Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 580 - Mike is Secretly into Guys, Gloryholes, Gangbangs, Swinging and a Whole Lot More

Episode Date: January 11, 2023

Mike is secretly into guys, gloryholes, gangbangs, swinging and a whole lot more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details which include his first hook up with his best friend at age 12, how it was nonconsentual and how it shaped him, his hook ups with another friend when he was 15 and what went down with him, how he got married at 21 and how and why he wound up going to his first adult bookstore ad what exactly went down there, why he loved the gloryhole so much, how he felt bad for cheating on his wife but why he couldn’t stop, how he eventually found out about cruising and rest areas and started hooking up with guys there, what he did with guys in the cars as well as what went down in the woods, thee first time he bottomed and how he felt about it, how. He eventually started going to bathhouses and enjoyed being exhibitionist and servicing guys there, how that led to him being gangbanged a couple of times, why he’s into transexuals and how he’s worn panties himself, how and why him and his wife started swinging and why that was the beginning of the end for them, how they started off soft swapping and then full swapping, the rules they had and how and why she broke them with a black bull, what exactly went down between them, how he felt about it and how and why it led to their divorce, his first experience with a black guy after their divorce and a whole lot more. His part two with a whole other side to this story comes out on Friday, so make sure to listen to this one and then stay tuned! **To see anonymous pics of most of my female guest + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I love doing those calls because I love analyzing people's problems and helping them. So if you want to do that, send me an email, strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. All of the information on how to get in touch with me is in the description. Now, today I have on Mike. This is Mike's part one. Okay. I'm going to air his part two on Fetish Fridays because he has a whole other thing that we didn't even get to on this podcast because there were so much other stuff to get to on this.

one. And this one we focus on all the guy on guy action that Mike has had since the get-go, as well as him and his wife's relationship. Like we got to that more towards the end, and it turned out that at some point him and his wife opened things up. They started swinging. That whole story is fascinating because it definitely broke them up. And when you hear about the big experience she had that broke them up, it's just a crazy story. It happens towards the end. In the beginning, we start off with his first couple of experiences with guy-on-guy action. It weren't really consensual.

It was when he was very young. Those are interesting stories. Definitely, he was wired a certain way and then got married really young and kept on seeing guys throughout his marriage. And he got really hardcore into it. And he talks about how that happened, you know, how he started just hooking up with friends. And then he started going to those video places, bookstores, whatever you want to call them. And going into the private rooms, getting into glory holes, all that kind of stuff. Then he started doing the whole cruising thing in rest stops.

He tells a lot of stories about that, which is really interesting. You know, people are hooking up in different ways at rest stops. And he talks about that and all the married many hooked up with. He's definitely a beta. He's a bottom. He talks about, you know, when he had those first experiences. And then he got into going to bathhouses. And he really loves going to bathhouses. He talks all about that. And then he gets into the fact that he's had a lot of gangbings at bathhouses. I mean, this guy just keeps throwing stuff out there. You know, and I'm like, well, you've had a gangbangs? Yeah. Gangbangs are like four guys, you know. And then that's like after that and all the bathhouse action that he really loves. And this is all going down while he's with his wife. Eventually him and his wife, this is when we get to that, he had like, they went through a rough patch and they decided, oh, let's fix our rough patch by becoming swingers. That's what they did, and it didn't end well. I mean, they did swing for a couple of years. He talks about that. And then he talks about this one scenario that was very interesting with the BBC guy and what went

down, why it broke them up. And then he talks about his own BBC experience. We end with that. And then like I said, he's going to come back on with his part two because he is a whole other thing to talk about, which is fascinating. You're going to want to hear that episode after you listen to this episode. But they both will be standalone episodes. You don't need to hear that to enjoy this episode. This episode is a full story. There's like 10,000 stories within this episode.

And then the thing that he comes on and talks about. is going to be a whole hour episode that, like I said, you will probably want to listen to after you listen to all of this. So I am going to be right back on with Mike. Hi, Mike. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm great. How are you? Good. So Mike, you live like a secret life. You're secretly bisexual, hooking up with dudes. Are you in a, I think you said you did it behind a wife's back. Are you marry now or are you like are you with the someone now you were married right before I was how old are you I was married I'm not now 48 okay cool so now but you been you were seeing guys behind your wife's back and this is

like something that you've been doing like when did that whole thing when did you hooking up a guy start well it started it started the very first time was with my best friend and we were probably 12. I've heard those kinds of stories. Okay, tell me the story. We got to, you know, start there. So this was, we lived two houses apart and he was my best friend. We were always together.

So we would sleep over each other's house all the time. And I never had had any kind of any kind of sexual experience with anybody whatsoever. in my life. And so he had slept over my house one night, and I woke up at whatever time, and he was touching me. And I didn't move. I was so freaked out, and I was terrified.

Yeah. So I pretended to be asleep, and he did it for however long. and eventually he just stopped and that was the end of it. And so the next day came, I never spoke about it. He didn't say anything, nobody said anything. And we just went on with life as we normally did. And so a couple of weeks later, he was over my house again.

And it was nighttime. We're in my room hanging out. And just out of the blue, he starts, like, wrestling with me. And I'm like, what the fuck? And next thing I know, he's sitting on my legs and he's trying to unbutton my dance. I'm like, honestly, in my head, I'm like, I was getting excited. But at the same time, I'm like, this is fucked up. Like, what's going on?

