Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 507 - Ryan and his Wife are Swingers But She Doesn't Know they Are?!

Episode Date: July 18, 2022

Ryan and his wife are swinger but she doesn’t know that they are and he called int to ask all about it. When did they start swinging? What exactly do they like to do? And, how can she not know about it? Tune in for all the details which include the first time they went to a swingers club and what exactly went down, what they will and will not do when hooking up with others, how his wife doesn’t enjoy watching him with other women, where and when they swing with others, how they prefer bisexual men even though he’s not bi himself, the exact bi guy scenario they like to mock up, how and why he sets up MFM threesomes without her knowing about it, how and why she falls for it every time, how he goes about vetting the guys and what he exactly looks for, what his wife enjoys most obout the mfm threesomes, their one time hook up he set up with another couple and why he wasn’t down for it and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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plus all the naughty picks of like my guests, they're anonymous, but they're interesting to put a body to the voice, to the episode. You could join my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. It's $5 a month, and you could cancel at any time. That information is also going to be on my website. Now, today, I have on a guy named Ryan. Now, just when I think I've heard it all, there's always like another story that just like comes my way with a little twist

that I'm like, what the fuck? I don't know. And it's interesting. This episode is definitely a conversation starter. And I'm having issues with YouTube because of my content. There's so fucking ridiculous over there. But this is like such a great one to put on,

and I'm going to put it there because I think it's pretty, it's not so dirty. I don't know. Because I do think you're going to want to common or you're going to have your own opinions about this one because of the little twist that is a part of this story. Now, Ryan and his wife are the couple that, you know, a couple times a year. They've gone to swingers parties and then another couple times a year.

They, when they are out and about on vacation and far away from home, they have a total threesome. She's down for it. He loves it. They have a very specific, thing that they enjoy, which we talk about, which is interesting. It's like that he's really into the guy being by, even though he's not by at all. And he doesn't fool around with the guy. They get very specific about what they do and don't do on, you know, during their threesomes, they've tried threesomes with women, but she's not really down for that. He explains that whole scenario. What they really prefer is that guy. They prefer for him to be by. He thinks it's kind of like a reverse cuckled situation. You'll have to listen to get the specifics on

the actual threesomes they enjoy. But the bigger twist of this episode is that she doesn't know that he has them as a couple up on a website as swingers. He is setting up a guy to be at the bar every time they have a threesome. He has set it up with a guise. that is in the bar that they wind up hooking up with. That's his deal. He set that up.

Am I making sense? You're going to have to listen. Now, this is where it's like such a conversation starter. It's like the perfect Dear Abby question. And if you know who Dear Abby, if you don't know who Dear Abby is, you're young, too young. But it's kind of like, you know, is he wrong for doing it? Is he really wrong for doing it? Like, and so the situation is he, him and his wife go out.

the guy is at the bar. She thinks this is a random hookup with a guy. But behind her back, he has set this whole thing up. Okay. So he talks about that. How does the whole process go with him vetting the guys, hooking them up, telling them about it. Do all the guys, are they all the guys down for it? Or do some guys like, no fucking way? I don't want to be a part of that shit. I don't know. And you have to wait until the middle of the podcast before you totally just. judge him because a little part of the situation comes out like midway that I was like, oh, okay, that makes me feel a little bit different about the situation. So you got to, I'm not going to tell you what that is. You're going to have to listen. I don't want to give it all away on the

intro. But, you know, you will feel one way about it. At least I did. This was my experience with the story. I was very judgy about what he was doing in the beginning. We talk a lot about it and suss it out. And then he brought up something that's a part of the situation that I was like, oh, okay, that's a little less worse. But you're going to have to listen. And I'm so dying to hear what everybody else thinks about this situation. So go to YouTube while my channel is still alive and kicking over there and comment if you want or DM me on Instagram or comment on Instagram because I really promote my episodes there as well. And I love talking about my episodes with my listeners. So it's a very interesting story. What they do is like super fond and hot and just this

little twist just adds to it. Like I said, just when I think I've heard it all. This is a new one. And it's very interesting. My favorite word. That's my favorite word. Interesting. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Ryan. Hi, Ryan. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing well. Thanks. How are you? I'm good. So Ryan, your email was is interesting to me because of one specific aspect to it. Okay, you know, the fact that you guys are swingers, you and your wife, and you do hook out or you have, I don't know if she wouldn't call herself a swinger because the interesting part of it is that you and your wife have been like hooking up with couples and

guys when you're out and about or on vacations, but she has no idea that you have had your, you know, you're, you guys up as a couple and you've been, you know, pimping your couple out, her out and you out to these guys. So whenever that situation sort of happens, she thinks it happens naturally, but really it's something that you have set up. Absolutely. It's weird to say. I don't even know how to describe it. Probably my email. I hope, I'm glad it made sense a little bit, but a lot. You know, when I found your, when I found your podcast, I was like, one, I, love it and I try to listen to it as much as I can and um you know I hear different stories and I was like oh man maybe there are other people like me but um yes my wife definitely uh we play

probably three times a year been doing it for I'm guessing about seven or eight years so 20 20 sometimes we've we've done this probably a little bit more but um the way that it started we actually we've actually been to some swing clubs too that that's really um was our our first dabble into into play where um i had went through some uh i lost my mother and i was just feeling kind of really down and uh she's like you know what what can we do really fun i was like let's swing and she she was like i don't want to do it but i'll do it if you if it makes you happy and we're like we tried it so we found a club not in our hometown uh we we try out of about two hours away,

two nearby city, big city, and went, and she was okay with it. We played with another couple. We were awful nervous. We went to like a Halloween event so we could dress up

in case we recognized anybody or anything. Oh, that's smart. Played and it was always swap and, or excuse me, soft swap. She, I watched her give a blowjob. She watched me get one.

And we ended up having sex with each other and in the same room as the other couple. And it was just, I mean, I was really turned on. I loved it. She was, it was okay for her, but it wasn't something like she was really going to look forward to, you know, doing once a month or anything. So that's pretty much where we started. And then maybe went a few months. And the couple that we played with the first time, I ended up like kind of corresponding with him. A guy gave me his phone number or whatever.

And he told me that there's a Swinger site called SLS. So I made a profile and a couple's profiles that we were looking for couples or singles, whatever. I mean, it was pretty general. And just, yeah, through that, we've, when we go out of town, I'll put the location wherever we're going and say what we're looking for. And at first it was couples. And then she really doesn't like to see me with a woman as near as much as I like to see her with a guy or playing. So we really have not done couples.

