Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 268 - Dr. Guy and his Highly Sexual Girlfriend Discuss Their Unconventional Relationship

Episode Date: January 28, 2019

Dr, Guy and his girlfriend Lana call in to discuss their highly sexual, unconventional relationship. They're into threesomes, sex parties, swingers clubs, orgies and a whole lot more and they call in to discuss it all. How do they make this kind of relationship work for them? Do they ever get jealous watching their partner with someone else? What are the rules they have for each other? How has this lifestyle actually brought them closer as a couple? Tune in to find out plus hear the back story on Lana, including how old she was when she first realized she was so open minded about sex, when she started acting out her desires, some of the crazy stuff she's into, how previous guys reacted to her highly sexualized nature and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. This is a call and advice show where I talk to people about all kinds of things. If you have a secret life or a naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or you have a problem and you need unprofessional advice because your friends won't listen to you anymore.

You have no friends? You could call them to my show. So me an email at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com or go to my website, strictly anonymouspodcast.com, and click on be on the show. Today I have on Dr. Guy. I've been wanting to get on Dr. Guy's girlfriend on my show because she's a very open-minded female that's into a lot of, like, interesting things. But I actually got them both on. I thought that would be interesting to listen to them both sort of do their thing. Her name is, her name is Lana.

His name was Dr. Guy. He, Dr. has been on the show many times before, but he finally met a girl who's like really matches his sort of sexuality, if that's correct to say. He was like the most horny guy I've ever met my life. It was like annoying. He just wants to fuck five times a day, 10. I was like he's, I don't know how one girl or if one girl wants to be satisfied a man like that. It's like too much, right? But this girl can because she's just as horny as he is. So they're like the perfect match and they do all kinds of interesting things with each other from the get-go.

They met each other. You can listen to Dr. Guy's last episode. He talks all about how he met her in a threesome. Like a guy called him up and said, oh, come over and bang my girl. And he did. And then they've been with each other ever since. And they go to Swinders Club, sex parties.

They do all kinds of, like I said, interesting things together. And they're super into each other. And they're cool with each other about all those things. And that's what we talk about. So the interesting thing is, and I say this on the show, that I predicted that this relationship wouldn't last.

I said, oh, let's see how you are eight months from now. For some reason, I just threw that out. And it turns out that this is eight months later, and they couldn't be better, happier with each other. So I was completely wrong, which I always like being wrong, because it reminds me that I'm not always right. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Dr. Guy and Lana. This is, I have on today Dr. Guy, and I want to say the,

unicorn. That's what you called her in the text message to me before because she is a fucking unicorn, right? Your girlfriend, Lana, right? And I've had Dr. Guy on my show many times before. Anyone could go listen to his episodes. There's tons of them. The first one was Dr. Guy's a total womanizer. There was one of my favorite ones was Dr. Guy, the co-kehead cardiologist. He's still alive. And let me tell you something, Dr. Guy, and Lana. Me and Dr. Guy did an episode a while ago, about six months ago or eight months ago. And I predicted that his relationship with you would not last eight months, Dr. Guy. Just so you know, I re-listened to that recently, and I made the prediction. And it's now. Now is eight months. And you guys are better than ever.

So I was 100% wrong. And I love when I'm wrong. I don't mind being wrong. It humbles me because I'm like, I think I know everything. But just when I think I do, I don't. It turns out that Lana is probably like the best girlfriend you've ever had. You're the most compatible with her. And I think you guys are like great match because Dr. Guy, if you've heard him before and you know him, I know him, because I dated him for a short fucking second, is like an over-sexed 50-something-year-old guy. And he found himself an over-sexed 20-something-year-old girl. And if like that isn't a match made in heaven, like what is, right? But right, Dr. Guy? Like you guys match up sexually speaking, like, because you're hard to keep up with. I think for any regular girl, right, to have. To have. You. You guys match up sexually speaking. Like, like, because you're hard to keep up with. I think for any regular girl, right, to have. To have. You guys. You guys. have to like fuck you like five times a day is exhausting like I couldn't do that like I'd be like to get somebody else to take over like it's too much right but Lana has that kind of same sort of horniness too right Lana I can't hear you guys hold on Lana right yeah doctor guys laughing but I want to hear from Lana like you want to fuck him five times a day still after eight months

So, like, I was not a relationship your person at all. So when I met him, like, I didn't have any expectations about our relationship at all. So you had no expectations of your relationship and when you met him

there was a special connection? Yeah, only sex expectations. You only had sexcapations? It was exspectations. I know. But wait, Lana, Now, why do you, why are you like not before Dr. Guy, right? Why were you never a relationship girl?

Was it because no guy could, like, satisfy you? Because all guys were jealous and not accept me, like, with all my cravings, or my things that I like to do. So it was a jealous problem, actually. Right. So you would hook up with guys and you would meet guys, but they wouldn't be able to deal with the, like, how sexualized you were as a woman. Every guy I think fantasizes about it, right?

They all think that they would love to have a girl like that. But when it comes down to it in reality, they can't fucking handle it, right? Yeah, there's too much. Yeah, insecurity and all that could say, yeah. Well, listen, I think it's hard when you start to like really start caring about somebody. It's like a very vulnerable thing to sort of open your heart up to somebody, right? And I think that, you know, jealousy and all that stuff come up a lot of times because people aren't really being completely open and honest with what the deal is, right?

So maybe they're sensing that like you're this person, but maybe, I don't know, like if it's not sort of put out on the table. Would you put that stuff out on the table when you would meet guys? Like right off the bat, would they know what your deal was and what you were into? I don't feel jealous. So, like, I'm pretty, I love what I'm doing. So it's like this part of me. So when I open on it.

