Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 425 - David Has Done it All Including Swinging, Gangbangs, Cuckolding and More

Episode Date: November 22, 2021

David has done it all including gangbangs, cuckolding, swinging and more and he calls in to talk all about it. When did he first start exploring all his kinks? Did he share them with his partners? And, was he always upfront about what he was doing with them? Tune in for all the details which include his first trips to an adult bookstore and his glory hole and couple experiences there, his first girlfriends relationship with her boss and how it helped him to realize he was into cuckolding, how he started couple swapping while married, his wife's experience with interracial sex, lesbian sex and double penetration, how and why he started cheating, the gangbang club he frequented and exactly what went down there, the hotel swinger parties and BBW parties he attended, his current wife's relationship with a guy on the side and how he feels about it and a whole lot more.  **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Santerport or Thailand. You can't not do it.

The temptation is just too much. It's real problem. Do your friend know that you're banging her or no? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. The motto of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to rehire. your wits and chain. Here is your host, Kathy.

Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Today is not a bonus episode. It is your Wednesday episode, your second episode of the week that I'm giving you. I am talking today to a guy named Dave or David. I forget. Who cares about the name. That's why I let people make up names for my show. I never remember names in life. And I know some people get like really hung up on that kind of shit. Like, oh, you don't remember my name.

It's like, who cares? Like that your name is the most uninteresting part of you or somebody else. You didn't even think of your name yourself if you really think about it, right? It has nothing to do with you. Your parents thought of it, okay? My name is Kathy. There's nothing more lame than Kathy. I would never have chose that name.

myself. I am far more interesting than my name. So who cares about people's fucking names? So I think I talk to either Dave or David. Oh, and my motto of that story that I just told you about names is like, don't give a shit if someone doesn't remember your name. Okay, it doesn't matter. Most of the time, because this is the way I am, I think other people are, people that don't remember names. It's because they're like really interested in another thing. I am very bad at remembering names, but I remember everything else that somebody tells me, because I'm actually listening to them when they talk. But who cares about names?

Anyway, forget. I don't know why I'm harping on that. Today I'm on Dave, David. He's got a lot of stories. This is the guy that, like, fucked 300 women just in his 50s. We talk about that. But we talk about everything else. I mean, he started very early on back in the day when he was way younger, like an adult

bookstores, fucking couples, realizing that he was into. seeing his girl to fuck guys and then getting one of his wives to do devil penetration with guys and then he got into swingers clubs and he found gang bang parties and he found BBW interracial

parties. He found all kinds of shit. He has been there, done that. He has been in the lifestyle, mostly all his life a lot of the times on the DL down low. Now he's with his second wife. She does bang other guys in front.

of them. He has done stuff behind all these women's backs, but he's trying to be more straight up about it. We talk all about it. Like I said, he's done all that stuff, and he gives me specific stories and details on all of it. He just tells his story. He made my job easy. There's not much interrupting here, so relax. And I'm going to be right back on with Dave or David. Hey, David. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm great Kathy. How are you? I'm good. So listen, I broke the rules with you because you emailed me recently, right? And you're like, because right now I'm just not taping people because I just have so many taped. I feel so bad for the people I have taped that I taped last year and they still haven't aired.

But you, you know, I was like, if you have like a really good story, I'll have you on. So you sent me an email. It was one paragraph full of crazy shit that you have done. lots of gangbangs like organized gangbings things at people's houses lots of women that you fucked you were married your wife was blowing other guys I don't even know where to start then when did you start really

exploring because I know that you said that you went to adult bookstores and you know you did swinging and stuff like when did you start like that kind of lifestyle well you know I was probably about 18 years old and I wanted to find out the source of you know, where these movies and stuff came from.

So I go into a bookstore. And, you know, in a major city like this, they had a bunch of bookstores. So I would go in there and I'm looking at, I'm like, my good, I sort of this, you know, and they've got very graphic, you know, porn magazines, movies, all kinds of stuff. And then I go through a little curtain and they've got these private little video booths. You know, I had no clothes. So I thought, oh, cool, you know, you put a quarter in or whatever, you can watch a movie. But as a lot of people know, I mean, you go in.

these blues and they've had a hole in the wall and all of a sudden. Yeah, the glory hall. Yeah, and it was like, it was insanity. I mean, I thought, this is crazy. But I have to tell you, I mean, at the time, I needed, you know, I needed some action and I needed it real fast. And I know it was very risky and everything else. But I mean, so I, you know, I put it through the hole and, you know, somebody, I got sucked off. And that became a thing.

I mean, you know, and I didn't. I have to tell you, I mean, I'd never considered myself by, and I really don't. I honestly don't. I mean, I'm very attracted to women. But at the time, I did this, you know, and. Wait, one second, I'm just going to tell you. Did you just listen to Dr. Joe Cort? I put out a bonus episode.

It was a short one, but he's like a sexologist, right? And he, this is his life. This is what he does. He's the real deal. He's a professional therapist, specializing in sex. And he is someone that would tell you 100%. Yeah, you're straight. It doesn't matter that you get sucked off by guys a couple of times and liked it.

