Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 553 - Girl Talk: Hotwifing. with Hotwives Ember and Sadie

Episode Date: November 11, 2022

Hotwives Ember and Sadie both called in again to talk all about hotwifing. Who was the one who brought up hotwifing to begin with? How did the other partner feel? And, how has the hotwife dynamic benefitted their relationships. Tune in to find out plus hear how Ember first started hooking up with women and what made her so curious about them, how she was always hypersexual and how that got her in trouble early on, how fantasies and roleplaying helped her and her husband get to where they are today, why she’s not ok with him being with other women and how he feels about that, what her husband gets out of her hooking up with others and a whole lot more. You can find her here: https://msha.ke/xxemberraexx Then Sadie talks all about her Tinder threesome. Stranger sex, the strictly anonymous listener who she has phone sex with, why it’s hard to find regular bulls, how she’s super into being filmed and watched, the time she had three other guys in one night and a whole lot more. You can find Sadie here: Twitter@sadiegee210, Onlyfans @sadiesinn, Kik user: two10hottie **To see anonymous pics of Ember & Sadie + anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Today is Girl Talk and I'm talking to two different girls. Ember and Sadie. They are two females that I've had on before. They are both hot wives. They have slightly different stories. Both of their stories are super interested and they were interesting and they were highly downloaded. Each one of them hooks up with guys while their husband knows about it in very different ways. I will put links to both of their first episodes.

in the description. And what we do is we talk more about their journey into hot wifing and all that kind of good stuff on this episode. First, we start off with Ember. She talks all about how, you know, she was a woman who, you know, her and her husband weren't totally vanilla, but they hadn't done anything like hot wiping before they started doing it. And really was her guy that brought it up. And she was very leery at first. And she talks, a lot about how he was able to get her to do it and how they were able to go from not doing it to doing it. And she has tips for men and women like how to bring that up, how to cross over. She talks about how she plays with guys and their rules and regulations and how she feels about

it and all that kind of good stuff. And then Sadie calls in and she talks about, you know, who brought a pot-wife thing in her situation. It was her, by the way. And you hear how and why she brought it up and how and why her husband acted the way he did when she brought it up. She talks about a recent hot story with like three guys and her guy and there's another story with a blindfold. It gives like a little bit of an update and then like I said, we talk about hot wiping with her too. So this is all talk about hot wiping. I have pictures of both of them over on my Patreon. The links to everything that I spoke about is in the description as well as links to Sadie and Ember. So anyway, I'm going to be back on first with Ember and then from Sadie. Hi, Ember. Welcome back to the

Strictly anonymous podcast. Hello, hello. How are you? Good. So listen, Amber, you were on my show recently. 539 is your episode. Ember is a hot wife into BBC. Okay. Now, I know what, I mean, I know after you were on the show, you wrote to me and you were like, oh my God, I'm getting so many guys hitting me up. asking me, you know, how can I get my wife into hot wifing? And I was like, oh, that's a good topic, right? Why don't you come back on? And that's what we're going to talk about today. You're going to address all those guys and talk to all those guys as well as women. We're going to get like, we're going to talk to women too, because this is my girl talk episode, right? So I want to talk to you from that angle as well. I'll ask those questions. But you, let's first get into, you know,

if a guy is listening out there because he's into fucking hot wifing and he's, you know, you're his fantasy girl, how does he get his girl? I personally think it's extreme. So walk me through how you think a guy could get his girl to be down to, you know, go fuck another guy. Oh, and wait, I just need to say, if anyone wants to get here, you're, they have not heard Embers episode. Go effing listen to it because it's really good. She's got a hardcore life. She, um, is very open about it all. So you've got to listen to that first episode. I'm sure we'll talk a little bit about some stuff here. But your whole backstory and how you became a hot wife is in that first episode. Yes. Yes. Absolutely. And we can totally get into that. But yeah.

So I really think the first place to start is like the main part of your sexual foundation. Like how are they right there in this moment? A lot of the people that come to me already experiment with toys and dirty talk, fantasy talk, and things like that. There's quite a few of them who have brought up to me that they've brought it up to their wives and they've completely shut it down. Or it's something that their wives have said, oh, it's too good to be true.

If I do that, you just want to fuck somebody else. So I don't want to do that. And I totally understand that. I was in that. I felt that way too. It's loaded. It's loaded for two of those reasons that you just said. There's one is the fact that.

the girl, even if she maybe, you know, she's been married to the same guy, maybe she does want another dick inside of her, you know. But she is like, there's no way, this is the first thought, I think, there's no way he's not going to get pissed off. You know, this is some sort of weird trap. I'm going to do it that he's going to regret it. He's going to call me a whore. And the other thing is like what you just said, which is, do you, are you offering that up to me because you want to go fuck another girl? And maybe she's, she's not into that, even though he is into it, you know? Exactly, exactly. So I really think, you know, you start with that foundation. If you're already into, I feel like if anyone's listening to this podcast, they're probably into some more kinkier stuff in their sex life or want to be or who have at least brought it up to their significant other or. But so that's what I'm going off of. Okay, I'm not basing this off of somebody who's completely vanilla because I really wouldn't say that my husband and I were ever really that because like I explained in my first episode with you, 539, um, I'm.

I was playing with women early on in the marriage. So it wasn't really like we were super vanilla. So I don't know how to approach people who are very like conservative, if you will, and modest. So I'm going to assume most people listening here are a little on the kinkier side and know a little bit more about toys and experimenting and dirty talk. No, but I want to go back to a little bit before, just in case for those people. who are vanilla and are like, fuck, I, you know, I'm not even at the place where I could get my girl to hook up with, you know, with my wife to hook up with a girl. I mean, how did you, were you guys, like literally straight from the get-go, a very non-vanella couple? Or did you, were you always open?

