Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 361 - Carlos Enjoys Watching his Wife Hook Up with Other Men

Episode Date: November 9, 2020

Carlos enjoys watching his wife hook up with other men and he calls in to talk all about it. Who initiated this set up and how did it all get started? What does she do with the guys while he watches? And, does he ever join in? Tune in to find out plus hear all about how her sleeping with other guys kept things hot during their long distance relationship, the sex she had with her friends landlord and how he found out about it, the other guys she slept with behind his back and how he found out about them, their lack of rules and how that works for them, where he draws the line as far as what he's turned on by, what he's looking to do next and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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redoing it so today I have on a guy named Carlos did I say if you want to be on the show? Yeah, if you want to be in the show, I'm always looking for people. I'm going to start fucking, let me just tell you something about being on my show, okay? I have a very great system to schedule people now. It's really easy. I just shoot off a link. You sign up for it. If you miss your time with me and you don't cancel within a reasonable amount of time, like a 24 hours, or even like five hours ahead of time, something comes up. I understand, but if you just don't even email me and you flake out, don't think you're coming back on my show, okay? Like, I have zero tolerance now.

But I think what I'm going to do because it happens, right? And then people are begging me to come back on. We like start charging those people to call in because then it's like, you know, are you going to not show up if you have, if you already paid for a session with me? Because what happens is I sort of rearrange my day for my episodes. So when somebody just doesn't show up and I think that they're supposed to, it really fucks things up and I'm not interested in that person anymore. But, you know, so that's going to be the deal moving forward.

So if you want to be on the show, send me an email. but if you're going to flake out and you want to be back on the show, you're going to have to pay for that call. But to call in regularly, it's free. Okay. So I have a guy named Carlos today. Carlos scheduled the time to talk to me, and he showed up on fucking time.

And this guy has a really super interesting story. He's young. He's been with his girl, though, from, like, the get-go. He's one of those people that got married really young, and he's only, like, in his 20s. He's married, and he lets his girl fuck other guys. It started out they had a long distance, really, And they started to do stuff via Skype and it started out of fantasies.

But then I think he got like word that she was begging other people. I don't know. You got to listen to the story because there's like some questionable aspects to her story and how this all sort of played out. And that's he questions it, right? Not me. But we talk about that. But it eventually came up that like why doesn't she be with somebody else and he would be into that? And he realized he was into that.

And so they did that long distance. then when they, you know, finally got back together and they were living under the same roof, they've done that moving forward as well. He's rarely in the room, almost never, ever. We talk about why that's the case. He likes to be, well, before he used to like to be on the phone, but he likes to be in the other room. He likes to hear about it. All that kind of good stuff. He does, though, have this little thing going on where he wonders about whether she's doing stuff behind his back, right? So we talk about that too. I don't know. I feel like if I tell you more, I'm just going to give away the whole

conversation. You're just going to have to listen for all the gory details. He gives me details about their relationship, how it was long distance, how it's not long distance anymore, what she does with the guys, why he likes it, whether he's by, blah, blah, blah. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on. This is the worst intro I've ever done in my life, but who cares? I'm going to be right back on with Carlos. How are you today? I'm good How about yourself? Good.

You know, when you were trying to make up a name, I was like, Carlos, you don't really sound Hispanic, but you are Hispanic, right? You told me. That's right. I was like, I'm just going to call you Carl because you know, you're not Hispanic and you're like, I am. I was like, oh, okay. Yeah, I'm very well spoken for my type of place. No, you know what it is? It's because you have a southern accent.

That kind of makes sense. I'm used to people on the East Coast, the way that they say. speak, you know, so I think your Southern accent, to me, throws me off. But anyway, Carlos, listen, I have no idea. I mean, this is the way I like to go into calls, like, not knowing anything. I tried to, like, go back and look at your initial email to me, but maybe you didn't email me and you got me on Instagram or I don't know, but I have no idea what we're talking about. Can you give me the, can you remind me? So I was, to give it a little bit of context, I had been looking through YouTube and I suppose you popped up on.

might recommend it. So I gave it a listen and I was very intrigued. So I thought I would maybe, you know, give you a shot, see if I can maybe share my story and maybe get a little bit of advice from you. So for sure. I love people's stories. I find people interesting and their stories even more interesting sometimes. What were you Googling or what came up and what did you listen to that struck your interest? It was interesting. So it had to do with somebody who were, who his wife had a boyfriend of some sort and you know it was like it was intriguing to me that they were able to maintain their relationship while at the same time the wife was having you know uh sexual relations with other people yeah that's kind of where i'm at right now you know so you know i thought

maybe share my story and again get some advice on for sure my particular situation okay so let's get to your story. How old are you Carlos? You sound young. I'm 25. Okay. Now how long are you, you've been married? You're married? Yes, I am. Okay. How long you've been married for? I want to say we got

married on 2015 right before I shipped off the boot camp. However, we did meet in high school about 2013 in math class. Oh, wow. So you're one of those. Some people are like, you know, they have that story where they meet in high school and typically those, a lot of times those people stay married their whole lives.

But, um, okay, so you've been with the same girl, right, since 2013? And did you guys lose virginity to each other or? Nope. Okay. Neither one. No, man. Okay. So tell me your guy's story.

Now, is she banging other guys now or is that something that you want to do? Sort of, sort of. You know, it's, it's an interesting story. you know, the short answer to your question, yes, you know, but... No, but let's do the long-ass story of how you got there. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a lot to go into.

So, you know, me and my, me and my wife, we're military brats, right? So, you know, we've been all over the country. I've been Europe, South America, America, you know, you name it, for the most part, at least, right? So, and the same with her. So then, you know, we wound up in. Germany on in an army, uh, in an army high school, right? It's a military, it's a school for American military brats to go and get an education, I suppose, right? So, you know, we were just going through our paces and, you know, math class. We met each other. Cool. We talked and,

you know, we got together, right? So about four months into our relationship, my father got orders to move back to the United States. So it's just kind of where it gets interesting in a sense. that we separated from each other and we kept it long distance for about two years. So that was, that wasn't a walk in the park, if that makes sense. And that's kind of where it started, you know, like we would talk to each other. Were you guys already married real quick? Were you guys already married or how long were you involved in your, like an everyday relationship where you guys were in the same location, right?

Before you got separated and had to do long term. Like, I mean, you know, long distance. You know, we, again, we would go into, again, we were together for like four months. But during those four months, you know, we would, you know, we would go to say, shit, what do you call those? Water parks, I suppose. You know, they're so weird in Germany, but let's call them water parks for the sake of the year. Yeah. We go to restaurants.

And of course, you know, we weren't, you know, weren't able to drink or anything. But we hung out and, you know, and of course, you know, we had sex and whatever, you know, just regular boyfriend, girlfriend, bullshit, right? So, you know, so, you know, and then again, my father got her to smooth and that's kind of where we parted ways, you know, so there is nothing really typical. You were only together for four months. I mean, you met her in high school, right? Yep. When did you got, like, how long into your relationship were you dating her before you got separated? You said four months?

No. Four months. Oh, only four months? So you're only dated for four months. And then you guys have to do a separation two years. Now, you're not married at that point, right? Because you're married now, but you're not married at that point, obviously. Oh, no.

