Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 415 - Jerome is a Black Bull who Has Been Hooking Up with the Same White Couple for 3.5 Years
Episode Date: October 18, 2021Jerome is a black bull who has been hooking up with the same white couple for 3.5 years now and he calls in to talk all about it. Where and how did he actually meet the white couple? What exactly went... down between them? And, how has it lasted all these years? Tune in for all the details which include how he wound up at his first swingers club, how the husband introduced him to his wife and what exactly went down the first time they hooked up, all the places they would go to have s-e-x and what the husband would instruct him to do, the time they did it in a public bathroom and almost got caught, how the husband liked to watch and what he would do while watching, how they eventually become friends and hang out outside of the bedroom, who he has told about this in his life and how they reacted and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of Jerome and some of my guests (mostly all the females) + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Today, I have on a guy named Jerome. Now, Jerome is a black bull, and he's been a black
for one specific white couple for over three years.
He still sees them to this day.
Now, the thing I got to tell you about Jerome that I like the most is he's fucking funny.
He just was a great storyteller.
He's the guy that uses that phrase to make a long story short.
And I was like, please don't make this long story short.
But the truth is that anybody that uses that sentence is always a long-witted storyteller.
And let me tell you, this story, you want it to be long-witted because the details are
so interesting. He's fucking funny, like I said. He talks about how he kind of like accidentally
wound up at a swinger's club, how he first met this way, couple, what they were there doing,
you know, how it progressed further from the Stringer strip club, from the Swingers Club, exactly
what they would do there as well as at hotels. It progressed to them hooking up at all over the place.
he has a funny story about how the husband likes to creep in and watch
and then he talks about how they're like friends now
and actually he gets invited out with the couple and their friends
and nobody none of their friends know that they're actually
hooking up with him he's just kind of there as their quote unquote co-worker
oh he also talks about a very specific funny time that they guys
hooked up at a bowling alley because they do like to flirt
out in public. So they've crossed lines.
They've done all kinds of crazy things. They've been hooking up, like I said, for over three years.
And he gets really specific in his long story that I wouldn't allow him to make short.
You're not going to want it. He's so entertaining. I'm going to be right back on with Jerome.
Hey, Jerome. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you?
Good. I'm doing good. Doing good. Thank you, man. I'm doing good.
No, thank you for calling in because, you know, I had on a Black Bull once. His name was Wesley.
and his episode was highly downloaded.
I couldn't believe how many people were into that, right, as a category.
And I don't know why I've been doing my show for seven years that I haven't had more Black Bulls on my episode.
I've had a lot of, you know, people on the other end of it, right?
Couples that have had the Black Bull, you know, but not a lot of the Black Bulls themselves talking about their experience.
And so I'm excited to be talking to you.
That's my long-winded way of introducing you.
You're a black bull, right?
Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Yeah, yeah, yes, ma'am.
And you found my show because of Wesley's episode?
Well, yeah, yeah, pretty much.
He wasn't the first one I listened to from your podcast,
but I just, I watch a lot on, listen to a lot of YouTube,
and I just, yours popped up, and I was like, what is this?
So I started listening to a lot of your stories,
and I was like, wow, I like this stuff.
And then Wesley's popped up, I listened to his,
I listened to a lot of them, so I just, I became intrigued with your podcast and your stories and just, you know, just the whole concept of your content.
Yeah, but the fact, but you have content, right?
I mean, here you are a bull.
Did you have one couple that you service?
Were you, I mean, like, how did you get into the lifestyle yourself?
Yeah, it's just one couple.
I just stumbled into this.
I guess it all started.
I've been knowing them for about.
three years now, maybe three and a half now.
I worked with a female that was, she's married.
She was in a lifestyle.
And she kind of told me about it.
And I was like shot because, you know, you don't, I didn't know that.
But she finally told me.
And then she was like, I was like, so that intrigued me.
And I was like, wow.
What did she tell you?
What did she?
Well, she told me that, you know, well, this is how to start.
Well, in the office, she.
she would be looking at the same females I'll be looking at.
You know, like somebody would walk by or go to the, you know, go to the coffee machine.
And I'll be looking like, wow.
And then she'd be looking at me like, wow.
And I was like, wow, at a female.
You know, she'd be like, wow.
And then she'd shake her head.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
And I was like, yeah.
So finally, after about three times of that, I was like, wait a minute.
I said, you're looking at the same stuff.
I'm looking at what's going on.
She said, well, you know, I like that.
I said, you like females?
And she said, yeah.
I said, wow.
I didn't know that.
She said, yeah, I've always been bisexual.
And I said, wow.
So then she told me that her and her husband.
I said, no, then I said, how does that work when you're married?
She said, well, you know, I said, what do you mean?
You know?
She said, she kind of shrugged her shoulders and looked at me like, hmm.
I was like, so you're seeing you and your husband?
She said, yeah.
So that really intrigued me.
Then I was like, well, where do you get them from?
How do you do this? How do you meet them?
And she would just start telling me, you know, we, you know, we go to parties, websites, you know, sometimes we go just the regular bars.
It's just, you know, we're just different ways.
And then I was like, wow, that's exciting.
And she was like, well, we're going to, she said, we're going to a party like next month.
I said, really?
And she was like, yeah.
And I was like, God, I said, that would be amazing to go.
You should come with us.
And I said, really?
And she's like, yeah, just run with us.
I said, are you serious?
She said, yeah.
I said, well, how does this?
So, long story short, the time came.
We set up, and the day came, so I was, like, going to meet them there.
But then right when I got almost to the area of the party where it was an event,
she called me and said something popped up with her mother.
They had the ticket to the hospital about they're not going to be able to make it.
And I was like, oh, okay.
I said, okay, well, I'm going back home.
She's like, no, where are you at?
And I said, where I'm, like, right at the place, I think this is it.
She was like, well, just go, go by yourself.
I said, I don't know nothing about this stuff, you know.
I'm sure there's some type of code you got to get in or some type of, you know,
three knocks on the door.
I said, no, I said, I can't do the shit.
Believe me, you're going to be okay.
Just go in, you know, you'll find your way, you know, sign in, blah, blah, blah.
So, long story short, I did that.
You don't have to make a long story short.
I like these stories.
So, you know, so I get there.
I got there like super early.
It wasn't a lot of people there yet, but they were sitting up.
The DJ was bringing the stuff in and everything.
It was a few people in the waiting area waiting.
So I kind of like just sat there and I was like, I don't know.
I was just scared.
Basically, I was scared shitless.
I didn't know what to say to people.
You know what I can imagine, yeah.
Right.
So it was a younger brother there, a younger black guy and then an older white gentleman kind of
beside each other sitting there and talking.
It seemed like they kind of knew each other a little bit from the outside looking in.
So I was like, I said, well, how do you, what do you do here?
And they said, did you sign in, blah, blah, blah.
I said, no.
So we need to sign in here and pay here.
So I did that.
Then people started coming.
And the black guy and the white guy went on in.
So I was like, okay, well, I guess I'm going on in.
So at that time, people were coming in, you know, and it was just like a regular dance, you know,
have food, dancing, music, and people were coming in.
So I went in, and it was tables sitting in everywhere, and so I went over to the younger brother
and the older white gentleman, and I said, hey, you know, I said, I'm kind of new with this
and the idea what's going on.
