Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 592 - Joe Has Been Participating in Gangbangs and Orgies for the Past Nine Years

Episode Date: February 8, 2023

Joe has been participating in gangbangs and orgies since he was 20 years old and he called in to talk all about it. How did he get into gangbangs? What happened at the first one he attended? And, how many has he been to since?? Tune in to hear all the details including how the porn he watched in high school led him to this lifestyle, the first sex club he wound up at and what exactly went down, why everyone was so into him at the club, how and why he digs hooking up with much older women, how and why he joined fetlife and what he uses it for, the difference between orgies and gangbangs, how gangbangs in real life differ than gangbangs in porn, the demographics of the women he encounters at the gangbangs, the orgy/gangbang he flew out to to LA for and what exactly went down, the porn stars he’s hooked up with while in this world, what he loves most that goes down while at these events he goes to, all the things he’s tried including DP, DVP, spit roasting and more, the vanilla relationship he had and why it didn’t work out, how much he pays to attend the gangnbang parties and what typically goes down there, the trans women he has hooked up with, std testing and condom usage at the parties, whats left on his bucket list and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pic of Joe plus anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Okay. Gang bangs and orgies since he's like 20. How did he get into that at 20 years old? He's only 29 now and he's been in that world the whole time. Okay. How did he get into it? young he talks about that. He talks about his first gangbang that he went to and what exactly happened. He talks about how like gangbangs are very different in real life as they are in porn. He talks about

orgies, the difference. He's been to both. Of course, he's been to sex clubs. He goes to some like gangbangs that are set up at hotels, some gangbangs that are set up at sex clubs. He talks about one time when he flew out to L.A. for a big set up gang bang. There was like a camera crew there. and some pornsters. He named some names of pornsters that he's hooked up with and been involved in in these like gang bang scenarios. Of course, I find out how much that he pays for all this stuff and all the specifics I get. It is very interesting. There's one guy who like sets up gangbangs too that he goes to and that guy always gets like these young hot girls to do the gangbangs because we do talk about like the demographics of the women that are there. What exactly goes down? What he's into.

He has done everything from spit roasting to DVP to DP. He talks about why he loves DP and how it's different than doing gangbangs and what he loves about that. He talks about how he at some point was hooking up with trans women and how he got into that. But mostly we talk all about the gang bang orgy world that he has lived in. Like I said for the past nine years, he's been there, done that, and he talks about all of the specific. which are really interesting. He sent me in a pick, too. I have an anonymous pick of Joe.

If you want to see anonymous picks of Joe, you just got to go to my Patreon, patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Joe. Hi, Joe. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing great.

I'm glad to be on the show. Yeah, I'm glad you're sneaking out of work on your lunch break, talking to me in your car like a lot of people do. Listen, Joe, I was like, I really hope this is the guy that's calling in that left me a confession about having gangbings through school and putting together gangbings. I mean, is that who I'm talking to, the gangbang guy? I don't organize them, but I do attend a lot of them and partaking them often. Oh, okay.

Were you on your way to a gangbang when you left me that message? That is exactly true. I was heading over to a gangbang event. I'm part of a group They tend to have events Maybe once every couple weeks So that was one of the events I was heading over to Okay now Joe you sound very young and I feel like I remember that about your confession

So how does a guy that just sounds like a young normal dude Get into attending gangbangs on a regular basis So it all started back when I was in high school I kind of you know Stumbled across porn and it was a fantasy of mine. I went after college. I didn't really participate in group activities, but it was still part of a fantasy I had of mine. I came back after college graduated, and I met this friend at the gym, and throughout conversation, he kind of briefly mentioned the topic, and

one thing led to another, and we went to a sex club, and that was my first experience of that kind of subject. You know, we went to the sex club, and I think it was Sam Patrick's Day. So we walked in there, and it was a couple, and I think they were visiting out of town, and the husband was just choosing guys to just go out of his wife. And the first time I went up,

it was just such a fascinating thing that I couldn't believe it was happening. And then I got hooked on that feeling. And then I met people through the, different events and then you would get invited to parties and then it was kind of just the whole group thing. So you get messages of different people you meet at these events and it kind of just keeps you in, you know, just people that know people that have events and invitations that come in and come out, you know. Yeah, all you have to do is go to that one sex club and then boom, you're in and then it just snowballs into everything else. So let's slow it down because like what is

it like how old were you when you went to that first sex club and they allowed to? two single guys in? Or was your friend from the gym a girl or a guy? I'm assuming it's a guy, right? It was a guy. Yes, it was a guy. And it depends on the night. I know there's certain nights that they have like couples nights. So guys can go in there until, I think, one or two a.m.

But I think this night, it was like a holiday weekend. So it was just waiting guys. They were just, yeah, exactly. They were letting guys in. And I think there's three levels. So all three levels were open to every one. and it just happened to be that I walked in on a holiday weekend. So it was pretty fascinating and lucky of my part.

