Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 453 - Vincent is in a Throuple with his Wife and her Friend

Episode Date: February 17, 2022

Vincent is in a throuple with his wife and her friend and he calls in to talk all about it. When did they decide to open up their marriage? How long have they all been hooking up for? Has he ever been in a throuple before? Tune in for all the details which include his relationship with his first wife who was a bisexual stripper, all the threesomes they had, how he caught her cheating and who she was cheating on him with, where his abandonment issues came from and how he realized he was sabatoging his relationships, how he met is current wife and when they decided to open up their marriage, how they started hooking up with her friend, how she was previously related to her, how she’s married and cheating on her husband with them, how his wife allows him and the girlfriend to hook up without her, how he feels about her outside of the bedroom and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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He's had lots of women in his life who let him fuck other women and do other things. So there's like a lot of players in this episode. So we get into all of that. He talks about his first wife who was a stripper. She was totally bisexual. And they had crazy threesomes and throuples and all that kind of stuff. I mean, she was very much a little bit. I forget the term he used

like maybe schizophrenic or something I don't know you know they were young but they did a lot of crazy things he gets into that all the threesomes they had all the girls she brought home and all the problems they had and then he eventually as other people but then he winds up with the white that he's in right now and he's in a thruple with her too

and it happens to be like with one of their friends that the girl that they're in the thruple with has a husband who doesn't know about it this is where like that whole soap opera thing comes into play right like I mean her husband has no idea that for many, many years, she's been in a thruple with this other couple. And his wife is so down with it.

She's like, you guys go fuck alone. Like, I don't even need to be there. You know, everyone is super happy. It totally works for them. And he talks all about it. But like I said, pay attention because there are a lot of players. But it is super interesting story to hear. So I'm going to be right back on with Vincent.

Hey, Vincent. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Oh, I'm fantastic. You're fantastic. So you have a couple different crazy things. What I remember about you was you said to be a long-ass email, and there was like so much in there. And I was like, what the fuck are we going to talk about?

You have stuff that you did when you were younger that you think was like really crazy. I think like one of those things we could discuss, you also had an ex-wife that did all kinds of crazy things that you guys did crazy things together. And you have a current wife. And you have a current interesting kind of odd situation. So let's get, let's start with the ex-wife, okay? Like, what went down with her? I know you say she was a sociopath, but she also did,

was into like a lot of kinky things. Like, when did you start to play around and do all the things that you guys did and what were those things? Okay, so I met her. She was a stripper, and we got together, and I didn't know it really at the time, but she was playing this story out that,

all her exes in her past are like just shit bags and were bad to her and mean to her and what it was was she was end of like trying to spin up this story to make me feel like the white knight out to protect her but what really tucked me in is she was bisexual and like awesome freaky like into hardcore anal sex like one of those like really just good to go girls and one night we both ended up going to another strip club because after we started dating she wasn't a stripper anymore I was taking care of us I made enough money and we went to a strip club and we picked up this stripper I'll give you some names they're anonymous names their girlfriend I'm dating her name is dene we don't need names it doesn't matter about the names just okay story yeah so we go we go pick up

the stripper girl and it don't really mess around but she spends the night we get that we get into the bed together and we're naked and I'm like spooning up to the new stripper you know, in between and it gets kind of handy and kind of kissing each other and I'm starting to have spoon sex with this stripper while my girlfriend ends up being my first wife in bed and I'm like, hey, I don't want this to be a situation where hey, I fucked her while you were passed out. So I'm like reaching behind me and like patting on her, rubbing on like, like, hey, wake up, you know, shit's going down over here. So she wakes up, she kind of mess with our hands, kind of lets us do our own thing.

Always with that first time with any kind of like a swingier relationship, you're like, you don't know if the partner's like really okay with it. Yeah. If they're going to like turn around and snap. But she was cold at first. I'll get to that here in a sec. But we start dating and we're having like a lot of fun. Like we're like having like hardcore, got a hard core threesomes, like get.

down and like funny like like hot little kinky shit like my girlfriend she ends up getting this like little part-time job at some department store and I've got the new girl and she's home with me and I say hey I want to surprise her when she comes home and she's going to do I go I want to tie you up and blindfold you so when I bring her home she's going to come in and find out that I've already got you like that and she's like yeah yeah I'm down with that I'm down with that and you know I get I get a setup where She's like in bed and she's got a TV remote where she can watch TV and the blindfold's above. Well, this kid just like reach up and pull it down when she hears us coming in and turn the TV off and be good to go. So come in and girlfriend's like, oh my God, yes.