You mind if I kind of sit with you guys and kind of just, the white guy was very, he was very receptive.
He was like, yeah, sure, man.
Yeah, come on, come on.
You know, yeah, he'd sit at our table.
The younger black guy, he was kind of, he didn't really say much to me.
You know, he was like, you know, he kind of nodded.
You know, he looked away.
He didn't, it wasn't really community.
But the white guy was open on us.
Yeah.
So, you know, I sat down with him and the white guy was telling me.
So, you know, you know, this your first time here, you ever?
I said, yeah, never.
I don't know anything about this, man.
He started explaining me, okay, that's the food over here, blah, blah, blah.
You know, about, you know, 12 o'clock, everybody's going to be here.
blah blah blah and um he was like he was like uh yeah my wife she's uh she'll be here in a minute
she went upstairs but uh she moved back down and induced you to her i was like okay cool cool so you know
i don't know 15 20 minutes flew by we're me the older white guy and the younger brother was sitting
there and then boom this white lady comes in and the white guy was talking to me at that time you know you
you have this and this. I'm looking. I said, holy shit.
Look at that coming through the fucking door.
And, you know, and kind of under my breath.
And she just came in with this little outfit because at the parties, they have things.
Like, doing the Halloween years of thing, Christmas, you know, Easter.
I think she had like a hot nurse outfit on that day.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So she had the nurse stuff on and, you know, the leggings up to the thighs, the high pumps.
I mean, smoking hot.
So I was like, God damn, who in the hell?
And then she coming, she was coming towards our table.
But at that time, I was thinking, okay, she's not coming here.
But then she came closer, and she came to the table.
And I was like, holy shit.
He said, hey, let me introduce you to my wife.
I was like, oh, God.
And he introduced me in my name, we shook hands.
And he said, yeah, just sit down, sit down beside him.
And so she sat down beside me
And I'm like just looking just
I'm just floored at that moment
I'll be honest with you.
Because she's hot.
Yeah, she's smoking.
She's older.
She's not young.
She's in her 40s but I'm smoking smoking 40 year old.
You know, smoking mid 40 year.
Yeah.
I mean, just smoking.
Like a meal for what they said.
Smoking milk.
Yeah, totally.
So I was like, wow.
So I'm just sitting there, you know.
And then then the wife, the husband,
and the younger black guy were kind of,
you could tell they kind of were men
and you can tell they wasn't,
they wasn't their first time meeting.
Yeah, yeah.
So they were talking, laughing.
But the young black guy was like kind of all over the wife in a sense.
You know, close to her, inner ear, you know.
And at that point, I'm thinking, you know, that's, I was like, what's going on here?
I didn't know.
I was like, what is this?
You know, I'm just, that's my first time.
I was just like, what's going on?
Yeah.
I kind of laid back, you know, and I was just like, but he was on in the ear,
and he was touching their legs.
And I was thinking, oh, okay, so they must be a threesome, something going on here.
I didn't know what it was.
I said, well, this brother here got this.
I said, okay, well, it's not, you know, I can't get it.
So I was thinking that.
But then, 20 minutes later, the husband.
Yeah, you're thinking you're in a regular club and, like, you know what I mean?
Yeah, I think you're forgetting.
Yeah, you're forgetting you're in a swingers club.
Right, I'm in a swinger club.
That threw me because I've never been in that type of environment before.
Never been that type of environment before.
So I'm looking at everything.
And everything's slowing me.
Not only the situation I'm looking at here, but just other stuff going around and, you know, within the party.
But time went on and then the husband leans over to me.
The brother, the younger brother went up to the food to get some food.
And the husband leaned over to him.
You said, uh, because the wife.
went to get the food with the brother. He said, when she comes back, he said, when she comes back,
he said, go ahead and run your hand up her skirt.
And, you know, I said, what the hell? In my mind, I said, holy shit. I'm thinking, man, I'm not doing that.
And I said, what did you say, man? He said, when she comes back, she's going to sit down beside you.
He said, just under that table, he said, use your hand and go on up under that skirt.
and I said, well, I said, well, I didn't even answer it.
I didn't even answer it.
Yeah.
So she came back, you know, she sat down, you know, and she was in between me and the other brother.
She was in between us.
The husband was on, like, on my side.
So, you know, and she sat down, and the other guy, he was mingling with her and stuff.
And I'm sitting there.
I'm thinking, I didn't even do it.
So he nudged me.
He nudged me.
Like, you know how you nudged somebody?
Yeah.
He gave me the eye, like, go ahead and do what I say.
Yeah.
So I'm thinking, my heart's beat.
I'm like, dude, man.
So I kind of leaned to him.
I said, dude, are you serious?
He looked at me.
He looked at me eye to eye, eye, bow, the eye, and said, I'm telling you, do it.
Mm-hmm.
Oh, God.
I said, oh, my God, Jesus.
So I said, because I didn't know her reaction going to be.
I think I didn't even know her.
You know what I'm saying?
This is a, this is a, I didn't know her from out of the age.
Yeah.
I just better.
Yeah.
So I'm thinking, oh, my God, it's really?
So he looked at me nod to me.
So for some reason I got out the guts to do it
Kind of put my hand
You know kind of let it hang under the table
And I kind of touched her
I got my palm and kind of rubbed against her thigh
And I started rubbing like her calf area
And her knee
And I started easing up
Easing up towards her upper thigh
She didn't flinch
She was just talking like
You know
You're laughing, talking, drinking, eating snacks
Didn't flinch
I was thinking
holy shit. So then, boom, I move up a little further, you know, up to the thigh, up to the pussy area.
Boom, I started rubbing the panties outside of the panties. She didn't flinch. She did not flinch.
So I'm like, oh, my God. I said, this is crazy. This is crazy. Smoking milk, this is crazy.
So then as time went on through the party, the brother, the other girl, the other, the other,
black guy, but he became a little more aggressive towards her. You know, he became really
touchy Philly, you know, really, really aggressive. And I still didn't know. I said, well, I don't
know. I don't know. Is it his territory? I don't know what to do. Yeah. So basically,
basically I just kind of just lean back again and let it be long story, the party went on
through the night. They, they ended up getting up and leaving. And to my knowledge,
I was thinking, okay, they must be going to a room or something.
Yeah.
You know, they're leaving.
They're going to have sex.
They're going to fuck.
And they did.
They did.
They left.
And basically, I didn't see them the rest of the night.
Right.
I didn't see them the rest of the night.
So the party went on.
You know, I stayed, had my fun.
And, you know, I left.
But they have the parties on a monthly basis.
So I was thinking, damn, that was pretty good.
I'm going back.
Mm-hmm.
So the next, you know, next part I paid my phone.
money went back. So, Lord
behold, when I went in the party,
I didn't come to early
that, like I did the first time. It came like
at 11 o'clock, 1130, you know,
when everybody was there. So I walked in
and as soon as I walked in,
there was that couple, that white
couple in the corner. And they knew, when I
walked in, it was like, they saw me
immediate, because I didn't see them. They
both jumped up and they were waving.
Like, hey, hey, hey.
And I looked, you know, it's dark
in the little, in the little ballroom there.
It's not a lot of life.
And I looked,
and I was like,
who,
I said,
is that that,
I said,
oh,
that's that couple
from last month.
