Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 437 - Sam Caught his Wife Cheating and He Was Turned On PLUS 2021 Guests Update

Episode Date: December 30, 2021

Sam caught his wife cheating and he was turned on and he called in to talk all about it. How did he catch her cheating? Who was she cheating on him with? And, why did it turn him on? Tune in for all the details which include his cuckold fantasy and why she was previously opposed to it, the evidence he found and how it turned him on, how he confronted her and how she reacted, how her cheating not only helped their sex life but also helped their marriage, how she continued to "cheat" on him and how he enjoys the video proof of it, the one thing he is conflicted about and a whole lot more.  PLUS, make sure to listen to the intro to get brief updates on a bunch of previous guests as well as what I consider some of the best episodes of 2021. That you all for tuning in to my show! **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I am going to give you a short episode. It's about 30 minutes, but before we get into the episode, I'm going to tell you a couple updates about some of my guests as well as give my give out awards for like the best of episodes. Okay. So where are they now? I emailed most of my guests. I have a lot of people calling in to give their updates, especially the females, but I'm going to give you the quick version right now. Remember Kane, the guy who talked about his ex-girlfriend that was into like raping him and kidnapping him? If you had to have to listen to that episode, it was an older one I repeated it, but that was a great episode. I promise you, it's very entertaining.

You will have a lot of respect for this girl, how hardcore she got into her kidnapped fantasies. But anyway, what happened after that episode that I found out because that was his ex-girlfriend. And what happened afterwards, because I talked about how great, like they were as a couple

and how they really suited each other, that he went back and actually started dating her again. He had started dating somebody else, but after we spoke, He emailed me. He was like, thank you so much for saving my relationship. I went back to Gun Girl. I called her Gun Girl. He went back to Gun Girl and he was dating her afterwards and everything was really great. Now, I emailed him recently to see if they're still together now because I taped this while ago, but I haven't heard back. So just so you know, he might be fucking dead right now. I have not heard from him. Last I heard he was dating Gun Girl. Do the math. 2 plus 2 equals. murder. I don't know. You never know. I mean, that girl was teetering. Did you listen to the episode? You need to listen to it. Molly, remember Molly, she's been on a bunch of times. She is calling in again. I will have a full on update show with her. But just so you know, a little teaser,

she is still escorting, but she's doing some other things and she's dating somebody. Now, I don't know yet. Does he know that she's escorting on the side? Is she up front with him? Did she meet him while she was escorting? You're going to have to listen to find out. But there is some interesting updates with her and she is calling in. But like I said, she's still escorting.

But she's doing some other things. You're going to find out about that. Angel is calling in. There has been a lot of drama in her life. She was episode 399. Adrian. She called in at the beginning of the year. her and her boyfriend were fucking other people while they were together. Now, they broke up,

but she is still sleeping with couples as well as single male. And she's enjoying being a unicorn. She's supposed to call in, so I might have a full episode with her, but that's what she's doing. Remember Dan, he called in recently. A lot of people on YouTube at least were irritated by him. I don't understand because I really liked him. Dan, uh, at the end of the episode, talked about how he had been making a play for his cousin and she was very into it. I mean, all signs were pointing to it. Yeah, she's down with hooking up with him. But I reached out to him to see if he had hooked up with her yet, but he hadn't yet. I think COVID's just fucking all these things up. Because a lot of people called me up and were like, oh, I haven't done much,

you know? Like I said, I think people are still a little bit on lockdown. And then there's an update from Brad. Now, I can't really tell you much about it. him because you know where we left it off Brad episode 407 who actually won the most entertaining or the most craziest episode ever on my awards Brad episode 407 last we left off he was really interested in sleeping with his mom and then he called in and he gave me an update now that is on Patreon I made that a paid episode because it was just too good to be true trust me it does disappoint. If you want to hear that episode as well, see pictures of my guests, mostly everyone my female sends in a picture, you could join my Patreon right now until like for the next couple of days

it is only $3 a month. But it is going up on January 1st to $5 a month. But it's still not a lot for $5 a month on my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. You get to see all pictures of most of my guests, anonymous pictures. You see everything but their face. And like I always tell people when I ask them to send me in pictures, not to send in anything pornographic, but it could definitely be like R-rated. So you see sexy picks of most of the girls. Some of the couple semi-picks of both of them. So you could get, you know, a picture in your head of the people who are calling in. You also get all my episodes early and ad-free. And you also get some update episodes as well as I have a new confessions line.

I got a new phone that is dedicated just for people to call in and leave their confessions. Now, if you're listening to this intro, you're going to get that number before most people. The number is 347, 4203579. That's 347, 4203579. You could call that number up and leave your confession. I will be changing everybody's voices. You don't have to leave me your name. You could block your number.

