Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 438 - Chris has been a White Bull for Couples for Many Years

Episode Date: January 3, 2022

Chris has been a white bull for many years and he calls in to talk all about it. How did he become a bull? How long has he been one? And, where does he meet the couples he plays with and what exactly ...does he do with them? Tune in to hear all the details which include how he accidentally wound up meeting the first couple he hooked up with and what he did with them, how he enjoys sleeping with the wife of a true cuck and what about that scenario turns him on the most, the rules and boundaries work for him and what he learned that helped him to develop them, the time he met with a wife who lied about her husband's involvement and how the husband found out, how he vets couples and what's important to him, his fave couple and what he does with them, his best and worst hook ups and what exactly went down, how his life as a bull is a secret, the type of woman he's looking to have a relationship with plus a whole lot more. Stay tuned because at the end he does give out his email for couples who might be interested. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! **To see anonymous pics of Chris and most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.
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Starting point is 00:00:45 I want to say welcome to 2022. But first, I also want to say thank you so much to all my listeners for tuning in, being so loyal to my show, all of 2021. It was a great year for my show. COVID locked me down. Okay, I was in the hot spot in New York City. I had nothing else to do, but work on my show. And I changed a lot of things up. I set up a Patreon.
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Starting point is 00:03:01 things is just tell your friend about the show. Don't be embarrassed. You know, tell your friend about the show or give me a shout out. If you got a blue checkmark or your celebrity and you're listening to my show, I know you're out there. Say something great about my show. Help me out. It will really help the show. I love doing my show. I've been doing it for eight years now, and I'm going to continue to do it. I love you all. I can't tell you how much I appreciate my listeners. If you want to chime in on the episodes, I'm still on YouTube. I love YouTube as a platform for my show because I get to talk about the episodes with my listeners. Go to YouTube, subscribe to my channel there as well, strictly anonymous podcast. So today I have on a white bull. Okay, I've had done some black bulls. I have on a white bull today. He has been doing it for a long time. He's been sleeping with couples for 14 years. And he really likes being a bull, which is different than like my swinger couples or my
Starting point is 00:04:00 cuck guys. You know, he's the opposite end of it, right? He's the guy that the couple calls in so the cuck could watch him fuck the wife. And he loves being that dominant guy that's taking the other guy's wife. That's what he's into. His favorite scenario he talks about it is when he has a very true cuck who really wants him to talk all about how he's taken his wife. Okay.
Starting point is 00:04:25 That's what it's about. This started when he was younger, kind of by accident. But it progressed into like a thing that he's just been doing. Like I said, for the past 14 years. He's totally involved in the lifestyle. He's been with many, many couples. We talk about how it started, where he went to meet couples after to keep it going, what he looks for, the lessons he learned and the things he wasn't into.
Starting point is 00:04:48 You know, he's been there, done that, and he learned a lot from his experiences. What kind of rules and boundaries he has? I ask him his worst situation or experience his best situation. He also talks about where, like I think I said where he meets his people and where he advertises himself as a bull. He gives a shout out if you want to hire him or, I don't know what it's called, you know, get him in on your couple action or hire, you know, get him to come in and bang your wife. He's a professional.
Starting point is 00:05:20 I call him a professional. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on. Anonymous podcast, how are you this morning? Hey, excellent. How are you? Good. So, Chris, you claim to be a white bull, right? Is that your deal?
Starting point is 00:05:35 You're a white bull? Yes. What does that mean? Because I've had, like, does that mean? Because I think that sometimes it's a little confusing. right because like a cuck would a cuck be a white bull or like or what's the white bull that you're like the third person that goes into a couple situation and screws them is that the deal yes i mean not not them it's just mainly the wife right so i'm a lot of times talking to the cuck and i've had a couple black
Starting point is 00:06:02 bulls on and those are like very highly downloaded but you're a white bull so how did you become a white ball um yeah i guess it's i kind of fell into it or was a approach into it or whatever else um tell your story i uh so when i was 21 i went to a strip club with some friends uh for i don't know just like a fun night out whatever and it happened to be i guess like some type of amateur night or couples night or whatever there and so there was a lot of uh couples husbands and wives there and towards the end of the night like you know we had a good time whenever else we didn't really talk to any of the couples
Starting point is 00:06:41 and then towards the end of the night a couple of my friends went to the bathroom I was kind of waiting and this guy approached me and said oh my wife thinks you're very good looking do you have any interesting couples and I had no idea what he was talking about
Starting point is 00:06:55 like I thought he actually meant like a double date with like a couple or something I'm totally naive to the whole thing yeah right and then he kind of explained it to me and, you know, I had a couple of drinks at that point, and I was like, yeah, yeah, what the hell? And so that was, like, the first introduction I had to it. And ever since then, it's just been something that, I guess, like, just triggered me and, like, it was just an awesome lifestyle.
Starting point is 00:07:22 Yeah, but don't just go to there. So, walk me through that scenario. So did you go home with that couple? Yeah, so that night, like I said, you know, they approached me at a couple drinks. I had no idea what it was. And I went home with that couple that night. And that specific couple, the husband wasn't necessarily a cuck. He was more of a, I guess it's called the Stagg Vixen.
Starting point is 00:07:50 So he liked to join in, nothing bisexual, but he'd like to join in. So we would both double team his wife, or we would just all play. together basically, but me and him would be involved together. Right. Okay. And now, did you see them on a regular basis after that, or was it a one and done situation? No, it was actually a one and done situation, but that was like the gateway coupled into the life of this and what it blossomed into. And that was, like I said, about 14-ish years ago. And then once, you know, that night came and went, I found myself like eagerly looking for the next couple and you know way back then it didn't have all this
Starting point is 00:08:39 you know these apps and it read it and everything else it was honestly more of like you'd go out to these swinger clubs or strip clubs or um you know craigslist a little bit um and that's why i initially you know started to get consistent couples and i have to admit like i was very I was not very picky in the beginning. Let's put it that way. You were more into the scenario. It wasn't, you weren't so fixated on the people. You just, the scenario was hot to you.
Starting point is 00:09:12 You'd take what you could get. Yes. And I think I was so eager to have more experience with it. And like, you know, I guess, you know, in a sports term, like practice kind of, basically, that I wasn't necessarily filtering out like, you know, personality and, you know, other things that. Now I have to have in order to, you know, be involved with a couple. Like I need to have more of a connection, I would say, now than when I initially started. Let me ask you this because I'm interested in how that progressed, you know,
Starting point is 00:09:46 and I want you to tell the whole story and, you know, pick up from when, you know, after this couple, the next couple. But how old were you when this all started when you say 14 years ago? How old were you at that time? I think I was about 21. And now were you in a relationship or were you a single guy? At that point, I was single. Okay, cool.