Yeah.
I said,
they were like,
hey,
they were waiting me.
Come,
come here,
come here.
I said,
oh, shit.
It was,
I was our wife,
though.
I said, hey,
they were like,
they were like,
the husband,
like,
he said,
oh, man,
we're so glad to see you,
man.
He said,
man,
come on sit down.
The wife was
rubbing me on the back.
And I was thinking,
what is this?
They were apologizing.
They said, oh, God, we're so sorry about last month.
That was just a disaster.
They said, we're not that type of people.
He said, man, just sit down.
He said, man, we didn't get the check.
Just come on, sit down, sit down.
So they were just apologizing and running me, both of them.
Yeah.
So I was like, I was confused.
Basically, I was confused.
I said, what?
You know, I'm thinking, you don't have to apologize for me.
This is, I didn't even think.
Basically, I didn't even think about it anymore.
You know?
I'm like, the dude would beat me.
He was there before me.
Yeah.
You know, whatever, you know.
Mm-hmm.
So now this one, it really started here, this here, because then I sat down with him.
They were like, God, I'm so glad you came.
Did you get something to eat here?
Come on, come.
Come on.
Let's go to the bar and get it.
So they went up there.
They fixed me some food and everything.
And, you know, got me dreams.
You did you go on sit down.
God, so what's been going on?
I was like, nothing.
Just blah, blah.
He said, then the husband said, he said, I never did get your number.
He said, let's just change.
changed numbers. Just changed numbers. Okay, so we changed numbers on the phone, boom, boom, boom. So then as the night went on, you know, she was sitting in between me and the husband. And she would get up. She got up one time and I think she went over to the bar to get some food and drinks. And, you know, as a lot, and he leaned over to me and said, he said, hey man. I said, yeah. He said, I don't know if you want to do this or not. He said, but it's up to you. I'm up to you. He said, I'm up to you. He said, I'm up to you. He said, I'm up to. He said, he said, I'm up to you. He said, he said, he's up to up to up. He said, he's up
you. He said, it's up to you. No pressure, no pressure. He said, but my wife wants to go up to the room
with you. And then I go, again, I'm confused and stunned. I go, you know, this is not my lifestyle.
So I go, yeah, yeah, you're so funny. I love that. I love the angle of like the sort of, you know,
that you're just so innocent in the middle of this place. Normally I hear, you know, people are there,
they're down to fuck, they're ready for this experience and they're on it. And you're
still like perplexed it's hilarious yeah i'm still i'm so green yeah yeah yeah i like it it's
yeah right so i'm like huh yeah he said uh he said he said listen no pressure man if you don't want to
that's fine but yeah just you know go up there for a winter you know maybe maybe 10 minutes just
something like that we'll see how that goes and we'll go from there so i'm thinking i'm thinking at this time
i'm still thinking go up there and do what right you know what i'm still green i'm thinking go up there and do what
Right.
You know what I'm still green?
I'm thinking, go up there and do what?
So I'm thinking, okay.
So she comes back.
Then when she comes back, he kind of, he kind of like,
okay, here she's going.
He said, here she's going, here she's going, here she's going.
You know, you know how you move your body around?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I said, okay, okay, okay.
And she said, and he dies, and she sits down, boom, and she sits down.
And then he kind of looks at me like, mm-hmm, mm-hmm, so I'm like, okay.
So she's, she's talking, laughing.
Then he says, go, go dance with her, man.
Go take her up there on the floor and dance.
That's okay.
So I take her up there to the floor.
We're dancing.
And we were dancing, we get very sexual on the dance floor.
You know, and of course, this is a swingers club, so it's not like your regular club.
So it's all balls down.
You know what I'm saying?
Anything goes, basically.
So when we go up there, she, we're dancing and everything.
She's on me.
I'm not advancing to her, but she's advancing to me.
You know, she's getting close.
She's rubbing.
I mean, she's, I mean, it gets very sexual.
And then, you know, I'm getting, at that point, I'm getting aroused.
I'm getting a hard on.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
So I'm like, holy shit.
So we go back to the table and then, um, then he says, um, I think she, she went to, she said,
I'm going to the bathroom guys and she's okay.
So when she goes, he said, hey, hey, man.
And he said, when she comes back, you know, go, I'm, I'm going to give you the cue.
He said, go ahead up there and take up to the room.
and he said
and he said
there's a bar up there
he said have her make you a drink
he said listen he's going to tell you exactly
what to do
I said okay he said
when she goes up there
he said kind of get up there
and tell you want to drink
you know she'll make you a drink
he said get behind her
get behind her
she got that little short skirt on
get behind her
he said let her make you a drink
when she's making a drink
to tell how beautiful she is
how hot she is
you know how much you're attracted to her
how hard your dick got when you're on the floor
when you're dancing with her.
He said, they kind of kiss her neck.
And he said, then from that,
once she started kissing her neck,
he said, she's going to go right down
to suck your dick immediately.
He said, immediately.
He said, once she does that,
he said, don't take your clothes off.
He said, just kind of, just go quickie.
You know, just pull your pants down.
She got that skirt on.
You can lift that skirt up, pull those pants down.
Just fuck her from the back.
Just a little bit.
Give her a little bit.
tease, not much, and just take it out and come on down.
We'll see how it goes from there.
So when he says this, I am out of my fucking man.
I've never heard nobody talk to me like that.
Especially, you know, from a guy to death, his wife.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
So I'm like, damn, I said, holy shit.
I said, okay.
Then I said, I said, man, are you sure about this?
He said, I'm never sure of my life.
Do exactly what I say, and we'll see how to go.
Okay.
So here she comes.
Then she, here he said, here she goes.
He said, here she's going, he's going.
So he's moving around.
He's going, here, she's going.
I said, okay, okay.
And she said, hey guys.
And he said, he said, he wants to go up there and you make him a drink at the room.
And she said, really?
You want to drink?
And I said, yeah, I like to have a drink.
She said, okay, give me the keys.
And, you know, the keys to the room.
He hands are the keys.
And she said, come on.
Let's go.
So she leaves away out the ballroom and we're walking up the hallway, you know, through the room area.
We're just small chatting.
I said, okay, yeah, cool.
She said, yeah, this is cool.
I like this.
Boom, we get to the door.
And she, like, swipes the thing.
And I'm like, at this point, I'm like, okay.
Holy shit, here we go.
So we're going there.
And exactly, I follow his rules exactly.
I don't, I don't, I don't deviate from anything he says.
Yeah.
Exactly.
As soon as we get there, she goes, turns right to the bar.
And he's, he's right.
She goes right to that little mini bar.
She said, what do you want to drink?
I was like, because I'm not even really a drink.
I don't even know drinks.
I was like, you just make me something.
Whatever you think.
I'm a lightweight.
Just make me something like, she, okay, I think I'm going to be like this.
So she stopped mixing stuff and everything.
Boom, I get behind her, you know, and she kind of like braces up on me.
Boom, she braces up on me.
She puts her butt, puts her ass on my dick, you know.
I'm like, oh, fuck.
And she kind of does that.
Boom, I did exactly what he said.
I kind of rubbing her neck.
I tell her, I said, you're hot as fuck.
You know, you're smoking the shit in here.
She didn't say anything.
