Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 582 - Jade and her Husband Hire Male & Female High End Escorts to Live Out Their Fantasies

Episode Date: January 16, 2023

Jade and her husband hire high end male and female escorts to live out their fantasies and she called in to talk all about it. How and why did they decide to open up their marriage? Why do they solely use escorts for their hook-ups? What kinds of fantasies have they lied out so far? Tune in for all the details including how her copping to an earlier threesome with her friend got them talking and how that led to them having threesomes together, how his fantasy was two girls any how at first he didn’t want to see her with another guy, how sex toys to dirty talk led to them looking online at women they could hire, the first female escort they hired and what exactly went down, their rules they had with each other going in, what she digs doing with the females as well as what she won’t do and why, how and why she’s not into seeing her husband have sex with the escort and how he feels about that, how and why they both enjoy having sex together while someone watched them, how she felt weird about things after the first time and why she went back and did it again, the second female escort they hired and what exactly went down with her, how her husband eventually got turned on by the idea of her with another guy and how that led to them looking for male escorts, the difference in the price of high end male and female escorts, the difference between the stigma of male vs. female escorting, what they wanted to do with the male escort and how involved he husband wanted to be, how he definitely wanted the other guy to have a bigger dick than him, the famous male escort Jake they hired and what exactly went down, how and why her husband thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience, the second male escort they hired and what went down with him, what they paid extra for and how and why things went awry, how she sees the fact that he allows her with an other guy as strong as opposed to weak, why they prefer escorts over going online and meeting singles for threesomes and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of JADE plus most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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You can't cancel it at any time. I have picks of Jade who's on today and she's really hot. So you'll see those if you want. But that's my guest today. Her name is Jade. Now in the beginning you hear me saying like, oh, it's going to be Jade and then her husband Thomas, but Thomas never made it on because Jade was just talking and wound up filling up the whole hour. So we just kept her on. Jade and Thomas have been married for a while. They eventually

opened up their relationship. But the way they opened up is kind of different and more specific. It's kind of different than a lot of my other couples who open up their relationships and go hook up and have threesomes because they only have done it with high-end escorts. Okay, they get a five-star hotel. They hire a high, what is it called? High-end escort, and they get down. Now, how that came about, they talk about it. Who they hired, she talks about it.

It happens to be two guys and two girls. Sometimes I say too much in the intro, but I'm going to give you the scoop of what she's going to talk about. because you don't get the details. You're going to hear her give all the details, but they hired two women. They hired two guys, and she goes into the whole story of what went down with each of them. She does talk a lot about why they do it this way in Australia. It's legal so they could hire through this escorting.

And she gives a name of the guy she hired because he happens to be, one of the guys she hired is he happens to be kind of famous, and he's been on a lot of YouTube shows and stuff. So maybe people have heard of him. her guy loves seeing her with other guys and he prefers for the guys that they hire to have really big dicks. So that is like their thing. And let me tell you, this couple was not always like that. He was a guy that was like, I could never see you with someone else. And now he's like not only totally down with it, he loves it.

And he wants her to be with guys who are bigger than him. He likes to film it. He loves to watch it. she has done stuff with women. She is not into seeing him with the women, but he is able to get blow jobs from them. So that has gone down. She does a little fooling around with the women.

She talks about exactly what has happened with all of them, all of the stories, how opening up their relationship and doing this kind of stuff with other people has only helped their relationship and made their sex life even better. She gets totally into it, talks all about it, gives all the details. So I'm going to get right back on.

So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Jade. Hi, Jade. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. I think you just said you're so excited to be on. I am. I'm so excited to be such a huge podcast. It's been over 500 episodes, I think, right? Yeah, almost.

I mean, I'm going to be at 600 soon. So you're like going to be my, I don't know. I've taped a lot more, though. Like I'll probably tape 700 episodes. But I have you on. first, Jade, and then we are going to have your husband on. I like doing things a little bit different. Sometimes I have the guy in first and I leave the girl as a teaser at the end because

most of my listeners love when they hear from the girl, but we're going to do you first. Now, what I love about your story, there is a little bit of a twist that I haven't heard about. You know, you are a hot wife. You're a couple that you share or you have, you bring other people into your relationship. but you stick to high-end escorts, right? Are you a hot wife or are you like a cut queen? I mean, is it that you're just sharing? Are these high-end, I'm assuming when you say high-end escorts and females, or is it men?

I mean, who are you guys hanging out with that you're paying for? Okay, so I don't know how to sort of start this. So we do use an escort agency here in Australia, which is considered a high-end escort agency. Yeah. They have females and they also have males. We've used a female twice and we've used a male twice. Oh, interesting. So you stick, though, to that.

Yeah. If you're interested in it, I think the most we ever paid is $1,700 for two hours. Is that U.S. dollars? Sorry. Oh, no, this is Australian dollars. Oh, okay. I got to do the conversion. I don't know what conversion.

Yeah. So, yes. Okay. Let's go, okay, but I find this fascinating. And that's what you only strictly do. You have never brought in a man or a woman outside of that escort agency that you, right, that you've met on the apps or anything. Correct.

Yes. Yeah. So we use an escort agency based on the fact I've got a few rules. And obviously catching feelings is one of the rules. And I think I just, I've got, not that I've got high morals or anything, but I just feel that if you use apps, you might end up with married men. And then the wife doesn't know about it, that kind of thing. And I feel like with escort agencies, you can also sort of cater to what you want and they

adhere to the rules. Yeah, I can think of a lot of reasons why it makes sense. Absolutely. And would work. But let's go back to the beginning, though. How did you even decide? Because I remember in your email or wherever you, I think you DM me on Instagram, were you saying like, oh, if you would have a.

told me I would be doing this five years ago. I'd be like no fucking way. So how did you guys even get to this point where you were going to this escort agency and hiring your first person? Yes. So I'll give you a bit of backstory. We've been married since 2019, but going out for 13 years now. My husband's only had one girlfriend before me and I had slept with probably about 10, 11 men before him. There is an age gap. So he is five years younger than me. And so both of us, obviously he's only had the one relationship.

