Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 369 - Adrianne and her Boyfriend F*** Other People

Episode Date: January 4, 2021

Adrianne and her boyfriend fuck other people and they've been f***ing other people from the get go. How did they meet? How did their open relationship start? How do they make it work? Tune in to hear all the details which include how their honesty in the beginning led to their successful open relationship, their first threesome with her much younger co-worker, the swingers clubs they've been to and what they do there, where they meet couples online and what they look for, his interest in being a cuckold and how he hides in the closet and watches her with other guys, the time she had sex with her Uber driver in front of him, how and why she sometimes gets jealous when she sees him with other women and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Okay, Adrienne wrote in and was like, listen, me and my guy are swingers. She used the word swingers. And, you know, we thought it would be really fun to come on your show and talk about all of our experiences.

They had like wrote them down, as she said. And she had a list of them and there was like 40 of them. And I was like, that's like a specific number, right? It turns out she's only been dating her guy for like two years. So like that's, you guys really must have got to it really early on. And they did. They started out as like booty calls, like a booty call, right? They were just like fucking each other and fucking other people.

And then they just continued to fuck other people. But they started to fuck other people in front of each other. And it turns out they're into that. And they're into a lot of other things. they've been to swingers club he hides in the closet watches her fuck other guys he really likes that she doesn't mind seeing him fuck other women but there's some stuff there's a little jealousy there we get into that and why it's there and why it's not there sometimes uh we talk about you know how they prefer to swing they do full swaps what they've done she tells a lot of specific stories

she's done double penetration like i said he's hit in the closet there's cock cages involved A lot of interesting things. Now, in the beginning, she does use the word like a lot. Okay. Now, I hope you're listening to this intro so you know that that is going to change. Because I call her out on it early on and I'm like, listen, you should just stop that shit because people are going to comment. And then she does.

And it takes a little while before she gets comfortable and relaxes into the call and really starts to give some good details. But that happens. So stick with it in the beginning, even though, like I said, you're going to hear her say like a lot. and then you're going to hear me like sort of put her in check with the way she's telling her stories because it seems like she's nervous. I think that's really what it was.

But she, that goes away very quickly. And she tells a lot of good stories. Like I said, she talks about how they went from being fuck buddies to getting in a relationship to being swingers. And like I said, it happens early on,

right? They're just always been sort of had an open relationship. And she talks about how it works and why it works. And like I said, she has a little jealousy when it comes to watching and fuck other people. We talk about that and a lot of other things. So read the description if you want more information of what you're going to hear on this call. And I'm going to, this is like the longest intro I've ever done. So I'm just going to get right back to it and be right back on with Adrienne.

Hey, Adrienne. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you doing? I'm good. So you wrote in and told me that you, I mean, the gist of it was like you and your boyfriend. right, your boyfriend, not your husband.

He's my boyfriend. Yeah, I have been listening to my show for a while. And you guys were swingers. You used the word swingers. And you said that you guys recently wrote down all of your experiences and you felt like you wanted to come on and share them. Now, I think you used the word 40, right? Was it 40 experiences that you've had?

Yeah, I think like collectively there were 40 experiences if we added them all up. Right. So my first question is, how long have you guys been dating? So you've been dating? just over two years, we just had like two years on like this December 8th, so like two years. And how old are you guys?

Um, he's 46 and I'm 40. Now had you guys been quote unquote swingers before you guys got together? Um, not swingers necessarily. No, he like, we both had experiences in the past, but not like swinger type experiences.

Like I had been with like another girl before and like, or like kiss another girl like in college or like um had like same room sex like with my boyfriend and then like his best friend and his girl or like um i had actually had um a couple of times where my my ex boy husband and i actually had had a couple of times where um we had another like a threesome with another girl um so just a couple of times that we didn't have like a swainer lifestyle or anything like that. I'm not like I do now. You know, and then like my boyfriend's

experiences like he just kind of has him and his best friend, I think, were with another girl at one point. But I think really that's all the experiences he's really had before me as far as as far as I understand it. Right. So now, so but if I'm doing the math, right?

And you guys have only been dating for two years and you've had 40 experiences already. It seems like you guys like got into the Swinger lifestyle like really. early on. I mean, did you meet each other and let each other know? Like, how did the whole conversation come up that you both realize that this is something you were both into? Well, we kind of started our relationship off being like very honest, which is something that neither of us had really

had in the past. Like, we, like, okay, so we met on plenty of fish. And, and, and. But were you both, because I was on plenty of fish. I remember that a long time ago. Like, did you both, were you both looking for relationships were you both just looking for booty calls like just really looking for like not a relationship just kind of a hookup kind of a deal and i was like really sleeping around like i was and i was like having sex with like lots of men like four five minutes had you just got divorced like what were you like okay i was recently divorced and so um was my boyfriend at the time my my boyfriend now he was recently divorced as well okay um and so we were both very honest we were both sleeping around. We were both like dating a lot of people, if you will. And so when we met up for the

first time, I basically told him I was going to be a shirt thing if we hit it off. And like I was going to be staying the night at his house and I kind of laid it all on the line for him. Like I'm not going home drunk. Like I'm staying it over. Like I'm like I'll totally be fucking you. Like and I just kind of laid it on the line for him. He was like kind of like how could I say no? Like cool shirting right on. So um, first night we got together and we fucked and it was great and whatever and then um we kind of like just hit it off from then on out and then like it was weird because like I was still like sleeping around and like um and he was still like sleeping in and for him it was like really hot for him that I was sleeping around

yeah he's one he's got that thing that I've heard about yeah like he thought it was hot like and he like for me to like tell him like about like okay I fuck this guy and like this is what we did blah blah blah blah blah blah yeah and then like sometimes he would even like me to come over like after like after like I fucked a guy and then like fuck him too like right after like he thought it was like hot that like oh like he's fucking me right after this guy just did me or whatever yeah and did it turn you on too yeah like and I am like really I don't know like hypersexual kind of a girl where um like I like have like a really high sex drive like more than most men I think even

Yeah. And I've been known to be, like, called, like, the man in the relationship because... Yeah, I was like that when I was younger more so, yeah. Yeah, because, like, I just want it all the time. Like, I just do. And so it worked for us. And so, yeah, like, that's kind of how we got started. And then really, like, our first experience was kind of, like, I invited over one of my coworkers.

