Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 486 - Fetish Fridays: Tom is Into Tights and Hooking Up with Couples

Episode Date: May 20, 2022

Tom is into tights and hooking up with couples and he called in to talk all about it. When did he realize he was into tights? When did he start wearing them? And when did he start hooking up with couples? Tune in for all the details which include how he was caught wearing tights and the convo he had with his mom about it, the foot job he was forced to give to his male friend in middle school, how that became a regular thing and how that shaped his future, how it progressed to him performing oral on his friend, how he eventually started cross dressing, how his wife knew about his tights collection and how she felt about it, how she used his fetish against him and how he enjoyed her berating him, how he started hooking up with guys and exactly what went down with them, the first couple he met on FetLife that ed to his first threesome, the second couple he met and how the wife really enjoyed seeing him with her husband, how he’s onto being a sub and enjoys humiliation, how most women he dates now knows about his fetish, how he tables himself now and why and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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He talks about, you know, when he started wearing tights, it started at an early age. He talks about getting caught. And he talks about like this thing that happened when he was younger with a friend of his. It was kind of like forced on him. It was like a forced footsie job that he had going on. with a friend and then they started to like hook up and that was I think a situation that happened that did set him up for his future and what he was into. He then got older, started hooking up with guys on the side, fully dressing. He talks about that kind of stuff. He eventually got into being a sub and then how he became like a sub with couples. He started hooking up with couples. He's had a lot of hot threesomes where he's like the clean-up guy. And his wife did know about his fetus.

She talks about that and how she didn't really like it. But how, you know, because he's a sub and that comes into play, how like her berating him about it kind of like turned him on. So you got that aspect going here. You have a lot of things going on with Tom. I think this intro sucks, but I'm not going to retape it. But it doesn't matter because the episode is great. Okay. So I'm just going to get right to it. Let me right back on. with Tom. Hey Tom, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. Wonderful. How are you? I'm good. So Tom, you're what I would call on my Patreon, a hoser. My Patreon, I have guys on there called hosers. There's a special tier dedicated just for them to talk all about the panty hose fetish. I know a lot about it because of

my hosers. You know, I knew early on, or what I realized early on doing my show was there were so many guys that were into pantyhose because when I started to do my show, I used to have to go out and look for people to call in. So I would go on to Craigslist. I would post ads, but I would also look through ads and email people. And I noticed that two of the biggest things that I would see, like the most ads were like foot fetish people and pantyhose people posting ads on there. So anyway, so you're a hoser. So we're going to get into, you know, when you realized you had this fetish. Because not only are you a hoser, like you did say that like you, fooled around with couples too or something like that.

We'll get into that. But like, let's start from the beginning. And like, when did you first realize that you had a panty hose fattish? Well, realizing it and actually living it, I get there. What? I can remember as a kid crawling around on the ground and at like Christmas parties for the family and gatherings and always being drawn to women's legs and the nylons. I remember at, and for Kenny Garden, I do remember asking my mom that he needed a pair of

panty hose for a project at kindergarten. It wasn't true and actually I got found out about it. I started wearing about that time probably when I was five or six. Would she buy them for you? No, no. There was a little closet off of my bedroom of like extra clothes for seasonal stuff and in there was a dresser in that dresser there was like some tights and I think like two pairs of panty hose and I just would wear them all the time. And it never was a, I mean, I was just a little kid. So it never was a sexual thing at all. Of course.

You know, she kind of knew something was up about the kindergarten thing and questioned me about it, but never one anywhere. At eight, she caught me wearing them in bed. And that became a discussion about why. And I promised I'd never do it again. And, of course, they were in that drawer, so eventually I went back to it again. So I always wore all the time. What did you say to your mother?

Could I ask you like how that? conversation went like when she said why what did you say i remember it was so long ago i just remember it was i really just loved the feeling of them i just i just lay them bed and just read and just i wasn't feeling myself it was just the idea of just wearing them underneath the sheets and when you move around you'd feel them and stuff it was just it was just it was a great i just i loved it right and that would be the answer that was the real answer i mean that was the truth of why you were wearing and like you said it wasn't a sexual thing at that age. You're young. It was just that you love the feel. Yeah, when I had no idea with sexes at that point in time. Of course. So I continued to constantly

wear and just became very cautious. When I was middle school, I was around 13 or so, a friend of mine, he lived next door, but he went to a different school. And they were doing all the guys, you know, at this point, everyone's getting it to, you know, you're just to realize that you have a dick and it works. for something else. Yeah. So they were doing a thing in the back of the classroom called footsis,

but the guys were jacking each other off with their feet. And he always came home morning to know, I wanted to do it. And I wanted to try it. I wanted to try it. No, no, no. And then on a weekend that my parents were out of town, he was came over,

and we were hanging out, and then he left. And he came back, and he caught me putting on tanny hose. And that's when it kind of, he came walking in, and he was like, Well, now you're going to have to do it.