But both of us have pretty much been monogamous in the relationships that we've had. By the way, you send me pictures. And you look like you're 12. I mean, look, you look really young. Oh, okay. I'm 41. I know. I know.

And that's like, oh, she looked damn good. I'm not going to show your face picks on my Patreon, but they'll be anonymous. But I saw your face. I'm like, oh, she looks like baby. Of course, you naturally would be more suited for a younger guy because you probably look more his age than your age, you know? Yeah, I do. I do. And now that he's, yeah, he won't let me say this, but he is going bald and we look the same age.

Yeah, he would hate that. But he's, yeah, he would do look the same age. No, you probably look younger than him. Probably. He's got, he works very hard, love of stress. So what was I saying? I've lost my, I've lost my train of thought. Because I interrupt people and people complain.

No, so you're married for all that time. There's the age gap. You're both monogamous. Yeah. Before. And then, yeah. And so somewhere nine years into our relationship, I bring up the fact that I had a very drunken,

threesome with a friend of mine and her guy at the time. And it was something I can't even really remember. and it was like a drunken mess, but I bring this up. And all of a sudden he's super interested and he's asking all these questions and tell me about it. And I can't remember any of it because it's like, this was years ago, we were drunk. I can barely remember what happened, but he just gets super excited at the idea. And obviously I think, oh, it's because it's two girls and one guy and that's every guy's fantasy. And it was at the time his fantasy as well, obviously.

And I think with my husband, he's very gentle and he's really, he's very, he does everything for me. And I just saw him in a new light. The fact that this aroused him made me feel like he, he was more, I don't know, just he would just look different to me because I always, he's got this extremely squeaky clean image. So he, his line of work, he has to be super conservative. So he's really conservative. He's got a really squeaky clean image. So when you sort of find out these things about your partner, you think, oh, you are just like,

you know, other guys. You do have these fantasies and interests. It was kind of, it was kind of relieving, yeah. Yeah. So from there, we started to talk to each other about our fantasies. And then we thought, oh, let's have a look at this escort agency. And we didn't do anything for, I reckon about a year. We didn't do anything.

It was really just toying with the idea, playing with the communication got a lot better. as everyone will always tell you. And we, yeah, it was just a lot of, it was a lot of sex talk in the bedroom, if that helps leading up to it. It was a lot of talking about it in the bedroom. Yeah. And I think it's safe to say,

a lot of people will say it didn't, it helps a relationship, but it didn't, we didn't need it to enhance a relationship. But every, you hear a lot of people who swing will say, oh, our communication improved. And it really does improve. and your sex gets better leading up to it and you have more of it leading up to it. And even after it, you have more sex.

But it wasn't something that we needed. So he had, he's the first guy that I've ever used sex toys with because I've not really believed in sex toys before him. And then we started going to sex shops and using sex toys. And me and my friend were laughing because we were like, oh my God, we discovered vibrators at 37. Like, we've been missing out on these orgasms for years. So we went from sex toys to dirty talk in the bedroom and obviously and then to looking at girls.

And yeah, it's always fun. Sounds really bad because I don't know how to say this, but it's always really fun looking at the pictures of the escort and it's kind of like shopping. Yeah. But, you know, not in a derogatory way. I don't want to say that. Obviously, it's all legal and they're, you know, they have to be registered and they get their shot and not their shots. They get their blood tested every three months and things like that.

Oh, wait, wait, that's interesting. It is legal in Australia. I didn't know that. Yes. It is legal, not on the street. I'm pretty sure it's not on the street. I think it's legal the way, yeah, this escort agency is a legitimate escort agency.

I'm one of the guys that we have used has been, I'll send you the link later on actually, has been on YouTube and he's promoted it. Right, right, right. Okay, cool. So they need to be registered. Obviously, they can't just do it at the back of a car. And they, yeah, they get to.

for STDs every three months and things like that. Now when you first started to go look and you decided, oh, let's go looking for people. Was the fantasy that you guys were role playing out? Was it you and him and a girl at first? Yes. So it was me and him and a girl at first. And yeah, so and that was, it worked for us. And he used to say, oh, I could never imagine you with another male.

When we first met, I'll go back a bit. He wasn't controlling, but he was very insecure. And he would always say things like, you're too good for me, you're too pretty for me, when you're going to leave, you know, that kind of thing. And I hear this a lot. This is why it's interesting, is I hear a lot of the men on your show often start out either controlling or insecure and they get to this point, which is really interesting, where they're like, yeah, I want to watch my wife have sex with another man.

Yeah. And it seems to be a going trend. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And yeah, I think it's interesting. I've heard someone say once. It's only as big of a deal as you make it. And I believe that that's true. And I think there is a, they're sort of elated once you see your wife with another man and then they don't leave.

And yeah, I think that kind of fills you with some reassurance. Like if she wants, yeah, I don't know. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. That what like your biggest fear actually happened, but like what you were, what you were. But you haven't gone anywhere. Yeah, but you're right. But what you thought was going to happen didn't happen.

Not like what your biggest fear was. Your biggest fear is that they're going to leave you. But you wind up opening it up and they don't and they're there. And your relationship is just better for it. So you wind up being more secure. Yeah, correct. Correct. That's right.

So the first thing is that you're looking for another woman. Now, in that scenario when you're looking for another woman, because you were saying, you know, he was not interested in seeing you with another man. were you at that point interested in seeing him with another woman or were you interested in being with another woman yourself? Like what was what were you guys fantasizing about? Okay. Yeah. So it was.

So the deal, what he wanted to see is it's always been I want to see with another woman. I want to see you with another woman. Yeah. And I don't consider myself bisexual at all. But I guess I would like anything from the waist up, which to me doesn't make you bisexual. But that's just me. like I'm not into vaginas at all, much to his disappointment. But you like tits.

