Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 384 - How to Keep Your D*** Harder Longer with Jeff Abraham

Episode Date: April 12, 2021

Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, calls in to talk all about how men can fix the orgasm gap by keeping their d*** harder for longer. Why is there an orgasm gap between men and women? How long is the gap? And, how exactly can it be fixed? Tune in to find out plus hear all about best kind foreplay and how it can make you better in bed, the barriers to better orgasms and how to overcome them, how premature ejaculation goes back to cave men, the consequences of suppressing your sexual urges, the effects porn has on "performance," his sexual experience as a teenager with a much older woman and how his parents felt about it, how his son once found his sybian, how he feels about owning a "sex" company, why he's never been married, life as a single dad, how he overcame adversity and became uber successful, the crazy circumstances (which involve murder!) that led to him to taking over Promescent as well as info on all the amazing products Promescent offers including the famous, clinically proven Delay Spray, the women's warming gel, the new VitaFLUX supplement and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Santa Paul or Thailand. You can't not do it.

The temptation is just too much. It's real problems. Do your friend know that you're banging her or no? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. The motto of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to rehire. your wits and chain. Here is your host, Kathy.

Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. I'm no longer having people. I'm no longer taping people. The only people I'll tape are women. So if you're a woman and you have got a great story and you want to be on my show while remaining is totally anonymous, send me an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast. at gmail.com or go to my website strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on be on the show. I'm taking a break. I'll probably start taping people again, maybe in the summer, but I'm just too backed up. I tape so many people. So many people want to be on the show at this point that I have

to hold off. If you want to talk to me on the down low, you could do that. There's a, you know what, you could do that on Patreon. I charge for that. But also on my Patreon, what's really interesting right now is I started a new thing where I'm posting anonymous picks of people. It's only $3 right now. You all you get, but besides getting the anonymous picks, you also get these. My videos, you know, you get my episodes three days early, right? But that's going to go up. If you sign up this month, you'll have it all locked in. Everyone that's signed up already, you'll be locked in at $3. But after this month, it's going to be a lot more. But it's a great new addition. And, and a great new feature. It's still anonymous. You know, no heads are being shown. I don't even let people

send me pictures with heads in it because I still want the people to remain anonymous to me. But you'll see people. You'll be able to get, you'll be able to put a picture to the fake voice and to the story. And, you know, I already have some pictures up of my most famous guests, Molly and Christine. Okay. So if you want to see them and then some go to patreon.com. slash strictly anonymous podcast and sign up. Today I have on Jeff Abraham from Promeson. Now Jeff is the CEO of Promeson. When I was doing a deep dive into Promeson,

besides being totally blown away by their products and all the information that they had on their website, I was intrigued by Jeff. I saw that he was on other people's podcasts and he was really interesting. He knows a lot about sex. I would say he's an expert. And, you know, he's not on here to talk only about promescent products. Okay, I would never put you guys through that. There's no cheesy infomercial coming up.

This is just, you know, like my other episodes, it's a conversation between two people and it's super informative. We talk about a lot of personal things with Jeff, because that's what I like to do. Besides hearing all about promescent and how we acquired the company, which is fucking crazy story. Okay, it's like a dateline episode. It involves murder. I swear to you, I'm not making it up. You're going to hear that story. But he also talks about, we talk about him and, you know, what he was doing sexually when he was really young and how there were issues with it with his parents and how they felt and the shame about it. We talk about his views on porn and sex and he's 63 and never been married. He talks about why he hasn't. He's a single dad. Like, I'm a single mom. We talk about that. And we talk a lot. about SCX. I mean, he is an expert, and I was excited, and that's why I was excited to have a mom, because he knows a lot about it. He has a lot of tips that he could help you, and it's not like,

oh, use my product. I mean, he has real tips about intimacy and how you can become better and bad. That's the logo for Promeson, and that's what we focus on here. There's so much more, I can't, I'm not going to tell you every fucking thing we talk about. You're going to have to listen. You're going to want to listen. The minute you choose start listening, you're not going to want to stop. So I'm to be right back on with Jeff. Hey, Jeff, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. I need to give your last name, your last name here, because you're Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, right?

Would you say it's a sexual wellness company? How would you explain Promesant? Because I think some people might. Promesit is a company, but we've evolved. If you would have said two years ago, what is Promesit? and I would have said it is the leading delay spray that came out of the medical community and now is more recreational. Right. But we've evolved into a complete sexual wellness company.

So that's exactly how we brand ourselves now. Our logo used to be promessent, you know, lasts longer. Now it's promessent better in bed. And our promessent spray is make love longer, you know. Our vitiflux is make love healthier. So you hit it right on the head. That's pitch perfect. They were a sexual wellness brand.

Right. And you have a lot of different amazing products. I was sent a whole bunch of samples. I am 100% going to try them out. I have my booty call guy coming over next week. He already knows we're trying them all out. He's down, right? So I'll have, you know, but when I was researching your company, because I did a, normally

I don't research people I'm talking to because I don't know who they are and I prefer it that way. But, you know, when I knew that you were coming on and we were going to, you're like an expert in this field and you're probably going to teach me a lot of stuff that I've I need to know. I went Googling on your website and did a deep dive. And I love, where I want to start out is I love that, you know, when I went on there, I saw that little video that you have on there. And it was all about the orgasm gap, which I thought was like super interesting. And I think a lot of people don't know about that, right? And so I think somebody, you know, because we're going

to start talking a lot about the, I would love to talk about the delay spray, right, a lot. And this goes hand in hand with it in that. And I don't think a lot of guys know. Maybe they're like sitting there thinking they have a problem, right, because they're always coming so fast, or coming before their partner. But there is a huge gap just to begin with, right? Conversation even out of PE. Yeah, right. Out of anybody who feels that they have an issue.

Exactly. Let's talk about the normal, healthy adult 30 to 35 year old man, the normal, healthy adult female 30, 35 years of age. The average man, you know, anywhere. between five minutes of actual penetration or thrusting. Right. So that's the average IELT, which is inner-in-jackets or a latency time. The average female takes 18 to 20 minutes of penetrating max.