She's like, go get the video camera. And I was like, oh, God, I love you. And so she's going in and I get the camera, you know, and the new girl doesn't even know that we're taping her yet, you know, because she's got the blindfold down and she just basically starts going to town on her and I'm watching it and it's like oh god this is so hot this is so cool so they're going at it and she's like

you know get them there hit this hit this and she basically got up and grabbed the camera I'm going going to town on on the new girlfriend and it's just it's like really just fun like it's probably one of the best the funest times in my life you know one of those stills that the most the vanilla people

dream about that they only they can have and it's like oh shit I'm living this and it's just so so awesome right so it's going along it's going great I've got like priceless moments I end up getting like a roommate who moves in and he's a buddy of mine he looks like waldo from where's waldo so if I say waldo that's him uh-huh he he uh he's got this buddy that's coming over there and he's got this wife it's like dumpy wife and I've they've been around his friend has been around with his wife and I keep getting these vibes from the wife like oh I just you know I want to fuck you look and I'm not like I'm not interested into her I'm not into her at all and apparently one day when me and two girlfriends my two girlfriends

were in the shower and we're getting all you know why that I'm getting all clean apparently Waldo's buddy and his dumpy wife came over and they're sitting in there in the living room and We're coming through the house and we're walking through and there goes Girlfriend number one wearing a towel on a grin and girlfriend number two wearing a towel in a grin and Me walking through wearing a towel and a shit eating grin The the girlfriend's like got that look like oh my God like stuck up people seeing a prostitute going into church you know, like, oh, like just jaw drop, like, uh, uh, uh, uh, so we go in the room and we end up fucking our brains out. And the walls are pretty thin.

So they heard the whole damn thing. We end up, come, come, I come out. They're still in there kind of like, you know, catching their breath and all that. And they're wanting to drink. And I go in the kitchen and pick something, drink and bring girls something to drink and step back in the living room to have a cigarette. And my roommate's buddy, he looks at me and he gives you that silent, like, he mouths the word, both of them. And I'm, like, grin, I'm like, yeah. And it's like those priceless moments, like, oh, you just, those priceless moments you just couldn't really just pay for.

So, yeah, it was fun, a lot of fun. But apparently the new girlfriend was writing in journals about that that. I'm a really great guy, but she's saying that my main girlfriend, the first girlfriend, that she's kind of unstable. and she reads it, and when she reads it, she's like, no, fuck that bitch and da-da-da, and basically just blew our fantastic relationship out of the water. It was a fantastic couple, oh, but three months, and it just, it went down. Like a thruple. It was like a thruple. Yeah. Yeah, it was, it was fantastic. I loved it.

But there's a couple times when she goes and she brings me, she'll bring a, a new girl home, and she goes, I want you to fuck this out of this girl. It's like, okay, cool. I asked her, you know, if she wanted a guy, and I had a buddy that a friend of mine said, yeah, I'll hook you up with him. So she screws him, and I'm not like the cuckles. I'm not like I need to be, you know, demoralized about telling about how, oh, how better he is or better than me or any shit like that.

That's not my, that's not my flavor. So they did a separate room swing, you know, and I'm always about making my partner. I want to get my partner off as hard as possible as often as possible. It's about them to me. Mm-hmm. And I ended up getting conditioning. If you're going to go into that some later, I can go into that. But anyway.

What do you mean? Wait, wait. What did you just say? You got condition. I've got conditioning. And it kind of started with a kid where I learned, I can't two-pump chump some girl. I can't just get off and roll over. And if she doesn't get off, it fucks with my head.

It's wrong. I've let myself down. I've let her down. and oh i see like you're like very into pleasing and you feel like it's it comes from something that happened to when you were younger is what you're saying oh yeah it's i i got this code i got this code and read a bunch of female sexuality studies figure out how women work and all that good stuff and how men work is our own bodies you know the french method you know you get a lot of foreplay and hands and tongue to get your partner off as much as many times as possible before penetration because a vagina

it can go only so long being pounded before it gets sore. So the more times I can get it off before I stick my dick in, the more far ahead in the game I am and then condition myself to where I can locomotion change my rhythm off just enough to where it'll keep me from peeking, but keep my partner on track. You know, it's a lot of shit. It's a lot of stuff that I worked on. I always treat every single time as if it's the first time and if it's the last,

time because I'm always out to impress. And because of that, I ended up getting passed around between girlfriends. Oh, you've got to do this. You got a guy on your show, Dawn, who was revenge fucking escort. Yeah. And the escorts were like, hey, I want you to try this guy. Well, that's what happens. When you leave that good of oppression on your partner, she tells her girlfriends,

and they're like, hey, you got to try him. Take him for a ride. You're going to like this. And women do that. And I came across it like a lot of times in my past. But anyway, so I hooked her up with a friend of mine. She fucked them. Not a big deal.

And I'm always being like honest and open with each other. And she keeps telling me that she's got this sister that I haven't met. I haven't met. She's going to keep seeing the sister. And they're going to go hang out. And I'm like, okay, cool. You know, go do your thing. I'm not the jealous of possessive type.

I've never been that. I'm always like, the more freedom I give you, the more I'm appreciated. Like, when my wife, back in the day, when she used to go out to the bar with her friends, and all their phones are blowing up from texting and calling from their boyfriends and all this yada yada, yada bullshit, her phone is silent because I know who she's coming home to. I don't need to be blowing her phone. I know she's coming home to. And her friends call me on that.

You know your friend never goes off. He goes, my husband knows something coming home to. and that's how I always was. Well, I've got a buddy of mine that I knew years ago. We got into it because when I was like a kid, his wife was trying to fuck me, and I didn't trust her. She seemed to be the type to me that I'd fuck her, and she'd go back and tell my buddy that I fucked her.

Right, right, I get it, yeah. So, I mean, even it's so bad as to, at one point, I came out of the shower. I was on the phone talking to my girlfriend, and she straddled to me and says, Come on, let's go. And I'm like, no, no, I'm on the phone my girl, but don't. And I ended up earning his trust because when she kept trying to fuck me, I told him, hey, your old lady's trying to fuck me, man.

