Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 287 - Betty Boop is Looking for a Straight Up Sugar Daddy Situation

Episode Date: June 10, 2019

Betty Boop calls in because she's looking to set herself up with a sugar daddy who would pay her monthly bills in exchange for blowjobs, threesomes, companionships and more. The problem is she doesn't know where to go to find a guy who would be into it in the first place. Where can she go to meet a guy interested in this type of arrangement? What does she want to do with him once she meets him? How far is she willing to go with him sexually in exchange for cash? Is she a "whore" if she actually goes through with it? Tune in to find out as well as hear all about her friends ongoing sugar daddy situation with her boss and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.

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Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. If you want to call into the show, that'd be great. I love to have all kinds of guests on the show with all kinds of problems. It doesn't always have to be about sex yet. Most other people who call in, their problems are about sex. So if you have a problem, you want unprofessional advice because, you know, I'm no therapist.

I'm not a professional. I give unprofessional advice. But if you're looking for that kind of advice, you know, write me an email at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I'll have you on the show. Today I have on exactly that, a listener of the show who wrote in because she wanted to know how she could set up a straight up booty call or sugar daddy situation for herself. not just a booty call. It's like a booty call with cash, right? So that makes it more of a Sugar Daddy situation.

She wrote in and said, you know, she's kind of looking for a guy that she could fool around with and get a paycheck at the end of the month. Turns out that her friend, actually a really good friend of hers, has that exact scenario, and she sort of hears about it all the time from her friend, and she's kind of jealous and wants the same thing.

Will she ever find it? I don't really know. but we talk about how she could go about getting that situation in her own life, which sounds kind of horrifying because why would I promote that or help a situation like that out? But like listen, you got to listen to the whole podcast because I think that sometimes in this situation maybe it wouldn't be a good thing for a woman to do something like that. But in this situation, it sounds like this is exactly what this girl's looking for. She knows what she wants.

She's really interested in just having meaningless sex or just having sex. into sex and she's looking she really needs some cash and she doesn't want a relationship right now so that kind of situation would work perfectly for her it's not like she's looking to do it with a lot of guys she's looking for one guy one sugar daddy can that relationship exists can she go out and actually find that I don't know I give her some advice that I think is kind of good um so that's what we discuss we discuss why she wants to do it what she wants to do with the guy what kind of guy she's looking for and we also talk about the situation that her friend has which is

very interesting and what she does with that guy they get into all kinds of crazy sexual stuff and she's looking to do that same stuff too this girl's a girl who's pretty open-minded and is looking to fulfill a lot of her sexual fantasies with a guy who's willing to pay for that

so anyway stay tuned to hear all about it I'll be right back on with Betty Boop how are you hi how are you good so um you're calling in. You're like really interesting. First of all, I'm so excited that more women are calling into my show. I would always put ads on Craigslist and I never got any women that way because most women are not on Craigslist sort of soliciting people so they don't see my ad.

So really all the women I get are actual listeners of my show and that's your deal too. You said you were like scrolling through podcasts one day at work because you were bored and you found my podcast and then you decided to call in because you've been thinking about something really interesting. Definitely something I've never heard of before. Like, you know, and why don't you explain what it is that you wrote in to me and the question that you had? Well, I wrote it to you because I'm single, and I was looking for some sort of some sort of companionship, quote-unquote, sugar-dadi-ish situation with another man. because I was figuring I was looking to financially to myself in a better situation and I didn't want to go on any website

or anything like that because of my job. I could potentially lose my job if I did something like that. I just didn't know where to go to find this sort of older. I would like for him, I feel he'd be older than me and more, you know, sophisticated than I am.

So, you know, we could have some sort of rapport in order to, you know, I can give him companionship, sex, great blow jobs, and he could, you know, financially help me. Yes, maybe swallow, you know, a little bit, you know. A little bit? What are you going to do? Swallow a little bit and then spit half and swallow and spit. No, no, I'll swallow it all.

I'll swallow it all. Wait, so. Yeah. I'm not into bondage or anything like that, but, you know, I'm a pretty fun girl. Right. So what you said, but you did say in your email this. And, you know, I didn't know, like, I was wondering, like, is it the question for you is, because you said in your email, would that be considered, like, would I be considered a whore if I did something like that? And I was like, oh, is this girl sort of calling in because she doesn't know whether she should do it or is she just calling in because she wants to and she really wants to know how to make that shit happen, you know?

Are you like. Who things? Okay. I want to do it. But I also think in my mind, if you. any of my family or friends would know, they would think I'm sort and sort of blood, so to speak. Probably.

And also, yeah, of course, because I don't think that women get judged sexually the same as men do. Mm-hmm. So if women did half of the things that men do, we would probably be like there were human beings on the planet, but it's still, whether you look at it one way or the other, still the same thing. Mm-hmm. So you kind of know.

I've always been a person. Yeah. Yeah. You kind of know. But you kind of know that people would consider that like a horridish thing to do, right? Like that's just what people would think. Not that it's right or wrong, and we haven't gotten into what I think about that or whatever, but you kind of know that that's the deal, right?

