Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 527 - Casey is a Vixen Into Swinging, DV, Gangbangs and More
Episode Date: September 12, 2022Casey is a vixen into swinging, dv, gangbangs and more and she called in to talk all about it. When did she go to her first swingers club? When did she meet her stag husband? And, what do they like to... do together? Tune in for all the details which include the affair she had with her much older boss and how he turned her on to the lifestyle, how she stayed in the lifestyle after they broke up and what she realized she was into, how and why MMF threesomes were her ultimate favorite and what she digs about them, the blind date threesome she had that changed her life, how her and her husbands relationship evolved over time and turned into a true stag/vixen dynamic, how she requires dv (double vaginal penetration) and why she lets guys know about that up front, her first gangbang with four black guys and what exactly went down, how her husband sets up her gangbangs and what they look for, how and why she enjoys single guys night at the swingers club and why she feels like its not fair that they get a bad rap, how she prefers to play with her husband there even though he’s down with her playing solo, and a whole lot more. Also, Casey discusses the three erotic books she wrote all about her experiences plus discusses her Onlyfans account she just opened. Here is a link to all: https://linktr.ee/inbedwithstrangers You can find her on instagram @inbedwithstrangers.official **To see anonymous pics of Casey plus most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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happening very soon. So stay tuned for that. The girl I have on today will probably be back on for
that or back on again to tell me more because let me just fucking tell you this girl Casey okay
she is into a lot of things she touched upon a lot of it but there is so much more to her story
the interesting thing about Casey is she is a writer and she wrote out three books three books
of her life her true story her journey into the lifestyle and all the things that she's into
and what she's done she talks a lot about that but
Mostly what you get here is like the full, like the quick story, not the full story.
You get a lot of details, trust me.
I mean, you won't believe the stuff that she's into.
She starts off talking about how she got into the lifestyle.
She was having an affair with like her boss at the time who was married.
And they started going to Swingers Clubs together.
And then after that ended, she started to go solo.
And she was, you know, hardcore into the lifestyle.
She knew what she was into.
she tried different things like dabbling with girls and stuff,
but really what is her favorite thing besides a male,
male, female threesome is DV, not D.P, that's double penetration,
DV, which is double vaginal penetration.
This girl needs two dicks in her all at all times.
She also needs gangbangs because this girl will tell you,
and she has said it on this podcast,
like she just needs so much sex,
even in like one sitting.
So she's very down with gangbangs.
She's down with going to the swingers club
when it's like single guy nights only
because like one time she went and she would fuck like 20 guys in one night.
Like that's what she's into.
That's what she needs.
She wound up meeting a guy at a threesome
who wound up being the guy she's currently married to
and she's in a great relationship with him.
They are a husband and wife.
They are stag and vixen.
He's very much a stag.
She's very much a vixen.
They are totally in the lifestyle.
He's the one that looks through dickpicks for her
and picks out her guys for the gangbangs
and he sets up the threesome and he's very involved in all that.
And they're really in the lifestyle and they're really happy.
And she's so upfront about all of it.
Like I said, she talks about all of it here,
but there's so much more if you want to get really,
more specific detail. She has her three books. I'm going to put all the links to that in the
description. She has also just started an only fans. She's going to put a lot of stuff up there.
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in her books, which is like all the other personal stuff about her. So you really get to know her
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going to be in the description. But you're going to love her story. So I'm going to be
get right back on. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Casey. Hi, Casey, Donatello.
I'm going to say your whole name because you are a whole name person because you are being
kind of yourself on my show. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast, first of all.
Thank you for having me. I'm very excited about this. I'm very excited because you have a lot of stuff.
I mean, you're kind of like from Vanella, what was your little phrase you put in the email, like, from vanilla to something to hot wife?
Well, maybe it said from like Shy Catholic girl to unicorn, the gangbiz girl to hot wife.
There's been a lot of stuff in the history.
Yeah, so there we go.
And I know it like, it ends with the hot wives, the gangbangs.
I mean, gangbangs happen to be like my most downloaded episode.
So we want to get all your stories.
I want to hear the whole story from.
the beginning. You are also
a writer. Like, you put
all of these stories in some
a book or multiple
books. I mean, what is that
whole deal with that thing? Right now,
there are currently three books and it is
from the minute I found the lifestyle
to getting married in the lifestyle.
So it's kind of a trilogy.
It tells the entire story
up until a few
months ago. So it's very, very current
of all these different
stages of being in the lifestyle. And
It's a lot of graphic sex and stuff, but it also tells the personal side and, like, the struggles you have and the lessons you learn and how it's very difficult to have this secret life sometimes.
And it's really hard to date somebody in this world.
Yeah, I love all of that.
I love that that's a part of it as well.
It's not just the SCX, because that's what I like to do at my show, too.
I do draw people in with the promise that you're going to hear this hot story, but I like to touch on all those other things.
as well because that's reality and I'm a realist
and I like the fucking truth, you know?
So you're going to give me a sampling
of your life story. When people,
you know, if people want to hear more
and a lot more details and a lot
more of this story and they want to just like sit back
and relax and read it all, they could go
get your books. I'll put links to all of
those. Where do people buy them? Like on Amazon
or where are they located? Yeah, they're
on a lot of places, but Amazon is usually
the easiest. They're all right there.
Okay, cool. So I will put links in the description
at the end. You'll give another shout out as
well. But let's get your story. So now, you sound young to me. I mean, how old are you right now?
I'm actually 40. Everybody thinks I sound like a little girl, and I look like I'm in my late 20s all
the time. So it's pretty funny. So I don't feel like I'm 40. I don't think I act like I'm 40.
But yeah, technically I'm 40, and I think it's hilarious when I sleep with a younger guy,
and I'm like, wow, I could be, you know, pretty much your mom. And I'm like this cougar.
but I don't feel that old and we don't have kids
so we live this
just like wild free lifestyle
instead of having a kid's room we have a full
sex room upstairs
Oh my god hilarious
Yeah the kids thing definitely changes you
And ages you I mean I didn't have a kid until I was 46
So I lived a very solo life up until that
And I would say I looked like I was 22 until I was like
You know 46 too
And then you know
I love when we meet people because we're nudist now and lifestyle.
So we go to, like, clubs or resorts and people are always like, oh, our kids don't know we're here or we're so happy to be away from them.
And me and my husband are just like, oh, we have 100% freedom to do whatever we want all the time.
