Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 354 - Chloe Shares her Stripper Stories and More

Episode Date: September 21, 2020

Chloe, host of Stripper Stories podcast, calls in to share her personal stripper stories and a whole lot more. When did she start stripping? Why did she start stripping? What did it lead to and what is she doing now? Tune in to find out plus hear all about what she would and wouldn’t do while working in high class strip clubs, her experience as a "walker" and what she would and wouldn’t do with her sugar daddies, her one sugar daddy relationship that became very close and what exactly went down with him, her web camming experience and what guys get to see if they tune in, how she learned to squirt, her threesomes with both men and women and which she prefers, the sex with her current boyfriend which include anal and fisting, how she started her podcast, who she has on, what it's all about and a whole lot more.  To listen to Chloe's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/stripper-stories/id1519877321 **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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If you want to follow the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Today I'm having a girl named Chloe. Chloe wrote in because she's a smart bitch. This girl started her own podcast called Stripper Stories and she's looking to get the word out there, right? So she's emailing other podcasts to be guests on the show. And that's smart. That's what what you should do that you know how else are you going to get out there right um and i was like sure i'd love to have you on the phone because i love to help people right that's like why i started my show so when things like this come my way i'm like yeah uh why wouldn't i help out a fellow podcaster and she actually has a really interesting story you know i was like i don't mind you coming on my

show but let's like really get into your background because this is a girl that has been a stripper she's also been what she would call like a companion I forget what her actual term is. She sort of like goes out with guys on the side for money, but she doesn't have sex with them. She never crossed those lines. We talk all about her days and the strip club, how she got into it, what she did, what she would and wouldn't do, what other people would do. She talks about her relationships that she's had with guys and what she's into sexually because she's very super open-minded has been for a long time. On her podcast, we talk about what, you know, she, you know, she.

talks to other girls in the business, right? She's been in the business for a long time. All of her friends are. She also does, like, webcaming. And so she talks to girls that do that, other former strippers. She also has, like, a sexpert on. I call him a sexpert.

Is that a word? A guy. And she talks about how she met that guy. It's an interesting story. And he comes on and gives advice. He's like a sex therapist. So her podcast is super interesting. Go listen.

Go subscribe and listen. If you want to hear more. about Chloe go to stripper stories anywhere where you listen to a podcast. But you're also going to get her whole backstory here. And the shit she does with her current boyfriend includes like fisting and a lot of anal both ways. And she's been there, done that. And she's super open. She's super cool.

She's here to talk about it all. Go support her show, Stripper stories, like I said, on iTunes or wherever you listen. But for now, sit back and relax. And I'm going to be right back on. Chloe. How are you today? I'm really good. Thank you very much for having me. Yeah. I really appreciate it. Yeah, no problem. You emailed me. You started you just, I'm assuming your podcast is new, right? You just started it. It's called stripper stories, right? Yeah, it is. Yeah. So I started about two, three months ago. And yeah, it was just an isolation. Like a lot of my friends are like,

you should, you should start a podcast. You've got loads of funny stories about when you worked in the adult industry. And so basically it's just that, me just having a good old chat with all my girlfriends who work in the adult industry and doctors and psychologists, sex therapists and things like that. And we all just talk about sex. And it's really, it's really cool. I really enjoy it. Yeah, no, it's great. And you're doing the right thing by like going on other people's podcast, you know, to, you know, get the word out there about your, your show. I mean, that's how I started at a friend of mine. I always worked with comedians and I knew these comedians. They're like, you should start up your own podcast, you know, and whatever. And that's how I, I,

I did and six years later, I'm still doing it. You know, and it's great, right? Because if you like to talk and, you know, it's like you're doing what you love to do and you're putting it out there. And so now you've been in the adult industry, like you said for many years. What do you do in the adult shit? Were you a stripper? Were you a porn store? Like, I mean, what did you do in the adult industry?

Yeah. Well, I worked about eight years. Pre-COVID. I was a dancer in the strip clubs in London, like the super clubs. And then I worked as a walker. like a GFE girlfriend experience. Like, I guess that's a job title, I guess.

And I was a dominates while doing that. Yeah, a walker. So what is that? What does that mean? Maybe it's different from where you live to in America. Like, is that the word they would use here in the United States? A walker?

Well, I guess it's not like a curb crawler, like street walker kind of thing. It's like more of a sugar baby kind of job, which it doesn't involve sex. So it would be, not escorting. So that's something I've never done. That's where my limit was. Like I was just like for me personally, that wasn't really for me. But now like post-corona, I work on adult work webcam, which is like a webcam service and I podcast on the side, which is it's pretty chill for me. It's really good. Oh, okay. So what's and what do you do on your webcam? Like so, because listen, the guys that are listening, I have mostly guy listeners, right? It's, I can see the demographics on YouTube. It's mostly men, right? So I'm sure after they're listening.

to this podcast. I'm going to want to check you out and see what you look like. Most of the time I, you know, people are on my show anonymous, right? So they don't get to see them. But they can see you, right?

Would you want to tell people where they could see your cam? Yeah, yeah. So it's called adult work.com. And you just, you search, the name is pretty funny. It's called ballerina slut butt.

So that's my name. Oh my God. hilarious. Ballerina slut box. Flut butt. slut butt B-U-T-T-T Okay cool

Yeah Yeah yeah that's me I mean because I used to do ballet dance a long time ago So yeah that's where they can find me And I'm on kind of most days But mostly podcasting takes up a lot of my time now So that's like Stripper Stories podcast That's on Instagram

If anyone wants to find me there That's probably And they could find it also on iTunes Or wherever they're listening to my show They could find your show They just put in Stripper Stories right You're on all of the platforms right Uh huh

Yeah Now what do you do though Like if somebody went into your camp Like are you, do you get hardcore on there? Do you just do soft stuff? Like, how far do you go? And what do, what are they going to see if they, they get log on? Well, basically it's like, well, it's like a typical cam.

I don't know if any, any, if you've been on there before. But it's kind of just like anything says, anything you say goes kind of thing. Like you can do kink, you can play with toys. You can just talk. You can be naked. You can not be naked. I mean, for me, it's like, if I am naked or like, I'm partially. clothes or in underwear lingerie and then I don't show my face.

So I put the camera down, which is just a safety thing to me. But yeah, you can go like, you know, as vanilla or as kinky as you want, depending on, I mean, a lot of the guys want to be watched. So they want their camera turned on. So that's a kink. I mean, a lot of them just want foot worship. There's a lot of, like, pay pigs on there that wouldn't you, like, take control of their money.

