Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 444 - Fetish Fridays: Amber is a Bisexual, Crossdressing Cuckold

Episode Date: January 21, 2022

"Amber" is a bisexual, crossdressing cuckold and he calls in to talk all about it. How and when did he discover he was into cross dressing? When did he realize he was attracted to guys? And, when did he realize he was into seeing his partner with another guy? Tune in to find out plus hear all about him stealing women's clothing when he was younger, his early memories of stuff that happened with his friend, how wearing panties led to full on cross dressing, how he digs dressing up for his wife and how he likes helping her meet other guys, how and why he was so successful at being a cuckold and how the guys had no idea he was in on it, how he went from posting pics of himself on Craigslist to posting on Snapchat to camming on Chaturbate, what went down during his first hookup with a guy, his first outing to an adult theater and what he did with guys there as well as a whole lot more. To find Amber on Snapchat ambermann2018, Chaturbate Ambermann47, email [e-mail] **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.

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strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Fetish Fridays. I have so many episodes taped and a lot of them are these specific niche fetishes. I have so many good ones coming to you. If you want to hear about fetish, I'm going to be airing those on Fetish Fridays, maybe once or twice a month. I'm going to kick it off with Amber. Amber's a cross-dresser. He's bisexual. He's super chill. He's really nice. I really liked Amber. You know, I change everybody's voices and everybody goes deeper. It always just sounds better. But because this is Amber calling in and Amber's a cross-dresser, I decided to make Amber's voice a little higher. I think Amber will be happy.

Amber's a guy, but he is bisexual. He's also a cuck. He's totally into watching his girl with somebody else, him and his wife totally did the whole cuckled thing. He cuckled at her, or he was the cuckled. What's the proper terminology? His wife started hooking up with guys. You know, he had some experiences when he was younger that he talks about. But we really get into how we got into cross-dressing,

how it started with wearing panties and how it progressed, and then how he started to realize that he was into guys, his first hookups on Craigslist. He also talks about how he loves posting picks to Snapchat and camming on chatterbanks. okay he gives a shout out to his snapchat and chatterbate at the end of the episode so if you want to check him out he's there and he's like doesn't really even like to make money doing it he just does it because he loves to he's gone to adult theaters you're going to hear about that and then you're going to

hear about what he does on snapchat and chatterbait and why he loves it so much so anyway I'm going to be right back on with Amber hey Amber welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast how are you today? I'm doing great. I really was looking forward to this. It was kind of like going out on a date. Really? Did you get dressed up? I found your, a while back I found your podcast. And I became a fan instantly. And I loved your everything you were doing, the material, the people. Some of it, very, very crazy and I just wonder how people do that. And then I think, well, wait a minute. I'm kind of in that fall part of what I was doing and what I am doing and what I've evolved

into doing. For sure. You know, when you sent me your email, there were so many different aspects to your sexual journey that I wanted to talk about. And then I was like, oh, you know, because you wind up. okay, the, like the quick story, and then you're going to go, you're going to start from the beginning is that, you know, you started, you're into cross-dressing, right? At some point you do get married.

It was a secret life, but you eventually brought it into your marriage and somehow your wife was okay, or like maybe she found out that you were bisexual and then she started to allow, or go and have, you know, affairs or sex with guys and come back and tell you. you guys got divorced. Now you're currently on chatterbate and, you know, having fun with guys. That's kind of like maybe the way you make money now. I don't know. Is it a side gig? Is it what you're not in a relationship, but you're thinking about the next relationship, maybe you'll go in fully as who you are. I don't know. I don't even think I'm making it a short story. I think I'm making it way too long. Why don't you tell me the story. okay well picking it up where you went dove in there i was married and and through my marriage my wife did not know my total interest in cross-dressing however in our sex life periodically i would end up wearing her panties or not her bras or anything and she actually didn't mind that at all and She often would take on the role of the male.

She liked the idea of maybe we never got around to pegging or anything, but we got, you know, we did everything close to that. And then throughout our marriage, she was very adventurous. And as it turned out, we decided that we ended up having what we call date nights. So once a month at least, maybe twice, she would go out wherever she wanted. And we had rules, which it was just more for my security feeling like she was being okay. Out there, she would call me and let me know what was going on if she found someone she wanted to hook up with. And then, of course, I was just waiting for her to come home to tell me what she did.

And I would actually, you know, get off on that while we were having sex. And that was very exciting for me. And she loved it, too. And our marriage ended and had nothing to do with any of that. It didn't go crazy or anything. But this was also way before I discovered what was going on. on as far as some of the websites and chatter bait for sure we could be on camera. And I think if we had continued to be married, we would have ended up doing that,

or at least her doing that on camera, because she really liked being on camera and having pictures taken and videos. I'm a photographer as well. So, you know, I could get some really artsy pictures, not porno, but just, you know, erotic and artsy. That's what I always went for. Yeah, that's crazy. How did you go from like you wearing your wife's panties to getting her or like whose idea was it for her to start going out on date nights with other guys? It kind of, it was a slow evolution where she would, well, first of all, a little backstory to

that. She loved dancing. I used to dance. I used to dance. and somehow I got away from it. And so we would go out and dancing, and I would just say, you know, you know I don't dance, so just go find somebody and dance with them. And she was really into it. She was one, you know, a very sensual person and loved to express herself through dancing, you know, like a lot of people do, men and women. And I would watch.

And then she would tell. tell me, you know, he was getting hard if he was, you know, dancing next to me. And I said, well, did you do that on purpose? And she said, well, kind of, you know, it's always that sort of thing. So I said, well, have fun, you know, it doesn't bother me. And that's kind of where it started, because, again, it was, in my mind, it was innocent. She was having fun. And I was getting off on it, although not to the level it got to when she was actually going out and hooking up with guys. So that's kind of where it started. And then it went to, well, you know, why don't you just go out on your own?

