Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 295 - Don is a Voyeur with a Nylon Fetish

Episode Date: August 5, 2019

Don calls in to talk all about being a voyeur and to discuss his nylon fetish and how they both played out in his relationships. How early on did he realize he was a voyeur? What kind of things did he "watch" to turn himself on? When did he realize he had a nylon fetish and how far did he take it? Tune in for all the details which include stories about him and his first girlfriend who played into his "reverse undressing fantasy, the story behind the whole undressing fantasy, his wife, the exhibitionist and the pics they posted on XHamster and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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a good review, write a review. If you want to be on the show, this is supposed to be a call and advice show. Most of the time I'm not giving people my advice, but I like to give advice. But I also just think that regular people are just fascinating and interesting and I like to hear people's interesting life stories. And it turns out that a lot of people do a lot of interesting sexual things and they call to my show and talk about it. So if you have like a secret life or a naughty life or even just an interesting life that has

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He also calls in and to talk about his interest in sort of like reverse. It's like a reverse strip tease thing. that he really likes to watch women getting dressed, right? Somebody walks out of the shower and then, you know, the visual of seeing them put one thing on and then the next thing and the next thing, all the way up until like they're putting on their makeup and going out. All that is like a big turn on for him. He talks about why he thinks he got wired that way and it makes sense, right?

But we get to this at the end and I want to put it in the intro just so people don't miss it, is that he is really looking to see if there's anybody else out there that is into this kind of sort of reverse striptease thing like as a fetish. He doesn't know that it's necessarily him being a voyeur because it's a little bit different than like voyeuristic tendencies, right? What he's into. We discuss what he's into, but he wants to know if there's other people out there that could relate to him that are into it or that know if there's a name because he tries to find porn like this and he just can't really find it. But he gives a shout out to how to get in touch with him at the end.

You could also send me an email at Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com and let me know, like I said, if you want to talk to him about it because you have the same interest, if you know what it means, he's just looking for like a community of people to talk to because he hasn't really found anything or found people like this anywhere. Like there's no porn, there's no people, there's no pictures, you know. Anyway, so we talk all about his panty-hoes, nylon stockings fetish. we talk about is a fetish of like watching women get dressed and get undressed and where he's at

right now with all of that kind of stuff so anyway and if you want to hear his shout out of where to find him on ex hamster because he used to post pictures of his wife listen to that at the end he gives out his name and stuff on there so or I'll go to the reddit page I told him also to go to the reddit page let reddit uh let's talk essay podcast I think is the reddit if you want to want to talk to people who have been on the show, including this guy, Don, go there and you could chime in and start a conversation. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Don. How are you doing today? Hi there. I'm very well. Thank you. How are you?

I'm good. That accent. Should I, could I ask you where you are? I mean, you're not going to, if you tell me like the country, right, like that's not going to out you, right? What kind of accent? No, no. I'm from Scotland, so it's a Scottish accent. Oh, okay, cool. So now, I get a lot of people who listen to my show because they're into pantyhose, right? Like, it seriously is one of the most common fetishes out there because those are like the most downloaded episodes. Is that, am I correct in saying that's, is that how you found my podcast? Because you were Googling for that because you kind of have a nylon fetish, right? That's right.

Yeah, I was just searching for certain things through podcasts. and I just you know and sometimes you get when you go to the iTunes one you kind of can scroll along and see other ones that are suggested for you as well so and your one popped up on that part of it

and I just went through all the the ones you had and just for two of the more recent ones you had yeah yeah and and yours I'm sure is yeah and I'm sure yours is a little bit different because everybody's like I mean, I could talk to like 10 guys who cheated on their wives and everyone's story would be different.

Same thing with like Panias people or people, anyone that's into anything, like every sort of person's story is going to be completely different, right? And like, let me ask you really quick because you use this thing and maybe it's a Scottish thing. I don't know, like a word. Like is this like, do you guys go to a high school that's RAF? Like you kept talking about the RAF in all caps. I'm like, what the fuck is RAF? I thought, Royal Air Force. What?

Like the American Air Force. Yeah. Oh. So I was in the British military. Oh, okay. So that's what that is. Okay, I guess if you live in Scotland, you would know what that is. Because I'm like thinking like, what is Raff? Is Raff like the play where they go to high school? Because like you kept mentioning like that's like certain things went down when you were, you were in the RAF.

