Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 596 - Gangbang Betty is Swinging with her New, Much Younger Boyfriend

Episode Date: February 15, 2023

Gangbang Betty is now swinging with her new, much younger boyfriend and she called in to talk all about it. How young is her new boyfriend? How did they meet up? And, when did they start swinging? Tun...e in to hear all the details including her hookups as a unicorn after her divorce, what she liked about being with couples, where she met her younger bf and what exactly went down during their first hook up, how and why they both decided to have a non monogamous relationship right from the get go, how they got involved in swinger house parties and what exactly goes down at them, what she didn’t enjoy about being a hotwife in her previous marraige and why she prefers swinging, the couples party they had at an airbnb and what exactly went down, what she loves about people in the lifestyle, how and why her new guy won’t let her play solo and how she feels about it, why she believes in being upfront about your sexual needs is the way to go, why she prefers dating younger guys, the apps they use to meet people for hook ups, why they prefer swinger parties over clubs, how she recently learned to squirt and her tips on how to squirt yourself, why she digs variety when it comes to sex and whats her biggest turn ons, how her boyfriend loves being with other women, how she enjoys watching and why sharing her partner makes her happy plus a whole lot more. Her first episode is #385 and second episode is #457 **To see anonymous pics BETTY and most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:50 So if you just wanted to remember that, if you can remember that, I'm talking very fast. Because I just got back from the gym and I'm jacked up on endorphins. Anyway, listen, today I have back on Gang Bang Betty. Now, Gang Bang Betty, you got to listen to her first other episodes. Her first episode, we call her Gang Bang Betty because when she called in, she was having gang bangs, and she loved gangbangs, and she was also like a total hot wipe with a cuck husband. You got to listen to that episode to find out what happened over there, and then her and her husband split up.
Starting point is 00:03:22 Last we talked to her, she was banging young guys, and she was having fun. And then she became a unicorn. And this is where we pick it up here. She became a unicorn to couples. She was sleeping with couples. She's talking about that. What she liked, what she didn't like about hooking up with women, what she liked about being a unicorn.
Starting point is 00:03:37 And she was still banging young guys. She loves younger guys. Betty gives her ages. She's like in her 50s. The new guy she's dating is in his 30s. And she has met her match. This is the guy for her. They do things different.
Starting point is 00:03:53 She's not having gang bangs anymore. She's not hot wifing. her and her guy though are in the lifestyle they she doesn't really dig swingers clubs she digs swingers parties they got in with a group of people and they hook up with other people in front of each other and they love nothing more than doing that they don't hook up solo her younger guy is not into that and she's fine with it she's got all her variety and then some okay she also recently squirted and she talks about that she rubs that in my face because that's my um my bucket list. She figured out how to squirt. He got her to squirt. She's into it. She talks all about that,
Starting point is 00:04:32 how she figured out how to do it, which is kind of interesting. It was for me because she gave some details about it, but mostly we talk about her young guy, like where she met him, the apps they used to hook up with other people and find out about these lifestyle house parties that they go to. They had like a six-some at an Airbnb. It was like three couples and them. So maybe it was a four-some. I don't know. An eight-sum. You have to listen. And she talks about them, like, how into each other they are, how into being with other people they are. She has zero jealousy. She would not mind if her guy went solo with other women.
Starting point is 00:05:08 But he's not into it. She's fine with that because she's happy. He's happy. I have picks, anonymous picks of her. The thing that I love about Gang Bang Betty, or Lifestyle Betty now, Swinger Betty, is that she's just like the regular. She's like, she says, like, oh, I have a mom, Bob, but she's just like a regular woman. that you would never, if you work with her in an office or she left next door to you and she brought you brownies, you would never assume that this woman is into the things that she is into.
Starting point is 00:05:39 She doesn't disappoint. She always tells a great story. And this is the third episode. It's a good one. So sit back and relax and I'm going to be right back on with Betty. Oh, and if you want to see pictures of her more pictures. Every time she's come, I've got some pictures. I got a new pick of her.
Starting point is 00:05:57 It's over on my Patreon, patreon.com. So, strictly anonymous podcast. Anyway, I'm going to be very back on with Betty. Hi, Gang Bang, Betty. Welcome back for an update show. How are you? Thank you. I'm very good.