Woman or man? girl. Yeah. And she was really young. She was only 23 years old. And I had told her. How old are you again? How old? You're 40, right? I'm 40. Yeah. And yeah. And so she was like, you know, super hot, 22 year old. And like, just like really fun, like wanted to hang out, whatever. And like, drink a little, smoke a little and get down kind of a deal. And, and she was like wanting to have that experience. And, like, just like, really fun. Like, wanted to hang out, whatever. And, like, drink a little, smoke a little and get down kind of a deal. And, and she was, like, and she was, like, like, like, like, like, And it was cool. Wait, but I just need to know, right? Yeah. How you know that she's down for this? Like, how does that conversation come up with your coworker? I know, right.

I know, right? Yeah, like, I don't know. I think just, like, over time, like, when you hang out, people, like, you smoke weed with school and, like, you know, you have, like, hang out people on this, this event or that event or, like, maybe, like, she and I kissed one time, like, hanging out, like, smoking weed or whatever, just, like, with our friends. And then I think like those conversations just like, would you ever like be with another couple? Would you have like like, like have you ever been with a girl?

Like would you ever do this? Would you ever do that? And like she was like, yeah, it would totally get down with you guys. And I was like, that would be awesome. And my man was like, duh, that would be like every man's dream. Like, of course, like I'll totally do it. Right. So you knew she was down.

So you invited her over knowing that. Yes. And she knew she was. to have a threesome with her coworker and her older coworker and her boyfriend. Yes. Okay. And so, I mean, that first experience was really just kind of like we drank a little and smoked a little.

And I think we got into the hot tub that night. And then like she and I started kissing and then like, I think like I kind of like pushed her like over to him. Yeah. And like they started kissing in the hot tub. and then like kind of like we all started doing it and then like she and I went down on him and like I think that's how like that whole experience started and then like that whole experience didn't like we didn't like do everything it was really like oh my god I'm just going to tell you underneath

your your your episode on YouTube people are going to be like she said like 50 times in the first two minutes try to you're saying like like every other fucking word. Oh my God. I'm terrible. Yeah. So wait, so you guys, do you go all the way with her? Like, or is it just like that? So we didn't. Okay. So we didn't go all the way with her. We

and it sounds bad, it sounds like we did, but we didn't. So he didn't penetrate her. But, um, but we did everything else. Did you fool around with her? Yeah. I fooled around with her. Like we both licked her. Like, um,

she and him licked me. Um, he fucked me. I'm pretty sure. Yeah. And then like, but he didn't penetrate her. But we both went down on him. And I think that's really all that happened with that. Okay. So that's pretty much everything except you, she didn't fuck your husband, your boyfriend.

Exactly. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. So I mean, that was that one. And then I mean, I think then it was just like we. I don't know. Like he kind of knew my my boyfriend kind of knows or knew more about, I guess, the lifestyle, if you will, of swingers.

Like more than I did at the beginning where he maybe had read about it or experience or what I don't think he experienced any of it. But I think he had read about it or maybe fantasized about it or whatever, knew about it. little bit. And so he kind of taught me like or maybe like introduced me or asked me about things such as we went to can I say like the club's name out loud. Yeah. It doesn't matter in me. Okay. So we went to a club called Freedom Makers and it's like in the Inland Empire of California. So your husband is the one who. figured this out and knew about this club. Yeah, he kind of, he kind of just kind of introduced me to it and said, hey, there's this club

and like people, he's never been there before. He's like, he had never been there before, but he had heard about it. He had heard that, you know, this, that or the other thing might happen there, you know, where as we learn more as we had gone there, we had been there, we've been there four times. Okay. And so I think one of the times we were there. we played with like two other girls and this older gentleman and one of the girls had never like licked pussy before and so I taught her like how to lick pussy and then the second time

we were there we swapped with this other couple there's like these beds when you walk in and it's set up kind of room by room, if you will. And when you walk in, there's these beds, and we swapped with this couple, like, as this bed, there's this bed right there when you walk in. Or maybe it was the upstairs room. At any rate, there was a lot of people watching. There was a lot of people around watching, like, naked or fucking or doing whatever,

around you in this club. and so we got down with this other couple that was there. Do me a favor, and I'm just going to say this because it's either like you, maybe you're making this up or you're reading it or there's something about the way you're telling this story that sounds like you're very rehearsed and maybe it's because you really want. And like, and I'm not saying that's because you're totally lying. It could be because you wrote all the shit down and then you wanted to talk about it on the show, right? And you're going through it like in your memory, but not like in your normal memory, like in your, you know, the way you wrote it down memory.

And that's not, like, that's just going to, that is the worst way to do it. Do you know what I mean? Just like, just talk about what you remember. Don't go by like a fucking script, you know, don't go by how you, I don't. Yeah. So maybe it's just the way I talk. I don't know. But, okay, so, I mean, we got down with this couple in there.

Yeah, but you want to go. So, but let me just ask you some questions and then maybe that'll be easier. So you, I mean, let me just start, though, because like, you have this first experience. with this girl. You guys are sleeping around in the beginning, right? When do you realize that you actually start to have romantic feelings for each other and that you're going to date? Do you ever stop sleeping with other people? Yeah. Okay. So that, okay, so we met, we met in October and then of whatever year, 2018, I believe it was. And we were definitely sleeping around and definitely had told each other like that we were dating other people and that we were, and we already

went to that but when do you guys start to like actually realize that you want to date him because you said you weren't really looking for a relationship it was probably like yeah and neither of us were at all whatsoever um it was probably like two months into dating each other that that we really started becoming like exclusive when they sound not exclusive obviously because but you but you went from just booty call to like you guys actually really liked each other right that's a whole different living virtually like every day together and yeah and it was definitely and that specific Christmas because it was around the holidays or whatever that specific Christmas we specifically you know exchanged gifts with just one another yeah you know and yeah and it became very much a relationship at that time right I remember we did go to to Las Vegas that following January and we were out at a very fancy restaurant at Gordon Ramsey's restaurant, very, very upscale for us. And having a nice dinner and a couple of his beauty call girls were texting during our dinner.

And I was getting kind of pissed because, you know, we had just started dating kind of exclusively. And so at that dinner in January was when he deleted those other women from his phone specifically. So it was, so we've been, yeah, it's been exclusive for exclusive other than the people we know about. Yeah, yeah, yeah. For two years. Right. So because he was being honest with you, I mean, that's what's kind of cool about your relationship because you were being honest about sleeping with other people right from the get-go. That while you're sitting there in Vegas, he's not pretending that he's, you know, texting somebody else.