Absolutely. I think that people would think that. So it would be a situation where I would want it to be Greek, of course. And I would do my best to make the person. and happy where we can set up some sort of situation where we need up once a week or, you know, we have certain days and time playing with that I see this person or what have you. I just don't know where to find this person and how to be as discreet as possible with finding this person.

Okay. So even though you know, right, that most people, your friends and family wouldn't agree with it, you're totally okay with that, right? This is something that you still want to do regardless, right? Because I wouldn't tell them. Like, I wouldn't tell them that I'm doing this. So that's why I was confused with your email. Because I was like, does she really want to know or does she already know?

Like, you know, because when you put in your email, the last thing was like, does this make me a horror? It seemed like that's what we were going to sort of discussing. I thought with emailing you this email that I would be judged. And I don't know. Oh, okay. I feel like the way people take it up in society that people would judge a woman for saying something. like that you know listen this is what i think in life okay um it's like it's how you judge yourself is the most important thing what i think is the problem is when people do something that they

feel is wrong but they do it anyway and whatever that is for you you make up right you make up what's right and wrong for you you know what i'm saying so if you you're all your friends could think it's wrong and think it's a hoarse thing to do and think that that makes you or but if you don't think that it is then who's to say that it's not okay for you to do that you know and then we could discuss like how you do it and how to do it properly and all that kind of things

and you know I don't even know if I could give you that information but we'll figure it out you know but it's not anybody else's sort of business you know what's right or like there is no right or wrong for everybody it's really you're your own job but the worst thing would be

is you to do it knowing or feeling like or having some part of you that felt like that was wrong because you would not feel right about doing it. But if you feel totally okay with it and you know that this is something you want to do and you go in very clear-headed about that,

that's all that matters, I think, personally. Honestly, I absolutely do feel okay doing this. Uh-huh. Okay, that's good. I have no problem. Okay, that's good because I did ask one of my friends because I'm like, I thought you were calling in to find out

whether a guy or men would think you were a whore if you were sort of soliciting them for money and wanted to set up that situation. I asked my friend who happens to be the wealthiest dude I know, somebody that would be the type of person that you could set up this kind of situation with because he has that kind of money, right? And he has that kind of lifestyle. That's the kind of guy you want to sort of make this arrangement with if you do. And, you know, he was like, yeah, that would make her a whore.

But I was like, okay, but like, so then my next. next question would be is that like a bad thing aren't horrors quote unquote necessary like isn't there a place for that or isn't that needed by men and you know and isn't it a way for women to make money like a woman like you who has no problem with it who enjoys sex feels like they want to set up the situation for them and feels totally fine with it isn't that okay and he said yes sure there's absolutely a place for it but she just needs to know that that's does make her that, you know, the whore word. But, like, you know, is whore a bad word?

You know, it depends on how you look at it. I don't look at it as it being a whore. Right. Because it's not like I'm looking to set up multiple clients or something like that. Uh-huh. One companionship to the daddy relationship is good enough for me. Right. You don't want to be fucking five guys for cash.

You're like... Exactly. All I need is one. You're like the lazy. You're like, I just want to do one guy once a week and I want to make a lot of money. And I will make him happy for the hours that we're together. You what? I will make him happy for the hours that we're together.

It will totally be worth every minute of his sentence. Every minute. Right. Okay, so let me ask. Okay. So you're, that's the whole, like, the biggest thing that I wanted to get past was that you know what you're doing. You're okay with it. You don't really care what people think about it.

You just don't want people that would judge you to know about it. So you're going to keep this a total secret. Nobody knows about it, right? That's why you're calling into my show because you need to talk about this, right? Or you want to sort of figure it out. Exactly. I want to sort of navigate how I get this done without it being a whole big thing. Right.

Now, let me ask you this. How long have you been thinking about this? I've been thinking about this around about six months. And like, do you know why? How it came up? Okay. Okay. Okay, well, I have another friend who has some sort of sugar daddy situation set up already.

And the guy, he treats her really well. They, every now and then if she wants to go out somewhere, he takes her. And, you know, all she has to do, I mean, not to say that this would be that easy, But all he has to do is give him a low job. Why do we? Uh-huh. And how about, does he actually pay her something like in a... He pays her monthly.

He pays her monthly. How much? $700 a month for two blowjobs a week. Two blue jobs a week, $700. Let's do the math. I want to see how much she's getting per blow job because I don't know if that's so great. I think she needs to raise. Hold on.

$700 divided by $8 equals, oh, $87 a blow job. Okay. She's happy with it because it pays more than half of her bill. Right. So she doesn't complain. Right. It's all relative. That's $700 extra cash in her pocket.

And let me ask me this. Does she like that guy? She actually has a good friendship, quote unquote, with the guy. Uh-huh. So they get along really well. So she has no problem doing what he's acting. her to do. Okay. And now do you know, like, obviously you know about her situation, so she's told you about it. How did that happen for her? And how did their relationship go from being friends to being

like this arrangement? Like, how did she hook that up in her life? Well, he's married and has a wife, and they used to work together. He used to be her manager. And he kept telling her that he wanted to have sex to their sex with her. And one day she mentioned that she didn't have enough money to pay you can bill. Uh-huh. So he said, I know a way where you can, you can pay your bills,

and I can get what I want, and you can get what you want. Right. And she said, and that's how she put that on the table. He put the number on the table. He said, I'll pay you $700 a month.

