Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 396 - Jared Loves Watching his Wife Have Sex with Other Guys

Episode Date: June 21, 2021

Jared loves watching his wife have sex with other guys and he calls in to talk all about it. How did they decide to start opening up their marriage? Did he know he always enjoyed this kink? Does he participate or just watch? Tune in for all the details including how talking about having a MFF threesome led them to the having their first MMF threesome, how they met the first guy she hooked up and what she was looking for, exactly what went down with him and why she liked him the best, the well hung guy she hooked up with and how far the went, the threesome she had with the Italian guy and his friend, how he got to listen in to her having sex with another guy while he was deployed and how he a video of it too, why she hasn't hooked up with any guys lately, how they're now thinking about a threesome with a woman and a whole lot more. Want to see an anonymous pic of Jared's wife and my other guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Now, to the guy I have on today, Jared. Jared wrote in and told me that he had, him and his wife had had some, you know, male, male, female threesome. It started off where they were going to have a male, female, female, female threesome. And then the conversation went in a different direction and it turned out that he, you know, wound up letting his girl have sex with a guy in front of him. And he really liked it. He's one of those guys that it's not like he knew he was into it or anything like that. He just went along with it. And then when it happened, he was like,

holy shit, I love it. And then he was deployed and they taped it or he called her and she fucked a guy and he listened and then she videotaped it. So he eventually got. the video of it. That happens later. But in the beginning, we talk about their first couple experiences. There's an Italian guy that she really likes who gives very good oral sex. Then he brings his friend. They have a threesome. He's always watching. He's in there watching. There was another guy that she fucked. He had a really big dick, but he wasn't as good as the Italian guy. There's a lot of stuff going on here. And then like I said, he gets deployed at some point. And she calls him up and he could just hear the shit that's going down. And he has to wait until he gets the video and then he gets

to see it. And it's really hot. you know, and then they stopped because she had some kids, but she's like thinking maybe she's by now and they're looking to do like a threesome with a girl. And if that happens, and when it happens, I'll have him back on to tell you the story. But he's a good storyteller.

It was very easy this episode. You won't find me cutting him off that much, right? Because he just goes on and tells a story and it's super interesting. His name is Jared. And I'm going to be right back on with him. Hey, Jared. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

Not bad. How are you doing? I'm doing good. Good. So, Jared, are you involved in like a cuckold situation? Do you consider yourself a cuckold? I know that you're here to talk about numerous times, I think you said, that you have brought guys in for your wife to have sex with. And then you even talked about when you were deployed because you guys were into this. She would like videotape or do something and like send it along to you. Do you consider yourself a cuckold?

It depends. I mean, I've seen multiple definitions of cuckold. You know, I'm not like the traditional sense of a couple that likes to be like... Humiliated? Yes. Right. So I'm more along the lines of where I'm more into it for seeing my wife being pleasure. Yeah. So, you know, I think that's still...

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think that that's still a cuckold, you know, because I know that, listen, I've had some guys on, and I have a couple I've taped that I haven't aired yet, where they do like to have that humiliation aspect involved. for sure, but then I've talked to just as many guys, if not more, who are like you, where they really enjoy knowing, they don't even have to be involved, right, or watching or hearing their wife being pleasureed by another man. But it's not, they don't, you know, it's not attached to being humiliated at all, right?

And that it isn't for you, right? It's just more so that you just like, you like to visually see it or know it or what is about it that turns you on? I'm more about the seeing of it and hearing, you know, like a, I want to, you know, because it's kind of undeniable to see when she's being pleasure. She can say, you know, it was okay, but, you know, this and that. But when you see it on their face and you hear it in their moaning, it's undeniable, you know.

It's a whole other world to experience it first hand and they hear it secondhand. Right. So to really hear it, like, so. So, like, when you were deployed, would she call you up on the phone? Or would she send you videos or would she do both? The one for the deployment, I mean, that was our fourth and that was our last time as well. She wanted to do it for my birthday because she knew that, you know, I like this. So she didn't call me because it was harder for her to call over there.

And I had a cell phone over there. So I called her. But, you know, she told me when she emailed me, so I just stayed on my email. and when she told me she had gotten to the hotel, she had me call her, and so I called in, and basically she just put her phone on a speaker phone and just, like, left it on. Did you hear my recent episode with Craig?

Is that how you found my show, or were you a listener before? Because, you know, his wife, that's how it started. No, I found, I just happened to find you. I was just looking for stuff because I look on YouTube, and I try to find things that spark my interest. And it's hard finding, you know, stuff that I can listen to, you know, especially like at home where I'm not having to get on any kind of exclusive websites to just hear stuff that makes me feel where it's like, okay, it's normalized. You know, it's not like, oh, my God, it's so taboo. Yeah, yeah, yeah, totally.

But it's more, you know, normalized. So, you know, when I found it, I was like, oh, I love this. Yeah, that's awesome. I've been listening to all day. Well, you should listen. You have to then. You're going to really enjoy Craig's aspect. Craig's episode. It was very recent I aired it. And he, his girl, his wife would call and put the phone down and he would listen in. He loved that. He was the first guy that I talked to that had that experience. So you're just the second one, you know, that had that. But what a nice birthday present. But let's start from the beginning, though, okay? Because you've had four experiences, right? You sound super young to me. How old are you guys and how long have you been married?

we've been married over 10 years now and I'm in my 40s and she's in her 30s. Oh, you sound like you're in your 20s. I got to keep myself young, you know? Yeah, you have a young vibe to you. I don't know because sometimes I say, oh, it's just the voice, but then I don't know. As I talk more to the person, it's just like something about their energy. You appear to me, even though I can't fucking see you to be younger. I don't know why.

But I'm going to change your voice. So people are going to be like, what the fuck is she talking about? He sounds like an old man because I'm going to deepen your voice. Okay. Okay, that sounds good. So you're going to be, you're going to sound your age, okay? All right, sounds good. So you're 40 and how long have you been together?

Sorry, say that again? We've been married over 10 years. We've been together about 13. Mm-hmm. So, you know, basically she was young. I was newly divorced and, you know, I'd been single again for another year, two years almost. And we just started dating and, you know, where I was at, it was mainly younger people because I worked so much I wasn't out and about as much. So I just harder meeting people my age.

So where I was at, there was nothing to do for people my age. It was mainly younger people. So I met somebody that was younger. And it worked out. Yeah, it worked out great for me. But let me ask you how, you guys, I mean, because, like, how do you go from, you know, meaning somebody? and dating them and being intimate with them to them sleeping, you know, letting them know that you like them to fuck other people.

I mean, was this the first person that you've done this with, or had you had these kind of experiences with other people? I've had it once before while I was in the military, but it wasn't the same. It was me and a buddy. We were at a club, and we were with my roommate, and my roommate was talking to this girl, and she had her friend there.

So we went back to their place, and we're just hanging out at their house. And we're just drinking, pounding tequila, and they wanted to play truth or dare. And I was trying to talk to her friends, but then her friend dared, well, then the one my roommate was talking to, dare her friend to mess around with my buddy.

