guests on the show and I love that. Honey Lex is a listener. The Camille who I had on last week, she was a listener of the show. So if you are listening to the show and you want to be on my podcast, send me an email at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. I love nothing more than to get on the phone with a total stranger and like grill them like Barbara Walter. So I don't know. If you have a problem and you want advice, if you have an interesting life and you want to talk about it or you have like an alternative lifestyle that you want to talk about it or what I recently had was a guy who has his own other podcast. It happens to be sex oriented too and he was like, hey, I run this podcast and I think I'd be a good guest on your podcast. And I was like, oh,

that's like a category I never thought of. But so like if there's a category that you haven't thought of and you just want to be on my show and talk about yourself for an hour, it's like a free unprofessional therapy session. I'd love to have you on. Send me an email at strictly anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, so I'm going to be right back on with HoneyLex. You're on the Strictly Anonymous Podcast, but Kathy, how are you? Hey, I'm well. How are you?

I'm good. So you're a HoneyLex, right? And you sent me an email, which I thought was really funny. I mean, it's really interesting. And then your last sentence was hilarious to me. So basically what the deal is, you're like, I'm 23. You're 23. You're dating a six-year-old guy, right?

Now, I'm assuming, and I, I, I have to ask you more questions that you were, like, dating him, just, like, regularly dating him? You weren't, like, an escort or a stripper? I don't know. Like, how does a 23-year-old wind up meeting a six-year-old? I know. Yeah, I guess it's a funny story. Not a stripper, not an escort, totally normal.

I mean, I guess maybe I should start back to, like, how I got into dating older men, I guess. I just have a thing for older men. Okay, so you've always had a thing for older guys. I mean, you're 23, like, what's the oldest you've ever dated? Is 60, like, the highest? Or have you dated? No, no, no, no. He's the oldest.

He's the oldest I ever dated. And, I mean, he's not, he'll be 60 in, like, a few days. So, yeah, but, you know, like, so he's definitely the oldest I've ever dated. The thing is, though, he doesn't look old, you know? Like, I can't date someone who, like, is, like, balding or, like, has, like, kind of gray hair, you know, like, it works because he could pass those, like, like, bowl. Right. Okay. Yeah.

Nowadays it's different. People that are older look, y'all, like, it's just different, you know. So he doesn't, like, look as old as he really is. It kind of sounds old, 60, right? Yeah. Mm-hmm. Definitely. So.

Where do you mean him? I met him. Okay, so he approached me. So I met him at, I was at a restaurant, and he walks in and, like, points at me and, like, since I need girls like her at my event. And so I'm just like, ooh, what's the hell this guy talking about? And later he comes and approaches me

and he's like, I'm sorry, I didn't want to be, you know, rude, but, you know, I'm having me spent. I would love for you to come. Like, where was this, though? In a bar? And where were you in? It was a restaurant, like a totally casual, like, giri, like normal. And you were with a bunch of girlfriends? Or who were you with? No, it was just me. I came from work. Oh, okay. So you were just sitting there What event was he having?

He was having this event, so he comes over and he's like, hey, I'm having this event for his company. Don't really know who this guy is or what he's about. And he's like, look, there's going to be free food, free drinks, and rich guys, you know? So I'm like, okay, I'm new to the city. So I was like, might as well see what's going on. And he's, but he wasn't even trying to come on to me, which was like, you know, whatever. Because I didn't even find him attractive at that point. He was in like flip-top and he looked weird.

And so the next day, I ended up going to the event. And it was like super official. It's for like this big company. It's like this car company. And it was pretty like, it was nice. It was groovy. It was fun. But like my goal there was like, you know, the network and meet some rich guys.

You get some, you know. But what kind of event was it? Was it an event where like young girls go to meet rich guys or was an event about cars? And he just wanted. Hot Girls there. Oh, okay. Yeah, it was a car event, and it was, like, professional, but, yeah, they were releasing a new car.

What car, what car manufacturer? Like, what brand? Porsche. Porsche, right. Okay, so he was out recruiting Hot Girls. That's smart. No, he wasn't. He just saw me.

Like, they had a company. Right. Like, to recruit, a model company to, like, you know, just have, like, girls who, like, would show off the car and stuff. But I thought, I think he was just trying to get some people in. And he was at that point having a meeting, you know, with the marketing team. So he was like, you know, like, it just happened. It was just really random.

Okay, cool. So you're there. I'm there. I see him, you know. And so I'm at the event. So back for the next day. I'm at the event, you know, and I'm like talking to guy, you know, here and there. I'm just trying to, you know, meet people and see what's up.

And I don't run into him until the end of the event. And he was like, you know, he looked nice. And I was like, oh, wow. like he's actually pretty cute you know and so he's like hey and I'm like hey so we like he introduced me to all these people and you know he was like oh my god I'm surprised he came and like when I met him the event I was winnowing down so we we just went to his office and talked and you know there's like people coming in and out it was pretty casual and so it's like what you know like what brings you out you know I was just telling him what I'm about and I really was like hey I came because I

wanted to meet people. I worked a shitty job. I want to network, possibly, you know, get in, you know, meet people that can get me a new job or something. And he was like, okay, I know some people, you know. And so we end up, like, kind of hitting it off. Like, he was just, like, really cool. And so we go, so he's like, hey, do you want to get some food after?

And I'm like, all right, sure. And this is, at this time I had a few drinks of me and all that. And so I'm like, all right, let's go. Yeah, right. And yeah, so we end up going to this, like, really nice restaurant. And at this point, so I still don't know what he's about. I don't know who this guy is, but, you know, I'm going to test him out and see, like, if he can handle me. So I go to this restaurant and, like, I'm, like, you know, ordering.

And I'm like, I want the salmon and the steak. And he's like, okay, you know, he wants what you want. And I like that because, hey, I love to eat. And, like, you know, I want a guy who can see him me really well. So that was really important to me. And so after that, I'm like, okay, even more intrigued. And so we, so we, like, just had such a good night. Like, we're talking and, like, we literally just hid it off.

And I just was starting to feel with him, you know? Like, we just, like, we're connecting. And so afterwards, he's given me a ride. Oh, we go to, like, this, you know, this bar, this retail bar and, like, he's showing me around. And he gives me a ride from my car. and there I was like you know I was feeling good and so he had like his hand on my lap and then I look at him like you know you want this and then he like I like move his hand up and then we just started fooling around and it was getting hot and steaming but then you know like at that point I was like okay I got to go like this is getting too out of control like I have work tomorrow I got to go but that's kind of what's started off. So, I mean, like, after that, like, the next morning he hit me, and we just, like,

started hanging out all weekend. And since then, we pretty much hang out, like, all the time. And now this is the deal. Let me just give a little overview because then I'm going to ask you more specific information. Like, so you start dating this guy. You've been dating him for about six months, right? And he's turned into, like, a major sugar daddy for you. Like, you've gotten a lot of, like, interesting things for him. And we're going to go down that list in a second. But you haven't. had sex with him? I haven't. Not, okay, well, define sex.

Sex is his dick inside yet. Like, he fucks you. Like, that's sex. No, we don't at all. Okay, how does that not happen? Okay, you're in the car with him, right? You're 23, he's 60. You're hot for him.