I'm going to tell everybody. Oh, wow. And he wanted me to play footsy with him. You know, he took his pants off. He said normally at school, at school they were just doing it like through their jeans. Mm-hmm. But this time, he took his pants off and I had to get him like a foot job

while I was wearing the panty hose. I was like kind of freaked out about it. Yeah. At this point in time, I also had, was jacking off. I wasn't jacking off with the panty hose or anything. It was just normal masturbation at that age. And then once he, He made me do that.

And then obviously he didn't reciprocate. Once he came, he left again. And then it kind of became a little bit of a regular thing that he would come over. He would expect me to put on panty hose and give him a foot job again. Was he your age? A year younger than me. So eventually, I was over at his place one time and Noda's home. And he had an older sister.

And he told me to go in there and get a pair of panty hose out of her room. to, you know, he can give him a foot job. And in the process of giving him a foot job, someone came home. I didn't have time to go and put him back, so I had to just throw my clothes on over the pantyhones. And I don't remember if I left the drawer open to the, you know, where her penny holes were. Yeah.

But something happened that she knew someone was in her room. And eventually he coughed up that I took a pair of panty hose. And the next time I went over there, I was going to get rid of them. And of course, being a penny-house fetish guy, I guess, at that age, I didn't just put him in my pocket to take him back over. Of course, I wore them. And I went over there, and we were going to start playing with the backbone

because we were hoping that there would be a chance that I could put him back. And his sister came out with a friend. And so he already coughed up without telling me what exactly happened. And so she came out and started asking me about, Hey, she left a pair of panty. I, you know, she said to me, I left a pair of panty hose. Do you know anything about it? Would you be wearing them now?

And she, you know, we were in a city neighborhood. So she was kind of quite loud about it. And I was like getting really nervous thinking, you know, she's speaking very openly here and anyone can hear. I mean, she was really going up about asking me if I was a faggot and do I like fucking cock. I mean, I was like 13, maybe 14 at this age. and she was probably 17.

It was, I actually, I was clearly being humiliated. Yes. But I loved it. And I wasn't someone who really, I really wasn't, realized that I was someone that had that in me or. Eventually the sister left and no one else was home at that point in time.

And so we went back inside. And I believe it was that night is the first time that he kissed his cock. and I didn't develop what kind of really was at first, and then eventually I just gave another foot job. And I started kind of liking. I hated it at first, and I started kind of liking it now. It's just there was something about it that was kind of fun. I was always a very dominant person as a kid.

It was kind of fun. I was being at someone else's control. Eventually, over the course of weeks, I remember we were sitting at my kitchen table in my house and we were looking at porn magazines and I was giving him a foot job. We were sitting on chairs and he dropped something. I'm kind of on purpose and he told me to go pick it up and when I did it, I kind of know my face was right next to his cock and he just kind of pushed my back of my head and

I gave him a blow job. It was really eye-opening, I guess. I don't know what else to say. It was really fun. And when he came, I just remember like, wow, that was really cool. And then once he came, he got dressed and he left. And I just sat there and I was like turned down about what it is I just did. It was really interesting.

And I don't know if I'd want to say that, you know, after that point I'd sit there and start looking at guys. I mean, I was always looking at girls. But I was also, when I was looking at girls, you know, if they wore tights and pantingos, they cut my attention. So that's kind of what I was looking at. But I always still just looked at girls. but I always was looking forward I started looking forward to the next time you'd come over

and we'd do that again so it happened a few more times and then eventually he did he got a girlfriend and he didn't want to do that anymore and I was kind of just kind of left high and dry I guess and I was very outgoing

but I never really I dated a little bit but nothing any serious that's never had any sexual experience that that's other than with him and I kind of realized that I remember it was a Saturday night and my parents weren't home again, and I dress up in some tights in the dress, and I found a pair of shoes that kind of fit.

And it was just kind of nice. It almost felt like the absence of not having a girlfriend there. It was comforting. And I really didn't even do anything sexually. I just sat there and watched TV dress like that. Yeah. And I started kind of cross-dressing a little bit at that point in time, very, very little.

It was always still just about wearing tights and panty. And so there's really nothing on that front ever happened again. I always kept it very quiet, never said anything. You know, dated a few girls eventually and then finally fell in one and getting married. When I got married, she knew that I had a small collection of types. She never really said anything about it. And it was never talked about. I wore them.

I never did it in front of her. I kept it very private. It seemed to be like it was okay. And I figured it was not. anything stupid and I might as well just leave it at that and it was even at first when she first moved in with me I had

mainly just pair of black tights and all of a sudden I found a pair of green tights in my drawer with me I was like well I never have a pair of green tights and I was like I knew she must have put them in there and I was with me thinking myself why would she put a pair of green tights in there just

just to see if I would wear them or something I don't know or it never went anywhere with her the only time that ever was brought up was she was doing some financial things that weren't very cool and when I would find out about it that's when all of a sudden I have a disgusting fetish that all of a sudden it became a problem to her and once the problem to her yeah then it was a problem then it was like oh yeah for the back at you know you mean when you brought up when she started having issues and it was reflecting poorly on her, she was like throwing that in your face to sort of bring you down

with her kind of thing? Yeah. I mean, I don't understand. She always knew before, why now did she start throwing it in your face in a bad way? I don't understand. There was some credit cards that were taken out. And I realized that it was even before I met her that she was. Right, but what does that have to do with you?

