Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 546 - Jane and Thor are Into Threesomes, Swapping, Cuckolding and More

Episode Date: October 26, 2022

Jane and Thor are into threesomes, swapping, cuckolding and more and they called in to talk al about it. How did they meet up? How did they first start hooking up with others? And where did they go to meet the people they hooked up with? Tune in for all the details which include how they were both married and cheating when they first met each other, the MFF threesomes they met at and how that threesome eventually led to them both divorcing and staying together, how and why Thor was immediately attracted to Jane, how they went crazy at first on swinger dating sites and swinger house parties, how and why they eventually became more selective as well as started to play alone, why they now prefer spontaneous hook ups over set up hook ups, the women they met that they both were totally into, the foursome they had on their staycation, their hook up with her co-worker that a started at a strip club, why they’re not into hooking up with other swingers, the types of guys Jane is really into, her affair with a famous sports star and why that ended, their DVP experience and exactly what went down and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of Jane and Thor + anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I saw them before. I even spoke to them. They sent them right in. It is Thor and Jane. Now, Thor and Jane met at the gym. And you're going to tell that they work out. big when you see their pecks. They met at the gym, but the interesting way they met was like there was like a threesome going on with Thor, this other woman, and Jane. Now, the interesting thing

about it, okay, because threesome's aren't that off the wall on my show. But the interesting thing about their threesome is these were three people that came together and got it on with each other and they all had husbands and wives. Okay, every single one of them was cheating in the scenario. Thor had a relationship with the other girl first and then they brought in Jane, but when Thor met Jane. It's one of those stories like, oh my God, instant connection. And they have been together ever since. They do get into the whole threesome story. They talk about, you know, how they met, what exactly went down during that threesome. And then how it got blown up. Okay. It's pretty salacious. And then they get into how they eventually got together and kept going with their threesomes. They've had

foursums. They've done it all. They went for a little bit of a free-for-all when they first got together They're doing swingers clubs and parties and going on to websites and stuff. And this is a couple, though, and I heard this for the first time from them, that prefer they're naughty encounters, their threesomes, their foursomes, their swaps, all the things that they're into, they're into it all for it to happen on the fly, like with random people, people from the regular world. They love nothing more than to just like hook up with strangers that they meet out and about who don't necessarily, that aren't necessarily swingers,

and bring them into the fold and fuck them in front of each other. They have been with people, you know, separate together. They've done threesomes, foursums. They get really specific about a couple hot stories, one with her co-worker on his birthday. They had a girl they really both fell for. There was a famous sports celebrity that she used to hang with. They're in that world.

She talks a little bit about that without giving away who it is. But they really get into the specifics of what they're into and what they're not into and why. And like I said, it's very interesting because this is a couple that prefers vanilla people over swingers. And they explain why and we get into all of that stuff. And then we end with another hot story. This episode has it all. And it's super interesting because it's a little bit different. They like to do things a little bit different, even though they're doing all the same things as a lot of my other couples.

they're still totally into each other. They're totally hot. If you want to see them, go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. I am going to, that link is in the description. I am going to be right back on with Thor and Jane. Jane and Thor. They're both on this episode explaining. I'll be right back on.

Hi, Jane and Thor. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you guys doing today? Hi, hey, we're doing well. Thanks for having us. Thank you. Oh, thanks for being here. and you guys have like your own mic, you are ready to talk together on the show.

I'm super excited because I feel like there's like you guys have a lot of stories and I really had so many questions about your first story, which is how you guys all met at a threesome. And the threesome was like you, her and another woman, I'm thinking, right? And you were all married to other people. Were you all cheating? That was my first question. Yeah, unfortunately were. I was doing some personal training at a large club married.

Met a female. These clubs are kind of predestined for affairs and just a lot to go together and you're both working out, etc. So I met a girl. So you were cheating on your wife with a girl at the gym. That's your story with that second girl, the other girl, the other girl. besides Jane. And then in comes Jane. How does Jane get involved in a threesome?

So I was new at this club, married, and walked into a class and took one look at Thor, and there was just this electricity between the two of us. It was felt right off the bat. Right. And this other woman, we'll call Lou, felt it as well. She became very territorial and over the next several weeks became a fixture. Wherever Thor was, Lou was, especially when he was around me. She could smell.

She could tell that he was interested in you too. And that was like her guy. She's having an affair. She was married as well? She was. Okay. So when you see how was her guy still kind of weird C.D. situation.

It doesn't matter. Of course you're going to be. It doesn't matter. She was banging you. you were hers like I get it doesn't you don't have to be married so when you could be cheating with them and still feel ownership that's the way it goes

and they they had a long long term relationship I believe at that time they were together about five years oh so even I mean come on so of course she's going to feel territorial so it became kind of they keep your

friends close your enemies closer type situation they be friends me. They could tell I was extremely vanilla. I was in a not super great marriage. And I at the time was looking for something different, a little excitement. And it started off very vanilla, very friendship-oriented. Let's go out for a run altogether. Let's grab drinks after a while. And then it's slowly, they slowly started letting me into their situation. They informed me that they were both married, not to each other. They'd been together for quite a while. And, you know, they went to sex clouds and they went to parties and house parties. And me being very vanilla and not aware of this type of situation at all, I became extremely intrigued. Oh, I didn't know.