He explained why that's true in his book, right? And stuff, it was actually very interesting. But anyway. So you knew that it was guys, right? Or did you not? It's like you just didn't care. No, I knew what it was guys. I didn't care.

Yeah, yeah. You just needed a blow job. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. But what I noticed was all of a sudden one day, you know, I didn't go all the time, just went here and there. But one day, a couple walked in and they went back there and I thought, oh, this is interesting, you know. Yeah. So I went in the booth next to them.

And the next thing you know, the female was putting her finger like through the whole, like, you know, inviting, like an invite. Yeah, yeah. I heard that that's like the tell. That's like how you do it. Yeah. And I thought, so that was, you know, this really ramped it up. And then I, so what I did was I asked the clerk, do a lot of couples come in here? And he's like, yeah, they come in like on Friday night or Saturday night.

They come in. And I thought, well, that's when I'm going to come in Friday or Saturday night. So this is where all this, you know, this is where the craziness really began. So, you know, quite often I would, you know, do that. Sometimes I would be invited into the other booth to fuck the girl, you know. In front of the husband. In front of the husband. Yeah.

And sometimes the husband said, you want to get a room, you know. and, you know, he would pay for the room. And this was all new to me. And this was basically, you know, like a cuckold situation or he wanted to see me fuck his wife, you know. And during that time, I mean, you were being super naughty. I mean, you know, I mean, that's like a time when, like you said, it was going on, but it was so underground.

I mean, not to say that it's totally out in the open now, but I just feel like back then. Exactly, yeah. Yeah. So at about 22 years old, I met my first wife. I was 22. She was only 18 years old. And, I mean, she was right out of high school.

So in the meantime, I go over to her, you know, over to her family's house, whatever, if there's nobody home. We start fooling around. And then she starts telling me about, you know, she was, I don't think she, you know, she started telling me about things that she had done. Which, I have to tell you. I mean, she told me that she had. fucked her father's boss. Now, her father at the time was probably about 45 years old. The boss was probably at least 45.

He owned like some kind of an automotive company, windows or something. Anyway, she, like, he told her to stop by there and she went there. And then they landed up falling around or something. And she gave him a blowjob and he ended up fucking her. And after she went a couple of times, he was using that as a threat. Like, you know, I want you to come over tonight, you know. Or I'm going to tell your father? Or I'm going to tell your father type of thing.

So anyway, when she told me that, Kathy, all of a sudden, I started, this was, it was involuntarily. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I started trembling like where almost my teeth were chattering. And I thought, what the hell is happening, you know? You were turned on. So what was happening was, I was so extremely turned on by her telling me this. And then she told me that it went even further, like, because. guy, he had a couple of guys that worked for him.

I didn't want black guy or something. And then he, you know, this guy who owned the business told her, you know what, I want you to fuck this guy. I want you to blow this guy. And then, you know, this type of thing. So in that very same conversation with her, she's like, we're fooling around. We got her clothes off. And she's like, I want you to, you know, fuck me in the ass.

And I thought, what? You know. And then for me to think, you know, you know. know, this girl was like right out of high school and she's already been fucked in the ass, you know. Yeah. And so again, I just continued, you know, trembling. And it was like out of my mind. In the meantime, so we did it, you know.

And from that point on, it was just crazy. We landed up getting married. Immediately we were talking about, you know, threesomes and stuff like that. But at the time, Kathy, there was no internet. This is back in like, you know, 1979 or something like that. There was no internet. There was no way that you know what, in this type of lifestyle, as people know, you cannot approach just anybody. You know, you have to be really careful with this.

I mean, some people are open to it. Other people would be, you know, mortified by it. Yeah. So, you know, she had suggested, oh, why don't you get your friend, this guy or that guy, but no, there's no way we could do that, you know. And so we went for, you know, a lot of years without, without doing anything, just, you know, kind of fantasizing about these things, especially me. So later on, you know, after we had, we had kids and everything, we get to about 40 years old. And finally, I, you know, I tell her, you know, what, why don't we go to a swinger party? So there were several different parties in the area that we lived.

So we went to one swinger party. And I have to tell you, for anybody who hasn't been to one, you walk into this place. And it looked like you're walking into a bar. You know, they had a dance floor. They had a DJ. They had a whole bar set up. It was a B-Y-O-B thing. Then they toured you around and they had different rooms.

Some of the rooms were private rooms. Some were open or some had like a beaded curtain or whatever. So this very first time that we went there, all we did basically was watch. So we went into a room. and there were several other people in the room, like around the bed. And there's maybe one or two couples on the bed having sex. And it was like, this is just out of control, you know, like visually to see this. And I thought, you know what?

There is no turning back from this at this point. Right. Now that I've seen this, this is something that we're going to do. So that very first time we didn't do anything at all. But we did make some contacts. And we landed up inviting people to our own. home where we did fool around and then we got invited to

other homes where there was it might have only been one couple then the next time it was two couples you know and so we were doing stuff like that but I think that would you do full swaps with the couples like what was going down? It was full swap same room

and those were great although I have to tell you you know my first wife was very she was slightly uptight and a little bit insecure She had gotten a little full figure and everything else. So she was very upset about that. So what we did was I was okay with the fact that, you know,

she wanted to kind of be the center of attention. And so I landed up at the time. There were books. They were like magazines, but they were like Swinger books. And they would say like Midwest Swinger or, you know, this West Coast Swingers or whatever. And in the back of the book, they would have ads. Now, as primitive as it sounds, some of them had like P.O. boxes.