Well, when I would catch her about it and always and realize, hey, what the hell is this? Why is there all these thousands of? the dollars on the credit card well then all of a sudden it'd be like well you do that well that's what i mean right she was trying that's what i was what i just said so she was being like she never cared before but now that she was doing something that you were calling out on her she was like telling you she was being rude and like like i get it but that's like fucked up you know like obviously before she didn't think well of what you were doing or whatever she kept it to herself and then now she's throwing it in your face because you're bringing up that so she was like using it as ammunition

It's pretty much just what it was. When things got better, I never asked her to wear any tights or pantyholes or anything like that for me. And this is back in the 90s, so they were still very popular. When she did, she always knew that she got a lot more of my attention.

Yeah. And then at certain times that she would definitely do it and know that she was giving me my attention that if we were going to go out, she would sit on the couch waiting. If I came home for work, she'd be all ready to go.

and acting in her with her just sitting there wearing black tights in a skirt and just stroking her legs looking at me like, you know, just doing anything for you? Yeah. So, and then I found out over the course of the time, the credit cards happened a few more times. And of course, every time it happened out from what it is I was wearing. And then eventually it got to the point where it kind of ended up there. When that happened through the course of the divorce, there was a little issue about, I don't remember what it was. She wanted me to find something for insurance purposes that something about she was going to

claim. I refused to sign it, and I was driving home from work one time, and this is the second time that this kind of happened now. She started screaming at me that if I had a sign it, that she told everyone that I worked tights and that I was a faggot. And then she started going at me about, are you sitting next to your boyfriend? Are you wearing your tights for your boyfriend? Are you about ready to give him a blowjob or anything?

And it's just like, she was screaming this at me constantly. She was telling me out about my fetish and about my sexuality, making references to my sexuality. Yeah. So she was doing this to try to hurt me, but she turned me on. It was kind of really, it was another one of those humiliating scenarios of, being yelled at and being demoralized about your sexuality or about your fetish.

And it was like, hey, I kind of like that. And actually, we're actually, you know, we're friends to the now, you know, that was just, you know, you go through that stuff to a divorce. Yeah. And there are times that I've actually kind of wanted, gee, I wonder if I could ask you to do that again and make a phone call like that to me again.

Obviously, I wouldn't. But I kind of wonder sometimes, what would you say if I asked her to? She'd be perplexed. Most people would never think that when they're like berating someone that they're getting a heart on, you know? I know. It just seems so weird to think about it, but it's what happened. Yeah.

I don't know what else was saying. You know, it was interesting. So after, you know, we were married for almost 15 years. And some of them in my mid-30s and the Internet was out there. I kept at this time and Craigslist was out there. And I kind of thought, well, you know what? I kept thinking about that conversation of her yelling at me. And I was like, you know what?

I think I would like to really just kind of explore that side again. And I did go on Craigslist, and I made plans and chatted with people and nothing ever happened. It actually took me having a cold one time and taking some NyQuil to actually give me the balls enough to actually plan out meeting with another guy. And I told him I was into wearing tights and he said that sign. And we met in a public place and kind of chatted for a little bit and went back to his place. and I tried giving him a blowjob, but I was really nervous. You're in a strange place, and it's the middle of the night, and you don't know this guy. It was really interesting to that.

When it was my friend, it was my friend, and it was kind of, I knew who he was. It didn't happen, and we just kind of came to the point of, well, let's, you know, maybe some other time. And then, of course, we never met back up. And then I met, just took years to really kind of, you kind of keep going. Yeah. Yeah, I really actually, at this point in time, now that I was single, started buying things off the internet, clothing, dresses, shoes, a wig or two. And I started developing a little bit of a decent-sized closet.

And so I started just like trying to trying it a little bit harder to look a little bit more feminist while dressing. And it seemed like I was doing okay with it. And then I started going online instead of just saying that I was into types of actually seeing a class dressing and seeing those, and I got a little bit better reaction from that. And then I didn't, never look close to any pictures. I would chat with whoever responded on Craigslist. And once you kind of got it down to, you know, these people seem like they might be.

Then I would send pictures, no face pictures, just of what it is, you know. I did finally meet a guy who actually didn't live too far away from me. And we chatted for a while, and then we finally met up in a public place again, and chatted a little bit there. And then he didn't go over that night because he was like, well, I went out, I didn't go out dressed up to meet him. And I told him I never would. I eventually chatted with him.