And I'm like, what does that mean? Yeah, British military. Yeah, that's right. Oh, okay, cool. So anyway, so start with that. Like, I mean, your thing is that you, it's not job. like nylon right because like you like to watch someone like literally get trust with the whole shabang is that like sort of how it is like or how you would explain it yeah that'll be right I mean basically that part of it that we were talking about the the Royal Air Force side of it was

I went out with a girl who was in the Royal Air Force and they wear stockings and suspenders as part of their their uniform so I would be sharing a room with her in the morning she'd be going to getting ready for work. I was on a later shift and I would just be basically watching or getting addressed and you know, used to get quite aroused. I don't know what it was. It quite, there's certain other things I was thinking about it

the other day. What can have maybe triggered it off? Maybe when I was younger, but the, well, magazines over here. I mean, I grew up, it was only adult porn magazines that you had access to. And anything else was, you know, there's no videos So it's certainly no DVDs. And one of the magazines used to have like a reverse strip tees as part of its monthly

portfolio, whatever set. And it was basically showing a girl coming out of the shower, getting ready, getting dressed. Now she could be putting on a nurse's uniform. She could be putting on a ball gown to go to a dance. Do you know what I mean? It was that reverse and everything was put on, you know, because it was photographs. Everything looked like it was put on slowly. So I used to watch this girl I went out with get dressed in the morning,

and I'd get quite aroused, and she noticed it. So it wasn't as if she put a show on for me. She was still getting ready for work, but it was just done at maybe just a half speed. Yeah. You know, so she'd watch me, she was putting a bra on or putting something on, just kind of seen the reaction, turned us, turned me on, and then turned her on. and you know a few things would happen before she went to work which was incredible so it's a kind of voyeurism but with their permission if you understand yeah of course of course right because i'm not a fan of peeping like peeping tomes and is that one always like the voyeuristic thing is about like sort of watching and someone doesn't know i think that's what it is so maybe it's not so right like i don't know i think it i think it definitely makes sense that if like when you were really young, that was like what you got your hands on, right?

Like very early on and you were looking through that got you like super horny. Like that would make sense, right? That kind of scenario would be imprinted in you, right, as like a major turn on. Major because it would only be one magazine over here in the 70s and the 80s. There was maybe two dozen different types of magazines, but it was only one magazine that would do this reverse strip T. and if you managed to find one because I was obviously too young to buy them you were relying on finding them or being given them if I find one of that edition that publication that's what I always went to first I always looked for it

because I just thought it was I liked it was contrary if you understand the what you know it was contrary it wasn't the way it should be right you know it's the other way around and I used to think that was amazing and I quite liked the aspect of of somebody getting dressed up and looking good and going out looking good but they start off the whole thing is that they start off and this is how it was in the magazine

it's like you see somebody totally naked and then they start to get dressed and the end of the story is they're all done up and they look super beautiful and they're going someplace right and that's how it was in that I think that's kind of like I think that's I could see that I think that they're like smart

that that magazine had that you know what I mean it's like an Like you say, like even now, like there's not a lot of porn you could go look at that gives you sort of that same experience, right? No, no. You search for it and you search for getting dressed, dressed for work. Right. And quite often it's maybe somebody, their wife is getting changed in front of them in the bedroom, but they're doing it on the video camera but without the wife's knowledge. Mm-hmm.

And again, that's kind of like I feel like I'm intruding. But when you can't find, you know, like nylon kind of website, so the girl will come in naked and start getting dressed, putting nylon and so on. So you can get an aspect of it, but not to the point where it's bra panties, nylon, skirt, blouse, shoes, heels, whatever. and you know and going out the door you know you can kind of find aspects of it but it seems to be on a voyeuristic peeping Tom

Avenue as opposed to me saying right I would love to watch you get dressed right like what you did with your girl I mean she kind of knew that you like she saw it in your eyes and like then would just sort of like indulge you right and maybe do it a little slower because she knew that you were into it right

Yes, absolutely. And she got it. I've been with other girls and I'm married now. She, you know, she just seems to be in a rough every morning going out the door. Of course. So it's never, never an aspect. But I have told, explained it. But nobody ever since that first girl has ever really understood it. You and your wife, I mean, listen, you say you're in your late 40s now, right? How long have you been with your wife for? I, since kind of early 30, she's my second wife now.

We were together since 2005, so. Okay, so now with her, like, now I'm assuming, like, maybe you guys have kids. I don't know, you're with to each other for over-tend. No, no children, no. But you, like, she's running out the door, you know, whatever. But, like, in the beginning, right, when things were, like, you know, a little slower because you're just getting to know each other and stuff like that. Like, did you let her know that you were into it?

Was she opened doing it then, or did it just not come? up? She knew I was into nylon, stockings in particular, and would dress up and do all of that side of it. And we've indulged in

me taking photographs, me putting them online, and she would get a kick out of the responses. We used to have it on Flickr, and I've now got an account on X hamster, but they are old. Yeah, they are old photos. They're maybe a good 10 years old.

But I've spoken to her about it before. And I think she's hardly put on any weight, but she's got a body image thing going on. And I think she's too old and mature to be doing this now. And whereas I've still got that taste for it. And I don't know. You know, obviously what to do it with her. But is she around your age? She's, yeah.

