Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 505 - Richard and his Wife are Swingers Into Single Guys

Episode Date: July 13, 2022

Richard and his wife are swingers into single guys and he called in to talk all about it. When did they start swinging? What do they do with the couples they hook up with? And, what do they like to do with single guys when they hook-up? Tune in for all the details including how they met while he was married and how they had crazy s-e-x since the get go, how he brought up being into butt play and pegging and how she reacted, the first couple they met and how they both fisted the wife, how he loves seeing her with another guy and reclaiming her, their first mfm threesome and what went down, the close family friend they hooked up with and how it led to them hooking up in the car, how his wife enjoys watching him with another guy, how they enjoy sharing her pics online with other men and which website he shares on and why, how he can now play alone with guys and how that turns his wife on, why they have been living apart for the past 6 months and what they do to get each other off including sending pics and videos, his recent purchase of a sex doll, his trips to the adult bookstore, what exactly is on their sex bucket list and a whole lot more. To see anonymous pics of Richard's Wife + most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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They started off like just like having all kinds of crazy sex because he was married when he met her. But they opened up their relationship and they were swingers like from kind of like from the get go. They full swap. They hook up with other couples. You know, he's very into pegging and butt play. We talk a lot about that because that also leads into his interest in being with a guy.

He's gotten BJs from guys, but never full-on guy on guy action. But that's on his bucket list. So is gangbangs are on their bucket list. But before we get to their bucket list, he goes over that at the end. He talks all about, like, you know, the couples that they hooked up with. The first one, how the woman was, like, really into festing. But, like, you know, why they're into it, what they get off on. They're both, to me, like kind of cucks.

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That was a lot in one breath. I think I was just talking. But he did send me in picks because he does like to share picks. of his wife. She's down with that. She's in the know. They listen to my podcast together and share episodes. They live apart.

So they do a lot of like fantasy stuff right now. He explains why they live apart. And right now they're just for like six months. They've lived apart. They do a lot of fantasy talk and videos and stuff like that. She's very into him being with a guy. They have had some M MFF. MF, MF, M, three sums.

They also have had other, like just threesomes with one off guys, right? And they talk about who those guys were. They both made an only fan's page. He did too. And then he talks about what they posted on there and all that kind of good stuff. Oh, wait a second. I forgot. He also bought a sex doll and he like fucks it and he like fools around with it and sends her videos. I mean, this is how they get each other off living far away. And that's what we talk about, all that kind of good stuff. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Richard. Hi, Richard.

Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you? I'm good. So, Richard, I'm going to give your little brief history of your life, and then you're going to get into it. You know, you are married.

You're in an open. Are you married? It's married, right? I am married, yes. Yeah, you're in an open marriage. Now, we're going to talk about. how you got to that place. You guys have been swingers.

Now, for some reason, your wife lives apart from you and you're doing like this long distance thing. And the twist is that, you know, she was like somehow it came up that you could go and like get some guys on the side and, you know, do some of that kind of stuff and send her picks and that turns her on. And that's where you guys are at now, correct?

That is correct. But let's talk about how you got here. Because I know that that's like, you know, that for me, and I think for most of my listeners, that's always the interesting part. You know, how did a couple? You sound young, you know, go from like, I'm assuming you were monogamous when you first met to opening up the relationship and really being open enough to talk about all these things and do all these things.

Yeah, it's been a long ride and it was interesting getting here for sure. Yeah, that's the story we want to hear. So it's, I don't know where it begins. Where do you think is the best place to start? All right. So I guess I can say we started in an interesting kind of place. I was married when I met her. Oh. Yes. That is interesting. Yep. Messed up relationship, more or less. So when I did meet her, I was married and that kind of led to the secret, crazy life that we started living. And then I eventually got away, left my wife. And she was especially out of, out of the marriage as well.

So we both been in long-term relationships. So we got to the point where we realized that we, we knew what we wanted more or less for this time, I guess. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you learn from the first mistakes. Right, right, right. Yeah. So we did. We know all our mistakes that we've made so far. And so it's easier to push forward with those.