And we love it.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I did too for most of my life.
And then I was like, okay, I'm a little bored of me.
Like, let's do something else.
But, you know, it just everyone's different.
But anyway, let's get to this whole thing because you just keep throwing out stuff like we're nudist and we go to these clubs.
and we have to start with your story.
So, okay, you're 40 now.
You keep saying we.
Are you married?
Is this your partner or your husband?
We got married in December.
Mm-hmm.
And the third book is all about meeting him and our relationship in our marriage.
We met in a blind date threesome in his playroom, actually.
We had a mutual male friend that connected us.
We had never spoken to each other or seen each other.
I just showed up at his house one night,
and we had this, like, insanely hot threesome,
and we were never supposed to see each other again.
I went to the threesome.
A relationship I had at that time by going, which I knew I was going to do,
our mutual friend to hang out with again
because I was, like, upset about fighting with the other guy,
and he goes, you know, Casey, I'm really sorry.
I have, like, family obligations.
Why don't you call Jason and see if he can, like, entertain you?
And I was like, you know, I don't know this guy.
It's kind of weird, and I don't really feel comfortable,
he goes, Casey.
You just walked him.
I think you guys
go out to dinner or something.
And I was like, oh, shit, fine.
I was like, I'll do it.
And then we hung out for like, I don't know,
10 hours that day.
And it was really awkward
and uncomfortable
because we knew nothing about each other
except, you know,
body parts were touching
and things were in mouths
and, you know,
we just kept picturing
each other naked, basically.
So, of course, we had sex
and then that was because
he really wanted to be together and I was like, you know, I'm just like single confident woman and
how dare you try, you know, tell me what to do and make me answer questions. And I was just,
I had so many walls built from previous things. And, you know, in the lifestyle, you used to take a lot
of emotions out of stuff to survive. So he found me at a really aggressive time in my life,
but he stuck with it and he was really certain that we were meant to be together.
And, you know, eventually we worked through.
We just ended up getting married.
It was a total really crazy, like, story of how we met and how we came to be,
but we couldn't be happier right now.
Like everything is finally perfect.
But back the F up, but back the F up because you're, I'm assuming,
you got into the lifestyle and we're doing all these things way before you met him.
Oh yeah, we were both in the lifestyle.
Yes, he was a single guy and I was a single female when we met.
But I started back in, I'm sorry.
Yeah, but you didn't know him yet.
I want your story before even before you met him.
When did you as a single woman get into the lifestyle?
Were you with a partner and you guys started together?
Did you go solo alone?
Were you a unicorn?
Is that how it started?
Family stumbled into things.
I was raised, you know, not like strict devout Catholic, but I was a Catholic, you know,
school kid. And I was very shy and quiet. I had friends, but I was never, like, sexually active.
Like, my friends were and stuff. I was always a little more, you know, like worried about stuff
like that. So when I was in my early 20s, I had a job, and I don't know what happened, but I ended up
hooking up with my boss who was married. I mean, that's so funny. I don't know how it happened,
but I just went of fucking my boss that was married. And he was over, you know, a decade older than me,
He was married with kids, and I was just like, oh, my God, this is crazy.
But he gave me my first orgasm ever, and I think that just, like, you know, set me off into the deep end.
And then one night, this is a long time ago, so on Craigslist was very popular.
You know, we found an ad for a swing club on Craigslist.
And I was like, hmm, what is it?
And I was like, this is, you know, sounds intriguing.
Why don't we go?
So we went on a Saturday night just to see what it was about.
And something about this, like, secret world I didn't know about was just so.
intriguing and interesting that we started going there, like, every weekend together.
Where did his wife think he was?
What?
Where did his wife think he was?
I mean, here's a married guy, and he's out every serenade with you at a swingers club.
I have no idea.
Okay.
And I'm sure everything he told me was complete bullshit, you know, because he seems obviously,
oh, our marriage sucks and this and that, and she doesn't care, but, you know, the hell knows.
Back then, I believed it.
Now, probably not.
I wouldn't believe it, you know?
But did he ever get caught?
No. Okay.
So we did that for a while, but our relationship obviously was not meant to last.
It was, you know, there were so many problems from the beginning with all of these other things.
I think I finally was like, you know, this is enough.
It was almost a decade together of being like his side piece.
And even though I did have some positive things from him, it wasn't a horrible relationship,
but it just wasn't, you know, like a full healthy relationship.
So I hit 30 and I was like, you know what, I'm done with this.
And I was like, I'm just going to put this to the side, just move on with my life, find like a normal relationship.
Well, that didn't go so well.
And then I ended up back on a lifestyle site single, so as a unicorn.
Okay, but we back up when you're with that boss.
No, no, no, no, you're going too fast.
Back up when you're with that boss and you go to the swingers club.
I mean, here you are a girl who was pretty shy.
He never really did anything.
You were vanilla.
Now you're fucking your boss.
And that's not, I mean, it's crazy, but it's not so out of the realm.
It's still vanilla sex, as you know, it's a man, it's a woman.
But now you go to the Swingers Club, what were you guys engaging in there?
Was it a free for all for you?
Did you have a lot of first there?
Did you not really do that much when you were going with him?
If I remember correctly, it was a lot of like soft swap stuff.
And also he was kind of the driving force.
So he wanted to see like girl girl stuff.
So like we dabbled with that.
But honestly, I'm straight.
And I learned that through the years.
Yeah.
Once I went back single, and I realized there was more things out there.
Because when you're new, you know, everything is new and exciting.
Yeah.
And I didn't know what anything was.
So, you know, you tried stuff and you're like, okay, just the idea of doing something I'm not supposed to be doing.
It's hot, maybe.
Super hot.
Yeah.
And the longer you're in the lifestyle and the more things you try, just like anything else in life,
if you start to create your own interest and say, like, okay,
that was cool, but I don't want to do that anymore.
I've never tried this, but I think I would like it.
So over the years, I'm, you know, I'm 100% straight.
I have zero interest in hooking up with other girls and stuff.
And back then, I think I was doing it as part of maybe a little bit of pressure,
but maybe a little bit of like, oh, he thinks this is super hot, so I'll do it.
You know, I wasn't really myself.
I was just trying to feel everything out.
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
Yeah, so now...
So now you go back after him.
You guys are over.
You're dipping your toes in the lifestyle.