Starting point is 00:06:12 Thank you for having me back. Oh, my God, Gang Bang, Betty. How could I not have you back? And how could I forget about you? And if anyone has to listen to your first episode, and I think that there was a second episode. episode but things come in three so this is your third episode it's not like you were on recently it was a while ago so i feel like probably a lot of people maybe that are going to be listening to
Starting point is 00:06:33 this one haven't heard your first one so if you have not heard gang bang betty's first episode the reason it's where she got her name gang bang betty you need to go listen to it because in that episode it was a very popular one yes and it was so interesting because listen i have anonymous picks of gang bang betty over my patreon so i know that she is like the soccer mom lady next door. Okay, but behind closed doors, her and her husband at the time were having effing gang bangs, all right? But it ended kind of sad that one because at the end of the thing, it was like they were doing it anymore. You were with your husband, but by the time I talked to you the second time, you were divorced from your husband and you were just banging young guys.
Starting point is 00:07:15 Okay. Now, that's exactly where I left off. That was your last episode. That's what you were doing then. But I know that when I reached out for my where are me of that where are you where are you now episodes you have a new update i i know that at one point you told me and email me back saying that you were with a guy and you were dating somebody uh and you guys you know had an open relationship and you were doing all kinds of things um i did you know as your listeners will know i talked about how when i was married um i had a cuckold husband and we enjoyed a lot of big i think we both enjoyed a lot of gangbangs i think we we both enjoyed a lot of gangbangs. I did them and he watched. And then I sort of fast forwarded
Starting point is 00:07:59 to at the time, I was sort of, I had a little fling with a co-worker and I was still married. And that was sort of the one and only time I didn't tell my now ex-husband about anything. And I knew then that that was sort of, there was many, many reasons why the marriage came to an end and it really had absolutely nothing to do with our lifestyle. That matter of fact, that was the highlight of our match. That was the best part. Yes, it really was. So anyway, then I also, in the next episode, I think I might have mentioned that I had met
Starting point is 00:08:36 somebody, I liked them, but that didn't work out. And so I was just, at that point, I was just, yes, I learned later that I'm not very good with the terminology, but I learned later that I was a unicorn. Oh. I was just out there. Like, I was, you know, going out with lots of different men and some couples. And I just had them lined up. And I think that's the last I talked to you, I was like, you know, like I had doubles on Thursdays.
Starting point is 00:09:04 You were definitely doing double guys, but I don't remember the couples. Yeah, there was throwing a couple. Well, so at one point, I sort of just meeting people online. and I met a, I saw a couple that I thought looked interesting. And so I thought, oh, why not? So I did that a few times with a couple different couples. That was great. So kind of both, I would say that those were where we just kind of like, he fucked her,
Starting point is 00:09:37 I fucked her. You know, like I played with her and he, you know, and he fucked me. And it was just kind of like back and forth. And it was just really nice. And I think one of the reasons I felt like I wanted to. to try that was that I was feeling a little, I was feeling a little lonely. And I thought, I don't, I don't know, I just thought maybe like if it was a woman in there too, that I would, I don't know, feel a little more, I don't know, affection in a weird way. It's not that I was really looking for
Starting point is 00:10:03 that, but I just, I just wanted something more. So I threw in some couples and that was really, really nice. And I really enjoyed that. I like the company of women, though I am definitely a, all about men when it comes to really having sex. I do like, I like women. I love their bodies and I love to play around. Um, so that was really fun. And all the meanwhile in the background, the whole time was this one person that I had met early, early on, not the man that I had the little, um, work affair with, but somebody else. And we sort of finally kind of got it together. And I think when I wrote you a little update. I'm finally sort of with that person. So I basically the story is that I fell in love. And I was, we are both in the lifestyle together and we're having a blast. Oh my God. Gang
Starting point is 00:10:59 Bang Betty. Take me back to that whole story with that guy because he was just like a side player at that time. So we probably didn't get into it. So why don't you tell me like how you guys met and then how you got into the lifestyle and all that kind of good stuff? So it's been almost two years. And really when I write around when my marriage was coming to an end, at that same time, I went on, when I went online and decided for the first time that I was going to find myself some people to have sex with, because I was like, I'll be damned if I'm not going to have sex. So I started, I met this person. He was one of the, I don't know, not the first person I ever met sort of through a hookup site,
Starting point is 00:11:40 but one of the earliest ones. Yeah. And we, we connected. and we had amazing sex. Like he, okay, so let me start with these 20 years younger than me. Oh, I like that. That's a good fucking start.