So that led into the craziness. We always, the both of us had very strong sexual. arrives. So, I mean, there pretty much wasn't anywhere that we didn't have sex in somehow or some way. I mean, the first few days, or not days, the first few years is three to four times a day. Wow. Yes, it's crazy. Wait, quick question, because I just want a little backstory in the cheating. Because cheating sex is always funny to me, because a lot of times it's like in the back of a car, in the back of a grocery store, parking lot, you know, because where else do you go when you're married?

and you know, you have, you know, you're cheating. But how long were you, was your affair with her, how long was that before you left your wife? So, we'll call it the affair part was about two months before I left my wife. Oh, okay. We started to leave my wife. We had a lot of sex in a lot of different places. But during the cheating part, we would, back of the cars on the side of the roads,

parking lots. I had a trailer at the time at a good buddy's house, so my trailer spent a lot of time in there. And so pretty much anywhere you can think of that you can halfway find some privacy, we did it there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You sound super young now. I mean, how old are you now? Mid-30s. Okay. Mm-hmm. Yep. So that three to four or two to... Three to four times a month isn't necessarily as much anymore. Still one to two times, sorry, a day.

A day, yeah, the day. Yeah, three to four times a day isn't as much anymore. It's now one to two. Yeah. And then we moved into this life moved on, and we now live 2,000 miles apart from each other. We did swinging. We've been with a few couples.

We're very picky on who we swing with for safety reasons, of course. So we've been with a few long-term couples. They're generally good friends of ours. And so that led us to where we are today in which we had the long conversation, sorry, of we had that awkward buttplay conversation. Right. This was when we were still dating, we had that awkward buttplay conversation. I remember almost clear days. We're in my trailer.

and she was just kind of hinting at it. And I was not quite sure if that's what she was hinting at. And I can't say like most men, but a lot of men had that curiosity. And I did. But the stigma of today's world, I didn't want to just come out and say it. Yeah, right. Can you shove something up my ass? Right.

Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So it was a very awkward moment. then we eventually got to that point to where we started saying, you know, have you ever done this before? Do you want to do it? Do you like this? And there's kind of both questions back and forth. And that was what led to the more exciting different things in our life.

The swinging and the butt play and that led into pegging, which is amazing. Yeah. I talked to a lot. of people about it and they always laugh and they joke it then I say you got to try it and they're a little yeah they're a little standoffish I'm like you don't understand what you're missing I know it's true because you know I was always a three input girl and when I had anal I'm like there's like it's fucking nothing like it like it like if you could do it and do it the right way where it's not hurting and the pleasure is like nothing you've ever experienced I think there's like tons of nerves endings in there.

So it's just like the most intense thing. And I just think most guys and a lot of women are closed off. Women are closed off to it because so many guys, you know, that one time some guy just tried to shove it in in one second. And that's like the wrong way to do it. So of course that girl is like traumatized. But most guys are like no way do they even go there because of the stigma. And they're crazy because look, you tried it.

You're like, holy shit. Right. I want to say a lot of guys have that curiosity, and it stems from, you know, their youth. But you've got to get past that stigma, and you just got to go out and try it. As well as I can't speak for women, but I've really come to find out that most women are into it.

They just don't want to say they are. Into what? Pagging a guy or getting fucked in the ass too? All the above. Right. All the above. They're experimental. I mean,

if you have that life who, you know, has that mindset of, willing to explore new things. Like she probably is. You just have to get past that awkward conversation, and that's the spot. Yes. I think sometimes it's really scary for somebody to sit across from somebody else and say, like, oh, yeah, like these are my fantasies or things that I'm really into the dirty things.

