Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 349 - Dana Loves to Wear a Cock Cage

Episode Date: August 17, 2020

Dana loves wearing a cock cage, pantyhose, plastic panties and a whole lot more and he calls in to talk all about it. What did he first get into and then how did it lead to everything else? Does he we...ar all this stuff out? Does his wife know about it and if so, how did she find out and how does she feel about it? Tune in to find out plus hear all about his pantyhose fetish, his interest in pegging and wearing a cock cage and how it turns him on, his phone sex with other guys, his foot job from a paid woman he met online, why he loves plastic panties and where and when he wears them and a whole lot more.    Plus, he tells a story at the end of the show about a recent "breakfast" he had that includes some eggs, an omelette, an orgasm and a pair of plastic panties that will BLOW YOUR MIND.   **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.
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Starting point is 00:00:34 Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Today I have on a guy named Dana. I taped Dana's episode a long time ago. And there was a lot of issues with his phone. And it kept hanging up. And I really was like, oh, this is so fascinating. This episode, I want to air like the next week. But every time I came to that week. I was like, oh, I don't want to edit this one. It's going to be a long time to edit it because that's what happens for me. So those episodes always get pushed to the side. So it's been a really long time since I taped Dana and I'm airing Dana. And I have to tell you, he had sent me
Starting point is 00:01:17 an email ahead of time. He's a Panios guy, but he gets into a lot more than that. The Panios is where his fetish started. His wife knows about it. He's had two other wives that didn't know about it. This one does though and she's cool with it we talk a lot about how she found out how she reacted what they do together while he's wearing panty hose why he didn't tell his other wife but he's also into a lot of other stuff he likes to try on panties is specifically plastic panties he also likes cock cages now is that the same thing as these chastity devices that other people talk about take a listen and you'll find out he doesn't go behind his wife back with guys or anything like that, but he has had phone sex with guys. We talk about whether he wants to cross that line.
Starting point is 00:02:07 But there is something in this episode that I was like, this is the craziest shit I've ever heard. He told me about it in the email. I waited until the end of the podcast to get into, but it is the craziest story you've ever heard. It involves his plastic panties, a bunch of eggs, an omelet, and an orgasm. and you will not fucking believe what you hear. And this is one of those things like I said before about the Patreon, like that one guy who was saying something or of how he felt about my Patreon and I said like,
Starting point is 00:02:37 oh, where there's one, there's many. Well, I don't know in this situation, what this guy did, I need to know if anybody else has ever fucking done it. I think this might be one of those rare cases where nobody else has ever done this before. It is by far the craziest thing I've ever heard. from a guest, and he gets into that story in detail towards the end. But everything before it is fascinating.
Starting point is 00:03:04 We talk about, he also was into pegging. We talk about that. Like I said, his panty hose, his plastic panties, his cross-dressing, his phone sex with guys, and then the breakfast, quote unquote. You will not fucking believe it. So I'm going to be right back on with Dana. How are you today? I'm doing fine, Kathy.
Starting point is 00:03:27 That's good. So when you emailed me, right, you just emailed me, email that said, I just want to be on your show. So I had no idea what you want to talk about. But when you scheduled with me, you wrote a synopsis downright of what we were talking about. And you're into a lot of things, Paniho's being one of them, but also broad and panties and things like that.
Starting point is 00:03:48 So I don't know maybe if you're a cross-dust, or not. We'll talk about that. But you also, you've gotten into plastic panties, And the shit that you have done with your plastic panties that involves breakfast, okay? That's all I'm going to say. Because we'll build up to it has to be the craziest thing I've ever heard so far on my show. And I've been doing my show for five or six years now. So imagine what you have to do to get on top of that list.
Starting point is 00:04:16 It's like the craziest thing. And we are going to leave that to the end because it is something that I have never fucking heard before. It's cray, cray. Yeah, it's something else. It is something else. Like I said, it involves breakfast. Okay, so let people imagine what that is. I couldn't believe it when I read it.
Starting point is 00:04:37 I was like, oh my God. But anyway, let's start off with, like, do you consider yourself a cross-dresser since you're into all that stuff, or is it all separate things, or do you put it together and consider yourself a cross-dresser, I don't know? Well, I'm not passable. I'm supposed. if I could get somebody to do my makeup and more presentable,
Starting point is 00:04:58 I would probably enter out in the world that way. It's just more of a home thing that I do and just enjoy the feel of all of that lace and satin and you name it. But does it change how you feel about yourself when you're dressed up? Like you feel more like a woman when you're dressed up like that. And when you're not wearing that stuff, you're a guy. I mean, do you have that, do you have those two things going on? Well, yes. I find myself more relaxed when, of course, I'm wearing. And, you know, I don't let little
Starting point is 00:05:38 irritations bother me. It just seems to calm me down. So that's kind of why I like to wear. Right. But do you feel like a woman when you, when you put them on, do you feel like you change who you are? Does it change you or not just to relax you, but sort of is there a shift in your energy where you're now you're more feminine or you feel like a female as opposed to? Because what I've heard from guys before who have called in, they've said that when they get that, when they put that kind of stuff on. I mean, everything shifts for them, you know. Yes. Well, I suppose in that sense, yes, I do feel more womanlike when I'm wearing. And then, of course, curiosity gets there too. What kind of curiosity? What do you mean?
Starting point is 00:06:31 Well, you know, it's just like a million things run through your mind. Like what would it feel like to be with someone? And, you know, like if you got involved, like how far would I go type of thing, you know? You mean with a guy? Kind of question. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Now, let me ask you this.