Starting point is 00:11:52 Okay, so wait a second, remind, can you just say the ages, the actual ages? Do you mind? Yeah, so I'm currently 55 and he's 35. Wow, okay, good for you, Betty. So, and he's, and I was attracted to his picture because he was, he was fit and, like, damn sexy. And I was like, and he wrote to me,
Starting point is 00:12:13 first and he was like hey beautiful and and i even said to him like you realize how old i am right because at this point i'm like i'm not lying i'm just going to say what i am and he was like yeah but you look beautiful and so we started chatting and talking we had hooked up i think it was like two years it'll be two years in april we hooked up at a hotel room during a day like a day motel kind of rental and we see one of those like day sex hotel things um yeah well it wasn't a sex hotel but apparently i don't know if Your listeners should know that there's a thing called like dayuse.com or something like that. And you can go to any hotel and they'll have like rooms that they'll rent for just the day for a reduced rate. So it wasn't like a cheesy yucky hotel.
Starting point is 00:12:57 It was, you know, like a name brand hotel. And we, but we only paid a fraction of the rate. So they're usually out by airports and stuff, you know, because maybe you're coming in from a trip and you have a long layover and you just want a place to be. Oh, my God. I love that. I never ever heard of that. And I feel like a lot of people listening have it. Well, there you go. I think it's called day use. Dayuse.com. Yeah. If it doesn't show up there, it's something similar. And he knew about it, but he had never used it. He had just knew about it. Because I said, like, how do you know about that? And he's like, oh, I just read it online or something. So anyway, so that's what we did. We met at a, well, we met for coffee. Last lasted about two minutes. And we were like, yeah, you're hot. Let's day use. Let's go to the, let's use. Let's use. days.com. Let's fucking go.
Starting point is 00:13:43 Wait, real quick, what website did you meet him on? Which one were you wrong? That was the adult friend finder. Oh, okay. So that's hardcore. I mean, like, I used to go on there, like in the beginning when I was trying to get people for my show. So I know adult friend finder from going on there looking for guests. And that, I mean, I think it's hard to
Starting point is 00:13:59 find real women on there. You know, I think it's like anything else. It's a lot of fake people. So you must have been like pretty popular. I guess from what I understand there's a lot when you're in the, when you're a man, there's lot of bots. And he even said, like, I thought maybe you were a bot. But we had real, real conversations. You know, so, yeah, I mean, my inbox would be, you know, it would be hundreds. So it was just
Starting point is 00:14:25 kind of like chance that I just looked and I was like, oh, you know, he's sexy. And if that's a real picture. And so we just, and, you know, I met when I was like, that's a real thing. And we, we talked a lot. And we just connected and we had amazing sex. Like throw me around the room sex. Like so he's big and not big, but he's strong. He's nice sized. And he, you know, like we literally like fucked on every surface of that hotel room. And it was great because, you know, I had been married to an older man.
Starting point is 00:14:58 And he was like, we fucked. We kind of caught our breath and we fucked again. He came again. I was like, okay, you know, like three times in that afternoon. And I was like, oh my God. This one's a keeper. Yeah, gang big betty needs a guy like that. I mean, some older women are like, oh, it's good that their guy has slowed down too,
Starting point is 00:15:16 but not you because you're like highly sexed up. You need a lot of sex. It was great. So we were done and he kind of went, can we do this again sometime? And I sort of went, I don't know, I don't do second dates. And I really meant it. But then I was like, but maybe because it was awfully good. And so what ended up happening was, yes, we did me.
