Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 537 - Jason is Into Threesomes, Erotic Massages, Dominatrix, Hooking Up with Men and More

Episode Date: October 5, 2022

Jason called in to talk all about his threesomes, erotic massage, dominatrix encounters, hooking up with men and more. Tune in for all the details which include his first wife and how she surprised him with a threesome that turned into them hooking up with her friend and other couples, his second vanilla wife and why he started cheating on her, where he searched and found all his hook ups, the nude massages he got and what exactly went down, How and why he started seeing dominatrix and what he did with them, the forced bi scenarios he eventually got into and what exactly went down, the mmf threesome he has, his experience with pegging and sounding, why his wife eventually dumped him, his recent experience at a swingers club and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Or send me emails. I love knowing that people are listening to my show. Tons of people are, and I thank you for that. And I love that. Like I said, if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have a show. What is that saying? Like if a tree falls in a woods and nobody hears it, it fall, or whatever that is, it's like the same thing like a show.

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and a lot of cheating going on. There are a lot of PSAs in this episode. I feel like I give really good advice, like a couple, a couple, a couple, a few, a few means three, right? A few times on this episode. One PSA is about communication in a relationship and why a woman will come right out one day and just be like I'm fucking leaving you. And why a guy is is always blown away by that and why a woman does that. Okay? There's a PSA about that. There's also a PSA on women and desperation. That's a funny one. And then there's also one about, what's the other one about? About couples that never fight. Okay, if you're a couple that never fights, make sure to tune in and listen to this, okay, because I have a PSA for you too. Or if you know someone that

is a part of a couple and they're always bragging about not fighting, make sure to listen because you'll find what I say entertaining and as well as right on the fucking money but anyway back to this guy Jason okay so yeah he has a second wife when she's very vanilla and uptight and there's a lot of issues there and that's where some of the PSA's come into but he starts cheating on her and that's when he gets his massages and erotic massages and then you know see you start seeing the dominatrix they there's the forced buy situation there's the pegging there's something called sounding, which is hardcore. He gets into that. And then he talks about how, you know, after they got divorced, what he did and where, you know, he kept sort of seeing other people

and leading an alternative lifestyle. He recently went to a swingers club and he explains all the stuff that went down there, a lot of different crazy scenarios, as well as the fact that he's seeing dominatrix now currently. And she's trying to set up a, by experience between him and another guy and he talks all about all of that stuff. This spans a lot of years. He's done a lot of things. He gets into all of it, the good, the bad, the ugly, and all that kind of good stuff. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Jason. Hi, Jason. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Great, Kathy. How are you?

Good. Well, you're sitting in a parking garage someplace. Callers are calling me from like their cars and parking lots. People are either having cheating sex there or they're talking to me on their podcast. Like that's what's going down in parking lots all across the country. So anyway, listen, Jason, you called into my Confessions hotline talking about a lot of SCX that you have had over the years. I don't know if you consider yourself in the lifestyle, but you've done a lot of things that people in the lifestyle do, including like three seasons to open stuff with your wife.

brothels in Vegas, blah, blah, blah. So I don't know where your story starts. So back in the late 70s, early 80s, I was in the service, I was in the manager in the service industry. I don't know what it is about, I think women want to sleep with their bosses or something like that. But I had several sexual experiences back then. And that's back when we didn't worry about age or anything like that.

And, you know, things were a lot of fun. And I ended up getting married to my first wife, and everything was great. And one day we're pulling around on the couch, and she tells me that her friend had been over a few nights before, and they had been drinking. And they started tickling each other, and the next thing you know, they started kissing. And then they took it to the bedroom and started playing with each other's breasts. And she said she started to go down on her, and the girl said, no, she wasn't ready for that. But they talked about maybe including me in a threesome. So she asked me if I would be interested in having a threesome with her friend.

And a young guy, you kidding? Ask that. And so we set out to have a threesome with her. We went out, went out to dinner first, and then after dinner, went back to her place. And went to bed, went to the bed. And she's, you know, her friend said she wanted to watch us fuck first. So my wife and I went out of for a little while. and until she came

and then we switched and I started fucking her friend and the girls my wife was playing with her breast a little bit but that's the only touching that they were doing and I don't know what it was but for some reason I wasn't coming I was just going strong

it's like the one time that's ever happened and so after a while after the other one came my wife went and said she's going to get some lube or something to jack me off and she left the room and so then I started going at it again with her friend

and then I was able to come and so my wife walked in she got a little pissed because we were doing it and she wasn't in the room but whatever that was all fine so about a few months later we're over this friend's house again

and I remember we're just over there hanging out drinking I remember I was laying on the floor watching Caddy Shack and somehow my wife brings up I started talking about the size of dicks, and she wants to measure my dick. So they pull my pants down and come over with something, and I see my wife give her like a little nod. And so she starts going down on me and starts giving me a blowjob.

