Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 385 - Betty Loves Gangbangs and her Cuckold Husband Loved them Too

Episode Date: April 19, 2021

Betty loves gangbangs and her cuckold husband loves them too. How did they go from having regular sex to having ganbangs? How did she set up the gangbangs? And how many guys at a time would she "do" a...nd how many gangbangs did she have? Tune in for all the details which include how her second pregnancy led to better sex, how they became swingers and what they did with other couples, how swinging led to her being with multiple men and then how that led to gangbangs, how her husband enjoyed it and how much her participated, where and how she met the guy who helped her organize them, what was in it for him, how and why the gangbangs fizzled out, who is she having sex with now, where did she meet him, how long has she known him, why she hasn't told her husband about him and what fantasies they're planning on living out soon and a whole lot more.  To see anonymous pics of Betty and previous guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:19 So if you want to, like, get a picture to go with the voice, sign up for Patreon. gion.com slash strictly non-mous podcast. Today I have on Betty. Now, Betty's going to become super popular because Betty loves sex. Okay. She's one of those rare women who just loves to fuck. And she loves sex with multiple guys. So she has not, and she has a husband who's a cuck. And they had 10 years of, you know, a lot of sex. And because he was a cuck, it was like, like they started out swinging, right? She tells the whole story. They started out swinging. And, you know, doing that stuff. But then it sort of progressed into her just going out and having sex with guys and coming back and telling him about it. And then it progressed to her being with more than one guy.
Starting point is 00:03:02 And that's what she really likes. She just can't get fucked enough. So eventually she started to have gangbangs. And she had more than one. Okay. And she had up to six guys in her gangbangs. And she did that multiple times, not just multiple, like tons of times. She had a guy that like would set it up for her. She talks all about it. Okay. We get details about that. how they started swinging, about the gangbangs, what she does, what she looks for in the guys, how it progressed to that, how she met the guy that set them up. And then we talk about how it kind of fizzled out with her husband, that whole 10 years of them having sex with all these other people, kind of like fell by the wayside. And then recently, she started having sex with a much
Starting point is 00:03:49 younger guy. Kind of like cheating, but I don't know. It's hard to say she's cheating because she, you know, and so that comes into play. We hear about that story, how she met that guy because he's like 20 years younger than her, what they're doing together, you know, why she hasn't told her husband, whether she should tell her husband what they're doing together, what they're talking about doing together, which is her being with other guys. she's looking to, you know, rev it up and go to that same place she used to go with her husband with this guy, right? Because she's really into multiple guys. She likes to have sex with more than one person. So that's what she's looking to do with this guy too. She's looking for advice, like I said, okay? So listen to the whole episode. She talks about what she's looking for
Starting point is 00:04:34 advice for at the end and then go to YouTube and give her your advice after you listen. But I'm just going to be right back on with Betty. Hey, Betty, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm very good. Thank you. So, Betty, do you have a cuckold husband or a husband that's a cuck or a husband that wants to be a cuck? Why don't you explain? I do. Or I have had, let's say, in the past we have had a lot of experiences around that. So today we're, to this day, we're not really doing that. But we have in the past.
Starting point is 00:05:12 Well, okay, so how long you've been married for? Almost 30 years. Okay, and now how long have you not been doing it? Probably about 10 of those years, the last 10 years. So the last 10 years you don't do it anymore, but you used to. So how long, and so you've been married for 30, as you said, right? So how long into your marriage, what were you going to say? I was going to say just that.
Starting point is 00:05:38 So about, I would say the first 10 years, of our marriage. We were kind of vanilla. I think I've heard this said. We got married and sort of fell into that routine of like, well, we're married and I have to be a good wife and person and follow these roles. And it was really, it was okay because in the early years, you know, we were pretty hot and horny and did, you know, had fun.
Starting point is 00:06:06 But then it kind of got kind of bland. And then we had a couple of kids. and during my second pregnancy, my husband got really turned on by my shifting body. Interesting. And the first one, I think he was kind of freaked out by. And the second time, I think he just kind of got like, wow, these things are growing and I like it. And so we started to have, like, and I think we both realized you could have some pretty
Starting point is 00:06:32 awesome sex when you're pregnant. There's a lot going on there. Yeah. And so we started to get, like, really hot and horny again for each other and a new. way and while we were sort of in that stage and then after the second child was born and kind of growing, you know, kind of transitioning into like momhood, but also he was, we were still really hot and morning and he was, he'd start to talk to me while we were having sex about like how he'd like to see me with other people. And honestly, I thought that that sounded fantastic
Starting point is 00:07:06 after over 10 years of being together. And I was like, you know, I was like, you know, I, I'd love to have sex with somebody else as well. And so we kind of started thinking about this whole swinger thing. So we started on that track, and we joined a website and started to try to find people. But it came about, of course, there's a ton of single men out there. And there's great couples, too, when we met some. And that was fun. But then over time, I started to realize that he was less.
Starting point is 00:07:40 interested in like having sex with another woman or whatever he wanted to watch me have sex or and then eventually he wanted me to go out and have sex without him and then come back and tell him yes yeah so and then we came back and had sex together so it was I I loved it wait let me ask you this did he ever did he have that same did he have did you want to see him do the thing or was it strictly like him, you with other men? No. I didn't mind.
Starting point is 00:08:16 I was okay with if he wanted to. I wanted, because so I should say that we got together very young, you know, the years that we got together very young. And he had never been with another woman. When I met him, I was his one and only.
Starting point is 00:08:30 Oh, wow. So that was sort of, so I was sort of, no, I had a pretty active sex life as a teenager. So he was definitely not my one and only, but I was his. and so I was willing and like saying like you know what you deserve to get out and see what else is out there you should do that but in the end it turned into really I was always his only one and only he really
Starting point is 00:08:54 only wanted to be with me and I really wanted to be with others as well you guys were perfectly matched yeah that worked really well and um it was I I never felt jealous I wouldn't have felt jealous if he had gone out And like when we did swing with other couples, I was happy for him to sort of have whatever he had. But honestly, he loved sort of putting me out there. And I liked being out there. Right. And then you had better. I mean, it did add like other people say, right?
Starting point is 00:09:25 It added to the sex that you had also with him too, right? So it's not just others. You're also now having even better sex with your husband. Absolutely. Because then I would come back. And so here's the thing about my sex drive, the more sex I have. the more I want. So if I had sex with one guy, I still want to come home and have sex with another.
Starting point is 00:09:46 So this is what started to happen. I couldn't get enough. I can't get enough of it. So then we started like adding in more than one extra guy. So then I started to have gang bang. Oh, no way. Yes. And they were so fun.