But that is a place where you could go and leave your anonymous confession. And those will be aired on my Patreon. So if you want to hear those, also go to my Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. If you want to get locked in for $3 a month on that tier, you could do that now. If not, it'll be $5 as of January. First, Brad's update episode, okay, because he wants to call in and he's trying to get his mom to call in too, will also be there. Now, listen, I went through my podcast, and it was really hard to pick these awards. I was like, okay, I'm going to do the most entertaining, the craziest, the most interesting, you know, and then I started to get so many categories that I'm going to keep it a little general. But I will say, the most entertaining episode I had this whole year was the Black Bull named Jerome.

Episode 4.15. Now, people who have listened to that episode know exactly why I say that, because Jerome had not only a great story, he had a really good sense of humor. He was a good storyteller. Like I said, he had a good story. So he had everything, all the ingredients it takes for me to be highly entertained. I love somebody with a good sense of humor. I have a good sense of humor. And he did, and I love a good story, and he had one. And it's not a common story. I only heard from one other Black Bull, and that was Wesley.

And he gets one of my most interesting award, because, you know, I hadn't heard from any black bulls until recently. And like I said, one was Jerome. He was the most entertaining episode by far. If you missed it, go listen, 415. I promise you, even if you're not into the Black Bull scenario, you will find the whole episode hilarious. But also Wesley called in to talk about the Black Bull experience, and it was super interesting. He was more informative, which was great. He was the first Black Bull that

I spoke to, and he got on my list of most interesting because it was the first time I've been doing my show for eight years, and it was the first time I spoke to a Black Bull. And that is episode 388. Wesley's episode is fantastic. The other most interesting episode, episodes I feel like I had this year were the cuck queen episodes, as well as all the female episodes. I really put a big shout out to females this year, trying to get more females to call in. And I did. And what happened when I put that shout out was I got a couple cut queens. And that was the first time as well as the Black Bulls. This year was the first time I ever spoke to a cuck queen, quote unquote. I probably spoke to other cuck queens, but they just didn't know it because I feel like

it's a new term and a new thing that people are talking about, at least on my show. The first one who called in was Phoebe. That was episode 410. And then Eve called in. I don't even know that we called her a cut queen so much, but she's episode 421. She's definitely a cut queen. And then there's Mary Sparkle Tits who just aired recently. Those made my most interesting list.

And all my female guests that I had this year, because like I said, I hadn't had that many female episodes before. I put a hardcore shout out and got a lot of females to call in. So let's give a shout out to Angel and Betty and Chloe. My good all faithfuls, Christine and Molly. Let me know if I forgot anybody. I will say my craziest episode award. I was like, definitely goes to Brad number 407. Brad would want to fuck his mom. Okay. Craziest for sure. But then I was like, but what about Ashley, episode 387, who said she had a threesome with her best friend's mom and stepdad? Now, that was like one of the craziest because A, she really had a threesome with these people. And it was her best friend from high school's mom and stepdad.

But B, I think it became a little crazy because I didn't believe her at first. And then she called in and she submitted proof and all of that is on Patreon. want to hear her update story and her proof episode. You could join my Patreon. But, you know, really, when I edited that back, I was like, oh my God, this girl's totally telling the truth. I don't know why I didn't believe her when I was on the phone with her. But it was one of the craziest stories, even without me questioning it, because she did fuck her best friend's mom and stepdad. And there was a lot of drama there. That was episode 387. So if you missed that one, if I were you, I'd go back and listen to it.

Now listen, there were a lot of other categories that I thought of and then it was just getting too long and I was like, oh my God, I can't because I could get into like the best cuckold situation. I had so many hot wives that call in. I had ones that were very heartfelt that I thought like, oh my God, they were my favorite episodes like Leo is suicidal. Leon is suicidal. Leon is suicidal. And Drew came out of the closet. I mean, that was one of my favorite episodes. Not a lot of people listened to that one. I think not a lot of people listened to that one. because I'm sure you're like, oh, suicide, who cares? You know, because I normally talk about SEX, but let me tell you, that kind of an episode where I'm actually helping somebody is my, always will fall under one of my faves, because I truly do my show because I do like to help people. I thought Leon was calling in to talk about BDSM and talk about whether he had like divergenized himself, but it turned out he was depressed and, you know, suicidal. we had a really intense conversation.

And what made it interesting is how honest he was. And what also made it interesting is that I didn't know that we were going to go there. But we did go there. And it's like one of my faves because it was so unexpected. And so when you hear me doing a serious episode talking to somebody who's like maybe quit drinking or is like has an addiction, you know, or somebody that. maybe once I commit suicide and I'm talking them down from the cliff. Like those will always be my personal faves because that's just what I'm into. So anyway, there's a million other great episodes that I did this year.

