Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 565 - Girl Talk: Susan Bratton on Orgies, Sex Parties, Sex Workshops and More

Episode Date: December 9, 2022

Susan Bratton has had decades of experiences having group sex and going to sex parties, orgies, sex workshops and more and she called in to talk all about it. When did she start having group sex experiences? Why does she love orgies so much? And, how can you learn to experience the pleasure of great sex at home? Tune in for all the details which include how her and her husband have an open marriage, the community they are a part of and how and why it’s totally different than “the lifestyle,” the warehouse orgy she attended, what exactly went down and why she enjoyed it so much, how and why group sex is so transcendent for her, her small group of fluid bonded partners and how they play with each other, her rules and regulations when she plays at orgies, the different types of group sex parties she’s been to and what goes down at each one, how she stays protected, how to have sexy orgy experiences at home if you’re not into going to go to an actual orgy, the conscious community she belongs to and how and why it’s made up of only high quality people, how she’s a pansexual sapiosexual and what that means, why sex workshops are a great gateway into the group sex world and why she loves them, her group sex experiences at Burning Man including the Adoration party, sex in the Orgy Dome, and the Critical Tits party she attended and exactly what went down at all of them, how she didn’t start having group sex until much later in life and how and why it has helped her feel better about herself and her body, what she loves most about “spit roasting,” the Mission Control community in SF and what goes down there, her take on Orgasm Inc, her expanded orgasm course and where to find it, how she loves to show off in lingerie, sex techniques including a Gspot move that works, a strap on daisy chain she had and why she loved it so much and a whole lot more. Click here to access Susan's 8 Playful Bedroom Adventures ebook for FREE! https://SAbedroom.com  **To see anonymous pics of Kelly + anonymous pics of most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Now, she was on my show before. I will put a link to her episode or the episode number in the description. So if you want to hear her backstory of how her and her husband went from, kind of being, you know, a monogamous vanilla couple to really opening it up. And she didn't open it up till much later in her life to now they are like into all kinds of group sex. Orgies in particular. that's what we discuss on this episode. Now, Susan, like I said, not only does she live this life, she helps people live this life. Not only if you want to go out into the world and start taking,

like, you know, start participating on orgies or taking sex workshops or having, you know, group sex with people, she talks to you about how you could do that, but she also offers advice on how to have that experience at home, how to live out your fantasy. She set up for my listeners a website called S-A-bedroom.com. That's S-A-bedroom.com, where you could sign up and get a free e-book, okay? That's going to have eight ways for you to have fun in bed with your partner, okay? It's free, it's there, it's at S-A-bedroom.com. You will see a link to that in the description.

she talks all about in this episode she does go over like those eight tips that she gives she talks about all the ways uh you know her journey into having all these orgies what she's done what she prefers how she you know and why she prefers certain group sex situations she talks about everything from sex workshops which she says is like a great way to dip your toe into getting into uh this type of thing she does does not in the lifestyle. This is not about being, like, going to swingers clubs or anything like that. It's more about how to just be open, you know?

She enjoys very much the world she lives in. It's different, like I said, than the swingers that I have on. But it's just as hardcore, okay? Wait till you hear the stuff she has done. She goes through all the stuff, all the different types of group sex parties that she's been to and talks to you about what goes down there so you know you want to go do that. And if you don't and you just want to have some fun at home and pretend you're doing all these things and have great sex, go to SABroom.com and you're going to get her free ebook on that. Okay, she set that up

specifically for my listeners, which is great. So go there. I love the cartoon. You have to see the cartoon. I think I'm going to put it on my Instagram. I like like good picks. Like visually, I don't know. Wait until you see it. It's like a group sex cartoon. It's like a group sex cartoon. It's killer as a bedroom.com. I'll put that link in the description. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Susan. Hi, Susan Bratton. Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Well, Kathy, one of the things I love about being on your show is that you're always getting even more great thinking out of me. I mean, I'm so excited to talk about orgies and sex parties because I had to sit down. I actually had to sit down with my partner and go through like years worth of things

that we've done. And I think I've gone to more than 20 orgies and sex parties and workshops and all these different types of sexual experiences. And so I literally had to, we had to go through them and write them all down. Oh my God. You have bullets. I tell you. I love it. You have the bullets of all the different types of orgies. That's what I feel like I was like, you know what? I'm going to have you back on for a girl talk episode because you were on before. People want to hear your first episode with your backstory because I think it's interesting.

You just mentioned like I had to write it down with my partner. I mean you and your husband were not always this sexy or like uninhibited adventurous right what's the right word. And you had a very, there was a pivotal time in your marriage where things completely

changed and took off into the way that it is now. So if people want to get that backstory, I'm going to put a link to your first episode because it's really great. It's episode 380. You were on before you gave your whole backstory. But because I know that you and your husband live and, you know, you're in the lifestyle. You're, you have all these.

Nope, we're not in a lifestyle. You're not, okay. We're not in a life. Not at all. Nope. We're like the opposite of that. Why don't you clarify that, actually? That's kind of interesting.

Yeah. So there's really, there's these kind of like tree. There's this tree with branches. And the whole tree I would call open relationship. And on that tree there are branches. And the branches are things like we have an open relationship. We're Polly. We're in the lifestyle.

I'm a swinger. You know, there's like all these different distinction. I'm in a conscious community. I just do workshops. I don't do sex parties. I'm not in the lifestyle. And so my husband and I are not in the lifestyle. And there's a little bit of a difference between having an open relationship or a poly relationship and being in the lifestyle.