Starting point is 00:10:03 And he would come and take pictures. Okay. So wait a second. you're saying so much, but I just want you to just keep going and then we could get more specifics later. So now you're having gang bangs. It's like it's more than one and then it's more than two and then it's how many people are the most you had in one night? Six. Wow. And the same bedroom and yeah. And then yeah. So should I tell you how that's how that kind of got to go in? Yeah. So, um, so we were on a website and I somehow met a guy through, you know, this sort of sex,
Starting point is 00:10:38 app's website where he was what he would do he was an older man and what he would do is he helped women sort of realize their fantasies and so he would had a slew of men that he could tap into that were willing and you tell him what you wanted and he would he'd vet them and make sure that they understood what you felt comfortable with what fantasy you wanted and so i i wasn't i had to say I'm, I don't think I'm terribly creative in my fantasy life. I just wanted to have a lot of men and have sex with a lot of men. Right. Some would say that's very creative. Is that creative? Yes, it is. So, you know, they, you know, they, I would put on something sexy, like a nice corset and heels, and we would meet, he would organize it all. He'd play for
Starting point is 00:11:32 the hotel room. He'd bring me a flower. He brought me a rose every time. He was very kind that way. And he'd always get me, I like tequila, so we'd get a bottle of tequila. And then we would, you know, I'd go in the room, I'd meet the guys with their clothes on. I'd step in the bathroom and I'd wait until they were ready, undressed. And then I would come out. My husband would make me a special soundtrack. Oh my God. With like your top, your top 10 best songs or 50, I don't know how long it's going to take you to fuck all those guys. Yes. They were pretty, they were like, he'd find really sexy songs. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:07 And he would make this really, and some of it were like electronic or whatever, but they were really sexy songs. And he'd make me a different soundtrack for every time. Oh my God. I had a favorite one that I really liked. And I still listen to that one sometimes just to sort of remember the good old days. Seriously? Yes. It's a great soundtrack.
Starting point is 00:12:29 I can't wait to, I mean, I can't wait to ask you the question, why don't you do that stuff anymore? But let's not get there yet because let's just stay where we are right now. So, wait, so the first of all, what is it for that guy? Is that guy being paid by the men? He must be. There's no pay. There's no pay. He just, all as he'd get out of it was like, he'd say, well, can I join you or he'd watch?
Starting point is 00:12:52 He didn't even have to join, but I was like, you know what? I don't really care. Yeah. Because to me, it was fine. He was a polite man. He wasn't older and he wasn't like anything great. But I was like, you know what, I'm here for the sex. Right.
Starting point is 00:13:05 And, you know, and it's fine. So the more than merrier for you. Yeah, exactly. So he's usually just, like, he just really wanted a blow job. So that was cool. So that was fine. So I would do that as well as everybody else. And I liked having them all on me, you know, like going on me.
Starting point is 00:13:23 I've always wanted to like it. Like, I mean, we had great gang gang. You should just do it. No, no, no. I wasn't going to say, sorry to disappoint my listeners. I wasn't going to say I've always wanted to have a gang bang. but I've always wanted to really talk to somebody with, you know, that loves that. I mean, listen, we had Gang Bang Christine on, and I'm going to tell you, like, that was probably
Starting point is 00:13:43 the most popular episode I have on, you know, of all time. I had to go back and listen to that one. I haven't heard of it. You should, but she did it one time. And then she actually wound up, like, dating a guy. It's a whole long thing. It's, you people know of it, and they've heard it. You should go listen to it.
Starting point is 00:13:59 But, I mean, you're here to say, I mean, you top her because. you did it more than once and you love just having all these guys on you. I mean, did you realize before you started doing this and before, you know, your swinging progressed to this, that this was something that you wanted to do? Or did you realize it after you started to have multiple partners? So that's a great question because I think in my back of my mind, you know how like you have your fantasies and you think about them? Yeah. But I never really brought it completely, I never thought it was a possibility. Early on in my, you know, 20s, let's just say through my 20s, I never thought that living out
Starting point is 00:14:39 those fantasies was something that actually could happen. So then as I started to tap more physically into some of the fantasies, like having sex with another man, it started to make, it started as I just finally said, I want more than one, I want more. And it just kind of came on. And so I just sort of, it just kind of grew on itself. Yeah. And at some point, I knew that I just, so I knew that I wanted to be with two, you know, I love the idea of like, you know, having given a blowjob and being fucked from behind or something
Starting point is 00:15:12 like that. I thought that sounded great. But then I was like, well, then I still have a couple of hands left or I have, you start to like think about like, what else could I do, you know? And I just, I just really, and the thing, so I have played with other, with women as well. In the past, like, when we were a couple of. but the truth is, is I'm very, very into men. Right.
Starting point is 00:15:33 I'm just very into men. And so while I admire women's bodies, I've liked, you know, some of the women I've been with, I've enjoyed a lot. I mostly like them as persons. Uh-huh. Whereas the men, I don't even care about their names. Hilarious. I have no interest in a relationship with them.
Starting point is 00:15:52 Right. I don't want to, I don't even care what's like above the belly button, really. Right, right. it's strictly like it's their cocks that's what you're like that's what you want you want them to service you you want them in your mouth in your pussy do you do you do anal too are you doing double pen some of yes i was a little i'm not i just say i'm not as experienced as that at that but i did want that and i did get that and yeah it was fun yes i was a little nervous about it because it's not something that i did on a regular basis. My husband and I never really, we did that a few times, but it wasn't part of our regular
Starting point is 00:16:28 sexual relationship. So I was a little nervous. But I made it clear in one of my fantasies that I wanted that and that I wanted somebody that would, you know, really know how to do that well. Right. I think you need to kind of know what you're doing. Yeah. Yeah. Especially if you already have something in your pussy, you got to make sure that you have, you know, something, somebody that's, you know, good. So this guy set that up for you in one of the gang bangs or when you were with two guys? He set up with a gang bang. It was a gang bang. Right. So yeah, he set it up. He was very, and so he was like, he really vetted them. Like I want, I didn't, I didn't, I wanted people who, I like to be treated nicely. Right.
Starting point is 00:17:07 So I don't want anybody calling me like a dirty slut or something like that. Yeah, yeah. Like that kind of stuff. Call me beautiful, sexy, hot. Right. Bring you a flower. You like that. Exactly. I like that. This isn't degrading. You're not into being degraded. Not at all. Right. You're like the queen. I'm in control. I'm the queen.
Starting point is 00:17:26 That's exactly what I want. I want to be the queen. Yeah. And I want to be in control. I want to be, you know, I want to be worshipped. And I will totally give it back. The more they do, the more I will do. Right.