I mean, how did you be, like, how were you able to be so open about your fantasies and things that you wanted to do? And how did you open up your relationship to begin with? well so this is kind of a whole other basket of worms but i've always been a very sexual being i feel like and we've always had really good communication um like we found like what made me come like very on in our relationship and i know for some people it takes them a little bit of time um you know and all of that so we like we found this synchronization very quickly it's almost like i don't mean to sound cliche, but it's like we were made for each other because it just, there's never a dull moment, and it's always been like fire, really. And so I've always been very sexual, very open,

and expressed like my want to be with a woman and have a pussy and eat a pussy and all of that. And so I kind of just expressed it to him. Now, we started dating in 2005 and I didn't start being with women until, you know, 2010 was when we first experimented. So about, you know, five years. But in that first few years of our marriage, we had babies and they were very young, obviously, babies. So there wasn't even any time really at that moment in our lives to really be sexual. Think about that, like in that sense, because at that moment in time, it was just about survival mode for us. I was 17 when we had our first kid. He was 18. And then, you know, 19. 20 and then we had our second kid. And then so I wasn't even of a legal drinking age by the time I had my

second baby. I couldn't even walk into a bar and buy a drink or go to a gas station and buy a pack of beer. But I had had two fucking kids and I was keeping them alive. But I couldn't have a drink legally. Yeah. And you might have needed a drink. Exactly. And so, so nothing, there really hadn't been any wild moments. So, okay, in a sense, yeah, you could say in a sense, we were a little. We were a little vanilla, if you will, because we were teenagers. But I go back to the moment where I was 15 years old and chasing him in a leg party, I was naked. And I was chasing him and trigger warning, literally trying to take this man when he was telling me to get away from him because he was in a relationship. Oh, wait. So he was dating somebody and you were like, that's my guy. I was two. I was two,

which made it even worse. Like I was being a super. super slut and I was only 15 years old. So, okay, I've always been hypersexual. I admit that. I own that. I know that. Like, and now that I've been to the doctor and been in therapy, these are things you learn about yourself, you know? And I am a hypersexual person and I always have been. And so when he became of a legal drinking age and we started drinking and then I was the legal drinking age and we started drinking more. I let out some more of my desires because I just became more uninhibited, you know, and I was just like, hey, like, this is, this is what I like, this is what I want. And so I guess you could say, maybe that's not healthy, and I hate to say that, but it's the

truth and that's what it is. And like, I will tell everybody all day. I own my story every day through and through. And it was alcohol that that led me to that ability to say, hey, babe, like, this is what I want. And, and it's crazy that that is what that was. It wasn't like I was totally plastered or anything. It's not like I was blackout drunk. I was just like, I had a little bit of liquid courage and I was able to say, these are things I want. But then after I did that and we were so open with each other, like, it was just easy to communicate after that. And now I I don't need anything. Like you can come home from work and I can be like, I've been talking to a new bowl today.

And, you know, or I've been doing this or doing that or whatever, you know, like it's nothing. It's literally nothing at all. It's just like part of our routine now. And so I guess with that being said is if you have these desires, these fantasies, honestly, let's talk about this for a second. Those fantasies are never going to change. They're never going to go away. So if you're truly with somebody who, if you can't bury them, you're always going to seek them out elsewhere.

That's not healthy either. So you've got to find out whether or not this person is going to be for you or not for you. Because I promise you there's somebody out there who's going to be that for you. Yeah. So here you were secretly thinking like, oh, you want to go down on girls or you're into girls. Had you ever been with any women before your husband? I had made out with a few women in high school. But nothing hardcore.

But nothing, yeah, nothing hard core. I just had always been attracted to certain women. And I, I honestly, I'd always love the taste of my own pussy. And so I had always wanted to know what other women tasted like. And that is the God honest truth. Like I had always been like, I wonder what other people taste like. Like it's, you know, like, do they, are they as sweet as me? Is it like, you know, like, it's not like a comparing thing either.

But, I mean, you know, to be completely honest, I feel like if, like, it's like, we're all pretty similar unless we all pretty have the same diet. But I mean, I must hang out with awesome people. I don't know. But you're just saying too much and I have to stop you so to get more detail. So like you're like, oh, I was always into tasting my own pussy. Like how did you know you liked the taste of your own pussy? So literally I can remember a moment in my childhood when my mother yelled at me for hopping my car seat.

She looked in the back seat and yelled my real name and said, stop pumping your car seat. It's inappropriate. And I was like, oh my God. And it was in that moment, I realized like, oh, I think I have a problem. I got caught in school masturbating at my desk. What? It was the whole thing. Yeah, my friend reported me to the teacher, dude. I even remember her name, but I won't give it out. We'll call her Cheryl or Karen. I don't know. Yes, let's call her a Karen because she snitched on you. No, she snitched on you. That's a fucking Karen. She was like, I think she's doing something with her hand under her desk. And I never, ever had my hand in my pants.

Okay. I always had it outside of my pants. I just loved to rub against myself. Yeah, but that is a little inappropriate in school, okay, bitch? Come on. Was you like getting, did you do that all the time in school? Do you remember? No, no.

It was one time. Okay. And I was totally caught and it was totally embarrassing. And she wrote, I had a. note home to my mom and all this stuff and my mom was like okay that's something privately do it in our bedrooms only i used to get yelled at for helping myself on the couch it was the whole thing i was just i've always been very hypersexual i guess and so i learned like just in 32 years of age i have ADHD and that contributed to a lot of my hypersexuality and i'm like well it's good to know

being hypersexual in a sense led me to where we are now because i i have always always been comfortable touching myself, exploring myself to the point where I'm like, I wanted to explore other people's bodies. And I find them completely fascinating. And it's crazy to me that I have this jealousy, like, and I don't want, like, I go through periods where I'm like, oh, I really want to share my husband. Like, let me inform you. You're going to be like, this is a whole other episode, Amber. Oh my God. But I have another Italian friend who I met recently, who I am in love with. She's just, oh my God, we have the most amazing time together. And I've been talking to her about maybe giving us that experience because I trust her

and we're so close and I love her so much. And I just, I could see doing that with her. When people don't remember is that from your first episode, you are a hot wife and that you go and hook up with guys. Your guy loves it. But you are not interested and you're not down for him being with women. He's okay with that. I mean, you just don't, you just can't, but you could be with women, right?

I mean, that's the setup. Well, and it's not that I'm not completely interested. It's just that it's a situation for us where like we have to tread lightly in a sense where like I, I have just, like I explained in my episode, my episode before. He's always been my constant and like my biggest fear is like somebody coming in, falling in love with him, to like take him from me and I know he would never let that happen but my thing is is I never want that to even be like a possibility listen you don't have to apologize for it I made a whole audiogram about poor Amanda I had Johnny and Amanda call in and then she was like you know and she was another hot wife who fucked other guys but she was like for some reason I don't know why

I don't like my guy to like fuck other girls and I'm just like you're not this why do you feel weird about that why do you feel weird about that I'm here for you but you're even sort of like feeling bad about it. I mean, it's a very, I think that that's more normal. Okay, that's very normal. And I'm sorry,

but like everyone comes, shows up into a relationship or it grows into a person with fucking baggage from their childhood, whatever. I mean, who knows why that could be. Maybe it's triggering for you for something else. You know,

everyone has different things in them. So, you know, tread fucking lightly. Like, you know, just honor that part of yourself. You don't have to, feel bad about that or feel like there's something wrong with you because of that.