Starting point is 00:15:38 up several more times. And then, and that was April. And I'm just going to say by the end of the summer, both of our lives had sort of gotten messy and we just needed, we just couldn't, you know, meet up. And I missed him because at that point, we had become very intimate friends as well. Right. And so I really didn't miss him because it was clear that we had more feelings for each other than just sex, that we had fabulous sex.
Starting point is 00:16:06 So kind of that's when I went on when I called you the second time and I was just having far. I was like, well, I'm just going to fill my free time with other people. And I was and I was enjoying myself, but all the while in the back of my mind, I was missing this guy. And we'd occasionally connect for texts, but not much. And then finally, sort of like about a year ago, we sort of decided that we should try to meet up again. and it was instant like fire. Same thing. And yeah, and he had been married and divorced too.
Starting point is 00:16:43 And he had been in a vanilla marriage. And I was very clear from day one, very, very clear. I'm never going to be monogamous. I can never do that again. I never want to do that. And he was like, that's fine with me. And so, but the rules have sort of changed in the sense that he wasn't comfortable with me just kind of go.
Starting point is 00:17:05 off of my own and fucking guys that he didn't know. And like when my ex was like that was okay with him as long as like he heard about it later. Yeah, yeah. He was like, no, that's that I'm not comfortable with that. So he found us. Um, an amazing, I didn't even know these existed. This amazing group of people that through this one person, couple in particular, that throws amazing house parties.
Starting point is 00:17:33 And I mean, they like, you know, 50 couples there. And we, so he got us invited to this first party and we went and we just met, we've met so many fantastic couples. And so now that's sort of what we're doing. So we'll, you know, we'll meet people. We, we talk to them. We like them. In this house parties, they'll be like, you know, a room for like playing games, like spin the bottle where everybody ends up naked or hot tub. And there's a, there's a room where, you know, people will kind of be invited in or whatever to have sex in there. And so sometimes that happens.
Starting point is 00:18:09 Sometimes we'll, you know, hook up with a couple right there. And I kind of like being watched, so that's sort of fun. And I have absolutely no qualms with watching him have sex with other people. I think it's hot. Like, I love seeing him with other people. I was a little intimidated that, like, I'm definitely on the older end of the spectrum, but nobody even knows. Like, I tell him, and they're like, what?
Starting point is 00:18:32 so nobody nobody knows nobody even guesses that they all think that i'm like in my like they're that i'm 40 or something nobody nobody knows so it doesn't seem to be a problem remind me with your alex husband did you it was he like a true cuck because like you know you would go out and you were a hot wife he never hooked up with other women right never this is the first guy that you experienced that and you realize like you really like that too i wouldn't i guess i can't say never It was with my with my ex-husband, there was, um, a couple of couples and one in particular that we got very close with. And he was comfortable like fucking her.
Starting point is 00:19:13 I had sex with her. And we had foursums, threesomes in every direction and all that. And that, yeah, there was, but that just wasn't a regular thing. He, he was very uncomfortable, um, sexually having sex with anybody but me, um, for the most part. So it just didn't happen. And he, he enjoyed. you know, me doing it. But I'll tell you the thing I didn't like about that whole scenario.
Starting point is 00:19:37 I loved it at first, but then after a while, I felt kind of used. Like I was his personal porn star that he could just kind of farm out. If that makes sense. Like it didn't feel, it didn't feel good after a while. I was like, if you're not going to be involved and I'm just kind of doing this and then you're getting off, of course, but you're getting off on it. I just didn't have the intimacy. Like, I felt there was a piece of, if I'm just out there fucking, it's one thing. But this is my, was my husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:09 Yeah. And I wanted to feel a little bit more connection and I did it. So I think that's a thing that works really nicely with what I'm doing now is that we're really in this together. And we're going places with other couples and where, you know, we, one night we, so we rented an Airbnb with two other couples. with two other couples. And we had, we had this fantastic night with, there were six of us. So like Orgy Central? Yeah, like it was, you know, um, you know, I played with the women played with each other.