We set a date, and then he came over, and I was dressed. and that's when I gave him a low job when I was completely cross-stressed and it was great. It made me realize that I don't want to say I was bisexual because I'm not really attracted to men when I get into that situation

when I like to dress up that I am attracted to a man. But in normal life, I don't look at men. I still prefer and I still, for the state, prefer being in a relationship with a woman. But it was just, it was really, on itself so tinky so naughty so taboo it was really it was a blast yeah and we actually met up a few more

times he was an older guy who's wife just was not interested in sex we met up a few more times he'd come over here and same thing time and time again and then he was just a really straight-laced guy he just was interested in he didn't want to have a he just was looking for sex just to get off he was not looking to have he didn't really want to have it up there with a woman, you know, while he was married. And he just, he said, he told me out like it just didn't seem like it was so long, you know, the guy dressed as a woman. Right.

It felt, it was, in his mind, it was just easier. And that's all he was looking for. And he came over one time, and I actually wore a dog collar with a leash. And he just, I remember him, look at me, I just started into that. And I said, well, you know, that's fine. And somewhere in the middle of giving him a blow job, he did grab the leash, and he was, he always found out of open himself he was into it because he just

loved pulling up on it while I was working his knob so we had a really and I just kept it with just him between him and I and we had a really fun time we'd meet up maybe every other week whenever schedule was able to allow he'd travel quite a bit

so there'd be times three four months at a time that he wouldn't be around eventually that kind of ended he just kind of said that he couldn't do it anymore I think it was more or less that his wife was having some medical issues and he just needed to spend more time at home. He was an older guy. And then from there, I did meet up with a couple one time.

I met this guy on Petlite and he was very interested in having me dress up for him. But he also told me that his wife might be interested too. And so him and I met one time at a park when we just talked. And then a few weeks later, I went over to his house and met with him and her. In their garage, they had a little bar set up. And we were just talking. And she told me outright that she would be very, she's very interested in the two guys. And she doesn't know how far she'd like it to go, but she would like to have a little bisexuality.

But she doesn't know how much she'd be into it. And so after I think another meeting, I went back over there and we did try it once, went up to their bedroom. And it was a blast to have, being with a woman and a guy. and she was really cute. Right. But I can remember once we got started, her and I going down on him,

and all of a sudden, you could just tell that she was not into bisexuality at all. And it kind of just ended very quickly. But I don't want to say that the experience ended. It all became a boss. I mean, I kind of caught real quick that she was just not into it. She didn't want to see it. Right.

Close and personal, isn't it? I think it was maybe more or less something that he was kind of hoping that she was going to be into, and she just wasn't. Right. And I was able to catch up pretty quickly on the fact that she just was not, and it just became all about her. And I think that ended actually very quickly that he just got behind her, and she gave me a blowjob, and everyone came and blah, blah, and I never met back up with them. But it was so intriguing to be looking at another man. cock in front of your face and a woman's face is right there too. It was that was really a turn on.

Recently, I didn't meet up with another guy and it was off of a different site and he was just a very masculine guy and he just wanted oral sex and he didn't care if I dressed up or not We only met up because of the fact we looked kind of close to each other within a few miles and this was just recently and I just recently it was in the middle of winter so we kind of met out of talking when hiking in the middle of winter and just talked a little bit and in the middle of the talk he kind of told me that his wife is down

his wife they're not on any they're not on fat life or any other swingers anything like that but she is down for things they have done some stuff and I don't know exactly everything he did he told me that they were doing but he was down she was down for stuff and he was always he's not

as long as he was not to touch someone some of the guy's cock, he's okay. He doesn't mind none of the guy doing anything to him. And he would, he told me outright that he would like to try to get his wife to be involved with another guy and his cock. And he said every time he broaches the subject, they kind of talk about it. She gets turned on, but then it fades away. And it just never comes to fruition.

And I just kind of mentioned to him, he was a mechanic who retired. and I just kind of mentioned to him one time because he was telling me also that he you know we talked about a lot of things he was telling me he was selling some tools on different you know some of those old tools that isn't anymore he's retired and I just kind of asked him well what would happen

if I came over to your house to look at some tools in your garage and then you go back in the house and say to your wife hey you I can't believe it but there's a guy out here that I used to work on his vehicle and his ex-wife vehicle and when they got divorced she was coming into the garage all the time and telling me about all these crazy things that he likes to do and how he likes to be

humiliated and wear tights and and i just kind of said what would happen if you know you just if i'm there and we kind of put you put this in front of her and just see what happened and he was kind of thought about it and thought about it and he said you know what he wanted to try it so So I ended up contacting him through a school, and I went over to his house on a Saturday morning. And so it was all planned out. And I went in there, met him in the garage. And we kind of chat a little bit about how this was going to go. And we kind of had a little bit of a plan B in case it didn't work out to try to see if she'd be interested.

He went inside the house. And then he went to go tell her about, about me that the end. used to come in and rip about me and I used to wear tights and and that I they got divorced because I like a cock and but you know it was like all speculation things that he wasn't certain of but speculation and so she came out with him and I mean this was just a month a little over a month ago she came out of the graduate with him and it's cold out there we were just kind of looking at what it is I was looking to buy possibly. She made, I wore jeans, but I made sure that when I went into the garage, or when he went to the house and made sure like the bottom cup of the jeans, you could see that there were, you could see that I was wearing tight. You know, you could see the sock. They weren't over my shoes. And she kind of, when they came back out, she just kind of looked at him and said, ask him. Ask him. I kind of knew that made.

maybe it did work. And she kept telling him to say, ask him, ask him. And then he just said, hey, you and your ex used to bring the car over to my garage and she said. Well, yeah, yeah. And that's why you look familiar. And he then asked me, see, your ex told me that you like to wear tights. Are you wearing him now?