Yeah, for sure. And, yeah. And I, so I was. half-heartedly resistant. But at the same time, at the same time, I was scared again. I was really scared. And I just let it kind of happen. I can't even explain to you the mindset at that moment.

Because it was so, there were so many different things going on is what you're saying. So many things going off. Yeah. I knew I like girls. But at the same time, I was enjoying it. Mm-hmm. But were you horrified at all, too? like because he was kind of forcing it on you or no it was it was definitely it started out as

very very non-consensual right like he it was he it was definitely non-consensual yeah so like does what happens right after in that scenario do you remember like do you guys talk and i mean what were you pissed off you know i was definitely even to this day i've all i'm pretty much a beta kind of male, you know what I mean? Mm-hmm. And he was the alpha to my beta. So after this happened, this was the second time when I kind of allowed it to go that far. And then we were 12.

And then after that, this carried on numerous many times until we were like probably 14 years old. Right. Like, you know what I mean? Like the third time I eventually. eventually ended up blowing him. And I said, I don't want to do it. And he said, come on, come on, just do it. And I did it.

And I think from that point on, I was all in. So it went on to probably 14 years old. What stopped at 14? I moved away. I moved a couple of towns away. Then we weren't around each other anymore. So now my mind is all over the place. Like, I'm super attracted to girls, but then, you know, we go to, like, gym class, and it's mandatory showers and everything.

After the gym class, we had the shower. And it was not stalls. It was one big shower. And I distinctly can remember, like, being in the shower and looking at all my friends. And I was, like, going out of my mind. Like, you know what I mean? And, uh, you like deck. So I ended up, yeah, I ended up hooking with one more, one more friend at around 15 and a few times, you know,

carried on with him similar experiences. Did he like force himself on you in that sense? Or did you bring it up? I mean, how do you wind up at 15 with another guy friend? So he would, he would hang out over my house sometimes. and we'd be alone. And I don't remember if I initiated it or him, but somehow, you know, we ended up, like, touching each other

and he started, like, jerking me off, and then I would jerk him off. And, you know, next thing you know, we're blowing each other. And that was just always oral with him, just blow jobs back and forth. You had that scenario at 15. When do you start, really seeking this out and when do you and how old are you when you get married did you get

married super young and continue on with all this stuff i know i asked like five questions and one sorry you know i lost uh my virginity at that was close to 17 probably my with a girl yeah and uh it was great and i loved it and uh i continued on and i dated several women and i met the woman that i would married probably around 20 and I was married by 21 when I don't know why I did that I shouldn't have but I did everyone did back in those days yeah well 20 years ago still yeah I think my mother told me don't do it don't do it and I wouldn't listen and I did it yeah she's a smart bitch your mom that's funny uh she's yeah so now you're 21 you get married I would assume that when you have that first girlfriend and you realize you're into girls,

it must be somewhat of a relief to you. Because before that, were you a little bit like, what, what am I? What do I like? Like, you know, because, and I think, because I think the thought that, oh, my God, I might be gay is, is scary because of the way society looks at it and all that stuff that I think that if you're like, oh, I like girls, there might be some sort of relief like, oh, okay, I could have like this normal life and live and be open. and I don't have to go to that place where I would have to come out of the closet, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Right. And that was, to me, that was, that thought was terrifying because, you know, I could never, ever embrace that at that age. And, you know, I remember hanging out with all of my friends, like in my late teens and all of that. And, you know, I remember, I distinctly remember, like, there were guys around that you knew the gay. like there was no question you know what I mean and I can remember my friends bullying them and calling them all the

typical names you know Meanwhile you're all blowing each other it's so fucking hypocritical I am and I'm hanging out These are my friends That's what I mean The same friends that you're banging at home

Like I would be With them And guilty by association But I would never Actually you know say those things to them. Like I would laugh and try and join in, but

at the same time I'm like, fuck, this is this is fucked up. Yeah. Please, ridiculous. It was. I buried it for the longest time. Yeah. Yeah, of course, because it's easier

to do that. So now you're happy. You're like to get in a relationship. You get married, super young. Now, when do you start seeing guys behind her back? well the thing that happened with that is so we're together and 21 probably so that was probably it was years it was I didn't do anything I mean I would look at I'd look at porn like shit like that I had movies like hidden where she couldn't find them because she did not get into that at that time she didn't dig it at all yeah and so I would I would I would watch porn and stuff and she she caught me one time I'm I was watching whatever porn I was watching I think it was straight-born but so I'm watching this point I was

jerking off and she caught me and we had a huge fight like she was so pissed right and I was like fuck so I heard about these these video stores and I'm like all right what's that about so I end up going to one of these places and they have all the magazines DVDs and uh you know the sex toys and stuff and then there's a there's in the back of the store there's a doorway and it says arcade and um so I asked the guy I said what's the arcade and he says oh you can go back there and watch the movies a preview a movie before you buy it like really and so naturally I have to see it. Of course.

Yeah. So I go back there and there are all these booths. And you go inside the booth and shut the door and you can watch the movie. And there's like a frosted glass on the wall that separates the two. And there's a button in there and it says glass. So I press the button. and the glass goes clear and you can see into the other booth if somebody is in it. Oh, really?

