Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 591 - Kara is a Hardcore Hotwife
Episode Date: February 6, 2023Kara is a hardcore hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. How and why did she bring up hooking up with other guys to her husband? How did he feel about it? And what went down during her first... hook up? Tune in to hear all the details including where her and her husband first went to find guys, her first blindfolded hook up and exactly what went down, how and why her and her husband always play together, how and why she quickly transitioned into having a gangbang, how many guys showed up and what went down, the type of guy she’s into as well as the type she’s not into and why, how involved her husband is in her hook ups, how and why they started going to swinger house parties, how she loves being watched and considers herself an exhibitionist, how and why her husband has no desire to hook up with others, why he loves watching her get pleasured, how and why she loves “cleaning up” the guys off after she hooks up with them, how and why sex with husband is different than sex with other men, why swallowing cum is her biggest fetish, how and why she transitioned into amateur porn, how she met and started filming with amateur porn star DFW Knight and what she loves about him, how she remains anonymous in videos, her recent foursome she had and exactly what went down, how she feels about hooking up with women, the craziest custom video request she got which included a visit to the ophthalmologist, why she’s not into dp or dvp, why’s he prefers a MMF threesomes the most and a whole lot more. You can find her here: http://hotwifekarasweet.com/ **To see anonymous pics of Kara plus most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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That always helps. Now, today I have on Kara. Now, Kara is a hardcore hot wife, okay?
She went from being a regular wife to a hardcore hot wife way later in her marriage. And she talks
all about it. Okay? She talks about the thing that happened that sort of tipped her off and
made her horny to become a housewife, you know, what that actually was.
She talks about the first time she started to play with other guys, how her husband and her
went about finding other guys.
She talks about the first hookup.
She had with the guy.
It was pretty hot.
She was blindfolded, and her guy, her husband picked up the guy, and she played with him.
and she has done it all.
Okay, they play together, they have threesomes.
She has done gangbangs,
swinger parties they go to.
She's a total exhibitionist,
so eventually they started filming their rendezvous,
and then they started putting it up on, you know, porn sites
just for free and for fun,
because she likes for people to watch her have sex.
So her videos did very well when she posted them
because this is a woman who's having like sex on camera and she's loving it she's not doing it like
for the money she's not a porn star she was just doing it for fun so it was like really hot amateur stuff
and somebody got wind of it some guy named d fw night now i don't know who that is dfw night
okay but in the porn world he's somebody and he found her videos and he was like let's collaborate
and then she wound up having sex with him there's some video she talks about their first video
of them first together of her really enjoying this guy, D.F.W. Knight, okay, he's like a porn star.
He got her into doing more videos and really, you know, getting into that world.
So she went from being this hot wife who was doing all kinds of hardcore things, I tell you.
Okay, like the gangbangs.
I mean, six months into it, she was setting up gangbangs.
And then she's like doing stuff online and doing porn and loving all of it.
She's anonymous.
She always wears a mask.
That's like her signature thing.
She also has an only fan.
She makes custom videos.
She talks about where you could find her videos, all the naughty things that she's done,
what her husband is into, how far he goes, as well as, you know, what she looks for in a guy that she hooks up with.
She talks about guys who try to hit her up and what she's into and what she's not into.
So if you're trying to score a hot wife, okay, listen to Kara.
She's going to tell you what she likes and when she's turned off by.
Now, like I said, Kara's hardcore.
I have some picks of her on my Patreon, some R-rated picks.
But you could go find her as well.
There's a link to her, all her stuff in the description.
Her story's fascinating.
She's super interesting.
So I'm going to be right back on with Kara.
Hi, Kara.
Oh, sorry.
Hi, Kara.
Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
I'm doing good.
Thank you for having me on.
I appreciate it.
No, thank you, Kara.
Okay, listen, Kara, I think you were on like Twitter and you made a comment to one of my posts on like a hot wife thing.
And you're like a hardcore hot wife on Twitter.
I mean, people can really see you over there.
But you are here to tell your story because you weren't always a hot wife.
You've been married for a very long time.
Yes.
But you're a hot wifing now.
And like I said, you're a hardcore hot wife.
And you really do put it out there.
So, you know, tell me your story.
How did you go?