Like, it's just a very weird and wonderful world. Right. in which I've like met lots of like really cool girls and it's quite there's quite a lot of like camaraderie on there as well which is quite nice especially through COVID. Yeah, that's cool considering I mean because you know I'm a female right and sometimes females could be the opposite of that right especially if you're doing the same thing. There's competition right. But you're saying there's a lot of camaraderie and the girls on there sort of stick together

as opposed to are competing with each other. Yeah, I mean obviously it's just like any job. there is going to be competition. Yeah. But, you know, if it's a bad day, like we've got these kind of group WhatsApp chat chats, which we kind of, I talk about in my podcast, we always like put on like our funny stories

or if it's rubbish, we kind of like egg each other on to do better. And yeah, so it's kind of good like that. I mean, stripping was a kind of a different thing entirely where it was very dog eat dog. And there was lots of like nastiness fighting and catty situations. But obviously webcam because we're also remote. There would, you know, throwing, you know, throwing glasses or pulling weaves out. Like, that would be happening.

And you don't show your face on the cam is what you said, right? And that just is saying. Yeah, when I'm talking, I do. Mm-hmm. But when I'm naked or doing anything promiscuous at all, I won't show my face. No. Personally, that's my choice. But, like, girls do do that.

Right. Let's go back a little bit. First of all, how old are you now, Chloe, around? I'm 30. You're 30. And now, when did you start stripping? and how did you get into it? I was about 23.

I just finished a master's at a privately educated drama school, which was like a lot of money. And there was no, like, I don't know, it was really difficult to like get any kind of help with that. So I worked in a bar when I was working, and like working towards my master's degree. And I had a boyfriend at the time and he was a piano play.

and he was playing piano in the bar and he always used to watch me getting like numbers across the bar and I was like, this is strange. He was like, yeah, well, you know, you've got a payoff like,

you know, 20 grand of your loan this year. Why don't you think about like, because you're good dancer, why don't you start stripping? And I was like, no, I'd never do that. Like, what are you saying? Like, you're my boyfriend. Like, blah, blah, like,

you shouldn't be telling me be a stripper. Like, that's crazy. And then one day we had a massive fight and it was like a really like, one of those fights you just don't come back from. I was just like, okay, fuck this. I'm going to, I'm going to go to London. Like, I lived in, just outside London at the time.

And I'm going to audition to be a dancer. I was like, you know, like very, um, R-E-S-P-C-T situation. Like, I'm going to go down to, you know, be a dancer. Yeah. And I auditioned in the first night I got in. And then I basically just never looked back. And I paid off all of my, all of my debt and all of my, um, student loans and all of my stuff for, for school within like six months.

Yeah, that's great. So that was done. And, you know, it served its purpose. And then obviously, after that, then there's other things like getting a house. And then there's, you know, buying a car. And then there's all these other things that you need to do in your life. And, you know, me being a budding actress.

I was like, well, you know, it's a good job for me. It means I can audition during the day times and I can work at night. So it works for me. And let me ask you this. Like, was it a totally nude club? Did you wear G-strings? Like, what kind of club was it that you worked in? I worked in a quite high-end club

which we were wearing like no G-strings is like floor-length dresses at all times and like you know you got to wear like a three-piece like underwear set underneath the dress and then you have to have nails done like everything's got to be perfect it's in Mayfair in London which is like one of the like banking high high-end districts yeah yeah so yeah so I worked in like in a very upper class club

And I think it kind of spoiled me a bit because there's lots of clubs in London that are just great fun. And you can just go in there. And like it's a lot like they charge a lot less in those places. So I kind of just went for like the big bucks. Yeah, no, that was smart. How much would you make a night around? It will vary. But eight years ago, it was like 10 grand a night.

Right. That's amazing. I was just telling my nanny yesterday. It was funny because I'm 51, right? And so I was around your age that you started right in my 20s when stripping became like very popular, right? It was when Jenna Jameson, even porn stars were becoming very mainstream and stripping was becoming more mainstream, right? And it was because before that it was very seedy, right? And nobody did it.

But this was like right around the time that it became really super popular. And all my girlfriends did it. And I was like the only one that didn't. They would all beg me to. And I, because I would just like think, think, think too much, you know. So I was always like, what if my uncle came into a place or like one of my brother's friends? And then, like, what if I made too much money? I'd never go be able to go get a regular job.

Like, it could be a trap. And I saw a lot of my friends, I have to say, that did do it. Like, get really fucking weird and really, like, sort of anti-men, you know. And what I was, like, me and my nanny were just having this conversation. I'm like, but I do think that, you know, there's a certain person. of women that could go in there and do it, right? And really, you know, do come out on the other side with none of those things and just like positive stuff, right?

Like paying off your loan, supporting their family, doing whatever. You hear of those stories, right? But you do hear a lot of women that go in and it becomes like not so great for them. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, I totally get you. Like, yeah, I've witnessed it myself. I mean, I probably, I'd like to say that I don't have any of those traits, but I do. you know, speed dating literally, I mean, 50 men a night for like eight years, you're going to be a bit like a man-hatery slightly after that, you know?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But you made, but you took it and you did do positive things and you're still sort, you know, it really, it sort, it's not something that you just did for a certain amount of time, right? It's led you to what you're doing now. It led you to the cam stuff, right? So it became, I mean, even though you went to school for, you know, acting, is that what, right? That's what your master's was in, drama. Yeah, yeah, and drama, yeah. I mean, it is kind of like acting, right, what you do on a certain level.

Yeah, I think it's kind of, we were talking about this, like, me and my girlfriends the other day on camera. It's like, or even about, like, the podcast and things. It's like, if you can talk well and if you can, like, present yourself well to anyone in any business, any job, it does help. Yeah. And I think that the acting did like, you know, like filter into my stripping, which now filters into my podcast. you know, it's all kind of interlinked. Yeah. But I would definitely not be the same person without, like, doing this, this type of job.

And I actually am quite happy with the choices I've made. Yeah, yeah. But there are other people that I do know of personally, and I'm sure you probably know that it hasn't really worked out so well for them. So, yeah. But what I think is important for people to know is that you can't say that's 100% across the board. You know what I'm saying? No, you can't.

You know, just because you know some people that it didn't go well or it's so dark. because I think a lot of people have like a very bad view of that industry, right? But there are people like you, right? It's even in the porn industry, right? You hear girls that are like committing suicide and stuff. But then you see these porn stars that it's like a positive thing. What's that one woman's name? She's older.

And she's just like on everyone's podcast. What the fuck is her name? I'm so bad what names, but she's very famous, you know? And you just know that like it's just been nothing but positive for her. You know what I mean? And it's just who she is and what she's done her whole life? What the fuck is her name? I'm going to edit this out and put in her...

Do you know who I'm talking about? The blonde. I'm just trying to think... She's older. She's old school. She's like so famous porn. Hold on. Carmen Electro, is it?

No, no, no. Carmen Lecture is not a porn star. No, this is a straight up porn star. Hold on. Old on. Older, porn star. Famous. Hold on.

I'm going to edit some of this out. Maybe I won't. I try not to edit, really, though. Matured porn. So she's so famous. She's like on everyone's podcast. I always think I should get her on my show. Oh, yeah, right here.

She's the blonde. What the fuck is her name? Hold on. But anyway, she just is very, you know, there's nothing dark or seed. You know, she really did it in a positive way. And this is just like what she was born to do. Do you know what I mean? Yeah.

