Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 573 - Smooch has Shared his Wife with All his Friends

Episode Date: December 26, 2022

Smooch has shared his wife with all his friends and he called in to talk all about it. When did they first open up their relationship?How did they start hooking up with his friends? And, what other kinds of kinky things have they tried? Tune in to hear all the details including how he met her and how his early intense jealousy effected their relationship, his first friend she hooked up with and what exactly went down, all h friend show followed and what went down with them as well, his bf and how and why he became her first”arrangement, how involved he gets during her hook up and why he enjoys becomes the conductor, the recent FFM threesome they had with his wife’s co-worker and exactly what went down, how his wife feels about him being with women, the foursomes they’ve had, the one time they met a couple online and what went down, the friend she sleeps with who was dating her best friend and how and why she enjoyed him so much, the rules they have set up, their experience with golden showers and rim jobs, the reclaiming sex and why its so good, how and why opening up their marriage has helped it, why they’re slowing down now and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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one female that's called in that hasn't sent me in an anonymous pick and they're hot picks not x-rated you're not going to see porn on patreon but you see sexy picks if you want to join my patrons patreon.com strictly anonymous podcast my anonymous confessions are there too now today i have on smooch don't you love that name. I love that name. Smooch is a guy who was like, by the time he got married to his girl, she had like had sex with half his guys in the bridal party or the groomsmen, you know, half his groomsman. This is a guy who has been with his girl, now his wife. They've been married for a couple of years, but they were together for a long time. Like, though that couple that got together very early on in like grade school or high school, like the beginning of high school.

And they've been together ever since it's like 11 years now. He's still, he's only 28 now. He's only 28 now. But like I said, he's been with his girl for a long time because they met when they were super young. And eventually he got her to start sleeping with his friends. Now, it didn't. I say eventually because like in the beginning he talks about how when they were super young and first got together. He was very jealous and abusive and very like paranoid that she was going to go hook up with somebody else. He wound up cheating on her. I was like maybe it was a projection.

She caught him. But eventually somehow they worked through all of that. stuff and then he wound up turning that jealousy into something that turned him on. At one point he started to think of his friend with her and he told her and then he somehow managed to get a friend to come over and it all started from there. First it was a blowjob that it was full on sex to that now they have threesomes and foursums and there was a threesome with a girl co-worker that happened recently that was like top of the mountain for him but he does talk about all the friends how that all happened. their arrangements, quote unquote, that they have with their regular bulls.

One of them happens to be like one of his buddies who was like dating her best friend and she's like, he was like her favorable because he had a really big dick since she was into it. And he just talks all about it. They've been together since the dawn of time. She's another one of these girls that, you know, screws all his friends. And even she just had sex with her girl co-worker recently. But she's not down with him being with anyone else. but he's totally okay with that.

He explains why he's okay with that. He talks all about all of their experiences. He's a true cuck in that he loves seeing his girl with other people, but he loves to be involved. So like maybe what is that called a stag? I don't know. He gets involved too. There's a lot of threesome action.

There's some foursomes in this story. There's a lot. So I'm going to be right back on with Smooch. Hi, Smooch. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. I like your name. Hey, thanks, Kathy. Thanks for having me on.

This is just a great opportunity for me. Yeah, I know that you said that you love seeing your wife hook up with your buddies. How did you get your wife to hook up with your buddies? Okay, like how does that happen? Well, half of the groomsmen at my wedding railed my wife by the time of that wedding. Okay, so it happened way before you even got married. Okay, now, Smooch, how long have you been? with your wife. Let's like get a little backstory here real quick.

11 years married for two. Okay. So, and how old are you guys now? I am about to turn 28. Okay, so you're young. You sound older. So you guys been together a long time. Yeah, I was 16 and we met at the same school. Oh my goodness. You're like babies. No wonder why you had to go fuck other people. I would have fucked my husband's friends too if I was in my 20s married.

So this is so young. So wait a second, like, when do you start passing her around or like to your friends? I'm assuming it happens because he said she had been with so many people before you guys got married. So when does she start hooking up with your friends? That started in high school. It became like a fantasy of mine. I actually started out pretty emotionally abusive, I would say. Just trying to restrict her activities as much as I could.

Just fixated on like keeping her for myself. my biggest fear in life is to be alone. You have abandonment issues. No, not really. Well, you just said my biggest fear is to be alone and you were like holding on so tight because you didn't want her to leave you. Doesn't that sound like abandonment issues? Like your biggest fear was for her to, you would lose her. Is that what you're saying?

Well, yeah, I agree with you there. But usually that's like from something that happened to someone prior, you know, earlier in their life. And I don't have that. Like both my parents were around. I was raised pretty well. But you had a, I'm not talking about where it. came from. It sounds like you had some serious abandonment issues

because you're the one that just brought up like I was like abusing her because I was so afraid of being alone. That's like you know that's a fucking issue. Yeah and not physically abusive. You want to make that known. No no no yeah. Yeah mentally and it was just like kind of

it was just so unhealthy it really was for both the abuser and the buzzi you know and it's just stressful living like that. Well could you just explain a little bit because I think it's important because I think a lot of people maybe have, I think it's very brave of you to cop to that and great that, you know, you could look back and see that because I think like, know thyself is my favorite saying. So at least you could look in the mirror and say like, hey,

this is what I did at one time and it was really fucked up and wrong. But just explain a little bit of how you did abuse her in that way because I think, you know, sometimes this is happening to people or guys are doing this or girls are doing this to their partners and they don't even see it as abuse. but you clearly do. Explain it a little bit. Looking back, yeah. Yeah. You were definitely, the nail on the head with like the retrospect there.