That's crazy. This is the normal, healthy adult. So think about that. The normal average adult, a woman taking 18. It's a medical term. Professionals use it as the arousal gap or the orgasm gap. So what's assume in their minds, okay, to hear us think about his grandmother naked, you know what I mean, that a lot of men literally, that a lot of men try to emotionally and visually numb themselves because they want to last. If there's anything that doesn't belong in intimacy, it's anxiety.

You know, having intimacy is supposed to be about reckless abandoned, enjoying yourself, letting yourself go. Not as a man sitting there, they had a need for delays, but who didn't feel like they had. would fall into a premature ejaculation two condoms instead of one. You know what I mean? Like desensitize myself that I literally am going to perform cunnlingus for 35 or 40 minutes even if I don't want to because I have to get my woman that much closer. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

So that we start that do want my, and that change, a lot of men love the idea of that's now off the table. I can really, really work on, you know, enjoying this rather than have anxiety. he will also, some of that will transfer to the female because she will start thinking, am I not that desirable? Here's my partner, and he appears to be numb. He's not enjoying himself. He's not enjoying himself because he's so paranoid about lasting long enough for you to have pleasure,

you know? Yeah, yeah, he's in his head. It's in his head. I call it the layering effect. Yeah. Because what happens is you get layer upon layer. The guy, it literally numbs himself emotionally because he doesn't want, well, he's not that into me. he's kind of robotic during sex, then the guy starts thinking, well, I'm not pleasuring,

moaning and really getting into it because, and then you have layer upon layer. I tell people one of the best foreplay tools, one of the best sexual tools you can have is communication, you know, for sure. And discuss the issues that couples face, you know, while being intimate and everything. Tools in the proverb, you can, at a intimacy possible. Yeah, I've literally seen a guy's face change. If I'm like, wait a second, you know, I'm going to come like, don't stop. Like, you know what I'm, and you literally, I could see, you know, I'm not a guy, so I don't know what the fuck's going on in his head, but I definitely see the change in his face where he goes someplace else.

And I guess, like you said, he's thinking about football anything so that he doesn't go over the edge because he wants to get me there, but he's ready to go himself right away. Right. Exactly right. And the anxiety that creates, you know what I mean? That you have this great evening, you're in the middle of everything, it'll be unsatisfied. Right. Yeah, it's interesting to me because I always think like, you know, we're answering. animals first and foremost, right? I always love the whole animal thing. And, you know, like, oh, a woman gets really super horny when she's ovulating and that's nature's way, right? We're animals that we need to go and procreate. That's our purpose. So of course we're going to get horny at that time. Now, I know from having a baby and going through a lot of fertility issues to have one that, you know, to have, to have, to both orgasm while the sperm is coming in, right? That creates a better atmosphere for the,

sperm and embryo, the sperm and the egg to meet, right? So it doesn't make sense to me in nature that there's an orgasm gap. Like, why the fuck did nature make the male orgasm at a different time? That seems kind of like a defect, you know, because they should be together, right? But that's not the way that it is. But your spray helps people get to that place. Let me tell you, I feel like an amateur urologist having done this for the last 11 years and working with urologist, a lot of it, and this is crazy, stems from,

from even prehistoric times because we'd know that all men were almost, you know, early on. Uh-huh. Because there was a fear most people were making love outdoors. You know what I mean? Because people lived in caves. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And there was animals that would kill them kind of thing.

Exactly. Right. So your preservation led you to want to finish the fear of being devoured, okay? Mm-hmm. And then as we, a lot of times, religion gets into sex and people feel guilty. Okay, so from the time of a young man's first sexual awakening, they want to hurry up and get it over with, you know what I mean? Oh, right, yeah. And so they're training themselves late.

Right, so it might be an evolutionary process, right? It's evolutionary, and it's the society we live in, you know, and 15 years old for the evening. You live with your parents, you know, your parents go to the market and your girlfriend, oh, God, I'm going to her and pound this out, you know, for our parents get back. Or, you know, you have a blanket, you go out in the wood somewhere or, you know, whatever. So even in a couple's, you know, awakening, there's this feeling of I got to get this done before I get discovered, you know? Yeah. And it leads to a man thinking, I have to get this over with. There's nothing.

You don't have to worry about us coming in. We're aware of what you're doing. Now, most parents would freak out hearing that, you know what I mean? Yeah. And saying, oh, my God, my 16 or 17-year-old, I'm giving them license. to basically be a sexual being. Yeah. But we live in a society now that if having to hide things, number one,

they're not going to be the best lover that they can be. Number one, it's obvious to explain how to stay safe from conversation and basically green lighting, how to be intimate. Personally, because if you know your child allowing it to go on circumstances, responsible, you know, and to make them potentially the best lover that they can possibly be because you want your... Yeah, but listen, I'm not. talking to a whole, I mean, I'm 52, your six, are you 63, 62?

63, yes. Yeah. So, you know, we grew up in around the same time and I feel like a lot of people, especially in our generations, a lot of people calling into my show around our age, living secret lives and, you know, doing all this kind of SCX stuff on the download because we grew up in a time where it just wasn't talked about. And there's a lot of shame. And I always feel like, you know, because when I was, when I had a baby, a lot of people

were like, oh, what about your show? You know, I'm talking to people about Pantio's Fed. and, you know, cock cages and stuff. And I'm like, the only thing I'm going to do to my son is probably, like, ruin his, like, naughty side. Like, he's probably just going to be, like, really vanilla straight lace because I'm not creating, like, this whole place of shame in him that he's going to do all this, like, hardcore naughty stuff, right?

I feel like almost when you repress it more, it becomes more twisted, right? It's the old forbidden fruit, you know, thing. Yeah. Yeah, well, my son is wonderful, and I adore him. but he just rolls his eyes, people, and I love my dad. But he just laughs. He's like, he's a cartoon. Listen to my dad talking a little much.

You know what I mean? Like, for me, 49, I got a Sibiot machine. And it came to the house. I come away at college. But he happened to be home. And he's like, please tell me, that's not what I think it is. I go, it's exactly. He's like, oh, my God, I need to get into a 12-step counseling program.