No. Okay. So now you're, I'm just fucking confused today. Sorry. So now you're separated for two years and now what goes down? So, you know, we're talking over the phone. Of course, we have that. Can you turn your phone on silent?

You're like, your phone is blown up. And people are going to. I'm going to think it's their phone that is listening. Do you know what I mean? It's going to be fucking annoying. Some girl that really likes a guy. She's going to think like he's texting her. Gotcha.

Okay. I wouldn't have to care of that. Okay, cool. That's my wife's iPad. Sorry. Okay, go on. So, you know, and of course, you know, talking over Skype for the first few months

was pretty normal, like the regular, you know, typical I miss you're talking, you know. So I want to say about a year into it, you know, we just kind of. started to have this itch, you know, so then we just kind of started talking, you know, kinky to each other about me and her stuff, you know. And we, we did that for about a little while. I want to say maybe six months, you know, but then it started to morph into something else where we would be like, me, her, and another guy. And then we would do that for a little while. Kind of role playing, though. Like there was no guy involved, but you guys were discussing it, right? like exactly that's right so were you guys not like were you guys um monogamous with each other as far as

you're both concerned during those that whole year that you're apart at this point yes okay cool so then you know and then we talked about that for a while and it kind of went into like her and this other dude and i'm watching right and then and then i'm telling her what i'm want her to do and she would act that out. And, you know, we did that for, I guess, another for two, two to three months and kind of got to a point where she knew what I liked, you know, so she kind of went on to narrating this stuff herself, you know, and then, and then, and then, you know, about again, by the end of the two months, it got to a point to where I'm not even in the room, if that makes sense. Yeah. Yeah.

You know, that's where that. So it's the fantasy, you mean. Like in her fantasy now, you're not even there. She's just like fucking this guy and telling you about it.

Exactly. Uh-huh. So then, you know, out of nowhere and, and, you know, and we could delve this,

you know, a little bit further, you know, because there's some mystery here. Yeah. She, one day she tells me, hey,

I have this phone number from the landlord. You know, I'm like, landlord who's all of this right it's this she was like oh it's this old guy you know do you want me to you know you want him to come over and do and I'm like oh

sure yeah I guess you know that sounds like a porn scenario I'm just telling you I once role played that exact scenario with a guy but not with the real landlord like we pretended that it was landlord because it's like such a naughty hot never going to happen story but like this girl actually is like talking about a real landlord that she could fuck well this is where it gets weird so okay come to find out years later you know yeah again you know we we had a whole talk about this

it's been it turns out that it wasn't her landlord it was one of her co-workers from work landlord but he was a landlord but it wasn't her no he was not no it was not that was yeah yeah you know that's confusing in and of itself but but whatever so she's says I have this number of this guy that I think would be down to bang me and you're into it? That's right. Okay. So I'm like yeah, you know, and then

we waited a little while. We were talking about it and you know, he showed up and you know, it's hard to remember. It was so long ago. It was, they just kind of got down to it. But you're watching, right? Like on Skype? No, I'm not. I actually have her on the phone.

Like I hear everything. But you can't see anything. No. Okay. So but does this guy know that you're on the phone? That's, I don't know. Like I would imagine she had her headphones plugged in and it would be fairly obvious to the guy. So I'd imagine like he knew what was going on because it's pretty hard to kind of like get away with that.

That makes sense. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm pretty sure. Yeah. Okay. So you're and this is like something that you're so horny for. Like I mean, as if. It's happening. Do you have any kind of conflicting feelings or are you just like this is the greatest thing because you guys been talking about it and building up to it?

Right. Yeah, exactly. You know, and yeah, yeah, absolutely. Okay. So, so it's happening, right? But what struck me as kind of odd was she spoke to this guy, you know, she was like, it was like, how do I say? She was like telling him if he wanted to come in her and and like, and like, And she was telling him all that felt really good. And it struck me as odd. And it sounds to me like, I feel like she's done this with this guy before. Because you just don't do that. I'm sorry to laugh. But yeah, right.

No, no, you're good. Because it's. And then, you know, and again, we talked about this. And it turns out that she had met up with him before this initial interaction. You know. Oh, and she was honest about that. That's cool. That's fucking cool of her to tell you.

Well, mind you, this wasn't until maybe two or three years afterwards, right? Okay. Yeah. You know, and, you know, she was very forthcoming about it. You know, I suppose that even though she, she knew I thought it would be hot, she didn't feel like it was appropriate at the time to disclose that because she had told me about it. So I understand why she would keep that, you know, even though her reasoning might have been a little cloudy at the time. But anyways, so So then, yeah, it was going on.

And mind you, this is the first time this was happening. So it's like, oh, my, you look like, this is really fucking hot, you know? So, yeah, that was it. And, you know, she kind of got a little upset after that because, you know, she was like, you know, this makes me feel like I'm a slut. And I'm like, no, no, no.

We've been talking about this for a little while. It's really hot. and then, you know, it kind of turned into a regular thing, you know, she would get home from work. She'd call me on Skype and she'd be like, hey, do you want to do the thing tonight? And I'm like, yeah, sure. And sure enough that night. It would be the same guy or was she with different guys? Yeah, no, same guy.

Okay, okay, cool. You know, so it was repetitive. She would tell me, I would actually tell her what to do, you know, like, you know, she's telling me what's happening. And again, like the other guy obviously knew. what was going on. Yeah, you must be on speaker phone, right? Like she hears what you're saying. You're talking. Yeah, either. Yeah, either that or she had me with headphones, right? So. Right. But whatever. She's having a

conversation with you. So he had to have known because or else she'd be like, who the fuck are you talking to? Precisely. Precisely. Okay. So, so then, you know, that's happening for a little line. I'm talking in the span of maybe, gosh, I want to say maybe eight, nine months. and it wasn't every single night but if I were to speculate it was maybe four times a week almost you know that's a lot but you guys are in your early 20s right you're just like fucking like rabbits at that time

at this point we were like 19 oh we're even younger right and just starting out right right you know so so then you know it got to a point at one time and there's a whole freaking thing with her family man to a point where she got at her out of her house and she had to apparently move in with this,

with, and this is where it gets a little weird, you know, she moved in with one of her coworkers and this coworker of hers had a brother, you know, and, you know, and I would be on Skype with her. And then, you know, I would ask her like, hey, you know, do you want to do the thing? She'd be like, yeah, sure. She'd get this girl's brother and then they would do it. So this is the first is the second guy.

How does it come up that? She's like, oh, by the way, this guy that's here of my friend's brother, I could fuck him. Well, it wasn't. I don't know when I brought that up, if that makes sense, you know? Like, we're just talking. And then, you know, of course, the conversation guy, little rowdy. And it just kind of, you know, I'm like, hey, you know, do you want to, you know, and she's like, yeah, there's a guy here I can. And then she went and she was on the phone again.

