Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 502 - Cate's BF Got her Into Swinging with Couples, Girl on Girl Action and More

Episode Date: July 4, 2022

Cate’s boyfriend got her into swinging, girl on girl action and a whole lot more and she called in to talk all about it. How big was her boyfriend’s d***? Why did the start swinging? And when did ...she start hooking up with women and what exactly did they do? Tune in to find out plus hear all about how she’s a squirter and a size queen, the first night she hooked up with her boyfriend and how many other guys she had hooked up with that same night, her intense interest in girl on girl porn and the craigslist ads she used to jerk off to, the first couple they hooked up with and what went down, their first swingers club experience and exactly what happened, her first experience hooking up with a girl, the orgy they were involved in, her first time scissoring a woman and how much she loved it, stars on sex with a female she met online, the female teacher she hooked up, how they started camming together and what they’d actually do, what that teacher did that got her locked up for three years, how her boyfriend was constantly cheating on her and how she would catch him, why she stayed with him for so long, their threesome with a milf, the time she had anal with him, the issues she has with her husband now and how she can fix them and a whole lot more. To see an anonymous pic of Cate + see anonymous pics of most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.
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Starting point is 00:01:18 Also, if you are going to just leave a naughty confession, I have a confessions hotline, I change the voices there as well. You could call my confessions line. It's 347, 424. 37579. That's 347.4-2-0-3579. Call 24 hours a day, seven days a week, any time. You get four minutes leave a message. If you need more time, you can call back again. Today I have on a girl. I love when I have female callers because my audience loves hearing their stories and this girl does
Starting point is 00:01:48 not disappoint. Oh my God, Kate. I love Kate. She's hilarious. She's super directed to honest and she's fucking been there, done that. She had a crazy past. the life. I mean, she's married now and we talk about like her current status of her marriage with her guy. But what we talk mostly about in the beginning is her relationship with a guy named quote unquote Josh and the shit he turned her onto. I mean, this was a girl who was super horny from day one. She had, you know, she was very like, she talks about her high sex dive and all her squirting experience. And then she meets this guy, Josh, who has like the biggest dick she's ever seen and he gets her into swinging and hooking up with girls and they do all kinds of
Starting point is 00:02:31 fucking crazy things. I mean, was she even like one time got paid to have a guy go down on her while he watched on cam and then she had an experience with a teacher who they started camming together and then there was a sex tape and there are a lot of crazy stories in this episode. They're all super interesting. She is very open and honest about everything. thing she's done and there's a lot of stuff and she talks about all of her experience. And listen at the end, she's like, oh my God, there's so many I forgot. Her guy the whole time while they're doing all this crazy stuff together, he was like cheating on her on Craigslist with men and women and animals.
Starting point is 00:03:14 I don't even know what the fuck that was about. But she called in to talk all about it. And then like at the end we talk about, you know, her problems she's having with her husband because this is a horny A. F. girl. Okay. And she is not, you know, experiencing the such great sex in her marriage. And we talk about how maybe she could work on that because her guys kind of open to a threesome with a girl and she loves girls. But he doesn't trust her because she cheated on him. And we talk about that. And she did send me in a picture. So if you want to put a picture to the fake voice and to this whole story. Sign up for my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast.
Starting point is 00:03:56 The information for all of that is in the description. You also see pictures of like mostly all my other female guests too. It's kind of interesting. It is interesting actually. Anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Kate. Hi, Kate. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Doing fabulous. Okay, Kate, now listen, you found me on Instagram and I think, think and correct me from wrong we're going to be talking about some sort of like stuff like you dated somebody and they brought all these kinds of sexual experiences your way or you had all he turned you on to a whole bunch of things i don't really know any other specifics than that um yeah so dating josh he was who's wait so that's is that your
Starting point is 00:04:46 are you married now or is this a guy you're dating now i am married this is not somebody I am with. Okay. You will know you will know more by the end on why we're not together anymore. Okay. Oh, no. Okay. So I have always had a very high sex drive. And like even in high school, I had some of my friends tell me, oh, your parents are swingers. I'm like, no, they're not. And but I'm like, I think, you know, like, I don't know if that's hereditary. But anyways, so I've always had a very high sex drive and I've really enjoyed sex and I really like big cocks and I was dating this guy and we were having sex and he's like did you just pee on me? I was like no and I was like so I didn't know it's when I slept with one of my friends and he was fucking me and he's like I didn't know you
Starting point is 00:05:37 were a squirer like me neither dude so I got and so I'm like wow you know like I knew my sister was Like that is really crazy for me to know about my sister. But I'm like, well, maybe if you get fucked just right, that it works out that way. So then we're going to get to the story with Josh. I was on a dating site and I was talking to a whole bunch of guys. Well, then I came and got across Josh. And we were the same age. And while we decided to go out on a date.
Starting point is 00:06:09 So we go on a date and afterwards we go back to this house to watch movies. well we started making out and I felt like he had a huge dick I'm like damn but I'm like I'm not going to give it up on the first date so you know
Starting point is 00:06:26 I can't even remember I believe I stayed the night but we did not have any sex well that next day it was Halloween so I get dressed up I go to the bar I meet this guy that went to the same school as me and me and him are in the ladies bathroom fucking
Starting point is 00:06:42 And I had no pain. You know, I had plenty of drink. And after that, I'm like, well, I'm going to go to the other club. So I go over there. I ran into one of my other exes. And we go back to his house. I end up sleeping with him. Oh, double dipping.
Starting point is 00:06:56 Kate is double dipper. The double dipper squirder. Yes. And so like, you my sex is like, I've gotten so much better in bed since we've been together. And while we go to have sex and he lasted a whole whopping maybe minute. He's like, I don't know. it is about you, but I cannot last. So I'm like, that really didn't fulfill me up.
Starting point is 00:07:18 So then I got a hold of Josh. And I was like, hey, what are you doing? And, you know, so I end up going to his house. And that is when I got introduced to the best dick I have probably ever had in my life. Wait, so you were triple dipping? Yes. I wanted to be, I wanted to have a good sex. Like I need to have that fulfillment.
Starting point is 00:07:43 And Chris didn't give it to me. So then I went to Josh. And Josh's dick was just perfect. And he was just an amazing lay. Like I don't usually hurt and that definitely hurt. And I'm like, damn, this guy is, I'm like, you got a big dick. You're good looking. You got your shit together.