Yeah, I guess if you're like fantasizing about that. Like as here you were a guy that is watching porn. You're for some somehow you come across some gangbang porn and that becomes like something that you're super into. And then is that what came up with that guy in the gym like you guys were talking about gang bangs or something like that? Yeah. So he was sharing a little bit of his sexual experience of me. And then, you know, we throughout. conversation he talked to me that he had been game bangs and orgies and I

kind of mentioned to him that that was something that was on my bucket list and something I've always wanted to try it yeah and then we kind of he kind of told me that there are certain city there are certain events and places that he would go to and I could tag along with them whenever I wanted to and one day I just decided to go along with them and he took me to this club and the rest is history so wait that time that first second club that you went to you're in like right out of high school i mean how old are you do you remember i think i was like 20 21 maybe how old are you now joe you still sound super young i'm uh 29

okay so you're only 29 so we're 20 years old you're single i'm assuming at that point yes i was in middle okay and so you go to this sex club and is the first person that you hook up there like that guy's wife is that what you went down that first time yes yeah that's exactly what happened uh and then uh so you know we hook up and there's a bunch of guys just lining up and you know I finish my thing and then I proceed to just walk around hang around a little bit longer and there's a couple of girls just standing by there and you know I'm a little tipsy at this point so I'm more open to conversation and I try to talk to this woman and the woman is like oh I just I just saw you hooking up with

the wife right there and I try to deny it and she's like I was literally standing right behind you. We have a clear view of you doing it. Well, why is that bad thing? I mean, you're at a swingers club. First of all, why are you trying to lie and why is she trying to pin it on you? I mean, this isn't a first date off of match.com. I mean, you're at a fucking swingers club. I don't understand that story. What do you mean? I don't get it. Yeah, so it was just like, it was just like something's still new to me that I kind of try to, I guess, play it down or kind of deny it. If that makes sense.

and then Oh, you were the one acting like a weirdo. It wasn't like she was like, oh, don't talk to me. You were just with that woman. You were like thinking you're in a straight bar somehow and you should be lying about it. Oh, thank you. Kind of like a guilty conscious type of thing. But yeah, you know, over the years and over the experiences, I kind of realized that none of that matters.

Most of these people that go to these events are really laid back, really social. honestly there's really just no negativity in most of these events um i do have to say though at first you do kind of go through certain events that are kind of not as great just because it's kind of random people that kind of get invited there really isn't that uh close-knit community of sorts but then as you start to like get more invitations from certain people you interact there it becomes a lot more safe in my opinion more laid back more just positive honestly. Right. Okay. So how do you get involved? Like that guy with his wife. I mean, do you become friends with certain people at the club? Like, or do you keep going back with that same friend from the

gym? So initially, I mean, at first of, I'm always like a laid-back person. So always like to interact and meet people and social. And I always give that impression towards people. And I think people are aware that I'm genuine. But initially, in the first few experiences, I went back to that club and you know clubs can be a hit or miss so the first time i went there was you know this great experience next time i go back there it wasn't that great of experience there was mostly guys and really no really no girls playing around so the next few times that was my experience at these clubs and then i started reaching out because i heard um of a website called fet life yeah and then that's where i started exploring more of that uh you know house parties and

gatherings of people that I later became friends with and would get invited more regularly through fit life. I mean, weren't you like some hot piece of ass because you were so young in that world? Yes, believe it or not. No, I believe it. I mean, because it's not normal that like a 20-year-old finds himself out of swingers, a 20-year-old single guy

that wants to fuck guys' wives. Now, listen, I have all those guys on that want to see their wife with a guy. You know, so I know that they exist, but there's not a lot of 20-year-olds that exist on the other side of things. That's why I was, like, excited to have you on because your stories are very unique. I mean, I think it's just in the area I live in. Yeah. It's very open and liberal.

That I do, surprisingly, I do see a mixture of younger guys in these events as well. Oh, really? Yeah. So I don't know if this is because of the area I live in, or just it just all happens to be that it, younger guys are being more involved in this scene as well. Yeah, maybe that is the case. But let me ask you this. Did you tell any of your friends outside of this world what you were doing?

So one of them would know. I guess a couple of them would know, but I didn't really go into details. One of them was curious about this. He's always been kind of curious, but he never really has stepped out into this world per se. So I was actually talking to this friend of mine, maybe a week ago, and he was kind of like just asking me questions on Fet Live. And he's like, I see that you go to these events and give me more details. How do you get invited?

And he was kind of just picking my brain a bit more. Right. But I mean, you're not like hanging out with your guy friends, your vanilla guy friends. Like, oh, yeah, I got to go, going to the swingers club tonight or going to a sex party or I had a fucking gang bang the other night. It was so hot. I mean, I don't really talk to them in detail. Yeah, yeah. I do mention it to them.

You know, some of them do have questions. curious but don't actually take my invitation. There is times I've invited them to come along, but they've just shown interest, but they never actually followed through with the interest. Right. That's interesting, but they know. It's not like, my whole point is like, are you keeping this a secret life or are you open about it?

Well, I'm open to my friends about it. But besides that, like, you know, family or coal workers, you mentioned that at all. Yeah. So you go on FetLife, and now, like, Fat Life is interesting because someone explained to me recently. They're like, you know, it's not a place where you want to go to hook up with people and set up threesomes or stuff. But it really is a place that you could find events and meet, meetups and stuff like that. Like, that's really what it's good for networking.

