Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 523 - Joe's Wife is Into Hooking Up with Other Men

Episode Date: August 31, 2022

Joe’s wife is into hooking up with other men and he called in to talk all about it. When did she start hooking up with other men? How does Joe feel about it? And, how has it effected their marriage? Tune in for all the details which include their first Uber hook up and how the driver got involved, the time they got picked up in a bar by a couple and how it wound up in a full swap, how he started researching the lifestyle and put them on an app to meet people, their trips to Vegas and their experience at the Red Rooster swingers club, how she enjoys being watched while having sex, their numerous hook ups with Uber drivers including the time she had sex with one, their numerous threesomes and why they prefer the MMF threesome, why they never talk about their swinging, why he thinks that a problem and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So today I have on Joe. Joe was funny to me. This whole story was interesting. There's a lot of Uber driver sex on this episode. There's also like in the beginning he starts off telling me that, you know, him and his wife who've been together forever, or now like having sex with other people, including Uber drivers. And he was like, oh, but I don't know that she's really into it because she only does it when she's drunk and I don't think she's into it. And I was like, wait a second.

Like that's kind of effed up. But it turns out she's totally into it. Don't worry about that little thing in the beginning where I'm like, wait a second. She's not into it. That's like effed up. Because that just all goes nowhere because that's not the case. His wife is very into it. It's a very interesting story of how they did wind up hooking up with an Uber driver,

how she loves like Uber drivers to watch them. Sometimes they join in. They also have gone to swingers clubs. And this is all new to them. They were very conservative, but they've been together a long time. They're still young, though. I mean, they're only in their early 30s. So they're still, like, out partying in the bars.

And that's where they meet a lot of couples. They've gone to Swingers Clubs, like I said, in Vegas and different places. They also, like I said, have some Uber driver, voyeurism, exhibitionism, SCX with the Uber drivers, all that kind of good stuff. It's interesting and funny to me. I put a shout out on this episode numerous times, like, are there any Uber drivers out there that knows that this shit goes down? I don't drink anymore.

And when I drank, we only had cabs. We didn't have Uber drivers. So I do know that there's plenty of times I was like hooking up in the backseat of the cabs and I'm sure the cab drivers were watching. But it wasn't like a thing where anybody was like hooking up with the cab drivers. But maybe now that all these like young kids that are in college are driving Ubers. Maybe it's the demographics are different that this stuff is going down. Like maybe when I was drinking, I would have wound up hooking up with Uber drivers or I don't

know, have them get involved in a threesome. I don't know. But I put a call out if any Uber drivers are listening and you have a lot of SEX stories. I want you on my show. I mean, email, strictly not on this podcast at gmail.com. But you're going to hear this story. It's interesting. It was entertaining. I laughed a lot. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Joe. Hi Joe, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good, good. Thank you for having me. No, thanks for calling in, Joe. I mean, you're a younger guy who has a girlfriend and I think that I see a trend happening where I get, you know, these younger people calling in now who are trying these alternative lifestyles. When I was younger, nobody in their

30, you know, in their 30s were doing stuff like this. It was more like swingers. The connotation was always like way older, people that played and did stuff like that. But you and your girl have like a hot wife situation going on is that true so it's a little different than that but uh i would call it a hot wife situation um she's not 100% on board with it what until she actually starts drinking and she just opens up and turns into a whole different person oh that's not good i could listen as a person that drank a lot and acted out a lot i know that there's two schools of thoughts on drinking. A lot of people think,

oh, whatever you do or want to do when you're fucking drunk is who you really are. But as somebody who was an addict and had a drinking issue and drank a lot and fucked a lot of people when I was drunk that I would have never fucked when I was sober, 100% drinking was not who I was. And I was not, it was not bringing out the truth of who I was.

It was bringing out the worst part of me or just, it was making me do things that I didn't want to do, but it wasn't like these were secret things and alcohol loosened me up to it. So, you know, it's a little worrisome that she has to drink to do this stuff and she's not into it. Because just because she becomes into it when she's wasted doesn't necessarily mean she's okay with it. You know, she might not be into it. Well, I mean, nine out of ten times, it's her choice that we go out. So wait, so explain that.

to me, okay? Like, explain how she's not into it, like, just, because I don't want to focus all on that, but if your wife's really not into and she's just doing it drunk, then I will focus on that, but I want it. You know, I'm hoping that's not the case. Tell me, explain what you meant. Yeah. One thing that's different between us that I hear

on your podcast is people go home and they talk about it and they'll pre-plan and see, with us, it's a little different. It's just a spark of a moment. Let's go out tonight and we know something's going to happen. Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm. Yeah, listen, that's because you guys go to clubs and bars still, right? Because you're younger. Right. That's the difference. The older ones that I'm talking to you on my thing, they're not doing that because they're not going to bars and clubs. So they have to set up those scenarios. But, yeah, it's so much better if you are in that type of lifestyle when you're younger.

You don't really have to set it up. You could get someone every single night going out, you know? Right. And it's not that it's easy, but it's getting to be a little. It's around. Yeah. I mean, everybody's out to hook up. And alcohol loosens people up, gets people doing things they want to do, they don't want to do.