Starting point is 00:06:52 Are you married? Yes. Okay. Now, I'm assuming this is a secret life that you have, or does your wife know about the fact that you would like to put this kind of stuff on? Well, she's found out, and she's okay with it. How did she find out? Well, we were in bed one night and talking about different things,
Starting point is 00:07:17 and I'd had a French maid outfit. and kind of joking around that day, you know, like you should have yourself a maid and all of that stuff. And she kind of said, well, you know, getting by. And I said, well, no, like a personal maid. And she kind of laughed and didn't say anything. So I went into the bathroom and changed out and walked out and surprised her. Well, that took balls because it's not kind of like she found out.
Starting point is 00:07:47 It was like, that's like you telling her. That's a different story. I mean, her finding out would be like she found your draw full of or like your stash full of all your stuff and she was like, what the fuck is this? But you coming out in a French maid outfit all dressed up is, I would say more like you came out of the closet to her about what you were into. Didn't want to have her say find the stash and then wonder what's going on. Yeah, all my stuff. Well, how far into your relationship did you tell her that? Oh, a year, year and a half.
Starting point is 00:08:27 Okay, how long you've been with your wife for? Three years now. All right, so after you did the Frenchmate thing, was she into it, or how did she react? Well, yeah, she really loved how I looked in my panty hose and how they felt on her as well, like when I rubbed up against her. and she kind of said I look really cute in my my French maid outfit, so it just kind of went from there. That's great. A night or two, yeah, and then a night or two, we thought we were going to get romantic in bed, and then all of a sudden she fell asleep, so I had my panty hose on, so I just went to sleep,
Starting point is 00:09:12 and in the morning she brushes over, and what do you go out on? And I said, well, a surprise. And yeah, she's really accepted it. So I'm quite happy. Yeah. So how come you've never asked her to maybe put makeup on you? I don't know. Considering you've, you know, dressed up with all the other stuff in front of her,
Starting point is 00:09:35 you never asked her to do it? No. I really haven't asked her that part yet. Usually her makeup is there. and I don't want to, you know, mess with her makeup. But you have a, but, you know, I know that you said before, like, if I, maybe if I could be done up properly, like, I would totally do it, but I've never had anyone to put makeup on me.
Starting point is 00:10:03 But if your wife is super cool and open about it and knows that you like to dress up and women's clothing sometimes, I think probably, you know, if you asked her one day, hey, when you had that French maid outfit or on or something, If you said, can you make up my face, she'd probably be down. Do you think? Well, I probably wouldn't think so because, yeah, she's walking about everything else. Yeah, you should get her to try to put it on you one day. I mean, listen, there's nothing like a...
Starting point is 00:10:33 I mean, you know, a lot of times people think, oh, because a woman knows how to put makeup on herself, she'd know how to do it to anybody. But that's not necessarily the case. But she, you know, if it's a good place to start, I think you should one day ask her to put the makeup on you. before her right how old are you now uh 54 you're 54 so you're only been married is this your second wife or first wife uh it's actually about my third one so oh your third your third one yeah okay cool well i lost no i'm not going i'm not going through wives like you think no the first one uh
Starting point is 00:11:10 had passed away and then the second one had issues so yeah number three right okay no i mean whatever, but did any of those, the first two wives, did they know about what you were into as well? Were you open with them? No, I just was more or less just hiding it
Starting point is 00:11:31 and finally got to the point where I didn't care anymore. I just, I want to feel comfortable. Yeah, you know, I have to say, there's been a couple guys that I've talked to over 50, right? and there's something about that age that makes people or men, because I've just heard it a bunch of times on my show,
Starting point is 00:11:56 you know, and that's the way I make my assumptions. Like there's that men are, get to the point where they just don't really want to be who they are and they're so sick of hiding it because I've had other guys on my show that that is around the time that they're either ready to do it and haven't done it yet, but they want to, right? Or that they've done it like you have, right? Because with this one, you said, oh, I wanted to, I wasn't going to keep it a secret from her
Starting point is 00:12:23 because I was like, wow, that's pretty balzy that you walked out and your French maid out of it. But you did keep it a secret with your first two wives. So your whole life, you kept it a secret, and then all of a sudden you went into this marriage totally different, which I think is really amazing. And like you said, you couldn't, you didn't want to keep it a secret anymore.
Starting point is 00:12:40 And I've heard that. So do you think it came with age, or did something happen? Like, why do you think now that changed for you? Well, I just, I think it's the love that I have for the wearing and how the panty hose feel. And just, you know, I just wanted to be open and honest so that there was no secrets.
Starting point is 00:13:03 Or to find out and then be accused must be sleeping around because there's other panty hose here or broads or something. Yeah. way I was out there and saved myself a whole lot of problems. Yeah, it was funny. I was watching some show on TV, some reality show, and the girl, it was like 90-day fiance, I think it was, and the girl found, I think it was a bra, or no, a panties or a bra in the guy's house.
Starting point is 00:13:30 And he was like, oh, those are from an ex-girlfriend from so long ago. And she was like, whatever. And I was like, you know, something that no one's thinking about here that I would never have thought about before I did my show. but like maybe they're his pants like maybe that's what he's into do you know what I'm saying like it could be yes yeah right because he was like horrified and that you know but maybe it was his panties and now that I know that you know guys are into that kind of stuff so you never I'm assuming you never got busted from your two wives before but I don't know how did either one of them ever find out
Starting point is 00:14:02 no no no I had a spot that I had hid in kind of like a back room and then as we were cleaning it, it's getting open and open. And yeah, most of them didn't ever go into that room, because I said it just had stuff stored in there that, you know, years back type of things and they never questioned it. So I never ever did go in to find out what it was. So I just, this way, I just figured I'm renovating and living stuff. So I put it in a dresser,
Starting point is 00:14:40 and there I am now so. So let's go back though before you were married and when you were younger. Did it start with panty-hose and then it progressed to the other things? Or what were you into first? It was panty-hose. I found a pair of mums in a room and I went when they were gone and put them on. And geez the way they brushed up against me when I was pulling them up, They felt fantastic.