Even when we've gone back to swing clubs, we go once a year probably. We just really get a single guy. and that's how we play. So it's pretty interesting. But I guess another thing I wanted to tell you is when we do play, so there's two aspects to why I wrote in. So one was that she's a swinger and really doesn't know it or doesn't promote it or anything like that. And also, we also tend to kind of when I set these up are since I told you that she'd rather have just another guy.

I and the three of us, we always look for a by guy, even though I am not by at all. And I may sound strange, and this is where I can't find this, like, when you look on it, like if you look on porn hub or look at this scenario, obviously cuckold comes to mind, but I am definitely not that. I just, we actually both like to see a guy kind of clean me off of my wife's. That turns us both on big time. And, you know, we just, it's just a huge, huge turn on for us both. So kind of crazy.

I don't know where you want to go with that. I want to ask you before we get into all the details is, so here you have this wife that was totally cool with you during your time of need. You know, you're mourning the loss of your mom. You're like, I need to do something to, you know, distract myself. let's go to a swingers club. She's down to do that. Why don't you tell her that you're going to go on the swinger's site and, you know,

advertise and look for more couples and, you know, move forward into the lifestyle, considering she was down for it? Okay. Well, that's pretty, that's a fair question. And I think the most honest way I can answer is to say, like, she tolerated it. But it's, it's, it's, she, she says it's not her thing. You know, I worked really hard on getting her in Tibet. We can talk about that later.

Yeah. You know, I, it's not, she doesn't, uh, sexually, like, give it up to anybody. We've, we've, we've never, I've, uh, she's had sex with myself and two other men in her entire life. And it's not something that, you know, she, she felt comfort. necessarily with I guess and she still says that's that's not me or or anything that she does it and it's not like I'm forcing it at all it's just when my birthday comes around we go out of town it's always like one night on vacation we'll run into a you know quote to bump into a single guy at a war yeah and if you want to come back to the room we're

have some fun maybe maybe we'll start she'll think that he's coming back to maybe just videotape it for us you know like hey do you want to just hold my iPhone and and tape this and then, you know, you can pull your dick out and, you know, she'll suck on it a little bit or whatever. And then obviously the screening process I do that they're always by or, you know, at least friendly enough to, you know, clean me up off of her and typically themselves too. She likes that part. But you said that she doesn't, like, sleep with anybody else. So what's going on with her with these hookups? What is she doing?

with the guy? Mainly she's giving oral, getting oral. Okay, so it's all oral, yeah. It's all oral, yeah. She is never one time and out of all these, you know, people that we've played with never once, and I haven't either. Yeah, yeah. I haven't had sex with any of the women. It's, it's just enough for us. It's crazy enough and it gets me, you know, really excited and we talk about it in bed, like throughout the year. You know, we actually have met one gentleman, two, different times. We live on the East Coast. We like to go out to the West Coast in the wintertime on vacation. And we've played with one guy two different times. And, you know, we talk about him when we're in bed maybe once a week. And we've actually even had some, not Skype, but FaceTime

with him, watching him, you know, get off while he's watching us. And yeah, it's a lot of fun. Oh, so she'll do that. She's a little bit of like an exhibitionist or she likes people watching and she'll have sex with you when these like other guys are there. Correct. Uh-huh. But never with them. Right, never with them. But she'll blow them and she'll, and they could go down on her?

Yes, because they're going to go down and they're going to that whole cream pie thing is going down. Right. Well, really, no, it's never, not really cream pie. She likes to see it like on her chest And licked off And you know Normally the guy will go I'll just be on top

Maybe missionary and she'll be giving him a blow job And then when he's ready to go He'll come on her tits and then I'll come out And maybe do it on the other one And then she loves when The guy will then go right into Eating it all up Oh, interesting.

So how have those conversations gone then where like that's her line? Like in, I mean, she keeps, you know, two or three times a year. She keeps bumping into guys and being down for it. So how do those conversations where you've tried to get her into, you know, doing this with her saying, yeah, let's do it? Like, how do those get shot down? So if you mean like if we're just randomly at home going out? out on a Friday night. No, like when it initially, when you initially tried to do that, you said, you know, I've tried many times and she just always says no, we could get into that.

Like, I mean, what, like, what is, because she's, she's doing things. She's hooking up with these guys. Do you guys have, you know, strict rules and boundaries, which I think is super smart. And you're got, you know, you've already laid out what you can and cannot do and what she's down with and not down with. So why can't, can't you go out looking for that? You know what I mean? where's that where what what line will she not cross with that because she's doing it like why won't she let you go out and look for it or post about it oh god she would be she would be irate if if she knew that that i had created a profile on on a swinger site and was was screened guys she would have no interest in doing that together she would have no interest it's just something

that you know she she grew up very religious she still thinks of herself as a you know respectable woman and you know so to why it's just I have this little freaky side and uh I just think I'm very lucky to have her to to you know just appease it um two three times a year really um I I guess the the conversation just I know they won't go well no but have you ever had it though have you said to her after you know the swinging thing like hey let's like get into the lifestyle I would like I mean when you're when you're on this SLO SLS website You don't have face picks of your wife, do you? I do.

Yep. Aye. Yeah. Yep. And. No. Well, listen. Well, okay.

So it's not on like the public ones. It's when you start interacting, you have private ones. So then I will let them see like what we actually look like. On the generic ones that are just your profile picture, they're her and I, maybe she's actually like topless. and I don't have my shirt on and she's and I just have my arm around her. So that's our profile picture. And then they can go on to like open that up

and then still with those profile pictures, there's no face and then there's personal. And then when you say, okay, you know, you're developing a relationship or you're having dialogue with whether it's usually just a single guy. Having a dialogue, you can go back and forth and then open up to your,

your personals and then they can see what we look like but it is not out there for like anybody I work with anyone she works with would have no idea it's us it it it says our hometown on it but when we go out of town like when most of the times we do it and I'm doing it still while we're in town is I'll just change our location to okay we're going to San Diego so San Diego is gonna I'm just going to put it as that's our location say hey we're coming on vacation in three weeks I'll start kind of screen guys because it's it's not always the easiest thing when you know you're honest with another gentleman who you're saying hey I'm willing to share my wife and say like hey we're going to have some fun and you know you pretty much

in their description it says if they're by or straight or you know by friendly or whatever so those are the types that I go for and say hey you know and it's not everybody's cup of tea you know not a lot of people want to go ahead and make the effort to go out and meet somebody knowing that it's not guaranteed or the other person doesn't know about it. You know, a lot of people are leery of it. And I get that. I totally understand that.