But wait, explain to me why you say my wife's not into it, but every time she gets drunk, she becomes into it. Could you just, like, explain that further for me first? So she was, when we got together, we got together very young. We were in high school, 17 years old. She's pregnant. We end up getting married. Okay. At 18.

Mm-hmm. And we grew up very different. We're both first generation Americans. Our parents are all from Mexico. They're very different. Okay. Very different. So she was very, how should I say, shy when it comes to trying new things.

Mm-hmm. And it actually wasn't until we just got drunk one night and stuff happened. we went out to a bar and uh on the way home she was uh she was a she was a she had a couple more shots than i did so uh on the way back she was getting touchy filly in the back of the uber i was the one telling her to stop slow down the uber driver looks back he says hey go for it it's fine don't worry about it happens all the time yeah there must be some guys that are Uber drivers that strictly drive you know in the wee hours

of the morning because they're voyeurs and they like to watch a shit. Oh yeah. Right? Yeah, and now it's a regular thing for us. Okay, keep going. So yeah, so we're in the Uber. She basically just pulled my pants down and started going to town.

Mm-hmm. The Uber driver actually pulled over and asked if he could watch. Oh, oh my God. And we said, I looked at her, she said, yeah. First of all, wait, I want to just give a shout out because I know that there's a lot of Uber drivers listening because I have one recently reach out and be like, hey, were you in L.A. recently? Because I picked up somebody and I thought it was you. I was like, no.

But I know Uber drivers listen. If there's any Uber drivers listening and you are like this Uber driver in a story, please call me or come on my show. I want to hear these stories from the Uber driver situation. I mean, he was like, hey, do you? mind if I pull over and I watch? Just watch. Just watch. By this point, it's only my dick that's out.

Yeah. I mean, she still has her clothes on and everything. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I thought it was kind of weird, you know. But she said, yeah. She's going to town and he's the one to ask, you know, can you pull her shirt down? Oh, my God. So she turns around herself and does it.

Uh-huh. She's a little exhibitionist. Right. So she turns around. She goes ahead. She does it. He asks if he could touch. She says, yeah. I've never been the type to say, hey, look at my wife or what she's wearing. But it was a turn-off. Isn't that interesting? Like you would have never known. I would have never known. I've always been the type of we're at a bar. Hey, why is he looking at you? What's going on? But that day, it just something flipped. Yeah.

And, yeah, so we did her thing. How far did you go? She got naked. That was about it. Okay, but she didn't do anything with him. No. He just, like, touched her or whatever? Yeah.

Mm-hmm. Yeah, and by the time we got home, it was the best sex ever. I'll tell you that. up until that time. Mm-hmm. Okay. So I tried talking to her about it the next day, and she wouldn't have it. She just didn't want to talk about it.

Right. At all. Okay? I left it alone. About two weeks later, we decided to go out again. And this time at the bar, we find this couple young like us, probably the same upbringing. So we're all talking. We're getting to know each other pretty good.

And the female from the couple actually asked us if we were into that stuff. Wow. It's interesting, right? Right after you finally do, you do this one little thing and now all of a sudden you're like fly on shit for other people that are into it. It's like you reek of we're down. So my wife tells them, though, you know, we don't do stuff like that. But she said, well, how about watching? Are you guys into watching or being watched?

the girl and the couple says that or your wife says that? Yeah, a couple. The other couple. So at this point, it's just, it's just a female talking. The guy's off to the side. And my wife agreed to it. She said, yeah, yeah, let's try something like that. She came over and she let me know what was going on.

And I said, yeah, I think that'd be fun. So we went back. They already had a room. I guess after time, you know, a little while later, we figured they do this all the time. Yeah. So that night when we went, it was full on,

everything went on. He had sex with her. I had sex with her. Oh, wait, wait, so you had just agreed on watching, but you wound up full swapping? Right. Again, our wife just got drunk and she turns into a different person. Okay, it's a little bit different than I was thinking.

Yeah, she does sound like she's fucking damn. down. Yeah, she's so sick. And it's funny because every time we try to talk about it or I try to talk to her about it, she doesn't want to hear it.

Interesting. You know, we all play mindful. We all mind fuck ourself and we all do weird things to make ourselves be okay with weird things, you know? It just might be like

her weird way of like being okay with it. Maybe there's some part of her, some little part of her that doesn't feel right. So if talking about it would horrify that little part of her, but the rest of her is like, you know, loves it. I don't know.

It's interesting. But it makes sense in the weirdest of ways. Well, and so, so that, that night before anything happened, we went to the room, that couple's, they're going at it. Mm-hmm. They're going at it. We're just sitting there watching. Of course, she, she had, there came to a point where she went down and she's blown.

and she's blowing me and we're watching. So I turned her around. I'm eating her out. When I look up, she's making out with the other female. And she's never done that. Wait, wait. Who's blowing you? My wife.

Your wife's blowing you and then you look up and who's... Now your wife... So she started blowing me. Yeah. I turned her around. I started eating her out. Oh, okay. Right, right. Okay. So when I looked up, she's making out with the other female.