Starting point is 00:20:47 The men definitely kind of swapped around and fucked the women. There were no, there was no, I think there was, I think I probably had a little bit of like double, like, you know, double ended like a cock in my mouth and a, and fuck. But yeah, we just kind of like swapped up and we were super sexual and just we, you know, we fucked in all kinds of ways. And oh, and I had a, I had, this is a toy that I just bought. It was one of those little roses that's like that does the sucky thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:21:21 With the air. I was so, yeah. Yeah. I was so enamored with that. I was like, oh, my God, because I brought some toys. I was like, oh, my God, I love this toy. And they had, the other women had tried it. So I like went around trying it on.
Starting point is 00:21:31 them. It's good. That kind of stuff. Like we, you know, we just had a lot of fun. But it's really, it's an interesting kind of switch. So now we're sort of like becoming friends with people and having sex with them,
Starting point is 00:21:47 but also going out to dinner and, you know, going to sauna. Yeah, well, listen, I hear from people in the life. So they're like, we also have barbecues and we go over and hang out. And like you just, And a lot of times what they say is that, you know, the people in the lifestyle are just really open and really cool people, just not even just for sex, you know, outside of that. They're just like the greatest people they've met. I think that's true. And one of the things that I have found is that you really have to be in a good relationship to be able to do this.
Starting point is 00:22:23 And so the people we've met through this are like really solid, healthy couples. Right. And it's kind of nice to not be around like my girlfriends that are trying to complain to their spouse's, you know, like these people are like into each other and they're, you know, and it's it's it's awesome. Like it's just so fun. And we're both super sociable. And that was something I didn't have with my ex. So we're, you know, we're we're we're plotting out like every weekend. Now that we haven't gone too crazy. But we're like this there's a. talk about going to a, like a hotel takeover. Yeah. Down in Florida next year. So that's sort of in the works. And so I'm really like kind of enjoying this new like lifestyle, like really being in it in a different way.
Starting point is 00:23:14 So it's, it's interesting because I would have always said, I was in the lifestyle, but it's just such a different aspect of it, which I thought was interesting and maybe worth sharing with your listeners that like the lifestyle, it can morph even for one person or one couple or you know like you can be a go from being like me in a cuckold kind of like relationship to unicorn to now with couples yeah no it's really interesting especially what you said about how because you know you've been on all sides of things we you're listen you're called a gang bang betty because you loved gang bangs with your husband that's one aspect you also had the true like cuckold kind of situation where your guy you know you went out and fuck those guys but
Starting point is 00:23:57 And what I hear from a lot of the cuckled husbands is, yeah, you know, you use the word porn star. You felt used like a porn star. And I got to say, like, that's what they say is what is so hot about it. It's like their own personal porn store, but it's their wife. You know, you never, I never heard somebody talk about how, like, you know, talk about it in the terms that you did, in the way that you did where you felt used after a certain time because they're, was that disconnect. That's really interesting. You know, you guys were at it for a very long time. Like, was that towards the end that you felt that way? And was there no more reclaiming sex that was going on? Like, why do you feel like that turned into a situation where you felt like not
Starting point is 00:24:42 cool with it anymore? There was reclaiming sex. I just, guess I just felt, I just felt like I was always the performer. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I get that. Yeah. And that's like really hot at times. but I just wanted more. I wanted more from the person that I was with, from that person that I was married to or in relationship with. I wanted more than that. And it was like our sex later was good, but it was like he was really into sort of re-playing what he saw
Starting point is 00:25:16 or what he thought he saw or what he wanted to hear what I did. And that was all, it was so hot. But it was also like, I don't know. One note. It's very one note. I mean, let's look at you. It was. You like a lot of different things.
Starting point is 00:25:28 I feel like that's the thing with you. It's just like you really want to do all kinds of stuff. To me, that's very one note kind of very specific. And some people aren't wired that way. Your husband, your ex-husband was wired that way. Like that's what he liked. That's all he needed. 100%.
Starting point is 00:25:46 That was right for him, but not for you. And I think everybody's different. And that's the most important is to be with someone that's like-minded. You're lucky that you wound up meeting this guy. because he's completely down with all the stuff. So you're more aligned with him. We are. We're really aligned.