And that's how we became friends. And later on, me and him used to three-some girls. Like, my first wife, we had threesomes with her. I ended up having threesomes with him and his wife. No bisexual thing or anything like that. We just get together a girl and just fuck the piss out of her. So he's a friend of mine and a real good friend of mine. Well, he met her through my best friend, one of my good friend's cousin.

He met his wife through his cousin. I get a call from my buddy and says, hey, Michelle has love letters from your wife to your friend, the one that I used to have free decisions with. The same one that you wouldn't fuck his wife, that same one, that you were loyal to. Okay, so I figured that was going there. Okay, so that guy that you were loyal to them, but you let him fuck your wife. Now they're having some sort of secret little thing where she's like into him. Yeah, and there was no hook.

There was no threesome between them that I had set up. Well, apparently one night when he came over, we had been drinking. And after I had gone to bed and passed out, they fucked in the backside of the house. And not not only have they been having my own. fair and fucking around, but there are fucking love letters going around. And I'm like, Jesus God damn Christ, why don't you fucking tell me

something was fucking going on? And it got bad. I mean, I ended turning my entire house upside down looking because if he's got she's been sending him love letters, then surely he's been sending her some too. So where are his fucking love letters in the house? And I turned the house upside

down and looked and looked and looked and looked and couldn't fucking find them. And ended up checking my shit out back. Nothing. Checked my car. Found him. They're in the fucking trunk of my car. And it's like, oh, this is just some fucking bullshit.

Oh, I'm not going to do it. It's not going to fucking happen again. Not going to happen again. He ends up doing stupid shit and gets in jail. And she's working as like a bail bondsman. Perfect. She's working as a bail bondsman. And she's literally considering making a fake bail.

to get him out of jail. I find out later on. And it's like, Jesus, how stupid can you be, you know? Bail with no money, cut out of the thing.

But she didn't end up doing it, which was a dumb. I'm still like, I'm like in love with this girl, so I'm trying to forgive all this shit, right? And one night she comes home and we're starting to mess around, and she kind of like rolls over the day, and I got to take her pants off,

and I notice there's a blade of brass in her ass crap. That's weird. Yeah, because if you're going to piss, if you're in the park and you're going to piss on the ground, you're going to squat. Your ass isn't going to be on the grass. And or if, you know, if you're sitting on the grass, it's not going to end up in your ass crack. It's not going to just, like, going to just, like, growing out your ass crack. And it's like, God damn it, if you want to fuck around, you could have just fucking told me, you know, don't just do this shit behind my back. She wants to keep lying, lying.

And I just got tired of it. And I, back in the glory days of Ramb Shack, I just, just screw it. On the radio Shack, got me a micro-cissette recorder and got the device to hook up to a phone jack. Wait, you were taping her when she was on the phone? Yes. Okay. Yes, I taped it and I come home and I played back. I rewind.

I took it to my mom's house, went back to the house, grabbed the microseet recorder, hit the reverse, and I'm listening to it rewind for what seems like in eternity. because every time she'd pick up the phone, it was so recording. I play it back, and it's call after call after call of her calling medical clinics to try to get me in, to get my sperm tested to find out why we're not getting pregnant. And then she's calling to hook up with this new guy that she's fucking, I had enough. I had enough. I had enough.

It's like, it's done. I'm done. I got to get out of this. And that's how that relationship ended. Pretty much. Pretty much in a nutshell, how it ended. It left me so much in a loop that I ended up looking at myself in the mirror. It's like, I can't do this.

I am not going, I don't like you. You're not sticking around because I'm coming somebody I'm not. I'm not a jealous person. And she fed me up so many lies. And I found that out. It was all a lie. She set me up to be the white night that everybody was such monster to make me, to basically keep the distance between me and them.

And there was another point. I forgot. She disappeared. She disappeared with my car and my wallet. And I ended up calling the phone number of the supposed sister. Call it up. It's not. It's not a sister.

I never met the sister. It was one of the dudes she was fucking and he says, oh, no. She's, dude, she's playing you, man. She's playing. She's actually, right now, she just called me from the blank blank end because she's out of motel. And the caller ID showed it there. She's over there. And that certain end, there's only one of those in town.

And I got a ride up there. Sure enough, there's my car in the parking lot. Call the cops. Call the cops. Hey, she's got my wallet, dude. I need my car. I need my wallet. She's got my wallet.

And basically use my money to pay for the room. To go there and they're fucking. And I got that. And I just, it pretty much was done. And it left me spun because I didn't, I didn't remember. I didn't know what was the truth. What was a lie? And I told myself, you cannot.

drag the baggage from this relationship into your next relationship. You cannot make the next girl pay for the last girl's mistakes. Yeah. Sometimes that's hard to do because, you know, that lack of trust when you think that it's there and it's like the rug is pulled from under you. Sometimes, you know, it does follow you because it becomes like your issue, even though it wasn't before. Did you go into your relationship with your wife now and were you able to? Because you guys kind of play to the way that you have now, correct? Yes, so I made a vow to myself to stay single for one year. Doesn't mean I didn't get late.