Yeah, I like boobs. And it has to be like really big boobs. And I think because I don't have any boobs. Well, I've got some. But yeah, I just think I want to see some boobs. So we had a look for a girl who was really warmly. And we ended up finding a girl on this escort agency. And the first one didn't go so great.

there was a lot of mixed emotions. So she ended up not, and it's really bad, not looking like her photos at all, which is, but she was lovely. And we, you know, she came in and obviously we're just newbies and we no one knows how to get this party started and eventually she had brought out like a game, you know, like on those dice games where you like lick necks and suck boobs or whatever. And then we, I ended up making. making out with her on the couch and that led to the bedroom.

And she went down on me, but I just could not bring myself to go down on her. And it's going to sound really bad. I don't know if I can say it, but she was quite smelly down there. No, that's terrible. I mean, you could say it, but that's fucked up. Yeah. Did you ask for your money back? Yeah, no.

You know, anyway, she, yeah, really smelly, really fishy. And I'm already nodding to vaginas. And it completely put me off. So I just let her eat me out. And my husband. was initially not going to join in because he was like, I don't want to join in. I just want to watch. I just want to see.

And I dragged him into it, but all she did was give him a blow job. And he's, to this day, we've had two threesomes with women. To this day, he's never put his dick in anyone else. And he doesn't want to put his dick in anyone else. And it's, I don't know. Sounds really bad, but it's probably something I don't know if I could get over or if I could unsee. And I hate that because he lets me do what I do.

But then I can't wrap my head around the. other thing. This is very common, by the way. It's very common. I mean, haven't you heard like so many other women on my show? No, but haven't you, Embers, some of my most hardcore girls who are down for so much have that same thing. But let me tell you, you know what is consistent in those stories? The fact that their guy doesn't fucking care. You know, the other, you know who cares? The people listening, the people listening fucking care. The people that aren't involved. But the guy, you know, In that situation, never cares. It's always the type of guy that's like, you know, they're just happy that they have the

variety and all the other stuff. They're not like, you know, going to look a gift horse in the mouth. So I don't know. I mean, I've heard it so many times. I hear that, yeah. So we have a, when we do these things, we tend to book a hotel room, like a really nice, fancy, super expensive hotel room. So it's kind of like, I guess one of the rules is that you can't come back to the

house. That's our family home. Yeah. And so we're at this fancy place and yeah, I ended up dragging him over to the bed and he's like fighting it. And I was like, no, no, come on. Let's just like blow you. And so we ended up giving him a blow job. But then he didn't come. So he ended up having sex with me in front of her and he said that that was the most best part of the night of the fact that he could have sex with me in front of someone and they were there. He thought that was super hot. Yeah, I could see that. That's like a little bit of a variety while someone's watching. Yeah. That's something new. And then, so the next day was really good.

And we were like on this massive high. And the day after that, I just plummeted. And I just felt like, I can't believe you let her do that. You know, typical women thing. Like such a huge, he was fighting. Like, no, no, no. And then now I was like, yeah, it'll be fine. And then all of a sudden, like, crack the shit, which is, you know, yeah.

So. Wait, what were you upset about at the blowjohn? I was upset. I don't know. Yeah, I was. I was like really. I don't know. That's just real life.

I mean, you can't help that. It's a very honest of you. So the next, so you're totally horny for the situation. Everything's really great. But then you crash the next day and you're having second thoughts and you're flipping out a little bit. And it's, yeah, it's interesting because if you, sometimes, I think sometimes it depends. You ask some questions and I think the answer to this question, I can't remember if it is,

it depends on how horny you are. Yeah. Like sometimes, you know, you watch this. like I'll watch porn and it'll be two women and a guy and I think that is so hard. But then like once I've come, I'll be like, I don't want to do that. Yeah, totally. Once you've had that release and yeah, once you've had that release, you just think, oh, no, I'm not into that.

It's so funny. It just depends on your mood and it really does depend on my mood. So sometimes now I even think, okay, I reckon I'd like to watch him with another woman. And then if my mood switches, I'm like, no, I can't watch him with another woman. Right. But again, it was reassuring, I guess, that he got a blowjob from someone else. I was there and that obviously we haven't broken up. So there's always that.

And then we vowed we wouldn't do it again for like at all because it went so horribly wrong. So then we, the first one was in 2019. And I think we got married towards in the middle of 2019. And we ended up hiring another girl because we sat down and we spoke about the pros and what he liked about it. And he was like, oh, that was super hot. I like that. And then I spoke about what I didn't like.

like and we were like you know part of it was fun and I think a lot of people say you know um how was your first threesome and a lot of people say oh it was really shit but then if you think about your first sexual experience it was pretty probably pretty shit as well because no one knows what they're doing when they first have sex we one on one with somebody else you know yeah good point so yeah the first one was the first one was shit and then we ended up talking about what we liked and this was super hot and he was like I really liked when you did that so we ended up looking again and we found a girl who was just so much, she had such a better energy for us. She was really, she was really fun to hang out with and we did it. We got married and then we

did it about a week later. We went away and we, she ended up coming away to meet us. And she stayed for two hours and there was a lot of drinking and walking around naked and there was a big hot tub in the middle of the room and it just it just flowed a lot better and again the only thing he got from her was a blowjob but he was you know let him suck on her boobs and stuff like that and he stays adamant that he doesn't want to put his dick in anyone else because he goes on about how good my vagina feels and no one else's vagina feels like your vagina and it's so perfect and I like I just don't mind so yeah and now what did you do with her same thing she went down on you you didn't go down on her yeah I tried to go down on her and I just I just

put into it. Like, I know, it's so funny. You're either, you're either, I don't know, you can either do it or you can't. So I tried a little bit and I was like, it's not really my thing. And that's great. And this is the good thing about escorts is that she, you know, we know her feelings and you can come out and say, well, we're new. We don't know what we're doing. Can you take the lead? You know, and this is, you can kind of cater it to what you want. You know, she brought toys, like a strap on to like, fuck me with. And her husband was like, oh, that was super hot. I'm so glad she brought the strap on, you know, so things like that. And I think at the end of the day, you can also, in a nice way, kind of ask them to leave. And I just get scared that if we use something

like field or Tinder, that either someone will catch feelings, it won't be me because my husband keeps telling me how cold I can be. But you can also, yeah, you can also say, okay, it's time to go. Thank you so much. And yeah, and she was great. She stayed a little bit over, but she kept saying, And whenever you guys want me to go, I'll go. One of you guys want to just like reclaim each other and like hang out. And we eventually said, oh, you can go now. She's like, yep, that's fine. Right.