All you have to do is blow me twice a week. Right. And does she do anything else except blow jobs or just blow jobs? Well, he just wanted blow jobs. If he wanted more, I'm almost positive. she was charged. Right. Let me ask you, is she dating anyone

or anything like that, or is she single? She actually is dating someone. She has a really serious relationship. That guy doesn't know about it. Oh my God, I love people. Don't you love? Don't you love how interesting people are? The shit that goes on on this planet

amazes me. I want her on this phone call, too. Oh my God, okay. I'm interviewing her now. Okay, so she has a really hard, she has a really serious boyfriend and she's been doing this on the side and he has no idea about it. How long has she been blowing that guy for? Four years. And of course his wife doesn't know that he's getting these sides low jobs. And I'm a positive. His wife probably doesn't care for she doesn't have to do the work. Let me tell you. Exactly. I mean, I've been with some guys that just want to get

laid so much that you're kind of like, can't somebody take over half the time? Like, you know what I mean after a while. Had somebody open and let them do the hard job. I'm sure his wife's not into sucking his dick, two times a week, every week all the time depending on how long they're married. Right. So, okay, so she's been doing this for about four years, and eventually you're like, oh, my God, I want that situation too.

Like, you're working your ass off. How much you're making a week? You know, what do you have to do to make $700 a month? Like probably a lot more at your office job, right? Yeah, a lot more. a lot more at my office job. I like my office job that I fly the

piece of it, but I figure not me to say, you know, they love their job, but I'm like, hey, if I could do that and do this, and I'm giving the best of both squirrel, why not? Okay, let me ask you this. Is there any part of you

that, is it just like the second thing I was wondering when I looked at your e-bba, I was like, oh, is this something that you want to do because you're kind of thinking, like, oh, that would kind of be hot to have that kind of situation. And, you know, so you would do it for, not just for the money, but also for the sex, right? Or is it something strictly for the money? I enjoy sex.

I really enjoyed sex. I enjoy masturbation. Uh-huh. Anal is a little questionable. It depends on how many shots I've had. Uh-huh. But I enjoy sex. So if I'm already enjoying it for free and I can help someone.

out in the same process or not. That's the way I'm looking at it. Right. Now, this is what I think in life. Now, okay, do you know about sugardady.com? Like, let's get down to the basics. Okay, there's sugardady.com where you could literally go on there.

And I think you even put in, like, the price. I remember seeing, like, a dateline episode of somebody that got murdered on there. And, like, there's, like, prices that you put in there that you want to be paid on a monthly basis. Like, it's pretty much exactly what you're looking at. do and it's even got the title of like what you know it's sugarduty.com like have you ever check that website out i didn't want to do that because again if something happens to flip up where my job would find out i just didn't want to put my job at risk okay but but do you have to put a picture up there like you go of course you're going to make up a fake when i when i went on there

i i saw that you needed a picture so i just didn't i didn't want to change it but let me ask you this Did you figure out, did you see whether you could just put a body shot? Listen, most guys are on, like, if they're looking for like a play toy, they're looking for your body shot most. Like, I mean, can you put a body shot and then, like, send the face once you've sort of vetted, you know, each guy to make sure that it's not someone you know and whatever? And then eventually send them, can't you just set up an account where you have, like, pictures of your body and not your face?

I'm not 100% sure if you could just put a body shot. But when I went on the website and I saw people's actual faces, I was like, okay, I'm not going to do that because I just don't want to, you know, jeopardize what I have going for my nine to five. Right. But I'm sure there are so many people like you, okay, that feel that way. So I am sure that you are able to go on there and set up a whole account and put in all of your information exactly what you're looking for on sugardye.com and just put in some things. face shots. So put in some body shots. And even if you have pictures of like with your face, just take it out. You know how to Photoshop, I'm sure, right? Just like take that out. Because listen, I have an ad on adult friend finders for my podcast. And you know, most people

there don't have their picture. It's like 50-50. I'd say there's a lot of people that just have like a picture of their dick or girls have pictures of their tits. They don't have pictures of their face. So, you know, I'm sure on sugardady.com, it's the same thing. So that's one angle that you could use. If you want a situation like your friend, okay? Sometimes, what the fuck is that noise? I'm pulling

off the highway. Oh, okay. Sorry. Sorry, no, no. So if you want a situation like that, sometimes just setting the attention, intention, in your head, and then going about your daily life, like eventually you'll bump into that guy

like in real life, you know, like the way your friend did it. Like, that more organic way of it happening where, you know, it just sort of happened. I mean, if you want to set it up, like, specifically, like, this is what you want to do and you want to do it like a job, like, you're going to have to go on a website or something. Like, well, how else is it going to happen? I don't know. You know, because most...