And I say, hey, I understand. I'm just telling you we're for real. There's a certification portion of our profile that all these people that we've, I don't know, probably of all the ones that we've hooked up with, I think we have five or six of them on there where guys have said,

yeah, we've met blank and blank. and they're real, they're cool. We had a great time and hope to see them again. You know, just pretty generic stuff. But it at least shows, you know, when somebody says, hey, are you for real? Are you really going to come out and be at this bar when you say you're going to be there? And I say, hey, you have to tell my wife, she's just gorgeous. And we'll sit there.

I mean, we talk to everybody no matter where we go, whether we're in town, out of town. We go out on a Friday or Saturday night. We don't have children. We like to have fun. We work very hard. And on the weekends, we go out. and have some fun and we'll talk to whoever and one of our things is that you know even in our hometown if we see a guy sitting in a bar we'll say hey um let's let's not so much like in the sense

of fuck with them but let's let's let's talk to him and get him turned on or or she'll say hey let's let's make sure he goes home and jacks off thinking of you tonight right and she'll flirt and stuff and it's just fun for us and we'll come home and have great sex and talk about it and we'll like hey that guy's home right now and he's he's thinking about you and I'm talking you. It's just kind of fun for both of us. And getting back to when we were just go meet somebody, um, like I said, it's, it's not everybody's cup of tea. And after, you know, you put a thing out there and say, okay, we're going to be insane. Our thing gets blown up. I've got a hundred responses. Yeah. And it's, it's okay. And then you just kind of pick the ones you like and

just tell them what this and they're totally up front of them. Like my wife has no idea that you're going to be at the bar or hook up, you're going to have to work on it. I worked on it really hard. It took me a long time to get her in bed or at least even get a blowjob. And all you have to do is be a gentleman and be very respectful for a couple hours. And next thing you know, you're going to have a great time. And so are we. How good are these guys at acting out that scenario?

I mean, have you had ones that are so bad and it's so obvious? No. No. No. No. never never once never had a bad one really they've all everyone who who we or i've arranged to say that we're going to be at this place at this time and we've been there and so is the guy it's it's i make it very easy i make sure that we're sitting at the bar i'll i'll maybe have the guy's phone number

and i'll text and say okay this is what we're wearing or or we're dressed usually you know we're dressed up and and going out for for drinks and then maybe whatever we're doing when we're on vacation, and I'll take a picture, and she loves taking pictures and things like that, and I'll just say, here, this is exactly what we're wearing. We'll be at the bar, and just come up and say hi. Or you be there first, and I'll make sure you send me what you're wearing, and we'll sit down next to you and start having a conversation.

And if you're a gentleman, tell her she's gorgeous, and like I said, all the things that I can coach them through, and next thing you know, we're inviting them back to our hotel. And how do you narrow it down from those hundreds of guys? Do you also have a type or, you know, when you... Yeah, well, I look at, I know what she likes. I'm not going to pick someone who I know that she would be like, no way. He's got to have, you know, nice looking teeth.

He's got to have, you know, a professional appearance. Yeah. We're not looking for, you know, I don't want to say we're like, they're upscale guys, but I'm not looking for, A scraggily dude Yeah I'm not looking for Yeah and she wouldn't be down with that

Right right you know her type Yeah and I can I can do a pretty good job of it And no matter where we've gone I've gone out of town for work on conferences I've had to go to for work and she's gone with me And you know Through that site just

Hey I'm going to be at this place and oh we're here for this And you know hey let's meet out and we'll have some fun And I tell them all Like if you, and it never has never one time have we met a guy and had it all set up and her had said no. Yeah, that was going to be my question. That's exactly like what my question in my head was to ask you next. Interesting.

So you know you're a good picker. You know your wife. Well, I do. And, you know, I've been thinking about, obviously, since I wrote you, I've been thinking about this conversation and saying like, man, when I go back and I hear this someday, if you ever posted or anything and I go back and listen to it. And to say, boy, I hope that, you know, I love my wife more than anything in this world. Like, she's everything to me.

And like I do this as, as I have a feeling that if she hated it, she wouldn't do it. But I know that maybe she doesn't like ever say, oh, let's, she's never the one to say, let's do it. Or let's go out. I always initiate it. And I just think it works that way. And I just want to make sure that, you know, my respect level for her is, I know what I'm doing is not right and is a little bit shady. And I definitely don't, I'm not proud of that at all. But I also know that it brings me a lot of excitement.

It brings our sex life for, you know, every time we do this for for weeks afterwards, we talk about it. And it makes us both like it gets her super turn. on. It gets me very, very turned on. And, uh, and, and it just, it just makes our, our sex, like, which, which is never, ever been bad. Never once has been, um, even, even Rocky at all. It's, it's, it's been great. I mean, we've been 15 years and, um, you know, it'll be my life partner forever. Yeah. And now, listen, I don't want to harp on this too much, but I, I still am not past it yet. The whole, you know, her not knowing. I want to know why. I want to know, why. I don't Why? Is it because you know that she would say no? Have you ever broached the topic? I don't feel like I've gotten that straight answer. No, no. I've never. You won't even go there. No, won't even, won't even ever say that do you want to go on this website, make a profile?

Anonymous. Anonymous. We'd be totally anonymous. Why not? No. No. I know the answer would be no. The answer would simply be, I'm not that girl. I'm not. I would not do that. and she thinks it's random and I'll like her to keep thinking that way. Right. So you're too afraid. I'm just saying like what's unspoken in that whole scenario, I think is your fear of her saying no fucking way. And then she,

this is a woman. This is what I don't get. This is a woman who does hook up with other. guys a couple times a year. What do you think is the difference in randomly hooking up or going on a say completely anonymous and saying let's set it up once or twice a year? What's the fear of even just bringing that up and say she shoots it down? Is it that if she shot it down, you wouldn't feel right about doing it anymore? Like why not just try? That is one part. And then the other part is I'm just afraid that that she would I know what you mean yeah I know what you're

just say beyond to it no and and the pressure I think more of it would be if she if she would know like the pressure of oh my god we're going to meet this guy what if I don't like him what if I'm miserable I and and with with really I mean every all these guys that we go into hey they all know Like if it doesn't, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. And they're not going to be mad. And they know up front, you're not going to have sex with her. You're going to be able to go down on it. You're going to be able to, you know, she's going to blow you.