And I had no idea anything like this is going to happen. I don't think her friend did either. My wife decided, hey, let's play. So they both took trying to turn. It was giving me head for a while. Then we moved it to the bedroom. And this time I took her friend and I was doing her doggy style. and my wife crawled under me and started licking her pussy while I was doing her

and her friends all, I don't know what's happening right now, but whatever it is, don't stop. So we did that and, you know, that was a great time. That was the last time we hooked up with her, but shortly after that, we moved to another state and made friends with another couple that lived in the same complex as us. And I worked late at night. And there was two times my wife called me while I was at work saying that she's over at their friend of this other couple's apartment. They're drinking. And she started shaving this other girl's pussy.

And then she wanted, then she shaved his dick. And anyway, and then she's telling me this. And the other girl comes on the phone says how she wishes that I was over there. And just I'm at work just getting all hot and bothered and can't do anything yet. about it and by the time I get home they're all passed out and asleep and you know nothing for me so one day or this other couple of the husband and I were out playing basketball we come back from playing basketball and they say hey let's go in the bedroom let's play play blackjack or and so all of a sudden it's like oh let's play strip blackjack and again I had nothing I'm like I'm all sweaty I just got done playing basketball but still we still go and start doing this strip blackjack till till we're

all naked and then the girls go in the bathroom real quick and they come out and the other girl comes to me and my wife goes to the other guy and they start sucking on us and next thing I know I'm fucking this girl and she's just telling me make it harder harder harder I've never fucked anybody so hard in my life and that's one thing the uh the wives had made an agreement that that he could it was okay for them to screw around the long as it was with each other's husband so basically saying And this other wife could fuck me and my wife could fuck him, but it never happened again either way. She was just young and wild and running around and just the marriage fell apart. We ended up getting a divorced.

Divorce. And I end up going back to just, you know, playing with, you know, different people here and there. Fell in love, got married again, had this great relationship with my wife, loved her very much. Well, the problem was the sex with my wife is very vanilla. I mean, it's missionary on Sunday night if I'm lucky. And that was it. Oh, my God. She had like a schedule.

It's like, I knew on a Sunday night maybe I would get lucky. I wouldn't always. Oh, my God. It was, that's the way it was. That's kind of crazy, though, that you went from this wild child to the exact opposite. Maybe that was by design because you were so freaked out by all the cheating and craziness of that other girl. Yeah, I would maybe get, you know, a little bit of a blowjob on my birthday or anniversary. We should go down and just suck on me just enough to tease me.

Then it was right back to missionary. I mean, I'd want to go down on her. I'd like to ask her enough times. I think he felt pressured. And as soon as I'd go down on her, I could just feel her just all tense up to where she just really didn't like it. She must have been uncomfortable because who doesn't like that? I mean, if you really could relax into it, it's like the greatest thing ever. So something was, she was, you know, repressed and uptight.

Yeah, there's something else going on there. And I'm just wanting to please her. I'm just wanting to get her to come. Yeah. And it's just, you know, so probably 16, 17 years in the marriage. One time I go by an Asian massage place and I'd never been to one and said, well, I'm going to check it out. So I go in there and you got this. mattress on the floor and this real good looking Asian girl comes in and, you know, I'm naked and she's

massaging me for a few minutes. And then she kind of motions like doing a hand job. And I kind of shake my head. And so she's the thing. It was like $60 to give me a hand job. And so she pulls out her tips, let's me play with her tits and gives me a hand job. And so that was that was pretty cool. And it's like I felt guilty about it. You know, like I didn't want to cheat on my wife. But You know, is the hand job really cheating? Whatever. So, however I made sense of it in my mind. So then this thing came out.

I don't know if you've heard of them computers and Internet. I love it. Yes. Everything changed. Yeah. So I found a couple sites where I found places where I could go and get nude massages done. Actually, the site that really changed things for me is T.E. The ER, the erotic review.