And it really sounded like she was really into it. I just found that like really fucking high, you know. Yeah. So it so then at this point, you know, if, if, if this makes sense because this is going to be something I'm going to, that's going to make sense later on. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We, she had stopped talking to me for. solid like maybe three days man like like she'd shoot me a message sending me oh you know I'm in the ER I'm under I'm under anesthesia I'm like I was calling bullshit like no you're fucking not you know

like you're happened to her that she's in the ear I don't know you know it's it's like I don't know I can't remember but she was like maybe maybe like panic attacks I guess or like I don't know but she she would send me odd messages here and there like hey

I'm still in the ER this and that wouldn't respond to me for another 14 hours another message saying hey this and that I'm still here

about to be put under I'm like no you're fucking not like you're you're out there like and again later on when she told me

about this she was out I'm going to clubs with this guy and shit and there was more than like one guy involved

or whatever So when she had told me about this, I'm like, well, that's actually kind of fucking hot. Why wouldn't you fucking tell me about this? She was like, oh, I was afraid you'd be mad or something. And I'm like, okay, well, I'm not, am I? Right. So like, I'm kind of pissing and tell me about it, you know, because you're going to not. Right.

This is the new guy? It's the second guy that I mean, there's a, apparently there's a third and a fourth. Okay. And this was like when she was in the club, whatever, they take her home. And, you know, I made sure to ask her, do you use the fucking condom? She was like, oh, yeah, absolutely. Every time I'm like, oh, cool. So, you know, I asked her why.

And again, she was afraid I get mad at her, whatever. So I guess, I don't know. I don't know. So at this point, you know, it got to the, it got closer and closer to her, me and her meeting up again. That makes sense. like her coming over to the States and us moving in together. So, you know, this was going on and, yeah, yeah, you know,

and it didn't really get to the point to where me and her were on the phone with each other anymore. During this period, it was just kind of like, like we started talking again, you know, because I was like, hey, how you doing? Are you okay? Where you at? You know, what's going on? and she pretty much told me, hey, you know, I got this ticket, or I'm going to get a plane ticket real soon. I'm going to come and live with you, you know, so.

So by this point, you know, we don't really kind of, like, maybe we did one time where we had another guy on the phone. I suppose it was the second guy, if that makes sense. When you were actually with her? No, this was like shortly before. she came over. Yeah. And then, you know, we didn't do that for a little while. And then she came, and she finally came out when we met up and we got out of hotel room and, you know, this and that. Obviously, we had a lot of steam for being away from each other for two years. So that kind of, we didn't really talk about that for a little while. And I want to say about maybe eight months in,

you know, we started to talk about it again. So at this point, she moved to where you are? Or she just, she's staying with you forever? She was saying with me, yes. Okay. So, so I want to say maybe eight, nine months later, we talked about it again. And she was like, well, yeah, you can find me somebody. And I couldn't find anybody.

And, you know, I didn't, you know, I was too young to know that Craigslist Personals was a thing. Yeah. You know, so I was. I was like, fuck, I can't find somebody. So let's talk about it. So, you know, it's something we talked about, like, maybe once or twice a week during sex. And it wasn't until maybe, shit, what was, 2016.

We've been together for maybe two years at this point, where I found out that, again, Greg, those persons were the thing, and I found somebody. And it wasn't, this guy was, he, God, this guy was awful. He didn't know what the hell he was doing. So that wasn't a very good experience. But you wanted to have an experience where you're watching in the room?

Or is it set up where she's meeting him and you're on the phone again? Or how is that set up? Yes. May have been to make that clear enough. So we had been living in an apartment at this time. So then I had found a guy on Craigslist. and I set up this and I made sure that this guy knew about it before he came in the room because I think it's kind of shitty if I didn't yeah so I set up a camera in the room I'm sorry yeah what was the plan for you guys to videotape it are you going to be there yeah what was the plan I was going to be in another room watching it because you know I wasn't entirely comfortable with me being in the same room as a naked man fucking my wife that yeah Yeah, just wasn't entirely comfortable with that.

So I had set up like a FaceTime video camera, right? And no of this was recorded, but I had set up her phone, set up FaceTime with my phone. And at this point, it was like I was in the room watching it all happen. Right. Okay. Now does the guy know? Yes. Yes.

I made sure he knew. Okay. So, you know, it happened. He was pretty pathetic. at it, you know, at one point during the sex, my wife almost laughed because he couldn't even get it up in his dick was small. And I'm thinking to myself like, God, do I really want to do this? But then we gave it maybe two days later. We gave it another shot.

And this guy, my wife tells me, it was way, way better. You know, so I was watching it. And this guy was like pulling her hair, taking her clothes off and shit. And I'm like, yeah, that was, that was pretty fucking hot. So then moving on from that, you know, I want to say about, we didn't do this again until I want to say about two years later in the same apartment. You know, this time again, you know, I got in contact. Why do you think it doesn't happen again for so long? because you know it's like I want to think about it and I've heard you say this couple that like you know when she was away she was like doing it like four times a week she had all these guys she was like banging and then she comes to see you and you finally do it again and then you don't do it for two years like does she have a baby or something like what the fuck what's the two years off no you know it's like there's a lot going on in our life like right okay during that two years I had went off to boot camp

Uh-huh. You know, I had listened to military, and there was just a lot of things going on, and we just didn't have room to really do that. Right, right. Yeah, that makes sense. Okay, go on. So now what's the way? Now you're two years later, it's going to happen again. Yes.

So then, you know, again, I went on Craigslist, and I found somebody. You know, it would, you know, I let him know what the deal was. He came over, and, you know, he got to the house, and, you know, he got to the house, and, you know, And my wife greeted, of course, I didn't have any personal call. I wouldn't greet him. I wouldn't see him. I wouldn't, none of that. I just set up the cameras, put myself in the room, made sure everything was good,

locked myself in the room until everything was finished, right? So it puts it into perspective. So then this particular guy, they got to a room together and he started making out with her, which is one of my big turn-ons, right? I like it when, you know, she made. makes out before she, or even during, right? So I made sure I communicated this to her. So then they started doing that and then they started like, they started fucking, right?

And then I noticed this guy didn't put a condom on. Right. And I was like, like I should be mad about this, but God damn, this is actually pretty fucking hot because she knew she didn't have a con. She knew he didn't have a condom on. So, you know, so they, they were doing it, and he actually came inside of her. They, they had, they had, she had birth control. I made sure of all that, you know, I'd make sure we're really well prepared before we do this stuff. And he left. Well, they were fucking. They did all sorts of positions. Like, he fucked your dog. The next one, open window. They,

they, they, he picked her up. They were doing all sorts of shit, which again, I thought was really fucking hot. He came in her. He left. And I walked in the room. And then I started fucking her. Right. And obviously it was really fucking wet because this guy just fucking came in her. Right. Yeah. So, so she had asked me, he looked like, do you want me to do another guy? And I'm like, I told her no, because this is enough for me, because after I come, I'm going to be kind of done with this, you know? So. So then a couple of A couple days later, we did it again, and this guy actually wore a condom. And I noticed that during this interaction with the other guy, and again, the whole same

set up with the video camera and whatever, she wasn't really as outgoing with this person. So I talked to her, and she was like, yeah, sure, I only, I like it better when it's, but it's so fucking obvious that she likes us, likes the fuck without condomers. you know like so we stopped after that for a little while and and mind you this is something we do every every you know month or so this is something that this is a relatively rare occurrence and again like a couple times a year so again we had we think so after that we got our own apartment no so after that again again it was a good couple of it was a good year after that but by this point we were in the completely

other side of the country we went from Georgia to Massachusetts right so because I found a better work opportunity up here so yeah when we got here we had found the hotel one time when we started talking about it again and by this point you know we started talking about it and you know one time and one time I ate her out right and I don't do that very often because I'm not the kind of person that likes eating out right so you don't like to go down on girls no not necessarily you know it's interesting I'm sorry but I know but I just had this conversation with a guy friend of mine yesterday we were talking about it because I had like one booty cold guy that never like to go down on girls and me and him were talking about like how like we wonder if like that like you know because like that's such a big part of a woman, right? And if a guy doesn't like that, like, why don't you like to go down on girls? You know, because I feel like, and it's interesting, you brought that up. I'm going to dress that after this, but it's, it's, I just feel like, God damn it, you had to ask me that question. Why not? You said you're going to get into it after this. Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely.