Starting point is 00:10:04 All right, so you meet that couple. You're like, oh, my God, I need to meet another one. You don't care who or what they look like or anything like that. Like, how do you meet the next couple and what goes down? Well, it wasn't so much, like, no, I mean, looks were definitely important. I wasn't, that wasn't necessarily a part of, you know, when I was letting anybody in. It was more about, like, the personality. Right.
Starting point is 00:10:26 Yeah, and like, I, I didn't filter there, like, relationship or marriage necessarily as good as I should have. Right. Interesting. Okay. But you learned, I guess, over time. Yeah, well, I guess I made mistakes. Yeah, that's interesting. Yeah, and learned, you know, like, you know, one of those is to make sure that both people know. Um, you know, because I had an instance where I was talking to the wife and she said, yeah, yeah, it's cool, it's cool, it's cool. I never really talked to the husband or anything.
Starting point is 00:11:06 And yeah, come to find out, you know, the husband didn't know and wasn't cool with it. You know, so then I... So she was cheating and she pretended that she wasn't, yeah. But let's get back to the second couple. You go, where do you start? Because it's like 14 years ago. Like you said, there's no apps. There's no online stuff like there is.
Starting point is 00:11:25 But there's a couple things. There's Craigslist. How did you go about meeting the second couple? Yeah. So after the initial couple, I would probably say it was a couple months before I, you know, found the next one because I wasn't really sure what to look or how to do it. Yeah. You know, I was the one getting approached. Like, I wasn't doing the approaching.
Starting point is 00:11:42 So that was like a whole other thing. And then, so initially I was going out, like, to strip clubs and, like, these amateur nights and I was going to these, I mean, I guess you can call them. I don't know if they're, I guess they're sex clubs. You know, it was basically a regular club, but they had like a couple nights there. You know, and they have them all over, you know, depending on where you are. You kind of have to look for them. And so then I started to go to those places. And that was, you know, much easier to meet them.
Starting point is 00:12:15 You're face-to-face with them in person, which was great. There was a lot of people there. You know, but I did find over the years that, you know, the selection isn't always as good as, you know, there is now. because you can filter out so many different things now. Yeah. You couldn't really then. So my second couple was about three months after my first one. I went to a, it was just a regular club, but that night it was a couple's night,
Starting point is 00:12:43 or they have like a swinger's night, basically. And so I went there and usually at these clubs, you know, the couples have to pay to get in, but it's much cheaper. And then if you're a single male, the price is, you know, like much higher than if you were a single female, let's say, whatever. Yes. So I did that. I went there,
Starting point is 00:13:00 paid, went in, and, you know, just kind of felt everything out. And after that initial couple, I felt like naturally to be the aggressor. I felt like when I walked in,
Starting point is 00:13:13 I just felt like so confident in approaching these couples now. And that's where I think the bull mentality came out more. And like, you know, my personality is very, like, outgoing. And, you know,
Starting point is 00:13:28 charismatic and like I'm more you know dominant um but in that initial situation with that couple like I wasn't because I was so new to it I didn't know it was even a thing and then once I did I kind of flipped back to um you know my actual personality which is more like a dominant um you know bull type and so I approached a couple in there that I saw you know talk to them they um they were actually he, a first time couple swinger, so they had never been with another one before. And, you know, talking
Starting point is 00:14:03 to them, we had drinks, you know, connected. You know, they were, you know, nervous, you know, which I can understand. And basically it got to the point where we all connected, we went home. Now, this one, he was more of a cuck. So he,
Starting point is 00:14:19 we put him in the corner, basically, of the room while we played in, you know, this couple she'd like to talk to him while we were together and, you know, tell him how everything felt and, and, you know, all that kind of stuff. And so that one really, I think, unleashed my inner, you know, bull. Like, that really, like, got me going all that. Because you know that, that guy or, and her, like, they're talking specifically about you and, right? She's talking about you and what you're doing to her and how hot it is. And that's turning you on as well. Like, in that, that, that's, that, that's,
Starting point is 00:14:55 where you realize you really like being involved. Yeah, yeah, that was kind of like the aha moment, I think, for me, where, like, I found my perfect role in, you know, the lifestyle. And then, you know, it just started to escalate from there. So there was, you know, more and more coupled more quickly. Like I said, in the beginning, there was a couple hiccups. Like I said, one of the couples, I spoke to the wife through Craigslist before I spoke to the husband, not realizing that she didn't.
Starting point is 00:15:25 didn't tell him and then, you know, that kind of turned out to a situation. So that was definitely like a learning thing for me. Yeah, but tell me that specific situation. How did the, how did the husband then find out? I don't understand. Like if she says, oh, I'm going to fuck you with my husband and then, you know, or was she like, well, no. So, all right. So this one, we went through Craigslist. We talked. We met out for like a coffee and seemed cool. She wasn't nervous. She seemed to experience. It was great. She had told me that the husband didn't like to be involved. and he'd only like to get pictures and videos sent to him. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:16:00 And so I said, yeah, that's cool. I got, yeah, that's fine. And so we, you know, hooked up. We took some videos and pictures. A couple weeks went by. We got together again. And I think, you know, actually, he was actually ending up being very cool. But basically, I think there was like some history there, obviously, that I didn't know about.
Starting point is 00:16:21 And he had his suspicion. So he actually had followed her. so on our second meeting we're there and then he comes in and like he was obviously you know very very pissed and he ended up calming down and i i just said you know listen i i didn't know like if i did it's not my thing to take a wife home that's cheating like that's totally right and he he was actually understanding and he was like listen to me about some history and i knew something was going on he's like listen I don't blame you you didn't know whatever else he actually ended up being very cool but that was like another moment where I was like this part of it like if this is something that that was like not for me and so I made sure that I at least even if the husband doesn't want to be there or doesn't want any involvement I at least need like a phone call from him or a meet out like you know for a coffee or something just took him firm.
Starting point is 00:17:24 Because I don't want to be in a situation like that. Yeah, yeah. That's smart that you do that ahead a time. You know, and that's cool too. Yeah, no. And it makes it a lot easier, you know, like I said,
Starting point is 00:17:35 filtering out the other, you know, situations where, like, if anybody's getting into the lifestyle as a couple to try to save their marriage, like, that's not what's there for. You know what I mean? Or if they're looking for a release
Starting point is 00:17:49 without their partner knowing, Like, that's not what it's there for. Right. It's there for those strong couples who, you know, want to spice things up, but have good communication and have talked about it and set some type of rules. And those are the ones that are successful within the lifestyle. Yeah, but it also seems like you did the same thing. Even though you're a solo person, you know, you learned as you went and set up rules
Starting point is 00:18:13 and boundaries also for yourself that work so that you could be successful in the lifestyle in your role. Oh, yeah. I mean, I had to. I mean, like I said, obviously, I didn't know about it. I was naive. Yeah. I made my mistakes along the way.