Like, were you always a hot wife or did you recently?
think you said in your email that like you know after 30 years like you became a hot wife or maybe I don't know what the exact timeline is but like when did things change where you became a hot wife in your marriage how long you've been married for oh we've been married for about 38 years oh okay so you're married 38 years you've always were you guys always like vanilla before this this guy at your word I know that there's a guy like because you email me like I know that there's a guy at work you probably you know that and that's where it's sort of kicks off but but you're this this guy at your word I know that and that's where it's sort of kicks off but
But like before that happened, right, working up to that,
did you know that your guy had a kink for you being with other guys or anything like that?
Like, did you ever discuss it?
We had discussed it, but that's about as far as it went.
Right.
We never acted on it or anything like that.
So, you know, we just went about our lives, raised our kids.
You were always vanilla, never had sex with it, never, no threesome's nothing.
No.
Nothing until, yeah.
So one day, one of my coworkers had made a comment to me.
He said, no, don't be offended, but I'd like to ask you something.
And I'm like, okay, well, we're adults.
Because I'd really like to see the inside of your jeans.
Oh, my God, that's the inside of your genes.
Yes.
What a comment, right?
Oh, my God, so dumb.
And you got hot by that?
I don't know.
I think I'd laugh.
I did.
I did.
I don't know what it was, but all of a sudden, this switch turned on, and I haven't been able to turn it off since.
It's like, oh, my gosh.
Wait, so he says, I want to look at you.
But, you know, so what turned you on was that the fact that this guy kind of, like, was hitting on your propositioning, you?
I think it was because he was younger than me and he found me attractive.
Oh, was he hot?
Yeah, he was nice looking.
I would have done him if he would have let me.
Oh, okay.
So it doesn't want, you don't wind up doing that guy at work.
So then do you take that home and tell your husband about what happened?
Is that what happened?
I did.
I told him about it and he's like, really?
Huh, okay.
Well, that's pretty hot.
And I couldn't, I think that weekend, hubby and I had sex nine times because I was so hot and turned on and bothered.
So then the next day at work, the guy asked me if I'd ever thought about a happy ending.
And I'm like, well, yeah, you know, it's kind of a fantasy of mine.
He's, oh, okay.
And he dropped it.
He didn't say anything more.
So then, of course, I go home that night and I tell my husband, you know, I got to find a happy ending.
I got to find someone who'll give me a happy ending.
And your husband was down with that.
Like it turns out that your guy you realize is like into you being with somebody else and open to it.
Yes.
Yes.
He was all for it.
And so he got on a swinger site and put an ad on that I was looking for a happy ending.
And I'm like, and all of a sudden, you know, we get all these people, all these guys raising their hands.
Pick me.
Pick me.
Of course.
Oh my gosh. I had no idea. I had no idea that that kind of lifestyle existed.
Right.
Until we started on the swinger site. And it's just been incredible.
Well, so what's that first experience like? Did you have a half? Did he wind up picking a guy for a happy ending for you?
I did. And him and my husband had talked for quite a while before we actually got together.
and we went to a hotel room.
My husband blindfolded me, so all my senses were there.
And I hadn't met this guy yet.
And he came in and talked to me and started giving me a massage.
And I could tell he was turned on.
So I kind of reached my hand over and stroked his cock and pretty soon.
And I ended up with my happy ending that night.
And so that was pretty hot.
And that was a very good experience.
And I've continued on.
And I've had many happy endings since then, as well as other threesomes.
Right.
So when you say happy ending, you just like to get a massage and then have a guy finger you?
Or like, is the happy ending like he fucks you?
I mean, I'm confused.
The happy ending for me is we fuck.
Okay.
That's just like sex.
I don't know.
It's funny.
You call it a happy ending.
That's cute.
I always think of happy ending as like a hand job, right, for a guy.
So I think, oh, well, if a female, I only know one female who got a happy ending once.
Or no, actually twice.
My friend's nanny recently copped to the fact she got a happy ending once.
I was like, what?
This is so funny.
But I mean, you never, you don't hear it.
but that's like I think, oh, the masseuse fingered her, you know?
So happy ending to you is you get a massage, but it ends with you having sex.
So that first time you had sex with that guy blindfolded in front of your husband.
It was in front of my husband, yes.
My husband is always with me.
Right.
So either he'll eventually join in or a threesome or he'll just sit back and let the two of us go at it while he watches.