And I'll make the distinctions as I understand them for myself. So lifestyle is not emotionally connected, just having hot sex, having hot sex with a variety of partners. often you know the people in the lifestyle community that you're in, but it's kind of a no-strings-attached situation. Polly is much more emotional connection. They're an ongoing partner. You might have multiple relationships. You might have a primary and a secondary. These are kind of the languages of that. And then open relationship is more of, we're making up our own rules in our relationship about how we have sex with other people. It may not be Polly where they're an ongoing partner. And it may not be lifestyle where there's no strings attached.

It could be a hybrid. And that's kind of how I think about it. And then when you think about the kinds of group experiences, because that's what we're really talking about. Yeah, yeah, yeah. All your orgies. Orgies. Mm-hmm. Orgies, workshops, retreats, swingers parties, lifestyle, community events, you know, all kinds of things.

And you have to look at that and go, okay, what I'm talking about here on this show today does not include lifestyle slash swinger. Right. You get a lot of lifestyle and swinger people on your shows. That's the bulk of your people. Mm-hmm. So mine is a different flavor. So though we are calling this episode an episode about orgy, because people freaking love the word. I mean, I love the word.

Oh, yeah, totally. Orgy, when you think orgy, you think about, and this is a, I'm going to share a story right now. Yeah. Right out of the shoot. But I want to let you know that I want to come back to. what are the kinds of events that I've gone to and what is the flavor of those events? I want to give you that big picture, but I want to tell you about a story because I want to start right with the orgy. Okay, cool.

I was at one of the types of sex parties that I'll define in just a second. And I was in this smaller room in this warehouse that used to be a refrigerated room, but it wasn't cold. It was warm now. And so it was a small, intimate room with about 30 groups in it. And the whole, there were mattresses on the entire floor. The lights were low and warm. The walls had some fabrics decorating them like swag. There were big fluffy pillows everywhere.

And there were couples. threesome, foursons, fivesons scattered all around the room on all the mattresses having sex together in parallel in the room. And it was the most incredible experience for me because of a couple things. Number one, everybody was kind of enjoying their group dynamic. at the same time they were enjoying the dynamic of the entire room. Everyone was having a super sexy time together, and that togetherness was like amplified by the group sexiness of being all together. You heard women coming and moaning.

You heard men giving adoration and appreciation. You heard sexy, squishy sounds. You heard banging and fucking. You saw kissing. You saw Bitroast. You saw Daisy change. You saw, you know, all kinds of great pyramids, Eiffel towers, you know, everything.

You saw like everything going off all at once. Incredible. But it's not like a free-for-all. People are staying in their own groups, correct? Correct. Yeah, interesting. Okay. Mm-hmm.

So everybody's having hot sex together. Couples, threesome, foursums, five-sons, in their small groups all of the same time in this gorgeous environment, where it's this closed, small room with this, where you can really hear everything. So you're getting the physical experience. You're getting the visual experience. You're getting the auditory. experience with a DJ that is rocking the fucking house with incredible music. And you just have all this going on. It was one of the penultimate moments of my sex life. My whole sex life, my whole life was that moment of looking up and just seeing everybody in pleasure and

feeling like, fuck yes, this is what we are meant to do. Some of us want this. We need this community of sexual pleasure approval and exhibitionism and appreciation. There were some people just there in groups snuggling and hugging and watching everyone else. There were some people just having these incredible sex position dynamics. It made you feel like, okay, this is what we did when we were living in caves. When we didn't have the construct of our culture, our repression, religiosity, all the shaming, when we were free to explore our pleasure and love our bodies and love each other in group.

It was one of the most, I would say it was like a salve for my sexual soul to be in that experience. Right. That's interesting. How many people? What was your specific group? What was it made up? Like, what were you doing at that party? Because I know, I mean, now I remember your first episode, you have like a pod.

You have certain people that you play with and they're, you know, you're all monogamous to each other in that pod. Is that correct? Is that what you were doing at that sex party? Yes. I don't fuck around. What I do is if I, I have a small group and we're all fluid bonded with each other. And if I want to have a lovemaking experience with someone outside the group, we both get tested and we share our testing paperwork and then we have an experience and then we're complete.

So that's how we have incremental experiences with other people outside of our group is through safe testing. We're extremely careful about STI tests. Right. And so at that time, I would have either had a plan. And so let me go into the different types of sex parties that I've been to, the different types of sexual group dynamic experiences that have been to. Because there have been times when I've known ahead of time that I want to have an experience with someone and I've had that experience with them because we've tested beforehand and or I've had some experiences with people where I only do safe sex things, not non-safe-sex things, which means basically there's A's and there's B's A's A's are I can make out with them. I can touch their genitals. They can touch my

genitals, but no mouth on genitals or genital to genital contact. So finger fucking cock stroking, making out, boob play, toy play, stuff like that. You can really, really come the shit out of somebody with A-level type of sex stuff. And that opens you up to having lots of experiences at a group sex gathering with as long as you know that you're not going to, you say your boundaries, you make an offer, I'd like to do, I'd like to have an experience with you. Here's what I can do. Here's what I will not do.

Would you like to have an experience with me? And mostly what happened when I first started going to these experiences was, nobody would make me an offer. And I would go home and go, what the fuck is wrong with me? How come nobody makes me an offer? I'm like pretty darn attractive and amazing. What is the problem? And then I realized in those group dynamics, it's the women that make the offers, not the men.