And, you know, things are, you're going to have a fun night. And if you're not willing to take that chance, and luckily all the guys who have ever taken that chance, it's worked out for them. But the pressure is probably 75% of it. The other 25% would be like she would be hell no and I don't want to risk never doing it. Right. You would ruin your game because then she'd be on to you and she would know. That was my point before that I forgot. Yeah. And it's not like, you know, I don't, there's nothing else in our relationship that I would hide from her.

Like we're open with everything. I mean, how we're feeling, how, you know, how work was today or how, you know, how we think of our, maybe our parents did something. or whatever. We're very open and the communication level is really big now. And it's always been important to her and the connection is important to her. And I mean, this is really the one thing that I feel like this is the direction that we have to go or I have to go to. If we're going to have these encounters and these fun nights, this is the direction it has to go because of the pressure and her saying, no, that's, because she all the time will say, well, that's not me.

And I think that the swing club that we'll do once a year is normally, definitely a theme, definitely something where you dress up, mostly Halloween. It just seems to be a time when we'll go on vacation in late December, early January, and then again, in maybe like April, and then you have that big galile and say, hey, let's go to the club for the Halloween part. party or go for, we've also done, um, marty gras,

you know, where you, where you can kind of have your, mask up, your eyes mask up, right? And, um,

you know, those are things. And, and then that's, there's, there's plenty of times where we go into those and it's like, you know, maybe a,

a couple will talk to us and, and, and I know that because of our first couple times going to the swing club like that, she really didn't care for that part with watching me with another girl. And I'm, I'm totally fine with that. And no, no problem.

But it's, it's, it's, Like, you know, you go and there's guy after guy comes up to you, and she just has a tough time. Like, no, I'm not interested or whatever. It's, you know, she has me do that. And it's never been, like, uncomfortable, but it's just not her thing. And it's not necessarily mine either.

I'd much rather do it out of town and the way we do it with SLS. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it works. Then for me to go to the club. But it is fun. And I do look forward to going. And, you know, she'll get into it. She'll dress up and we'll go. We'll get a hotel room because it is a couple hours away from our home.

And we'll just, we'll make a fun night out of it. So last question about this. Then we're going to get to some of the details of your, you know, your hookups and stuff. Sure. Last question. Like, do you think, okay, if your wife found out, I was going to say, like, if on her deathbed, do you think she'd say to you, but maybe not deathbed, like, you know, like what, if she, found out at the end of the day that all this time, all these hookups you've had with the perfect guy,

because she winds up with them and it all kind of makes sense. You know, it was all your doing. If she actually found out, I mean, would you be like, would she like throw you out of the house and divorce you? Would she just be mad for a day? Like, what do you think would happen? Let's probably not divorce. I would hope not that. But probably mad for more than a day or a week too, but I think that eventually it will be, we could definitely work through us to survive it. And it's not something

that, I don't know, God forbid, she ever came across this. Oh my God, yeah. I don't, I can't imagine divorce would ever be an option. But I really should be, you know, and I try so hard, like I, I,

wine and done or something. still like we're dating and you've been married for so long and um like i told you earlier she's she's my best friend she's she's everything yeah we we i mean i most of my friends like they like to play golf with their you know us and our friends but um you know my favorite is play golf of my wife yeah and it's just just something that uh i like to do and spend as much time as possible whether um we both do and um i think we could get through it but i still don't have the nuts yet to uh to head and say, hey, let's make a profile together and search some guys out. That day will never happen.

Yeah, because listen, you figure, listen, I understand your mentality. And, you know, you figured out something that really works, probably better than if she was involved, you know, take her out of the equation and you could really make it happen, you know, the right guy. And like I said, the ingredients that you put in works probably if she was in the moment. mix, like you said, she would maybe be, think about it too much. Maybe she'd be more picky, you know. So I totally get. And I think a lot of people when they listen, and this is why it's good to just have you really explain, because you kind of like do understand a little bit more

why you wouldn't want to fuck that up. It is working. She does enjoy herself. You're not, you know, you don't, this isn't like you always put it on the table that this is something like, Like at the end of the day, your wife has, it's her decision whether she takes on that threesome or not. And she just always does. But the vetting that you do works. A hundred percent. Yeah. She's never said no.

And there's been, there's been some that she's really like more than others. Yeah. You know, but it's still, it's still at the end where they've all been, they've all been happy. And they're all happy to, you know, write something about us and put. posted on our wall on that on the damn website. Oh my gosh. And we don't really, I don't ask them. I don't, I don't do that for, I don't do that for other people that we've looked up with.

It's just, it's just simply, it works. Like you said, I mean, there's no other way to explain it. Then it's, it's perfect the way it is. And I know that it might not be the honorable thing to do. And it would be, I don't know how other people would, would know about this. maybe my best friend knows. Other than that, that's it. There's no one else.

What does he think? Oh, he loves it. He's like high-fiving you. Oh, yeah. It's crazy. I mean, the four of us, we have a good time together. Four of us yesterday played in a four-person golf scramble. And, I mean, we were all having fun in the cards, side-by, not with each other's, you know, partner or whatever.

Yeah. I mean, we were, we were, it was a very slow round. And, you know, I was getting a blowjob, and he was getting on. And, you know, we were just having fun. And it's just something I, you know, the girls aren't afraid to do. And, you know, they show their, their boobs around. And it's just fun. I mean, they're a little bit, you know, since, I guess we're, I mean, we're not that young.

First of all, like, I don't know if you asked our age or not, but I'm 46 and she's 48. Uh-huh. So we're not spring chickens or anything. But I also think we probably look younger, definitely act younger than our age. probably have no kids helps that. Totally. So it's just, you know, we have that crazy side. She has it too.

It's just she doesn't, she's more ladylike, I guess. And she has that little freak in her and in the bedroom is crazy. And it's a lot of fun. We love it. Now, and I would think that for some guys, it might actually also add to the experience that challenge of like, will she go for? it or not. You know, I mean, maybe some people, like you said, are leery about that, but probably for a large percentage of the guy that goes for it, that might be actually a hot part of the

scenario for them. Yeah. I really, I would think because I haven't ever, so when I said, okay, if we say we're going to be in this town for these six days or whatever, I mean, it's not an exaggeration to get a hundred people, just, whether it's instant message you or email you or whatever. And of those, right, so say maybe I reach out to like four or five. And of those, probably three are like, you know, that's not for me. And of the two that are left, you know, I kind of just have to say, okay, well, you know, this is exactly the rules. And as long as you're okay, and this is it, you know, pick them from there. But it's really, that's pretty much how it works. So talk me through that, like what are the rules that you give the guys?

and give me some scenarios that actually went down. Okay, well, they all are really, really close to the same. Like, we are definitely going to be at a bar. No doubt, that's where we're going to be. And again, whether I know what they're wearing, they know what we're wearing. I mean, it's real, it's not real time, but I mean, it's a pitcher and, okay, we're going out now. Yeah. And they get it.