That's a good point. Most women that do, like, sort of a sugar-duty situation, it's happened to them through just like something like your friend's situation. You know what I mean? Or like these girls go out to places. This is the other thing you can do. Like they go out to places. People do this all the time in New York where like wealthy people hang out.

Right? You dress up really nice. Go to places where you know that wealthy guys hang out. Dress really nice. And go to those places until you meet a guy that you could have a situation. And just like your friend sort of like, knew what she was looking for and knew how to play the guy so that he would offer her the situation, you could do the same thing.

I think it's a lot of very wealthy men are very sort of on guard of women that are looking to just like take their money from them. Do you understand? So you can, I'm not saying just take the person's money because, you know, I'm also offering up companionship. It doesn't have to be strictly sex. time maybe the person needs someone that's called to or maybe they need someone to run errands for them but are you gonna but okay but will you charge them for that no i mean okay absolutely

i mean you would have to obviously build some sort of rapport of the person to know that you can trust them and they can trust you and then we will see where that would go as sexual things are concerned right i don't know if that makes any sense no it does listen this is why it's like it's good to sort of start talking about this to somebody because you start to realize like, oh, like how much have I really thought this out, right? You know, I'm asking you certain questions and you're kind of like, it sounds like maybe it's the first time you're thinking about it that way or a different way, you know? It really isn't the first time I'm thinking about it.

It just seems more difficult to me of where do I go to find this person because it's not like going out to the regular whole thing. hotel and going to the bar and sitting there seeing what comes up. That sort of situation is to me, it's pretty hard to come by if I like, how I feel about it. I don't feel like

that sort of man actually this and he's just going to fall out the sky. No, you're going to have to go out and get it either one of two ways. Either you're going to have to go on a website. You could put an ad on Craigslist without a picture. Do you know what I mean? And just run it all the time and start getting

seeing emails and put body shots. That's what people do on Craigslist. Don't respond to other people's ads. Put your own ad up, okay? Only put pictures of your body, right? And put exactly what you're looking for, companionship. Use proper words so you don't get busted and cops don't come looking for you.

Because as far as I'm concerned, I think prostitution is illegal. And like asking, saying, I want to give you blowjubs for, you know, you can't sort of put that out there, right? But there's a way to sort of say it. Absolutely. Yeah, there's a way to say it where it's not exactly what. Or at the same, and what I would do at the same time, find that like I don't know where you live

we don't need to know where you live my show's anonymous right so you know go to drive 40 minutes or 20 minutes or 10 minutes to the place that's closest to you that is you know has the highest paid men and go to places bars lounges clubs in that area looking as good as you could look and start trying to meet guys and make friends with them because that's another way to do it like your friend did like that was a guy she knew who was

her boss and it just kind of happened naturally so if you start going to like places where wealthier guys hang out older men that are maybe looking for that they work a long hours maybe they have a wife already and they're just looking for some side action that's easy maybe they have to pay for it and it's just that's a better situation for them and you you could offer that they're going to be in hotels they're going to be in you know less lounges of hotel. Like, yeah, that's a good thing. Like a really, like a five-star hotel.

Go to the... They're going to be in unexpected places. Not even. No, that's not unexpected. No, that's not. No, absolutely not. They're not going to be an unexpected. Those guys travel a lot for business.

Go to the place that has the four seasons or the Ritz Carlton closest to you. Okay, like a city, like a place where someone would be doing business. Go to the nearest city closest to you and go to the first. five-star hotels and sit in those lobby, sit in those bars and those lounges. I just said the most brilliant thing to you. See, I'm figuring this out as we go. I obviously don't do any

kind of investigating before I get on a call. I just suss it out while we're talking. But listen, that's what you need to do is like go to those places. That's where those guys are going to be. If you listen to my show, which you have, I know, all these guys, they always talk about

how they're always on the road and they're always in hotels. You know, the guys that have the kind of money that you're looking for that's going to drop a lot of cash just for like some companionship and a side piece they're going to be in five-star hotels traveling for business totally true totally true i know these kind of people i live in new york city so it's very easy you know those kind of guys actually exist here all the time and there are bars that my friends who are looking i mean they're not necessarily looking like they're actually looking for real boyfriends or like husbands and they're looking for wealthy guys right so they go to a certain place

in New York where these kind of guys hang out, right? Do you live near any big cities? I do. I live near a major city. I live near a major city. Okay. A really big city. Okay.

So you just need to find out where those clubs and lounges in that city exists, where older, go to older. How old are you again? I'm 34, but I don't look 34. Okay, what are your stats? Like, what are you on a scale of 1 to 10? I always ask everybody. I'm an 8.25 for sure.

Okay, that's good. And you have a hot body. Yeah, I have a nice breast, a big booty, kind of thick, you know. Right. Okay, so, and you don't look 34. How old do you look, you think? I would say I look around 28, between 28 and 29. Okay, cool.

So tell guys you're 26. Awesome. You know what I mean? Tell guys you're really young. Yeah, yeah. dress up really hot, make your, but classy, okay? If you're going to go to these places with wealthier guys, okay, you want to, you don't want to look like a cheapo, right?