And I was used to waiting for men to make offers in my life. I hadn't evolved to my level of confidence to be willing to make offers. Now, I make offers to people. Like I recently made an offer to a super sexy guy. And I was like, hey, do you want to, what do you think about getting together? for a weekend and having a little rendezvous and he's like, well, I don't know. I'm not really sure. I, you know, I, I'm really looking for, you know, a long-term relationship. And I was like, oh, okay, well, I'm not expecting you to, like, text me all the time and do anything.

I mean, I really just thought it would be, I honestly thought you'd be fun to fuck. Right. And you could screen in and we could have a great weekend together. But I understand if what you want is a long-term relationship, no problem at all. And so I didn't take it personally. We just weren't a match. What I wanted and what he wanted were different. Right.

His loss. Right, exactly. Incredible, right? Yeah, totally. So that's the thing. Women are the ones kind of in charge. And this is another story I wanted to tell you, too. There was this guy who used to go to a bunch of the parties, and he was super handsome,

and that guy could fuck. I mean, he was just one of those champions, not porn star style. like romantic, sensual. He had a great cock. He was super handsome. And all the girls wanted him to fuck them. Right. And they would literally call him in advance of the event

and schedule their time from basically get on his fuck card, get on his dance card. And by the time he got there, I would, you know, like I was going there to see if he could have sex with me. And by the time I got there, his dance card was like I wish I could but I'm already looking for the entire weekend Oh my goodness

He fucked so many girls all weekend It was incredible So I just enjoyed watching him with all of them And that was fine for me too Because honestly at that point I realized Oh I don't actually want to be with someone He's fucked so many people Because the thing about STIs is that

Most FTIs aren't like You don't get them from semen or vaginal fluid you get them from skin to skin contact. A lot of shit you get is skin to skin contact. And so, so all right, I promised to go through what are the different types of events

that I've been through. So let's do that. Yes, the different types of orgies. By the way, I have a gift for your guests, for your listeners today. I made a special link for strictly anonymous because I know that if you're listening to this,

you may or may not be the kind of person who is like, I am never going to go to an orgy. I'm never going to go to a sex party. I just fucking like listening to it. Or I really want to go, but I can't get my partner to go. And so you can have sexy orgy type experiences at home, including things like parallel play with some videos that I'm going to give you an idea about, all kinds of stuff.

And so I created something for Strictly Anonymous. It's at S-A, like strictly anonymous, S-A-bedroom.com. Write that down. Remember that. Go to that link, F-A-Bedroom.com, because I'm giving you eight playful bedroom adventures that you can do yourself with your mate or your date. You don't have to go to sex party. So enjoy my ride and have your fun at S-A-Badroom.

And it's free, okay? And I'm going to have the link. Yeah, and I'll have the link in the description to this as well for you, just so you know. If they, you know, write it down as a bedroom.com, but I'll also have the link so you could just click on it in the description. Yeah, we worked hard to put this together for you. We've been preparing for this conversation. I love it. Wait until people see, I love the cartoon.

Wait till you see the cartoon she has. I'm like, I want that for my fucking Instagram. It's like a great graphic. I wonder if you'll get shut down for it. No, I love it. everyone you got to just go check it out it's actually really cool so anyway i like the way it looks actually i'm very visual so i was like oh this is fucking good i approve um so go on tell me about the parties okay so there's two different types of parties this is my experience remember i'm not

describing any swinger or lifestyle events because i don't go to those right i go to what are really considered to be conscious community events um and conscious community is people who all know each other and the only way you can get into the conscious community is to be introduced in and then in many of the conscious communities when you're introduced in you're put you're you're you are literally put up in front of people via email um with who you are and a little bit about you and then everyone in the community has the opportunity to say uh-uh i don't like that person that person violated my boundaries, that person's an asshole, that person's a drunk, that person's a druggie, that person's a whatever, no.

And if anybody is a no, you don't get into the community. You have to have to refer in and references. And if you're any kind of an asshole and anybody doesn't like you, you don't get in. So it ends up to be a community of super high quality people who are really ethical in their sex. And it makes the event incredible as compared to public events where pretty much anybody can attend and get in. But I've been to some of those too. And there's a dark difference. But I'm going to describe a lot of these events.

I'm just going to go boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. But I want to tell you the differences between them. Okay. So some of the things are one-time events and some are regular gatherings. That's another distinction between different kinds of events. I like the regular gatherings because what I found is that it takes time for you to, for me personally, I'm very much of a pansexual sapiosexual. I like people across the gender spectrum, but what I like is loving intelligence. I have to have a heart connection and I have to be intellectually stimulated by them.

and that's when my desire for a person grows. It's less about how they look and more about how they show up in relating to me. And that takes time to develop. So I like the conscious community. The other thing is that there are one-time events that are excellent, and those, for me, those fall into, all my opinion, those fall into workshops. And I'm going to talk about some of the workshops I've been to. So there's workshops and then there's sex parties and they're different.

But you can have sex at workshop. And they're much more structured and guided. And I personally think if you want to go to sex parties, you should start a sex workshop. Because once you start a sex workshop and you start taking off your clothes in front of people and you start having sweet experiences with them, it makes showing up at a sex party so much easier because you've got some damned experience and you're not a total noob. and then you're much more desirable to other people because you've been trained a bit, which I think is good. And then there's house parties. And house parties can be off the hook. Amazing.