So, so really, yeah, it's so at the bar. No, but what do you tell them in the email first? Like in that email, what are the rules? The email is you're definitely not going to have sex with her. Yeah. All right. It's going to be a little blow, blow back and forth, you know, blow each other. And, you know, I'm going to have sex with her.

And normally, I prefer and she's really been turned on to it is the by guy. Right. And I'm like, hey, this is the deal. Like, she really gets turned on when she loves to see come. being tasted, eaten, whatever, cleaned up. Yeah. It's never a cream pie. It's always pull out and, you know, it's going to go on her stomach or on her chest normally.

Definitely not on her face. And then she's going to, she really gets turned on when the guy cleans. And normally it's more than one round. normally maybe we'll take a break and it's just so because I usually I would say most of the time I finish first so then it's kind of exciting to watch that you know I'm not by or gay at all but it is kind of hard to see like another guy get turned on off of my wife you know I'm proud that I think she's sexy my friends think she's good looking and you know that's a big turn on for me and to see what she does to see what she does to. to other guys. And then, you know, it really goes into the cleanup part. And we'll break or whatever and then go right back to it. And she's cleaned up.

And, you know, it's not like she's come covered and I'm having sex with her game. But it's usually round two and sometimes even round three. Lately, I'd say in the last two years, maybe I've learned how to orgasm multiple times in a very short period of time. like I'm able to go and and come a lot just when we're together at home and then so I kind of am replaying that that

kind of like sexual thing that I love and and I'll have you know I'll pull out and put some all over like each tid and then I'll just keep I'll go right back immediately go right back in and we'll go for I don't want to sound like a stutter or anything but like we'll go for another half hour

and you know she'll ride on top of me and I'll just play with all the come on her boobs and she loves it and it really turns us both on it keeps me um for being 46 it keeps my uh uh pick up really hard and it gets me really turn on i really i love it actually right that's totally adding to your sex life what'd you say i i i just said i just i love it it just it gets me really going yeah yeah yeah now when you're so how do you go from your so you're at the bar right the guy comes over. Like, how is it set up?

Talk me through one of your scenarios. Okay, so maybe back up just a little bit. Yeah. We'll say, my wife and I'll have a conversation like, hey, like tonight would be a nice night to, you know, if we find a right guy, bring him home. Oh, okay. Not home, but back to the hotel. You throw that out there or she does. Yeah, it's not like we're going out and she thinks, and these aren't the night on vacation where we're doing a, you know,

know a huge fancy dinner or anything. Okay. This is usually after maybe playing golf during the day and, you know, we had an early dinner and now we're going to go out for some drinks. It's that night on vacation. And it's not every, you know, it's just one night when we go. Yeah. It's pretty much she, so she knows before we get to the bar, like if the right guy is

there and, you know, we hit it off, like we're going to invite him back. and she'll do the invite. She'll go up and I'll say, hey, this is, I think he's down or whatever. Or she might tell me, I think he's down. Yeah. And I'll excuse myself, maybe go to the bathroom. And she will say, hey, my husband and I are going back.

And would you want to come back and watch us full round? Or, you know, she's pretty, I don't honestly, it's hard to sound classy in that situation. Yeah. Somehow she does it. Yeah, yeah. And she makes herself, like, feel. not trashy about it. And going back to why I would never say that, you know, ask her to get on a

site together is to say that, you know, that's not her. Right. That would go against that part of her, that part of her that's able to, you know, turn that situation into a classy one, like you said. She knows how to do that. Yeah. And we're not meeting these guys at any kind of dive bar or anything. Right.

Somewhere decent, somewhere on a beach or whatever. and we're talking it. So it's not out of the normal at all for us to talk to anybody. And I think it's important that you said, because I was under the impression that, oh, it's just like a random night you're having dinner and then somehow you're able to work at that. You throw, you know, two hours later, you're back in a room with another guy. But so it is, you know, you guys have discussed that this is your night that you're going to go out that once or twice or three times a year and have a little fun.

Yep, yep, absolutely. Oh, okay. So she's a little less fucked up on your part. Okay, okay, good. Thank you for saying that. Well, at least for me. Kind of some people are like, I probably should have prefaced it at that first, maybe.

I don't know. But no, she definitely goes, like we're going out and she knows that this is a night where if we're going to, if we're going to fall around like she would say, that's going to be it. And then we just happen to run into some guy and luckily. all times they've not been juicebags and they've all been respectful. Yeah. And I tell her compliments, you know, I'll give the guys everything she likes. Yeah.

I'll give them the full how to put it on. You know her love language, right? She's into compliments, yeah. Rubber, rubber leg, tell her she's gorgeous, tell her, like, you know, boy, you know, love your boobs or side, you know, because she's always, even, even just anywhere, she's always showing them off. I mean, she loves her cleavis. She loves her boobs and so is all the guys. So it really turns me on, you know, especially those scenarios when we're not going to do anything. And we just have the girls out.

And, you know, we talk about, boy, I bet that guy we just talked to you for an hour is jerking off thinking about you tonight. And I'm having sex with you. So, yeah. How many times has she ever like, you know, because you have your marked guy in the room, like you know who he is? I mean, has she ever sort of pointed out somebody else other than him? No, no, never. Never once. Wow, interesting.

Okay. So, yeah. No, I'll tell you one time was actually pretty funny. Yeah. And we were in Long Beach. And we, oh my gosh. So I told you earlier, like the same guy that we've, we've, the only guy that we've ever played with twice. and the guy who we've done some

FaceTime with and some phone sex type stuff I had actually set it all up with him He met us, he was out the bar And everything was cool And this girl was in the bar And way like a college girl And she came up and it was like Oh, you're so pretty

And she's talking to my wife And I'm like, oh, this is all And this guy, we had already started talking to him And she just kind of, she was, she was drunk up and having fun and she's like oh you're beautiful and all this and um they started making out at the bar and so my wife knowing that wait who is making out your wife and the girl or the guy and the girl yeah okay oh okay my wife's making out of this college girl at the bar this is like maybe three years ago yeah like yeah 2019 yeah and and they're making out and and

I'm like oh no I'm totally telling this but this guy is like doing really good on my wife. Oh, my God, hilarious. And he fits everything we want. Like, he's by. He definitely, like, loves calm. I mean, he fit everything. And I don't know if it'll work out with this girl

because she was pretty trumped up. And, you know, I don't know if we would have done anything with that in the state she was in, but she was definitely loving my wife. But, you know, we came back, hooked up with the guy. And like the next day, my wife had said something to me, like, you know, we could have had her. And I said, no, you know, we had fun. And so that was kind of a, that was the only time where there were somebody else, I guess, that she was interested in. But he still went back with us, had a great time.