Okay. And that's never happened. Mm-hmm. Never. So I'm just enjoying the show, right? I'm just watching. So the female asked my wife if she could blow me. And my wife said, yeah, go ahead.

Mm-hmm. So this starts going. So then she told my wife, if I'm doing your husband, can you help out mine you don't have to blow them you just help him out or i said yeah i look over and she's gargling she's going at it wait did you say gargling yep no hesitation no he was she was hung she was what the the guy was hung yeah he was hung okay so uh can ask you a quick question Let me ask you a question. For a guy,

because this is something very new for you, does the fact that he's hung make it better for you? Like, do guys like when guys, like other guys have big dicks too? Like, I know it's very important for a guy to have a big dick, but like, do you also like it

when the guy has a big dick? Like, there's no intimidation around that? No, I don't feel intimidated just because we've been together. mom. Yeah. I think it's more of a, like, I'm happy that she's enjoying something like that. Yeah, it's interesting. No, because I do hear that a lot. A lot of the times, the guy being bigger or well hung is a part of it, not just for the woman, but also for the man. And it's interesting to me because that's dick size is such a thing for guys that you'd think. And I think some guys would assume that

they would be, that would be actually worse. But sometimes in these kinds of situations, like it's, it was like pleasurable or it was like a part of the hot, like a part of the hotness was the fact that he was well hung for you. Right. Okay. Yeah, it was something, I mean, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, myself, I'm, I'm okay. I'm not, uh, nothing compared to the way he was, but I haven't had any complaints, but That day was just, you could tell it was the biggest she's ever seen.

Yeah, yeah, okay. So she's going at it. And the female, so that my wife came back with me and they're both blowing me. They both went to him. So it just got to the point where let's call her Margie. She looked over to my wife and asked, can I fuck your husband? And she said, yeah, yeah, go ahead. So we're fucking.

My wife is still just blowing him. She gets off. She goes over with him. My wife comes over. So we're going back and forth, back and forth. My wife started fucking him. And it was hot. It was hot.

You tell it was the biggest she's ever had because she needed a lot of loop. And it took some time for him. I actually started going at it. Right. I think he was getting frustrated because he was kind of slow, kind of slow, and it just, it took two days for us to have sex again. Because she was so sore. Soar, yeah.

But, so that was the first time that we did something like that. And again, we didn't talk about it. We didn't, we, of course, we went home after that. We had sex. It was, again, one of the best times. every time we've done something every time we go home it's just gets better and better

yeah everybody talks about that how it just adds to the sex life you know you go right the memories what you just did and the reclaiming it's like people have that term reclaiming sex is very odd so I started reading up on

the whole lifestyle more so I started talking to him about it and of course she doesn't want to hear it she doesn't want to talk about it That's okay, but we need to have what they call rules. We need to sit down and we need to have these rules because, you know, if we're going to keep doing this, she'll, every time she says the same thing. We're not.

That was the last time. It was the last time. So, so I set some rules down. And of course, and I hear from your guests and I hear it from everybody. We set the stupidest rule, which was no kissing. Oh, you had that one? We had, that was the number one. number one rule.

What other rules did you have? Always with condoms. Yeah, that's a smart one. Always. We don't do anything. We had our safe word. Just the case when it was there, feel comfortable,

mainly for food. What's a safe word? Can you tell me? Baseball. Baseball. Interesting. Okay, so you had a safe word. You're always going to be safe.

Use your condoms. No kissing. And so did no kissing go out the window? I mean, the first two times it was gone. I think it was just 30 seconds of that rule lasted. Right. Okay. So we went in a little bit after that time. We went maybe about a year before anything else happened.

You know, and I'm always looking for the next one. The next time we're going to do it and things are going to get crazy like that. And she was fine with just going out. coming home going out coming home so the more i kept reading on on as far as uh uh of the rules and the lifestyle you know you get all these pop-ups for online uh apps mm-hmm so i did i signed up for one and and i put up our pictures which one did you sign up for uh swinger dot com okay so uh i did that one and i've been trying double list mm-hmm but it's just

that's more like a Craigslist, right? It's like Craigslist, yeah. But it's just those people are there to trade pictures basically. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And probably a lot of fake people and escorts and stuff. Yeah, nothing good ever came to me. You're better off if you're, there's so many,

you know, back in the day of Craigslist, places like that were the only way you could hook up with like-minded others. Nowadays, because sex is more out there and people are more open. and there are so many apps, like Three Fun, Cassidy, you know, out there where you could go out as couples looking to meet couples. Instead of being in the back page with all the, you know, fake people that are selling shit. And it seems that nowadays, you know, from far away you can see that couple.

You can see them, you know who that couple is. Well, look, that couple knew who you guys were right after you. Right. Right after you had your Uber experience, you got hit up. That was, so now after that, you know, we went a good year without anything. And so we planned a Vegas trip for Valentine. Oh, okay. So we did that.

It was fun. Wait, but we were talking about apps, and I interrupted you. Did you meet anybody on any of the apps or anything like that? So we did. We did. However, when I showed her the app, she flipped out. Oh, okay. Okay.