You know, it's like I could totally understand a lot of people being shy and keeping a lot of the stuff that they're into to themselves. I think that happens more than it doesn't. I think there's more people out there that are, you know, undercover jerking off to things that they fantasize about that their partners have no idea, you know, more so than the couple that is very open about it. I think most people aren't. And I understand why, you know, it's kind of like, you know, you might feel nervous that

someone would judge you. Right. Understood. And my wife and I are both very open, outspoken people. So once we, you know, find out, up we like something. We'll tell you about it. But I also think the way you guys started, it made it easier because, like, that girl wasn't sitting across from you trying to, you know, be the woman that you take home on Thanksgiving

and the woman that you put a ring on it. You know, a lot of times women are in that position, right? Because they want to settle down. They want, you know, they want this guy to like them. And that the stigma is for women a lot is like, oh, if you fuck him on the first night or he's going to think you're a whore. I mean, there definitely is that thing going on. So women try to, a lot of times, I think, go in, you know, as girlfriend material instead of like a fuck buddy. You know, they don't lead with that. But because you and your girl were like, all it was was sex at that point

in the beginning, like she could just be her freaky self with you. Do you what I mean? She wasn't trying to but you know show you everything else that you would get she was like let's just fuck and she you know she that's what she was bringing where a lot of times like I said women don't tend to lead with that in regular relationships because you don't want to because you don't want it to just you don't want to just be a fuck buddy so I think that that's it's so you guys just slid in that way right from the get go so you're kind of lucky do you know what I'm saying yeah yeah I think that as well as the fact that both of us are sexually open. Right.

I'm willing to try anything. Sex, well, people don't understand, sex can be so much fun if you're willing to try new things. Yeah. And the thing is if you try it once. If you don't like it, don't do it again. Mm-hmm. Well, tell me about the swinging.

Like, did you do the swinging before the pegging? Like, let's like, because you're just briefly, like, you know, you told your whole life story and got to the place where you are now. Like, what? Like, go back to when you, guys started talking about becoming swingers and then those couples that you met so when we started you know we talked we draw walking around in town and driving around and you see somebody like oh

she's hot you know talking about our interest in this person and so that kind of her openness to talk about it with me really let that door open to talk about more it then you know we had the but play conversation. And once you got through that butt play conversation, then really, the conversation about swinging was pretty easy. Like, you want to try a different couple or bring a girl in or a guy in. You know, and we decided to try a different couple. And so it took us a long time to find somebody that we could bring in, somebody we can trust. For us, It's, you know, some people, swingers, they just want to go to parties. They want to the fucking have fun.

For us, we were both very emotionally attached people, I guess we can say. I mean, as wild as our sex is, our passion is just as much. So we're both believe, we like the concept of, you know, having that friendship. So we look for people that could be our friends. If I can't bring you to a family barbecue, I don't want you fucking my wife kind of. Well, how did you meet that first couple, though? I mean, did you guys go on an app? Did you pick up someone in a bar?

So I did. I went on an app. I went on a three fun. It's an app. It wasn't bad. I talked to a lot of people. She doesn't like doing the online communication. So that's pretty much all me.

I've built a relationships. And we had a lot of talks about what we like, don't like. And, you know, to now I can tell you exactly what her type of person is. and I can go find someone in really easy and determined. But back then, we had to find that fit of, you know, is it her type, is it my type kind of thing? And so we did. We went on an app and I had conversations with them all for,

I mean, the first couple we met, I think I talked to you, on and off for like six months before we actually got to the point to where introduced my wife to them and we had to call. conversation. And that, right, and then when did you hook up? We hooked up just shortly after that, you know, first meeting greed and that meeting greed always generally turns to sex at that point. And so it was she, that couple was a lot of first for us.

So she was very much open to double stuffing and fisting and all that, which is not in either one of our realm. Oh, the wife, not your girl. No, not mine. Oh, the couple. So the other wife, yes. So she had a lot of big toys, really massive dildos, things that we're not into, I guess. My wife isn't into big cocks like, you know, some people are.

Yeah, massive insertion. Yeah. So for us, it was a new experience when, you know, they pulled out their toolbox and their seats giant gildos in there and she wanted to you know stick two of them three of them in there and stretch yourself out for fisting oh okay like said not our realm but you know when you're when you're there you got to try something new but did you all fist the wife we did I'm not going to lie it was an interesting experience watching my wife that's another woman did she like it did your wife like it?

she enjoyed the moment. Right. But I wouldn't say we're not looking to do it again. Yeah, yeah. So she enjoyed the moment, you know. Mm-hmm. So at that point, we've only ever played with bi-women. Finding bi-men is really hard.