And that's what you used it for to find the house parties and all the stuff that you eventually got into to find the gangbangs and stuff. Yes, that is correct. So initially, I only heard about this website through a, another worker out of gym. So this guy that worked out of gym, I don't know how you brought it up into conversation, but you brought it up. And then I just went online

and started looking up at events near me. And then I just started going through different events. Like I mentioned to you, some of these events I initially went to were not that great. You know, they were in hotels. It looked like people or the girls they don't want to be there. So it was kind of just not the best events I would recommend.

But then as you should, start going to more, you start seeing different hosts, and then you become familiar with the host, and you become friends of the girls and the host, and that's how you start getting invited to these events that are great. Okay, let's go to the events that are great, and then how do you get into, like, all these, like in the world of gangbangs? Because I feel like gangbangs are different than, you know, swingers parties and sex parties. Gangbangs are a totally separate thing, correct?

Yes. Mm-hmm. I mean, it kind of goes hand in hand because there's certain girls that do like to have game bangs, but then also like to have like orgies. Yeah, yeah. So it kind of intertwines.

So I guess it just depends on the mood of the girl because certain girls are in the mood for orgies on, say, Friday, but then next Saturday they're into mood for a game bang. And what's the difference between an orgy and a gangway? Orgy is like everybody, there's like just tons of people, men and women. having sex altogether, multiple partners, not just one person with multiple partners.

That's a gang bang. Yeah, so a gangbang would be that, in my definition, would be that there's possibly one or two girls of 10 guys or more having sex. And then an OG would be more of a balance. So like maybe six girls and 15 guys or something like that, you know, where the ratios a little bit more balanced. That's my definition. of the difference in Buffalo.

Right. So to walk me through how you wound up, you know, stumbling upon the orgies and the gangbangs, because that really was what you were interested in. You brought that up. Like when you were in high school, you realized that you were down for that because of, you know, you found porn. So what was your first orgy and gangbang like?

Were there 10 guys and one girl? I think it was at a hotel. And I think it was about, 15 guys, well, girl. And it was just awkward because it's like, this is something you had, you know, desired and fantasized about, but, you know, reality is a little different.

So, of course, I think this happens a lot to people that are initially interested in this. Uh-huh. They have a difficulty getting, you know, hard because it's, you know, their anxiousness, nerves. Did that happen to you? I did. Okay.

It really did. So it was like, I guess the first time going, it was more like an observational. I did try to play, but it didn't really go as planned. Let me tell you, if you didn't go to a gangbang with my girl, Casey, she'd be fucking pissed, okay? Because she was a gang bang, she wants everyone to fuck her. Like, she's like, oh, some guys don't get hard, you know?

I mean. Yeah, I actually heard that episode earlier this week. And I was like, yeah, that's actually what happens when you first go to these events. It's like just the emotions and nervousness. you know, you start being self-conscious, like, am I, how am I measuring up to this person? And, you know, it kind of just all these things kind of bubble up in your mind. But then as you go through these events, none of that really matters. And all that nervousness starts to disappear.

So your first one, what went down? I mean, was it still hot to you watching it? Oh, yes. It was extremely hot because, you know, it's something that had seen on the screen, on my phone. And then here I am in front, you know, at the front watching it live. and, you know, the sounds and, you know, just the whole thing was just hot, you know, because it's right in front of you and this is something you had been thinking about fantasizing for years and it's finally happening. But you couldn't get hard.

Exactly. Right. So you didn't participate. Yeah. I tried to participate, but it didn't plan out. So how many guys were at that one? Do you remember? I think it was at least 10 to 15 guys out of minimum.

How do they get that many people at all that? Is that how many people are typically at the gangbanks you go to? That's a lot of people. It varies. So, like, I'm sure you've heard this situation that happens throughout the guest. You've had out on the show. A lot of the guys say they're going to be there. So they invite a bunch of guys.

And, you know, most of the guys are lying. No, but what happens with you? I mean, when you, gone, are they typically the gangbangs that you go to? Are they the same people? Or is it always different people? I want to hear your experience. There's similar faces. Like this past one I went to and I was on my way and I called you.

There's a few guys that had seen from previous events and, you know, you start to become familiar with them. You start talking to them. You start chatting up things. You talk about sports. You know, it becomes like a friendship, honestly. And then you get into the activities, you know, because typically when I go to these events, it kind of like when you first get there, you check them.

There's like drinks. and food and snacks, and then you kind of just socialize for a bit, maybe like 30 minutes or so, and then you start going upstairs to have the fun. And then that's where you start becoming acquainted with everyone. And, you know, if the girls see that you're there often and they start to recognize you, know you on first name basis, same with the guys, the guests as well, the host, I mean, I meant to say. So, yeah, it becomes like a close-knit community of sorts. Well, how many gang bang girls do you know and what are they like?

And what are you into? Okay, first of all, I like older woman. So this last event, I think I don't know how old she was, but she had some gray hair, but had a really smoking body. She kind of looked like a biker chick. Okay. She was there of her husband. And she had nice tits, slim body. So that's my type of like something like old, like more.

mature. A milth. Yeah, correct. Right. You're into milts. It's probably because, you know, those early experiences, I would assume in the clubs, there was a lot more older women to choose from than younger girls, right? In those swingers clubs when you were there?