So he's honest with you about who's texting, right? And then you're honest that it pissed you off. And then he's honest that he deleted. We did get into a couple of fights about it. Like because he wasn't honest from the beginning at the beginning. He was saying he was being honest, but then he wasn't necessarily being honest. Like they would keep texting and keep texting. And then he would just not tell me to avoid a fight.

Yeah, yeah. And where then it made a bigger fight because you should have just fucking told me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because now it's a trust thing. Yeah. If we're being real about it, be real. about it. You know what I mean? And so then, you know, he deleted them or whatever. And since then, a couple of them have

tried to reach out, you know, over the year, over the past two years. Yeah. And he, you know, and they've kind of, he's blocked him on their phone and they kind of reach him through Facebook or this or that's about the other thing, you know. And he has been honest with me a few times about them trying to, that's still something that I question. sometimes like are we being honest about like the people from the past but I don't think whatsoever he's doing anything behind my back if that makes sense do you know what I mean yeah I mean why he'd be dumb to I mean it's like you let him fuck other women right I mean you guys let's get back to like with the stuff that you guys experienced together yeah right I mean come on and you were being

super honest with him because he actually enjoyed the fact that you you know when you would tell him that you were other people. Do you enjoy knowing that he's with other women or watching him with other women as well, just like he enjoys seeing you with other guys? No, I don't actually. It's very different for me. It's very different for me. When we're in like a couple situation where it's like, you know, me and him and then another couple, it's hotter. It's definitely hotter to me to see him with another woman when it's in that for some experience. Yeah. But when it's like just him and another girl, it's not as hot to me because the jealousy

factor for me comes in. Right, if he's by himself. One-sided for me. And like, yeah, yeah. And that's one-sided for me. Maybe, I don't know if you want to call it an insecurity or whatever. It's one-sided for me because for him, it's very hot to see. me with other men.

I don't think it's an insecurity. I think a lot of people would feel that way. And some people don't. You know, I just think it's however, you know, whatever way you're wired. But you enjoy the watching him with another woman when you're there. Yes. Yes. When I'm there, if I'm there, I, I, it's not, it takes me a second as much as we're, it's

kind of weird to say, but it takes me a second to warm up to the idea, if you will. Yeah. But, but once like I. kind of have some time to think about it and then like think it's hot like in my head and stuff then I'm down to do it and you're into it while it's happening yeah and I'm one of those girls that if I say I'm going to do it I'm going to do it right like I'm down to do most things and I'm not afraid to do like anything so to explain some of the experiences that you guys have had that you've been down to do and have done well so like there was this one couple that we were so

Okay, so we meet, and I can say where we meet people, right? Yeah, you could say whatever. Listen, I keep it anonymous for your sake. You know what I mean? Okay, cool. Yeah. So we primarily meet people through adult friend finder. Oh, okay.

I know that website. I used to go on there to find people when Craig, like in the beginning of my show, I would go on Craigslist also adult friend finder, you know, all over the place. So I know that website. Yeah. So I'm not familiar with Craigslist at all in that regard. But as far as, so, yeah, so adult friend finder is where we typically, we've gone on fat life we've gone on like anyway a couple of different things but um adult friend finder like

okay so we'll like primarily we're looking on adult friend on adult friend finder for couples like we're looking for we're looking to find another couple and that's kind of what we advertise on our profile is that we're looking for couples yeah um but we also like say in our little intro that that we are looking for obviously the female because that's something that the female is something hard to find

Yeah, the unicorn. You mean the single female? Exactly. Yeah, that's like the hardest thing to find, you know. And so obviously we say that we're looking for that. And then we say on our site or on our profile something like we're picky about single men but he does like to watch like single man fucker or something like that.

Right. So, so, um, looking for couples is, okay, so like looking for a single guy is easy because it's, there's a bunch of them. Yeah, of course. And you say that you want to, like, he wants to watch them have sex with you. So that single guy is going to get to fuck a guy's wife right in front of him. I mean, right. And so I can be a little bit pickier about, um, a single guy.

guy because there's a bunch of them. So I could be a little bit pickier about what I'm looking for. And the kind of like guy that I look for, you know, like, I don't know, I like him a certain way or I like him to have a certain size cock or. What do you like? What is your thing? Well, I kind of like the rugged look. I like, like, I like beards.

I like the rugged look. And I definitely like them to have like eight and a half size cock or bigger. Sometimes we think it's hot to look for. specifically for a black guy because we're white and we he thinks it's hot to watch a black guy fuck me so sometimes we look for that um although we've only had follow through to be truthful we've only had follow through with one black guy so um i've only been with one black guy in front of him two times i was with the same guy and how was that it was good um because you're Okay, so we do think, okay, so we do think some kind of kinky things too where because if he likes to watch, we, sometimes he'll watch from the closet.

And like, the guy won't know that he's there. So, like, I'll put my boyfriend in the closet sometime. I've done, I've put him in the closet maybe like seven or eight times. two of the times I had them in there handcuffed and I put up in my closet and we kind of prop the closet door open a little bit and from the closet has a direct view or shot

to the bed in the bedroom and so kind of prop the closet door open a little bit and with the lights off you know the person that I'm having sex with can't see into the closet nor would they think somebody's in there and my boyfriend's in there and he thinks it's hot

I've had him in there like I said handcuffs one time I had him in there with like I put a cock cage on him and had him in there in a cock cage and who's the guy like where do you meet the guy is it is it always the same one? Like adult friend finder typically

is where all well okay so I will meet them where we will find them on adult friend finder. But then I'll go meet them at a bar for a drink first just to make sure they're not like a creeper or something. And then invite them to follow me back to my house. And all the while my man is, you know, I'm texting.

I'm texting my man while I'm with the other guy saying, yes, I'm going to bring him back, be ready. I'll be back in five minutes or whatever. And then my man is in the closet, like kind of waiting while I have some. sex with the guy in my bed. Right. And he, and then what happens? You just have sex with the guy and then he leaves? And then it's like really hot for my guy. He's, he's really into that. And then our sex is that much hotter. Right. Because we talk about it or he asks me what I liked or maybe he, you know, can kind of taste the sex on my pussy when he licks me after. Mm-hmm. Or,

which is something he thinks is really hot. Yeah. And then, you know, like a couple times after we, you know, every time we have sex, like after that or a couple times after, we kind of fantasize about that or talk about the experience. But do you tell these guys that you're like, you're like that you're married or you're with a guy or do they think that you're single? Like, what's the story? It kind of depends. Yeah. It kind of depends on, on when, again, when we meet them on AFF, we then kind of typically move the conversation over to KICC.