He ended up being super cool. He is super cool. We just, I really, and I think, like, if, and I don't think it would ever go to, I really never, don't foresee her having sex with anybody else. else, but I can see this guy because now, after the, since the second time, we played with him, and we have these phone calls and we have these FaceTimes. And she's like, oh, I can't, you know, I want to be DP by you and, you know, my husband. And it's like, oh, man, I don't know if we can ever play with this guy again because now he's going to think, like, she's, I'm, you know, she's told him all this stuff. But, um, what do you mean? Why couldn't you? I don't understand. Understand.

And because, okay, the guy, now she, this guy that you've been with a couple times, you and her, you know, she's in the know that you're not setting this up behind her back. You guys, you and her are talking about the stuff that you do with him, I'm assuming, right? I mean, it's not, of course. So why isn't that guy the perfect guy? I mean, that's really a great sort of opportunity for you to, if you went down the path where you had a couple regulars, you know, where you weren't. doing anything behind her back because this is like she's down for it she knows about it you know what I mean yeah I do and and it's and it's and it's not like this is all the time that we have these right or conversation with it's it's it's once in a while it might be maybe once it it okay so say maybe once a month once every six weeks something like that it's not a daily or a weekly occurrence and and it just are you asking like will will she ever have sex with him or do you think that that's that's one situation where you're not doing anything fucked up i mean there's you know she's in the know like if you kept playing with that guy you know

or or had similar situations where you could get some regulars you don't do it enough and you're not you know that you wouldn't need to go behind her back that's all i'm saying it's like a yeah i i don't think that we'd ever have i don't think she'd ever want a regular right right okay uh huh That's, yeah. And the second time we went out with him. So the first time we met him in L.A. Yeah. In Long Beach.

And then we went out to San Diego this past winter. And I had texted him and said, hey, we're going to be in San Diego. Would you want to, you know, meet up with us? And he's like, absolutely love to. And I'll be the two-hour drive or whatever. And he was excited to do it. Now, I never told my wife until we were on the airplane going out. Okay.

And it was going to be the following day. I said, hey, you know, I said his name, and I said he's going to come down tomorrow. And she's like, well, I wish you would have told me. And it didn't start a fight or anything. But it was something like, you know, I would have been fine with it. And I am fine with him coming because, you know, that probably saves her a night from, you know, having to meet a random guy where somebody she knows and is comfortable with and, you know, didn't do anything stupid and followed all the rules.

it was a perfect gentleman, perfect, perfect, perfect guy for us. Yeah. And, you know, so she wasn't, she wasn't upset, but she just wished that she was disappointed that I didn't tell her prior. And she said, hey, we could have had, you know, the phone conversations and stuff leading up to it. And I kind of kicked myself in the butt for not telling her. And then since we've been back home and this was like just this past February, you know, we've had the five or six phone calls with them, four or five, maybe something like that. Yeah, you might listen. I think some people might even say you might be missing out on some stuff because of how, you know, in one sense, you might be missing out on her ever going any further because you keep it the way, you know, you're good at, which is the randomness and the random people.

Whereas maybe with this guy, all the DP talk and, you know, she might cross some lines. Yeah, no. Well, I don't think I'd want to see that either, though. I don't. It's not going to be a sex thing. I mean, she's, so this guy, like, it is so hot when he will do anything, like, liquor anywhere and do everything. And, you know, she really, she just enjoys that.

And that's as far as he knows he's going to get. And we're all comfortable with it. And I love it. You know, the things that he's done, the the the almost the I don't want to say it's cuckold because I'm definitely not that and I'm but it's almost like is there such thing as a reverse cold like we're that's what you think you said yeah that's interesting you mean because you're well no the cuckold is the guy that's watching I mean you like to watch well but I'm always I'm never just there I'm never just watching right and

I'm never ever just sitting there. And it's almost, if there was any kind of, I don't know, humiliation is the right word because it's really not humiliating somebody, but it's like, because he wants to do it or whatever. But when he cleans up everything, it's like normally like a couple, a married couple, like my wife and I, and we play with a single guy. It's normally a husband that does all that.

Yeah, yeah. And that couldn't be further from what happens. It's the single guy does all of that. So I don't know if that's necessarily called a category or called anything. I don't. Yeah, maybe just a threesome. I don't know. I'm as clueless as you are sometimes with some of these things.

You know, I need a professional people to explain. But it's weird. Even just, okay, so say I'm, you know, not that I look at porn a whole lot, but when I do and, you know, say I'm bored at home and I put it up on my phone. cuckold is definitely what I go to because it is the two guys and a girl and one guy's clean up but it's always the husband right it's never it's never like our scenario where it's we're looking for that by guy to come in and clean me up right he's not him to be the sub kind of yeah he's the one yeah I wonder if that's more like just Dom sub kind of role playing kink

scenario I don't know yeah well it's something that that was one of the reasons, you know, for me to, you know, half of it was to say that my, you know, my wife and I swing and she doesn't know, but then the other part was kind of, kind of this. Like, you know, I wonder how many people like the scenario that we do or how many guys are like me. Yeah. Like that, kind of action in, in bed where I'm definitely never going to touch his dick. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you want him to be by and you're not even by. It's interesting. It is an interesting. dynamic. Yeah. He's got to be by like we won't do it with a with a straight guy. Yeah. No way. They have to they like she really likes when maybe we're laying on her side, her and I, and then the guy's going down on her licking her clit at the same time. She loves that. She thinks that that's the hottest. And you know, the guy, I mean, I'm pretty sure he's probably touching my dick down there, but it's like I'm not looking at it. I'm not, you know, I know he's like, and obviously her, his focus is her, maybe her quit.

Yeah. But, you know, my dick is home close to his mouth, and I would never, ever sit there and, like, let him give me a blowjob in front or whatever. But there's been scenarios where I think it's really hot when the guy and I both have our dicks in her mouth. I think that is super hot. Right. I love watching that. And, you know, not that I'm getting off at all touching his dick. I've never touched one with my hand, but my dick is touched.

touched another day. Cross swords. Sores, cross swords, right? But I think that's hot and she likes doing that and she gets turned on. It's pretty interesting. So it's never couples, though. Have you ever set up a couple or is it always the buyback? Yeah, I did a couple before.