Didn't mean I didn't have hookups, but I cannot get into a relationship. Because I realized, once I took that long look in the mirror, I realized I've been sabotaging my relationships for years. Yes, I had some that lasted a while, but for the most part, I sabotaged relationship after relationship after relationship. And I had to figure out, why am I doing that? Why am I doing that? And it turned out to be some like underlying abandonment issue from when I was a child.

I lost my entire family when I was five years old except for my mother. I lost everybody. What do you mean? What happened? I'm here kind of a car accident. Mom and dad met each other because my mom backed into his car at a bar. Wow. They started hooking up.

My dad's story, that would be like for one of your podcasts. My dad was a pimp for a while there. he was tipping out his aunt. So he met, and my dad had son from a previous relationship, and my mom had three daughters from her previous relationship, for her previous marriage. My dad probably had God knows how many, because he was a lame man, ladies man,

and was like screwing God knows how many people, but I only know about the one brother. We were all in the house the same year. Well, my oldest sister loves with a guy, my middle sister, she goes off with another guy, my youngest sister you know who's all they're all over me my youngest sister

she her dad got custody of her and my brother his dad got custody of him and my dad was an alcoholic and was great when he was sober but it got abusive when he was drunk and they ended up splitting up and at the end of the year

they deemed it suicide but I found out later on that he was murdered but I lost my entire family and it was just me and my mom. Crazy. And whenever mom would drop me off at a babysitter or something like that, if she was late, I would start crying. Mama's not coming home because I'd already lost everybody else.

How old were you at that time? Like how old is that little boy that's crying? How old? Do you remember? I'm five years old, five, six years old. Oh, wow. That's young. So it carried with me, and I didn't realize it.

Of course. And that kind of went into when I started becoming my sexual of age is I wanted, I wanted to be so good in bed that my partner wants to come back for more. Right. But I didn't, I, I, I, or that your partner would never leave you. You know, maybe it was that you thought that would be guaranteeing some sort of security that you didn't have that you were talking, right. And acceptance. Yeah. So, but I'm sitting there.

I'm sabotaging these relationships. Yeah. Right, but let's get back. Let's get to that place, though, that you realize after you guys end that bad marriage where you're with a sociopath, you're about to meet this new wife. Isn't there something that goes on? Do you guys have a girlfriend or something? Like, what's the deal with you guys? I have a wife.

I have a wife and a girlfriend. Oh, okay. And my wife and my girlfriend are best friends. Okay. So that's the crazy thing. Okay, that's the crazy thing. You now, after that relationship, sabotages, sociopaths, you wind up in a, new relationship with the wife and you guys have a girlfriend.

How do you get to that place where you are now, you and your wife are dating her friend? And is it kind of like a polyamorous relationship? Her best friend is her best friend. My girlfriend is married. And she's married to a twin. And my wife's previous husband was the other twin. Oh, my God. That's so confusing.

So your wife and this girl are friends because they both used to be married to twins. your wife divorced the one twin, that girl's still with that twin. She marries you and that girl is now your guy's girlfriend. Yes. Wow. Behind his back. Behind his back? Yeah, he doesn't know about it.

How long has this been going on? Four years. Four years? That we've been in this part of the relationship. It's been like a work in progress for about 12, to be honest with you. Okay. So you marry this woman now. Before you meet this girl, I don't want to go through 12 years of backstory, but like you meet

this new girl, you marry her, she's got this friend because she used to, you know, they used to be sister-in-laws. You know, do you and your wife play around at all before this girl, or is this girl the first like other person outside of your relationship? I hooked up. There was one night when I, my wife, she didn't play around. Okay. I hooked her up with a guy.

wasn't that good, not something she wanted to go back to with that guy. And then another night on a New Year's Eve, we're having some drinks, we're with her sister, and I'm friends with her sister's boyfriend, and she's like, I kind of want to fuck my sister's boyfriend.

I got it up. I got you. And she kind of drunk fucks her sister's boyfriend one night and comes back, and she kind of like wishes she hadn't done it because she can't even remember it. She don't even remember what?

at the details if it was good or not. But I think she kind of just fucked her because she, like, pissed off her sister and just wanted to fuck her boyfriend. Did the sister know? No, the sister never found out. She never found out. And my wife is awesome because, like, back of the days when she was going to the bar, she was, like, bringing home to her city pictures of her friends. She takes pictures of her friends' tips.

Hey, baby, you go. And she just, like, texting to me because she just thought it was fun as shit. Like, sending me pictures of her sister's tips. I mean, she's just, she's an amazing woman. I mean, real loyal. She loved me for, like, a long time. I dated her in the past. They didn't let her slip her through my fingers, and we got together.

Now, she actually had a little bit of a story back when she was younger. She actually had a, like, a spontaneous gang bang that was like, when I first heard about it, it's like, oh, that's kind of fucked up. But I guess it was all right. She was with a guy, and one night, they had been apparently been. messing around and she was kind of like laying on the bed in the dark and out of nowhere she starts going like more than two hands like all these hands over and she's like like starts like almost freaked out about the guy's friends yes all his friends in the room that's more like rape but not a gang gang bank I think is well yeah that's what that's what I'm thinking and he goes she goes but it was a

situation where she just like no no no no I don't want to do this He would have said, okay, guys back off, this is not happen. But he totally goes, just go with it. And she did. She went with it. It was pretty much tame, very, very low-light situation. Everybody's wearing condoms. And basically just a group of guys just end up taking their turns on fucking her.