And then if you find someone, let me know. And if you decide to, if all you're going to do is dance and play around there, that's fine. But if you decide to go with them somewhere or go to their place, you know, let me know where you are. so I know you're safe and all of that. So we did have those kind of rules in place. And she followed them. I trusted her. And we enjoyed all of that.

Right. Yeah, that's great. So it was kind of like it just happened organically. Yeah, it did. And then it just progressed to the point where, and this may be, well, I told her in leading, up to this, it's like, you know, you can do anything you want, you just can't, you can't get fucked.

Oh, okay. You know, and so play and do whatever. And then it got to where, and she, and again, I believe her, I don't think she ever got fucked and didn't tell me about it. Uh-huh. She actually would, you know, we had codes and she would call. me and then I would say it was like she had to check

in on the kids or something and she would call me and say you know would you just check to see if if I left my my watch on the top drawer I mean that was I just made that up right now but we had codes like that where

I knew what she was going to do like well now he's going to I want to you know he wants me to give him a blow job or something so oh interesting so I could know what was going on. And then I just, then I wouldn't want to know anymore and she didn't want to talk anymore. And then I just would wait again. I'm like waiting for her to come home so I can hear her story. And she, and then she would relive it and I would get off on it. So I really enjoyed that part.

Yeah, that's crazy. And so when did you, like before this happened, had you ever hooked up with guys? Did you know that you were into guys? Wasn't there like an experience? I know very early on when you were super young, right? But were there any experiences in your adult life with men? Never. Okay. I never.

And I used to feel kind of, this is kind of a joke. I used to feel kind of insulted because gay guys never hit on me. Right, right. But I mean, that's kind of a joke. But yeah, when I was in elementary school, one of my best, friends had learned how to masturbate. So one day, and we spent a lot of time together, one day he was telling me, he asked me if I'd ever done it. So, of course, I hadn't. I had a very, you know, very, very, not repressed,

but religious upbringing, so I didn't know about any of that stuff. So he taught me how to masturbate. And I'm kind of surprised I still have a penis. because we almost wore our cocks out. And he would jack me off and I would jack him off. We would jack off separately. But I never, ever related to it as I'm gay or he's gay. It was just something that we did. Now, I found out later, because after elementary school,

he went his way and I went my way. I did find out later that he was, I don't know if he was gay then. I guess if you're gay, you're always gay. I don't know. Right. But he was gay. Mm-hmm.

But I didn't ever get the feeling that that's why he taught me that and that's why we did it. But that's what we, so that was the only time I ever had an interaction with the guy and actually did anything with them. Right. So now. And I had, go ahead. No, you go ahead. Sorry. Well, I was just going to say I would fantasize about it periodically, but not all the time.

I always had really good, healthy, in quotes, relationships with women, a long-term relationships. And we always had a robust sex life. I love sex. I loved sex with them. And we always did things, but I never took it to the last. level that I did with my my wife that was the only time I was married

before I just had long term, really long term relationships. Right. Living together and we would play around and do stuff, but it never went there. But I always had that feeling of, you know, like I would make, you know,

I always wanted them to have, you know, the, you know, like Victoria's Secret stuff. And I was always into heels. I love the higher the better. And so I would always buy heels. I always had them dress the way first I wanted them to dress and then the way that I would think, boy, it would be fun to wear that. Right. But none of the women, I'm not a huge guy. I'm like 5-11, but all of the girls and the women I was with were a lot smaller. So none of their stuff would ever fit me except for maybe some panties that would stretch.

So that was kind of what that was about. And you discovered that you were into cross-dressing very young, though, too, right? It was kind of the beginning of what now they, I don't know if they still call it latchkey kids. My mom, my dad was never around. My mom had to work to raise my brother and I. And so we were left alone a lot. And so this was, you know, growing up. And I remember finding her because I would just look through the house, you know, how I don't know, that's just what I did.

And I would find her shoes and her skirts and she had garter belts and stuff like that. And to this day, I think back on, I wonder why did I, you know, want to try those on? Because the shoes obviously were huge on me. I looked like, you know, I probably looked like a two-year-old in her heels, but I was probably six or seven. But I do remember the feeling I got from it. And that was, I didn't know what it was. You know, I would get excited and I knew that feeling from way in there, it wasn't necessarily that I was getting hard, but I probably was. Yeah.

But it was that feeling that I really liked. So I would go and dress up when I was by myself and walk around or lay down or something. But again, I didn't know what masturbation was. I never touched myself or anything. So that wasn't until, like I said, my friend in elementary school. Right. But, you know, between you trying on your mom's stuff and then you wearing panties and stuff when you were with your wife, like over all those years, did you dabble in cross-dressing even more?

Never did. I mean, I always wanted to, but I didn't because I just didn't know, looking back on it, I think my ex would have accepted it. Right. But I never went there. I was kind of afraid to. I was afraid to ruin, I didn't know what it would do. And so I was afraid of ruining what we were doing because I was enjoying that.

But I did want to try it. and I just never ever pull the trigger and then when I got divorced because I had the time and I'm still single and I have the opportunity to do what I want when I want

and then I discovered at first Craigslist I was posting started taking pictures and posting them on Craigslist hoping I was going to just all I wanted to do was meet somebody and be able to dress up for them. I wanted to see what that was like.

And I still didn't know if I would go any further. I was willing to put myself in that situation just to see. But then didn't do that. You got good responses from my pictures because, like I said, I'm a photographer and I know how to take even self. pictures. I got a remote and I can take artsy pictures, but I always take them from the neck down because I'm not passable. And I create an illusion from the neck down that seems to work for the guys that I hook up with on the internet and recently actually have met up with the one guy.