I didn't know that in that five years, behind your wife's back, you and that other woman had a swinging lifestyle together. Yeah, she was pretty vanilla, minus just seeing other men. I guess together we started dabbling and dabbling a little more. and mostly, I'd say, threesome, maybe with other women or soft swap things. So she was slowly doing more and more. But going back to what Jane said, so even at the club,

we'd mess around with some other people. But when Jane walked in, it's two-sided here, I was right off the bat-signant with her. And I can tell you, coming from a lot, Just a life of separating my loves with people I've been with, I was floored. And for sure, the other girl knew right away simple is up because she had seen me around other women. And I never had to reaction that I had with Jane.

And the behind all the seediness is the mix of this day, which was a lot of love and layer underneath it. So it's, but it did set off a lot of things in our lives and their lives. And I'd say off for the good, though. But yeah, I get it. So it was that she, it wasn't just that you looked at Jane and it was like, oh, I want to have sex with her. It was more. There was like something else going on, that kind of chemistry that's even more than just sex. And I think that a lot of people, when they meet the one, you know, you hear stories.

I love those stories where a guy just like knows the minute he sees somebody or and sometimes the woman too. it's some sort of electric vibe that goes down, you know, when you meet that person, that's the one. And it's not, like you're saying, it wasn't just about sex because here you were. Like, that girl knew it was something different because you guys had been begging other people the whole time. Correct.

Yeah. So wait, so what goes down at that first threesome and then we'll move on because I know, like, there's so much more that you guys wind up doing together. But had you, because, like, I know that Thor and that other woman had been with other people. But, Jane, here you are, like, pretty vanilla. and you're about to cheat on your husband.

Is this the first time you're cheating on your husband? And the second thing I want to know, is this the first time you're with a woman? So, yes, this was the first time I had cheated on my husband. And yes, first time with another woman. I had fantasized before about being with another woman, but definitely the first physical time doing both. Right.

And, yeah, so they invited me out for drinks. They, it turns out, had a full on plan for me. And so we went out for drinks, and then we went back to Thor's house. And I think we just started watching TV or maybe playing a video game. Guitar Hero, that's right. And then Thor came up behind me and started kids. kissing my neck and the other girls started to join in, just touching and feeling. And before I knew it, we were all just messing around.

It was fun, but I will say it started with, as we're kind of playing guitar hero, like she was playing a song or something. Like James said, I kind of came up behind her and I started taking her clothes off. off and whether it was premonition or what she she I remember I think she complained about her got mad but it was a fun time

we all had a great time us around together but I think literally starting right then and there she knew she was in trouble yeah but how hot was it everything but was it good Jane like I mean did you all fool around with did everyone fool around with everybody was it

is that how it all went down Oh, for sure. And with me being the guest in their situation, I was very aware and I made sure that I knew my place. So, you know, I wasn't, I absolutely wasn't trying to take over or monopolize the situation. I kind of just fit myself into where it felt appropriate. I remember to the day it's crazy shit, the white, buttoned down shirt on. I kind of went behind her and I unbuttoned her shirt and and start playing with her

tits and of course the third who she realized right away she was going to be the third and kind of joined and we went on the Bing bag right? Yeah, so I'll just, I mean, it was especially for Jane's first time. If you would have seen it, recorded it, watched it, you would never guess it was a first time. It was girl on girl, me going back and forth. I think even

at one point they were kind of on top of each other kissing and I was just fucking one of them, fucking the other one. And it was as normal and natural as it could be. And it's like I said, super, super hot time. Now I know because

you guys are together now that obviously because these are three married people, all of your relationships go bust somehow I mean did you get caught did it blow up in your fucking face like how did you how did that what happened well before this I broke up

we went along we started doing more things together I think we'd had her in a couple of situations with us a couple more times but it was ending I left my wife got my own place

and honestly one day Jane's like, time for her to go. And I was like, yes, ma'am, she's gone. So I break up with her. Fast forward to our jobs together. We could both travel. So I'd plan business trips along with her business trips, and we'd be together. So I bring Thor along on a work trip with me.

And the third, Lou realizes that we're both gone at the same time. So one night I called home to talk with my husband and he informed me that he had had a conversation with Lou while at the club and she let him know that she believed very strongly that Thor and I were away together.

Oh, what is that saying? Something like nothing's as bad as I was scorned lover, you know, that saying? Oh, yeah. Yeah. For sure. She got you guys. She hurt you guys as much as you guys fucking hurt her.

She got you back. Except we weren't married to her. It doesn't matter. It doesn't fucking matter. You know what I'm talking about. I mean, she was really, she was vicious. She called your fucking husband. She, she talked, yeah, she could find him in person.

And so that night, I admitted to my husband what had been going on. And then I let him know that as innocent and as scorned as Lou might have sounded, that she was actually the one that initiated the initial threesome at the very beginning. So I wanted to let him know that she's kind of the one that brought us all together. Yeah, but she also had a husband. Did you guys call her husband? I mean, wasn't she worried that someone would go do the same thing?