Absolutely. Absolutely. So, you know, I just feel like for me, like when I do it, I'm into it, right? Like, I don't know how to explain it. Like if I started doing it, like, I'm going to go all out. And it's, it's to me, I'm a very cleanly person, but that's just messy. Does that make sense? So you don't really, right, it's too sloppy for you or you don't like the wetness. Right. Right. Right. I mean, what's your deal? Right. Oh, I like the pussy. I just don't like the wetness, right? Okay. So, so then, um, so I, and, you know, me and my wife don't often do this. So she's okay with you not going down on her. Right, right. So the one time I do, and again, like I say, when I do it, I go freaking, I go all out. So she's like in cloud nine, right? And then we started talking about it as I'm doing it. And it's like, yeah, you know what? I'll do another guy for you because you did this to me. I'm like, okay, that's a good deal.

So after that, we had got an apartment and, and I want to say about two or three days after that, she had found a guy that she fought. And she, and I told her explicitly because I'm at work, I'm going to need you to take video for me. And she didn't. And she sent it to me while I was at work. and I found it extraordinarily difficult for me to focus on my work without my phone.

You know, tried my hardest not to look at it and I pulled that off. I don't know how I did, but... So we watched it later, and I fucked it while we're watching it. And then it came up how, you know, hey, do you want to get a hotel room and do you want to do this

while I'm there. She was like, yeah, sure. So then I bullshit to my boss and I got a day off. So then. But why a hotel room if you guys are like living and you're on a place? Like, why do you want to go to a hotel? Because I'm not necessarily comfortable with people knowing, a lot of people knowing where I live. Because that makes sense.

So like. So you get a hotel. Yes. So we find this. So, okay, so, you know, the first guy she fucked and she's in the hotel room. So then I got a day off and she got a second guy and it was a black guy. Because they were almost all white up until this point. So she had a black guy and I decided, look, I'm going to go to the hotel lobby and I'm going to sit there, have this guy come up, do it, take video and are coming afterwards.

right so then she did that and she sent me video and it was a good like geez it was a good maybe 20 30 minutes and i'm no stranger to to sex but god damn that's that's a little like you know for me personally 10 15 minutes that's good but 30 minutes like i know there's some shit going on so she sent me a couple of videos and you know and she texting me like oh yeah you know i have come in me now you know you're good to come in so I come in and you know she takes a morning after pill and then you know I spread her legs and I started fucking her and it's obviously really loose and wet when we talked about it so and and it's important to note that this particular guy she's going to see again and again and again so but he's not there when you go

up no no and I for not to have any interactions with these guys. So I just, I talk to them. I let them know what's up. They come in, do their deed. They're done. So, um, so, you know, I fucked her. We go out after that.

We talk about it. You know, we're at a bar. We're having a good time. We're drinking. We're talking about it, you know. And yeah, you know, that's, that's kind of why we do it. You know, it's like, it's like a really, it's a thing to really spice up our relationship, if that makes sense, you know?

Uh-huh. So then after that, that was shortly after, I want to say I was like maybe one, two, three, it was about three or four months before the COVID pandemic slapped us in the face, right? So then, you know, obviously I'm at home because I can't do shit, you know, everything's locked down. So she, her workplace remarkably was still open. And every now and then, she would, okay, so you know, you know weed pins, right? Yeah. Yeah.

Okay. So the guy that she had intercourse with that day, the black guy had was a dealer of these pins. And every now and then, I would see her come home with like six of these. and I would fuck her and her pussy was a lot looser than it normally was so then I would kind of know right away I'm like hey we'd fuck a little bit obviously and I'm like you know do you have something you want to tell me and she was like

yeah am I going to get in trouble and I knew right away like yeah I know what you fucking did but I would tell her like no of course not tell me what happened you know and the particular guy she met at this hotel room she was um she had met up with like in a in a in a in a in a car and they had driven to a secluded place and had fucked in the backs of the car the unique thing here was she didn't tell me about that you know at least until we had sex and I kind of had to pull it out of her if that makes sense you know so so then you know this would happen periodically like we

would run out of weed pins, you know, I would use them too. This is after I was at the military, by the way. So, you know, periodically, we would fuck. And then she would come home one day, her pussy, and we would have sex maybe three or four times a week. So I wouldn't know right away if her pussy was loose than it really was. So she'd have these weed pins. And she would tell me, yeah, me and him, we did it. And I'd like it when she goes in the detail. about how these things happened. You know, she told me about how, you know, he didn't use a condom. He came in her, you know.

Sometimes she wouldn't even use a morning after pill, which I took, I don't want to say, like, it's, it's, how do I put this? It's not a real worry for me because, you know, she's one of those girls that has a really hard time because I've been coming in her every single day for like seven years at this point and she hasn't gotten pregnant once. Right. So you're not worried that she's going to get pregnant for some reason. Right. You know, and that's not necessarily a very smart thing to say given the circumstances.

Maybe I just have a small sperm counter wherever the case might be, you know, but, you know, it has been documented with me that interactions she had were guys who would come in her. She hasn't gotten pregnant. And that's very naive of me to say, I know, but she would tell me about interactions with this guy and he would come in her and, um, and get, you know, weed pins out of her, out of him, rather, you know, so this would happen for, I want to say like, that's four months, you know, and we'll talk about it during sex and, like, it was, it was really hot how she would tell me. And I found it particularly hot when she didn't tell me until, like, we had sex. Like,

it gave an element to her like there's there's uh like there's a how do i put this there's um like how i put this like it's it's almost like a surprise almost like every time i could fuck you there could be something waiting for me does that make sense you know so me and her um you know we went we went through this during a pandemic and every the pandemic you know know all of a sudden you know she and all of a sudden she was like I don't really want to do this anymore and of course I respected that you know so I didn't really and she didn't even want to talk about it during sex anymore you know because I I suppose she she thought that we talked about it a little too much and you know I told her okay you know that's fine if you don't want to

talk about it that's perfectly fine with me so then you know, and this kind of brings up up until now, this was actually happened. I want to say maybe last week where again she came home with, you know, weepins and she had fucked the same guy again, you know? Uh-huh. So, you know, at this point, it's like, okay, you know, you don't want to talk about it, but you're still doing it, you know? And again, same thing.