That's how I feel. And he says that to me. Yeah. And he says that to me all the time. And he's just like, and like I said, like, I'm always like, are you going to resent me later? And he's always, I'm always like, I'm worried you're going to resent me because I'm doing all this. And he's like, what you don't even understand is it has nothing to do with my pleasure in any

of this and has everything to do with yours. When you started to tell your guy, I mean, you start to have these fantasies about being with a woman. Do you tell your guy that you, you know, did you first tell him that you were into that and you guys were fantasizing about it or was the first thing like, hey, I want to go be with a woman and he was like, okay. Like, how did that conversation happen? Yeah. Well, so yes, the liquid courage for one, but I don't remember exactly how the conversation arose. I do remember saying that I thought one of my girlfriends was really hot. And I do believe he made probably like some silly comment and I probably like fired back with another silly comment and it probably because

that's normally how things work with us. Yeah. And so I manifested a BBC last night. No, I didn't have sex with the BBC, but I'll have to tell you this story later. Yeah, we'll end with that. But wait, how was so, did you wind up that first experience with the girl? Like did you wind up with that friend? How did it go from fantasy to reality? It went from fantasy. seat of reality in like two weeks because we had a couple at our house and the husbands watched me and the wife together. Right. And that was your first experience with a girl. Yes, with a girl with, yeah, with a girl in that sense, because anything before that had just been like making out and stuff. He's always watching you with girls. Is that what always happened? No, I mean, it kind of, yeah. So we didn't

have any experiences after that until about a year and a half later. He was deployed and he was like, oh hey you should see if you can find like a girlfriend and then I did after we talked for a bit I made a plenty of fish account and I found a girlfriend and um we did we made some videos for him and that was really fun and then I was with a girl another year after that and then that and then it was after that that I started seeing the men so let's get back to the hot wiping because I know that I like meandered so many times in this podcast. I know. I'm so sorry.

Okay. So we were talking about how to get your wife into it. And I was saying how like you know, if you've already introduced toys and dirty talk in that sense, you know, you can start in the bedroom when the moment is like the hottest. And, you know, bring it up about her fucking another guy, being with another guy, seeing her pleasureed by another man, how you want to watch it. and see how she responds. And if she responds well and talks about wanting to be with someone else too, then I recommend approaching a conversation when you guys are not in the heat of a moment and saying, hey, you know, like the other day when we were getting busy with it,

I had said this and, you know, you got really into it. And I was kind of wondering if that was something that you think you would be into doing in real life, you know, because there's a whole community of people who do that. It's not abnormal, you know. And if it's something that turns us on in the bedroom, maybe we can bring it into our real life in the bedroom and make it something we do. And I mean, some people have said that they have led with that and their wives have shut it down. And in that sense, I say, honestly, then I say just be completely open, like completely

100% open. because if you've already said something and they shot it down, they've been in enough of a mental state to say that's crazy. It's never going to happen. And they're sober enough to say no way. So I say, this is when you just like wave the red flag in front of the bowl. And you say, okay, listen, this is really what I want. And there are other people who do this.

And I would love for you to listen to this podcast. And, you know, like, have them join Twitter and Reddit and see that there are other people who do it. It's not completely crazy because for me, I think I branched out the most and became even more comfortable in doing what I do after we moved to Italy here. And I joined pages like Twitter and Reddit and saw that wow, there's a huge community of people that do this. And like, there's so many of us. And there's so many of us who post it as well and it's not completely abnormal and you know it's it's either you're for it or you're not like it's no different than being like i love mexican food and i hate mexican food it's no there's a

big difference i'm sorry no no no no no no sorry that's this fucking stretch okay there is a big difference between what what kind of food you like then going hooking up with a guy what i want to say is that i'm playing devil's advocate here okay you know to all because i think listen i think hot wifing is an extreme. It's not something that every, like most people, it's not ever going to become mainstream, right? But it's right. So I'm talking for the people that are listening to this and the guy who's married to the regular girl. She might like fucking toys. She might even like eating snatch. But she might be like no way those two things we talked about in the beginning. Like no way, I'm going to go sleep with another guy because you're either going to get mad or, you know,

you know, whatever that other thing was. I mean, how do you, how do, what did your husband do? You said you were that girl. What did your husband do for you to make you feel comfortable? People know that people do it. Okay. So that's not going to, that doesn't sell the girl. How do you get that girl that's like has those fear?

How do you make her not have those fear? Like how did your husband make you feel like, no, this is going to be totally cool. I'm down with this and it's not going to be all these things that you're worried. about. So he reassured me that it was, it was mainly all about like my pleasure and seeing me receive pleasure from somebody else and seeing my body's reactions and seeing me in the moment and, you know, like watching me and not anybody else receive this pleasure and hearing me. He loves, he says he loves to hear. He loves to hear me. And, and I love to have to have. And I love to have him hear me um so yeah i i think i think expressing really why you want her to do those things

like is it the pleasure for you do you want it or or are you a are you the cuck who wants to be humiliated are you into that you know and if you're into that you need to say that like i've expressed before we are not into the humiliation or any of that stuff um but but yeah like it was for me my turning point was when he said this has nothing to do with me wanting to be with someone else and this has everything to do with me wanting to see you receive pleasure

to watch you in the act see you and hear you respond and because that's what turns him on is hearing and seeing me and like we can make videos all day but like he's like he think he's there

he's there in that moment so he like he experiences that but like he wants something that like he can replay in his ear over and over again that is like something he's never heard before and watched before and so you just have to lead with exactly why it is and and for him it's never ever ever ever and like i've said this a hundred times before he doesn't ever push for being with another female and i have always said oh you're going to resent me one day blah blah on, he's like, I'm not. He's like, I'm telling you, this is literally all about your pleasure.

I just want to watch your pleasure. Like, that's his biggest thing. And so, yeah, I hear that all the time. I hear from the guys what they say, a lot of them. Sometimes it's a cuck situation. There's nothing wrong with that. Some guys do like that humiliation aspect or that jealousy feeling. It actually turns them on.