Oh, I've never heard of it. Oh, yeah. So people will go see a provider, and then they'll write a review, and they'll give you everything from what their looks are, what the cost is, exactly what they do. I mean, it's, I like reading this, remind me back of reading penthouse letters when I was a kid. It told you all the stuff that was really going on. You can click on a link that takes you to their webpage. You should see what the pictures of them are, and it'll tell you if the picture, or accurate or fake or whatnot. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so it'll go through and tell you. So then

you can read, you know, five, six, ten reviews or whatever on someone. And so you'll have an idea if you make an appointment with them, what's going to happen, you know, when you make, when you go. Or, and also it gives you a little bit more feeling that it's not a cop or a setup or something like that. Yeah. Yeah. He's got all these reviews. So through there, I say I found a couple times of places where These beautiful women, you know, they give you a nude massage or, you know, oil up your body and rub their body over you and, you know, give you a happy Indian finish. And so I did that.

Maybe every six or eight months I'd do that. And so that was pretty much what, and I said, wasn't that often, I didn't have the money to do it, you know, that often back then. Yeah. Then I'd find some that would, you know, would give me a blow job. and I didn't want to go into the, I still didn't want to have sex because I didn't want to be cheating on my wife back then. Right. I love these people that think like, oh, if you don't put it in, it's not cheating,

but you know, do everything else. There's girls that are virgins, but they get fucked in the ass, but they're like, but I'm still a virgin. Because it has a gut of my pussy. It's the same ridiculous mentality. Okay, so you're not cheating because you're not fucking them, but you're getting blue jobs now. Yeah, I went to,

Went over to Mexico a few times. They've got places there where it's like a bar where you go in and girls are walking around and you pick which one you want. And I think it was like 80 or 100 bucks. You pay 20 bucks for the room. They take you up to the room for an hour. And same thing, though. I'd go up there and I just let them give me a blowjob at first. And then say, went back another time and I decided I wanted to try two girls.

So I told the girl, says, pick another girl. So she grabs another lady. I assume that someone that she knew that would be. okay with another woman. We go up to the room and I asked them to, you know, kiss each other's breast and then one girl's like, apparently she'd never even touch another woman. And the other one's like, oh, you got to do it for the customer. So it was a little bit odd. So I ended up, I ended up fucking that one, that girl, as the other one just sat there and played with herself. So, um, so anyway, I go back to, and I'm doing this stuff on T. And I'd say, I like reading all

the different reviews and seeing, you know, what people's experiences are. Well, I come across one for a dominatrix. And it's funny. It's like, I wasn't even going to click on it because I had no interest in, you know, that dominatress being dominated stuff. Clicked on and started reading it, and I found myself getting really excited. So then I kept by starting all of her reviews and decided it's something that I thought I wanted to try.

So I made an appointment. And I got lucky because the first one I saw was very professional. She was very good. She did an interview with you over the phone, wanted to know what it was you were looking for, what kind of session. So I go there, I knock on the door. She opens the door. I get like two steps in. She closes the door and immediately lets me know that she's in charge, strips me naked, puts stuff around my wrist and my ankles and proceeds to take me through a session where she does.

tapes like a vibrator to my dick and this turns it, you know, let Louis get to where I'm close to coming and then it'll turn it off. She ties me down to a table and ends up pegging me. But she's very good to where she took it slow, you know, to where I enjoyed it. And at the end, she ended up having me jack off and all over before and that was it. And she was, you know, never neutering like that, but I had a good time.

I ended up making another appointment with her with where she had these female subs where you could set up with with yourself and and another sub so where I get there same thing. She has me stripped down, walk in the room and she's got this female in there blindfolded and just walks me over and sticks my cock in her mouth and she has no idea and she just starts sucking me and basically does a, you know, has us play together the whole thing. Same thing fucks me in the ass and had a real good time. Over the years, though, I find myself certain wondering. So this is the thing.

I never thought it'd be into dominatra stuff. Ended up really enjoying that. Then I started wondering, what would it be like to have a cock in my mouth? What would you like to have some? Where was that jump? I mean, where did that come? Was it because of the pegging? I mean, was it because of the pegging?

Was it because you became a sub and you started to feel a little. bit feminine? Like, I mean, did it? Was there some sort of feminization that went on when you started being dumb? And that's one thing, you know, the one thing that I told them that I was not into was being feminized or dressed up, but, you know, I don't know. Maybe it was the pegging. I never wanted to be dressed up like a girl or anything like that. Just, you know, whatever, I don't have anything against people to do, but it's not my thing, you know? Okay, so you started to think about crossing the line and helping up with that guy. Yeah, I like to get a blow job. And I just started curious, what would be like to have a cock in my mouth and have them come in my mouth.