Right.
And then he reclaims me afterwards, but, you know.
Yeah, that's a given.
So, okay, so that first time you have sex, you get a happy ending, quote, unquote, for you,
that's like you have sex with another guy in front of your husband.
And then it blows up from there.
Like, do you just keep continue on with that guy?
I mean, what happens next?
Yeah, we've, we didn't do it on a regular basis.
He was a regular of mine, though, and we would get together quite often.
but I would go and find new guys to get with and do different things.
You know, if it's just a threesome or just the two of us while my husband watched, gangbangs.
I've done gangbangs.
Oh, serious?
It would be fun.
Oh, yeah.
Okay, wait.
How do you go from like the happy ending to the gangbangs?
I mean, so, all right, so you're on that site the first time your husband picks,
but do you eventually go online and start looking at guys?
and picking up guys and setting this stuff up or is your husband always take care of it?
We both would get online and look at guys and, you know, he'd show me people or he'd say,
hey, this one's good. Why don't you check them out? So I would. And I'm like, oh, yeah. Other times
I would be sitting online looking at guys and messaging them and just chatting with them to see
if I would want to get with them.
Mm-hmm.
Did you have a type?
I look for someone.
I don't really have a body type or I just prefer that their arms not be real skinny.
I don't like real skinny guys.
Uh-huh.
But I look more for if they're respectful, how they talk to me.
Right.
How they talk to my husband.
If they respond to my husband.
Oh, that's interesting.
Yeah, because if they're not respectful to my husband, then we don't get together.
Right.
This is no cuck situation where your husband wants to be humiliated or anything like that.
No, no, not at all.
Yeah.
Not at all.
So we're not the cuckold couple.
We're the stag vixen couple.
But let me ask you this for guys that are listening.
that are like trying to, you know, hook up this situation for themselves.
How, what, what turns you off when a guy's talking?
Like you said, it's really how they respond to you is how they get picked.
You're pretty open, but that's something that's really important to you.
What is it that guys do that's a real effing turnoff?
I think that that's good information for some guys out there.
I want to fuck you, baby.
No, you prefer, I want to see the inside of your pants.
Yes, the more subtle, you know.
Okay.
I mean, yeah, I'm on there for sex, but don't, your opening line, don't be, I want to fuck you, baby.
Yeah, I got it.
Yeah.
Yeah, no.
No, I think that's important to say and interesting because I think a lot of times guys don't
understand that.
And they would think, oh, like, here she is.
She's like on Twitter, like fucking guys.
Like, why can't I just be straight up?
But it doesn't matter.
Like, you don't want that.
You don't want a guy that's just like.
I want to fuck you.
Like, that's not how you expect to be courted, even into a situation where it's just
hardcore sex.
Right.
Yes.
I mean, I know I'm married.
I'm not looking for a relationship.
Yeah.
But I do want to be treated like a lady.
Yeah.
That's important to say.
Not a fuck toy.
Uh-huh.
You know, we'll get to that later, but, you know, initially treat me like a lady.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So don't just go straight up and be like too hardcore in the actual thing.
So you start responding.
You have that first threesome and then or that first time where your husband watches.
I mean, when do you start having threesomes where he joins in?
I think we had gotten with maybe three or four guys.
Mm-hmm.
Before he started feeling comfortable joining in.
Yeah.
And he doesn't, he doesn't go down on me or anything after.
guy comes inside of me. He's not, you know, that's not anything, but he would,
he's not the clean-up guy. No, he's not the clean-up crew. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Some guys like that.
I mean, I have to ask those guys. I was going to ask, like, does your guy like guys? I mean,
some guys, you know, every guy has a different way of going about things. Every couple's different.
Right. Well, usually in the threesomes. I would suck him and swallow him while the other guy
fucked me. Right. Mm-hmm. So, and, you know, that was, that's fine with me. I mean, I, yeah, and sometimes
my husband would fuck me first, and then he would say, okay, your turn, you go finish.
Well, she sucks me off. Right. And so, and that's, that's hot and that's what we like. And so,
it's kind of just gone from there. Right. So when do you start having gangbangs?
Well, my first one I actually set up myself.
I think we've been about six months to ten months in to the lifestyle.
And so I'd met a few guys and I vetted them.
I asked them what they felt about gangbangs.