You know, I'm like, oh, my Lord. Because it was just right there for him to see. Well, it came and he signed for it or whatever. He's like, what? Oh, my God, hilarious. And he was laughing, you know, and it was just one of those things that, that, you know, when he was of the right age, 16, 17, 18, and I knew he was going to be sexually active. I said, listen, I don't want you to sneak around.

You're certainly welcome. I want somebody. You know what I mean? Yeah. You know, that kind of thing. And I said, but you don't know what you do. I said, I grew up. up in the 70s. There's nothing that I

could do. And I remember my mom worked at the same place. And at first we would go in her car down the street, you know what I mean? Like off on some side road. And then we start getting more adventurousome and we were out in the parking lot and the night watchman caught us. And I remember my mom

freaking out, telling me there was something wrong with me. We got to tell your dad you need psychological help and counseling. And I'm like, hey, I'm 15 years old making love to a 21-year-old woman. You and dad ought to try this. you know what I mean? There's not wrong with this at all.

You know what I mean? It's like someone telling me that I needed psychological contact to a 20-year-old-old-year-old female. Yeah. It creates, you know what I mean? Why is someone telling me this is wrong? This is not only wrong, it's really right. Yeah, exactly. I'm sorry, but like you said, these parents that think that they don't want to talk about it,

I feel like the opposite thing happens, right? Is that, and that's saying what you resist, persist, right? So if you're telling your kid, no, or keeping it like a secret, you know, it's just going to make them want to do it more. And then it creates. It's going to make it more horny for it, all that naughty shit. Exactly. Yeah. And think of the conflict you create in your child, okay, that the first, like, hey, wait a second.

My parents are parents are telling me, you know, this is life. Okay. Totally. That something that they've been told is wrong, something they've been told is destructive, when they experience it. You know what I mean? Right. Like, it's confusing.

What's wrong here? Yeah. Because I want more of this feeling, you know? Mm-hmm. And you don't want to create that feeling of mistrust. Right, but then, and it brings up the whole thing about porn too, right? Because then nowadays, in our days, there wasn't a lot of porn available, right? If you found that one VHS, it was like hitting the lottery.

Now it's like all over the place. So if you're not talking your kids about it, they're going to go online. And, of course, right? And it's just like a free for all. And then what the fuck are they going to think? think about sex then because what's going on there, you know, talk about... I personally feel one of the most destructive things because I talk to a lot of our customers. I talk to, you know, we have this interactive chat feature and I work it.

Yeah, that's great. About an hour, two hours a week and people say, wait, you're the CEO. I said, I need to understand how people find us. I need to understand how they enjoy the products, new products, you know, that we introduce. And I go, yeah, think about it. It makes sense. And it does. I personally believe having access to porn at 13,000.

14 years old because every 13, 14, 15 year old kid now has a cell phone so they can call their parents one to pick them up. My five-year-old has one. Okay? Yeah, exactly. But if you have a cell phone, if you have access to the internet, you're going to have access to porn. It's that simple. Yeah. But one of the issues, and I believe this is a real, whereas you and I are being intimate for the most part because at 15, 16, 17, 17, you have hidden away or whatever. Yeah. But one of the issues, issues before they have sex. So for males, a lot of males figure, if I don't have a 10-inch penis, the circumference of a beer can, I mean? Exactly. If I don't last 25 minutes and getting ready to ejaculate, I partner in the dead in the forehead, you know what I mean, from 30 feet away, that I'm not ejaculating properly. For women, they think of Elizabeth Berkeley. You know what I mean? Yeah. So people are, they already have this unrealistic expectation. Oh, my God.

I'm inadequate. Before you even had a chance go, then I was chatting, I was chatting, and everything, and I'm 22. And he says, so for this, I last 25, 30 minutes, but I want to, I said, let me ask you a question. I love that. And last. There are artics.

And so I think a lot of men read that and go, oh, my God, bridge. You know what I mean? I'm thinking, oh, my God, I'm five and a half. I'm half of what I should be. You know? Because they would, they used to say like, oh, the average is six to eight. And I was like, that's bullshit. I've seen a lot of dicks in my life.

And I don't see a lot of eights. And, you know, I would say it's more like four to sex, right? I don't know. What is the actual? What is the real? It's, I think, 5.62 or something if you want to get that technical. You know what I mean? Yeah. And, you know, so we need people to feel comfortable because part, like I said, of being, the anxiety might be over, my lasting long enough, the anxiety might be, am I big enough?

Right. Is my partner having good intimacy? Is my partner orgasming regularly? You know what I mean? That should really be what the focus is. You know, sex is not an Olympic sport. being, you know, on the same, 8.2, you don't I mean? Yeah. It's climaxing. Doesn't climax during intercourse. And you have products for women, too, which I think is really great, right? So it's not just for the guy. If we began to expand, the first thing we did, we went into Louves, because a lot of men were telling us, hey, I was lasting 30 seconds, now I'm lasting 15 minutes. I didn't have a need for before. Okay, great. So we went into Louves. Then we went into condoms. You know,

we wanted people to make sure they were safe. And we did the condoms right before the pandemic, and we were giving out free condoms and make sure that people, you know, everything was locked down. Oh, right, right, right, right. And people really lotted us for that. And I go, listen, this is we want people to have safe, source or intimacy. So my boyfriend is getting all these gills out there. We did a lot of experimentation. And sometimes we laugh because, well, in female, before we introduce a product ships.

Because what better way to find out if something is effective or something works. Our delay spray, which is like a nitric oxide supplement, this is basically a gel that it's just external, you know? Mm-hmm. And the way that you have, sex, is too. Right. So, and then I can bestseller after the reason to fight a flow out, pre-workout, that kind of stuff. Yeah.

Because it increases blood flow. So this product has three amino acids, magnesium and zinc, which are the way this product and everything else. Yeah. So workout people, the way that wears it down and it grows back stronger, that's how people, that's why people lift. and, you know, work out very heavily. The way that you recover is by getting oxygenated, you're breaking down, and that helps promote healing. So it increased blood pressure, but it also decreases inflammation.