I mean, I think there are some people that it just, they are like fish to water with it, you know, and they can decapitalize their brains. Nina Hartley. Sorry, that's who I was talking about. You know her, right? She's like an icon, you know. Yeah. And she's.

still out there speaking and she's very sex positive right and it's just not a dark thing like i said you hear of these other pornzers and so you know my whole point is that you know it's important i think for people to know because i think sometimes what happens is there's a whole movement of people that think like oh you're some sort of victim or these sometimes these women are victims right and they're not doing it because they want to or they're not in control of themselves or they're not empowered and i don't think that that's true all the time right i mean you know it's maybe there's a large majority of sort of dysfunction going on, but there's definitely, you know, people in it that are empowered, doing it for the right reason, you know, and doing what they like to do. And they're in

charge of it, right? It's not a, it's not dysfunction. Yeah. I mean, me and my friends and the club, we always used to have this joke about the guy that would come in and he'd be like, what, what is a girl like you doing in a place like this? You know, I'm going to save you from all of your poverty and all of this rape and murder that's happening in your life. And you're like, you're there and your eyes are slowly rolling into the back of your skull. And you're like, this is not, I mean, it's mostly because my accent as well. It's like, seen more of a kind of typically upper class accent, right? Because I speak eloquently.

But like, that doesn't, that shouldn't matter. Yeah. It shouldn't matter my upbringing. It shouldn't matter about any of that. And sex is sex. And it's one of the oldest professions in the world forever. Yeah. And so it's, if a girl chooses to do that herself,

She shouldn't be like cane for it. And no one should be ringing that bell of like, shame, shame, shame. And we need to help you and get you out of this awful, you know, poverty. It's crazy, isn't it? I mean, there are obviously situations where, you know, people are abusing. Yes, absolutely. Women are in it because, you know, it is dysfunctional for them, right? And, you know, but they're on drugs.

They're doing it way high, you know. They're addicts, whatever. But like that, you know, like I said, the important. thing is to know that that's not always the case. You know, you can't sort of say that, make that sweeping statement, you know, and that's why I think it's important for you to, like, you're not that person, right? You're here, you stripped for eight years. Now you're doing cam stuff. You're starting, you know, you have your podcast. Now, you talk to all your friends. Like, I mean, who do you have on there as far as, like, who you talk to? Is it mostly strippers or,

like, people in the adult industry across the board? You said you talked to therapists. Like, what kind of stuff do you guys discuss? Yeah. So we just kind of talk about all funny, like, and stories, mostly, like, to start off with. And then it kind of branches out, like a lot of my friends work as like sugar babies, for instance. And then I've got a couple of doctor friends who've come on there. And obviously, I don't use their real name, but we call him Dr. Kink, who's a sex psychologist and sex therapist. And he comes and talks about, like, the history of BDSM and Kink and hysteria and things

like that, which are kind of a bit more serious. And then we go from that to talking about our first experience with anal or, like, how to, like, train your asshole up, you know, to have, like, good anal, like, things like that, like silly things that, like, people obviously, every girl is, like, thought about or, like, needs to know about. Or if they wanted to, like, work within the industry, how you do it. What kind of things you might be, um, exposed to. And, yeah, just to keep it all, like, most, it's mostly a positive podcast.

But obviously, there are some, there's some darker stories that, uh, yeah, if you just like episode one, there's like a guy. who comes into the club and he has a fetish of munting. And we didn't know what that was. Munting? Munting. Yeah. What is that?

And it's kind of like when it's kind of a Ted Bundy vibe where you literally, you two people or even just one person jumps on the, okay, this is really gross. But I actually encountered this. Yeah. jumps on the like stomach of a dead body. Uh-huh. And then the entrails from the inside of the stomach goes into someone else's mouth from like the holes.

Yeah. Uh-huh. And, and, and, and then it's like, it's more like a necrophilia kind of vibe. It's like dead bodies, right? Where the fuck do they get their dead bodies? So were you the person that encountered this guy? Yeah. So I was in the strip club and he was like, I'm, I have a really big thing for Munting.

I was like, what is that? And I literally got my phone out in the club. And I was like, what? And I just discovered. He was, he was like, let's go to a private booth. He paid me. like 500 quid to lie still and pretend I was dead

while he's talked to me. Oh, interesting. Right. So he just mocks that up in fantasy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So you just seriously, just so you just lied there dead and he sat on your stomach. No, no, he didn't. He wasn't allowed to touch me. That's the thing. With the clubs that I've always

worked at, no one can touch. It's always like a meter away. It's like literally like COVID in there. Everyone has to stay away from each other. Yeah, yeah, even before COVID. That's great. Yeah. Literally. So, He couldn't touch me, but I think he was just enjoying telling me what to do. Like, lie down. Like, I want you in this position and stuff. Like, it was probably like weird.

Like, now I could laugh about it. Yeah, yeah, totally. All of our friends, like, we're all looking through in the booth, like, what is she doing? She's not dancing to like genuine pony. She's playing dead. Oh my God. That is hilarious. It is kind of funny.

But wait, so now through this whole time, like the eight years that you were stripping, first of all, that guy, it's funny that he was like, oh, strip for me and you never did. You never became a shiver than the minute you guys got in fight. You're like, I'm going to go fucking strip. Right. So you never went back out with him. But have you had long term relationships? Are you in a relationship now? I mean, how have the guys that you've been with dealt with your, you know, career? Good question. It's been different across the board. So it's just like anything. Like no one person is the same. So for me, I mean, I've changed a lot since I started in the industry where I, you know,

I kind of was more apologetic for it in the beginning. Like, oh, I better not tell someone that I do this because they're going to just see me as a piece of ass, which is not what I want. But now, as I've got older, I'm just like, this is what I do. It's a job at the end of the day. And just like any other job, like sex work is work. And it's, you can still be in a committed relationship

while working in the sex industry. So I've had some guys, it's almost like a test, like when you start dating a guy, like, When I tell them, you know, at the right time, this is what I do. This is what I've done. This is what I've been exposed to. This is what I like. And they either just accept it and they're like understanding and they take it for what it is and for the person that I am.

Or they'll start going, oh, yeah, I'm dating a stripper and telling all their friends and making it a thing. And you know the sort of guy then that you want to be dating, right? Yeah, they can't handle it. I have had long-term relationships with really good people that have been like, completely understanding and secure in that. So yeah, for me, it's been still great. Like, at least it's helped me weed out the men from the boys kind of thing. Yeah, and listen, I can't tell you, I mean, I started my podcast six years ago.

And, you know, my podcast is all about these people calling in. And a lot of times they're talking about their secret lives or their naughty lives that they have. And I mean, what I learned, because I never knew this sort of existed before. And I have a lot of guy friends, but nobody never cop to it that there are so many guys out there that, love to watch their girl fuck another guy you know whether they're doing it with them or like that's what their fantasy is you know so you know and you're younger and i think the younger generation is so much more open that you know you the thought of you being able to meet a guy that you know not only accept it but maybe be into the fact that you're exposing yourself on a camp to other guys and that's his

girl i mean i think some guys might find that to be a turn on yeah yeah i mean you know I'll, if it's been happening in the past when a guy's come home and I've just finished work but I'm still in my lingerie and it's like, oh, you know, it's kind of like, oh, who else would like, you know, you come home to your girlfriend in lingerie from work kind of thing. You don't work in an office, you don't have the stresses from work in that type of way.