I've had a couple and I've got a couple stories for you. Really sexy ones. Because one of the things that I enjoy is not just having my own experiences, but creating experiences for my friends that have been their deepest unmet sexual desire. And I'm going to tell you about two of those. One of them is orgies at Burning Man. Yes. In the Orgy Dome. And I'm sure that you had other people on here talking about those kinds of experience.

Another one that I went to at Burning Man was a sex party called Adoration. That was a woman-focused party where the people who were in service to serve the goddesses were other men and women, mostly men. and their job was to show up and just create these sexual opportunities for the women who came to have sexual experiences. And they had all kinds of interesting things there from acro yoga to riding the Sibbean. Sibbean rides. Sibbean is like a saddle with a dick on it that fucks you and vibrates to all kinds of things. Another thing that I did at Burning Man that was really incredible was I did an event called Critical Tips, where 5,000 women ride their bikes through the desert to this location where all the people who aren't riding that want to celebrate the topless women. They go out to this desert event and they wait for the women to show up and then they serve them,

drinks and, you know, food and whatever they want. They're just there to celebrate the women who are kids out on their bikes, just feeling completely empowered by being topless. And I remember that I was so young. I was so young. And I had always thought my boobs weren't great. And I was always really shy. And my girlfriend was like, you're fucking going.

You need to go. You've got great tits, girl. Trust me. You're going. And I was like, okay, I'll go. And I go. And I'm riding 5,000 women, 10,000 tits. And I look around, I'm like, holy shit.

My tits are fucking great. I can't believe it. I've never seen. You never realized? Yeah. I never realized. Yeah, wow. And it's funny because I just started an OnlyFans fan site.

You did? And, yes, at 61, for the first. first time in my life. And I started all this when I was about 47, by the way. I was 47 when I started going to sex party. So for anyone who's listening who's like, I'm too old for this, oh, no, you are not. You are not too old. You are just getting started. I'm having the best sex of my life is 61. Yeah. And I am starting to post topless photos on my only fans. My only fans. If you go to extrasusen.com, that's the link that'll get you to my only fan. It's my name. I'll include that too for you. And extra Susan.

So I love that. I love that URL. Do you want a little extra Susan? If this isn't enough, here's a little extra Susan. Oh my God, I can't imagine more Susan than what you're getting already. And I just got done doing the most incredible boudoir photo shoot. And for the first time I'm like, yeah, I don't know let you see my fucking tits because they are awesome. I have 36 triple D natural breasts.

And there aren't enough of those in the world for you to look at. You need to look at these things. Everybody's got these giant fake tips. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But natural breaths are so beautiful. And women are so beautiful. I look at my mother at 84 and she still has a beautiful body. There isn't much difference between 60 and 80.

We look beautiful our whole lives. And I really want to stand for body love and appreciating the feminine form at every age. And that's another thing that's so cathartic about going to these group sensual and sexual events is that you begin to see that everybody is beautiful. And it really makes you feel better about it. If more women saw more naked women and men, we'd all love ourselves more. It's one of the precipitous, one of the, you know, the extra things, it's one of the extra Susan things, but you get out of these experiences.

So adoration was really incredible. I remember I saw this woman. There were these club chairs in this tent on this desert floor with rugs and these club chairs. And she had, she was slouched down in the chair. She had one leg over one arm, the other leg over the other arm. And a guy was kneeling at her feet between her legs, eating her out. And she was coming and coming and coming. And there was a DJ and there was a bar and people were dancing.

And there she was in the middle of the whole goddamn thing, getting her pussy eaten really well by this hot guy. And I was like, yes, I want that. You know, when you see, I was at a house party. Here's another kind of party. It's a house party. I was at a house party. It was the first time I ever saw a spit roast where a woman was sucking a cock and getting fucked at the same time. And I looked at that and I was like, oh, I want that.

I mean, I've had hundreds and hundreds. of spit roast now with my lovers. Because it's one of my favorite things. I always want it. And, oh, my God, it just is transcendent sex. It's transcendent orgasmic pleasure. So those are two. That's the good burning man, orgy dome, adoration,

all these kind of groups, sex parties. Another kind is places where they continually have sex party events of different kinds. There was a place, and I don't know if it's still around. it might have closed in the pandemic called Mission Control in San Francisco. And Mission Control was really an incredible experience because they had a guest list. They knew most people. They had a large guest list and they had a frequent party. And it was the kind of place where everyone was orderly.

People knew what to do. It was sex in different rooms and all these different rooms in this house in the mission. And people will really well behave. They did a great job screening people. But it was a little bit, it wasn't like the conscious community where everybody was vetted to the end's degree. And if one person didn't like me to get in, it was a little bit more like a, like a, what I would say is another kind of event, which would be like exotic erotic and naked ballroom. These were events where anybody could go. and it wasn't so much that people were having sex as it was more that people were,

there were some people demonstrating sexual things, some bands would play and singers would sing, but most people were there just kind of milling around in sexy outfit. Or it was a party, DJ, sexy outfits women could be topless, but there wasn't really any fucking. That's like another lower level of kind of community's sexual experience. And then there are these warehouse parties that are usually in the conscious community, these big locations where, and I've been to many different kinds of warehouse parties

in many different warehouses in the city. They're also in Oakland. There's lots in Manhattan. They're in L.A. And these parties are put on by kind of event producers who frequently do them, and they've got big mailing lists, and they bring people in, and you hardly know anybody. and they end up being orgies later in the evening. Those are a lot of fun because the music is really good.