Yeah. And so we're also only looking for bi-women. We haven't had that by-man conversation. And so we met with them quite a few times. And then we met into another couple. But wait, quick question about like, you know, because here you are going in, this is the first couple you fool around with. You're fissing the wife. I know that went down.

But, I mean, did you do full swap? Did you have any rules of regulations with each other? Was it a free for all? I mean, did you like seeing your wife with the other woman? Like, you know, because this was your first time sharing your partner, right? Yes, it was. So I guess, like I said, what I learned out of a lot of this is I like watching her get fucked. You do.

In our conversations afterwards, we get off watching each other get off. So, you know, for me, the excitement is watching her get fuck. The girl and girl play, it's fun, but it's not the trigger. Watching her get bent over by another man and just railed is the trigger. Right, okay. So, and I can say pretty much the same, for her watching me fuck another woman and get off from it is what triggers her for her excitement. Okay, so you're both like little cucks, two cucks together, work. Pretty much, yeah, I actually never thought of it that way, but yes.

Yeah, she's a cuck queen. You're a cuckold. I mean, you don't have to, I don't think there has to be the humiliation aspect to be a cuck. You know, sometimes it's there. That to me is like the truest cuck around. But, you know, people who really enjoy that visual like you guys do, I think that's a total cuck thing. And she is, too.

So you guys are perfectly suited. Yeah, I can see that. I'm a very picture person, so I have lots of pictures and videos from all of our experiences. And kind of going through all this as well, I trade pictures on the internet with other people. And she's aware of it. I use another website called wife lovers, which is we're not into the porn thing, the scripted, the perfect hits, muscular man. Yeah. It doesn't do us.

We like real people. So, I mean, the website I go to is, isn't porn. It's, you know, real people, real lives, real pictures, real videos, you know, that kind of stuff. Right. So that's our thing versus porn. So what do you do on there as far as, like, do you show pictures of your wife and she knows about it? Like dirty pictures of you guys together, separate? I mean, what goes down there?

So all the above. So I share pictures of her. There's times where she actually will take pictures and videos and, you know, talk to the group, which I traded with on kick. It was basically a bunch of guys who traded pictures of their wives. Okay. And I guess for me, I didn't get off on the other wives as much as I got off on other men wanting my wife. Yeah, I think that's probably what the other guys are there for too, don't you think?

Yeah. Some of them, yes. And that kind of, I've had a lot of long-term people that I actually have traded with and we had these conversations. But in those who we've built up longer trading relationships, I guess we'll say. Chatting relationships, we've been able to open up. And that's kind of where my bi curiosities came out a little more. Yeah. Because finding other men that are willing to talk about, yeah, I'm willing to try this or I want to suck the cock or take it in the ass or be with your.

wife and you, well, this happens. So that's kind of where that led into my spark. Right. For the new curiosity. Yeah, but we're going to get there. That's good that we're going to go totally into there because that's where you are now. And I don't think you've been with a guy yet. But let me ask you this. So that after that first couple, like all that fisting going on, you see them a bunch of times. You're doing full swaps. You both love watching each other. Fuck other people. Like, how many other couples did you see and what went down with them? So did have another couple. This was our first squirder together.

Your first what? Squatter? Squatter. Okay. Together. So we met with them a handful of times. I mean, basically with these couples, we'd probably meet them more times not naked than we would make it. Okay.

So we met with them a handful of times and he's vulgar and she's, and she, you know, She's a petite Latina. She's smaller. I like more meat on the bones, you know. And so, but she was, she was very pretty. And this is kind of weird, both more into his build than hers, but, you know, she's gorgeous and not going to turn her down the same. And we just had compatibility.