But now we get into why it fits so nicely for us and why it's been such a popular product for us. Okay, this increasing blood flow increases blood flow, the man to the penis, the female to the clitoris. so it while it's the same so it has sexual females when you get into your early 40s a lot of females and that's because your epithelial layer and your blood vessel females is a lot more naturally because of the softening of that epithelial layer and allowing that became our second leading product behind delay spray literally a month after we introduced it oh interesting so i have that too i mean your guy sent me

a whole bunch of stuff. I'm a big supplement person. I love supplements. I've always been a hardcore like weightlifter. You know, that was like my way of working. I know I know L. Argenine and all that kind of stuff. So yeah, what I always look for when I'm buying supplements, I'm always going like, how long should I feel like how long before I feel the effects, you know? When you take something like this, right, how long does it take to the last? Like when, or to start working. Depending on the person, when I started taking it and I take it religiously. Yeah. When I started taking, I noticed it within three or four days. Right. But I know. other people take up to two weeks before they start noticing it.

So what I tell people is give it two weeks because I don't want someone that may take two weeks to tell them three or four days and get off of it. You know what I mean? Of course. But I know if you're going to have, and about 75% of people that take it absolutely feel better, there's 25% of people for whatever reason who take it go, I didn't notice that much of a difference. Right.

And that must be just body chemistry or maybe they have a lot to tell people to give it, you know, that amount of time. Right. And, you know, two-week, feel something, you will feel it. Oh, that's awesome. I'm going to try that. I can't wait to start taking it. I'm always looking for, like, good new supplements to add in.

Well, you know what I hear from a lot of people? Alginine, I take L-citraline, I take L-carnatine, I take zinc. I'm carrying around four or five bottles. Yeah. I got everything I need right in this one bottle. And that convenience factor is huge. People love that. Yeah, I like that because I have already a whole bunch of stuff I take.

So the last thing I want to do is. I mean, I could delete three pills and just, you know, put in one because I do take the zinc. I take allergy. Yeah, exactly. And the funny part is, one of our urologists on our advisory board developed this product, and he developed it because a lot of his, you know, clients, you know, they were in their 40s, 50s, hey, you know, I take this, this, this, and this, because he had told him, and a real wealthy client he had said, you know, all these five products you gave me are wonderful, but I'm, I

feel like I'm carrying a mini pharmacy around with me, like a vitamin racket in CVS. Yeah. And he said, you know, can we develop this? And the gentleman, the physician we work was said, well, you know, would have to find a compounder and this and this. It's not that big of a deal. Just carry him all around. And the guy said, well, if I find the guy goes, well, yeah, this guy hadn't be very wealthy.

So they did it. And they're the ones who put this together. So I wish I could say we were brilliant. But this was hand delivered to me by one of our doctors on our advisory board. You have a pretty impressive advisory board, too. Like I said, I did a deep dive. But there's like a lot of people that, you know, you would just know my name by looking at it, right? What I want to know, because I found your story super interesting as well.

This isn't the business that you were always in, right? Like, how did you transition into this? A great backstory, but it's tragic. Okay. So I was a semiconductor recruiting executive. I had what was the ring firm in the entire business. Perchance to be able to retire. So my neighbor was Dr. Ronald, yearly PSA, my yearly physical being.

You know, as we were chatting, he said, you know, I know your whole story because, you know, I had a wonderful upbringing. I have wonderful parents. Along the impoverished growing up, it was a great, you know, didn't make a whole lot of money, and my mom was just horribly managing it. It was a, you know, chronic spender. And so it led to a lot of anxiety over children. There wasn't a lot of money available.

So, you know, I was bound to children one day the same. you know, great upbringing, but take the economic anxiety out of it. And I did have that opportunity. And so I was very fortunate. So when I went to see him, he says, you know, I developed this new product and it's not taking off as fast as I thought it would. You know, I respect your business acumen. Can you give me your opinion? You know, I know you came out here with two suitcases, and $500 and made yourself successful. Okay, great. Me, one thing led to another. I invested in the company. Over, we started having success and it was wonderful because this guy was one of the, on January 27th in 2013, he was murdered in a case of mistaken identity.

Somebody who had a prostate surgery 23 years prior at the VA decided I was going to kill the doctor, didn't get the name right and killed the wrong person. Oh my God, I can't. It was just tragic. So I'm right. You know what I mean? Like which is the most unclear here or there and you adapt and you adjust. One of the more rewarding things I've ever done in my life, because, you know, I'm not.

Because it's allowed me to be a much better communicator. It's allowed me to do something, you know, giving a legacy other than the doctor shot by the crazy guy while also providing for his wife and his children, you know, that type of stuff. Right. And it's been an incredible. There have been times where I'm like, hey, I'm supposed to be here because we've expanded. I mean, we've doubled and doubled again. We're going to double again this year.

And, you know, this office, that was our, you know, that was our, you know, that was our, inventory, so to speak. Similarly a month ago, we were in the Florida. Right. And pride that gives me to go, you know, I took a grand a year, and then we go and do millions of dollars a year, and now we're going to approach tens of millions of dollars a year. You know, there's a tremendous amount of pride in that. You know, I really feel what I've done, and I feel the reasons why I did it are exceptional

as well. And that gives you a certain, ring that bell if I couldn't, you know, do anything. or to give him a legacy by making this company so successful. And every time I do an interview just like this, I mention his name. And I tell people, this is his baby, this is his creation. I just had the business hundreds of thousands of dollars to his family a year now. You know what I mean? Because of the success we're really good.

Anything I can do to give him a legacy and provide for his family. Yeah, it was crazy when I came across that, right? Like I said, I was doing my deep dive. I'm like a Googleaholic. I just, you know, go from one thing to another. And I like to know things. I'm a very curious person. So, and then when I came to that story about the murder, you know, of your friend, I couldn't

believe it. I was, you know, and then. It's insane. Yeah, totally is insane. I am surprised I haven't seen it on Dateline. Was it ever? Has it been a dateline? It wasn't on Dateline.