She flipped out because she didn't want it out there. She didn't want anything. But I was pretty safe on the pictures. There was no face shots at all. Nothing. And, yeah, there were some pictures where, you know, she, I mean, for whatever reason, when we do have sex and everything, she likes to record. Or I record.

We don't do nothing with the videos. We have them there. We'll sit back. Sometimes we watch them. Sometimes we don't. She's very visual. She likes people watching her. She's like a little exhibitionist.

She likes to tape, videotape. So getting to Vegas, it was more, she's always been on the conservative side. She's always dressed, you know, older than her age. So this time around, I bought her, her outfits and short little dresses and stuff like that. during valetizing Vegas, it's pretty cool. Oh, really? Yeah, that's not something I planned over, so. So we were out there walking the strip.

She's out there in some new dresses, and it was just amazing, or it was just eye-changing. It was different the way guys would look at her, and she liked that. And she never normally dresses like that. No. Except maybe on Halloween, like every other girl. not even for Halloween not even stuff like that she was always the

the vampire not even the sexy vampire okay so uh so it was just different for her and she loved it she was she was amazed she was we went to a bar free drinks all night for both of us

because or how hot she looked because how yep and she would just go ahead flirt with guys and talk to guys to me that was the turn on just watching her have fun. Yeah, why don't you give people a visual of your wife? Like, how hot is she?

She's, I would say, to me, she's a 10. Yeah. Out there, she's like a solid seven and a half, eight. That's good. Considering we have four kids also. Yeah. So she's kept up. She works out.

And me and myself, I'm a straight. dad bought, I mean, I don't work out good thing. So I'm pretty lucky. That you have her. So with her, she has, she's kept up. She works out. She's a stay-at-home mom, so she'll go to the gym

and do her stuff. And, um. So you're in Vegas and she's looking super hot. Yeah. Yeah. It was fine. We really didn't do too much. Mm-hmm.

Just, you know, go out. That was enough. for us. You know, we're learning these, you know, new things, you know, flirting and she's out there talking to guys. That was about it. Okay. I'm surprised you didn't do anything in Vegas. Well, we decided to go back. So we're in the middle of all this. We rebooked for two weeks later. So our trip wasn't even over again. We really had, you know, plans to go back. Oh, how funny. Okay. So the second time we go out there You know, of course, I'm looking up for stuff for us to do now

Besides just the bar and, you know, I look up these swearing clubs What are they porn clubs? What do you call them? The swinger clubs? Oh, swing or clubs? Sorry, I don't know why I didn't hear that. Okay. So we go out there We try the oldest one, which was amazing It was It's very... What's the name of that? The Red Rooster.

The Red Rooster? Yeah. Mm-hmm. That one right there, it's actual house. It's a house inside of a neighborhood. Oh, really? And they did the whole house. It's like a little club.

You walk into the front door of the house and you walk into a door. Wow. The living room is all decked out, so, you know, you have your sitting room. I guess it used to be the dining room where the dashboard is. They have the bedrooms where you used to go in and play. They have the pool, the jacuzzi, the showers, everything's there. And, you know, but we had to pregame before when we went, you know, it was just so she could be friendly.

And we get there and we go straight to the, pool table. So we start playing pool and another couple comes up and and they just ask if they could play with us. So we say, yeah, we start playing. We still don't know all these terms as far as can we play together. What are you guys into? We didn't know what we were into. We just know that we go out. Yeah. So we start going out. We're playing, you know, couples pool. So the other females, she wanted to swap partners. So she said, yeah, I'll play with your wife and you play with my husband and we'll play that way. All right.

So we start playing. They start drinking. Shots are going around. And by this time, my wife is not drunk that she's getting there. So she gives me the look, the I'm ready look. So the other female, I guess, kind of picked up on it. So she tells her husband. Hey, why don't you show them around?

Why don't you show them around? It's our first time there. I guess they've been there before. The wife, they're actually from Alaska. Mm-hmm. And they've been there a couple times. So you can get a tour around the place and so it shows us the jacuzzi and everything. The wife is nowhere to be found right.

So we go around, we make it to one of the bedrooms. The wife is there with another man. We don't, I don't know who he is. nothing, but they're, they're just going at it. They're going at it. And it was, it was, it was, it was strange to me because we opened the door. They're going at it. And he walks in like that, oh, this is another bedroom right here.

It was, it was different. It was different. My wife opened her eyes, her flesh aren't open. He, he's just said, you're going to sit on the bed and watch her. Would you guys like to play? So my wife said, yeah, let's play. Mm-hmm. So she sits on the bed and she's wearing a low, low dress.

Basically, if she would stand straight up, it would be at her waist. Right. So she sits on the bed the first time ever, I guess the female turns around and asks her if she could eat her up. So my wife agrees, she said, yeah, yeah, go ahead. She looks over and she said that's it. This is the best I've ever had. nobody come close to that so so of course you know it to turn out my wife's going she's there with another female I look over the two males were there just stroking just watching and uh my wife

just calls me over she pulled my pants down she calls over the other husband and she just starts stroking both of us wow she looks over and just basically told me go ahead fuck her so i grab a condo she grabs a condo she puts it on hand they start going at it we start going at it we went out there for for a good maybe 45 minutes and uh we were done washed up we exchanged numbers we got an uber ride back to the hotel on the uber ride same thing touch, she feels he starts going at it. Uber driver says, yeah, go ahead.