It's the most The main part of my relationship But you were honest before too You told people This is one time Never again, right? I mean, you know You were honest and other guys

Did you ever meet a guy, Lana, besides Dr. Guy That you sort of liked more than just like You wanted to bang them Or like most guys, it's just like a one night stand And you're not into seeing them anymore Like what's the deal? No No, so

He's the first guy who had definitely who I am and I can do what my heart desire. And what is your heart desire that other guys couldn't handle that doctor guy can? All crazy stuff I do. So like we do all people's sexual things like we three terms like some different things like sex clubs, sex parties so we do and we don't have a job. Right. So when did you start doing this stuff like so you're obviously buy, right?

You're bisexual, you're into girls? Yeah. Okay, and you're into like banging multiple guys and orgies and all that stuff, right? Yeah, we do like, yeah, everything. Okay, and when did you start doing all that stuff? Like, first of all, when did you lose your virginity first? How old were you? It's like 16, maybe.

I don't know. And when did you start doing all this hardcore stuff? Like, did you know right off the bat that you were like by and wanted to try all the stop or did somebody introduce you to it? No, actually I was always like that. It's like, she was a little girl. I was always crazy. Always was crazy shot.

I don't know from nowhere. So I didn't read about it. Like, symmetrical. And then I started dating some guy. She was older me, like around 20 years, like 18 years old. me. So we all should do some crazy stuff, but he was super jealous.

So it was a problem. So he was jealous. He can't accept me with this. So he knows that I'm so open. Uh-huh. And he can't deal with that. He was insecure and like full fears. But she has

three sums. and you told me you had sex to do five and 17 relative to your neighborhood together what happened she did some crazy shit when she was a kid like what

fucked a lot of guys she loved getting blow jobs she's yeah he's crazy but let me ask you what you did two 17 year old guys when you were younger

what did he say uh 17 I don't know he just said you bang two guys in your neighborhood what did you say oh yeah oh my god

yeah yeah it's four and it's happened like it's hat, right? I don't know. I just, I just lost it. And it was, yeah, it was two sex to sexist guy in my neighborhood,

and I was a teenager. So we just ran and it was a, so it was. Two guys at once. Two guys at once. I think that, like, the thing with, like, why I really wanted Lana on the call, right, with you, Dr. Greene,

because you could, like, explain all this stuff, right? But to hear from a girl, I think what every guy wishes, like, just every guy wishes there was girls like Savannah. They want to believe, I mean, Slit, Lana, Lana. They want to believe that these girls exist, but they are like, quote, unquote, unicorns, right? Because it's, like, very few and far between, right? You're not, like, an escort or a professional. You're not a porn star, right? You're just a regular girl that, like, really is in touch with their sexuality and likes to do all this stuff and has been doing it since day.

day one, right? And it's just hard for you to find a guy until now. Has any other guy accepted it? And I love sex and it was like since when it was a kid. Even before I started like dating someone. So it was inside of me. I don't know. So high sexuality. Right. You're just really wanting. And in my country where I grew up, so it was, it was embarrassed. I felt. judgment around me so in my country is not good to be like like me right it's you can't be that open with your sexuality there so when you came how old were you when you came to america it was uh four years ago so i was 22 right and did you start dating guys when you came here and did you at first think like american guys would be like better

I moved here with a guy from Russia. Uh-huh. So we moved together and I broke up with him and started with some guys here. But it was the same problem of jealousy and so same. Right. And you never, let me ask you this because you have these open relationships, right? Like it's not like you're just banging other guys. You let your guy fuck other girls too, right?

Like you don't care about that. You want to have threesomes, right? And bring other women in and you let your guy fuck the girl, right? I enjoy too. Right, you like that. So it's not like you never get jealous. I open, too. So I love girls.

Like, just actually just to play with. Right. And, but I'm saying, like, when you would see your guy, like, fuck other girls, like, it wouldn't make you jealous. It actually turned you on, right? There was never jealousy on your end is what I'm saying for you. Oh, no. No, no, never. Right.

Never. So for me, it's like, yeah, if my, if I'm in a relationship with a guy, they have a treason with other girls. So if my man, he doesn't make a queen, I don't care. So I need to feel like I'm a queen. So this is like a random girl. It's like we just have fun. Yeah, there's some rules to having open. Like, as I feel it, yeah.

Yeah. You know, if I don't treat her with the respect that she expects, you know, then we're going to have a problem. You know, so, you know, there's some rules about. What are the rules? I think it's important to hear those. I mean, everybody has different ones. Yeah. The rules are I can fuck as many girls as I want.

With her or without her. Okay. It doesn't matter. As long as they have to be aware of her. And, you know, that it's just. sex. There's no relationship there. They don't, you know, hang out with them and blah, blah, blah, you know.

And so it's just sex. Often I'll bring them in and we'll have sex together, the three of us. Right. You know, but we, like I said, you know, there's certain, I mean, it's nonvertebral clues, whatever, you know, how everyone, but she has to feel like she's special

and she is, and she is to me. There's no girl like her. Right, and let me ask you this, because in the past, what you would do, what you were notorious of doing is like, you would have like one girl you really liked. I mean, I would see this pattern with you. You would have the one girl that you were like whipped to and then you would have like 10 other girls that were whipped to you that you didn't really like, but you would text with them and keep them like on a string and you would keep them like they would all be in love with you because you were like a quote unquote womanizer.

So there wasn't being honest. Right. That's what I'm saying. To anybody. So now I'm living a very different honest life. And the two of us that we've achieved this level of like, you know, relationship where it's it's so connected but yet you know we're allowed to freely explore a world it's crazy and you don't feel the need then

to keep those other girls like you used to you know what's happened so yeah she was a consummate predator you understand every day she'd fuck a different guy you know whenever she felt like she would do it she did some crazy shit and the funny thing is that now I let her

do whatever she wants she completely lost the desire Last night, I wasn't out, you know, and she was out. The opposite, that was asking me where she is. I would ask her where I am. No one told me she was out, but she was out. Wait, but you guys weren't out together. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

But you guys weren't, didn't go out together? No, no, no. Okay. They don't always go out together. Okay. Take breaks and... They all. A day off?