Starting point is 00:08:02 So I'm like, I want to keep pursuing this. Okay. But we need to know how big Josh's dick is before we go further. All right. Josh was definitely. solid eight nine inches and was fucking thick. Okay. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:17 So like my future, my husband I have now. Yeah. When I showed him one of my dildos and he's like, that is impossible. Nobody's dick is that big. I said, yeah,
Starting point is 00:08:26 it is. I got that dick replica because when he was gone for six weeks, I wanted that dick. And so I went and got a little of the size of judge. Oh my God. That's hilarious. I was, I was like,
Starting point is 00:08:40 now that's not. I was like, yes, it is. So I'm sure he's like completely feels, you know, like a little guy compared to that. Yeah, yeah, anyone is. Yeah. Yes. So anyway, so then, you know, I'm with Josh. And he, he doesn't want to, like, tie it down with me.
Starting point is 00:08:57 But me and him are going out doing everything together. But he does, he wants to keep talking to other people. Mm-hmm. Well, I finally gave him the ultimatum. Like, it's either me or I'm done. Like, this is after six months of me just fucking him. Yeah, yeah, I got it. And so he's like, well, okay, that's fine.
Starting point is 00:09:16 Well, him doing the Craigslist, you know, like I would see on his phone he was replying to Craigslist ads yet. And I'm like, well, what do I need to do to keep him interested in me? Now, when I was, you know, a little younger, I was interested in Craigslist ads. Like, I would go and look at the pictures and then masturbate to them. But I really had a thing for girls. Like when I watch porn, I like watching hardcore lesbian sex, scissoring, squirting. Like, I have always wanted to be with a girl.
Starting point is 00:09:51 So. I like how honest you are. Oh, girl, I am so blunt. Like, I don't. Yeah, yeah, that's cool. So, so he kind of is like, well, there's this couple. And I said, okay, we can see, you know, I didn't know how I was going to feel about it. So we start talking with this couple.
Starting point is 00:10:11 We meet with them. They're a good-looking couple. And they tell us about a swingers club that's an hour away from us. I'm like, really? I never knew about that. So then we get all dressed up and we go to this club. And it is you walk in. There's champagne, sex swings and vibrators and dildos they're selling and porn all over,
Starting point is 00:10:36 dance floor. and I'm like, this, this is awesome. So the drinks start flowing for me. And I go into the locker room and there's this good looking lady. There, I'm getting turned on just talking about this because this was my first time with the girl. And me and her start kissing and stuff like that. And next thing you know, I'm laying on the bench and she's eating me out and we've got people watching. And I was like, for the horny, for the horny.
Starting point is 00:11:07 girl on the planet, which you already copped to the fact that that's you. This must have been like heaven. Yes, it was amazing. I was on cloud nine. I didn't know how, you know, I didn't care how the rest of the night went. And so then I think, you'll be a job. Let's stay right there in that locker room. Now, this woman went down on you.
Starting point is 00:11:29 Did you wind up going down on her or is that like all that you did with that woman? I, that was all I did with her. And so they're at that swingers club. They have bedrooms and stuff there. And so if you leave the curtains open but shut the door, you know, I don't know if you know all the rules and stuff like that. So, you know,
Starting point is 00:11:49 me and my boyfriend at Tyne went in there and we fucked and we let people watch, you know, whatever. I don't care. It's just like watching porn. Yeah. So we did that. So that was our first experience there. And I was very excited about it.
Starting point is 00:12:04 And, you know, so then it was. it would have been we get to Halloween again and we have made some more friends now by this time with other couples and we go with a group of people and we end up being another group of people there and we all go into this bedroom
Starting point is 00:12:26 to fuck and it's people of all different sizes and stuff like that and I'm licking a girl as she's getting fucked I mean it was just amazing But then here's Josh who thinks he's the best at having sex Who can't even get a heart on when we're in there No way And he's just sitting in there with a soft dick
Starting point is 00:12:47 And I'm like sucks sucks for you I'm eating this chick out you know So yeah so Josh wasn't doing real good In the swingers department you know I don't know what it was I don't know if he felt You know not so dominant in there Right or he was shy I mean did you ever ask him Did he ever know why?
Starting point is 00:13:07 No, he does like, I don't know what's going on. I'm like, well, that is, that sucks for you. So then, I'm trying to make sure I don't send any of these stories. The next time we went, so we had met a black couple there and go back to their hotel room. And mind you, I had nervous in this stuff, you know, doing this stuff. and there I'm writing that black guy oh my god oh it was probably one of the best times ever I'm writing him but there's Josh laying there can't do anything because he can't get a heart on again again and so the lady is just watching me fuck her husband and I'm fucking pounding his dick
Starting point is 00:13:50 going up and all over a few more times and it was like porn star fuck session it was awesome Um, that was some amazing sex. I will tell you that. So, you know, so then Josh and he, uh, was working for the railroad. So training was down in Atlanta. Uh-huh. So I knew that he wasn't to stay faithful. I'm not stupid.
Starting point is 00:14:19 You know, he's already done how many other Craigslist stuff before. So he, um, so I was like, well, if he's going to be messy to down there. I'm going to get my fulfillment while he's gone. Right. So I go on Craigslist on one Saturday morning and I come across this girl looking for another girl. And I really thoroughly enjoyed girl on girl. I didn't need to have Dick. I just really enjoyed it. So I started talking to her and she's like, oh, are you really going to do this? We have people that all the time that say they're going to come and then they end up bailing. I was like, oh, no, I'm coming.
Starting point is 00:15:00 Like, so, so I'd make the hour drive there. And I get out of the car. And she is, she's about my body type, which is, you know, I'm about five, five, ten. You know, I'm a little curvy. And she's about the exact same body type as me. And I get out with my six pack of beer. And she's like, I can't believe it. You're here.
Starting point is 00:15:22 She's like, I really love the confidence that you're walking up with. And, and so. we go out and have a few drinks in the back patio there and her her husband says you know why don't you guys go to the bedroom so me and her we go back to the bedroom and we just lay there and watch a movie and then from there we started to kiss and kissing led to taking off clothes and then that's like when i went down on her and i believe that that was her first time ever being with a girl she and then she went down on me and then from there we started to scissor now mind you I think scissoring
Starting point is 00:16:08 is so fucking hot right and we're scissoring and just having an amazing time and then I get my strap on on and you brought it with you fuck yeah I did oh my god you came with a little baggie yeah I did because I'm like
Starting point is 00:16:26 you're gonna be with a girl and like you know I don't have the tools to, you know, like, I don't have a dick, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I wanted to make sure that she got off. And so I started to fuck her with my strap on. And, well, then I must have been going too hard because, like, I am a hardcore person. It's the harder, the better. Yeah, I could tell.
Starting point is 00:16:48 And yes. And she couldn't handle it. So she's like, told me I had to slow down. Well, then her husband came into the bedroom. and he started to watch. But then it's when he started to join is when her, I believe her name was Nancy. Nancy is like when he started to fuck me,
Starting point is 00:17:09 Nancy got out of the bedroom. And she couldn't handle it. And so her husband went and talked to her. And she ends up coming back in there. And we continue on what we're doing. Yeah. And so that was that was my experience with her. I stayed the night with her and cuddle her all night.