You know, you're a bit more, he always mentioned that it was more of a pleasurable experience to come home to me because I was just working for myself and doing my own thing. And yeah, and like, obviously naturally, I am a less vanilla person with my personal sex life too so that doesn't bother me if a guy's like oh you know what did you do on cam today

or you know what did you wear at the strip club whatever I'm like yeah that's part of me that is me you know so maybe some of these guys aren't admitting to you but there's a lot of guys out there that would love to fucking know that stuff and it would get them hard no I'm telling you I hear that from people all the time on my show I mean it's like it's one of the biggest things

that I've learned, it's very common. Yeah, yeah, guys are like less jealous than women, obviously. Like, and also they're very territorial. Like, they know if a girl and also women are much more emotionally connected to men. So it's like, so if a woman is yours and a man knows it, he's super happy to like let you go and be like sexual with someone else. It's almost like a power thing, right? It's like, she's mine and she, yeah, you can, you can like have her for a little bit. I can enjoy this and she's always going to come back to me, like swinging kind of thing.

Yeah. And I find that super hot. Like, I mean, I wouldn't want to be in a completely monogamous relationship for the rest of my life to the point where I'm only allowed to think about one dick. Right. For the rest of my life. Like, I don't think we're naturally supposed to be that way. Hence why people cheat all the time.

You know, it's like it's not an unnatural DNA. Yeah, that's the other topic I have on my show a lot, you know? I mean, it's just it is what it is. it's like, I have, I get a lot of comments on YouTube and a lot of times, I mean, especially men, I don't know, I guess, because they, they sort of projecting it onto themselves these stories, but when I have women talking about cheating, oh, the comments they get from men, like it's so, it's so vicious, you know, these men, they just can't even handle it, you know, that a woman would cheat.

Men are fucking cheat all the time too, but it's just like, you know, I mean, come on. But now, have you had open relationships? Like, when you have, like, what does that look like for you since you sort of don't believe in like, oh, being with one person and one dick for the rest of your life. I've never believed in that since I was younger. But, you know, what does, have you had open relationships or what kind of relationships have you had when they've been long term? Well, I mean, I've never had a polyamorous relationship like yet.

Yeah. But I'm, I'm currently with one person and we've spoken about it quite a lot. And it's almost like if you're with, for me, it would be more so like, if you're with them for the rest of your life, you know? So if you, if you're putting a ring on it and you end up getting married and things like that, I would never rule out swinging. Yeah. Uh-huh.

I would, I would never want to have an actual relationship. You know, you hear those polyamorous, like, couples. Yeah. For me, that's personally not my thing, but I can completely understand it where you can, like, love more than one person. And I can get that. I can kind of. I can't. No.

I mean, I say this to my part. I've, like, and I, it's very rare that I feel. find I haven't I have yet to have on a couple that have done it successfully. I think it's very difficult. I'm always like, I just don't have enough fucking love to go around. Like, I mean, it's hard enough to love one guy, like a little, alone three other people. I don't know. I just think it's very, you know, I think relationships take a lot of work, right?

When you add, you know, emotional intimacy as well, you know, it's one thing to go swinging and be fucking other people and you're emotionally connected, though, to like just one partner. But when you get that emotional connection, you're all living together. I'm sure people do it successfully. I have yet to hear it. It just, I, I've heard people, like I've had podcasts that, you know, guests have been on multiple times where the first time that's what they're doing and then, you know, two times later it's all gone horribly wrong.

I could understand. Really? I think it's difficult. You know, I just think it's very difficult. But it's not to say, just because I haven't spoken to someone that's unsuccessful, that people, you know, don't. But I'm, I can't wrap my head around it. I think it's very difficult because just a one-on-one relationship with anybody is difficult,

you know? And I think a lot of times, even. even with just the swinging what I've seen. And I remember seeing a very famous swinger documentary when I was really young and being like, that's my goal is to just get to the point at one point in my life that I'm so evolved that I don't feel like I need to own someone sexually, right?

But you know what? And they follow these couples in this Swinger documentary from like within one year, right? And they had four different couples. And two of them were like very new couples getting into swinging. And two of them were like double digit year couples, right? And you saw by the,

end of the year, like those two couples that just had like a year under their belt or whatever, they were less successful as opposed to the people that, you know, had like they say, double-digit years, right? And I do think it's much smarter in swinging situations to get that, you know, get some time with each other, right? And then you have that in your back pocket to eventually go swinging when you know that you're really secure and stable in your relationship because it could bring up a lot of things. And I, you know, but it's not to say that people can do it right off the bat and they're going to be successful. But I think, you know, it's something that if you're open to it and your partner is that, you know, when it goes down the line and you're with somebody

for a bunch of years and you're like, okay, now what, right? sexually, you want to go do something else, right? And before that person goes cheating behind your back or you're cheating behind their back because things are going a little stale because like, I don't know, how do you keep it so hot for 20 years with the same person? I don't, I can't understand that. But I know some people do. I'm thinking about. Yeah. I mean, some people do.

Like, you hear, you know, all the older generation, they were all married after 60, 60 years still married. And like,

yeah, but they're all on my show, Chloe, okay, they're all on my show and they're either blowing guys when their wives go on a point. Like, it's seriously,

I can't even tell you that. And that's what my show is kind of all about. It's, you know, it's to, and I don't think that, like, I get,

I get people around my age calling in more so with the secret stories, right? The younger people that call in are out and proud. of what they're doing, you know, and even the ones that are swingers or have open relationships or, you know, or want, you know, multiple partners. But all the people that you're talking about that got married for six years, they're all calling into my show at Secret Lives, trust me. I mean, there's nothing wrong with that. But for me, I think that, like, personally, I mean, I've had a lot of customers, even on Cam, and then they've had, like, wives who know what they do.

So they have, like, a kind of side life. And it's like, okay, honey, this is not what I want to be doing, but you come home to me. I just don't want to hear about it. Yeah. And like, that is quite cool. Yeah. That's quite liberating to see those couples. And I think, I mean, I personally, I completely agree with you.

You'd have to be in a relationship for a number of years. Yeah. Have gone through some stuff together before you'd even think about swinging. I mean, for me personally, that I wouldn't be able to even think about it within the first, you know, five to even 10 years of a relationship. Right. Yeah. No, they say double digits. I think you're just, you know.

And the couples that I find that are successful, that's how it worked for them. I mean, they were just so into each other for those first 10 years that they weren't even thinking about it. You know what I mean? Because they were super compatible, right? And that's why they work even after that being with other people, you know? Yeah, for real. Yeah, for real.