And so I rented a hotel room and invited six guys.
I think there's eight guys total.
Two of them had to leave early.
So it was me and six guys.
And they just took turns with me.
And I had a blast.
I was in heaven.
I was just lost.
And my husband was just sitting back watching and thoroughly enjoying me being pleased.
By all those guys.
Yeah, that's a lot of guys.
I mean, so six months in, you're like, okay, you're a professional person now.
you're all, but you want more, I would assume.
I mean, because here you are, you got a dick in your mouth while someone's fucking you,
but you're like, I want six more of these.
Two of my hand.
Was that always a fantasy of yours, or is it just something that's sort of evolved and you're
like, wow, I would like to try that.
Because it's interesting, you know, I think what I'm trying to get at it is like, how does
this woman who was always like sort of vanilla with her husband, with one guy,
her whole life now six months and she's doing gang bings it's a big jump it is yes um i've always had the
fantasy of having one guy after another fuck me right okay so that and then this idea of a gang bang
of guys coming in and fucking me all the time it's like oh all right i'll give it a try you know it's been
a fantasy yeah let's see what it's like in real life and in real life and in real
life. It was amazing. It was amazing. Us. So that was a lot of fun. Did you do more than one
gang bang or was that a one time deal? No, I, well, I've gone to house parties. So, you know,
of course there, I think one night I did 13 guys and one night. Wow. Yeah, I think I was
at it for like two hours straight.
And this was at a house party.
So eventually, I guess, because you're going on these Swinger websites and you're on there looking for guys, you eventually start going into the lifestyle.
You start going to clubs and stuff.
Or how do you find these parties at where you're having 13 guys?
On the Swinger site, there's usually some kind of event calendar.
Yeah.
And we just said, let's just try this house party out and see what it's like.
We've never been to any clubs.
There's really not too many where I live.
And so we just go to house parties and meet people and have fun there and get numbers if I'm interested in someone.
And I found out that I am a little bit of an exhibitionist.
So those house parties help that.
And me being watched by other people have sex is a turn on for me too.
now we need to ask the question what my listeners want to know is does your husband get to
fuck other women at these house parties you're going you know i mean it's one thing when you're just
having the guy and you're looking for that but you go to house parties where everyone's
kind of having sex does your guy get to partake with other females or is it or are you
only allowed to be with guys it our arrangement is i'm
The only one that plays.
He has, he doesn't have any desire to be with anyone else.
Of course, you know, he gets turned on.
You know, he sees all these pretty women and all these nice bodies and everything.
But he just, that's our thing.
I play and he watches.
And I know it sounds selfish to a lot of people.
but that is just our dynamic yeah i've heard that so much uh people do go mental about it a lot of
people you know tit for tat it's like it's they don't care that it works for you they still hate it
it's like what does it matter if it's like you know maybe she wouldn't be right for you if you don't
like that scenario but if her husband's down with it who fucking cares and that's just the way that
it goes so for you your husband's fine he has no desire what he's really into
is this thing of watching you with other people.
And that's what that's the,
that to me,
though,
I look at it like,
that's the variety.
Like,
that's where he's getting variety.
Right.
Right.
And he,
his thing is watching me get pleasured.
Right.
You know,
because a lot of times,
you know,
the other guys do something different
that he doesn't do.
Mm-hmm.
And he doesn't feel he can do
because he's my husband.
Mm-hmm.
You know how, because as women, we'll do stuff with other guys that we won't do with their husband.
Why don't you explain that and get more specific?
What do you mean?
Well, for me, after sex with a guy, after we do bear back, I'll go down and suck them off and clean them up.
I don't necessarily always do that with my husband.
And he's okay with that because it turns him on that I have something that I do different with other guys.
Why won't you do that with your husband?
You know, I don't know.
It's just weird.
It's just not something that he, I mean, he would like, but he doesn't push it.
No, but why?
It's not about him.
I'm saying, why don't you do that with your husband?
I honestly don't know.
Okay.
It's a bigger turn on, I think, to do it with other guys.
It's so weird.
Isn't that weird?
No, but what is it that you're doing?
You're just sucking them off after they,
have sex with you and you just won't do that with your husband?
Yeah.
I'll go down and clean the guy up.
Yeah.
Look at my juices off of his cock.
Yeah.
And then that's it.
And it's a real turn-on for me.