Yeah, okay. They off. Yeah. And so she was out. So instead of any of the sex part. She ended up at some gay guys place. They had tarot cards. Right.

Which was pretty pretty. So the old day, she was doing something different. And so she's lost the urge because I don't, I'm not attaching to her like that. And, you know, it's a very different energy that she feels. And for myself, too. The crazy thing is, we both have had so much sense. The less you feel like you need the freedom. is maybe what you're saying, right?

Is that true, Lana, for you too? There's an electrical connection between us and a sexual connection, obviously. And when you learn is that there's no one at a time would be like her. And she is the absolute perfect fit for me. And she knows that I'm the perfect fit for her.

And we have experience to lose a lot. Trust me. You know. Been there done that, both of you. Been there done that a billion fucking times. Right. And you could finally say, know what you said to me yesterday that you, I've never heard you say is you said, like,

I don't, I'm not, I don't crave other girls' pussy. Like, I, like, the more I'm with her, the more I just want to be with her. And you were never that way. The closer you would get with somebody, the more you would stretch. Don't want for other girls, don't get me wrong. I still watch that. But, you know, it's in a very different way. Also, like, you know, the love addiction is gone.

Right. You're not keeping those girls on a string like you used to. You don't text them and all that shit. No, no. you know, you know, you know, you text, you know, sex, whatever, okay, but there's no, you know, relationship there, you know,

and there's no, there's no dishonesty. Exactly. There's no dishonesty. Right. So, so, so, and she accept me, and I accept her, and, you know, when you start with that, and also, it's just, it's just weird, we've noticed

a lot now that we kind of, because neither of us have been in a relationship like, they know, they don't thought it lasts this long, and the sex is still, through the roof. I'd still rather have sex with her than anyone else. So you guys obviously wound up together last night after she went to the gay guys house and got her terror cards read.

Oh, no, no, no. It was Thursday night. No, no, no, Friday. I didn't see her until last night. It was Thursday night. Oh, right. Okay. You know, so, I mean, but it's just so crazy how our past, you know, how we, we're really

the same energy that we always feel like doing the same thing at the same time. and when you're hanging out we're only girl here and we both fucked there blah blah we could sense right away that like with a few hours just don't adore us

you know and you're both ready at the same time to be like let her go please yes yes right you know and I've had that experience now

in life too you know when my girlfriend's not around that people start to you know their energy's wrong right so you guys are really

on the same page can you go back to the rules a little bit like Lana like do you you could fuck guys too like when you're not with him and is that what you do or do you guys like don't do that anymore behind each other like separately or you still do that as well no like so i do whatever i want so it's like uh that's the point so but before i i was looking for adventures every day i was looking for something new so it's like some some kind of advantage to like a hunt thing, you know, like, so now I don't feel like that. So it's like on Thursday, it was a day when we had a break of each other, so we let each other do something else. Like before, other day, I would find some friends with some random guys, but now I realize, so I don't need, like, I was need before.

so much. That's interesting. That must be interesting. It's not like, yeah. It's not a point of the day. Like, it's not.

You don't feel like you need to go conquer anybody. Maybe you're more fulfilled. Like, maybe like Dr. Guy is like filling you up more so than any other guy

really has. Like you guys are starting to have like a real relationship with each other. But it's, it's way, there's so many cosmic things that have happened

with. us. You understand. The guy Thursday night, which he was not with me. Mm-hmm. And this guy,

he's a very, he's a gay guy. He's a very powerful energy. He's very creative. He's actually, he's a singer and a music singer. And of course, his apartment's similar to behind,

very sexy, very sad, a cute little dog, the whole thing, he read a tarot card. He, was like, oh my God. And he read the same

should I say to you all the time, the same thing I talked to everyone about. He said that this is her path in life. He read her fucking exactly, word for word. What did he say? He took a book and he said it again. What did he say?

What did he say, Lana? So, yeah, so she said about me that I am, I born to C-Cruz. and I see truth and people and I read of people like bullshit people around me. So, and I write the way on the truth, with the truth. So, and, um. Yeah. You need to trust your heart.

Yeah. I trust my heart with that. Yeah. Go with that. So it's like, it just thinks about me. You think, like, you know. So when you're. Oh, I know.

You know, this is what we talk about, like, day in, day out. Yeah, every day, yeah. Having an honest relationship, being honest, you are as a person. You know, you said, this is like our, our, we meditate every day together, and there's all we focus on. And it's like crazy, this guy randomly in a tarot car. He says, like, exactly that to her, you know. Right. The whole cosmic thing is, is fine, but you could also sort of analyze it in just, like, regular terms, right?

for people that aren't so cosmic or into spirituality that like you guys are just because I think that there's lots of different relationships you can have with people some are like very different but then there's like releasehips and they don't come around often in life I think maybe you know you're lucky if you get more than one of them right where you are just like in the same boat you're just in the same like you're on the same wavelength like it is so in sync it's so easy it's easy the lesson is don't don't wish for it it will happen right and and then so so most of the time we go in there and we see another girl or guy and we were thinking about well could I marry this person or that could it be a boyfriend a girlfriend

you know and we're never really in the moment and appreciating the person you're thinking what it should go to I used to do that too and the crazy thing is that we came at this with no expectations right and yeah a lot of said like she was never looking for that right and just like it sort of took her by surprise the opposite and i sort of was looking for girlfriend she was looking for you know and wait i just want to just say really quick if anyone wants to hear how you guys met and that whole story just listen to your last podcast right i'll give the number of that and he talks it's a really good story it involves another guy in a threesome and uh and how you guys met but so with after you guys

meet in a threesome and you're just like fucking him lana you're just thinking he's just another guy, right? That is like one of your conquests, right? And that nothing's going to happen. Oh, yeah, sure. So it's like I didn't want anything. So like, not even close to relationships.