I couldn't list them all. But I gave you a bunch to go back and listen to if you haven't listened to them. But this today, I'm going to give you another one. This is Sam. Now, Sam caught his wife cheating. And not only did he not care. He was like turned on. So I'm like, this is like a cheating story with a twist.

Okay, this was a guy who had always talked to his girl about, hey, why don't you go fuck other people? And she was like, no. But she was behind his back. And then he found out. And then he tried not to tell her, but then he did tell her. And then he gave her permission. And now she sleeps with other people and everyone's okay with it.

And listen, it kind of helped their relationship. He was able to realize why she. she was cheating on him. It wasn't because he asked her to because at first when he asked her, she was like, uh-uh, she was doing it because there were issues in their marriage. And that came up and out when he caught her. They worked on their relationship. Their relationship is better not only sexually because she's doing what he's into, which is like, you know, cuckolding and stuff for him. But it's also better because he realized what he wasn't doing for her that she needed. And he does that for her now. And now they're happy. So I hope everybody has a high.

Happy New Year's. Thank you so much for tuning into my show this whole year. Thank you. Thank you. And I'm going to be right back on with Sam. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you this morning? Good.

How are you? Good. So I think your story, Sam, is that your wife cheated on you and you found out. And then ever since then, I don't know. You said you used it in a positive way or you're getting past it. I don't know. You tell me the story. start from the beginning

yeah so it's basically her cheating but then me finding out and me accepting it and us moving on forward together

but basically it was a friend like a while now we haven't been communicating good and you know going back and forth arguing this and that so we weren't having a connection

and I guess that's where she went to saw another guy who she knew from before who she had a connection with and I guess that's why she chose him. But I just, you know, I would just, I always wanted her to, with me, always, you know, be with another guy together. Oh, did she know that that was one of your fantasies at all?

Or was that always a secret that you had kept to yourself? She did. She did. She knew. Okay. Yeah. But the thing was, every time I would bring it up, you know, it would be a hesitant, no, because there's nobody that she's comfortable with that we know. So she wasn't really into it.

And I totally understand that. But I was asked and this and that. So moving forward, you know, I would notice that she would do things that I used to do when we were cheating because, when I was cheating. Because we used to, we had a long-distance relationship for about five years in the beginning. So, you know, I would be stupid and go out and do things. and she never left me. So she was always around. Did she know that you were training?

She knew about one time. Okay. One time she found out. And this was early, early on. So, you know, we kind of moved past it and she forgave me. And, but we never really had good communicating skills. Well, I never did. What were the tell?

What were the tell? Because I think this would be very interesting for the audience. What were the telltale signs? Because you said, oh, she started to do. some things that, you know, I remember doing when I was cheating. What were those tell, you know, signs? Yeah, so always hold

the phone nearby. Okay. You know, never really like putting it down and leaving it somewhere. Always worried of maybe somebody might pick it up or I might see something. Right. Always, basically, yeah, always on her phone and if I

ask to see something on her phone, just normally, she would, you know, want it back right away. Right. So like slight paranoia around the phone is a big time. That's what you're saying. Yeah, small things, right, exactly. I always think somebody that has a double phone, you know?

Like, I don't know. My nanny recently told me, like, her husband has another phone, and he's not, like, in a business that he would need another phone, so that's, like, always stands out to me. But anyway, go back. So she was always hiding her phone from you or, like, just acting weird about it. Yeah, always acting weird about it. And I noticed because, you know,

it's kind of things that I used to do when I was around her, and I was doing my thing. Mm-hmm. So I noticed that. And I was like, okay, I know something's going on. Don't know why you have something's going on. So basically, when that I woke up and I just said, she keeps her phone by her. So I kind of took it and I went downstairs and I, you know, I went through it and I started finding stuff.

What did you find? So first thing I found was just random text from her talking to people on Facebook that, you know, just not nothing really cheating or sexual. sort of on that line. Just funny. She would send a picture here, pictures here and there, but nothing crazy. So that was the first thing.