So I have that experience now. But you waited a very long time, right? And even to maybe, do you feel like it was even a long time before you fully came to terms with the fact that you had an attraction to men? Or did you know it all that time and you were just consciously, you know, keeping that up back? Or do you think it was like a subconscious thing? Well, here's where it gets a little, not weird, I don't know what the word would be. Yeah. If I, if there was a guy there and there was a woman and I, you know, I could choose between the two, I would choose the woman. I love women. I love everything about a woman and having, I've never, well, I've always had really great, that's kind of the weird part that I'm

trying to wrap my head around. I've always had amazing sex life with any woman that I've been with. And sometimes I think it's because when I'm making love, to a woman, I'm treating her the way I would want to be made love to have somebody did that to me. Does that make any sense at all? Yeah, that's interesting. So you're getting kind of like double. I never thought of that, but it's kind of like you're getting double the pleasure, right? A regular guy is getting the pleasure of being with that woman, but maybe a guy who's

has these other interests like you do. You are getting the pleasure from a woman, but you're also projecting onto her. and getting the pleasure for yourself as if you're her. Right. And then when you find out, because to me, once you're in a relationship, then you start exploring, well, I'm just going to speak for myself. I would start exploring where the boundaries were

because I never wanted to ask a woman to do anything she didn't want to do. Right. But you've got to find out where the edge is. And so a lot of times, somebody will, I'll just take my ex for an example. Because it turned out we were so compatible on everything. I mean, this sounds like a silly point to make, but I discovered that I like, now it's just like you can hardly find, well, this is going to be one of those blanket statements. You can hardly find a woman that doesn't have a shave pussy. It used to be that wasn't the case.

And so when I, and I always liked that. And so whoever I was with, eventually I would kind of get around to, well, have you ever thought of doing that? And once they did, then they enjoyed it as much as I did. So it's things like that where once you accept. explore these things, you find out how far you can go and how far they want to go. And then I was always interested in saying, you know, what is it that you like? What can I do for you? And then vice versa. So it was a win-win if we were both compatible on all the different aspects of our

sexual life that we wanted to share. Right. Which is kind of what made when we ended up her going out and meeting guys and coming back and telling me was she was getting her pleasure out of it and she knew I was and we were sharing so that kind of gave it some credibility. Yeah, for sure. As opposed to her going out and do it because if she was going to go out and have an affair and get laid and not tell me about it, she was going to do that anyway, not that she would have, but you know what I mean. Yeah, uh-huh. What I always hear from people that I talk to that are, you know, doing this consensually,

that the person that's off with that guy, I mean, she's having double the pleasure too. She's having fun because she's with a partner, a new guy, right? It's just that right. That sex part is there. But what is also a part of what she's getting off on is the fact that you are sitting at home waiting and she's going to tell you and that she's doing this for you, right? That adds a whole other layer to it. And that, you know, it is, you know, makes it even more of a turn.

on. Yeah. And I would, you know, I would, when she was leaving, I would, I didn't actually have to suggest much of what to wear, but I made sure, I made sure I didn't have any control. I would say, well, what about this bra or what about, I'm always picking my favorites. So I knew that whoever she met was going to have, you know, a visual fun. And then I knew how she was sexually, so I knew that was going to be a no-brainer. So it was almost like they were getting the best of the best, you know, but that's only

because I knew how she was. And I knew that once she got to experiment on her own without doing whatever she wanted, that was even going to be better for her. Right. And it did. So she's there getting turned on by him and by the fact that you know, your home. getting turned on by the fact that she's with the guy and then she comes home and you guys have better sex.

Yeah. So it's so counterproductive. Is that the right word? But you would never think, I think some people that have never experienced this or it's not their kink or they're not into it, you know, they would think or, you know, or imagine. Like, you know, you would never think how does, you know, sleeping with other people help your sex life, right? But the people that are into it, I mean, that's what they always say, that it makes their sex.

even better. Like they have great sex for the next three days just thinking about that scenario. Yeah. But the other part is I think you either, it's almost like you do or you don't because if you, if the trust isn't there, it can go off the rails really easy. I've, I've had friends that tried. I never pulled anybody to what we were doing. But sometimes my male friends would say, Yeah, my wife met this guy. But if you don't, if you don't buy into it and they're not doing it for the right reasons, then it can come back and backfire on you. And then you got problems.

Right. Especially if there's no trust because that's what it's all based on, on the trust. And so like I was telling you, we had these rules and it started out, you can only be, because I didn't know how it was going to work. Again, I wanted to make sure it was as far as we were concerned under control. So I knew that she wouldn't have any problem at all meeting someone. And then I knew that it was up to her. The women have the control.

Women can kind of, I don't care who the guy is. He could be a GQ guy. if the woman isn't wanting to do it, it's not going to happen. And I get that. So she can control all of that. So we originally started out by saying, you can, you know, just make out, you know, maybe go to his car or maybe, you know, but you just, you can't do anything other than that. And so, and that, and she went along with it. And then the next, when we did it a few times, then I was saying, and it was kind of a game for me, too.

I would say, okay, now, you know, not only if you feel like making out, you can let him, you know, feel you up. And so we progressed to the point where she eventually ended up, you know, actually ending up at their apartment and having sex. But we had a definite cutoff. She had to be home by a certain time. because I just, again, it was the safety thing. And she had to let me know. Like if she was going to stay past a certain time because I knew that was when she was going to be having sex,

she would call me and say something like, go ahead and put the kids to bed thinking I was like the babysitter. I'll be another hour. Yeah. And then another hour she would show up. And now did the guys typically know. know that you knew what was going on or did they think she was cheating? Was it always the same guy? Was she doing different guys? Did any of that matter? She did. She ended up having one guy

kind of regular, but it wasn't like every time, but she would meet up with him periodically. Nobody knew what was going on as far as me. And we were getting to the point where I thought, you know, why don't we just let them in on it and see what happens. Yeah. But we never got to that. Although I did go with her because I wanted to see, I wanted to see her how she did it. So I went one time. She went in to the bar first, and I waited about 10 minutes.