But some guys, it's about seeing their girl as a porn story. It's like watching their girl get off. It's kind of like watching porn, but it's their girl. And it's that that's the reason for it. That's the turn on. You know, and you're here to say, like, if your guy's telling you, that's what it's about, that very well could be the reason. It's not that he wants to go off.

I think that's what it's important for women to hear that, you know, if your guy is saying this, there are many guys that do like that. And this is the reason. It is not because they want to go and hook. up with other women. And like a big thing for me too is it's like I feel like men who want to be with other women end up expressing, oh, we should have a threesome with a girl. I'd love to see you with a girl, blah, blah, blah, blah first before they ever bring up.

Because I feel like girl on girl is like the baby step to being with like a man if you think about it. So I really kind of feel like if your man has never seen you with a woman even and he is straight of just being like, hey, I want to see this. Like, no, he's serious, girl. He doesn't even care about that other female. He just wants to see you. Like, I promise.

I promise. It does not matter. Right. Yeah, for sure. I think that, but I, I, I, what I do find, and I've talked to a lot of guys who are into this, is that a lot of guys that are into the whole hot waving thing, they don't really care about the girl on girl or they don't. also, it's not so much that they want to be with another girl. Most of them don't. What they are really

into is seeing their girl with a guy. That, you know, guy being with somebody else, that's a whole different couple I'm talking to. They're swingers. They're swapping. But when I'm talking to a lot of guys who are into their girl being with another guy, it is strictly about that. They're not looking to be with women at all. I mean, that's, I, I rarely see that as a part of it, you know. I mean, not that they don't mind it, but it's not what they want to do. I mean, if their wife threw them a bone and said,

yeah, go fuck another girl. Maybe they would, but they don't have that desire. What they're being fulfilled and then some by their wife going out with all these other guys, like what you do for your husband. Exactly. Exactly. But what about, you just said, oh, I had the BBC and I need to tell you about that. Like, I just found another guy.

What were you saying? Oh my gosh. Okay. It was just really funny because I went to the grocery store yesterday. And so there's this, there's this guy that I've had my eye on that I've been wanting to get with for a while. And I just haven't yet because just things haven't lined up. But we're planning on getting together. But anyways, so we're trying. But it was funny because I went to the store the other day and I wrote a list to my husband. And at the end of the list, I wrote a BBC. And he was like, oh my God, you're ridiculous. And I was like, am I? And he was like, you are. It was like a joke. But then I saw that guy at the fucking store. He was on my list and he was there. No way.

And I have been at that grocery store a million and 15 times since I've moved here. And I've never once seen another black man than I knew. And that day, I saw him. And I died. I was like, are you kidding? This was yesterday. This was yesterday. But I did.

I died. I was like, oh. My God. But who brought up the whole BBC thing? I forget. Like was that like your husband? Okay, cool. He did.

I mean, because when in your hot waiving experience, you start to feel like, okay, you know what? I get this now. Like, I get that my guy is just into me being with someone else. And I could just really be into this. And I don't have to worry that he's going to be freaked out. You know, how long did it take like, you know, gosh probably honestly like six years because we just like we just hit six years and here in

Italy I would say have been pretty wild and he's been super cool with it but I mean in the beginning were you nervous to show that you really liked it you know here you were a girl who's guy was like I want to see you fuck other guys I would think that a girl would be like even the girl that's like okay I'm going to do it she might be able to afraid to say like, oh yes, Dick was so much bigger than yours and I loved it. Even though I know, because I have my callers and I know what guy, like these guys, that's what they want to fucking hear. And you're like, it's almost hard to believe, you know, that your guy is going to want you to come home and say, I loved fucking somebody else. You know, were you comfortable

with that at first or did it take a little time for you to really trust that he wanted you to come home and say like, wow, that was the best fuck of my life? I mean Excuse me The toxic air in Italy Gives me the worst cough Because I already have asthma But anyway

I'm so sorry That killed me It killed me Go on No I never come home I still honestly He still Fucks me better than anybody else

Will ever fuck me Because he knows exactly What I like Every single time Like it never fails You know I do not come with every single one of my bowls. I don't. Am I excessively wet? Absolutely because it's an

excessively fun time. But I don't always have an orgasm with these men. But every single time my husband and I have sex, I have at least three, four, five, six sometimes orgasms. So for me, I've never really had like a better, a better fuck in my life. But he loves to hear, like, he loves it when I come home and he's like, did you love his big back dick or did you love his big dick? Did he fuck you good or he really stretched you out? Stuff like that. And like I love that too. And so like I came home last Friday from meeting someone and I sat on him and I was like,

do I feel different? Because he actually didn't know I was getting lucky that night. It was actually kind of for the moment thing. So when I came home and we did the whole reclining process at 5.30 in the morning, I was like, hmm, does my pussy feel different? He was like, it does. Did you get ready? And I was like, I did.

And then I told him. that story. So really I would say, if I wasn't able if I was able to get full video, I probably wouldn't be saying as much as I am now. But no. I would say that it's, prove my point is that most guys, they do want

to hear that it's really fucking good. I know like between me and you, no, but I know between me and you like these guys are never as good as your husband, but like your husband wouldn't mind if they were. Like, well, that's what he's looking for. He's looking for you to have like the best time. He's

He's looking for a guy that's got a really big dig to fuck you. He really is. It goes against everything that we think of in a husband and a wife scenario, right? But that's what's going down in a hot wife cuck scenario or a hot white stag. Exactly. Yeah. Exactly. And like what's crazy is like, like, walk out to the living room like right now and be like,

oh, one of my friends texted me and I'm going to go over to his house and he would just be like, okay. Like, it's just crazy. It's crazy. It's crazy. Because I'm like, never, ever could you come out here and be like, one of our friends texted me. I'm going to her house. But I mean, I don't know. Maybe we'll get there one day. As of right now, I'm contemplating experimenting with my very good friend. And I hope we have a great time. But he has said, he has said, if anything happens, it will start with you and her. And if you decide to pull me into it, great. If not, that's fine. He's like, but whatever, whatever happens happens. But no, in terms of the hot-whiting stuff, really, it's just communication all the way. And if you, if you are truly a man who, like, needs to be a stag or needs to be cucked, like, you have to, you have to find that person. And you have to speak to your significant other because they're never going to know. They can't read your mind. And even though they might blow you off at first, I am here to say that I blew my husband off at first.