You're drunk, okay? I would have probably screwed. Like, I mean, at that age, I don't know. Like, why didn't you screw him that night? I mean, that's the thing. I'm not, I've never had one-night stand. I'm making myself sound terrible. Yeah, I know, right?

I just, like, I know my limit when it comes to that. And so that's why, and, you know, I think I just, that's why it all hit, you know. Like, oh, my God, okay, what am I doing? You know, I need to go. Right, you got to put the brakes on it. Yeah, I've never been the one to have one night stands or just, like, you know, meet somebody and fuck them and that's it. Okay, you've normally had relationships. Yeah, relationships for sure.

Okay. And now, so you start dating this guy. Now, why does six months go by and you don't have sex ever? Like, that's a little weird. Yeah, we're not having sex, you know? And the thing is always, like, if I, even if I like somebody, but I don't really see them as a potential, like, person in my life, you know, I'll have sex with them and it'll be, like, a casual sex thing.

You know, like, I know what it is. but for people who I really like, I definitely need to wait for the naphtics. They need to earn it from me. You know, that's kind of like how I go about it. And so I told him off the bat, like, well, see, after that night, because we did fool around. How far?

He just, like, fingered me, and that was it. I didn't do anything to him. Okay. It took me about, like, four months until I even sucked a dick. Yeah, that's good, because I'm always, like, a lot of girls will be like, didn't fuck him. But yet, but I blew them, but like I didn't have sex with them. It's like,

I think it's a lot worse to have a dick in your mouth. Like, if you're talking about having respect, you know what I mean? Like, because that's just like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because that's all him. Yeah, yeah. I mean, like, I like it too, but, you know, like, you're the one that's me in my mouth. Yeah, yeah, to have a dick in your mouth. Like, that's something I would wait for more before. Yeah. So wait, so, but why not the sacks? Like, you waited four months to blow him? Because you're like

totally trying to get him to be your boyfriend. Like, why do you wait so long? I'm assuming in that four months that you were seeing him a lot, were you guys, like, hanging out a lot and stuff? We were hanging out a lot. And, you know, because I did pump the breaks for a minute. So after the first night, because I was drunk and I was like, hey, look, like, I know I went far, but, you know,

I like hanging out with you, but, like, can we kind of start over, you know? So I, like, kind of, like, rewind from there. And he was totally fine with that. That's the thing that I really like about him, too, is, like, it's always, like, on my terms. Like he's very respectful. He doesn't push or anything. And so I even told him, I'm like, hey, look, like, I'll let you know.

Like, my past, my last boyfriend that I had, we didn't have, it was a long-distance relationship, but we didn't have sex until, like, a year into it. So. How old was that guy? He was my age. Okay. Okay. That's the guy that turned me off of the guy's my age.

Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. So I even. I guess like throughout these months, you know, like we're just getting to know each other. And like I told him about that. Like, yeah, my last relationship, like, you know, we didn't have sex for a whole year. You know, I like to wait until I feel like the time's right.

And he's totally fine with that. And the thing is with him, he hasn't had, he doesn't have sex either like that. And he hasn't had sex in like years, like actual penetration sex. How come? He just looks at six. He's a smart guy, you know. He has money and he doesn't want to get caught. that's like the wrong answer that's not the reason that's not the smart guy with a lot of money

and that's why he doesn't have sex no a smart guy i'm sorry a smart guy with a lot of money okay will fuck a high on escorts or he'll get some really hot girls to fuck him whenever he wants and they'll take money from him and they won't give him shit a smart guy with a lot of cash doesn't not have sex so that he doesn't get caught guys don't get caught up when they have sex Like, that's not a thing. That's what happens to girls. It doesn't happen to guys. So he's either lying to you or he can't get it up or something's, like, going on.

Oh, no, he gets it up. Oh, yeah, you blow him and stuff. He might have weirdo, like, issues where he thinks, like, sex is, like, I don't know. I have to get to the bottom of him not having sex. It doesn't make any sense. Yeah, you don't think, okay, I never really thought about it like that. What do I mean? Don't you know, man?

Okay, let me just tell you something about guys. They can't go like a day without having coming and jerking off or something. Like no guy goes years without having sex. Especially a guy that you're like you say has a lot of money. I know that he must have a lot of money because he's like paying your bills. He's buying you a lot of shit. Like this isn't just some like, oh, he's buying you steak dinners. He's giving you a lot of stuff.

Let's go down that list. He's paying $6,000 a month, just money for you, right? He gives you $6,000 a month. He's got you a personal trainer. He bought you a car. Right? Is that one of the things? Yeah. And he wants to buy you a new apartment, okay?

And you haven't even had sex with him yet. So what is his story about sex? When did it come up between you and him about the fact that he doesn't have sex and he's not into it? No, he's into it. So, okay. Well, I guess it comes up, like, randomly. But so he says he doesn't have sex because, first of all,

He doesn't like wearing a condom. Mm-hmm. Which I guess a lot of older guys don't because... A lot of guys don't. A lot of people, people don't like condoms. I always say that. Most people, girls, guys don't like condoms. Most people don't use them even though they should.

Okay, so he doesn't like condoms, but plenty of girls will fucking without a condom. Yeah, but I think also, you know what? I think he's been, like, betrayed in the past. So maybe that might have something to do with it, where he's afraid that, you know, a girl... will lie about taking the pill or something like that and you know he comes in them and they get pregnant i don't know that's my that's what i think well he could just pull out he could just pull out okay what did he actually say to you about why he doesn't hasn't had sex for years what was the exact sentence he said to you he doesn't have sex what is he and what do you see you're just too

naive to ask the right questions like you just bought it i mean you're you're Because why do you assume, like, why was your answer to me? He doesn't have sex because he's smart and he has a lot of money, and so he doesn't want to get caught up. Like, why did you say that? Like, did he say some version of that to you? No, he doesn't. No, he doesn't say that.

In my mind, he said, he's told me that, he told me that basically he doesn't, he's afraid that a girl is going to, like, you know, get him caught up. And the thing is, I rationed that with, like, let's say, like, an NBA player or, like, something like that like they I look at them as done because these they're fucking these people these girls who just want a meal ticket some of them you know and then they they get caught up and they get pregnant they have to pay child support so that's kind of how I like you know would ration that in my mind like okay well that's kind of the smarter thing to do to just you know not have sex but it's not possible for a guy not to have sex especially if he has a lot of cash he said like

I mean the fact that or he can be there listen there is a time type of weirdo guy and I think it's weird and I will call him a weirdo and I don't call anybody on my show all the shows you see to do I don't call them any weird but I call a guy that won't have sex with girls weird okay that's like a weird issue thing okay because that's like for years like something's going on there there are like like I said the weird quote unquote weird it's like a guy who has really weird issues like commitment issues and he doesn't like to actual have penetration because he thinks it like leads to something but like like Like to logically say, oh, because I don't want to get someone.

None of it makes sense. There's something else going on there with him, with the sex thing. Yeah, I mean, I think I kind of just was like, okay, like I saw that. I was like, all right, that's being smart, you know, like. You see it that way because you're a woman and you don't have sex for a really long time, which is a little bit weird. I get it more with you. And let me tell you, it's a really good tactic with guys. I know that you're not doing it to play a game.