And the wife at that point in times is, I can see he is. and from there she kind of got you could just kind of see her eyes she's kind of something kind of happened she got turned on and she's a she's a woman a little bit older than I am

and she's very good looking so we're talking like 50s and her husband her husband is a few years older than her and he's a big guy she's very she likes it when her husband is like a man

and so we went back into the garage or we went back into their kitchen I wasn't in there yet we went into the kitchen and then I just remember she just kind of walked behind me

and just said I want to see I want to see it I said no eventually I'm trying to remember exactly I was very we had this plan out

but I was still very nervous I was I mean I knew this this was kind of like we were hoping for it I was hoping for. I remember I was kind of shaking. I was so nervous about this. And eventually I did take my pants off.

And she sat there and just kept speaking my butt. And she was, she was hooping and hollering a little bit, not nothing outrageous, but just, it was interesting. And he made a comment about maybe we should make him give me oral.

And she was behind me pushing on my shoulders to push me down on my knees. and she did ask that is a you know is this what you really want you know it's not like she was trying to be right so she did she did say something and i i just remember shaking my head like chrificively saying yes i do and then she kind of got right in my face and just was pushing my face in her husband's cock. If I remember, I was right there and it was right in front of me. If I remember correctly,

I don't remember if she just made a spitting sounder, she actually did sit on it. But once she did that, she just kind of grabbed it and just kind of started, she had one hand on his cock and straight, one hand in the back of my head and just poaching my head into his cock. You know, just like all over my face. Hit me in the nose, hit me in the eye, the cheek,

and then eventually she just opened them all and in it went. It was, I, was never so turned on in my life. And the husband, I think he lasted a minute and a half. And he came and came hard. And then as soon as he came, I mean, she just kind of got in my face

and wanted to see it in my mouth and made me swallow. And it was really cool. They hadn't, I did sit around the house for a little while. She actually went upstairs, took a shower, and came back down. And when she did come back down, she wore shorts and tight. So, I mean, she was playing into it for me. Eventually what ended up happening, though, I would think I was there for maybe like two hours.

Eventually, what ended up happening is she got on all fours, and he had sex with her from behind. And I just was, I was just fast there in my tight, and I mean, she was just, she was sitting on her coffee, on all fours on the coffee table, and she was behind her, and it was, it was quite exciting.

I mean, she was excited. She could see I was excited. And eventually when they both, came she just kind of looked at me she was okay i think you need to go but this ain't the end of it this was a lot of fun as long as you're down for this we need to do this again i'm yeah i'm i'm good with this so the next week saturday i did go back over the following week and this time i the husband was he was home but he had to leave for a little while so she made me stripped down to just tights and women's shoes that i have

and I had to clean the house for her. It was fun. She was a lot of fun. She made a lot of slightly derogatory comments toward me, but also was very inquisitive about how I got started and how this all happened. And then she told me all right that watching her husband dominated on the guy was the most exciting things you'd ever seen in her life. and she really wants to see it again.

And she said, as long as you're good with doing it, she just really wants to see. And at this point with her husband being done, she didn't wear anything that was anything perfect, you know, anything, she didn't wear any tights or panty hose to try to turn the end. She just brought jeans. When he came back, she did change again. And she changed into just like a tank-tapping type. And it was, it was great. and the same thing happened again.

He just sat on the couch, and she sat there next to him, and just I had to sit between his legs, and I gave him oral again as he sat there, just watched, and she just stroked the back in my head and just made out with him, and just kept looking down. I kept looking up at them,

and she just kept looking down at me, and every time she looked down at me, she was sticking her tongue further into his mouth. Once he came, then the two of them kind of went, and editing it took him a whole while to kind of, you know, closer to 60. It took him a while to kind of want to get back in the mood again. I think it was actually like 45 minutes, maybe an hour.

And then eventually the two of them had sex again, and then I went home again. And the last time I went over there, they were both home. And as soon as I walked in, he was, they were in the kitchen. He was just sitting up against the counter. She instructed me to go down. She was wearing tights again. She instructed me to go down on him right away. and I did and once he got hard

then we went to stir it into the bedroom she made me lay down on the bed and then she first she got down on my face and kind of sat on my face with the tights as he's watching and I had he wrote his best I said to the tights

once she kind of really got horned up she took the tights off and she sat down on my face and then he put it in from behind and the two of them started having sex on top of my face. I can still remember the way everything smelled. It was all I wanted her to do was just

touched me to. She would have just touched me. I would have exploded, but she didn't. She was, I could feel her, even through the, I could feel her hair a little bit, but she was right there, but it wasn't happening. And then it was

he eventually, when he came, he kind of pulled out a little bit and just shot on all over her all over her pussy and then she, once he backed up and then she just sat

straight down on my face and I had to clean it all out and after I was done and she came that's when she finally she didn't give me a pro jab although I think she might have kids I couldn't really see because she's sitting on my face hard to see anything I think

she might have kissed my cock a little bit but she started rubbing it through the tights until I came and that was the last time that we did anything. I'm hoping soon we'll be doing it again because it was, that was unbelievable. And that was how long ago? That was just a two weeks ago. Oh, wow. So you've been with that.