I've never heard of that one. Yeah, it's crazy. And so you can press the button. If you both press the button, the glass goes clear. Right. So now you can watch. So I remember the first time I did it, I pressed the button, and the glass went clear, and there was a guy in there jerking off.

So I stopped it right away. I said, whoa. Yeah. Wait a minute. And I didn't do any more. So now I start going back to this place once or twice a week. And I'm pressing the button. I'm starting to watch.

And then I start jerking off and watching, you know, we're watching other guys jerk off while I'm jerking off. And that's how it started. And the next thing I know, another arcade and I go into the boots and there's holes the glory holes. Right. And, uh, yeah. How is that?

That was that? Now, is this a plate, like, now this is the, this is the first time, was this the first time you're cheating on your wife? You know, how do you feel that first time? Because you haven't, you hadn't done that in a long time, right? A long, long time. And the first, I can remember the first time just watching and jerking off in front of another guy, with the blast.

I felt really fucked up doing it. Yeah. It was really, it was turned, I was turned on, it was hot and I was, I came,

I definitely enjoyed it. But at the same time, I went home that night, and I was like, what the fuck did I do? And, you know, but I didn't stop.

You couldn't stop, probably. I couldn't stop. I couldn't stop. I had a compulsion to, I had to do it. It's like opening up Pandora's box. I mean, because this was something that you were into.

You knew that you were when you were younger. You put it on the shelf. You thought, okay, I'll go be, you know, like the girl thing was working for you. It was. And I think I buried it so far in the back of my mind that, you know what I mean? It was kind of gone. But it was there, but it wasn't there. How long are you married for, and do you go and do this stuff behind her back the whole time?

I started probably, you know, a few years into the marriage. And I did it basically the whole time, yeah. Right. Did you ever get caught? No. Okay. I never got caught. And now was it always, did you keep it always to that, you know, the video place and the glory holes and that stuff?

Or did you ever start to go online and hook up with guys outside of that video store? I didn't do the online thing, but I started with, I didn't hook up with guys from online, but I did start going online and reading different things and researching different things. And I had heard about, like, I had never really known about cruising and, you know, like guys who get into, like, a lot of the stuff I'm into, a lot of times they'll go to, like, rest areas and going to the yeah yeah yeah yeah that's a big thing and that's that's

a whole other story but oh no we're going to get to that well that's how I started to learn and I stuck to the video boots and the glories and I did that for a long time and I learned about these other things

so now I get you know I'm learning about cruising and I hear about the rest area thing and so now I start you know I'm out and on my way home or whatever it may be and it stopped I start checking out different rest stops and sure enough there's one that was actually on my way home and I started pulling in there at night and just watching what was going on and I could see guys going in and out you know like between the woods and I don't know exactly what they're doing. I don't know if they're going to take a leak.

I don't know if they're going in there hooking up. I assume it's probably both maybe, but I don't know. Yeah. So I get a little braver as time goes on and I start walking, you know, walking in the rest area. And I look, I glance at the cars as I walk by and I start to see that there's guys in the car is jerking off. And I'm like, okay, what's that about? And eventually, you know, I see guys they, like, signaling you to come on. Like, what's up?

And, you know, I started looking up with guys like that in the car. So they just call you into the car, not even into the woods. There's that stuff is going down in the woods different, too? Well, I started by going in the cars. I was a little scared to go into the woods. I'm hoping you eventually do. I'm hoping you eventually do so you can tell us what's going down in there. Well, yeah.

So eventually I start going into the woods. Okay. And there's guys, you know, in the woods. I see guys jerking off. I see guys blowing guys. And I'm like, oh, my God. And I started participating in that. And I started blowing guys.

And I can tell you, not all, but a lot, I saw a lot of wedding rings. A lot of what? Wedding rings, like a lot of wedding rings. Oh, yeah, for sure, of course. Listen, gay men don't have to hide out in the fucking woods to get blow jobs, you know? Yeah. I mean, I think they probably go too, but, you know, I think it's a lot of the times it's people like you on the DL having to do those, you know, go to those kinds of places to hook up. Yeah, I think you're right because I can tell you I saw many many wedding bands

Yeah, of course I'm like I'm not the only one No So now I'm blowing guys and uh It's in the woods guys are going in and out and You know I had never it had always been like I'd hook up with a guy and I was always the submissive guy like always the one on my knees

knees. And sometimes, you know, it would, sometimes it would be mutual, but a lot of times it would just be me. And so now I'm in the woods doing this, you know, blowing guys in the woods and guys are coming in and out. Next thing you know, I'm blowing two guys at the same time. Wow. And it just starts to escalate from there. And up until that point, I had never bottomed. I'd never been a bottom. Yeah, I was going to say, right. I kind of thought I was, but I never did. Uh-huh. And I go into the woods one night, and there's a guy, and I'm blowing him. I was, like, standing up, but I bent over, and I'm blowing. And I had a pretty big dick, and I'm, I was super turned on. And he spun me around and bent me over. And I'm like, oh, my God. And he started trying to put his dick inside of me.

Mm-hmm. And I was like, and I hurt, it definitely hurt. And he kept at it for a while. And I eventually, I was literally grabbing my ankles. And that's how I lost my virginity to a guy. In the woods? Wow. In the rest area.