So now you're dating, you're dating somebody now, right? But you've never had an open relationship. Do you sleep? Like, because you said like you're kind of kinky in your personal life. Do you want to tell any hot stories that I don't know? well I mean with this guy right now I mean we don't have like the standard sex that people have right

you know it's like we like to like go outside in like public places or we'd like to I don't know like you also do you like to think that maybe people can see you or they are seeing you like I mean you know is it like an exhibitionist thing I guess sometimes and yeah we obviously use like lots of toys like lots and lots of extreme toys um like what kind of extreme toys i mean like large dildos

when you mean extreme or extreme like stuff i've never heard of well i mean you know like like fisting yeah yeah yeah like we're both into super into that like you know he's quite a big dude though so it's like had to like anal train my asshole up for years and like you know we just kind of push things to their limit like we like to film things um yeah i mean wait so you you take his fist up your ass too. Yeah. Wow. Yeah, we're like really into anal.

Like really into anal. And he is too. Yeah. He is too. Yeah. Yeah. I have smaller fists. So right.

Right. Right. So I'm like, okay, I win this one. I'm winning. And when did you get into all this stuff though? Like fissing and anal fisting. Like it had to have been before this guy, right? Yeah.

I mean, I've always loved like, I mean, for me personally, I'm a squirter. So like, I don't really have those external orgasms that most women do, like from the, from the clip, like as much. I'm just, I'm like, you know, monsoon season is. That's so interesting. So, like, when, because I always, I'm always so jealous of squirters. It's always been like my lifelong goal to squirt and I just fucking can't, you know.

And so I love when I talk to. I think everyone can. I know. No, I know. That's why we're going to talk about squirting for a little bit because you can help. And I get so excited. I've had some callers on here, women who, like, just figured they could. squirt like way later you know not from day one but it sounds like for you this is something that

you always did from the beginning because i remember the first time i found my clit by accident when i was like super young and right and had that orgasm and i think you know because it it started that way right it's like i and i kept doing it because it was like the fucking greatest thing ever right he's just like yeah you know i became very clit like that was a very big part of my orgasms right and because that that's how i started now for you did you you you're like you're like you're like you're Like, do you remember the first time of you orgasm? Did you squirt very early on? Like, how did it happen for you?

Well, I don't think I remember the first time I did it. I think that it was just, it was always a thing. Like, I, I mean. But like when you were jerking off when you were little, right? And you found out you could have these orgasms and stuff. Do you mean, were you having, like, were you fingering yourself? Were you rubbing your clit? Do you remember?

Well, no, I mean, I remember. Like, I would like always, like, cross my legs together and like squeeze. Do you like the kind of keegel, like the squeezes and squeezes? And I'm like, oh, okay, that's the thing that kind of turns me on. It's not the external. Right. It's not the rubbing of the clip. Uh-huh.

Yeah. So I was like, okay, right. And then I started doing that. All my friends at school were like, oh, do you like rub your clear? I'm like, I tried it. And I was like, it's not that good. The squeezing's better. That's so interesting.

Yeah. Uh-huh. You know? And then so then I thought, okay, I'll put some stuff inside there and see what happens. And then before you know it, then I was like, okay, the external thing is just, completely like pointless. Not pointless, but I mean, obviously I've had orgasms externally since, but I think it's way better to be like you than like the one. I think it's way better to be like, I'm like jealous. I think it's way better to be like you to have the inside be so easy to get. You must

have like a big G spot or something. Can you feel it when you go in there? Yeah. I mean, well, my, my like guy I'm with right now, I mean, I have the coil as well. So it's like navigating through the strings of the coil, like, trying to find the G-spot without, like, making any damage. But, like, yeah, he says that it's really prominent and, like, he knows exactly what to do. Like, it's just, it's just the typical thing that you see in porn, you know, like, the two fingers. Yeah. And, like, in, like, you push them, like, in. And then you're kind of, like, a tugging motion, kind of, like, tugging on it.

I mean, yeah, it's, that just works for me. And if, obviously, if a guy's got, like, a bent dick. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Then you can get it from, from, from, like, penetration as well. or certain my right. Yeah, and I can get it anally too. So if a guy like fucks me in my asshole or like uses his hands, then I squirt out of my pussy.

Right, right, right. Yeah, because it's touching. It's probably, you know, like it's probably right there rubbing on it, right? Depending on where you are. I mean, the right. Yeah. The asshole and your inside of your vagina is like right next to each other. Literally.

They're like separated by a tiny wall. They're both the same. Well, that's why if you're fisting in your ass, right? I mean, it's got to be hitting all over the place. right? That's probably why you really enjoy that. Yeah. I mean, for me, it's like, it's also just being with someone, I mean, you wouldn't be just fisting someone's asshole on a one night stand, right? It's like, it's a point. I mean, it'd be probably scary. People would run away from me. They'd be like, who is this crazy woman? Yeah. I mean, when you're in a like a relationship or like a long term thing, you can you can explore these avenues with a partner.

And I think for me, that's the best type of sex I've ever had is like being able to be with someone or a couple of people. if you if if you want to long term and and explore them just them you know what I mean you get more comfortable don't you so with like anal it's just that you know just have to relax otherwise it's just everything tenses up and it's just not fun yeah no I know I feel I try to tell guys this all the time because I was always been a three input girl I always loved anal sex it's not something I want every single day right but if it's like if I click into it maybe I want that for every day for two weeks you know what I mean Like, because it just, I really like it. But I always say, like, there's no way that it doesn't feel good for everybody.

But what happens is, like, guys just put their, like, these poor girls, like, say, okay, let's try anal and a guy, like, shoves his dick in in one second. And she's like, oh, that kills, you know. And it ruins it for her because she doesn't understand, like, that's not how you do it, right? And we've, I've tried to tell people how to do it. I see that you've talked about it on your show, right? I mean, like, so you're trying to help women as well with, like, how to give a blowjob. about how to have anal sex, right?

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, for me, it's like, it's, I had really, I remember the first time I had anal sex, and I'll never forget it, because it was exactly that. It felt like a brick was being shoved up my asshole and out through my mouth. Yeah, you can't just put it in.

Yeah, he was just like, and he was, quite big as well. And I was like, yeah, let's try it. Yeah. And I think that he was just, like, fumbling around and then it just went inside, inside, and it literally, I got like a hot wave of, like, death upon me.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And, yeah. And so I never forgot that. So since then, I, you know, I've been really, I'm like an avid, an avid advocate for, like, doce your asshole. Like, train it up. Use some fingers. Lying on your side the first time.