I did. I did. And after conversation and doing some research and realizing that it's a lot more common than one would think. Now, I'm not saying it's not anything that's going to be mainstream, like you were saying. Yeah. But it's a lot more common than you think. And that helps you know that. That there were other women doing that.

It did. It helped me to know that. And it helps me to put myself out there. And I feel like it also helped me to just kind of be more open and more liberated. And honestly, it does. It makes me feel more powerful. And women who are listening. I really want you to consider this.

Think of how sexy you're going to feel when your husband literally, like, tells you to go out and have a great time. And you're able to go out. I don't want to say able, but you go out as just what literally he tells you to be as almost a free one. men and you see how many men throw themselves at you and you realize you still have it. I'm just saying like a lot of us lose ourselves in our jobs, our families, our kids, our whatever, our careers, our lives, everything. And it just becomes autopilot and groundhog day as my husband sometimes calls it. And this takes us out of that. Right. And it keeps us together at the same time. So, like, we're doing it apart, but we're still doing it together, if you will, because

there's, there's always that reconnection, like it's never missing. And the connection has never even gone, if you will, because there's always something to talk about. There's always new experiences to be had. There is a whole new entire side of your relationship waiting on the hot life side. And if you've got a husband who is saying, I want to see. you like this and you could even possibly entertain it for a second, just try it because nobody's telling you that you have to do it forever and no one's telling you you have to do it ever again.

But I definitely am the type of person where you never know if you don't try. And for the guys out there are afraid to talk to their wives, no is the worst thing she can say and then she can think on it. You can plant the seed. Plant the seed. And don't you think you could also like fantasize it? Like I think a lot of times it's really good to like, you know, role play that situation out a couple times and see. Like, is it getting her really wet?

Or if you're the girl listening, is it getting you really wet? You know, maybe do that until you're so comfortable or so horny that you want to actually do it. If you have toys like double penetration. If she's into that, like, okay, really, let's talk about it. We can take it from there. Like, like talk to her and just. And if she shuts you down, do not lose hope and just keep talking and share information and share articles, even through text messaging. You know, if she gets a little offstanding about it or whatever, you know, send her a text message.

This says, hey, I know you weren't super open to this, but I would really just love it if you would, if you would just take a look at this. Like that's all you have to do. Like I'm saying, if you plant the seed, just plant the seed and then you slowly water it and you have no. idea what it will become. And, and here's how I see it. Some people might say, well, what if it ruins my entire relationship? Well, that's when you have to take that step back and decide, do I want to watch my wife like that more than I want to be with my wife? Or do I want to be with my wife more than I want to watch that? Right. And then you have to make that decision because you only have one life to live and as soap operas as that sounds, it's the fucking truth. And so,

everybody has to find their own happy. And that's, at the end of the day, that's what it's really all about. Yeah. And now, I mean, you're at the point, because you guys have been doing this a long time. You know, I just want to get that story because you mentioned real quick, like, oh, I came home and I told my guy like this was, it was like a hookup that happens for the moment. How, like, tell me that last experience that you had over the weekend.

How does it happen spur of the moment and you like have sex with a guy and come home? Like, just end with like a hot, that hot story. So any of the guys that I end up sleeping with are guys that I have met previously when I am out on my karaoke nights and having a great time. These are people who I, they're on my Snapchat, they know what I do, they know I'm a hot wife. They're not going to be stupid, filled with drama, any of that stuff. You know, like these are people who I've spoken to and I've gotten to know. I have never, other than the story I told in my last episode of my guy in Spain, I have never had a random like one night stand hookup where which I didn't at least talk to the man on some form of social media or something before we got together.

So it's never been I meet a guy at a bar and we sleep together. It's never ever been that for me. It has always been, I've basically like kind of gone out and surveyed my surveyed the menu, if you will. I found who I think is attractive. I watch what they do. Are they like hitting on everybody at the bar? Because I'm not trying, I'm really not trying to be with somebody who's with everybody.

You know, because I am married with three kids and I have a lot of life to live. And these kids are young, you know, whatever. And so anyways, these are people who, you know, I've spoken to. And so this man was a man that I had been talking to for a while. And we ended up leaving the club together and hooking up in the back of my Jeep. And so I got home and told my husband the story as soon as I like slid onto his cock. I woke him up and I was like, does it feel different?

And he was like, it does. It's like it feels used. And I was like, just how you like it? And he was like, yeah. And so, you know, it's just that was, it's like our thing. It's, it's super fun. And that's, I sometimes have experiences like that. And it's great.

But like I said, there are always people that I've spoken to before because they're always, they're always out on Friday nights because there's like, you know, we're overseas. So there's this club that caters to Americans and Americans put the word out to other Americans. So there's a ton of us Americans at this one club. And yeah, that's how I met these guys. And I get to know them. And in your relationship, you're allowed. I mean, like it's, it's completely open to the point where your guy knows you're out.

He's not out with you, but you're, you have free reign to hook up with a guy, right? And then you tell them about it. As long as I tell them about it, as long as I come home and let him know, like, what happened. And what's funny is it actually took me about the six years to get to that point because I'd never done anything like this before now. Oh, really? But also, like I try to tell people, I've never gone out before now either. Like, I didn't go out in the States. You know, my kids are just now at the age where I can leave, even if I leave at night and they're sleeping and my husband gets called into work, they're going to be fine because I have a 15-year-old.

almost at home. You know, so it's like, I'm, we're finally at that stage in our lives. So if there's people who are like, oh, we could never do that. Well, if you have toddlers and babies, of course not. It's a lot more demanding. My kids take care of themselves now. I mean, honestly, I don't even have to get up and get them ready for school if I don't want to, but I do because I want to. So, you know, it's, it's, it's one of those things where we're finally at that point in our lives where I'm able to do that. So like every single Friday night, I am out and I'm at the karaoke bar and then I'm at the club and basically trying to bring my husband home a story and a velvety warm, revved up already used engine. Pussy. But anyways, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I think that

there's a lot of women, you know, that had, like, there's a lot of women that had children at a very young age that didn't get a lot of that stuff that you're getting now that you are allowed to do this. Yes, that's what I'm saying because, you know, here you were a girl at 17 that had it. You didn't have all that time of going out to bars and having all these guys, you know, feed your ego and tell you're hot. Single people get that, you know, they get it out of their system, then they get married and they have it. But a lot of people who had kids or get married very young, like they don't have a lot of lot of that's why you see a lot of people older if they got divorced they get you know they start partying and they could be 50 years old you know at some point they want to get that fix you know

that does help in your situation because you are like living that life that you never had because you were so young even though you're married you know you're kind of having your cake and eating it too for sure in a sense yeah and that's why sometimes I feel guilty because but you know my husband will tell me a hundred times over you know he's not even the type to go out, to go to bars, to go to parties, to go to clubs. He doesn't like crowds. He doesn't like a lot of people. He doesn't like loud music.