Yeah.
She just hears it and she starts breathing heavy.
You know, then I do what I see.
I start kissing her neck and everything.
Boom, boom, boom, boom.
And he's right.
Boom, she kind of pushes me back.
Immediately she gets to her knees.
Bam, she pulls my pants down, underwear down.
She started giving me head right there.
I'm like, holy shit.
I'm like, oh, my God.
There's some good one, too.
It's good head, right?
Boom.
She does that for a while.
Then I kind of push her back, spin her around,
and I do what he say?
lift that skirt up, boom, pull the pants, panties down.
Bam.
Oh, she gives me a condom too.
She kind of gives me a condo from the back.
Boom, put that on.
So I'm kind of, we're doing it from the back, you know, standing up right there.
Almost right at the door.
You know, that's what the bar was.
So we do that.
It's amazing.
You know, actually, yeah, it's crazy.
It's crazy amazing because it's just like, I don't even hardly know her.
You know, it's crazy.
Yeah.
So finally, she's got to give her downstairs.
So we do.
We'll hustle back down.
He said, hi, we'll come back down.
And he's, oh, God, that's what the husband's saying.
So she, I think she goes to get some cheese or something.
So he said, how did it go?
I said, man, he went good.
He said, any problems?
I said, no.
I said, I did everything you said.
Good, good.
We'll see how everything goes and let's not be good.
He said, here's come, here's come, here's going.
He said, here's going.
It comes down.
And then, you know, she does that.
So, you know, we continue to mingle, laugh and everything.
And as the night goes on, he leans over to me again and said, do you want to go back up there again?
And I said, yeah, yeah, I'll go back up there again.
He's all right.
He said, he says, he wants another drink.
He wants another drink.
She said, you want another drink?
Yeah, he wants another drink.
Drink is code.
Drink is code.
Yeah.
It was so really, right.
Drink was cold.
And I was like, oh, yeah, I like another drink.
Oh, he wants another drink.
Okay, come on.
So we go up there to drink.
And then he, I forgot, but this time he told me, he said, you know, he said that bed there.
He said, kind of do something on the bed, you know, kind of brace her against the bed.
He said, you see that it was like a table with the TV and stuff on it.
He said, you can brace against that TV if you want.
He said, yeah, all that chair over there.
He's kind of giving me all these instructions what to do.
Yeah.
You know.
And then I kind of pick a couple of the instructions that I do.
You know, we get up there.
You know, same thing.
You know, I said, God, you're so fucking hot.
And then we just, boom.
I think we fucked on the, on the table, a little bit on the bed.
I put on the little air conditioning thing.
We were up there more.
We did it longer that time.
I mean, we looked at about 20 minutes.
She had to end.
And so let's go.
We got to get back down.
He's been down that too long.
So, long story short, that's how it started.
And then from there, I would meet them basically, you know, he would touch bases with me.
The husband would.
I never talked to her.
He would, he would call me and, hey, you know, you're going to go through the party.
You know, yeah, all right, get your ticket.
So we would meet every month, you know, at the parties.
But as time went on, I kind of got to know them there.
You know, now I got to know them.
You know, we know each other.
Yeah.
You know, we kind of, we kind of become friends.
You know, we know each other lives.
We know each other and everything.
So now we start, we're doing the parties, but we started meeting outside of the parties,
where we would just meet at a hotel.
You know, so then we started, then we became, I got to know,
we started just really meeting and hanging out, like we're a meeting at restaurants.
And sometimes, you know, we would, sometimes we would not even do nothing.
We just meet at restaurants.
Hey, me just at the restaurant.
We're going to go over here and eat and hang out and we're going to listen to some music.
But for the majority of the time, it would always be eat, hang out, hotel.
Right.
And now what goes down at the hotel?
Is he just watching?
Does he ever get involved?
Does he, like, does he have specific instructions for you each time?
Yeah, yes.
Yeah, I kind of skipped over since I said, well, well, what?
What was so odd was when we started, when we started meeting outside of the parties and we would meet at the hotel, just the three of us, the instructions became very high demand.
Like he became, that's, it's almost like he would, he would give me vivid instructions prior to me meeting.
Like he, like we're meeting on the Saturday.
He'll call me Friday.
Hey man, we're going to meet.
That's we'll meet up Saturday.
you got time to talk. I said, yeah, all right, let me tell you what I want you to do here.
He'll say, he said, yeah, we're going to get that same room we always go to.
I said, yeah, okay. Now, when you go up there, there's a couple things I want you to do.
I want you to start off right there at that table. You know, he would give me A1 instructions what to do, this and this, this and this. And, you know, I will follow them.
You know, I will follow them. I do exactly what he wants, you know.
The thing about it was he, he, he, and we never, the three of us never really talked about it,
but I remember the first time at the hotel, it was, because what he'll do, he'll say, all right,
all right, you guys, you know, me and her, we'll be all three of them to be talking,
and then eventually, most of the time she'll start kissing me and stuff, you know,
you know, rubbing me and sitting on my lap, and then he'll say, you know, all right, I'm going to go
over here to the Waffle House and get something to eat and then I'm going to go get a coffee.
So I'll be back later.
And he would leave.
So when he left, me and her, we're getting to the act, you know, we start kissing.
You know, we're doing it, you know, she's giving me head on vice versa.
And then the door would creep open.
Like, yeah.
You know, I'm talking about the main door, the whole thing.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
The door.
And this was the first.
the first time. And I said, and I look, I said, who is this coming? It was hard because I'm in an
aquifer, we're screwing, kissing, sucking, doing all the stuff. And I would look over my
back of my peripheral vision. I see the door slightly open. And I think, who the hell is this coming
through the door? You know, and I look, a little, and I say, is that him? But it was hard to
keep the act going with her and look to see who that was. But then I said, that's him.
Yeah. And he would, he would slide through the door. And then he would ease, like,
maybe get down low like you know you get down on both knees yeah and then he'd be looking
i said what is he doing and i'm thinking at this point i didn't know i was like dude i was thinking
man dude you know i just i just i'm just i'm just i don't do dudes you know what i'm saying he's just
on yeah yeah yeah yeah of course he's gonna try to creep up behind me yeah i said i'm not i'm not we're
finished start fighting here this ain't happening you know because i didn't know what was happening
you were easing around the room you know he'd be hiding behind like the microwave
looking and I say what is this? And at this point it becomes hilarious to me. I'm about to start
laughing out laugh. And I said, don't laugh. Hold it, hold it, hold it, hold it, hold it. Because I'm
trying to screw her at the same time, kissing, you know, switching positions. But I'm looking at him
because I don't know what his intentions are, but it's so funny. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm like,
don't laugh, don't laugh. You know, just think about something else. Think about something else.
So, you know, that was the first experience.
I never forget it at the hotel.
So I was thinking, he must just be a looker.
I couldn't figure that out.
And at this point, I didn't know how to address that to him.
So I never asked.
I just let it be.
Yeah.
So as we continue to meet, that's what would happen.
Like, he would give me all these instructions, what to do, you know, what she got on,
you know, how to hear her, what position to put her in, you know, do this, do that.
Don't forget to do this.
And so I would do that stuff, but at the same time, he was sneaking.
He would always say I'm leaving, but then come back in and sneak around the room, almost like a predator.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, he'd be on his knees.