You don't want to give off that impression because even if that's what maybe some people think you're doing and that's who you're being because you're offering bloodshunders, that's not really what these guys are looking for. Like you want to class it up a little bit because these guys have cash and they're going to be in like nice places and they're, are more likely to come over and talk to you if you if it doesn't look like they're going over to talk to a hooker do you understand so you have to dress really classy even if it's you spend like you know five hundred dollars on like a really nice outfit right from so that you look really good and that's your like go out and find my sugar daddy outfit like whatever it is it's an investment in your future i just as i'm talking i get what you're saying you can even return that outfit oh my god people are probably horrified about what i'm talking about right like that i'm giving you advice to go out and find a guy to just sleep with her money but um you know and but like spend a lot of money on an outfit uh and go out and wear that same

outfit every time you go to these places like i said look classy look amazing get your hair done get your makeup done like make sure you look killer and then go and sit at the bar alone and in any five-star hotel and do that for a one month straight and there's no way you want me to guy you know what your problem will be, which one do I do it with, Kathy? Like, most of them are ugly. I haven't met when I'm attracted to, but like, you'll meet them. You will. Okay.

I'm going to try this. You should, but I just want to make sure that would you do, let me ask you this, would you do it with a guy that you weren't attracted to or is it important that you have an attraction to him? I will say this. I'm at the point in my life that it might not be your looks that at a track. me it might be your vibe or the way you carry yourself or you know your personality

to me there are other things besides your look that I might be attracted to right but I mean is it important in this situation like if you met a guy okay or like say you say you don't do my say you take the Craigslist like route and instead of the going to the five star hotel route right and you get a guy and he sends you a picture or you meet him at a bar and he's like 400 pounds and he's like a four you know, but he's willing to do your situation.

Would you do it? It would have to depend on his personality, to be honest. Right. Because I think the personality is going to make a good or break that situation. Will you make out with the guy? Yeah. If his personality is good, I surely will.

Right. Okay. And now do you feel like you... It's a bit of a chubby chaser. Oh, me too. I like chubby guys. Me too. I totally...

I've talked about it on my podcast before, but like I totally like bigger, guys sometimes like I don't know there's something about it like I don't have a problem with that at all you know women are very different than guys you know we're like more forgiving men are like ridiculous what they're so picky sometimes you know with like when it comes to like looks and bodies but like I'm not really as a woman I've liked bigger guys you are you're cool with that right so but I what the whole point is okay so you're okay with better guys so that doesn't mean something but if it was someone that you found like I don't know physically not attractive would you still do it for the money or

it would have to be someone. No, I don't, I would have to be something that attracts me. If it's not his bliss, it would have to be his personality. Something would have to attract me to the person in order for me to get wet and get, you know, to get the juice to swallow. And you want this to be satisfying for you as well? Of course. I like sex.

I mean, it was the point of having sex if you're not going to come. Well, you seem like the point for you is going to be like a paycheck. So I don't, I didn't. No, I'm not. No, this is also going to be fun for me, too, because I enjoy sex. Okay. The added bonus is the paycheck. Right.

Okay. So you're really looking for a guy that you actually kind of like that will pay you to sleep with him. Again, this person is not going to fall out of the sky. Right. This is such a far-fent situation. Like, to me, that's hard to find someone who needs some sort of side companionship. and that you also like and everyone. Yes.

That's, you know, because I'm pretty easy to get along with. Mm-hmm. I would have to see how, like, if he's easy to get along with. Do you like older guys? Yes, I do. I do. For some reason, as I'm getting older, they get more. I totally agree.

I think so, too. Absolutely. What about, like, a 59-year-old? olds. Absolutely. Okay. They have their own way of carrying themselves that are so much different than this group. It's actually awesome. So listen, I'm telling you, if you go to these five-star hotels, right, and hang around

and open yourself up to talk, you know, way older guys, like 59, 60, 61, 62, like, you will, and you're into that age thing, like, these guys that have a lot of cash, a lot of times they exude, like you will be attracted to them because of their success and their power and their age. Like they always have this thing that does make them attractive, right? So that's really the pond that you should be fishing in. Very old and super successful. Those are the guys that have that kind of money to drop.

And they do exist. It's not like someone has to drop from the sky. That situation is available and it's out there. Most people that want that situation Set it up either professionally And they're sort of escorting But that's like, you know They have multiple people

You know, you're kind of looking for something Like because your friend has something And you want that same thing Which is more so like You know one person That you could do it with Exactly just one I don't need just one

One is enough Right What is your history though Like when was your last like relationship With a guy Have you ever been married or what's your deal? I've never been married. My last relationship was about a year ago.

Uh-huh. And how long was that relationship for her? Oh, that relationship was for like six years. We were engaged to be married, but he wasn't really ready to take the plunge, so to speak. Uh-huh. So I wasn't going to make him or force him or, you know. So, like, we're friends. We're good friends.