Like, not going to like for nothing. She meant to meet me and to fuck and leave it. Just fucking leave. Just fucking leave. It was my plan. And when I passed out to see the partner, it was like a slunk after. So I feel like

something wrong. She never stayed at a weekend. And you stayed? And you stayed with him? Right, I got it. Yeah. So it was like kind of my rule. Yeah.

So I want just to just. You know, back and then we. Right. But then you just kept going back. She never left. Oh, she never left? Oh, she never left. Oh, my God, three days.

She stayed three days of me. So, yeah. It was like like 50 times. Yeah, like a few blocks of each other and they never left, yeah, three days. Right. And then you guys started with the open relationship right from the get-go, right? Because you were never really thinking you were in a relationship, right? Is that what I'm assuming that's just how it kind of happened, right?

So you were like who you were? Yeah, we just kind of. We just start each other see more and more. So we didn't talk about any kind of relationship. Yeah. So, yeah, it was open. It was certainly open, especially in the beginning. But at the beginning, we didn't call it.

Like, all for the relationship, because we just see each other. So it's like not, so no expectations at all. Yeah, we didn't call labels. We just felt like, see. That's what's unique about it. Without coercion, we just want to see each other, you know. No, and I remember the last time we spoke when I said,

oh, this relationship was going to last. It was like a, it was like a two-week-old relationship. You told me I met this girl, and, like, you won't believe, like, we're going to a sex club next, week. So like right off the bat, you guys were like being who you guys were, right? Because I think what happens a lot of times in relationships when guys meet girls and girls meet guys is that everyone has the end goal in mind, which is a relationship or marriage or all that stuff, right? They're looking into the future. So they start acting certain ways to sort of like snag the person and make them

commit, right? So they keep like who they, yeah, you're not really putting like who you are right at. But you guys were both went into this without thinking anything's going to happen. So you you just like let your freak flag fly right with each other it's like not because you didn't give a shit you you weren't thinking like oh who cares that this guy he doesn't think I'm good enough to date it I want to fuck other people right you showed him that and then it really worked for the both of you right being that way because that's really living an honest life you know not the kind of dual bullshit life that most of us lead and we also with that kind of expectation of society that you're supposed to end up with, the purpose of the relationship is to end up with something.

And when you actually learn that that's not the whole purpose of it, and you start to just be in the moment and accept what it is. But listen, I think that you guys, you know, you guys were two people that maybe didn't have any kind of like a void in your life or you didn't even realize it, right? Because I think, Lana, like, you're starting to realize that, like, he is sort of filling up some part of you that makes you not want to go out there and sort of do. do any conquering right now, right? A little bit, more so than you have in the past.

So, but I think other people are different. It's not bad that some people feel like, oh, I want a companion and they go out looking for it. But I think where people sort of go wrong and what gets things so confused is that people just lie about who they are because, like Lana said in her country, people are judgmental. Most people kind of are. You know, people are. So it's scary to sort of be like, oh, yeah, I'm into like all this freaky shit.

I think it's hard for guys. I have so many guys calling up my podcast that are like blowing guys behind their wives' backs or wearing fucking panty hose and not telling any, you know, all these stuff because they're afraid if they tell their partner like what they're really into that they'll be met with the same kind of stuff

that Lahnemus met with. You can never have peace because you're not being honest. You're always feeling you're lying or you're feeling found out or how the fuck you want to live your life like that? But that's like I used to do the same thing. Right. But it's great that you guys met each other because you guys

are very like-minded, right? But I think it's sometimes harder. People worry that, like, even if they would do that, it would take a while before they met. If you like, put that is you need to find someone who likes to have their feet suck. Yeah, I agree. Right. I mean, you kissed a lot of frogs, Dr. Guy. How many girls did you sort of go with before you met Lana a lot, right?

Before you met somebody that was really that perfect fit for you. So I think it does. But I think that the more. truer you are with yourself, the more likely. It's like what you put out, you get back, right? And I think it took you a long time, Dr. Guy, because I've been watching you as your friend and watching your growth. And it's like, it took you a long time to really be who you were. I love showing your before and after pictures to people. Like our back person that we have, like I showed him your before and after. And I said, like, normally if you looked at Dr. Guy when I met him, like, I don't know

if you've seen those pictures, Lana, of him, like on Facebook, his Facebook picture, where he's like a preppy guy with short hair and his kid and his suit. Yeah, yeah. And then you see him now. I mean, it's like a totally different person. And I think that most people, if they didn't know the stories of the before and after, they would think that the guy in the suit with the short hair was the one who had it together. And the guy who he is now with his fucking goatee and face hair and man bun and tattoos is like the fucked up one. But because I know Dr. Guy, I'm always like, no, this is like a, you've come a long way baby story. Like this is like he this is who you were like i personally think you looked better with the short hair in the suit

and the because that's my taste or type but how you look now and who you are now to me is who you were trapped on the inside that you were always trying to hide and live a secret life right and the more you were able to come into your own and just be yourself eventually you were able then to attract that same kind of person to you because you were ready for it right yes definitely That's very true. And both, and the same for Lana, her energies, you know, at that moment were at the same point also. She accepted who she was. Yes, I wanted to ask for her, too.

Lana, does that where you were at as well for yourself? Yeah. So, like, and the way how we met, it's like, I think it's a way, like, it's a way, like, to show who we own. We are. We made in a very natural way. Natural way. The way God tells us. So, and it's who we are.

So when we start like any relationship after that, so I can't imagine I can start relationship with a guy which I might like this way. Right, but for someone like you, that's the only way it would work because that's who you are, right? Right? So, but I guess you never think it could work, but it did for you. For me, yes, but for guy, like, I don't know how, like, accept, you know, like me who he met in such way. I don't know. Like, oh, my gosh. Yeah, most guys wouldn't, yeah, wouldn't be able to handle it.