So I'm like, oh, damn, she's throwing shade over here in my way. You know, it's like, you know, she knows I'm trying to hook up with her friend, and she's trying to hook her friend up with my friend. Right. So it just goes back and forth for a little bit. And next you know, like, she dared her friend, she dared my friend to suck on her friend's tits. And I'm like, oh, okay, I see you how this is going. And then her friend is, like, it's laying back.

And she sits up and she's like, you know what, fuck this. I got to dare. Let's just get naked and see what happens. So we're like, bet. Okay, let's do this. So my roommate goes with that girl and they go off and do their own thing. And then me and my buddy are just, you know, with her. So, you know, we're just taking turns with her.

Well, I say taking turn. We're there at the same time. but, you know, one of us would be getting head from her and the other ones fucking her or eating her out, depending on what was going on at the time. And it was cool and all. It wasn't like nothing special. It was nothing like it is now when it was actually with somebody I cared about. But it was just a fun situation. But it did get me past that point where it wasn't awkward to be around another male, you know, naked.

Right. You cross swords or whatever. Like, is that the term, like, you're crossing swords? Like, I don't know. something like that like I'm not bisexual or anything like that so it's not like any of that turns me on but at least I it doesn't get me to the point where I'm just like oh I can't do that if there's another guy in the room right right it happened that time it you cross the

line and you were fine with it and maybe drinking that that night helped right and oh it definitely helped right but then years go by that was like 12 years probably before this happened Yeah. And I didn't think nothing of it. And me and my wife, which was my girlfriend at the time. Your wife now. But really quick. I mean, because after that situation, you wind up getting married to somebody. You had a first wife, right? Nothing went down with her that was out of the norm? Yeah, no. That was just strictly vanilla. Okay.

I mean, it was fine and dandy. It was whatever. But, you know, I didn't know what the possibilities were. Right. So now you meet this girl that you're with. She was your girlfriend at the time. and we're just talking about, you know, sexual things and fantasies and stuff. And I was like, yeah, so, you know, we're talking about doing a threesome. I was like, yeah, let's do it. You know, like, I'd love to see you with another girl. She's like, well, I don't know if I could be with another girl. She's like, but I would consider it.

She's like, but only if you'd be with, you know, be with me and another guy first. And I was just like, at first I'm like, oh, hell, I don't know. So I'm like, I was like, well, I'd consider. but I wouldn't touch the guy. She's like, well, I don't care. That's not what, you know, I wouldn't touch the girl either. So I was like, okay, so she, you know, we're laughing, joking her off, like, okay, she's thinking that I'm not serious.

And at the time, I didn't think she was serious. And then I was just like, okay, so she's going to talk like this. Let's do it. I was like, okay, let's do. Yeah, good for her that. She was like, yeah, I'll do it if you let me fuck another guy. Yeah, because she's like, you know, all guys want to have that reason with another girl. but none of them are mad enough to have it with another guy involved.

Uh-huh. And she was like, okay, and I'll do it, but we got to do it with a guy first. And do it with the guy first. She's like, I want what I want first. High-five her, right? You know, especially we're dating. So, you know, some guys, you know, could be like, well, I got what I wanted. I'm not doing that.

So too bad, you know, type of thing. Right, right. You're not like totally committed just yet, right? So she didn't know if you just, like, take it and run, and then she wouldn't get what she wanted. Yeah, but I'm a man of my word. So when I said, okay, let's do it then. And we were creeping up to it going back and forth, like even starting to plan it, and it seemed like she didn't believe me that I was like okay with it.

So, like, I think part of the reason, like I put in the email, like, I think part of it was to see if she would go through with it, like on her side. I don't know if she thought she would be able to go through with it. And I didn't know if she thought I would let her go through with it or be. okay with her going through with it. So I don't know what was going on with it. But as a day approached, you know, we started looking, we kept looking, kept looking. Okay, but wait, tell me where you're looking. What do you guys decide to do, put an ad someplace? Yes, it was, well, we didn't put an ad. We looked on Craigslist first. We were going to put an ad, but we didn't want to put our picture out. Okay. Of course. Yeah. We knew who we were dealing with. So we looked on

Craigslist, and we're just looking around, looking for a male that's looking for a couple. and we ran across a couple, quite a few people, and we just, you know, I'd let my wife kind of weed them out. Like, I just read it if they seem like a total weirdo, I'm just like, no, hey, no. Right. And then she just looked through them and if anybody caught their eye, we'd be like, okay, we'd respond back, and it kind of narrowed it down a little bit, and then we found this one Italian guy, and he had done this before.

He was part of a, like, I'll say, a thruple or however you say, he was with a couple for a while. It was just him and another couple. And he was like the bull in that relationship. So he had experience already. And he was, this was when I was in my 30s, early 30s. And he had experience. And so he was in his 40s. So he's a little older. And he was a professional. You know, he was a businessman. So it's like, we're like, okay, I know he has to be, you know, more covert with it. He's not, you know, can't be like out and about with it, especially at the time, you know, we're just trying to be

very low key with everything. And so she saw him. She was like, okay, no, he's not bad looking. He was like a muscular Italian guy. And she was like, oh, and, you know, he has a nice cock. And I'm just like, okay, cool. You know, her main thing she was like, he can't be butt ugly. But the main thing she wanted was that he had a decent cock and that he was like, had a little experience.

And he wasn't like going to be shy. You know, he was like going to be out there and be like, take charge. She wanted that. She wanted that or didn't it? Yeah. No, she wanted that because she knew that this was going to be our first time. So it would have been awkward otherwise. Right.

We must be sitting there looking at each other like, who's going to start this? Yes, someone's got to take the lead. Yes. So then we started emailing back and forth and, you know, the conversations got back and forth. And she was digging the vibe. So she was like, okay, cool. So I do, she did like the guy. I like the guy from what he was saying.

We're like, cool. everything I was saying was very professional. You know, he wasn't getting like overly vulgar and stuff. But he would tell us like, here's the things I'm going to do. And, you know, but he goes, but here's the things I'd like to do to you. But it's, you know, based on how comfortable you guys are both with the situation. And he goes, and I want you to be very open. If something starts bothering me, I want you to let me know right away.

If you're not into it, let me know right away because I don't want you to feel uncomfortable. So the whole experience was great leading up to it. and we're just like awesome, you know? How old was he? And all the way to the day. Who, him? Yeah. Do you know?

I don't know it's the exact age. I know he was like early 40s. Okay, cool. Like 41, 42. Okay. So you're good. So now you're emailing back and forth. You set up a specific day to meet.