I know it's your thing. It is a little weird on your end, too, because you seem to probably use it as like a control thing, probably for yourself. Like you don't want to get too involved with someone or maybe too hooked yet. So you keep it on, you keep that, you know, hanging for a very long time. Like for a year with one guy, six months with it. It says very long. Listen, as a woman, I'm going to tell you, like that's a, that's like a good, it's

not a game that anyone should play on purpose, but you do it. And, you know, a lot of guys won't have the patience to wait. But every now and then, if you get a guy like this, like it could actually add to them, like wanting you more. because they never could seal that deal. So it does help in a little way, though some guys would just not wait around. It's just too long. I don't know what long-distance relationship was doing,

but I really doubt he wasn't fucking other girls for that whole year, okay? It's just the way that it goes. I mean, to assume that a man is going to wait around. And it's one thing if you're like you're cool with them fucking other people, but if you really think that they're going to wait around for six months a year, not having sex at all, waiting for your golden pussy, you're out of your mind. Like it's just not that thing.

Oh, yeah. It's not happening. No, I don't know. It definitely depends on the guy. Like I said, you know, like if, you know, if I don't see something as like a potential, then, you know, it's like, okay, I know you like a month or so. We click. No, I know that.

I tell people on my podcast all the time what they don't understand about girls. Like if a girl meets a guy and she knows I'm never going to date him, she'll fuck him right away. It's the guys that she really likes that she plays that game with like I don't want to give it up. But you play the game so long and so much for. further than anybody else that it's a slight issue with you too right so that's why you and this guy are kind of perfectly matched right and that's why you're kind of like don't question his saying i haven't had sex for years i would be like what the hell is that deal you know but for you it works because you don't want to have sex with them it's been a whole six of them what do you guys do

you guys have like everything else like have you been totally naked with him like doing everything else but no one puts it in yeah yeah it's so stupid I mean for a 63 year old For a 60 year old Yes it's so dumb You're grown up You're in a relationship Okay but do you think maybe

Is it a thing like guys like getting their dicks up more than sex Yes but that's a little weird Yeah I've met guy I have listen I wrote a bug you should read it I've dated every kind of weirdo there is Okay I still haven't dated a regular guy Okay so I know all the weirdo issues because I weird myself, right?

So trust me. What was your question? I'm sorry, I don't know even why I got to. I mean, is that a thing? Like, do guys, are some guys just more into getting their dick sucks than having sex? Yes, but there's also the opposite. They like to have sex more than they like to get their dick sucks. But that's a little bit weird.

Listen, for some man not to like sex, it's just, there's something there. There's something weird there, which is okay because there's something a little bit, with you too with sex like sex in your mind is something that you hold on to for a very long time you know and it's like it's a thing that you're using for it's something more than just about sex because you know and like I said I don't think you're doing it on purpose I don't think you're manipulating anyone I think it's your own thing but subconsciously you have an issue too when it comes to SEX right but let's not get totally into that right now because I know I want to talk a little bit more about the booty call situation, not the booty call, the sugar daddy

situation, sorry, because that's really like, because you told me in the email that you feel like you're falling in love with him and might be in love with him. But the hilarious part of your email was at the end, you're just like, I get so much from this guy. I'm thinking to myself, like maybe instead of being monogamous with him, I should go out and find myself more sugar daddies and milk it while I'm young and hot, right? I think that was your exact phrase, which was so funny. That's so funny to me. Which is very cute and funny, you know, but, you know, and so, like, is that really where your head's at right now, like, honestly?

You know what? Okay. So, I think I, like, the thing is, me and it's, like, I have love for this guy, you know? Like, I don't know. I'm not in love with him, you know, but he's, like, a really great guy. And, you know, like, we click and we just, you know, I think before anything, like, we make really good. We're good friends, you know. And so that's why it works.

But the thing is, I don't want to be dumb about it. You know, like, I guess I want to, because the thing is, it's a relationship. You know, they succeed or they don't, you know, and I mean, that's just life. So, I don't

want to, like, I don't, I don't think that this guy would ever just, like, pull the rug under me. I mean, we've even had those conversations and, you know, I trust them. But I don't want to have all my eggs in one basket and then like let's say something goes wrong and you know like shit I don't have you lose all your buddy is that what you're saying yeah I mean like I'm not being stupid I'm not going I'm buying you know like bags and shoes like I'm saving it but it's like you know I want to try

as when I'm young I want to try to get as much as I can out of this situation right but this is the thing I think like I don't know and I don't want to like put my morals and values like on you I try not to do that on my podcast because I think everybody makes up their own rules and stuff. But, you know, you didn't go into this with that intention, right? You went into this because you just saw a guy, you kind of clicked with him and you liked him, right? Now, I have had situations in my life where I have benefited similarly, right? But it was never my intention. It was strictly like I was having a relationship or having a thing with somebody and these other

other things came with it. And I feel like sometimes I would look at the situation and be like, wow, if I set out to make this happen in my life, I could have never done it, right? And some people would be really jealous of like the hookup that I have, but it wasn't my intention. It just sort of came. And I think that, and that's okay. I could sit with that. You know what I mean? And I just feel like, wow, that's just a lucky break of my life or whatever, you know, I do. But I think when you have the intention to go out and blatantly use a man and. And, you know, I just feel like, and say, oh, I'm young and I'm hot, and I'm going to go out and find old men. They're going to pay me shit, and I'm going to suck their dicks, but I'm not going to fuck them.

I'm like, whatever, you know, and make a lot of money so that I'm secure. I think that's a whole other ballgame. And I just don't. I personally could never do that. I think a lot of women sometimes try to do that. Some are successful. I think sometimes when you set out to do something like that, it's not the right thing. I don't think.

And I just think that it leads to other not right. things. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. That's how I live my life. And I because you are a person like I said that came into this unintentionally and now is just reaping all these rewards, I say that to you, you know, whereas if you were like the other girl, you told me you listened to other girls Sugar Daddy podcast, who that's exactly what she was looking for. And I gave her the information of how to go do it because that's what she wanted it. And in her mind, that was okay. Do you know I mean?

Yeah. Is that okay for you? Like, do you feel comfortable, like, just blatantly going out and finding a bunch of guys to sort of, like, pay for shit for you and, like, hook your life up like that? Like, is that something that you want for yourself? I mean, you know, I don't, the thing is, like, I don't, I don't, you know, of course, I have good morals and a conscience, too. So I don't want to blatantly go out and use these guys.