There's tons of interesting people. Most people are dancing. Some people are fucking. It's just a really interesting way to go because if you're not used to going to sex parties, those kinds of parties are very good because you're not feeling pressure to do anything because most people aren't having sex. Only a smaller number of people are. And so if you're not having sex, you don't feel so bad.

Like, oh, shit, I'm the only one here that's not having sex with somebody. I'm all alone. Nobody's making me offers. I'm not wanted. I'm not needed. I must be ugly. Oh, my God. I'm never coming back.

I'm so triggered. I'm so depressed. You know, they're very confronting when you go to these events. Right. I mean, you really have to manage and understand that. It's okay to make offers to people. And if there are no, it's okay. It really comes down to you getting into a place where you feel really comfortable and you feel like you can add value in some way.

I mean, your offers could be things like, I'd love to hold you in my arms while you pick someone who you want to fuck you. Right? I mean, you know, that's a nice offer. I'd love to give you a sensual massage. Would you like a pussy massage or a yone massage? Yoni, Yon, I is another word for a woman's genitalia. It's a tantric love-making word. You'll find that the conscious community has a lot of kind of tantric flavor to it.

So they'll say things like yoni and lingam, and everyone knows what that is. And Lingam is your penis. Yonie is your vulva. So it's, you know, you can make people smaller offers. It doesn't have to be for oral or penetration or even kissing. It can be, would you like to dance on the dance floor super fucking sexy with me? You know? Right, right.

Would you like me to paint your body with day glow paint? Would you like me to feed you a sensual meal blindfolded? I mean, just come up with some fun shit and make some offers because that's what people are looking for. People want offers. And if there are no at first, you can also say, okay, well, I have, I have. One of the things I think is really good is to run a menu. I had three ideas of maybe things we could do. One is I see you brought a lot of lingerie.

Would you like to do a lingerie fashion show for me? Would you like me to feed you blindfolded? Or would you like me to give you a full-body sensual massage? Or I'm open to any ideas you have. Nothing has to be too much. Just whatever's right-sized for you. I just think it would be fun to play together. Heck, I'd even just have a dance with you.

Are you up for something? Let's get to know each. other. Right. Who's going to turn that down, I mean, that's just nice, right? Yeah. I love that you said that the workshop is a great way to, you know, for that couple who hasn't done anything yet, a great way to dip their foot in the water. How do they find these kinds of parties and events? Like how would somebody that's not in L.A. or New York or San Francisco find a sex workshop to take? So sensuality, that was next on my list was Sensuality Workshop.

And they're usually held at retreat centers. They're usually weekend long because it takes a while for people to let their guard down. And you have to take them through various experiences and exercises and begin to get them warmed up and feeling good about themselves and give them time to get used to everybody there. A lot of them are done in places where there might be hot springs or, you know, beautiful retreat areas by wooded areas or rivers. They're always in these really lovely places. And workshops are also nice because the food is healthy. It's like a whole like refreshing, wonderful experience, guided experience. And like a retreat.

It's a retreat. And I've done many different, I've done multiple levels of workshops. I've done workshops that are tantra workshops. I've done Kadochka workshops. I've done orgasmic meditation workshops. I wanted to let you know there's a new documentary out. It's a true crime documentary. And it's called Orgazem Incorporated.

Have you heard about it yet? Yeah, yeah. My cousin said it to me. Yeah, to watch. I haven't watched it yet. Tell me. Okay. It's really good.

One taste was a sex cult run by a woman named Nicole de Dome. And they took. taught a technique that, honestly, she went, she lived in a community that actually was the creator of this technique. Then she took the technique and started her own thing. Yeah. Doing this, like, teacher training to learn OM, orgasmic meditation. They're still doing it. Yeah.

But she, she was investigated by the FBI for all kinds of really culty predatory practices with this sex cult. And I went there, took workshops, et cetera. And it was interesting because this technique was originally created by more university here in Lafayette, California. And she was part of that group and learned the technique and went on to try to sell it and make money off of it. And she did this event thing. And now they've done a documentary on it's quite interesting. All my friends are like all up in arms. Oh, my God, I was in the video.

Oh, my God. You know, like it's bringing up a lot of trauma. for a lot of people who are in the community, and I feel very bad. I rescued one of my best friends out of that community. Oh, wow. You know, it's very tantalizing to learn orgasmic meditation. And nothing is wrong with the actual technique. Yeah.

Because my husband and I have had, we don't call it orgasmic meditation. That was her flavor of it. We call it expanded orgasm. And it's one of my core programs that I teach in a really loving and kind way. Yeah. My mentor, Dr. Patty Taylor, taught, my husband and I had to do this and literally three nights ago he did it to me we've done it for going on 20 years we've had an we've had this expanded orgasm practice we call them due dates deliberate orgasm that's another name for it we've had these due dates for two decades that we do consistently and um our program that we teach is called expand her orgasm tonight and it's an online video e book kind of an experience where you learn how to do this clit stroking technique Well, we went to these demos, these workshops, to learn how to do that.