Yes. I had my wife set it up because I wanted to make sure, like, I was like, look, this is your thing. I set it up physically, but I had her give me like what work for her, like where, when, everything. So I was the one primarily dealing with. with him. Yeah. But I wanted to make sure that everything that we were doing for that, it fell in line with what she wanted because I was like, hey, this is your day. I want to make sure you get what you want out of it too. So she told me, hey, can we do it on this day? So I email him, hey, is this day work for you? And we're just going back and forth. And we had him come to my apartment

at the time. And I was about to leave that apartment. My lease was going to be up anyway. So I was like, okay, this is the best time anyway. Oh my God. Like, you know, we're sitting there. I have to deal with it for a little bit. And he didn't live real close. He was like 30 to 40 minutes away from us. So I knew he wasn't just going to drive over there for nothing anyways.

So if he shows up, he's more likely down to do it. Right. So now do you guys, I'm assuming you had seen pictures and stuff. And he's seen pictures of you guys ahead of time? Yes. We swapped pictures. Once we got comfortable talking back and forth, then we say, okay, this, like his pictures, His pictures were posted already.

Okay, right. Like the, but there were the PG-13 pictures that he posted. And then once we started talking more and we both got comfortable with each other, then we started trading actual pictures back and forth so we knew what we're dealing with. And that's when we were narrowed it down. That's when my wife got the cockpicks and stuff like that. That's when she was like, okay, I do like this. He had a big dick.

Yes, it wasn't like super long, but it was thick. That's what girls like. Newsflash. Yes. We don't like long. Yes. We like thick. Yeah.

You don't want something pushing on your cervix. Yeah, that's what I mean. I'm like, does anyone look in school? Remember those things that they brought out that show you the inside of a woman? Like, there's an end and it's not that long inside. Yeah, getting jabbed in your cervix. Oh. I can't.

The word cervix and sex should never be in the same sense. You know what I mean? Like it just shouldn't be involved. It's not right. Well, I know what you mean, but only a vague. I'm not from experience, obviously. Right, so he had a thick, he was thick, and she was like, that's the fucking guy for me. Okay, so does he show up?

He shows up, right? Yes, he shows up, and, you know, my wife's very nervous, and I'm, you know, I'm semi-nervious, but, you know, I already made it by mind, hey, I'm down for this. I'm going to go through with it. And like I said, I had done something similar before, so I'm not, like, super super-super-nervous, but then again, this is someone I actually care about now, so it's a little bit new to me. Yeah, because, like, there's got to be some part. of you that wonders like will i be jealous

well i'm not right like i mean you don't know yeah you've never done it before so at the time though i'm thinking like hey i'm down to do it because i'm going to get my three son out of this with another girl you know so it's more you had your eye on the prize oh my god that's so funny yeah you're really doing it's selfish reason yeah so you were it's interesting though because i assume because you've done so many times that you wound up really being into it and then you got more out of it than you would have even

expected, but you were literally doing it because you just wanted her to, you wanted to just get the threesome that you wanted it. And you were like doing it for her. This was like for her. That first time. But really for you, right. But then it turned out that you enjoyed it. Yes. That's what it was weird because, you know, she was very nervous and she went and wore one of my, you know, military physical fitness shirts. And that's, she, so she went to the back room and got changed and all she came out with was one of my shirts. And I'm a big guy. So I'm a six foot. three, two hundred fifty-pound guy. Uh-huh.

And so the shirt came down to like her, just above her knees. It was like a nightgown. Yeah. But she had, you know, no pounds on, no bra, nothing. But so she came out and we were just talking back and forth for while we sat on the couch. And we're just talking and trying to get her comfortable. And, you know, she started getting a little more and more comfortable.

And he was just kind of sitting off the side on the other end of the couch. And so me and her started making out. And like I started feeling her up. And next to know, I start rubbing her pussy, and she starts, like, getting into it. And he just gets up and he gets down on the ground and kneels between her legs and just, like, grabs her thighs and opens them up and just starts eating her pussy. And, like, her freaking eyes rolled back instantly. And she just started, like, moaning and gasping. And I was like, holy shit.

So when he's doing that, I start sucking on her tits and, and kiss. on her neck and stuff and like you know her head like arching back as she's just moaning and you know this was first time having two people just focusing solely on her so this goes on for a while and and he's good orally because like she that's one of her favorite things with him was orally she'd love right right he was okay go on yeah so he knew what he was doing there right and so i i'm I'm sucking her tits, and then he stands up and stands in front of her, and she just leans forward and grabs his talk and just start sucking on it. And, like, you know, I see it because I'm right there.

And I just see here, reach forward, grab it, and just put in her mouth and just starts going to town, sucking on them. And that moment, I was just like, holy shit, this is turning me on seriously right now. Right. And that you didn't expect to happen, right? It wasn't like you knew at that point at that. That, right. Interesting, right? Isn't that interesting even to you? Yeah, I was expecting the whole thing to be nervous, kind of, okay, let's get through it. It's not too bad.

Yeah, yeah. You know, up to that point, I was like, hey, it's not bad. She's enjoying it. We're good. Right. I'm still going to get my threesome out of this. We're good, you know. Yeah, one step closer to your threesome. Yeah. Yeah, but once that moment hit and I saw her starting to really get into it, I was like, okay, cool. So she started sucking on him. And I'm, then I just leaned back a little. I'm gonna start just like feeling her and like rubbing her pussy why she's sucking them.

And then I just end up sitting back even further and I just end up watching. I'm not even involved anymore at the time. I'm just like enjoying the show that she's putting on for me. Right, like, because you wanted to, right? It was like, because it was so, it was even hotter to watch than to participate at this point. And, you know, and I like porn, but porn has nothing on having your own personal porn star right in front of you. Yeah, I was going to say that. Yeah.

you know and I was like holy shit so you know after she's sucking the dick for a while then he sits down on the couch and he reaches in his pants and he pulls out freaking a condom and you know put the condom on and she's sitting there like stroking and like getting ready and she climbs on and just starts riding the fuck out of him and I'm just sitting there like amazing and I'm sitting there trying to get a better angle up a pile like holy shit this looks amazing yeah And, I mean, then it was a bunch of different positions after that. I mean, this was like, you know, 12 years ago. So I can't remember every position.

I know doggy style and how she rode him. And I know missionary, she, her favorite is missionary because she can take bigger dick that way. You know, she's, you know, doggy style, she doesn't like because she bottoms out faster doggy style. Yeah, for sure. I always used to say that, you know, you know you have a small dick if you're banging me. And I'm like, oh, fuck me, doggy, let's do it doggy style. You know, because it's like... It's like a feel it more?

Yes, exactly. But a guy has a big dick. That's the last thing you want to do because that you are going to, like you say, bottom out quicker. Right, that's our girls are. All right, go on. And it took her years to tell me. Like, I like doggy style. Every guy loves doggy style.

Right. Yeah, guys love that. It's like the view. Yeah. And I'm not like huge or nothing, but she wouldn't even let me do it either. So I'm like, you know, like on occasion. Yeah. Yeah.

Uh-huh. But when I am, I have to be. slow methodical, you know, so it's not like I can just, you know, try to jackhammer or anything, you know, like. Yeah. But it's fun for a while, but then I have to like, okay, let's switch it up. Yeah. So her favorite's missionary.