Went to, went out of town, went to play a top golf one night. You know, we were, we were just out and we, we, we, there was a, a bar restaurant, a wing place kind of thing, right, right next to our hotel. So I had, uh, I had reached out to the couple, told them straight up like, hey, this is, you know, I, actually, I think I'd put up like, hey, we're going, like I normally would do, we're going out of town or whatever and we're going to be here. And, and a couple responded. And she knew she was, she was okay with it being, uh, um, that's, um, that's narrow, but again, it kind of, and I believe that was probably the last couple we ever played with, because even though we didn't have sex, my wife just really didn't find me kissing or going down or getting a blowjob from another girl to be that exciting for her. And I'm fine doing, I think this scratches my itch and to get loose, you know, two, three times a year. And, and I'm fine with it. Yeah, I think that's what's most important. A lot of times on YouTube I get a lot of people commenting on certain episodes where like whether it's just the wife that goes out and fucks guys, but the guy doesn't or vice versa.

People go mental over stuff like that. It's like what does it matter? Like it matters like what the couple has agreed to. I mean, you both, I mean, she doesn't know about you setting things up. But as far as what goes down and, you know, your boundaries and everything, it's really exactly what you both want. And you're really well suited. because you like it.

Nobody's looking to go any further. It's fine the way it is, you know? And you don't even mind that she doesn't set it up because it's probably easier for you to do it. Because like I said, I think it's like a sure thing when you do it. It is. It is. It is.

The screening process and being honest and being up front with the guy. Like, hey, you're going to have to make an effort. And it's not, you know, I did. I courted her for a long time. and you know you're you're getting a blow job after two hours it took me two months right right right I'm going to fast track you you fast track them yeah I'm going to fast track you and you're going to have some fun and I promise you're going to have a good time and it's not not guaranteed but I regardless you you're going to have fun at the bar with us and we're going to entertain you whether we're laughing telling jokes or stories and things like that you're not going to you're not going to go home pissed off and luckily that it's it's never been we've

never sent a guy home who hasn't come back to our hotel right now what about your best friend you talked about how your best friend and you guys sometimes you play golf and you're each getting blowjubs I mean do you guys like like do have you ever done soft swapping with the your no never no never we talk about it all the time oh really and have have never done it and and and I don't think we would. I mean, he, he, uh, he, he, uh, he, uh, he, uh, he, you know, we, we, we just, um, eloped to Vegas. It was a, it was a pretty, um, pretty low key wedding. Um, second one for both of us. Uh, we have, we have no children and been together a long time. And, um, when we eloped, like, they, they, they came with us and, uh, she was, uh, my wife's, uh, made of honor and, uh, he was my best man who also

walked my wife down the aisle. It was just the four of us. And, and, um, uh, he was just the four of us. And, and, and, you know, came back in the town and had a big party and stuff after that. But, um, just the marriage thing and, and so why I see that is like, you know, we're just really close. And I mean, I've seen his, his dad. I mean, he should, he wrote, he had his dick on my leg yesterday. Just like, joking around. Like when I was getting a blowjow, he came over and said, hey, can I go next?

Just jokingly. And my wife's never, you know, giving him one. And I've never gotten one from his wife. But, um, you know, we've been in the same room where you guys are fooling around kind of Yeah. That kind of stuff goes down. Absolutely. Right.

Yesterday we were outside with a ton of people around us, and we were both golf carts parked next to each other, and we were both getting low jobs while we're waiting a deal. Oh, my God. That's what's going down at the golf courses? That's what we do. That's it. Oh, my God.

And my wife will let me take, you know, as many pitchers as I want. I've got, like, all the time, every time we play golf, like, even if I don't finish or anything, like, I'm just like, you've got to suck. I need a picture. Yeah. And, uh, and,

uh, and, yeah, it's cool. So I got a lot of, uh, material on my phone to use if I ever, uh,

miss her. So, uh, yeah, that's crazy. But now he knows, though, your friend knows that you set up these three sons like what

you're telling me. He knows that too, right? He's in the know. He's the only one. He is the only one. He is the only one he knows. And he thinks it is awesome.

And he wishes he could, uh, he could, uh, he could do that. he has yet to do it. You know, they've been the swing clothes aside and pretty much probably the same level we are just soft, I guess, is the technical term. You know, I have no desire to watch anybody have sex in life and damn sure I'm not going to watch it.

But I will watch her do anything else. Now, has she ever been with a woman? Anytime you've been just that girl she made out with, but anything like that she wants to do? She's mentioned that she would. She would not go down, but she would have it done to her. Right. Is what she says. I mean, making out, I've seen her kiss tons of girls.

Right. You know, we're in a couple's bowling league together, and I think she's kissed every woman that we both with. And, but never anything more, you know. And like I said, she's pretty proud of her natural boobs. And she shows them off all the time. And, yeah, she's happy to do that. And she knows it turns me on.

She knows that, like, you know, she'll have her eyes on me while she's making out with a girl not even focusing on her, just making sure I'm enjoying the show. Right, right, right, because she knows. And then you bring all this kind of stuff back. And like you said, that's what adds to your guy's sex life. I mean, it does. Oh, it makes it so hot. And, I mean, for people our age to have sex, like, literally.

I don't know. It's really seven times a week. It might be two in a day and take a day off. But it is constant. It is like I actually went to my family physician and I was like, listen, I don't wish, and this was like two years ago, maybe I was like, I don't wish a 46-year-old woman on anybody. Like I need some help keeping up with her. So like, you get a doctor person.

You know. And he's like, enough, enough, enough. I don't need to hear anymore. I'm like, well, I'm just telling you. Like, I mean, this broad wants this girl. All the time. I'm not going to time. And it hasn't stopped.

I don't know what it will. I hope it never does. It might not because, you know, they do say, I mean, listen, I think that a woman in her late 40s, what happens, or it starts in the beginning of your 40s, but like, it's definitely like your last hurrah. And I think in nature, it's kind of like your body's way of saying, like, go out and get pregnant because it's, you know, so you get extra horny. It's like the horniest time of a woman's life right before she gets menopause.