Starting point is 00:17:29 But in like when we were sleeping, my boyfriend had called me and said, what are you doing? I said, hey, well, I'm, I'm with this girl. And he got pissed. And, you know, was like that you're cheating on me. I'm like, but you're talking to other people. And at that time, he was still, he's trying to get with guys. And so I'm like, this is such double standard. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:17:56 You can do that down in Atlanta, but I can't do it when you're gone. Yeah. So, yeah. So, so that was that time. And, you know, Josh was. What did you say? Like, I mean, did you say, okay, I won't fuck anybody else until you get back? I mean, how did that conversation end?
Starting point is 00:18:17 I said, yeah, I was like, fine. I won't do it, but you better not be doing it either. I don't understand. So he was fine with this. then but then you know what the shit part was is when he was gone he was still watching the craigslist ads for up up where we live and saw that this guy just wanted to eat pussy and he would he would pay for it and josh wasn't around so he brought it to my attention and it's like hey would you want to get paid to just get your pussy i'm like oh man i don't know you know we kind of live in a
Starting point is 00:18:52 creepy old house and having some creepy-ass guy and you're not around. And I'm like, well, how much is he going to pay? And I think it was like $100. And all I had to do was just lay there. And he was just going to eat me out. I'm like, and he's like, I'm going to have you on the laptop. And I'm going to watch you guys the whole time.
Starting point is 00:19:11 Oh, okay. Yeah. So the guy came over and I had Josh on the laptop and he's watching. And this guy just sitting there eating me out and eating me out. And he wasn't even really good at it. So I don't know. Maybe that's why he was paying. It was like practice.
Starting point is 00:19:29 Yes. Yes. So, yeah, he wasn't very good at it. And as I'm sitting there getting eight out and then Josh is just making a bag of flipping popcorn. And so I'm listening to popcorn, you know, being made. No fucking way. Yeah. So he's popping popcorn as I'm laying there getting eight out.
Starting point is 00:19:49 I'm like, you are so distracting me right now. So, yeah. So that was a. a pretty awkward time. But what he paid? Wait, I just need to know. First of all, did you get your hundred bucks? I,
Starting point is 00:20:03 no, I kept that money. Yeah, he paid you though. The guy paid. He can't shut up the cash. Yes, yes. Yes, he paid me. And he just ate me out.
Starting point is 00:20:13 You know, I'm like, that was weird. That is probably not one of my finer moments of times. Because I'm like, it was just really a weird, a weird thing overall. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:23 I get it. Yeah. And now, did you know, like, You and Josh talk about it. Like did Josh, I mean, he's sitting there making popcorn. So I just, I'm confused.
Starting point is 00:20:31 Like, was he turned on by watching you? What did he dig it? Like, what did he say after? No, he's like, well, maybe you should keep doing that and have that as a side job. I'm like, I'm not. Yeah. I'm not into that. I have, I have a job.
Starting point is 00:20:47 So, uh, yeah. Um, so that was that time. Mm-hmm. But then here Josh is again. He comes back. home and he sees this girl and she was close to me from my from my work she was only 10 minutes had posted she wanted to be with the girl and so I'm like well okay you know I was like I'm up for meeting you know she's right she's essentially right down the road from work so we uh go ahead and
Starting point is 00:21:18 we meet and me and me and her talk and I go to her house and Josh is with me and I meet her husband and she takes me to her bedroom and shows me her stash of vibrators and dildos and she's like, you know, we can use all this. And I said, well, this is just amazing. Like, I love it. So we go ahead and start to mess around. And she's a squirt or two. So I got my first girl to squirt. But hers wasn't as projectile as I would have liked it.
Starting point is 00:21:52 Yeah. And so, you know, I eat her out. She eats me out. And we decide to continue this relationship. And she gets me into, she's like, well, hey, you want to do camming with me. And I'm like, oh, I don't, I don't know, you know, like people can see you. She's like, no, no, no, I can block it from people in our state. Oh, wait.
Starting point is 00:22:21 So you mean camming? not camming between you and her. You mean camming for people like on chatterbate or something. Yes. Oh, okay. Oh, yes. So I can't even remember what, what point, you know, what site we were doing. And we started to do that.
Starting point is 00:22:39 And, you know, we were having fun, you know. We were getting, you know, getting the bell to ring and we would kiss and make out and stuff like that. And so with her, that was some fun times. and she did a photo shoot for me to use on my page. What page? What page is that page? Like for my page for what I wanted to do online camming when she wasn't around. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:23:04 So you started your own thing too. Yes, because here Josh N is again saying, hey, you can do this. Oh, yeah. You just keep blaming everything on Josh. Okay, please. No, that is legit. Like, I'm telling you, Josh was such a. That horny girl in high school that was so sexed up.
Starting point is 00:23:23 These were all your fantasies living out. I know. And so, you know, like I said, Josh is telling me to do this shit. And so I start doing it. And, you know, me and her, you know, making, you know, make an easy, you know, easy money to please myself. And, well, I'm pretty manly. How I was getting paid just to even burp. Like, I'm like, this is awesome.
Starting point is 00:23:46 And so. So, yeah. So, you know, but, you know, time. always catches up with you and you know trying to get me and her together all the time wasn't as much as i would have liked it to be well you know that lady or that girl she she became a teacher i'm like oh girl you better keep your nose clean and sure shit she got caught having sex with a student so with her getting caught having sex with a student well that brought attention to her and well people found me and her video. And so, yeah. So I'm like, oh, girl, I had to tell my mom because I'm like,
Starting point is 00:24:25 oh, yes, I'm like, mom, I don't want to have to tell you this, but there's a video. I need to, because I need this fucking false story, okay, because you have so much to talk about and so fucking good. But wait a second. Was it, okay, first of all I need to know, was the student, a woman, a girl or a guy student? The student was a guy. And he was actually, He was actually, which kind of is some shit, is that he was a foreign exchange student. So he was like over 18. And she got, I think she got three years in jail for it. Wow.
Starting point is 00:25:00 Was it in the news? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. You type in her name. You're going to see her come up. But I'm thankful when you type her name in, you don't see me. Right. But like I was seeing the picture of her, like teacher gets caught having sex with student.
Starting point is 00:25:16 Yeah. On like, on like dude comedy, like a like a big website, you know, people follow. And I saw me, I saw me in the background. I said, oh my God, you need to take that down. Like, you know, I've got kids and I was like, I don't want my kids to see. Yeah. You know, see it. And she told me, she's like, when we made that video, she's like, nobody's going to see it.