So she's doing it with that guy missionary. Yeah. So she's going different everything with this guy. So I'm enjoying it. I'm like, okay. And after it's done, like, we go in the shower and, you know, I wash her off and she watches me. And, like, we're just talking about what had happened. and I'm getting fucking turned on.

So, like, we go back in the room after the shower, and we fuck for, like, ever seemed like, like, I came, like, three times that night. Like, I was just like, every time I thought about it, I'm like, damn, I'm ready for another round. I'm like, holy shit. Right. So, you know, time goes on and, like,

we're just talking about, you know, hey, we'll maybe possible do it again. You know, she's always the possible type of thing. Yeah. We'll see, we'll see. Mm-hmm. So the next time, like, she's like, okay, I want to pick the guy by myself and, you know, we'll, and she wanted to kind of schedule it on her own and just tell me the day. So it was kind of more of a surprise for me, kind of.

Okay. So she found this guy and Hispanic guy. And she told me, hey, can you be at this hotel at this time? And she pulled up, like, right, right before I did. and the guy ended up probably 10 minutes after I did. And so we go in and they were talking because they had conversed via email to set it up. And like I said, I didn't know who he was. I didn't know nothing other person.

So she's talking to the guy and I'm just sitting there relaxing, introducing, hey, how are you doing? And he was more of the shy type. He was a younger guy. But he had a really big dick. But when we got there, he was. was just so, like, unsure of himself, and it kind of like, I don't know, I mean, she still enjoyed it, but at the same time, it's like, she almost had to direct everything. Right.

So it was like, okay, it kind of put her off, but, you know, it was kind of fun still at the same time, and she was like, well, you know, how do you want to start? And he was like, I don't know, how do you want to start? And I'm just like, oh, God, well, you guys can just grow up? Right, yeah. Hey, I say, why don't you guys just start making out and start feeling each other up and just see what happens. Let's go. Right.

You're the director now. Yeah, I mean, like, I just started it. Like, I said action, basically. And then after that, you know, I let them ad lit, if you will. And then what happened? So, you know, well, the normal, you know, she went down on him. He went down on her a little bit. He wasn't as much into oral as the previous guy, the Italian guy.

but you know my wife she enjoys oral she enjoys especially getting oral but she actually enjoys giving oral as well yeah and so she she wrote this guy's dick like no other that day and that was that was my favorite part of it like like i got a little video snippet of it like it was amazing oh you did you videotaped that uh-huh yes well just with my phone so it was like a small clip because i didn't have a camera Of course. So it was like, it's not great, great quality, but it was enough where you can hear and you can hear that slapping of her ass, slapping on its thighs. You can see, like, you know, taking every inch of it in her, but.

Was she happy when you showed her that? She knows, right, that you video. She doesn't, yeah, yeah, she knows. She doesn't like to see the videos, though. She's just, like, kind of, well, you'll see you later, but she basically was kind of doing it for me because she knows I like it. The first time she did it kind of just out of almost a spur reaction to kind of like call me out on the whole threesome with a girl thing, which, by the way, I never got because I just like, fuck it. Hey, I'd rather you do this again instead.

Right, you like that. You like that. Yeah. Yeah. And she was always kind of like, oh, I don't know. With a female, I'll say, okay, well, if you don't know, how about we do this with a guy again instead, you know? And thus end up, so we end up doing it a couple more times with, you know, a guy again. But the second time you take a video of her, she's like fucking that guy.

She's really into fucking him, right? He's got an even bigger dick than the first guy, right? Yes. She was into it, but at the same time, she said she enjoyed the Italian guy more because the Italian guy was more confident and was better orally. Right. All the other guy had was a bigger dick. That's it. Right.

So it's like, okay, it's kind of a, you know, hitting miss. I guess if you will. Of course. How are you going to know those other things? I mean, you know, all you could get from a picture. If I could take his toughiness and put it on his dick, she's like, it would have been freaking amazing. All right.

But did you say that she was only doing this for you? Like, didn't she think she was doing it for her, too? It seems like she was doing it for her too. That's what I thought. Come on. This is what I thought originally. But she's kind of like, oh, it's like she'd do it, but she never wanted to watch the videos. She was okay with me, like, filming it, but she didn't, she was just like, look, I don't want to, like, I better not feed on freaking porn hub or any of these free websites.

Of course, of course. Yeah. And I'm like, yeah, obviously. And she's like, and I really don't have any interest in seeing it because, you know, she's very insecure about her body. You know, she's fine. Right. But she's insecure about her body. You know, she had kids and stuff after that.

But isn't it so interesting how women, isn't it so interesting how women see things so much differently than guys? Yes. Do you know what I mean like as far as like what sexy? And be like I don't know with a freaking two inch cock and sitting there whipping her out and be like yeah baby you ready for this? No no no I mean. No no no what I mean. Yeah that too. Okay.

That's a whole other fucking story. But no what I mean is like it's so interesting how women think that men think about women's bodies. Right. Like you said your wife and this is very common. I think a lot of women feel so self-conscious or they don't feel sexy about their body and they think that a guy. wouldn't find them sexy because they have a little belly or a little bit of this or a little bit of cellulite you know and they don't understand saying like guys don't think like that especially once they get you naked if they if they get you naked and they're naked they're they got past that if they

if they had an issue with that before they're past that issue right right they would have never got to that point if they had an issue with it right right so it's like look you're you're past the point of them caring yeah they know right if they would have cared it would have been a long time ago So now you're in the clear right now. So you should be able to let go and just enjoy it. Right, but I think girls don't understand that guys aren't as critical. Women are way more critical about their bodies than men are. I agree.

But I think it's both, yeah, I think men are overly critical of their own body somewhat too. No. Let's move on. Let's get back to your hot story, okay? Okay. So go on. So that experience was kind of so-so with her. You know, like I said, she liked the dick, but the experience is the same.

was whatever because she felt like, you know, she was almost having to teach this guy and, you know, explain everything that she wanted him to do, you know, she prefers the confidence aspect of it. Mm-hmm. So that time was whatever for her. She was kind of like, okay, it was fun, but, you know, I think if we do it again, I'm probably going to go back with the Italian guy. Okay. Because she was comfortable with him, and we were just talking, and, next to you know, I was

like, well, you know, let's talk about bucket list type of stuff. And she said she had, you know, always thought about being with, you know, multiple guys, like actually having sex. And, you know, the first time I didn't have sex with her. Right. What about the second time you just watched? What about the second time? Yeah, yeah, I was just, because that was just her and him at the time.