Maybe. What do you mean, maybe? I sent her husband an email and let him know that they had had at this time a seven-year relationship. Yeah. And that spurned their divorce. My divorce came about a year and a half later. So everything blew up. Everything blew up that day, that night.

So a sexy story that almost led to this, we go out one night, the three of us. I set up a date with a couple. And like Jane said, by this point, her and I were kind of talking, we want to do this, we want to do that, I want to do this. So we meet this couple out at a bar and a couple invites us back to the hotel room. And it was kind of funny. The third turns to, Jane says, are you sure you want to do this? Not knowing that we almost had set it up as it was. And she's like 100%.

We're walking back to the room. Jane's already between the husband and wife with a couple we met. And the third's constantly saying, are you sure, are you sure? And she couldn't be more sure. go up to the room it's a super super hot situation this couple is really good looking everybody's messing around

at one point so remember we're still married to other people Jane looks at me and says can I fuck him and the third started crying because

and that that started off I think the next day she calls Jane and says you gave him everything he's ever wanted and she was right Yeah listen I mean you could understand everybody in this situation I feel for her too you got it like it's not like she fucked you one night And she was acting like a crazy jealous girlfriend I mean you had a very long term affair

There's no way she didn't have feelings for you at that point I don't care that she was married you were married too Because when you were married you had feelings for Jane Feelings just sometimes fucking happen And sometimes they're not reciprocated just because you weren't feeling that she was. So we feel for her, but it doesn't mean that you guys were wrong. You guys met each other. And it was like, whoa, you guys were meant to be together.

And the whole thing went fucking bust. It happens. But, you know, I don't see that she's so bad. I mean, she must have been cool for some reason. You were with her for five years. Yeah, I don't want to come across as portraying this woman as a horrible human being because she's not. what you just said is absolutely correct. It just happened.

You guys were met and you you feel for her. Stronger. Yeah. I mean, it was time for you to meet somebody that was right. It wasn't going to be her. Jane was the one for you and that happens and you feel for her because that feels terrible for her. But whatever, life happens.

You know, I mean, but I can understand her being so upset at that point because the writing was on the wall, you know? And I just think that crying was her. She just knew she was losing. you. She obviously had something wrong in her marriage and she had this ongoing thing with you. You know, so in a weird way, you all wound

up better that it all fucking blew up because there's, you guys weren't all with each other because you were happy at home. Yeah. And talking about writing the wall, like you said, it wasn't that she was a bad person. It's

like you said, writing was on the wall when Jane, I remember, again, vividly, I looked over, I see Jane riding this guy in the hotel room. I jumped up from what I was doing, walked right over and kissed her. And I'd already to this day,

it's one of the greatest kisses we've ever had just because the whole situation was just absolutely perfect. And it was like a lighten strike. Yes. And set us on our journey, honestly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you get divorced. And because like I said, I know from your email you guys have done swaps and clubs and cuckled situations and all that kind of stuff.

So you guys wind up together. You don't live together now. I know that. But you are together as a couple and you've been together for a very long time since. So now I'm assuming since you've been open from before you were a couple when you were just cheating, you remained open. You know, what? Start telling me what happened once you guys got together as far as like the clubs and the cuckolding. and all that kind of stuff.

So when we had free reign to be with each other at any point that we wanted, we weren't sneaking around anymore because we were now both divorced. Yeah. I would say at the beginning, we went a little crazy. We were on a couple of like swinging dating sites. And, you know, it was it was probably at least once a week that we were meeting a couple or a guy. we had a guy that we met who became a little bit of a regular and we would meet him every so often. But it, yeah, we kind of went a little nuts with the house parties and the meeting of people.

Just because for, you know, the previous couple of years, we were sneaking around so much. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And then we kind of just fell into our comfortable. routine, I guess, our non-routine. And we became a little more selective with who we saw and what we did. And at one point, we both started experimenting out on our own. Oh, interesting. Or with Thor with other women, myself with other men.

Definitely some cuckold situations where Thor watched. and we met a woman who became irregular for a little bit. Oh, greatness. And yeah, we just kind of fell into, we found what we liked and what both of us liked and wanted. And, you know, that's kind of been the routine since that point. Wait, what did you just say, Thor when she said, oh, we met a woman by, you know, that became a regular.

What was your little thing that you just said there? Was it negative? It wasn't, that's a greatness. It wasn't because it was a woman. Yeah. It's because this girl was a high in athlete. Yeah. And she had been married to women, been married to men, went back to women.

She was just a baller. Right. So it was just a super aggressive, super good-looking, super comfortable third. that it was funny, we both kind of saw in love with. I mean, it was someone that you could literally go, we could have this one girl for the rest of,

and again, not because it's a girl. I could have a super regular boyfriend of James, but this one was just different. Yeah, because she was just so great. I mean, you guys are both. He loved me as much as he loved him. Yeah, it was a really good situation.