It's not really a case of, you know, three holes are getting filled at once or anything like that. So she experimented a little bit in her youth, hadn't really had anything else behind that. So we end up hooking up with their girlfriends. They have a little bit of buy experiences together. My wife's not really by. It was more of like experimental, but wasn't really like, hey, I'm full on bye. It was like they have gone down on each other. They have made out a lot and a lot of Titi grabbing.

I remember a fun night when we were at the bar and we were doing a bar hop. I don't drink. I quit drinking a long time ago. I maybe have like two drinks a year So I'm usually the designated driver Right So I'm I'm take We're in a single cat pickup

Where there's like Just a bench all the way across And I've got my wife and our girlfriend Girlfriend's in the middle And I say it's like This is back before I'd get the fucker yet Because she was like really gun shy About pulling that trick

Really gun shy So I go You gotta pull it out your pants I'll play with you And so they're making out Playing with each other's kids And I'm just like rubbing her clit and getting her off while we're like driving down the road going from one bar

to the next bar. I had never actually seen her vagina before I had just seen CD-pix. So my hands are basically my eyes. You know, I'm like a blind person reading Braille, but the Braille is pussy. And it's like, oh, oh, wow. I go, this is like, it's like, wow. It was, it was cool. We ended up, we didn't like stop and fuck anywhere.

Her friend was like really shy about, they were talking. My wife worked on this for like a long time saying, hey, fuck my husband. You just fuck my husband. Because before in the past, she had hooked up, hooked her up with her best fuck that she's ever been with. And my wife's like, no, you got to try my husband because my husband blows him out way out of the water. And her hold up, the girlfriend's hold up for the longest time was, I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't, I don't want to run our friendship. I don't want to fuck him and risk bring him a friend.

It's like, it's not going to happen. It's not going to happen. and she's getting me pictures of her naked. My wife's showing her basic pictures of my dick, what I look like naked. And girlfriend is like nervous. Like, I don't know. That's kind of big.

I'm afraid that's going to hurt me. Right. So she's like real shy about my dick. And it ends up coming apart and coming together. I told her, well, just let me go down on you. And she goes, are you really okay with just going down on me? I go, absolutely. Absolutely.

So that's not a big duck. My thing is about getting my partner off. I don't care less if I get off as long as my partner gets off. Yeah, I know guys like, yeah. I get her off, get her off a few times. He's like, you know, I go, wow, and I don't fuck her. And it takes a while. But eventually, eventually I do end up fucking her, stick in my dick in her,

and it's a regular thing. We've had some, like, fun kind of playing. A lot of times, like, we'll play together for a long time. She would not do anything unless my wife was there. She wouldn't go solo with me. She didn't want to solo. And because she was worried that still kind of let hang up. You know, I don't want to ruin this.

I don't want to make you mad by so long with your husband. Yeah. And my whole wife, my wife's thing is she believes that if you guys are going to be doing that, there's going to be feelings of both. She knows right now that she could say, hey, babe, I want to go fuck another dude right now. And I would say, sure, I'll hook you up. but she doesn't want to do that because she wants feelings to be involved. She isn't one of those people that can just go fuck a stranger just to fuck them.

That's not really the way she is. And with my girlfriend, she knows that the girlfriend isn't going to try to steal me for herself. And she knows damn good and well that I'm not going to try to ditch her for her girlfriend when I can have them both. Right. You know, and it's like that. And it's great. I mean, it's got to the point where my wife was basically told me and told her, hey, I want this to last as long as possible. And for some reason, I end up dying and you two ended up being survivors.

I want you two to be together, you know? I want you two to be together after I'm gone. Do you feel like they have an emotional relationship as well? Because you said she's not by, but maybe she is. I mean, do they fool around separately besides without you? No. really don't mess they don't have it really gone and i have sent them on repeated vacations i paid for their vacation it's like you girls go on a road trip you guys go wherever you know here's money

here's car you girls go have fun which i've done it repeatedly and hoping each time that you know this is going to be the time yeah this is going to be the time when they come i come back and they have those nice juicy stories for me but no my wife really isn't that now my girlfriend kind of more is though She, she, she kind of wants to do a little bit more, but my wife's like, okay, I've kind of already been there, done that, but I'm just not really my thing. I like Dick. I like Dick. So that's her thing. So she, she wants the dick. She's not really in the girls. But whenever we were playing in the same room, my wife will, she'll break, she'll grab my phone and start taking pictures of video of me and the girlfriend together. And eventually she told the girlfriend, she goes, I don't have to babysit you guys. You guys should be free to have whatever fun you want to without me being here. You guys do your thing. I don't have to,

I think it's kind of fucked up that you're talking to my girlfriend, that you have to have me here to have sex with him. It shouldn't be like that. You guys have fun without me, you know? And sometimes he's there, sometimes he's not. And it broke the girlfriend of the habit of, oh, I have to always make sure she's there before I do anything. Right.