I had no desire to be just with a guy, just me and a guy. If there's another woman there, and so I think we're the forced by scenario that started coming in my head where there's a woman there making me do it. There's times where I would masturbate and try and get myself to eat my own cum just to see what it was like. And I'm all into it, but the minute, the second you come, it's like, okay, that desire, gone. Now I don't want to do it anymore. And I, you know, I finally built myself up to where, you know, where I could do that. And I did it, you know, a few times. So then I did find another, I had a couple dominicters that I went to city and I'd asked them about if they could do a forced by session and they would say yes, but never, never worked it out. You know, they never came through. I did get

one that I told her I want to know. Actually, I had a couple that I want you to force me to eat my cum. So one of them gave me a blow job. And when she came, she came up and just put it right back in my mouth. Actually, I had a couple of them that's, you know, so that's called snowballing. And they came up and had me do that. So through T.E.R. I also, and I've still, every once in a while going and get these massage with happy endings.

I find this one provider who I just click with really, really well. I've probably been seen her now for five or six years. And just we get along real good. Wait, we threw all of this because, I mean, I felt like we were talking about like, you know, 40 years ago. You wind up with a new wife. You're doing all of this while you're married, all behind her back. We're all, we're already up to, and you've been doing this the whole marriage. You're still with your wife.

And you're still seeing masseuses and stuff like that currently. A couple years ago, you met one that you really click with. Yeah. Okay. Correct. And it's probably about five or six years. Anyway, one day I confessed to her. And she's one that I'd asked her.

She also would give me a blow job or a hand job. And I asked her one time if she could, you know, after I came, if she could put it back in my mouth. And I admitted to her at a session that I always wondered what it would be like to have a cock in my mouth. and would it be like to have someone come in my knowledge. Anyway, the next time I went to see her, she says, hey, I got this other client who we were talking and basically had the same kind of interest and would I be interested in the three of us all getting together?

And I just got all excited and it's getting hard, just laying on my stomach. I said, yeah. So, man, it took about nine or ten months for our schedules to align, but we got a hotel room. Yeah, I feel like I had that guy on my show. No, I'm really serious. I've heard this story before of the guy who is with the Dob

and she's trying to find another guy. And it is always hard. It's not an easy setup to do. And it is hard for all the stars and all the things to align because of everyone's schedule. So I feel like that other guy that was there was on my show and told me the same story. but now I'm getting your side of it.

So go on. So anyway, so we get together. Once again, I think if communication would have been a little bit better, things could have been gone better the first. I've done this guy twice. So we end up all playing with her. We're all naked. And I go down on him.

He goes down on me. And I just wanted to get him to come. And we hadn't communicated whether he was going to come. in my mouth or that. So every time he'd get close, he'd like stop me because, you know, I hadn't, you know, we hadn't talked about that. So we were going at it for probably two hours. And then he'd got himself to where he couldn't come. You know, he kept stopping or whatnot. So he ended up jerking off and he jerked me off and it was all a great time and, and talked about doing it again. So probably about a year later, she asked me. She texted me. He says, hey, he wants to know

if he want to do it again. So I said, yeah. So we set it up. And this time right at the beginning, I told him, actually, he just wanted to ask. So what do we want to get out of this? I said, I'd really like to have you come on my mouth. So he says, okay. And so same thing. Playing with her and him. She's beautiful. Had a great time. Son of a bit, she kept holding out until he finally, eventually did come on my mouth.

So I got to experience that. It wasn't all the greatness that are, I mean, I don't know, it wasn't what I expected, but it wasn't bad. It wasn't as hot as you thought it was going to be. Yeah, I just expecting this, you know, feel this shooting in my mouth. And basically all of it, I mean, you can tell he's ready to come,

and all of a sudden there's something in my mouth. You watch too much porn. Well, exactly. Don't we all? Yes, that's the problem. Yeah. So in the meantime, I've seen a couple other doms, and one of them, you know, I told her I had a forced-by fantasy.

So she has twice had me to where I, she'd have another sub, and she'd call me or text me and say, hey, are you available? And so I'd go and meet her. And once I gave this guy a blowjob for a while, he didn't come. And then she had him give me a blowjob and then had me come all over his face. Then I made an appointment. And, you know, when you set up with these doms, a lot of times you let him know what your session you're looking for. And I don't want some kind of a scripted thing where I know what's going to happen.