How long have you been like single and sort of doing your thing? 14 years. Wow. So you've never? Yeah. Well, there's been a few girlfriends in there. Now when you had the girlfriends, did you do any of this stuff on the side? Or is this strictly what you do when you're like now that you're single and there's no one around and you're just doing what you feel like doing?

Only when there's no one when I am not seeing anybody. Even if it's just a relationship where you just kind of talking. And this time actually after my divorce, I am upfront with every woman. And I am shocked, utterly shocked that the first person I dated after my divorce, I never said anything to. Well, about what? Because you have two weeks. you have two big things that you would tell women. One is that you like to wear panty hose and two is that,

you know, you like to suck a dick every now with that. So which one do you tell women and what, you know? I never, I always tell them, except for the very first one. I was kind of just getting my toe wet. Yeah, yeah. And so I never, she, and I kind of knew that it wasn't, she was, I kind of knew it wasn't going to work out between. The next one I dated, the next serious relationship that I dated,

I told her pretty quick that I really do like it a lot. And that was never a very big problem. Actually, she once in a great while, if we would go out, would wear tights and make sure that she knew that she had my attention. She completely had my attention. That one broke up, and the next long one after that, which has been an on-again, off-again affair, was, again, fine with it.

once in a while when we were hiking, and she'd make a joke about me wearing panty hollies. I was like, but she would actually wear tights. She didn't really, I don't know if she really wore them before she met me, but I remember the first Valentine's Day we were together. She wore all red and she wore red tights,

and she made sure that I noticed as well. I didn't miss it. Right. So being my fetish, like, I met this amount. eventually as we got closer and closer she spent time at my house or I spent time at her house. I had kids so

sometimes when I was over by her it kind of got for the point that we could just sit around and watch TV and I could just wear tights and it was okay every once in a while she would do it too I kind of realized that every once in a while she came home from work and found an Amazon package

in her mailbox I would get a big thank you and then she would wear them for me it was it was kind of I don't think we talked a little bit about it

but it was just like it became like a normal everyday item to wear right she didn't wear all the time but it was

completely fine that if I just came home from work and where it was wearing tight no big deal that's cool

so it was yeah it was it was really nice it was she was very fine with it eventually her

and I did where it got about 300 times. And somewhere in those 300 times, I dated someone else and I was up front with her about it. We never actually slept together, but she was fine with that she didn't care.

And she just said, I'm not really that big. I didn't really know particularly care for them. Unfortunately, at the time, my life was a little busy, but I couldn't continue seeing her. She couldn't be a little too far away for my liking. Although we got along break. And what was happening with my

life, I just, I was able to spend that time seeing her and it kind of it didn't really break up and just kind of faded away that there just wasn't enough time in the day so that kind of was and those all three those relationships besides the one that we didn't the last one I didn't really sleep with that was only about six months because that's one were all pretty long term one was three years another one was five years and the last one was probably they said maybe six months but it was just we never really spent much time together because I was just too busy doing something. But you were surprised that most women didn't really care?

Like in your fetish when you told them, like nobody really... I try to tell my hosers that. Like, I don't think that they understand. A lot of guys think, oh, they're going to get it. You know, that women are going to take it way worse. I personally have tried to explain that most women wouldn't really care. I am adversely shocked because the lady I'm talking to now, she don't care.

I feel her outright. We were off the dinner once and I feel right. I really like we're in tights and okay, whatever. That's not really my thing, but that's fine. Whatever. I'm just really surprised.

I've never had a really bad experience other than the ex-wife and that was just because of anger. I mean, realistically when things were fine, it was no big deal. It was just when I caught her doing something, she just needed something to throw back in my face.

So all of a sudden, that was the thing that she threw back in my face. I'm really surprised that they don't know. I don't want to say they encourage it, but they certainly don't discourage it. Yeah, I try to explain. I mean, like, I think, you know, liking them to wear it is one thing.

That's a very easy thing. And then explaining that you like to wear it is a little bit, you know, more of a stretch, right? That a woman's going to have to be like, okay let me like figure out what this means you know but i really think that most women find it very hard to meet a guy that they really like i think most people do i mean it's not like we like everybody every now and then boom you meet someone you're like whoa but it's not often it's rare right that's

why we we hang our hat there so i think once you hang your hat in a place you're just you're more likely to be like okay look the woman's not going to like throw it all out because of that you know she finally met a guy she likes if you guys are in a good relationship and she digs it she's not going to be like oh fuck that i'm going to go back out there and wait two years to meet another guy i like she's going to be like okay i'll deal with this it's not that big of a deal it's not like you're saying can i poop on your face you know what i mean it's not like you're going to say can i pee on you or something it's not that hard of a stretch i think that it's really that's kind of it's because dating in 50s sucks right it's not like you're dating in your early oh it sucks oh it sucks when

you're in your 20s, two dating is difficult. It's, it's always hard, but yes, it's even worse in your 50s is what you're saying. Yeah, but when you think, when you think if you're going to be a monogamous relationship and spend your life with someone, you're going to build something together. Well, here when you're at 50, well, you got it already. Yeah. You're not building anything. You already got your kids.