Starting point is 00:25:34 We're fine. And then that happened. And the video got out. So even people at my home, like from where I graduated from, they've seen the video. I don't understand how people found it. Oh, wow. So that teacher gets out there and then there's a sex tape between, is it just you and her together?
Starting point is 00:25:56 Yes. And that gets leaked. And you had to tell your fucking mother because now you know everyone's going to, it's just going to go around town. Yes, yes, because people are saying, random people are commenting to me like, hey, I just want you to know there's a sex tape about you. Hey, you know, I had like my ex-boyfriend's daughter, hey, there's a sex tape about you. Oh my.
Starting point is 00:26:17 Dang it. So I'm like, oh, no. This wasn't supposed to happen. And yeah, so I dreaded having to tell my mom. I was like, hey, you know, and I'm sure my family have seen it because I know people, friends have said something. And, you know, I'm like, oh. So, yeah, so I'm like, damn you, Josh, look what happened. You got, you know, you introduced me to this girl.
Starting point is 00:26:43 And now this damn sex tape of me is going around. You know Yes That's super interesting I mean this is why I love to get on the phone When people you just just when I think I've heard it all With her I've had I've definitely have my fun with her
Starting point is 00:27:01 You know I did have fun with her It just sucks what happened to her And you know her you know So anyways I mean we're not there to talk about What all happened to her But we definitely did have some great sex Scissoring she had a pole in her bedroom What do you mean like a stripper pole?
Starting point is 00:27:19 Yes, a stripper pole. And we, you know, we would be using that. She would have me tied up and using like the back massager vibrator thing. She had like that where it could go on like turbo. And that was always a guaranteed squirt for me. Right. That it was, yes, it was, it was amazing. Just having just having great times with her.
Starting point is 00:27:42 Yeah, like crazy times. She was obviously sex stuff too. I mean, the fucking her student. Oh, my God. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She was definitely as horny as me all the time, but I think she's had to calm down now.
Starting point is 00:27:57 She went to jail. Like, she was really in jail for all those years? She went to three years? Yeah. She was. Yeah. And when she got out, she apologized. She's like, I am so sorry that that, you know, that tape got out.
Starting point is 00:28:12 And I'm like, you know, you know, people. I can say whatever. Yeah. People can say whatever, but, you know, it's whatever. I just, my thing is I just hope my boys never see it. That's the only concern. So I'm like, even like till this day, people are still like my random ass friends are like, I didn't know you were into doing porn and found it on some crazy ass website. I've never even heard of. And so I'm like, messaging them. I'm like, can you please take that down? Like, you did not have my consent to have that video. Yeah, yeah. So, so yeah. So, yeah. So that was. the time with Jess. So I'm trying to think of any other. Well, no, no, no. This is all good stuff. We can go.
Starting point is 00:28:54 So wait. So Josh, you know, he knew you were hooky, like, you know, that he was involved in that whole thing. But he wasn't on the tape. Like on the tape, was it just you and her? Didn't she have a husband to this teacher girl? Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:08 Our significant others never joined. Oh, okay. So it was always just you guys together. Yeah. Yep. It was just always just me and her. I would dress up in jerseys, do Halloween stuff together. Like I said, we had fun.
Starting point is 00:29:20 I was in my, I was in my mid-20s, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Felt good at the time. And yeah, I got my, I got my side pierce. You know, I had dermals on the side. I just felt sexy as, you know, sexy as fuck. Right. Especially being with a girl.
Starting point is 00:29:35 I mean, you know, we were girlfriends and we went and did stuff together. And then we just kind of, it just kind of died off between me and her. But I knew she was still still. camming though oh she did she stayed camming well i guess not in jail no not in jail but this was before she did it like she stayed cammy but then when she got caught she deleted because she had the information to my account she deleted my account her account and she was doing camming with her sister-in-law too i'm like that's mind-blowing yeah i'm like that's mind-blowing how do you go about saying hey can i go down on you and make money off of it like how does that get caught you know brought up with your in-law
Starting point is 00:30:15 Yeah, like over Thanksgiving dinner? Like how the fuck did that happen? Did you ever ask her? No, no, I didn't. I'm like, I think it's just that she was talking about the kind of money she was making. And so that interested her. The sister-in-law. The sister-in-law, yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:33 She might have had improper boundary, like boundary issues, you know, and because it's like, oh, and then she wound up, you know, here she's fucking. But, I mean, did the hot, did her brother know? Do you know? I would assume so. I don't know. That's a little incestuous. You know what I mean? Sharing your wife with your sister.
Starting point is 00:30:52 I don't know. You know, and then she's like fucking her. Yeah, yeah. That's her thing. I like keeping it like clean. Yeah, yeah. I hear you.
Starting point is 00:31:01 Like clean. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Everything on your end was done on the up and the up. I mean, it was something consensual, but like with her, because she, I don't know,
Starting point is 00:31:11 something might have been going on over there. Do you continue to Cam after she, you know, goes into the... I do continue to Cam, but these guys nowadays, they're real slick. Like, they're telling you, oh, I'm going to get you this if you do this for me. And, well, after I got scammed so many times, you know, and I wasn't real familiar with Cammy. But after I got scammed so many times, I was like, well, I don't want to do this anymore. I'm not, you know, I'm not getting paid, you know, and I'm doing this stuff. and you're making me do like anal and I'm not real particular fond of that.
Starting point is 00:31:46 So, so yeah, so I kind of died off on the camping thing. But, you know, me and Josh kept seeing each other. But, you know, things started to get rocky for me and Josh, like I said, Josh, he just didn't know how to stay off of Craigslist. And here he was going out to another state. And I'm like, okay, he's out there. I'm going to bait him because he doesn't want me to do stuff. So why should he get to do stuff?
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Starting point is 00:33:56 I did that post. That motherfucker responded within an hour. I was like, and he started talking to me. And I went into the bathroom. I took a picture of me flipping. him off saying we're fucking done and he called me back i wasn't going to do anything anyways i'm like bullshit you know i'm not stupid yeah and then um he had left his phone he had broke his phone and left it in my car so i went into his emails girl you should have seen the pages of ads that he
Starting point is 00:34:29 had responded to between couples and girls girls and guys and i'm like reading the stuff i had to ask my brother-in-law, I'm like, because Josh tried to say it was spam. So I asked my brother-in-law, who's a tech suave guy. And I said, hey, is this spam? He's like, no, looking at that. Like, that person is legit having a conversation with somebody. Girl, the stuff I read in there, I am not going to say because I don't want to get anybody in trouble. Oh, he was doing some sick shit. He was into some, yeah, besides all the regular stuff. That's why he was keeping it all in the deal. Yes. So I'm like, you know, I really, I really loved him.