There was a huge, happened. It was like on every news thing for a couple days. And then it kind of faded. It's coming back now as we become successful in this company. I see a lot of us in the news in the coming year. Some other things behind them. the scenes happening, the dateline, but about this. Planes, I travel a lot for business.

Now, I'm not during the pandemic, but prior to that. And, you know, you tend to make small talk, the person next to you and, oh, what do you do? Where are you headed, you know, going to talk to our manufacturer down in Texas, and, oh, what do you do? Well, it tell you every single time that happens like clockwork. It's an email address. Yeah. That is insane. Yeah.

Even though you seem like a legitimate guy, you seem honest and everything, we were on the plane, and I'm going, that's impossible. You know what I mean? They go, I went, I can't tell you how often that has happened. They'll go, church, that is the most incredible story. I go, I told you. Like they weren't believing, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, no, they literally go, this guy seems because, you know, when someone meets me,

I'm not spectacular, but I'm brutally honest. Right. I don't believe in hyping anything. I don't believe in, you know what I mean? The truth is the truth. It endures. It's romance, friends, how to be something you're not. And then at some point, if indeed, you're starting.

to have a relationship, you've got to go, wait, that was my ambassador. That wasn't really me. Let me tell you who I truly have now. You know, the way you build long-lasting friendships and relationships is by being honest with one another. And that is literally that, that's impossible. There's no way that comes obvious. I mean, like, oh, my God.

I mean, how insane is that? Yeah, and like you said, you couldn't have, you know, wrote the story yourself, right? It would sound too fantastic. Like, it just would be, like, not believable, but it actually. is, it really did happen. And here you are, the head of a sexual wellness company, like you said, right out, like when you thought you were retiring and you were done. It would be golfing, sipping at Mai Tai on, in Maui, you know.

And here I am working 70 hours a week. Yeah, talking to guys online. Wait, okay, how did this happen, you know? I mean, come on. Yeah. And so, I mean, a little bit more backstory on you because, you know, the way you were talking about, you know, you lost your Virginia at 15 and you, you know, or it seemed like you were always pretty open about sex because I feel like it takes a certain

kind of personality to get into this business to begin with, right? So like, oh, it does. Yeah. I promise you, it does. Yeah. You can't, you can't be thin skinned. You can't be a prude. Right.

I mean, we laugh at the company because there is nothing to have a double entendre. You know what I mean? Of course. Yeah. You can't be construed to say nothing. I mean, you know, like, okay, we got to really keep power, you know what I mean? Or, you know, we have to last. We can't be, you know what I mean?

Like, we can't shoot our load too quickly here. You know what I mean? I'm like, oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You know, I mean, you know? Yeah, you have to be super progressive and you obviously were, I'm assuming, right? Like, are you married? Are you not? Were you promiscuous?

Like, what would, what was your deal? It's really, I am really kind of a unicorn and I'm a one of a type. because I've never been married, but it wasn't because I'm commitment-phobic or, you know, have this thing, I'm never going to be married. You know, my goal, I was when I love kids, I love mentoring, you know, and I adore my son. We're very, very close. Married long-term. It was a wonderful woman, and it didn't work out in my father.

And so I raised my son, and it was my priority in life. Term relationships. It was born until I was 18, and each one lasted multiple years. But I felt like once he went to college, I had kind of missed out being the straight-laced. You know what I mean? Like, that was my early 30s, late 30s, my own taste, you know, but it was, I was a single dad, raising the son. And I want to say, went off the deep end. But I was like, okay, let me see what I've been.

Let me see what I missed here. You know? Yeah, yeah. Well, I like being single the rest of my life. I'm just not. Yeah. And I'm not one of these guys that look at dating 20-year-old. I love women in their late 40s or early 50.

So it's not, I don't want you to think. I think I'm like hanging out of junior highs, colon the junior highs. You know what I mean? I'm 63, but I love women 48 to say 55 in that age range because I'm a very high energy person. I'm extremely active and I want someone that has similar interests. Yeah. I'm like, why would I get married?

But the son means everything. Sometimes I think he's more mature than me. It's very intelligent. He's very successful and everything to give away 50% of what four years. Right. And then it gets taken away from your son who like, you said, this is all for him. I would look at it.

Of course, yeah. I'm a nerd. I have had tremendous success, but I have friends that laugh. They go, you spend your lifestyle than any human being on planet Earth, you know? Because I'm one of these people. You can only drive one car at a time. You can only live in one house at a time. Yeah.

All my friends have these fractional, you know, jets or they own their own plane. I'm like, Southwest goes where I'm going, okay? Plus, I can meet some nice people, have a conversation. Right. Why the hell do I want to be flying on a plane by myself? Okay. Number one is boring. Number two, I'm blowing a hole in the ozone.

My car's a Tesla model Y. You know what I mean? Like I'm trying to be responsible, show people have a good carbon footprint, you know, that kind of stuff. So to me, I'm proud that, you know, when I was doing my trust and everything, my accountant's like, well, what about this? What about that? I go, everything's going on my son. Everything I go, every. And he's made me so proud because even all my friends, he's met a kid like your son, he's wonderful.

And, you know, that gives you as a boy, you know? And he's successful in his own right. But I've worked hard for what I have. I wanted to go, objection to that. And I would be a very generous person. We're going to live a great life. And, you know, upon my demise, if it happened to be seen, because, you know, giving you 50% of what it took me 63 years to save up, you know.

Right, after a couple years. I would want that person to have the same lifestyle that we had. If, say, I had a partner for the next 20 years, hopefully I'm knocking on to what I live that long, you know? Yeah. want them to maintain the same lifestyle. But people go, how do you know much wealth? And I go, well, number one, when I was in those primary earning years, I wasn't out flying all over the world.

I was a single dad raising a son. I was a PTA dad. You know what I mean? I mean, all this money, and I had this company. And then that's why, 53, I woke up. I'm like, I never have to work another day in my life. I'm done with this, you know? Yeah.

And then I get sucked back in working harder. Insane. And the crazy part was I kept getting more and more. And the company had massive value, you know? So seeing it wisely, so it started multiplying. Right. Yeah. So I feel very fortunate.