And that got my interest peeking. I said, okay, so she's into it. She's into it. Okay. So then I started looking further, and then when I found the hidden message with her,

you know, her ex-boyfriend that she had been seeing, that's when I got really interested. I found a lot of stuff. I found their whole, message from like two years ago that they've been talking. And I just started reading it and found a bunch of stuff and it really, really, really

got me interested. So when you say interested, quote, unquote, you mean turned on. You don't mean like freaked out. No, yes, turned on. Oh, okay, so let me ask you this one second. Like rewind it a little bit. When you went looking through her phone, was it because you were suspicious and upset about it or because you were turned on and this was like foreplay to you and you wanted to find out

the truth because you knew it was going to be a turn on. So a little bit of both mostly turned on though. So I just wanted to know why she would hide it or what was going on that she would need to hide it from me. But you, right, uh-huh. But you weren't like freaked out like, oh my God, she's cheating on me in the normal sense. No, not freaked out or upset. Just freaked out isn't like, wow. She really did this and like, you know, upset that I'm not.

I wasn't there to enjoy with her. That's why I was upset. That's what the main thing was. Yeah, but also turned on. And so you go rifling through her phone for like, you know, because for you, you think, oh, if I find this shit, it's going to be like hitting the jackpot. And then you found it. Exactly.

Exactly. That was on that phone for a few hours. Yeah, exactly. Wait, where was it hitting? I found a lot of stuff. It was in one of her messages, like, you know, not a direct message, but. One of those Facebook Messenger apps. Okay.

It was hidden away in there. Okay. And so what did you find? What turned you on? What did you find all the stuff? So I went back from the beginning from their first conversation. I just read it like a book. I went from the beginning.

It was sort of normal. And then she just started going like how much he misses him and, you know, how much she wanted him. And that was like, wow. And then he started going back talking to her. and it got really, really heated and really spicy and really naughty and pictures and videos and talking about meeting up. And that's when it hit me.

I was like, did they actually meet up? Yeah. And then what I did was I had an idea to go to her pictures. Right. And then I went to her deleted pictures. Yeah. And that's when I found the stuff or the hidden pictures. And that's when I found everything.

and I found out they did meet up, and I couldn't believe that I started putting things together. I was like, when did they meet up and where was I? Yeah. She told me she was going to a work thing. Right. She told me she was going to a work thing for three days. Mm-hmm. And this was, I thought it was acceptable because it was a new job.

And whatever lies she told me, I bought it fully 100%. Yeah. Because we weren't even, you know, I wasn't even thinking anything, and I was just like, whatever. Uh-huh. So, you know, she went and did that and then that I started putting things together when I was reading this while I was reading this and I thought, wow, this really did happen. And it was an amazing, amazing videos. Wait, there were videos. Oh, yeah.

Of them having sex? Yeah, everything. No way. Yeah, everything. I mean, it was so hot. Yeah, for a guy like you, like, listen, for a lot of guys out there, they'd be, it would be, it would. would, they would, like, throw up and, and they would be so angry and so jealous and so mad. Do you know what I mean?

Like, watching someone else fuck their wife behind their back and they had no idea. But for you, the guy who this turned on, this was, like, amazing. Yeah, this is a normal, like, a cheating story. It's more of like a, um, I wanted her to do this kind of thing. Yeah, yeah, you're right. Sheen throws a twist. So, and, you know, I just got so turned out. But then as I was reading, I started realizing, you know, why.

she kept going back to him and what was going on and why she was feeling the way she was. It wasn't just the sex, you know. That sex was amazing that they had and all the stuff that they were doing outside. But it was more of a connection thing with them. And that's what really was like, okay, so I messed up. I dropped the ball because all the stuff that she was doing with him, she had done for me a long time. All the pictures, the videos, all the sexy things.

So basically I realized I dropped the ball very, very. heavy. And she was taking flights to go see somebody else. My thing is, you know, I could have, and I know she was stressed out, because after we confronted each other and everything, I know she was stressed out. She told me how nerve-wrecking it was. And I was like, I could have helped you. Right. Had we been communicating. Mm-hmm. And, you know, you don't have to hop on flights to go see whoever. we can find someone closer.

That was my ideal thing, but that was my main thing. I was like, I would have helped you. I'm not mad. I'm not anything. Yeah, but wait, so tell me about, like, so take it a little slower, right? I want to know, so you watch all the stuff in the videos.

You watch it for hours. You're jerking off probably, right, watching this stuff. When do you confront her, like the next day, or do you wait a while? And then how do you confront her? Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm skipping. I had too much.

Okay. So, I like the story. It's interesting. I'm going to go slow. Yeah, after I find out, you know,

I thought to myself, because they had another immediate planned. Mm-hmm. This was, I found out like two months ago. So they had a meter planned this month,

like a bit of week ago. Yeah. And they had it planned already. Mm-hmm. And she was going to tell me another work thing. So I just thought, okay,

I'm not going to say anything right now. Because I was, I was mad at the idea of her doing it behind my back, not the cheating part. just doing it behind my back. Right, and not sharing it with you because this was like your ultimate fantasy. Like you said, you would have helped her.