And now I went in and I just sat and I watched her. Yeah. And guys would come up to her and ask her to dance. and she would dance and have a really good time. And then there was this one guy where I knew she kept dancing with him, and I could see, you know, he was not literally all over her on the dance floor, but you could tell what was going on. And so I, because I had brought her, then I thought, well, how's this going to work, you know?

And so as it turned out, he, they made plans. and she told him something like, you know, I've got a friend that brought me and I've got to get a ride and then I can come back. And so she went outside and I went with her and she told me that. So she took me home and then she went back and then hooked up with him. Right. But the guys never knew. You never watched. Would she take any videos or anything like that or it was just strictly she would come home and explain what happened.

and that's Well, this sounds like back in the stone age, but we didn't have the technology. And man, if we did, I would be in how I would still be living off of that. Right. She had an iPhone. But I did tell her, because she did have a phone that would take pictures. And I said, you know, having to take some pictures, I would love to see that, but we didn't get around to that either. Mm-hmm.

So now you guys get divorced. I mean, and like you said, it had nothing to do with that. You obviously, your sex life was obviously great, right? That was solid. Yeah, I really, yeah, I missed that. Yeah. And then, so now fast forward to what you're doing now. You're on chatterbate.

And this is what I was really interested in, right? Because I don't know that I've had, I've had women that have been escorts and webcam girls, I think, you know, I've never had a guy that does it. How did you? start that whole part of your life? Well, like I said, back when Craigslist was around, I was taking pictures and they were, you know, again, artsy, erotic pictures. And then I wanted to, I wanted somebody to see him.

So Craigslist, I could post pictures. And so I did. And then I was getting some good response, even though it's only response in the text. and there was no interaction. And then I did, some people say, well, why don't we meet up? And I just wasn't ready for that. I thought about it and I was interested,

but I just wasn't ready. Then I started looking around on the Internet and I found different sites. And I tried a couple of other, one was a cross-dressing site, and I posted lots of pictures, and I got lots of responses. But there was, again, the interaction

was the thing. And then somebody told me about chatterbate where you can go on camera and get to have more of an interaction. So I went and looked at it and it was like, okay, this is me because I can dress up, I can control the situation, I can be on a mic. My mic, my mic, I can talk to them and then they type in their response. That's the only kind of drawback. and so I have a bio and I posted pictures and I still post more pictures. And then through chat so on chatterbait, I set my camera up so that it's, again, it's from me from the neck down. And then I dress, usually I'm in, you know, heels and maybe a garter belt and hose and panties and a bra. and then I while I'm talking to people because you get viewers I can you know touch myself and do things like that but my whole point of doing that was to get because I'm also on Snapchat was to get people to connect with me on Snapchat because on Snapchat because on Snapchat you can either talk on the phone you can do an internet

interacting, you know, like almost like a Zoom thing where they can be on camera, you can be on camera, you can send pictures and you can send text. And I like the idea of actually talking to the guy that I'm interacting with because I want to hear their reaction. Right. Not just typing it out. Yeah. And really all these, and I don't know if you ever have looked at chatterbate. The numbers of any. category you want are there. And when I looked, when I first started, I looked at all the guys that are out there or trans that are doing what I'm out there doing. And I thought, well, nobody's ever going to look at me because these guys and girls have these incredible cocks, you know, and they are just, and they look, they're passable. So they're on camera. And, And quite honestly, I look like a guy, you know. Yeah.

So I always would, if I'm ever out and I see, and I applaud them for doing it. And I see guys who have the courage to dress up the way they want and go out. But they, no judgment, they look like a guy, you know. Yeah. And I don't know. I didn't want to be that guy. I didn't want to be the Walmart guy. And so I would hide my identity.

And Snapchat has some filters, and this one filter makes you, it just makes you, whoever you are, it makes you look more of like a female. And I've taken a couple of those, and I go, man, if I look like that, I would just be in a lot of trouble. I would be probably out all the time in bars picking up guys because right now I don't have the you know the balls to actually do that dress and go out although but that's only because you don't feel like you it's only because you have very high standards and you know you don't meet them

but if you did you would be doing it is what you're saying right well then I did meet somebody through through Snapchat. And we had, and so all these guys that watch me on, you know, they're just kind of surfing through all these different people. And then I don't know how they find me.

I have like 1,200, over 1,200 followers. And so somebody sees you and they like you and then they follow you. So, They go from, I know they go from person to person, but if I see them, I can tell how long they're there. And I know what they're there to get off. So I, that's my mission is to get them hard and harder. And then a lot of them are just there to edge.

They edge forever. You know, like I asked them, I say, are you a 12-hour edger or are you going to come for me? This is on chatterbate, right? I just want to make sure this is all on chatterbate or Snapchat. This is chatterbate. right you're talking about? This is all chatterbaker. Yeah, okay, go on.

Yeah, so again, I thought, man, why would anybody want to watch me, especially since I don't show my face. And again, from my waist down, I think I pull it off. And I get great responses. I've got regulars. I've got, I don't, you can get, you can make money on chatterbate. I chose not to. I'm not there for the tokens.

I'm there to help, and I actually say it in my bio, and I tell people when I actually talk to them, if I get to talk to them on the phone or on Snapchat, I'm just there to fulfill their fantasies, which is also fulfilling mine. I get to dress up and I get to act like, you know, a slut. And so for me, that's plenty. And so through Snapchat, this one guy who we would get on Snapchat and I would get him off and he loved it. And he kept saying, let's get together. So I finally said, okay.

But I said, and I tell people, I say, you know, I just want you to know, I am not passable. You'll never see my face. And they're okay with that because they're creating their own, you know, I don't know what they think I look like. but it's probably not anything I look like. Does that make sense? It's a fantasy. So then when I, that was my big thing. I'm going to go meet this guy.