Mm-hmm. And it was crazy. like I was so out of my mind at that point. I couldn't think straight. Like I didn't use protection. Like he fucked me raw. Yeah. And I was like, he came inside of me.

Uh-huh. And I was like, oh my God. And yeah, I thought about it after. I'm like, what the fuck did you do? Yeah, I can imagine. I mean, when you're that ride home, talk about a walk of shame. ride of shame. A ride of shame, like so many thoughts going through my mind.

Yeah. I just like this guy trucked me. He had no condom. I'm like, I don't know this guy from a hole in the wall. Yeah. And I'm like, oh, what if I catch something? Like, oh my God, like all these things are going through my mind. And at the same time, I'm like, I got, I'm trying to get home.

I got, I'm leaking, like, I got, I'm leaking out of me. I'm like, what the fuck the fuck. Oh my goodness. It was just crazy. But yeah, I was definitely hooked. And then so you would go back and get bottomed there. I mean, how many years did you do the whole rest stop thing? Did you stay to that one rest stop?

And would you see the same guys there? I never saw the same guys that I can remember. And I did, I stuck to that one for quite a while. And then I tried a couple of other different ones too. But, and I kept doing that for a long time and weather permitting. And then I started, you know, I discovered the bathhouse thing. And I started exploring law, which was a whole other scene because now it's a, it's a safer environment per se. The bath houses, really?

Yeah. You know what I mean? No, I don't know what you mean. Why is it so, why do you feel like it's safer? because you're inside, it's a public place, it's run by people, that kind of a thing. It's not like, you know. It's a bad, they're basically bathhouses for gay guys.

Yeah. I think a lot of, a lot of buy and straight guys go to them. Uh-huh. Quote on quote, quote, straight guys. Yeah. That's like a whole thing too.

Like I, I've given head to guys before and they tell me, well, yeah, I don't, I'm not into dudes. I'm straight. But at the same time, I'm sucking your cock and you're telling me your street. Oh, I hear that all the time. Yeah.

No, I did have a guy on my podcast talk about the fact that, yeah, no, they can be straight, but just be, you want to suck a dick every now and then, but I don't want to get into that right now. Let's keep talking about you. So you would meet a lot of guys there and like, you know, you're more, I would assume in a bathhouse, like you said, because it's more safe. I don't know. It's like a controlled environment that you would have more time to wrap. to people and talk to them than when you're just like at a rest stop in and out exactly and

it's definitely a controlled environment yeah and it's acceptable that's what goes on in the bathhouses like everybody's in towels you know what I mean I mean there's the showers there's a sauna and then there's all of these like there's these open public like open public areas with with gay porn on and then there are all these little private rooms. You can get a little private room and it's got a little twin bubble. And it's, you know, it's a closed off room with the door. And you can go in there and do your thing. Or you can do things out in the public, which was my thing.

That kind of became my thing. Oh, you were into people watching you. I started getting into that because it was a pretty, it wasn't a huge, place, but it was pretty big. And like, so there were all these hallways that would connect the different areas of this bathhouse. And guys would, like, there was one

particular hallway. It was kind of a little dimly lit, but guys would stand against the wall. And they'd just be jerking off. And that's like the signal, like, come on. Right. So they're just jerking off waiting for someone to come over

and take over. Right. Yeah. Right. Yeah. So I started doing that. Like, I started strolling out. Yeah. And I would, I would stop blowing guys right there. Wow. And yeah. And it just turned into a whole thing like with multiple guys. Like I would be, there were times where I would have five guys around me. You know what I mean? Yeah.

And I'd be on my, on my knees, sucking off five guys. Wow. You are the beta. I mean, you might. must have loved that as a beta. I love it. It's my thing. Like, I love servicing guys. It's crazy. Like, it's so crazy to me.

And I don't present as a beta in my everyday life. I don't. Yeah, but I don't you think, though, I do think sometimes like early experiences, Ken, why are you a certain way? And you did have that. I mean, you said you were a beta anyway, and you, you know, your little alpha friend. when you were young, really, you know, your first couple experiences were that kind of dynamic.

So that might have something to do with it. I don't know. You know, I'm a non-professional. Yeah. I mean, I think it kind of helped shape me into the person I became. Yeah, or why are you into that kind of scenario? Because that's, I think those early on sexual experiences are very supercharged. You know, your first orgasm, your first orgasm, your first.

couple hookups. They're very powerful. They definitely were for me. Yeah, for sure. You know? Yeah. And then I got into that whole thing. Like, like now that, that's my thing. Like, I still go. You do. You know, I still go to the bathhouse. Occasionally I'll go to the Glorials, but the bathhouse I really like. Like, I've got gang bangs. I've been gang bang me.

Tell me about that. Oh my goodness. I think maybe the title's going to be Mike has been, you know, gang-bbing by a bunch of guys. How many guys? I've had four at once. Okay. And all your bottoming to them or blowing them or all of the above? All of the above. All of the above. Right. Like the first, the first time they did that was three guys.

And so I'm in the bathhouse and, and, Like I said, there's private rooms. A lot of guys leave the door open. Yeah. So I go by this one room and the door's open and I look and there's two guys in there and they invite me in. So I come in and, you know, we start touching and this and that and the other thing. And the next thing you know, I'm blowing one of them.