But now when you guys broke up, you went back into the lifestyle solo.
And then, how did you become a unicorn?
Well, being a single family as a unicorn.
I literally just joined a website.
And that was at the minute a single girl logs online.
Yeah.
It is done.
And you have a lot of attention and emails.
I do remember, though, I was very, very scared.
Not so much of like safety just scared like could I do this by myself.
Am I brave enough?
Yeah.
Is I am shy.
So I remember I just I just like ripped the band-aid off.
I just pick somebody.
We went on a date.
I didn't even really like him.
I said,
let me just see if I have the balls to have sex with someone on a first date because that is so unlike me.
And I was proud of myself.
I did it.
It was horrible.
You know, the sex was terrible.
And I never saw him again.
But I was like, okay, I have the courage.
I'm determined.
I know I can be a part of this world on my own.
I just need to figure out how to do it better, choose better guys, get what I want out of it instead of what guys want me to have out of it.
So it became this journey of self-exploration and discovery.
And mostly, I would say, like, empowerment.
You know, I learned how to make myself the priority.
and, you know, really wanted to be treated, just be some guy's girl.
Yeah, but I mean, so to me, I always think of a unicorn as like someone that a couple comes in and takes.
What's a unicorn to you?
So to me, a unicorn is just a single female.
Generally, they are bisexual.
I, however am not.
But I did when I went on by myself in the beginning, I only really knew there were couples and single guys in the lifestyle, right?
So I met a lot of them.
I did play with couples and I did play with single guys.
Yeah.
Once I found out you could sleep with two guys at once, that's when I had this epiphany
and the world just, you know, shattered.
And I was like, holy shit, okay, this is my thing.
This is what you like.
And then I never played with another woman again and I still have it.
So when was that first male, male, female, threesome?
Was it at a swingers club?
Was it a guy you picked up and you picked up another?
guy? I mean, how did that all go down the first time? No, my first male-male threesome was hilarious because I had
played with this guy one-on-one and it didn't go well. He couldn't really perform in stuff, which
happens more than you can imagine in the lifestyle. Interesting. So as a, like a piece offering, he wanted
to hang out again and I wasn't really interested, so he decided to sweeten a deal. He was,
what if I bring my friend? I was like, I liked the idea. And I was like, okay,
when do you want to, you know, set this up?
Because in my head, I needed time to mentally prepare for this.
And he was like, oh, we'll just be there, like, in a little while.
And I was like, what?
Like, what do you mean right now?
I don't know what's happening.
And I'm trying to act cool, but in my head, I'm just panicking because I'm like,
I don't even know what you do with two guys at the same time back then.
Oh, right, yeah.
So I said, okay, fine, sounds great.
You know, give me the address where you want to meet the hotel and stuff.
So we hang up the phone, and then I call one of my guy friends at the time.
time. And I'm like, dude, like, what do I do right now? Like, how do I do this? What positions do I need to
know? You know, he gave me like this, you know, three-some 101 breakdown. And he goes, just Casey,
just have fun, just relax, just go with it, you know, just have a good time. Don't stress about it.
So I went. And it was fun, but it did not blow my mind in the way I thought it would. I thought
They were kind of tame and they were super nice and we had fun, but I knew that this was not like the ultimate experience.
This is just, again, the tip of the iceberg, you know?
Yeah.
So then I made it my goal to seek this out and find guys that would be like a little wilder.
And then once I found out you could have DV, that was my mission for life.
Well, and now.
DV or D.P?
Oh, two dixen.
inside at the same time.
Yeah, I'm 100% DV.
If guys aren't up for that, then I don't even meet them anymore.
Interesting.
Right, because I can imagine that if you're constantly
have two dicks inside of you, one dick is just never going to,
and also just one dick is never going to be enough.
I mean, how do you ever go back?
I mean, you can still have good one-on-one text.
Obviously, me and my husband don't always have an extra guy with us.
Yeah.
So, like, it doesn't take away from our.
sex life. But if we're playing with other people, then that is part of what's happening. And if you
don't like that, then you can find someone else. I don't mean that in an arrogant way.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that's my fetish. And I used to say, oh, I prefer, but if you don't want to do it,
I understand. And now my husband goes, if that's what you want, just make it very clear,
there's enough guys that are interested in it where you don't have to sacrifice what you want
to please someone else. And I go, very good point. So now that is always up front.
when we talk to people.
And there are tons of guys that are willing to do it,
and they absolutely love it.
So it works out.
So when was your first DV?
Was it your idea?
Was it the guy's idea?
It was my idea.
My friend that gave me the advice on the threesome.
After that night, I called him.
I said, you know, it was good.
I said, but I really want to try this thing I heard about, you know, DV.
I was like, have you ever done it?
He goes, yeah, I've done it a bunch of times.
And I actually, I know a guy that I did it with.
You know, it's funny how a lot of single guys are friends with other guys because they run in the same circles or they know the same girls and the same couples.
They go to the same parties.
So I always find it very entertaining when they refer a guy or they want to bring a guy.
And, you know, it makes it easier for me because I have less work to do.
Yeah.
You don't have to be the wrangler.
They're the wrangler.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's great.
So he was really sweet.
He goes, well, let me call this guy and I'll see if he wants to, you know, come do this for you.
I said, okay.
So he did.
He came through with his friend, and they both knew that was, you know, the main objective of the night,
but obviously we did a lot of other stuff, too.
That feeling of DV, it's so hard to describe.
There's nothing that compares to it.
Mm-hmm.
And making my preferences small.
You really loaned in on what you were into, like you said, yeah.
So it was only guys.
Then it was like, only multiple guys.
Then it's only multiple guys that will do DV.
So I am very, very like a niche kind of girl.
And then is that how the gangbangs came in?
Because you could have multiple DVs at the same time.
I mean, have you ever had more than two dicks inside of you?
No, we always joke about trying to put more, but we haven't tried yet.
Okay.
Wait, so then is that what led you, though, into the gangbang thing as well?
Yeah.
Yeah, so then the guy who came, his name is Lewis, the one that came to show me how to do DV,
we became very, very good friends.
He was married, but I knew the wife and everything, so it was totally, you know, allowed,
nothing funny was going on.
Yeah.
And he's the one one night, he goes, you know, do you want me to set something up with a bunch of guys?
And I said, I don't really know, like, what to expect or how things happened.
He goes, just trust me.