Right.
But it's not that much of a turn-on if you're doing it with your husband is what you're
saying maybe.
I don't know.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And it boggles my mind.
Mm-hmm.
Well, let me ask you this because that would make that, that makes me wonder.
Like, do you feel like the sex with your husband is something different than the sex with these guys?
Do you compartmentalize it different?
Like, is it different?
Yes, absolutely.
With husband, it's a little bit more on the vanilla side with husband with hubby.
Whereas, you know, with the other guys, it's totally not vanilla.
And it's supposed to be over the top sex.
and do stuff over the top.
So I think that, you know, kind of separates it.
And the mentality, like you're saying, is like, okay,
hubby is this way and I need to treat the other guys this way to keep them interested.
Right.
Okay.
Interesting.
So what kind of over-the-top stuff are you into, Kara?
I think you're, like I said, you are hardcore.
core um my biggest fetish is swallowing
i love to swallow cum so that is my biggest thing my biggest fetish and if the guy wants
me to finish him off in my mouth i'll do it i do prefer cream pies but i'm open
meaning you prefer for them to come inside you yeah
Yes.
Yes.
But over the top would be the swallowing come because a lot of guys don't get girls who will swallow.
Right.
And you like to do that.
You want to be that girl.
Like you're that overachiever.
Right.
Yes.
When it comes to guys, not with your husband.
Do you swallow with your husband?
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, I once had a girl.
I had a woman on.
And like I've talked about this because I had this girl Casey on who loved, you know, swallowing come to.
And I was like, oh my God, you have to come on and do a whole episode on that because many years ago, I've been doing my show for eight years, but like probably like four years ago, I had a guy email me and say, oh, I want my wife to come on.
She loves, she has a fetish for swallowing jizz.
And it was very specific.
And I was like, oh, of course I'll have that on.
You know, something I had never heard before.
And she was like my worst interview ever.
If I was doing my show now, I would have hung up on her.
But the funny thing is, is I kept the show going.
She was obviously forced.
The poor woman was obviously forced by her husband to talk.
She didn't want to talk about it.
But that is my most downloaded episode on YouTube.
I mean, people will sit through the torture of that conversation just to hear from a woman that loves jazz.
That's why I'm like, oh, whenever I hear of a woman that loves to swallow, you're right.
Guys like that because a lot of girls won't or something.
I don't know what it is, but guys want to hear it.
You're about a girl that loves to swallow calm.
Yes, yes.
And, you know, listen, I talked about this when I talked to Casey.
You know, there is testosterone in cum.
And I do think the more you swallow, the more horny you get.
I mean, do you notice?
I don't know.
I think I'm looking younger, though.
You are.
Do you think so from all that sex you're having and all that time?
Yeah, you're getting how much testosterone you're getting with all those guys around you
coming inside of you, coming in your mouth.
I mean, that's a lot of, you don't need hormones.
You don't need pellets.
Right.
Right.
Oh, goodness.
So, all right.
So wait, so you have a fetish for swallowing cum.
So you always, like when you're doing the gangbangs or the threesomes, I mean, you're like
the clean-up girl yourself.
Your guy is not, but you are?
Yes.
Gang-bang, I would go down on a guy and clean them up and whatever.
And it's just such a turn-on.
And what other over-the-top thing?
Oh, goodness.
One other over the top.
Well, listen, okay, you eventually get to the point where you're putting, you know, you're filming this and you're putting yourself out there.
And, you know, I don't, I only found you on Twitter because you commented on something of mine.
But, like, do you have an only fans?
I'm assuming you do.
I do.
I have only fans.
I have my own premium site.
And I'm also on many bids and loyal fans.
Right.
So you kind of like.
your porn thing, right? I mean, you kind of got into that, correct?
Yes. So, I mean, that's kind of over the top. Like, how does it, how do you transition?
I mean, it sounds like you're on a fast track to that. I mean, six months in, you're doing gangbang.
So, you know, I think it makes sense that the next thing you want to film and stuff. Like, how does that transition happen for you?
Um, that's another story. My first shoot was with DFW Knight.
Is that someone that I should know?
No? He's been in the amateur porn for several years, quite a few years, actually, I think since
about 20 years. He's been in the foreign industry. Before we get to that point, and we're going to
hear that whole story. I mean, how do you go, though, from just Swingers' parties and stuff? How do you
decide to take that to that level? I mean, is it a conversation? Is it something because you're
an exhibitionist, you're like, oh, let's do videos.