So we're in a position now that, you know, I just want to bring this thing to the finish line that then can reach the full potential because, you know, we're opening up, you know, a lot of new retailers that are carrying. You want to be in a position time. I'm not coming back. All right. Yeah. taking yoga, riding my bike, which I love to do, hopefully have a partner traveling, you know what I mean, spoiling each other, you know, and not working 70 hours a week until I'm 80 years old.

Yeah, no, I get it. Wait, this, the woman's thing, when you were talking about the female arousal gel, right? You were like, oh, if you put it on any, if you warm any part of the body, right, the blood flows. Like, so when I hear that, I'm like, oh, could I put, like, could a guy use it to, or is it just for a woman? It's funny you would mention that. because we've had guys tell us, you know, I used the woman's arousal gel on my partner, and then I felt this warming, nice sensation, and I knew it was that. I go, well, actually, think about it.

And the reason why it's geared towards women is we want women to feel like, yeah, we have products for you. Guys already have Biagra, Seattle, Elvitra, Promes, you know what I mean? Like try and make shots. It's like, do you have to, like, jack this one now, too? It does have that effect on men, and I've tried it myself. It does. Anything that promotes warming and blood flow is going to give someone a good sexual feeling. You know, there's this podcast called Two Wild Orchids that I've done.

These women that have this stuff because they are so hilarious. And the one gal will go, you know what I'm, she goes, I put it on in the morning. I just dab a little on my coutreus and on my involvement and everything because just during the day, I love to feel sexual. I love that feeling of warmth, anticipation when I get home, whether I'm going to be masturbating or my partner's coming over. You know what I mean? Yeah.

She goes, I feel like it's an eight to ten hour foreplay, and I start laughing. I'm like, you know, why don't more people think like that? Yeah, totally. Good intimacy, good sex can be a whole day thing. It can be, you know, texting this evening, setting the mood, feeling more sexual, feeling more aroused during the day, which is going to lead to a heightened intimacy later on that day. Isn't that what, like, being sexy is all about?

I've always felt like, you know, if you really fucking love sex, you're going to be sexy. Like, that's what we smell from across the room in somebody, right? I think as men, a lot of people get into this mindset that sex start penetration or sex starts when you kiss your partner and your whole mind is going, okay, I got to get, you know what I mean? I've got to get to the promised land. You know what I mean? Yeah. I want to feel that orgasm.

And I tell people, take us feeling it in the atmosphere. afternoon if you know you're going to be intimate that evening. You know what I mean? And prepare for that. And, you know, when you come home at the end of day, what you mean? Right. Give them a slap on the behind. You know what I mean?

And let them know that you're turned on by them. Because one of the best things, asexual being, and especially if you're a male, tend to be more, be unselfish. Right. The best way to be selfish by being unselfish. Because it really and truly cherish her woman and make her feel a, he makes it. Right. So by being self, being unselfish, you're going to make sure.

Mm-hmm. Yeah, for sure. Now, do you, for this delay spray, right? I want to get into that a little bit more detail because I'm going to have my guy use it. Now, he was like asking me questions when I was texting. I'm like, hey, I got the stuff you want to use it next time we're together. And you're just like, okay. And, you know, I'm like, not that you have a, you know, a problem.

You know, you got to be so walking on eggshells with guys. I mean, I don't know if you know how to bring these kind of things up. because I think a lot of times, you know, that's the block to communication, right? You don't want to insult your partner. God forbid you tell a guy like, you know, he's coming too fast. Maybe like you said he's going to get in his head. Like, there's that fine line with it. I feel like I'm talking to myself when I talk to you.

You're going to laugh when I tell you this. Yeah. So I do a lot of serious XM radio shows. I've been on sex with Emily and Shade 45. Yeah. You know, Taylor's. And a lot of them have calling are going to be women, even though it's a men's product. the clay spray and every woman is going to have the exact same.

Okay, we need to use this in our end up without offending my partner. Every single time. Yeah. People used to ask me, prior to this, I would say, today, the male ego. Okay, it is the male ego. Totally, yes. And just the fact that women, every single one that goes, we need this goes, make it a, okay, we're going to get a feather duster, you know, a riding crop, a blindfold.

hold, and then promescence part of this package, you know, like, we're going to have this once you're never, ever going to have to tell him, hey, for this reason, guys love to feel like they're the master's. Mm-hmm. You know? Yeah. If you go into another couple, you go, okay, we're going to watch TV tonight. Who's the guy?

Being in control. Mm-hmm. So most of the anxiety over whether it's coming to where that's no longer an issue, they're like, oh my god someone just let me out of prison you know what i mean like yeah and finish important thing is you can't say you're not lasting long enough you don't satisfy me here or use this because a guy's gonna literally feel defensive and shrink from that kind of conversation exactly right but if you frame the convert have this fan like this is an issue it's one of four see it's like give him this what i mean yeah and feel like oh it's a part of it that you're inadequate and if you give him that

opportunity to bring it up again, he's going to make sure. So that's the important part. He'll feel empowered by that control that he has. You're inadequate. You're not satisfying. Right, right. Now, let me ask you this because, you know, so you spray this on, right? I think one of the important things for people to know is that it doesn't transfer to the partner, right? Okay. There's a lot of, and this is, sometimes people say, my God, I'm so glad I've finally used just because, you know, I had used other lichane-based sprays before, and they completely numbed me or if it's a woman, they completely numb my partner, they transferred to me. So literally there's two people, you know, both moving and thrusting, but we're like,

are we even having sex? I can't feel like everybody's numb. Right, yeah. And the brilliance of, and this is make no mistake about it, the one fact that the way to have an effective PE product, because when he was a urologist, and, you know, he saw people at ED, he had five issues, he had many potency, he had all these choices. People came to see him with PE. It was like, well, here's your two choices. You can take SSRI because one of the side effects is they allow you to last longer, but in some cases, you can't ejaculate at all.