And then we will communicate with those people via KIC and kind of tell that they might know from AFF, of course, like from the profile that we are looking for a guy to watch or a guy to fuck me while my man watches kind of a deal. But they don't know that he's watching from the closet. But then sometimes I might say, I might lie to the guy and say, oh, my man's not going to be home tonight. Do you want to come fuck me anyway? Yeah. And then my man's actually in the closet. You know what I mean?

So that's kind of how. Or sometimes my man will actually be not in the closet and he'll be watching or like jacking off in the corner or he's joined a couple of times with, but typically he likes to watch first and then if I ask him to join in he will or if I ask him to like lick me like after the guy's done or whatever like he'll do that. Is your guy into guys at all? Is he by your buy? No, not at all. Yeah, I am.

But he's not at all. You know, he will get in close contact with. He'll cross swords. Yeah, or like he's like DEP before, but he won't, but nothing, he's not like into guys. Yeah. Right. And so when, so you've done double penetration with him and another guy. Yeah.

Yeah. And that's, that's pretty hot, but that's not something that we do all the time. But it's some, yeah, but it's definitely something that we've done. And then it's, it's interesting because we, you know, we might meet up. we might meet these couples like on AFF or say we're going, you know, we have conversations with them. And then we might meet up with them, like have a drink with them and then not go through with it or like not have sex with them or not bring them back to our house. How come? Like give me an example.

I don't know. The vibe isn't right or or maybe the arrogance is there or. or I don't know So if you meet up with people It's kind of it's just interesting Like a time that that actually happened Like an experience that you remember I mean these you've been doing it for two years

So these should be in your memory Yeah Okay So we met up with a Okay We met up with this pregnant girl Okay this is kind of a fantasy of my dance I guess you could say

We met up with this white guy and his black pregnant wife. Okay. She was like four or five months pregnant, definitely showing. And then it was me and my boyfriend. And we met up with them just on a patio at Mexican food place and had, you know, chips and salsa with them. And what was the premise that you guys met up with them that you were going to do a full swap that you were going to be with the girl that you're like yeah it was going to be a full swap with

them okay it's going to be a full swap with them okay but then okay so the conversation with them it it went to where sometimes things get in your head so like okay so they were she was talking about how they met and she had been kind of a she kind of referred to herself as a call girl if you will and they had met on Tinder and he was like fucking all these younger girls and like basically referred to kind of the fact that they were like paying for other girls I guess on Tinder and I don't know and I and like she had kind of referred herself as like a call girl I don't know and for whatever reason when we kind of left from them my my man and I

had gone out to dinner right after that. And when we had said our goodbyes and yeah, we'll meet up another time. Great, great. Whatever. Let's set it up. We left and my man was kind of like, I don't know if I want to fuck them. Like, it sounds like they have fucked a lot of people and is it safe? Sometimes things just get in your head.

But when you said, oh, she was pregnant, that's like a fantasy of my boyfriend's. Like he wanted to be with the pregnant girl? Is that he's into that whole thing? I think she just thought, I think it wasn't necessarily a fetish. I think when the opportunity, when they had said, oh, she's pregnant when we were talking on kick, she had said, yeah, they had said that she's pregnant. Is that bothersome to you or something like that? Is that they had said?

And when my man and I were talking about it, he was like, no, I think it's kind of hot. Like there's something kind of hot about doing it. like, what are you thinking? I was like, I don't go a fuck. Go ahead. Right. That was kind of like my thought. And then, oh, and then one of the weird things that couple had said who we were

meeting up with them was they had said something about her going and fucking her ex, her ex-boyfriend all the time, something referring to the fact that the baby might not be his. And I think that was another turnoff for us. Right. But like maybe the baby wasn't the dad, wasn't the husband. and that she was like a call girl and like I don't know that whole situation just kind of turned us lost. Right. Like other times where we met up with people and we were just weren't attracted to them.

And like there has to be something attractive about the people that because it's weird. I mean, do you have a type when it comes to like so for men, is it that you like guys that are well hung? Is it for women? What do you look for women? Well, I think for women. my man has to find something sexy about her. He just can't fuck her. He has to find something sexy about her face or her tits or her whatever,

her ass or something sexy about her that he thinks is hot. Right. But do you guys have the same taste? Because you say you're by, right? And you guys are sleeping with these girls together. Do you, are you guys typically attracted to the same kind of woman? Yeah.

Yeah. Because I think for me, I think I don't really have a type necessarily. I think I just think women are. beautiful. That's kind of the, I don't know, I think women are beautiful and I can, I can get down with like most women, like as long as, as long as you're pretty and you kind of have a good personality or something's there. You know what I mean?

With her girls, it's a little bit different. I don't know. You just kind of have to be cute for me. Right. And, but for him, he's got to find something. He's got to be attractive. Something sexy about her that, that he can either get behind her or something. something. Something sexy about her where he can get down. Yeah. So you do the thing where you fuck guys and he's in the closet. Do you, does he do anything when you're in the closet or is it just strictly him in the closet? No. It's really him in the closet. And this is something we've been kind of experiences a little bit more as I guess, I guess it's called. And again, I'm new to it. But I guess it's kind of that hot wife, that cuckolding type of thing. Yeah.

where, which is kind of hot to me again, as I think about it and I learn about it and it grows on me, it's kind of hot to me, the whole thing, that whole hot life thing. Yeah. About, you know, having kind of the control, if you will, over him and the situation. And, well, for example, yesterday we didn't spend, we're not married. you know, so we didn't spend all of Christmas together. Yeah. So yesterday morning I actually put him in his cock cage. Uh-huh.

And he still has it on and I have the keys at my house. Right. So he's been wearing it for like 26 hours. And like that's kind of hot to me that I have control over that. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

I don't know. Did he, do you guys get into the coffee? cage thing together? Like, is that something that he was into before? It's something that he had before I met him. But from my understanding, it's not something that he did a lot or anything. It was just something that he had and he had done a couple of times. And so now it's kind of just something we're playing with.