Starting point is 00:35:09 I loved like the craziness we had together. Yeah. And so I stayed with him even though I caught him again saying he wasn't going to do it. Well then some fucking weird shit happened. And Josh became like a fucking like demon like I don't understand like even his mom was like what is wrong with you? And we were at his parents' house. And that is when he confessed other stuff with an animal. And I'm like, because he's like, oh, I did stuff with an animal.
Starting point is 00:35:35 And I kind of looked down like, well, what the fuck was that? you know and then then that's when he admitted to sleeping with a guy and i'm like you actually did it i didn't think you did and then when you know josh finally got better after that and i talked to him i was like so i got a couple questions about what you said you know in front of your mom but whatever so then uh then we talked about um the the time when he fucked a guy and he's like yeah he just came over to the house and and I and he told me I sucked his dick the best that anybody's ever sucked his dick before and I'm like I don't know how I feel about about you sucking another guy's dick I's like that is I don't know I guess for me girl on girl shit is hot guy on guy stuff I'm a little you know that's just maybe you know not my not my cup of tea so so yeah so I kept giving you know Josh you know you know I'm like just just trying to do my best to stay with him and then he start talking to another couple and they were in the same town as us and then we go to we meet up with them we go to their house
Starting point is 00:36:51 and well i didn't read my text message on what they said like they didn't want to fuck on the first night of hooking up and we go up to their bedroom and we're screwing around well then here i inserted her husband's dick into me and you know we're fucking and we didn't finished. Nobody finished out of that. It was a very unique experience. Like we didn't finish and she's like, yeah, well, we did text you guys that we didn't want to have sex on the first time. I'm like, you did? And I look,
Starting point is 00:37:16 I'm like, oh shit, you did. You did. My bad girl. So, yeah. So, so that was our crazy experience with that. So they never invited you back? No.
Starting point is 00:37:35 But, you. You know, you know, I guess I better watch how I word that. Because I did, after me and Josh broke up, I did talk to him. And he's like, they did invite him back to fuck her. Like I said, when you got a big dick like that, like, yeah, yeah, I would like to go back for that dick. Yeah, yeah. So, so, so, yeah. So he stayed into that.
Starting point is 00:37:57 Gosh, then Josh, here he is again on Craigslist, finds this girl looking for a girl. So we end up meeting up at a restaurant. And I, you know, I was telling her my fantasies and stuff like that and told her that I want, you know, I was like, I've always wanted to just have some girl come up in the bathroom and just start going to town on me. So when we met up to eat, she didn't know like, just like, I didn't know if I was supposed to go in there or not. And we ended up talking with her. We take her back to our house and end up having a threesome with her. And she was an older lady. That was a very fun experience.
Starting point is 00:38:30 I thoroughly enjoyed that. And, you know, Josh fucked her as I played with myself. if it was like I said Josh he definitely opened my eyes how old was she I know you were in your 20s at that time how old was she she was probably about 45 so so yeah so we definitely you know had a nice time with her and that was just like a one and one and done thing with her yeah but with Josh gosh I am like all over the map like I was like trying to tell myself like make sure you bring this up and talk about this But there was one time when me and Josh went on vacation. And like I said, I wasn't real big on anal.
Starting point is 00:39:08 And with his big, with his big ass cock, like I would be terrified for my ass. Yeah, yeah. And he, we were fucking one time. And he started to fuck me in my ass. I mean, he went real slow. And then, like, I got, I got used to it. And he fucked me. Girl, that was like the best squirt.
Starting point is 00:39:28 Like, that is a porn star, porn star squirt. like hard stream like very projectile going like 10 feet in the air and it was just amazing I don't know why after that I never did ass again but I'm like that was an amazing amazing lay when we were there yeah and that was like normally you didn't think you would be able to take it but because you just relax into it it was cut it was good yes yes and so I mean, it's sad that Josh, he just, he just wouldn't stop. You know, we had been together for about two years and he just kept, like, messaging people and all these guys about, oh, I got to do this and I'll meet up with you afterwards. And I was like, Josh, you need to stop.
Starting point is 00:40:19 And he's like, oh, you're never going to leave me anyways. It's that. I was like, I'm done. Like, I caught eight, eight, I caught him eight different times. That's what, that's why he didn't think he. you were ever going to leave him. And that's how women are. I understand that a lot of,
Starting point is 00:40:35 I've been there, done that too, where, like, you just put up with so much, but there is, like, eventually a breaking point for everybody. But, you know,
Starting point is 00:40:42 of course you, you know, he was, you were like the boy who cried wolf. You never really fucking left him. I know. And I was like, you know,
Starting point is 00:40:51 I'm like, weird things. Weird things do turn me on. I am not going to deny that. Hell, I just did a snap lap, barely turned on when you're getting a massage.
Starting point is 00:40:59 Like, I would just love for whoever a woman is going to be massage just to continue rubbing everything. Right, right, right, happy ending. Yes, I can definitely go for that, yeah. So, so you're at the point where you say to him, like,
Starting point is 00:41:14 I'm not, you've got to fucking stop, you know, he's like, you're not going to leave me. Yeah, and he's like, you're not going to leave me. And he's like, I deleted it. I don't have that email account anymore. Well, within the next week, his phone was sitting there and I find it. And I was like, here's your fucking phone.
Starting point is 00:41:30 I see what you're still doing. It was then that weekend. I told my family some of the stuff, like my mom and my sister, and we went in there and packed my shit up and was gone within the weekend. Oh, because you were living with him. Yeah, I was living with him and my son.
Starting point is 00:41:45 And, you know, so I'm like, I cannot have this shit. Like, because he, when we were together, he's all about, like, money and was having drug people come live with us because he had extra bedrooms. Like, it was just not a good, like, I'm like, I've got to watch out for my kid. Yeah. You know, I've had a lot of fun with you.
Starting point is 00:41:59 But I think, you know, I'm like, I, it's time for me to like settle down. Mm-hmm. And so even he had like gay people come live with us and I'm like, are you, are you going to fuck them when I'm gone or? Yeah, he was for sure. You know, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:13 I'm like, I just, yes, yes. So, so Josh definitely gave me a hell of an experience. And, you know, I had a lot of good times with, with different couples. Like we went and did hotel takeovers and we. And he ended up working and he was like a tired dud. And so that was very boring for him to go to that. Yeah. Hotel takeovers.
Starting point is 00:42:37 If you ever get to do one of those, those are kind of fun too. Yeah. No, I haven't done any of these kind of things, but it's so fascinating to me. Wait, hotel takeover is like a big swingers event, right? That's what that is. Yes. Yes. Yes.