Yeah, that's hard to find, right? Oh. And even to this day, we talk about our comfort level. We've both, and I think you agree with me, we really like the spontaneous. We really haven't, we haven't been on the site in years. We haven't been to like a house party or club in years just because it's, I don't say it's not a challenge or not even fun for us anymore. We enjoy, and honestly the best time we've ever had is when things just pop up. out of the middle of nowhere and things roll.

So tell me some stories of how things have popped up out of nowhere for you guys. Where do these spontaneous things go down? So every summer, we take a long weekend and do a staycation here where we live. We find a nice hotel with a great pool, a great scene, and we spend a Friday night through Sunday morning at this particular hotel. Yeah. And one day we got a prima spot at a cabana near the cool. Just hung out. We were drinking and there were several other couples and groups of friends that were within our age group,

probably a little bit younger than us, but within our age group. And, you know, a couple hours later after drinking, there are now, two, three, five or six of us on our cabana. men, women, couples, and everything was rolling and fun. And neither one of us had any inclination that something was going to happen. Zero. But I ended up giving the woman half of this one couple, my cell phone number. And at the end of the afternoon, we all packed up and go to our respective hotel rooms to get ready for the evening.

And the woman text me and said, I think you left your hotel key in my room. and gave us her room number. And I kind of looked at Thor and we both just got this big smile on our face. So we both kind of walked over to their room. Door cracked. The doors cracked. They're both naked on their bed, messing around. And they look up and invite us over onto the bed with them.

And it just turned into this spontaneous, for some swap, crazy hot situation. They knew you guys were like one of them. you guys were down. I think you could smell that shit, right? Well, yes, side note, and we've been out before. And, yeah, there's times when we throw it out there. And it's times that we don't. We literally don't.

And we're at another one of our hangouts one time. And I think it was like middle of the week. And we're talking to like three sales reps that were in town at this hotel. And we're just talking to them. I mean, we're not, there's zero vibe, zero this going on. And this is kind of a sad. note but also one of the guys goes you guys are swingers aren't you and we're both kind of taken back we're like why do you say that and that's what sucks because honestly i will back

up and say that we do this least i do i love her power and her confidence and who she is even when we talk about cuckold situations i don't watch her because it's a cut situation. I watch it because the power blows me away. Yeah. And this is why we're together. And so we asked this guy, I'm like, why do you say that? He says, because you, this sucks, because you let her talk to us and you don't get mad. Why does that suck? You kept saying like, oh, but this is terrible what I'm going to say. Like, I know, how is that bad? I don't understand. that I have to allow her that I control her that oh I see what you're seeing in that I think what they mean which I totally get because and I think a woman would say the same thing to another

woman like oh sure you if you were if your girl you're in a bar and a bunch of girls are there and you're sitting there flirting with them right in front of the girl they might say the same thing I don't think it's so much about power it's just about how typically a man or a woman would get very upset if their partner is talking to someone else I don't know but it's that you see it that way. I get it. I mean, I would never see it that way, but it's, it's interesting that you do. And that is very much your thing. I remember it from your email. Like my girl is like super strong and powerful. I mean, you really love that aspect. And so the littlest hint that someone's taking away from that or something would affect you because

that's like your thing. We've talked a million times. The process of getting to a hotel room or a room, it could literally end right there because my turn on and comes from watching her go through the motions of controlling these guys at the bar and getting to the point they come to the room with us. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, listen, that guy when he said, like, because you don't mind, like, you are, he was only seeing the truth of that situation. I mean, that is who you are in that scenario. You are the guy that wants her to take control and that gives her that and that does allow for her.

You love that backseat view of your girl doing that. I mean, you should have been like, yeah, I fucking dig it. That's exactly true, right? Yeah, you dig it. It's what you love. And that guy could tell. And before I met Thor, I never would have done that. I wasn't the person I am today.

Right. before I met Thor. He saw and knew the person that I was deep down, but I had always been in relationships where I was kind of kept down. We're talking to other men absolutely wasn't allowed. And all of a sudden, he allows me to open up and blossom into this confident, you know, powerful woman. And so, you know, I think that's one of the reason he loves it so much because he has, over the past several years has seen me grow from a meek, kind of insecure beta woman into a more powerful human being. Yeah, you're lucky.

I mean, I got to tell you, that's not very rare. A lot of guys would be very intimidated by that, and they do keep that part of most women down. And I think that, and sometimes this is a subconscious thing. I think a lot of women's biggest fear is that if they were all of themselves, their guy would be like, what the fuck? You know, it's too much. It's a stigma that's definitely

surrounds women. And I think it's great that you happen to meet that rare breed of a guy that not only allows for it, but fucking loves it. I mean, that's like really, you know, that's only going to motivate you even more to get more into it and be more of who you are.

And that helps you and him. You're both lucky. Yeah. And it's really helped me in my professional career as well. Yeah, I push her to treat clients. like there's someone at a bar you're picking up. I'm like, you're too strong. Don't let them bully you.