I tell them just surprised me. Let's see where it takes it. I'm not into the feminization dressing up. I don't know if there's anything I'm not into. So I showed up for this appointment with her, and she has me on the ground tied up and flogging me and then has me bent over a table and fucks me in the ass with a dildo. And then she straps me to the St. Andrew's Cross or whatever it is,

has me blindfolded and she leaves room for a second and comes in with another guy. So she had made arrangements for another guy to be there. And he sucks me for a while. And she gets me down and has me suck him off till he comes in my mouth. And she's contacted me probably two or three times since to try and set something up with other people. But like I say, it's just really hard to get the schedules to align. That's where you're at. Wait, so this whole time, how long have you been with your wife?

So the wife story, like 37 years. You're still with that second wife. You stayed with her this whole time, just sex on Sundays. Well, about four years ago, and things have progressed rapidly for the last four years from me. We have sex one night. The next morning she gets up and she tells me, I don't have feelings for you anymore. I just want to be roommates. And just out of nowhere, it just blows me away.

I'm sorry to say this, okay, guys, all guys listening. this is a fucking PSA, okay? It never comes out of nowhere from a woman. It just guys don't listen to women. They don't really pay attention to what they're fucking saying. A woman complains and brings shit up and tells you exactly what's wrong for a really long time. By the time a woman gives up and says, I'm fucking done with you. She is done.

Okay? But it never comes by surprise. Well, that's where I go back to saying communication. If I had known... Yeah, if you listened. I'm sure she was bringing shit up. That was wrong, that she didn't like. You know, guys don't...

You know what I mean? They think they're just being a fucking nag. Most women tell you exactly what they need and want. Listen, I'm not saying that the woman's always right. Maybe it's not... You can't give it to them. But, like, by the time a woman says, oh, I just...

I have no feelings for you anymore. 99% of the time, it doesn't come out of nowhere. I know it seems that way for the guys, but it's because guys are so fucking oblivious. And they're not listening when women are talking enough. They really, they might be listening, but they're, no, they might be like hearing them. No, like listening, but not really listening. What's that phrase?

You know what I mean? Yeah. No, I totally agree. Totally agree. So she dumped you, but you're still together? Still living in the same house, separate bedrooms. Yeah. So, yeah.

And I asked her at one person, so what do you, what do you, what about my second? actual needs. What if I were to go somewhere else? She says, just don't tell me about it. Oh, that's cool. You were like, yeah, I've been doing that this whole time. I know, I know. And it's just funny. I feel all sorry for myself. And I start looking back and I go on to T.E.R. and see some of the reviews that I've written and realize how long I've been doing this. And it's like, yeah, I suck. So, I mean, what were you feeling sorry for yourself for? The fact that she said, I didn't have feelings for you anymore and went and slept in the other room? I mean, what do you mean you were feeling sorry for yourself?

No, I mean, I love the woman and wanted, you know, have our life. And then it went from, you know, being able to communicate with her to, like, hardly, don't even talk hardly in the house anymore, you know. Yeah, I think unfortunately when the, like, listen, intimacy and SCX and a relationship, of course, is not everything. but it's not nothing. And it is a way of connecting on a level that makes a difference than a roommate. The difference between being a fucking roommate and being a wife is like, sex.

If you don't have that and you let that go out the window and you never talked about it and instead of like really trying to get her to better engage or loosen up or be more interested in it and focus on making it better with her, what you did is you just went elsewhere the whole time. So you never had a reason to say anything to her because you, were satisfied by somebody else. She didn't know that, but you knew that. And she was probably happy on some level because she didn't want to fucking change.

It's hard to change. So she never brought it up either. I'm not saying that she's some victim or the right one and you're wrong. I mean, you both sort of let that part of your life just fall by the wayside. Nobody talked about it. And when you don't have that, people grow apart. Like I said, it's not the most important thing, but it is definitely something that has to be there.

And when you don't tend to it and it becomes like a big nothing and nothing's going on in that piece of your pie, you grew apart. And it does create a big gap in your life. Like, where's the intimacy? That's where it should be. And you need to come together in that way. And you need to keep coming together in that way to stay connected. And when people lose touch with that, it's a lot of times feelings go away. And unfortunately, we let it get to the point to where, I mean, I'd go up and I couldn't walk by her without slapper in the ass, you know.