Yes, most definitely. And you would see couples in there as well. Right. But they older women with couples. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Totally. So you had more experience with that kind, right? Was that always your thing when even before you went to the side?

clubs? Older women? Yes, I feel like, yeah, I feel like ever since I can remember, I loved older women specifically just older like white, blonde hair or white gray hair type of woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Nice body tattoos. Yeah, that's my type of, that's my preference. Okay, so now you start to go to these orgies and these gangbangs. Tell me some other experience, like tell me some specifics. Like, what was your first

orgy like? My first orgy were, well, Let me see. One of the ones that comes out to my top of my mind is I went to this one and let's just say Southern California. I went to Southern California. I flew out there and You flew out for the orgy or were you just going there for something else? No, I flew out there specifically for this event. How come? What kind of like event was it that you're like, I got to get on a plane and go to that? It was this popular girl on Fent Life and she had friends that were porn stars and what, not. Okay, these are important details. Okay, this is why I got to get them out of you. Okay, you got to tell me this shit.

Okay, so it's like a kind of like a famous girl or like a big person that a lot of people know or someone hot like on Fat Life. Is that what you're saying? Yes, she was recognized on Fat Life. She's no longer active on Fat Life. But I, she, I saw her post and I saw that she was going to have an event and I saw that she was going to have some four stars there as well. So it just happened to be my birthday weekend as well. So I just decided to, to just do this as a gift for me. Mm-hmm. I flew out there. I met up with this friend that I had met from the gym sometime before that. The one that got me into this whole scene, he moved to L.A., so I was out there with him. Okay.

And we both went to this event. Now, wait, let me ask you a question. Porn Stars, are they going to be male porn stars hanging out in the orgy, in the orgy? Or is they going to female porn stars or both? Female porn stars. Oh, okay. Okay, go on. Yeah, and then, yeah, so we go out there. We go to this nice, I think it's like a condo in a really nice area in Southern California.

We text her and, you know, it kind of felt like out of a movie because there was like a bunch of guys, maybe like 10 guys waiting for us at the lobby of a condo. And then the security guy comes down. He has a list. He starts like telling, he starts asking for our name and phone numbers. And, you know, we walk down this like brick wall. a brick hallway, kind of feel like, I don't know, like a secret, I don't know, like a secret room we're going to. And, you know, we make sure that we are who we are. And then we finally get to the condo.

And as soon as he walked in, you start just seeing these amazing, beautiful woman just having sex all over the place. And it was just like a fantasy come to fruition, you know. It was like a teenage fantasy. Were they pornsters that you knew of? Yes. They were. Like famous porn stars. Not too famous.

They're like a middle tier. Mm-hmm. Okay. And they're all in this room. Now, do you have to pay to get to this event? I mean, is someone making money off of this? Or is this is a girl's fantasy? I mean, how do they get all these porn stars to show up?

You think they were paid? And was this a paid event? This was a paid event. Okay. But it wasn't anything too ridiculous. I mean, it was like, I think I paid $100 for this. Okay. Now, was this a very big event?

Like, how many people are? in this orgy? I think about 30 people, at least, at least 30 people. Okay. And then, yeah, so you walk in and, I mean, it was kind of surprising because we see a whole camera crew there, which was something that was not mentioned to us. So it was taken back. So the host decided to hire a camera crew for a part of the night.

So they were recording what was going on and filming it. And so it kind of just felt like I was being in the middle of a porn set, honestly, which was another fantasy of mine. Well, you probably are, you probably were on a porn set. I'm sure that video is someplace on Porn Hub right now, okay? I'm sorry, but like what else, for what other reason would they be fucking filming it professionally? Okay, unless they're going to make money on it. What? I got a copy of the video because the girl, she had it on Fetlifer, but then she, uh,

she decided she just exit the lifestyle, so she reached out to me, and I was in contact of her, and she gave me a copy of what she had recorded. Oh, okay. But, I mean, was it a professional, like, film crew recording this, or just, like, her iPhone? No, it was like a professional crew there.

Yeah. Like, the whole video's edited and whatnot, and I'm like, huh, this is interesting. Yeah, like I said, someone's making money off of that shit. I'm sorry. There's so much porn out there that probably your parents will never see it,

but I'm sure you're like in a porn video somewhere. I mean, come on. Like, I don't know. Like, that's fucked up. They didn't even tell you that they were going to be filming? Like, didn't some people have a problem with that? I mean, luckily, they were only filming her and some of the girls. Like, no, none of the guests were filmed like.

Oh, you weren't in it. You weren't shown? Like, none of the face shots, like, no face shots were shown in the film. So just the girls and, you know, body parts. Okay. So anyway, so what, so how? How many girls do you bang and like do you get to fuck your favorite porn stars at that orgy? Like give us some details.

Yeah. So it was I think three or four different rooms and there was a girl. There was a couple of girls in each room. So it was up to you as how you wanted to go about it. And, you know, of course, you know, my technique when I go to these events is like I want to have a sample of everything. Yeah. And then, you know, once I'm ready, I go back for the dessert, which is my first. favorite type of girl.