Starting point is 00:42:48 And so, so yeah, I think that's about. How was the hotel takeover? I mean, did he ever wind up ever having a good experience at those? I mean, could he get it up at that one? Like I said, he was really tired He didn't you know We went and did stuff for a little bit And he went to bed then
Starting point is 00:43:04 And I walked I was I was walking around Topplish You know trying to find something And it was you know It wasn't At the end By the end of the night Everybody had found who they wanted to play with
Starting point is 00:43:16 And And I was like You know I'm not real attracted to anybody else That's left here So So left it at that And right And now is this when you eventually leave him
Starting point is 00:43:27 yes yeah yeah I I leave him and I was like you know done you know I go move home and but like said I can't I couldn't stay away from the dick like we break up I end up buying a house and then we start messaging I mean and he did make it to my house a couple times and he fucked me but he had such and I'm like you know he had such a what you broke up I know I'm going to get him better he had such bad breath while we were fucking. I'm like, dude, that stinks. Like, I can't, I can't do this. I totally understand. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:03 Yeah. So he you know, and he's like, oh, I'll just keep coming down here, but he was a very controlling person. It was his way or absolutely no way. Yeah. So I was like, no, you know, I can't do this anymore. So then
Starting point is 00:44:19 after I break up with him for good, I end up dating this guy. from one of my stops. And that guy, his penis was so small. I don't even know, like, the whole time we were together if we actually ever got it inserted. Like, we tried.
Starting point is 00:44:38 He couldn't get a boner. Wasn't circumcised. Right, right, right, right. What the fuck is that? Yeah, go on. Yeah. So, yeah. But I didn't, like,
Starting point is 00:44:48 so, I mean, it's hard. It's hard after you've been with, like, a Josh cock to, like, you know, have something. satisfy you after, you know, when you've been so filled up with your regular guy, you know? Yeah, yeah. I like, I really, I have not come across anybody like the size of Josh. Yeah. Ever.
Starting point is 00:45:12 No, like even like my husband, like we had a, we had some rocky stuff happened last year. And I, and I fucked up and I, and I cheated on him. And that guy's penis was even smaller than my husband's. I said, oh, I guess I'm going to keep on with my husband. Did your husband find out that you cheated? Yes, I did tell him, and I told, you know, I kind of expressed to him that, like, that, hey, I'm sorry, I read a text message. I'm sorry. It's work.
Starting point is 00:45:41 What was I saying? Oh, when I, when he caught me cheating on him, you know, I admitted to it, you know, but like, as we were going through our Rockies, I'm like, well, your penis isn't, isn't big enough. And, you know, my husband is older than me. you know, by a decade. So I'm like, after I told him that and we kind of tweaked some stuff, like sex is good. He's only got about one good position that his dick can hit good.
Starting point is 00:46:08 But after that, it's, you know, I don't get the fulfillment that I ever had with Joshua. My husband goes away for work. It's definitely porn. The bag of toys come out. And I'm fucking making my, yes.
Starting point is 00:46:23 And my husband's always like, don't you ever want to have sex anymore? I'm like, gee, like we just had sex the other night and we went at it for maybe two minutes and he's hunched over the bed. I can't breathe. I'm like, oh, my God. Wait, does he know about your past, all these fucking stories you just told me? He must because you seem pretty straight up.
Starting point is 00:46:45 Well, he does not know all of them. He knows a lot of them and he knows I've definitely had my fair share. I also say that's what made me who I am today It's all my past experiences Yeah Oh yes But he knows you've been with women He knows you've been with couples
Starting point is 00:47:03 Does he know you've been to swingers clubs Yep Does he know all that shit? Yes he does Because I like like I said When we hit that rough patch last year And I was trying to talk him into Hey you want to
Starting point is 00:47:14 You want to maybe go try this I'm not going to do that I'm not going to watch some other guy fuck you But he's always been into wanting another girl in the bedroom. So why haven't you guys done that? Okay, because his ex-wife cheated on him with a girl in their bedroom. And so he doesn't think that I should be able to do that.
Starting point is 00:47:39 He has to be there the whole time. And so I can't even like, he watches my phone. So like, oh, why did you get on that website? Why did you do that? He's distrustful because of what happened to him. Yes, yes. Well, I'm like sitting there deep down. I'm like, well, deep down, I'm really like to try to find us a girl to bring to the bedroom.
Starting point is 00:47:59 Because I really can go for some pussy right now, but you're not, you're watching me too close to even be able to present it to you. Right. So, yeah, like he watches my browser history and my phone records like a hawk. Well, does he do that also since you cheated on him during that rough patch? I mean, that doesn't help the situation. Yeah, I know. I know. Have you cheated on him since?
Starting point is 00:48:26 No, oh, no. Oh, no. Nope. Just strip. And, you know, like said, I just, when he's not around and I want to take care of stuff, like, even like sometimes, like, when he is home. And I'm like, oh, I'm going to take a shower in quotations and grab a toy real quick. I'm like, I can get it done in two minutes.
Starting point is 00:48:43 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Versus the mess and the turning on stuff that we need to do. So. Wow. How long have you been married? for? Just about two and a half years. Right. You got to keep working.
Starting point is 00:48:57 I think you know what would really help because, you know, 10 years from now are you still going to be satisfied with just this? That I think that maybe with your guy, you know, you should keep trying to figure out a way that you could bring a girl into the situation that would make him feel comfortable. And even if it is that he has to bust up your phone and look, I don't know, like, you know, give him a little leeway and just, you know, you know, because then I think once he, gets down with it if he likes it and you know you could build trust that way but i totally understand why he's giving you that crap he's distrustfully at an ex-wife that cheated on him you cheated on him
Starting point is 00:49:32 you know so he's a little paranoid but if you give him reassurance all along the way let him check your phone and just keep moving forward and find a girl to bring home like maybe that could be super fun and helpful yeah i know i i totally wish that he would he would be up for that but i just don't know how to go about that. Like, it's crazy. Like, we've only, like, I always told myself, I'm never going to be that person that doesn't want to have sex in a marriage. Like, I'm always going to want it. Yeah. But I became, I became that person. And I'm like, I'd rather just flick the fucking bean and be done with you. But, you know, even in like, we don't know, he doesn't like do anything. You know what he does to. He's like, oh, don't, don't, don't touch me with your cold feet, you know, and that's what he thinks should lead up to sex. And I'm like, come on. Put your fucking hands on me, a little bitch. Like, let's. Let's get this going. And I like, he was on his tablet and in bed the other night. I'm like rubbing my, his dick with my foot. And I'm like, you know, and he's like, what are he doing?
Starting point is 00:50:28 I'm like, oh, my God. Don't worry about it. I'm just going to roll over and go to bed. Like, I'm trying. And you always wonder why, like, why don't you want me anymore? And that's, you know, I try. And he just. Yeah, this isn't going to be good five years down the line.