Starting point is 00:18:27 You know, but after a while, you kind of figure out, you know, where you fit in and what you need to do for yourself. And, you know, as a single male, people think, oh, like, there's no worries and no problems. It's just like, you just go out and let's, you know, fuck all these wives and it's like, no big deal. But it's like, there's a little bit more to it than that. Yeah, that's what I find interesting about talking to you and we're only like 13 minutes into it, that you do have that angle, you know. And you take it seriously and you do and you have created like I said rules and boundaries where I don't think that I've heard that a lot before. Yeah, I think it's everybody's different. Like, you know, some people are, you know, they don't, they just want to go have fun and like whatever happens happens.
Starting point is 00:19:09 And I think I probably was like that in the beginning. And then, you know, you either get that like moment where you're like, oh, I can make this even better if I do some things. Some people get that moment. Some people they don't. Or some people don't even stay in the long. lifestyle long enough to realize. Exactly. You're a professional. You've been doing this for 14 years. Yeah, about 14 years. I don't know if I'm a professional. I feel like it's like it sounds like a job. It's not a job. Like, you know, but it is a lifestyle. It is definitely a lifestyle. Yeah. So I think that that's like, you know, more than just a thing that you kind of do on the side. You know, when it is a lifestyle, it, you know, to say professional, it's like in quotes, it's like you really, you live it. You breathe it. You know, you're a professional. You're doing.
Starting point is 00:19:51 this for a long time. That's, I think, what that word is, I mean. Yeah, yeah, I guess when I think a professional, I think of like a jiggle-o or something. Like, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, I got it. Yeah, that's not what I mean. Yeah, no, I know what you mean. But so, yeah, it's, it's, it's come a long way, you know, I've definitely, I've had some, like, awesome, you know, awesome great couples, you know, specifically one, um, it was an older guy who was married to, like, a younger, wife at the time. They obviously had a great, you know, situation going on, you know, financially or stable. And she was actually probably like a two-hour flight from me.
Starting point is 00:20:35 And, you know, we connected through, I think it was Reddit or FetLife or FetLife or somewhere, you know, one of those sites. And they actually flew me out one time, you know, for a meet. and we spent the weekend together it was great and then he would fly her out to where I am to like spend long weekends and whatever else and you know he was like just happy
Starting point is 00:21:00 but I think he was just like an older guy and they had a good relationship and you know I don't know if he couldn't you know keep up with her anymore or you know whatever it was but like he was just as excited about it as she was listen have you listened to my podcast I mean this is and I said this before
Starting point is 00:21:16 I mean one of the most interesting things to me about doing my show is I just learn so much. And there's certain fetishes that I never knew existed before I did my show. And I've always said, like, I have a lot of guy friends. And my guy friends are super open with me because I'm very non-judgmental about sex. So they always have been all their lives telling me things. You know, so I felt like I always kind of knew what guys were into. But, uh-uh, okay? None of my guy friends ever told me, I want to see my girlfriend, fuck another guy. And I have to say, that's one of the most. interesting things about my show is when I started to do it, I had so many guys that started to call
Starting point is 00:21:54 in the beginning and talk about this. And I'm like, what are you talking about? And I'd go back to my guy friends and be like, I had a guy on. Like, are you into those? They'd be like, no, I would never, you know. But I have to say those are very highly downloaded episode. So there are a lot of guys out there. I'm not saying it's the majority of guys, right? But there are a lot of guys out there that are definitely into their girl being with another guy for a whole day. For a whole day. different variety of reasons. You know, I've heard them all. Everyone has a different take on what it is about it that turns them on. But, you know, that older guy, I think, you know, he was into it like a lot of the other guys were. Like,
Starting point is 00:22:31 that was his thing. Yeah, like you said, like, I would almost say, not every couple, but there was almost like a different kink with every other couple, every three couples that I, you know, was with where it was like, like I said, one, just wanted to sit in the room and watch. And then one didn't want to be involved at all, just wanted videos and pictures. And, you know, one wanted to, um, you know, participate and join. Um, you know, another wanted to be in the room and like, you know, degraded it and talked down to. And, you know, there was like one of them, the husband was directing us what to do. And another one, the wife was telling the husband what to do. And like, so there's so many little things that make like every couple kind of different.
Starting point is 00:23:21 And I think I love to like explore that and and, you know, find out like what their kink is. Like that's one of the things that like always brings me back like to find the next couple. And it was almost like a good meal to me. Like when you get that good piece of steak, you watch the restaurant and then you're looking for the next restaurant that has that really good steak. Yeah. or like whatever seasoning that you or whatever else it was like it just spiraled like well it's a little bit like chasing the dragon no it's like any good thing if you get something you want more and then you're always looking for the next best thing and like how do you top it yeah and just like different
Starting point is 00:24:00 experiences like you know i had one couple which was great you know for whatever reason they only like to do stuff in the car so they like the husband to drive and they had a kind of kind of big SUV. They liked the husband to drive and me and the wife to play in the back. And that was the only time when I was with that couple that we ever did anything was in a moving vehicle. Yeah, that's funny. You know, so it's like that little thing. Like, you know, they didn't like the hotel. They didn't like to go back to their place. They didn't think to go back to their place. They didn't think about to go back to my. Like, no, it was he liked to drive. And they had like a little dash with the, you know, phone on it and camera. And,
Starting point is 00:24:43 We would be in the back with, I'd be the back with the wife. You know, for whatever reason, that was their, you know, automobile kink or whatever it is. Yeah, that was like their hot fantasy. Yes. Now, what did you do? Fucker in the back? Are you guys sitting up? Are you laying down?
Starting point is 00:24:57 You know, is he watching in his rear view mirror? Is he talking? Yeah, so the first time, we did a couple times. The first time, there was no camera. He just drove and he watched in the mirror. We had sex in the back. You know, she, you know, blew me. and rode me and
Starting point is 00:25:14 you know all that stuff and then a couple weeks later we got together again and this time he brought his camera and he had it you know on his dash and videoed us in the back playing um and he so he'd like to do that and then he would send
Starting point is 00:25:30 me you know the video basically um and that was their thing they liked to play in the car and then they like to share the video with their ball um and so like the the the you know the funny part is like you think of bull and all that you think of like this this deal with this huge dick is going to come fuck my wife and like for most couples it's not like
Starting point is 00:25:54 a size thing it's more of the erotic piece of having another guy come have sex with your wife yeah so you know what I mean like it's not like oh every bull has this like massive dick that's so much bigger. Like, I don't be wrong, I think I have a above average size, you know, but I'm not bringing like, you know, 12 inches to the table. Right. But sometimes there, I mean, and like we both said before, it's never going to be across the board. Every single scenario is like the guy wants this or the same thing. But there are a lot of guys and it's all relative, right? Dick size is relative. So I do think if you're a little bit above average, what's important? What's important? important to a lot of cucks is that they do see a bigger dick over there.