Starting point is 00:15:11 And then it became more. At first I felt terrible after I did it. I felt like I was doing something terribly wrong. So then two or three days later, I put them on again. And after that time, yeah, I was hooked on them. Right. And now how old were you? Do you remember?
Starting point is 00:15:32 I'd be probably about 13 at that time. Right. And so because you're older, because a lot of times I hear guys. guys that start like way before they're even, you know, sexualized or have those sexual feelings, right? So was it a turn on immediately for you because you're 13 years old? Oh, I would think it was, yes, because, yeah, it definitely felt really good and got my attention. Right. Like you got a horny for when, and then you kept going back.
Starting point is 00:16:05 Yes. Yes. So when you left with your mom, right, and you're saying, you're. stealing like your moms and that's where you're getting them like how do you get your fix after that or like did you ever get caught with your mom at home well no no I was careful there and then at uh usually you know if I went to town I would stock up a little bit on my own like Christmas gifts I would take and buy them but they weren't for anybody but me right so nobody ever questioned it so I ended up buying mine quite often and then of course when I got my driver's license
Starting point is 00:16:44 I was able to get into town and do whatever shopping I wanted so and so it started and then when did you start to get into the other thing that you're into do you remember well yeah when I was still in high school and stuff I picked up a few playboys and you know and skank and stuff like that, magazines. And there was a lady on there selling her bras and patties and stockings and garter belts. So I thought, well, I'm this far. Might as well try it. So I would take and buy her stuff, which was lucky enough it fit me.
Starting point is 00:17:30 And, yeah, after that, I was hooked on that too. Right. And so you would get them sent to your house when you lived with your mom? Yes. And so, and the bras, how would she send them to? Like, in a package your mom, I guess, would never know. Yeah, it was just in an unmarked package, like one of those shipping packages at the post office. It's just unmarked bag, and it would come.
Starting point is 00:17:58 Yeah, and then I even forgot that I ordered it, and then it finally came, and went on to the room. opened it up and it was like Christmas morning it was just I was overwhelmed right yeah and now you said to me that you sometimes when you put that on you do think about your mind goes into thinking about like how what would you do if there was another person there meaning a guy and how far would you go did those thoughts start back then when you were 13 and putting this stuff on or did those kind of thoughts come later on they came later on Yeah, at the time I just wanted to wear because there's so many shows on TV at that time, Charlie's Angels, Wonder Woman, and all of that.
Starting point is 00:18:45 And it just was overwhelming. It was just like, oh, they look so gorgeous. And, man, I wonder how that would feel. And to me, it was just a rush. You mean they were wearing tanny hose and bras? Like what they were, when you say they were so gorgeous, So was it like their undergarments that they were wearing? Or was it the panty hose?
Starting point is 00:19:07 Yeah. Like, yeah, it's like Charlie's Angels and three's company. They always had panty hose on and you could see how their legs looked and whatnot. And as the other shows would come, you could see bras hanging up and stuff. And it was just like, wonder how that would feel. And never know until you buy it. So then that's when I bought them and tried them. and fell in love with them.
Starting point is 00:19:35 Right. And when you go back to that same place and order, did you order a lot? Like, how big was your stashed when you were younger? It was getting up there towards the time when I was finishing up and getting ready to graduate. I had quite a big tub full of stuff. Oh, my God. Imagine if your mom found it.
Starting point is 00:20:00 Oh, yeah. I can't even imagine. So, yeah, so no, anyway, after that some of the stuff was getting smaller, so I just ended up getting rid of it. And then when I got married, I thought, well, you know, that feeling would go away. And then all of a sudden, no, you'd go to a wedding and women were all dressed in nice skirts and dresses and pantyhose or in irons. it was just like, oh, I miss those days. So then I'd go and whenever again, you know, if you'd be out, when I'd go to a store, I'd pick up whatever I needed, like bras or patties if they were on sale and they looked good,
Starting point is 00:20:49 I would pick them up. Mm-hmm. And then go home and you kept that from secret the whole time from your wife, the first wife. Yes. Yes. And, yeah, it was to the point, like, when Zell... In Canada, it was still open. I would take and walk in there and down to the panty hose aisle and look at the packages and read the sizing and all that stuff. And women would kind of come up and grab stuff and take off right away.
Starting point is 00:21:19 It was almost like they were feeling, what am I doing here? But I was calm about it. Like I just kept looking and picking up what I wanted. I didn't want the wrong size. Right. And what did you like? Like what was the one, like a lot of times I hear that the nude is what people like, you know, most guys that have the fetish like that. But then I find some guys like the sheer black ones.
Starting point is 00:21:43 I mean, was there something specific that you always sort of looked for or did look for when you were buying for yourself? Well, I would, the first few pairs that I ever bought was white. and at that time it was more or less one of the colors that they had out there so I picked it up and then afterwards I got thinking yeah maybe the nudes or the base would be better because then that way if your sock happens to go down or whatever you know it's not noticeable then I went to that so it was just again it was just whatever colors that I felt like at that time. I have tried black, but I noticed that if your hands aren't quite smooth, you'll snag them. And the beige ones or the nudes didn't show that as much. So I kind of stuck them out.
Starting point is 00:22:41 And now, would you ever go out with them on underneath your pants? Oh, yes. Last 12 years, I've been wearing panty hose every day. Oh, really? to work and everything. Yeah, underneath my pants and everything, way of all. Mm-hmm. And you don't ever, I always think,
Starting point is 00:23:03 but I always think, right, that if I was wearing, you know, because you always see guys bending over, even women bending over, or like crossing their legs, and then, you know, you could see people's socks and stuff that, or sometimes you see an underwear or a thong sticking out.