We kind of have been playing with a little bit more of like the, like, ball torture. And like, like, I don't know if it's like, I don't know if it's like, I don't know. what it's called, but like where I like kind of hit his cock every now and then or like beat his cock a little bit. Like he likes that. We have a really good sex life alone. You know, we do a lot of key things and we have a good sex life alone. And we like try new things together and stuff. And tie each other up and he has a contraction set up in the garage where he ties me up also in addition to the bed and we try different things together um but but yeah like we're just kind of starting out with like the ball torture and um he's kind of into that and it's something that

I don't really think he knew he was into until very recently and I definitely didn't know about until very recently um but it's something that turns me on you know and now what about the swingers clubs because you call yourself swingers do you guys go? to this one yeah the different clubs because of COVID because of COVID it like things are closed and but there is this one place that we we actually had a reservation we canceled it there's this one place we want to try out called um I believe it's called exotic dreams and it's in um Palm Springs and it's a place where it's like a hotel and you go and you you rent a room for overnight and it's open is what I was referring to is it's open during COVID.

That's what I was getting at. Because the place that we had gone to that four times or three or four times called Freedom Makers is closed right now. So we haven't been in over a year. But yeah, I mean, I think we call ourselves swingers. There was this one couple that we probably had sex with five or six times where we had a, kind of a friendship with them as well. You met them on adult friend finders? We did, yeah.

We met them on AFF. And they were cool people. They were, it was cool. Like, it wasn't like, she wasn't trying to get after my man and I wasn't trying to get after her man. It was like, you know what I mean? Where it was cool. Like, they were, they had their marriage and their relationship and we had ours. And when we got together, it was fun.

and she was fun to play with. And, you know, she and I would play together as they watched. And they definitely knew that neither of them were by. And that the guys knew that neither of them were by. And yeah, so we played with them like five or we fucked them like five or six times full swap. It just kind of fizzled out, I guess. And I think maybe it kind of fizzled out more for me because, I don't know, the guy had a smaller dick than my man, even.

even had so it wasn't really I don't know yet quite a bit smaller dick that my man had and um it was that wasn't I mean I just kind of got old for me like I was like okay next like I was just kind of like ready for the next couple if you will and so um we're kind of looking for not like a not like a friendship where we need to like hang out with them all the time but like people that are cool like that or we could have sex with them

and then, you know, have sex with them, like every other month or once a month or something like that where I don't know that they're cool people, but there's no expectations of anything else, you know? Yeah. Yeah. So. I know you said you had 40 experiences and like you jotted them down. I don't know if there's any interesting ones that you want to, that you thought, oh, you want to bring them up and go through them. I don't know. I mean, there's a, I mean, there was like this Uber driver one time where we, it was in, that was in Vegas.

So in Vegas, there was this couple. We didn't do anything with them because we didn't find anything attractive about them when we met them at the bar. Yeah. But then we left from there and went back to our hotel. In the Uber, my man started fucking me, asked, like, told the Uber driver that he could rub my pussy. like when I was fucking me. Uber driver like pulled over and started banging me while my man was fucking me in the Uber, which like that was kind of not normal for typical people, I think.

Right. I don't know. I mean, sometimes, oh gosh, there was this one time when when we weren't being as safe. I think at the beginning, I think now that we're, now that we've done it a little bit, were a little bit pickier and a little bit safer, but kind of at the beginning when it was like, yeah, I was like fucking everybody and it was like whatever.

I was just doing whoever. One time my man met a guy, we met a guy on EFF, and then he just met him at the gas station. And I stayed home. And my man just went and met him at the gas station, basically made sure he wasn't a creeper and brought him home. And I was naked and he just brought him home

and fucked me in front of him. which was kind of, like, I hadn't even met the guy for a meet and greet or anything. It just kind of brought him home and had sex with me and then left. Oh, God. And your guy must love that now. Yeah, I mean, I think he really does. I think he really loves it. I mean, he likes to video it.

And then do you love to watch it with him after? Like, do you like that as well? Is that a turn on for you or it's more for him? It's a turn on for me to watch it. I don't necessarily need to watch it like over. and over again. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think my man likes to watch it, like, when we're not together, he watches it and

like jacks off to it, like, later. Yeah. But it's definitely hot to me in the moment. I like to talk about it later when we're, when he and I are together alone, like when we're in bed. I like to talk about it with him or it definitely gets him off when I bring it up or talk about, like, how big the other guy's cock was or how hard. Hardy was fucking me or I'll like ask him how many like ask him how questions like did you like it or I don't know like what was your favorite part I don't know we kind of talk about it and it makes it hot you know yeah a lot of people I think that's the biggest thing for us is talking about it right and it goes like like about everything it's talking about it beforehand talking about it afterwards talking about it if I'm comfortable with it if he's comfortable with it like what I thought was hot like he thought was hot like he thought was hot like

But now let me ask you this. Were you guys talking about this kind of stuff like early on? Because I know you did say you were both sleeping with other people and then you realized he liked it and then you realized that you liked the fact that he liked it. And then would he get into details about him with the girls? I think you said you weren't so much into hearing about that. It was more like you like it when, right? Yeah. So at the very beginning you mean?

Yeah. Right. Yeah. How that it got to be what it was, you know? So at the very beginning. And again, I was very honest with him, and he didn't like part of what I had to say at first, because I was very honest with him that I am not like him in part of the way he thinks about it is not necessarily the way that I think about it. So, for example, he thinks it's hot, like I said, like seeing me with other men and stuff like that. Yeah.

But I don't necessarily feel that way about him with, I get jealous. Yeah. And I, like, that's my man. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. Like, yeah. And so, like, I... It's a very normal reaction, you know?

I mean... Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's, it's... I want him to have his hands on me, you know? Uh-huh. Yeah. Especially, especially for me, I've told him this before. It's not necessarily the fucking part. It's not necessarily, like, him fucking another girl. Yeah.

It's him kissing another girl. or him like touching another girl or like showing affection to another girl like I don't I don't like that I also think you guys are in a very early on in a relationship like you know maybe if you're still together 10 years from now you might feel different you know yeah and like that we're not married so it's like that's one of the things too that's hard for me is that we're not married so people have asked too like other couples have said things like, oh, are you guys married or are you just boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever? And like, does that bother you?

Yeah. Yeah, it does bother me because it makes me feel like we're not in a commitment. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. There's something missing that isn't there yet. Yeah, there's something missing for me. Yeah, and it's and so it gives me a sense of like. So that's where you get the control of like like that.