Yeah. The things I used to do always want to know who she was with, always wanted to know where she was at. She had kind of report to me on a daily basis of her contact with guys, but we called them corners. I don't know. I kind of made her believe that that kind of relationship would work. That was the only option.

And I think when you start kind of curbing someone, else's opinions, then you're obviously having an effect on them like that. So you were just super jealous and possessive and you were like your biggest fear was her to go with a guy. And it's interesting that you were able to turn that into something that now is like your fantasy turned reality and now you're totally into it and probably on the opposite edge of the spectrum. Maybe someone would say, oh, maybe that insane jealousy was the same thing. It's that intense turn on that you feel is that same thing, but you were able to transfer that energy and turn it into something else.

I don't know. I know that that's deep, but I think that that could sometimes happen. Well, and that's why I'm coming to you. I know claim that you're not professional, but I think you put in the hours and dedication now where, you know, your opinion really does matter on that. And I don't have an answer for that. But like how great.

I mean, you really think about it. I do think that it is interesting and I didn't hear about this kind of phenomenon on until I started to do my show where someone once put that together where they were like I was really jealous, but it gets them off. How great is that? Because it feels way better to be turned on right by your wife being with other guys than the way you felt as being that insanely jealous person.

I was always very jealous, not possessive, but very jealous of somebody liking somebody else, all that thinking they're thinking of someone else. And I wish I would have known back then that I could like maybe try to turn that energy into something else because it's a terrible way to feel. Terrible. It is. And once you do allow yourself to evolve, shall we say, man, everything just is in a different light. I mean, I've had the best experiences with my wife. And, you know, and it really comes down to us being together so long. Like, yes, I did cheat before marriage and stuff like that, like high school, college.

I was a cheater. And so that was the adrenaline. But then after that, we stayed together. We got through all those obstacles when you're young like that. And one day I had a private moment with myself, you know, jerking off. And like, I just thought about my buddy fucking my girlfriend at the time. And it just sounded so good. It sounded like, man, you know, I really wish this would happen. And sure, shit, it did.

That's a jump. I want to hear all the details leading up to that. First of all, let's just talk a little bit about the cheating. Now, had she ever cheated on you? Not that I know for sure, but I had good intel, yeah. So you think maybe she did or no? Yeah, I think during college, both at a time, about a month, where we found separate people. Okay.

And now did she catch you cheating, but you were able to work through it? Because you got, right? Is that what you said? Or did she not know that you were cheating? Never in the act, always just stupid shit on my phone. Oh, like you were sloppy. Young, sloppy. So she would catch you, but.

She stayed with you. You got, you know, listen, a lot of times, too, someone thinks like maybe that that person that's super jealous about somebody going and cheating on them is because it's a projection, you know, because of what they want to effing do. Maybe that's a part of your jealousy too, right? Well, I just knew how easy it was to cheat and that she's sexy and she can do it even easier. Right, right.

So that was also that intense jealousy thing. and you was projecting what you were going to do to her. So anyway, you made it through that. How do you bring up the fact that you want her to hook up with your friends? Well, I just texted it to her. Like, we were living in separate quarters at that time. And because we were, once again, we got to remember, this is like early college. So we're talking 2021 year old here.

So I basically just send her a text message. It was kind of lengthy. and they went into detail, like specific detail. It's like if I was trying to convince her of sending me a nudie or something, that's how deep I got. And so I sent it to her. And it was all detailed about my best friend fucking her. It was like a scenario.

And she was pretty shocked by that. Were you guys like sexting a lot? And were you sending her like hot things that you thought of via text before? Or was this like that first time she even got like a whole paragraph of sexting from you? First time. I mean, I just, I had to get it out and I had to tell her. Okay, so it really was a big thing. Yes.

Like, I didn't know how she was going to react to it. But you couldn't, so why didn't you do it? Like, is it because you couldn't get it out of your head? Yeah, because it was such a turn on for me. Like, it was such a, like, once I actually allowed myself to think like that and to allow it to make my dick hard and make it feel so good when I was touching myself, I was like, game on. Like, I want this to happen. Okay. So you send her that text and she's like shocked at first.

Then what happens? It was a couple weeks of me trying to ease it into her mind of like, hey, we could start out nice and easy, you know, just like a little handy or something like that. So she was like, finally I started seeing after a few weeks like her walls started coming down and she started being more opening on me. Like I have some pretty damn good looking friends. I'm not going to lie to you. Okay. like we're all jocks from the same high school and like I'm the worst looking out of all and that's for damn sure your girlfriend's hot you i mean your wife's hot you said already right yeah and i capture her young like

i said and after that you know like i like it was the best investment planet that anyone could ever have because she turned out to be just fucking fantastic she only she just aged really well like she got even hotter as she got older oh yeah yeah the bank account just kept going up on that investment and no doubt about it. Oh, my God. Okay, so wait. So now you're like, she's not totally like no effing way.

She's kind of open to talking about it with you in the beginning. Yeah, and it helps. Yeah. They're in the popular group. You know, they're all athletes. They all got tight bods. She was definitely kind of like, okay. She started opening up to me.