Just I'll pick you up at, you know, whatever time on whatever date.
And I'm going to take you somewhere.
And there's me a bunch of guys.
You're just going to do your thing.
And then we're going to leave.
And he made it sound so simple and easy.
Like there was nothing to worry about.
You know, like we do this all the time.
And, of course, I always pretend to be very confident and cool on the outside when I'm panicking on the inside.
But you don't want people to see that, right?
Yeah.
So I went and I.
forget if there was four black guys. I think it was four. And he just walks me into this room and
they're all there. And it was like, okay, go ahead. And in that moment, you know, you just,
you just go with it. You're like, okay, this is, we all came here for a reason. Let's do this.
And we had a blast. Everything. They were very nice guys. They all performed well. I was like,
okay, I guess I am capable
of having, you know, a gang bang now, and
I liked it. There's, you know,
when you have a very
hungry appetite and like
a large drive, like I never,
it's never enough, right?
Can obviously come repeatedly,
guys maybe once or twice if you're lucky
they can recover and come again.
But girls, you know, and especially me,
I can just go on forever. No matter how
good this sex is, I never
say it's enough. I never say, okay,
I'm done or I'm tired. I can fuck,
eight guys, then an hour later, I'm horny again.
Wow.
I'm a little jealous.
Multiple guys is really, like, what I actually need.
It's not...
It sounds like you do.
Yeah, it's like fun to do, but also my body needs all of this because of so many years of doing it.
It's just accustomed to it, right?
Like you work out at the gym, you increase your weights over time.
If you go back to, like, the beginning weight, you don't feel it.
This is kind of where I'm stuck now.
I love it, but I...
You know, it's hard to not do this anymore.
I forgot where I was going with this right now.
The multiple guys, the gangbangs, the, that was your, I was asking, like, you know, how did you get into your whole first gang bang?
And how that led into it.
Okay, so Lewis arranged the first one for me.
Then he would do that periodically for me.
And then after a while, I said, you know what?
I said, he's got, you know, his wife and kids and he sees other people, you know, and sometimes I want to do something when he's not free.
So as, you know, this confident lady now, I go, I'm just, you know, I'm just.
going to start hosting my own. Why not? So I would always get a friend that I trusted to come,
you know, a male that I played with to kind of make sure I was safe because I wasn't, you know,
trying to be dangerous. Yeah. And then I would just invite a handful of guys and we would just
see what happened, you know. Some nights were great. Some were complete flops, you know.
But the unknown part of gangbangs is what really intrigued me. A, that these guys are willing
to come and hang out with other guys and share a girl is fascinating.
But then if you don't know these guys or if they're new guys you're meeting,
you don't know how they're going to interact with each other.
You don't know how they're going to perform.
You don't know how fun they're going to be.
So it really is just, you know, you're rolling the dice and you see what happens.
Yeah, interesting.
There's no, you know, no guarantees on anything.
And sometimes the people you think are going to be standouts are horrible.
and then the underdog, you know, rocks your world.
So now I do a mix of new guys and old guys,
because if you have all new guys, it could turn into nothing.
And so if you bring in a few guys, you know that like them
and you play well together, it's a good way to mix in a new guy.
This way if he's not good, it doesn't room the night.
And if he is good, it just makes it better.
So in my second book, I have this, like, whole, you know,
formula about how I plan them, how I pick the guys.
how I arrange everything.
And it sounds a little business-like.
No, I love, I love those details.
It kind of is.
I think it's interesting.
I tell you, like, how I pick the guys, the process to planning it, the different
types of guys that show up, you know, because you can categorize different guys
in certain ways.
I explain, you know, the role that my friend has for watching me.
So it really is, it can be very simple.
or can be very complicated the process of doing it,
but I have it down to a way that works for me,
and it is very strategic,
and it is very planned,
and it's funny because my husband is very, very social
and loves to be friends with the guys,
which is super adorable, right?
He wants to meet them, have drinks with them before we go play.
Me, I'm like, can they just knock on the hotel room door,
not say hello to me, and just fuck the shit out of me?
So we compromise sometimes, you know, in the beginning when we first met, we would meet them for a drink, then invite them up.
Now sometimes he goes, okay, we already know them, they can just come to the room.
And once in a while, I convince him to just let strangers come up.
And, you know, it keeps it interesting with what we want.
But guys, I love seeing him get along with the guys.
I think it is just so cute that they're all buddy-buddy.
and guys seem to just love him to death because he is so nice
and because he was a single guy in the lifestyle,
he's like their biggest fan.
Because single guys get a bad rap a lot in the lifestyle.
Totally, yeah.
They're desperate.
They're disgusting.
Most of them, yes.
However, there are so many wonderful guys in the lifestyle.
Yeah.
And if they didn't exist,
I wouldn't be able to do all the stuff that I love.
So as a thank you in my second book, actually,
I interviewed a bunch of the guys that I write about.
So all of my good friends, they filled out like a questionnaire,
so they got to tell a little bit of their side of their story,
why they're in the lifestyle, what it's like to be a guy,
what it was like hanging out with me.
You know, because I really appreciate when guys are classy and respectful,
you know, don't try to take advantage of you,
and they are just really nice, cool people adding to our fantasy.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, it's interesting.
I just taped a guy, a single guy in the lifestyle, and he talked about that.
And he was actually a really good guy, really nice guy, very respectable, you know, the opposite of what you would think, just like what you just described, how people think of those people.
Exactly.
So I want to give them a little, like, shout out in the book and let them talk a little bit.
But like I said, my husband, because he was a single guy and he knows what it's like, and he was a very successful one because he's, you know, he's good looking, but he's also just such a nice person.
So he's always trying to, like, coach the guys and, like, pump them up.
You know, if they can't perform, he gives him, like, a pep talk and tells him it's okay when, like, I'm rolling my eyes.
You know, he tries to give them tips and advice.
And if guys email us and I'm not interested, he's always polite and tries to give them, like, encouraging words and stuff where I would just, like, delete the email.
So it's really funny to see that side of him, you know.
I think it's a really special quality that he has.
And perfect for you, because without that, you know, you need that.
You need your opposite.
I think opposites in that way really works.
I mean, you're similar and the same in the ways that you need to be, but you're also opposites
in ways that probably work for both of you.
So it's great that you actually met him.
How did you meet him?
I kind of mentioned this earlier.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
The blind date threesome?