Oh, really? Okay, that's cool. So it just ended sort of not in that bad of a way, but you guys been broken up for a year. He's your friend. And you're not looking for any kind of relationship at this point? No. No, not right now, no. No, no. Would you be open to, like, just putting yourself out there to dating and just trying to find a wealthier guy so that you could sort of set yourself up with, like, a boyfriend that would, like, maybe help you out? Or would you rather do it this way so that you don't have to have a relationship and you just know that you want the money? I rather do it this way because I don't really want a relationship right now. So this is easy. And plus, to me, I'm looking at this. It's like it's going to be fun, something new. Right. You have to, right.

It's, you know, it's so interesting to talk to a woman, right, who is straight up being honest about looking for something that so many people would be super judgmental to. A lot of guys would even be judgmental to, not just. women. I think a lot of men, because I think a lot of men's biggest fear is some girl is just going to use me for my money, right? But you're letting it be known straight up that like guys with a lot of money using girls for sex. Like what's the fucking difference, right? Like you're going to be giving them something in return. It's not like you're just taking their money for nothing. You want a situation where it's very fair and balanced that the guy's getting what he wants,

you're getting what you want. And there's guys with a lot of cash that have that. I have that scenario all the time they hire straight up escorts you know um and sometimes well sometimes i think at some point the guy who's hiring just escorts at some point would want something else like i like i like i listen to one of your podcasts and one of the guys that you know sometimes he hired an escort and sat in the room and talked to her for two hours oh yeah that's right that's that's still that's still that's still companionship it's just in another and another and another other way. Right. The only thing I think about, and we would need a guy on the

call to find out the answer, is like would a guy, like, with that kind of money, right, want the same girl all the time, or if he has that kind of money, does he want to change it up all the time? He probably doesn't want the same girl all the time, but he has that kind of money,

but he probably doesn't even have the same girl all the time. You get what I'm saying? You might have a situation set up with the same girl, but I'm pretty sure there's more. There's others in the mix, right. You want to just be one in the mix and you don't care. And last question for you, do you feel at all that you would, like, there's a potential

if the guy was like really cool and really nice that you could maybe get attached if you were, like, spending all that time with him or you totally know that for sure that you could do that situation and you would never get emotionally attached to him? Well, I would like to say that I would never get emotionally attached, but let's be realistic. I'm a woman. Okay. Women, we're emotional at times, you know, because that's what women do. So I don't see myself getting attached, but never say never.

But I really don't see myself getting attacked. Right, because you're not really... But I don't ever want to say never. Right. You're not really looking for a really true. I'm a human being. I'm a human being, you know. Right.

And I'm not, you know, cold-hearted. Right. But what if the guy was married? If he was married, that's even better because it puts it in a perspective. that he's probably have a situation at home that he doesn't want to mess up or leave.

No, you know what that Ray Kay said in one of the episodes and you'll probably remember it when I say it? He said that, you know, some of the girls that are on there, like they sort of don't want, like they're on there and they're doing the sort of escorting thing

because they really like sex. They're not really good at relationships and they want to be with guys that are unavailable because then that creates the boundary for them, right? When you're sort of out and about in the real dating world,

if you don't put those boundaries up, then everything gets so complicated, right? But when you go into situations, yeah, and then you might like somebody because there isn't that wall up there. Like this is a sort of set up thing. He's married. I'm just doing this for the money, you know. But when you put that in place, then everybody knows the deal. And then it's easier sometimes, I think, for these women that he has said, for them to know what it is and for them to sort of like keep their emotions out of it because it's set up in a way. ahead of time. So, you know, I'm assuming that maybe it would work that way for you. It's better

that way for you, too, as well. I would think so, yes. I definitely would take off. Now, does your friend who knows that you're looking for this, right? Does she know that you're interested in doing this? I, I, I, I, we talked about it over a drink or two, but her situation is like very isolated because it's not like he has a whole bunch of wealthy friends right yeah because I was going to say why don't you tell her like you're looking for maybe she'll like does she want to pass them along to you like does she want to add you into the mix I mean she really doesn't like pass him along because she's it she's she caught she enjoys what she's what she's doing she just happens to get paid for it she's actually enjoying it and having fun

with the guy like they actually do things outside of him getting real jobs right but she's having a good time and i don't fault her she just happens to have the best of both worlds right now you get to have your boyfriend at home and you get to have this other guy you guys occasionally give him bull jobs you go out and do fun things together oh my god so many guys are like so many guys are listening right now and what's so funny is it's so hypocritical because guys are always on here talking about cheating, right? But I know so many guys right now are listening and like, oh my God, girls are so evil. Like, listen to her. Because here it is, you're talking about your girl, but like, she's got the best of both

world. You've got her boyfriend, then she sucks some else's cock on the side, and then she's got money being paid for him. And I... And you know, it's the funny thing about it. There are just as many women doing that as there are men. Totally. It's the truth. I don't get as many women. That's why I like to. Get women on because... you know, I don't talk to them as much, but that is the truth. Women are cheating, and it's a, it's a lot of stuff that goes on down there. It's so fascinating to me, you know.

I was wondering if she would just, like, pass them along or if he had a friend, but I guess because of your answer is that he, you already thought of that, right? She doesn't know of anyone. He has no friends. He's not looking for a third blow job from you. No. No, she's actually taking care of him pretty well.