And you probably also, like you said, I mean, you were bothered by the fact or you, at least, you know, the part that bothered you was that she was getting some needs met by this guy that you knew you had dropped the ball on. And that, I'm sure, bothered you. Yeah, that was the things that bothered me. I mean, like the whole cheating aspect, I could care less about that. Yeah. So one next one after all I did all this at night I put her phone back upstairs And I said I'm not going to say anything for a while

I'm just going to keep playing I want to see how long She's going to keep this up Yeah well she's been keeping it up for a long time I mean she was as late Yeah she was fine keeping it up Yeah exactly So I said okay I'm gonna I'm gonna just play a cool right now Well a couple days go by

And I couldn't even hold it anymore I just couldn't And it was just blowing me up. And I just said, all right, you know what? I confronted her. Like Friday night, I confronted her. And I told her everything that I found. And, you know, she, and I told her slowly.

I was like, I know why you did everything and what you did and all that stuff. Do you think I'm mad about this and that? I'm not. I told her what I was mad about and why. And we had an open conversation for, like, the first time. I don't know how many years. Right. it basically broke open the doors.

Mm-hmm. And so she started, you know, tell him everything. And it was, when she was free to tell me stuff, she even told me, she's like, now I feel free with all this, you know, this guilt. I don't even care anymore. I can tell you anything. Yeah. And I'm like, yeah, that's what I want.

Mm-hmm. So she, basically, I confronted her and told her I found everything. and I told her, you know, you can see him. I'll do whatever I need to and you can go see him again. But I need to be involved. Right. And what did she say? She said, yeah.

You know, involved, meaning he doesn't know that I know. Oh, he doesn't. So he doesn't know. Okay. Because he has his own life. Mm-hmm. So she still plays it off the same. way.

Yes. Okay. So even when I was like trying to hold in and with her, I would even give her like little hints to confess. And it wasn't working. She was just acting nonchalant. So that's why I finally blew up and confessed I found everything. And that's pretty much what let us to this point now. Well, where are you now?

I still want to go back to that a little bit of that story because I think it's, you know, cheating and someone doing something behind someone's back and all the things. the reasons for it is always, you know, good to share because I think it's common, unfortunately, within a long-term marriage. You know, you've been together for so many years. You said, like, she used to do those things, certain things for you, and you know, you dropped the ball. And then, you know, those were things she was into.

So she went and started doing them with somebody else. And a lot of times that happens, whether it's a man or a woman. You know, sometimes the sex that people are cheating just for physical reasons, but a lot of times, even for men and for women that, you know, people cheat because, you know, of emotional reasons. Yeah. Because they're missing something. This was strictly that, yeah. Yeah. She was getting more emotional and physical from this. But where are you now? Right. You said that this just happened.

How long ago did this happen? About, I think, a couple months ago. Right. So they just had their other date recently. Yeah. And yeah, she was, I told her, you know, I made sure that she was good to go. and it was really hot leading up to it. Like, we would talk about it a lot.

And ever since we found out, like, we opened up everything, our sex life has been absolutely amazing. Right. Like, it's been nonstop. Mm-hmm. And it's basically what we wanted, you know, more connection, more everything. Right. And you did.

So, yeah, so she just went on her date and she took videos for me and, you know, They had a good time. Right. With the same guy. Not a guy here. She's flying to see that guy. He still lives far away? No.

So he came into the city of ours. Okay. And that's why she was able to see him. He was actually here for something else. So she went and go see him. Right. Now, was she just cheating with him or anybody else? So from everything that I've seen and what we talked about,

it was basically the physical cheating with him. everybody else was just flirting and kind of she wanted attention. Right. Because she wasn't getting it at home. Right. Now, was there something about your size? Did you say something about like I was this many inches? Like, was there something about your size of your dick that you thought played into this whole story?

Or is that just like a cuckled part of you that likes to be, oh, she's with a guy that's bigger than me? Is that a part of the scenario for you that's a turn on? It's a turn on for me, yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah, you know, I'm perfectly fine with that. Like, I'm average. I'm not anything else, but I'm average. And this guy was, you know, he was packing.

And she loved him for a long time because of that. So it was even hotter. Right. And that guy, she won't tell. Now, was she, when she got caught, was it immediate that after she found out that you were okay with it and you got past it that the sex between you guys got good? So she was nervous that I was, you know,

going to be, like, upset over it or when she, if she did go see him again, like, it wouldn't be okay. But I was reassuring her every day, every night and, like, showing her, like, you know, we're going to be fine. Like, it's nothing to worry about. So then she felt at ease about doing it. Now, does she have plans to see other guys as well? You know, we talked about it, and it's nothing that she had, we have planned. It's like, we're always going to be open to the idea of looking or see if she's comfortable with somebody. but to go out and try to find someone for this specific reason or that client, I don't think we're going to do that.