And one of them, the other one of them, the other one is blowing me. And it turns into a thing. Now I'm sucking both their dicks after a few minutes and the door is open. another guy comes in and all three of them ended up fucking me and I'm sucking one

I'm jerking a guy off the other guy's fucking me it was you know what I mean and just wow right for you you loved it I loved it and I've done it I've done it with as many as four guys

and yeah at once I mean do you go to do you are you a a regular at like a specific bath houses or there are lots of different ones that you go to i mean do people know like oh here comes mike you know we could all fuck him tonight i'm a regular at one of them and there's another one that i go to occasionally right that has uh i like to go to it because they have they have a specific night once a month where it's it's cross-dress a tranny night

oh and what do you like about that uh i'm i'm into transsexuals I definitely am into them. I have been known to wear panties myself on the fusion. Okay, well, that's a little beta of you, the beta in you. I would think that goes together. That can go together. Yeah, I have several pairs. So funny.

Okay. Yeah. But yeah, I don't think I want to be a dresser per se, but I do like to wear them. I would never fully dress, I don't think, but I definitely can do panties and panties and pantyhoes and stockings and stuff, you know what I mean? Yeah, that's interesting, though,

that at the bathhouse they have that night. So it's like, it's a specific night where people could come cross-dressed or trans women show up, and is that what's going down there that night? It's, I mean, it's more of a cross-dresses than actual transsexuals. Cross dresses are fun.

I'm more affected to the transsexual. Because they look like more, they're more, they look like women more, right? They look like women. A lot of them have, you know, tits. Yeah, yeah. And I'm into that. Like, I definitely weigh into that. But they're hard to find.

Mm-hmm. Unless you want to go online and hire one. Did you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. Now, did you ever see anybody that you know at these bathhouses that you've been to? I've never seen anybody I've known at a bathhouse, no. Right, interesting. And I don't even know how I would react to that.

I've always made a point of, like, I never would want to involve any aspect of that part of my life with anybody that I know. Right. It's very secret. I mean, it's your secret life. You have it tucked away someplace else. I mean, it's not, you know, your two worlds don't collide. You don't want them to. I don't want them to collide. I don't think, I just don't think it would be good. Yeah. It's not something that I would embrace publicly. Right. It's what you do. It's your private own, it's your business. It's your own private business. Kind of sort of. It's that kind of thing. Like, and I'm not, obviously, I'm not. Obviously, I'm not. like I'm not a prude and and eventually you know my my wife and I you know we we hit a bad spell there where things were pretty pretty bad wait are you still with your wife I'm still with my wife oh I thought you weren't for some reason oh my not now today I'm not yeah you're not oh okay okay when you're doing all these gang bangs everything going in bathhouses you're still everything okay okay I'm still with my wife And you know

In the interest of being honest Like I when I When I bought them I'm pretty much always with a condom I don't do it Raw There's been times

I'm not going to lie They have been times But I typically would do it safe But Like blowing guys Like I never use condoms When I'm blowing a guy Or if I'm getting blown

I never used condoms Well you were just saying that Oh when my wife, you know, we hit a rough patch. What were you going to say about that? Because, you know, I have all of this going on and all these feelings and all these crazy desires. And, you know, eventually we started talking about maybe going to swing parties.

Oh, wow. Yeah. And she was kind of not into it. And we were going through this rough patch. I said, well, why don't we try it? Maybe that will, you know, maybe that'll spark things up a little bit and this and that. And we eventually, you know, I got her a lap dance at the strip club one night. And she kind of dug it or whatever.

And we started going to the swing clubs. And, you know, that was the beginning of the end for us. Yeah, I was going to say it's never something that's going to repair. broken marriage. It's kind of just be me, beep. No. Yeah. I mean, when you said, oh, maybe let's do this to spark things up a bit, that would be the worst thing to do.

And it turned out to be the worst thing. I mean, depending on how you want to look at it, I mean, it led to my eyes. I mean, you know what I mean? But at the same time... You were on the road there anyway. I think we were definitely on the road there because it just

wasn't going that that well, but we did that and stayed together for, you know, a few more years like that. And I used to get off on seeing her with women and other men, you know, but she, we always kept it kind of, we didn't get too crazy in the beginning, and we just kind of were more voyeurs than anything. And then it started like, you know, soft swapping, and couples. and, you know, eventually it led to, like, full swap kind of stuff. Mm-hmm. And, you know, she started fucking other guys, and I would watch. And I used to dig it, but I think she was digging it a lot more than I was.

Oh, and did that, it was at the, what, I mean, how did it lead to your demise? Did she wind up hooking up with some other guy that you had swapped with or something? I mean, how did it end things for you? Well, we had kind of had rules, I guess you could call them. Yeah. Like when we would go into these things. And, you know, it would never be anything, nothing would happen unless we were both there and on board. And that's the way it was.

And there would be no kissing. Like, that was one of the things we had, like, no kissing. guys, no kissing women. For me, she could kiss girls, but she wasn't supposed to kiss guys. You know what I mean? And you weren't hooking up a guys in front of her or anything like that? No, never.