I had to pull it out of her during sex, right? Because I noticed she was looser than usual, so. But it bothers you? Not necessarily, no. Kind of doesn't. You like it? Yeah, yeah, I do. You know, it's like, why don't you fucking tell me about it when it happens, you know,

even take a video or a picture or something? Well, maybe she's bored of that because you guys have been doing that for so long. So now the hot thing is that, you know, she's doing it and you don't know about it. And then she comes back and tells you. Like maybe she needs more at this point to be turned on. Absolutely. You know, but at the same time, it's like if I feel like if I didn't have sex with her, she wouldn't have told me. Does that make sense?

Yeah. So maybe there are times that you're not having sex with her that she is doing it. Yeah. Yeah. Could that be true? Well, I have been working a lot lately, and I mean a lot because after, you know, everything's opening back up here in Massachusetts, so my hours of work are always like going back up, you know? Uh-huh.

So I just find it weird, like, you know, you pretty much have like a golden ticket to go out and do whatever the fuck you want, you know, because I'm going to find it hot. But, you know, for you to come home with, you know, and. and not telling anybody right away and only during sex, you know, like, I find that a little confusing, you know, it's hard to wrap my head around that concept. Well, did you ever ask her? What do you mean? Like, did you ever ask her when you're not having sex? Like, hey, did you fuck anybody recently? Like, did you ever ask her at dinner time, you know, like, or, you know, before you're about to have sex just to see if she'd tell you?

Probably not. you know that's not you know probably not is a weird answer what do you mean probably not it's either a yes or no not probably well yeah because yeah because so when she comes home i'm asking you whether you did do that not whether you would you know have you ever told because you say you don't she only brings it up during sex and that's really weird to me like i mean have you ever asked her like when she walks in the door like while you're having dinner or like after she gets out of the shower hey have you had a sex with anybody you know like and see if she gets in the conversation like it could be foreplay for you guys like it just doesn't ever come up i'm wondering if you have ever brought it up before

so i haven't that's a good point but at the same time it's like it i have to put her into a certain mood to be able to talk about that because if if i just randomly bring her up like hey you want to fuck guys and she'd be like ask her if she has because you're saying she winds up telling you in the middle of sex like yeah it was with this other guy now if she was with somebody else why wouldn't she bring it up before she has to be in the mood to tell you even sort of so like if if she were to catch so i have videos of her with these other guys in my phone right and if i were to bring it up during times or we're not like actively having sexual and of course she would tell me babe i don't want to talk about that right now like do we have to talk about that right now i just wanted to be you

me, you know? And as a husband, I have to respect that, you know, because if my wife wants to have sex and only wants to think about me and her, then, then yeah, and even sometimes, even sometimes. Yeah, but this isn't about you and her. This is about you wondering about her and somebody else, right? Yeah, exactly. You know, and, you know, in a way, I feel like she's, she's, I don't want to say like she's, like she's ashamed of it, you know.

You know, so sort of in a way it's like I don't want to, you know, put her in a mood to where she's not going to want to talk about it. So that way, if, you know, when we do end up having sex later that night and if I do bring it up, she's not going to shoot it down. Does that make sense? So it's like. I guess, I don't know. People are going to, I got to tell you when YouTube happens and people catch

on to things that people say all the time. If we count, someone needs to count how many times you say. Does that make sense? If that makes sense, that's like your thing. We all have something we say. You say if that makes sense, like a fucking million times. I'm just saying people are going to make comments about it. It's funny.

Oh, yeah. No, I have things that I say and people write it in my reviews. But I just always notice that people will be like, oh, he said this all the time. Your thing in this episode is going to be like, if that makes sense. That's like your thing. If that makes sense. It's like, fucking action. I guess I got to change my.

No, you're going to hear it. Wait, so you hear yourself. I do certain words, too. It's really annoying when I listen back. It's very hard to change. But wait, you told me early on this conversation that, you know, because we started up with the quote unquote landlord situation and you're like, oh, she didn't tell me till way later, like, whatever, you know, that she was with that person.

Like, when did those conversations come up? When did she tell you? and how come, like, why did she tell you later? You know, so I suppose that she felt some type of way, I guess you can call it, she felt guilty about it because it turns out that afterwards, and I'm happy you brought this up, by the way, she has out, I wasn't on the phone with her during this time. She has had a lot of sex with this guy when I was not on the phone or even.

aware of it happening, you know? So. Yeah, but when did she tell you? And why? How did that come into up in conversation? You know, so I guess we were having sex one day, right? And it was one of our, like, it was an especially kinky type of sex, right? And she would tell me, you know, she would tell me, and she just came right out of it. She, you know, we were talking about it like, hey, you know, you want to, do you like it when you get fucked? Do you like it when they come in and she was like that and she was like yeah and it just came out she just told me um um you know

i had sex with this guy you know when i wasn't on the phone with you um and it was a guy because i had looked on her phone one day and i saw she had looked up a particular name and i'm like is this the guy you were talking about is that the guy you were fucking she was like yes yes and she just filled the being she was like you know i had sex with this guy a lot you know um more times a lot a lot of times while you're winning in there and then again that's when it came out to where she told me about how she went out to clubs and fucked guys from the clubs where she fucked her co-workers brother you know so all of this came the light and i suppose she felt some sort of way i guess the correct feeling is guilty that makes sense well not really it doesn't make sense

actually. Like no one's like, no one's feeling guilty. No, no, it's okay. You're gonna keep saying but I'm just saying,

I'm just letting you know that that's what the comments are going to be. But wait, no one feels guilty during sex. Like when you're, during sex, you feel horny. And when you feel horny,

you don't, like, other emotions like guilt don't come into play. Like, no one's like, you know what I'm saying? Like,

I feel like that's a really weird thing to happen. So the fact that she's like super horny, all wet, you guys like are you don't have this hot thing between you guys of like her being with other people then she's going to be like oh by the way i did something so terrible two years ago i fucked that guy like to me she would be saying it to get you turned on and it would be something that turned her on that she's telling you it wouldn't be out of guilt you know and what's a mystery to me is why then and not after it happened or not even why not three months after it happened you know like that's what I'm trying to figure out like does she have some kind of you know I don't know this but she has some kind of turn on off of fucking other guys and I'm not so long about it maybe that's it stop come on I mean come on don't even ask that you're so fucking that's ridiculous I mean we can't

believe that you're wondering that okay that's not a question that you're really asking okay we all know that's what she likes what I want to know is about you you because like you don't go down on her but you talk a lot about them coming inside her and there's like this little thing going on like is do you want to go down on her after they come in her? Absolutely not. Okay. Definitely not. That's a definite no. Do you think, because I have asked people like, oh, these guys that like to or men who like to watch their wife with other guys or whatever like if there's a buy aspect going on.

now I know for you because you said oh I don't like to even be there because I don't want to be in the same room with a naked guy you know I mean like is there any part of you that you think could be by or into guys or at all because like you're into your girl being with other guys or no no so I like and I've looked into this myself I like you know having a wife who other guys are so into they're willing to you know take the condom off and come inside of her, you know? Uh-huh. Like, I just find it like a real turn on. You know, like, like, my wife is, and I get like guys are like some guys are just literally fuck anything with a pulse, you know, but. Yeah. You know.