You know, so it's not even anything he's into. And he knows that I do enjoy those things. He knows I enjoy karaoke. He knows I enjoy lay nights with my girlfriends and being totally crazy. And so he supports that. And then also in the moment says, hey, while you're out, if you can, may as well. You know? And so it's kind of what it turned into.

And yeah, I am. I will say I'm definitely having my cake and eating it too because I do. I have the best husband and the best family and the best kids. And then I also get to go out on the weekends and have the best individuality time. And I'm able to feel like such an individual. And it's awesome. It's absolutely awesome. So that's what could be in it for the girl, the guy.

We know what your guy. We know why your guy's at home. And what I was trying to explain earlier was they don't know, like, if you've been in a marriage for a long time, had your babies, this and that. Like, you don't know you still got it, mom. You still got it. I promise. You're going to hit the town and you're going to see it and you're almost going to get addicted to it. And I'm not trying to say I'm addicted to it, but I'm not going to lie.

So I went out. So lately I've been going out Friday and Saturday nights, but I didn't go out this last Saturday because I was out until 6 in the morning on Saturday morning. And so I was like, no, I'm staying home. I have to sleep. Everybody at the bar was asking my girlfriend where I was. Where is she? Where is she? Where is she?

Where is she? And I'm just like, oh my God, what? I'm like, people fucking love me. And you know what? Before this moment, I had my husband and my kids and that was great. That was fine. That was awesome. But I also have friends and a life as an individual.

and for some people they don't need that, but for me I do because I'm outgoing. I am outspoken. I am a social butterfly. And for me, sitting at home. I think a lot of people, like I said, a lot of couples and women did get married, super young, and they did get lost and all that stuff. And there is a part of them. I think a lot of people have that need to also be an individual and live out all that stuff.

And then they don't. And that's what leads to a lot of cheating and mid-like. have crises and you know stuff like that so I think it is you know it's hard I get it that if you're in a relationship how do you feed that part of you but if you there is this hot white thing going on it is a good way for each person or for at least one person to be living you know getting that out your husband's happy at home sleeping in bed waiting for you to come home with your stories I mean that's you're both living your best life right I mean you're both getting exactly what you want that is exactly it like he loves it he loves it he literally texts me and say okay baby i'm going to bed be safe

right he has no desire to be out there no no desire he's totally good staying at home and i'm just like every time i leave i'm like i feel bad are you sure he's like babe i'm fine i promise he's like go have a good time yeah he's probably happy he doesn't he's that's not his thing but he's happy that you could go out and do it. Now give out all your links to everything. Where can people find you on Fansley and tell them what they could see over there? Okay. So my Fansley, oh, sorry about that. I moved to think. My Fansley has like my hottest content. It has my longest videos. My porn have is like a sneak to my Fansley that irritates some people, but it's just kind of how it has to work. But my fansly has my longest videos, my hottest content, all kinds of stuff you can find there. My porn hub,

like I said, has sneak peeks. I'm on Twitter and Reddit. and Instagram as well. Bansley and all of that are all under the same handle, which is X-X-E-R-R-R-R-R-R-R-R-R-E-X-X. And then my Snapchat handle is X-X-M-R-A, which is E-M-R-A-E-X. And that's only different because my first name got banned. But yeah, anyway. So that's where everyone could find you.

I think it's great that you have that porn hub that it's the, so that people know what, if you want to see what you, would be getting on Fansley, you're going to get, like you said, a sneak peek, sort of a taste of what's there and the longer versions, the full versions are over at your Fansley. I'll put those links on the podcast. If you're listening on YouTube, you're going to have to go over to a podcast app to get those links or listen to her say it one more time and write it fucking down right now. Go get yourself a pen or write out, get your notes up in your iPhone and give that out

again, Ember, because I can't put links on YouTube. Give out your, your handle. Yeah, absolutely. Okay, so for Instagram, Reddit, Twitter, porn hub, it's X-X-E-M-B-E-R-R-A-E-R-A-E-X-X,

which is just X-X-X-Mber-R-R-R-A-E-X-X. And then my Snapchat handle is X-X-E-M-R-A-E-X-X, and yeah, that's how you can find me. Right. Awesome. So thanks so much for calling back in. I feel like people are going to give more questions. We were all over the place. I don't know how I'm going to edit the shit out of this to make it sound like more streamlined. I don't know. But it'll be good once it's up. Thank you. Thank you so much for calling in. You know, the next time I want to talk to you is when you have when you, if you ever get to the point where you your husband is with another girl, if that ever happens, you know, that transformation will be interesting. But like I said, I don't know that it necessarily has to happen. You know, if you don't feel comfortable about it. But if you don't feel comfortable about it. But if you. that ever changes, let me know. Thank you so much for calling back in. My fans loved your first episode. I know they're going to love this one. Oh, I hope so. I hope so. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. Thanks, Amber. Thank you, Kathy. Bye. Bye. Hi, Citi. Welcome back to the strictly

anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. Thank you. You're welcome. No. Thank you. I should say maybe if I'm going to be hearing a lot of like hot, hot wife stories. Everybody loves a hot wife. Sadie the hot wife. You and your husband called in the first time. I got your whole backstory. I remember what I remember most about you was that you slept with a lot of your husband's co-workers, right?

Wasn't that the case? Well, it was just that one time that we had had an encounter and he was basically our first breaking us into the lifestyle, I guess you can see. say. So to hear Sadie's whole backstory, I don't know why I remember so many co-workers, I don't know, maybe. It was just one, or did you sleep with him a lot, or he just likes to you to prance around? On my husband's side, but yes, there was coworkers that I slept with that were my co-workers. Oh, okay, right. So there was this coworker thing. So it was his co-workers, your co-workers. If you want to hear about the co-worker sex, go listen to the first podcast, the Sadie is a hot wife. This is

Sadie is still a hot wave. You guys are still hooking up with other people, correct? Like what happened since? Or what did you want to call in to talk about? There was something about a radio show. What happened after you were on my show? Yes. After your show aired, well, your podcast came out, the next day our local radio station had,

I guess one of their employees had heard your podcast, and they started talking about it about your podcast with me on it and they were just saying that um because in in the episode um we had mentioned that i would go on drives and one of the co-workers and myself were in the back having sex and my husband was driving so in in there on the radio they're saying that it was a a cook truck oh i like that term the cock truck i've never heard of That's what they were saying on the radio station? Yes, that's what they were saying on the radio. So that was a big deal.