She was like, well, your one friend's really cute. Like, yes, yes. Tell me more of that shit. I mean, wasn't she a little nervous or hesitant? because did she was it like because I would think for a girl especially a younger girl like you'd be a little bit nervous that this is and it might be a trap I don't know it's like scary to tell a guy that you think his friends are hot even though he's asking for it I mean was she hesitant at first at all yes very that's why I said it took a few weeks to really right kind of just just consistently sitting down talking about little scenarios yeah yeah saying how you know all that kind of stuff okay So now she gets this one friend. There's one friend that stands out to her that she thought was hot. Well, so we invite this one friend and one of her friends over because they both haven't had sex in a long time at that point.

It was early college. They were kind of on a dry spell. So we're all drinking there. And my buddy and her gal pal start making out hardcore. Like they're on the bed. We were on the ground. We were playing like cards or something like that. But we were drinking.

So we were getting a buzz on. And so my buddy starts fucking. her friend and she's got big titties no doubt about that but he fucked her so hard that she ended up puking all over my bedroom literally and so like remember like me and my girl at the time are having some fun like we were getting into it too like I even reached over and grabbed the tities of her friend and it was like awesome right okay and so that was that was our first real taste of anything like exotic and taboo like that so anyways so she pukes everywhere I don't know what to fucking So I just pick up this naked friend and I take her to the bathtub and I turn, you know, a hot shower on floor and I told her just, you know, sober up and, you know, calmed her down.

I go back into the room and my buddy's sitting there. I can tell he's blue balled all hell. My girlfriend, Kelly, Kelly, we'll call her her Kelly. Kelly's sitting there and, you know, it's kind of awkward. And I was like, oh, my God, this is like a perfect time for my fantasy to become real. And so I wasn't I wasn't bawdy enough to like speak like I am right now or I would at this point. Back then I just had to text them even though we were like five feet away from each other. I couldn't say it out loud.

So I texted Kelly and I said, hey, you know, he didn't release. We saw what happened. Do you think you would finish him off? And she's like, do you think you'd be into it? And like a week prior, I did like mention it to my buddy that this is kind of. of like my fantasy. So he was definitely on board right away. We finally brought it up to him. And my wife, or my girlfriend at the time, Kelly goes down under the covers. And she, her head starts bobbing up and down. And I'm starting to hear the sucking noises and stuff. And it just turned me on so much. I was like,

oh my God. My buddy's getting sucked off by my girlfriend. And so I started just fingering her a little bit. Literally she just started fingering her a little bit. And like, I had such an erection. It was a thunder throbber. That's what I called it because I've never felt anything like that before. Uh-huh. And it was just, it was game on after that. The doors were taped open.

And I was like, well, we got that done. Now, let's see how far we can go. Right. Now, that's as far as that one went that night. Or did you go far? Did she have sex with him that night or just gave him a blowjob? Just gave him a blowjob. Just gave him a blowjob.

Swallowed it. Because she's a swallower. I told her that very early. on like that's really important to me and uh she does that i just recently started listening to your podcast yeah to touch base with you on the coming on the girl's face that's not for me yeah and i don't hate women that's why you don't like jizzing on their face exactly and so i kind of agree with yeah yeah that that was my jiz quiz anyway go on so yeah so that was the very first time that ever happened it was only a blow job that night and then you know there's like major

gaps in between us doing stuff to be honest with in major gaps years possibly then you know that was not even my best friend that was just a probably my best looking friend he's a cutie question let me ask you quite no I want to ask you a question though about you because sometimes when someone has a little cuck in them they might might be because they're interested in the same sex as well or they have some sort of attraction even if maybe they don't want to engage do you have do you have any kind of feelings for guys ever get turned on by them yourself or are you just strictly like into chicks? No, I actually do not get turned on by guys.

Okay, you like, but it's more about your girl being with your friends, right? So you don't have any hookups with the guys yourself. You don't get involved or anything like that. No, no way. Okay, cool. So now, so after she has that first blowjob with your friend, I mean, you say that by the time you guys get married, she had been with like half the guys, you know, when is like the next friend to come around?

So the next friend is my best friend. And he was in a relationship early, you know, at this time in college. And he becomes our first, what we call arrangement. We have arrangements with a couple of our buddies. Yeah, so this was our very first arrangement. We kind of left that first time in the dust because things were a little awkward with my first friend, you know, the first story I told you. Uh-huh.

So right after that, things were a little awkward with them. And, you know, we kind of shut that down with them. So we didn't want any damage there friendship-wise. But the second time here, he's my best friend. He was the best man at my wedding and stuff like that. And he had a girlfriend at the time, so it had to be pretty private. But he heard from my other buddy about what we did. So it kind of opened up the door for communication with my best friend.

And I basically told him like, yeah, I want you to fuck her. You know, we're just drinking beers in the garage. And I was just able to say that to him because, you know, we're best friends. Right. And so he was like, he was kind of so shocked though. He was like, really? like how like how how would this work and I said well we'll all watch a movie and then that's about it you know you know what to do and I'll sit there and watch and it'll be awesome he was like you know

talk to me when you're not drinking I was like okay fine I'm gonna text you tomorrow and I sure shit did and he was like okay so this is a real thing he was like what are you doing Sunday and I was like watching a movie with you and my girlfriend and he's like okay so so he comes over and we're watching the movie and I kind of gave my girlfriend, because me and her already talked about, well, this is actually going to happen. Yeah, yeah. And so I kind of just, like, nudged her a thigh a little bit,

and I was like, reach over, you know, start playing with them a little bit. And one thing you're going to find out that it's pretty consistent with all my stories from here on out will be, like, me being conductor of, like, a symphony or something like that. Oh, okay. I do remember you told me a little bit about, like, what you do for a living and that you keep things,

Like you have like you're very organized or you have like a lot of stats and numbers and things with thing. I don't know. You're like a organizer. You're also though, are very good with all keeping track of things. Maybe that's why you're good. Oh, okay, right. I'm going to count. By trade.