Yeah, so I was, at the end of like the second book, I'm having this really difficult time.
Like, every time I meet a guy in the lifestyle and we connect, you know, I'm like, oh, my God, this is going to be the guy that I date.
We're going to have this awesome lifestyle world together.
And it would always turn out where they wanted to date me, but they wanted us to be vanilla.
Interesting.
It always shocked me because I'm like, we met in the lifestyle.
Yeah.
Some of us met gangbangs or threesomes.
Uh-huh.
And now you expect me to just, like, shut, you know, shut this down and just go have this, like, cute little, you know, innocent life again.
Yeah, interesting.
Well, that doesn't work.
I can't do it.
But after years of this, like, endless cycle of this, I was kind of playing with a guy that lived near me.
He was very nice.
He was very generous and, like, you know,
very funny.
Like, we had a lot in common.
Was he perfect for me?
No, but he was the best that I had found up until that,
and he was, like, madly in love with me, right?
The only stipulation was we had to be vanilla if we dated.
But I was so, I was just getting so beat down over the years
by guys not wanting to date me in the lifestyle that I said,
you know what, maybe I had a good run.
This was just a really fun hobby that I had.
And now, you know, I'm getting older.
Maybe I should just settle down.
And this is, you know, a very high-quality guy right here in front of me, offering me a lot of nice things and a nice life.
If I could just, you know, not be such a whore, I could have, you know, a great relationship right now.
Like, right on the verge of, you know, giving in to his request when my friend had called and said, hey, I want you to meet.
Shit, I know if I go, this guy is not going to stay with me.
I was like, I got to see what this threesome's about.
I just got to do it.
So I, you know, I took the chance.
I went on the threesome.
I had a great time.
And, of course, the other guy was like, how dare you?
This ended everything.
And I said, you know what?
I said, maybe that's a good thing.
Maybe it really took this moment for me to realize that I should not be sacrificing the life that I want for anybody.
And if I'm willing to give up this, you know, so-called perfect relationship for one night of fun,
then obviously it was not the perfect relationship for me, right?
That speaks volumes right there.
So I never regretted my choice.
Oh, it was obviously the right choice.
It was obviously the right choice at the time because, you know, you have to go with what you want to do.
You can't, what I've learned from me in the lifestyle is you can't shut it off for someone.
If you want to, if the day ever comes where you decide you're tired of this and you want to be vanilla,
totally supportive of your choice, right?
But you can't become vanilla because someone tells you you need to be vanilla.
that is never going to work.
Yeah.
I can shut it down for a little bit of time and then it's just going to, you know, come back out again.
So it was really crucial for me to find someone that would be accepting of this.
And not only accepting of it, my husband is, you know, like pushing me out there.
He loves it so much.
If I go, you know, can we have a date tonight with somebody?
He goes, one guy, why not get three guys?
You know, so he's.
He's right there with you.
Yeah.
It's wonderful.
So we've worked out, when we first started dating, it was very, very difficult and rocky.
And I love how people always assumed just because we were both in the lifestyle, that dating must have been like, oh, so easy.
You just hooked up and life was perfect.
I was like, actually, it was the opposite, because we came from opposite sides of the world.
We were into very different aspects of the lifestyle, and trying to mesh them was a little complicated at first.
You know, I came in super aggressive, like, I'm this, you know, independent, confident woman,
and you're not going to tell me what to do.
You're not going to tell me where I can go, who I could talk to.
And he's like, okay, calm down.
We just met, but, you know, if we're going to be in a relationship, you need to be open with me
and tell me where you're going and, you know, have conversations about things.
And I'm like, no, no, no, you need to, you know, earn these things for me.
and I was, you know, just very traumatized from previous relationships.
He's this super sweet guy, and I was very untrusting of that because that's rare sometimes, you know.
And the nicer he was to me, the more I fought him, you know, typical...
Strong woman.
Yeah, you know, I was just so scared to, like, trust him and let him be him that the nicer he was, the more I closed up
because I was like, this is going to hurt if this goes south, you know?
Yeah.
And this poor guy, he put up with all of my shit for months,
and he was patient and caring.
And, I mean, he wasn't perfect either.
Don't get me wrong.
You know, he did some shit I wasn't happy with,
but I was always the one that's like, fuck you, I'm leaving, you know?
And then I'd be like, well, he does have a lot of good qualities.
Let me circle back.
And he just, he stuck with it because he really,
truly believes from day one that there was something between us.
Right.
And I am so thankful that he did because I don't think I would ever meet anybody even
half is cheesy, but it really is like the perfect relationship.
We are so happy.
We never argue.
We keep it fun.
We keep it sexy.
We always make sure there is personal time for us and we don't get too wrapped up in the lifestyle
and other people.
So we have this nice balance going.
And it's just, it's so much fun together.
You know, you forget when you're single, you're worried about yourself and having fun.
And if you go out on a bad date, it's like the night was a waste, right?
You go home, you're still horny.
You're just like, oh, I wasted my Friday night.
When I go out with him, I never have this expectation of anything because if the night is great, it's amazing.
He may play, he may not play, right?
But if the night sucks, he's always there to make sure that the night ends well with me and him.
So it really does become just more fun and less serious.
Yeah, you have nothing to lose.
Yeah, so you just go out and you're like, whatever happens happens.
And some nights it's so hot he just watches.
Sometimes it's so hot at the end of the night, he's like, that's it like, I need to join you.
Sometimes he joins the whole time.
You know, it really, there is no script anymore.
It's up to him and part of our thing.
So there's different ways to be a couple in the lifestyle.
we fall under the category of hot wife,
but then the subcategory of like stag vixen.
So he is not a cuck.
You know, there's no humiliating him or leaving him out.
He's definitely a strong stag.
He's, you know, the alpha guy for me.
And I let him take charge of he picks all the guys that we play with.
He decides what he's in the mood to watch.
Is it someone like old or young, you know,
maybe there's a certain physical feature he's looking for, a certain nationality he wants to see.
So, you know, I leave that in his hands because he's nice enough to let me do these things.
So I want to make sure that he's seeing, you know, what interests him.
And if there's, you know, a certain fetish or activity, you know, that he's been thinking about lately
and he wants me to try it when we're playing, then sure.
you know, so we kind of have no, like, boundaries anymore.
And I was also very, when I was single, I felt I needed to be the alpha female just to protect myself.
I didn't want to be taken advantage of.