However, this time she asked him if he could if he could participate. She asked him. She wanted to recreate that scenario. I guess. Yeah. So

yeah, so he jumps in the back with us and he's fucking hell. She's blowing me. No way, wait. She fucks this. one. Yep. Wow. Yep. Okay. Of course, everything's with condoms. Yeah. So she's fucking him blowing me and we get back to the room again, sex, that's sex. Next morning, again, let's talk about it. She wants nothing to do with it. She doesn't want to hear about it. nothing.

Hilarious. And it's just, I mean, I guess that's, my thing is, I don't know if I should move it and ask her. Move what? Why she doesn't want to talk about it or just keep going at it the way it is. Oh, yeah. I mean, like, it's really like you said in that she is the one that's the driving force. A lot of the times in these stories that you tell me, she is orchestrating. what's going down. I mean, you didn't

beg the Uber driver to pull over. You didn't try to get her to get her to do something with him. She was the one that wanted that to happen and then started having sex with him, right? Right. She digs it. So what do you mean

like this? So you have, go home, you have the best sex, you're in Vegas. The next morning you wake up, nobody talks about it or you try to and she shuts it down? It's just like it didn't happen. Yes. Somehow she likes that. I mean, that works for her.

I mean, the way I think about it, that's the way she lets loose. And, I mean, she gets it out. That's it. We don't talk about it. Right. But I know that's what she wants to do when she looks over and says, hey, let's go out tonight. Mm-hmm. Or can we go out Friday?

Whatever it is. And you think that's code for let's go hook up with other couples and shit? Oh, yeah. You know, that's, I mean, is that Uber or sex story the last time you guys in Vegas hooked up, or do you continue to hook up to other people? Are you still in the apps? So, yeah, so we still keep going out. So now that's a regular for us. Once we go out, we, you know, we pregame at home, so I know she feels, she has that little kick, that little drive now.

So on the way, wherever we go, we Uber. We do no drinking and driving at all. Okay, that's good. Because you also, like, for you, it's a double benefit. You're no drinking and driving, and you might get lucky and have this extra threesome thing going down. Oh, yeah. If she thinks she's cute, I mean, I can tell when she thinks that she's feeling the Uber driver just because she'll be all over me.

Because what? She'll be all over him or she'll be talking to him. Oh, you. So I can serve her down or whatever it is. Mm-hmm. And whenever we go out, it's, I pick her off it. Right. From shoes to darn to bra to dress to whatever it is.

So the shorter, the better, high heels, like super sexy, kind of slutty vibe, be like. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm thinking she likes it now too because she does not say anything. She said, yep, I like it. No, I think these will be better or this dress is better. Okay, wear that one. Right.

She gets a lot of attention. I think if you walk out that first time and she's getting a lot of attention, no woman's not going to like that. Right. So I think she likes it. However, it's just hard for me to tell until she brings it up. Hey, let's go out tonight. Okay, cool.

Let's go. Right. Now, because you're young, are you going out every single weekend or you wait to see if she bring up. So we do have four kids. Yeah. So we do not do it every weekend. We do do it maybe every two months. Yeah.

Every three months, we might go out. And, you know, it's not every time we go out that stuff happens. You know, we don't, we don't set anything up. Everything is just regular couples or what we think are regular couples. a lot of Uber drivers. Really? This is why I need one of these Uber drivers to call up. I mean, is this a regular thing?

If you guys do this, it probably other couples do. And if that one first Uber driver that was like, oh, let me pull over and watch and was pushing, like, there must be tons of other ones that do. Like, there's this whole Uber scenario going down late night. I want to hear about it from, I need an Uber driver's point of you. At a minimum, at a minimum, when we go out, I know for sure, either two things, either I'm getting a blowjob in the back of the Uber, or she'll be naked in the back of Uber. Right. For sure. And, right, one of those things for sure is going to happen.

Right. And also, there's a third thing that could happen. She might fuck the Uber driver. Right. So that one's up in there That one's more 50-50 But 100% is she'll be naked Or I'll be getting a blowjop

Right And like you said It's depending on whether she's attracted To the driver that picks you up Have you guys ever looked at your Uber rating? Can you please look at it right now? Do you have your Uber app on you right now?

Are you calling me from your cell phone? Look at your fucking Uber rating I would expect you to have a very high. What? My personal self is on my dad's. I'm calling you through my work phone. I'm sorry. Oh, okay.

You need to look at your Uber rating. Yeah. I would assume you have a good one. So, and another thing we always say playing around is we're not going to leave you a tip because of what? No, no, no, don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Yeah. So wait, so you don't have to tip on top of it because you figure you gave him your wife.

Right. Right. You can save three bucks, five bucks. Right. Oh, my God. So it's just something different. I mean, we've shared both with couples, single males, and females. She likes girls now.