She's two years younger. Right. Okay. So you guys used to put these pictures up and stuff. When did the whole nylon thing get like when did it become specific? to that because like I know you've been talking about how like the whole thing where you like to watch someone get dressed and that voyeuristic if that's the right word part of me but like what about when did the whole panty hose thing start oh young young grew up before sisters they had friends

who lived all in the same street and early 70s it was all kind of um mini skirt short skirts with with tights as we call them over here or our pantyhose or nylons on so They always used to be you'd see them on the washing line you'd see them in the house over the radiator You would see you know they always were an aspect and I did I didn't go because I was quite young but I do remember touching them for the first time and liking the feel and I wasn't too young to be aroused But I do remember thinking that's quite a nice feel and feeling a little bit jealous that we had to put on rough socks or You know everything was woolen or the horrible materials with us this seemed to be a really nice thing so over the years indulging in pornographic material in one aspect or another, you know, stockings were always a big thing and if you ever saw a girl out wearing them, it used to

be quite a thrill and then you end up joining the British military where, as you can see, it's a man's world because they make the women dress in stockings as opposed to anything else. And so you worked in a building full of, you know, maybe 20, 30 girls. and you got a glimpse of a top or anything. But as the years have gone on, I've developed a taste for, you know, the panty hose thing, I like the look of them over, you know, up to the waist. I like the waistband, all these wee things.

It's funny, and I've heard your shows and you're right, you know, everybody's got a little twist on it, but we're all there. I don't quite know, but I think it's because it's something I personally didn't grow up wearing, in so there's no you know it feels something it's still a bit of a taboo maybe but

but enjoy it what the panty hose thing is taboo yeah you know you can wear I mean I'm a Scotsman so I wear a quilt so wear a skirt so I don't have that fear you mean you wearing it right yeah I wear a kilt yeah so

no but what about the pan the hose did you sort of do that as well get into doing that too? No because I was too scared ever in the house. Four sisters have ever got caught. I would have been right. But it's interesting because you did say like you're like you did sort of say like, oh, it felt so comfortable.

And I was like, why do we have to wear this and they get to wear that? So I'm surprised that you never, I guess your fear getting caught. I put them put my arm down them or my hands down them and then rub with the other hand. So it gave that feel, but never the whole over the legs. And I would be scared to rip them. You know, and then you get busted. It's interesting to me because I never knew, I didn't know anything about this fetish. I wouldn't have never even thought before I started to do my show that it was like that popular, you know.

But it turns out it is. It's like one of the most popular besides the foot thing. Foot fetish is a very big thing too yet. I don't have a lot of episodes of that. But what everyone says is like the feel of it, you know, and sometimes it's the feel that you feel it on the woman. And then I think that that feel thing has gone to the point where the guy likes to feel it on themselves too. you know, sometimes it morphs into that. So that's what's always the most interesting to me,

that it's about like a texture thing, you know, and you said the same thing. Like, that's really what struck you or stood out about it to you first, right? With how it felt. Yes. And that's it. That's the, I do, how would I put it, in real life, you know, you're getting to touch something,

you feel things, you taste things. And that's what I remember was that kind of touch and feel and just rubbing it between your feet. fingers and then stealing moments as years have gone on, putting them up, you know, putting your hand down them and getting a good feel and enjoying that feel. And then if you're with somebody who's wearing them, just having my hand on her leg where I might not, you know, if we're driving and she's wearing a skirt and she's got sheer nylons on, I've got my hand on her leg. And she knows I like it. But if she's just wearing denims, trousers, my hands on a gear stick or the steering, right yeah yeah it's definitely the panty hose that you're into yeah definitely and

but when you're little like so like how does it get connected because like I think you said with this right that it was like the you touching them was even before you were able you weren't a sexual being yet right you were that young right but when does it turn in and how do little kids know that like how does it turn out that that's like something that you start like jerking off to or know that that's like a sexual turn on. Who knows? Maybe it's because you see people waiting. Do you remember taking your sister?

Do you remember taking like your sister? Like were you one of those that would like steal them and then take them in your room and then do stuff with them? No, no, definitely. I remember having the moments feeling them. But because there was four of them in my house, in the house and parents, I was never, I doubt I would have got the moment to sneak them away. So it was stolen moments. Maybe that was the enjoyment, you know, that kind of guilt pleasure. That was the enjoyment.

And then I think over here in particular, you're guided towards stockings as much as anything else. So that would be in the magazines or the newspapers. And that became the turn on. Right. So that would be the turn on. Yes, absolutely. Absolutely. And your kind of conditioned to being that's what's sexy.

So I got off in it for years. And then it just kind of went back, I suppose, to what the original buzz was, which. which was the full nylon outfit, you know, the panty hose. Right. I remember maybe it's also because it's pretty girls wearing them, you know, sisters not in that way, but their friends were pretty. I remember having, even though I was kind of young, I'd have a kind of crush on them.

And my sisters, a couple of my sisters were about eight, ten years older. So some of these girls could have been 14, 15, 16 that were coming around to my house and making a fuss of me because I was only six or seven. Yeah. You know, I was, it's stuck in my memory. You know, and as years have gone on, you feel a lot closer than age when you're kind of 35 to somebody's 45 than you ever did when you're even 15 to 25. Right, when you're six to 16, right.