And I do keep very specific stats, shall we say, on my sex life. I can tell you how many times I've had sex to this point since I was 15. Give that number. That's 1,713 times. Yeah, you might have like that might be more than because you're an accountant. You might have a weird number thing. How do you remember how many times you have sex? Oh, no, I have it on my phone.

Every time I get done orgasamy, I roll over, I go on my notes and I just add another number. Wow. Okay, I'm going to read some other stats that you have in your email. You have done anil 11 times. You've had six golden showers. 46 threesomes. I don't know how many of them we're going to get to in this call. that's a lot of fucking threesomes.

Four forsums. I mean, come on. I mean, these are the stats you had in your email. You sent me. It's crazy. It's funny that you have all this stuff right and down. There's a lot that we have to get to. Okay, so wait.

So your first friend and you are set, she's going to fuck him. It's all good to go, right? Now you're going to be the conductor. Now you become the conductor. This is the first time you're going to do that? Yes, absolutely. Okay. So basically, yeah, I actually start speaking out loud, like not whispering.

and I'm like kind of telling her what to do you know and like he's hearing me direct it and he you know he can't believe it's happening and then she starts sucking them and then they well he tilts her on her on to her side and I'm still I'm kind of watching the movie too it's a decent movie and so she faces me she's on her side so he is on her ass side and he looks at me he's like bug-eyed and He's like, you know, what do I do next? And I point down, I say, slide it in. I mean, come on, man. And so he does that.

He slides it into it. And he ends up, he's wearing a condom, by the way. I know you always ask that. Yeah, he's wearing a condom. And he bust the load, but he pulls out and he bust the load into the condom. Yeah. Now, do you ever join in on all these threesome? Are you a true cuck in that you just really want to watch

and conduct. No. That point, that's just the point we were at. Yeah, okay. So, yeah, I only, I mean, I go under titties and stuff like that. And believe me, I'm intimately right there. You know, I can smell the friction going on, and I loved it. And so, so that first arrangement happened. And, you know, we started hitting out my best friend pretty consistently there. You know, we would do pretty much the same kind of thing, nothing too wild. Yeah. And then things started fizzling out with him. And I had another really good looking guy friend probably

man he's the he's the biggest built you know just a jacked up body kind of thing as abs you know all that kind of stuff but this friend pretty much did not want to fuck her so we set up the same kind of way watching a movie but this friend

did not want a fucker he wanted to just like orally pleasure the shit out and I was like that's cool with me let's let's do that so same exact scenario but this time he even asked for her toy and i was like baby you cool with that she was like yeah so i got her toy out a vibe breader it was purple i know you like those details kathy and so it was purple and

pretty much he gave her oral pleasure like he wouldn't believe oh and he also did try this this thing with me like kicking me out of the room for a little bit and so i was like okay you know let's try that but believe me i'll come back in if I want to. And he's like, absolutely. So I go out and I'm listening and it was just tearing me up not being in there seeing it, though. So I went back in pretty quickly and enjoyed the show. He just ate her out, put her in different positions, used the vibrator pretty well. And then we literally all three fell asleep there and then woke up and everything was cool. But who gets into the golden showers? Is that something you guys do together? Or does that happen with

the guys other guys those golden showers were only between her and i and i was just because i went through a one phase of like water sports kind of thing maybe i accidentally clicked on or something right and like it kind of turned me on yeah yeah i get yeah so then so we tried it and so that's why we only got to six there but there was no like in the mouth that's pretty degrading it was not on the face um it was only on tidies and it was only in the shower so we're not like cleaning up a mess so yeah yeah okay so go on so Now, I know that you say that you had some foursums, threesomes, do you ever start to get involved? Or are these always?

Yes, yes, absolutely. And like, it goes so far to our latest one, our latest one. So we're skipping, you know, eight years or something. And so now we're here now. And in October, so just a couple months ago, we had my first real two women experience. So it was my wife and her co-worker. and I got to actually fuck two girls at one time. I couldn't believe it.

That was the first time. After all, your wife's been able to be with all these guys. This is the first time that you were with another woman? Yeah, first time like that, for sure, yeah. Okay, but now I know that you were cheating on her when you were younger. Like, did you remain faithful to her after she busted you? Or do you always cheat behind her back? I cheated, you know, for a long time for years.

So after college, I started getting serious. I might have made a couple mistakes, but it wasn't. physically with the women. It was just stupid, horny messages or something like that. Right. And then once you started hooking up with all these guys and stuff, did that, that probably added to your guy's sex life and your

fantasies and stuff. So maybe you didn't need as much variety because that was, you know, all of that was some variety for you. Exactly. I mean, weekends and just expecting a threesome with people you care about, it was awesome. It was awesome. So, I mean, we just jumped. You could tell me about

the wife and the coworker, three-sum with the girls, then we'll go back to these foresomes and all these other things. But how did you get the wife and the co-worker together? I mean, did she ever, I mean, while she's getting it on with all these guys and all this time, was there ever conversations about you

being with other women? Yeah, and me being a dirty scumb bag early on really affected that conversation because she was saying, you know, she still doesn't trust me to that point and stuff. And I told her that I'm getting enjoyment out of

what we're already arranging, you know. So let's not mess with a good thing. Let's just keep doing what we're comfortable with. And later down the road, maybe I can. And sure, shit, it finally happened. Now, did she, how did the coworker wind up with your wife and you? How did that go down? So it's, so it's a Halloween party.