I mean, she's fully into it. She won't talk about that either. She will not talk about it. Mm-hmm. But when we go out, it's always, it's always like, If we go out to a bar and we're playing pool, you know, we'll do the couples game. Okay, if I win, you do something.

If you win, I'll do something. And, of course, my thing is always a girl. Girl, I want to see you with a girl or, you know, seeing her with the guys, it's hot. Nevertheless, I think I'd rather all three of us, the third person, be a male than a female, because I know she'll enjoy it more. So you do prefer the male-male, male,

female three-sex over the fear. Yeah, isn't that interesting? I know that I used to think before I did my show that two girls and a guy was every guy's fantasy. But after doing my show, I would say I get more people into the, you know, the threesome with a guy. Somebody said on my Instagram the other day like, oh, you know, guys just do that because they want the female, female thing to be down so that they could be with somebody else. or some shit like that. I was like, no, like, trust me, I hear the opposite. Most guys are into, like, seeing their girl with another guy. Yeah, it's, it's, I mean.

It's surprising to me. As far as I don't have to do all the work. I mean, it's tag teaming it and jump in. Oh, my God, Dad Bod. Now I know I have a dad bod. You're fucking lazy. I don't have to do any work. Is it why you're pawding her off on the Uber driver?

He's driving and fucking. your girl. Doing double the work and I'm just sitting back supervising. And you don't have the tip. You're saving money. Yeah. So, so I mean, to me that I mean, she gets more out of it. She gets more out of it.

The times that we've had, you know, women. And not to say that it wasn't fun, but you can tell she was more on the, okay, you go ahead and you do your thing. She would sit back. She would jump in five, ten minutes.

and then sit in the corner of the bed and then come back to it. It was more for me than for her. But does she like to watch? She does. She loves to be watched. And she loves to be watched. Yeah, that's one thing that I have noticed that if we're out, like I said, in the Uber, out in a public place, when we go to, we started going more to swing clubs.

Mm-hmm. When we, I mean, it's more of a, we don't really talk to the other couples. couples will go and we'll enjoy the dance floor, drinks, and we'll go straight to the room, leave the door open, and just let people filter in and out. Oh, okay. So when you guys go there, she's really mostly into being watched as opposed to hooking up other people. Right.

Right. So there for some reason, it's more of a novel stick to ourselves. And, you know, we have hooked up with other couples there. but it's it's it's it's more than anything she wants to leave the door open and and just let people filtering it out like I said sit on the bed they're right there I mean some of them I ask you know can we can we can we yeah she'll say yeah mm-hmm but her turn on is being watched yeah yeah that's interesting but also a same thing she doesn't want to talk about it right but even when you're doing your regular sex

in between those two months stints of hooking up with other people, does she fantasize about it when you're together and it comes out when she's horny to? There's where it comes out. Yeah. She'll talk about it. She'll do her naughty talk. She'll talk about, you know,

other girls' dicks and, you know, other females, breast or her ass, you know, how good it looked when, you know, I was fucking her. And, and, but besides that, the next morning when we wake up,

Nope. Never happened. Right. But how many times did you try? And why do you need it to happen anyway? But how many times, I mean, do you, did you try to talk about it after that she shuts you down all the time? Or are you just assumed at this point she would never talk about it after? Because you keep saying like, oh, after, never talks about it. I mean, do you try every time?

I think after a while I stopped. Yeah. But then, you know, something would happen in between, you know, we would go out and maybe, we did something in the Uber and then we went out again and then I would try to talk about it second or third time after something and still nothing. Nothing.

Even within our own friends, you know, you know, when you're with couples out on a group of couples talking or whatever she won't bring it up, she won't say anything. Of course she's not going to bring it up with other couple friends of yours. As far as

as far as like having a naughty side. Not so much, not so much just. No, but I get that because how far, like, what do you, if you tell somebody you have a naughty side and you show them like a tip of an iceberg, then they could just start to assume all kinds of things. So of course, if she wants to keep that under wraps, she keeps the whole thing under wraps.

I mean, that would be smart to do with the friends. Yeah. Well, with me, it's more of a, I see. see where her mindset is as far as she doesn't want to talk about anything about sex with anybody. Yeah, but who cares? She wants to do a lot of fucking sex.

Oh, I agree. That's right. I'm to the point where if you don't want to talk about it, it's fine. Yeah, because she does talk about it and fantasize about it when you're fooling around and she's in that state and you're not drunk then. So it's not that she's just doing things. When she's horny, she talks about it.

when she's drinking and you're out and about, she's down for it. But when she's in her regular life going about business, she's like a mom or she's going to work, you know, she's going to the gym. She just doesn't want to go there. Maybe that's just the way she has to compartmentalize it. Like I said, it's like a, it doesn't make sense, but it does. A lot of people just have weird rules and regulations that they make up for themselves because it just works for them.