I was just sitting by watching. Okay. And so the third time, you know, so I was like, well, what, you want me to have him bring a friend? She's like, sure. I was like, cool. I'll watch this one too. So we had the Italian guy I didn't even know who this other guy was

I had the Italian guy bring one of his friends Like he knew Right So he told him to be there We ended up doing that one at a hotel as well And the Italian guy was there pretty early My wife wanted to be blindfolded Because she's like

When it comes to the guy She's kind of like You know like said She don't care really as much of how they look More how confident they are And how good they are with their package you know and how they can work it kind of thing so she's like look I want to be blindfolded and I just want to basically take off one of my senses so I can

experience all the other senses you know like a little bit more I'm like fucking awesome I'm cool with that so she comes out of the bathroom wearing nothing but a freaking blindfold and at the time it's just the Italian guy there so it starts with her and him and they're sitting there and he's sucking on her tits and kiss on our neck and then she's just stroking his dick and then she drops her knees

and she starts sucking his dick and then he lays down on the bed and kind of pulls her over to him and then guides her to sit on his face and they start 69 so she's sitting on his face and she's sucking his dick and then a couple minutes in we get a knock at the door

so I go answer the door and it's the other guy so he comes in and he sees like holy shit they already started so he's fucking flying his clothes are flying off and then he goes and kneels by her which is the foot of the other guy and so she can't see him there obviously she's blindfolded so like you know she's sitting there still sucking on the Italian guy and then you know I say hey you know he wants some action too and so the guy just kind of like grabs her hand and like like pulls it up just a little bit so he can like rub her hand against his dick

So she grabs the dick and then starts stroking the dick. And then she'll take turns sucking one and stroking the other and going back and forth. And then it just started going back and forth. So she got off of the Italian guy and turned around and started riding him. And his friend stood up above them so she can suck on his dick while she's writing. But like I said, the Italian guy had a pretty freaking thick cock. So after a while she couldn't focus as much on his friend. so for a while there she was just like sitting there just getting slammed from below and she was just enjoying it and so that guy got down and she was just riding his dick for a while and then she gets off because the tiny guy wants his friend to have some fun too so the italian guy like kind of rolls her over and she lays down his friend comes and starts fucking her missionary while the tiny guy goes around to her face and time and like just like pull his cock down into her mouth and and just like pull his cock down into her mouth.

So she's, you know, he's basically feeding his cock to her why his friend starts fucking her missionary. And they're going back and forth for a while and, like, then they'd switch for a little bit and he'd go around and, like, sit there and the time guy would be jerking off why he was, his friend was fucking my wife's doggy style. So his friend wasn't that big. But he's jerking off for a while and then he, you know, she'd start sucking his dick. And then, like, he'd turn her around and flip her over and. you know, he'd start eating her pussy and then while she's sucking his friend. So it was just going back and forth so much, like, back and forth. And, like, she, I don't know if she was kind of, like, got tired of the other guy,

but, like, the tiny guy, she just absolutely loved. So, like, she was getting just, I don't know, so her legs were, like, shaking so much when she was done. But he was fucking her. And then when they were done, she got off and she was just, like, could barely walk. Like, her legs were just trembling so much. and then the friend got up and left right away because we didn't have anything to do with that guy before

so it's like we don't know you, we're going to talk and the tiny guy, you know, he said, hey, thank you guys, I appreciate you guys thinking of me again, blah, blah, and, you know, he gathers his things. He runs and takes a quick shower and he just changed and he leaves. And then me and my wife take a shower, and then, you know, we have the hotel that has the two beds, so we go and have sex on the other bed.

but it's hard because she is freaking sore and tired already. Oh, my God. So it wasn't like, she was just like, look, I know, you know, like me, I love for play. Like, I'm the type where, like, give me an hour of foreplay beforehand. Like, I'll go down on you and play with toys and do all the stuff. Give you yours for, like, you know, as many times as I can. And my wife's just like, okay, just, hey, I just want you to, I just want you to fuck me now. Like, because I am.

tired right now. Like she was worn out. You know, she'd been fucking them for over an hour and a half, you know, like, she's just like, okay, I'm just tired. Yeah. Like, let's fuck. And, like, I want you to get yours. But.

And then that was the last time for a while until I deployed. And so it had been like, I don't know, two, three years. I think two, some change years past. And then while I'm deployed. But how come, though, like, what goes down in those two years? Like, did you have kids or something? something that like it never comes up again. We have two kids.

We have two kids. Okay. Well, we had, let me see, at that time. We had one kid at that time. And then you got another one. Let me see. We end up having another one shortly after that. So yeah, we had one kid during that time, though.

Okay. And so we kind of like chilled out, you know, like I still wanted it, but it was hard because, you know, we weren't near family. And for one, daycare, you know, it's like, well, we don't have to worry about the kid. Yeah, no, I got it. It's kind of like. Yeah, you get involved. So we're like, whatever.

You know, I saw it memories. I had videos. Like, she let me videotape the blindfold one too. Oh, my God. You got that whole thing on video? That one, I got the whole thing on video. Right. And they knew you were videotaping the guys.

They were okay with it? Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's one thing. Like, I always hit them up in advance. Like, hey, is this okay? Here's what we want. Like, I want to watch, you know, is it okay if I film? Yeah.

The first one is the only one I didn't take at all. Right. You know, and the second one, I was like, hey, do you mind if I get a little short clip, but it's not going to show your face, you know? Yeah. And then, but the Italian guy, he didn't care. He's like, I don't care. Just don't show it to nobody.

Right. It's just for you and you and your wife, I don't care. Yeah, that's cool. Okay, and the friend was okay with it, too. Yeah, yeah. I mean, I was filming when he came in, so he was fine with him. He was getting some ass, so he was fine with it. Yeah, oh, my God.

I mean, there's a lot going on there, you know, for everyone to enjoy. you know, for you, it's the seeing your wife with someone else. And at this point, now you're seeing her with two guys, right? And for them, like, it's like, oh, I'm fucking this girl and I'm fucking her with another guy. So it's a threesome and her husband's watching. So there's a lot of things, you know, happening for everyone. Yeah, I think that was the least of his worries. But, you know, his friend, the Italian guy was his friend, so he had told him already what was going on.

Yeah, for sure. That's the one thing we always try to make sure, you know, I don't want no surprises. you're walking like oh what the heck that i walk into yeah of course so we always like and i want to i want to waste your time i don't want you to waste my time you know like here's what we're looking for and you don't want that that's fine you know to each of own and nobody wants the same thing not everybody you know so so a few years go by and i'm deployed and you know we're talking about it still and you know she's just like oh no i don't know because you know if kids it's too hard blah blah.

I'm like, yeah, I know. And so I'm watching videos. It kind of gets me through those times, you know, when I'm really feeling horny about it. And we still talk about it, like, while we're having sex throughout that time occasionally. And we'll play. Oh, excuse me.

But while I'm deployed, you know, she was asked me like, hey, your brother's coming. I want to send you a gift package. You know, what would you want, blah, blah. And I was just like, well, you know what I want. You know, like. another video and she was just like,

damn, you don't stop, huh? Like, I was just like, no, it's like, I'm telling you, this is like, if you just gave me videos for gifts for Christmas birthday, any of that stuff, I was like, I'll be happy. You don't have to buy me shit from now on. Right. And so she doesn't say nothing at the time.