I mean, how does it get to the point where you're hooked up with this DFW night guy?
My husband would film on his cell phone.
Some of our things.
We wouldn't do it at the house parties, but, you know, the private ones.
He would video it, and he would just put clips on the internet, like Pornhub, the next videos and stuff like that.
Okay.
And pretty soon we started getting noticed.
Mm-hmm.
And we're like, oh, hey, okay.
And he would keep doing it.
And, you know, I wasn't making money at the time because we didn't know, you know, start charging or anything.
Because that was just like, you know, brand new.
Mm-hmm.
And then DFW Knight saw one of my videos on X Hamster or something.
And he contacted my husband and they started talking.
And so my husband showed me some videos of his of DFW Knight to see if I'd want to get with
them.
And I liked his videos.
They didn't start out naked.
They started dressed and then they get undressed, you know, so it wasn't one of those
that you watch and boom, all of a sudden they're naked.
And I liked that.
So they set it up for us to meet.
and I had my first shoot with him and it was amazing.
I loved it.
Okay.
So now DFW, like, what's his deal?
Is he like really well hung?
That's why he's a porn star.
Like, how is he so known?
I'm assuming he has a big dick.
I don't know.
Yes, he has a very nice big dick.
Okay.
I think he's more known in the amateur porn.
side of porn.
Yeah. And a lot of people do know him.
Yeah. When you mentioned DFW night, oh yeah, I know him.
Uh-huh.
Or if not, they'll go look him up and I'm like, oh, my gosh.
Right.
So, but he is sensual.
He's, he takes his time.
Mm-hmm.
And it's not a wham-bam, thank you, ma'am type of deal.
Like I said, he's sensual.
his time, kisses,
gets undressed slowly,
undresses you, undressed
me slowly.
And he just makes
you feel very comfortable.
And then fucking him
on film and everything,
I lose it. I don't
even know the camera's there.
I just do it.
So everything you see on the
videos and stuff is real. It's not
acted. It's not scripted. Nothing. And I love that. Right. Well, maybe that's why when your husband
was putting that stuff up, I mean, that it really was, I mean, because you guys weren't doing it,
like you said, you weren't making any money or anything. So it wasn't produced for that to be
monetized. You were just having fun. Your husband was filming it, and then you start throwing it up.
And maybe that's why people really responded because it's really real. I mean, I know for me,
if I'm like Googling porn, I'd prefer amateur because you feel like maybe like this is actually
really happy. You want to see someone actually enjoying themselves, not faking it, you know? So you were
like you were really into it because you're like an exhibitionist and you were doing it before,
I'm assuming just for the turn on of like other people seeing you on those sites because your
husband was just like throwing your stuff up there, right? Yeah. Yeah. He'd be like, look at this one.
Look how many views you've got on this one. I'm like, oh my gosh, really? Yeah, yeah. You know,
people really want to see me.
And yeah, I guess they did.
So the exhibitionist of you like that, right?
And then so that enough so that that guy found you because of one of your videos and said,
let's get it on.
So that first time you had sex with him on camera, it was amazing?
Yes.
Yes.
And I just lost myself.
I just went with the flow.
And, you know, it's just.
It was just him and me.
I didn't even know the camera was there.
So it was just him and me.
Is that video up someplace that people could go see it?
I mean, was it a one-time thing?
Or is he someone that you play with a lot and have videos?
Oh, no.
I've got about, I've got several videos of him and me.
And it's on many vids.
You can find it on there.
It's like my first time with DFW Night or something like that.
and I've done a few others with him that have been fun.
We did one where we did a morning shoot,
so we were in bed and the cameras were set up.
So when we woke up, the cameras caught the action.
And that was fun.
And now did you eventually, does your husband ever join in on these videos
that you have online or is it only you?
There's a few times he's joined, but for the most part,
He stays out of the video.
He's the cameraman.
And so, you know, every once in a while we'll do a little thing where the cameraman gets paid and I'll suck him off or something.
Now, do you show your face?
I mean, so if you're sucking them off, you got to kind of show your face.
I mean, are you like out and proud of what you're doing or does nobody know?