Starting point is 00:23:19 You know, you just don't know, right? That, you don't ever worry that somehow, or maybe you're into it, I don't know, that somebody would catch wind that you had panty hose on underneath? Yeah, I know where you're coming from. Actually, it happened when I was in a mall one time. I was walking along and completely forgot that I was even wearing my panty hose. Right.
Starting point is 00:23:46 And, yeah, I had a little dong underneath. And when I reached down, actually, to buy some panty hose, this lady kind of giggled to her friend, and I looked out the night. and kind of like in shock and she says I love your patty hose and it was like oh
Starting point is 00:24:05 and she said no no it's good it's good it's good and all good she says it's cute so yeah
Starting point is 00:24:12 and the other one piped up yeah I like your I like your pink song I have a pair too I'll say so
Starting point is 00:24:21 yes I kind of got out of there quick but no after that I made sure that, you know, I had a longer shirt on or something, you know, to just in case. And if you're crossing your legs at work, you have socks on over it, right? So they're never really looking up your leg.
Starting point is 00:24:41 But if you're married at the time, right, and you have these pantyhose on underneath your clothes, I mean, how does your wife not find out? The first ones are you referring to or the last one? I don't know. I don't know. If you're doing it, you're the last one. This wife knows. Yeah. It was just basically, like I always made sure I kept them well hid, like, underneath my clothing and stuff. And, yeah, she never ever came up.
Starting point is 00:25:13 So, yeah. It's not like you ever came home and started fooling around, and then she puts her hands down your pants, and you got like, you know, I don't know. Or she grabbed your ass and it's like, what the hell is that? Like it feels so, you know, I don't know. No, because we're, yeah, we're both working. And so when we get home, you know, we're starting supper and whatnot. So it's brief in and out. And then then I would take and go in and into the bathroom or down into, you know, into the bedroom, the back of the hall there and strip out of them.
Starting point is 00:25:47 And then, yeah, when things calm down, then it was like I didn't have anything on. Right. And then with this one here, I just got to the point where I didn't want to hide it anymore. Yeah, no, because I would think it takes a lot of energy, the fact that, because listen, you can never take your pants, you can never pull, like you come home and you always have to go and hide yourself to take your pants off, right? Because you couldn't just take them off in front of your first two wives because they would see. Well, no. And then you had to hide them. So, I mean, it's kind of like a, not that listen, it's not that hard to do, but there is energy that you have to put into keeping a secret life.
Starting point is 00:26:26 And it must be really nice that you don't have to exert that energy anymore. It's very nice. It's so relaxed and I feel so good about it. You know, I just wish the heck that, you know, I would have said something sooner because, you know, it could have been three more years out in the open instead of what it is. Just starting now. Yeah. And let me tell you, there's a lot of guys that are listening to this that wish they were in your position.
Starting point is 00:26:55 I've had many of them on my show. And, you know, a couple of them were around your age and they're really ready to, they don't want to have to hide it anymore either. Some of them are in relationships and don't know how to break the news to their girls. Some are in and don't believe that they could ever find somebody that would be okay with it. But look, your wife was totally fine. Did she actually like it? Do you think, or does she just, she's into it because you're into it? or do you think she actually enjoys it for herself?
Starting point is 00:27:28 No, she likes it. She just looked at first and kind of jokingly and said, what the hell you got on there? So I fired up the light and I showed her. I said, this is what? Yeah. Oh, my God. That cute, she says.
Starting point is 00:27:43 And, yeah, since then we've been out and we've walked through a few, like, sex shops and stuff like that. And she'll see a cute little number and said, oh that's nice that looks really cute and I said yeah want to try it on well no I'm thinking for you and I'm thinking cool
Starting point is 00:28:05 so you either pick one up or oh well try it later or something like that and then you pick it up and where you go again so so it's nice that she is open I really appreciate that in her and quite happy
Starting point is 00:28:21 yeah that's amazing now before her though when you're with your other wives and you were wearing those panty hose out. Have you ever, and you had, you said that the thoughts about men came way later. Where were you or how old were you and which wife were you with? Like in the timeline, did those thoughts start coming up? That was about the second one and she was, she didn't really seem to have the time or the patients, well, not the patients, but the time it seemed like for a relationship. It was just like almost like she was trying to pass through and just pick up what she could and go.
Starting point is 00:29:02 And I just, it was a level of marriage. So it was about that time where all of a sudden when I'm wearing and she was gone, it was like, geez, you know, all dressed up and no one to appreciate it. And then, you know, you're thinking about well and watching porn or something like that. and then all of a sudden you'll see a guy and a gal and then another guy and it's like, God, that kind of looks interesting. And it just keeps your mind kind of going. And then you start to question yourself. Right. Wait.
Starting point is 00:29:43 Well, yeah. It's just one of those, yes. It's just one of those things that I'm kind of still wondering about. Like if the opportunity presented itself, I'm not. But sure, I suppose if the woman was right and she was talking up a storm, I might try it. But right now I'm saying no. As far as meaning like you would be interested in having yourself with a woman and another man? Right now, because I am happy with what I've got, understanding wife and stuff,
Starting point is 00:30:16 I would probably, you know, never, never see it happening because I love my wife and you know, I really don't want to mess things up. Right. But when you were with the last one and you were having those thoughts, what was the fantasy for you? Was it you're with a woman and another guy joins in? Or it's you dressed up as a woman and another guy and you interact and you're the woman in the scenario?
Starting point is 00:30:48 Like what was the fantasy that got you going? Well, I guess it would be that one where I'm dressed up. a woman is dressed up, and then it would be like the guy sharing two women. And then with the other woman there, you know, I could get some helpful hints on stuff and what to do and all that kind of, it would build the excitement type for me, you know, thinking of what it would be like. And what would you, I mean, do you feel like maybe you're into guys or like, what would, what? What do you, in that fantasy situation, do you do with the guy? Well, at that particular time, I think if it would have presented itself, I would have probably, probably would have tried maybe sucking on his cock or something like that.