It's like you're a little more possessing. over him because you don't actually fully possess them like in that in that in that way right maybe right yeah yeah and maybe if you had a ring if he put a ring on it and you had that commitment that would make you feel different and then maybe you would feel more able

to share him who knows like I said I think yeah like more able to share him like okay it is my husband so like like you know what I mean like he's my husband like he's not going anywhere like yeah I have him he is mine you got that part down, right. Exactly. Is that on the table for you guys, marriage?

I don't know. He kind of doesn't really want to get married again. But I don't think it's, I do. Yeah. I don't think it's off the table, but. Right. But yeah, but I'm not sure. But I definitely, I definitely would consider it.

But I don't know that he's there at all. Right. Well, you're only, listen, you're only together for two years, right? Yeah. You just turned 40. You say you're like super horny. I mean, these are your best years of your life. You're just going to get horny as a woman in your 40s, right?

So you guys have like a really great sex life to look forward to. You know, I mean, like you, you know, but you're still a new relationship, right? You've just been together for two years. You both had were out of relationships right before, right? Yeah, yeah. And him more recent than me too. So I do understand that part too. So yeah, that's just where we are.

But I mean, but we have a good relationship in our sex life that is really good. It's interesting, you know. And it's like, it's weird because we kind of came from like knowing each other was doing like all these people. Yeah, yeah. And then now just being able to be honest about, oh, I'm doing this guy or I'm going to do this guy. night like you're going to come over or whatever or we kind of will talk to the couples together try to have group conversations with them via kick or whatever and he'll chime in or we'll share pictures or whatever and um i don't know it just makes it kind of hot to like share the experience

together do you do online stuff with like do you do virtual stuff with other couples too is that like turn you guys on so because then or you like it more in person we have not we have not we did at one point sign up for cam soda. Have you heard of that? No. Cam soda? Cam soda, like camera soda. Yeah. And it's a website where it's like a video cam site. And we signed up, we even bought like the lights for the bedroom and stuff like that. We're such dorks. And we signed up for to have sex in front of other people and they pay you to. like have things in front of other people.

Right. It's like any other camps at it. It's any, it's just a cam. Yeah. We just had never been on any of them before. So that was the one we had been on or that we had chosen. But then our computer wasn't compatible and we kind of chickened out or whatever. But it was like one of those things where we were definitely like, okay, having sex in front of other people.

Right. Doing those kinds of things. And like, it would be kind of fun to do it and get paid for it. So I don't know. We might try that in the future. Yeah, that's probably in your future. You know, because like, I mean, you guys are listening. You're like two things, you know, two years in and you're doing all this stuff you've done.

I mean, like, if you list the things you've done, you've done double penetration, right? You have the, you live out the fantasy of him hiding in the closet. You're with other guys. You've done threesomes where you're with other women. You've done full swaps with couples, right? Where you guys have sex. You do that mostly at that club that you've gone to, but have you also done it at your house? We actually not mostly at the club.

We've done it with other couples primarily at our houses. Yeah. And we like to host because, and what I mean, I don't know if people know what that means by host, but like, okay, so we like to have it at our house because invite the couples to our house. That way we can kind of have them leave, you know, like when we. And then we don't have to drive and, you know, if we want to drink or whatever, like, it's fine. Yeah. But we did have one couple that, man, it was a good experience and we, I enjoyed fucking the guy and my man enjoyed fucking her. And it was a good experience.

And, you know, that guy had a nice nice cock, which was good for me. but they after we were done like we couldn't really get them out of the house like it's like they wanted to stay the night and like we kind of enjoy having our alone time after like we like having our alone time to fuck and like have that hotness well do they want to do it again maybe I mean I don't understand what it was like they want to stay over like in our bed I don't know yeah almost like I It was just, it was just not what we were into. So they were kind of butt hurt because we kicked him out. So we never, we never did it with them again. I mean, if they wouldn't have gotten butt hurt, we would have totally done it with them again. But it was so it was a hot experience. I mean, maybe they wanted to fuck again.

I would find that odd that they would actually want to just like sleep over. No? Yeah. I don't know, but they literally like blocked us afterwards and stuff. We were like, what the fuck? Oh, really? Because you threw them out? I mean, how did you get them out?

Yeah. Yeah, we basically had to throw them out. We were like, oh. You met them on, where'd you meet them on? We met them on AFF too. I mean, there's like other crappy experiences we've had where like this one guy, we had them in a hot tub. And he was kind of arrogant and his wife wasn't really that good looking.

And he had said something, I think we were like, I don't know, I don't know, we were just talking or just having a joint or something in the hot tub. And he said something to my man, like, I could make her come and do. 30 seconds. Like he was just very arrogant. Like, I don't know. And like right then it was like a light switch. It just turned us off.

And like the whole kind of experience was over because he was just being like an arrogant ass. It's like little things like that can just like turn it off. Like it just like has to be a good experience. So we've had like lots of experiences where we've fucked a lot or one guy wanted to like fuck all night. and we were like, dude, it's time to be done. Or like another guy, this guy was like too young to perform. He was just inexperienced. And I think he got scared seeing my man in the room, you know, like, I don't know.

He just couldn't get it up. Oh, wow. That's bad. Yeah. Have you ever found the unicorn, though? Any unicorn experiences? Good question. Well, it's super hard.

So we only have that one experience with my coworker, like, I said that didn't go all the way, well, he just didn't penetrate her, right? Yeah. But then, no, we haven't had any of the unicorn experiences, but we've tried to, like, communicate with them. And then sometimes, and I don't know, again, if it's just my jealousy factor, but sometimes the girls, they just, like, okay, if you're talking to a guy on Kick or EFF, they just a guy knows like like it's about the fuck do you know what I mean like where like a guy's like

okay I'm gonna fucker I'm cool like I'm just gonna get off I'm down like no big deal yeah um but girls aren't really like that for the most part typically they they want to talk and they want to get to know you and they want to um how many kids do you have and blah blah blah did you have a nice Christmas and like all these things you know and like they want to have like full-blown conversations. And to me, it's like, I don't want to have a relationship with you. We just want to have sex with you. Right.

And it's harder to find the girl that'll just come over and just do it. Exactly. Now, do you ever hook up with girls alone solo or no? No, I haven't not since I haven't not since I've been with this, not since I've been with my boyfriend. I have in the past, but not since I've been, not for the past two years. Right. Now, is that something you'd be into doing or no, because you guys are.

just doing all this other stuff? It's not necessarily something I'm into at the moment. No. No, not really something that I'm into at the moment. I kind of like the hotness of us doing it together. To me, it's hot that we share the experiences together. Like that's kind of, that kind of enhances our relationship and our intimacy, like in and out of the bedroom, in my opinion anyway.