You already got everything all built up. Yeah. Now you're just looking for almost like. Companionship. Yeah. A companionship was a little bit of sex once in a while. And I think it really does, because he had. And I know I'm guilty of it, too.

You kind of know what you're looking for, and there's like certain qualifications you'd like to have there, where I think when I was younger, that was a little bit more open. I mean, I enjoy meeting women. I've dying to get to know them, but most of the women I meet, I'm just uninterested in. And I just think it's because of the fact of... Being older and knowing who you are and what you want and what you like.

and all that stuff. For sure. I think like, you know, when... Yeah. Because a lot of times people, when they're older, they get serious quicker or they get married quicker. But like, I think when you're younger, it takes like a good eight months to really know somebody.

But I think when you're older, you know someone like three weeks. What one? You know, it's just a different kind of a thing. You could, you know, you can work through it. And I think relationships when you're older last shorter when they don't, when they're not right. Whereas the same relationship that's not right when you're younger might. last like a year.

When you're older, it lasts like a month and you're like gone. And then the good ones last longer. And they get serious quicker because you just know. There is a difference. Yeah. They're definitely, I think that is very true. It seems like it very quickly comes out of, man, it's not my cup of tea. Like you said, it's very, very fast.

There's no messing around. Yeah. But I do still think that the same thing is true, though, whether you're 20 or 50, that dating is difficult. It's very hard to meet that person that all the stars align, whether it's eight months later that you realize or three weeks later, you know, if you do, if all the stars do align and you finally did meet that someone, like I said, whether you're 20 or 50, if that guy pulls out something like, oh, I like to wear pantyos, I think most women would be like, you know what, even if they're like, they're very conservative and they don't know what the fuck that is and

they're like, holy shit, they're not going to leave because they're not going to go back out there just, you know, for that. It's not, I don't think it's that hard of a cell. Compared to other fetishes, that's what I always try to get through to my hosers for the ones that are still on the fence. So, like, don't tell and they're hiding it because they just think it's so, you know,

such a crazy thing and that women would respond so poorly. Actually, that's just that was in since the divorce. Yeah. We're all very conservative women and all of them, none of them cared. Right. I don't want to be the conservative and a or a liberal woman. Yeah.

I think if you have a connection, it's just something, okay, whatever. Yeah, that's what I mean. That's what I'm trying to say, too. Yeah. And you're here to prove it. You're proved it by actually having those experiences with that exact kind of woman that I'm saying, even those women. And you did. You're here to say, like, it's definitely a fact.

It's true. And it, you know. I think it also has something to do with the fact, too, that's like, well, you know what, whatever I got. Or even if it's not a sexual thing, even if it's just some quirky thing that I think that kills other guys, maybe they're just be more open to it or let them bother them. And I think it does have

a tendency to work that way of if someone, I think women feel more comfortable that maybe he'll look beyond this if I don't worry about that. Right, right, like your ex. Yeah, well, I know what you mean, though, yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, like, oh, look, he's a human.

No, but it's like, it's kind of like, oh, look, he's a, he's a, he's a, human being and he has this thing. So if I have something, but let me ask you, this is the real question because I'm winding it down, but I do want to bring up this and ask you this last question. So, you know, you're straight up and you always have been about the panty hose thing. You do have this other thing going on. Now, I have had a guy on here talking about how just because he's suck a dick every now and then doesn't mean that you're by or anything. It's just, you know, maybe how you feel in the moment. You know, it's like a, I forget the difference he called it.

like it's the difference between your sexual orientation and like what you like like some other word. I forget what it is. Go listen to that episode. But you know that you do sometimes like to be with men and you have that. I mean, do you ever feel like if you were in the right relationship with the right person that you would also cop to that? So that you and her could enjoy those kind of things. Or do you like to keep that separate? I prefer to keep that separate just because I think that would be a harder sell.

That would kill a lot of relationships. If I felt comfortable enough, yes, I don't think that would be a problem at all. I think I would be just fine with that. Being on fat life, every once in a while, I'd have chatted with, I met actually two women on dating sites that were both on set life also. And that becomes a little bit easier. I don't mind putting them out there and telling them what my profile is. and it says right on there, heteroflexible. Yeah.

You know, I'm not going to leave you for another guy, but, you know, if we're together and you're okay with it, and there's a cock in front of my face, there's a good chance it's going to end up in my mall. You know, that's going to happen. Oops. Just like when that guy dropped that thing, that your friend, quote, unquote.