Lately I've been having her select the guy and her bringing a guy over. And it's like, I just find it really the desire. to have a wife who is loyal to me in a sense that's that's desirable to pretty much almost any guy she talks to. You know? So it's like, it's like that's a huge turn on for me. And it's a turn on for her, right? Yes.

Does she ever bring up that she wants to see you with a woman? Or is it strictly like your guy's fantasy is her with guys? And that's as far as it goes. Yeah, strictly her with guys. Right. And now, have you ever wanted to be in the room? I mean, do you think you'll ever progress into that? Absolutely. And lately, you know, I've explored with her like, hey, you know, if you want to do it, I can be in the room with you, you know? So we're kind of, I suppose you can call it, look, we're in a transition stage where maybe if this goes on, we could end up in a place where I'm in a room with her and maybe I'm in a.

courting her. So I suppose you're not quite You know, because I just, again, I just don't like being in the room with with another naked man. You know? Why? You think that that would make you gay? No, no. I just, I'm just not comfortable with it. Comfortable with it. You know, I suppose maybe that's an element to it if we're going to get down to it. But, you know, I'm just.

Oh, the fact that you feel like it would, it would mean something or say something about you or something? No, it's just I'm not comfortable with it. Yeah, okay. I'm not generally comfortable if I'm in, um, in, um, like, and like again, and, and, and for example, right, and when I was in boot camp, everyone was in the, the shower room with all their, like, their shit just fucking hanging out, right? Yeah, yeah.

And for the first few times, I'm just like, covering myself. And after a little while, it's just kind of normal. Like I can fucking have conversations, butt-ass naked with the guys, but all types of shit. Yeah. And that's why I feel like it's going on now where it's like, you know, I don't really need to feel insecure if I'm in a room with another guy fucking my wife. Because why? You know, and I'm sort of starting to realize that. So that's why I'm willing to explore being in the same room, you know?

Yeah, you probably, once you got past the initial. weirdness about it, you wouldn't care anymore, and then you'd be doing it all the time. Because it's, you know, most guys that are into this kind of fantasy and that do it have been in the room. Like, I get the whole, like it being hot if you're out of the room or you're doing the video or you're on the phone, listening, all that stuff. But, you know, why not then progress into you being in the room? It's kind of the same thing. The only difference is you have to get past your sort of thing. of really, you know, because I'm assuming, and correct me if I'm wrong, are you like jerking off when you're watching or you're turned on? Like, what's going on with you when you're watching this shit in the other room? Oh yeah, I'd definitely be jerking off for sure. Right. And maybe it's a little weird for you to think like would you be able to do that with another person that you don't know? You know, it's one thing. Precisely.

That with your wife. But it's another thing doing it with some dude that you don't know. You know, there you are like jerking off in front of him. You might. think you'd feel uncomfortable, but maybe you wouldn't. You just have to take that step and just do it and see how you feel. Nailed it. Absolutely. You know what I mean? If you don't feel comfortable, then don't jerk off and just watch. And if you don't feel comfortable even watching, just walk out.

Yeah, you know, it's like something I have to grow into in a sense, you know? Yeah. Uh-huh. I mean, and do you still, do you think, I mean, because you were like, oh, I was looking to get some advice. Like, what advice do you need? They're looking for it. So, so, like.

you know she isn't so like if i were to say one night like hey you know do you want to do it she would almost always be like no i don't want it you know i don't want i just want to be being you but then she goes off and fucks his other guy to get weed pins now i suppose she wouldn't do it unless there was an incentive to it but at the same time it's like that's what she says i I mean, come on. She was, those guys back in the day, she wasn't fucking them for anything. She was just fucking them. Right.

Exactly. You know, so it's like, what can I do to open yourself up so that way we can, you know, do this in an environment where I'm aware, even in the same room, you know? Yeah, I think there's a part of you not knowing for some of it that she's into. Right. And because she's had that for a long time with you and you've been okay with it because that's the way it was set up from the beginning and she's, you know, sort of let you know and you've always been okay with that. That there's maybe something to that for her. You would have to tell her that it bothers you. Right.

You know, it's hard to say that it bothers me because it does turn me on, you know, but you do have a point. know. What's the point? That it does bother me that she does these things without telling me and only does it when when when she wants to. But rather I would have every now and in us do something before like I would know about it either before as it's happening because now lately it's like she would go out. And don't, you know, don't get me wrong. It's hot. It's hot, you know. And having that occasional surprise that that sort of mystery when we're having sex is always hot. But, you know, to somehow get her to, you know, hey, you know, let's set, like the hotel room,

for example, like, hey, let's set this up. Let's go out tonight, you know, just me and you and let's get freaky, you know. And it's like lately she doesn't want to do that, if that makes sense, you know? but yet she's still, you think, sleeping with other people. Only when she's going to get something out of it. Like, again, we pinching up. Right. That's the only time.

But how do you know? I don't know. That's, that's, I know only what she tells me. Right. Uh-huh. You know, and, and, yeah. In a sense, that's kind of hot, you know, but at the same time, it's like, you know, yeah, you know, but shit, let me in on a little bit of the action, you know?

But she does most of the time. I mean, it sounds like whenever you guys are fooling around, she does bring it up, right? I mean, are you still having sex with her on the regular? Oh, absolutely. No, our sex life is still pretty good. Yeah, so most likely, like if she's telling you while you're having sex, right,

it's most likely she's telling you, and you're fine with it when she tells you. I mean, why would she not, why would she have any that she's not you know what you mean i don't i don't yeah because i think i think that there's an element of of how do i put this she every time before she tells me she asks me am i going to get in trouble but at this point she should know that she's not right so that brings the question why would you ask me if you're going to get

trouble if if if um if you're not doing this for for her but it's like for me you know like like

and again it brings me up brings this up earlier like do you have do you find it hot that you're doing this doing this without my knowledge of it I think And then telling me, right.

You know, and that's kind of what my conclusion was. I'll be a very loose conclusion because, again, I don't know. Yeah, it seems like it. I mean, listen, you could always ask her. Why couldn't you ask her that? Because I don't know if she's going to, because I think there's a part of her that's ashamed of that, you know, so I don't know if she's going to tell me the truth. Right, and you don't want it.

Right. And it might ruin it for her. I mean, you know, there might be something naughty in that that she likes. I mean, she winds up telling you about it afterwards, you know, so she could justify it to herself that way. But she, you know, might have that in her. I mean, she's the one that, listen, in a situation where there's a long-distance relationship going on.

And, you know, it's the girl who was, like, fucking around. Like, because basically she started sleeping with somebody else, even before you brought this to the table, right? And then you brought it to the table. And then she brought up, oh, well, I've been sleeping with him anyway. And you were like, happened to be cool with it, right? Because you were into that fantasy. But she was already doing it, you know?

So she has that in her. She was that person all that time ago, you know, and she still has it. It's great that she paired up with somebody that's down with it. What does it matter, you know? Yeah, you know, and that does make a lot of sense, you know. And, and, you know, I feel like that she's doing it more for, for her and me knowing about it and getting that extra kick as far as like her sexual relationship. That's like a bonus, you know? Yeah, it's a win-win for her.