Starting point is 00:17:39 So, you know, that's where I, what I enjoyed. So, and I did it. So the guy, it was a fake rose. He'd bring little silk rose. Yeah. So I still have them and I have six of them. So you did six gang bang. with him. I did. I did. Wow. Yeah, I was hoping for a dozen, but it just kind of changed. And I'll get into
Starting point is 00:17:59 that. Yeah. It's not, it's not that exciting. But when you would, so you were always, so like, as far as like physical features of the guys, I mean, did you have any preference or was it kind of like whoever wanted to show up could as long as they had that thing were, you know, as long as they were, you knew that they were nice guys or, you know, what kind of specifics did you give him? Start, started with nice. Yeah. And then I definitely am, to more fit guys. I didn't really want to be with like kind of fat and chubby or even like big and bulky. I like kind of more lean. So that was like the one thing.
Starting point is 00:18:34 I was like, you know, the more fit is better. That was sort of, you know, that was the one thing. I kind of, you know, but I kind of had a lot of type. I threw a lot of types. I didn't really, again, I didn't care whether it was like facial hair or not. I didn't care, you know, just clean. and fit were sort of my, you know, parameters and kind. Right.
Starting point is 00:18:56 So. But what about dick size? I was pretty open with that, but I didn't really. I never had one that wasn't, wasn't like a good size. And there were a few. It was like one guy in particular that was fantastic. And I, so there were a couple of them that came out of it that we had over at our house privately later.
Starting point is 00:19:19 So that did happen too. Oh, you mean because you like them and you were like they fucked really good or whatever and you're like, let's get, let's do something. Let's get them on the side and bring them home with your husband. Exactly. Okay. So I did that with, I can't remember whether it was two or three guys. I think we had three guys over plus my husband who doesn't, my husband didn't participate in any of the gangbangs or right. You know, any of that. He just watched.
Starting point is 00:19:47 He cheered me on. He'd bring us water. So he'd be there. in the room. Absolutely. He was in the room. So now is he jerking off? Is he like getting or does he wait?
Starting point is 00:19:57 Is it just a ton of foreplay for him and then you guys go home and he fucks you at the end of it all? That's what it is. Right. That was what it is. And he, you know, and it wasn't like I made him not do. Like I wasn't like, you're not allowed to jerk up or anything. It was just that's what he wanted to do. He really loves that delayed gratification anyway.
Starting point is 00:20:18 He likes that in his life with all things. And so he was really like, he was interested in that delayed gratification. And I was, I honestly, even after a gang bang, I didn't mind taking a quick shower and hopping in and fucking him, you know, really hard. Like it made me really happy. I didn't want to do it without taking a shower first, I have to say. Right. And that would just get, that just delayed him. Yeah, but that just delayed him even more.
Starting point is 00:20:46 So even better. I mean. Exactly. There was a lot going on with my body at that. Would you use condoms? Oh, yes. For sure. Okay, always with all those.
Starting point is 00:20:56 Always. Always. Always. That was something that was a parameter that was not going to be. Now, there were guys that we did become more friendly with that we knew a lot about in their history and their, whatever, in their, you know, current state. There were a couple people that we have gone with that didn't use condoms. And to me honest with you, one of, there was one in particular, they're a part of a couple. And we adore that couple.
Starting point is 00:21:25 To this day, we're still friends with them, though we don't swing with them or anything. They became family friends. Like, we had kids the same ages and occupations that were similar, and we became friends. Oh, my God. Now, did anybody know about this whole life that you were having? Like, did you tell any of your girlfriends, or was this a total on the down low? On the total down low. So nobody would suspect it of me.
Starting point is 00:21:48 I work a job that you, it's like a prudish job, just say. Yeah. And I, I don't dress prudishly, but I don't dress super provocatively. Like if I worked with you, I would have no clue. This is what I love about my show, because this is like what I feel like. This is why I thought your show is the perfect place to confess this. Yes, because this is like what I'm always saying, because a lot of times people are like, oh yeah, I was doing this or that.
Starting point is 00:22:14 And we like, we met up at Starbucks first when we talked in the corner. And I'm just like, you know, This is the shit that's going down when, like, I'm in Starbucks and there's a couple over there, like, or in a restaurant, like, you know, or in a parking lot. You don't know what's going on in those cars. Like, you know, or the people that you're working with are the people in your family or your partner. I mean, you just don't know what people are doing. But this is the kind of stuff that people do that you would have no idea about, right? And it's not the people that you think you would know.
Starting point is 00:22:40 That's my whole point. And it's so important for people to know that this is actually going on. Right. I think that that's a thing that, not to share your secrets, but that everybody in the, world should know that like having sexual fantasies and desires that are sort of what outside the quote norms yeah is happening I think it's that's why I wanted to like call because I'm like if you saw me on the daily I'm a mom yeah I'm I work a professional job I I I'm cute yeah I'm not I'm not um you know I'm not a 10 I'm short I'm curvy um I'm cute though and
Starting point is 00:23:17 But you know what? But you love sex and there's nothing. I love sex. And I never had a man say no to me. Well, because you're probably sexy. Like they could smell that from a mile away. You know what I mean? I think that that kind of thing emanates from somebody, right?
Starting point is 00:23:32 Like I feel like you must have, you know, the right person could have, you know, got that from you from a mile away. Yes. Right? I hope so because I think that's how it works. Because I mean, you know, yeah. Because I think that the whole stereotype too. of that women have to have some kind of perfect body to be out doing this.
Starting point is 00:23:52 Because I started after I had children and I got stretch marks from children. My stomach did not recover completely. Right. And yet nobody complained. Like everybody was like, you're hot, you're sexy. You know, I and at this point, I can't tell you the amount of men that I've been with. I totally couldn't. Count, right. No, I could never, never count.
Starting point is 00:24:15 I couldn't even begin to count. So, and I've never had, and I've had so many handsome, wonderful, wonderful men that I've been with. That's the saddest thing that I think that women don't get about men. I always had a lot of guy friends and I was always, like, had a lot of booty calls and I'd be like really super open and talkative with them and be like, oh, are you looking down there and does that look weird to you? And they'd be like, who the fuck cares? You know, so I just learned very early on the way guys were in that. They didn't care about the stuff that we thought that they did. You know, so I was always super comfortable because I knew that that's how they operate.
Starting point is 00:24:51 They're not looking at your stomach, okay? They're looking at your tits. They're looking at your pussy. They don't give a shit about like a little fat on your stomach. A lot of guys like that, you know. And I would always try to tell some of my girlfriends these kind of things because I think a lot of women don't. If you don't have good guy friends or you're not really open with them and they're not, you know, they're not going to tell you you don't know. And that's the truth.