Starting point is 00:26:04 And I mean, like I said, he's not quite, is, he doesn't want me to sort of go off on my own. And that is really okay. Like, I am like, if that's the worst thing in my relationship, that doesn't want me to go on my own and fuck somebody. But even that, I said, well, maybe eventually if we're like, there's a particular couple that we've become really close to and have fucked. in lots of scenarios. I'm like it might, we both agree that that could happen. And I've told him, like, I would be okay with you too. You know, so who knows? But I do like, I think I do like to change
Starting point is 00:26:38 and shift things up. And I, but I'm definitely enjoying this sort of stage of my life. It's, it's awesome. And, you know, also like these house parties will have themes so we get to like dress up, which is fun. But it's also like really sexy dress up. So it's also like really sexy dress up. it's like a chance to wear your lingerie and, you know, and things that you might not get to do just generally. So like we're walking around in lingerie or less, you know, so really, really fun. What's his backstory? Now, was he ever in the lifestyle or open or was he monogamous beforehand with his ex-wife? I think with his ex-wife, it was completely monogamous and eventually very non-sexual, so which was kind of what led to the end for that. And I understand that earlier on in his dating life, there was like never really open,
Starting point is 00:27:34 but there were a couple of opportunities with like another woman or something, but, but not much. So, yeah, so it was sort of like, I kind of like dragged him in through fast, but he was completely, I didn't even drag. He jumped. Let's just say he jumped right in with me. Let's just say he was like, I'm in. And that's like, I also, you know, it's been interesting because I will tell, I would say that like to me, getting involved in a relationship with somebody from day one that you're like, this is what I want sexually is so great.
Starting point is 00:28:13 And I see on like other chats, like people will say like, I'm single, but I'm looking to get in a relationship. Should I tell them right away that I want to be in a lifestyle? Yeah. shouldn't I? And I think personally, I have no one to give great advice, but my personal experience is be up front from the day one because that person, if you want a relationship with them, they should know what you're looking for. And, you know, and I always, we always joke that, like, we met on a fuck site. So, like, we both knew what we wanted. Right. There was no bait and switch there. I mean, because a lot of times that's what happens,
Starting point is 00:28:48 you know, because people think that they have to. I think it's a lot of times. you find people going into like second and third marriages being more upfront than they were the first time, you know, like you learn. I think so too. You do learn and you're, I mean, unless you're, you know, dumb and just are going to continue to, you know, cycle through the same mistakes. But I do think that for us, we're trying to not make those mistakes again and to try to sort of be, you know, be clear about everything. And it is, it's been, it's been great. And, despite the 20-year age gap, it works. We're working.
Starting point is 00:29:27 Now, let me ask you this. Do you guys live together? No. Okay. Do your friends, do you bring him home? Like, I mean, are you guys like going over to family dinners for Thanksgiving? I'm assuming, yeah, right? Like you guys are together that way too, correct?
Starting point is 00:29:42 So I don't live near my family. So he hasn't gone to my family dinners, but I don't go either. Yeah, of course, right. But my children, my adult children have know him, met him, like him. He's definitely a part of my social circle with my vanilla friends now. For sure, we're open about the fact that we are dating, but not the fact that we are in a lifestyle. But he, I guess for me, I needed to for now maintain some independence. we don't live that close together.
Starting point is 00:30:21 He's about two hours away. So he usually comes up on the weekends and I, you know, own my own home and I want to keep it that way for now. Yeah. You know, so it kind of, and we sort of talk about how it's better to miss each other than it is to sort of jump right in and live together and start worrying about bills and all that kind of stuff. So this way we're like planning what we're going to do on the weekend and how we're going to
Starting point is 00:30:46 have fun. and we're really, you know, keeping it fresh that way. And I really do like it. And we've gotten really good at like, you know, the like FaceTime sex time. And he is though, you wouldn't mind, I mean, because he's far away. Like, would he be, he's able if he wanted to play with someone else during the week if you want. You wouldn't care. But he doesn't want you to do that, correct?
Starting point is 00:31:12 He doesn't want to do that without me. Yeah. He doesn't want me to do it. So for now we're, that's who we're at. And that's fine. Yeah, you know, I am just like, just let's just keep being honest with each other and keep, you know, letting us. But yes, he and I both work a ton on that Monday through Friday. So we don't actually have a lot of time for anything else.