You actually had to write out a letter. Yeah, I know. That's how it was. That's how it was at the time. So one of them, you know, one or two of them actually had phone numbers. So one of them was actually a black guy who had a dick pick. And this guy's dick was the, if you could think of the size of a standard shaving cream can. You know, that's how thick it was. but it was probably double the length.

Yeah. And so we arranged something with him. We got a hotel room. And so we get to the room and the guy comes in and it's legit. I mean, the guy's got a big giant horse dick. And the thing was, it was so big, you couldn't get a condom on. Wow. And so she wouldn't fuck him without the condom.

So she landed up just blowing the guy, you know, for like an hour and a half or something. and this was it was absolutely crazy so we went from that guy the next time we had it another guy a completely different guy then we had two black guys in a hotel and we actually at that time we deped her you know so she was enjoying the two black guys meaning now what's going on when like you know there's two black guys there are you involved in fooling around with them too or are you just sitting back watching well i was taking pictures and she She was a little bit reluctant with that, but then I also got involved. I was actually involved with the DP.

Oh, okay. Like one guy had went to shower and then, you know, we deped her. And so she was loving this stuff, I have to tell you. We also... She doesn't sound uptight. I don't know. You use the word uptight. I don't know.

I think that's... I think she's on the opposite end of the spectrum of uptight. Then we had a... There was a woman, you know, probably a middle-aged woman who did our taxes. And I knew that. that, you know, I had already known that she was gay. And she was strictly lesbian. And so what happened was she had an interest in my wife.

And so my, I just, you know, I kind of knew it. I didn't say anything. But my wife came to me on the time and she's like, she had hit on her or something. I said, well, why don't you arrange something? So we had her come over. And she told this woman who did the taxes, you know, my wife had told her at the time, you know, we can do this. But I want my, you know, I want him here with us. And she was okay with that.

so I just watched and the two of them went at it but at some point my wife had whispered to me she's like she wants you to fuck her in the ass and I'm like okay you know no problem I could do that and so that's what happened so I landed

up fucking her in the ass and that was it you know it basically the lesbian the lesbian the lesbian wanted anal and allowed you to do it yes interesting exactly yeah so

So that was pretty cool. And then, you know, evolving from that, I started, the couples that we had been seeing basically kind of pulled me on the side and said, you know, what, we'd like to, would you be interested in, like, seeing us just you? And I'm like, yeah, I could do that. You know, so here's where it began where I started kind of sneaking the latter back. Oh, I didn't know that there was that part of this, too. Yeah. But you know what? I just have to ask you, though, like when you have a girl, a woman that's that open with you and that cool.

I mean, she's doing everything with you in a time that, you know, I mean, most people would never. It would be very hard to find a woman like that. She's needle in the haystack. And you're doing everything right in front of her. Why go behind her back? You know, I can't answer that. I was just out of control. Yeah, it's interesting.

Because I think that someone would never think that you would because why. You know what I mean? Here she is totally open to anything. So what are you doing behind her back? Get back to the story. Sorry. Well, I'll tell you what I did. Here's an interesting thing.

We go on a trip. We go to Las Vegas. And I was always, you know, I heard about these different places, you know, the bunny ranch and the Mustang ranch and stuff like that. You know, I had heard about that. But were they open back then? Yeah, they were open back then. And I thought, well, this is probably, you know, 1980s or something. So I thought, you know what?

I don't want to go. I got to check this out. And it was not something I could really talk to her upon. I mean, she was a little bit uptight about me with other women. It was more so like if she was a center of attention, that was okay. But I mean, if I was looking at another woman, she didn't like it. But you thought other women when you were doing couples swapping. Yeah, I did.

I did. Yeah, but I don't think she was ever really comfortable with it. Okay. So now, you know, we're in Las Vegas. And so I have this idea. I said, you know what? She likes to play slot machines. I like to play, you know, I like to play Blackjack or something.

So I told her, you know what? You go, you know, this is what we're going to do today. You do, you know, you do your thing. I'm going to go do my thing and we'll meet up, you know, for dinner tonight. And she's like, yeah, okay. So what do I do? I jump in a cab and I go out to the Mustang Ranch. I mean, that was my plan all along.

And so this was a brothel. And I walk in there and just like you would think, they brought out like a parade of girls. There was probably 10 girls. they brought out and introduced them, and then you pick one, and they kick you back to her room. And so that's what I did. I mean, I picked like a real cute girl, went off to a room, and just fucked the hell out of her, you know. And then got back in the cab and went back like nothing, you know.