Starting point is 00:25:11 Like you said, here you were not a perfect 10. But, you know, guys found you. super hot and attractive. Yeah, yeah. And I'm kind of, I think as I'm short, I'm kind of cute in a sexy little package. Right, right.
Starting point is 00:25:25 Well, you're going to try and send me an anonymous pick, right? I'm going to try. We'll have to talk about the parameters of what that has to. They could be sexy. They're just not, you know, not naked,
Starting point is 00:25:36 not totally naked, you know, that's it. So just sexy and no, no face. Like I'll, you know, you black out your face with the marker or you cut it off with the,
Starting point is 00:25:44 with the, you know, you just crop it out. I'll just, it's, it's, you know, easy. Just like PG-13 are just not naked. Just nothing naked.
Starting point is 00:25:52 But like in a bra and a G-string, it's no different than a bathing suit. You know, it's fine. Okay. Stuff like that. I'll try to find one of those. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, whatever. So they get some sort of visual kind of thing, right?
Starting point is 00:26:04 But yeah, you're totally right. That's the way it goes. And you're here to say that for sure because like you say you've banged so many guys you can't even count. So you've had six. No, were those the all, those were all the gang bangs? you had with that guy. He was the one that arranged them all. There were six of them with him. Yeah. So he arranged the biggest ones.
Starting point is 00:26:23 And then like I said, we had like, we kind of handpicked a few of them later that we really liked and we stayed in touch with them. And we had them over to the house a couple of times. Right. And so that was because that was, you know, I did feel
Starting point is 00:26:39 like we liked them enough that we could sort of have that arrangement. And yeah. And then there were also times like where, you know, so those were like the big events, but there were a lot, there was like another week when my kids went away to visit their grandparents and we had the whole week off. And we literally scheduled an event like somebody for every day of the week. Wow.
Starting point is 00:27:02 Your husband struck the lot, like he hit the lottery with you. And especially because he's like cuck, a cuckold, right? Because, you know, this is, it would be one thing if he really wanted to be doing that too. You wouldn't care, right? I mean, you saw him with other women, right? When you guys were swinging and stuff, you were down. But this really was the perfect match. It was a great match. It really was a great match. And it was really a, it was a fun time. And I will tell you, the end story is not quite as fun or because what happened basically, and I heard this from the episode that inspired me to call you with a cuckold male that you had on recently. Craig. Yes. Yes. You know,
Starting point is 00:27:45 your kids get older. Yeah. And then they start to become sort of more aware of your life, and it's very hard to start to hide those events and things. And then to add to it, I had lost my job, and we really were struggling financially for several years. And so we couldn't afford, like, to get a hotel or go out or babysitters and just all that kind of stuff, that lifestyle sort of had to go away because we just couldn't do it.
Starting point is 00:28:14 And honestly, now our relationship is kind of roommate status. It's very sad in a way. So we haven't even been intimate for a few years, which is really sad. Yes. Now, but is that frustrating, too? Who's the one that doesn't want to be intimate, both of you? Well, that's a great question because I think it is both. I think it's both.
Starting point is 00:28:38 I think to some extent, you know, it just hadn't been working real well. he hadn't been working real well. Oh, really? How old is he now? He's 56. Okay. So, you know, he's kind of, he's not that old, but he's sort of like kind of dwindling in his drive and his, in his length of time is kind of fast.
Starting point is 00:29:01 So we can't. Oh, well, you should try the delay spray that I just started promoting. It helps you last longer, you know. So wait, he could get it. His problem is he could get it up, but he comes too fast? Yes. Okay. So there's that, but that's just, I think also we have, we definitely have relationship issues that are nothing to do with our sex life.
Starting point is 00:29:21 Yeah, yeah. Just stuff, you know, we kind of are kind of going in different directions at the moment, relationally. I'm not really sure where it's going. But if I could put, I could put one extra little tibbit in there that sort of, so I went a couple of years, like we went a couple years without sex. I went a few years without sex. Yeah. And I was just kind of like, you know, I'm in my, I'm in my, I'm in my. I'm 53 now.
Starting point is 00:29:45 So like about when I turned 50, I started to think to myself, well, like, I guess that's it. I guess, you know, that was sex. That was life. And I was kind of feeling a little down and not great about myself and things. And then, and then recently I sort of met a, I have an old friend. I've known him for a long time, but not that long because he's 20 years younger than me. Okay. And so we started a sexual relationship recently.
Starting point is 00:30:16 No, your story just gets better and better. It's not so sad. Right. So suddenly it's not so sad. The last six months is not so sad. So we have started, so I've started it. But I haven't, now this is the part that's sad is I haven't told my husband. And I mixed feelings about it because I think part of him would like it.
Starting point is 00:30:35 And part of him would feel sad because I haven't given him any. And so I'm not really sure. I'm still trying to figure out what I should do about that piece. Yeah, but let me ask you this, why when it started to percolate between you guys? Like, you know, you knew him and you hadn't had sex with him and you knew him for a really long time. And then now all of a sudden you're having sex with him. I wonder in that time where, you know, leading up to you guys were going to bang, why you didn't think to tell your husband.
Starting point is 00:31:01 Is it because you're having these relationship issues? And there's like not such great communication between you guys because you would think he wouldn't, you know, you would be you would feel okay to tell him that's just it i think that if i had told him early on like i have this sexual tension with this person and i i think we'd like to do it do you think i should come on to him yeah i think if i had been in a better relationship place and i had just said that to him yeah he would have been like whoa that's hot and then i think it would have been a good thing but then i didn't so now i didn't and now i got this like piece that's kind of hanging over me and i'm not really sure if I should still fess up, if I should fess up in the current, like, or the past,
Starting point is 00:31:44 or sometimes, like, just say I'd like to do it, you know? Right. And then get the okay, then pretend that you just started now. Because listen, I mean, how do you know that that can't invigorate, I don't know, you know, spark things up again between you and your husband? Well, that's it. And we've been together so long that I do feel a little bit like maybe I should just try one more thing to see before we call it quits or something. know, because I've thought about that too. I'm like, do I just want to, like, get out of this relationship completely? But, you know, there's, there are perks to our relationship that go beyond, you know, the sexual
Starting point is 00:32:19 part. Of course, after 30 years together, I mean, right? Right. But do you think he, do you think, is there a chance that he's doing the same thing someplace else as well? No. No. Not a chance. Right.