And so have you hooked up? So you've done more of that kind of stuff also, though, at that club. right that you've gone to? Like with other girls, you mean? Yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah. Yeah.

Definitely have hooked up with other girls at the club. And he watches and stuff. And then obviously, like, if there's a couple that we're getting with, the girl and I hook up, usually that's how it gets started. Right. It's like when it's in a force or couple and couple situation is the girl and I will typically start it. and then that's kind of how it gets the ball rolling for the foursome to begin. Right.

Now, are these clubs near your house? Like, I mean, have you guys ever bumped into anyone that you know or any kind of weird situations like that? Adult friend finders you saw people, you know? Well, okay, so no. Yes and no. We've never seen anybody at the club that we've known. No. We have obviously seen regulars at the club.

that we met there before. But you asked me one other thing you said. Oh, I said did you ever bump into anyone that you know on adult friend finders or anything? If you're like in your neighborhood, you know, close by to where you live, are you looking for you ever see? So not on our neighborhood, no, but like recently I created a Tinder account because we were kind of looking for other women. And because we had talked to that one couple, that pregnant girl and that guy and they had told us that they had fucked all those girls from Tinder. Yeah. I created a Tinder account hoping we could find a single female to bring in to the house or whatever.

And since then I have found people that I know, or people have found me that I know from there and like swiped right, if you will, on my Tinder. And so they kind of know a little bit about, a little bit about, well, how John and I are, how, how much. my man and I are, you know? Yeah. They kind of know a little bit about who we are and how we are as a couple based on those profiles that they've seen. Do you tell any of your other friends, though, just your regular friends, what you goes down?

No. We have one time, the second experience that we had. So the one was with that coworker, a girl, the first one. And then the second experience that we had was with one of the first one. his best friends and one of my good friends. We kind of had set them up on a date. And then the four of us kind of got together. I didn't get with his friend and he didn't get with my friends.

But like he got with her, like he and I licked her and she and him looked me. But then it was kind of same room sex. So there was that experience. But that's pretty much it as far as friends. go. I don't. I'm just saying do you talk to you? You know how girlfriends talk. I'm saying do any of your friends know that you have this boyfriend now when you guys

are really open and you do all this stuff or is it really on the down low? I've told them that we've had like other girls in the house and stuff but there's only one guy that I'm friends with that knows that we

that John likes to watch me get fucked by other men and like all those things and that and he thinks it's hot because him and his woman or his ex-woman and his ex-woman now that his woman at the time were together for like 10 years and they were also in the lifestyle where they had been with other couples in the past also. So there's only one other guy that I've talked to about it and as far as I know my boyfriend has not told his friends. He kind of has shared with me that he hasn't told his friends about it. I know

that at the beginning, beginning of our relationship, like two years ago, his best friend knew that, like, I would have been down fucking the two of them together, so he knows that I'm not like a goody two shoes, kind of a girl or something. Yeah. But I don't think he, I really don't

think they know the details or anything like that. I think that that's really between John and I. I don't think that a lot of people know. So did you guys have any, this is my last question for you, but do you guys have any, did you ever start out with any rules? Because I know that you said, like, you don't like to see him kiss women and stuff. Like, do you guys have specific rules that

you have with each other? Um, are, yeah. It's, and the rules kind of change every now and then, but, um, but one of the rules that stays the same is protection where, we always use protection. Um, one, the one couple that we had sex with like five or six times, um, um, um, um, um, the one, the one couple that we had sex with like five or six times, we ended up not using protection with them the last couple of times. Right. But everybody else that we've been with, we've used protection. So that's our hard and fast rule is that one.

As far as everything else is concerned, really, it's, I don't know. I think sometimes it comes down to like a respect thing. like I don't really think John would like seeing a guy like totally full on make out with me you know but has he ever but I know that you said you like you don't mind the sex with him with another woman you guys have you've seen him fuck other girls in front of you yes is it like he's not allowed to kiss them because sometimes in the heat of passion shit goes down right or they do you does he is he allowed or does that is that a thing that you've talked about he's allowed he's allowed to do whatever he wants and

one of the things that we're both really mindful of, I guess, is that in the heat of the moment, it's different. Like, in the heat of the moment, like things, like you said, things go down or it's different. And we're both very aware of that, that like, that doesn't, that doesn't mean anything. Yeah, but has it ever, have you ever looked over and saw him, like, making out with a girl and it made you jealous? Or does it typically not happen? I mean, have you. I have looked over.

Yes. I have looked over when we're both when like I'm getting fucked and he's fucking her like doggy style or whatever. And I've looked over and like seen him like like kiss her neck or something and that would like, like get to me a little bit. Yeah. But I just kind of turn the other way. I just kind of turn the other way and can really get out of it and enjoy the moment because I'm one of those girls who like like I said, I really like sex. Yeah, yeah. And you don't want to like you said, ruin the moment. You just want to ruin the moment.

Yeah, and it is, like I said, in the heat of the moment. And so I don't, I don't think like he means anything by it or he's going to go be with her or something. Or he like loves her because he kissed her neck or something like that. But you don't have conversation with him afterwards saying like, hey, listen, that bothered me. Like don't do that or anything. I mean, have you had, because I do know that like with couples, other couples that have called him that to swing or have open relationships. You know, it's not always so perfect. Jealousy does come into play sometimes.

It does, dude. Girl, it does. Right. Jealousy does come into play. And then I think, okay, so like the other day, this guy, Matt, was going to come over and he was going to fuck me. And I had had sex with this guy, Matt, many times before. Okay. And so before John, too.

Before my boyfriend. And so, but Matt, I have, you know, he's kind of like family friend. I've known him forever. I wouldn't be comfortable with John being in the closet with Matt here because Matt's one of those guys where he'd probably like open my closet and go, what's the fucking going here? Like he's one of those guys like family. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, so I had told John, like, I'm not really cool with like you, like, I'll fuck Matt and like tell you about it and stuff and you can lick my pussy afterwards and whatever.

but like I'm not comfortable with you being here while I'm fucking him. So in the past, John has gone and waited out in the truck in the front yard. While I fuck Matt at the house and then make Matt leave and then John comes in and, you know, licks my pussy or fucks me or whatever. Well, like Matt had said he was going to bring over whipped cream and like That's not jealousy. That's like thought, right?