And at this point, they're so comfortable in your situation. She actually does more than what's required. Like if she knows she's going to see him, she's buying a lingerie. He's not even into that. He wasn't even into that type of stuff. She's introducing him to new things, like finger up his ass. She's really just working it all the way around. And I'm like, wow, you're doing a really good job.

You deserve that $700. Like, holy crap. Right. Okay. So but does she know that you want to sell? this up for yourself? I told her and she was just like, you know, if you could find the right person, she was like, you'll have a lot of fun because it's like they already have a situation

at home that even if it's not great when you guys get together and spend time together, you have fun because they're not having fun at home. So you get to do fun things with the person. You get to hang out and have intellectual conversations that they would normally have with their wives. You get to experiment with the person. They let you do. She even strapped up and fucked him in the ass.

Right. That's pretty awesome. Right. That's to me that that's like a sign of power. Like, wow. Wow. That's deep. Well, it's interesting that, you know,

this is what's like the sad thing about life. And I think it goes for women and men that when people can't be who they really are with the people that they're the closest with. Like, you know, like this guy, right? Like, he's probably always wanted to get fucked in the ass with a strap on, and he probably always kept that secret from his wife, and he keeps it secret from her. And he's been married to his wife that's 30 years. Right, but he can't bring that to the table.

Right. He never ever gives him blow jobs, though. She never would? I guess that's why he never gives him blowjob. That's how my friend ended up giving him blowjob. And the next thing you know, there's a few years in, and he's getting fucked in the ass. Right, with a strap on, right, because obviously his wife, if she didn't want to do blowjobs, she probably, like, wasn't really that into sex.

He had all these things going on in his head that he wanted, and he couldn't take it to that relationship. So he had to find it someplace else, and this is just what goes down. I just wish that people could be more open with themselves and then others so that they could keep all that stuff in one place, because wouldn't it just be easy? Like, you know, it's costing him $700 to go let his free fuck fly. But it's probably, I guess, better because he has been with the same person. So it is something new.

He can have. He also has the best of both worlds, right? Because he's got. He really does. He doesn't have any problems with her. He's not complaining because she's getting what she wants out of the situation. She also happens to be in a position where she can introduce him to new things sexually that he is not doing at home. Right.

He's getting what he wants to get to keep his family. and his wife and everyone's happy. Yeah, totally. Yeah. So maybe it isn't like the solution isn't to, like maybe the solution is what I've talked about before is like polygamy. Like a man just needs more than one woman and maybe women the same thing. I don't know, you know.

I just feel like the answer to everything is not always so black and white. It's true. It's not, it shouldn't be this way or that way. Exactly. Sometimes you can find the gray line in the middle that makes it all work out. Or every situation is different. That's why I do my podcast because, you know, you could sort of look at something on the surface, right, and say, oh, that person's wrong for doing that. But if you really talk about them and you hear the whole story, you might feel different, you know, and that's the way that everything is.

And I think that you made a really good point. It's like things are black or white, right or wrong. And one other thing that I forgot to say, I'm kind of bi-ish. Uh-huh. So, I mean, that would be another thing that this person. Oh, that's better. That's even better. That he wouldn't be doing on the regular basis.

So, I mean. Right. So you would bring, you could bring other women into the mix, is what you're saying. Absolutely. Like, why not? Right. You would probably be able to let your freak flag fly in that situation do all kinds of things. Absolutely.

Absolutely. Like, why not positive? So fulfill some of your fantasies. Have you ever been with a woman before? I have been with about three or four women But why not experience more Like honestly now my whole fantasy Is really to just strap up and fuck someone in the ass

Really? Because your friend did? Pretty Absolutely she was like It felt so liberated She goes I felt like I had the best bra on of my life She goes I felt like I was on top of the world It was a feeling that I

never felt before because it's like this is what men really feel like when they're really controlling you. And I'm like, wow, I want to do that. Like, wow. That's so interesting. I've never had the desire to fuck a guy in the ass with a strap on.

But I've never thought that it's- I'm going to feel liberated and in control of the whole situation. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's so interesting that she had that experience, like in that she actually felt not just like sexually turned on by it, but she did feel this sense of like sort of empowerment that maybe women don't feel because we don't

sort of penetrate or violate. You know, we're not going inside, right? They're going inside. So maybe there is something to it. I don't know. That's kind of interesting. She said she was so turned on. She was dripping wet and just giving, giving it to him.

I'm like, wow. Let me ask you, this is he fuck her? I mean, does he fuck her too or no? Well, now they've elevated to that. But like the first two years, they, you know, they strictly did go jobs. But now they've elevated. So, like, Kim just eating, they haven't had vaginal intercourse. Uh-huh.