Yeah. And you also get dry mouth, nausea, and loss of libido on those products. So I'm like, wait a second, I think I'd rather have PE, okay? So you can either do that, or you could try MLA or one of the numbing creams, and they allow you to last totally numbed up. Take lytocane in which sits on the surface. Tony Capamacho, who's an inorganic PhD chem, Lytocaine. When you do that, underneath the skin,

5 to 10 minutes after Applegal. Right. So you put it on and then you wait that 5 to 10 minutes so it doesn't transfer? You put it on, then you have a 5 to 10 minute wait. And I tell people you can put it on flaccid. You don't have to have a raging heart on to put it on.

Okay, that's good to know. You apply it to the frenulum, which is the underside of the head of the penis. And then you wait 5 to 10 minutes. Oh, so you just only need it in that area. That's the, Some people use it down the shaft, but that is the area where, you know, number of the frenulum, the underside of the penis. And now my second question about it is, you know, so say, so I put it on my partner, right?

He gets a heart on it. And now I'm finished, right? And now can he turn it off like when he wants? Like, I mean, you were saying it doesn't stop him from ejaculating, right? Oh, no, you still will ejaculate. Right. Absolutely. Mm-hmm.

But it takes a way that over the edge where now I'm ready to finish. Right. And you, with a lot of men, you know what I'm sure you mean? Yeah. So it means a much greater finish. Right. So it's just taking the edge off. It's not going to numb them out.

That's exactly. That's the phrase that, you know, actually we should probably make that our tagline, take the edge off, you know? Right. And that's all that it does so that you could still come whenever you want. But like you said, have more, a little bit more control. You have more control. It gives you the power of deciding when you're going to finish it.

Right, right. I'm as honest as you are. So, you know, I can't wait to give my personal recommendation for it, right? No, and we want that. We want, you know, Emily Moore, sex with Emily and Dr. Laura Berman and, you know, Rina Mollick, you know, the urologists and, you know, all these people we work with. We tell them, you know, we want you to try these products. We want you to try the lube, whether it's organic.

We want your people that give your audience. When you go, I've tried this. It works. You know, I'm very happy with this. It's a great product. And it's important that, you know, we work with influencers and we work with podcasts or radio shows that connect with their own. I mean, it's like, you go, is there a show here or is this an infomercial? Yeah, yeah, I hate that.

Uh-huh. And it's really important because, you know, there are. all clean rooms, you know what I mean? Yeah. So we take a great amount of pride and, you know, we make all our products here in the U.S. and they're done, farmer guidelines. And they're science. So we want people to, what we do, to make product types and give them better sexuality. And your condoms, I love that you offer condoms too. I'm a big, I really promote, you know, condom usage. I can't, I always will ask my callers, like, do you use condoms? It's always one of my favorite questions because I would say nine out of ten times. They're being on.

me because they're anonymous and the answer is no. I think not enough people use condoms. I think I was always, you're right. I was always a hypochondriac and I always say like hypocondrious are the safest people to sleep with because those are the people that are always using a condom. You know, I'm like, if you're my booty cold guy, you're not, your dick isn't touching my leg without a condom because I know as a hypocondriac that I could get herpes, like with on the outside. You know what I mean? Like some people just are not thinking, right? We have ultra thin. We have ribbed. We have regular. Right. anything out there, but I'm going to be honest with you, and a lot of people don't realize this, probably 80% of the condoms in the world are made in basically three factories.

You know what I mean? So it's the same shit, right. Okay. It's, I swear to God, one day they're running these and the next day they're running. With the difference. It is the craziest thing. Okay. Now, there are some out there that have their own, you know, lines, and those tend to be the ones

that are substandard because they're made. You know what I mean? Yeah. Uh-huh. outside of that. But for anyone to say we have this revolutionary condom, it's better than anything out of the market is mostly market. Okay, that's good to know.

Because most condoms are made in the exact same megafactories that are like a block long. You know what I mean? Hilarious. You know, you go, okay, I need $3 million. The next day someone else needs $4 million. There are some knockoffs and lowered level ones, but they're generally almost the exact same. They're coming off the same line. Right.

And it just depends on what they're. running. So, but I'm like you, I'm shaking two years prior to the pandemic. You know what I mean? I'm like super careful. So like you, you know, now if I am in a committed long-term relationship. No way. Yeah, you don't need that. One partner, then I will get to a point, especially at my age, because I've had a vasectomy. And in a lot of cases, my partner doesn't have to worry about becoming pregnant because, you know, some cases. So if it's a committed long-term relationship, then I will not use condo partner. You know what I mean?

Exactly. We've both been tested. We both know that we don't have any, you know, anything transferable. But using a condom, I'm like you. It's like, you know, I don't need someone else's passed on to me without my knowledge, you know. Exactly. And because, like I said, I know, I have a lot of guy friends, women friends. I'm always, I'm very open.

People tend to sit across from me and tell me everything for some reason. And, you know, I know most people are not using them. So, you know, and if you're... Oh, I think condom usage now is 10% among people. It's crazy. Yeah. I know. And I, like...

I know people who literally sleep around who don't use condoms. I can't figure that one out for a life of me. Those are the people that don't the most. Those are the people that don't the most. That's why if I have like any... I've had like long-term booty call guys. I tend to like to be with one person, you know, even if it's not someone I'm committed to, someone I'm just having sex with the same person.

It's just more comfortable for me. But that guy, I don't give it. shit what you're doing with anyone else. But like I said, your dick is not touching my leg without a condom because I don't want to worry about it. Even if you have one steady person, you don't know what he's doing outside of, he's your steady person, but he might have three steady people, you know. Exactly. And fine, but I don't want to, I'm not going to be affected by that.

I don't have to worry about it. And like I said, I think that came from the hypochondriac part of me, but like whatever. That's, you know, one of my long-term beauty call guys was another hypochondriac. So he was very into it as well. So it was never a problem, you know. But we've all met those people because like you said, it's 10% that are using them that, you know, they just, you know, everyone's so quick to throw that out the window. But I think they're fucking dumb. I'm always like very cold condoms.

I'm one of these three showers a day. I literally, I don't feel like I'm awake until I take a shower. Right. So sometimes I'll get up at like 5 a.m. I go take a 5.30 spin class. I take a quick like I'm awake until I have a shower, you know? Mm-hmm. So, of course, after I come home from Spain, or I go take a hot yoga class, whatever, feeling fresh.