Don't be doing doggy style because that's like, that is like the most painful and vulnerable position to be in. Right. I feel in, in it with anal sex, right? So, like, if you're on your side, you're curled over, you're together, like, slow. And, you know, you just got to be with a partner who kind of understands that. But, yeah, there is. many a woman, I think, you know, at least 50% of us on the planet,

afraid of anal sex because of that one first time they've done it. And it just turned out to be shit everywhere and blood and death, you know? Yeah, totally. That's not how it should be. No, I was always like, I couldn't wait to have sex and try everything. So I was like, I think it was, I was the one with a guy that I was sleeping with it very early on, be like, oh, let's do this, you know. But I was always super aggressive and very comfortable.

and I always like took the dig with my hand and let it in and like I because for me I had to be really turned on and it had to go in very slowly and I had to let it sort of relax and open up while the dig is like going in very very slowly right and and then eventually you're just like okay pound me and then I last for like two you know three minutes right but yeah um you know and that's how I would always say that it will work but yeah there's a lot of girls I think that don't realize it can be very pleasurable it's just that it happened in the wrong way, you know? Yeah, I completely agree.

Yeah. So you could squirt, you have, you do anal fisting. Do you sleep with women too? Do you ever have women involved? Like, do you do threesomes with your partner, any partners ever? I have had threesomes before in the past, not with any partner of mine. And with women and with men. With women, it's different.

I mean, I personally don't really, maybe it's because I've had a few bad experiences, but it feels like quite competitive. Uh-huh. And a threesome with a woman and another guy? Yeah. Oh, interesting. Uh-huh. I don't want to compete.

Like, that's not how I feel when I want to have sex. I don't want to feel like I have to, like, compete with someone, right? Right. I want to have all be equal and just have fun and chill out, you know? Sex is not a stressful time for me, you know? Right. So I think I've had a few bad experiences and with women personally. And also, for me, I mean, I'm attracted to women.

I think women are beautiful. I think we're much more beautiful than men. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I do prefer a dick. And, like, I've let women, like, pleasure me. I've not really done so much of pleasuring women, just because it doesn't really turn me on personally. But, but, yeah, I mean, I definitely would have more three sons with guys.

Like, that's, for me, maybe it's just me being conceited bitch that I want to be star of the show. But I think, right, yeah, that's okay. Yeah. No, but with, with another woman as well. It's like sharing, I don't find that an issue, whereas like maybe the few girls that I've done it with is been very much like. For them it was that, right, maybe it was the wrong sort of situation because for them they did, maybe they felt the same way like you did. They wanted to be the star. So now there's that competition.

Yeah. It just doesn't work. Like you said, women are a bit more catty than dudes. Yeah, they can be. So now what about the sugar baby situation? Like you talk about like being a walker, right? Is that? Because like, you know, I call it like, like, like, there.

There are guys in my life that I met and one of them was like, oh, could I just like buy you shit and you hang out? It means like, I'll be your sponsor. Like, and like we would make jokes. It's like, oh, he's my sponsor, right? Like, you know, it's a guy that just like pays for things and you, but you don't have sex with them. I'm thinking your situation. And I think that happens a lot. Like I think that women think like, oh, to get shit from guys, you got to fuck them.

And you really don't, right? Like, I mean, it's like, you could just like hang out with them. So for you in, because it's more of a, it's a setup situation, right? it's not like it's professional right you how does it work with these people that you are their sugar baby right like i mean is it do they is it a setup is it a arrangement you know how does it work and what do you do with them well i mean it's different for every woman but personally for me um i've never like had sex for money so that was one thing i would i drew the line there just because sex is important to me and if i started seeing it as a job i don't know whether i could like

decompartmentalize my brain like I totally understand that yeah uh-huh yeah I think that's smart but but I mean I don't like judge anyone when he decides to do it because some people are just better at at decontimentalizing than me I'm just not very good at it so like yeah um so I have had arrangements that's what I would call it I guess and they'd be like either you know paper meat which would be like to go for dinner that evening and then they give you the cash or you can have like a monthly arrangement You can obviously, like, it normally starts off paper meat to start off with, and then once you get to like, like, like, like each other, and then it becomes like a monthly arrangement.

Yeah. I've had, like, varying, like, levels of sugar daddy, I guess. One was, the longest was, like, four years. And he was pretty cool. He, I mean, I tell the story about him on my podcast. So he passed away, actually, which is why it ended. Right. Which episode let people know so they could go listen to it.

Oh, yeah, let me try and find which episode it is. But it's a really great. great story and he was super great and it was like a really like positive um like i i guess outcome for me and for him i mean apart from the fact that he passed away but i mean he really did have like a great i believe a great time with me and i and i him you know i like a lot um he got me as like being a dominatrix i started working in a dungeon and oh no way he loved like he loved trans sex because he had prostate cancer so he couldn't get it up anyway.

So he liked just being fucked in the ass. And he loved trans women. So I would organize these sex parties for him where I met like I met loads of amazing women. And like he had such a great time. We went to Ibitha a couple of years. And he was like 65. Right.

Was he just super loaded and had a lot of cash too on top of it? So he could, you know, fund everything and you would. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He would pay me a monthly. allowance, which, and it was just for me to like, I guess just, I mean, he said, he said to me, like, he found it difficult to open up to anyone. He was like a big city slicker, was really in charge

with his everyday life. And I guess that when he was, you know, in a more intimate setting, he wanted to like hand over that, that control to someone else. Yeah, for sure. That's a lot of times. Yeah. Yeah. So I think, um, so for me, it was, it was a kind of learning curve because I'm not normally more, I mean, I'd like to be not the most dominant person. I like to just switch up a little bit, but I became so dominant to a point where he was like very trusting of me. And I felt like a level of trust, you know, from him. And, uh, but you've never, all those four years, you never crossed the line and did

anything with him. I mean, could, no, never. Not once. I never even shared a bed with him, which is a strange thing. Like, you know, always, because he had to sleep apnea as well. So you had to. Oh, my gosh. Baker. He had to sleep at me.

He had all these, like, health issues. So he was like, I'm having, when we went on holiday, I'll have a hotel room. You have a hotel. And it was very, it was a very like mutual and professional relationship. Yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah, that's why I was wondering if you wind up like him. Then this might be a totally inappropriate question, but like, did he leave you anything in his will? Let's see, we'll keep asking me that. What? Not in his will. No, I'm, like, no, like, because I was a known. Yeah, right, right. I just wonder. Yeah. Uh-huh. But, um, but, He left me some money like before he died. Right, because he knew.

Right. Because I used to make jokes about how, because I know some very Uber wealthy guys here in the city and I've had some of them call into my show. And I just know. And you hear about them in the news, right? When they fucking die like, you know, this shit comes out. Like they had children in, you know, Taiwan and Indonesia. And, you know, and then all of a sudden they're known for like what they did sexually

or what they were doing kind of on the side. I was like, you know, somebody should set up a cleanup service, right? or like these guys should have somebody that comes in when or right before they go or what you know that's going to sort of clean up that stuff that they were doing on the side so nobody fucking knows right because that's the last thing these poor guys should be known for because you know how everyone's so ridiculous about sex and you know that yeah they forget about everything else you did in your life and now you're just this person that did this kinky shit you know so you know and my one friend who's uber well they i'm always like i'll be your clean up person like and he knows and he can really

trust me that I'm like, you just want me to, you know, delete anything or whatever, you know, because you don't have to tell me anything, but I'll, you know, help you out that. I think a lot of these wealthy guys need something like that. That's what I was wondering. Like, so yeah, he couldn't put it in his will, but he knew he was passing and he was older. So he actually gave you some stuff on the side. Yeah, he did. And he also, he made me, like, take all of his, like, toys out of his house and, like, clean up his house.