And then a lot of people were just calling in and, you know, talking about that. Okay, so tell me what's happened since we lost spoke. So since the last time we spoke, I had found a gentleman on Tinder and we did have a threesome with him. We went to his place. and while we were there, you know, I was giving him oral. He was fucking me in front of JD. While JD recorded, also, you know, fucking me as well. J.D. was fucking me and I was giving the other guy head.

And after that day that we had met and had sex, I want to say it was maybe two days after that. We had invited him to our. place but the thing about this one was I had told him we'll go and pick you up only because we live so close and he didn't know it I told him we'll pick you up from your house and blindfold you when you get in the car and bring you back to our place and we'll have sex there and then take you back to your house but the whole time we were on the way to our house he was blindfolded the whole time and I would give him Oro

all the way, all the way to you know, to our place. Once we got to our place we walked him out and it was kind of weird because he was blindfolded the whole time. This is where I'm always injecting myself into the story. I want to be

like your neighbor just accidentally looking out the window at the same time that this guy's walking out of the car and I see this couple. I would be like what the fuck? is going on there. Oh, my God. So the whole time he was blindfolded, so I had to help him out of the car and walk him, you know, to the door.

Once he got inside, then we took off his blindfold. And he was just like, wow, that was, that was amazing. I've never done that before. And so he was already turned on. He was already hard by the time we got inside. And, you know, we had, we had sex. You know, he fucked me in front of JD. J.D.

Fucked me in front of him. He gave me head. I gave him head. And then once we were done there, we blindfolded him again. And we took him out of the house and took him back home. But it was good thing. Oh, my God. People are so fucked up.

It was different. I mean, but it was exciting at the same time. and he enjoyed it. And then when we, you know, got close to his house, we let him get him on blind. He took the blindfolds off, but it was just something different. Oh my God.

That is so funny. Where do you find guys to play with typically you and your guy? Typically on Tinder or Doubles. Wait, I want to get some, I'm going to get some Tinder and Double List stories of some more threesomes that you have had. But I do want to talk about because I do know that this happened since my show that, listen, when you came out to Sadie as a hot wife, your first episode, people effing loved you because of all the co-worker sex, the driving around all that shit, right? People were totally into it.

The guys were down. And you got hit up by a lot of my listeners like a lot of people do, especially because you were able, you know, people could contact you. Now, I do know that there is one person that contacted you, that you have wound up in a very interesting situation. with him. Tell them that story, please. Yes. So I had had a lot of people message me on Twitter saying they're, they listen to your show and that's how they found me and they enjoy the show. And this one gentleman, he's very generous. And of course, I'm not going to give his name. Of course not. No.

He loved the way I sound. You know, he asked me, hey, is it, is it okay if I message you? Can we talk over the phone? You know, after I got to know him a little bit by going back and forth with the emails, we end up talking over the phone and texting and that's basically what I do. I just call him, text him. I'll send him pictures every now and then. But he is very generous. So what you're saying is that he pays you for these pictures and stuff? Yeah. Listen, this is all on the D.L. Everyone's anonymous. Be fucking direct, okay? Don't put no blindfolds here, okay?

I want the truth. Tell me, so he's paying you for this, like, this stuff that you're sending him? Yes. Okay, I need prices. I just need to know. I like that kind of information. Like what kind of money are we talking? about. Well, I can't count how much he sick me already, honestly. There's not basically a price on per

picture or tech, but he'll send me like 150 a week or he'll send me 150 a week or he'll send me 150, you know, just to call him or there's not really a price tag. Interesting. Yeah. Is this ongoing for how long since you aired? Yeah, basically since the show aired. Yeah, I've been talking to him. I still talk to him. So, yeah.

Now, are you having, like, phone sex with him? Yes, I would say because he talks about the show. He talks about how he would like to meet up with me one day. I mean, have you ever seen him? Do you ever do any kind of, like, Face timing or camming? He sends me pictures of himself, not, you know, not sexual pictures or anything like that. He just sends me face pictures.

But yeah, I would, I would meet up with him if he was here, yes. You would be down to see him in person. Now, what happens if other guys are listening to this part two, Sadie, and they want to get on the action? You're available for phone sex. Right. I'm available for phone sex. Actually, what I had mentioned to JD was that I actually wanted to meet a local here and have like a regular because I really don't have anybody now at this moment. But, you know, everybody is always different.

Some people say that they want to do the threesome. And that's the only way I do it is with Jady there. Whether he's going to be involved or whether he's just watching or because I like to be filmed. I like to be recorded. I like to have pictures of myself with other men. So a lot of people, they get nervous when we're in the act, I guess you can say. A lot of people don't realize, you know, how uncomfortable. comfortable they feel until it's happening, I guess. I don't know. Oh, really? Like you've had some guys like chicken out in the middle of it or weird it out? Yeah. Can't perform. Right. So they say they can and then sometimes they'll just like, okay, I thought I was going to be comfortable with it, but I can't. So some people just ask to not have my husband in the room sometimes and I'm like, okay, well then that's my cue to leave.

know, or, you know, sometimes my husband will walk out of the room and let us finish. It depends how I feel on that person. Right. Uh-huh. And so do you, do you, are you like super picky when it comes to the guy? I'm pretty picky. Um, the only thing that I guess killed the mood is if the guy can't keep it up. Um, I'm really, the face part doesn't really bother me.

The body part don't bother me. The type of body part, it doesn't bother me. It's just the guys that, you know, can keep it up. That's when a lot of guys, they talk a lot. They like to say, yeah, I can do it, you know, over phone calls or because, you know, when I do meet guys on Twitter or, you know, Tinder or. Double list. Double list.

Of course, I voice verify because a lot of people think, you know, it's a scam or it's a guy or whatever. So sometimes I do FaceTime these people, you know, to show them on real, to show them, you know, a woman. And a lot of times the guys will be okay, right, after I voice verify. And then when it comes down to it, it's just like they get nervous or, you know, I don't know. And you never have any regulars, like you don't have any regulars at all ever. And you want that. Right.