Yeah. It was a very big difference. They see you as a different person altogether. Mm-hmm. That was a big turn on as well. So it's all these little connections, I think. Yeah. Well, did you ever wind up when you get older?

like digging really older chicks. Did I what, sorry? Did you like wind up liking really older girls? I mean, because like if you're six, right, and you have these six, four, 16 year olds like checking you out that like, maybe you like would have that. But wait. I'll tell you,

I'll tell you the truth. When I was 16, I lost my opportunity to a girl. I was 24. Oh, really? Really? Was it one of your sister's friends? No.

I was just a girl. I used to go to the bar and one of the bars that I went out into. or nightclubs or discos as we'd call them and she seems to have a bit of a thing for me and a couple of my friends and she she was she kind of took care of us

so to speak looked after us however you want to put a bit. You mean she had sex with all of you or she was just over the course of about three months she had sex with all three of us and she was my first my two friends they'd been with somebody else before but she was my first

and um but how did that go down did she do you guys separately together okay so she just like made her rounds she had a big crush on one of us yeah and he kind of had maybe about two three weeks of seen her and then he went away with somebody else so she went with the other one as revenge in a way yeah uh and then eventually i was kind of always the one kind of chatting away to or being friendly to her i didn't think i stood a too at a chance but next thing we were kind of going out for about five, six weeks. So it wasn't even just a one-night thing. It was regular weekends.

And I was, it was a lot better than somebody my own age and there'd been a big mistake or a fumble or, because it was, I was very lucky. Let's put it that way. Yeah, so wait, you were 16, your friends were all 16, and she was 24. Yeah, that's right. That's right.

And it's legal over here. I don't know if 16 is legal in America, but it's certainly legal here. I don't think so. I remember when I was like 15 to 16 around the, maybe 15. I dated a 21-year-old, and we got, like, we were, we were like banging in the car someplace with my boyfriend. You know, this older guy in a cop cane. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think, like, I'm thinking maybe 16.

I don't remember what the age was, but it was like 15 or 16 around there, you know. What is the age by you guys? Where is, what is it not legal? 16 is legal here? right but what about 15 it will be happening it happened when I was 15 not to me obviously but

certainly to girls I went to school was the same as you said girls were 14 15 they were allowed into the bars here because the guys there were 17 18 19 that was the attraction and they all cars right but is that illegal 15

yeah yes it would be illegal yeah it would be right but yeah you're like oh god but like a 15 year old girl like I didn't feel like I was being raped by that guy I dated. I mean, he was like my boyfriend for a couple of years, you know, like. Exactly. Exactly.

Yeah. So like that girl just like she's 24. You guys are 16. You guys are in a bar. It's not like she's picking you up at the school yard, right? No. No. She's not your babysitter, right?

No, there was nothing. It felt very adult, you know, because we were in a bar. Over here, we can drink at 18. So you're kind of, you're in bars for about as soon as you can get served. So maybe 15. And if you're tall enough, the bar kind of, they know, they'll like you have one or two and move you on. Police are kind of happy because they know where you are. You're not in the streets.

They've just got to manage you getting home and make sure there's no fighting or vandalism. But more often than not, you're nipping away with hopefully somebody you've met in the bar. Right. Well, you were lucky to meet this girl, all you and all your friends. I mean, and she was like your first. But like you said, it was good because she was like, yeah. know, experienced, right? And then you dated her and you banged her for a while.

Did she, did you, like, because I'm assuming at this point, right, you're 15, you know that you have a panty hose fetish, right? Like you know this about yourself at this point? Yeah, certainly. It's certainly a Stockings thing, you know, by then. It manifested itself into that because that was the imagery you saw everywhere. You very, really saw porn with a girl wearing panty hose. It was always the nurse, the secretary, the school teacher or whatever.

So they always were stockings. What's the difference between stockings and pantyhoes? There's a different. Stockings are like with garters, as you call them, suspender belts. Whereas over here pantyhoes or tights are, there's that difference. Oh, okay. So when you say the stockings and the suspenders, right, those, the women, they wore the stockings and the suspenders, right? Is what you said.

Yes. You mean like those are ones that don't go all the way up, right? Yes, that's right. They're like the thigh highs with this thing. Back in the day when you needed the garter belt or whatever. I'm trying to think of what the American terminology is. But that's what they would wear the girls in that place? Yeah.

Yeah, in the military, the Army, the Navy and the Air Force women. The officers sold it on the basis of like feminine hygiene to wear that instead of pantos or tight. Let their pussies breathe. Yes, absolutely. So you can tell, you know, pretty much Amman's world and not terms. Yeah, that was hilarious. I mean, you said that before, but even more so now that I know that that's what they made them wear. Like, that's like some hot shit that they're walking around in. Like, it's so funny that some guy was able to pat.