So it was a lot of fun. And she was just a better fit. Yeah. Yeah. Transactional sex a lot of time. That's like your thing. That's the benefit of it. Like you said, there are no kind of hurt feelings. Because it's transactional, you could, you know, you don't have to like, there's no

girlfriend experience going on. You could just be straight up. Like this is, we don't know what we're doing. Get it. rolling and then fucking leave and everyone's fine with it. Yeah, that's right. Yeah. And we need someone like that.

We're both pretty timid. Yeah. So, and then from those two experiences, my husband did say, I could never watch you with a man. So I was like, of course, you know, you sound so typically male. And I hate it. Like, I was like, of course, you want two women and one guy. And I have no idea how it got onto hot wifing. But it eventually did get onto me having sex with another guy.

Mm-hmm. I think we played a lot with the idea. He eventually started asking me about exes and tell me how this guy did it. And did you like it when he did it this way and that way. Yeah. And eventually he felt comfortable enough to let me have sex with another man. And you went looking again in the escort place because they had men. Yes.

So the range of females on this website, there are so many females on this website. But for the men, I reckon there's probably about, there were probably about 15 to 20 men, but since COVID, it's ramped up. There are a lot more men now, and there's just a lot more people on there. Oh, interesting.

But the choice, yeah, I know. And they also offer things like, I don't know, like online stuff for you. Like, you can dial in and watch them, I suppose. Yeah. So I guess it's just was like extra cash during the lockdown. And everyone's like, maybe I'll do this. Kind of like only fans, I suppose. Yeah, right.

Let me ask you this real quick. The pricing, is there a difference? Like, are guys cheaper than the females? Or is the same? Guys are cheaper. Yeah. Yes, guys are cheaper. And what's interesting, so the guy that we use the second time, he's actually quite

well known. He's quite famous and he doesn't hide his face. So on a lot of these sites, the girls will hide their faces. Some don't. But this one, this guy doesn't hide his face. Some of the guys hide their faces. Some of the guys don't. Can you give the name?

Yeah. The escort agency. Of the guy, if he's famous. Of the guy. Yeah. Yeah. So he goes by Mr. Jake. Mr. Jake.

Okay. He's actually, yes. So he's actually a, he's actually British. And he, yeah, his face is out there and he promotes it. But I think what's interesting is he does a lot of radio interviews and he does a lot of YouTube interviews and a lot of, he's actually been on TV. Mm-hmm. And what's interesting is everyone has a real interest in men who escort and like women have these needs and women, you know, they're teaching women how to be better in the bedroom or whatever, however they promote it.

But if you see a fee, there are never females on TV promoting it because I feel like when it's a woman who's an escort, immediately people will jump to, oh, something must have happened to her. Right. Why is she doing this? And they see her as a victim. Yeah, they see her as a victim. Yeah. Yeah. And a lot of these girls, you know, the one we hung out where she was, it sounds super

cliche, but she was putting herself through university. Yeah. So, but she was, and she gave it a break for a while. We noticed she's back at the moment. We were like, oh my God, she's back. We should hook up with her again. She was so much fun. But there is this stigma with the females that their daddy must have done something or, you

know, something's happened to them. And then with the males, it's like, oh, yeah, there's a real need for a male escort. and women need to use more male escorts. And it's like it's such a divide. It's really frustrating. But yes, the women are a lot more expensive than the men. And the men are a lot cheaper. And the way we picked our escorts were that obviously they get reviews.

And if there was an escort that had zero reviews, you can actually type in what you're looking for. Like some of the men won't do wives in front of their husbands. So you have to like type in a couple. Oh, interesting. Yeah, so, yeah, so there is a filter. Some guys are bi, and we didn't want anyone bisexual, which is, you know, just that, yeah, it's just us. So you can, a lot of the girls will only do one-on-one, and they don't do couples.

And some, yeah, so you can really filter it down to what you need. And you knew that you wanted to be with the guy and your husband was just going to watch, or was he going to participate? So it was going to be how the night played out. Okay. We didn't know. So he was like, I think I'll just watch. Oh, maybe I'll join in. Or maybe I'll just watch.

Or depends on the guy. Yeah. So the guy I picked, the first guy I picked. I won't tell you which is which because the second story is not as great. And I don't want to slide there anybody. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Because they're both lovely.

They're both really warm. So the first guy we picked, I sort of messaged him and I said, this is what we're after. We're pretty new to this. And obviously, he's asking, one of his questions was, do you want to be deped? And me and my husband, I'm like, oh, my God, yes, that sounds amazing. And when we saw his cock, I was like, no, I'm not putting that in while you're in my ass. Why it was big? It was humongous.

and it was the biggest thing I've ever seen. And my husband's not small. But when this guy took his pants off, it was so funny. At the end of when we'd finished, my husband goes, well, you come over here and look at this thing. You look at the size of this thing. And I said, I don't want you to feel bad because this is freak show big. Like, this is not normal.

Like, don't feel bad about it. So this is why he does what he does. And this is why you're paying for it. Exactly. So a lot of the, a lot of, of my friends know, there probably is only two friends that don't know what I do. I'm really open about it on Instagram. I share a lot of non-monogamous stuff and I'm pretty, I'm very much an open book. Yes, and I have family on there. And I think family have ever been brave enough to go,

what's this about? So everyone just doesn't say anything. I've got probably two friends that don't know what I do and the questions just never really come up. And every other friend who knows about my lifestyle has been nothing but supportive. Now, I don't know if I've got supportive, open-minded friends or if Australia is just a little bit more easygoing. Yeah. But I've never had an issue with it. And I think why that is is that we do have very, I'm a frontline worker. We both are. We don't work together. And I just think, I just think that if you meet us, we're really quite normal and we're really, like, I'm extremely good at my job.