Starting point is 00:26:43 So, you know. Yeah. Yeah. Like the cuck couples for the most part, you know, so like I'm like eight inches. Yeah. So like I said, a little bit, I think above average, I guess. Yes, for sure. So for the cucks, like they love that piece of it.
Starting point is 00:27:01 But like for a couple who's like a stag in vixen. Yeah. Doesn't matter. It doesn't matter to them really. Yeah. Yeah, they don't want like a micro penis, but like, you know, it doesn't matter as much. It's more about... Totally, yeah, that's good distinction.
Starting point is 00:27:13 Her being another guy and everything else. Like, so it's also based upon the couple, like, you know, and then don't get me wrong, there's some wives that like, you know, just to be with black guys. And there's some wives that just like, you know, huge penises, like huge. So every couple kind of has a different, you know, size requirement, I guess, depending on what kind of couple they are. This podcast is sponsored by Better Help. Anyone who listens to this podcast knows that I totally believe in therapy. I've been in therapy at many different times in my life and I'm always pitching it to people on the show. The hardest thing to me about therapy is finding the right therapist.
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Starting point is 00:29:02 your first month. Thanks, Better Health for sponsoring this episode. Now, you're cool with, I mean, because that guy was videotaping you in the backseat. You're cool being on videotapes. Because you said a lot of husbands want that and stuff. Do you ever worry that anything gets out there? Have you been in relationships? Are you married? Have you been doing this on the side, on the down low? So, no, not married. I've had plenty of different girlfriends that I've tried to introduce into the lifestyle that has not gone well. I haven't found. No. But once again, like, I don't want my girl that sex with somebody else.
Starting point is 00:29:38 So, like, it's hard to have a relationship necessarily when you're bringing them in knowing that, you know, I'm a bull. I don't want her to be with somebody else. But you want to be with somebody else. Yes. So you've tried to, so you've gone to some girlfriends and said, hey, listen, you know, I'm in the lifestyle. I fuck, like, I hook up with couples and I fuck the way. wives and I want to continue doing that. Well, we're together, but I don't want you to fuck other guys.
Starting point is 00:30:07 Yes. Yeah, that's a tough sell. And I get it. Like, I get it. Like, it's not. You need a cock queen. Yes. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:13 Yeah. So I get it. And, you know, they haven't, you know, been interested in it, which is to understand. Well, but I feel like I had to be up front with them and like, you know, I don't want to be, you know, that kind of guy. So. No, listen. I listen to me.
Starting point is 00:30:27 Okay. It is totally fine that that's exactly what you want because a cut queen would be perfect for you. And it's no different than, because a lot of times when I have hot wives on or women that fuck other guys for their cuck husbands, that people will say there, I will get a lot of comments like, oh, you know, she could go fuck other guys, but he's not fucking other girls. I'm like, across the board, 100% of the time, I'll tell you this, the guy doesn't want to fuck somebody else. That cuck doesn't give a shit about fucking other women. He wants, his thing is seeing his wife with other guys. It's not like he's saying to the girl, please let me and she's saying no. It's not an
Starting point is 00:31:05 unfair situation. It's exactly what that couple wants. So I don't think it's unfair. It's just a matter of finding the right person that that works. And the cuck queen would be the perfect partner for you because she would say, if someone would say, oh, it's not fair. You're not letting her fuck other people. She probably doesn't want to fuck other guys. She wants to see you with other women. And that's fine. Yeah. Yeah. Well, so I haven't found that. Right. Yeah, I guess. So as far as the video goes, like you mentioned,
Starting point is 00:31:32 so, you know, when we, when we do take videos, I do require them to obviously blur my face out or try to get my face in it all. Yeah. Also, like, any type of, you know, birth marks or tattoos or anything to be, like, kind of blurred out so that there's no, like, you know, identification. Do you trust their editing capabilities? I mean, it's like, those people don't know how to blur out of face. So I'll tell you, like for the most part, like, these guys, like, kind of know what they're doing, especially ones that are experienced.
Starting point is 00:32:03 Yeah, they kind of do. Like, they're pretty good. And even if they don't, like, I have stuff that I use too and I can kind of help them. Oh, okay. Okay. So, you know, it isn't working out. I haven't had any issues. But what I will say is, like, my family is super religious.
Starting point is 00:32:20 So, like, I obviously would never want it to get out, you know, because my thing is. family would probably disown me. Like, that's, like, they're, like, oddly too much religious. Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, there's definitely, you know, a piece there that is, is worrisome. And there has to be, like, you know, a mutual trust between a couple and a bull and, you know, everything else that you don't want. But it sounds like, you know, I don't know, could you count how many couples you've been with? Or can you not? Um, I can give you probably a roundabout. You know, I know in the beginning it was obviously a lot more. So I was trying to get a, into it and then as the years went on they were spread out more and like honestly i like a i like a couple and i like to be consistent with them for a while yeah you know i don't like to really jump from couple to couple where like in the beginning i was trying to get my feet wet as much as possible
Starting point is 00:33:12 so i would jump from a couple to couple a couple i feel like now i like to find a good like solid couple to spend time with you know for long periods of time to get to know them to you know whatever else. It's more of a connection. It makes a sex better. It makes fulfilling fantasies better. So I would say I probably, you know, over the 14 year period, I don't know, probably around like 30 or 40 couples. Yeah, okay. Now, when you were in relationships with these girls and they were like, no, I'm not interested in you and being with other couples. Did you go behind their back and still do it or did you put a hold on it? No, so if I was in a relationship, I wasn't doing any type of bull stuff. Yeah, yeah. I just didn't do it.
Starting point is 00:33:56 Like I'm pretty loyal. Yeah, I could tell by your other stories that, like, even because you were cool with the guy, like you would never want to be that person to the guy, I would assume that, you know, you're that way. I mean, most people, I think, treat other people the way that they would want to be treated, you know, so the fact that you were very empathetic to the man who caught his girl cheating, I feel like you would be the type to not be the cheater as well, right? Yeah, no.
Starting point is 00:34:23 Yeah. I kind of put myself in their shoes. Like, Yeah, uh-huh. First of all, I wouldn't want my wife and you fuck by somebody else,
Starting point is 00:34:28 but that's, you know, whatever, that's there, kink. Yeah. As far as, like,
Starting point is 00:34:33 the trust piece and whatever else, like, yeah, I wouldn't want mine or finding out that way or, you know, whatever else. And like, there's definitely ones out there
Starting point is 00:34:40 that don't care and, you know, wives or bowls or, or, you know, whatever. And that's, that's,
Starting point is 00:34:47 that's, it works for them, that's, it works for them. It just, I just feel like I have to have in this lifestyle I have to have some type of morality or rules or things can they kind of spiral out of control. Yeah. And I think that each person makes up those rules for themselves, right?