And I had asked John like, how does that make you feel? And he was like, well, you know, makes me feel a little bit jealous. Oh, okay, right, right. The whipped cream and the and the syrup where it's a little bit more intimate. It's not just a fuck. It's more like now we're going to get playful and have fun. And you know him and you've known him. Yeah, you know, like that kind of happens.

But I don't think John gets jealous nearly as much as I do. Right. I mean, I'm a girl and I definitely, definitely not like the most jealous girl because I let him fuck other women, right? Yeah. But, but, so I try to be mindful of that too. I'm not an asshole. But I definitely do get jealous because I want to make sure that he's mine. And again, because there's no like commitment there.

I just want to make sure that we're in a committed relationship, you know? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. And you know, and you just want to make sure. sure that there's no relationship coming out of him hooking up with these girls like outside of the sex part of it right like with the text yeah and i don't think that that's the case at all because when i when i really think about it when i really when i really think about it in my heart i know that

he's with me you know what i mean and in my head like i know that he's with me right um and so i don't think by any means any shape or form he's like looking for another relationship out of these fucking fucking these other women by any means. Right. You know, I just want to make sure with that unicorn girl that she's not thinking that. You know? Right. I mean, that's the problem because like if you find a girl and she's single, right?

I think that's the thing that people worry about because like, so if that girl comes in and starts have sex, is she going to start liking your guy? What's the deal? You know, what's going to sort of happen. So. Yeah. And then again, they like to communicate more, the women. Right.

They want to get to know you more. Right. And I'm like, okay, you don't need to get to know him. him. It's cool. You can talk him, but you don't need to get to know him. Right, right, right. Well, you're guys going to hear this episode and he's going to hear us talking about the whole marriage thing. So maybe that'll get the conversation going. I mean, does he know, I'm assuming he knows that you want to be married and he's just not into it right now? He knows, yeah. It's just, he's just not into it. And it's, but I don't know. I mean, also, it's, I'm not counting my chickens or anything like that either. I mean, anything can happen. Right.

It is what it is. I mean, you know, if it works out great and if it doesn't, it doesn't. But, you know, it's a positive relationship for me right now. Yeah. And if it didn't work out for you, right? Like, say, worst case scenario for some reason. I was going to ask this before, regardless of what you're with this guy, having a relationship like this where you're with somebody, right?

And like you said, it's like cliche or whatever. But the minute you met him, you were really able to be really yourself and open about it. And you guys are straight up and you're not monogamous. at all with each other right you're open you're with other people and him in a relationship like would you be able to go have like you know if things that don't work out with him would you have to find another guy to have this kind of open relationship or do you think you could go back to ever having like a quote unquote monogamous relationship or would this be the kind of relationship you'd always seek out now so I've thought about that before like if I would want to go back

to a monogamous relationship and I don't I know I don't see myself ever being satisfied necessarily in a monogamous relationship. But I don't know. I mean, I guess as you get older, maybe it could be like that. Maybe it's like, I don't know if your sex drive gets less or whatever, like as you get older. But my answer right now would be no. I couldn't see myself looking for a monogamous relationship. I would look for a relationship where I could be honest again and where I could

not necessarily fuck just other men in front of him but definitely would be interested in doing like the couples thing together and the swap thing together because I enjoy that the most right that's what you like the most

the couples I do I like that the most it's a good shared experience for me and again I feel like we can talk about it a lot afterwards communicate with the couple together again the girl in the relationship the other relationship is not looking for another relationship. She's married.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. That takes a lot. That takes all of that off the table, which I think is very helpful. Yeah, totally. It takes a lot. And for me, then it's just about the fun of it. It's just about the sex. It's about the experience, which is cool for me.

That's what I think it's fun. Yeah, that makes sense. That would make sense. And I think, like I said, I think, you know, you guys are a new relationship. It's two years in. You know, 10 years from now, you might be more trusting. I mean, because you guys could be married then or not married, but just with each other for so long that you feel different. Who knows?

But like right now, you know what works for you. You know what doesn't work for you. And I think that that's what's most important. It's just being honest about where you're at and what you're into. There's no right or wrong. You know what I mean? Yeah. What's right is the most important thing, I think, is that you're honest with yourself.

There's no reason to torture yourself if something doesn't feel right for you, you know? And so. Yeah. Like, and I be, and it's cool that I can tell him, hey, I'm not really good with that. Or that doesn't turn me on. Right. Like, if, you know, if I can tell him, hey, that doesn't turn me on, he might be a little fift.

Maybe I can give him a day. He could be pissed for a day. I really don't care if you're pissed for a day that I don't want you to do X, Y, or Z. But, you know what? He'll come around because he realizes that he has a good thing here with, you know, a woman wanting and liking to be with other people and letting him find. other women and things like that, you know, he'll come around to the fact if I'm not comfortable with something, you know, and then he's, and then he respects that too, which is also a really cool

thing that we can respect and, like, be truthful and honest with each other about our feelings about this can be a really sensitive subject, you know, when you're talking with one another, it can be really sensitive. And, and it's just good to be mindful and truthful. Yeah, and have good communication. So what goes down now that he's in the cockage, when do you let him out. Well, lucky for him, I'm going to be going over to his house after today. We don't even live together. We live in separate homes. So we live about 45 minutes away from each other. So I'll be going over there after you and I hang up the phone. I'm going to take my time getting ready so he could stay in there for another hour or so. Right. And then I'll bring the keys with me if he's lucky.

and let him out. There you go. All right. And then I think it will be hot. I think he'll think it's super hot that I could talk to him about your and my conversation. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Uh-huh. He's obviously not here listening, so it's kind of cool to be able to share with him. And I think he's going to like listening to it. Yeah, for sure. Another hot thing for us to talk about. Yeah, definitely. And then maybe I'll let him out of it. Yeah, that's hilarious. So yeah, I'll keep you posted when I aired. Women episode, female episodes always like get to the first of the line. I have a couple. I have a couple.

taped already, but years will be aired, not this week, because I already posted the one that I'm airing for this week. So either next week or the next, because I have something special for New years that I'm posting, but it's like it'll be in the next two weeks, three weeks max, you know, so then you'll have your other experience where you guys get together and you're going to listen to it at the, you know, Sunday night. You can make sure that. Yeah, yeah. All right, thanks. Thanks so much, Adrian, for calling in and being so honest, what are you? your shit. It's so interesting. All right, girl. It was a pleasure talking to you and I love your show. So good luck with everything. Thank you. Thanks for tuning in. Bye. Okay. Bye.

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