Starting point is 00:32:31 Like you said, he was that, he's that guy. I have his one and only. Right. He's not interested. Yeah. He doesn't even really watch a lot of porn. or anything. Like, he just doesn't. It's, it's, it's, he wants me. Right. And I, and I, and that, you know, that's, it's a great feeling to some extent, but also, you know, I, you know, and he was, and because he was
Starting point is 00:32:55 always, and he was always let me go where I wanted, it were, it did work. You know, that part worked. So, yeah, so now I have, so now this, this, this new friend and I are, um, thinking about sort of adding in some more men. Because he knows about your history. Have you told me about the gangbangs and everything? Yeah, and he's interested in sort of, you know, like having another man join us. Okay, but wait, let's get the details about this guy now. So where did you know him from?
Starting point is 00:33:26 I have to be very sly about those details. Okay, okay. Now, do you know him from work or is he like your son's friend? I mean, like, how do you know this younger, way younger guy? All right. So I met him when he was a teenager. Okay. But he was not my, he's much older than my own children.
Starting point is 00:33:45 Okay. But you didn't meet him when he was super young and you, but you stayed friends with him on some level. Friends. We've been friends. We have a common interest. Okay. Together. Okay.
Starting point is 00:33:54 And so we've known each other through this common interest for many, many years. And honest to God, I have known him, so I've known him 17 years. Yeah. Honest to God never thought about him. sexually. Even he's a really great looking guy, but never thought about him sexually at all until like last October. Now, what about what's his status? Is he married? Does he have a girlfriend? He's single. How old is he exactly? He's, he's 30, he'll be 33 soon. Okay. So he's third. Do you know his parents? Um, not personally. Right. Okay. Cool. And so he's third. Do you, does your husband know him?
Starting point is 00:34:34 Very well. Very well. Yeah, not as well as I know him, but he knows him. Right, but he's known him all these years too. Right. And now where do you guys do your, where do you guys have sex? In hotel rooms at his house or? Let's just say my place of work. At your work.
Starting point is 00:34:52 But I own my work. Right, right, right. It's your own business. Yeah. So he comes over to wherever you're working on. Well, he kind of works in my place of business. So he works for you? Not as an employee.
Starting point is 00:35:04 Okay. we don't need to be more specific. So you guys do it during work time, like while you're at your business. Oh, after hours. Okay. So wait, so, and your husband has no idea around the time that it started to happen, you never told him, you're doing it always at work now. Now, did you start telling him all about the gangbangs and you're swinging and all that
Starting point is 00:35:25 stuff before you guys start having sex? And is that what led to it? That's kind of what led to it. Okay, so he didn't know before. He was kind of like talking about a relationship that he was in. Yeah. And with another, with a woman who was interested in another woman and whatever. And so I just started to talk about how, you know, people can be in open relationships.
Starting point is 00:35:47 Yeah. You know, sometimes that can, that can work fine for many people, you know, and whatever. And so then finally one day I just said, look, I'm talking from experience here. Yeah. And I just told him straight up that like their early, like not all the. He tells about the gang bang or anything. He found out of that later. But, you know, just like, look, we've been in an open relationship.
Starting point is 00:36:08 So as soon as I said that, he said, I knew that about you guys. So he knew that he had. So he said he guessed it. But so in our home, we have a separate building. And in the building, there's a second floor, and it has a bedroom up there. You could call it a guest room. Yeah. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:36:31 But I guess at some point, and he knew about the guest room. And so at some point, I guess I must have early on years ago when he was still like, young, young, young, made some comment about like this is, I think when he was like in maybe his mid-20s, I made some comment about like this being a guest room or something. Like for the guests, quote unquote. Yeah. And he kind of picked up on. some vibe that I
Starting point is 00:37:03 maybe subconsciously wanted to send out but not really. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, who knows? Because he totally said, I knew that about you when you showed me your guest room. But he called it my boom boom room. Like he knew,
Starting point is 00:37:18 he liked that. So he was always giving you the side eye. Like he always knew you were kind of like a freak. Like not in a bad way. You know what I mean? Like in the good way. Yeah, he clearly, and he said to me, did tell me that he told me recently that he said, well, I have to tell you that even as a teenager
Starting point is 00:37:39 when I knew you, that, you know, I definitely had a time or two had fantasized about you. Oh, my God. So there was that, like, there was, so there was this old history, but I never, never, never, never thought about him that way until all of a sudden he had broken up with this person that was, you know, and we've been having these sort of conversations about, you know, my open marriage. sex and whatever and it just started to become more and more heated we were working very closely together on a project and um and we were here a lot at you know at night and evenings and working and then one night i went to leave and basically we hug goodbye but then we didn't stop hugging
Starting point is 00:38:22 and so then we sort of opened that door up and did you have sex that night yes and let me ask you this because I'm assuming this was the first time you quote unquote cheated on your husband, right? Because you guys were always so open. Like, how did you feel afterwards? Honestly. Well, I mean, mostly fabulous because it just felt so great to finally have sex again. So there was a small part of me that felt, I didn't really feel the guilt I felt is that I didn't tell them. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:57 It wasn't that I cheated on him. I didn't tell them. Right. Yes. Right. Because it was very different between you guys because you were always having sex with other guys with your husband. It wasn't like you were doing something that was so naughty, right? Because you had always been with other guys.
Starting point is 00:39:16 Right. I didn't feel. I mean, I do feel like it's a quote, like you said, it's cheap because I didn't tell them. And I do feel like that's still not right. And I got to figure that piece out. Yeah. But like that night, I remember coming home. And it's like, I come in the house and my whole, my children are basically adults now, but they were around because it was through the, like, holiday time.
Starting point is 00:39:39 And so there was like, they were all there and I sat down on a chair and I remember just feeling completely fucked out. You know, that feeling. Yeah, yeah, totally. And I'm sitting there like kind of glowing and they're all talking at me. And I'm just. You're like someplace else. I'm like sitting there like between my legs are wet. I'm like, you know, oh, like my hair is a matted mass.
Starting point is 00:40:06 And I'm just sitting there in a chair thinking, here I am having this conversation with all these young adults and my husband. Oh my God. And I loved it. Right. And so, of course, because now your kids are there, your husband there, you don't tell him that night, right? Now, it's been going on for six months. Do you guys start like banging every time you see him? No, no.
Starting point is 00:40:32 So that we've been, I would say no, we haven't. Their timing has to be kind of right. Right. Yeah. The timing has to be right. The time, the place and time. I mean, don't get me wrong. I would.
Starting point is 00:40:44 Yeah. I would literally do it every single night. Yeah. He is a little bit more, I wouldn't want to use the word conservative because he's not conservative, but a little bit more selective maybe. with his timing and things and concerns for other stuff. So, but, and he is, you know, he's single but dating. So there's that, and that's fine.