And so the good thing, the only good thing about COVID is you can wear a mask and nobody questions it. You know, so I had a nice little mask and I wore a really super low cut bra underneath a shirt I could open really easy. and I wore really baggy shorts and I had a thong on. And I said, that's the only dressing up I can do. Because we were going to meet him after work and just park in my car. It was like a first date. And so, as it turned out, one of the things he said to me at one point, just unso-blessed it, he says, you know, you're a handsome man.

And I thought, oh, I mean, I've never had an... issue with that, but I didn't expect that if he was expecting me to be more feminine. Right. So that was kind of okay. And we've got together a couple of times since, and with him, I've sucked my first cock and jacked off someone several times to become. I haven't, to this day, I haven't been fucked, and he plays. with me and he sucked me for a little bit, but really I'm there for him or them on the chatterbate

or on Snapchat. Meaning you're helping them, but there's something about that that gets you off, right? Oh, for sure. Right. I love, so I get the dress up. I like that. Yeah. I have, I can control them and only in the sense of we try to make it very sensual and

erotic. Mm-hmm. And I've got to figure out what they're into. Like, for example, I had some, I have regulars on chatter bait. One guy when he comes on, and I can recognize him by their screen name, this one guy, I find out, is just all about armpits. And he gets off on armpits. So I, when I knew he was there and I found that out, then if I, if I, I find somebody who actually is interacting with me.

I played at them. And so I got my camera and made sure I had shots of my armpits for him, and he really enjoyed that. He appreciated it. He got off on it. You know, I find out no, I guess it's kind of, I don't care. Some guys, it's, oh, you wouldn't want to see me. I have a really small dick.

And I say, I don't care what size your talk is. I want you to get hard for me. And I try to do everything I can to be something for them that they normally probably wouldn't get. Right. So, and on the phone or in the camera, it's easy to do that. Now, if I were out and I was picking up somebody, I'd probably, although I really don't care about size, even though, well, the other thing I should say is recently because I've been exploring more, we decided I was going to go to.

And this really happened in the last couple of weeks. I went to an adult theater. Because somebody said, because as weird as it is, I can connect with all these guys from, a lot of people are from other countries. And then they're back east and they're way far away. It's just, you know, not, I'm not. I'm not going to get in my car and go meet them. And they said, well, you know, you should meet somebody locally, and I've been trying to, but it's really difficult, and I don't know why.

But they suggested it would just go to an adult theater. So with COVID, they all shut down, and they've just recently opened up to the point where people are going back. So I went, and I found one and went in and went in. It was very weird and awkward. I didn't know what the protocol was. And I kind of knew what happened in there, but I just wasn't sure. And it was everything I thought it would be, a lot of guys, and they just walked around in different rooms you can go in.

Most of them are jacking off and watching the movie, and some of them are jacking other people off. And I thought, well, this is my chance to at least experiment with that. And so the very first time I went, two different guys at totally different time, no, three. I sound like a real hole.

I actually jacked them off. Played with one forever. He didn't come, but the other two came pretty quickly. So you've had multiple experiences now. You just started to more so, right? Because you went to the adult theater with men. Yeah. Yeah. But then

I went to the first one and that was that was with the three and that was that was kind of okay except the place was really seedy it was almost like ooh I shouldn't need to put on those little operating booties when I go in you know oh gross but there was a lot of guys of different situations and sizes and fitness and all of that and then a lot of them were just there to watch, you know, watch other people. And so then I went, so I had a list of four places that I was going to go check out based on people's recommendation. So I went to the second one, the beginning of the week. And that one didn't have, it only had two rooms showing a movie, and one actually had a sign outside that said gay.

And that was the kind of movies they were showing. and the other one was straight and there was just big empty rooms and all these things they're pinked black so there's hardly any light at all just from the screen and that one I

realized because it was the same thing guys come in and they look at you and they sit down if you want to if they take their cock out you can touch them and people were giving blow jobs and stuff like that but I realized that that's not really what I want because it's so,

it's not that I want to fall in love with somebody, but, you know, it just seemed to have what's stored to nothing. Mm-hmm, right, you did, you need more layers to it. It was just to surface, like, yeah, meaningless, meaningless. Yeah, and the other part of it was that I wasn't, in my element, I wasn't, well, I did wear again, I wear a bra and panties underneath my stuff, just in case. Like the first night I went out, this guy was really getting going, and I had a shirt that snapped,

and I unsnapped it, and I had this bra on, and he was like, he really liked that. So I knew that if I got to that point, somebody's going to like it. But it still wasn't what. I was enjoying it as, I didn't enjoy the second night as much as I thought I would. The first night was kind of okay because it was new to me. I'm going to go look at these other two places, but I have a feeling that I might just not do that because it's just too, maybe too clinical.

Maybe that's the word. Yeah, I mean, I think everyone feels different about stuff like that. I think that's, you know, and I think you feel, what a girl, a lot of women feel about one night stands, right? It's typically a lot of women don't understand that, right? And that's, I think, a big reason why they don't understand, like, how men who just like bang so many people are that they're always, they need so much variety. Because a woman needs a lot more, a lot of women, not to say all women, right? But most women, they need to feel something more, you know, in a connection to get turned on.

Yeah. And that was what, going back to my ex, that was the thing about, you know, and I said, you know, you're going to, these guys are, there's absolutely no reason why they are not going to, I'm not saying fall in love with you. Yeah. We're going to fall in love with you. Yeah. Because you're, you actually are everything that they are fantasizing about, you know, and so you've got to make sure you're in control and that you control the situation at all times. And knowing that she had, you know, she was coming back to me and that I was okay with it and she could enjoy it. That made it a lot easier.

If you're out on your own male or female, I'll tell you, in my life, I have never had a one-night stand. I never cruise bars. I never picked up women. I just met the women I was with organically. and oh, by the way, we've moved in together and we lived together for three or four years and then it ended.