Yeah. And that's, that's where our key is, is just compatibility. And so we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, met with them quite a few times and it's just standard swapping nothing nothing crazy with them a lot of just a lot of getting drunk on tequila and having good times right but she was a squirder she was a squirder so um we met with a couple single guys and the problem with single guys is most of them were married and so meeting with them was hard because the challenges of their schedules and meeting yeah so the first guy we ever met was understanding

it turned out that he knew who I was based on I met him from double list actually he knew who I was based on a tattoo that he saw on a picture so when he first started talking he's like hey I know who you are like what a small world yeah yeah and then so he's like yeah your tattoo I'm like oh all right like he told me who he was I'm like I don't remember you but I met him like four years ago oh wow and had hooked up with him or just met him like for a job just casually a friend of a friend kind of thing oh okay interesting yep so to this day I mean he's still around in our world um where when I go back to my wife's state, we talk about meeting with him.

Actually, it was their last week, and he was supposed to meet us for a fun session, and he was unable to make it. But so were you on double list, like looking for a guy to come in and have a threesome with you and your wife, right? So you could watch your wife with a guy? All the above. So watching my wife with a guy, watching, having another couple, join us. One of my things was I wanted another woman who's into pegging, kind of having a Femdom

kind of thing. Still haven't done that. So we're really open to trying a lot of new things. We're in the exploring phase, which we still are, because it's hard to, with our parameters of finding people, it's hard to find people we can trust and hook up with. So we're still in the exploring phase. But it's basically anything and everything, if we have, I haven't tried it. We'd like to still. Yeah, yeah. But when you met that guy from Double-East, I mean, you were soliciting him to come and have sex with your wife while you watched or joined in? Joined in. Okay. And that's the threesome that you had with that guy. That's what you did with the guy that knew you.

Yes. And it was never that full cuff where I just want to watch. Mm-hmm. You like to join in. Yeah. Right, right. I enjoy to watch. Yes, but I'm going to participate as well. Yeah, totally. Okay. actually one other guy he was a very close family friend oh how did you wrangle him in honestly i don't even know i don't know how we got there i do know that when we did it escalated quickly um i think it was just you know dirty talk ha ha funnings back and forth yeah and that led into the

talk about our desires and i want wants i guess i guess i guess and Hugh is another one of those guys similar to me where he has these curiosities of these fantasies and he's never talked about him before because of the stigma very much alpha male in in the real world. So wait, so the stigma wasn't, oh, he's going to fuck your wife. The stigma is some sort of guy on guy action. Is that what you're talking about with this guy? Oh, okay.

You didn't say that. Okay. So this guy is like, now you're looking for by guys because you have an up into this point, right? No, I haven't. We weren't even looking for a by guy. It just turned out in conversation. We had the same curiosities. And that led into our, I guess that really fueled by fire more towards the bi conversation and bringing a by guy in. And so we, he was a close friend, I should say. And he, we met with him. for the first time in like a play setting and it was very informal just kind of on the whim and

he i would say he sucked me off right so my wife was the two of us were in front of each other and my wife would have been next to us so he sucked me off until i came and while i was kissing my wife and i was kissing or i sucked him off while he was kissing while he was kissing while he he was kissing my wife. It was quite the new experience. That was the first time you'd ever been with a dude, right? That was, yeah. So, I mean, getting to that point, there was that, for sure, those nerves,

but the comfort of the person. So that was our first experience. Right. Okay. And how was it? It was good. It was fun. I don't, it was a blowdrop, so, and it was pretty straightforward.

no foreplay kind of stuff so it was to the point and you know it was a good blow job for sure well here you are a guy that has all these buy things was it like amazing no but the thing is I've never been really into blow drops

some people love it and that's not my love I'm I really much enjoy ass play okay so I'd rather get fucked than suck okay okay so it wasn't really

your thing? No, and it wasn't bad. It was good. It just, it wasn't my fire. Okay. But it was a fun experience and it's something new and exciting. Now, we later also hooked up with the same guy for driving somewhere, actually, and we took turns driving, so I fucked her in the backseat. And then I stopped driving positions with him and he fucked her in the backseat.

while we were driving. And then we pulled over. I looked her claim. And that's something we enjoy also. I definitely all about claiming. Right. Looking come from,

with usy. And then I reclaimed her, I guess is what the word is, and we had sex again in the back seat. Right. You like that. Reclame sex. What is the whatever that's called?