And to where she'd think every time I did that, I was just wanting sex. Of course. I'd compliment her, oh, you look good today. She thinks I'm doing that just because I want sex. Yeah, sad. I mean, listen, she had her own issues, like I said, the fact that she couldn't even, you said, like she would tense up when you would go down on her. I mean, this was obviously a woman. because the feeling of a man going down on a woman is just,

it's just the greatest thing on the planet. And I think that any woman that can, I mean, unless you're really bad at it, because a girl that I just recently posted, she did talk about really bad oral sex where the woman's tongue was like really hard and didn't move properly. So listen, it can be bad. Maybe you were like really bad at it. But if you weren't bad at it, you know, the fact that,

that she couldn't enjoy it and she tensed up was because she was not comfortable in her own skin and with her sexuality and stuff. So she had some issues. But if she could have over, like if she would have tended to that part of herself and loosened up and if you guys really focused on working with that or working on her and she did, you know, things could have been different. Yeah. Yeah. No. Agre hundred percent. So, but I have seen, um, truth. T-E-R found some Asian providers that it's like an agency where it's, and pretty much, I don't even read their reviews anymore, because it's pretty much all the same thing. You go in there, they have your rinse with mouthwash, they'll give you a shower, they'll go down on you,

have sex, have you come the second time, give you a little massage, have sex with you a second time, or give you a blowjob, get you to come two times, give you a shower, and that's it. They're all, you know, these beautiful Asian women. So I've done that. You know, a lot of times I'll do the, just the massage with a happy ending. But sometimes you want to be held, you want to be kissed. I want to have sex.

Yeah. So every once in a while I'll go to one of those providers. And anymore, it's pretty hard for me to come a second time. How old are you now? 64. Right. So you're good for one time. Actually, I did go to one a few months ago where she was able to get me twice.

Oh, wow. She was good. She was determined. Have you done the guy guy thing, or is that something that's always something that you want to do, but no one could make it happen? The forced guy situation. Forced by? Yeah, forced by. Yeah, I've done that with a couple of dominatrix.

So I just got this new dominatrix that they just started seeing. six, eight months ago. Really beautiful woman. Really into the lifestyle. And she's a couple of the Dominicters I've seen, and I quit seeing him because there's all the same thing. I'd go over there. They'd peg me, they'd jerk me off,

maybe slap me a little bit. And it's always the same thing. I wanted something different, something to push my limits. So this one I found now, she's the one that the first time, I always set up our appointments. I set up a two-hour appointment with her, and told her what I was into. I wanted to force by force committing impact play.

And I told her I didn't think that I wasn't ready for sounding. What the fucking sounding? Sounding is where they take a steel rod and stick it down the whole of music. Okay, I can't. I've heard of that before. Yeah. So, I mean, just the thought. of it makes me shiver. So I go see her. She straps me to St. Andrew's Cross. She's blindfolds me.

She's hitting me with different flogs and different stuff and everything's going great. She takes me over to the bed. She pegs me a little bit. She has me turn over on my back. And she says, I want you to take a blindfold off. So I want you to see this part. and she pulls out a sounding rod and my dick's, you know, hard as can be. And she says, I'm just going to play with just the tip of it, just on the outside. So she just starts, you know, puts this lube or whatever it is that they use

and starts kind of playing around and slowly starts inserting it a little bit and starts going further and further. And I can't believe that I'm here letting this... I'd had a catheter before. Yeah, I can't even think about it. It hurts just like here. hearing it. When

they pulled that catheter out, I was like, no way. And she's here, got this thing, and she's like, fucking my dick with this thing, and it's not hurting. And it was just different. It's like, wow. You know, it's I can't believe I'm letting her do this. Yeah. So,

so that was that time, and it's like, okay, I need to really be careful what I tell her, because she's really going to push my limits. The new one, yeah. Does she, you just met her recently? Recently, I've seen her three times. As a matter of fact, the next, I want to see her in the next month or so, I'm going to set up a three-hour

session because she says she can really, you know, push your limits. Last time I saw her, I told her when she does the, you know, hitting you with a flogger and stuff like that. A lot of times it'll make a loud noise, but it's just more of a thud type of a feel. And sometimes

it'll be more of a steamy feel. I told her, I wanted to try more of the steamy field than less of the thud. So she was hitting me pretty good to where I really had to breathe into it to where I could take it. And then so I just wanted to tell much I could take, you know. Then she laid me on this bed and had some kind of electricity thing. She had me lay on something. And every time she touched me, they're like a little electric shock. So she's touching all over my body.

And she did that for probably a good 20, 30 minutes, just turning it up a little more and turning it up a little bit more. So, like I say, she told me that if we. had more time she could really you know push the limits more and and um see see what i could think and i really really enjoyed it she's one that also set up a a force by she had a guy come the second time i saw her had a guy come over and had me suck his dick and had him suck me off oh so she's been able to do that so how are you and your wife like at home she still lives with you yep so you're just are you like do you guys like each other i was like friends like i mean or do you not talk I still like her.