Okay. Never. And so we had gone to a party one night and we were hanging out, we were having a drink talking, and I started talking to these people that we knew and she was across the room. So I see her and she's talking

to this guy and he's they're having what appears to be a pleasant conversation and uh he was a really big dude and uh like a big dude tall like a big guy and uh he he happened to be a black guy and uh so time goes by and she comes over to me and she said i don't even remember his name he wants to uh know if we want to if we want to if we want to go upstairs and hang out meaning this guy. So I looked at her and I said, well, is that what you want to do? And we had never done a, like a threesome with a dude. And I said, you know, is that what you, do you want to do that?

And she looked at me and she just kind of said, yeah, I want to do it. And I said, are you sure? And she said, yeah, I said, let's go. And, you know, we still had these rules in place. So we go and, you know, the three of us go into a room. And, you know, we start fooling around. We all get naked. He had an enormous dick, like one of the biggest dicks I've ever seen in my life.

So we're in the room and she's blowing him. She's blowing me. We're going back and forth. And she gets, you know, she ends up on her back and I go down on her. her and I'm eating her out and she's sucking his cock. And it was hot. Like it was a good time. I was having a great time.

And we start switching off. And the next thing I know, I look up and they're kissing. And I'm like, okay. Like that's not supposed to happen. Mm-hmm. And we're in the moment. Like, I'm like, all right, we'll deal with this later. Let's just see where this goes.

you know and I'm up on my knees by her head she's on her back at this point and he starts going down on her and she's blowing me and you know he starts moving up and he's grinding on her so I back off a little bit and eventually he's in her and he starts to fuck her

and I'm like okay no condom that was another rule he'd never condom on and you know he was it was only supposed to be with condoms and he starts fucking her and they it was beyond fucking it was making love you know what I mean that that's what it looked like to me like he totally forgot about me I it was almost like I wasn't even in the okay like they were having passionate sex like but she had just met him and just and she had just met him okay and like he he's they're going at it like they're making out he he's he's balls deep in her and she's making sounds like I I've never heard her make before you know what I mean

yeah and he's he's fucking her and fucking her well but it's the only way I can put it to you yeah and she ends up like the bed is soaked She had never squirted. She squirted it all over the place. And I was like, what the fuck? I swear to God. And, like, you know, when it comes to women, like, I'm fucking or whatever. Like, I can go for, I don't know, 10, 12 minutes, maybe, and I'm fucking coming.

You know, unless I stop. And he was just, like, fucking banging her. on to ever. Right. Like all different positions. And it was like a life movie. That's what it was like. And he came inside her.

It was a whole fucking scene. All the rules were broken. And I'm mad, but in the back of my mind, I'm like, well, who the fuck am I to do to criticize him? And it finally ends. And we're all kind of sitting there just reflecting, I guess, or whatever for a moment. And I'm like, okay, I got to go to the bathroom and I leave the room.

And I go and I go use the bathroom. I wash up a little bit. And I come back in the room and they're going at it again. I'm like, what the fuck? Okay. Yeah. And at this point, I'm like, okay, what do I do? I didn't know how to react to this.

It was too good. I mean, she was into it too much. It was making you jealous. She was into, yeah. She was into it too much. Like, and, uh, I mean, they're, they're right in front of me. They're fucking again. And I mean, they know I'm in the room.

She, she continued to do it. And they just went on about it. And they finished and, you know what I mean? So now the night comes to an end. And, uh, she knows. knows that I'm not happy. And we walk all the way to the car. Nothing is said.

We're not talking. We get in the car. And I just look and I go, what the fuck is that? Like, what just happened? And she said, I don't know. And I'm like, you don't know. Like, what does that mean? You don't know.

and she said, you know, I've never experienced anything like that before. And I said, well, what are you telling me? And she's like, I want to do it again. And I'm like, what are you telling me? And she's like, I don't even remember what his name was. Yeah. But she then proceeds to tell me that while I'm in the bathroom. Oh my goodness. She got his number. He gave her his number. And he asked her if they could hook up,

you know, on their own. And she ends up telling me this. And I'm like, well, what did you say? She took the number and she said she didn't answer him either way. Okay. And so I'm like, well, why didn't you tell him no? And she's like, well, I don't. I don't. And she's like, well, I don't don't know that I want to say no. And I'm like, are you fucking kidding me? Oh, no. Yeah. And I'm like, why would, why, why would you say that? And she's like, I want to do it again.

She said, I loved it. She said, I've never had sex like that in my life. And I'm, I'm like, what am I supposed to do with that? Yeah. And she goes, she started the whole argument about how it was my idea to stop this. And, you know, and this and that and the other thing, and she's like, why should I not be able to enjoy something like that if I want to? Yeah, it is a hard. I mean, you got to kind of understand her argument when you open up Pandora's box like that.

And you say, hey, go fuck other guys. And every other guy, you're enjoying it. And she's allowed to. And then she meets one guy and he fucks her real good. Like, why can't she have more of that? You know what I mean? Yeah, and I did understand it, but I didn't like it. Yeah, and I can understand you.

You know what I mean? I can understand how you feel and why that feels different to you. And therein lies the problem that you're both kind of right, you know? Yeah. But she needs to, so what happened, though? Go on, sorry. So needless to say, I said, you know, I don't want to go to any more parties for a while. Yeah.