So that, plus the fact that I was getting invited by these couples that we had met over time. One guy was a, I remember one guy was a cement truck driver. And he basically told me, you know, know what, here's the address. She knows you're coming. And just, you know, you're good to go. And so I went there a couple of times. The third time, he wanted her to videotape it. And I was okay with that. And I thought, okay, he wants me to videotape it. Let's put on a show for him. And so it just got crazier and crazier. So we, you know, so now what happened was I had gained some weight, you know, over the, over the years. And so I started working.

working out and everything else, and I lost a lot of weight. And so I was looking really, really good. I mean, I'm feeling really good about myself for the first time. And then we ended up getting the divorce. Here's where it starts to get crazy. So I answered the other credulous ad, and there was a couple that was from out of town, and they were coming into town, and there was a theater, like an adult theater, right in the city.

And they were going to go there. We're kind of announcing, we're coming into this city, we're going to go to this theater, and we're going to go to the dungeon. So the theater had a upstairs room with a dungeon with a full setup. And so I responded, and I said, okay, you know, I'm going to be there. And I figured I'd be there, and there'd be a bunch of people there. And I go there, and I see the couple walk in. I'm sitting in the theater. They walk past me, and they go to the back room and they're going up the stairs.

And I said, that must be them. You know, so I followed them up there. And nobody else showed up. So it was just them and me. And she had a, like a raincoat on. She takes the raincoat off and she's got the heels, the Carter belt, stockings, the whole deal. And she got into a swing. And I, you know, I ended up going down on her.

I landed fucking a shit out of her. I mean, it was just crazy. And, you know, later on then, through going to a couple of these places, somebody had told me about this gang bang club. And so I made a call, and it was a very, very organized thing. And so here's how it laid out. There were 30 guys invited to the party, and it was a house party, and five girls. So that was the ratio, five girls, 30 guys.

Wow. And I want to tell you, they had, as I found out over time, the organizer had no problem filling the spots for the girls. There was a waiting list. Really? Which kind of blew my, yeah, there was a waiting list. It actually blew my mind, I thought. And he would tell me the organizer after I went a few times, you know, I had to tell two or three girls, they couldn't do it. They couldn't come until next month.

So the party was once a month on a Saturday night, although he had, there were some nights that he had Friday night and Saturday night back to back. And so I started going to these parties once a month. And I go there and there's five girls, you know. Would you have to pay? Sorry, I just want to ask for a question. Did you have to pay? Yeah, you had to pay. How much was it? I think it was like $40 or something like that.

Okay. Here's the kicker. The girls had to pay also. So which shocked me, I thought, are you kidding me? You know? And so we would go there and what happened was the organizer would, you know, we'd mingle a little bit. And then at a certain time, he would lock the door and he would say, you know, nobody else, you know, will be admitted to the party. although you could leave

you had to be escorted out the door but I mean nobody else could come into the party he would announce he would introduce the girls and they were arranged anywhere from 20 years old up to you know mid-50s or whatever and he would tell you

you know he would kind of talk for them he would tell them what they were into what they were hoping you know to do and also like their limitations of things that they wouldn't do like some would do anal some would not some wanted you know

some wanted uh everybody to come on them you know and stuff like a like a kaki you know yeah uh and some wanted you know two guys or whatever so anyway what he would do is after he announced on the girls he would say okay let's get naked and fuck you know and so he had one room where the guys would put their clothes everybody would you know you'd see 30 guys taking their clothes off as fast as they could. The girls were already, had moved downstairs

to the playroom. So now we would get down there and now the girls all here, like, stations that they were at, like, they were on mats or something like it. And we would just go to town. It was almost like a, like a buffet. And

it was insanity. I mean, uh, fucking, sucking, uh, you know, double penetrations. Uh, all. kinds of stuff. And it went on for, you know, it would go until maybe from 8 p.m. until about midnight. And the surprising thing was that you would think that the girls would have gotten worn out, but it was actually the opposite. The guys would get worn out. And the women were not from, you know,

I think people's minds, you think you're going to land up with five biker chicks or something. And the truth was that these women came from, I think some of them, were, you know, Girl Scout leaders or they worked at the local grocery store as a checker or, you know, that type of thing. They're also in the legal profession. Or as far as the men went, they were from, you know, from A to Z.

You had guys that were lawyers. You had guys that were, you know, policemen and, you know, different things or construction guys and stuff like that. And they're all ages. I mean, from 20 up to like, you know, maybe 65 years old. At the time, I was probably,

I was in my 50s. And so going to these parties once a month, I went for five years, once a month, sometimes back to back, Friday night and Saturday night. I worked at a company that was a 24-hour company. I was able to get away from my girlfriend, you know, to do these things.

And she never knew. She never knew throughout the whole relationship. I mean, I was able to, you know, I brought extra clothes. I had in the car and stuff. I was able to change and shower and do all that kind of stuff. but it was absolutely crazy.

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with different couples that had cuck husbands. And so, I mean, one girl that I went to, I'll tell you this briefly, and then we'll get into my second wife. The cuck husbands, I had one girl that I would go see her, and her husband gave her the approval. I go to her house, and she's got two giant dogs, you know. And so the dogs were, it was a big breed of dog. Anyway, so I'm in the bed with her,

and she's got, and the dogs that are like circling the bed, meantime she starts moaning and stuff. And I thought these dogs were to tear me up. And so it was actually, you know, I'm fucking. I'm excited. She's excited. But I've got this fear factor with these dogs, you know. I had another guy who was, you know, I had met them through Craigslist.