She was like, oh, you and, you know, men, you and your fantasies. And then, you know, a few weeks later, she's just like, okay, hey, I'm going to make you a, video for your birthday, you know, like, would you, would you want me to, you know, call you or call it me or something too? I was like, I said, hell yeah, because that way, you know, I want to know what's going on as well, you know, and I want to make sure you're being safe. That's the main reason I want to be there, too, you know, usually, like, so she set it up with that Italian guy and she tells me, okay, I'm going to be there this time. So she gives me the, the, the, the

time of when she's going to check in the hotel. So she sends me email saying, hey, I'm, checked in now, blah, blah, so I call her and I'm checking on her before he gets there because she's going to take a shower and do all that stuff prior. And so I'm like, hey, are you okay? How you feel in? You know, she's like, she says, I'm okay, just a little nervous because you're not here. And I'm like, yeah, but, you know, I appreciate you doing this for me. I was like, you just give me like the best birthday present ever. And we're talking and she, then she goes, okay I need to take a shower can you call me back in like 10 minutes so she goes and takes a shower and she gets out and she's trying to do her hair and everything and she's like okay and then

all of a sudden she's like hey I got to knock at the door so she goes and you can hear like a little chit chat whatever and so she tells me she goes okay hey I'm gonna set the phone down now okay I was like okay just make sure you hit record before you start anything she's like okay right and then you know you hear talking and after a while you start hearings like I don't know you hear like commotion and I don't know what the hell's going on you know I'm just listening on the phone and you hear movement and stuff and then after a while you hear some like sucking noises and I'm like damn is he sucking on her tits and she's sucking on his dick like oh fuck and you know then I hear like moaning and you hear little like talking you

don't know what I'm like what the fuck is going on like is that frustrating or is that a turn on I think it's both honestly yeah I was like because it's like I know I know what they're there for and I know what they're gonna do. Yeah. I just don't know what they're doing at that moment and I don't know exactly like every aspect of what they're gonna do. You know, I don't know what positions or another that stuff they're gonna do. So I'm like visualizing everything. I have like a thousand thoughts going through my head at the same time. Yeah. And so, you know, then I'll hear her moaning. So I'm like, okay, I don't hear anything but her moaning right now. So I'm assuming he's eating her out. And you know, so I'm just like visualizing everything. And then after

a while, like, my phone cut out. And I'm like, oh, fuck, I lost reception. So I called back. I was like, she answers. And she's just like, I was like, sorry, I got cut off. Continue, you know, so she puts it down. And then, like, the guy was, I guess, eating her out, which I only know because when I got the video, but he was eating her out from behind at that time.

So I had missed parts of the stuff going on. But so he's then he put on a condom and he just like started fucking her and he started fucking her doggy style. But she could only take it so long because she was like like like after a while just hurt too much. Yeah. So like but all I hear at the time is I hear her gasp and then that you hear like a little bit of the ass slapping a little bit. And then you hear it go harder and faster. And the moaning and the gasping started like loud. I'm sitting there like, oh shit, she's getting worked right now.

I'm like, oh, fuck. And I'm sitting there in my room in Afghanistan, like, oh, my fucking God, and I have a roommate. Oh, my God. I was like, and I'm listening with just a headphone. You know, I can't do shit here either, you know? Yeah, because your roommate's right there. Yeah, I can't even freaking masturbate or nothing with this going on. And I'm like, where am I going to go?

A bathroom, that's not sanitary. Right. So I'm sitting there like, oh, my God, just sitting in on my bunk. And I'm like, oh, fuck, man, this is fucking rough. So, you know, she goes through the whole thing. And it's like, I don't know, an hour and some change. Just a little over an hour. And most of it was him going down on her.

And when it's done, she gets on the phone. And she's like, okay, he left now, let's blah. So we're just, then we started talking. And we're talking for a while. And she's like, well, I'm going to take a shower. Can I call you right now? I'm going to take a shower and get dressed. And then I'm going to start driving home.

I'm like, cool. Oh, I forgot to mention. This is because when I deployed, she came. back to stay with her family. That's why we had daycare at the time. Oh, right. Right. Okay. She's with the shot at home. Right. Yeah. So she's staying with her parents. So she's about to, you know, they did it at a hotel. So she was driving back to freaking, uh, her parents' house. Uh-huh, yeah. And so she calls me when she gets out of the shower. She goes, you know, she's packing herself. She'll, yeah, I'm going to get my bag together now, blah, blah, blah. She gets in a car. She

just drive home. We're talking about it. And I'm like, how was it? She goes, it was freaking amazing. It was better than the first time or the second time. She goes, it was just, she goes, I don't know, it was just fun. She goes, it would be better. Like, she goes, part of her didn't like it just because the fact that, you know, it's not like I was there with the camera. You know, it's like they felt like they had to be like stay in focus with the camera. Yeah.

You know, because the camera's set down, you know, so they're like, damn, we got to make sure we try to get good angles for them too. So I was like, damn. So I felt kind of bad. Like, damn, I was, that's why I'm trying to. I was like, look, I want to get a good video where I could be a camera. man. I was like, or if you want, I'll join in this time. Like, you know, I just wanted to be about you. So I absolutely loved it.

And then when she sent me the video, you know, it came on a little CD or DVD, the small ones. And why it's in the mail, you know, it takes a while to get there overseas. Oh, yeah, I can imagine. I'm like, holy shit, this is like excruciating. You're like, you know, I know what went down. I heard it go down, but I can't visually see what actually took place. And the fact that you're going to be able to see it. I mean, I'm sure you're just like can't fucking wait for that mail to get to your house.

And yeah. And then I was at a weapons range at the time. And I'm like, damn, it's supposed to be here around now. So when I got back, it was waiting in my mail. So I'm like rushing to my room. And I'm like, damn, I'm sitting in the corner of my bunk on my laptop with my headphones in. I'm like, fucking nobody freaking bothered me. I felt like that guy from Lord of the Rings.

Like my precious. Leave me alone. Right. So, like, literally, I just sat there for, like, an hour of change. Just sitting there watching that video. Like, nobody bothered me at all. And was it, like, everything?

And then some, because you could really see stuff like you said that you didn't even know was going down. Yeah, it was awesome because, like, I got to see her let loose a little bit more, too. You know, she felt a little more relaxed, it seemed like. So it's like, the more relaxed she is, the better I like it, because she tends to enjoy it a lot more. So, like, that's why I'm like,

I just want you to be totally relaxed and just totally enjoy it. Like, you know, the more she's done it, the more she's gotten relaxed. So the more she's enjoyed it. So I'm just like, come on, let's do this. Like, but then we had another kid when I came back from deployment. You know, I got her pregnant shortly after coming back. So I put everything on hold for a while.

And, you know, then, you know, her body shifted a little bit more. got to the point where she was, you know, unsure again of her body. So we've had to work through all the stuff and, like, I've been trying to get her. And she lost all the weight. Like, she's spent her now than she's been since we've been together. Oh, that's great. How long has it been since you got back in that situation happened? How long?