But he's eating her, he's eating her pussy. She's fucked him in the ass. They haven't graduated all the way to that yet. I don't know why, but, hey, it's none of my business. I'm just getting the gory details of the good part. Right. Right. And she doesn't care if she gets off of whatever way.

he'll go down on her so she gets off that way because I mean if she's dripping wet from like screwing him in the ass right she's going to want to come afterwards right so if she does she does get off that was my question too and like does he make you come so yeah he eats my pussy until I come I'm like wow wow he's a trooper yeah wow so yeah so your girlfriend has really made you jealous and you want her exact situation and listen I think you know a guy that's looking for a side thing in a way is going to want to do those things that maybe he's not comfortable doing with his significant other. And if you're really open and talk to him like you are with me that like you're really open or looking to explore that stuff too, like I think a guy would be really lucky to find you, you know, and you both would be really happy. You just got to find that guy. So you have that.

I think he'll be, I think he'll be really, really happy. Yeah. And I have to say, you stop thinking that. it's so hard to find. There are a lot of guys that are looking for a stress-free sort of situation that isn't a relationship, you know, because relationships are really difficult and most likely these guys already have one or they're not interested in it, you know? Um, so if you could give a guy like all the sexual pleasure he wants without any of the emotional nonsense that they can't fucking stand from women, uh, you know, you're going to make a guy really happy. A lot of guys are

looking for that exact scenario. You just have to go out and be where those guys are. And like I said, they're at the places that it cost, you know, $20. There's the places like I have to start going. You have to. I told you you have to invest in your little future

a side job, okay? You have, that means going out and getting a very expensive, really nice outfit, you know, that costs you somebody so you look really good and in place that you fit in in at one of those places and you walk in and you just sit at the bar and let guys talk to you.

And you will eventually meet a guy that you have a little chemistry for, and it could turn into that situation, absolutely. I wish you luck. I can't wait to hear what happens if you actually take my advice. Or you also, at the same time, if I were you, I put ads on Craigslist and sugardady.com and just take your face out of the picture. I will try some of the, I will try you, though, the Sugar Daddy

with the face. I'll, you know, I'll keep you updated. I have your email. You have my email. Yes, Betty Boo. Guys are going to be probably writing into me, like, put me in touch with her. I'm not a dating service for any kind of. Like, she sounds like a party.

Yeah, exactly. Listen, I would never, like, if my friend came to me and said that they wanted to do this, like, I would grill them the way I grilled you. I would want to make sure that my friend would. and feel bad afterwards. I actually had a friend once who wanted to solicit one of my friends who had a lot of cash for sex. And he was kind of like, okay, like, what does she want extra month?

And it was like sort of talked about in a very casual way. Nothing was ever set in stone. But I felt really weird about it because I started to feel like my friend was doing it for the wrong reason. And she was like a basket case and a nut job. And I felt like right afterwards she would feel really freaked out about herself. but I don't feel that way about you. I think you know exactly what you want.

Yeah, and you won't have any kind of conviction. You can tell your friend I'm not that type of whore that he was talking about. I'm like, I'm not, you know, just all over the place. And I've actually thought about this sort of scenario. Right, right. I don't know that he, I think he was, my friend's pretty logical. I think he was talking about horror just in the sense of like somebody, like, if you want to say the definition of that word, the definition is somebody who gets paid for sex, right?

So if you're going to talk like in that way, he would say, yeah, does he look down on you as the whore? No. He would, he believed that the whores are necessary. I just think it's a bad use. I just think it's a bad word to use, right? Because you could say, yes, you are a horror if you're looking for a situation where you give money and you get paid for it, right?

But are you a whore in the negative sense? Not if you're not, if you don't feel that way, if you're not doing something that you think is bad and you're doing something that you want and everyone's happy, who the fuck cares? That guy that's going to be with you is not going to think about that. He's going to think of you as a fun piece of ass, and that's it.

And that's all you're looking for anyone. That's exactly how I want him to think of me at, you know? Right. I mean, don't worry about him wanting to marry you or date you or think you're like the smartest girl on the planet because he's not interested in that. He's coming for a piece of ass, And if that's what you give him and that's all you care about,

then you're not going to be disappointed. And he's not either. Just don't have any expectations of anything more. And you'll be fine. Thank you so much for hearing me out. No, thank you for calling it and being so honest. I think it's like, you know, it takes balls to sort of put this kind of thing out there, considering some of people being judgment.

I think it's awesome. Really? I was super nervous all day today. I'm like, oh, my God. Doesn't it feel good, though, to get it off your chest and to just really be like, I would just really put it out there? It felt really, really good. Yeah.

It felt really good. And wait until you listen to it back. And it felt really good to say it out loud. Uh-huh. It felt really good to say it out loud to what I was thinking in my head. Was it like so totally far-fetched? Right. No, listen, how far-fetched is it that your friend has exactly the same,

that she has a situation. It actually does exist. And there's probably a lot more women than your friend that have that situation. So it does exist. It's not far-fetched. And because you saw your friend have it and you've been single and, you know, on a relationship now, you're like, I want that too. And that's what you want.

And so, you know, go out and try to get it, you know, and keep me posted for sure because I definitely want to follow this story. And wait until you hear your episode. You'll like it even more to be even more interesting. Yes. Can you send me the link when you put it up? I will absolutely let you know when it goes up so that you can listen to it. You'll love it.

Okay. You have my email address if you need anything. I do. Thank you so much. Thanks for calling in. Bye. All right. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a

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