which which is it's cool of my wife to give me that freedom and knowing that, you know, we're not, we're not going to, we're not out to just cut her out. But yeah, it's, it's been a lot of fun. Her husband is dickless, clueless, two pump, two pump chump. They gets it maybe if he's lucky once or twice a year. Oh, yeah, yeah. But that's how, okay, but let me ask you, though. I mean, just, like, honestly, because people are going to, like, some people are going to look down on you. because you know you probably see this guy around sit across from him you know at parties and stuff and you know you're fucking his wife like you don't feel bad at all about that absolutely not one single bit because the twins there are twin brothers yeah his brother is a scumback he's kind of a scumback too who only has a better paycheck i've already gotten into it with one brother and like when the the

Thing one thing too for the twins. Thing one, my wife's ex-husband, whenever they got together, he just was not happy with me. And one of the reason why he wasn't happy with me is because I named my wife a long time ago, and she had a nude polarity of me. And he found it. And seeing what I'm packing downstairs and was pretty embarrassed by it. Apparently ended up ripping it up, getting all happy about it and all that. And when I got a hold of my wife.

wife they were together um i was actually at their wedding i ended up making a lot with my wife before their wedding trying to get her to reconsider about marrying this dude but she did anyway some water on the bridge but i ended up getting a hold of her whenever i finally went through my year of of relationship abstinence right after that ex yeah and she was she was divorced from her guy or did she leave her guy for you she left well she was wanting to leave him yeah She was just like, I want out of this. I want out of this. It had been wanting to get out of this for quite a while.

Yeah. But when I called her up and I said, hey, can I see you? And she goes, when I see him, I go, hey, you know, I know things didn't work out. Because I dated her, like, in the past. Yeah. I go, you want to, if things don't work out with you and your husband, you want to make her give another go at it. And she goes, I'm fixing to leave him. I'll tell you right now.

And hell, yes, I want to do that. I try to fuck her. I try to fuck her that day. She's like, no, no, I can't do it. I can't fuck you. And it's like, why not? You know, I know you want to fuck me. Why won't you fucking me?

She goes, no, I can't, I'm not going to fuck you until I leave him. I have got to get him out of my goddamn house before we start doing anything. I just, I can't do it. It wouldn't be fair to him, and it wouldn't be fair to you. And it's like, I understand. And she got him out of the house, and we've been together ever since. And, of course, he likes to spin it to his family that, oh, we were fucking, she was having an affair on him with me this whole time.

And no, she left him and then we were together. Right. But the other friend is having an affair big time on her husband for many, many years. Yes. And for it was with me, it was with her basically champion, her bedroom champion that was her great lay, the one that my wife, that she hooked my wife up with him. And my wife was like, nah, not as good. So she's not in love with him.

And she's never been, there's a difference between loving somebody and being in love with somebody. She loves them. Well, why does she stay with them? Do they have kids and stuff? I mean, they've just been together. Do you know? Yeah. Okay.

So, yeah. He's got a good job. He's got, well, at the time, he had a really good job. He was making really good money. Her mom had cancer. And he had already asked her to propose. He already proposed to her like six times. And she said, no.

no no no seventh time her mom had cancer she was dying her mom wanted to see her daughter married before she was kind of dead so she decided to go ahead and marry this dude and me and my wife are like what are you doing you're not in love with this guy why what are you doing this but wait a second so she married him while you were already together with your wife she wasn't with him before it's a little confusing but wait let me ask you I don't need to get so into her story anyway but my whole point is like, you know, if this has been going on for all these years and she was always married him for that long,

why doesn't she leave him? I mean, how much action do you get from this girl? And like, where does he think she is? Like, when does this stuff go down? When we get together, we get together once or twice a month,

on a weekend once or twice a month. It is the timeline when we get, when me and her get together and we hook up. Yeah. Now, the whole deal with him is it's kind of fucked up. She's been talking like, she's talking for years. Like, I'm going to leave him. I'm going to leave him. I'm going to leave him.

I'm going to leave him. I'm going to leave him. But she's got what my wife thinks is like battered woman syndrome that she can't break free because she doesn't think she can make it without him. Yeah, listen, a lot of people have stuff like that. I mean, it's harder. It's easier said than done. And we could all sit here and say, oh, like, just fucking leave. But, you know, when you're in it, it's hard.

I'm sure, look, your wife was, your last wife was horrific and doing all kinds of crazy things. And it took you a bit to get up the balls to say, okay, you know, I'm done with this. So everyone, and, you know, she's kind of like, you know, she's kind of set up her life where she's got this marriage, but she gets her needs met elsewhere. Do you feel like she has an emotional relationship with you guys, too, besides a sexual one? She does, but. Do you? I kind of like, I do. I love her. I love her. I'm in love with her. I'm in love with both of them.

Right. Okay. And I have been. And I kind of feel like I failed because going into this, my wife and I were hoping that once she got in bed with me and really seeing just how well I treat my wife. I mean, my wife is the world to me. I mean, I buy her cars, you know, jeeps and corvettes and sending them on trips. And I rolled up my sleeves and she comes over. Every time she's coming, she's fixing to come over, it's like, do you want me to fix you dinner? You know, I'll fix you dinner. I'll fix you whatever you want.

You know, my wife doesn't have to work. I do all the work and I make all the money. She can just stay home. But I come home and, and it's the night she's come over, hey, I'll fix dinner. You want me to fix you a rabbi, you know, give me anything you want. I'll cook it for you. And I baby her. And I buy her gifts while her husband, a piece of shit husband, goes out and she's driving an old ass band.