I mean, that's the thing, I guess, that I was, like, I think the whole situation that I'm in kind of got my head come up, like, hey, you know, like, I can do this, you know. With tons of guys. Yeah, like, why not? And, I mean, I get, like, guys like me, you know, like, especially the older business I like, I guess, like, they like me. I don't know. But so I'm like, maybe, you know, let me try to use this much to my event. maybe but then I don't know if I feel comfortable like going and picking it out you know that's what I mean like what is that right like you're thinking about it in your head but like and this is why it's good to talk to me because I'm going to like really question you about it to make you really realize like you don't even probably know like you haven't really thought it through but you need to and you should and you'll be able to figure it out more like so that's what I'm that's why I'm asking these questions so that you could sort it out for yourself so like how does that look for you like because you like this guy right you're at this place you're dating him six months and you're dating him six months and you have a really good setup with him he's even talking about putting you in his will okay so there

could be some sort of like you know situation where you have a little bit more security than you have right now right with the guy because yeah if he dumps you tomorrow or he disappears like you're out all of this stuff that you had but right yeah so how does like when you say to yourself and you say to me like should i milk it and find other guys like what does that mean to you what would you do would you leave this guy and go find another one or would you have multiple? Like, what does that mean? What do you mean by that? Yeah, yeah. I mean, that's the thing. Like, I don't want to leave him.

Okay, so what do you think you're going to do? You're going to think you're going to go out and keep this guy and then get other guys on the side? Him not knowing, yeah. Okay, and with that, okay. Well, listen to some people, that's fucked up to some people. It's not. Like, maybe that's fine. Like, how does that sit with you? Are you okay with that? That's the thing. It's like, I don't want to, you know, Like, I mean, look, I know I can do that without knowing, you know, but it's like, I don't know if I even, I mean, as appealing as it does sound, because it's, I think that's the thing, it sounds appealing to me, you know?

And I wouldn't, I wouldn't go, like, on sugar daddy.com or like that. Like, I don't like that. I like meeting people in person. Mm-hmm. But I don't think, like, just even though I could get away with it, like, I feel like that would be something that would weigh heavy on. You know, like, I'm fucking like, then I'd be using him. You know, I'd be fucking him over and that's fucked up. Okay, but what are you not getting from him?

Or like, what is it? Because you're getting a lot from him. I am, yeah. Most people get in a six-month relationship from a guy that they haven't even had sex with, right? Like I said, you're getting, we'll go down the list. You've got a personal trainer. You're getting six grand a month, right? He just gives that to you.

What does he do that he has all this cash? He comes from money, and he has, he has property and he also is pretty high up in his position okay so he's a businessman who has a lot of money you've been to his house like is he married or any of that shit like does he have anything secret life going on no he's not married you've been to his house yeah i've met his son what kind does he have like a killer house or an apartment like where to like he's well he did he moved right now he's in the apartment because he's trying to by a house so it's like a cute little apartment

nothing too big yeah um but yeah he like i pretty much i met so many of his friends like i'm in his life you know like and people know me and um but maybe i mean you rapist you got me thinking about you know sex thing he was married once before yeah and his wife he passed and he got into a lot of trouble over his trying to keep his wife happy and give her everything and she kind of like she cheated on him and treated him like really bad so I mean now that I think about that maybe that happened with the fact that you know he's okay with not having sex he's not okay with not having sex something's going on there I don't know it's weird I don't I don't I don't I don't know if he didn't

have sex for years and he has a sex drive because you say that he gets it up and he wants you to blow and all this stuff and he seems horny. It just doesn't make sense to go years. I mean, like, is he, and if he has a lot of cash and he's out and about, and he's the type of guy that walks up to a girl in a casual restaurant and hits on her. What he did to you is, like,

what he could do in his life, right? Like, you always have to know that about a guy, right? Like, he came up to you randomly and said, hey, come to this event, and he's at that event, and so he must go to other events. So it's not like this guy is, like, couldn't get laid. in years and that's why he has it he can he has the confidence to hit girls up so he's either lying

or he's got some weirdo issue um you know because i don't buy the whole i don't haven't had sex in years and the fact that he's been with you for six months and he's giving you all this stuff and he doesn't even pressure you to have sex he's like he's either having sex with somebody else maybe he's secretly gay or he has some weirdo thing about sex like it means something weird to him. Sacks like putting his dick inside someone is like too much. Yeah and you know what? It might be too much. Yeah and I even

okay there's been times where I'm like you know I want to have sex and he's like no you really don't want to because I mean I'll be drunk of course Yeah come on All that other stuff is foreplay They call it for play for a reason Yeah and he's like no

And then I'm like mad you know even though like I don't know even if I was over I don't know if I probably would I don't know but um why wouldn't you you've been dating for six months look at all the shit he gives you you should at least have sex with him no i'm joking for than six grand a month you should at least screw him but i mean come on like it's just so dumb like you're doing everything else your your legs are spread his faces like he goes down on you right oh yeah okay please don't tell me that you guys have had anal sex like you don't have any kind of no no no no i haven't never had anal sex okay so you guys so you're doing all this other stuff but the dick just does not not go inside. Okay. I've tried, but it won't, yeah, it won't happen. Yeah, I had a guy in my book. He's like the halfway in guy. Me and my friends called him the halfway in guy. He would not, he actually wouldn't have sex with me. And then when he would, he would only put it in halfway. And then we'd sit there. Oh, that's torture. Yeah, we would sit there and we would call it the halfway in game,

my friends. And like, because people would be like, how did you date him for so long? And how did you do that? And I'm like, after a while, it got to be like kind of hot. It was like this weird thing, and I've actually played the halfway in game with other guys that, of course, would put it in all the way. And there is something hot about torturing yourself for a very long time and then putting it all the way in. But, like, he won't even put it halfway in, right? Your guy. No, no. He says no.

He says no. Do you think he, does he have herpes? Like, have you ever looked at his dick? Like, he obviously, like, you've blown him, right? Like, he has nothing on his dick. Yeah. Like, it looks fine. Have you seen it in the left?

Yeah, no, it's fine. Yeah. You know, I think he mentioned, he also did mention something about, like, there's diseases and stuff nowadays. Yeah, no, listen, I have said a lot of times, and I believe this, because I'm a hypochondriac, and a long-term booty call in mine was a hypochondriac, and we were so good with using condoms. And I'm really good with that, but other people, most people are, and I always say that hypochondriacs are, like, the best people with condoms because they're so petrified of, like, AIDS and diseases, like that. Yeah. They're very pretty. But the fact that, but what, okay, so like the guys that I have known that are like that,

they'll still put a condom on then, you know what I mean? Yeah, but the thing is, I think, okay, so that's actually how the conversation went. Because he, so he doesn't like condoms. He doesn't want to get a girl pregnant, and he doesn't want to get, you know, diseases. Mm-hmm. So those were the three things why he doesn't want to have sex. But doesn't he miss having his dick inside a girl? I mean, come on.

we need a guy on this phone call. Like, there's no way that he just doesn't miss that actual penetration. And I know the most, like, the guy I screwed for a very long time, he was a major hypochondri. He still would put it on and we would have sex with a condom. Like, I mean, if you can't do that. Or, like, he'd be asking to put it in your ass. I guess he could give you a disease that way. But, like, I just don't get, and, you know, you could give him a disease with a blowjob, and he goes down on you, right?

You're not using, like, anything. No. Yeah. I don't know. It's weird. You don't think that's weird? I mean, not my thing about it. I'm like, should I be concerned? No, because you're a little weird too because you wait. Me to one guy wait for a year and you didn't have sex with him. Right? What was that all about? Oh, God.