I mean, I don't know what a good friend that was. He basically, like, the first time he made you hook up with him, it was like rape, okay? Sorry, but like, you know, it was a forced thing. It kind of, I know, I, it was, when we went through the divorce, we'd actually tried going through marriage counseling. Yeah. And it didn't work.

It didn't work. And we were, one of the last times we went to marriage counseling together, you know, the two of us together, she actually started telling me that I need to tell the therapist about my little, yeah, my little fetish. And the next time we went in there, it was supposed to have been the two of us in there together. but the X and come. So the therapist, she did ask me. So what was she talking about this little fetish?

I said, well, I really enjoy wearing tights. And then I did open up to her about everything. Yeah. And she said, yeah, that kind of is kind of like race. I go, I didn't think about it at the time. Yeah. Looking back, maybe it is. But I'm very grateful that it kind of happened, I guess,

because it made me look at something that I didn't think I would ever look at. So it's just, it's just a little experiences. And like that, it's just going to happen. I, I listen, I think, like, that's, listen, I think that, you know, if you went back at that moment, maybe you would have felt different about it, but the way you frame it, the way you see it now and as a good thing, there's nothing wrong with that. I mean, like, I really think, you know, that's fine. I'm just saying that guy was like, you know, forced you to do it.

He was kind of a douche. But, you know, a lot of people are when they're younger. I was vicious when I was younger. whatever. Yeah, but I was, I was the more, honestly, at that age

and our friendship, I was a very dominant person. And not that I was a bully or anything by any means. Yeah, I got it. I was a very nice guy. Yeah.

Even at that. But, you know, if I really wanted to, I could have just punched him in the shoulder. I said, shut the hell up. Yeah, yeah.

But you were like that typical, you're the typical guy that is like, because a lot of times you hear that the sub is typically somebody who is very dumb in their, regular life, right? Like an alpha person. And then when it comes to, you know, when intimacy or they want to play or a kink, they tend to be wanting to do the opposite. So it would go, it would be,

it would ring, you know, true that like you were a very dominant one. And then when it flipped on you, you were like, oh, I kind of like this because it was like the exact opposite. There is. Because when I'm with a, when I'm with a woman, I love being a guy. And I love, I love treating her, bringing her flowers. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, for, even in a relationship for long term, I still, you know, once a week would bring followers or something. Yeah. It's such a nice.

I'm thinking of you, even just a text message in the middle of the day. You know, just, I'd like being a guy. I don't think of being dominant over one, but I, you know, being a little bit more protective of her. But when it comes to being with another guy in that situation, there was one, I did, there was one other guy I have met up with. and I really became very submissive to him. We only met twice.

He loved it when I wore the dog collar. The first time we met up, it was I tried anal with him. It didn't quite work well, but I was giving him a blow job, and then he ended up, he wanted him to jack off on my face. The second time we met up, I let him urinate on my face and all over me. It was, and it's just, I can't hope it was. When I'm with another guy, it just, I really love being in that position of do what you want. Yeah, yeah, yeah, being humiliated.

That's the humiliated thing that you're into. Yeah, you have a lot of things going on here. I have to wrap it up because my kids screaming in the other room and we're at an hour. But, you know, I feel like, and I'm going to wrap it up now, but like, I feel like you have a lot of things going on here. We could have just focused on all this by, not by. That's the wrong word, right? like you're you being heteroreflexible. You definitely have that whole thing going on.

I was going to say, I really don't label it because you know what it is. You don't have to. I love labels. I just got, I don't care what you say. I love labels. The young people that have been on my show

have got me totally into labels. I think it is nice to label things. Whatever you are, you like to suck a dick sometime. I'm saying you have these different things going on that we could have like, you know, like you have the pantyose finish.

You do kind of like to cross dress. You're into being a sub and humiliation. You want to. also, you know, like I said, like to wear a hose. So you do have a lot of things that we focused on here. You know, I'm going to probably air this on my fetish Friday's episode because there's a lot of fetishes you got maybe going on here. But it's mostly the pantingose fetish that we focus on. But I feel like you have all this other stuff going on. But I'm going to wrap it up now. But I really appreciate you calling in. I might air this this Friday on my fetish Fridays if that's okay with you or I'll put it on my Patreon. I'll let you know, though. Okay. Okay. I'm the one who else. I'm the one who else when I email you because I'm not in the pet and not so much pantyels but tight. So I'm the one who always emails and says tights,

Kathy instead of thanks Kathy. So just remember that. Oh, tights. You're into tights. Not panties. Yeah. All about tight. I love tights.

I'm there with you. I like to, I prefer tights. I like the constricted feeling. I always love tights better than panos. Okay. So I'm going to do a tights slash pantyho's fetish because I feel like, listen, tights, panty hose. It's the same person.

so I would want to make sure that everybody goes and listens to it, even the Pandyhouse guys, because it's similar but different. You know, thanks so much for calling in. What did we call you? Oh, Tom. Thanks, Tom, for calling in. Thanks. Bye.

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