So I had a couple, but like the coworkers I had, but I had to move jobs so I don't have anyone anymore. I kind of want to have a regular where I can just like call them up or, you know, every week, every other week or I really don't know how it's going to happen. But it's hard to find a regular. I guess I guess there's a lot of things that have to fall into place for someone to be a regular. It's hard even for a single girl to find a regular booty call guy. I mean, I think you need like a lot of people to have like regular, that kind of regular action if that's what you're looking for a side piece, you know? Because one person can never be that.

They're not available. So if you're looking for extra dick on the side, you probably need like four, three regulars to have a regular schedule. You don't even. It's serious. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. So wait.

So now since this is going to be like for my, I'm going to do like a, a girl talk and you're going to be talking about hot wiping. I mean, how did your husband get you down to do this? Or was it your idea? I forget. It was actually my idea to bring another guy into the bedroom. How do you bring that up? So this is interesting. So I'm going to put Ember's episode first because she's going to be talking about how she was talked into it by her husband. Her guy brought it up first. Now, how did you bring that up to your husband? Because that's like, that's crazy. Yeah, so I just told him, you know, when we were one day, we were, you know, having sex and I had mentioned to him like I had a fantasy. While we were having sex, I let him know that I wouldn't, I mean, not that I wouldn't, but that I wanted to have another guy played me in front of him.

and after we had sex and you know all of that um we end up talking about it you know having a conversation about it after but um i just let him know how i really get turned on thinking about someone else pleasing me in front of him or with him yeah but he didn't freak out i mean how comfortable were you telling how why were you so comfortable just putting that out there i don't know i just think telling someone that you're dating or in love with or married to like hey i want i want to fuck other people is a hard sell like what made you feel like you could put that out on the table and your husband would be down with it um i just we had you know talked about fantasies before so um i guess that's why i was comfortable talking about it um we are very open with each other and

um no matter if it's said or not, I mean, we just, we're always open with each other. So I guess that's why I wasn't, it wasn't a proper. Yeah, no, no, that's important to, you know, because if you don't put that into the story, then it just seems like what I said, you know, so here you were a couple that was just very, always very open about what you were into, all the dirty stuff. I mean, it was always on the table across the board in every part of your relationship with your guy.

Right. So you were comfortable and felt like you could tell him that and that he wouldn't freak out because you had told him all other kinds of crazy things that you were into, right? I'm assuming all your fantasies were out there. Yes, that's right. And then was he down with it? Like, was he like, oh, yeah, I'd love to see you with another guy or did he have to, did it take time for him to convince him into it? He was okay with it. I mean, he had mentioned that it was a turn on for him to see me with another guy.

So it wasn't a problem. Oh, okay. So you knew already that he was turned on by that. And it was all, so it was like fantasy talk. That was like what helped you guys make it a reality. It started with fantasy talk and role playing. Right. And now do you feel like you could ever, I mean, because what happens when you open up that door, Sadie? Here you are a girl who's, I know a lot of your hot stories. And right now you don't have a guy in rotation. So like, are you missing that side dick? Like, could you ever go back to just having your husband? Or do you feel like you would always need multiple guys? to satisfy you because now that's what you have? Honestly, I think that my husband and I's sexual relationship is fantastic. I don't need the other guy. So, I mean, yes, it is, you know, exciting when I do do it. But I don't think I need the other guy, no. Yeah, that's interesting because I feel like maybe somebody would think that like I did, you know,

but for you, you're like, no way. Your sex life with your husband is the best. And I think Amber stated that too. At the end of the day, nobody gets her off like her guy, her husband. Is that the same for you? Yes, that is. So your guy is like the end-all, be-all, and then you guys are just, and I'm assuming, because I've heard it from many couples that invite other people into the

bedroom, that the sex between the two of you after that other sex is over is supercharged and even hotter because of that. not, you know, right? It adds to your sex life. Yes, it does. After we have a threesome, you know, it's not like our sex session, I guess you want to say, is over after they leave. Because we, of course, I am way turned on what you want to say. So we do end up having our own sex time after the fact.

Right, right. So any, we want to end on any, like, really hot story that you had recently. that I don't know about that wasn't talked about on the first episode. Do you have one? That stands out. Yeah, there's actually one night that, of course, I had been messaging a couple of guys, and it's funny how you said you have to have like three guys in rotation. I just have one, yeah.

Well, this one night actually, it was three guys, and it wasn't like all at the same time. It was, let's say, one guy had a message, and it was just random, you know. They message, hey, you want to meet up? Yes. So we end up inviting them over to my place. And I had sex with one guy, and then, you know, we finished up, and he left. Well, then another guy messaged that same night. So I end up doing it with that other guy as well.

So I had had sex with three guys and one night, and none of them. them of course knew, but my husband knew because he was there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And did you love that? It was just, it was very exciting. It was different because I had never done that before with three guys in one night. But yeah, it was very exciting. Would you ever do or have you ever done two guys and your husband at the same time?

Or is it always been just one other guy? No, I have not done that. It's always just been one other guy. Do you have that as a fantasy at all? I don't think so. I don't think I would want two other guys. Right, right. Yeah, yeah.

Okay, so that's your thing. You like threesomes. You're into hot wiping. You were the one that brought it up, which I think is super interesting. That's why you'll make a good pair with Ember. It's going to be girl talk hotwifing. I think it's super interesting.

What I love most about this story is the guy for my show that's paying your bills. I love that I can help you out, Sadie, in a weird way. I have helped you. You know, I mean, and if anyone else wants to talk to Sadie, you do have like to, now I know you got like thrown off of Twitter. Your Twitter account got deleted or something. Are you back up on there? Right.

So I do have, I made another Twitter, but I would have to send you the information. I don't have that on the top of them. Okay. Send me the information and I'll put it out there and tell everybody where they could find you. Send me some picks for my Patreon because my Patreon members loved your last pick. Send me some new picks for them. That would be great. And thanks for calling in and telling me your little update.

I'll give a shout out to your Twitter too. Okay, so send me that information. Okay, thank you so much. Thank you, Sadie. Bye-bye. Hey, everyone. Thanks so much for tuning in to this week's episode. If you want to follow the show, follow me at Strict Anonymous on Instagram or Twitter.

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