And then as time went on, I became used to.
I said, okay, this is what he gets off on.
Yeah.
He likes to watch.
He likes to watch, and then he likes to instruct.
Right.
And then as I got to know him, them and him, I one time me and him were.
talking on the phone. I said, man, what? I said, what do you get out of this? You know, I said,
what do you get out of this? Because, you know, at this point, I said, you never get in.
I said, you just, you just, you just watch us. I said, what? He said, well, he said, well, yeah, yeah,
I like that. I love to see my wife with a black man. Yeah. And that's what he said.
I said, really? He said, yeah. He said, I love, I just, it just turns me on. He said, I can't,
I can't really explain it.
He said, but it just fucking turns me on.
And I said, oh, I said, well, I said, has she ever been with the black guy?
He said, no.
He said, well, let me honest with you.
He said, that guy, and this is the guy that we.
Yeah, the first guy that was there that first guy.
He said, her.
And the guy, I said, I thought so that time I first met you.
He said, yeah, but it was a disaster.
She didn't like it.
He said, she didn't like it.
I said, well, what?
She didn't like about it.
And, you know, everything is communicated through him.
I never really talked to her a lot, you know, about this stuff.
So it was just through him to her or whatever.
So, and then he said, yeah, he said, no, she, I said, what was the problem?
He said, man, he was too rough.
He was very barbaric.
Yeah.
He just, she said he was a smoker.
You know, he smoked cigarettes.
He smoked weed, all that stuff.
She said, she just didn't like it.
Yeah, yeah.
And she said, after that first experience, she said, that's it.
You know, I don't just, I'm done with him.
She said, and then for real, we met you.
He said, we should have went with you the first time, you know.
And I started laughing.
He said, yeah, but man, and he said, man, you, she really likes you.
And I said, really?
He said, yeah, yeah.
I mean, that first time, she was just, she's just talking about you and how much you're a gentleman.
You did, you treat her like a woman, you know, and oh, she just, you just, you dress so nice and you're just a clean cut guy.
Man, she just, she thinks the world of you.
And I said, really?
I said, and so that was a while back.
And I said, yeah, yeah, yeah, you just, so I don't know, you just, you, you figure be it, you know.
I said, oh, okay.
And so going back to that, and I said, then I said, well, I said, how, and I said, me and if you mad me asking, how did it all this?
I said, how long have you guys been in this lifestyle?
He said, man, never.
And I said, what do you mean never?
He said, dude, we never been in this, this, this lifestyle.
I said, so you, this is new.
He said, this is new to us.
Mm-hmm.
He said, this is new to us.
He said, we just started going to these parties.
And I said, well, how did, who, who suggested this between the two of you?
He said, she did.
Right.
Wow.
And he said, she did.
I said, well, how did it happen?
I mean, how did John, how did she bring it up?
He said, one day we were just, we were just at the house chilling and me and her drinking.
And he said, what did all she said is she wanted to be with a black guy.
Right.
She said that and she never been with one.
She wants to be with a black guy.
And he said, man, you know, I'm not a jealous guy, you know,
and I've been knowing her since she was,
I've been knowing her since she was 18.
And, you know, so, you know, I like to make her happy.
He said, I want to make her happy and I do the word for him.
He said, so when she said that, I was like, you know,
well, you start looking to some avenues to do this, make this happen.
He said, so she started pulling up different websites and all this stuff.
So she, that's how we found that party.
and that's how it happened.
But other than that, no, we don't.
I said, man, I would have never thought it's seen.
You sing kind of in, no, no, it's all, it's all an illusion, man.
We don't know what the hell we're doing, you know.
And, you know, and I said to you, I said, I said, so you just like to watch and instruct.
He said, yeah, yeah, that's just, that's what I like to do.
It's just, I said, so you would love to be a director in poem.
oh he said oh my god man i would fucking love that i would love to just be a director you know making the
scene setting people up oh yeah oh yeah that would be my thing so that's kind of his thing so
to piggyback forward um oh uh he we only done like the three of us we did a threesome we've done that
only twice where he joined in where he joined in yes it was it was the first
time was again it was it was I never get this it was the same thing me and her we were in the ad we're
screwing you know we're switching positions breathing heavy on the bed you know he's he's he's
prowling around the room like a predator you know kind of low you know and then at this point you know
we kind of experienced you know we kind of know each other so he's getting close to the bed like
he'll get like over the bed you know looking at getting down in between the crevices of stuff you know like
If I have her in, just say a missionary or something,
I got her legs way back to her knees or something.
You know, head all the way back, you know, her knees to her.
He'll get down there and be looking at almost at my ass and her pussy.
I mean, he, you know, get a close look.
You know, he became comfortable now.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So he was doing that and I'm kind of used to it now,
but it's still funny at this point to me.
But he was in the back of me, and I heard him breathing hard.
and this was kind of odd
because he never makes noises
anything, but I heard him kind of like
I was like, well, I kind of looked
on my shirt, I said, okay, what's going on?
So then I was thinking, well,
I got a chin to her. So I'm tending to her
but I heard the breathing and I heard
the belt, you know, a bell
I heard like a belt, like he was Russian.
Yeah.
I heard his pants come down.
And then he jumped in.
Right. And that was the first time.
and then it happened, I don't know, a second time.
So out of this three and a half years I've been knowing him,
only twice that he just looked at and I guess it just turned him on so fucking bad
to where he just said, I want to get in this.
Right.
You know, but most of the time, but, you know, for 99% of the time,
he just watches and he likes to instruct.
He gives me, and then it got to a point to why I say,
he would give me all this stuff where he wants me to do,
position-wise, what to say.
I said, listen, man.
I said, you need some damn Q cards in that room.
I said, you know, crazy, man.
I said, listen, man, I'm going to go to Walmart and get some Q cars,
and you feel that stuff out and hold it up over your head.
Because he'll be signaling to me what to do, you know, turn around.
And it's funny because she knows he's there.
Just say it.
Just say it.
Just fucking say it.
We all know it now.
We're not strangers.
But I think he gets all.
off on the whole point of just creeping around.
Yeah.
You know,
you know,
saying it's the funniest thing.
I swear.
That is so fucking funny.
It's like the fourth wall.
He doesn't want to broken,
right?
It's like it's just really hilarious.
Yes,
it's really hilarious.
It is.
So when I told her,
he just bust out laughing,
he said,
you're crazy.
I said,
yeah, man,
because I can't tend to her
and satisfy her.
And I look on my shoulder
and you're telling me,
flip her around,
do this and that,
take her over here.
You know,
spread her,
legs over here, you know.
I'm like, so that is the funniest thing.
But, you know, like I say, let me see.
And then it's been like, as we became to know each other,
this is another one that I can throw out.
We were at, you know, a lot of times we don't hang out just a regular place.
You know, restaurants.
And we were at this, it's like a restaurant, like a slash restaurant, bowling alley.
They have a pool table area, a game room, you know, it's all the whole nine.
You know, it's like a nice place you can hang out and, you know, whatever.
So we were there eating one night, just chilling, talking, watching some, watching football or whatever.
And then we went, we bowled.
And we were bowling.
She would go do her lane and throw down.
And then he would tell her, he said, when she comes back, you know, grab her and tell her she did a good job, take her and spin her around and go up that skirt.