Exactly. We're not going to get into that one. Okay, so this guy, how does it come up? Let me just ask you this. How did it come up that he gave you six grand a month and like how did it come up all those things that he's given you? you like yeah okay so that's the thing so I've never asked him for money um he always and you shouldn't and you shouldn't yeah I don't I don't feel comfortable with doing that but so funny thing happens so um so we were dating and it started off with just like you know we've got to restaurants and stuff and he's always been kind of like generous like I would Uber over to his place and then we'd go um to the restaurants together and then when I'd Uber

you like oh how how much is the uber and like oh 30 dollars and he like would hand me a hundred and like oh yeah yeah yeah yeah i totally know that guy i've dated that guy yeah so that's how it started um and then okay and then and then so i was meeting him for a date one time and i got rear ended and so my car it was a old car too so my car got messed up so we went to the took it to the shop and it was actually it got totaled so um then you know him being knowing people in the car industry and stuff you know we were able to uh he that's when he got me like a new car and what kind of car well he wanted to give me a like really like an outy but i was afraid because i didn't know what i would tell i didn't i wasn't making a lot of money at that

time yeah so you know i couldn't like bring that home be like hey look at my new car mom you know so i'm like okay let's go with like something like you know a Volkswagen so i got a Volkswagen okay how much was in that car or does he just pay your car payment yeah he just pays my payment okay and i'm i'm leasing it so is it in your name or his name my name okay that's cool but so like and how much is that payment like 200 a month okay so you could afford it if god forbid like he yeah left you it's something you could afford but he pays it yeah i always try to be smart about that, you know, nothing's like crazy. Right, right, cool.

So he got you that car and then how did the cash come up? Yeah, and so because of the car situation, I had to call out of work a few times. What do you do for a living? They ended up, what did I do? I was in PR. Okay. But this was like,

it was a shitty job anyway. I couldn't care about it and I think, you know, I just kind of dwindle out of it. So basically I got fired. And and then, so it all kind of happened I want my car, the job. I was like, oh, my God. I was really, like, in the jump.

And he was, like, don't worry about it. Like, I got you. You know, I got you. And he's, like, honestly, just take the summer off. And, you know, like, I'll take care of your bills. I'll take care of everything. And just, like, you know, get used to where, you know, the new city and everything. I was like, okay, you know, I kind of just went with it.

And so it started now. So then that's when it started. And so, like, he's just been, you know, pretty much taking care of me ever, ever since then. That was about four. months ago maybe so how did the six grand a month get calculated so we added up all my rent and my bills and he's like okay like this is so added up so that you know I don't know how that much how much that was but calculated that and then so he gave me that cash a front and then he would just give me like a thousand a week you know yeah so I don't know he would just hand and he's the oh are you good own cash like here's some more

cash. You know, he just wanted, I guess, wanted me to, like, not worry about that. And then, I guess, the personal trainer and everything started coming up because we had always gone to eat and, like, I complained because, like, I was gaining weight. And then he just ended up getting me a gym membership and then a personal trainer. Yeah, that's great. Yeah. And now, how about the will? How did it come up that he wanted to put you in his will? Yeah. Um, well, he, We just have conversations sometimes, you know, like heart to heart. So I guess I came up in one of, he ended up getting a settlement for one of this, for, I don't know, something that happened.

And so when that happened, he was like, look, I want to put, I want to give you, I want to put 25,000 aside for you, you know, so you'll be good. And anything happened to me, it was, I think the, it was like 200 something,000 that got he's like, anybody happens, if anything happened to me, I want to tell my attorney to put your name on it. So, you know, you'll be fine and, you know, you'll, yeah, be fine, basically. Right. And so now with this guy, right, so you're not working now, I'm assuming, still? Yeah, no. And so what I don't understand, like, I think you hit the jackpot. I think you're very lucky. I don't, I'm just going to tell you, because I know guys like this, I've had situations

like this and I know of people that aren't like this and like it's not easy like as much as you stepped into this it's not so easy to find somebody that is going to do all that it's not like oh you could leave him and there's going to be 10 more guys that have the money that are going to do that that are not going to you know you got like a great situation that you probably couldn't replicate if you tried I'm just telling you that it yeah I know that it exists because you're I know that it exists, right? And you're very lucky. And like I said, because it wasn't your intention, a lot of times that's how it happens.

If someone said to you, your friend, you know, a year ago, like, you should quit your job and find a guy that will do this and that and that for you. You're like, how the hell could I do that, right? That's what that girl called my podcast. Everybody wants your situation because it's kind of great, right? It gives you time to sit around, try to figure out what you really want to do, especially in your life because you're super young, right? and you're still trying to figure things out.

So it's definitely like very helpful to you to have him in his, in your life. And he's nice. Well, he might be weird about sex, but he seems like he's a nice person, right? And he's nice to you. And he takes care of you in the right way. You know, I don't know why you're, A, afraid to put all your eggs in one bath. Like, what are you afraid of when you say put all my eggs in one basket? You just want more because you're getting like kind of greedy?

Or is it that you're afraid you're going to lose him? Yeah. You know what? Okay, it might be a mix of both actions that. I mean, I'm not afraid that I'm going to lose him. I just don't want to be, you know, stupid in the situation, you know, because it's a guy, guys, come and go in life, you know? Right.

And, okay, so I think it started this whole, like, you know, get us make sure you're ready to be attached. Because so I'm, I look for it because, you know, even the eight difference, like, it's kind of, I guess, it's not very taboo, but it is a little taboo, you know, like this on a lot of 23-year-olds, I guess dating six-year-olds. So I don't have a lot of people I can talk to about this and, like, inside. So, like, looking for forums or, like, people I can, like, just talk to online, I, that's when I kind of, like, the people I connected the best with were, like, sugar babies.

And, you know, like, on these, like, online forums or, like, their podcasts and stuff. so I think that I just started listening to like you know all this and they're like they're juggling like seven you know five six sugar guys making all this stuff so I'm like hey you know I can do that too so I think that's where the whole like notion came in so I've kind of been playing it out in my head but then when it actually comes to like like because I don't I don't want to go online you know I'll go to like bars and stuff and see what's out there but I don't feel like I'm not like I'm not like I can't actively get them. You know, I just, there's something that holds me back, you know? Holding you back from what? From actually going out and like really doing it and meeting and new guys? Yeah, from like going up and like trying to approach these guys. Like even trying, you know, because I feel like even if like some guy would come to me like,

I probably wouldn't even pursue it. You know, like I don't know. I don't know. There's something that just holds me back and it's him, you know? Because I don't want to hurt him. It's not just hurting him. You kind of like him and you said like if you don't like, I mean, you're not one to really just go out and have. Like most guys are going to want you to have sex with them, okay?

Yeah, of course. Right? And they're not going to be, like, this guy doesn't even want you to have sex with them. The other guys are going to be maybe a little bit more work, and you might not even like them. And they might be ugly. It's very hard to talk to, like, those professional girls that are doing it because that's a whole different ball game. And I don't. Do you know what I mean?