I think maybe we just need to cool this off for a bit and take a step back. And she was kind of like, she wasn't digging that too much, and she didn't like the idea. And, you know, we just, from that point on, we would fight over the stupidest shit. Right, because you both had, like, resentment. Yeah. Any little thing would cause a major, major blowout. Yeah. And I'm like, wow, what the fuck.

And this went on for a few months. And she finally said to me, you know, I want to get with him. Wow. And I'm like, I can't sign off on that. I'm like, I can't do it. Good for you. And we, yeah. And, you know, we just eventually came to the conclusion that maybe it was time

for us to start going on separate ways. And, you know, that's kind of what happened. Do you know if she ever wound up hooking up with that guy again? She did. Oh, really? How did you find out? Did she tell you? She told me. Mm-hmm. She told me, and I heard about it because we had been going to those kind of potty's

for a while, so you get to know people. It's always a lot of the same people. Right. Yeah. Uh-huh. So, you know, I start to hear things because I talk to some people. and, you know, they would go to some of the parties. And it eventually fizzled out, I guess. But I can tell you, like her and I still talk to this day. Your wife. Do you have kids with her?

We do. Okay, yeah, okay. And we still talk to this day, and we actually, you know, we get along pretty well. That's cool. That's good. It is. It's all right. But she is pretty much exclusively dating black guys now.

I swear to God, that's a God's honest truth. Yeah, she should thank you for that. You turned her on to it. Yeah, it's like she is all about black guys. She got hooked. I mean, I think of some, you know, I mean, she said she squirted for the first time. It was something like major. is you probably just got really into it.

That's interesting. It was really, like, I, all the shit that I had been doing over the years, I, I never did anything with black guys. Mm-hmm. Never. Not even, like, I never, like, I would always go away from that because I wasn't attracted to black guys. Mm-hmm. And, and up, I mean, up until probably, I don't know, maybe. Three months ago, I hooked up with a black guy my first time.

And? And so this was at the bathhouse, and I went there, and it was kind of dead. It was kind of dead that night, and I had just got there. Yeah. And I always have a bag with me that I bring in. So I'm walking in, and I got my bag, I'm going to my room, and I pass him in the hall. He's already in his towel. He's been there.

and he stopped me and he said, what did he got in that bag? What he's done that bad? So I said, I just have some of my stuff in here. And he's like, oh, what are you got in there?

So I told him, I had all my shit, you know, towels and bat shoes and lube and condoms. And he's like, oh, well, maybe I'll see you later. And I'm like,

okay. So I go and do my thing for a while and I'm coming out of my room and he's walking down the hall in his towel. So I stop and he opens up his towel. And I mean, he had a huge dick. It was really big and I was like, wow. And I'm like, what are you going to do with that? He just told me he was going to use it on me and I kind of went along with it. Yeah.

How was it? It was fucking amazing. Like, I'd never been fucked like that in my life. Wow. Isn't that so interesting? Now you might, now you understand your wife, your ex-wife. Listen, I'm going to tell you, we went into my room. Yeah.

And I don't know about it. I couldn't tell you inches. Yeah. It was eight all day, if nothing. Yeah, yeah. Like, he was in my throat. Wow. and uh you know eventually i ended up

on my belly and he started to put it in me and it was fucking big it took a little bit and once i got comfortable and uh i mean he fucking railed me for probably half an hour wow so it is like you had that same experience like your wife it was like something like you've never experienced that's all i could think about yeah that's all i could think about while it was happening.

And I was like, what the fuck? And like, you know what I mean? Like pounding. Like he was like, you know, skin slap and bang and like that kind of pounding. For a long time. And for a long time. Like pulling my hair and smacks my ass. And yeah.

And I, fuck. Fuck. Yeah. It's so funny that now you could look back and realize what she went through and why she felt that way. Do you feel like if you could, you know, and maybe that's why you were so freaked out about it because you had never experienced a black guy and you weren't as into it. Then, you know, it wasn't something that was attracted to you because I would think as a guy who was into guys, you liked watching your girl with guys. It was probably a turn on for you too because you were into guys. but at that point because you weren't into black guys,

her with that guy didn't turn you on, whereas I think a lot of other guys would have loved that scenario. But yet, for you, it freaked you out. It definitely freaked me out. But so many years later, you had the same experience. It's awesome. It's hilarious. And then I had the same experience.

And I can tell you honestly, in that moment, while that was happening with me, like I was completely turned out I would have done anything he told me to do just like your wife break all the rules

get the fucking number to end things with your husband just for another fucking night with him yeah I would have done anything he told me to do he was one of those times

like I no condom again and one of those I just I couldn't stop myself like your wife that is that's like one of the best stories I've ever heard. It's hilarious. I can't believe you waited to the end

to tell me all that. You're swinging and with your wife and that whole story alone could have been a whole episode, you know, because then it would end with her with the guy, the BBC and then with your BBC. I mean, there's so much

to this episode. I love it, you know, from and we started back when you were 15, 14. Yeah. That's, yeah, like it goes on and on and on. Yes, I know. You are going to have to come back on because there's a whole other thing going on that I don't want to tell people about, but you'll be back on to talk about that.