But it's always an idea. It's always open. But isn't she the type that really likes attention and dress is very sexy when she goes out and now that's something that you guys share together? Or was that always the way she was? Yeah, 100%. 100%. She's always been like that.

I love that about her. You mean her? So, yeah, she always loved the attention. But she always was that way before. And that's something that you always like. So when you used to bring it up as far as her being with other guys, she always shot that down, correct? Yeah, she always shot that down. I think the biggest thing is, it's kind of cliche, but it's communication.

If you want your wife to be open to that sort of idea, it's communication. Well, you did communicate, but what was the problem, I think, with you guys was that you were communicating what you wanted, but maybe you weren't really, you guys weren't really connected because you weren't communicating in other areas of your relationship. Like, you were communicating your needs, but I don't. don't think you were meeting hers, so she wasn't going to meet yours, right? That's the problem. Exactly. Exactly. And the time we would communicate is like only when we would have sex. That's the only time we would really communicate and talk about it. And, you know, it wasn't like a real conversation at any, you know, like a normal time. So I would say back on a communication,

not just when you're having sex. Right. Not just like in the heat of passion talking about your fantasies. This is like having, really talking about it seriously outside of the bedroom. And what were the needs that she was getting from that guy? I mean, what was it that you weren't doing for her? You said she used to do these things and I used to do that for in the beginning and then she went to that guy to get it. It wasn't just about the sex. What were, what were her needs that you were dismissing? It was a lot of communication things. Like, I just, I wouldn't, you know, I was working nights and I would come home and I wouldn't, we wouldn't see each other a lot. So there wasn't a lot of conversation going on. And, you know, when we were talking, it was mostly arguing. So it was

that kind of thing. Right. you know, being home all this time together, kind of pile on each other. It was that court, like just building up to a lot of different things. So mostly just me, communicating my needs better to her or just telling her like, you know, I don't like this or we should do this or just simple stuff. And I wasn't doing that. Right. So now, did you always know that you were kind of like a little bit of a cuckold?

I mean, do you consider yourself a cuck or cuckold? Yeah, I guess so. Yeah, I have no idea. I have no problem with the term cuckold. You know, I don't. But how long did you know that you were into this kind of scenario? So I guess we started talking about it. We, yeah, it was kind of, I kind of just, we just started talking about it one time and kind of like got the idea, you know, in my head.

And I just, I just found it hot. Like, it just turned me on. And then I just kept going deeper and deeper. And with her and she was with it. And we were talking. And it was just awesome. So it just. turned us both on at the same time.

Right. So this is something like dirty talk in the bedroom while you were fooling around, you mean? Yeah, a lot of dirty talk. And that's what gets us both excited. So that kind of escalated it. And that's what started. Like the dirty talk. Right. But you never knew that you were into that whole thing before. And so you were so comfortable with the dirty talk that you felt like, hey, like this is something I want. I want you to be with another guy. Like you could do it and you thought you would be fine. And now after you saw it, you were and you're totally okay with it. Is there any kind of confliction at all? There was, when I first saw the video, yeah, there was a confliction.

I was like, well, this is what I wanted, kind of. Not really, but this is kind of what I wanted. So the only confliction was I didn't get to be there to enjoy it with her. That's why I was upset. But no, not. I don't have any conflict. I don't have any. Jealousy, nothing like that, right?

Any reason, over, nothing. No, nothing. Are there any rules and regulations now that she's doing it, you know, with you knowing or is the only rule that you have to know about it? Yeah, that's the only rule. She shows me everything. There's a text that somebody texts here or something like that or, you know, she's talking to just someone normally

or just doesn't small stuff. And I completely trust her. So whatever she decides, like, I go with. Whatever she's comfortable with is what I'm going to go with now. I'm not pressuring the issue anymore or whatever. I just know that when it happens again, it'll be it'll be really good because it'll happen organically. Right. And that's what you enjoy. That's a part of the turn on that she's really doing it.

She's really enjoying it. That's what I would think, right? Yes, absolutely. And does, do you, like the last time she saw this guy when you knew about it, did she like videotape? Is that something that you like, do you like to see it? Do you like her coming home and talking about it? Oh, yeah. So, yeah, I love talking about it before and after. she went, especially after when she came home. So she took a lot of videos for me and they were terrific. I mean, absolutely amazing.