And I don't know that you're able to, it's a totally different thing. You know, they probably don't have feelings. They might be friends with the guys, but they're playing more than one at a time. Are they having sex with all of them? Are you the type that's going to have sex with all of them? Can you, you know, it's juggling a lot of people if they don't know about it. You know how hard lying is if you're not a liar? Like, to me, it's such a waste of time.

I don't, you know what I mean? I hate lying. Yeah, well, you're going to have to lie a lot if you play that game. Do you know what I mean? It just doesn't make sense what you're better off doing, like, for real. is just, you know, being really cool and open with this guy and telling him about your fears and like because you quit your job and like you don't have a job and now you don't have a future. What if you lose all this? Like what are you supposed to do?

Like maybe he'll give you a little bit more of security. But also you have to be smart. And while you're with him, you should be figuring out really, you know, take the time to figure out what you want to do and how you're going to set yourself up, you know, financially. Yeah. on some level because it's great when you have somebody paying for you or you have the means to sort of take the time off and figure out what you want to do. Yeah. Because you have to figure, you're only 23 years old.

Like, what do you want to do for the, like, not for the rest of your life? Because that's so ridiculous. It's too much, you know, to think about. But, like, what do you aspire to be? Like, what in your wildest fantasy, like, would you do for a living if you could? Like, what do you want to do? Yeah. I want to be an entrepreneur.

Or like I want to open a bar. I really, and that's actually, yeah, that's what I'm, you know, talking to him about. Exactly. And he can help you. That's the smartest thing to do. There's not like these guys exist, right? And they're not a dime a dozen. And a lot of them are smart.

They're not interested. The girl that please them and they know, they're not dumb. Okay. They know a girl that's just using them. They don't, they're not, you're not going to get as much sometimes from the guy when he knows. it's just like a purely transactional relationship. This guy that's with you,

he's not stupid. He knows that you actually really care about him. He knows that you guys are good friends. You know what I mean? He knows that there's something more there and that's why you're getting, I think, probably a lot more than maybe somebody else that was just like I said transactional. Like I'm screwing you.

I'm like, you know, a professional. You're my sugar daddy kind of situation. Not to say that those guys don't like those situations. Sometimes they do because it's no bullshit and they have wives or they have other things going on and they don't they want it to be transactional it's a lot easier but this guy obviously enjoys your company likes the friendship and wants a little bit more as well and likes what you guys have together so I think you should keep all your eggs in this basket I don't think the grass is any greener on the other side

I think you lucked out I think you have a very good situation and if you become greedy because it would be all for the wrong reasons and think that you're going to go out and better your situation, I think it's eventually will bite I think it will bite you in the ass because I just don't think that that's the right way to go. Yeah.

You know? And then, you know, I'll be shit out of luck, you know? You're going to have to go back to that bad PR job. PR pays no money. It pays no money. Even when you're at the top of the PR totem pole, you're still not making any cash. change business.

So yeah, you're, you have a really good guy and a good friend right now, okay, in this guy. And he's helping you, have him help you with your business and your new, your bar, have him help you open something up

and get, like, you know, you don't know where this relationship is going to take you. He could be a friend of yours for the next 10 years and he could set you up for the rest of your life and you could always be indebted to him as a guy who really helped you.

You know what I mean? And I just think that you don't want to, mess that up. So I think you'd be foolish. I think you should stop listening to Sugar Daddy things because what you, you don't have a Sugar Daddy. You have a boyfriend. Yeah, it's very old.

I mean, like, like, why do you, what's your deal with the, like, and why do you not tell me? I call him my man friend. Okay. Why do you not tell anybody about it? Like, why is it such a secret? Is it because of the age difference? Don't people know by now that you're into old guys?

Um, I mean, I guess I, yeah, no somewhat. I mean, I'm a very private person and I don't. I mean, my friends, I just feel like they judge and they think, like, even though I can explain to them, you know, it's genuine. Like, I really like this guy. They just think it's like weird, you know? Yeah, because there is, it's definitely not the norm, right? Like, why? But, you know, it's, why do you think you like older?

You said you have a thing for older guys. Like, did you not have, like, is it a daddy issue thing? No, it's not a diet issue. It's definitely a reality thing. Like, I mean, let's face it. I mean, even guys, older guys, too, they cheat. But I think it had to do with a lot of my last relationship. It's being with somebody in my age, you know, going through not only, like, I, you know,

I am there for them, like, emotionally and they want to fuck every girl, you know. But it's like, it's also, you know, like, they aren't good finance. they are going to, you know, don't know what they want to do. You know, it's just like a lot of, like, confusion. And it's like, I want some stability when it comes to dating. You know, I want somebody who not as to, I'm not, like, I wasn't looking for someone to take care of me, even though it kind of happened. But I want you to be financially stable. I don't want you to be fucking every girl you see.

You know, I think with older guys, it's sometimes, it's more quality than quantity. Yeah, listen, I remember the first, because I always dated when I was younger. I was like a total fuck up. And like I always dated like dirty musicians, you know, that had no money, okay? And then I quit drinking and I cleaned up my act a little bit. And I still dated douchebags, but they had money. And it was a totally different scene. And like even the ones that didn't have like millions of dollars, but like there's a,

there's something about, you know, when you're with a man who like will give the cab driver, like I've had that guy that gives the cab driver 50 bucks, like take her home, you know, make sure she's okay. there is something that makes you feel as a woman, like secure and stable and warning for a guy that could provide this stuff. It's such cheap. Yeah, and let me tell you, I have this argument with guys all the time, and there's going to be guys that are going to be listening to this podcast that are just thinking that we're such assholes because they're guys that don't have maybe a lot of money. But even if you don't have money, it's not about that because I had once a really poor guy. But, like, when I was with him, no matter what I wanted, whether it was a Snapple or a.

a pack of gum or a drink or he made sure he got it and he took care of me. And there's something about that that makes a girl horny for a guy. And it's no different, okay? Like I always say this, like, because guys think, oh, girls that like guys that have money or if they're more attracted to them, like they're money, hungry, gold diggers. It's like, seriously, it's nature, okay? It's no different than the men who like younger girls that look really pretty, okay? Why is that not a bad thing?

Why don't we say to a man when he's attracted to a girl strictly because of what she looks like how that's terrible? It's no different. And you know why that's not terrible? Because that's nature too. If we were cows, we'd be doing the same thing, okay? If we were cows, if we were female cows, we would not be looking at the loser male cow that had a broken leg and was like laying down on the grass doing nothing and be like, yeah, we want to have babies with them, okay? That would be very unnaturally. Okay, we want the cow that's working hard that has all the money because we want to have babies and we that's how we feel horny like that's who we're attracted to as cows as women as cats like it's just a fucking nature. Okay. That's just like a cow a male cow is not going to look at the busted 47 year old cow, which would be me by the way because I'm 47 he's if me and you were both cows. Okay. A man is more likely going to be the normal man is going to be more.

attracted to you at 23 because you can procreate and I can't okay and that's just a fact do I look at that cow and say oh my god you're such an asshole you like someone younger than me no I get it it's just the way that it is now I'm sure you're a hot cow I am a hot cow and I still get guys but it's like listen it's much deeper than that you know people could argue this point but I'm saying on a very basic level okay there is this weird thing that women have when a man like pulls out a wad of cash it's the same thing that a man experiences when he sees a girl that's just a fucking knockout okay it's the same kind of feeling it's not bad it doesn't make you like money hungry or shallow it's a natural reaction that happens yeah yes because that's like the that's the nature thing because in our in for in nature like we're supposed to procreate with someone who could take

care of our babies and take care of us and go out and make the money and come back. It's a caveman shit. Provider. Yes. So that's why, listen, you'll probably still date poor guys in the rest of your life. You might wind up with another poor guy. Like it happens. We like who we like.