Starting point is 00:35:02 You have your morals and values, but you stand by them. Now you said that you've had so many different scenarios because you've been doing this for so long. What is your favorite top of the mountain hottest bull experience for you that you prefer since you've basically probably had the most of them. I think, well, I think first of all, a cuck couple for me, I think, is like my peak. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:29 Like, those are my favorite. Like, you know, obviously I partaking the other ones, but I think the cuck ones are the best for me because I like to dominate a wife in front of their husband or, you know, whatever, with pictures or videos to send to the husband. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:44 You know, that domination piece, that control piece of that kind of relationship for me is the best. So I would say my favorite couple was actually a couple in New York. I met out and I actually was out a bar. Yeah. And they were at the bar. I happened to sit next time and eat. We started talking, whatever else. And come to find out that night at this bar, whatever, was lucky for me, was like Swingers night. Oh my God, you're always at these places that it turns out you're like in Swingers and Buyer. You don't even know it. Well, don't give me wrong.
Starting point is 00:36:18 Like, I do my research to figure out, you know, kind of where to go to, you know, cross lines. Okay. So, and, you know, we talk whenever else had a great time. And this couple specifically loved to be out in public with me. So the husband and the wife, like, we went out to dinner. He liked for me to, you know, publicly flirt and, you know, kind of touch his wife while we were all out. So at dinner, you know, we were all sitting there and I would have my hand on the table, you know, upper dress, you know, playing with her. We snuck off into the bathroom while the food came out and hooked up in the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:37:05 We came back, sat down, ate. He paid. We all went back to the hotel room and played there. again he sat in the corner and so this was I was there for a couple weeks actually for for work and they were there as well so we met probably four or five times over I don't know a two week span well and they just love the public piece of it which I'm not necessarily like a huge fan of because I don't want to be recognized of it but I was somewhere different like I wasn't where I lived yeah so that that anxiety was going for me yeah And so they weren't from there either. So I think it was going for them as well. And so that was probably my best, you know, couple where we could go out in a couple, we could go out in public and I could flirt and play with the wife. And, like, you know, she was all over me and I was all over her.
Starting point is 00:38:01 And, you know, we went out one night to a club. And I went out on the dance floor and, you know, she was like, you know, dancing all over me while he was sitting there watching and she was looking over at him. there was just so many moments that I don't usually get to get because I don't really like to go out publicly around where I am. Yeah. You know, obviously for, you know, privacy reasons. And most couples are the same. Like, if they're playing in an area where they are, they usually don't like to go publicly. Of course.
Starting point is 00:38:32 Yeah. So that was my best couple, I think I've had over the years. And it only, unfortunately, lasted for like a two, three-week span. Right, because you were both dispelible. placed for just that time. Yes, yeah. I'm trying to think of any other crazy kind of, I mean, the guy flying me out was a pretty cool one as well.
Starting point is 00:38:56 I want to ask you real quick and then I want to get to some specific stories, you know, tell some like good ones and maybe one bad one. Sure. I always like a story gone wrong story, but like the good ones. My audience likes the good hot ones. But do you have now, have you ever hooked up with a guy? Because I know that there's got to be some of these couples where. the guy brings up that he's interested in guys now?
Starting point is 00:39:20 So, yes, and I haven't. I'm not bisexual or nothing against, you know. Of course, it's just not your thing. It's just not my thing. I don't, yeah, I don't get off on it. But I definitely have a situation, you know, or multiple situations where it has, you know, come up or they've tried it or wherever else.
Starting point is 00:39:38 That would probably lead me into my worst story. Yeah, let's hear it. Um, so my worst one is a couple in the beginning, you know, I was, I was, um, on Craigslist trying to meet a couple. This guy was on there. So I was talking about in 40, he sent pictures and everything else. It was great. I want to, I always schedule a public meet. Like I like to meet out in public, at least like for a coffee. Like nothing sexual just a meet and greet kind of thing. Yeah. And he agreed. Great. We set up a time. I went out there, met with him. We sat down, we had a coffee.
Starting point is 00:40:14 It was just me and him. It was great. Now, he had mentioned, oh, my wife should be here in a little bit. She's just coming from work. I said, all right, cool. Yeah, we can chat until she gets here and, you know, figure things out. Great. So we talked, whatever else, had a couple drinks.
Starting point is 00:40:29 And then, like, an hour went by and, like, she hadn't come. And I'm like, oh, you know, what's going on? And she's running late. And he's like, yeah, she's running late. She'll be here from work in a little bit. And so a couple more drinks, another half hour goes by, nothing. So then I started to feel like, okay, I think I've been like duped here a little bit. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:40:48 So I said, listen, dude, like, what's the deal? Because, like, it's an hour and a half. Like, I get it. Like, things come up. It just doesn't seem to feel right here. And, you know, he puts his hand, like, on my leg. And he's like, well, I just really wanted to get you here because I don't have a wife, but I'm looking for a guy. Oh, God.
Starting point is 00:41:06 And I was like I was like Yeah I was like Listen you're wasting my time first of all Yeah And also if you're gonna go about doing it This is the wrong way to do it Like this is not the right way to do it
Starting point is 00:41:19 So like you're saying that you're something else But then when you show up you're not that Yeah that's not a good way to start this whole thing out Right And so we exchanged some words You know obviously at the bar And that was definitely my worst one Where I was like
Starting point is 00:41:34 A little bit like taken back like another one of those moments who were like, wow, I was a little bit too naive in this whole, you know, situation and lifestyle. Yeah. But that was only the one time that that happened? Because I'm sure that other couples put it out there,
Starting point is 00:41:48 but they do it the right way, where they put it out there in the beginning, which is, right? Yeah, that particular incident or scenario only happened one time. But there's been other ones where, you know, you know, for example, they say they're, you know, a stag-vixing couple, and then the husband wants to double team the wife.
Starting point is 00:42:05 And then, you know, during sex or whatever, you, sometimes I've, I've come across where, like, the guys are, they would say it's incidental contact. But, like, when it happened seven or eight times, it's a little more than incidental. Yeah. And so I got, you know, there's been, I'm sorry to say three or four times where there's been, like, a hand or whatever else, like, trying to touch me. And, like, I have to say, like, listen, I'm not bisexual or whatever else. And for the most part, they're like cool, they're like fine. I was just, you know, I was just feeling out the situation like, you know, whatever. I got it.