I didn't want guys to think, you know, I wasn't smart enough to protect myself or to be put in situations I didn't want to be in.
And now with him, I can just kind of relax a little because I know nothing.
is ever going to happen. And, you know, I'm a little more willing to try, like, crazier
shit around other guys. Like, you know, using different props and leashes and whatever. And I never
look at it as, oh, I'm being submissive to this guy. I'm like, I'm entertaining my husband
right now. And if that means using this shit, then whatever. You know, so it changed my whole
mental point of view. Interesting. Yeah. I always struggled with that part. I don't know
it was from being someone's mistress for so long that I really held on a feeling used by somebody.
Yeah.
So I feel like now I'm finally at a place where I just don't give a shit about anything.
If it's fun, I'll do it.
If I don't know what it is, I might try it, you know.
And we're always just looking for, like, new ways to be fun and creative and dirtier.
And, you know, now we decided, hey, let's have an only fans page and just share this with everybody.
So that's our new venture.
It never gets tired with us.
What do you do on your only fans page?
Is it up and running?
Do you want to give a shout out?
It is coming out Labor Day weekend.
So by the time this airs, it will be out.
Yeah, what is it?
My name is Hot Wife Life 869.
And it's going to be a bunch of stuff.
Obviously, there's going to be a bunch of sexual content on there.
You know, videos, pictures, me and him, me and tons of other guys, like all the juicy
stuff that people would expect.
for me. But also, I want to show a much more personal side. So, you know, you'll be invited into our
home. As I mentioned before, we're nudist. So we go nude camping a lot. So you'll get to see some of the
stuff from us on vacations. I'm going to be posting, you know, excerpts from my books and stuff.
And just really making it, you know, kind of a full story about me. Yeah. I love that.
Because I am a writer, I don't do like, you know, one-line taglines for posts.
I write, you know, all these, you know, long-ass, intriguing and funny, you know,
I want people to have a good time when they're on my site.
I want them to get to know me.
I want them to know my super, like, goofy personality.
And I want them to also see, you know, the hot, steamy sex that we're having all the time.
So it's a little bit of everything.
So I'm hoping that it's different than all.
other people sites, and it's, you know, not just one-dimensional.
Yeah, I love that.
I think they're not smart.
I have, like, this full experience when they come to my page.
And if you have read any of my books, people out there, it's the same vibe.
I'm honest.
I am open.
I try to be very funny in my writing.
I don't take life too seriously.
I have a nice sarcastic streak, and I think I'm very funny.
you know, and the stuff that I write, I don't know if other people do, but I just like a lot of
personality and stuff. I don't want it to be a generic page where like, oh, just watch me suck
this guy's dick. You know, like, I like to build around everything, and I think, you know,
your mind being stimulated. So people could go to any girl's site and watch them get fucked,
but are they going to be, you know, drawn in and entertained the way I hope they are at my page?
Maybe not. You know, I don't know that for sure, but in my head,
I want it to be this very interactive, you know, fun portrait of getting to know Casey.
Now, is Casey out there with everybody else in her life?
Or is this a secret life that you have?
Does anyone know about you being in a lifestyle?
Do people know that you write these books?
Or is it just very on the DL?
It's like two different lives you live.
When I wrote the first book, I told like two of my friends and that was it.
I didn't advertise it.
I didn't do anything.
I was so scared of people finding out that I wrote it.
and, you know, like, the first book, too, deals a lot of shame about being in the lifestyle.
You know, what if people find out?
Yeah.
How would they look at me?
You know, so that was a major driving force.
I wrote it for myself, and it was very therapeutic to write.
You learn a lot about yourself when you're writing something because you want to make sure everything you put down on paper is true.
Yeah.
At least at the time that you wrote it, maybe I don't feel the same way now, but when I wrote it, it was very honest.
Yeah.
And I was so scared that I just, I honestly.
I got it published, and I was so excited I got it published,
because I thought it was such a shot in the dark to do such a thing.
And I just kind of enjoyed it in the privacy of my own life.
A few people knew, but I never really put it out there.
And then just for fun, I wrote a second book,
and I didn't say anything about it.
And then the third book, my husband said to me,
you know, when we first met, you told me you were going to write a trilogy
when you finally found happiness.
So where's the third book?
I thought you were happy.
And I said, oh shit, I just kind of forgot about it, you know.
I said, but if you want me to write something for you and you're okay with me putting our life, you know, in a book without, you know, hiding anything and sugar-coding stuff, I said I would be more than happy, you know, to do that.
And he said, go for it.
He said, whatever you want to write, as long as it's true, you know, like don't make anything up, but if it's true.
So I said, okay, great.
So I started writing again.
I published the, I think this January.
And now that, you know, is done.
And it feels really good to have it completed.
So I would say the first book is like, you know, discovering myself.
The second book is being confident with myself.
And then the third book is just like finding this really much needed serenity in settling down with somebody that let me be me.
But do people know that you're in the lifestyle, like your friends, you know.
Some people do.
And some people don't.
Yeah.
Now that we're married, and here's a funny thing, too, nobody knows we're married.
Like in our families.
We kept it very private.
Your marriage?
We have already the secret of being in the lifestyle, and we said, let's just have the secret of being married, and we love it.
We still call each other boyfriend and girlfriend in public, and it feels like this dirty little secret that we have.
Well, let me tell you the first time that we had.
sex and he called me his wife
like the orgasms were insane
and when he tells other guys
like do you like fucking my wife
or you know you're with my wife
it just adds such an element
of like hotness and kinkiness
that it is great
so lifestyle people know are married
families do not people think we're nuts
when we tell them that but
it just I don't know
having this yeah
it just makes it so much hotter for us
and it's fun knowing things
Like, we like having secrets, I guess.
So.
Did you get married in Vegas?
I mean, or just went to town hall?
Yep.
We just went there and married and came back home.
Like, nothing happened.
Right.
But it was perfect.
It was exactly how I wanted it to be.
He offered whatever I wanted, and that's what I chose.
Very simple girl.
And I just, I don't know, I feel like relationships are personal.
I don't need to, you know, display anything for anyone else.
We wanted to get married, so we got married.
Yeah, I get it.
And so we do tell some people, we're in the lifestyle, we're getting a little more open now
that we are in this relationship.
When I was single, I was kind of scared, I don't know why.