I mean, and like what guy would say no? You know, that some guy in position of power was like definitely into stockings, panty hose. This was a starish. And he was like, I have an idea. Let's make all the chicks wear this. Everyone was like, yeah, good idea. Yes, exactly, exactly. And I'm sure the girls didn't mind wearing it

because they probably looked good in it, right? They felt good, looked good. I only saw the positives in it. Any girl I ever knew, they never complained. Because it was one or the other. They were kind of told to wear skirts, so it made them feel a bit more comfortable, I suppose. But now the girl that you dated that liked to get drunk,

rest in front of you and that got that and did it she was there right that's where you met her did she one of them right okay and then did you tell her about your stocking because i know you keep correct me because i'm saying pantyho's stocking i'm thinking he's just the same thing right but you did she know about your sort of nylon fetish yeah yeah and she was in she was able right yeah because we were we would be together on uh you know in an evening or we'd go away for a weekend she would take other pairs of stockings and wear a corset or all these sorts of things she she knew it really turned me on and and it turned her on to turn me on and i did you know she you know it i was you know crazy so sex was great i'm very keen on oral sex so i would give her

you know lots of oral sex and i enjoyed the aspect of like lifting the dress up of the skirt up and should be you know there'd be no panties and that would be it right well that was the hygiene that she learned at the r a yes but wait how long did you date her for around 10 months all then she so she wasn't she didn't wind up to be your first wife did your first wife know about the stuff that you're into and did she get into it with you my first wife it was obviously a few years after I left the Air Force and got married the first time and she was a beautiful woman but sex side of it to say that she was adventurous it would mean probably should be you'd be leaving the lights on that felt like adventurous you know she'd

have a drawer of stuff in it but she was but to say in the other hand she was somebody that wore skirts panty hose allows us to work. She worked in an office. And sometimes she saw I was getting aroused, but like I said, it didn't seem to trigger in her the way that it maybe did with the first wife or even, sorry, the first partner. And now the second wife would be a bit more. But yeah, she was kind of a bit more straight-laced. Right. First wife material, I think, is the best way to put it. Right. So maybe she could tell that you liked it, but she didn't, it, she couldn't sort of to connect with it like that first girlfriend she she like she was obviously able to get turned on by

the fact that she was turning you on right that was probably a turn on for her because she saw that you liked it and like so why not you know that's right that probably made her feel hot right and that's what that's all about your first wife might have been just a little uptight you know that she couldn't sort of go with it yes absolutely and uptight so you know that would be the word for looking back she was kind of straight a bit straight laced and How long did you stay married to her for? We were married probably about two and a half years all in. Oh, okay.

So that's not that long. Yeah, it wasn't long. We kind of drifted. It was great and there was everything, but then we just wanted different things. So how long after that did you meet this wife that you're with now? Probably about 18 months from the end of the first marriage to meeting the second. one probably about 18 months so I had 18 months of just going mad drinking a lot and dating a lot and exploring again you know feeling like a teenager to be honest yeah yeah I live in

your life yeah it's wife number two and uh you know it's great it's very sexual very you know very very very sexual she was um she wasn't long out of a 10 year relationship so even though she wasn't married she was with somebody longer than I had been yeah uh-huh um so she was very adventurous very sexual she was very sexual right and so did you get in so eventually how did you get into the whole posting pictures of her and everything online and did you have like a big following um what happened was and i'm not meaning to bring the the the story down i went through a double loss and this sounds a bit twisted actually

I lost a parent and a sister in quick succession and I was very depressed Oh God, yeah, that's tragic. Yeah, and I remember saying at first, you know, we were trying anything to cheer me up and I remember suggesting this, not

to go online, but just kind of role play, you know, I would pick out clothes for her to wear and then we got to the photos. Now, this has before camera phone so it was a proper camera with a USB lead and what have you. So I would take the photos and I would show the photos to her. I would look back at them and she'd say, oh, I actually look quite nice.

I look quite good here. And so I suggested that. I said Flickr was a thing at the time. And I thought, well, I start an account and I'll put up a couple of photos and send that link to a forum that was called Stockings HQ. It was a British based and you would kind of say, here's a photo of my wife in Stockins, what do you think? And you get a bit of feedback and that slowly grew from there. And then Flickr, I think, went through what Tumblr have gone through there recently and just a bit of a call.

And I went to X Hamster and started it again, but again with the original photos. So we did quite a few sets actually. I enjoyed it. I enjoyed the whole, it was always a Sunday night thing. We'd have a bath. We'd shave when we wanted to shave. I'd go through pick out clothes. She'd wear them again, put them on slowly to get me

fired up. Let me ask you this. Why didn't you or why have, well, I know now she has like body issues and stuff because why didn't you create that kind of porn that you were looking for, right? Like because it and put that out there. Would you

do that or was it just strictly pictures of her and like her nylons or like it was yes it was that very much underware photos stockings you should have recreated what you liked because I bet you there's other people who subscribe to that magazine I think you were definitely wired that way because of what you were jerking off to as a young kid right like probably right and that's why what are the odds

that there's not like thousands of other people or that saw that same thing you know what I mean or, you know, sort of have that same, or looking for that same kind of porn. You can't be the only one. I think that's what, like, the Internet makes us realize now. You're not the only one for anything, right? So it's like, too bad you didn't, so when she would start getting dressed up for you for those photos shoots, you didn't sort of click all that and recreate that for yourself, right?