So I was lucky that way. I don't know what that other parts like. I think I wouldn't like taking advantage of somebody on that level. But that's why you don't like it with the guys because that's basically what these experiences are in the theater for you. And, you know, so it's just like across the board,

whether it's a male or female, you're just not into one-night stand. because you're a relationship guy. Yeah, could be. Right? The ones, and really I'm kind of doing that with these regular guys that I meet on either Chatterbator or Snapchat. Mm-hmm. Because when they see that I'm on, because they get, if they follow me, then when I go on, they get a, you know, you get a, like your, when you post one of your segments, I get a, a warrant, I'm not a warrant.

morning. An alert. Yeah. Yeah. Right. So when I go on, and then they show up. And then if I see regular, then I'll say, okay, I'll see you on Snapchat. And then I'll get off of chatterbate and go on Snapchat with them.

Because then if they don't want to be on their cell phone, they can at least be on the telephone. Because I really want to have that interaction. And I want to hear them getting involved. and I want to talk to them. And, you know, my whole point is to just get them off and to do it in a way that they really want it to be. Right. And, again, I get to do it because I'm enjoying it too. Right, obviously.

I was so curious about how much you made on chatterbate, but you don't make any money. You don't know. When you were like, oh, I don't even charge for it, I was like, oh, shit. I always love those. I love the price ranges. And I don't know why. I just always find that interesting. There's some, yeah, there's some on there that I think they make just tons of money.

I follow this one, she's a, I don't know if she's a trans or just like me. She's in the Netherlands. She's, she only, it's weird, no matter what she does and she does a lot of moving around. Yeah. She only, it's only from her, like, eyes or nose down. Mm-hmm. And she's, she's beautiful. I really like her look.

She's got an incredible body, great cock, and she plays with all kinds of toys and stuff. And I know that she's got followers, and they do, on Chatterbate, if you're doing tokens, you know, they have different ranges. Like, I'll show you my pussy for 200 tokens or something. I just watch because you're going to see it anyway, and I can see it for free. So, but I put in my bio, I don't, I don't want tokens. I'm not doing it for the tokens. Right.

Maybe one day you'll change your mind. And then you have to let me know how much you can make. I know, listen, I did my show for seven years, my podcast, and never made a dime on it. And it was literally around just when I got locked down for COVID that I was like, maybe I should try to monetize here. And then once I started that, it was a, it added something to it, you know, and it doesn't take away from the fact that I enjoy helping people. I'm still doing that.

I'm still gratified by. you know, and the intention is still the same, right? But even though I added the intention to now I'm going to monetize, it didn't take away from that other aspect of it, which is I do like to talk to people, help them. It's interesting to me. I would do it for free.

I did it for free, right? You know, for nothing for all those years. Right. I mean, you may change your mind at some time and it wouldn't change anything, you know? Well, and again, I really want to, I miss having a relationship. I miss sharing with somebody with a female. Yeah. So I'm hoping that that happens.

But I want to gingerly kind of bring out the fact that I'm into what I'm into because I, in a way, I don't want to give it up. But if it means, if it's a deal breaker and if I'm really fall in love, then I guess I could do it. I don't know. It would be a test, but, you know, I would be the one, you know, she comes home early and I'm all dressed up and then I would have some spleen in to do. Yeah. But in the meantime, you know, I'm, I'm okay. I'm busy doing stuff and when I have my time, I do what I want. And sometimes it's to go on camera and dress up and get guys off. So that's good.

So you have a... Your franchise there is amazing. When I first found it, I just thought, this is amazing because not only do you, I love how you go in depth on whoever you're talking to. And you don't just, well, you get to get the kind of the essence of why people do things. And then sometimes the real reality of what happens if it goes wrong or that, you know, because you can play around all you want. but if it goes bad, it's not going to be fun. Right. And sex is something that kind of gets a hold of people and, you know, you make some bad

decisions sometimes. But it's fun to listen to. I love, I just, I look forward to your episodes. They're really amazing. Yeah. And you're an incredible interviewer too. Thank you. Because sometimes it's funny.

Sometimes I think I'm terrible because I don't. know that I have the best grammar and I'm not so well-spoken. What I am, first and foremost, and why I've been doing my show for so long and talk to over 400 people and did it all for no money is I'm a curious person. I love human nature. I love peeling back the layers. I talk to you the way I would talk to a stranger in the park. Like I could talk to anybody easily. And I do it because I find stuff like this interesting, right? It's it is a thing that I actually enjoy. And I do like helping people and I always want to bring like that angle that you say is there in my conversations is there because I am always, you know, hoping that somebody learn something

or, you know, take something from the episode. I sometimes think I cock block the, the sex stories a little too much because I go down these other paths. But at the end of the day, I'm not creating porn. I think people do get turned on by my, you know, episodes. and that's great, but that's not my intention. It's an okay bonus if that happens, but what I really hope to do and what I said my intention is, is to help people.

And I think that we all learn by hearing from other people. You know, I can't tell you how many times I'm talking to somebody and, you know, we're in a conversation. And they don't ask one question. They're not really listening. They don't really care about what I'm saying. And I am always like,

so many people lose. out on life lessons because they're never really listening to somebody else, right? To me, I learned so much from actually listening to what other people say, what other people have gone through. You know, that's the moments that my light bulb has gone off. So I just think that, yeah, a lot of people miss out on that because they're just interested in talking about themselves, you know, but here's a place on my show where you're going to hear about somebody else.

There's going to be guys that are going to be able to relate to you. maybe put stuff together, you know, maybe they want to find you on chatterbate. I was going to ask you, do you want to give a shout out to your name or who you are on chatter about is chatterbait by any chance? Okay, great. Why don't you give that out? I think that would be really interesting, especially because I love where you're coming from. Like I said, it's not wrong of you to go out and eventually monetize if you want to because

you can. But it's great that people know that they're there. And you're really getting turned on because I think sometimes the problem with porn for me always is like if you're watching it. I was always like I like the amateur stuff better because I knew it was more real, right? I really want to be a voyeur watching someone really have sex and be into it. And I think the problem for me always with porn was it was just so overproduced and you know that someone's not even getting horny and they're just doing it for the cash. And I can't get into that experience. So I feel like what you're doing on chatter bait. What's great about it is because you're not taking any money. The people know. for a fact that you're there for enjoyment and to pleasure them, you know? It's the real deal. And I think, so I think your chatterbate is something people would want to go check out. Okay, well, on chatterby, I'm Amber Man 4-7, just all one word, Amber Man, 47. Amber Man 4-7, okay.