You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. Even if I'm alone, I sleep better if I have a nice relaxing shower before bed. I'm sorry, but I had a Russian girlfriend who turned me on to nighttime showers. I never took a shower at night. I went into bed dirty. And, you know, but I never looked at it that way until my one girlfriend was like, oh, I always take nighttime showers. I'm like, why would you take a shower at night?

She's like, that's disgusting. You want to get into your sheets with all that dirt from the day? And I was like, oh my God, why did I never see it that way, right? And I started to take nighttime showers. And I have to say there's nothing more relaxing than a nighttime shower. When you don't have any place to go and you're winding down for the day, there's such a different vibe to your nighttime shower than your morning shower. I highly recommend a nighttime shower. It changed my life.

I love them. I never go to sleep without taking a shower. And I tell people this all the time. generally when you're taking a shower, either in the morning and afternoon, you're taking a shower with a destination in mind. Okay, I've got to get the shower. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're ready to go do this. When you have a nighttime shack scene things possible, there's no destination, there's no hurry, there's no time constraint.

You know what I mean? It is almost like you're indulging yourself. Dan, there underneath and just, like, just feel the water coming down on me. You know what I mean? Yeah. And it is literally, I feel like the day's problems washing down the day's. drain. Yeah, totally. Yeah, it's a part of my routine and it definitely sets me up to have better sleep. I like getting into my bed. I know it's super clean because every night I get in there if you think about it,

right? I'm totally clean. I'm getting in my sheets. Whereas if you're like everyone listening to this is going to probably, I don't know if you're going to be like me, but when I heard it the first time I was like, duh. The water bills are going to go up across the country. You know what I mean? Yeah, because you're going to be like, you're getting in your bed like with all that filth you have on you for the whole day. And then you're getting in there. Like that's kind of gross. And I never, literally until one of my girlfriends told me about it. I never thought of it that way, right? I was like everybody else just take a shower in the morning. But I highly recommend nighttime showers. I also recommend promescent. People have to go to the website like I did at first, right, just to look around because you'll

be super impressed. There's that, you know, you could watch the orgasm gap video, learn about that even though you learned it here. You could see all the different products that you offer. I'll have some deals for you to offer. I'm going to give my reviews. of it soon, right? Because by the time this airs, maybe I'll have it, it'll be in my intro. That's right. I think it's a meet. Because you said in the beginning, oh, you know, sometimes I'm online and I'm talking to my customers. Like, if people want to go and ask questions, where do they, and maybe be talking to you, where is that on the website? Where do they go? There's a place that says contact us. I'm going to go one step further. I'm going to give out

my email address right here. No way. That's amazing. to reach out directly to me. You know, people tell me I'm the most hands-on CEO they've ever seen. And there's a reason for that. Yeah. This is a highly personal issue for a lot of people. And this is something you don't want to go into without having all the knowledge. So my email address is jeff.

Toh, Abraham, A, B, R-A-M-H-A-M-H-A-M-H-A-M like Abraham, Jeff. At Promeson, P-R-O-M-E-S-C-E-N-T-T at Promeson. Anyone who has any questions, I encourage them to reach out directly. You, I guarantee you you will get an answer hours. That's amazing. And I do this when I do podcasts. I do radio stations.

I've had literally people set an email go, this isn't really you, is it? And I'm like, yeah, it is. They're like, oh, my God. And I'm like, well, what do you think I'd go there and give out a fake email address. And they go, but yeah, but you might. And we have emails that are heartwarming, and they're like disappointing my partners,

you know, blah, blah, blah, and this changed my life, or, you know, Vitiflux, you know, my wife and I feel like we're, you know, whatever again. On one hand, it's invigorating. On one hand, you go, that's great. We help this guy. But at the same time, I go, think about how many people that are suffering in silence. Think about how many people that aren't listening to this podcast, that podcast, that literally have given up and aren't searching anymore because they've been disappointed so many times.

So for me, as long as I'm running this company, I'm going to be accessible and approachable, 12 years that I've been able to accumulate me in my life, being in any, to use what you've learned so that it makes the path coming down that same path. Exactly. At the end of the day, you are helping people. And I know, like when it comes to sex, right, I have this podcast and people could look at just the titles. They never listened to my show and be like, oh, you have like a dirty sex show or whatever you want to kind of judge me. But if you really listen, I'm actually helping people. That's why I started my podcast because I do like to help people.

And, you know, I can't tell you how many emails I get. And there's nothing more gratifying than that, right? So it's the same thing for you. You know, yeah, you have something and it's a dick spray. But you're helping people. Like this is. We're helping people. If some of these, I should put some of these on the website.

Some of these emails we get are the people. out there that need something to help them out. Unfortunately, we've created, especially in this country, because I've traveled over Europe and Asia, and it's amazing how... I know. ...attitude about sex and they communicate. In some reason, in this country, it's like, oh, my God, you can't talk about it, you can't think about it, you get, what?

Yeah. I mean, if people worry in this country as much about having good intimacy as they do about their hairstyle and what kind of shoes they're wearing, everyone would be better on the world, you know? Totally. So I'm like you when people say, oh my God, we have this dirty sex. It's a function that everyone does, okay? It's important that we have venues like this where people can find out in a frank and unafraid.

Absolutely, exactly. People take it too seriously. You know, I mean, I don't have people on that are having sex with children. You know, I mean, it's all consenting adults talking about things. And these are the things that people do, you know. Let's keep talking about sex. I think it's super positive. You know, you are helping people.

I think that that's great. I'd love to help my audience. I'm going to get all the links and your email and everything will be in the description below. Thank you so much for coming on. I feel like I could talk to you for another two hours. You're super interesting. I can't wait to try your products. And you have my contact information.

I want your honest, unabashed feedback, which I'm sure you'll provide. I will. Sure, I promise. Okay, thanks so much for calling in. Have a great weekend. Appreciate it. You too. Bye.

Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story.

There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct.

It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories, 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th.

But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord, My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there.

You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access. to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous

Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.