I met him, like, out socially. We went for a drink. And then I guess the, you know, she gave him the nod. And we went back to their place. And I landed up, you know, we, we, we. We had a little drink downstairs. We go up to the bedroom. And I'm fucking her on the bed.

And what I noticed was that this guy was like crawling around on the floor. And he was watching, but he was crawling around, you know, on his hands and knees, you know, watching from every angle that he couldn't. And I landed upon there several times. And I thought it was almost, it was almost funny to me. Now, you know, moving forward now, There was, you know, at the gangbank parties, I was telling you about that. There was another guy that I had met that started having, like, hotel parties.

He would rent two rooms, and they were, you know, like, it was a type of hotel that had, like, a stay away at the outside. He would have the room on the second floor and the room directly below that. These were mainly, like, just swinger parties. And I was going to those parties at the same time. So, you know, to do a count, you know, during my. 50s, I can tell you with certainty that I fucked over 300

women, you know. Now, this whole time, were you still blowing guys every now and then, or the only time you ever did anything with guys was in the glory holes? Like, did any kind of guy on guy action? Yeah, that was just the very early years. Okay.

I got involved in that. But the this, you know, at this one party, the guy had these, you know, the upstairs, downstairs party at the hotels. There was a girl that, you know, the guy told me, I went to play around with this girl, so the guy called me on the side. He goes, you know what? When she comes, you got to hold her down. I said, what are you talking about?

He goes, you have to, you have to strongly restrain her. She goes into like a convulsion, you know, and I did find that out. I mean, I had to fight this girl down, I mean, to hold her because she was, otherwise she wanted to start swinging at me, you know. That's just the way her orgasm was that strong. I also met a girl. I thought this was kind of creepy, Kathy. I met her at something called a meetup. And those go on today. I mean, it was like a meetup thing where you're meeting other adult people and stuff like that.

So we're kind of looking at each other. And I got her phone number. And we went to her place. And I think we were watching a hockey game or something. And in between, you know, anytime there was a break or something, we started making out. We landed up in her bed, you know, and somehow I'm fucking the girl, and she starts telling me, you know, what hold me down, hold me down very, you know, very firmly, you know, hold my arms down, hold my hands down. And what would creep me out, and it just, this was just a party killer for me. She actually, she said something to me right in the middle of that, and I didn't quite hear her, and I'm like, what?

And she's like, rape me, you know, when I thought, oh, my God, you know, I can't, I can't. do this. You know, I'm not that guy. I just not that guy. So anyway, I moved on a stink, and I land up going to, I actually, I now live in Florida, I can tell you. And so I met somebody down here, and we hit it off really well. You know, we were into, you know, all the categories were clicking off. We were into the same type of music. We're into, you know, this and that, art and everything else. And she's, you know, probably about 11, 12 years younger than me. But after a few dates, you know, we're on the beach and she tells me, you know, I have to tell you something. And I'm, I said, yeah, you can tell me whatever you want. We could talk about whatever

you want. And she's like, well, she goes, this married guy that I, that I haven't seen. You know, I'm single. I've been seeing this guy and I, you know, he's having problems with his wife and everything. So I kind of, you know, like, I meet the guy and I give him blow jobs. And I'm like, okay, well, you know, again, you know, for the second time in my life, I start trembling, you know, like, I'm like, holy shit, I found another one, you know. And so I'm trembling, I'm chattering, you know, and she tells me, so I said, so what do you, you know, what do you want to do, you know? And she's like, you know, I think she was making a confession to me. She's a clear of mind, but basically I was saying, you know, I thought about it for a second. And I'm like, well, did you, is that something you want to continue doing?

And she's like, you know, she didn't want to answer me. And I said, I'm okay with it if you are, you know. And so she did. I mean, we were dating and she would meet the guy like once a week, give it a blow job. It could be in a car. It could have been in. He had some rental properties.

She would go into these, you know, he would take her in there and she'd give him a blow job in there. And then, you know, we landed up getting married. down the line and then the guy, I would be at work and the guy would come to our place, you know, and then he would, she'd give him a blow job or she'd fuck him or whatever. And I was okay with that, but again, it was the same type of situation, though. She would be, she's uptight with me giving any of my attention to another woman, but she was, you know, but she was okay doing what she was doing, and I think I'm okay with it. And there was a second guy that she had seen over the years or something.

The guy was actually like a jail guard. And he started coming over and she's giving him blow jobs and she's, and he's fucking her, you know. And I had asked her, you know, with both of the guys. You know, take a picture or maybe you could do a movie or something like that. Well, the first guy got freaked out by it because he thought that, you know, your husband knows about this. And she's like, yeah, you know, he kind of knows.

He's, you know, he's given me like, you know, I could do what I want. And but he kind of freaked out. The second guy was like cool with it. He thought, yeah, hell, let's do this, right? And so he just, you know, he videoed it on his phone. And then, you know, after he left, he would send that to me, which I found, you know, viewing my own wife, you know, in these films was extremely lousy.