Starting point is 00:41:12 I mean, I'm happy that he's dating, but, you know, he's trying to figure out, like, where that piece falls in. If, like, he's just still on the newly dating. So anyway, I don't want to get into his thing. Yeah. But, you know, I, you know, I don't know. I don't know where our relationship, quote, is that part of our relationship is going to go and when it will end. It will go away. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:34 I don't know when and how, but it will. But now you still, though, have to do these other guys. I mean, so when did that come up that he was like, I mean, were you the one that was like, oh, you know, why don't we bring somebody else in? Or is because he knew about your history? He was like, let's do some of that stuff that you used to do in the past. Well, I think partially both. I think it was kind of both. We were sort of talking about it and, you know, and he knows about some of my past and he
Starting point is 00:42:00 kind of said, oh, those are like goals for him, like to be with more than one person. Yeah. You know, like, and I was like, let's just do it. Like, let's do that together. I would enjoy that. And so, yeah, so we've been sort of talking about that. We haven't acted on, physically acted on anything. That's a very new development.
Starting point is 00:42:22 Right. So we haven't actually acted, but I hope we do. It's definitely, you know, something I'd really like to do. And now would you want to do another gang bang or is it that you'd want another couple? What is he looking for? Is he like your husband? Would he want you to be with other men or does he want to do a swap? Like what kind of situation do you guys going to set up?
Starting point is 00:42:43 I think he's definitely interested in having at least another man. Yeah. And then I think that he's would be interested in like a couple swap, which is okay with me, like I said, but I'm not that into women. Yeah. But that, but I'd be fine. I'm fine with sort of playing around with a woman for the men's sake. Yeah. And also mine, but like, you know, but it's not my, it's definitely not my motivating factor.
Starting point is 00:43:11 Right. But if he wanted you to do it and he was into it, you would go. Yeah. And if he wanted to be with another woman and like two women. you know, me and another woman, I would totally do that. Right. I'd be absolutely down with that. That'd be fine.
Starting point is 00:43:25 So, yeah. So I don't know where, I don't know where the story is going to end now because it's sort of taking a new twist and turn. It's funny because if it was six months ago, I'd say, well, that was it. It was done. That just happened and my life is over. Yeah, that's so interesting. But now I'm starting to see that, like, you know, that this time in my life is actually a
Starting point is 00:43:42 very great time. Like, it's, and people should know that. like you should make sure your listeners know that like you can turn 50 and still be hot, sexy and have a ton of energy for sex. Like I didn't realize it was just like hanging out latent for a while. Yeah, let me ask you because I think that that's important for people to hear because whether it's a man listening and his wife is going through what you are or it's a woman going through what you are, right?
Starting point is 00:44:09 What you were going through? Were you going through that time because you were in your 50s where you weren't as horny anymore where you felt like you had lost touch with that part of you? And did you think it was never going to come back? And then all of a sudden it was like ignited in this guy and it totally and you're like, oh, like you said, it was like there. It was and it came back. So I never lost my sex drive because I definitely masturbated like almost every night. Right. Always. So I definitely yeah. So I definitely never lost my desire. Yeah. So that, but I didn't know how to get it again physically. Right. From another person. Like I.
Starting point is 00:44:44 I wasn't, I never went out looking. So you were still super horny. Have you been through menopause or no? Yes. So officially I'm not, I don't, I'm, I'm infertile. I know that. So I'm either close to being done or, you know. But yes, I would say I'm menopausal.
Starting point is 00:45:02 I have the symptoms of menopause. But I definitely don't have like the lack of drive. Right. You still have your periods or no. Right. Well, I've had an IUD for so long that I don't know. Oh, you would. I have never had a period since my youngest was born and she's almost 19.
Starting point is 00:45:22 Oh, interesting. Because of the IUD. Yeah. So you would. I just have one after another. So I don't know. And I still have one in right now. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:45:30 And it's at the end of it's sort of life. And so we're talking about potentially removing it. But she told me I could keep it until I was 55 and that it could help with a transition for metapause. Yeah. Oh, that's great. Yeah. Maybe it has helped you.
Starting point is 00:45:45 Yeah. And so she, and I, but she did test me. There's a hormone level you can test. Yeah. And I'm completely infertile. Right. So that's kind of nice. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:45:55 So you don't have to worry if you do take that out. But maybe, you know, I mean, I think it's great. I think there is a definite thing of like, you know, if you don't use it, you lose it kind of thing that happens to women around that time that, you know, adds to the reason why they completely lose their sex drive, right? Yeah. In that time. but maybe because you're just so horny and you're just like jerking off every single day. Like that helped you really stay in touch with it. I think that that's important and was actually really good of you to do.
Starting point is 00:46:23 I mean, I'm glad I did. I'm glad I took care of myself on a regular basis that way. Yeah. But it definitely was became like, and I would have just kept doing that if that's all I had. And I would never, like I don't think I should have to stop that or wanted to stop that.
Starting point is 00:46:39 But it's so nice to have like your needs met an immemort. physical way too. Like, I just really enjoy that. Yeah, because it hadn't been from your husband. When was the last time you had sex with your husband? Well, we did have, we did have sex on New Year's Eve this year. Right. But it wasn't that satisfying.
Starting point is 00:47:01 It was very short and quick. And like, oh. Wow. I was thinking, I was wondering if maybe like, you know, having sex with that guy made you more horny for your husband just because. you know, you were going to come home to him like you used to. Yeah. Like, so it was New Year's Eve and it was just the two of us because, you know, it's fucking COVID.
Starting point is 00:47:22 Yeah. And my, in our adult children had other places to be besides home with mom and dad. Yeah. And so it was just the two of us. And so I was, you know, trying to make the best of it drinking some Prosecco. Yeah. And I was like, you know, I made some comment and he said to me like, what, you want to have sex? I was like, yeah, let's do it.
Starting point is 00:47:45 You know, and so he's like, okay, so we went up to the bedroom and we did. And it was okay, like, he's really good. My husband has always been great at foreplay, and he definitely still was satisfying that way. But then when it came to like the whole other part, it was just so fast and it was just kind of like, but see, I like the fuck. Right. I like to fuck. That's why I like multiple men, because, you know, once one of them orgasms and they're kind of spent, I want the next one to jump on and get in his play. Right. And now, do you have multiple orgasms or do you just like have one at the end of it all?
Starting point is 00:48:19 No, I definitely have multiple, but they're kind of small. Like I always thought it was kind of weird. Like I don't know if like I always feel like I should have these big loud screening ones, but I don't. And I don't like, I was listening to your other guest there just recently talked about the squirting thing. I totally want to learn how to do that. Me too. I'm right there with you. I'm going to download that information.