You'd be the champion this. Yeah, that's great. The best story, though, and this is talk about a just off the cuff. My birthday a couple years ago, we go out, we go to our normal watering hole, pie in hotel bars here in town. The, we're having our drinks, having dinner. And weirdly, it's kind of winding down. Like, nothing's going on at the hotel.

hell and it's I think like 930 or 945 and we actually turn it to it like hey you're ready to go home so we're like we're on we're like at level one when it comes to party yeah

out of the blue she's like we should we should go to a strip club on a way home like okay I'm game then we decide to invite a co-worker hers a guy that he By then he knows about us, right?

A little bit. So he's been kind of privy to what we do, and we've told him some stories, and so he's always been curious. So she texts them, hey, we're going to the strip club. Do you want to meet us? And that texts me back in seconds.

Meet you there. So we stop, and we're still up in one now. So we actually just, it's an all new place with B-Y-O-B. We get just like, I think one, either a six-pack or a 12-pack of beer, wasn't even that much alcohol. We roll into the strip club. Jane's wearing this gorgeous orange dress.

The, it went from one to DefCon 10 in seconds. Like, to the point, I'm, I'm walking around in a strip club trying to buy liquor and alcohol from other people. Is that the same night You took your dress off? My dress didn't come on. The stripper just pulled it down. So Me and the guy are sitting there

And the place is packed, a lot of people in there. A really good-looking strippers on stage. Jane walks up, starts talking to her. And I'm kind of just watching. Again, I become in these situations a big watcher because I like watching her perform. And the girl kind of stops dancing and she's leaned down and make their

I'm kind of a conversation for a couple minutes. I'm like, what the heck is going on here? All of a sudden, right in front of the whole club, she pulls her dress off her shoulders, pulls her boobs out, and turns her around for everybody to see. It was so cool. And I remember a Jane, she kind of does like a hello to everybody and smiles.

So by this point, this guy's going nuts. She comes over, sits down. he's sitting across from her. I think some girls are sitting there dance with us, and she hikes her skirt up, and almost kind of has her leg spread right in front of him, and he's just staring at her. But I've been in a situation a million times.

Guys get worried, get nervous. So I keep going to the bathroom or going, or I leave them alone. And it's funny because every time I meet, and he knows what's going on, but every time I leave, the only time he'll kiss her is when I'm not there. I mean, like, what's your observation on that? Mine?

I think he didn't know how to act. I think he just worried how you would feel. He was being a gentleman, honestly. Yeah, that's a confusing thing for, like, somebody from the outside world. You guys are professionals, but he was like, it's too good to be true. He doesn't know how to navigate that situation. Yeah. Yeah, I don't blame him for that.

So. She's in attack mode. And she's like, let's go back to your place. And still, as you go up front, we drove there. He Ubered there. And we're walking out there, and he's like, I'll come to get my Uber. And I'm like, dude, we go into car together. You don't have to get an Uber, cancel your Uber.

They get in the back seat together. And this is what's funny is, in my mind, they sucked in the back seat. in reality, you didn't really do anything, right? I think we made out. Yeah. But, like, in my mind, my head's going crazy

and this is so hot. We get to his place. And as you, I think it's a two or three-story condo. As Jane's in front of us walking up to the, up to the bedroom,

and she just takes her dress off, gets naked, just walks naked in front of us up to the, up to the bedroom. I'm like, oh, this is incredible. But again, just to make sure, because we've been with, we've been with a lot of guys that, and to this day, we still argue, we've had a lot of men who can't perform. I mean, I'd say a majority of men who struggle. And we don't know, is it me in there?

Is it what's going on? Is it nervous? And this is alcohol. We, we've, this is kind of our holy grail trying to figure out why sometimes men don't perform. So we've noticed before that if I leave the room or go to the bathroom or you'd even use the, I left their credit card at the bar and you go down and get my credit card. Just to kind of let these guys get started, things tend to be better just because. They feel more comfortable without you there.

Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, it's him and her. The problem with this guy's didn't. He had some problems. which is fine. Yeah. You know, I do my best trying to alleviate the situation, help him along.

But at one point, good for him. He just said, look, I'm sorry. I just can't do it. Why don't you guys, why don't you guys just have sex in front of me and I'll watch? Oh, okay. And then he jacked off and came. Yeah.

Yeah. Well, it was the funny. At one point, he goes, oh, no. like he knew he was in trouble you know what it's the first guy ever kind of met

that he was in trouble but it still ended up being one of the hottest situation we've ever done and getting off the cuff of vanilla and that's kind of our wheelhouse now is that we enjoy

the meeting of people that are in professionals low and roll oh okay that's interesting take you know I can talk to a million swingers

and open people and different You know, it's always a new little twist because you guys do like to show someone like that guy, a first time experience. I prefer the newbies only because to me, the experienced swingers, the experienced swinging couple can be a little aggressive for me. Oh, okay. Interesting.

That's one of the reasons we got off the dating site. It was just too much. I wouldn't say, well, I definitely wouldn't say I'm a hardcore swinger. I do prefer the more natural situation. So I believe that's why I like the newbie situation because it is organic and it just flows a little bit more naturally. Oh, wow. I never heard that. But it makes sense when you explain it.

I'm surprised I haven't heard that from people before. So when you're with the swingers, they know what's going down. You know what's going down. Like it happens too fast. Is that what it is? There's like less interesting. Yeah, it's a it's a foregone conclusion. Yes, we are here together because we are going to have sex.