The old lady in the room. Yeah, exactly. The Fat Life girl, was she an older woman or was she younger girl? She was an older woman. She was? Yeah, she had mentioned to me that I think she had been divorced and had kids and she was exploring her sexuality and she got into the lifestyle. Okay.

And that's how she got into participating in gang things and then later on hosting them. Mm-hmm. And then she became friends with some of the poor stars, and that's how the poor stars were involved as well. Yeah, I mean, they were doing something with that video. And, like, I just feel like those girls probably had to get paid to go there, and they were charged. Like, that whole thing was a money-making opportunity as well as sex for someone, right?

I mean, come on. I don't blame it. Yeah, I have fun, so that's what matters. Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. So you wind up doing everybody? Everyone's doing everybody at this party? Yes. So there's like, I think there was like a line for most of the girls. So you kind of just have to, you know, sense the energy, rate your turn and then, you know, go up and have your fun. What do you mean, a line?

Yeah. So there was like, so the girls were either in the bed or on the floor and, you know, they were either getting funked or sucking dick. And then there was a line of guys behind them. Oh, so it's kind of like a gang bang orgy. I mean, like, but there's like a lot of girls all being. being done, they're there, and then every guy. So the ratio is like a lot less women to men, that there's a line of guys, right? Yes, correct. Yeah. So this was more of like a gaming in my opinion because there was more guys, more guys and girls. Mm-hmm.

So, yeah, I mean, and that's where I experienced a, I think I had a girl suck my dick with two other guys and they came in her mouth. Oh, so you were like lined up. And she was like blowing three different guys. She was actually out. We were standing up and she was on her knees. Right, right, right. And you dig that. Yeah.

Yeah, that was something different. And nothing that I had really thought about until it was happening. And that was pretty fascinated by that and I enjoyed it all. Really? So like the thought of you, like a girl on her knees servicing many guys, including you, wound up to be like something like a hot scenario. for you? Yes, yes. I think I enjoy seeing a woman just servicing in multiple guys and having sex and multiple guys as I'm there as well watching it and partaking in it. Right, right, right. Yeah,

that's interesting. I guess it's like a kind of thing that you would never know you were really into unless you saw it. You never stumbled across that in porn so you didn't know. But when it was in real life, you were like, oh, this is hot. Yeah, exactly. And that was the fat life lady that did that? Yes. Okay, so that was like your big orgy that stands out to you or gang-pang. Let me ask you this. Have you ever had any kind of relationships with the female within this time period? Yes.

And was it someone in the lifestyle or was it someone vanilla? Vanilla. So I try to distance myself from the lifestyle and then the relationship didn't really work. I tried to be honest, transparent with her about what I. did before meeting her and you know explaining to her what I had been into and try to explain to her that I was trying to pivot from that lifestyle in order to successfully be in his relationship over but that didn't work out why not I just don't think she understood or um I think she was too judgmental well you know you probably like I don't know so you wind up saying to this girl hey listen I

I'm into orgies and gangbings, but I'm going to put that all aside for you, but I wanted you to know that that's what I used to be into, but I'm going to try not to be into it anymore and just date you. Kind of. It's because she was asking about sexual experiences. Yeah. You know, she was asking about sexuality and, you know, I for once was trying to be honest and transparent and it kind of backfired.

Of course. Any regular girl is going to be very intimidated by that. And I'm sorry, but like, I'd run for the hills too. because I'd be like, I don't know that this guy, like, you know, what are the odds that a guy that's been to tons of orgies and tons of gangbangs and has been going to sex club since he's in his 20s is going to be able to have a vanilla relationship with a girl and put it all to the side? I mean, do you think you could even do that?

I mean, why? Do you think that that's even realistic for you? I don't know. I really don't know. I think about it sometimes, and I'm on the flip-flop. Sometimes I do think I can successfully be in a vanilla relationship, but then other times I'm like, yeah, I just don't see myself in that vanilla relationship lifestyle. Right, but you could meet a woman in the lifestyle.

I mean, have you ever met somebody in the lifestyle? No, I haven't. So that's something I might be interested in pursuing more. Maybe just because I always thought as my partner being out of the lifestyle. How come? But I guess I don't know, just growing up, family was traditional and you know you go to college you get married and you know you have a family that that's the expectation I had growing up and still have kind of to a certain extent today

well I mean you could do you could get married to a girl in the lifestyle I mean the only difference with the girl in the lifestyle than the girl outside of the lifestyle is that your sex life you're going to be non-monogamous with her and you guys are going to do your thing but no one's going to needs to know about that but you could still get married and have kids and do all those regular life things too Yeah, I mean, it just had something I haven't really thought about much. Really? But, I mean, you were nine years without a relationship with a girl.