I really care about people. And like I do so much to help the homeless and things like that. And I think when you meet us, people like, oh, they're so normal and they're so warm. And they're such lovely people. And one of my girlfriends said to me once, because I consider myself to be a sapiens sexual. So I'm attracted to brains. So I'm not into bodies. I'm not into muscles.

And I'm not into, you know, like guys at the gym at all. You know, I really like someone that can hold a conversation. Well, what about if a guy at the gym can't hold? You guys, you know, I have to say, because I'm a gym rat and I know a lot of guys from the gym, and I have to say they get such a bad fucking rap because there was another girl on my show recently, Chloe and she was like a BBW girl that got really into like fucking a lot of guys. And she was like, I used to hate gym rats, you know, but I found like they're actually like really nice guys. I just always thought they were like douchebags.

And here you are like, you know, the stereotype is that they have like zero personality or something. But it's not really true. But anyway, go on. It's so funny. Yeah, so one of my friends who's, she's just, she's very religious, but she kind of accepts it, but she'll always have something to say. She kind of said to me once, isn't it interesting, though, that when you pick your men on this website, they're always, they're always mussely and they're always, you know, good looking and they're always.

And I said, yeah, but when you go and pay for something, you want them to look the part, right? So, I mean, if I'm going to pay this much amount of money, they need to look. look like they look because I'm paying this a much amount of money. Otherwise, I just go on Tinder and find some, you know, guy around the corner. And what I also think you're paying for, and I hate to say it, is this is the massive cock. Like the two guys that I've had, their cocks have been so, so huge. And I feel like this is what I'm after. This is what I'm paying for.

Yeah, you're not looking for a date. You're not looking for the guy to bring home for Thanksgiving. It's no different than when guys just want to have sex with someone. I mean, like there's a difference between someone who maybe you're just going to have sex within someone who you're going to, who's going to check off all the boxes. For you, your sapiosexual when it comes to like your real partners in life, but when you're just going to have a one, two hours with somebody, what the fuck doesn't matter?

You're going to go for like those initial things that are just going to be physical because that's all you're going to be doing with that person. So it makes sense. Come on. Yeah. And I think I don't know if I've heard anyone else say this, but my husband is big on, they have to have a bigger dick than him. Like it's a thing.

Like they just have to. This is what I'm paying for. And he's very, how do I describe him? He's very generous. So there's not a lot of books written about hotwifing. I think the term seems relatively new, but there have always been men wanting to watch their wives, fuck other men.

But the term just seems to be super new. We're not into cuckolding. I don't want to shame or put him down. I almost think this builds him up in my eyes. I think it takes someone really strong to watch their wife with another man and walk away, you know, knowing that she's going to come back to him, knowing, you know, knowing that, yeah, that he can loan her out in a sense. But she'll always come back to me.

I think that's quite reassuring and a bit of an ego boost as well. Yeah. Yes. So wait, so now tell me, so the first guy comes, he's too big. He asked you if you want DP, you're like, no way. And what happens when he actually gets there? What goes down? Okay, yes.

This is really, this is a fun story. So when we got to the hotel, we're all super nervous and like no one can sit down. I've had like too many drinks because I can't do this. I was all right. I was okay. I could walk and I knew what I was doing. But I was just like, I need a drink. And so he messages us and he's like, I'm downstairs.

I'm waiting here. And then we're like, do I go? Do you go? Do we go together? You know. in the back of your mind you just think, I hope you don't run into someone, you know, does this look weird?

You're just like running all these scenarios for your head. So we both went down to meet him and my husband said, oh, I think he was so pleasantly surprised. He just saw you with his eyes and he just couldn't take his eyes off of you. He goes, I think he was really pleasantly surprised

and very happy to see what he saw. And I was like, okay, whatever. And so we went up to the, the room and we had a drink and he poured the guy a drink and like I had already told this guy look there's no degrading my husband um he's you know you have to be nice to him you have to respect him this is what we're after so my husband isn't into my husband never watches porn ever ever ever doesn't watch porn I watch a lot of porn and so my husband said to him initially well I did all the I do all the talking I um that we're not into what he calls throating so you know when people are in

porn and they like shoved the girl's head onto the guy's cock and she ends up gagging. Yeah. Like my husband hates that. He hates it because I don't want any roughness. I want it to be about her pleasure. I want I want her to be taken care of. I want her to be spoiled in a sense. I don't want it to be rough.

I want it to be super seductive. So we told this guy all this stuff and he was really good. So but when we walk through the room, he sat on the couch and we ran around the corner and My husband was making a drink and he kind of looks over at me and he gives me like this thumbs up. And I looked at him and I was like, what? And he's like another thumbs up. I'm like, what? And he is like, do you like him?

And I go, I guess so. And he goes, well, do you? I go, well, yeah, he's okay. It's all really weird when you have to tell your husband that, you know, someone else you're about to have sex with. They're like, yeah, he's hot. Yeah, he'll do him for you. And it was entirely new and I'd come from a place where he was really insecure. So I was just like, are you sure?

You're not going to be able to unsee this. And my husband just kept saying there's nothing you can possibly do that will make me leave you. I will never leave you. You know this, right? And I was like, I know. But I don't want it to damage the relationship, et cetera. Anyway, he's like giving me the thumbs up. And I think he liked him.

So we sat down on the couch. My hubby sat down opposite and I sat down next to the guy. And I just motomouth and motor mouth and motor mouth and talked and talked. And, you know, the guy's probably like, and I could see. Yeah, because I was so nervous. And it's like, how do you start this? And so there was a point that I don't remember, but my husband said, there was a point where, because I'm pretty heavily tattooed,

the guy came over and he kind of mentioned my tattoos and he touched one of them and I flinched. I moved over. And my husband said, oh, my God, I bet you at that point, this guy was thinking, this night's fucked. this is going to be a really shit night. Like if she's just flinched because I'm touching her arm, what's this going to be? Yeah.