And by a party, I mean literally just me, my wife, and two of her female co-workers. So they come over, but we know, we had punch and shit. And it was kind of cool. We had bobbing for shooters or something. And so we did that. And everyone's getting hammied. And one of her friends calls an Uber. She gets, you know, taken out.

And so it's me, my wife, Kelly, and her coworker. So months prior, my wife and this coworker, they became pretty close where my wife was actually, like, letting her know about our kind of extracurricular activities and stuff like that. The arrangements. And so we were at a fire, and I learned this. I learned that the coworker kind of knew our secret and stuff, which shocked me because my wife never tells anyone about that. It's very secret.

And so that stunned me. So we skip ahead to the Halloween party, like I told you, and we're all fucked up. It's us three left. And basically, I could just tell by the sensing, you know, the senses in the room, like the coworker was just. eyeball fucking my wife. Like she wanted her bad and I knew that like kind of going into this that she she's by and she's really been trying to hunt down my wife. And which that turned me on. I was like, that's badass. Yeah, for sure, you know. So me and her go and smoke weed real quick,

me and the coworker. And my wife is not around us at the time. And I looked over at her and I said, if you want it, you better take it. And she knew exactly what I met. So we finished up smoking some reefer and we come back in and she goes into her bedroom. And my wife kind of looks at me like, what's going on? And I was like, just get in there. So she goes in there. And the coworker just aggressively kind of takes control of the situation, starts making out with her and stuff.

You know, clothes start getting shed. I'm there literally just rubbing my dick, like so excited that this has actually happened. Like, when I tell you, the coworker really wanted my wife, she really wanted. She immediately spread open her legs and wanted a taste of that pussy. And she got in there and she tasted it real good. And so at that point, when she's eating out my wife, I think, you know, hey, it's my time to finally fuck another woman. So I get behind the coworker and she stops eating out and she looks at me and she said, get a condom. And I was like, okay. So I went, got a condom, put it on. And I proceeded to insert my

cock into her while she was eating out my wife. It was like climbing to the highest mountain top, you know, and like man dreams. And it finally happens in me. Right. You got a girl bent over and you're banging her. And then she's going to Dad's Girl on Girl Action right in front of you with your wife. I know, I can't believe it. Like I'm still, I'm smiling right now, Kat. How hot was the co-worker? Was she hot? Decently tight body. Okay.

Yeah, decently tight body. Lacking on the tities, but the ass was to die for. Okay. So you have this hot. Now your wife's totally fine with you banging the co-worker, right? Like she was into it? No. Well, she was kind of into it, but not really.

Things go south quick, Kathy. Oh. She ends up leaving the room, literally pausing the threesome action, the dream, the dream life. and she exits the room. And so I lay on my back and her co-worker gets on top of me. So she actually starts riding me for a little bit when my wife exited the room. But eventually that kind of got a little awkward. I still wanted to keep going.

The coworker kind of hopped off and she was like, hey, I'm going to go talk to her. So she went, they talked for a little bit. I was all alone just like rubbing like a half hard cock and I was really sad. I was like, you're not going to be in trouble tomorrow and stuff like that. And then they both come back and they pretty much tell me that it's going to be like a girl, girl thing and I can just pretty much watch and, you know, enjoy myself like that. And I was like, that's cool with me. Right.

Better than nothing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So we finish it out like that. And the next day, yes, there were some tough conversations with the wife. Pretty much had to apologize kind of thing to her. But she had this emotion, this reaction to it where like she wanted to reclaim. me she knew i was in some other pussy and so she like gave me three times like back to back to back of just railing me that sunday yeah she made me coming her she made me coming her every time and i was

like okay you know this is this is not a bad sunday right right she wanted to make you hers again i totally understand that mentality but wait a lot of people listening because i get this all the time are going to be like how fucked up i mean here it is she gets to all your friends in the first end. She gets now to being a female, right? She's got the girl going down on her. She's allowed all of this, and you can't have anything. Well, what I would say to those specific listeners is don't feel bad for me.

I lived a great fantasy at that time. Believe me, I'm happy as hell. And it's just how it goes sometimes, you know. You take what you can get, and my dick did enter a new territory. so she's on the list, guys. All right. Calm down. Right. Yeah, that's so funny. You did have her, you were inside her for a little bit.

But you also, though, enjoyed, I'm assuming you really enjoyed the show, watching. Yes. And, you know, it's kind of new-ish. That's one of the second time that she's ever been with another woman like that. And I was actually at the first one, and it was nothing like this. Well, there was more scissering the first time around this time. That was like a table of content, just like. little note kind of thing, you know, a little notation there because there was toy play.

There was this time. This time. Yeah, the most recent time here was just unbelievable. And I got to participate. It was awesome. Right. So they did it all the first. When was the first time, like in high school or when you guys were a lot younger?