So you can go to a lot of workshops to learn a different, different kinds of techniques. That was one of the experiences we've had. We've had tantric workshops. We've had sex love and intimacy workshops. We've done all kinds of different retreats. And we did those pretty early on. Honestly, I think starting with the workshop and then going to sex parties later, when you've gotten some comfort around getting naked in front of people and you've gotten some

skills about your sexual skills and you know you're just comfortable having conversations about sex that's what workshops do and the way that you find them is you use the google right that's what you do um amara charles has some good workshops human awareness institute has some good workshops ecstatic loving has some good workshops just google contour workshops quidoshka workshops um you know intimacy workshop, sex workshops, and things will come up and you will find a lot of people who are having these workshops out there and they're super fun. But even if someone's not ready for that, that's what SA bedroom is offering. That's what people are going to find, correct?

If they go there and get that free, what is it, it's a free handbook that they get or videos, what do they get on essay bedroom? If you go to essaybedroom.com, you enter your name and your email address, you basically get a book downloaded to you, a PDF. Right. And the PDF has eight playful bedroom adventures, eight different things you can do in the privacy of your own home that are kind of more workshoppy sex party type things. Like DIY workshoppy sex party experiences for you and your partner. Right.

You can even do it with another couple or with, you know, with a lover. They're really fun. And then in that book, I also. put not just the eight playful bedroom adventures but i also put four other techniques one of them is called the butterfly warm up which basically is um a way that a a woman gets herself turned on and guys love it because they want to know how to help her get aroused and so it's as popular with men as it is with the women another one i have is called the sweet spot oral sex position it's a really good way to take your oral pleasure to the next level.

The next one is called the orgasmic breast massage master plan. Because our breasts are incredibly orgasmic if you know how to touch and stroke them the right way. They're as orgasmic as your clit and they actually, when you do orgasmic breast massage, it makes your clit come too because they're connected in your nervous system. your lips, your tips, and your clit are all on the same channels. And so orgasmic breast massage master plan takes your overall orgasms to the next level and gives you breast gasm. The last one is something I call four sex position stimulators because the quickest way to inject more excitement into your current sex life is to try new sex positions and use new techniques in those sex positions. And these are sex positions with a twist.

They stimulate multiple erogenous zones simultaneously. They're like things you're not, you're like, oh, fuck, why didn't I think of that? Yeah. They're really simple plus up. They're extras. It's extra Susan. They're plus up for sex positions. And when you want to do something new, that's like you're minimum wage.

So I'm giving you a bunch of new things. It's like a workshop in a box. Yeah, yeah, yeah. book is like tons of stuff that you might learn in a sex workshop or you might offer at a sex party that you can learn how to do in your own home even before you go to an orgy or a sex party. So we talked about the orgasmic meditation or the expanded orgasm clitoral stroking practice, right? And this is the one where actually, Kathy, this would be really good for you because you're now really working on having multiple orgasms.

So what you've done is you started with one orgasm. And then you're having multiple orgasm. Next thing you want to do is you want to take the moment of orgasm and expand it. So you're having a longer climactic moment. And then the next step after that is that you have a stairs step up and you have a long orgasm. And then you have a little rest. And then the next orgasm you have is even longer and more intense. And you have a little rest.

And then the next one is even longer and more intense. and you can come for like an hour straight with this clitoral stroking technique. Wow. That's where I want you to be going. That's my vision for you is that you can just come and come and come and come from intercourse without even touching your clip as well. Because this expanded orgasm trains you to be able to stay in orgasm. And then once you have all this stroking, your pussy gets really full and divorced. you finally get the clitoral heart on you need to come from penetration without even touching the tip of your clit because your clits actually wrapped all around your vagina.

So that's your roadmap to where you're going. And then I've got about 15 more kinds of orgasms I can teach you beyond that. Right. Okay. So what's your last one that you were going into? The last. Pugas and dojas. You're like, what the fuck is that?

Yeah. So a puja is an Indian term for a. celebration. That's all it is, P-U-J-A. And Apuja is essentially in the Tantric lovemaking community. It's essentially a circle where women lie around in a circle and the people in the center of the circle take turns giving pleasure to each woman. They go around the circle and they give pleasure, give, pleasure, give pleasure, give pleasure. The pleasure could be like foot rubs, back, rubs. It could be pussy rubs. It could be fucking. It doesn't matter. It's your party. You decide. And a doujah, remember when I was talking about deliberate orgasm, expanded orgasm, this clitoral stroking technique?

I've been to a series of doujas where it's basically a house party where a bunch of people who know how to do this expanded orgasm stroking technique, they go there and each room in the house is set up with a nest where you can lie down together. and there's a board, a white board with time slots and all the doers who are going to do the stroking, their names are on the board, and then they have time slots, and then the women, they take a number, they grab a number out of a hat, one to whatever, let's say there's 10 women or 10, you know, 10, and they grab a number, and then they get to put themselves on the board with the stroker they want at the time they want, And it goes from one to ten they get to pick, and then ten gets to pick again down to one. And so the women fill the board up, and they have dates on the, it's like a 15-minute stroke date with a 15-minute break. Then you go to your next one, your next one.

You can get your clip stroke all fucking day by incredible strokers that know how to do this expanded orgasm, five-stroke. It's a five stroke technique that puts you into this orgasm that lasts and last and lasts and gets more intense. And I've gone to those, and it's so funny to see the women like fighting over the slots. For me, I just step back. Those bitches will cut you. I just step back and I let them pick whoever they want. And then I put my name on whatever holes are left. I just like to have the experiences.