Starting point is 00:42:42 Sex can be sometimes awkward and whatever else. But if it's too much, then that's when I start getting like a red flag. Like this is what they're actually looking for. They just don't want to tell me. Yeah. And so those type of situations I don't stick around for. I don't, they're not a couple that I would, you know, revisit. it. Now when it comes to
Starting point is 00:43:07 SCX, like, what are the things that you prefer? Like, do you have particulars? Like, do you have a particular type when it comes to a woman? Do you have something that you really like to do? Or you, you know, very oral? Do you like to anal? Like, I mean, are you up for everything? I don't actually
Starting point is 00:43:23 have a type. I do, you know, I'm definitely an ass guy. Like, I like a nice ass. Yeah. I like I like a confident woman outside of the bedroom that likes to be submissive inside. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:43:40 So, you know, a lot of, you know, executive women are just women in general and lifestyle that are very, probably more, you know, dominant or whatever else, but then come in the bedroom, they like to be submissive. Yeah, that's typical. That's more typical, right? Yeah, yeah. Those ones I probably connect with the most, I think I like that because I like to be in control and like that kind of stuff.
Starting point is 00:44:01 Yeah. And so, you know, but as far as sex, like, you know, I love, I just, I just, you know, I just, just love sex in general. I like like a kind of no-hold bar. Yeah. Fantasy, sweaty, you know, just, just fun time. Like, I'm pretty much down for, you know, whatever. Almost anything. Yeah. And I've, you know, probably tried, I don't want to say everything once, but I've tried a lot of things obviously once. Like, you know, I love anal play. I love, you know, facials. I like the women, you know, on their knees in front of me, looking up at me while they blow me. you know, one of my favorite positions is when I pick a hot wife up and her, her legs are over my forearms and her arms are over my shoulders.
Starting point is 00:44:44 Right. And I'm, you know, fucking her standing up. Um, you know, that one for me is definitely, you know, one of my favorites. Obviously, doggy. But, like, the thing is, like, you know, doggies, everybody does doggy or everybody does whatever. It's more about, like, the scenario you're in that exemplifies the, experience. Yeah. Like, because, you know, doggy in your bed is different than, you know, doggy at a hotel balcony. Right. You know, you know, picking up a girl and fucking her in a hotel room
Starting point is 00:45:22 is different than, you know, picking up her and fucking her, like, I don't know, in a park or something. Yeah. Like, so, you know, it's not so much the positions. It's more about the environment that you're in, the setting that you have you know that erotic piece I think for me is a huge huge part of it yeah I think that's why I think some people do like car sex I mean I know like I mean I haven't had sex in a car in so long
Starting point is 00:45:46 but when I was younger like that's where that would be like where you did it and the thing about the car sex I think that could be fun is you got you know you have to do all kinds of weird positions sometimes you know because you're in a car and that just could like add to it right stuff that you know in the bed you're so free and like anything goes so it's like whatever whereas in the car you have to be more creative but there's something about being denied certain things that force you into other things that make it hot oh yeah absolutely even like you know having sex with a wife and you know coming inside of her or on her whatever else and then she goes take a shower or you have sex with a wife and you know she wants to keep to come on her to go home or she wants to keep to come in her to go home you know So it's really like that type of, you know, piece of it that is great, I think, for me, or what gets me going is the different scenarios and environments and erotic pieces that go along with every different couple and every different situation.
Starting point is 00:46:50 And because, you know, put yourself in issues. They're trying to spice things up. So they don't want to come and have, you know, missionary sex and, you know, a bed with the covers tucked in tight. Like that's not, you know what I mean? You can do that at home. Yeah. So, you know, they want to fulfill theirs. They want to make it worth it.
Starting point is 00:47:08 And I want to make it worth it for them as well as me. Yeah. Now, you mentioned come on her face or come inside her. She takes a shower. So if there's no condoms being used, is there any sort of protection going in? Like, do you guys, or is it just a trust thing? No. So, like, like I said, different now than I was in the beginning, obviously.
Starting point is 00:47:30 but now if they want to go bareback, I have no problem. I will supply a test to them. I just require them to have a test for me. Right, correct. Okay, cool. So you get that up front. Like that's all. Yes.
Starting point is 00:47:43 Yeah, I won't do it without one. Now, how do people find you now and how do you find couples? I mean, are you on all the apps? You know, what's funny? You know, I'm not, I wouldn't say I'm young, but I'm not old either. But I'm kind of old school in the pack where I like, like, the initial face-to-face meat like at a bar or a club whatever else that that I don't get natural organic meat like that is like awesome for me unfortunately now with like everything going on and just social media in general
Starting point is 00:48:11 like that's kind of a piece of sticking out of it yeah most people are meeting on apps whatever else I actually I'm on Reddit and I'm on FetLife that's it oh okay um I used to use Craigs this obviously but I don't know that's like a thing anymore no not it is those were really the three um Reddit is actually really good. I like Reddit. I never would think of Reddit as a place to meet people. It is? It's huge.
Starting point is 00:48:36 Oh, really? Yes, yes. That's where, like, I've actually met, I would say, now-nodays. I've met probably, I would say, seven out of ten couples there. Interesting. So now if there's a guy, listen, I think, you know, if there's a guy listening out there that wants to be in your position and he's thinking, wow, this guy's so lucky, you know. He gets to go out.
Starting point is 00:48:59 and like fuck other guys' wives, because there's probably a lot of guys that have a king to be a bull, just like, you know, guys are interested in being a cuck. What would your advice be? Like, if you go on Reddit, how do you advertise yourself that way? How do you, because I wouldn't even know that Reddit is a place. Like, I've gone to Reddit to find out information about things,
Starting point is 00:49:17 but never, you know, use it like a Google search, but I've never known it to be a place where you could hook up. So how would someone go about putting themselves out there in the way that you do in meeting women? you give guys advice? Well, so I think if you're initially, so I didn't even know I wanted to be a bull until I was actually like kind of put in the situation. So some people may already know they want to be that and they want to know how to get into it.
Starting point is 00:49:42 So for those people, I would say, you know, if you want to get on apps or whatever else, get on those, get on Reddit. But you've got to be up front about it. Like, yeah, because some people are looking for first time bulls. You know, some people are looking for a bull that's, you know, initially getting into it. because they want to feel comfortable with somebody who's not experienced like them. Yeah. Obviously, there's couples out there that want the experience as well. But there's like I said, there's just as many that want that, you know, first-time bowl or that, you know, whatever else.
Starting point is 00:50:13 I also think, you know, your personality matters. Like, you know, as much as, like I said, like, Dick size isn't always the deciding factor. So, like, you know, the dick doesn't always decide. Like, you've got to bring the personality. You've got to bring confidence. You've got to bring that to the table because that piece. is, I would say, more defining of a bull than, like, how big your dick is. Right.
Starting point is 00:50:37 It's the attitude. You know what I mean? Like, that's a huge, huge piece to it. Yeah, that's interesting. And so I would get on those. I would be up front and truthful. And, you know, she would hit. There's a lot of people out there.