College. College. It was a roommate of her. And they did scissor in front of me. That was a great night. But you didn't do anything with her. Now, wait. So let's go back.

So she does everything with that cowork. Does she plan on like cooking up with her again? Do you know? Pretty much what I got from that Sunday extravaganza was that's why we're going on like a little pause of this. So it's pretty much where we've just been focusing on ourselves and our relationship. And it's really been pretty fun. You know, you don't always have to be a part of that lifestyle just when the opportunities present itself, you know. Right.

I think a lot of times when people listen to these conversations and these stories, they're just assuming that if you're down for stuff like that, you're just like the horniest people and you're doing it 24-7. You know, people have the lives. And a lot of times there is in the stories a lot of time in between. It's not like people are doing this. Unless you're like Casey, that gangbang queen. I mean, she's having, you know, gangbangs every weekend. You know, but she's like a one end of the spectrum. But that's not typically the norm.

The norm is like you guys, even people that are in the lifestyle are very open, have open relationships. It's not like every single weekend they're doing this shit. It's not easy to coordinate. People have lives and other things going on. So I understand that it doesn't happen always. But how about like foursum? What foursums have you had?

You know, I consider them forsoms, but very light. There was no true swapping of partners or anything. like that. It was pretty much just hands-on of two couples having sex kind of thing. So you guys, you guys, you having sex with your wife in the same room as other, as your friends or whatever? Is it always your friends that you're playing with? Have you ever had to go on to any apps and look for people? Or has all of this stuff always come, you know, through organically, through your friend group and her coworkers? 99.9% is what you just described. Tight-knit group. People would care about love. was known for a long time.

There was one time when we first moved to this new city that we're in, whatever city that is. We did try like an app that was for threesome specifically. And we actually found a couple down here. And we had a couple of date nights with them. We all knew what it was about, you know. We ended up having one solid-ass night with them where my wife did at least suck his dick a little bit. And I literally helped her fuck her husband.

And I was picking her up. She had a kicking body. Oh, the wife. Yeah, the wife. And so that was, so that's another time where I'm considering part of that for some count is that night, too. That was a great time. But things didn't go so well with that couple after that. And so it was all right.

They fell off. So that was the only one time you saw them. But the rest of the time it's been all your guy friends. I mean, is it like word on the street? did eventually like guys come to you and are like hey i want to bang your white but or was it you always picking the guys or her picking them i mean how did you figure out which one of your friends got to join in once again it's like life presents it you know so maybe maybe a friend would would stay later at a party and and ask for a ride or want to you know spend a night with me

you know something like that then that's pretty much like hey you know can i get a lisa bolski here And I'm pretty much saying, fuck, yeah, let's get drunk, let's party, and let's have a good time. Right. Now, does any of them become like regulars? Or they always like... Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

So, like I said, we call them arrangements. You know, it's like our specific things with them. And so our arrangement that's been the most consistent, and I pretty much call him our bull. You know, I don't know if that's a proper term. I don't know the terms like, but so he's like our, um, he's like our, um, our best arrangement. And unfortunately, he was my wife's best friend's boyfriend at the time. So that threw a whole different dynamic on things for sure.

Well, in what sense? I mean, if he becomes your favorite bull, was it a bad dynamic or it was great dynamic? I don't know. Tell me. Well, what I'm saying is that guy is dating my wife's best. friend. Right. So how does that happen? How does that happen? He's a good buddy in mine. And so, you know, he's around and, you know, we get drunk, we talk. We're open with each other. And so basically, you know, he wants a ride, you know, one night. And so the opportunity was presented to him and he took it. But your wife is also best friends with his girl. So how does, so does she like feel guilty afterwards the first time? and then she just keeps going back. I mean, how was she?

She felt very guilty. She felt very guilty. I did not. And then we just kept going with it because he has a, he has a dog on him. Like, shirt up, big wean, I think you call it. A wean. You listen to some old-ass episodes. I started from the very beginning, Cassie.

Oh, you did? I was along for the whole ride. Oh, I really have to apologize the first couple. I mean, I still interrupt people, but like not like, I think I did so much worse back in the day. I mean, I did try to curtail it as much as possible. So sometimes my. I hate to bring it up, but I miss Tommy.

I love that. Oh, fuck him. I know. I know. Oh, come on. He's a good guy. Anyone listening is like, who's Tommy? Tommy was my co-host.

No, he was the worst. I actually had to fire him. But it was a fun dynamic. It was totally different. But I would have never been able to do my show for this long with him. He was so fucking flaky. Let me tell you something that someone told me, One of my most successful friend who is a very, very uber successful person told me once,

don't ever start a business with anyone. Just do everything yourself. And it's fucking true. Okay, start a podcast, open up a gas station. And whatever you're going to do, do it alone. Very hard to do something with somebody else. It didn't work. But yeah, I get it.

He was kind of good. But let's go back to you. Sorry. So wait. So the wean. Okay, so she felt guilty. You didn't. But he's got, he's pretty well hung.

So what happened? Like she was like, I got to go back for more. even though, like, I feel guilty? Yeah. Yeah, like, she loved it. She absolutely loved it. And she, by this time, remember, this is, like, you know, deeper into everything. And she's more open, like, when it's just her and I, we still, like, kind of say things naughty to each other like this.

And one night she just let me have it. She was just saying how big and how wonderful his dick is. And she literally, like, had cravings for it. And I was like, me too. Me too. Like, let's keep this rolling. Yeah. And that's what we did. So she still sees him. That's an arrangement that is still around.