Starting point is 00:31:41 Just, you know, and then from there see about how far it would go. Right. I have thought about anal too. Uh-huh. And whatever else. So, you know, whether I had a strap on or somebody, would like real would do it you know i definitely you know i would i would give it a try let's just see you know like how would you know unless you try it so yeah for sure i bet you could get your
Starting point is 00:32:11 wife to uh use a strap on with you the wife you have now don't you think oh she probably would yes you should try it out well i would like to right right right But then it might get me one. The real thing, so I don't know. My backfire on me. Right. You're a little afraid of like liking it too much. Have you ever put anything in your ass, like while you're just playing around with yourself?
Starting point is 00:32:40 Oh, yeah. I've had a dildo and stuff that I've had and worked it in and out and different vibes and stuff. I've had butt plugs too where you put it in me on it. So you know, so then you know that you like it, right? Yes, it's a different feeling. Yeah. And it's kind of unique. I've actually got, I ordered up a pair of PVC panties,
Starting point is 00:33:12 and they actually have a built-in dildo inside of them. What's a PVC panty? PVC? What's that? Yeah, they're kind of like the vinyl panties, like the plastic panties. Oh, yeah, right. This is what that gets into the breakfast scene. So the plastic panties, the plastic panties.
Starting point is 00:33:33 And then so inside they have a dildo that you put in your ass and then walk around with them on. Is that how it works? Yes. Yes. So I'm waiting for them to come because then that way, you know, I might wear them all day type of thing just to see how excited I can get. Right. Now, does your wife know that you like?
Starting point is 00:33:56 that kind of stuff or have you kept the anal action out of your relationship with her like have you ever showed her your toys or anything no i haven't showed her my toys no i just for the safe part right now i just slowly like to build it up a little bit get her more used to it and then keep our talk open and hopefully then take it to the to a strap-on type of thing and and involved from there. Right. So does she know, have you show, have you, I know you haven't told her about the, the panties with the dick inside of them, right,
Starting point is 00:34:35 or with the dildo, but does she, has she seen you in the, like the, the panties that you just recently got into, just the plastic ones, the vinyl ones, without something in them? No, she hasn't yet. I just, like, I've only been putting them on and what,
Starting point is 00:34:53 not when I got into kind of trying out cock cages and stuff like that, just to try something different again and feel what it's like to wear one of them. So then when I got them on, of course, you drip and whatever. So that's why I put the plastic panties on. So wait, slow it down because you just brought up the next thing. I was going to talk about those because that was in your email too. You got into the cock cages. When did that start?
Starting point is 00:35:21 Did all this start before when you were. were lonely in that last marriage or did it start when did you get into all this stuff yes it was at the end of the other one and then the start of my new one coming in stuff and it was just every once in a while i still have those urges and and whatever so i would just take and slowly try something else into my lineup so i wanted to do so i wanted to try to cock cage so I talked and ordered one of them and slip it on and and like to actually wear it as well so the cock the cock cage right is that like a cock um what are they called the cb something what are those is the same yes you know what does that mean it's that oh well chastity right chastity
Starting point is 00:36:17 belt or whatever. Yeah, chastity. Yeah, chastity cage. Yes. It just ring goes around your ball sack and then the dip slides over there into your cock and then you just walk yourself in. And how is that? It's actually pretty good. First time I tried it, I thought, this is terrible. Like how could anybody go on with this? And then I left it on for, oh, three hours that day. and the first hour was pure hell. And then after that, I didn't even know I was wearing it. It felt comfortable. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:36:59 And then when does it start to feel like a turn-on? And why, if it feels like torture at first, and then you don't even know you're feeling it that it's on? And then what about it gets you turn on? Then you get yourself turned on and you're getting hard and you can't get out of it and that's the turn-on? Yeah. And the thing is it just,
Starting point is 00:37:19 builds up and you get that it's a different pressure it's it's a confined pressure and then it's not painful it's just it's actually a pretty neat feeling right and then yeah then if if i happen to you know slip on porn or something and watch it it's like frustration you you want to stroke it but there's no way you can get at it right and it just keeps dripping and dripping and then the more it then, you know, eventually you do, you know, will have a come to it because it just, it builds up and builds up. And then it just kind of drizzles out. Right, because you can't do anything. So it's really like the ultimate foreplay because you get yourself to a point where you're so horny that you're, have you, can you actually come from it without doing anything?
Starting point is 00:38:19 without even touching yourself? Oh, yeah. Like I've been, when I, when they're, like, when I'm caged like that, and then I'm wearing my plastic panties over top of them. Yeah. And then, you know, there's just so much moisture there and whatever. And then certainly you move or whatever. And then it just builds and builds.
Starting point is 00:38:39 And yeah, you don't have to touch or anything. And then the first thing, you know, you explode, but it's just kind of like a lazy flow out of you. It's not forced. It's just drips. And did you get this on Amazon? Like, is this something that somebody could just go and buy online? Well, yeah. I actually got this one off.
Starting point is 00:39:00 Amazon, I was on Wish before, and I got a plastic one. But that little cage around the ball set would always seem to break. They got too cheap of plastic or whatever. So then I went with this metal one now. and it's a little weighted. It's heavier. It's supposed to be a stainless steel one. But, you know, you got the weight to it.
Starting point is 00:39:26 And it's, it's, I actually, I loved the darn thing. Now let me ask you this, but I'm going to include links for these two. You'll send me the, what you use so that if people listening want to try it, they could go. I'm assuming the plastic one is way cheaper than the stainless steel one. how much do they go for about? Like, what is the price of them? Well, like the ones that I bought on Wish, you know, they were like $24. Sometimes they'll put them on sale.