I mean, you've never had a loving, like, you've never had a relationship with a girl. You're just having, like, and not to say that you have to. I'm just wondering, like, I mean, that you say you've never thought about it. You had only one experience, so you've never had a girl outside of the lifestyle. I have. So I have, like, a really toxic relationship in my early years of college, which is why that kind of pushed me towards the lifestyle a bit, you know, try to get away from like monogamy and explore as much as I could. And then that kind of left a better taste in my mouth for a while. And then this

other girl that I just mentioned to you about kind of left another better taste in my mouth. And so I don't know. I mean, that's something I do want to maybe look into then. If I want to continue this lifestyle, there's no, I think the way I look at it, it was like, I keep telling myself this is the last event this is no this is going to be my my my my my good bye the lifestyle but then you know I always get back into it so maybe I'm lying to myself well no maybe there's some sort of like conflict within you about you know the lifestyle I mean is it like something that why do you tell yourself oh this is the last time do you feel like it's just all too consuming and it is keeping you from having other things in your life?

Why the putting those kind of parameters on it? I think at one point it was too consuming. But now that I've been in it for so long, the priority of attaining these events is not at the top of my list anymore. So maybe that might have something to do because before I would try to go at as much events as I possibly could just because it was such a neat thing. you know, it was just fascinating to me now that it's, I've been in it for so long. It's, I mean, it still has a shine, but it's not as bright.

If that makes sense. I guess. I don't know. You just said, like, I always try and tell myself that this is the last one. So you feel like maybe you could at this point because you've been doing it for so long, put it to the side for a relationship and you would be okay. Yes, I think I could do that actually. Mm-hmm.

And you'd want to be monogamous? You could be? That's something I, I, I thought about, I'm not really sure how to answer that because at times I can't, but then, you know, I think about it more and, you know, in my day to day, I'm like, I don't know if I can't. I like to be social, like to just interact and flirt and, you know, just be open at times.

And that could be conflicting with a partner. Well, okay, no one cares about this stuff. People are probably like how they get back to the gangbangs and the orgies and the spingers and all that. Like, tell me more information about that. Like, how does it, like, do you just get hit up in your inbox on, Are you in the know of all the, like, the best parties and stuff? And, I mean, I think you said you go like almost every weekend, no?

Yeah, at one point I was going every weekend, but now I've kind of tethered a little bit down. I go maybe once every two to three weeks now. The group I'm part of has a Discord channel, so the guy sends us a message. And then he just lets us know, like, hey, I'm having a party this weekend. Let me know if you like to attend. And then he sends pictures of the girls that are going to be. hosting event. And so what are the, like, the demographics of the girls?

I mean, I know what you like. Is there anything that you don't like and that you're like, oh, you know, no thanks and you pass on it? Not necessarily. You know, I think these girls, for the most part, are younger, which is a little bit shocking because my first game bankers were typically older women. Not so attractive. But this guy manages to get these.

really gorgeous-looking woman, you know, younger as well, which is so shocking. You mean, so the new guy, so there's a guy now who's like a gang-bang coordinator. That's the guy I want on my show. So there's a gang-bang coordinator, and he sits up these gang-bangs that you go to, and he gets very hot young girls. Yes. But then there's other girls that he doesn't publicize because they are regular people. Yeah.

So, you know, you go up to these events, expecting four girls. but then you got there's like eight girls, four of them, which were not publicized because, A, they're married to someone or B, they just want to keep it, you know, on a download. So that's the type of structure that comes up these parties. You know, you expect they're going with one thing, but then you actually show up that there's a whole different thing waiting for you. Do you have to pay to go to those gangbangs?

Sometimes you do. And how much are they when you do have to pay? It varies. So depending on the crowd he has and the type of host he has. Because some of these girls are only fan models. So they record and I don't know how popular they are if they are popular. But it varies. So if he has more girls, it's going to be anywhere between $150 to $200. Oh, that you pay. Yeah. But it's, I'm talking about like 10 plus girls. Right. And now that, so you go sometimes to a place and there's 10.

girls. So these are a lot of like, so these are like gangbangs with one girl. They are always like multiple girls. Uh, yes. With this go with this, uh, guess there is multiple girls. I would say at a minimum about three girls, which is what I started with when I went to these parties first. And then it's slowly been expanding. And where does he have his parties? So he has a house that he rents. So it's like a house. It's like a residential area. You know, you show up. And you wouldn't have guessed what's going on. It's a typical suburban area. I think it's like two-story house, nice kitchen, about three or four bedrooms upstairs. And yeah, that's where all the magic happens. Right. So you go in and like you go up.

How long do these gang bang orgies last? About three to four hours. Really? Yeah. But he has a weird schedule because he tends to schedule them on the same. Sunday, Sunday roughly at 1 p.m., which is a little off, because before meeting this guy, all the events I would go to are in the nighttime. Yeah. So that was a little different. So I think that also adds elements of how people get to know each other more and you become more familiar with them.

Because you have the sunlight, people are more to socialize, in my opinion, when it's during the day versus the nighttime. So you prefer them now? I do. It kind of grew on me this schedule that he has. So what other kind of details can you tell me? Let's see. I've done DP, DVP, spit-roasted girls, common girls. I fucked porn stars in the past. Can you give names?

Names, let's see. I don't know if you know who Kitty Jaguar is. Kitty Jaguar, no, but that's okay. Kitty Jaguar. Yeah, if you were up, you know who Ashley Barbie is? No, but I don't know. I'm like, oh, I don't know these people, but other people might. Ashley Barber.