There's not a lot of communications. We have two kids. Yeah. So most of the grandkids, most of the communications about the kids and grandkids. We have perfectly civil conversations. We, you know, all our lives, we never did fight all through our marriage and stuff. Yeah, maybe that's a problem. It's weird.

No, no, I mean, you laugh, but that's not normal to not fight. That means you're not fucking communicating. I have to have this whole conversation with someone recently. I don't know if I aired the episode yet, but that's not normal. it's not healthy and it signifies a fucking problem. I remember my brother used to brag about his first wife like, oh, we'd never fight. It's like, yeah, then they got divorced two years then.

It's like, it's not normal not to fight. You know, if you're not fighting, you're not being honest. And if you're not being honest, things are building up. You know, that's why your wife's like, I'm done with you. She never said shit about what she was pissed off about maybe. I don't know, but like it's not normal to not fight. Two human beings that are two separate people with their own brains are not always going to get along.

And if you are always getting along, you're being fucking phony. And if you're being phony, then you're not connecting. You know, that's a problem. Right. Don't you think? Yeah, I agree. I agree. I say it's communication through, I say, it's huge.

And I started listening to all kinds of different podcasts in the last few years since this has happened. And that's one thing that I've really learned. And it's just this way, something I talk to my daughter about now, about communication. with her husband and how important it is in a relationship. Yeah, listen, I mean, it's not over for you. You could go get another, you could get a third wife or a girlfriend. I mean, have you ever thought of having another relationship in your life? Or are you just planning on moving forward, living with your friend, aka your wife,

and just seeing providers on the side? You know, I've actually I met one one woman went and did lunch two or three times but she was all she's just really aggressive

and wanting to actually she's someone that texted me and told me come over and get naked and have sex and that's like

I know that's that's not what I'm looking for somebody somebody be a friend somebody can talk with and let's see where things go from there

but you know I don't I'm not never say never going to say no I don't I wouldn't wait I'm confused a girl you meet a woman who you want to date and she's like I want to fuck you first like let's fuck and you're like no thanks I just want to be friends we well no take that okay so we went out like three times yeah and then and I told her my whole situation perfectly honest with her and then I had texted her that you know what I'm where I am in my life I'm not ready for any kind of relationship I you know let's I didn't want to see her and lead her on or anything like that and I'm and I didn't want to see her and lead her on or anything like that. She said, okay, I understand.

And then she would continue to text me. Then one time she texts me, hey, I'm at this hotel. This is the room number. Come in, drop your clothes, and come to bed. Oh, my, poor. She's so desperate. You're sitting there, like, totally shooting her down, and then she just tries everything.

And then she even throws out free sex, and you say, no, there's nothing worse. This is a PSA to women out there, because I've heard this before. I know girls that have done this, when they're just like so desperate to get a guy that they eventually then like just offer them like what they think no guy would ever say no to which is like I'll just totally fuck you no strings and then the guy of course says no because what guy gets turned on by desperation and I mean there's nothing worse than that for the woman like you're just setting yourself up for the worst rejection you've ever felt I don't know how many showers you have to take to get rid of the shame do you know what I mean? It's embarrassing. Yeah.

And you said no. Yep. I said, I didn't even reply. I didn't even reply. Oh, even worse. But I get it. I've heard that scenario too. Okay.

So you, all right. So what are you, where are you at now? Like you are you, do you think? Let me just ask you. Like, do you think in your future? Because to me, as long as you're alive, I don't care what age you are. You're alive. You could grow and change.

Like you said, you've learned a lot looking back. You had two marriages. neither one worked out. You finally got the fucking memo. You know what you did wrong. You know, you could have another relationship and do it right. Yeah, could, but right now I just work myself a lot to where I don't go out trying to meet people.

Yeah, yeah. I was just wondering, do you have that desire to ever have that relationship? Or are you fulfilled? You know, you have your companionship in your home, you have grandchildren, you have children, you have a career. Are you ever, do you ever feel lonely that you would want a partner? Yeah, like I say, it's like sometimes that you just want to be held. You want to be hugged. You want to kiss.

It's not even about the sex. You want to have someone there to. Yeah. So yeah, I do miss that. Yeah. So I could see somewhere down the road. I don't know. We'll see what happens.