So you were the clean up girl. That's a job. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Just thinking that when you were saying it, yeah, technically was. But I mean, I didn't find out that he'd even died until I, I mean, I was texting him.

I was like, when are we hanging out? Oh, like, he was like, when he were hanging out next? I gave him a date. I canceled on him, actually, to do something else, which I regret now. Yeah, right. You know, he didn't text me back one day. And then he always said to me that his ex-PA that he had would always contact me or anything happened to him.

She didn't. And so I had, I literally waited like two or three weeks before there was like an obituary on the internet. Oh, my God. Yeah, it was weird. Now, but when did you, to clean out his stuff? his toys and stuff before that or after. Yeah, so he got,

he had had like a hospital stay that you had to go in four for like two weeks. And he was like, right, it's getting serious now. Like take all my stuff away for me. And I was like, don't be silly. You'll be out in no time. And then technically it was in and out in and out.

And then he just, yeah. Yeah, wow. That's crazy. So people could hear about that on your podcast, right? That story. Yeah. I think it's called the episode Hans Solo, the Sugar Slot.

That's me. Right, right. I think it's episode eight. Have a little listen to that one. Oh. Okay, cool, for sure. And now you have other girls on there that do that same thing. Now, you have a host, right?

Do you have, is it you and somebody else that do the podcast? Yeah, so it's me now. I mean, it's always been my podcast. Oh, okay. I had another girl, like, co-like host it with me in the beginning. And she's a sugar baby, actually. And she's living her life, like, with him. And then she's also got a day job.

And now since Corona is like kind of slightly lifted, she's doing her day job again. So she has less time to talk about slightly stuff with me. Right. Right. So it's mostly me now. And I started off with a co-host and then it was just got, it was hard to coordinate my guests and him. And he just had other shit going on that I mean, I just think it's, and I was just so happy. I mean, at first I was devastated because that's how my show sort of started with him.

And I was sort of attached to it. But once I got used to doing it on my own, it was much easier, especially when you have guests and stuff. I mean, for you, you have guests on every week, right? Most weeks. Yeah, most weeks I do. I find it really like I love meeting new people I think that's the best thing about being a podcaster even though I'm a little baby podcaster right now I've met so many people and like

it's it's really refreshing to hear about all the women and men out there that want to talk about sex and making you know sex work safe and being open about it and I yeah it's one of the best things I've done so yeah for me I love being just a host on my own and just being able to pick whoever I want

talk to, you know, so it's easier for me that way. Yeah, for sure. I mean, I always say like, I mean, I didn't want to, I most of the time will get on a call and I love to know as little as possible. A lot of times people will be like, oh, you want me send you like bullets of what? And I'm like, no, I actually, I'm just a naturally curious person. I love to know about people. So for me, the most exciting thing is just to get on with a total stranger. So like when you wrote it, I'm like, I'm going to look over your show because I know you're on here to promote it and I want to help you get it out there, right? Thank you. Yeah. And so, but I, but I,

don't want to know too much, right? Because I'm not someone that could like, you know, pretend, I can have like questions written and then make it sound like, I'm no fucking actress. I didn't go to school for that. So I can't, you know. So I just like, you know, just my, the question comes in my mind and I ask and it. It's like so much fun to get on the phone with a total stranger, you know, and do that

thing. I think it's interesting that you also sometimes get a little bit more serious and you have like this doctor person on your show, right? I think that that's like it's well-rounded. It's not just always, you know, sort of funny or just about sex, right? I mean, I think that's, it's educational too, and I think that that's important. 100%. And, like, he actually was a customer of mine from Cam.

So that's how I got to know this doctor. And we'd always talk about, like, that's why he's on the down, though, right? Because I was wondering why wouldn't he, if he's a doctor of sex, like, why wouldn't he sort of come on and let his name be known, right? It's because I almost, do you talk about your guy's relationship? and how you met on there or did he just come on? Okay, that's cool. Yeah.

So people could hear all about that. So he was your cam customer. And then how did it translate into it? I mean, he eventually told you he was a doctor. Yeah, yeah. Like the more we spoke, we, you know, it came to like fruition that he knew so much about sex. And I was like, why? Why?

Like, I don't understand. I literally found myself like sitting there with my head in my hands, like listening like story time to him. Because it was so fascinating. I was learning so much. And I was like, wait, wait, wait a minute. He's like, yeah, yeah, it's my job. I'm like a sex therapist. I was like, oh, okay.

And then it kind of, yeah, he became very, very much more interesting to me than just a customer because we had so much in common. And yeah, and I was like, please can you come on the show? And he's done it two weeks running, actually maybe three weeks ago now. He did two weeks running. And I think I'm going to keep him once a month now. Like, so if anyone wants to ask him any questions, he's happy to answer them. He's very great guy.

Do you have people call in? Like when you say you have people ask questions, like if, you know, know, do you have callers that call in or do people write in with questions and you have him answer it? Like, how does that work? Yeah. So, yeah, we have an Instagram, a strip stories podcast. So people will just DM us on there.

So I get women, like, leaving me, like, like, voice notes about their, like, craziest sex story. And then I, like, I vocalize them or either play their voice note on, on the podcast. So, so that's worked quite well, actually. And quite a lot of women have, like, been quite responsive, like, which is really great. Yeah, yeah. I know that it is great. Yeah, I mean, you have lots of people calling with you, don't you?

That's really great as well. I have two. I have people I taped like in March that I still haven't aired their episodes. I feel so bad. But I'm just, I only air one episode on, I mean, a week and I just have so many people emailing just because I,

in the beginning, I had to work really fucking hard. And I used Craigslist to get callers every week. It was like a hustle. But thank God by the time Craigslist went bust. My show was successful enough that I was just having people email me. from listening to my show. So now I'd never have to go looking for guests.

If anything, I have to, like, blow people off. I mean, it's like too many. But in the beginning, it was, yeah, in the beginning, it was hard. But I was lucky that there was Craigslist. There's somebody that I know that's doing a podcast and was like, how do you get people and how could I do it? And I'm like, you know, I don't know how you would do it today without a Craigslist. And I don't know what is the Craigslist substitution here in the States, right?

We had Craigslist. And there was a whole personal section. And I literally posted there because. I didn't want anyone to know what I was doing. I thought my podcast was going to suck. I had low self-esteem, right? And I didn't want anyone to know, you know? So I'm like, where could I advertise?

This is a call and advice show. So I did it in the person's like Craigslist because it was free. And I got in all these email back from guys that were like, oh, I only have, you know, could get turned on by going down on women or oh, I'm fucking my brother's wife's husband, sister. You know, this is all these crazy sex stories. And that's how my podcast became about that, right? You know, but thank God for me, it happened that by the time, like I said, I have people that call in.