I learn from everything. It doesn't bother me. and it's just hilarious. So that's a doujea. So that's another kind of a sex event that's going on in this universe that you would never fucking know about unless you were Susan Braddon. Yeah, I would never. I've never heard of those before. So, okay, here's some stories.

I'm going to tell you a bunch of stories and you tell me which ones that you want to know about. Yeah. Oh, and there's one thing I wanted to say as well as that. when you go to sex parties, be careful that you don't come home, not just with STIs, but with bed bugs. So when you go, take your own, like, blanket to lay down on. And everything that you take, when you bring it home, put it in the dryer on high heat, including the bag you took the shit in, all your laundry, anything you take there, any soft stuff, put it in the dryer on high for at least a half an hour to kill the bed, because somebody's going to bring some goddamn bedbugs to the sex party and you're going to get them on your shit. You're going to take them to your house.

You're going to get bed and you're going to be like, why am I getting bit? What is this? You're going to go to the doctor who's going to say, I think you have bedbugs. I can't have bed bugs. Oh, yeah, you can. Oh, my God. I've never heard that before. You've never heard a lot of these things.

This is crazy. It's like a whole world, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's amazing. So the dry heat, in the dryer for 30s. minutes solves that problem for sure it kills the bedbugs okay good to know i'm a practical sex party girl no i like that i like those little tidbits i think they're interesting yep so we talked about the fuzzy locker we talked about the city and rides one time i had sex with my husband up on a platform on the

dj uh station because my husband's an exhibitionist and he loved that i'm not so much one that i would do it for him One time I just decided to go to a sex party and I took a bunch of lingerie looks because I love to dress up in lingerie and show off for people. That's my exhibitionism is like lingerie modeling. And so I went to a sex party with like five or six lingerie outfits. I think of a weekend sex party. I probably took ten. And every few hours I would just change and I would just walk around the room and show off my lingerie. That's one of the reasons I love my only fan's account is because I can find a few hours.

post my super sexy lingerie photos someplace and not get booed by Instagram, right? Like that's the problem is I can't post my sexy stuff on Instagram or immediately I get flagged and I've been shut down twice already. I can't, I am not doing it again. Oh, devastating. So I just loved that was really fun for me. I've learned a lot of great sex techniques like one that I learned. We call it Brian's move. It's this G-spot technique where basically, he sticks his finger up inside your vagina and curves it up toward your belly.

Yeah. So you're stroking the G spot with the kind of come to me, come here, move. But then he slides his second finger in, but not straight. He slides the knuckle in. So basically he's got a finger and a knuckle. And then he takes that knuckle and he presses down on the bottom of the vagina. He's got strong fingers and they were long. And when he presses the knuckle down, what you're basically doing is you're stroking both the G spot, which is actually called the urethral sponge, and the P spot or perineal sponge on the floor of the vagina.

And so when he did that, he was dragging his knuckle while he was doing the come hither. And I was squirting like crazy. So much fluid was coming out of me. It filled my vagina up in this most incredible. incredible way that just melted my fucking pussy. And so whenever I want my husband to do that to me, once he's gotten me really warmed up, I'm always like, can you do Brian's move? And so one of the fun things we've done over the years with all the things we've learned,

and we name everything so we can ask for it. Yeah, yeah. I think it's such a, you know, it's a good strategy. So another thing that I did was a strap on daisy chain with a bunch of women. we all fucked each other in a circle, doggy style. It was crazy fun to try to get it all set up with all our body dynamics and everything.

How many women in that Daisy chain? Do you remember? How many were five? Wow, okay. Yeah, and we weren't in a circle. We were in, Daisy chain, you always think about it as kind of a circle. This was a line.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, interesting. And were there guys there watching? Is that what was going down at that Daisy chain or was just the women in a room alone? or in a group Yeah, okay. We were just, we all were so comfortable with each other.

We all loved each other. It was so much fun. It was one of the crazy things we did. One of the things, remember when I was saying that I did things for my friends? Yeah. I had a sex party at my house one time. I used to live in a mansion in the Silicon Valley.

I come from Internet 1.0. I literally was one of those people that invented the Internet like Al Gore. For realty. And I had this gorgeous mansion in Silicon Valley, overlooking Apple, and even before Facebook was a thing. And one of the things my girlfriend wanted, I'll call her Christy. She wanted a gang bang. But what she wanted was a gang bang where, and she didn't even really call it a gang

back. I'm using that term because that's a term people know, which is one woman gets fucked by a luncher guy. Yeah. What she really wanted was to have this. experience of, I think we had like five men, yeah, five men volunteered to do this. I can just all my friends. I'm like, my girlfriend, I got to make sure I say the right name. Christy, it's a pseudonym. My girlfriend, Christy, wants this experience where many men pass her around

and fuck her. She doesn't want to touch the ground. She wants to be passed around and she was this tiny little thing, super easy to hold up, even for a little bit of. man that wasn't that tall. And she wanted to get passed around and thought. And those guys were such chance. They're like, of course we will fuck, Christy. Of course we will do this for her. I mean, this is one of the things I love about men. They're like, whatever you want, I'm giving it to you. I just love this about guys. So the more we can get women into their sensual experience of like, whatever you want, tell us what you want, babe. And it starts coming out of her, you know. She is starting to think, oh, I want this, I want this, I want this. There's always a lot.

who wants to give it to her. So these guys literally kept themselves hard and passed her around and fucked her over and over and over and over and over. It was such a beautiful thing to watch. And then I had a guy friend, super handsome guy. Oh my God. Like one of those guys that makes girls go crazy. And he said, I want to have an eightsome where I'm the only man and seven women. I'm fucking seven women. And I'm like, are you sure? Yeah, that's a lot of work.