Yeah, you could do it. You could third times a charm, Jason. I don't know about that. No, yes. You never, I mean, it's never. What do you mean? You don't know about it. that it's up to you. You learned a lot from, you know, you would go into your next relationship,

maybe feeling different. You had, you had both ends of the spectrum. You had a very open marriage where you did crazy things. And then you had a marriage that was very closed off and uptight. And there was no sex, one too much sex, one no sex. So, you know, the third one could be someplace in the middle, which would be just right. I've actually just recently gone to a swinger club a couple times to check out that situation. And? You know, it's didn't have any action, I should say, either time, but it was really weird. The one I got on to, the men have to be completely nude.

The women are in lingerie. And it was a, I kind of went in there expecting everyone to be all horny. And it's like everyone just there having a good time and talking and chatting and. eventually stuff, you know, some people do hook up and there's one lady, she had her, had her husband, he took her over to this bed in the middle of everything and starts fucking her. And there's a few guys standing around watching. So she calls a couple of them over and starts, you know, jack them off and giving them blow jobs. And for the first time I was there, I didn't really talk to anybody. There's just a lot of single guys.

So kind of put you the disadvantage. When the second time I went with a goal of actually getting into conversation with somebody and I did and met some nice people and we're thinking about going again soon and seeing what could happen there it's pretty interesting

when I went to leave the last time there's a like a dance floor with a stripper pole in the middle I go to walk out and there's a girl hanging on the laying down holding on the stripper pole from my fucking her as she's holding the striperful and about six guys standing around or beating her dicks off. Watching. Yeah. So it's definitely different, but something I think I'm going to try a couple more times to see what happens.

Yeah, maybe you'll wind up meeting a girl there. You never know someone like-minded. You just don't know where your life's going to go. I think like why settle for what you have right now. You could live 20, 30 more years. I mean, would you, why do the same thing? Maybe you can meet somebody else and have, like I said, another relationship. I mean, whatever.

Right. But so what is what is in your future, hopefully a forced-by situation, more swingers club experiences, right? Yeah. The one, say, a lady I go to that I've been seen her like five years, does massage and have a great conversation with her. I've had sex with her a couple of times. I say we just have a real good connection. I've tried doing other, you know, massage places and try different people. I keep going back to her because she's so great. Matter of fact, I sent her a couple links to your show telling her that she needs to call in

because she's got some stories that can just blow you away. Oh, yeah, for sure. But it's kind of living life a day of time to see where it takes me. I don't have any plans. You know, one day everything's fine. The other day, things start going through your head. Like I say, never my wildest dreams back in my 20s or 30s, what I've ever thought of putting the guy's dick in my mouth or going to a swingers club

or doing some of the things I've done. So you say never, never. Your life changes and you evolve. I'm just kind of going with it. I got nothing against anybody with what they do. And I kind of learn to open my mind up a little bit and enjoy things. Yeah. And what's interesting is I don't even think you ever thought you were into a dominatrix.

That was something. Oh, no. Right? I mean, and then that became like the main thing that you've done all these years. It sounds like you just kind of did it on a whim. Like you said, you were reading that review. And you're like, oh, maybe I'll try it. Yep.

It's something I totally thought I would not be into. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I say I've always been in a like management type of position where I'm always telling people what to do. So I don't know if that's part of it. Be going in there and just giving yourself completely to where you, you know, you've got no control. Yeah. After you're being in control all day long and stuff. Yeah, a lot of times they say that that is the, it's like a release.

And a lot of times that person winds up being the sub and vice versa. maybe a person who's sub all the time wants to be the Dom. Whatever it is that you're on in your regular life, when you turn that off, you know, you become the opposite. So you're alpha, you know, you're in charge guy. What do you want to do to, when you turn that off, you know, what's better than being the complete, it's like you become the complete opposite, which makes sense. Yep. Yeah, that's cool. So listen, what did we call you again?

Jason. Jason. Jason. Listen, thanks so much for calling in. I don't know why I harp so much on your relationship with your wife, but I think people learn from those kinds of things because I just think that there's so many people that are in your situation. Not with all the stuff that you're doing sexually. They're going to be jealous that you're having all this fun, but there's a lot of guys that are listening. And they've had the same kind of thing happen or they're in the, you know, 30 years later.

There's no SEX and they're just friends or roommates, whatever, you know. So I always like to go and have conversations about that too because I think a lot of people can relate. You know, that's why I brought it up. It's interesting too as a part of your story. But I do hope that one day you wind up in another relationship maybe. I'd like that for you for some reason. I don't know why. But, you know, so good luck with that.

And if not, have fun with all your experiences you're having because it sounds like you're having a good time. All right. I appreciate you talking to me. Thanks so much for calling in. Stay tuned because your episode will be up very soon. All right. Thanks. Thanks, Jason.

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