You know, this is in public.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
So I said, dude, man, people standing right here.
Are you sure?
He said, yeah, fucking, man, they don't care.
They don't know.
Take her and spin.
So I was like, oh, my God.
So she comes up.
I said, do what he said.
I pick her, spin around and go up the skirt a little bit.
He's like, yeah, good, good, good.
And he continues me to give me, every time she bows, you know, she goes and he tells me when she comes up this time, you know, grab those tities.
And then I was doing this stuff, and people were looking.
You know, people were looking.
Yeah.
You know, they were like, what's going on over here?
you know, but whatever.
So then I see him,
he disappeared.
And I saw him going upstairs to the pool area,
to the pool room area.
Yeah.
Pool table area.
I was like, where's he going?
So he goes up there, whatever.
So me and her,
we're just laughing, talking, rolling, doing bowling.
So he comes back down and she's bowling.
And he tells him, he said, hey, man.
I said, yeah.
He says, pool table area upstairs.
He said, we're going to go up there.
He said, I want you to fuck her up there.
Oh, my God.
Then I go, I said, dude.
I said, dude, there's people up there.
He said, no, I already scoped it out.
It's good, man.
He said, when I go up there, follow my league, get her and tell her, let's go upstairs and tell
her, let's shoot some pools.
She'll follow you.
Just do it.
So, oh, God.
So she goes up there and she goes.
I said, all right.
I said, let's go shoot some pool in.
She said, where?
I said, upstairs.
They got the pool table.
And she's like, oh, I hadn't done that in flavor, blah, blah.
So we get to go up there.
So we're shooting pool and everything.
And it's a few people.
up there and then she's at the pool table and me and her standing over there and he said when
she finishes that he said go go tell a good job high-fiver when you hug her he said push her in that
man's bathroom and i said and i said i said man it's people here how that's going to work he said
believe me it's going to work i scope got everything um i'm going to be the lookout he said but
soon as you do that hug her pit high-fiving and push her up
in that bathroom. She's going to, I said, man, I said, man, she's not going to do this, man.
And we're in the, we're in the public area. She ain't going to do this. He said, listen,
I know her better than she knows. Do it. Yeah. So I go, I go, okay. All right, all right. So she
she deals the pool. She hits it in. I said, good job. I high-five her. She jumps up. I pick
her up, I hug her, spin her around. Then when I grab her, I just, I just got her right into
the bathroom. She said, what are you doing? I said, look right here. Something right here
that somebody left in here. I don't know. Is this your thing?
She said, what are you doing?
And I pushed it. Boom, I close the door.
Yeah.
And I didn't cut the light because he told me.
He said, when she gets in there, he said, man, it's a, he said, it's a table over there.
The sink, you can fuck her right on the sink.
He said, and then spin her around.
He said, man, it's just what you need.
Do that and do this.
He told me vivid instructions of what to do.
Yeah.
He said, don't turn that light on.
Just do everything without the light.
So I go in there, I do it.
I push her in there and, uh, she said, what are you doing?
And then I just, I go up against her and she had like a skirt on that night, like a long skirt.
Pull the skirt down and that's it.
She bent, she immediately bent it right over on that sink.
She put her elbows on that sink, bend over.
I came back around her and we stand up doing it right to sing.
Bam, bam, bam.
Then it was like a little chest, a little sit-down area in the bathroom.
I put her, I put her pent up against there.
We're in there.
You know, we're screwing her right there.
Legs up against the area.
her up, pick her up, I'm screwing her.
Then I hear like a knock.
She's like, oh my God, what is that?
Who's that?
I said, that's probably, that's probably, you know,
it's probably the husband.
Yeah.
They're vividly knocking at the door.
Boom, boom, boom, boom.
I was like, who is that?
She said, that's not he wouldn't be doing it.
We're rushing around, getting our stuff on.
And then they're trying to open the door.
Go, go, go, go, go, go.
She's like, God, damn it.
Jesus Christ.
We're running around.
Like a little 15-year-olds.
Yeah, yeah.
Get up, man.
guy. And she said, I'm going.
She said, I'm going out first. You wait, then you go.
And then I said, okay, okay, okay. And she
bums out. And I'm sitting there, I'm waiting, and
the point I come out. And it's like a guy wanting to
use a grab for her. Not her husband.
Another guy, right. No, he's nowhere even
around. He's nowhere even around.
There is, yeah. It's hilarious. So we're like,
she's breathing heavy. She's sweaty.
You know, I'm sweaty. And then the guy looked
at me like, what in the hell?
Yeah.
You know, and then he's looking like, and then the husband comes up the stairs, all with a beer in his hand comes up.
We're breathing.
She's like, she's like, so, dude, where are you?
She was fussing to him.
Where were you at?
You know, under her brain.
Where were you at?
Where was at the guy came?
I went to get a beer, but she said, you're supposed to be going to look out.
You're supposed to be on lookout.
You're supposed to be on lookout.
He said, well, I just wouldn't it took me fine.
She said, what were you all got?
God, that's embarrassing.
That is embarrassing.
And so that was
That was very funny
Yeah, that was very funny
It was such a rush
Yeah
Of the whole concept
Because we did it
In a public place
Yeah, totally
And we did it in a,
you know,
In a place that
Things like that don't happen.
Yeah.
I think it was such a rush
For all three of us.
Yeah.
Because he,
even though he never really
Was in an act of none of us,
he never does get any in it.
But he gets a rush
off of just the whole concept of it.
Of course, of course.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, let me see.
Yeah, a lot of that.
And even at the party, the party's a little different because the swing of party,
stuff like that happens.
But, man, we've done, we've screwed at the table.
Once I got to know them, you know, became comfortable where she would screw me.
Like, we would be sitting there.
I mean, one time we were at the party and then, um,
he was saying something to her,
and then she didn't,
he had dared her.
He had dared her.
I dare her.
I dare you.
He said, I don't think you do.
I fucking dare you.
I fucking dare you to do that shit right now.
And she was like,
you know, he's fucking wet.
And then she got,
she had a scrow and I'm sitting there,
and she just kind of scrowed up me.
And she's sitting there, right, screwing me.
We're sitting there screwing right to table,
you know, right there at the party.
That was one.
It was one time we screwed into me and the back.
She left for her.
some reason she got a rush up screwing in the men's bathroom.
Right.
And we did that.
And again, people were wanting to come in.
You know, they were like, you know, knocking at the door, trying to come in.
I think she gets a rush off for that.
Yeah, for sure, a little bit of an exhibitionist.
Yeah, I think she, yeah, the exhibition is part of it.
Yeah.
Yeah, but that is kind of.
But you said you've been with them for, like,
three and a half years. Do you still currently hook up with him?
Yeah, yeah. I just talked to him Friday. We taught me and him talked Friday.
You got instructions? Yeah. Well, he said, he said they were probably going to,
he said, we're going to see because what has happened with them is kind of slow their progress.
Her mother has dementia. Right. And she has, she's at the ending stages. And it kind of, you know,
And they're like the caretaker.
So it kind of took over their life.
So they're kind of not moving as frequently as.
Because really, I only meet them on like a Friday or Saturday weekend.
Through the week they're busy working.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You know, we don't really mean.
We don't hook up.