Starting point is 00:50:42 This needs to be tended to a little bit because you're a very highly sexual person. Some, I'm sure your husband's into sex too, but like, you don't know. his like sex language, I think, you know, I just think there's like a little disconnect that needs to be figured out. And but I do think this window of opportunity that you have where he is, you know, down for you to bring in another girl and you're so into girls that I really think you need to figure out how to make that fucking happen for your marriage. Yeah, I don't think, yeah, well, I don't think he realizes like when I listen to your podcast, like I'm listening to his other stories and I'm like getting turned on. I'm like, God, I just wish,
Starting point is 00:51:20 said he would just explore it like not even saying we have to do anything yeah it would just give us like the excitement that that that we could use like and like just even go watch oh my gosh how did i forget to tell you this story when we were at when we were me and josh were at the swingers club and i saw i saw this couple there mind you this is an hour away in a bigger city and i'm like i see this guy there said oh my god i know that person and i was like please don't know who I am well he end up taking his wife into one of the bedrooms and was eating her out and she is my aunt's sister oh my god and he's eating her out so she's your aunt too I mean isn't your ancestor no no no no she she's on the other side oh okay so okay so he's eating
Starting point is 00:52:12 her out and he looks at me and makes direct eye contact with me as he's looking her pussy and I'm like oh my god please don't and in my line of work I see that individual it is so hard not all the time but every once a while I'm like oh my god oh my god I am please don't know who I am please don't know how I am so you know what's funny is that when we were we were bowling and I was telling my mom about or I was like my mom you know kind of hearing some crazy stories nowadays you know it's been it's been about 10 years and I tell her about that individual and what happened she's like oh I saw him and she's like, I just smiled real big and I'm like, I know. Oh my God, hilarious.
Starting point is 00:52:54 I cannot see and seen him because I'm so embarrassed myself. Like, and I'm like, please don't recognize me because he's in like the same industry as me. So funny. Shit like that can happen. But wait, so let's just get back to you. We only have like five minutes and I just want to talk about like you're like why him just like looking at your phone and stuff like bothers you or stops you in your truck. you're trying to hit up girls. Like, why can't you just continue?
Starting point is 00:53:20 Like, why, like, who cares if you checks your phone? You're not doing anything wrong. I just, well, I feel like my phone is my privacy. I don't go through. Oh, stop. Listen, okay, listen, you just told me the fucking truth, okay? And I do remember, all right? And everybody else that's listening remembers how many times you went through Josh's
Starting point is 00:53:37 fucking phone, okay? You find everything from him. So you obviously, I mean, come on, are you hypocritical? Like, everybody else's shit is your business. Josh's phone was your. business a thousand times. Just be... I get that.
Starting point is 00:53:51 But when something in my sleep, when I was with Josh, I was sleeping in a dead sleep and something, he's like, told me, get up and look at his phone and I, it's something under my sleep is telling me, get up and look at somebody's phone. So I got up and looking at his phone and saw just the how many messages. So...
Starting point is 00:54:06 I know, but you look at his phone a million times, you told me. So I just don't understand why Josh's... I don't understand why you have this, you know, sort of feeling of distrust, which I understand why you had that during your time with Josh and he was being super unfaithful to you. So you were always looking and you looked a million times. And like you actually cheated on your husband and told him and now he doesn't trust you.
Starting point is 00:54:29 And he has a past of, you know, his other wife cheated on him. So, you know, why do you fucking care if he looks at your phone? You'd give him a little leeway. I don't know because he can check everything else. Like for Josh, I didn't check his phone records. But my husband checks all my stuff. I have absolutely zero privacy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:47 You know what I'm saying? And so my phone is just a little bit, no, I'm not doing anything wrong, but I don't go through your phone. You don't go through mine. You know? But, okay, but, okay, so why, though, does that stop you in the tracks of finding a woman? Like you say, like, I've tried to get women, but then he's looking through my shit. So I just can't even get to the place where we meet somebody. I don't understand why you can't get to that place where you wrangle a woman and bring her home.
Starting point is 00:55:13 Well, I try, but like I said, he catches it so. damn fast. But isn't he into it? That's what I don't understand. He's not into it. I don't know. Like I said, I'm scared to talk to him about it because I don't want him to be like, oh what, now you want to cheat on me again? Oh, okay. So wait, wait, wait, wait. So I'm confused. So this bringing a third person in isn't something that he's in on. No, no. He would. He said he's always wanted to have a threesome with another girl. Okay. But I just feel like if I'm talking to another girl in that way, he would feel like that is. Okay, but why have you not asked him, like, listen, or when he busted up your phone and look, like,
Starting point is 00:55:50 because you've been, like, sort of down that rabbit hole with girls, why don't you say, look, I'm talking to this girl. Is it cool if I hit her up and bring her home? I don't know, because I, I'm a pussy when it comes to him, and I don't want to see the disappointment look on his face. Oh, you got to just fucking try it. Come on. I know, I know.
Starting point is 00:56:08 In every way, shape, and form, just to do it. I know. I know. And he, like, the other night, like, said when we had sex, And he's like, you know, after that, uh, not so good performance. And he's like, relaying to bed. He's like, well, what do you think about? And I'm like, how tired I am.
Starting point is 00:56:21 But I didn't want to tell him like how I was like, gosh, I really wish we could spruce something up, add something to the bedroom. Like, I have always wanted to. You can. You can. We've been together about seven years. Mm-hmm. So I would definitely, definitely like to mix it up.
Starting point is 00:56:38 Like it would even just be hot, just even do it. And then just have that to think about. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, of course. It could give you horny, like a great hot sort of memory between each other that you guys, you know, shared and it could only add to your sex life for like six months. It could take a, you know, and you need that, I think. And, you know, the fact that he gave you, like I said, there's this little window of opportunity.
Starting point is 00:57:00 He put it on the table, like, that's what he always wanted. Yeah, he has this pass where someone cheated on him. So I think that he would maybe feel more safe going into something like that if he had like full transparency and the fact that you hold your phone like so close to you. I think probably for a person that's like distrustful and has issues, that's probably like a real thorn in his side. And if you just let him fucking look at your phone a couple times, he probably will get over it. But I think it probably makes someone like him want to look even more that you're like, uh-uh, this is off-limit. He totally reads into everything.
Starting point is 00:57:32 I mean, everything. Yeah, he's distrustful. Yes. I mean, so I am like, that's why like, you know, I fucked up. I haven't done anything since then. I'm being good. But I mean, I don't know. Yeah, I think, give them all access.