And for some reason, and like I said, maybe it's because she has a little part of her because of her upbringing that doesn't feel right about it, that in her regular life, she just doesn't want to include that or have conversations about that. But when she's horny and the lights go down or you're out and about or you're in Vegas, she can go there. I kind of get it. I like it. I just, I don't know if it's, if it's healthy. Because I hear all your guests talk about how important it is to talk and communication. And it's something that I wanted to do. Okay, but let me ask you this.

I mean, have you guys ever had any arguments because the rule was broken? You said that you had this kissing rule and it went out the window. Was there an argument about it in that scenario? actually no right we've never argued about anything we've never had to use the same for me we've never I mean where it comes to taking well for the team I've here I say that a lot yeah never really done that you're always built down and it just happens naturally listen I just think that not talking maybe is helping in your scenario because it doesn't sound like there's any issues what do you need to communicate about you guys have been together

for so long. I think that definitely helps your situation. I think it'd be a little bit more scary if you were a very new couple and you were doing all this stuff and you weren't really talking about it because who knows what someone could bring up down the line. I don't know. But you guys have been with each other since you were super young. You have four kids together. Now you're exploring these things together. Yeah, she's not talking about it. You're not talking about it. But you're not noticing that she's acting weird or feels bad about it or she's being distant with you because of it.

I mean, everything's okay. It's just adding to your relationship. So I don't think it's a big deal that you're not talking about it. Right? I don't know. Tell me from wrong. Do you do? No, so there's never been any issues, never arguments.

Jealousy, nothing. Yeah. And you don't notice any. difference in your relationship since you guys have been playing like does she act different with you or any kind of weird vibe? As far as she shows more affection, yes. She shows more or less? More.

Right. That's what I'm saying. Look. That goes for both of us because even when we go out to, you know, family functions or or, you know, with our friends. Yeah. They've noticed that stuff too. Yeah.

I just think that, you know, maybe. be, because listen, and I can understand this from a female perspective. I could have in my intimate life be very one way, get into really dirty things or have like a hot scenario or a fantasy and really be into it. Like I said, when the lights are out, when you're in that moment, when you're really fucking horny. And you're like kind of turning on a part of yourself. But in my regular day, if I'm sitting across, even from that guy that I was in, if I'm not in that horny state of I don't know that I'm so comfortable to talk about it. It's,

so I, I understand that separation that she has. It doesn't necessarily, it doesn't mean that she doesn't feel right about it like I thought in the beginning. It just might be that she doesn't want to fucking talk about it when she's, like I said, the mom or, you know,

it just feels weird. It's not, it's a different mask that she wears and she just wants to keep that in its place. And, you know, she goes there when she wants to when it's, but she doesn't feel comfortable maybe talking about that in broad daylight when you're having breakfast. Do you know what I mean?

It's a different. Yeah. I get it. I don't think it's bad. It's something that I like to do. And I mean, I guess I just, I've always heard communication. So something I didn't want to lose. But, I mean, if it's fine, then.

I think so, I mean, are you asking me? Is this like a question? Like you're wondering? Yeah. Yeah. So I guess I guess I was just asking because I hear that it's a very. important, you know, to talk about it. And that the way you, you're explaining it, it makes sense.

Yeah. And I got to tell you, the thing that you have going for you is the fact that you are wondering. You're a very, that's very thoughtful of you. And that's cool of you. Like, you're a, you're a good guy. You know, you're looking out for your girl. You were the same guy that was reading up about the lifestyle. You're the one who brought up.

We should have rules. I mean, you really have a good head on your shoulders for. this type of stuff and your girl is lucky that you're, you're her guy because you are more thoughtful than her about it. You're thinking about it more, but that's only going to help this scenario. Maybe she doesn't want to talk about it and that's okay. But like I said, the fact that you are there ready and willing to have conversations communicate about it, whatever. If she ever does want to, you got her back. But if not, the fact that

like the part of you that's so involved and curious about the boundaries and rules and finding out if this is okay is the part of you that would know if something was fucking up with her too. Do you know what I'm saying? It's like, I just think that

like you guys are going to be okay because like I said, you're down to talk if you need to. But she doesn't. She doesn't want to. You don't feel any distance. You don't feel her.

acting weird about it. You don't feel like she's, it's only helping your relationship. So, yeah. I mean, I don't feel anything as far as, like, because we were just talking about it with another buddy of mine as far as, you know, how couples let their, their wives have friends and stuff like that. I, I mean, they don't know anything of what we do. Yeah.

but to me it was more of a I mean you gotta have trust Of course you trust them You guys are married and everything But you want to have that blind trust Right I mean you don't worry Because listen I've heard on my show And it always blows my mind

You know a guy has a woman who lets him see other people And he's still cheating Sam The one I just put out It's a great story Because he completely turned around But he had his first wife And they were swingers I mean she was bringing home women

For him all the time Like he had his cake That's the one with a pillow princess? Yes, yeah. Yes, I heard that one. Yeah, the pillow princess. And he was still cheating on her. Like, what the fuck?

It would be like if we found out that your wife was cheating on you. Like, what the fuck? You know, that's the only thing you worry about. But it seems like with four kids, she wouldn't have the time. I always wonder with these cheating. No, and what we do go out and it comes time to exchanging numbers and everything, she'll let the other couple know. And, you know, my number doesn't go out if you got to exchange numbers with him and emails and whatever it is.