But it was really just that uncertainty. And eventually my husband, it would have been an hour. So we'd only have him for two hours. And an hour had gone by. And my husband looked at his phone and he goes, so can we kind of get things rolling? And as soon as he said that I relaxed,

he goes, can we kind of get this going? And I was like, okay. So we went into the bedroom and I said, I don't know, can you like start with like massaging me? or something because like I'm frozen in just like I don't know what to do. So he did, he started like, I lay on the bed and then he started massaging me from behind. And like I could feel how hard he was. Like I reached around.

I could feel how hard he was. And then I felt a bit better. This guy's thing was the biggest thing I've ever seen. And eventually after the massage, like this particular guy, he wouldn't go down on the girls. So when he came out, that was one of his things. Like, I don't eat women out. So that was a bit disappointing, but I can understand where he's coming from. Yeah, you don't like it either.

So, yes. So I started with a massage and then I gave him a blowjob. My husband was sitting on a chair and I was kind of like, are you okay with this? You're okay? We kept checking in. Are you all right with this? We had a no kissing rule, which he thinks I almost broke, but I didn't. And he says, and he will say his favorite part of the night is when he could watch

his massive dick going to me. He goes, it was just like, and my husband's not vulgar. He goes, it was just like, your pussy just like took the whole thing. It just like slid in and I didn't think it would take it and it just took the whole thing. Oh my God. Yeah. And how was it for you? Oh, pretty exciting.

Very exhilarating and very, I can't believe this is, it's very, I can't believe this is happening. I can't believe you're watching. It's just so exciting. Yeah. But it felt like that with the girls as well. think. Just having an extra person there feels exciting. So we, we don't swing or we don't go to swingers clubs. So we always say, I think like a third person is enough for us, like three is the right number. And, and having it the way that you have it where it's very structured and with

these people's very controlled kind of environment and everything's upfront really works. Yeah, it really works throughout. And my husband often laughs about this because he does mention about how so one of the reasons he doesn't want to have sex with any of the girls is he needs to feel an emotional attachment to a woman before he puts his penis in her and he always laughs because I am more like the male where I can just have sex and um the guy that we did the first guy he was like oh if you give me a minute I can go again and I'm like no we're good that's fine you can go thanks and he and there's this role reversal in our house so my husband does the cooking he does the shopping and he does

I don't cook I've never cooked for 13 years and he does the cooking he does the food shopping and I'll do things like I'll take the bin out or if there's like a spider he'll call me and he'll be like kill the spider so there's almost a roll reversal yeah you put the kids toys together and hang up the pictures too I do yeah I'm the same way yeah I do all the boy stuff

yeah oh that's cool because I feel like as women you know I feel like we should do we should be a bit tougher yeah and but you found the perfect guy for you I mean that's the perfect match, that kind of a guy with a woman like you, you know, for sure. It's very chalk and cheese. So he's extremely conservative.

I'm very loud and outgoing. And it just, yeah, it somehow works. And the people that know what we do, a lot of my girlfriends have said, oh, he doesn't look like that kind of guy. He doesn't look like that guy who would be into that kind of stuff. And he's never given me those vibes. And I'm like, well, I hope my husband isn't giving you

those vibes and I hope he's not making you feel uncomfortable. And I think what people don't understand, and you say this a lot on your show, is the people doing this, they're not perverts, they're normal people. Right. That's the whole point. Yeah. They're like frontline workers, like you said. They're frontline workers. They're you guys. They're not these like perverts that live on a deserted island that they look creepy or you feel weird around them. I've met creepy people. Yeah. They might have, and then they could be totally vanilla. It does nothing to do what they're doing sexually. I mean, there's sex.

sexual perverts that are dark and creepy for sure. But the people that come on my show are regular people. That's like the whole point of it. And that's what you said, which is I think is wonderful that you guys really are out. Because what you are teaching people in your life is like, look, like this is, you know us.

So they know that you guys are normal people and you happen to do that. So then they realize like, oh, regular people that we know that are good people that give to others. Yeah. Do you do this kind of thing. That's what's going down. That's the people. That's who does it.

It's not like this thing. I don't know. You know, it's not always so dark. It does have a bad, like BDSM, I mean, we're not into that,

but that always has like a bad connotation attached to it as well. And, you know, it was misadventure and that's why they got killed or something. There was a case in Australia where someone had met someone and they went to their place

for like a threesome and someone end up buried in the backyard. And all of a sudden, it's always like, oh, that's what happens when you go looking for a three. reason. I watch a lot. And please, I watch a lot of date line, okay?

And all you have to do is get fucking married and you're going to wind up in a garbage can chopped up, okay? So many women are chopped up by their husbands for no reason. No threesome's going on there. They're just killed for, you know, because nothing. So I'm sorry. People always want to attach it. Even her Dr.

Drew once talking. I was like, what a fucking asshole because I always really liked him. And I like him on intervention. But he was talking. He's a very famous like sex therapy. Pist or but and in the you know he's very famous but I really like him he does intervention and drug stuff But he was talking about how oh they were talking about swinging and stuff and they were talking about it he was saying oh just how it just never Works out in the couples it's always terrible and I'm like well you know maybe it's who you're talking to because I have a million people on my show where it does and you know

There's regular people in regular marriage where things aren't working it's not necessarily always like the swinging or opening it up that that's that ruins relationships you know so I just felt like I can't believe like that that's his experience. Of course, nothing is always 100% one way. You know, and I'm, I love to show situations that go awry and things that don't work out because I'm a realist and that's real life. Yeah. And you could learn from those. But, you know, there are certainly enough examples of people out there doing it successfully

that you could take advice from two. So go on. So now that was your, so you, so it's exhilarated. You kind of like having that other person watch. Now, you have another experience with a guy again, right? You guys go back for more to a different guy, right? We go back. So the first one was really successful.

Yeah. So the second guy we hired, personality-wise, was amazing. Like my husband said, he felt like he was someone he could hang out with. Didn't really go into, all these guys have only fans as well. So I've always looked them up and gone, okay, his cock looks huge. I'll hire this guy. Yeah. So I didn't really go into what we wanted.