Yeah. Reclaiming sex. Yeah, I've heard that before. Yeah. And that's a lot of our. big thing with the swinging is the reclaim sex afterwards. It's watching each other with the other than just taking each other back. Yeah.

Mm-hmm. So that was pretty much where we were with that guy. He wants to do a lot more, very much in exploring anal sex and butt play and all the different forms of excitement we could. But we just haven't been able to get there. Mm-hmm. How come? I guess we haven't been able to get there because we just haven't been able to squeeze off that private time and able to pull it off.

You know, constantly having the people around and being able to at the right time. Well, listen, I mean, we get to the point where your wife supposedly, not supposedly, but she's like 2,000 miles away living someplace else. What is that all about? And where does this guy live? And since you're dying to like be with a guy solo, how come you can't make that happen? It's another part of him being married thing and finding our trustworthy guy. Actually, I did find a guy here where I am.

And our one, we had a meeting greet and we discussed, you know, what the desires were, which is, you know, the conversations with my wife led to, you know, I wanted to one of the watch you get thought. I want to watch you set another guy off. And there's a lot of dirty sexting back and forth with our desires. And so I used Grindr, actually. She told me about it. And I used Grindr to try to find a guy. And I did. I found a local guy here to me because we are, you know, 2,000 miles apart. And so I met with him. And I pretty much told him my story. Like, look, I want try these new things I want to try getting fucked and

fucking and I want to blow and be blown and just have fun with it but the caveat is my wife wants it recorded or she wants to be on FaceTime while we do it so that interplay I guess for the words I don't know

of her being involved from a distance and that's been a little harder to find finding people willing to be recorded, but I did. And we had a meeting greet and just our conversations, his wife has very much into the same things. They just haven't talked about him as much. And I guess we talked about, you know, what his wife was into and how we can help spark that relationship because if he's open to it and she's okay with it and my wife's open to it and she's okay with me playing with men like this could be something fun this could be

you know what we've always been looking for is get a big biology right because all the other couples you've hooked up with the guys were not down for any kind of guy on guy action right so can i ask you why your wife lives 2,000 miles away so this is a new thing um i guess i'm to say that I'm traveled for my kids. So my kids got moved away from me. Okay, so you went and moved where your kids are to be closer to them, and she stayed where you were or something like that? Yes, because she has kids back there.

So it's kind of a big complicated relationship. Right, right. How long you guys been together so far now? Just over five years. Okay. How long you moved apart? like where she's how long did this you know the distance thing come in i know you guys like make it hot and make it work and we'll get back to that but like how long have you been you know living

separate or the whole time we've been living separate for about six months now okay so this is this is fairly new okay and so um that has sparked our relationship a lot in the sense of what we can do alone and separate and how we can make it work because we still have that fire that drive for sex but we can't touch each other so you know luckily the modern world we live in we get to make videos and face time and all that and we've also part of our fires we tried an only fans and that was a lot of making an only fan so she had an only fans for a period of time oh okay And so that kind of, that fueled a lot because there's a constant flow of videos and pictures and just stuff happening. Yeah, hot content.

Yeah, for sure. Did she make any money? No, not really. Just as she was starting to kind of pick up, she decided it just wasn't worth it for how much she was being put into the public eye and how much the income was. It just wasn't worth it for us. Yeah, I get it. Okay. Yeah.

We're not fully open with the whole swinging relationship thing. We laugh and we joke and all of our close friends are well aware of it, and they live off of our stories. But, you know, to the big open public, because we have kids and stuff, we aren't like that. We don't fly it everywhere. But we'll probably would because we are those personalities. For sure, we put an upside-down pineapple on my car and just see what I can see what it attracts. Right. Okay. So, yeah, we've had a lot of fire in having to make it work from this distance.