And that was from day one, you know, the first couple of ass for our number and stuff like that. And she's still today does not give that out. Right. She's not interested. She's busy. She's got her whole life. And then she's got this little part of it where she does this thing and she's having fucking fun. And for a mom of four, stay-at-home mom, taking care of kids all fucking day, she should be banging Uber drivers and you.

having some fucking fun because it's hard work being a stay-at-home mom. So good for her. You know, I think the type of personality that you are really helps. Like I said, I really give you credit. You are a good guy and you are taking care of this relationship and in the way you should. And I don't think there's anything wrong going on here. Let me ask you this. Does she know that you're coming on this show? Or is this a secret? to her. I think when it comes out, I'll let her hear it and see what she says. Okay. That could be, yeah, that's a great idea. That's a great way of putting the thing about communication right on the table and communicating about the non-communication. Because she might be like, oh yeah, Kathy's exactly

right, or she'll be like, no, you know what? It's not what she's saying, but it's this. And this is why I don't like it. You know, it might be a really good conversation starter for you guys. Yeah. I think so.

You know. She always talks about this. One time we went to a swearing club and there was an older couple whose husband didn't tell her it was a swingers club. Did you hear my guy on that sets up ads and hooks everything up for his girl?

But she has no idea. No. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was unreasonly. It was a good one. And what does she say about that scenario? That, you know, the whole trust thing and, you know, I better never do stuff like that. But it was actually, so we met this couple. We experienced everything firsthand because, you know, they walked in there.

It was an older couple. The wife did not speak any English. Mm-hmm. She always spoke Spanish. Yeah. Both me and my wife are first. fluent in Spanish. So we were having a conversation with them. They're older. Yeah.

It was an older couple. But there were, my wife was, you know, she liked the older handsome guy look. And so we're talking to them. Everything's fine. Everything's going good. I'm, you know, they're flirting back and forth. I'm flirting with her. But I guess she didn't know that the husband, the husband was in on it. She, you know, kept everything low. So they passed by, whispers. stuff. And when it came time to, hey, let's go walk around. Let's go look at the rooms. She said, what rooms? What's going on here? So I guess finally when the husband broke it down to her, she flipped out. Of course. She was not having it. She was not having it at all.

So that's one thing that I told me all about the whole communication thing, which that's why I didn't want something, you know, that was pretty embarrassing. But what did she say about that? She didn't like that either. She didn't like the fact that she was lied to. Right. So I don't think your wife looks at your guy's situation and thinks that you guys have a communication issue. I mean, when you guys are out and about, you are communicating when you're in the zone.

It's not like you're just dragging her to a place in Vegas and she has no idea. I mean, you guys are in cahoots with all the hookups you're having. So I don't think she would. Even the clubs that we do go to, you know, I'll line up. I mean, we only go to two now. Yeah. We want to go to two now. But the time when we picked those two, you know, I lined up three clubs and said, you know,

you look them up, pick the one that you want to try. And something in Vegas, we tried the different ones as far as, you know, I laid them out and said, hey, these are different clubs. And she liked that one. And we just, we keep going back to that one. Yeah, you're a great partner. A lot of guys would take advantage of these kinds of situations. I don't know.

You're great. I think you guys are fine. I think it's great that you take charge of all of this stuff and you're really coming from the right place. You're always trying to do the right thing. You even can't believe that there's no communication because you think that that needs to be there, you know, because you really want to do this the right way. But I really think you guys are kind of lucky in that you,

don't need to. And maybe it's because you've been together for so long that you have that unspoken communication with each other. You just totally trust each other. You're both down. You know what each other likes. You're having a good time. And you're all good. You guys are good to go. Right on. Yeah, right on is right. I love it. I love that I was completely wrong. Remember in the beginning I was like, that's fucked up. She just, you know, but I love how you explained it. And like I said, I also love how thoughtful you are about the getting into the lifestyle with her and how much work you put into it and how curious you are about it and how much you want to do the right thing. I think that that really goes a long way. And your wife's lucky. She's got a good guy

and you guys have a good relationship. And like I said, I also feel like she's lucky because you let her fuck other people and, you know, she's got a tough life for kids. I have one and it's enough. Four is too much. So let her have fun. Yes. let her have fucking fun and you do and you guys are living it up so listen after she listens to this episode do you want to send me in some anonymous picks of her too that'd be awesome because I do like to put up anonymous picks of my guess but I don't like to put them up and I won't actually put it up of anyone that's not consent to you know if like a lot of guys will call in a talk and tell me about their wives I'm not going to post pictures of them if they don't know

but if she listens and she wants to put up a pick of herself because she loves to be watching she wants some guys to be like oh my god she's so fucking hot nothing are x-rated you know, just a hot picture R-rated, you could send one in and I'll put it up on my Patreon. Right. Yeah. Okay. So keep me posted.

I love your story. It's good. Joe, what do we call you? Joe, right? Joe. Yeah, Joe. Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. It'll be out very soon.

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