She's got a, she probably is like, it's probably twofold for her. Like, A, there's the turn on that she's having this. guy and doing this thing and then the second part of the turn on is she gets to go back and share it with you right right right yeah you know i feel like i do want to bring this up with her why you know well because you know it's interesting you say that because i want to let her know and again i know that you know that this is probably a little turn on for her as far as like going and doing so without my knowledge and sharing it with me afterwards, I suppose. You know, but occasionally it's, because at this point it's like the me being involved with it

and being in the room is like non-existent at this point. So I want to let her know like, hey, you know, what you're doing is hot. But I kind of want to go regress back into having something where I'm involved, you know? And of course, this isn't something I want to bring out like, like, I don't want to pour this all down to her and just all at once because, you know, me knowing her, it's something that, yeah, it's just, it's probably not going to happen if I just do it all at once. I find a lot of success and doing it over time, you know, slowly, slowly. It's like one question. I mean, how do you get to bring it up slowly? It's one question.

The question is like, you know, a lot of times you don't tell me about these guys is like, does it turn you on? And why don't you ask her while you're having sex and she's so horny? That's when you're most likely going to get the truth. And like, I mean, you could even like, you know, bait and switch her, like, like act as if it turns you on, that it turns her on, that she's being naughty without you knowing and see if she agrees to it. This is like, I don't know. I mean, it's a little kind of vicious way to go about it,

but you could get an answer from her if you ask her, I think. But, you know. Yeah. But my whole point is, does the answer change anything? I don't think it does. So what does it matter? No, I don't either. I don't either, you know.

So, you know, it's something I might need to figure. Because I found a lot of success in, like, if I were to fuck her one night, and an hour just to briefly go into it. You know, I kind of ease my way into it. Like, you know, oh, yeah, you like this. You're like, you know, like, I'd let her know, like, you know, what if we do this would be hot. Then the next night we do it.

Right. But this isn't something. I mean, she'd be down for you being in the room. I mean, what we're talking about now is her just copping to the fact that she's fucking these guys behind your back without telling you first. And you're wondering whether it's because she's, turns her on or you know and so you know how do you ease into that like I said yeah you could try to bring that up while you're having sex and be like oh does it turn you on when you're fucking that

guy and I didn't know about it like you could you know she's probably going to be like yeah like but so what if she does say yes what what what's what's going to change are you going to say okay well don't do that right so what so what is it in what what is in that answer for you I still don't understand. It would confirm my suspicions, you know, because I don't know. I don't know if she's doing that because she's getting something out of it or if she's doing that purely for the price of it. But, okay, so pretend she's doing it because she gets something out of it. How does that make you feel?

I mean, she's getting something out of it, you know. I wouldn't necessarily even know how to put this. it was that's a good one so if she were to do it with another guy and get something out of it then i suppose she's doing it purely just to get something out of it not necessarily for the sex you know rather if she were to tell me yeah i like doing it no but she doesn't she to get something out of it what she's getting out of it is like enjoyment right so she is doing it for the sex you don't have enjoyment without the sex so that's you're not even making sense at this point. So listen, it doesn't matter

what she says, okay, I'm going to just tell you exactly. You don't have any jealousy when it comes to this shit. I don't believe you that this really even fucking bothers you. Maybe you're just trying to look for some kind of advice that you don't even need, okay? But you want advice, just go in the

fucking room and see how it feels and get to the next level, you know? Because you guys have been doing the same thing for a while. It works for the both of you. She might have an occasion where she feels guilty and stuff, but she's down with this. And this is what she's into, even more so than you, if you ask me. She's, you know, she's into it.

You're into it. I think, you know, I wonder still why you don't go down on girls. You know, I wonder about that. I wonder about any guy that doesn't really like to go down. Me and my friend wonder about that. We were having a whole conversation about it yesterday. Funny enough, I'm serious because I had one guy. And I don't know, I was like, that doesn't make sense.

Like, I don't know. but I guess there's a lot of girls that don't like to give blow jobs. You know, I just don't understand it, you know? Oh, definitely. Yeah. Right? I've had a few. Yeah.

Yeah. But, you know, I think that the only thing you need to do at this point is, like I said, go in the room and start enjoying it. And so maybe you guys could take this to a whole other level. You do like the fact of another guy coming inside your wife. I wonder, and you like fucking her right afterwards. So, you know, you like. guys come you like to put your dick in there

when there's some come in there you like your wife being taken by other men you know it's a whole cuckled situation and I think that you know it probably won't be ruined for you if you walk into that room and probably be heightened and I don't think that you give a shit

about whether she knows or not and but if you do and you really do you have to have conversations with her about it straight up it's just a question right and you're just going to get any answer and I don't think it's going to be any big deal or it doesn't matter. Do you know what I mean? I don't know.

Right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I can get with that. I mean, people that are listening, tell me if I'm missing something and posted in the comments. Like,

are you looking for something that I don't know? Like, I don't see, you know, I know that it was like, oh, she told you so many years later that she fucked that guy way before. Now, listen, a lot of guys would get upset about that and think, like, how could I trust this girl?

like she's a fucking liar you know what I mean it didn't it didn't bother you like you were like that's fine because I'm into that right I mean it's like it and you've known like there's a lot of guys probably that she did that with right so and it's never really bothered you like I said other guys would be like what the fuck because it's one thing to you know go and be with somebody else but I think there's there typically tends to have to be a lot of trust with partners when you open of relationships to make sure that okay like just because somebody says you could go fuck other people doesn't mean that somebody says like oh you could go lie to me you know what I mean you could go do whatever you want a lot of time you know there's a lot of times there's rules and boundaries and stuff like

that that people bring up to each other so but it doesn't seem like you guys have that many so you know that's the way it was set up if you want to start having those you know start having conversations about it when you're not horny and when you're not in bed and you know and that's what you should do I mean you've been together long enough you know you know you've been together long enough You know each other long enough. You've done a lot of stuff together. There's no reason why you shouldn't be able to communicate very easily with each other and just talk it out. Do you know what I mean?

Yeah. Yeah. You know, it's usually always difficult to talk about these things with her when we're not in the zone. Yeah, but you know, maybe I do need to, you know, right. You know, I should, maybe I should kind of take that lead. and see where it goes. Yeah. Maybe I'm going to be able to find some success in that.

Yeah. I mean, don't you eat dinner together? Don't you go out to eat? Don't you ever take long rides? You know. Absolutely. Yeah, just have conversation. I think you guys are super open and about this.

And, you know, it's something you guys have been doing for a long time. It seems to be something that you're very experienced in. I think you should be able to start talking about it. Because you don't want like five. years down the road like I would I would hate for at some point for you to be like oh I'm you know she's like lying to mean that really bothers me you know like yeah you know clear the air now and get that over with you're still young you went into this you know just kind of doing it but it's worked so far for a very long time between you guys without any problems which is

you know really great you should be lucky but I think a lot of people most of the times that are successful doing this, they do have a lot more, you know, they're more communicative with each other and they communicate more about what's going on and they have some boundaries and roles and they talk it out more. You guys are still what? In your 20s? Yeah, like mid-20s. She's like literally a month older than me, so we're the same age. Yeah, you're just open about it. You're just flying on the seat of your pants. Is that the right phrase? I don't even know. But you're just doing it and whatever. You know, I just hope that you wouldn't have a change of heart at some point and be like, oh,

because I think sometimes, like, guys don't know how they feel. Like, you know, like, you might, it might actually bother you that she, like, lies about stuff. You know, because, listen, is it lying? Some people have this thing. The same guy that I was talking to about blow jobs and the guy not going down on girls. This is my same friend who, like, he doesn't think that it's a lie if you just don't, if someone didn't ask you the question.