Because I feel like if I said it, it would add so much an extra layer that we'd have to talk about for 45 minutes in this. But that will be what's interesting for your part too. But thank you so much for calling in and sharing all this. Are you currently with, one last question. Are you currently with anybody or are you single? I have a girl that I guess it's kind of like I mean it's kind of like a girlfriend I mean I don't see her all the time

but I see her right so you're kind of seeing somebody but you're still seeing the guy thing and you're at the point though now I think you said in the beginning that you might date a guy if the right guy came around you might be open to it I might be open to it I mean and the girl the girl that I see now I mean she doesn't know about the guy stuff. Yeah.

But she knows everything about my ex pretty much. Yeah. And, you know, the things that we used to do. Mm-hmm. And she's, you know, alluded to the fact that she might be interested in going to some of those kind of body sometimes. Oh, okay. She's never done anything like that. Mm-hmm.

And, you know, I struggle with that a little bit. it because I don't know if I want to go down that road with you. Oh, of course. I do. I do and I don't. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But maybe it's a way for you to bring up. Because like, did you ever think to, you know, moving forward to try to be with a woman

that you could be open about you being into guys too? And then you'd have like the best of both worlds. You'd be able to be really who you are. You'd be in relationship with a woman. If she's open and you're down to, you know, swinging and stuff like that, she would allow you to be with guys too. I honestly, I would love that. Yeah.

But I don't know how to bring it out. I don't know how to broach that subject. Yeah. Yeah, I think it's hard for sure. But I think it's easier to do that with somebody new. So if you're still just, and I think it would be easier if you do open up to going to parties or swinging with couples or something and, you know, you could maybe then start talking about that.

But, yeah, that's hard to put stuff like that on the table. But like I said, I think that maybe, you know, live the next half of your life being more open instead of having to do all that stuff on the DL would probably be really freeing for you. I think I would like that. I definitely think I would. But at the same time, like, even my ex has made comments.

And like, she's made comments before. like she'll ask me if I'm seeing anybody or this, that, and the other thing. And I don't tell her, like, she has no idea about the guy thing. And I don't tell her if I'm seeing a woman or not. Mm-hmm. Why not? And she jokes, because I don't know.

I just don't even, I don't know why I don't want to tell her that, to be honest with you. I just don't. Yeah, that's ridiculous. I know. I can't be able to answer. Well, think it out. What do you mean? don't understand. You won't tell your ex-wife that you're even dating a new girl. Are you still

holding on to that repast relationship on some level? I mean, we were together for a long time. And I, I mean, I always will have feelings for her. I, I don't, I, I don't want to be with her. I know that. Okay. But at the same time, I, I still have some, on some level, there's feelings there. I mean, I'll, I'll always have them. Right. And, uh, I don't know. why I just like she'll ask me and I'm I'm like no no I'm not dating anybody no no no and I don't know why I don't want to share that one I don't and uh I can't give you an honest answer because I really don't know I just don't want to share that father I like with her and every time she asks me and I tell her no and it's been a long time you've been a pot and she'll say maybe you're gay oh my god that's

hilarious yeah because she's like, why haven't you been with a girl since? She's, like, confused. And it's funny because she doesn't know the real truth, which is all of the above. Like, you are fucking, not gay, but you are into guys and you are seeing girls and you're not telling her anything. You're still lying to her. Right.

Oh, my goodness. And she always says, she says, don't let me find out, yeah, yeah, like doing shit with guys. Like, but she's joking. But I think it's maybe in the back of her head she might think something I don't know. Yeah, she might not even know what she knows. And I say, what do you mean? Don't let you find out.

Yeah. And she said, if I found that out, she said, I'd be pissed. Of course, because listen, she would think you cheated on her the whole time what she did. Exactly. Yeah, you don't want her to find out. Like, I just don't want to tell her anything. Yeah, but if you told her a girl, she'd haul off, she'd stop asking you about the guys. I mean, she's asked you about the guys because you've been apart for so long and you've never

you know, according to her, according to you, what you tell her, you've never been with a girl. So why wouldn't she think that it doesn't make sense? Right. Yeah. And eventually, maybe when you want to, you're going to meet somebody that you want to maybe hang your hat with, again, whether it's a man or a woman. And you're going to maybe want to tell her when the time is ready. I don't know what that's about. I can't get into it now, but I wish I could because I do like analyzing things.

but I'm going to wrap it up. I love this story. It'll definitely be up. Next Wednesday, I'm going to put it up. I have my one for Monday already, but it's going to be up next Wednesday. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing this. It was so many, like I said, it was so many different layers. I don't even know what I'm going to title it, but it's a good story, Mike.

Thanks so much for sharing it. Yeah, no, you're welcome. It's my pleasure. I enjoy your podcast a lot. All right. And then we're going to do the part two, and people are going to find out about a whole other thing that Mike is into and down with a little bit. And it's very interesting. You're going to have to stay tuned for that.

We're definitely going to do that one, okay? Yeah, I would be down to you. I think it has a lot to do with what I am the way I am. All right, great. So everyone stay tuned for Mike's part two. It's going to air this Friday. You're going to get to find out what else he has up his sleeve. It's very hard down his pants.

It's very interesting, and we're going to talk about it. So I'll talk to you soon, Mike. Thank you. Thanks for calling out. Bye. Bye. Bye-bye. Hey, everyone.

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