Was there a turn on when you would get these guys sort of engaging and looking at your wife and asking for her pictures? Yes. She enjoyed it. She really enjoyed it. And it was as much my wife saying, have we had any feedback? Have we had anything? Is there anything being said?

And then I would say, yeah, there's been a few comments. Or you started to get a bit of a fan club. You know, they might be the same person each time. Yeah. And they would send messages. And we wouldn't go any further than that. There was never an intention to meet anybody or do anything like that. But it was fun, right?

she like it got into it. It was like attention. Maybe she had a little bit of an exhibitionist side. Oh, yes. There was a lot of that when we were first going out. There was a lot of flashing. No way. Like when?

Yeah, she would flash and well, where we lived initially, one time I told her, you know, we were, we'd forgotten something that she had to run back into the building. And she kind of, I was kind of, where is she, what is she? And I kind of looked out of the car. and I looked up to the first floor that we were on.

And she was just leaning out of the window, topless waving at me. Now, that was daylight. It was a place we lived, so everybody knew, you know, it wasn't like we were in the hotel. So somebody could come back the next day and see her walking in and out. But she had no qualms about doing it. Another time when we were in the car, we were driving, and we were kind of, she was quite turned on. And she started masturbating in the car. And actually, we got to a bit where we had to drive slow.

because there was a lot of road works going on. So there was people standing the side of the road, so I don't know if they ever saw us or not, but she didn't do her off. No, it didn't stop. It was basically jeans down to her, blow her knees and masturbating away while we were driving. And there was a lot of that,

a lot of things she wanted to do, like outdoor sex, that she'd never done just little things. She definitely has that exhibition inside. And how great, because you have that kind of, a warrior side. Right? Yeah, I enjoyed it. There was never, I was never going to be, cover yourself up or put your jeans back on or

anything. I was just worried I was going to crash the car, I think, as much as anything else. Right. And when it came down to the putting those pictures of her up online, like it wasn't like you felt like, oh, you don't want any other guy to see her, you know, that's your girl. You didn't have that kind of vibe, right? And she liked it. So, I mean, you guys were like the perfect match, right?

Because you both were into what was going on. I mean, listen, some wives would do that for their guy, right? And maybe they wouldn't think twice about it, but it wasn't, wouldn't be a turn on, right? I mean, you were both being turned on by that situation, which is really great. Too bad you can't get her to the gym or make her feel better about her body. I don't know if it's just the age now, all of a sudden she thinks she's older and she shouldn't be doing that. But I've found that my 40s have been a strange decade and I'm turning 50. I'm actually going to be 50 the end of the year.

And there's me calling you here just now. I maybe wouldn't have done that two, three years ago. Right. But I feel I'm going into my 50s. I actually feel quite good from my age. I'm in good. I'm not a keep fit fanatic, but I'm actually a lot slimmer than a lot of guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And what I thought it would be when I got to 50, so I'm actually a wee bit body confident with it. Right. So you feel it you're feeling good going into your 50s? Yeah, absolutely. I feel. absolutely ready and you read a lot about how people in their 50s

it seems to be their the naughty decade now for a lot of people because they may become out of long term well what did you use naughty naughty yeah naughty in what way

maybe you use a different way sexually way oh interesting is that what people say I well I did a training course and the guy doing the training the training was in these early 50s and he was you could see like I was 20 years younger but he spoke to me like he was my age yeah yeah what

you doing this weekend oh yeah and he was desperate for you to ask so what are you doing yeah so you'd say oh well I've split up with a wife and now re-engaged with a girl I used to know when I was in my 20s and we're meeting up and he says oh you want to see what goes on uh I never thought I'd get these days back you know I would never go through these things again I thought be married to the same woman until we both died. Yeah. But he says, I feel young and alive again.

And we're meeting up in its hotel rooms and it's drinks and it's all these sorts of things. And then it became this kind of statistic over, that we read over here that out with the teenagers, the highest rate of STI sexually transmitted was for people in their 50s. Oh, yeah. I've heard it's even like in the States. it's supposedly super high in old age homes. Yeah. No, I'm really serious.

There's some place in Florida where like all the people in the senior citizens thing, they have like that I heard this whole story. They have their way their tell is like they leave the garage open and then they know that that person wants to have sex. And they're supposedly like massive STDs, you know, running rampant through this old age home because everyone's like fucking like crazy. Like what do they have to lose, right? No more condoms. No more. Who cares? No one's using.

Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. So they found that it's like in the 50s people are starting to do that. Where you're like what's what they were talking about. It's interesting. Very much. There's a lot of divorce rate over here, which never really happened 20, 25 years ago. Right.