Okay. Yeah. And then there's actually another event that's coming up that I'm planning on flying out to, which is a masqueray, a gangbang event, and so in California, we're a different host. And the host just reached out to me, and it was saying that there's a couple of days. different porn stars are scheduled to go as well as one. That's a pretty big name that might potentially go that she's good friends with. So I'm pretty excited for that event, you know, especially because it's porn stars, one of my favorite porn stars since my teenage years.

I don't know if I should mention her name or not. You don't have to. Yeah. But she's going to be there? It's not guaranteed, but I was told it was a possibility that she would be there. Right. But there is two other porn stars, and there are going to be there as the host of the night. And they are specifically wanting to be King and Magnen, DP'd.

And do you like DP, spit roasting, all that shit that you do? Oh, yes, I love it. You love it? Yeah, I love it. You know, you kind of synchronize if the other guys, it all becomes one, if that makes sense. I guess I've never heard that before. No one's trying to, like, you know, out. do the other person. It's kind of just, you work as a team

collaboratively to enjoy the moment. Oh, that makes sense. Because maybe when you are doing a gang bang, it is kind of like a competition. You're separate and solo, whereas DP, you're all together. Is that what you're like, is that the difference? Well, I feel like as you start to go to these events more, it's no longer about outperforming, if that makes sense. It's kind of just making, coming as one team and, you know, performing together.

So all of these, so even the gangbangs, the orgies, all of it, you feel like it. You're all together in this on the same side. Nobody's like in competition or anything. Exactly. It's like everyone's just trying to enjoy the moment, helping, you know, helping the girl over to your dick and vice versa. And, you know, just taking turns, you know, there's no, like, shopping. There's no rudeness. Everyone's just trying to have a good time and, you know,

be positive and, you know, collaborative of this moment. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. And DVP, that's double vaginal. That's two guys in the same hole, right? Yes, that is. Yeah, that's what it is. So you're fine with crossing swords and stuff.

Do you ever hook up with guys? No, I haven't. I never did. You know what? I take that back. I did, when I went to the sex clubs, it's part, it's, the sex club was in a, it's in a big city.

that's very open. So you would see guys that are trans, I guess. Mm-hmm. And some of them are really, like, passable. So, you know, that moment, just because I've been curious, I had been curious at that time to experiment with that, I've done it. But I don't do that. I haven't done that in some time now.

Right. So you just did that. They were hot. They were trans women. You were down, and it was fine. I mean, did you blow them, or did they? blow you. No, they blew me. Okay. So that

was something you were open to. Yeah, because the guy that introduced me into the scroll, that was one of his things as well. He was really big into trans women. And I kind of mentioned it to him. That's actually how the whole conversation started. You know, this whole lifestyle thing, he kind of

mentioned to me about trans and I kind of told him that. I've been curious of trans women and never experimented with that. And that's how the whole ball got into this lifestyle with him. Yeah, that's crazy that all from the guy that you met at the gym got you into all the stuff and really changed your life

because, I mean, most people don't experience all the things that you've experienced. Oh, yeah, most definitely, you know, and it just becomes, it's a little crazy thing that people don't really have open conversations about sex and more than anything settle on, you know, monogamous relationship and don't experiment. you know, we live through, we live through our lives, not really realizing and experimenting

and getting out of our boundaries. And, you know, I'm glad I was able to do that in my younger life and still do it to this day. Yeah, totally. And I'm surprised you have never met, because you said that there's, like, younger girls around. I'm surprised you haven't met someone within the lifestyle. I mean, do you have a lot of friends in the lifestyle?

Not so much. So, like, the only friends I really have were the ones I met through the gangbanks, but I don't really reach out to them and socialize with them outside of those events. I have like a, I like to work out. I try to live a discipline lifestyle. Work, work out, martial arts, running and all that stuff. That's what I live for. And, you know, I try to live in that structure.

Yeah, yeah. And then, yeah, and then I go to these events and that's where I socialize it these people. Right. But everything's compartmentalized. Like that's that part. When you're there, you're in that world, when you're working out, and you're in that, you know, you're in your other worlds. Exactly.

That's the best way I would explain that. Right. And what about condoms? Do you, like, when you go to all these events and these, you know, are there rules about condoms? Yes. So it depends on the events. So one of the sketchiest places I've been to was like this gang bang I went to and the girls were not that great looking. And I saw, on top of that, I saw the host and the girls were not asking me.

for test and you could just raw dog and that was pretty scary to me. Right. So you prefer what it's done safely? Actually, if it's done safely in a manner that either A, the host and the guys are tested, then of course I would go ahead

and do raw dog, which is something I've been exploring more recently. Just because I've been hesitant about it but I just started to feel more comfortable recently and I've been able to go to these events and taking my test and the host makes sure that everyone has tests done within the timeframe and we could go raw dog right but when you weren't

comfortable with that you always use condoms that is correct and certain parties have a condom condom rule you know some of them have uh required condoms for everything others require condoms for uh just for sex others require condoms for uh you know anal or you know it just varies there's no really set standard of rules. It just varies per host and per girls. Right, right. And is there anything left on your bucket list? Because it really sounds like you've

sort of been there, done that. Is there something that you're still dying to do that you haven't yet? Something that I've been curious about recently, I guess, would be pegging. Okay. You being pegged, right? By a guy or a girl? Well, you can't be by a guy. Duh, I'm so dumb. By a woman.