So when she came home, that next day, I took off of work and we made sure that we had our time when she got home and we watched the videos and we had lots and lots of fun. So like I said, no rules. Like she can't do this or that. I mean, everything's on the table. Yeah, everything, whatever she's. going through it with it on the table. I have no issues with that.

And, you know, I just, it's, it's something that I like. I don't know. A lot of guys probably won't be like that or think like that, but I just something that, you know, I find turning on. I turned on. Yeah, let me tell you, I think someone just comment about this on YouTube. Like, I mean, this was a very big surprise to me when I started my show seven years ago. And I've said this before, like, I have a lot of guy friends always have.

They all talk to me very openly because I'm that kind of person who's not, judgmental. So guys were always telling me shit that they were into, but I have to tell you, I never had one guy friend tell me like I'm into like seeing my girl fuck someone else. And then I start my show and I have so many guys calling in about it. And then when I post an episode about it, it's so highly downloaded. So I know that there's a lot of people, you know, some people are listening just because they're curious, but I think a lot of people are downloading it because this is their fantasy, quote unquote, as well. And I think that a lot of people, it's a secret fantasy.

I don't think so many guys talk about it, even though there are a lot of guys into it. That's what I have to say. Because I have so many guys in a show that call in with this kind of kink, fantasy, fetish, whatever you want to call it. But I never had one guy friend tell me that they were into it. But there's got to be more than one that was. Yeah, that's the reason I love your show,

because that's what I find really, really hot and turned on. And, you know, that's how I found your show. And I just, I couldn't believe that there are more people like that out there. And I feel the same way. Right. I mean, did you always feel like, I mean, when you started doing this with your wife, did you ever, like before you started fantasizing about her with her, these scenarios of her with another guy, did you ever, did you know that that, like,

I think I asked you that already, but like, did you know that kind of a thing would be a turn on? Are you turned on by guys at all, or is it just seeing your girl with somebody else? No, mostly her with somebody else. And no, I had no idea. Right. No idea. I would even like that stuff.

I never even thought of that kind of stuff. Yeah, it's interesting because I've had other guys on who, like, I had another guy on whose wife did cheat on him. It was a, they were like Mormons and she cheated. I mean, and they're like currently swingers now. But it's kind of the same thing. Like she cheated. He was able to get past it. But then they used it in the relationship and they have an open.

in relationship now. And he said, like if, you know, because it was something that happened for the first time for him to see his wife with somebody else. And he said, like, if you would have asked me one second before it happened, whether I would have been down, like, he was like, he didn't know that he was into it or he could be turned on by, but the minute it happened, he was. So I just think, you know, it's like for you, it wasn't that case. You knew before you found the videos you were into it because you guys were doing all that

dirty talk. But you really didn't know that. this was something you were into until you started exploring it and talking about it in a fantasy sense in the bedroom. And then when it happened in real life, it was equally as charged up. So, you know, I think sometimes we don't know what we're into. No, we don't. We absolutely don't until we actually get into it. Yeah. And I mean, in a weird way, thank God you were into that because your wife did cheat on you for some people. For a lot of people, that would be Dunzo for the release. You know, it would have be, you know, end of the story here.

But for you and your wife, you have stayed together. I would assume that maybe looking back five years from now, you guys will say that was a good thing that happened because it strengthened your relationship. Because besides the turn on and the strengthening of your intimate relationship, it helped you realize what you weren't doing for her and probably helped your relationship on that level as well. 100% yeah correct so that's a great thing i mean how long you guys been married for we've been married for seven years now we've been together for 13 years and the reason i would never get jealous or mad at her is because you know i did this stuff already and she she forgave me

she was never you know um gonna leave and just say forget you yeah you know she stuck by me through a lot a lot a lot of things not just that so for me to ever get mad at her would be pointless right Like it would be absolutely pointless. I understand that. But you have to realize that yourself before, you know, going out somebody else. Yeah, I think a lot of people don't have that attitude towards cheating, but it's great that you do and you were so fair about it. I think a big part of it is because it's a turn on for you and it's something that you wanted.