I like the lead up and the not knowing of exactly what's going to happen and how things are going to happen or even if they're going to happen. Interesting. Uh-huh. Yeah, I can see that being a thing. thing, yeah, and it's great that you both have the same, that you both like that. We, it happens every time we've been together 15 years. We had sex last night. When it ends, it's literally, oh, my God, to this day.

So we both know going in that sex is not going to be as deal with someone else. And we've, so the aura around the whole. set up, like I said before, it could end at the door to hotel room. I'm good. Right, because you still know you're going to be together. What happened when you guys experimented on your own? Did that go well? Was that not cool? Were you not into it? No, I think we were both into it. It's, I think it's the dynamic between the difference between men and women in the situation. So when Thor goes off with a fairly vanilla female. Yeah.

It ends a little bit differently than it does when I go off with a fairly vanilla male. Explain. I feel that, and I think we'll both agree, that when Thor goes off with a woman, emotions develop on the woman's side. Uh-huh. And she sees how he treats me. she sees what we have and she wants she wants part of that she wants in on that yeah so i it seems to me that emotions get developed and feelings get developed and we start treading into maybe some

dangerous waters territory another you know how it how it started with with us at the very beginning although i you know that's i feel that that's not going to happen i'm confident that's not going to happen Right. It's not you that's having that it's not you having any the conflicting feelings. It's the women that he's with. I mean, you don't get up. Right. Right. Mm-hmm. Correct. But when I go off with another male and it's happened twice. Yeah. The, even though I talk about Thor and these, these men are very aware of the situation and know the rules of, of what's happening, they tend to forget that and they tend to kind of start acting like Thor doesn't exist. And I become, maybe their property a little bit in their mind. Uh-huh. But it's also definitely just sex with these men. There's not emotions behind it, it's just sex. Right. So we've had arguments about this, and this is my fault, definitely not Jane's fault.

So she had an affair with a pretty, with a sports celebrity. Okay. While you guys were together? Yeah. And he had the, especially since they traveled to many cities and different times, and all the time, he flew her out a lot to, to, different cities. So like a famous athlete is what you're saying?

Yeah. Okay. And we get arguments and not because of the sex. And this is 100% my fault. So going back to what she said, if I need a third, I think I've spent the night one time in my life. I am there to give him a good time and go home. Yeah.

She does the exact same thing. She's there to meet these guys, giving them a good time to go home. But in my mind, when, and then again, this is my, this is 100% my issue. I got it. Don't worry. Keep going on. All I think about is I put, and I, and I, this is where she's right, I put myself in their position. I imagine what I would do about them.

So I started getting freaked out about, they're washing each other's back. They're sitting there having coffee together. It's a night. I don't even care about the sad. I've, and I've got way better, but I freaked out about thinking that I'm the one sitting there running my hands through her hair and rubbing her back. And of course, in reality, no, that happens. It's sex, we'll over go to bed and she's gone to next morning. He thinks we're cuddling, and I'm falling in love with this man as I'm laying next to him, and in fact, it couldn't be more opposite. Because I put myself, I put me and him, which.

just you're projecting. Yeah, but listen, that's normal. I mean, you love her so much. Like, that's like you just, it's your biggest fear. And why wouldn't you think that if she's being whisked away, you know, by his famous sports guy? And you don't know what's going down or you're not there.

I mean, that's the insecurities that I think most people feel like would 100% come up for them. And that's why a lot of people don't open up their marriages because they don't think that they could handle it. And here you are someone who's been very. open with your wife and you still have those insecurities. It's very real life. Well, again, we say there's jealousy and it's not as good jealousy. Right. Wait, whatever happened with your sports guy, I want to hear those stories. Do you still

see him? Oh, boy. I'm going to leave that one alone for the most part, but it ended abruptly. Oh, why did his wife find? Was he married? I'm assuming he was. I don't know why. He was married. I was married, but it's, yeah, details I can't, I can't disclose here. It ended fairly abruptly. But why can't you? I mean, I'll edit it out if you have to say something, but why, I don't understand, you were not outing anyone's names at all or anything like that, but why do you have to keep the details out?

Is it because it would make us know who this person was or something? Yeah. Yeah. It was a natural story. Yeah. Oh, okay. So this affair and this thing with, and why it ended abruptly, was something that was national news. So we can't talk about it. Not directly associated with me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I got it. Okay. Now, I- Fortunately, I wasn't involved in that. I got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But wait, so, Thor, I thought when you wrote in your, I remember there's something being like a, you know, a famous athlete thing going on in your email. And I thought that was you, but maybe that was you talking about this scenario. Was that what was it? your email or were you a sports guy