Starting point is 00:48:40 Yeah. Because I'm really curious about that. But no, I have like small, like definitely I have them and they'll have, they'll come through, but they're not like big loud screaming events. But you have multiples. I've heard that so, because I was never a multi-orgasmic person and I was always like wishing I could be because I'm like it just seems like if you could have one, but instead you could have like five in a row. But somebody once told me that when you have all of them, it's not like every single one is like an intense orgasm. They're like less of an orgasm, right? If there's more of them.
Starting point is 00:49:10 Does that make sense? Exactly. That's exactly what I experienced. Right. And also learning from your show, I also, so I can definitely have a lot of, like when I'm just masturbating, I have a lot of clitorial, you know, orgasms. It's just a fast and easy way to do it. You know, don't have to break out a toy or anything.
Starting point is 00:49:28 But I love being on top. And then I do have a good orgasm. Right. That's how you could orgasm, an inside orgasm. Exactly. You just got to be on top. I've got to be on top, yeah. And so that's kind of like my favorite sort of go-to, like to start.
Starting point is 00:49:44 Of course. Yeah. So when you're having those gangbangs and you're with like those six guys, how long did those typically last? A few hours. Right. Maybe like two and a half, three hours, I'd say. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:00 And then, you know, usually, I mean, I'm exhausted by the end, but I don't, I am very tenacious. So I don't stop until everybody's done. like I like I kind of think I like the challenge like I'm like I'm rising above this yeah yeah yeah you're the queen and I'm going to come out on top right and so you take care of everybody in there like you they're they all they all get to fuck you like you blow them all I mean absolutely what else is going down everything I would be disappointed if they didn't all come right yeah yeah at least come and then some of times if they're young and healthy enough they have a little reload you know
Starting point is 00:50:39 which I love. I love that. Right. For them to go again. So it's kind of like the younger men because like, you know, they don't always spend themselves out so fast. Yeah, it's weird, right? I mean, because I know some guys for many, many years and I know them when they were younger and they could do it so many times. And then, you know, when they hit like close, when they're getting towards 50 and over, you know, they're kind of good for one time. You know, they start to slow down a little bit that way. You know, it's not like. So, you know, now with your guy, he's, I don't know, to the boyfriend is the right word.
Starting point is 00:51:11 No, not at all. Yeah, what you'd call my fuck toy. Yeah. My friend. Yeah, your quote unquote friend. You know, he could do it. Like it's, you know, that's probably what's really great about it too, right? Because he could go and multiple times. Yeah, he definitely can, you know, yeah, he can go and then he can like reload and like fuck again and like that's great.
Starting point is 00:51:34 Like I love that. So, like he can orgasm and keep going. Like he doesn't get like, you know, I'm done. Oh, really? He doesn't get totally like he doesn't lose his heart on. Not necessarily. Not every time. Right.
Starting point is 00:51:48 I mean, we haven't like had like sex 30 times. So I can't like put a good average. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, you know, I can say that, you know, we've had some great experiences. So, you know, and I hope that continues. And I'll tell you, he told me about your show. So I know he's going to end up listening to that. Oh, that's all.
Starting point is 00:52:09 Awesome. But let me ask you this. How are you guys going about making, you know, the, like, what are you doing to make your fantasies with each other a reality? I'm back on one of those sites trying to find somebody. Right. Which is the sites that you use? Is it okay to say? Yeah, of course. Okay. It's adult friend finder. Yeah, I know. When, you know, when I first started my show, I couldn't, I'd have to find people to be on my show. So I'd post ads and then I'd go on Craigslist and I'd email people. And then sometimes, I wouldn't be, I wouldn't have someone for that week. And I would go, like when I really needed it, I would then just go on to adult friend finders. And I'd be like instant messaging people because I just needed guests. You know, this was very early on. And so I know all about that site as well.
Starting point is 00:52:53 So now, is that what you used in the past with your husband? I did. That's what we used in the past. And I tell you, like, you know, 10 years ago when we first used it, it was better. Right. Because then now everybody has their own niche, right? So there's, you know, there's grinder for the guys that want guys. And there's, you know, there's all these different niches.
Starting point is 00:53:13 And back then you could find, like, such a cross section of people looking for things. Right. So it was more variety. Now, I would say it's almost all like single men. And, you know, a lot of them are straight single men. So that's perfect for you, right? Yeah, that's fine. But I actually wouldn't mind if there was a, you know, I like guys that are comfortable being around other guys, too.
Starting point is 00:53:36 Oh, right, right. because you're looking for them to come into a scenario with you and the guy, right? Right, right. So, like, I'm, you know, interested in that, too. And so a lot of them are, like, on AFF, there are many of them are, like, straight, you know, they're like straight males. It's like a cesspool of straight males and a few couples. And then, like, you know, as soon as I logged back on as a new person, but as soon as I came
Starting point is 00:54:03 back on, it was like, oh, my God. Why? Because you're on there as a female, just a single female. Exactly. Exactly. And, you know, what do they call us, a unicorn? Yeah, you are the unicorn. You're more than the unicorn because, you know, what I've heard, like, there's another guy that's on my show a lot, and he's been on a bunch of times, and he's a cuckled guy as well. And his wife, you know, has long-term guys that she's been having sex with, and he loves nothing more than for her to go and, you know, be with them and then come back and tell him. His name is Jimmy's been on my show a lot, like I said. He always talks about how, you know, because there's a girl Molly that's been on my show and everyone loves her too. And he's just like, it's just so refreshing to, you know, hear women talk about how much they love sex. You know, that's what he loves about his wife, you know, and he loves women like that. And it's hard to find. It really is. It really is. And do you know, I mean, I have a lot of great girlfriend. Like, I am, I am blessed with wonderful women friends in my life. But there's, there's only one friend that I would.
Starting point is 00:55:05 confide some of my life too. Yeah. And in the rest of them, I, I just don't know if they could handle it. They wouldn't even, they wouldn't even be able to relate. No, they couldn't handle it. They would totally judge you. And they wouldn't, I don't think that they'd be able to relate because I don't think a lot of women are in touch with their sexuality enough to even, like, it's just like the tip of the iceberg is what most people, women are feeling with their sexuality. I feel like. I feel like you just, it really opened up for you. That's why I think like when you were saying like, oh, you know, when I asked you did it, did you always know you want to do gang bangs or did it just progress? And you're just like, the more you kept doing things, the more you're like,
Starting point is 00:55:45 oh, this is an option now and this is, right? It's just like the flood gates open. And I just think that a lot of women repress a lot of that stuff and a lot of their sexuality is so repressed that they don't even know it. And it's because, you know, I'm your age. I'm 52. You know, and so your friends are around your age, right? And they just, we grew up in. a time where you were a fucking whore if you like sex. Exactly. We were sluts. We were whores. And the thing is, is even in high school, I had
Starting point is 00:56:13 a boyfriend that I dated to many years in high school. And I saw him on Friday nights. And then he had hockey on Saturday nights and I didn't see him. And I had a different boyfriend that I saw that lived out of town. And I would have sex with both of them. And they
Starting point is 00:56:28 didn't know about each other. And I was like, so even then I had like I had to have like a line of them. Right. You were always wired that way. I mean, that was just it showed up really early on.