And I feel like we didn't explain it properly enough. So it might be a little bit on us. But he came in and he was really lovely to speak to. My husband said, he's someone I feel like I could hang out with outside of this. He was really personable. And so down to earth and really easy to talk to. And he allowed filming this one particular guy. which is why we've paid so much.

However, why we went into the bedroom and he fingered me so hard that I ended up bleeding. Oh my goodness. A lot. Were you so into it that you just like louded even though it was hurting?

Yeah. Oh, okay. Like I did, but I didn't, it wasn't hurting. Right. It was just rough. It wasn't hurting. And then all of a sudden

there's like blood on these bed sheets and that my mind just snapped from being into it to, oh my God, I'm so sorry. And then I couldn't pull away from that. Like I was really in my head about the bleeding. He's like, that's fine.

And I was like, oh my God, no. And he had been eating me out as well. So it was very like, oh, so embarrassed. I'm not on my period, I promise. So it was once he stopped, I stopped bleeding. Yeah. So it was the roughness of it. I don't really bad.

And I got in my head about this as well. Like he just couldn't stay hard. So it was really disappointing. My husband had sex with me while I gave him a boy. low job and he couldn't stay hard and he just struggled to stay hard and we were like I don't know has he seen too many clients today what's going on is he worn out maybe that yeah that's right and that's why I felt so crappy about it and I'm like oh is it me is it did I ruin the mood yes oh was the bleeding just like it ruined it for you it might have ruined it for him he must have been

horrified that he did that to you don't you yeah yeah and he He was, yeah, he's also a bit rough. So he did a lot of that. Yeah, but normally you could do rough, rough things and someone doesn't bleed. I think that that was like, right? I mean, I don't think that that typically happens. It probably took him as much of surprise as you. Yeah, correct.

So I was really, I couldn't sort of get out of my head about that. And then eventually we had sex, but he didn't come. Whereas the first guy did. And I feel like if you're paying X. some out of money, then it should be, you should be like guaranteed to come or at least stay hard. So we have a video of it that is obviously just for our eyes only and I just can't watch it. I'm just like watching my, Christable, I hate my voice. And then I'm watching myself go, oh my God, I'm so sorry.

I'm like, I'll just ruin the whole video. And so my husband's got this video. Yeah, we don't watch it. He watches it. I can't watch it. And he's like, no, you just have to get to the good bits. I'm like, are there, though? because he wasn't very hard.

And I was just, yeah. Well, I think, especially, I'm not just with the guy. Yeah, but I think not just with the guy getting, he can't get it hard. Maybe you get a little bit money back. I also think with the girl having a bad odor, you should get some money back too,

because that's fucked up. I'm sorry. Like, that's like, I know. Yeah. That's not common. Like, as a woman, I've never smelled bad. Like, I mean, you know, even if you're sick and you don't shower for a day,

like you don't start to smell. Like, something must have been wrong with her. And if that's like your job, you can't show up like that. I'm sorry. That's right. I think it's your job. You can't show up like that. Yeah, I'm sorry.

But like that's a situation. Yeah, I know. Like it's like my husband's been very spoiled in this area. He's like, you always smell and taste amazing. So I like, thank you. But you're biased. But yeah. With the first guy, this is a funny story because I know you like funny stories.

Yeah. So my husband is an extremely good host. So I'll have girlfriends over and he'll cook us from scratch a three-course meal. Wow. And this one time I had a girlfriend over and she had no socks on and he'd sent me a text message and he's like, your friend's got no socks on. It's cold, right?

So he's like this host and if like he'll cater everything. And so he's forever the good host. And with the first guy, I finished, we both finished. I was on top of him when he came and we were puffed out and I was sort of just sitting on him and like he had come and I had come and my husband was just standing there and he looked at us and I love this about him. He goes, I'm just going to go get you guys some water and he just left the room. Really? I don't think what was chewed about. Yeah, he just left. First of all, he's gone from like, I need to watch and, you know, there was a real trust for me when he said,

I'm just going to go get you guys some water and he left the room. Yeah. And he went and got us two bottles of water and came back. And he was like, here, I've got you guys some water. And I was like, oh, you're like forever. The good host. You've gone to get us water. And we're all puffed out. And he's like, well, when the guy left, he goes, well, I didn't think you were going

to get off his dick. And I go, I didn't want to. That is hilarious. I mean, can you believe you went from this is a guy that was saying, oh, I could never watch you with someone else to this. Yeah. So I think I often try and look into the psychology of hotwifing. And I do, there aren't enough articles on it and there aren't enough books on it.

I think insatiable wives comes close to being one of the books about hot wifing. I'm really spoiled. I'm really lucky if I want something, I get it. And I'm not talking about, you know, like Mercedes-Benz and Maseratis. I'm talking like if I go, I want to go out for dinner tonight, I get it. I want that piece of jewelry. I get it. I want that with a ton handbag.

I get it. Yeah. So everything I want, I get. And I'm really, I am very spoiled. And I think in a sense, he's. sees this is another way of spoiling me. And he often refers to it as, I'll get you a big cock. Oh, I know you want a big cock. I'll get you one. I'll get you one. And it's almost a sense of spoiling. And even with the females, he always said to the girls, I want to watch you spoil her.

I want to watch her, obviously, be pleasure as an outsider. I want to watch her just be, you know, being pure ecstasy. So I think there's a common theme of these men that love to spoil their wives. Isn't that compersion maybe really? Like just seeing the other person so. Yeah, I think it's compersion. Right? Happy and. Yeah.

I'm living through their happiness, I suppose. Yeah, yeah, a little bit of that too. So we occasionally still talk about doing another girl, but now I just don't know if I could. And then it depends on my mood, obviously. I think what's interesting about people is when they find, when people find out this is the kind of lifestyle you live. and I'm not talking about my friends. I'm talking about, you know, like you say, your listeners sometimes are in shock that this is what people do.