I know I've gone pretty far and we've got a lot of athlete friends that are professionals there's there's other stories about that of guys that my friends that are high in athletes that would love to be with her but I'm like I just have a free someone and they freak out so it's I'm in that world

oh okay now is word on the street that Thor and you know Jane hook up with other fucking people is that is it are you guys pretty open in your circles yes yeah interesting i mean to the point they get point they get some we'll be a friend of mine and i'm sure you've been there with the many podcasts you have how the joke about if a woman fucks one guy she'll fuck a hundred guys i've had buddies of mine

that out of the blue if i get a whole on one on this on this on this par three james can be a blow job and we're like dude why would you say that just just because she has sex with who she wants it is the means she has sex with you sometimes they can't control themselves right they don't know the line because they're not

really used to it yeah yeah yeah and they just think oh she'll just like fuck anybody like you guys say but you have have you done other people in that world that have worked out in the athletic world yeah uh huh um not to that extent

there's in, you know, conversations and videos and pictures and talks back and forth with a couple other athletes, but nothing, nothing that ever resulted in any physical sex together. Now, I know because I already have your guys pictures that you're both super fit, amazing bodies. Those pictures, you know, anonymous pictures will be on my Patreon. But do you guys have a type? I mean, do you look for people who are similar? I have a type, a physical type of man that I've always been attracted to.

And it's, and my ex-husband and these two other athletes would fit into this category of the tall, dark and handsome, you know, dark facial features. not me Yeah I'm opposite of all that Yeah yeah interesting So you like tall dark and handsome Now well I do

They haven't ever really worked out for me No but if you were to say you had a type You have that I've heard that a lot I mean my sister's husband I think prefers brunettes And she's a total blonde You know that's what he loves brunettes And yet the one woman he married is blonde I mean it happens all the time

Yeah But what about you, Thor? I mean, because you really do love to watch Jane. And maybe the answer is going to be, oh, it doesn't really matter because it's mostly about her and watching her. But, I mean, do you have a type with her? Do you have that cuck thing going on where you like to see a man that's like bigger than you, better than you, or anything like that? Nope. Nothing specific.

Nothing specific. honestly it is a well i've told her bluntly i would love i i do have a type i want to type that can pleasure her when we do this as good as i can't and might it may never happen but i we do these things and it seems a lot of times the guy's not as good as good as i can't and might it may never happen but i i we do these things and it seems a lot of times the guy's not as good and that's why i mean when she when she'd go meet this this celebrity yeah it'd come home like did he did he make you come do this and she's like no and i i honestly get upset i because i wish i'm obf i wish she would because even other day we're talking about she was out of town i'm like oh you should meet someone and and and she turned and she turned and she turned

correct she says she wanted to do something i'm like oh you should need me i go find someone and jerk them off or something she's like no i want to come and she's right yeah but at one point it becomes the holy grail i laugh that i hear your advertisements on your podcast about the how men know they're good at sex so they come 100% of the time that's kind of a joke that you're you're always forgetting about someone that's that one of those ad you plays that hey girls want to have fun also. Oh, the orgasm gap. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

The girl, yeah. My goal or my type is someone who would honestly do a great job with start. That's what I, that's her. I know that the, here's a selfish part. If we do this and she has a really good time, we'll do it more. It's a win-win for me. Right. If we do it and we've been there.

We've done it. It's been absolutely horrible. And we won't even think about it for a year. Right. So, yeah, I'm always in search of another good lover. Because that woman was the last one that was, have you had any long-term bulls besides that sports guy? We had a guy that we caught a lot and he moved.

and he was reliable. Other than that, no. We haven't had any long terms at all. Right. Now, I know you had that foursome and that Cabana foursome. Have you had a lot of foursons? Have you had more than that? Have you had orgies?

Oh, yeah. Tell me some stories before we end this up. What's your best story? Well, I'm hoping that we've got one. on the hook right now. We can get back to you after Saturday. Oh, interesting. I feel like might be a good situation.

Met him on a dating app recently. So hoping that one turns out. At the very beginning, we met someone at a hotel. randomly met him on one of the dating websites, went to the hotel. I believe you had a girlfriend come with them. Who is this? You and I brought a bottle of wine. I don't remember this.

Which we were talking about. It was early on. She's got a better memory than you thought. Oh, I remember. No, it's opposite. I'm like an owl when it comes from the memory, elephant. Elephant, yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it.

Okay, keep going, though, Jane. Keep going? Yeah. Now I'm interested also. So we met, he and his girlfriend at this hotel room, and he had a work call, I believe, that he had... Oh, yes, I know. He kind of went off and took his work call, and, you know, the three of us, Thor, myself, and this girlfriend, were just kind of staring at each other. And I just kind of shrugged my shoulders, looked at Thor, and I started undressing the girlfriend and just went at it without her voice.

We've been there. We got tired of waiting. And this was before we had free reign with each other. So we were kind of on the clock. Oh, because you got to do it before he got back or before he ended that call. Okay, now my elephant memory coming to play. So he leaves. And we're both kind of staring at him like, what do we do now?

So we just started, her and I got the bed together and started messing around. And yeah, the other girls kind of just like walked up, stood next to the side of the bed, just was staring at us. so that's when like Jane popped up and just undressed her and I think we're in the throes of messing around when he finally came back in and again our

our fun has been just these spontaneous just neat things that happen it's more than and I can tell you

and I think she agreed with me this a lot of our setups whether it's a party and this and that they've been eh again, is it because it's forced and there's been times we met a guy and she's had sex with them and and she didn't like it.