Correct. Okay. I've had, I had, what is that called? Prostate massage. Yes, I had that recently. And that was a different experience. And so it got me thinking maybe if I go a little bit more down that rabbit hole, I could experience a more intense experience.

Yeah, why not? You know what I mean? I mean, there's like if that felt good, the pegging would probably feel good. Who gave you the prostate massage? Where did that happen? I would go to these massage parlors and I met this girl and, you know, she just offered a half one. And that's where she, and she asked if I ever done one.

And I told her I never experimented with that. And she went ahead and offered that service to me. Mm-hmm. And that was just fascinated by that whole, by that whole experience. And it got me thinking, I'm like, I should do this more and be, I might want to be interested in doing pegging as well. Right. And now, are you still on Fat Life? I am actually.

Would you want to give out your fat life for people to find you or no? I don't know if you want to do that. I don't know. It's up to you. I'll edit it out if you don't want to. It's no big deal. Sure. Yeah.

I mean, people could find me at my fat life. My fat life handle is M-I-G-I-3-1-1. M-I-G-I-9-3-1. Correct. Yeah. That's my handle. Okay. And now, like, what's your stats?

Like, if you have to describe yourself? Like, do you have a big dick, a small, you know, Like, are you like the guy at the gangbang with the big dick? I don't have a big dig. I have an average dick. Okay. So this is for all those guys. I think you need a big dick.

Yeah. You go to these events. You don't. Yeah. I like that. You do see guys that have massive dicks. I'm not going to lie. Yeah.

And initially that's something that you're self-conscious about. But then as you go to these events, you kind of just, you know, you don't think about it much. But yeah, you can have an average dick. Even if a small dick, I've seen some. small dicks in the gangbangs I've gone to. As long as you're comfortable with yourself, you enjoy the moment and you're being positive, everything's going to go well. Right.

Yeah, that's important to tell people because I think some guys would think, oh, it's just, you know, you're going to walk into a gang bang and every guy's got a big dick. You know, that's like, that's maybe what you see in porn. Yeah, real life is not like that. Maybe out of 10 guys you see like two guys of like massive dick. Yeah. Yeah. And like you said, with this, the reality is sometimes you go to some and they're not as good. People can't perform. I mean, it's not like always top of the mountain, a perfect hot scenario. I mean, right? It's like any other sort of experience of going out to a party or a regular party. Sometimes you go to them and they're great and then you're constantly chasing the dragon trying to get that really great one again. But it's not fucking great all the time. Nothing is. Exactly. Yep, exactly. You got to just go in there and hope for the best. And if not, then just make the best of this current situation.

But as a 29-year-old guy, Joe, my last question to you is, do you have any idea how many people, how many women you've had sex with? Can you count? Like your hundreds? Thousands? I stopped counting. I stopped counting. I probably say at least hundreds. Hundreds. Hundreds of girls. Yeah. Yeah, you just sound so innocent yet you've done so much. Can you send me picks? If you have any, like, picks, fat life picks that you want to send. for my Patreon members, I don't know. Nothing, like, X-rated. But do you have picks of yourself on your, on your fat life? What do guys do on Fat Life? Do you have pets?

I don't have pictures of myself physically or showing my face. No, I don't. So, right, right. No, what do you show them? Of course, I have a picture of my dick. Oh, yeah, no, no, I don't want pictures of your dick. Yeah, exactly. I'm like, I don't think women are a happy bucket.

No, let me tell you every now and that. I mean, you would think, considering what I, do and what I'm talking about that I get a lot more dick picks than I do most people get that I'm just a host of a show and I'm curious by nature and I'm having you know these kinds of conversations but they're not like oh you know no one's horny here like we're just having like real conversation so I don't typically get guys that send me dick picks but every now and then somebody will be like I'll be like oh something you pick for my patron they send me a dick pick I'm like no I there's no dicks and picks okay I don't do that on my Patreon I don't have an only fan that's not what we do here I do like you know our rated stuff with the girls always send me in hot picks but the guys i mean it's uh i didn't know if you had like i don't know yeah so don't bother sending me in pictures thank you so much joe for calling in and explaining your professional gang bang orgy stories i feel like you have so many that it's hard to get really specific about some it was like a nice overview of what goes down i think oh yeah i mean i just have so many that it's pretty hard to uh pinpoint

one of, you know, highlights, or that comes to my mind. The only one I brought up was the one in L.A., which is just something that kind of was just fascinating to me and jumps at me at this moment. Right, right, right, because you've been there, done that. And now you have that one coming up that you might go to. But anyway, thank you, Joe. Thank you so much for calling in. And wait until you hear your episode.

It'll be up very soon. So stay tuned. All right. I'll look forward. Thanks so much. Thanks for calling in. Bye. Thank you. Bye.

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