I don't see them through the week.
But, like, weekends are when we meet up and hang out.
But, yeah, I just talked to him Friday, but he did give me instruction.
He said, yeah, man, let me check with her and see.
But, you know, we're probably going to do something.
I'm going to hang out, but I'll call you.
And he said, and then he said, he said, I'm thinking about going back to that spot.
Remember that Bowling Alley place we went to?
No way.
Yeah, I said, yeah, I said, really?
He said, yeah, yeah, I think that'd be a good goal.
We'd go back there, man.
Right.
But let me check with her, and I get the okay, and I'll call you and kind of go some things with you and we'll go from there.
But, you know, he loves to get.
But long story short, we did with it, and I think her, they didn't.
they didn't come out Saturday because of dealing with the mother stuff or something.
But yeah, I still, I still, and that's the thing about it.
I never thought in my wildest dreams that, you know, the relationship will still be going on.
Yeah.
I mean, even after the first time, I was thinking, you know, I'll do this.
One and done, right.
Yeah, it was one and done.
I was like, you know, I'll probably move on to the next guy.
But, you know, it kind of, I guess, and be honest with you, she's, she's very particular.
Yeah.
And I'm not, I'm saying I'm tooting my own horn or anything.
Yeah.
She, she wasn't, she's not, they're not your normal swinger couple.
You know what I'm saying?
They wouldn't just go out and just pick the random guy.
Mm-hmm.
You know what I'm saying?
And a lot depends on her.
Yeah.
But I have to tell you, I think a lot of times with swinger couples, the woman.
is more discerning than the man.
I think a lot of the time
that's the case, you know, and that
becomes the issue for the
couple trying to find people. It's typically
the, and I don't know if it's like
guys will just bang anyone and
women are more particular, but I think
there's something to that. You know, I think that
women, there's a lot more that
needs to be lined up for
a woman to feel comfortable to just have
sex with someone than, you know,
for a guy. I think it's
a lot easier for a guy to just
get turned on by anyone.
And a woman, I think more has to be involved.
Not talking emotional.
You know, even just a physical thing, you know,
but I think women are more particular about stuff, you know?
Right.
Yeah.
Yeah, I think.
I think you're right.
I think you're right.
And it's funny.
And what's so funny is that now that I becomes friends with them
and I meet them and hang out with them,
I got to know their friends, you know,
their other couple friends, you know.
and it's so funny that like they don't know I remember the first time that he told me come on out
we're out here hanging out and have some drinks listen to some music we got some other friends out
here so I got out there and then he he met me he came up and met me before I got to the table
like he said hey and I said yeah he said um you're he said you are a guy I worked with um
blah blah blah you know this is you know you're blah blah blah you guys work with that's how we know each
right they don't know yeah yeah so i was like cool got it and uh the friends their friends
and i know them now but it's it's so funny they have no idea that that what's going on
that i'm screwing her that they're kind you know that they're in that kind of lifestyle they're
doing what they're doing and it's just it's just funny because i'm thinking like who you know who
they're going to think I am. He said, they think you work
with me. Just, they don't know.
Just you work with me. Right.
And, but it was funny. One time, this was,
this was not too long ago, one of the
female friends of there, we were sitting
there, talking, drinking.
And she leaned over to me. And she said, how do you
know that? She kind of looked at me. How do you know them?
Yeah. And I go,
I said, oh, I work.
I work with him. You know, we're
co-workers. And she kind of looked, you know,
you look at somebody in there. I go,
hmm yeah and I go yeah I said yeah we and so I said so we just he just invited me to hang out with
him with you guys so yeah we work and she can't look at she go she go mm-hmm okay right you know and
and it was fun I was like I don't think she she's seeing something through this I don't know you know
you know women have different intuitions you know what I'm saying so and I told him about it like
later that night I said yeah man what's the name lean old to me she said you know
asked me, you know, how I know you and all this stuff.
He said, he started laughing about it, really?
He said, what did you tell her?
I said, I was her.
He said, yeah, yeah, that's funny.
She don't fucking know.
Nobody knows, you know.
Yeah.
And that would be in their wildest dreams, you know what I'm saying?
If they figured it out, you know what I'm saying?
So that's the thing I think is, I think all three of us kind of get off on that, that piece of it.
Yeah, you're all, like, kind of in the know and nobody else.
That's what I was thinking.
Like they probably, there's something about,
it probably is like foreplay for them to have you in front of all their friends.
You know,
you all know that they know,
but nobody else knows.
You know,
they probably,
that probably adds to their sex life too,
you know?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Don't you think there's something in that too as well?
Or maybe it's just that you guys are just all friends now, right?
I mean,
and he just invites you as a friend.
Yeah.
He just,
yeah,
he says that a lot.
You just such a, he said you're such a good friend of ours, man.
Yeah, I mean, you guys have developed a real relationship's outside of it.
So maybe when they're inviting you to those scenarios with their other friends,
it's not for their foreplay or their enjoyment purposes.
It's just because you're their friend and they're out with some friends, which is interesting.
Yeah, because, and you've got a point because as time went on, a lot of times I would,
I would meet them somewhere.
Like, hey, we're hanging out here.
Come out.
If you're not doing that, come out and meet us.
And it wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't, it wouldn't be any sex afterwards.
Like I wouldn't, we wouldn't go to a room.
You know, we just hang out and, and it became that.
And that's when I realized, okay, we're, we're kind of really cool, you know, but.
Let me ask you a couple questions, like, about your backstory.
And now I know they're married, right?
You, how old are you?
Are you in your 40s, 30s, 50s?
50s, early 50s.
Oh, okay.
So what's your deal?
Are you, like, does anyone in your life know about what you're doing?
Besides that girl at your work?
Well, the girl in my work
don't even know.
Really?
No, because
because
when she, I did follow up with her
afterwards.
How did it go?
Did you, did you go in?
I told her I went,
but I never did express,
you know, I didn't say much about
I met what I, what happened.
Right, right, right, right.
You know what I'm saying?
And then,
and then,
and then, after that,
she ended up moving to another job.
So she never really,
didn't know, but to answer your question, not only probably about one, two, three, four,
maybe five people know, know this.
In your life, that's a lot.
I mean, you've been honest, like, with your guy friends, or you just like...
Yeah, I got a couple of guy friends that I told.
That I told.
And it's funny, I mean, when it first happened, they didn't believe it.
Nobody believes that.
You know what I'm saying?
Nobody believes that.
Not unless you're in that lifestyle, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
They were like,
fuck,
get a fuck out of here, man,
please.
I said,
dude,
I said,
then I would say,
you don't believe me?
I said,
uh,
I said,
I'm supposed to be meeting them in a little bit later tonight.
I said,
I'm getting ready to call him because he told me to call him.
And so what I did,
I said,
uh,
I said,
I'm,
I'm,
I said,
I'm going to leave you on the phone.
Call him.
I said,
put your phone on mute.
Oh,
you let them three way with you so they could actually hear.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I said,
if you don't believe me.
I said,
I said, listen to this shit.
I said, listen to this shit. Listen to this.
They must have been fucking dying.
They were on, man, I did it to two, maybe three buddies.
Yeah.
They were, couldn't fucking believe it.
Right.
They were, you know, they didn't, you know, I mean, because at that point, you know, he was talking about giving me instructions.