It's more common. A lot of people are married two, three times and it's not the thing it was. And people are, you know, they're just discovering. But you have to have that within your marriage, right? Yes. Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely.

your marriage, right? So how do you do that? I think it would be so great if you could get your, because like obviously she's an exhibitionist, right? She just has to get past this body image thing or this coming into her own and being older thing and figure out how she could be sexy as this person that she is, maybe she feels different, whatever, you know?

She, that would be a call I'd have to talk to her about. But like, because if you could get her past that and get her back into it, I really think you need to create those pictures of what turned you on, that reverse sort of dressing scenario that you think is really hot. I think you could get people into it that didn't even know they were into it because I could understand how that could be sort of a hot thing, right? And I think you need, if you could get your wife to maybe engage in that, right?

maybe if you could do it even before she feels better but like maybe that would help her feel hot again I think so I think so yeah absolutely I think doing something like this is with you just now it was a little bit like when I took the first photographs

and put them online it was a you're crossing a line not a bad way but you know what I mean you're making that first step and I mean and then you can just go back and you're energized and enthusiastic Right, like so it's like

Maybe you making this call Is because you want to sort of like revive yourself Going into 50 right And have like get back to that place of that amazing sex that you had with your wife It's hard for a woman in her late 40s right like How old's your wife like do you know if she's going through like perimenopause or any of that shit? Yeah, absolutely Absolutely.

It feels but all these things make her feel worse about herself than Yeah and it's previously. Yeah. And it takes away your sex drive too a little bit. Like it's hard. But I think that when she crosses over into full menopause, like supposedly it's supposed be better.

I don't know. I'm not there yet. But I know that that's a problem around that age, right? But I think, because I've heard this on podcast, there was a great podcast with a sex therapist that I heard. I think it was on a goop, Gweth Paltrow's. And it was really interesting about how, like, women, you know, the sex therapist was just talking about how, like, they should.

You know, you want to hold on to that sexual sort of being in yourself, like as much as possible, right? And almost like force yourself to stay connected to that because the longer you go sort of detached from it, the harder it is to ever get back, right? And you don't want to lose that, right? And this is the time when women are in their late 40s and 50s where that could happen, right? and I think maybe you could restimulate her by maybe just taking those pictures and say it's just for you, right? Like that's what you're into, right? And then maybe that would make her sort of start to feel something in herself. And then maybe you could be like, like, maybe it would be hot if we post them online.

Like maybe you could ignite that in her again. Yeah. I think so. I think so. I think so. I think it's there. I know she's still a sexual woman, sexy woman. She's, you know, she, but I think, you know, it just needs to.

Does she know about, right, but does she know about that turn on? I think I asked you this before, and she doesn't, right? Yeah, she does, but she's, it used to be, you know, she would maybe indulge it more, you know, years back. Right now she's just getting dressed and whatever, right. Yeah, and she's not. somebody for she'll wear trousers to work, you know, pants and, you know, on a shirt or sun shoes and she's out the door, you know, and so she's not clearly not getting dressed for me. It's just comfortable for her in the office.

Right, but like, do you guys, like when you, do you guys have still have sex? Like, is that something? Very irregularly. Very irregularly. Yeah, she'll go bed early and I'm awake and and it's that kind of hour that you lose, you know, every night. Right. And it just, and that's where you should be, I should be going to bed as well. But you just end up going, no, or she's just like, I'm going to bed, I'm going to sleep. And you take that as the, as the warning or the, that's the decision made for the night. Don't go away enough either.

Yeah, that's. Yeah, no, that's hard. But maybe if you just said to her, like, listen, like maybe, you, you know, could I just take pictures for my own thing? Like, I get that. Maybe you're not into it. You know, like, you just say it's for you. you to sort of use to pleasure yourself or whatever, right? And then maybe you could, you know, she'll do that for you because she's your wife and

she's understanding, right? Like maybe. And you could just set it up more like a role playing thing, not when, you know, and say, can I just be there when you come out of the shower when you're getting, you know? And then you could make it look and then maybe you could show it back to her. And if you really explain how you see it and how it turns you on, like maybe that could sort of do something for her and then maybe you could bring up, putting it online and Maybe if she could connect back to that little exhibitionist in her, it could give her some feeling down there.

It's hard as a woman who's, I'm just turned 50. Like, I'm going through perimenopause and it is hard. I find that I have to always engage. And like if there's a sexting that starts off with me with this guy, like I have to force myself to do it. And if I, as much as I, as long as I do, I could, it will get me turned on, right? But it's a really, my always first reaction is to be like, no, thanks, not interested. Do you know what I mean? Yeah.

But if I force myself to engage, it can be stimulated. And I think that that's the thing that you're supposed to do, right, to keep it sort of going. But I think you could help your wife by just asking for, even if it's just like a one-time photo, like just start with trying to get one time that she could allow you to take some pictures and you could create that kind of reverse dressing experience in photos and then get them sort of print out and kind of show her and walk her through it and then maybe say, oh, can we put this online? And I think I want to see if this turns other guys on.