It's been about seven years now. Oh, wow. And nothing has happened since then? No. You know, I don't know. It's just like it's been, I've been trying to get it, but she's just like, I don't know. now she's like very hesitant to do it again and then but i found out later she has some childhood trauma and i wish she had told me before because i would have told her to hold off on this stuff

for a while you know like right you know i'd want her to work through any of that first you know well maybe this helped her maybe somehow doing this worked you know did help to bring that up or bring her closer to it or make her remember it i mean sometimes that kind of stuff does yeah i made her bring it up to me at least at a minute so I know where she's coming from. Right. So now she's trying to get to that point where she wants, she's like, look, I'm willing to do it again, but I want to, like, I want to try to work through these demons first.

I want to see a therapist and stuff. And, but right now, she's, she's going to college right now still. She's working on her master's and she's trying to get, you know, trying to get a job with it. So she's going through all the stuff right now. So she's like, look, I'm almost done with everything. So when I'm done with this, I want to try to, you know, make an appointment with the therapist and then I can start working through these demons and then we'll talk.

Right. So I'm like, okay, you know, we've been together 10 years. It's been over seven years. You know, it's like I can be patient. You know, we still have the talk and the stuff why we're having sex. Right. And you still have the videos. Yes, I still have the two full videos and the one snippet. Right. Like I said, that's enough to get me through for now. And we, you know, we have plenty of toys and sometimes we'll role play where I'm using a toy on her and she'll pretend to somebody else. and, you know, so it gets us by for now.

It's not the same, no, not even close to the same, but it's still fun. And the fact that she's willing still, you know, it gives me hope that, okay, she's not totally against it. So it's not like I ruined it for her, but she knows she has her own demons. And then recently she's also been like, you know, she's, she's unsure if she's possibly bisexual. Yeah, I was going to say, I remember that from the email. So she's like, I don't know. we just talking and you know the more it's been become socially acceptable it's like you know so she's been coming out more she's like you know i've never really thought about it she goes but i've

always appreciated a female body you know she she goes i always catch myself looking at women and saying damn she's freaking beautiful she has a sexy body you know stuff like that i was like well that just means you might be curious but i don't know if you're necessarily you know like she goes yeah i don't know if i'm if I do anything, she goes, I don't know where it's at now, but, you know, I'm just considering what the possibilities could be. Oh, she's totally going to do it. Come on. Are you crazy? I'm all for it. Like I said, I told me, I don't even have to join because she even asked me, she goes, you know, you know, do you feel bad that you've never got your person? I was like, look, I honestly, I don't care. Like, if it happens, don't get me wrong. I'm not going to

freaking turn it down if she offers me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not a freaking idiot. Yeah. you know it's like that's that's not even in my you know in my near future that I'm looking forward to right now like if it happens it happens right now I want us to have whatever it's going to make you the most satisfied like if it's it's a threesome with me and another girl so be it right and now let me ask you right but let me ask you if you had to take your pick and I think I know the answer to this which I think is interesting but maybe I'm wrong if you had your pick she's going to have a threesome tomorrow and you it's your choice she's equally interested in doing either one so you're the one that is you know

makes a decision do you have the threesome with her with a woman or do you have a threesome with her with another guy again well it depends is she going to be involved like actively involved with the women too yeah isn't that what she's going to do with yes absolutely it's going to be a three sum with her with the woman never done that so you in all honesty i've never done that so i probably lean that way right like i told her i would love for her to get with a couple. Right. That way I get the best of both worlds. Like I can see you with a woman because that's the one thing I have like I've never I've never been in a threesome with a woman and I've never seen two girls minus you know porn go you know together. So I'm like hey if I can see that in person like I don't even have to be involved. She wants to go with a girl. I just want to be there. Especially for her first. Well listen the couple would be yeah and listen it's going to be easier to find a couple than the unicorn. You know that that that single girl that's going to join in with a you know, a husband and wife. Sometimes it's harder to find then the couple, right?

Yeah, I've seen plenty of females that want to join a female. Right. You know what I'm saying? They also have to be willing to allow, you know, me to watch. Right. That's what I'm saying. It's harder to set that up. It's easier maybe because you said you would let her go do it a solo first.

So maybe, you know, she could go and meet that girl and then get that girl to feel comfortable enough to come in. But, you know, if you're just going out as a couple looking for the, the girl. It could be, that's a harder fine than the couple, which I forgot. That would be perfect for you because, like you say, you're getting the best of both worlds. You're getting something new and you're getting something tried and true that you know you're really like, which is her with the guy.

Yes. And I'm like 99.99% sure I would enjoy watching her with a woman. Right. I could not foresee myself not liking it, but, you know. Yeah, and it sounds like she's down or wants to try. Maybe she's just. just not comfortable yet and, you know, to pull that trigger because she's never done anything like that before. Well, her thing is she wants it to happen more naturally.

Like she doesn't want to go looking for the girl. She wants it to kind of develop because she says, well, the girl, she wants it to be more natural where she actually enjoys their, like, they have something in common. So she kind of wants it to be, I think, like a friendship or, you know, like where they kind of know each other. Right. That's what would make her feel more comfortable. Uh-huh.

Yes. And she's like, whereas when it's the guy, she don't care because she just, it's just, it's the tools just to build over with fucking arms and legs yeah i hear you but you know that you could really i mean because i've had couples on who swing and like you know a lot of times there's some couples that are like we just want to you know hit it and quit it and like get out of there but a lot of couples i talk to you know they really want to make a connection with the other couple first you know and i think it's the wife feels more comfortable with that which i totally understand right so you know she could if you guys ever really think so talk seriously about it you know if you go the couple

route is better too because you guys could meet up and see if you really like them and once you find the couple you really click with and she feels comfortable then she could you know go about you know having sex with them yeah and there's no pressure like i even suggest to say hey you know when we do decide we can join like have a couple and just plan on just a soft swap or something or just same room sex exactly i'm just with her the other person with a couple we're just in the same room and get comfortable with one another and just have that as the precursor. Like, this is all I plan on doing. And if it happens, it happens, but don't expect anything in a bit, you know.

Yeah, that's smart. Yeah, that's actually, that's actually really smart to put it. And what did she say when you put that on the table? That's what she said. That's how she said. If we're going to do a couple, that's how she would. Oh, that's what she said. Yeah, that's great.

Well, I brought it up, but that's what she said she would prefer to do. Like, she was like, yeah, I think that's smart. Yeah, I think that's a smart way to do it. Exactly. Worst case. Mario, she just, it's just me and her having sex and there's people there that can watch us. Oh, well, you know, no biggie. Right, exactly.

And now, have you ever talked about her and being into seeing you with the woman, or does she have that fantasy? Would you want to be? She does not. She doesn't. She doesn't have a fantasy, really, of me, you know, she's okay with me. Like, we had talked about it before. She said she'd be okay with it if she's doing it, too, but she's like, it's not, like, a fantasy of hers to see me and watch me

you know. But let me tell you she might actually look it wasn't a fantasy of yours right but then you saw it and you were like holy shit now if she's a girl that really admires the female body right and she like that actually might be exactly that she might like that more

than her being with the woman like maybe that's what she winds up realizing she's into just watching you with the girl you don't know you won't know until you do it and that's the hard part is getting her to be willing to try that. Like me, when we talk about it with the guy,

I was just like, fuck it, I'll try it. So, you know, I don't want to push her boundaries further than she's willing to let it go. No, that's why. Soft swap would be working because, you know, like, okay, so she's already expecting us to have maybe oral with one another and that's it. Of course.