Yeah, kind of dying off. And they ended up splitting up. So he's not currently still her best friend's boyfriend. They've been separated for a while now. But when that arrangement first started out, they were for sure in a relationship. Yeah. Right, right. So the friend didn't know that she her best friend, oh, my goodness. So salacious. Yeah. Yeah. But then like it was sexy. because my wife would come to me and say, well, my friend was talking about her boyfriend's

car. Yeah. And I was like, oh, my God. And, like, you know what it feels like. And, like, that turned us on so much. Yeah, the cheating. So there was something about secretness of it that was a turn on to both you and her. Yeah.

We know that was kind of wrong. But it was very, very good in the bed. Now, does she always play with you there or does she ever play solo? Do you have any rules and regulations? How is it all set up? What do you mean? Like, does she ever go meet up with guys that she hooks up with these guys alone? Or are you always there?

We discussed that and we had not done that. I don't think I would be okay with it. I explained to you how I wasn't right outside the door. Like, I can't imagine being off-premises that was a really sketched me out, Kathy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, no, I mean, everyone's different. That's why. I mean, I just talked to a guy that's like only play solo.

I found that very interesting because typically that, That's not the case. Sometimes it's a little bit solo, a little together. Everyone's different. I'm just trying to get your story because that's what's interesting. You know, everyone can relate to different aspects of it. So you always are there because you're that conductor, right? And you're getting something out of it. A big part of your turn on is watching. How often do you get involved as opposed to watch? Do you get involved a lot of times? Like the guy's fucking her and she's like blowing you at the same time or are you always just watching? Like what are those situations happening? Are you a true cuck just watching? No, no. Whatever the term is that a cuck actually has fun too. Like, that's what I want. That's what I am. Like, I'm getting blows skis at the same time.

She's getting real. I love that, Kathy. I'm being serious. Like, if she's getting fucked doggy style and she's sucking my cock and, like, I kind of jammed at the same time, he's ramming, and it's like, it's incredible. It's incredible because the noise that, you know, comes. out of her mouth and like the look and the ecstasy that she's having you get what they call it spit spit roasting yeah and uh she loves it she loves it and you love it so you do get involved you're not

just there solely watching how many arrangements do you ever count those how many arrangements you've had quote unquote i mean at one point probably five different arrangements that just means five different buddies you know different rule set for different buddies you know i had one buddy that wanted an anal. I thought I'm absolutely not and I'll be watching. That's so funny. Did you hear that one episode I had where the guy was like, oh, I'm having a threesome with my girl and the only rule she

has is like you can't fuck the other girl in the ass and he's like, I can't wait to fuck her in the ass. I was like, you're such a fucking asshole. Like, your girl's giving you a hall pass and you're going to do the one thing that she doesn't want you to do. So that is one rule that you have no anal. You guys do anal together because I know that was on one of your list,

but I mean no anal with the guys ever? No, no anal with anyone besides me. me all 11 of those amos are with her. There's no ass play to me. One time I let her try a finger and she lost her trust with that. She like jam-packed it and I clenched and she was like skid in it. And I looked at her and I said, get it out. She took it out.

So my ass doesn't get played with. I did get a couple of rim jobs early on. But that was specifically because I needed to cross that off the bucket list. And those were amazing, Kathy. Really fucking awesome. Your rim jobs? Yeah, the rim jobs. Yeah, they were both with my wife as well.

It's just kind of like the golden shower scenario, though. You know, it's just something I wanted to get off the list, and then we never do it again. So I haven't had anal with my wife in like seven years back when she was my girlfriend kind of thing. Right, right, something that you did. You checked it off, not something that you think about all the time. Yeah, just real quick on anal. Yeah, too much maintenance, too much work.

Absolutely. You know, there's already a pussy that's wet for you. So take that. That's your PSA on the anal. So wait a second. Now, what about your guys reclaiming sex? Is it always like the hottest thing after the guys leave that your sex is even better? Like, how has it affected your guy's relationship as well as your sex life?

Yeah, amazing. With what you just asked there, yeah, the reclaimed sex is where it's at. That's the money hold because now you're feeling the love of like the relationship, the monogamous kind of a feel, but it's mixed in with knowing that she just got fucked by your buddy. and that, you know, there was one time where CUM was still in her, and I went in right after, or right after him, and it was amazing. Like, I did kind of feel the warm goo, and that made me not last very long. Right. So sometimes you don't use condoms.

You did say something like, oh, we use condoms, Kathy. I know you asked that question. Well, in that specific scenario, I forgot what I was talking about. But with the major arrangement buddy of mine, who had the big donger, he cannot. fit into like any condoms that I have stored. So that's all raw dog. Right. Okay. Now you guys are how old. So your wife's still super young. You're only 28. So she's also young. How many? Yeah, she's 26. Right. So how long have you been or like what do you see in your future? I mean, do you guys don't have kids yet, right? Nope, not yet. And that's probably

going to be the end game. That's where we're going to retire from this kind of taboo life. style and that's actually right around the corner and so I'm scared about being a dad but I really I think this whole experience this whole life of mine and hers that we grew together and we we opened up sexually like this it's only made it a stronger together and and I love being with my wife so for all the listeners out there you know it worked for at least this guy right and how about because you know, you did cheat on her and she found out. And so that's why she still has issues with you with other people. I mean, has it helped her with trusting you or how has it changed things for her? If she were, if I were to ask her that question, what do you think her answer would be?