Like I'm curious to see if other people have my same fetish, like, because this is like this thing, you know, what, let me ask you this. Would you allow her to listen to this podcast? No. Um, maybe, maybe. Um, I don't know. Again, it's that, you'll listen to it first.

Yeah, I'll listen to it first. Yeah, it's going to be very interesting when you hear your story as a third person, right? It's going to be even... The worst thing is she's a, she's very jealous of me being married before. She doesn't like that. Well, all you said was that wife was uptight and the sex was terrible. Yes, exactly. So it was a lot, but she's just, I don't know.

of that she just sometimes doesn't like talking, hearing about my first wife, regardless of what the topic is. Right, I get it. Then we can't go again because I've been there with wife number one. Oh, okay. That would be as much a problem as anything else. But the sexual

side of it, she knows she's the queen of everything. So. Yeah, you got to get that back, I think. You know? Listen, if you allow her to listen to this, if you decide, you're going to, you listen to it first, right? And then you could feel it out, whether what you should do but you know I would love to talk to a woman woman to woman about this

whole topic of what's happening with her I get a lot of guys that call in and they talk about what's happening to their wives right and I understand it because I'm a woman at that age going through it as well and for me it's not an option to lose that whole part of myself my sexual being part you know what I mean like I want to stay sexy and keep my keep that connected you know and I just I do a lot of research I listen to a lot of things to just to try to figure out how to make that work so I would just I wish I could talk I don't I've never had a woman

maybe someone else is going to be listening to some they're going to call in but I would love to have to talk to the woman on the other side right I'm always talking to the guys and they're complaining yeah not so much complaining but just talking about the dilemma that happens at this age you know that I would love to talk to a woman about it woman to woman as someone who understands and is at that same place right so because that's a common thing, you know, for women.

And it's just like, you know, you're a guy. I'm assuming I've never asked you yet if you're monogamous, but I'm assuming you are, right? Yes, yes. And like you said, you're calling into this show is like a thing. It's like a, it signifies that something in you that's crossing a line, right? And it's a part of you that wants to go in a certain direction. And that direction is you want to be more sexual, right? and yeah no definitely

there's also part of me wanting to find out if there's anybody else out there who's got my thing and is there a name for it because I like I said the reverse dressing thing yeah right and the watching yeah I'm sure let me tell you there's a Reddit page this is what you should do too after this podcast

there's a Reddit page it's like let's talk as a podcast I think is the Reddit page and they a lot of people who are on the show because people go on there and comment and talk and so a lot of people who are on the show, go on there when their episode is posted, and then they start talking to people who write in. So you should definitely go there after,

and I'll put this in the episode in the beginning, in the intro, because some people don't listen all the way to the end, but all in the intro will say, like, listen to this guy's fetish. And if you have it, he's definitely looking to see if other people have this same thing, right? And if there's a name for it and whatever, and let's get a conversation going about it, right? And I'll direct people to that.

page and get it started because maybe if it's not your wife that you get into it maybe you find a little community of other guys and you figure out a way to keep it there you know right yeah yeah that'd be great that yeah so you don't know so i'll do like i said um i'll put that on the episode in the beginning in the intro right and then go to that make sure i'll send you a link when i email you of uh the reddit page to go to and then maybe you'll have a couple guys chiming in and you could talk to them and you could and you could see what it's all about. Fantastic. Thank you very much.

But listen back to this, but when you listen back to this, let me know what you think. Let me know if your wife winds up listening to it. And if I get any emails from guys that are into this too and want to chat with you, I will forward them on Tio. Is that cool? Thank you. Yeah, that's perfect, Catherine. Thank you very much.

All right. Cool. Bob, what do we call it? What did we call it, Don? Well, Don, do you have a fake email address that you would give out that people could directly email you? No, I can give you the X-Hamster. Oh, yes, yes, please. It's all one word, Scotts Highland, S-C-O-T-S-H-I-G-H-L-A-N-D, Scotts Highland.

And that's where they could find all your pictures and stuff that you put up before. Yeah, I mean, I've got favorite videos and things I've found online, but... But they could also see the pictures that you and your wife did, right? Yeah, the photos and galleries are there. Oh, that's cool. Yeah, send me the link. Could they contact you through there or no? Yeah, you ask to be a friend and then you can just message.

Or you can just leave a message on the, like a wall. Everybody's got a wall so you can, without even becoming a friend, you can put a message there. I've actually put a message up on that asking about this reverse dressing. Was anybody else into it? But I've not had any replies. Yeah, that's hard for people to find it. I think you'll get more replies this way. So if you want to, like, you could either email me at Strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com

and I'll forward your email onto Don or go to his ex-hamster page and it's Scott's Highland, right? And post, you make him your friend if you want to email him and you could get in contact him there. And also go to the Reddit page. And I'll say all this in the intro too. So, um, fantastic. Okay, cool. Thanks so much for calling in. I hope you get in a conversation with some more people or maybe with your wife.

Yes, absolutely. One or the other will be good. Bye. Thank you for calling in. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly

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