And you sound very fair in your looking at the situation in that you could really take ownership of the fact that you realized you weren't giving her what you're. she needed. Whereas a lot of people, I think, when something like this happens, they just look at the other person and focus on like what they did to them as opposed to looking at their, you know, part in the situation. You know what? A lot of times people don't want to look in the mirror and say like maybe I, I was doing something that contributed to this. Not to say that every person that cheats is because of the other person, but a lot of times it is. You know, you have to take accountability. There's a reason. Yeah. Sometimes there's not. Sometimes somebody just fucking

horny and they want variety or, you know, there's certain times, you know, but sometimes in cheating cases like this, especially in long-term relationships when stuff happens, it's because there's problems in the relationship that haven't been addressed. And most of the time, it's like, you know, there's not one victim and one perpetrator. A lot of times it's, you know, people are, have, have to take accountability, you know, for themselves as well. And I think that you did. And that really helped your guy's situation instead of you just being like look at what you fucking did you were like oh you were like yeah that's I was I I get why she did that because I didn't do that I deserved it yeah 100% I totally get why she did it and these are the conversation that we actually had

moving forward like we it wasn't just all sexual so we actually started communicating about more things and that's what really opened us up even more right she told you yeah you were not fucking doing this to me sorry kind of thing like what What was her exact, like, what did she say to you that was missing? Say it again? What did she say to you that was missing? It was that you weren't complimenting her? Like, what specifically?

No, basically telling her what I, like, basically opening up my feelings to her. You know, like, how the other dude was doing to her. Like, they would have real conversations. What we're doing now is what I should have been done doing from the beginning. And it would have been great from the beginning. Right. You got, but you guys lost your, but you, what, you what happened besides sex, you guys lost your friendship. Like you were married, you were going through the motions, but you weren't really talking.

You weren't, right? Open with each other. Is that what it was? Yes. Yes. It was a lot of that. Yes. Yeah.

Going about your daily life, it's like Groundhog Day, same shit, right? You take the person for granted. Exactly. I think it's very common. Same sex, same, you know, same schedules, same everything. So it was, you know, a lot of repetitive. and nothing was ever being talked about. Right.

Just moving forward. Yeah, and here's like this hot girl who loves attention. And she still wants attention. It doesn't matter that she's been with you for 13 years. And you're not giving it to her. So she goes and gets it from somebody else. And I think that that happens. And sometimes, like, I think that a lot of people, it's weird.

I get a lot of comments on YouTube when a woman cheats. It's so different and it's so more worse than men. But, I mean, men cheat for these kind of reasons, too. You know, there's a lot of times where a man, you know, men are human beings as well. And if you're a woman and you're not, you know, acting like you really care about your husband and showing him love and attention, he might fall for the girl at work that he's talking to all the time as well. And it's for that reason. And they tend to think, I think, with men, that men just do it for sex because they just need extra sex. But sometimes it's emotional as well, just like it was for your wife, you know?

So I just think this kind of scenario can help. happen, whether you're a man or woman, heed the warning. But I think what's great about your story, and interesting is that, you know, it really worked in your favor and her favor. Your wife is lucky that she's married to a guy that is into this or else she would have been dumped. Oh, she knows. Dumped, dumped.

Yeah, she knows. Do you know what I mean? She still, she tells me a lot of times. She said, I can't believe you're letting me do this. I was like, yeah, I am. Yeah. Yeah, but like you said, I mean, you gave her credit. She put up with a lot of stuff that you did, you know.

So I think that's great. And I love this episode. I mean, I'm going to keep it at 30 minutes. And I have, because I have a couple shorter, I have like a bunch of shorter things. I'm going to put them all together. So I'm going to end it now. But this was great.

I like it. It was more salacious than I thought. Thank you so much for, thanks so much for sharing this story. I think it's super interesting, you know, because most of the time, yeah, most of the time cheating stories do not wind up like this. Yeah. Thank you so much for let me know, use your platform to just talk about it openly because this is the first time I've ever actually just told somebody about it, you know. So I appreciate that. And I love your show, everything about it.

Oh, I love that. I love that. I thought this was salacious at all. What? I didn't think this was salacious at all. Salacious. I think it is. I think.

And I think it'll be a little controversial in that I, like I said, I don't think a lot of people would get to the place that you did. Like, I just think that the end of the story would be a lot different for most people and they won't be able to understand where you're coming from. Though I do, and I can understand it. And that's what I love about my show. I think that what I like to do is show how real life goes. It's not always the same for every single person. And you got to open your mind to the fact that. that, you know, everyone's different and, you know, everyone takes things

a different ways. Like I said, you guys were successful in that you're able to get past something very tragic that a lot of people aren't. And not to say that for other people, if they're not into that, that they should get past cheating. You know, maybe that's something that they can never get past. I understand that too. But I understand your story in relation to the both of you and it works.

And that's what's interesting. And it is kind of salacious because you got fucking horny for seeing your wife with another guy which was cheating on you. I find that kind of salacious. I love it. I love it. It was awesome. Yeah, the little cucks like you that have this secret little fantasy are going to be like,

oh, I wish that would happen to me, you know, they could. So anyway, thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story, Sam. Thank you so much, Kathy. All right, cool. Talk to you soon. Bye. Bye. Hey, everyone.

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