Her answer would be absolute improved, you know, and it's brought us into a new level of trusting each other because this lifestyle, if you're going to be a, you know, cheating and stuff, like that, then you're risking losing that lifestyle. You're risking losing someone in your back pocket being your partner through all these great times that you could be at. Right. Yeah, that's a whole point. It's always like, why would anybody, if you have a girl or a partner who's so down

with something that a lot of people wouldn't be down with? Like, why would you throw that in the shitter by like just getting something new on the side? It's not worth it. You would think you get that you've got a great girl in front of you. You guys have been together forever since you're super young. You're obviously one of those relationships. that's like, you know, meant to be because a lot of people don't last through the 16 to 28.

You're changing so much and stuff. But it just seems like you guys are really on the same page and you've only grown together and grown closer. And that's great. And you've been through a lot for your age considering, you know, you got through cheating, you stayed together. You've had all these threesons, foursons, you've tried a lot of different things. So actually, you know, God knows where you're going to be in 20 years. one day would you ever think that you'd be in the lifestyle and go to like swingers clubs and shit like that?

No. Like I said, I feel like my story is already coming down, you know, the hill. Yeah. The climax was just experienced with another woman like that. That's all I've ever wanted to do in my whole life. Like I remember being an adolescent being like, oh my God, two pussies at once. That's the goal. And once I got that, I was like, you know what?

I lived a little boy's dream here today. And I'm ready for that, like, family lifestyle. I'm ready to just stop partying so much and have kids and have a house. I love my wife, too. We're, like, gray and dust, I guess. Yeah, and you'll get another phase after the kids get older. I mean, I totally understand that. I went through many different phases in my life.

And by the time I gave up partying and stuff, I was, like, ready to, you know, been there, done that. So I think that that's great that you guys have got a lot of that out of your system to the point where now you're 28 and you're like you've had so much SCX that you're like, yeah, you would love to now just be a dad and you'll do that. And maybe when your kids get older, you'll go back to doing other things. You know, you don't know, but you might be better prepared for that phase because you have really lived this phase to, you know, hundredth and 80,000 power. You know, I think you're exactly correct. Yeah, I think a lot of times,

a lot of people don't get a lot of stuff out of their system before they go to a next phase and therein lies a lot of problems for people, you know? I mean, when you have kids, it should be all about the kids and you really all about the kids, you have to be done with you. And that takes a while. So I think sometimes it's good to go and do what you need to do before that happens. And it sounds like you're probably really ready for that phase and that's great. Let me ask you a question.

Does your wife know that you're calling into that? the show or no? Yeah, ended up. I contemplated once I got your initial response of like you're kind of interested in talking to me. Yeah. Didn't know what to do. I was like, do I tell my wife? Do I not? And I was like, no, I'm just going to tell it. So I just went in there, told her, she didn't like the idea at first, but then I told her, you know, I think it might actually help someone out there. He was thinking about maybe dipping their toes into something like this and to let them know that work in this case, you know. Yeah. Yeah. For you guys. Yeah. Now, last question. If you had to, like, if you had to say why you think it worked for you as opposed

to other people that you've heard on my show, could you give an answer for that? Like, do what you say, like, what is the key to making this kind of a thing work? Well, I'm only like 35 episodes in, started from the very beginning, like I said. And so, you know, I'm like in the John era, which is fucking fantastic. Oh, my God. Yeah. But, but, but anyways. Why is it successful for us? Yeah. Yeah. it's successful for us because I think a huge factor is we're not getting random strangers. You know, that's one thing. These are people I care about.

I love them. You know, they're my drinking. That's an interesting angle. Yeah. You know, these are people I actually care about the next day. You know, I'm not kicking them out. I hear that all the time, you know, with all these escorts and stuff like that, you know. If I had the money and stuff like that in a different life, you know, maybe that would be for me.

But I'm a homegrown kind of guy, you know, Midwest values. and that's what we live by. Right. So these are your friends. These are people you know. You keep it close. It's tight knit. You and your girl are very open with each other, obviously.

You know, and it's not like... Yeah, trust is huge. Yeah, and it's not perfect. Listen, she had issues when it came down to that threesome recently, but she was able to tell you, pull you aside, you were cool enough to respect the way that she feels, whether or not it's fair or not. That's not what is what matters.

What matters is, Do you respect your partner's feelings? Whether it's right or wrong that she feels that that way that she could fuck everyone else, but you can't. What are you going to say? Like tell her not to feel that way. That's how she feels. And you were cool with it. And I think that that's great.

That's why you guys work. If you want to send in pictures, I don't know. I asked, you know, if she knows if you want to send in picks, people for my Patreon, people always get anonymous picks of my guess if you feel like it. That's totally cool. If not, I totally understand. I'm really curious of what she's going to think of this episode. when she hears it.

Yeah, me too. I can't wait to listen to her, and we're probably going to make love to it. We're after, so it'll be awesome. All right, let me know if you're going to send me pictures, because I'll add that into my intro, yes or no. Like, if you don't, I won't add it in. Ask her if you can, but it's like anonymous picks,

not X-rated picks. Like, you know, they could be sexy picks, whatever. People like to put, like, stuff like that, too, but if not, it's fine. And this will definitely be up soon. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. Well, thank you for learning me, Kathy. I had a great time and you have a great, great evening. You too. Thanks, Mooch. Bye.

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