And, you know, then if she enjoys it, maybe the next time she'll say, hey, maybe you can do this, you know, or she gets turned on and starts, you know, having sex with a guy. And, you know, I take some, cues and she said you know gives me a little nod I'm going and having fun too you know no but this is what's so great and I always say this and I sometimes when I'm talking to my friends off air just my regular friends and telling them like what kind of people I have on my show and everything

and you know and I think that and I always say like I think a lot of people think like oh these swingers you know you I think people assume or think that like oh the guy is like I don't know what the right word or is pervert or he just like you know he just likes to see his girl with tons a guy's and he's like really weak. No, not weak. No, but I see that a lot though. People say, oh, he's weak. Like, oh, his wife.

Yeah, that's ridiculous. He's afraid to, you know, like, you don't understand. No, but what I, my point I was trying to make is that it typically works best, okay, when there's a guy like you involved, as opposed to a guy that, like, I had once on a call and he was like, oh, my girl wants to have a threesome and she told me the only thing I can't do is like fuck the girl in the ass and he's like and I can't wait to fuck the girl in the ass you know you know that guy the guy that loves fucking women and loves pussy and like he gets a girl that's like open to doing this shit and the minute he starts to do it he's out of control do you know what I mean he's

breaking the rules because he can't fucking control himself because he's a player and he just loves sex and it's too much that he doesn't he he doesn't follow the rules he doesn't think of her feelings he doesn't you know have proper boundaries but you know what I find is that it's it works best and it's most successful with a guy like you who like you're saying all the same things that I've heard from other cool guys that have this situation you're like listen I don't want to push her like I'm willing to wait as long it's what makes her comfortable you know what I mean like it's and that's that's why it's working like you're cool you're not like the guy that's like dick is hard and is like oh she wants a girl I have to make that fucking happen I can't wait to fuck someone she fucked a guy

I got to do it now you know what I mean like it's that you're not that guy whereas I think that a lot of people think that this kind of stuff goes down with those kind of guys, not like a guy like you who's like, you know, you're really respecting your girl. And it's not about, you know, it's just, I think it's just laid out very differently than the way people really think it is. That's why I love doing my show and putting it out there so people could actually hear how it's going down and with, you know, with what kind of people involved, you know? Yeah, and as much as it's for her, don't be wrong. Like, it is for me too. Of course. The reason I enjoy.

But you respect her. That's the thing. You know what I'm saying? I'm not saying it's not about you. You're like, it's about it. Of course it's about you too, right? Well, the way I look at it, though, is because if she's forcing to it, she's not going to enjoy it. Right.

And the reason I enjoy watching her is because I enjoy watching her. Enjoy it. So what's the point? If I'm forcing her, she's not enjoying it. Then you're not going to be enjoying it. I don't want, I'm not trying to pimp her out, you know? Like, it's supposed to be for her. both of our pleasure.

Right. Her physically and me, I don't know what you say. I guess you say physically, mentally, emotionally, I don't know. No, but I mean, I just think that you are, it is cool the way that you are. And a lot of guys couldn't handle the situation and wouldn't be cool.

But that's why it's worked. I mean, you've been with your girl for 10 years. I think it's, I think what you've already had experience is amazing. It's going to be a lot of people that are going to be jealous when they hear your stories. I think once you get to the point where you've got that other couple friend that you're meeting up with,

I just know, if it happens anytime soon, you're going to be calling into my show with stories of all kinds of things. I know your girl's going to be down. She just has to get to the point where she's comfortable enough that she feels comfortable because it's a big step for her

to go be with a woman or have the couple because you guys have never done that before, you know, but you're very close, you know. I can't wait. to hear like I said I'll definitely do a call when when you guys take that next step and see what happens but definitely keep me posted Oh, I will. And I'll tell you what, though. I found your channel, I know, maybe a month ago.

Uh-huh. And I have been just, like, just scrolling through. Like, I just go to your list of videos and start while I'm at work, I was having, you know, earpot in. Yeah. Just listening, put my phone in my pocket, walking around and doing what I do. Yeah, yeah. Listen, listen, listen. I'm like, wow, this is some good stuff right here.

Yeah, and that's what people, and think about it. Now, you know how many people are going to be doing that with your story? I can't tell you. emails from people all the time like hey I'm a trucker and I listen to your show all the time or yeah I work and I'm like I listening at work you know so now the same thing is going to be going down but everyone's going to be listening to your story I think that's like it's great right yeah I just want it to be normalized too you know it's like yeah because especially in today's society you know society's opening up a lot more and they're like you know people are experiencing a lot more stuff and being more open to

experience so it's like okay you know it's not anything to be ashamed of it's you know we all like what we like exactly what's good for me it doesn't have to be good for you you know no that's what i that's why i do my show because i really like helping people and i not only do i feel like i help the people who call in and really put their stuff out there but i think that i am helping in another way which is like normalizing things and first of all a making that person at home that's doing stuff like this or thinking about it that feels abnormal to feel like they're not so abnormal but it's also to normalize this for other people

that maybe you don't want to do it but regular people do this kind of stuff it's not fucking creeps or perverts or these words that people attach or they have these ideas in their head about the kind of people that do this right it's just like regular people it could be your brother it could be your partner

it could be the guy sitting next to you it could be your neighbor you know what I mean it could be your aunt or uncle it's like this is shit that's people do and who the fuck cares I don't care I'm like very non-judgmental when it comes to what people want to do sexually, even if I'm not into it.

I don't care. Like, I don't know why other people do, but I think they shouldn't, you know. So I think it's great that people call in and tell their stories. I'm very grateful for people like you calling in and telling their story. And not only, like you are, you're helping other people too. And I'm grateful for you having a platform to actually,

so people can hear this type of stuff. Yeah, I love it. It's fun for me. I love nothing more than to get on the phone with a total stranger and just like find out all this. Talk about sex. No, honestly, I swear to you, if we talked about, like, your relate, like, how you got your dog. I just like people.

I like, interesting. The sex thing just happened by accident, and that's the whole of the story. But, like, I just find people interesting and stories interesting and real life interesting. And, you know, I just do the sex thing because that's, that sells, right? And people love to hear about it. And I don't feel uncomfortable with it. But it's just, it's fun for me. People that talk about it.

Exactly. Good niche. Yeah, totally, totally. But anyway, what do we call you, Jared? Jared, yes. Yeah, okay, Jared, thank you so much for calling in. This was a great, it was a great story. And keep you posted when you get to the next level.

I will. Thank you so much. And I look forward to hearing from you. Yeah, cool. Bye. Bye, Jared. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly

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Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. and I will send you the link to Discord.

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