Yeah. No, it's like a Madonna. Yeah, it's the Madonna horror complex. They just want the girl to, like, fucking do all those crazy things and they want to think about that. But, you know, are they going to bring that girl home? to their mommy and be like you know and put a ring on it like probably not because they can't maybe deal with it right so it's just like that's the problem what i think that a lot of guys have because they wouldn't be able to handle it but doctor guy can yeah it came in a point in my life

you know where i was really starting to be me they're very free and open way and starting to realize we accept each other yeah who we are so enjoy the same time yeah so yeah so yeah the The best thing is to be with someone who you really accept who they are. And if you have any idea that you want to change them anyway, run for the hills. Right. Because every other relationship is where you're trying to change the girl. She's trying to say to me and it doesn't work. And I think what happens, unfortunately, a lot of times in relationships,

because this is just one aspect of your relationship, right? And we're talking mostly about this thing that you're connecting and the same and that you were for other people couldn't accept is like the sexual part. of your relationship. And it's just that I think what happens all the time and what's sad is that sex is made to be like this thing that every, I don't know, that people sort of like hide and don't talk about and there's such shame. And there's so much sort of surrounding it that it becomes like this bigger thing that

it is, right? Yes, yes. Society totally makes it like such a dirty thing. It's actually the most natural thing that we do. It's like eating, sleeping. having sex. It comes from mother nature from God itself. Right. So you can have each other, like, accept that part of each other, right? And it's just like have that. But you probably have a lot of other things in common, right? And you're establishing a

relationship also outside of that. It's sad, though, that like someone like Lana had to wait all that time because there wouldn't be guys that would be able to sort of accept the one part of her, which was that she likes all the sexual stuff and then get all that other parts of her, right? Because you're not just. a person that likes to fuck tons of people, right? I mean, you have other parts of yourself. Yeah, no, we do other stuff. Yeah.

You know, we also work into, like, you know, y'all go to meditation. And we enjoy, we enjoy music. And we like, listen, we like going out. I mean, we have the same. Yeah. We enjoy the energy. And we met some pretty amazing people, you know,

in that, you know, sort of venue. So, you know, And when you see, oh, you go out night, night live, you know, all the city people, blah. There's a lot of very wealthy, very smart, very accomplished, very creative people, you know, it's just that they don't sleep at night. They go out, you know, it's a different world. So we enjoy doing that together. So that's a lot of, you know, our interests and travel, culture, food, everything, you know,

like anyone else, you know, like watching movies. Right, but don't be Lana, but for Lana, as a woman, like, isn't it not? to probably for the first time in your life, like have a guy that really accepts you for you, you know, and so that you can sort of bond on all these other things too, because I would assume that before this, it was just you would experience men only sexually, right, because that's what they liked and that, but they couldn't get sort of closer to you because they would get freaked out. But isn't it nice that you have a guy to finally sort of accept all the other parts of you would not judge you?

Yeah. It's definitely, um, It's my first real, like, honest relationship in my life. Because, like, I used to be in the relationship for years. So we do some, also, like, some stuff, like, sexual open sometimes. But after that, he was jealous. He was jealous to taxi drivers to everybody. Right. So he was, yeah, he didn't trust.

me and that's why I started lying because I didn't want like fighting with him so it was not honest relationship but yes um so you would cheat in the past cheat cheat yeah cheat yeah would you cheat like you said it wasn't no no I didn't just I didn't want to have some fight that's why I say something something else you know she she was in a relationship yeah yeah so it was not honest relationship like but she she's not what else what she wanted to be doing you know it was against her nature yeah yeah so and this is first relationship like completely honest and i feel so balanced because i didn't need to lie also there's a comfort yeah i mean she'll tell you that you know she never ever felt comfortable about around a person like me and like to spend so much time we we we were together 24 seven like we went to Burning Man it's extremely intense and we

don't fight at all right I mean very rarely very rarely there's whatsoever there's an ego issue you know or I fuck up or something yeah yeah we respect each other so we didn't show disrespect each other when we hang out together like a lot of

sexy girls sexy guys around like we know some like how treat each other like a yeah I mean we have fun but we're Yeah. Yeah. So we know it shows us expect each other.

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I can't believe that I thought, like, had predicted it wouldn't even last because, like, honestly, like, I didn't. I mean, when I, you've been on a quest since I met you, like, right after you got divorced, right? And that was, like, way early on. You were still trying to figure out. And it took some, a couple of years for you to come into your own and be, like, who you are now and sort of doing, being who you need to be, right? and then you finally met her,

but I just didn't realize like how sort of close you were to the real thing. I don't know. I just thought she was another notch in your belt and another, you know what I mean? Like, but look,

it turned into something that did last. That's how I, the ironies I approach it that way the first time. I said, I'm not expecting anything. You know, I used to be a love addict.

And then be, you know, you just create these false realities and that's not a real relationship. You know, Like you said to me, you told me that a million times. Yeah. You created these sort of pseudo-bullshit relationship that goes getting attached. And then, you know, eventually you can't stand the intimacy and, you know, whatever.

It was not based on anything real anyway. And it falls apart. And that's why you always need more and more. And that's why I'm saying that I think that both of you maybe had that going on a little bit. And that's why it was always more and more. But then now, since you're really truly connecting with each other, right, that is. It's like that sort of... Yeah, you're filling up that part of you

that used to be filled up with all that other stuff that you don't sort of need it as much anymore, right? Yeah, the distractions, you don't need the distractions. When you take away the bullshit, all this distraction, which are these other people, when you think you're going to steal your craving, eventually you realize that that's not the case. Same thing as money or fame or whatever,

luxury, whatever it is you think you need. Yeah, you can't feel, it's like chasing the dragon, but it's like any alcohol, you know, you're just sort of keep doing something and it's just like if there's like, you know, you're pouring water into something with holes and it just keeps coming out. So you just more and more. Exactly. It never gets full. But if you're doing it in the right way, I think, like you're getting, you know, you're having a real relationship. There is a part of you that feels more satisfied by that that, that you don't need to be looking all over and having all this other shit going on over the phone. Yeah, but also I'm not looking to the future, which is different, right?