Starting point is 00:39:58 And then, of course, then you're paying not much for postage. So another company I go through is Pink Cherry. It's an adult store in Canada, and you can order from there. And they actually have some pretty neat stuff. and then this one actually I was in a love store just for lovers and I picked it up at that one. This one was about $100 because it was stainless steel and it's supposed to be a non-rusting lot padalong, but it does rust. So that's why. So the plastic ones will cost someone around $2530, but if they really want to go for the higher-end ones,
Starting point is 00:40:43 you're going to you could spend about $100 and that's maybe for somebody that's a little bit more professional. I mean, I think it's interesting, right? Somebody, because it's like not everybody has tried this, right? Only some people decide to go out and try it. It's interesting that for you, it didn't really feel good at first, but then you gave it another try and then another try, right? And then all of a sudden you realize, wow, this is like pretty hardcore. So was it like you saw it in porn and that's how you knew about it? And how did you notice? And how did you know keep going with it? Well, yes, I've seen someone on porn that had them.
Starting point is 00:41:20 And then you read stories of cuckold couples and have stuff and they're locked up in it. So, you know, it's kind of intriguing. And then the fact that you're basically helpless, you know, and can't do anything. So it kind of works in with my panty hose and my love for lingerie bras panties. and all of that. It just kind of call all in one type of thing. It's a rush. Right.
Starting point is 00:41:50 And so when you're all done up and you put that on, but do you go out during the day? Because I'm assuming your wife doesn't know about this either, right? Yeah, she doesn't know about the cock. No, she doesn't know of the cage, no. So you go out with that, though, no? Oh, yeah. I'm wearing it.
Starting point is 00:42:09 I'm wearing it. I'm wearing them out and whatnot. Now, another thing for the listeners to keep in mind that, you know, the metal one, if you're traveling, is not very good unless you want to get scanned at the airport and get busted. So the plastic one is better. And then they have little plastic tags that will actually, like if you have a mistress or something like that, they can put these plastic little tags on so you can't take it off. It's like a long old old new plastic. and they're held a little number on them and then she can see that you've never taken off
Starting point is 00:42:49 or replaced them. So yeah, it's kind of intriguing. So for guys that are listening if they've never used them before, right, they should know that maybe at first it will feel very uncomfortable and not be good, but if you keep going, it'll eventually be enjoyable, right? Like maybe some people, right? I mean, I think it's good for people, for you to give that information so that if somebody's interested in trying it, they know.
Starting point is 00:43:20 Because maybe somebody will buy it and be like, oh, this feels like torture and they give up. But you're here to say that if you keep with it. It's actually enjoyable. And the thing is, too, when I got it, you know, they don't give instructions on how to actually put it on. So, you know, everything is dry and you try to put it on. It sticks. So I Googled it, and they said if you use an end of a nylon panty hose, put a stocking, and just feed it through the tip of the cock cage, and then just as you're pulling it down into place,
Starting point is 00:43:59 slide the panty hose out, and then it just, like, slips on easier. So you don't have to, you know, because if you had stifling it. start to get it to aroused, you struggle to get it on. It's just next to impossible until it weakens again. Right. So at least with the nylon stocking as you pull it, it slides down and it helps the ease of putting it on. No, have you ever, because like you were saying, oh, if you have a mistress, she has the peg and she could open it up. Have you ever had any sexual, like, affairs with women?
Starting point is 00:44:37 I know you've been married a couple times, but have you ever had a mistress or had somebody that you've done these kind of things with a woman on the side? Well, I did years back between the first and the second. I took in and was in the city and met up with a lady, talked to her before off of one of the ads that she had placed all. on Craig List when they were up and running. Yeah. And I'd said, you know, like I had this fascination for pantyhose and, and I'd said, you know, I've never been with a woman like that and I would, you know, like to dress up with her and and see where it went.
Starting point is 00:45:28 And she was down with that. She said, sure. So we met for coffee. And then she said, just leave your vehicle. I'll take you to my place because she didn't want. me driving there and whatnot. So we ended up at her place. And then, of course, I went and then put all my stuff and came out.
Starting point is 00:45:47 And it was like, oh, you look great in that. So then it went on a little bit more. And she said, well, what do you think of my feet? And then I kind of looked at her nylon feet. And they looked really stunning. And she said, well, why don't you touch them? Why don't you lick them? And I said, well, I'm not sure that I'm into feet, but she said, well, you don't know unless you try.
Starting point is 00:46:14 So, yeah, so you had new hose on. So I was smelling her feet and rubbing and caressing them. And she could tell what I was getting really aroused. So then she ended up giving me a foot job. So that was sensational. A feel of nylon feet. on your, like through your panty hose as well because she just, she didn't want me to pull them down.
Starting point is 00:46:42 She wanted me to actually come inside my panty hose. Right. So I said, no, that's fine. So, yeah, so it was kind of, kind of a really big turn on for me. She said, now, there, you came in, you came in your panty hose. How does that feel? And just the way she said it, it was like, it was a turn on. She knew what she was doing.
Starting point is 00:47:07 She knew what a guy like new life, right? She knew that that was, she was probably with other guys that are into that. Or, you know, been down that road before because she knew that that would be a turn on for sure. Did you see her often? I mean, was that some, or was that the only time you saw her? Well, it was the only time because she was in between jobs and she had a job transfer. So she ended up out in Vancouver someplace. So, no, I'd never, never seen her.
Starting point is 00:47:36 again and like I said Craig's list disappeared so I really haven't found anybody else like that what about guys have you have had any like online interactions with any men that you could fantasize with I yeah when I was dressing before in patty hos and and whatnot they'd always oh what are you wearing and can we see and then you know, you'd just, I had a video cam that I would glance every once in a while and show them just parts of it. And then, yeah, this other guy, he used to phone and asked how things were. And then we get talking and, yeah, it would always end up for me kind of coming inside of my panty hose again type of thing. So you've had phone sex with guys?