Is this a secret life?
I do wear a mask at most of my filings.
So I have a little bit of anonymity just so I feel more comfortable.
And that way we can get the closer of my face when I'm in ecstasy or something.
You know, because sometimes even if I didn't do the mask, we would probably blur my face.
And then you'd miss out on those expressions.
Yeah, for sure.
And then what fun is that?
Because the guy is going to see the girls' expressions when they're having pleasure.
Yeah.
And when they're, you know, having that orgasm, that's one of the things that DFW Knight started me with was a mask.
Because I told him I didn't want my face shown.
And he goes, oh, well, here, you know, wear one of these masks then.
And so that kind of started it and it's kind of my signature now.
Oh, interesting.
Okay.
So you're always wearing a mask this way people could see it.
So those earlier shoots before DF night, there was no mask wearing because your husband would make sure he was shooting it without your face.
Right.
or the lighting was dark enough that it wouldn't matter.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, cool.
So now that you got into, like, once you cross that line and you're doing stuff,
like, semi-professionally, I mean, you know, setting it up and everything,
like then what happens?
Did you ever do any gangbangs on film or anything?
I mean, did you start becoming even more creative?
I haven't done any gangbangs on camera yet.
I'm wanting to.
most of the biggest gang bang has been the threesome
and actually no I had a foursome that that was with a couple
and a girl and her husband and myself and another guy
and so we did do one of those
now do you fool around with the women too or just with guys other guys
was there like a full swap or like what went down with that foursome
with that one I don't play with girls my husband
describe me as bi-friendly situational. So if a girl wants to go down on me, I'm perfectly okay with that
because girls' tongues feel amazing anyway, by the way. And they just know, for some reason,
they just know, of course, because they're, they know. And so her and her husband and I,
and this other guy, we got together, she got fucked by the other guy. I've got fucked by the other guy. I've got
fucked by her husband. And then she went down on me after her husband came inside of me and clean
me up and licked me. And oh, man, that felt so good. And I'm getting a little bit more comfortable
with girls. I don't kiss. I'll maybe fondle their breasts a little bit and touch their,
you know, legs and their hips and stuff. Because when you're in close proximity, you know,
when you're doing her husband and she's there, you know,
you kind of want to, you know, touch her too a little bit and not make her feel like,
you know, it's like, ew, or anything.
So, yeah, I've been having fun with that couple.
And we get together quite often for some fun.
So now, and then you wind up, I'm assuming you wind up figuring out a way to monetize
all of this for yourself, right, once you start to really get into it?
Yes, we figured out, you know, that with some of these sites, I could put my videos, my full videos on and charge people and they'd buy them.
And it's like, wow, okay.
Well, this is pretty cool.
And so we kept looking at other sites to put stuff up on and, you know, researching, seeing what people said about them and stuff.
And it's like, oh, okay, well, we'll go here and we'll do all.
fans will do many vids. Loyal fans is new, getting that one started. But it's just amazing what
people will buy. And there's no rhyme or reason as to what they purchase. We've put out there
the most grainyest, can't see much of anything. And that video will sell like hotcakes.
And then we go put one that has the lights and the,
mask and all this stuff and it's, you know, good quality.
And it doesn't do as well.
So it's, you know, it's interesting.
It's interesting what people will watch and what they'll purchase.
Yeah.
Do you do custom stuff?
I do.
I've done a few custom videos.
I actually did one guy wanted me to video myself going to the eye doctor and getting
my eyes dilated and stuff.
And wearing a vibrator.
Oh, is it so fucking crazy the shit that people are into?
Wait a second.
So this guy obviously had, maybe he was an eye doctor himself.
Like maybe he was an ophthalmologist, right?
Because he wanted you to go to the eye doctor with, tell me exactly what he asked you to do.
He asked me to go.
He wanted me to actually wear a remote control vibrator.
Okay.
Well, I didn't really have one.
Uh-huh.
But I had one I could start out with here at home.
So I started out with that here at home.
I got ready and I said, okay, I'm going to go to the eye doctor now.
I'm all turned on and I'll send them pictures when I'm done.
Yeah.
So when I got done at the eye doctor and my eyes were dilated and everything,
I, you know, videoed that a little bit and came home, finished getting off because I've still turned on from the
vibrator prior to the eye doctor appointment.
Yeah.