So always, you know, you know, we wasn't just today. It was the next 20 years. We don't look at it that way anymore. I don't look at that way anymore. And so it's a much more peaceful, you know, moment for yourself. Could I ask about the future to Lana? Do you mind? So like Lana as a, how old are you again, Donna?

26. You're 26, right? 37, soon. Okay. When's your, when are you turning 27? Right. Sorry. When do you turn 27?

Oh, I don't hear. When's your birthday? Two weeks. Two weeks. Oh, two weeks. Okay. Oh, my birthday, yeah, two weeks and two weeks. Okay.

So, but let me ask you this, Lada, like, do you ever, like, I mean, I think most girls know very young, like, oh, I want to get married or I don't want to get married. I want to have, like, five kids, or I want to have two kids, or I never want kids. Like, I think we sometimes really know very early on, like, what we see for ourselves in the future. Do you see for yourself in the future ever, like, how do you feel about? marriage and children? I don't know.

So I have no expectations. So, like, for me, actually, I don't need it, like, to be honest. But my family, of course, it's like in my country, like, 27 years old. It's old. Old. Pretty old. Yeah. Yeah.

And all my family, of course, they express. something from me like with kids or something because it's so like people say you need to do that not because you want to do that so actually for now I don't want

and I see some of my girlfriend they have a kid and I see how actually hard it is it's too much work it's a lot of work it's too much responsibility.

Sometimes I'm not responsible for my soul. So, and I'm not ready. Like, for now, I'm not ready. I don't know what's happened tomorrow, like in the years. Well, listen, let me just tell you as a woman, Lana. I don't. Well, let me ask you this. When you were younger, when you were little,

forget about doctor guy and expectations with him. Like, forget about right now and forget about him. But, like, when you were younger or, like, when you really think to yourself, like, did you ever think that you, like, did you ever care about marriage? Did you ever think, oh, I want a kid? Like, did it be, you know, when you were little? Or, like, what you feel.

Not now. Like, like, everybody sat around us. You need to, like, go up, find the guy by him. So not because I wanted, like, I didn't feel, because I, I don't want to be the band. I always like independent Yeah And Independence

Yeah And she was crazy as a child Yeah Because I just want to say Like I was afraid of marriage actually Me too She didn't play with dolls She ran around with the boys

I was afraid For me it's like something Like I don't know But let me just say something Lana Let me just tell you something Woman to woman Okay

I'm a really old lady Compared to you Okay I'm 49 but when I was little, I just thought I didn't get marriage. I never cared about it. I was a free spirit. It seemed like torture to me. Like, how could you be with one person your whole life?

I wouldn't be able to breathe thinking about it. It's just too much. Like, I can't imagine staying interested in somebody for that long. Like, it just doesn't make sense to me. As a little kid, I never cared. I always felt like, but I always really like children because talk about honesty. Like, there's no honesty like that. And I always knew I would want a child.

But that urge to not come for me to have a baby. to have a baby until I was 40. I was a crazy person up until I was about 34 and then I quit drinking and everything and I cleaned up my accident. But I was not ready to have a kid until my 40s. And I have to tell you as somebody that been there, done that and did everything in my life and I have a kid now and it couldn't, it's like the best thing I ever did. You could always as a woman do that whenever you want, but do it when you're ready. Never before. You know, you don't, I never did what society told me to do when society says to do it. I, always did it when it was right for me. And my timeline was never the right way to anybody.

People would think I'm way too old to have a three-year-old. People would think I'm way too old for everything. But it doesn't really matter. You do what you want to do when you want to do it. And I respect that you're that same way, you know? So it's like the only thing I would say to you, this is why I brought up this whole thing, is that for you, if you ever even had even one percent of you that thinks you might want a child one day, freeze your fucking. Eggs. Do that for yourself. It's not a lot of money. You could put them on ice and then you don't have to worry about a timeline. Don't do what I did, which was wait till your 40s and then it takes a really long time to have a baby. So freeze your eggs. That's my PSA to any woman out there that, you know, wants to wait a little later in their life. And because your eggs, it's much better to have like 20-something-year-old eggs or 30-something-year-old eggs than 40-something-year-old eggs. So anyway, just heed that. Maybe Dr. Guy pay for her free. her eggs. Yeah, so I should say I'll pay the user eggs.

Yeah, let me tell you, take him up on that, Lana. Yeah, yeah, of course I would do that. Yeah, I never thought about it. Like, I don't know, so I'm 27, two weeks. I don't think I need to worry about it now, so to think about it. Maybe they'd have a big birthday gift. Listen, it would be the best thing you, my doctor told me at 37 to do it, and I had the money to do it, and I didn't. And let me tell you how much I paid for that.

It took me a really long time, and it cost a lot of fucking money for my son to come to this world, like a lot of money, okay? Because I was in my 40s. But let me tell you, this was the right time for me to have a baby. I couldn't be more present and more happy. And I'm an amazing mom because I had my baby in my 40s and not in my 20s, not in my 30s, way later. But that's right for me. You might be along the same line. So I'm just telling you have somebody right now, you're a personal trainer.

You might never have the money in five years to be able to. No, she makes good money. Okay, but I'm just saying it's, you know, 15,000, 20,000. Yeah. If you have the opportunity, Lana, for a guy. that is you're close with that's cool enough that cares about you enough to give that to you as a gift just take it it's a very simple easy quick thing that you could do and you'll be writing me a thank you letter 10 years from now sorry to talk blog everybody on this call talking about Lana's

eggs when everyone just wants to hear about Lana's threesome's take it no I don't do that You don't do what? I don't know. Like, I think I will think I will think about that when I rose 35 my event. Yeah, okay. Like in 80s, so like I have. Yeah, but it's very to have fresh eggs. Let's all the show.