Starting point is 00:56:41 It did. It did. And you know, I, and I, I, and you sniffed out the perfect partner.
Starting point is 00:56:47 I mean, you guys really matched up well. I mean, that was a really healthy choice for you. And for him too. Right. I didn't know, we didn't know that about each other
Starting point is 00:56:55 early on. Right. But it worked. Yeah. So I'm hoping maybe, I'm still kind of hopeful maybe. we can find some kind of common ground again because we have a lot of history. Although things have been really, really bad last few years, just kind of like, ugh,
Starting point is 00:57:12 that just in the sense of like there's nothing. Yeah. So now I'm like, well, maybe this spark of newness should, maybe I should play with this. I think you really have to because like you said, what do you have to lose, right? Right. Right. The way that it's going now, it's not going in a good direction, right? but this is something, if anything can revive it, even though I know that the problem isn't
Starting point is 00:57:35 sex, right? It's all these other problems, but maybe this could revive that. I mean, this was something that you guys did together for so many years, but you haven't in so long, but so it could ignite something between you guys. You just don't know, right? That I think you should try to bring it into your relationship somehow. Why not? Because the intimacy for us sort of begins with the sex.
Starting point is 00:57:57 At least for me, like the intimacy is sort of what opens. the door, like the sex opens the door to other intimacies. Exactly. Exactly. So maybe other people need a different direction, but for me, I need sex and then that comes intimacy. And maybe, yeah. So I feel like if you, and maybe him too, I don't know, but if you introduce this, this could maybe bring you guys back together, you know, because it was something that you guys shared. And I think it can't hurt, but there's a chance that it could help. I appreciate this phone call a lot because now I feel a little bit like, yeah, maybe I should try again. Wouldn't it be great if I could be getting it from him too?
Starting point is 00:58:38 Yes, I think that I really think. And maybe it would also, I mean, listen, things are bad between you guys, but this is a man you've been with for 30 years and he's probably not so happy with the state of things or even with the fact that he's not fucking anybody. So wouldn't it be great for him to be horny again and, you know, and his sex life being reinvigorating like yours is like, would that be great for him? It should be. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:59:06 And like that's the thing about it is like the always awkward thing is I still care about him on that level. I do want him to be happy and yeah, I'd like him to, I always wanted him to be getting laid even though it was only me that he ever wanted to get laid with. So, you know, yeah,
Starting point is 00:59:22 there is that. And so yeah, it's interesting. So I like your advice. I might I'd have to. So I'm now, what do you think? What do your listeners think? Should I, should I tell him what I've been doing? Yes, everyone, wait, because, you know, people could comment on YouTube and they're all going to be fucking listening to this and comment. And you're bumping everybody up. I'm going to air this Sunday. Okay. You're just going on. I have so many good ones I've taped recently and I'm always like you're being bumped. But like the girl that has the gangbings that has had multiple gangbys that have fucked six guys is now, fuck it. I mean, it's got the cuckled aspect. Like, yeah, you're bumping everybody, okay? So everybody, you're looking for advice, right? Go to YouTube. Even if you're not on YouTube, go to the YouTube, find the video on YouTube and comment
Starting point is 01:00:06 below because that's where, you know, you could see them, right? You could comment back to them on YouTube. Okay. So if I go to yours on YouTube, I'll be able to comment and look at comments. Absolutely. I want your listeners to give me some advice. What I should do next? Like, where am I at?
Starting point is 01:00:23 What should I do with this marriage? because I know I've been like on the fence. I didn't want to give it up, but at the same time, I really want intimacy and I want regular sex and I want to, I want my needs being met. Of course. And you know, I think. And I don't want to sneak. I don't want to lie.
Starting point is 01:00:41 Right. So I think, listen, you have, I think this is the perfect situation and it's like presented itself. It's like in your lap. And so like you could either find out whether you're going to be doing that with your husband, right? or, you know, maybe that'll be the reason why you decide that, yeah, it's definitely not over. If this can't invigorate it, right? Or then maybe it's dead in the water.
Starting point is 01:01:05 I don't know. I'm curious to see what other people say. But I think, you know, I personally think it there's a, there's, it might be 50, 50 chance. Like it's, you know, that it can spark things. And I think that what you have to try. That's what I say. right yeah that's great i'm so glad i had this phone call please i could wish to get it off my chest and to talk about sort of my past life like that oh my god i we could yeah we'll have you call in again
Starting point is 01:01:37 and get more details about all that stuff because i you know what i always try to do on on a call is get like the whole story right and we just have an hour and i know i was late with you so you have to go now but like you know there's so much that you spoke about because you said you fucked so many guys you can't even count. And I only know of like six gangbangs with six people and a couple of swinging. So there's probably so many details out there. So if you ever want to call back again and relive some of that, you know, your scenarios, we would always do a part two.
Starting point is 01:02:05 But right now, let's see what everybody will say and give you advice. Thank you so much for calling in Betty. Thank you. I think it's not only important for your relationship and stuff. I love, you know, a female voice like yours, which is like you, you love sex. and there's nothing negative about it. You're the fucking queen. You know, the more the merrier.
Starting point is 01:02:28 And you're also a mom and you have your own business and you're everything. And, you know, there's not just a lot of women out there that know that they, you know, you own it. And I think that that's great. Well, thank you. And thank you for your show. I really enjoy it. And I'm going to definitely find some of those former ones, too, to listen to. I just discovered you recently.
Starting point is 01:02:48 Yeah, yeah. Go listen to Gang Bang Christine. I'm going to. You talked to. You fucking topped her. you'll say you're competitive I know you're competitive you'll be happy I am competitive when it comes to sex it's definitely my thing don't worry you talked her okay Betty I'm not a sports fan but that that that I am that's my sport I've often said oh my gosh I have definitely said that sex was my sport yes it is and don't
Starting point is 01:03:10 worry you won in my court okay like you're the fucking winner here and you'll see when you see how many people listen to it so thanks so much for calling in and go to YouTube it'll be airing this Sunday night okay and all week I mean forever people will be be leaving comments, but just be watching for them. Okay, I'll watch for that tonight. All right. All right. Awesome.
Starting point is 01:03:28 Bye, Betty. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically.
Starting point is 01:03:52 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback
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