Starting point is 00:48:34 Yes But you've never been with a man in real life Like face to face, right? No, no, not yet anyway, so Right, but maybe if your wife was into it Because you're happy with her Now let's get into this craziest thing I've ever heard, okay? And I need to know if your wife had breakfast with you that day
Starting point is 00:49:00 So you told me No Okay So you tell the story. Just you tell the story, right? You're into these nylon panties. It starts with the fact that you get into these nylon panties that you're wearing. Do you get those on Amazon too?
Starting point is 00:49:18 Yes. There's another spot in the States, what is it called, the fetware. And I always used to get those plastic panties or vinyl panties from him. and then I can get them off of Wish or Amazon has them as well. I have like a whole Amazon affiliate now, so I just like put links for things. So it's great. It just, it actually helps people because it's like one-stop shopping, right? They hear about all the stuff and then they could get it.
Starting point is 00:49:51 So I'm like, if you're getting it on Amazon, I could just link to it. So I'll give links to all these things, right? So these panties, let's start, like tell your story. You get into these and you get them on Amazon. So, yeah, so I had bought or got these pair and they came in and they were a nice kind of, kind of a bright fluorescent pink type ladies brief panties. And I put them on and they felt so good. So I thought, well, I'll put my cock cage on and then pull the panties out. Well, then that even felt way better.
Starting point is 00:50:29 So then I ended up putting my panty hose over top of that. And it was a weekend where my wife was away on business and stuff. So I was at home bored. So I put all this stuff on and basically wore it all day. And then I went and had a quick shower and then slipped back into them. the same moist panties, the plastic ones that I had, put them back on them,
Starting point is 00:51:02 and they felt terrific. And then I ended up watching a movie and fell asleep in, all of that wearing it with the caught cage and all of that on. And next morning when I woke up, I was still locked in my cage and my plastic panties
Starting point is 00:51:20 were just absolutely dripping with pre-cum. So I went upstairs feeling horny and hungry as well. And I got up into the kitchen and opened up the fridge and I'm looking around and thought, well, maybe I'd make an omelette, but I didn't have all the fixing. So I thought, well, maybe scrambled eggs. So as I was getting these eggs out, I started to get kind of as hard as you can inside of a cockcase there. And I thought, geez, you know, this feels exciting. So all of a sudden, it was getting wetter down in there and more tension.
Starting point is 00:52:04 And for some reason, I ended up kind of cracking four eggs and dropping them down inside while I was wearing them. And collected them inside the plastic panties and let it sit there and kind of formed around. And the first thing I know I ended up coming inside of them along with the egg juices, right? So because you have this cock ring or this cock cage, right? But it's like open. So the turn on for you was the feeling of like all that mix, that stuff inside there, right, all over your cock at the time.
Starting point is 00:52:44 Yeah, with the balls, it was that whole, the way it slithered over top of that stainless steel. tip on the on the caulk cage it it's you could feel the juices running over it it was a sensation unbelievable how many did you put in how many eggs I had four
Starting point is 00:53:06 okay so you cracked them in it feels amazing you come yeah then I came inside of them and then I thought what the hell so I ended up dropping out of my pantyho
Starting point is 00:53:22 and the plastic panties still held all a mixture in there. And then I kind of felt bad because, you know, I don't want to waste anything like the eggs because, you know, there's quarantines going on and everything else. Oh, this was recent, yeah. Yeah, and it's, you know, I didn't want to waste anything. So I thought, well, uncleaned. So I just ended up leaning over and dropping it into a,
Starting point is 00:53:52 pan and ended up making myself scrambled eggs with my cum mixture. I can't even. I cannot even because I know you're saying like I'm clean, but I mean, you can't forget, like you came in that egg scramble. That's so funny. Yeah, I know. And it was there and everything scrambled. So I said I didn't want to, I didn't want to waste food because I don't believe in that.
Starting point is 00:54:22 I thought, well, what the hell? Like, I've tasted my own gum before and whatnot, but never, ever had it with eggs. So you scrambled them up and then you ate it. Now, let me, did they taste any different than regular scrambled eggs? Well, it was my first time ever, ever, make a cummy scrambled eggs. So I just took and basically added some salt, which I shouldn't have done because it was your natural salts there. So, yeah, they were a little bit saltier. But, no, actually, you know, if I didn't know somebody came inside my eggs, you know, I would, you would never have tasted the difference.
Starting point is 00:55:18 You never would have known. Holy shit. I mean, that when, when, that's what I was talking about in the beginning, right? We opened up with like, it was, it really is the craziest thing I've ever heard, for real. Right? I mean, you didn't. I don't know if I should. What?
Starting point is 00:55:35 I don't know if I should be honored or flattered or shocked. I don't know. All of the above. Yes. I mean, come on. You know that that's like the craziest thing. Where did you get the idea to like crack the egg and put it down there? Did you ever, is that a little?
Starting point is 00:55:50 like a porn thing? Like do other people do that or that was just something that you thought of? I never ever seen anybody do it. Maybe I should make a video and put it out there. I think I have to link to eggs on Amazon too. I have a feeling. I promise you. There are going to be some guys that are going to do it after they hear this.
Starting point is 00:56:13 Yeah. No, it was just a spur of the moment. Like when I was standing there and for some reason being locked up, It started to, my cock would start to swell inside the cock cage, and it was just excitement. And then I seen the eggs, and I'm thinking, geez, you know, that kind of feels, you know, they'd probably feel the same way as my pre-com. So I don't know why I did it, but I just cracked one, and it felt good. So I added four more into it.