But when you meet a guy and he's got that money and he does that, it does make you feel good. And there's nothing wrong with that. That's actually very normal. There's not, doesn't make you. But when you take it to another level and you say, oh, now I'm going to go out and just only look for that. You know what I mean? The money or whatever. That's when to me,

it gets to be a little fucked up. But like I said, I wouldn't judge you. Like if that's what you feel is okay according to you and how you go about it like these other girls and they're cool with it, that's fine. You know, because you didn't start off that way, I just don't, I think you might have a hard time with it because it's a very different game.

And I think you're only getting a lot from this guy because he smells on every level that you genuinely like him, you're there, you're fooling around with him. Are you sleeping with anybody else? No. Right. So you're kind of loyal. Well, yeah, kind of.

What does kind of mean? You can't kind of fuck somebody. Are you sleeping with someone? Are you just fooling around with someone else? No, I'm not fooling around with someone else. But, I mean, I did. Yeah. Yeah, what?

I did, yeah. Okay, so he kind of got me. me thinking about, you know, like threesomes and like messing with girls and stuff. So there was a situation recently that happened. So I ended up having a threesome or more like a four-sum. So it was supposed to be me and this girl and my friend. And then my friend had a boyfriend too. So he ended up joining in.

So it became this kind of like orgy thing. Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Start from the beginning. I'm probably going to cut out the cow stuff so that we have this stuff in because we're getting late in the podcast and I want to make sure I get this shit in. Okay, start off how this four-sum and threesome and whatever happens. This guy starts talking about having a threesome,

but you don't have it with him. You wind up talking to your friend about it, and she says, yeah, let's do it. And then you find another girl, and then you find her guy, and then it winds up to be this whole big thing. How does that happen? No, so we're talking sometimes like, you know,

like, oh, that'd be hot. And you were like with a girl, you know, I can watch or something. And at first I was like, oh, okay, you know, I've never really done that. So I kind of like started me like, okay, that could be cool. You know, that would be something like I could try. So it ends up being at this party. And, I mean, I didn't go into it as a thing, you know.

Like, I ended up being at this party. It was on a yacht. And so, like, it was just, like, really sexy, you know, I was, like, feeling good. And so this girl, I guess you, like, a full-on lesbian came on to me. And so we ended up going in a room. messing around and then people I mean not people my friends ended up seeing us

and she joined in two so it was a threesome at first and then I guess her boyfriend came in and joined in as well so it ended up being like a four-sum and but you know we all had sex so I mean technically I cheated on them but I told him about

so I told him you know like after the whole thing happened I'm like oh my god he's gonna love this you know so I went and I told him you know what happened but I excluded the guy of course. Right. Uh-huh. And, you know, and then at first, like, he was like, okay, that's hot. And then he got mad at me and was, like, trying to break up with me. You know, he was like, well, you gave your bite to somebody else and you didn't even ask me, you know, like, you didn't have permission.

I mean, not permission, but, like, you didn't talk to me about it. Like, you know. Yeah, it was, like cheated. Mm-hmm. Yeah, so basically I cheated. So, at first he liked it. Then he got mad at me, trying to break it off. And then it was like, no, like, come on.

That's dumb. Like, don't do that. And he's like, okay. I mean, look, if you want to do that again, just, like, talk to me about it and, you know, we'll figure it out. But, you know, if that would have happened with a guy, we'd be done. Right. So he doesn't go. Now, has that happened since again?

Oh, my God. It's so funny when people say, I know that it's a yes. No, because I was actually thinking, did happen? Yeah, it happened twice. I mean, the thing is now I have, like, I have such bad guilt. I feel even both times I felt really bad afterwards like I don't want to do it again you know wait so how did it have first of all let's just give my listeners a couple of gory details because they're going to love this they love when girls do like you know fun sex stuff so on that boat you go into

the room with a girl right and you guys start getting it on like full on like you're totally naked kind of stuff oh my god yeah yeah we're like messing around I mean it was the whole thing was kind of I swear something in my drinks. Oh, okay. You might have been roofied. I mean, I don't think that, but I would just, I didn't think I drink that much. But I remember everything. It was just like, oh, one thing.

It just happened. So, yeah, we went to a room, me and the girl. And so we're, like, messing around, like, you know, we're, like, you know, touching each other's boobs. And, like, she goes down on me. And I go down on her. And we're just, like, totally into it. I think we even are like scissoring too. And we're in this room and there's a glass door.

So I'm unbeknown to us, people are like walking in. You're not walking in. Yeah, no, they actually did walk in a few of them. And people can see us. People can see this going down. And so I guess my friend ended up seeing, because I didn't know this girl that I'm fucking with. And my friend ends up coming down and seeing it too.

And she's like, oh my God, I want a part of this. So she gets naked and we're all. like, you know, it's like a, I don't even know whose hands are where. Like, I think I'm eating out my friend and sucking her boobs while somebody's fingering me. And then the, her boyfriend ends up coming in too. And so they start having sex and me and the girl are hooking up. And then he ends up fucking all of us. And, you know, while he's doing that.

Yeah, even a lesbian, but I guess she didn't even like it. but yeah so I mean I was enjoying it it kind of just all happened and yeah so I ended up fucking him and so once that happened I guess I just opened the door so when I saw them again me and my friend and her boyfriend we ended up doing that again you and the friend but the lesbian wasn't there no the lesbian was gone I don't even know her right

but the second time it just felt like it wasn't right you know like this is like I felt a little like journey because it's like I feel you know like I just feel like like the first time was fine because it was like an experience this time it's like all right this isn't what I want to do you know but you were drinking again and it just happened or you decided to yeah we I was drinking again that's yeah I don't think I would have done that right listen you're young you're figuring your stuff out you're having fun I mean that's what you should be doing it's cool that you told him the first time you know and explained it you know you have to

like figure this stuff out for yourself and that's what i believe your 20s were all about you know trying out different things figuring out what works for you and creating those rules and stuff for yourself you know you could figure you know it's all about what you want to do and what sits right with you you know i don't think people are wrong for trying things out it's just and then you see how you feel if you start to feel like oh this doesn't feel right so maybe try not to do it you know that's just the way that it goes. But like, and so I don't, like I said, I mean, I hate to always tell people what to do. And you didn't really call in looking for advice.

And I'm sitting here trying to tell you like that you shouldn't go look for other sugar days. If that's what you want to do, you know, maybe that's what you want to. Maybe you need to try that out. I don't know. But I personally think you have a really good thing going with this guy. And you should try to keep him as a friend and remain as, like, open and cool with him as possible. Because that's a good guy that you have. And you're lucky, you know.