I felt way more vulnerable telling people about this side of me when I was single
because I thought I'd be judged more.
But now that I'm part of a healthy couple, and he's right here with me,
it kind of takes the heat off of you when you're not the only one admitting something.
And also because I am in a healthy relationship, it proves that there's nothing wrong with me for what I'm doing.
That totally makes sense.
I could see why you would feel that way.
Exactly.
So now that we're together, he's the one that's like, you know, why don't you start telling people that you write?
You know, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.
And I'm like, okay, if you're not embarrassed by me and you're supportive, then, okay, I'll try and be brave and put myself out there a little more, you know.
Because it is scary, too.
not just people finding out, but people not liking what you created, right?
Of course.
That's why I'm anonymous on my show because I thought it was going to suck,
and I didn't want to suck in front of people I knew.
I wanted to suck in front of strangers.
Exactly, because it is real life.
I'm not writing a fake story or, you know, a guidebook.
This is my life.
So if people say it's horrible, that could be potentially hurtful.
Double hurtful.
Your bad writer and your life sucks.
Yeah, you know.
But I just like to stress people that this is.
my life story. This is not what everybody's life should be like or how you should be a swinger in a
like. This is just what I did. That's the end of the story. I'm not trying to tell people what to do or
how to do things. I'm just sharing what I went through because maybe it'll help somebody figure out
something in their own life or inspire them to go after something that they want to try. That's really
all there is to it. You know, I don't have this huge agenda out there. Yeah. No. And now with the, I mean,
I think it's interesting that you put in all the other facets because it can actually also help people.
Your journey. Maybe another single girl. Maybe a couple that's dating a unicorn. Maybe a guy that's looking for a girl like you. I mean, you know, you just don't know who, you know, how people are going to respond to your thing. But you just put that out there and it's your truth. And I think because you include all the personal struggles and you paint the real picture and put everything in there, I think it can be super helpful as well as super hot.
I mean, you're the girl that can't get enough dicks inside of her.
I mean, you're like, what's the largest gang bang you ever did?
Maybe, like, seven or eight, but I used to go to clubs a lot.
And it's funny because, you know, people like, oh, I don't want to go to, like, single guy night.
It's so creepy.
It's so gross.
Those are the nights that I used to love to go on.
And, I mean, you could bang, like, 20 guys in one night if there's, like, good guys there.
Maybe you go on a night.
There's only five guys to play with.
So it varies.
But now we try to do, like, you know, on the,
smaller side, you know, maybe four or five guys at a time because then you can have, you know,
better interaction with everybody.
And it's a little more personal and fun.
So, you know, gangbangs could be very, like, intimate and personal like that.
Or they could be very just, like, functional.
Like, how many guys can I fucking one night?
Yeah.
You know, I might not kiss them or really talk to them.
They just fuck me, you know.
So there's all different ways you can have a gang bang.
And, you know, different people have different versions of what that means to them.
But with my husband now, mostly we do like four or five guys in a hotel room.
This way everybody could hang out and have a good time.
People would take breaks if they need to, you know, but there's enough guys where I should never.
Right.
And now what is your, do you have a preference?
I know that you said your guy picks out the guys a lot of the times.
What is his preference?
What is your preference?
Do you like, are you a size queen or does it not matter to you?
So a specific type anymore because it's interesting.
Like I used to be very specific about the guys I would meet.
They had to be like exactly what I was looking for.
Yeah.
But now that I'm with my husband, he's exactly my type.
And the other people are just there, you know, to have a good time with.
So I've kind of separated like how I'm attracted to people.
Yeah.
Interesting.
And I mean, obviously we look for people that like in good shape, nicely hung, you know.
And I think it's, again, so funny when he's the one that's in charge of our profile and talking to everybody.
And I love that he just spends hours at a time, like, looking at dick picks online to find, you know, the one that's, like, the best for me.
You know, it's so heartwarming to me romantic.
You know, other girls who are all jewelry and flowers.
I just want you to find a nice cock for me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And, you know, he puts in so much effort.
But like I said, it depends.
Sometimes he wants to see me with like an older guy.
Yeah.
Maybe, you know, like a guy in his 20s.
Maybe he's into like BBC this week.
Or, you know, it's all over the place.
Whatever he is.
It's also a misconception that hot guys are good in bed.
Yes, some of them are, but it doesn't, there's no correlation between your looks and your performance, right?
Right, yeah.
So maybe somebody, and this is hard for me to learn in the beginning, too, because I wanted everybody to be exactly what I wanted.
but you know guys that I would normally not choose for myself that my husband brings in have been
some of the best nights that we've had you know you really can't judge people on just their looks
in the lifestyle yeah there has to be you know a lot more to the package so that part makes it fun too
because he's expanded my you know variety of the guys I play with and stuff yeah what you're
open to or not open to you always thought you kind of knew and I think that that that
It's very true.
Like you think that you know what you like and you could live in that box,
but because you were pushed out of it so many different times,
you became more open to other things.
I think a big part was I tried to explain this to him,
but it might be a little weird.
Like when I was single and you have this one-on-one connection with somebody
or, you know, these connections with these guys,
like I needed to be attracted to them.
I couldn't say, like, okay, well, he's a nice guy or here's a big dick,
maybe we'll have fun.
I needed some genuine physical attraction.
But now because he's there, like, I don't necessarily need to be physically attracted to people.
I can look past that, you know, and just be attracted to, like, what's happening.
Because as a hot wife, I do have permission to go play without him.
But I tried it one time, and I absolutely don't love it.
I hate it.
And when we first met, that was one of the things we fought about.
I was like, you're going to be home.
I'm going to go out and fuck someone.
I'm going to come home and you're going to love it.
And he's like, you need to slow down right now.
We just met.
You know, you can't be coming in with all of these demands.
And then you fast forward a few years and he's like, babe, do you want to go out with somebody tonight?
And then come home to me and I go, no, I don't.
Right.
And I need him there to be turned on.
And even when he is there, if he gets, if he leaves the room for something, like to go to the bathroom
or he's talking to one of the guys that aren't playing and he's not really.
focused on me. Yeah. I have a trouble like staying turned on. So our dynamic really is like him
watching me be bad, me watching him watch me be bad. You know, like, yeah, it's such a specific thing
that we're into. And I have zero interest going out without it. Like I wouldn't even think about it,
you know. And he goes, wow, you're very different than the girl I met three years ago. I was like,
yeah, yeah, I know. You know, people change.
what you think you want is not always what you end up wanting and vice versa, you know.