And I'm like, okay. And I showed, I sent, I sent his picture around to my girlfriends, I'm like, would you show up for this? He doesn't have to fuck you, but would you be part of this thing? And all, they took one, look at this guy, and they're like, yeah, mama, thank you so much. You can offer that to me and keep the

offers coming if they're this quality, right? And so they have, he has this apsom, and he ended up like just getting so blown out from it. It was too much for him. He wasn't ready for it. He ended up getting like sick to his stomach. He got like irritable bowel syndrome. No way. It made him shit his pants. It was way too much for him. Hilaria. Hilaria. He's like, yeah, I can take it. Give it all to me. I got to, you know, way over estimating their actual skills. And that guy can't help it. It's testosterone. This is why they do the crazy shit they do because they're fueled by testosterone and sex drive.

You know? So that was one of the ones where I kind of lived and learned where I was just like, I don't, I don't. It was like lesson learned. Be careful. Make sure you understand what a person is capable of. You don't want to blow them out. And another one. I have another like fail.

You want to hear another one more fail story? Yeah. Okay. So, you know, I was telling you about the expanded orgasm. practice one time. This was really early on in my sexual awakening when I had experienced this incredible expanded orgasm experience with my husband. And it literally changed my life. It saved my sex life. It made me multi-orgasmic. It made me finally be able to cross the gasm chasm and have orgasms from intercourse. I mean, I owe everything to my expanded orgasm practice with my husband. Yeah. And I want to teach everybody

how to do this. I mean, it's just such an important thing. And I just, we were so, high on the experience of having this together that we invited our our muggle friends, our Silicon Valley, our tech friends, not sex friends. This is before we had sex friends, before we learned how to get into a conscious community before we started going to workshop. Right, right. As we were just starting to go to workshops, we were in the workshop learning phase. We hadn't gone to sex parties yet. And so we're like, hey, our friends, hey, come on over. We want to have this demo and show you, you know, show you this experience. And we want you guys to be doing this too, you know.

And they came over and nobody in the room was breathing. Like they were all like, it was completely quiet. They were, they looked like they all had rigor mortis. Like they were literally. They were freaked out? They were shocked, triggered, freaked out. You know, just like, it was way too much for them to see a woman's pussy getting stroked.

Right. Like, they just couldn't, they couldn't, they couldn't do it. And that's when we learned you can't, you can't fuck your friends. You have to go meet people who, like, because if you make offers to your friends, they're like, oh, you're a pervert, you're disgusting, you're gross. And if you're not, it's just not what they want. Mm-hmm. You have to find the community of people who are doing the kinds of things that are right for you.

That's why lifestyle isn't quite the right thing for me. the the you know the the the the what do I want to say the can the public event things aren't right for me I need conscious community and luckily I'm in a place where I got I had a friend who was like listen I'm going to do you guys a favor you can't you can't be blown up all your we were like we're blowing up all our friendships he's like look I'm going to introduce you to my conscious community I'm going to invite you in I'm going to sponsor you in oh thank God that was literally the like right opening to the portal pleasure we craved our whole existence and our generational existence. It's so that was the foul, as I said, to our sexual soul.

So, I mean, I could keep going on, but I feel like people are probably full by now and ready to be like take the baby step at fadroom.com and go get the eight playful bedroom adventures and just take the first step, right? You're not Susan Bratton. Because this took me 20 years of work to tell you what I told you today. Don't worry. You can get there. It's all out there.

Start small and work your way up. Don't get blown out. Don't try to fuck your friends because they're not going to do it. You're going to ruin your relationship. Right. Like you're 61 living your best life. And that to me right there, like, gives anyone hope. There's no reason that you can't cross over to the other side.

And I think that, you know, your courses, everything that you have to offer will help people. And they should go to essay bedroom. dot com, right? It's free. It's a free e-book. They're going to get. Yeah. Sign up and then they'll get your newsletters. And there's so much information in your newsletters as well. Yes. I love to teach people. I don't care if anybody ever buys any of my program as long as they like and learn and expand because enough people do that I do very well. Yeah. People buy my program. And many people don't. There's been people who've been

on my newsletter for decades who just love the evolution of their sexual experiences from all the tips that I put out. I mean, that's my joy. My passion is passion. I like to transform having sex into making love. Yeah. That's what I like to do. I'm all about heart-connected, conscious lovemaking.

And most people are never going to go to a sex party. And that is totally fine, but I want you to have playful bedroom adventures. and that's what I brought you today at SABroom.com. Love it. Go there, SABDroom.com. I'm going to put a link in the description. I'll also link your only fans,

extra susan.com. That's exciting. Your new only fans are people that want more. But thank you so much for coming back on. I think you're wonderful. You already helped me become multi-orgasmic, so I owe you one. I'm so glad.

You're the best. I'm so happy about that. So thanks so much for calling in. This was great. You're welcome. I had such a good time. Thanks for having me. I adore you.

And I will see you soon. Okay. When I come to New York, I'll let you know. Okay, awesome. Thank you. Okay. Bye, darling. Hey, everyone.

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