What's interesting is I've always been a really highly sexual person. Whatever relationship I've been in, I've had lots and lots and lots of sex. And I love my porn and my, like I said, my husband doesn't watch any. And I watch a lot of porn. And so I don't know what the percentage is of people who watch porn, but I know it's high. So a lot of the people that point fingers and say, I can't believe you're doing this. I can't believe you're doing that. They're actually watching what we're living.

I feel like they sit there and they judge, but they'll go home and they'll watch their porn, which will have an orgy, or they'll watch their porn, which will have a male, you know, MMF or an FFM. And they'll watch that, but then because you're living it, you're the disgusting one.

Yeah, well, I think what... Does that make sense? Yeah, well, I think that sometimes, especially when someone has a very strong feeling against something, it might be because it's something that they wish they could do and they just don't have the balls to do it or maybe they would never try it. It's some sort of intense desire in them because like there's a lot of things I'm not into but so who cares?

Like why do you care? If you if when you do care a lot, I feel like maybe you need to look into that a little bit. And I do think that when, you know, in my day and age, everyone was very sexually repressed and people couldn't do things. And so everybody really looked at everybody else and judged them. And I think it was just all jealousy because people weren't being able to be open and doing all the things sexually that they wanted to do. So, you know, anyone that's really, like I said, having strong emotions about you doing it,

and then they run home and watch it. I mean, come on. There's one thing about saying, you know what, I would never do that. And I don't never want to do it. That's fine. But to be, like, judgmental about it really harshly, I think that there's always, I think to underneath that is maybe they have that same desire. Same thing with guys that are so anti-guy-on-guy action.

I mean, come on. It's like, you know, psychology 101. Yeah. Right? Perfect. Yeah, totally. I love your show for the fact that it kind of destigmatizes people and they are just normal people.

And I think this is probably the only show that, I mean, I know there's a few out there, but this one's really good. You have such a wide variety of people on your show. It's, you know, and you really don't discriminate. You've got cheaters. People who go after America. man like it's just there's no discrimination which is amazing so it's good to just hear stories i'm glad you said that because i actually recommended a guy that was into cheating he wrote a cheater's handbook or

something i forget what it was but i recommended it's one of my podcaster friends and they were like i would never have someone that cheats i'm like what do you mean like first of all not all cheaters are the same and even the ones that are really bad it's like important to put that story out there because you learn and you grow i don't know you know it's not i'm not like saying anything right or wrong or condoning but you have to hear people's story i think it's really important. I watched a documentary over the winter break and it was like the Pepsi documentary and there was this guy on there, Michael Amnotti, who was like this really scumbag lawyer involved in the whole Trump thing. But they showed some of his life's story in that. And it really made me look at him different and made me think about how he is and maybe why he's in that way. Because, you know, and that's the kind of connections I like to make. I like to be as nontas. judgmental about people as possible.

And I think the more you learn about them, the less likely you would be judgmental. So I think, you know, hearing someone's whole story helps to not just normalize, but humanize people. First of all, we're not here to be fucking perfect. I think we could learn from cheaters. And you could also, you know, maybe it changes your mind of what you think a cheater is. And every cheater's story is different. And so, yeah, I don't draw a line unless it's something illegal.

And I've had a couple times where I've. have people write in and it's like a guy that likes looking up women's skirts. And to me, that's like, you know, if someone's going to come on and talk about that. Yeah, someone thinks that that there's, that's a turn on to them and that's fucking great and they want to come on and talk about how hot that is. I won't have that on. But I had like on two guys that had that and they came on because they felt addicted to it and they felt horrible about what they were doing, you know, and so that I love. I'm so glad that you called in and showed your story because like I say always I could talk to a million hot wives or people that have open

relationships or swingers or cheaters and every story is going to be a little different. Different. Yeah, your guy's story I love because you have specifically kept it to escorts. And I think that maybe some people that are looking to open up their relationship might be like, oh, you know what? Like the reasoning for them doing it and the way that it works like, maybe that's the way we should go because I think that there is some safety in it for a certain in a certain kind of way that some people would relate to.

Maybe some people wouldn't be into it. But I get it. Yeah. I do. I do. I would never use an app. And it sounds super paranoid, but I always joke about ending up in someone's trash can.

Yeah, me too. But obviously that doesn't happen because I listen to your show and a lot of people do use apps. And no one ends up, not all the time, but they don't end up dead. I get why you do it. And everybody's wired differently. And that's why I think everyone's, you know,

stories are interesting because, someone might say, oh, you know what, that might work for me because they're wired more like you, you know, and everybody's different. So I like that you called in and shared your story because it, like I said, it is different. After doing my show for eight years, it's hard to find very different things. But I feel like everyone's story is actually different because everyone's unique. With the ethical non-monogamy umbrella, every relationship is just catered to that person. You know, you can always tweak and cater it and change. And it's always, it's always, specific to that person, isn't it?

It's just this umbrella of non-monogamy, but then underneath it. Here's our rules and here's how we do it. And this person does it differently. And you can really change it to what you want, I think. Yeah, as long as, and to me the most important thing is that it's consensual because listen to people over a YouTube are always being very judgy about people's stuff. But I'm like, both people in this situation are down with it and it works with it. That's what's most important.

That's what it's all about. Yeah. That you and your partner are, you know, really being cool with each of. other and how each other feels. And it sounds like you guys are. I have really hot pictures of you for people to see over on my Patreon. You already sent them to me. I'm not putting your face pick up there.

But I'll put the other face up there. So people want to see them go there. Thank you so much for calling in. Now, we were supposed to have your husband on. But he could come on maybe and do a whole episode himself maybe if he wants. You know, a separate one. I don't mind that. I've done that before.

Right? Okay. Yes. That sounds really good. I'll have to twist his arm. Yeah, he's super timid. Okay, so if he doesn't want him, he doesn't have to. We were going to do it where you talk first and then him, but you filled up the whole hour.

So sorry, but maybe, you know, he could come on another time if he wants to. But if not, that's totally cool. And stay tuned because this will be up very soon. What do we call you again? Jade. Jade, I like that name, Jade. All right, Jade, thank you so much for calling in. Thank you.

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