35, 35-year-old eggs are still good. This isn't, you don't put, you don't do a, you don't save your eggs because you want a baby tomorrow. You save your eggs because you want a baby in 15 years. Do you understand? that's why you do it. I mean, like, yeah, but now I don't want much. Like, when I do it, like, so I would want everyone.

I don't know. Right. But having the extra. It's an extra safety. Anyway, yeah, I'll probably cut some of this out of the call because it's so boring to other people, but I really want to plant that seed in her head. Maybe Dr. Guy talked to her. That's not bad idea.

Right? It's a good idea for her for someone. Because she reminds me of myself just like 10 times better. And like, you know, then, and for me, I wish that I would have done that because eventually, you know, you grow and you change and you're different and who knows how you're going to feel when you're 45. You can't predict. Exactly. You can't predict anything. Yeah, exactly. Who knows what we're going to be, who's to be with who, what's going on in the world. So, yeah. Right. Now, you don't have them like you guys, like, are you guys, do you guys call each other your boyfriend and girlfriends? Like, do you have those labels with each other? Like, what's your deal? Recently, in the last few months. Yeah.

science is that? Only because that's the point if you're talking to someone else, you know, he'd say, who would you refer? You know, it just became like the vernacular.

We had to like, you know, they were talking to another girl. That's all. That's my girlfriend. You know what we're talking about. And she would make it clear to other guys. That's my boyfriend.

Right. So, you know, you know, in interacting with other people around us, if you know, don't have a label. Yeah.

If you don't respect the other guys, if you talk to other guys, it's fine. I don't want to flirt any other guys. You're giving out a number, whatever. You know, I have no control over her. I don't own her. You know, but if you say that's my boyfriend, it suggests something else, you know, not just an open relationship. Right.

So we kind of needed to kind of define for other people who we are to each other. Not because, you know, we don't say I love you to each other. That's what I was going to ask. No, no, no one has said, I love you. No, because we know that a lot of it's bullshit. And you can be so in love with this person. The next day, you have a huge fight with them, and you break out forever. You love them so fucking much.

How could that have happened? It's bullshit. Well, I think that there's different kind of, sorry, go, what were you going to say, Lana? No, Lana. No, Lana. Well, actually, you know, like my parents never told me that to do. love me, but never. But I felt that they

was so caring about me. Right. So I feel it for sure. So that's when you feel it, but you don't need to see it's bullshit. Like people say it shards a lot, but I don't know.

They really laugh. But you said you feel it, you felt it from your parents. You have felt it before, right? Like it is a feeling, I think, more so, right? And I think people say it, like, I say it to my son all the time because I start to feel it and I just have to say it out loud because it's almost overwhelming how much I love my son. But that's a, it is a feeling. But, you know, some people say it out loud.

Some people don't. Do you have that, do you have those feelings for each other? So, but we care about each other. Of course we have like, yeah. Like, yeah, so it's like my parents. They show me. They show me love, but they never told us that. Right.

Yeah. And, yeah, it's all I saw. So they never talk about that. Right. So you don't feel like you're not one of those people that needs that or thinks about that. Yeah, that verbal affirmation, exactly. You know, we do inactions. You feel the energy, you know.

And there's times that she's upset with me or, you know, whatever. What have you guys fought about? Yeah, so just, you know, the rules. I don't forget the rules have evolved. We've never been in a relationship like this. and so, you know, we kind of had to figure out what each other needs are and how we react to situations. And, you know, so she let me know what she expects. And, you know, obviously there's always gray areas.

Right. Now, Dr. Guy I know has been a very jealous person. You were like a, like, I couldn't go out with you. And like, if I talked to the waiter, I looked at a certain, you'd be like, why are you? Like, you were like hyperfixing. Yeah. So it's like interesting to me that. you could sort of be hands off and not jealous at all, right?

And have you been jealous with her at any time? No, I mean, listen, there's always moments you feel. Yeah. You know, any insecurity or whatever. And, you know, that's just normal. We're humans. And so what I've learned is that, you know, the basic thing, living the moment. So the moment should not be attached.

You should not be there today, not there tomorrow. Who cares? Not attached to it. So same little people. You know, so it no longer becomes this, this, you know, you know, codependent kind of affirmating experience. It's more that, you know, a natural, you know, intimacy. But what do you do when you have felt that way?

Is it what, what has kept you guys together that's different from the past? Do you go and tell her how you feel and then you guys like sort of work through it? Or you just like blows over? No, no, no. I mean, listen, first of all, you recognize, I feel it's secure. It's just a feeling. It lasts forever and move on. Yeah.

The next moment, you're staying next door and kissing her. So why you can't have it five minutes ago. So stop living in the past. Right. You know, sometimes we talk, you know. When we were in Burning Man, we went to a class on Tandra, sex, and meditation. I mean, she took the whole weekend. course together later

a date. But they taught us about just verbalizing your your insecurities to each other and not saying anything judgmentary back. You know, Lana had a very hard time actually verbalizing, you know, we faced each other and connected energetically

and we did that. And I said something I feel jealous or whatever. I mean, there's a lot of handsome guys, birdie men, oh my God. Right. Insane. Sexy guys through the roof. Yeah. You've never seen some of these sexy guys in your life way more than girls right like yeah there's not a lot of hot guys in New York yeah you're a Bernie man they're all there right but from everywhere from

everywhere world it's super hot and like dirty and bearded and fucking wearing sexy clothes like the sexy music it's the sexy levels is beyond anyway so yeah so sometimes we verbalize um you know And I said it happens very rarely, but, you know, it does happen. You know, it's probably happened like four times. And then that's when I had a lot of garbage. I had these girls hanging around me that are crazy. Mm-hmm. You got rid of that.