So I think we're on the verge now, Kathy, that I would probably like to explore maybe going back to the Swinger clubs and stuff like that. and I'm trying to go in that direction because I mean this is just the kind of life that I want to live so right now you mean well does your wife is she going to come along is it something that you're going to bring her on you're going to continue I think it yeah I think at this point Kathy

I would like to I want to do things together you know I think I've done running around you know behind you know behind women's backs right I don't really want to do that with this one I don't want to do that at all. I think that if we do stuff, we're going to do it together, you know. And I'm not sure if she'll ever be okay with me fooling around with another woman, but I think that, you know, and I'm okay if she wants to do, you know, a three-sum with myself and another guy that would be okay. You know, I'm okay with that. Right. But, and that's where I'm at right now.

There's one of a story that I wanted to tell you that, you know, this is prior to me getting married. there was a guy I knew who had parties that were actually bisexual parties. And somebody had told me about it. You got to go to one of these parties. And I thought, yeah, I'm going to go check it out. So I go to the parties at a hotel. And it was run by, it was actually run by a black couple. And I don't want to be politically incorrect, whatever, with the way I'm talking.

So forgive me, if I'm offending anybody. But the black couple ran this party. And so I go there. And so it was basically an interracial crowd. And so that was pretty cool. And my intention there was basically I thought there's going to be women here. So, and that was my target. I had no intention of looking at guys.

I don't view guys that way. I don't look at a guy and say, I want to kiss this guy or he's got a great body or anything like that. It's just not like that for me. I'm like all in with women. That's just the way I am. but at the party this black woman shows up and she went into another room and changed and she came back and she had the garter bolt stockings you know high heels the whole deal and she gets on the bed and we start fooling around and then what I discovered with her is she had a really big clit you know

like a man like a dick a little dick like a little dick yeah I mean she was she was totally a woman her clicked was like, I don't know, it was maybe the, maybe not as big as my thumb, but maybe maybe half the size of my thumb. And I thought, oh, this is completely wild, you know. And so, we're doing all kinds of stuff and I landed up going down on her and it was, it was absolutely, I can't tell you, you know. And so I went to two or three of these parties and she showed up at those parties. I had never seen anything like that before.

Right. I mean, is that kind of world, like a small world? Like you just see these? Because it seems like you, you know, sometimes it's a lot of work to get, you know, people all this hooking up going down. I mean, is it just like kind of like once you get involved, someone tells you about this, someone tells you about that,

like you wind up seeing the same people? That's exactly how it happened. You would go to these things, you would meet people, you know, you socialize a little bit. And they're like, hey, you ever been over to this place? Or, you know, we went to this place last night or whatever. And that's how you know. It's very, it's just absolutely not something you talk to anybody about who's outside of the lifestyle. I mean, and you'd be surprised, you know, going back to these gangbang parties, there were times that the guys, you know, he would cut it off at 30 guys.

So 30 guys show up. But maybe one or two of the guy immediately would bail. They would just grab their shit and leave, you know, because they were intimidated to be naked in front of other men or they had performance issues, you know, where they couldn't, you know, they couldn't get it up or something in front of a crowd, that type of thing. And they would just bail out.

So, you know, there's people that can do it. There's people that can't do it. They'd be mortified, you know, so. Did you stop? Why did you stop going to those gang beings? They stopped or like what's the deal with them? Are they still around? Oh, they're still going on.

Oh, yeah. There's more than, there's two or three, you know, in the area that I lived prior. And I know there's stuff going down, you know, down here as well. There's different areas here where they have different swing clothes and stuff. I'm going to tell you why I stopped going. The craziness just continued to escalate. I mean, there's different things that I saw at the parties. You know, you go to the party and, you know, there was a girl with.

strap a cock on and fuck another girl, you know, different variations of things, you know. But this is what killed it for me. A girl shows up to the party and she was probably, you know, maybe mid-20s or something. But she was literally eight months pregnant. And I thought, oh, no, you know, there is no, there is no way. Right. And, I mean, and she played. with guys and I just sat back and said, I can't do this, you know.

And that's kind of, I don't know, they just killed it for me, you know. So I think after that party, I never went back again. Okay, right. Yeah. And now with your wife, are you going to start swinging with her? I'm going to this one that you're with now? You know what? I want to, I'm slowly working on that right now.

I think she's open to it. I think she's, you know, she's, has gotten a little full figure herself, and I think she feels a little bit insecurity, you know, maybe, you know, going to a place where there's other younger women that are, you know, in better shape and stuff like that. But I'm working on that, and I think that's the kind of lifestyle that I like to have, and I think she'd enjoy it too. And I certainly not going to force her into anything,

but I'm going to, I'm going to try to make it happen. Right. Well, let me ask you this. Do you, you're not seeing anyone behind her back. No, nothing like that. With this one here, my second wife here, I've never done anything behind her back. Mm-hmm. You don't, you're like you feel like you have, do you feel like maybe you're slowing down?