Yeah, that's it on that. And then on Snapchat, I think I'm Amber Man, four-seven. as well, 2018. Snapchat, 2018. But I, yeah, on my chatterbate bio, it says what my Snapchat is. Okay, but if someone wants to find you on chatterbate,

how do they, they could find you there, or do they have to scroll to everybody? Yeah, I pay to be on it, which is not very much, really. I pay to be on it so I can actually be on camera. to look at chatter, but you don't have to. You can just find it on the internet, go to it, and then there's a little search, you know, like the little magnifying glass. And then in that little box, you just put, you know, my name, and then it will take you to my, if I'm not on, it will still take you to my bio.

But if I'm on, it'll say broadcasting now. and then you can click on it. Now, when that happens, you don't have a, you can interact with me, but you can't do anything else. But if I know, you know, so if they wanted enough, they can follow me. If they haven't signed up, then they can, I don't think they can follow me,

but they can at least find me and watch. Now, do you have a set schedule so that people know, hey, if I go on at this time, Amber Man's going to be on? sometimes I do it in the morning just to wake up for a little bit and then I'm in Arizona time because I'm in Arizona. I go on maybe 10 my time or 11, which mean back east. And again, I really have been totally amazed that I haven't found more people here. I'm still looking to find people here in Phoenix area or Arizona because then. And I would like to, my next goal is to actually go somewhere with someone,

like either their place or a motel room and actually dress up and see what that's like. Because right now it's just all on camera. And then I would roll the dice as far as me not being possible. Right, because I was going to say, how are you going to get in your car? Maybe you bring everything with you. Because when you have hooked up with guys recently, the couple times you had stuff under you just had undergarments on right you want to do full cross-dressing maybe I mean that's your goal yeah I want to do the whole I want yeah I want

yeah I want to do the whole thing mm-hmm well maybe there's a guy looking you never know you know listening right now you're in Arizona I mean typically I like to keep people anonymous I'm gonna change your name your your voice slightly right so nobody knows um a lot of times I tell people you don't lie about where you're from and I change your name all that stuff. But for you, since, you know, you are going to be anonymous somewhat because I'm not putting your name out there, but you are maybe looking for somebody, a listener to hook up with here. No, I would be happy to meet up with whoever wants to say hello. Okay, awesome. Why don't you give out, do you? How should we do it? Amber Man, should you give out an email or should

they email me and I forward it on to you? I can, my email address is Amber Man. Again, one word Amber Man, 2018 at Mail, not Gmail, mail.com. Okay, so that's Amber Man, A-M-B-E-R-M-A-N-201-8 at Mail.com. Is that correct? M-A-N-N-N. Oh, two ends. Okay, Amber Man, A-M-B-E-R-M-A-N-2018 at Mail.com. and Amber Man on chatterbait, right?

Let's give that out again. It's two ends. Yeah, Amber Man 4-7, 47. Yep, chatterbate. And then on Snapchat, Amber Man 2018? I think it's Amber Man. I think it's just Amber Man. I just go when somebody says I'm here.

I shouldn't know that better, but I don't. Okay. But I got a question for you. And you can take the fifth if you want. Do you, I mean, you're involved with talking to people about all these different aspects of sexuality and everything. Yeah. Do you live vicariously through all that, or have you had a very robust sexual life? You know, I did.

When I was younger, I mean, part of it was, and I've talked about this before, so I'm not like giving out any, you know, information I know. information I never have, but a lot of people miss it, right? Because it's like in like earlier episodes. But when I was younger, I acted out sexually and I was also very open-minded and curious about sex, right? So, you know, put those two things together. Take a person who's naturally curious about sex. I mean, as a very young girl, I couldn't wait to lose my virginity and get in that world. I couldn't wait to start that and be a part of, and be a sexual. being and I wanted to try everything. And like I was like really young and told my first boyfriend like you put your dick in my

ass. You know, I wanted to try anal sex. You know, I was like, so I'm a naturally curious person and open minded about sex, right? And but I was also, you know, had not such a great upbringing. So I had a lot of dysfunction put on me when I was younger. So I acted out sexually a lot. So I had a very robust sex life and did a lot of crazy things and tried a lot of different kinds of relationships and all that stuff.

I would say as I got older things changed. I quit drinking. I stopped acting out. So, you know, I'm different in that I don't have sex with as many people. You know, I don't maybe have as many crazy experiences. But in a relationship, I'm very monogamous by nature now. You know, I like to try different things in wood. I'm not in a relationship now, but in my next relationship, and I've talked about this before, I think from talking to people, I would be that girl that would be like, oh, you know, maybe after a while that I could really trust somebody that maybe I would have him be able to go be with other people and come back and tell me about it and that would be a turn on. Like, I have learned that through talking to people. So, you know, I don't know that

I always feel like, you know, when I'm talking to swingers and, you know, people that are experts and have been in the lifestyle or, you know, have a fetish and have been living it out. I mean, that's not me, you know, but I'm open-minded and I'm curious and I'm down to. try different things. And when I have a partner and I feel comfortable, I'll go to different places because that curious nature of me that likes to talk about everything, I like to try things too.

So, you know, that's about as far as it goes. Mm-hmm. Does that answer your question? Yeah, yeah. I was just wondering because,

again, you're, when you were talking about your interview technique, it's true. If you're interested in somebody, then people are comfortable to talk to you. Yeah. And that's very evident in all the interviews I've listened to.