But the good news is if you, it's very true with menopause. like if you keep using it, you don't lose it, you know? So if, like, you guys are like this and she's all this action, you guys have this like incredible sex life. She is most likely going to stay that way, even through menopause. There are women just because like it, most women that doesn't happen to, but it's because they, they haven't been banging their, at that point, their sex life is, you know, the way, what happens after 14 years, you know,

they're doing it maybe once every whatever and that you know there's just a lot of things that go into play that it's not happening anymore and then all the stars align and the woman doesn't ever want to have sex anymore but it's that's not going to happen to you am i making sense no and and i wouldn't be i don't think i'd be too mad if it broke for her like a month or so and get her up but now it's uh it's awesome how old is she again no she's right now she's 48 yeah no you have a couple years now listen like I mean, I would say, like, oh, send me a pick for my Patreon, but I can't do. I do not do. I have to tell you this straight up.

I do not do pictures of anybody's partners because it's not consensual. Do you know what I mean? I get it. I sent one to you and I thought of that in the back of my mind. Like, hey, you know, it's probably not right. But maybe at least for you to see us and see that we were really good. Yeah, I mean, I saw it. I'm in the know.

She's beautiful and she's got this big boobs. And I wish I could post it because. you know, like that's why people go to sign up for my Patreon, but I can't because she doesn't know that's important to me, you know. Sure. Listen, I think it's like, you know, your story is really interesting. What people are going to say on YouTube I will be very interested in. Oh, great.

I don't know if I'm going to ever look at it. You should. I mean, I wonder. That's what I love about YouTube. I love the conversations. I've had issues with YouTube lately. because of my content, so I might be just posting, like, clean clips, but I wonder what people will think about your scenario.

I mean, this guy, the guy, your friend, he's the only other person that knows, right? Besides the people that you've hooked up with. That's it. Yep. I wonder what the general public will think. Will they glom on to, like, what I did? Like, you know, the fact that she doesn't know is, like, it's kind of not cool. Or will people, a lot of people, be like, your.

BFF that's like it's fucking high-fiving you and it's like wishes he could do it think you're gonna get a mix of both I'll be interested to see absolutely and and when I um you know I signed up for your Patreon and and that's you know looking at uh it's nice to put where you know you're talking to these girls or or guys even or whatever and just to know what they look like and yeah and I'll tell you some of yours are so funny and you know some of them like you know when you know that it's so awesome how you will call someone out and you're just like the most real and easy to talk to and obviously we've we've probably emailed you maybe a couple weeks ago and knowing this day was coming and and uh you've made it so easy and it made it uh very comfortable

to talk to and as nervous as i was i hope i didn't come across as being too bad but um i was i was sweating a little bit and uh you've made the conversation awesome no you made it great and i feel like some people might be mad at me for cock blocking and not just making it be like all these scenario stories. But I think it really is very interesting the fact that you set these up behind my respect. And what I was thinking in the beginning, I was like, you know, there's been a couple times where I've been talking to a guy that wants a set up a three or like he, you know, he wants to get his wife to do something. And I'm like, well, why don't you, you know, set something up but she doesn't kind of know, and then it just falls into it and get her in that way.

I've actually offered up what you're doing as a solution, which is kind of fucked up in my end. Do you know what I'm saying? Like, mock it up and make it happen, act like it's natural because she'll be down to it. And then when she's down, then, you know, you could move forward. Like, I really wonder what people will say and will think. And I think everyone's going to, there's going to be just a variety of things. I think everyone creates their own, you know, sort of rules and regulations, their morals and values. Everyone's are different and everyone sets those up, you know, according.

I think the worst is when you're doing something where you know is very wrong. I don't think you feel bad about what you do. I think, right? No, I don't feel bad. And having that conversation like saying she knows that tonight is our night to go out. And if we meet the right guy, like, yes, we'll bring them back to the room and we'll all have them fine. So, like, knowing that going in, and then, so it could be a tip for a listener to say, you know, have that conversation with your wife. It's not like, it's never been a time where, where, oh, like, oh, we got to go and this guy's meeting us.

And hey, this guy's really cool. And we'll bring it back. I wouldn't do that to the guy number one or definitely my wife, number one. But I wouldn't do that to anybody else. Yes. I'm being, you know, these guys know well in advance, like she does not know this is happening. And, you know, just being up front, I, maybe this could be a tool to help. Like, if you suggested this, it might not be all that bad, hopefully.

And like, here's some advice. Like, this is what this idiot did is he tells his wife, like, hey, we're going to. I don't know. No, no, no, no. I think I feel different about my advice now after hearing it laid out. But I do think, and in the beginning of your intro, I am going to put this, that, Like I do think the fact that it, you know, when you go out at night with your wife, it is already discussed that you guys are trolling for a guy to hook up with is very different than you setting it

up just randomly on a vacation without her having any idea. There is something to that aspect that does change things a little bit. And I will make that disclaimer in the beginning. So people wait to get to that point before they totally judge you. You know, because I do think that little that. that part of it changes it a little bit but you know we'll see what people think

I that's what I love about YouTube is that people can comment and we could get in conversations and I love to hear people's different opinions about it I won't let anyone trash you don't worry I stick up from my my collar I'll fight your battles but I think you could do you know I think it'll be interesting yeah yeah yeah but I love

I love your story it's super fascinating I mean the minute you wrote in, I was like, oh, this is something that I haven't heard before. And I always love that. I've been doing my show for like seven years plus. So I've basically heard it all. But, you know, I guess I have it because look at this call. Well, great. Well, I really enjoy your podcast. I mean, out of the 500 some, I actually found it on Iheart. Yeah, that's great. And, you know, then like I told you, you know, subscribe to the Patreon. But I still listen to it on IHart. It's just easy for me. for sure and it's uh just just listening and and i god i've i'll bet you i've definitely over a hundred

maybe close to 200 or so um that that i've listened to and you know some of them uh actually not some of them most of them are awesome yeah i love that i really really enjoyed and i'm glad i came across it and i'm glad i had the nuts to uh to write you and say hey man i think that this could be i really loved to talk. And you made it, again, you made it so easy. I can't think you know. Yeah, no problem. But listen, I mean, I can't believe you were listening for 100 before you thought to like that you didn't have a good enough story to be on my show. I mean, come on. Yeah, yeah. It's, you know, it's good. It works for us and, or works for me. And she hasn't, she hasn't stopped it. And I think hopefully, you know, when we retire someday and move to Florida

and hopefully we're those old slingers having some fun and still doing this stuff in our old age. Yeah, I'm sure you guys will be. Well, thank you, Ryan, right? That's what we called you. Thank you for calling in. You're going to hear your episode now on Iheart. It'll be up very soon.

Your voice will be changed a little bit, so nobody will know who you are. Thank you. Okay, I'll keep you anonymous. And thanks anyway, thanks again for calling in because this was a fascinating story. All right. Awesome. Thanks, Ryan.

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