And he's buying the third pick and pick up for him. Right. And buying 10, 10 of the same tools. But you're saying that you failed because you're looking at the situation. Like, I do all this for you. Like, why haven't you left him yet for us kind of thing? Is that what you're looking for? Or on some level you think should happen or want to happen?

I was hoping that I could open her eyes, that she could break free, that I could give her something that would break her free of this, like, battered woman syndrome where she thinks she has to have him because I'll do whatever I can to take care of her. You know, I'll bend over backwards. I'll, I work my ass off, and I'll work my ass off even more if that's what it takes. Right. But it hasn't worked yet. It's been 12 years, but four years that you've been fooling around, 12 years in the making. you know what happens is like she's kind of got her cake and eat it too so why would she I mean what would be the reason why she disrupt that thing that doesn't work but it is in her life

that's you know there to to be with you she already has you doing all those things you know I mean like so I get why that might not happen but your wife like does your wife have the same feelings for her does she or is it more so like she just lets you hook up with her because you're into it and does she know that? that you love her and she's totally cool with it? Yeah, she knows that I love her and that if for some reason my wife is the past away, that she'd want me and her to be together. Right.

Mm-hmm. So she's cool with it. And now it does bother my wife if my girlfriend lets me down. My wife kind of gets upset because she sees that I'm disappointed. Right. Mm-hmm. And that's where, that's when it crossed the line. It's like, I don't care that you have sex.

I don't want it pisses me off. whenever she makes plans and ends up breaking it. And my wife is kind of like a little bit of flip side on that where she kind of throws up her hands. We're like, God damn it, you know, she sees that I will go above and beyond for my girlfriend. And because I do it for her. Right. If I tell my wife something, it is set in stone. It is set in stone.

And if I tell my girlfriend something, it is set in stone. but when we like make plans we're going to get together and then somebody who's like doesn't mean shit comes up says hey i got something coming up yeah she's just a little flaky but i mean that's like her thing so when your wife sees that she gets mad which i get it now what is like i mean are you guys do you guys play with anybody else or is it just strictly like a thruple too or is there any other action going down on the side since since this has gone on i don't need anybody else else. Right.

If they, if either of them wanted something. And my, my girlfriend kind of mentioned something, too, one time. She goes, I kind of like to see, I want to see, she wanted to see me and my wife have a threesome with another two. And that's like, okay, if that wants to, if that wants to happen, I can do that. And my wife's kind of like, eh, I could probably do that. And I go, I go, babe, you want to do this? Because my wife's not really into giving a head.

She's not really giving it a head. I go. And she's kind of like one of those ones. it's not really a threesome unless there are three people in sexual contact pretty much all the time at the same time. You know, I'm blowing you while you're eating me while you're eating her kind of thing or whatever. And so she thinks that if it's just a threesome where guys are just taking turns fucking her, that's not really a threesome. Right. And I make you make that comment.

I go, you don't do that. I go, your definition, that's not really a threesome unless one of us is in there. So are you ready to go ahead? I can hook it up with my homeboy over here. And are you ready to, like, blow me while he's banging you? Or you blowing him while he's banging me? I'm like, eh. So that kind of fizzled out.

But if she wants it, yeah, I'll definitely do it. I'm down for that. Right. You're open. But so, like, where are you at now? I mean, you had this other stuff go down with that girl. You had those abandonment issues. You've been with your girl for 12 years?

Or how long have you been with this girlfriend? I kept calling her. wife, but she's your girlfriend. How long you've been with her for? The relationship, we've been dating for four years, but I've known both my wife and my girlfriend for 25 years. Right, but you've been together dating for the four years together. Yes, and my wife and I have been together for 18, 18 years. This girl that you're with right now, she's your wife, and sometimes you say girlfriend, sometimes you say wife, this girl that you have a girlfriend is she, you, you, this girl that you have a

girlfriend is she she's your wife yes okay I guess I'm getting confused because of the other um so you guys been together forever so now how old are you guys now I'm 46 and my wife is 41 right so that's great I mean do you feel like you are you know at the top of the mountain as far as like what you would want in your life you know you got a wife you got a girlfriend you know they're all you know they're all pretty loyal to you that's a big thing to you right you're loyal to them. I mean, that one girl's not loyal to her husband and your wife was not loyal to her sister. But, you know, I mean, for you, is this like the best case scenario and how happy are you now? Do you have kids?

We do have children. Right. My wife had three children from the brother. Yeah. Steps are for stairs. They're my kids. Yeah. Those are my kids. They actually can't stand. They actually can't stand their father. Right. And then my wife. gave me three more children. And I make the joke sometimes and I go,

God damn, you have six kids. I don't know how it happens. Right. I really don't. I don't know why one is Chinese and one's black and, oh, once it was stupid. And they're like, are you serious? Like, no, I'm spoiling. Right, right, right.

But, yeah, I love my kids. And, I mean, there was stupid stuff. Like, the scumbag ex. I mean, this is kind of scumbaggy is. They're going for Thanksgiving. And he tells the kids, no, you can't have leftovers. I don't want you to get diabetes. And it's like, you've got to be shitting.

Yes, I don't. But, I mean, I think, though, that it's great that, you know, your, because you definitely had your issues, like, from stuff that you went down. And you were definitely playing them out with that first girl. But, you know, you must have been able to because I think, listen, I think you're pretty self-aware for a guy, okay? Sorry guys, but guys sometimes don't ever really look in the mirror. They don't put things together.