You know what I mean? It's, like, not a lie if I owe me. the information you know like there's some people that have that sort of train of thought right it's like you didn't ask so and i didn't tell you so therefore i wasn't lying you know but like i don't buy into that shit i think you know she's fucking guys and not telling you until you have sex you could some people could you know and maybe you do yeah no absolutely absolutely absolutely 100% you know so i feel like it's something that needs to kind of be brought in the open yeah so you could get and see what her motivation is, is just to make sure that there isn't something so you don't

feel any kind of distrust with her and everything's on the up and up and, you know, let me know when you go down on her after a guy's coming her. Yeah, you know. That's a cream pie. Is that what you'd be into? I can tell you with certainty that's probably never going to happen. You know, like, you know, I personally don't understand that, you know, like. But why don't you like to go down on girls?

Can we just discuss that for five minutes before I get off this call? Can you just tell me? I need to know. It's like it's too wet. I mean, I don't understand. It's like, is your girl get really wet? Yes. Oh my God.

Yes. Okay. Okay. Okay. But besides her, you've obviously been with other girls, right? Did you ever have a girl that didn't get that sloppy wet? Like, did you like to go down on her? No.

So she's really the first. Okay. Does I answer this question? Yes. before her, I did not know what the hell I was doing. So with her, you know, once I started doing it with her and I started, you know, kind of understanding what and how to do it, it's like, it's like, that God damn, like I're going to have a fucking towel next to me every time I'm going to

fucking do it, you know, and I get like she loves when I do it, you know, but she's not always like, oh, please go down on me, please go down. me like you know because if she were to say say but if you don't really like it i'm telling you i mean you've gotten blow jobs before and there's the there's a big difference between a girl that's blowing you that is into it and a girl that's blowing you because she has to it's the same thing with a guy that goes down on you like if a guy's going down on me and i could tell he's doing it to get me off but he doesn't like to like do it it's not a turn off it's kind of like a turn off you know you could tell you want a guy that like fucking loves it if you're a guy that doesn't like it no wonder why

she doesn't ask for it because as much as you're in like as much as you're doing it it's probably not that great well because you know when i i mean listen even bad pizza is good so even if someone's going down on you're not doing it's still good to a certain point you know what i mean but there's a bit i'm just saying there's just a very big difference and that might be the reason why she doesn't beg you because she knows you're not into it Yeah, perhaps, perhaps, you know, like when I'm, when I do do it, I'm, I'm into it. You are? But it's, yeah, yeah, like, like, but it's like you hold your breath and go underwater.

I mean, because. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's, it's, it's before that. It's the thought of it isn't necessarily like, yeah, let me just fucking like, you know, put on my, my scuba gear. You know, like, yeah, I want that. You know, it's like, it's like. You're just not like you're so into it, right? It's just something that you're not totally into.

Right. But when I'm there, it's like, shit, I'm here already. So it's just, let's fucking do it, you know, so. Yeah. Yeah. But like, will you do it like two times a year or do you do it like every other time you fall around with her? Probably like maybe I want to say maybe once a month, you know, so that's maybe like, yeah,

it's not too regular, but at the same time it's not it's not particularly rare. Right. Okay. Yeah, I don't get that. But, you know, like I said, you know, most guys, like, but I, I know guys that are like that, you know, and I just, I only am questioning you, not because, like, I want to make your life difficult on this call, but because I was literally just having this conversation and, uh, because the guy I was talking to loves to go down to girl. So he's like, I don't fucking get it. Like that guy's gay. Like, blah, blah, blah. You know, you had, you know, it was like a funny conversation like that. But, you know, and then I'm talking. And then I'm talking. talking to you and you're like one of those guys that I'm like oh I'd like to have the serious conversation and really find out so maybe you're just like a little oCD and you like cleansliness and it's just the wetness and everything is like not so like is a turnoff to you I don't know are you into like anal play anything like that like what do you mean like having anal sex with her like do you like that kind of stuff yes yes okay she is like she's like no that just

fucking hurts too much. Like, like occasionally, like right after, even in the shower, after we had a good cleanup, you know, I'd probably like, I'd probably like start eating her out and I move toward her ass. Or even after, right after we get into the shower, I would eat her out. And I suppose that's every time we probably do it now that I think about it, I would do both her pussy and her ass.

Uh-huh. You know, but as far as like fucking her in the ass, you know, it's like, she's no that that door is right it's her problem but I just wanted to see if it was like a cleansly like you know if it's kind of like you know it's that reason I'm still trying to get to the core of the why you don't like to go down but anyone listening to this give me your comments if you're the same way what what that is only because I'm like I'm going to do a poll why you know whether as a guy you do or don't you know like I said it's kind of like pizza even bad pizza is still good, you know, so a guy goes down and he's not into it, but you could still use them to get you off.

Right. But, you know, there really is a big difference. Like, the last thing you want is a guy doing it that's not into it. You love a guy. Like, the great guy is the guy that really loves it. And I find that most guys are like that. But, you know, every now and then you do meet a guy that's not so into it. And, you know, what can you do?

You listen to your girlfriend has a guy that's not that into going down on her, but she also has a guy that, like, lets her phone. other guys and it has a, you know, so she's pretty lucky, right, for a girl that wants variety in her life because she's super young, she gets to not, it's not like, you know, even though she got married really young and has been a relationship, she's been able to like experience different people and, right, and sort of not just be with one person or whole life, which might be, or probably for her would be stifling and she wouldn't be able to do it. So you allow her to do what she want to do and you're into it so it's like a win-win situation for the both of you know and we have a happy marriage you know everything is is good you know we don't you know as far as like we're very

good with communication we you know i i know i know for a fact that she loves me and and you know it's i'm probably the and i'm not i'm not trying to jump to conclusions here but from what i'm gleaning from our interactions is she she is very clingy to me she always needs to be touched with me. She always asks me about my day. She, you know, she cooks for me. She cleans. She, you know, she helps me regularly or finance. So, you know, she's, she's even without this, we have a perfectly fine relationship. Yeah, that's great. So it's, it's our ability to be able to trust each other and me have her do that. That is, because if I didn't trust her, you know, this shit's out the window, you know, like that's what I was saying before. So that's why it doesn't,

I feel like it doesn't matter whether she does. does it, whatever. I don't know. You just said we have a good communication. So just communicate a little bit better and ask her about why she doesn't tell you like like, like, you know, if there's a reason for it, does she think she doesn't have to? Maybe she thinks that it doesn't matter. Maybe she thinks that's the way you like it.

I don't know. You got to ask the question. Of course. Okay. Maybe there's some blurriness in that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You just said you have good communication. So do it up.

Thank you so much for calling in and telling me your story, Carlos. Let me know when you ask her that question, what the answer is email me. I'll tell my listeners. Absolutely. Okay. 100%. All right. Thanks so much

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