It doesn't take long. Maybe there's a little bit of nervousness at the beginning. But then after a while, it's just a conversation, which is pretty amazing. You don't get that a lot. Sometimes interviews, sometimes you're forced because they're saying, oh, I got to, you know, we only have this much time. And I want to get to these topics. I want to, here's the bullet points.

Yeah, I'm terrible like that. I used to joke about interview technique. where, like in the news, if somebody said, they were talking to somebody, and the answer was, well, yeah, I took him outside and killed him and buried him in my backyard. The guy would be not even listening. He'd be looking at his notes and he would say, so where did you go on vacation? Yeah, right. They just totally miss it.

Yeah. I hear that sometimes. Absolutely. And I think, you know, and that's why I could never be that kind of interviewer. I have a friend that does a podcast that is a celebrity gossip and stuff. And so he knows, you know, stuff that he has to get. So he gets press and all this stuff. And I would be terrible at that.

That is like way too professional for me. Like I, you know, but to have just a regular conversation like the way that I do it is very natural for me. And I think like you said, people know, like people open up to me and feel very comfortable because I'm not, I'm genuinely listening and I'm completely curious. and I really and I'm coming from a non-judgmental way and place right so all my life people would always be like in the middle of talking me like I don't know why I'm telling you this you know and it's it was always because I'm interested and because I'm not listening in a judgmental way and I think

that people could smell that from a mile away and it is very different what I do here and when I try to have experts on oh my God I have to edit the shit out of those episodes because I just feel like I sound like such an asshole because I'm so bad at it I'm not professional at all But what I do on my show, thank God, isn't that. It's just a regular conversation. It's what makes people comfortable. I do think that's why I get a lot out of people because it's that way. And it's the only way I could do it anyway because I would be terrible at any kind of professional interview.

I never have one thing written, by the way. I look through your email right before we got on the phone just to get like a couple bullets so I could maybe stay on track, you know, but I really, I mean, that's about as much as I do before I get on the phone with somebody. And then I hope I'm right about this. Have I not seen you on camera? Yeah, no, I just, I'm like you. I'm not showing my face. And, you know, I just show my torso and that works in a weird way, you know, on YouTube,

because now I have a YouTube channel. I have a YouTube channel. So I do do that. And there is a price on my anonymous face, you know, like eventually down the line. If, you know, my show got bigger and wanted to go to a different platform and there was a lot of money involved, I would maybe come out of the closet. But, you know, it really works for me. I think it adds to my show.

It wasn't on purpose, but it became a show all about being anonymous and even me being anonymous adds to it. And like I said, the whole thing is such a like a, it became what it is by accident, but it all works. So why would I change that? So I don't show my face. I would down the line at a certain point, like I said, but someone have to pay me a lot of money to do that

because I make a really good amount of money now without it. and I enjoy not being known. So. Now, part of my hesitation in doing what I'm, like I can control it all on camera and Snapchat and chat debate. If I, when I went to the theaters,

I was able to wear a mask. Yeah. Because of COVID. But someday, you know, if you walk in with a mask, people are going to look at you like crazy. But so I still, don't, I don't know if I'll ever be ready to be, yeah, that's the guy that cross-dresses

and, you know, likes to have sex, even if it's just jacking somebody off. But for you, I mean, I think if you were to be on camera doing exactly what you're doing and you never see the other person, I think that would just take it through the roof. Yeah, I know, I have thought, I know that that. is something that could possibly take me there. Do I wait for, like I said, an offer of like, oh, you know, here's a contract and you sign it and then we do it and here's some, the extra ring. Or do I pull that card for me? It's a card that I haven't played yet. I know that it's a powerful card. It's hopefully a card that I will play at a certain level, right? But for right now,

like I said, it still works. I'm not ready to do it. But I should probably do it before I'm like 65 and busted, right? I mean, you know, so I don't know. No, no. I think you, I think you'd be pushing the down? Yeah, yeah, because I am on a certain level now, right? But I'm 52, but I still look good for my age. I don't hide because I don't look good. It's just that it's, it's, I like the anonymousness of it all. I did it. Yeah, it works. But yeah, it's, if you, like, again, I hate to keep saying this, but it's true. You're great at what you do. I really, I was kind of nervous about this because I, because having listened to, I've listened to quite a few, of your, a lot of, your podcast.

And I thought, well, you've already done this and what do I have to add to it. Yeah, but I mean, come on. Every single person is unique. And that's why I could just talk to over 400 people and not have one episode that's the same, you know, and I can, and I'll always take on because there's different angles. You know, I've had other crossdressers on, but not that have had your experience. And I think it's important to show all different kinds of cross-dresses, right? Because the people that are listening are going to be like, oh, my God, his story, I could relate to it.

You know, so, yeah, no, I never get, you might be nervous. And people always say they're a little bit nervous to come on and they don't know what they have. But you were a very good interview. It was, I'm trying not to interrupt people as much. And I think I'm doing better at that. And I think it always helps when I have somebody that is a good storyteller and, you know, tells her story. And I don't have to really run it. So this was a great conversation.

Thank you so much. It'll definitely be aired in the next couple of weeks. So look out for it because wait until you hear your episode as a third person. It's going to be even more enjoyable than it was talking to me. I always love my episodes more when I go back and edit them and hear them outside of myself. So you're definitely going to have that experience. Thank you so much for calling in and giving your story. And I'm going to promote you on your chatterbait and hopefully you'll get some people.

Maybe I'll find you a guy to meet in Arizona. We'll hope for that too. I'll put all that information in the description below. Okay. All right. Thanks so much, Amber Man. I appreciate it. I really enjoyed it.

That's awesome. I'm so happy. All right. Bye. Good day. You too. Bye. Okay.

I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order. the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and

rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short. Chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audiobook is. available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link

from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contest where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will

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