They don't really believe that they have any fucking issues. They definitely don't believe they go back to their childhood. But here you were, you know, super young when you left that first relationship, doing all the things you were doing and acting out. And yeah, she had her issues. But you were able to really look at yourself and be like, you know, I was sabotaging. And I was sabotaging for this and this and that. And I think that that's like really amazing that you were able to come to those conclusions

because that really probably helped you work on yourself and evolve, and therefore you wound up the next time meeting somebody who was much more on the same page. You had bettered yourself. You found a better girl, and you're in a great relationship. And you have, you know, maybe what a lot of guys. I mean, listen, some people don't want an extra fucking person in their relationship, but for people that would love polyamory or into it,

you have a very successful polyamorous relationship. I mean, forget about the husband that doesn't. and know about it. I mean, you know, you're kind of, it a good thing for you. And I think that that's great, considering where you came from and what you went through

and what issues you had. Don't you think? Yeah. And the cool thing is, I made my wife's dream come true. And part of my thing about satisfying a woman is I let her go, and I didn't see what I had when I had with her.

And you always had that person that she always wanted to be with. That person is like, oh my God, if I could just, I'd be with that person. Right, the one that got away. That's your wife now. Was that before you were with her? She was the one? No, I'm hers.

Oh, right. Right, right. She had the picture of you. Yeah. Yeah, I'm the dream guy. I'm the guy that she wanted. And the one that she wished she could have, I'm that for her. And I knew it.

So you're the real. Listen, what I think is your thing is like you really do like to be. that night in shining armor. That first girl gave you that role, but it was bullshit. You know, she was acting out. It was all smoking mirrors because she had her own issues. Probably she's changed and grown in as a much better person. I mean, you guys were super young. So we can't just like, you know, she's not a terrible person. She was young. But you were really able to live out that part of yourself because you like to be that person for somebody with this girl. And she really accepted it and liked it. And so you're both happy. It's like the perfect

it's the perfect fit. Yeah, and when I first message you and we were setting up the date to do this call, I'm sitting there going back to all my past, thinking about all the wild, crazy shit. I broke hearts. When I was screwing around and being best in bed for different girls,

I broke some hearts along the way. And it's like, man, I feel bad about that. And I went through it, and I ended up coming home last night, because I knew I was going to have this conversation today with you. And I sat down in front of my wife, and I said, I want to tell you I love you. I got to thinking about everything that I've done and the crazy shit that I've been through.

And I love you. And I am so fucking lucky that I have you. And you're the one that makes me get up and get my ass to work in the morning every day. And you're the first person I am so happy to come home to at night. And I'll do anything for you. And she knows it. But it's always nice to hear it. you know so to the listeners that listen to that listen to that tell your partner what you love them tell them that

you appreciate them because it's nice to hear it really is you know and i think it was also reaffirming for you for yourself especially because of where you had been and where you are now so i think it was also like a a nice pat on the back and as well as you really valuing where you're at and what you have also yeah and i don't people who cheat they cheat so they get they get paranoid oh what are my wife's cheating on me what my wife's cheating on me you know because they're they're doing it they're out there doing it i don't have that i know that i can go four states over and not worry the sancho is sneaking in my back door to get some of my wife i'm i have that security and that's and that's a lot and

knowing that i let my wife know hey i know i know i can trust you. I know I can trust you. I can trust you with anything. And having that open, that open dialogue, you know, I, if I have a friend that wants to get stuck up, you know, I go to my wife and say, hey, she wants, she wants a piece, you know, she wants a piece, you know, can I hook her up? And my wife would be like, who is it? Okay, is this somebody, is this somebody that's like they can steal you? No, no, they don't. Okay. Yeah, go fuck her. Go fuck her brains out, babe, and go have fun. We're a rubber. You know, know, have fun. Right. Well, there you go. I mean, you'll be like, you know, I think, you know, you have to go to YouTube and see the comments of that people are getting to think. I feel like people are going to pick out different parts of this conversation and different

parts of things that you've done and different parts that other people in this story have done and be judging about it. But, I mean, overall, I think what's really interesting is the evolution of you and where you've come and even though you've had, you know, issues put on you when you were young and had these abandonment issues that you've been able to get yourself into a solid relationship where you have trust even after being really shafted in that area, which I think is hard to do, but amazing. And thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. There's a lot of players in this story, and it's a little confusing. I got confused, but maybe I'm the only

one that got confused. But I will make sure it's less confusing and explain. But it's, it's interesting. It's dramatic, but not really. Like I said, even though there's a lot of players, it seems like it's a pretty clean cut for you guys and where you're at. And I think that that's wonderful. And thanks so much, Vincent, for calling in. Thank you, I mean. And I'm going to set up a YouTube name Vincent anonymously.

Okay. All right. You've got a little segment for like a little mini stories, right? Yeah. Definitely call in and leave some stories. Okay. 347. 347, 4203579.

Okay. Thanks so much. This is a really good one. It's very interesting. Okay, so it'll definitely be on the next like two weeks on a Sunday or Wednesday. Okay. So keep your eye on stay tuned and let me know what you think of it after you listen. All right.

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