But I think it like if somebody wanted to, you know, ask a question, talk to you or, you know, somebody listening, how would they go about it? They either go to Instagram, right, is what you were saying? Yeah, they can go to our DMs on Instagram or you can email us at Stripper Stories Podcast at gmail.com. And you can just, yeah, let us know anything that you want to like want us to air or even just go through on air. I'm obviously to be completely anonymous. Like we will take your secrets to our graves. Yeah, yeah, that's cool. Yeah, it's just interesting to us to like have so many people like,

their secrets. Like it actually teaches me a lot, which I'm finding like things. I thought, oh, I'm yeah, I kind of, I've touched on everything when it comes to like kinks and sex and things, you know,

but I'm learning so much from other people and that's the best part. So yeah, I'm happy to hear anyone's, anyone's stories. Yeah, no, definitely. You'll learn. I mean, I learned so much.

Like I said, like I couldn't believe that there were so many guys out there that wanted to see their girls get fucked with other guys. I couldn't believe there were so many guys out there wearing panty hose. I'm always like, like, listen, the next time you're in a room with 10 guys, make them all drop their pants. I bet you one of them is wearing hose. That's just like, you know, the stuff that I would, the stuff that I've learned, you know, is like crazy. Let me ask you a question that I thought of before and I just don't know. I mean, you know, maybe you don't want to be so truthful because then your cam people will be like, what the fuck?

But like are you, does it turn you on to be on there? You said you have a little bit of an exhibitionist in you, right? When you like to have like public sex with your boyfriend. So like when you're doing the cam sessions, right, and you're playing with yourself or you're using toys and stuff, are you very turned on that you because you know guys are watching? I guess so. I mean, for me it's more I want to see who's on the other side of the camera.

Like I wouldn't just be able to be turned on just from like just nothing, you know? Right. Uh-huh. So I want to see like what they look like that does also matter to me. Oh, interesting. Okay. Yeah. Obviously, it does.

I mean, it is a bit of a turn on. I mean, but still, I'm kind of like long in the tooth when it comes to this like working in the sex industry game. I've done it for so long now that it's I really have to be like emotionally. Sounds really, sounds really silly, but like emotionally into someone to get there now, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Like just like physical sex. Like I just, I've just witnessed and been a part of so much of it or at least heard about it.

It's just, for me, it's just not the best type of sex. And so it wouldn't be, I mean, on cam, I mean, it's a little bit of a turn on and you know someone's enjoying themselves. You're like, yeah, but for me, I don't actually ever like come. Right, but what about with these? Oh, okay, right. That's what I was wondering? Yeah. But what about with these guys that, you know, go private with you and you get to know them?

like that Dr. Kink guy and stuff like is it a different situation with them? A hundred percent, right? For me, I'm like a slow and steady wins the race type of girl, you know? And yeah, and I also, I wouldn't want, I mean, I wouldn't expect anyone to just tell me the deepest, darkest secrets when they first meet me. You get to get like the good, the good shit after a while, don't you? So, yeah, for me, that makes such a massive difference. Right.

I don't know. Do you feel the same? Yeah, for sure. You know, it's weird. I was, uh, I quit drinking. when I was like 34. I was like a little bit of a train wreck when I was younger and acted out and I was very promiscuous and slutty.

I was more like, it's funny because I'm always like, I was like born before the right time. Like I was born in the wrong time because I'm much more like the younger generation now, right? Because when I was born, girls like me were the minority, right? And now girls are so open sexually and doing things and so in touch with their sexuality and open to different relationships, you know, you know, that's like the majority of women. But that's who I was when I was younger. And I acted out sexually a lot.

I was very promiscuous, but it wasn't all negative, right? I mean, I was always this person that, you know, the positive part of me was very open to sex, very curious about it. I don't take it that seriously. I think it's like a great thing. I want to try it all. You know, I always have been since day one. And even when I got sober, got clean and stopped acting out so much sexually, I have to say there was a shift in me. Whereas, like, when I was younger, I really loved like one night stands or naughty, dirty sex, right?

And then when the older I got and something, like I said, did shift that. I just, it just, it can't just be sex for sex anymore, right? It has to be. And for me, that happened around in my 40s. Like, I had to feel a connection and where it was the opposite way before that. So I think maybe that, you know, there's that shift in a woman at all different times. I mean, for me, it happened in my 40s. And I could get really horny for somebody, but I have to actually like that.

Whereas when I was younger, it was like kind of the opposite. Yeah, it's just like there's so many hot dicks out there. There's so many hot bodies and you're like, but if it's like backed up by an ugly soul, it's just kind of like vacuous, isn't it really? Yeah, totally. I can fuck a nice dick or a nice pussy when it's like attached to a nice human. That's just even better, isn't it? Really?

Yeah. So. And yeah, my booty calls. My booty calls were like long term. I prefer. I just think I'm monogamous by nature and I always like you preferred and felt like the sex got better when I was with the same person, And whether they were my boyfriend or not, but yet we could communicate and really get into talking about what we like.

And it would just get better and better for me being with that same person as opposed to, you know, having variety with a different person every time. You know, for me, I think it's, the sex is better with someone that you know that you could communicate and do all the kind of crazy things that you do. I prefer that, you know, then going out and, you know, just being with randoms here and there. Yeah, it's never as good as it. It's always fumbly sex, isn't it? when the first time you have sex with someone. It's always fumbling and weird. And, you know, they don't know your body.

You don't know theirs. Everyone's body's different, especially women's bodies. We're like the most complicated, like, things ever. So how can you expect a guy off the street to just know you inside out? It's just not going to happen. So, yeah. Yeah, it's about communication, right? And, you know, a lot of times you're not going to feel comfortable right off the bat,

telling somebody. But when you get to know them, I think that that's great. So I'm excited for you to have been on my show. I think everyone should go. Check out your podcast, stripper stories. I think, you know, I get so excited when people start podcasts, like my friends. Like, I've tried to help so many people start it because I love what I do. And I think it's, like, really great.

And I think it's great that you start up your podcast and you love it. And I'd love to help you get more listeners to your show. Also, people maybe that are listening would want to send, you know, a question to you or, you know, or talk to Dr. Kink. You know, I have a lot of guys on my show, but I have women listeners as well. but that would be super interesting and maybe people want to check out your cam so why don't you just give out all that information again yeah so we're on yeah stripper stories podcast we're on instagram um with the same name we're literally everywhere that you hear podcasts so if you want to listen to us just apple podcast spot if i're everywhere so yeah um yeah and if you want to email us at stripastories podcast at gmail dot com and you can speak to dr king car like filtered through all of your

questions and queries to him and he'll get straight back to you that's awesome and yeah so thank you so much for having you today. Wait, and your Cam, give that one, give that one really quick. Cam is aditwork.com and it's ballerina slup bar

if you want to come find me. Okay, awesome. Yeah, come find me. All right, awesome. Thanks so much for calling in,

Chloe, and good luck with your show. Thank you so much for having me. Thank you. Bye. Bye. Okay,

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