Yeah.
You know, where the fucker here?
You know, he would say, man, you know, me and her ain't, we hadn't, we hadn't had sex in three.
weeks. She's horny as fuck for you.
She's going to be ready for you.
Oh yeah. Don't forget to do this.
You know, oh yeah, don't forget to mess with those nipples.
Don't forget the nipples.
Oh, yeah.
Take her over there and, you know, don't go too fast.
You know, all that stuff, all that stuff.
When I hung up with the husband, I would hang up with everybody.
Then my boy would call me back.
He said, man, he said, man, I can't fucking believe this.
everyone said the same thing
yeah totally
you said dude I can't
you know and then when I would
I got a couple pictures of her
and you know I would show
I said this is who she is
she's smoking
I mean she's really
she's in her 40s
but you know that's smoking milk
I mean she would
yeah yeah she's
she's a nice looker
I'm gonna tell you who she reminds you of
yeah and I always I always
I kid with the both of them
I always, Gwyneth Paltrow.
Oh, right.
Okay.
That's what she kind of favors.
Yeah.
Uh-huh.
Yeah, that type of look.
Yeah.
But she's just very petite, probably about one.
She thinks she's fat.
I don't know.
It's just a funny thing.
Women, you know, I'm so bad.
Yeah, that's a woman thing.
Yeah.
You're one, you're smoking.
You know, I always have to tell her that because he always tells me that.
Tell her how fine she is.
Yeah, yeah.
You know, she thinks she's old.
She thinks she's ugly, you know.
Yeah.
But, yeah, so not a lot of, not a lot of people.
I think five friends is a lot of people.
A lot of times it's like, you know, maybe one person knows,
but you've told a bunch of your friends.
And they know, and now they believe you, right?
Because they've heard you on the three ways.
Yeah, yeah.
I think I did it to like all, yeah, all of them.
Because I just, a couple didn't believe me.
And then I said, you know, I just want you to hear this, man.
I mean, somebody got the experience hearing this.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it.
So when they heard it, they were like, dude, I can't believe this, man.
Right.
You just couldn't believe it.
So.
Yeah, it's crazy.
It's a great story.
Well, thank you.
It's still sometimes I can't, I still can't believe it.
You know what I'm saying?
Especially early on, I just, I just couldn't fucking believe it.
You know what I'm saying?
It's crazy.
But it's a lifestyle out there.
And be honest with you, these people,
that you're everyday people like you would see them yeah that would never cross your mind
no i know that's that's kind of like what i base my whole show around like that premise you know
that like this is what the people that are sitting next to you in Starbucks or maybe the people
that are your family functions you know like people in your family people sitting next to you in the
office like regular people this is what some people do and you wouldn't it's not like i think
everyone has this idea that these people, whether they're swingers or, you know, someone that is,
you know, a bull, like, you know, that they're like these people that are so different than other
people, but they're not, right? These are, like you said, regular people that you would never believe,
and this is what was going down in their private life. Yes, and that's, that put me in a,
in a new perspective about the, just the whole concept of the situation and the lifestyle
out of itself because like you said, you kind of
had that interpretation.
Yeah, that idea that these people look different.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I don't know.
They look dirty.
Yeah, they're perverts.
Like, yeah, totally.
Like, you know, but no, like you said,
they would never have any idea.
Mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm.
These both.
Yeah, by the looks.
And they have, they have both have professional professions.
Yeah.
I mean, you know, they have regular lives.
They have dogs.
They have homes.
I mean, it's just.
A mom with Alzheimer's, like I saw everybody else.
Like, I mean, they're dealing with the same things.
They're caretaking, you know, and they're for, like,
they're dealing with the same things that everybody else is doing.
But every now and then, on the weekends, this is what they're doing, you know,
in their, you know, intimately with you.
And I think that that's what's so fascinating, right?
Yeah, that's the fascinating piece about it, I think.
And for me, it's funny now that I kind of have had experienced this.
It's funny because I'll,
be in just normal places.
Like you said, standing in line in Walmart at Lowe's.
And I'm a picture of people watching myself, and I'm looking thinking, man, you never know.
Yeah, I'm telling you, I know.
You never fucking know.
Oh my God.
You don't even know how my brain, because I've talked to like, you know, I'm at over 400
episodes now.
All the stuff that I've heard of my show.
I am always reading into things, you know, that way because I know that it exists.
So I'm always like, you never know, right?
and I just see subtle things or certain things happen.
And I'm like, how do you know that's not happening here?
And I'm always putting these like sort of sexual angles on things because I know that it exists, you know,
but probably a little bit too much so because my mind is so curious that way.
But I think you're the same, you know, you have that kind of mind to begin with, right?
Yeah, yeah, definitely.
Yeah, you're super curious.
Well, I am so glad that you didn't make a long story short.
I loved your story.
I mean, I feel like, you know, we could have got specific and I could talk to you for 10 more hours with just so many,
you must have so many stories you've been with them for three and a half years, you know?
Listen, listen. I remember, yes, but I know it's an hour, but yeah, I could give you about another two hours.
Definitely within.
No, I'll have you back on because I know that this episode, like I always wanted to get Wesley back on, but he was like, oh, it kind of died out what he was doing because of COVID and stuff.
But, I mean, you've got an ongoing relationship.
I do some YouTube lives.
I'd love to have you maybe come on there and talk,
but, like, I will definitely have you back on because I love this whole story
because this was like the backstory and the general overview,
but we could get specific and do more.
Like I said, you've been with them for three and a half years.
I'm sure you just, like, the tip of the iceberg.
Right, right.
Yes, ma'am.
You're so right.
Yeah, it was awesome, though.
I love this whole story.
Like I said, I'm glad that you were a good storyteller, okay?
Just so you know.
Really?
Yeah.
You know, I was, I was a little, I don't know, a little hung up thinking, I mean, am I going to be to tell the story really well?
You know, I didn't know what did you want, specific sexually stuff, but I thought, you know, I don't know.
I just, well, you're a good leader, so I just, I just followed your league.
Yeah, no, it was good.
I like the way you told the story.
It was funny.
It was interesting.
You gave a lot of details, the kind of details that I like.
Like, I just, I loved it all.
It was very entertaining.
I'm so glad that you found my show and that you called in and told your story because it's fascinating.
And I look forward to talking to you again.
Yes, definitely.
Now, if you want to, I don't know.
Like, you know, Wesley sent me in a picture.
I don't know if you want to.
Most of the time, females send me in pictures.
I can't take a picture of, like, the couple, right, because they don't, they're not in the know about it.
I don't post picks on my Patreon of people that aren't, you know, I'm not talking to you or that don't know that they're
pictures on there but if you want to send in an anonymous pick of yourself i think maybe some people
would want to see the anonymous pick of the black bill you're more than welcome to do it if not it
doesn't matter at all but if you want to send that over to me and i'll post it on my patreon but thank
you so much for calling in oh you're very welcome i'll keep that picture thing in mind okay all right
jerome i'll put it in the if you decide to send it to me it'll be in the description below
your episode will be airing very soon all right
I'm interested to hear it.
Yeah, you're going to love it.
Thank you so much for calling it.
We'll talk again.
Okay, you're very welcome.
I appreciate it.
All right, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
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