So we did a lot of video trading and with the only fans, definitely we had a lot of fun content back and forth. I actually tried in OnlyFans. And it wasn't so not, it wasn't very productive. Not a whole lot happened out of that. So far, I haven't made a dime. But I got my ass on the internet. In looking through that only fan's world, it's also kind of given us another look into the swingers that are out there. And it's opened us both up because she's learning how to, had to learn how to be more communicative with her dirty talk and more role play scenario.

So it's opened her mind up because that's always usually been my lead. So we've had a lot more to talk about, a lot more 30 sex talk. And then it led into, you know, the, the buy conversation again, which was where it's a whole new world to us, I guess, in the sense of just playing alone, because we've always played together. And it's telling me how much it turned her on. and at first I was a little skeptical. I'm like, okay, you say you're turning it on. It turns you on, but, you know, are you just doing this to make me happy? Then she would send me these videos of her playing with herself after her conversations.

And it did. It turned her on and made her extremely wet. So we pushed further. And we got to the point to where I met this guy. And he actually said, why don't you pull it out and I'll suck on it and send your wife a video. I can't argue with that at all. So that was the only kind of single-guy experience we've had. I guess I can say I don't consider low jobs.

There's very much anything to do with our passion, fun sex, right? So for us, I mean, our real goal is to fucking be fucked. And that's what we're looking for. And that's what I'm looking for. So that's kind of what's led to where we are today. We actually, I've been to the adult store here. It's an adult theater. And part of our, you know, exploring new things.

And I was telling her about it. You know, I walked in there and there's just a bunch of guys just sitting back on couches. It's very much an awkward scenario. And I'm a very outgoing person. So my very first time I just went in there I kind of felt up the scenario and I you know rub one out I I go there to buy

Loub and toys and whatever to keep life exciting and so I walked in there the first time we just rub one out and I walked out so the second time I went in there I got a little more adventurous I guess I I read the awkward room room and I kind of started talking to people like, what are you into, what are you looking for? And it kind of led to a big, big jerk session where everyone was actually involved in talking to

each other and having more fun than just sitting there awkwardly. So that was just my more outgoing personality. And that led to, you know, me being able to talk to her about other curiosities of, you know, bringing her into a sex theater to have a bunch of guys jerk off onto her. And so that's, that's, as our venture continues, we'll just keep you on that way. But while we were there, I did buy a sex doll, which is the first time for both of us. And it turns out that, you know, part of what we've used to keep our spark also is using the sex doll, making her videos. So having sex with the doll and sending her videos of different angles and watching, watching it drip out and keeping the fire going.

that way and she really enjoys that as well. I'm still waiting to meet up with this other guy. What other guy? The guy from Granger. Okay, but like, let me ask you this. She lives 2,000 miles away. She is your wife. Like, I mean, do you see each other at all

in six months? Like, how do you go back and forth on the weekends? I mean, when do you actually see each other in person? And, you know, how long do you plan on have, you know, living apart like this? Forever? That hell, I don't know. I hope not forever. I'm hoping this is a short period time. But I actually, currently, I go back there about a week every a month.

And I'm trying to make it. So I'm back there, you know, half my time with two weeks there and two weeks here kind of life. Right. So when you see or do you guys still like swing, do you still hook up with couples? I mean, or is it just? We do. As long as we can, we can make it work. We definitely try to keep that going.

it comes and goes and always has where you know we won't have a couple you're not doing it every time yeah right yeah and then we'll have a couple and we'll meet with them and then we'll meet with the other guy and you know it depends on the fire in life and you know getting to this point in life there's definitely been a lot of ups and downs um you know with us being two thousand miles apart so we do get time and when we when we when I am home. We definitely do participate in as much fun as we can, but, you know,

picking me up at the airport and having sex in the parking lot kind of stuff and keeping it fun and exciting still. And how about the pegging? You still are very into that with her? Yes, absolutely. Actually, we plan on recording a nice

fun pegging session here, hopefully today. Oh, she's by you? She's by you or you're by her? We actually, yeah, we are together right now. she's with me. Right. Yeah. So it's just finding the time to do it because this is a family vacation now. So the good thing is, you know, having a house on both sides is you get that comfort and everyone's got their own rooms. So it's just trying to find a way to make it out.