No, you know, I'm slowly down a little bit, but I mean, you could get me restarted real quick. So, right. I mean, is the same person, did you know the guy? Like, is the same person those gangbangs that are happening in this area? I mean, is it the same guy that's still doing them, or is it, was it someone different? Was it one promoter? Like, I don't know. I knew, I had a guest on once who did like blowjob parties, but I never had someone on who sets up gangbangs.

Oh, no, this was, there was one or two in the city that I lived in before in the Midwest. There was one or two active gangbang parties that were happening, you know, for years there. And I know there's still at least one, there's probably one or two. because there's, I know there was one party where they call them BBC parties. And so there's that party going on, and then there's just a regular gang-bang party going on. So that's the one where they're getting a gang-bang by black eyes. By black guys, yeah. Right.

And some prefer that. And what's, you know, what's funny is during one of these gangbangs, there was an older woman who was, you know, she went there with her husband. I mean, and sometimes that happened. The husbands would go with them, and they would either participate. or they just watch. And so she looked me in the eye one day and she's like, you like bad girls, don't you, David? And I'm like, I just nodded at her.

Like she was reading my mind, like she could see into my soul, you know. And I think that's been the theme of my life, you know, from the beginning. I'm attracted to like a bad girl, you know. And so this is where that trembling and stuff comes in. When I hear about stuff like that, it just go wild. So there was another type of party that I went to, obviously I forgot to mention. And this is something, you know, you may or may not know about. There was a woman in the area that I lived that she ran a kind of a specialty party.

And it was for BBWs. Oh, interesting. Just for the women. BVW. So it was for BVWs and what they called SSBBBBWs, which were supersized. BBWs. So one time, just out of curiosity, I went to one of the parties, and there was about 50 girls there, and it was like a dance party, and these were very big women. And nothing really happened at the party, but what I had noticed was that there was a lot of black guys at the

party. And I think black guys, you know, and I could be, maybe I'm wrong here, but I think black guys kind of like girls with a big ass, you know. Mm-hmm. And so... Right. Yeah. So that was interesting, too, and that was a regular party in the area, too. So there's a lot going on.

But you must have liked girls with a big ass, too. I don't think it's just black guys. I mean, I think somebody once said that that's, like, a very popular porn category. I mean, you know, I think girls don't know how guys are. You know, every girl's so, oh, my God, I've got to be as skinny as I could possibly be. No, that's not the case at all. That's really not the case. Yeah, I think there was a time that I was into girls that were bigger girls.

And there was a time I was into what's called face sitting, which was, I don't know. I mean, you know, there was different aspects. I'm not just one way. I mean, here's a guy. I was considered part of the guy who ran the gangbang parties. I was considered one of the stable. It was called a stable, you know. The stable was like a stable of guys that were regularly attended these parties.

And then there were other like an outside group that would come, you know, maybe one party here, one party there. But there was a, the core group was called a stable. And I was one of the stable boys, you know. So I thought that was really, really comical. Right. Well, I'm sure that he needed his good old faithfuls, right? because, you know, to wrangle up 30 guys that actually show up and he's charging everybody, right? I mean, he had to be making money out of this.

He needed to make sure people were going to show up. Exactly, yeah. There was no problem with that. I mean, he had a roster of people that he could call and they'd show up. But, I mean, I think what astounded me was the fact that the waiting list for the women, you know, and they were disappointed if they couldn't get in. Really? So, really, yeah. And did you see a lot of married guys there?

I mean, like you said, it just ran the gamut, right? Oh, my goodness, I think. You know, he got to a point that, you know, he would run a Wednesday party. It was a daytime party. And I thought, that's odd. Why would you run a daytime party? And he did that for, you know, people who were married.

Married people is not easy, you know, it's not easy for them to get away on a Friday night or a Saturday night. They might have family obligations or they, you know, or they simply can't get away from their wife. I mean, you know, how are they going to cover that up? So he'd have daytime parties and people would maybe go off their work day or whatever and run over there. And he'd have it at like noon until about maybe, you know, noon until four or noon until five. And again, he'd fill that up. He'd have the girls. He'd have the guys, you know.

I think I went to only one of those. Yeah, I would think the girls would be, you would think the girls would be harder to find. I guess you're right. Like if there's some girl out there that wants to get fucked by 30 guys, there's a line out the door. Oh, exactly, yeah. You know, I think that that is, you know, if you talk to women, you know, you talk to women about fantasies. And I think about maybe the top five fantasies for women. You know, some of them, you know, in the old days they would say something really lame like, oh, sex on the beach or something, you know.

In reality, that wasn't the case. The case was they were looking for maybe someone's. to watch them have sex that might be, you know, in the top five. Also maybe interracial, you know, lesbian. But also in that top five, there are a lot of women that fantasize about, you know, like multiple guys. Right. And I think that, you know, it's a pretty common thing.