And another one of our ongoing arguments or discussions is when we've met people on dating sites and maybe this is just us being both caretakers, she's given me the, I feel I have to have sex with him because we met up. And I'm always like, no, we owe nobody

we don't owe anybody anything you can say no whenever you want but so that's why we've kind of stopped the set up things because it's then you feel like you're obligated right so one last story and so I know she likes the little more natural pickup so for a couple months we've been going out and I've been so I was kind of reaching out to guys on on a swinger site not showing up picture of us. Well, I mean, I guess we had body and no face. I would tell these guys, let me back up one second.

We've had people hit on us that, or we met him in person, and they weren't, I'll bluntly say, they weren't at our level and looks. Uh-huh. And she's made the comment, does he actually think he can get with me? And I've told guys, when they kind of said, what's wrong with her?

I'm like, if you can't pick her up at a regular bar, she's not going to fuck you on a swing day. I mean, but that's that's that's it's truth. Yeah, of course. I'll put that to these guys. We'll be at this bar between so and so and so and so. If you can pick her up, pick her up. I'll just tell you that if she likes you,

it's going to happen a lot quicker than a normal grower you will meet and try to pick up. Right. A couple months go by, guys chicken out, guys chicken out. I find a guy good looking and I, same thing. pay me this bar same thing i we have her hair looks like this my hair looks that that's the only detail they get so again i i want i don't want it to be a four situation guy shows up to the bar at one point just naturally comes this down next to us and we start talking um we go up to the room end up having great sex he's he's with her i'm with her i'm with

We're going back and forth. We both come. And this is something that she has never done before. And it's kind of the hottest thing in the world. She goes to the bathroom. Him and I are just kind of sitting there talking. And I was great. And I watched them.

He watched us. She walks back out of the bathroom. She's wearing a night. And she looks at, and we're kind of both to sit on the bed, kind of like two dudes. She looks at both of us. and she says,

which one do you want to fuck me again? And I was like, whoa, who was this? And that was our first DVP. Oh, double DVD. Let me just let people know because I remember knowing what the fuck a DVP was. That's not a, that's not like a DP, which is a dick in both holes.

That's two dicks in one hole. Correct. Oh, my goodness. Would that agree for you, James? It was intense. Right. Yeah. I wouldn't say exceptionally pleasurable.

It was hot and intense. And sometimes the intensity is what turns me on the most. It's something we had never even talked about. But again, going back to these stories are just these kind of off-the-cuff things. It's been the best one. We have never even, and we've DVPed before. We did it with a couple one time. Excuse me, DP'd.

Yeah, yeah. But this was your first DVP. And even the next thing, she's like, why, why did she? So when she walked in, she said, who wants to fuck me again? He started, she climbed on top of him. I was kind of sitting there on the bench and ended up bed watching. And I was, I was like, huh, I just popped up there. And did I even ask you?

I don't remember. And I think, and it was, and we both came in at the same time. just like a porn. It was three hours. There you go. I want to hear about your right in because I'll add it into the intro what went down at your little thing on this weekend. Or if I don't air it, maybe I'll just add it in because you have a guy you're meeting this weekend. Maybe we'll add it to the end of this.

It depends on how long it is. But, you know, let me know how that goes. I do have pictures so people can see how hot you guys really are on my Patreon. like anonymous pictures. I love this episode. It's interesting because you're very different than other couples that I've talked to. And that's what I always love because, like I said, just when I think I've heard every Swinger's story and they're all unique and different.

I hear a different one. You guys aren't so much swingers, but you've tried it all and you're very open. And you prefer these kind of regular scenarios in the vanilla world as these kind of very professional open people. And so I learned a lot. I just heard a very different angle, which I thought was fascinating. So thank you so much for calling in and sharing your stories. Well, thank you.

It's fun. This is your podcast, and we've talked before about we'd love to write our own book just because we've had some fun and the experiences. And this is the next best thing. You should. We thought about it, but. I have a girl. I could give you her name.

She's not expensive. She was on my show, Casey. She wrote books on Amazon. She's writing like my episodes into stories erotica. I won't use yours because it's your story. But you could hire her. She goes right. She does really well.

But you know, you absolutely should if you want to. But I'm glad that you shared it here. You could, you know, get the transcript of it somehow. But, you know, let me know how your weekend went. And like I said, if I don't air this, the Sunday, I could maybe throw it in if you want to do a five minute, like, oh, what one day? Jane could give us a little thing, but I could edit this out too. We'll see. But thanks so much you guys for calling in and sharing your story. This was great.

Well, thanks for having us. The therapy sessions, great. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it. It was interesting. It was a lot of difference. I have some hot stories. And like I said, a lot of interesting facts and situations and angle, you know, angles that I have never heard before, which I like, which I always love because it's something new. It definitely works better when you love each other. It's no doubt. Yeah, well, it's obviously that you did. From the day you saw her, which I love, I love those stories.

Yeah. Thanks, you guys. Thanks so much for calling in. All right. Thank you. Thank you. Bye. Hey, everyone.

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