So that part is kind of funny too because now I'm like, oh, no, no, don't send me out alone.
I won't like it, you know, because I don't want to be alone with anybody else.
The whole experience is for us to share something together, you know.
Yeah, and him watching you.
Does you do a lot of DVs, I'm assuming, with him?
Oh, yeah, he loves it.
He loves it.
Now, does he really hook up with guys?
Is he into guys at all?
I would say he's 99% straight.
Once in a while, we have dabbled in some stuff,
but it's not his normal thing.
He doesn't seek it out.
You know, it has to be, like the stars have to align perfectly.
I personally think it's really hot to see,
but it's, you know, it's not our main focus at all.
Right, but he's cool.
And so you guys are like on these apps
you have it on there, like you're looking for other guys to DV with you and your husband
or you're putting up gangbangs?
I mean, is that what you guys typically look for most of the time?
Yep.
The gangbangs and the DVs.
I'm like trying to think how the fuck am I going to tell me?
I mean, we'll have threesomes too, like me, him and another guy, and that can be super
hot.
Yeah.
It doesn't have to always, but I mean, I could have DV with him and another guy, so I'm happy,
you know?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It depends on our mood, who the person is.
You know, we're friends with some of these guys.
We might go out to dinner.
with them and hang out.
So we're all
over the place, but as long as there's extra guys
around, then, you know, I'm happy.
He's happy.
Okay, let's go over your books because people are going to want
to fucking read more because I feel like you touched
on a little bit of a lot here, and there's
so much more, and people that want
to know more, and there's going to be a lot of people that
are. You know, they're going to want to find
your books. Now, give me the titles. Tell me where
there are all, of course, put in links.
Now, let me ask you this, because I'm on
your Amazon page, Casey Donatel.
Tello. Is that you on the cover?
The book is not me because I was, I don't know why I thought people would know.
Like, again, I was so paranoid.
So that's just a stock image.
The second and the third book are me, though.
Okay.
So you're...
I got a little, you know, braver and decided it was okay to put my body on a book.
Yeah, why would have you?
Your body's like a 10.8,000.
Oh, thank you.
If you could actually send me anonymous picks for my Patreon, you know,
and I'll also put the picks of your book.
books up there, you know, but I offer that to my people like, you know, anonymous picks of you for
my Patreon.
Sure.
Yeah.
And then I'll also put these.
So let's go through which is the first book, which is the second book and which is the third
book.
Let's just give a little, you know, another shout out and get a little more specific.
So the first book is called In Bed with the Strangers swinging my way to self-discovery,
which I think that one is pretty self-explanatory.
The second book is Scarlett swings higher.
So Scarlett is my screen name in the book.
Oh, okay. Interesting.
Yeah, so Scarlet Swings Higher.
That's when I'm just obsessed with gangbangs and like as much guys as I can get my hands on.
Yeah.
And then part three is called Scarlett Surrenders, which is about meeting my husband and, you know, settling down and getting married.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I love it.
So those are the three books.
I'm assuming you're going to have more.
You can even start your own podcast.
You could do a lot of things.
You sound like, you know, you're a boss bitch.
She could like to turn this, all this stuff into even more than just writing it nowadays.
I really think, you know, God knows what you'll be doing five years from now.
But people could go get your books.
They could find you on OnlyFans.
It'll be up by the time I air this.
And actually, fun little things.
So for my OnlyFans, because remember I said, I wanted to make it very fun and interactive,
we're going to have all kinds of, you know, contests and promotions for subscribers.
So our special for September for the release month will be if you buy any of my books and send me a picture of you like reading the book or holding the book, whatever, to my Instagram account, which is at In Bed with Strangers.
You will get a free three-day trial to my only fans page.
So that's for September.
I love that.
Wait, say that again because that's a super great thing to get in on.
They buy your book.
They send you a pick of them holding your book.
So proof that they bought it to your, you know, DM it over to your Instagram.
I'll put, you know, your Instagram in the description as well.
And it can be any of the three books.
It doesn't matter which one.
But I would assume you'd want to read the first ones that they're, you know,
you're reading them consecutively.
That's just my opinion.
Yeah.
So if you send me a picture of you, you know, reading my book that you purchased,
I will give you a link for a three free day trial to my only fans page for this is our,
you know, opening month's promotion.
And then there will be other promotions in the future.
And once you are a subscriber, there's going to be a lot of other, like, on-site promotions
and exclusive, you know, things that you can be involved in.
But you have to be a subscriber to get in on those.
I love it.
I think that's great.
I think that's a really great smart promotion.
You know, it helps your book.
It helps your only fans and feeds each other.
People, I'm doubt, you'll definitely get people going over and getting your books and sending you there.
I'll put all the links to everything.
Thank you so much for calling.
And I don't even know what I'm going to title this,
but maybe you'll help me because you're the fucking writer.
Because it was so much of everything.
I really wanted to make it just like,
oh, let's just talk about gangbangs and make it about gangbys.
But we talked about so much.
You know, it was super interesting.
And what I think is great is that people could get more
because you wrote it all out in three different books.
So I will put the links to everything, your Instagram,
your only fans, as well as your Amazon.
page in the description.
Thank you so much for calling in.
This was super interesting.
I'm sure I'll have you back on because I feel like there's so much more.
Gang Bangs, we could do that in the future.
Yeah, well, I'll tell you this.
This is what I've been thinking about.
In September, I'm going to kick it off with I do a fetish Fridays every other week.
And what I'm going to be doing is like a girl talk thing every other Friday that I'm not
doing my fetish Fridays.
We're just two girls, me being one of them and I have another girl on and we just
talk about something.
You know, it's not about your life.
It's just like, you know, it's going to be just about anal or just about threesomes.
I mean, you know, with you, you could be gangbings, you know, girl talk gangbings, you know.
That kind of a thing where it's just, like I said, not rapping about someone's personal life story,
just rapping about sex, you know.
So I'll probably definitely use you for that because you, I don't even have to do anything.
I could just sit here and listen to you.
Talk, you're great.
But thank you so much for calling it.
Thank you for the interest in my story.
and I hope a lot of people out there, you know, follow up with me and, you know, follow my story to see what I'm up to next.
Yeah, I love it.
Thanks so much.
Bye.
Bye.
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