Starting point is 00:50:48 A lot of people connect. But how do you advertise on Reddit? I still haven't got that answer. I don't understand. Yeah, I don't know if I advertise, really. But, like, so, you know, you can go on Reddit and, like, for example, there's a post or, thread or whatever that's hot wife yeah and people post all these pictures and videos of either their hot wives with bulls or just their hot wives in general yeah and they're they have their
Starting point is 00:51:09 you know a reddit name and you can click on it and it's like a profile page it has pictures and videos and what they're looking for and into and you know if they have an only fans which i'm not necessarily a fan of but you know they have all that stuff there and then you can you know become friends with them chat back and forth with them you know figure out what where each other are, if you can travel, whatever else. And then, you know, kind of go from there, you can build a list of people, basically. Yeah. And so you met a lot of couples that way.
Starting point is 00:51:40 You met a lot of couples that way. Yes. Prior to that, it was definitely Craigslist. And then more recently, I've tried, because I've actually talked to another bull I met through Reddit, and he had recommended FetLife. So you have a profile there? And so, yeah, I have a profile there. that one's it's fine like but for me i would say you know and for whatever reason everybody has
Starting point is 00:52:04 their you know favorite donut or whatever mine just happens to be reddit well let me ask you this in case there's any couples out there listening you know they want to do a fly you out or they live in your town i don't know where you're from but would you want to give a shout out to your reddit or do you want to keep that private i mean it's up to you i don't really care um no i mean yeah i can shout it out if they listen it's uh it's uh it's C-T Sloan. C-T-Sloan. S-L-O-A-N.
Starting point is 00:52:33 It's C-T-T-S-L-O-A-N. Yep. And it's on FET-Life and on Reddit. Okay, cool. So if anyone's looking for a white bull, because I think that there are a lot of couples looking for that. Do you find that you get hit up a lot, or are you typically the one going and looking?
Starting point is 00:52:52 I mean, for the most part, I'm probably the one looking. You know, I think most of the couples like to be approached by a bull. But there's definitely been couples that have seen a video or a picture or whatever else and have reached out and we've chatted and, you know, it clicked. And sometimes it doesn't click. Sometimes it's not a good fit for them or for me, whatever it is. And, you know, to each his own, I don't take any offense to, like, rejection. I hope couples don't take offense to, you know, my rejections, but, you know, it is what it is.
Starting point is 00:53:24 How do you reject? Because, you know, you go, you meet the couple. you say you like to meet them ahead of time. That's where you're going to decide whether, oh, maybe I don't want to move forward with this, and then how does that happen? So, yeah, one of my requirements is, like, I need to meet or at least talk to.
Starting point is 00:53:41 Yeah. The husband and wife, either together or at different times, whatever it may be, before the actual act goes down. Yeah. I need to do that. If they don't want to do that, that for me is kind of like a flag where So you want me to come over to your house, but you don't want to meet or talk. Right.
Starting point is 00:54:03 It's kind of like a red flag for me. You know, I think the old me that first got into it would be like screw it and just head over. But like, you know, I'm more picky now. I'm more, you know, privacy driven, discreet, you know, whatever else. So that's definitely a big one for me. Also, I feel like a couple, if you're truly interested, I feel like a couple would want to meet. Right. you know before like I feel like you know obviously there's people that are out there
Starting point is 00:54:30 are very trusting and naive and whatever else but I feel like a meet before for both parties is is good yeah so that for me is like one of the big things but when you meet them and you're not interested how do you let them down so we talk right there I usually don't necessarily let them down like right at that moment of course not going to do it you know we talk we you know feel each other out usually I go home I sleep on it and then I'll reach out in the next, you know, a couple days or whatever and then just say, listen, not sure if it's a good fit, you know, whether it's because of physical attraction or vibe or, you know, whatever it may be.
Starting point is 00:55:10 That's kind of like how I usually operate, you know, but I've had a couple before that met and be like, oh, listen, we're looking for a little bit of a younger bull or we're looking for a little bit of an older one or we're looking for, you know, a black guy or whatever else. Yeah. And I'm like, oh, that's cool, great. Honestly, sometimes I even try to connect them. I said, oh, go on my page because, you know, there's some other bowls that are on there that follow me or whatever else. And, like, you know, so I have no problem with finding them what they're looking for.
Starting point is 00:55:40 Right, right. You're cool. Now, besides me and all my listeners, we all now know of your lifestyle and what you do. Does anybody in your life, like any close friends? I know some of your exes know because you were straight up with them. but do you tell anybody about what you do? No, no, not one person. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:56:02 No, and actually a lot of my exes, so where I live now, I've moved here. Yeah. And previously, all my exes who know are from an area where I wasn't from initially anyway. So this is kind of like my second move, I would say, for work. So where I grew up at home, nobody has any idea.
Starting point is 00:56:22 Right. No clue. And also, like, I didn't have all of this, you know, Reddit and Fat Life stuff going on when I was with these other women in relationships. Yeah. So they don't even know, like, probably that piece of it because I never had it when I was with them. Because it was earlier on. So as far as their concern, like, yeah, they used to date a guy younger that wanted to be a bull. And that was it.
Starting point is 00:56:46 Yeah. So nobody knows at all. None of your friends. No. Right. And so people at work standing next to you, they have no idea that that, and that's what I'm always kind of saying on my show. Like, you know, these are the types of the things that people can, not everybody's doing this, right? It's not like, oh, the majority of people are all having these kind of, you know, interesting lies.
Starting point is 00:57:08 But people do, and you don't know, right? Yeah, no clue. I mean, and flip it around. You could be sitting next to a, or sitting next to a couple at a bar that you have no idea that they're, a swinging couple or a hot wife couple or a stag and a vixen or you know on and so on like you you know you know no idea people you work with like it's the same thing and i think actually that's kind of like a thing that's intriguing to me and i have to like reel myself in sometimes because being in the lifestyle sometimes i i i don't say get my hopes up but i'm like oh wow maybe they
Starting point is 00:57:45 like and i almost like talk myself into because i'm in the lifestyle like and i've been lucky about meeting couples out that they might be. Right. You see it in everybody. You're like, oh, there. I think they are too. That's a great way to put it like, oh, yeah, she's friendly and she's nice. Oh, maybe.
Starting point is 00:58:02 And I'm like, oh, I got to reel myself in sometimes. Like, okay, they can just be friendly and nice and not want to have a bull fuck. They're why? You know what I mean? Yeah, exactly. What does your perfect, like, scenario in the future for you look like? Is it that you really want to meet a partner and a girl that would be down with this? and, you know, partner up, or are you, like, is it that you just live this kind of lifestyle
Starting point is 00:58:25 forever? I don't know. It's tough. It's, yeah. I mean, I go back and forth. Like, I don't think, I don't think I would, I would have to find, like, some type of cock queen, I think. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:58:37 I don't think I could live a regular, like, life, I guess, you know, like, with monogamous. I just, and I'm not a cheater, but, like, I just don't think I can, like, live in that world, at least for too long. So I think I would need something along those lines. And at the same time, like, I'm kind of a person that's content with, like, being, like, alone. Yeah. Like, I don't necessarily need somebody.