Starting point is 00:56:44 And it felt like amazing, and you actually came from it because it felt so good. Yes. And, of course, I'd been away before and had my legs waxed and down in that area. Everything's kind of like hair-free. So like I said, I didn't want to waste the eggs. So that's why I ended up cooking the mixture. Well, I don't know if, listen, when I say that some guys are going to try this at home, I don't know if they're going to, I don't think you're going to get one other guy to cook the eggs and eat them.
Starting point is 00:57:16 But I do think that you, there are going to be some guys. that are going to hear how, you know how horny guys are. If they find out that like, oh, they, you know, eggs feel like really good if you crack them on your dick. Like, they're going to go out and try it. Yeah, probably they will. But, no, it felt amazing. I said the next thing I might do is slip one or two inside of a condom and then just go that
Starting point is 00:57:46 way with it. Oh, another idea you have for people. listening. I want to know if anyone tries this at home to email me and tell me strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Because like I said, I think, you know, when people are listening to other people talk,
Starting point is 00:58:02 right, they learn things and then they start to think. And that's why I'm like, oh, I'll link to your cock rings or cock cages, the chastity belts or whatever you want to call them. Just so people, because you know, maybe a guy's listening to this and he's the type of guy that likes to try different things, you know, when he's
Starting point is 00:58:18 masturbating by himself. And this is, you know, listening to you talk, you know, they're going to want to try it. And then when they hear this, I do think there's going to be guys that are going to try it because of, like, you saying it feels so good. They're going to be curious, right? And if you think about it, right, the consistency of a raw egg is like kind of like a cummy kind of consistency, right? It's like...
Starting point is 00:58:44 Yes. Yes. Like the egg white is similar to the pre-cum. And then, yeah, the yolk is more or less, once it's smashed up, is basically like the cum. And, yeah, you couldn't even see it in there. They didn't see what it happened. But, yeah, once they were in the age, you didn't even know they were there. Right.
Starting point is 00:59:08 And now after you did it because it was so good, you're going to do it again. And this time, you're going to put a little bit of it in a condom. So I think like that's, this story is definitely going to get other people to try it, which I think is like, I want to hear from those people or somebody, you know, because it's so interesting. It is, it is. And it felt amazing. And yeah, definitely it's got me wanting to do it again.
Starting point is 00:59:38 Probably next time she goes on business or something like that, then, yeah, I'll probably end up. But if it's one egg and a condo, will you cook it? Will you cook it again? Was there any kind of turn on for that? Or was it strictly like you cook them and ate them because, you know, you're real frugal and you don't like to waste shit? Or was there something about that that was a turn on? Like I said, I've tasted my actual come before. And it's not that terrible bad.
Starting point is 01:00:12 Kind of the first time it was like, oh, what am I doing? But then it's actually not that bad. And then I just thought, well, yeah, I'm going to try this in food. Because I've heard other people coming on top of pizzas or a burger or something like that. Right. Yeah. And I just thought, well, I'm just going to make it one step better and just do it in eggs. Right.
Starting point is 01:00:41 So there was a part of it. It wasn't just because you didn't want to waste it. It was a part of it also was your curiosity and your kinky mind, right? Yes. I would say that's probably 75% of it right there. Right. It's just the idea of it. And how far could I actually go?
Starting point is 01:01:06 So once I came inside those and then put them in a pan and was like, okay, now, the next step. What do I do? and I just, I thought, well, you know, again, until you try it, you just don't know. So I went for it and actually I don't mind them at all. Right. And was it a turn-on? It was. And then actually, too, every time you ate a bite, it was on your mind.
Starting point is 01:01:37 Like, yeah, I just came inside those aches, you know. It was like it, it, other than, like I said, there's a bite. If somebody's going to make them, don't add salt because you've already added it. Right. It's salty enough. Oh, my God. Yeah. That really is, I don't know if anyone will be able to ever top that story.
Starting point is 01:02:01 Seriously. It's like the most fascinating, crazy thing I've ever heard on my show. I mean, you know, like seriously. I've never heard of it before. Like, I don't know if anyone's ever done that before. I mean, I guess you said, like, people do it. they come on hamburger like that is a thing i didn't know yeah and there's others like i've been on porn sites where he'll see a lady or a guy drinking come out of a condom and whatever else
Starting point is 01:02:35 but no i just thought well plastic panties were on that were already super slick and then i just added the eggs and yeah it just kind of snowballed from there yeah crazy but fascinating. Like I said, literally top of the list of the most crazy things I've heard on my show that somebody has done. But this is what I think. Like, I think, you know, if one person's done it, what are the odds that there's not another person out there that has? So besides the people that are going to try it that are listening, if anyone has ever done that before and they're listening to us, can you email me and tell me? Because I just, I can't believe it.
Starting point is 01:03:15 I really, I can't. It's like it blew my mind when I read it. It's even more crazy when you hear the whole story. I'm going to end with this story because we're already at a over an hour and I got to get back to my kid. But like honestly, it was fucking great. Now, I'm going to edit this out. I have a Patreon page, which is just like a panty hose fetter site, but I don't, I don't want to air this just there. I want this to be on my regular site.
Starting point is 01:03:46 But if anybody wants to, like if we ever do like a part two when we get more into your pantyos thing or if you ever want to call back in, we could do something that I would post there. But this is going to be one for my regular, you know, for my audience because it's so good. So I don't know when I'm going to air it, but it'll be soon. Like probably like two weeks from now. Okay. Well, if you do, just pop me a message and let me know so I can listen to it. Yeah, you'll love it.
Starting point is 01:04:12 It's great. Thank you so much. Oh, thank you, Kathy. enjoy your show and thanks for spending the time. No problem. Keep your, stay tuned because yours will be coming up very soon. This breakfast episode will be on. It's so interesting.
Starting point is 01:04:30 I have to post it ASAP. Yeah, no, breakfast sounds good. All right, thanks, Dana. Thanks for calling it. Okay. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book,
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