I'm slowly getting rid of all of them. Mm-hmm. You know, there's some that still circle because they, they're friends and all our friends. And, you know, so, yeah, it's hard to cut the ties completely. and we get reminded a lot for other people about these dysfunctional relationships. So it puts

a strain on our relationship, of course. Most of the time it's not our egos, but the egos around us that kind of, oh, I saw Adam out doing this or, you know, the judge or, you know, this girl loves him or bullshit, you know. So it's the outside

ego that kind of... Why is Lana laughing? Like, I mean, I mean, a lot of girls with Adam, like, it's like love addicts, like crazy, obsessed about him. I don't know, like, from nowhere. And, yeah, it's like, oh, it's Adam Ford. I mean, because he's a lot of it. But his white girl is a funny story.

Yeah. Oh, yeah. So remember the summertime I said, you know, something's going to happen. I'm going to become famous after New Year's, after you go to Romstein in Mexico. The funny thing is that after I got back from Mexico, there was a picture in the news posted by a restaurant of Till, the guy from Romstein sitting next to Lana.

And she didn't even post a picture. She reposted it. Six months later, the Russian news stories made of a whole story how this guy Till was cheating on his girlfriend, the singer, from the Ukraine, with my girlfriend. Oh, no way. And there was a bit like five or six news stories around this. Oh, like around Duranth. Zwanzy.

And her Instagram blew up. Oh, my God. And in one of the pictures, all of us got included. There's pictures of me, all our Samaj friends. So of course, so she's telling this girl, Chevara Asha, and the other girl, you get pictures of the stories. And so she passed it on to the other crazy girl. Right. And so the other crazy girl got these 20 stories of how my girlfriend is romantically linked to a bad guy.

And most of the stories said that she was a personal trainer. One article said that she was a prostitute. Oh, God. So this girl sends me a picture of that article. Exactly. Their girlfriend's a prostitutes. Oh, my God. Do I know this girl, the crazy one?

Is she one of your old? Yeah, crazy Lana. Oh, I think you've told me about her. Yeah. So she was like trying to get you to break up with her by showing you she's like a prostitute. Like you don't know. Are you that stupid? You just have all the articles.

And she said the same draft that said the article. Like the top she was wearing. Oh, it's just a lot. Brahms. Oh my gosh. Horridious. So funny. Yeah, that's ridiculous.

So once in a while, like, these outside people start to push in on our world and create trouble, you know. Yeah. Yeah. I mostly would be laughing. But once in a while, like, someone will say something. I, you know, say something. And get back to the other person.

It's a bullshit will happen. Yeah. And then we'll have to deal with it, you know, within our. Yeah. But like to you Dutch like with all the obsessed girls like you play with your ego like or whatever

So she's like my ego You enjoy it. You enjoy it. That's why the ghost's crazy. Oh yeah, a lot of he's been doing that. So he still does that a little bit? Yeah, that's his. He tried to be nice, you know, like teach people like how to life, how to enjoy them all.

Right. Yeah, and so I'm not judged. But then they wind up liking him because they think that he's being nice to them and that he likes them, right? Yeah, that's a little bit leftover of his issue problem that he's got to get past. Do you know what I mean? Like enough with that, Dr. Guy. It's like a ridiculous.

Okay. Okay. I was getting up on me today. I don't know what I did. Well, I mean, I thought I started off, and we're going to end this call, but like I started off talking about how you used to do that and you don't do that anymore. and you were talking about how you don't do anymore because you know you need to like let let that go. In my defense, okay, I'm making very clear that isn't my girlfriend.

Yeah. You know, you want to text me about your travel? That's fine. I get to ask you a question. That's fine. In fact, Lana can attest that when she sent me this bullshit about, you know, my girlfriend. Yeah. I said, you know, you could continue this bullshit.

I'm blocking. I blocked her. And then she texted her another, you know, line of communication, right. And she says, I'll wait a something and say, you're fucking disrespectful, you know, bullshit. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I, you know, I let her know. So I don't think it's healthy to have, you know, even conversations with this girl. But I am very comicry, very honest. Right. You're learning that even like maybe you just have to like not respond, you know, eventually you'll really

realize that you can't give at it, you can't even give like a tiny bit. She's so crazy, what you're going to do. That's what, you know, that's why I'm a little nervous. She's nuts. Right, right, right. Sometimes, let her text once in a while. I'll meet you know, I'm not letting on to her.

You're not trying to lead her on anyway. Okay. Okay, well let's see where this relationship is eight months from now. I made a prediction eight months ago right from the beginning that it wouldn't last, and you guys proved me wrong, like I said, which I love. I think I'm really happy for you. I don't know Lana enough to say like I'm happy for her, but I think it, but I am happy for you. Like I'm happy for Dr. Guy in a way because you're my

friend and I've seen you through all of this. And I like people. I love self growth. I love people changing and going through things and becoming better person. Some people say people don't change. I don't fucking believe that because I've changed a lot in my life. I think people can. I think that's what life's all about, really. And so it's wonderful to see you going through your changes. to see where you're at. And I am really happy that your relationship lasted and you're like sort of living your truth for the first time. And also being in a healthy relationship at the same time,

I think that's great. For Lana, I think it's amazing that, you know, as a woman who's very open with her sexuality and has all these desires, is able to sort of be who she really is and have a guy who really cares about her and accepts that so she could continue to be that person and experiencing those things because she's still super young, you know,

and that's what it's all about. So good luck to you guys. I really hope that when we do a follow-up at the end of this year, you guys are still together, and maybe even in quote-unquote love, maybe you guys will be saying that, I don't know, maybe you'll be feeling it, but we'll all check in then.

Okay. Thanks so much for calling in. Okay. Have a good one. I'm going to meet you soon. I'll come visit. Bye. Yes, yes.

All right. I have to come see a new place. I know. I know. I will. And the dog and your girl. All right. Bye.

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Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private. Like I said, all you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.

And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.