Starting point is 00:59:07 Yeah, yeah. So, yeah, I mean, I guess I'm just, I want to play it by a hot wife couple. Yeah, yeah. It works for you. Now, have you ever developed any kind of feelings? I mean, have you had long-term, any kind of long-term relationships with any of these couples? Oh, yeah, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:59:24 I've had long-term ones. I think my longest was probably like a two-year. Yeah. And it was great. Like, it was awesome. I just, you know, for whatever reason, I think they might have moved or whatever else. So, you know, things come up, life comes up.
Starting point is 00:59:40 You know, if they have kids or whatever else, sometimes they like to get in and out of the lifestyle. So a lot of things come up. But I think probably, yeah, I had a two-year one that was the longest. And like I said, now I like more, like, of a consistent situation. Right. So you prefer,
Starting point is 00:59:53 you like stuff like that. You like to have, develop those relationships and keep them. Yes. Yeah, yeah. Like,
Starting point is 00:59:59 I don't necessarily need to go out with the husband and drink beer and watch football. Yeah, yeah. You know,
Starting point is 01:00:04 but like I do like to have a some type of little bit of a personal connection. Like, they don't need to tell me too much about their life necessarily
Starting point is 01:00:12 and vice versa, but like I need a, I need some type of connection or commonality or whatever it may be because that does intensify the hot wife relationship. Right.
Starting point is 01:00:27 Yeah, I'm sure there are a lot of couples that you meet that, that's a requirement for them, too, so you're the perfect bowl for them. Because it's probably the opposite goes down all the time, right? There's a lot of bowls that are just like one and done that I don't really want to hang around and, you know, the couples that do that doesn't work. So you're perfectly suited for that couple that I've talked to. And, you know, and every couple's different, like I said, but I've definitely talked to a lot of couples that are like we want to meet the person up front we don't just want to hop in bed with
Starting point is 01:00:54 them we want to keep that relationship ongoing because i think the sex gets better for a variety of reasons one because of what you said there's just a connection there two because you know what each other likes you could really hone in on it and eventually you know that just to me sex just gets better with somebody the more you do it absolutely so you are don't get me wrong like i'm not gonna start not do a one and done yeah like yeah if the situation is right and I'm attracted and I feel like a good vibe yeah I'll do it yeah my thing is like if I don't necessarily feel like a great connection and the vibe is just like okay yeah that I might not just like do a one-time couple for you know just to get off where I can find a more consistent or have
Starting point is 01:01:41 already have a more consistent couple yeah you know around now um you know I do pictures on Patreon. Typically I ask the women because I think more people are interested in seeing what they look like. Would you be interested in sending a, since you have so many picks, right, you probably have them on your Reddit, I don't know, but like would you be interested in
Starting point is 01:02:01 sending in anonymous pick for my Patreon so people could see if they want to see what the white bull looks like? Not your face. Not a dick, not a pick of your date. Like, you know, I don't post pro-not. Like I don't post X-rated stuff. It could be R-rated, but
Starting point is 01:02:17 you know, like a, you know, a pick. My black bulls have done, have sent it in. Yeah, I'll look and see. Okay. Yeah, it's literally no face. No, there's no face. No, no, no. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:29 I don't have a problem with it. So I'll look and see what I have. Like I said, I don't, like, I don't necessarily post a ton of picks or videos. Yeah. Just because, like, if I have a video from a hot wife, I always ask permission. Like, is it okay to post this? Yeah. If not.
Starting point is 01:02:47 Like, I'm not going to, and vice versa, hopefully, you know. Yeah. But I, I, I always ask if they say no, you know, no means no. Yeah. And, you know, that's it. So I don't necessarily, I have videos, but I don't necessarily post all of them or pictures or whatever else. But the ones I do are, are from couples or hot wives that are okay. And for the most part, their faces are, or any type of body part that would be, you know, recognizable is not in it.
Starting point is 01:03:14 Of course, yeah. But no, and I won't even also on my page. And the other thing I don't do and won't do is post picks of other people that don't aren't in the know. So I would never want a picture of you. And I don't think that's what you were saying. But I would never want a picture of you with like a hot wife or someone, even if their face wasn't into it. Because it has to be only picks of people who know and they're anonymous. So just like one pick of you like you're, you know, that you want to submit.
Starting point is 01:03:40 And I'll post it on my Patreon. People can see that. Now I do think that this is going to be, you might meet some couples or a cuck queen. Who knows? Maybe, yeah. Yeah, you don't know. I don't know where CT is. You could, you know, when you find him on Reddit or Fat Life, you could ask him, we'll keep that private.
Starting point is 01:03:57 But if people want to, you know, get to know you more, if you're a couple listening and you're like, oh, he's like the perfect white bull. Because I do think you're like a great white bull for a couple out there. Like I said, you're a professional. And what I mean by that is you, you know, you've been doing this a long time. know how to do it well. You've learned the hard way and every other way and you got it down. So if there's other couples out there that they also know what they want and it's in line with you because they now know everything that you're into, go find CT. He's on Fat Life and Reddit. C.T. Sloan. I'm going to put that in the description so you could go look him up.
Starting point is 01:04:38 Let me know C.T. if you get any hits from my audience, I think you probably will. I mean, a lot of people listen to my show. So it'll keep me posted. Thank you so much for calling in. I found a lot of like, you know, your stories were super interesting. And I think you gave a really unique, not unique, but I just don't think I've had a lot of bulls on. You know, I've had a lot of cocks. So this is like the white bull story. And I thought, I think it was like really interesting. People are going to learn some stuff.
Starting point is 01:05:04 So thanks so much for sharing. Yeah. And I do follow your podcast. I'm a subscriber. It's awesome. I will definitely, you know, comment on the YouTube video for sure. And I wanted to come on because I did see there was a lot of, you know, cucks. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:05:23 And I think you have a couple black bulls. And hopefully I represented the white bulls good enough. Yeah, I love, yes. I think you did a really good job of giving that overview and really explaining things that I think I have never discussed. And we've never, we didn't, nobody has heard that take, you know. And so I think it's, I think people will find that interesting. And when, if you want to know how interesting they find it. do go to the YouTube because that's where people will comment.
Starting point is 01:05:49 So, you know, I think that that's awesome. Thanks, C.T. Thanks so much for calling in. Sounds great. Thank you for having me. Okay, bye. Hey, everyone. Thanks so much for tuning in to this week's episode.
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