And I just don't think that that's so easy. But I think that, you know, maybe, you know, you shouldn't drink so much sometimes if you're in a situation that you don't want to, like, wind up doing something that you don't want to do. Because alcohol always, like, lets us cross that line, right? So maybe if you want to be a little bit better, don't drink as much when you're at certain places. But, like, you know, I don't know. Listen, that's what he gets. Like, he's dating a 23-year-old. and he's going to be worried that, like,

she's out drinking, having threesomes and having fun. I mean, isn't that what people do when they're 23? Like, I totally understand. You know, it's realistic. Yeah. I just don't want to be fucked up. You know, I've been cheating on, and it's not fun. Right.

So, right. And now you're doing the quote-unquote cheating. But, you know, like, let me ask you this. If, like, alcohol wasn't involved, would you do that? No. No. Exactly. So you have to, like, maybe cut back a little bit on the,

drinking in situations because you can't trust you. But you got to figure out what the hell is going on actually with your relationship with this guy. Like has it been defined? Like, are you his girlfriend? Is he your boyfriend? Like, is it, have you not defined it because you don't tell anyone about him? And, like, we talk about it.

Like, I say, I call him my man friend. Yeah. We're, like, in a relationship. But, like, you know, I think we both are kind of commitment, like, for you. Because, like, when you do put that label on it, it kind of puts you in a box. Yeah. So we like that open box. So, you know, I'll bring it up.

Like, so are we together? He's like, what? No, what are you talking about? You know, but like we'll go out. He's like, oh, you know, my girlfriend. So, yeah. Yeah, well, that's why you're both so, you have weirdo issues about sex because you're both afraid to really fall in love

with each other or like to really make it official. Yeah, we're just two weirdos together, I guess. Yeah, that works. It works for both of you right now. It does. You know, and I think that he's a good weirdo to have in your life. It's better than a poor weirdo. Yeah.

I know. I like, yeah, I like the weirdo, I think. Well, no, I mean, I think it works for you because you have the thing with sex, too. So you guys are on the same page. I think it would be very frustrating to somebody that wants to have real sex and they can't have sex because he doesn't want to, you know. Or vice versa. If that was a guy that wanted to sleep with you, you know, on the third date and you were, like, Like, no, but I want to, you know, I want you to pay for me and do all this stuff, but I'm not going to fuck you for six months.

A lot of guys would tell you to, they just go find another girl. It's not hard nowadays to just find somebody else, but you have a six-year-old guy, like maybe he's not interested in that right now. Do you know for sure that he's not with anybody else? Oh, yeah, 100%. I'm, like, I, you know, I'm looking at phone. You know, I make, I know for sure. Like, he couldn't hide that for me. Right.

Cool. so you know for sure that you're like his one and only and from what he knows you had that threesome with the girls but he doesn't know that you fucked a guy but you're not like clearly dating anybody else no no dating right but you're wondering if you should yeah I mean you're like curious

curious and like yeah I mean it sounds good but you're right it's not easy and I don't want to fuck everybody you know and I don't want to be an escort. This might be, you know, for right now, like, I know that for right now, this is like a really great situation you have.

It would be a great situation to have when you're 45, you know, or 43, you're 23 years old. Yeah. You're pretty lucky. If I were you, I try to keep your alcohol consumption under control while you're with this guy so you don't cheat on him anymore so that you don't ruin your relationship with him until you at least have your bar and you set up like your, life a little bit more. I would just continue to date him and see where it goes.

Yeah. Yeah. And I think the more, you know, the longer we're together, the more, you know, like, trust that he'll have in me. And so I'll be secure no matter what happens to. Yeah. Just keep him out. Like, make sure you keep him as a friend and a good friend because then that relationship

could never end. I don't know. You know what I mean? Yeah. But I would just be cool with him. and I would stop looking elsewhere. Stop sort of keeping it in, like stop framing it as a sugar daddy situation. It's not.

You have a guy that you're dating that happens to take care of you right now. And that's no different than somebody that's married to somebody that's paying for their stuff too. And maybe they're not working, you know? So, and that's what I would do if I were you. But if you do try out the sugar datties and go on more dates and this whole thing blows up in your face, I'd love to have you back on and hear about that. You are horrible. No, you know what I mean.

But no, I mean. It would be such an interesting story. I would have to come. Yeah, I mean, who knows? You're 23 years old. I believe life is about trying to figure things out, making mistakes. I do not believe that you have to be perfect, especially not at your age. And I know that when you're in your 20s, you hate to hear people talking about your age, like you're so young or what.

I think it's like insulting to 20-something or else. But it's just the truth, okay? And, you know, you're at that age where you're figuring out a lot of things for yourself. And I hope you don't go down the path to turn into like a using girl who like uses guys for sure days. I don't think that that's a good person to be personally. So I hope that you don't make that choice. I hope that this situation doesn't turn you into that. I hope you don't become greedy.

Unfortunately, that does happen to people when they get a little cash. And that just shows who somebody is. hopefully that's not your deep down character. Try not to be greedy. Try to, you know, and try to remain like not. Just try to stay the way that you are and don't go down that other path. But, you know, if you do, that's your thing. I just think in the long run that stuff bites you in the ass and those girls are lonely.

Like there's consequences to that kind of stuff because it's not coming from the right place when you're just using somebody for cash. Yeah, I'm going to use karma. person too so like you know that you know I just feel like that brings that energy yeah because whatever you put out you get back if you start just looking at guys as like a money thing what are you going to get back you're not going to get back real love or real companionship or anything real and you're going to be you might have money and you might have your bills pay but you might have to drink a lot more because you might be like really lonely and miserable deep down the side you know what I mean and you don't want to be that person I think that you could get you could get really bad so you know stick

with this guy and try not to do the wrong thing. I'd still have you back on because I just can't wait till you guys have sex because that's a whole of them here to wish I could talk about for like an hour. You need to ask him more questions. Yeah, okay, so I need to talk to him about this because you know what? You're starting to have me wondering, I need to figure out how long it's been since he had sex and why the hell does you want to fuck me? Yeah, no, I would say, what is your thing with sex?

He's got a thing with sex and it might be related to commitment. he might think that that means like halfway in guy that it gets really serious and he might think it just might be too much for him and that's his way of keeping it casual you know and he who knows but it's something it's not it's kind of weird if you ever get the answer from him let me know but like you know yeah I'm gonna talk to about that yeah please keep me posted oh yes oh well it was good I'm glad because you know what I think you put everything into perspective because like I said I don't like I can't really talk to people about this. So it's good, you know. It's good to be able to like kind of get some insight from you. And I don't think I want to go on about that either. It just seems like a full-time job, too. It is.

It is. Focus on like your future and what you're going to do if you want to open up. Like put your time and energy into that and what you have in front of you right now. Just savor that. Be happy. Be happy. Because you're lucky. You know,

you're lucky that you met this guy and he's doing that for you. And so. and, you know, don't think ahead and that you want more. Just be happy with what you have right now because what you have right now is great. Yeah. Okay. And enjoy it. Okay.

Okay. But keep me posted. I will. Thank you so much. All right. Thank you for calling in. Honey Lex, this is going to be a good one. Yes.

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