Starting point is 00:57:45 I think, listen, look at it like this. Okay, look at it. I know you're keeping your thing to like this weird point you have with your phone being your thing and your private even though like you put up fake ads and snagged your guy and manipulated him into like emailing you. And then you're like, fuck you. I mean, you've been very distrustful yourself and been in that headspace. I feel like if you look at it like, listen, okay, I'm going to give up this thing that's super
Starting point is 00:58:11 important for me to have this other thing that's even more important. And I think more, you know, it's not just important and would add to your sex life. I think it's important to your marriage. And to me, it's way so much more than the thing that you're holding, which is your privacy with your phone. So I say, give that up for the other thing that you could get. Like build that trust back with your guy so you could do all these fun things with him. And the way to build up that trust is, you know, to have full transparency. I think because, you know, it's probably only going to make those little things
Starting point is 00:58:46 that he reads into worse. Just give him full transparency. Just give him your fucking phone. And then get some threesome action with him and then bring up those things and get him to trust you. A little, you know, reassurance to somebody that isn't trustworthy or like it's,
Starting point is 00:59:01 or has trust issues goes a very long way. You're not like Josh, okay? You're not fucking cheating. Like Josh, no matter how much you, look, you were never going to build trust with Josh no matter how much you looked because every time you looked, you found something wrong. Okay, so you were never going to trust Josh. But your husband will eventually trust you if you gave him 100% full transparency because you're not cheating on him. He's never going to find anything, you know, and then get him in on the girl on girl action and, you know,
Starting point is 00:59:32 start having those conversations. But I think you have to let go of that stupid thing that you're holding on to your phone. Seriously. Give it to him. It's your husband. Don't you want him to feel secure? Don't you remember how it feels to be totally like a distrustful, crazy person? I've been in that position. It's awful. And, you know, the reason why he's so distrustful of you, it's not all from you. It's from that past relationship. It's his baggage. You could actually help him, you know, by giving him that true, to work through that, you know, but by you. like sort of locking that part down. I don't think it helps.
Starting point is 01:00:11 I'm just not, it's not helping. I know. Okay. Yeah. Your fucking stories were out of control great. I really, like seriously.
Starting point is 01:00:22 I was nervous about it because like I've listened to other people's and like, are mine as good as what theirs are. Fucking great. Yeah. I love it. I love everything about it. I love you. I know.
Starting point is 01:00:31 I can't wait to read the comment. Yeah, the comments are crazy. The comments are going to be good. No, this is just as good. if not like one of the best. Trust me.
Starting point is 01:00:40 Your stories are fucking good. I even love, like I said, the ending because, you know, people, it's like interesting to me that you as the person that you are, like then now has this little thing with your husband. And, you know, it just, it's all very real life and I really love it. And I want to hear back from you. I want to see if like six months from now you, if you could do what I told you to do and just rebuild that trust and just really like give him that full transparency and bring up the girl, girl thing and make it fucking happen with them.
Starting point is 01:01:09 If anyone can, it's you. And I really think it would be, I think it's important in your relationship because you're a very sexed up girl, you know, and I don't know that 10 years from now that bag of tricks in your closet is just going to cut it, you know, and you might then wind up cheating again and then this poor guy gets even more baggage. So I don't know, try to like, you know, work on that, especially because he's open for a girl, girl experience and you love that, I think that could be really good for you guys. But it has to be done where he feels like he trusts you more.
Starting point is 01:01:47 So do that if you can and then keep me posted and you'll fucking come back on. I know. I hope that he would. And like I said, I just think he's a little sprucing up in the bedroom. And like, I mean, he has been too because he's kind of, he kind of was a vanilla. And, you know, I've got him to, you know, he used to fuck real light. And I'm like, no, no, fuck me hard. Legs over the shoulder.
Starting point is 01:02:08 He's got, he's gotten whips. He's got bondage now. You know, he ties me up and he'll whip me. And I got my nipples pierce. So when he whips them, those are super tender, but I thoroughly enjoy it. And like, the harder, the better. And I know he's very much, he's trying. But like I said, we have a pretty good age difference between us.
Starting point is 01:02:27 And I, I can go hard and I can go long. How old is he? He's going to be 47. Yeah, they slow down a little bit. Guys that I knew, you know, I grew up. And so I know what guys are like at 37, then I'm still friends with them when they're 47, and then I'm still friends with them.
Starting point is 01:02:45 They're 55, you know. And that guy that even the biggest of players at, you know, 30, when they start to hit around 50, they're like, they can still fuck really good. They can still have babies, you know. Everything's all fine. But most of the time, it's not like they're going to fuck you three times in a night, like a 25-year-old would.
Starting point is 01:03:06 I mean, it's not going to happen. Those kinds of things changes. That's why I believe, like, I'm just telling you this, and then we're going to wrap it up, is like, that's why I believe it's really important for your relationship to maybe have it be a little open where you have other girls, because I think that that could really help and take off that pressure from your guy that he's not the only person giving you everything that you want because you still have all these needs and they're not being met, totally, you know?
Starting point is 01:03:33 so work on that and now listen can you send me anonymous picks for my Patreon okay you just want me send it to you on the Instagram thing yeah or my email whichever you whichever you want okay all right cool so send me that and I'm gonna I think I might air this this Sunday but people are gonna love it it was great
Starting point is 01:03:50 you were fucking great trust me okay I know okay it was like awesome okay I know I listen to this one person this one story and you're like no no no let's not get to let's get to the good stuff and I'm like I don't want her to be yelling not me? I don't want to yell. I mean, listen, I need to get someone's a whole story in an hour. And a lot of times what people don't understand that are listening is that a lot of times with you, I hadn't,
Starting point is 01:04:17 I had no idea what we're talking about. But a lot of times people have sent me bullets or like three paragraph emails with all the stuff. So I know what I want to get to and all the stuff that this person needs to bring in. And they're harping on details for 20 minutes and I have an hour. You know, so sometimes I'm rushing it ahead because I'm. know what I have to fill in. So that's what's going on. I didn't even get into all the details. Like I was like,
Starting point is 01:04:38 send you're thinking, I'm like, God, I forgot to tell her about that time when I tried to talk about that person. Right. Well, that's why you need,
Starting point is 01:04:43 this is Kate. This is why you need to fucking do your homework, Kate, okay? Do it for me. Do it for the show. Do it for your marriage. Okay, do what I told you. Let go of that thing that you're holding on,
Starting point is 01:04:54 your fucking privacy. Open up. People are going to comment and say I'm wrong. I don't care, but I'm right. And do that. And then set up your first threesome. and then we get you back on.
Starting point is 01:05:03 We talk about that and we have all your other stories that you forgot. Okay? Yeah. All right. Thank you though for calling it. It was like fucking awesome. Okay. I love your story.
Starting point is 01:05:12 It was great. Okay. So stay tuned. It's coming probably this Sunday. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.
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