But few of them will actually step over the threshold, you know, and actually make that happen. Right. And do it. I mean, listen, my gang bang Christine, that's what I call her. she's my most downloaded episode. I mean, she called in a bunch of times and her story went in so many different directions. It was fascinating, but this was a woman who, that's

exactly when she started to feel really great about herself and she was like, you know, feeling good. Like, that's exactly what she wanted to do. And she wanted five black guys. That's what she got. And that is literally, I think it has like maybe 300,000 downloads. Just on YouTube. That's just on YouTube. I get

way more downloads on my podcast app, right? On the podcast. So, you know, is a guy, downloading, yeah, maybe girls are fantasizing it, but maybe it's girls downloading it too. I don't know. I never thought of that. Yeah, you know, this is no surprise to me. I have to tell you. No surprise at all. Right, the gangbang. How many gangbangs do you think you took part in? Well, just the one that I did, the main one that I went to, over 50 parties I went to.

Now, you, you know, you talk about, that was just the one party. Then I went to other gangbanks. There was another guy who had gangbang parties, and I went to probably easily, you know, 10 or 15 more of those. Here's the crazy part. There were times I went back to back parties. So there were five girls on a Friday night, five girls on a Saturday night, and I fucked all of them.

Right. And, you know, you talk to different people, you know, if you ask people in general, how much sex partners have you had in your lifetime? There are people that will tell you, I've had five. I've had six, you know. In the meantime, I'm fucking 10 girls in a two-night period.

Right. So your number's like 300, you think, or more? Oh, it's more than 300. More than 300, yeah. 300 different women in my 50s. Oh, right. Not counting before those early days. Yeah.

In my 50s. I mean, you know, being married and having children and stuff, you know, in my 20s, that kind of put everything on the back burner. But my life ramped up at 50, you know. And so, and I think I've got some left in the tank. And you're 65 now, right? Not 65 now, yeah. Well, if you start swinging with your wife, right, how long have you been with your wife?

We've been together about five years. Right. So, if you start swinging with her, that's going to up your numbers. But she's still into sex? How old is she? Right now she's 54. Right. But she's still like horny.

Oh, yeah, she's still into sex. Yeah. That's great. Mm-hmm. Yeah. I mean, you know, I think it's, uh, it's, uh, it's, It's good that you're just going to try and bring her along for the ride. No more living the double life, right?

Because she sounds like she'd be down too. Yeah, I think she's more down for it than my first wife, actually. And look what you got your first wife to do. I mean, I know you think she was so tight, but she didn't sound of tight. I mean, you had her DP'd with two black guys and you. I mean, come on. You know what I mean? She's not really that uptight.

I mean, some guys would say, I mean, you were, you know, listen, you said you liked really naughty girls. like that was your thing and you definitely attracted that type of woman to yourself. Oh yeah. I mean, and still, I mean, this is, you know, for a man, Kathy, you know, your interest in women begin as a child. I mean, and the attraction to different things, I mean, like lingerie items, you know, crotchless panties and stockings and the high heels, the garters, the bras, everything else. I mean, that is a, that remains with you for your lifetime, you know, for, you know, listeners that are maybe younger that are listening, you know, to this,

it just, it just goes, it's throughout your life. I mean, you could be, even at my age and I was 65, I'll walk through the, you know, store, department store and we go through the section where they have like women's underwear and stuff. And it never fails to kind of arouse me. Right. It doesn't stop. Oh, yeah, I'll be walking down the street in Manhattan and there'll be like a 90-year-old

guy in a wheelchair and he'll check me out. And I'm like, yes, it doesn't stop. This is how guys are like, you know, relentless. I think his sperm doesn't go bad. It's like nature, you know, you could keep procreating. You don't lose it. It's not like the woman, right? If we're animals, it's a different thing that's happening, you know, nature.

It's not to say that, you know, when a woman loses all her egg, she's never horny. Plenty of women are still horny after menopause. But guys, like, I think because that not, you know, that animal instinct, just to keep procreate. your sex drive is just there still, right? I know. And you know, Kathy, I've told people, even, you know, even my own children or adults now, and I would tell them, you know what,

just, you know, like we talked about mortality and death and stuff, and I told them, when I die, I just want you to know that I've lived my life fully and done everything that I've wanted to do. And they really didn't know, you know, what my meaning was there. but I did, you know, so there was no stone unturned. Right. There is no, yeah, I wouldn't talk in the past tense.

There is, there's no stone unturned. You're not dead yet. But yeah. All right, well, cool. Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. I'll let you know when it airs. It'll probably be aired in the next couple of weeks. This is the problem.

I keep airing new people. Then they get, they bump the people that I had in the past. And it's just like, oh my God, people are still waiting to be on. But anyway, I'm glad I had you on. Thanks for sharing your story And let me know what you think after you hear it Well thank you and you know I have to tell you Kathy that I've enjoyed

I haven't listened to all of them I've listened to a bunch of them Yeah kind of a marathon thing Yeah I like your voice And I like your You have a fun little giggle You know

A lot of people say that That's funny I can't tell you how many emails I get Like I love your laugh Like your little giggle that little thing You know I'm like I don't even know what they, I kind of don't even know what they mean, but I hear that often. Yeah, yeah.

I have a good stuff. Yeah, really enjoyable. I mean, you'd listen to you for an hour and it's really, really enjoyable. Oh, that's awesome. Thank you. Well, you made my job easy because you just told your story, so I didn't have to interrupt like I do or move. I mean, I kind of moved it along in the beginning.

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