And that, that's all he wanted.
He just wanted to watch me be, get, um, turned on, go the eye doctor, get my eyes
dilated and come home and finish off.
That's hilarious.
He must be an eye doctor himself or something.
I, because that, like, why else would he, that's so specific, like, go get your eyes dilated
and then come home, horny from the experience and send me that video.
Yes, yes. So that's been the most interesting custom that I've done.
So now that you turned kind of like professional, do you still videotape everything or how does it work now?
That you're sort of taking it to a website and, you know, amateur porn?
Right. I would say 90% of my escapades are very.
videoed. There's a handful of people who don't want to be filmed that I get with. And we just have
sex off camera. Yeah. And that's fine. I'm perfectly okay with that because I didn't start the
lifestyle to make money, right. Make money. Yeah. I just started the lifestyle because I like sex.
And I was, you know, horny and needed more than. Yeah. Yeah.
You are horny, okay? Six months in, you're doing gangbangs.
Yeah.
So, but yeah, it's been fun and just to experience different techniques with guys and what they do and how they manage to reach spots that I didn't know existed has been just so amazing.
And it's been a really positive experience.
Like did you go from never having squirted to squirting, multiple orgasms?
Like what are some of the new things that you experience while doing that, all this crazy sex?
I do squirt more.
And there's one guy who can make me squirt every single time we get together.
And then just knowing that I can reach orgasm with inner.
course is like wow it's just because you don't I didn't get it there before and now I do and it's
just been mind blowing how great sex can be yeah yeah um so what uh tell me about like do you do
DP, DVP, that kind of stuff?
I have tried DVP.
I am too small for the big guys.
So that has not been a thing for me.
It just doesn't work out.
And DP, no, that's just not going to happen.
Right.
I always thought I'd like it.
But after, you know,
doing stuff is like no no that's just not going to happen that's just not not for me and I have so many
guys like oh cacao please I'm like no it is it doesn't work for me sorry yeah no I mean listen
you you're obviously very open into trying anything I mean everybody has stuff that they're into
stuff that they're not it's not like you know I think it's interesting that that's something that
you don't it's fine you know
I mean I've heard
DVVs like two dicks in a badge
DVP I don't know airtight spit
roasting I've learned all these things
yes
right
right it's like oh okay that's a thing
okay what does it look like oh yeah
no yeah that's so interesting
what is like give me some of like your hottest
scenarios or like what you're really into
if you want to end on that
hottest scenario my hottest scenario would be well I've kind of done it the gang bang
I haven't there's not really anything that I can think of that I want to try right but what do you
love like I mean what is the top of the mountain for you is it a threesome is it being filmed is it
DFW night and your husband watching I mean what is it that you love the most the thing I
love the most is a threesome and that would be with two guys and me that is my favorite that is what i um got
started with with the lifestyles like i wanted threesomes and that continues to be my hottest right i just
love being you know taken by another guy and my husband or two other guys while my husband watches that is just
that's just the bomb.
Right.
That's your top of the match.
Now, so okay, give a shout-off
where people could, like, find you
and all your stuff again,
and I'll put links.
My main site is hotwife,
carousweet.com.
Mm-hmm.
I'm on many vids,
Kara suite.
Dot many vids.
Mm-hmm.
Only fans.
Mm-hmm.
And loyal fans.
And then you can Google me and find me on X Hamster, X Videos, Porn Hub.
Those would be the main ones.
Okay, great.
I'll put links to everything.
Kara, thanks so much for calling in and telling your story.
I'm sure a lot of my listeners are going to go check you out,
especially because they know that you're really effing enjoying yourself.
Do you know what I mean?
That first video, what's the name of that first?
I think everyone's going to want to see that first video, DFW Knight and you, your first time?
Is that what it's called?
Something like that?
Yeah, I think we've named it like DFW Night breaks Karras, porn, cherry, something along that line.
Oh, okay.
So people will really know they could go see that one.
That was like your first time and you, like, fully enjoyed it.
Lose yourself in all your videos.
I think that's what, you know, guys love the most is to really hear from a woman who loves sex, who enjoys having it.
This way they could go look and they could join your stuff or see you.
for free in all those places. But thank you anyway. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing your
story, Kara. Well, thank you for having me. I appreciate it. All right. Awesome. Thank you.
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