Right. Now, does she know you listen to this show and that you're calling in? I mean, you guys are super open with each other. She does, actually. She listens to the show as well. we share, we actually share episodes. And she does know I'm calling in. She was really excited to find out I was calling it. Okay, so she'll be listening. Yeah, for sure.

Mm-hmm. Now, can you send in picks for my Patreon if she knows, like, but anonymous picks? No, absolutely, it can. So what's on your guy's bucket list? Is it the whole, like, full-on guy-on guy experience? Do you want a top? Do you want a bottom? I mean, what is it that you're, like, hoping comes out of all this?

like guy on guy stuff that you kind of started but haven't yet finished totally ultimately the biggest thing on both of our bucket list is to have a guy on top of me on top of her she wants me to have that double sensation of being inside of her and having a guy inside of me oh okay so you're on top of her and then a guy's like you're doing her and the guy's doing you I get it yes yeah yeah Yep. And that has been our number one bucket list since we've started this, really, since we've had that conversation. For sure, the number one. I have always had the, I want to say Bukaki, but the whole come on the face thing isn't for me, but that experience of watching or gang bang of watching a bunch of men, you know, come all over her or bang her. And we'd be open for the gang bang. It's just that comfort of where we are with people. Right, finding all the people that you would be down with because you guys are picky.

It's not like you're just going to screw anyone. And we don't play with condoms. So that's also part of it is the condom takes out the experience. Oh, okay. So you don't play with the condom. No. So that's why, you know, part of the making sure we find the right people really helps. Right, right, right.

Mm-hmm. So that's where you guys. are at now, I mean, it sounds like, most likely, I mean, the guy who blew you, can't you get him to do that kind of scenario that you're looking for? You know, believe it or not since I've been on Grindr trying to find people, I'm having a hard time finding guys that want to be with me and my wife. Really? Yes. Even this guy, he's like, I don't know, I'm not really here to fuck women. I'm like, but we had a good compatibility. very much like-minded and so I'm still feeling him out you know yeah he he doesn't have that that interest to fuck women so that's been that has been a

challenge finding one or the other finding a guy that will fuck another guy or a guy that will fuck a woman yeah so I which I didn't think would be such a challenge I really didn't think you know but I guess it's just everyone's got their own taste yeah and something that guy maybe that's you know he fucks a woman at home his wife you know maybe he's just like you know but he's not really into it he's secretly maybe just into guys so that's what he's there for but you'll probably find it keep looking i'm sure there's a lot of guys that would be down for your scenario um what did we call you again richard thanks richard for calling in i was going to say what kind of pictures would you look oh send me you know and send me like people send in sexy picks like rated r i always say like

nothing rated acts i don't post any kind of body parts full showing, but like people send in sexy picks for if you want, but like the only reason I ask for your wife because she knows, you know, it would have to, I never have people send in picks of their partners because a lot, most of the time their partners don't know about it. So, you know, if it's a girl, she sends in a picture of herself.

If it's a guy and he's talking about his wife, but she doesn't know, no fucking pictures. But since your wife does, if you want to send in sexy picks of her and, you know, that's fine. But like I said, rated are no face. I cut out the face if you send me the face, but, you know, it's all anonymous.

but and I'll put them on my Patreon and we all know you know you love for guys to be checking out your wife so they'll be you know that's the fun part of it for you you'll know that people are commenting right like that's you're into that I know I need to get on your Patreon I haven't yet I just listen to the podcast yeah but you'll just know in your mind you know other people are wife share you know it's like wife lover dot com is where you go yeah so um so you know just a couple sexy picks that would be great okay yeah I can do that for sure all right awesome Thanks so much, Richard. Thanks for calling in and sharing your story.

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