Starting point is 00:31:38 So we're both just working all the time anyway. But yeah, if, you know, if there came a day where there was a couple that we had been playing with and like, You know, I really have told him, like, if that couple ever wanted to invite you just you over because you were nearby, I would be okay with that. Right. So we'll see. Maybe something like that will turn out someday. But at this point, we're not doing that. You don't need to, it sounds like.
Starting point is 00:32:03 We don't. We really don't. We really, and we're just really enjoying meeting lots of sexy couples of all ages. And it's interesting in the lifestyle. There's so many body sizes and shapes. and it's just really a sexy fun thing. It's amazing. And you weren't in the lifestyle in that aspect with your ex-husband, correct?
Starting point is 00:32:27 No, not really. There was a group that we had been a part of for a little bit. We would, they would kind of meet at like a hotel like kind of place or, you know, like rent a place or rent a nightclub out kind of thing. So it was kind of a little bit of a takeover. But it was not that often. And I can't say that we ever really connected personally with other couples that way. This, we were more like meet them online, you know, individually.
Starting point is 00:33:00 And back then, I would say that AFF was better for that kind of me. Now it is definitely not so great. But, but it was all I knew. Yeah. Right. It was all I knew. So, and I know that a lot of couples are on SLS. And I know that my guy now is on SLS for us, but he doesn't use it very much.
Starting point is 00:33:23 We really don't need to. We really got enough. Yeah, I feel like once you get tapped into the lifestyle and the events and stuff where you're at, like you're good to go. And I've heard that different websites, like some people say FETLife is really good to find out about those kinds of things going down in your area. But once you're in the know, you're in the know. and then you meet one cutler, right? Isn't that how it kind of works? I think that's exactly.
Starting point is 00:33:48 And then some couple will say, oh, have you been to? So, like, we've gone to some of those nightclubs where, you know, you pay like a membership. Swingers clubs. It's kind of like one of those host parties. Yeah. You know.
Starting point is 00:34:03 And so that was, that was interesting. I didn't like it as much as a house party. How come? I feel like, I guess it just felt a little, like everybody was kind of in their own world. There wasn't as much interaction personally. Like, and maybe you just, maybe everybody kind of already either knew each other or I don't know.
Starting point is 00:34:24 What I've heard of why a lot of people say that they prefer swingers parties as opposed to clubs is that at the parties, typically those are all people that already know each other. And, you know, whereas when you go to the swingers club, the people don't know each other. So just people keep to themselves more. Whereas at the party, it's like people, that typically are friends of friends of, you know, and everyone's been invited. So it's more interaction. Right. And then you meet other people.
Starting point is 00:34:52 And it just feels easier to interact. I think that the club would be really fun to go to with some other friends. Yeah. I think that would be like a great thing to do. Like get two or three other couples together and then all go down. And, you know, but we sometimes, sometimes we joke, we're getting better about it. but we do joke that we're a little bit of failed swingers because we're so into each other still. It's only been a year.
Starting point is 00:35:19 Yeah, yeah. Like, we're still so into having sex with each other that sometimes we're just like, let's just go home and fuck each other. Oh, my God, that's awesome. Well, that's how it should be in the beginning, don't you think? Yeah, I love it. But we do joke that, like, we're like, I think we might be failed swingers. And then I'm so lucky because I'm like with the hottest guy in the room. I mean, he says the same about me, but I'm like, but look at you.
Starting point is 00:35:47 You're young. You're fit. Did he always like older women? Did he say that? Did he have a thing for older women? Yes. His ex-wife was, I think, 13 years older than him. So it really wasn't, you know, I mean, I'm that much more old.
Starting point is 00:36:01 But, you know, but yes, he has always liked older women. And he likes him for the very reason that they are more comfortable sexually and more out there and more confident people. Yeah, and I know that like kind of in when he was, you know, became single, he dated some younger women as well. He kind of, you know, went through the gamut of different age groups. And like there was somebody that was 10 years younger than it was just like, oh my God. No, I think it's apples and oranges. If you're a guy and every guy's different, you know, and I think it, if there's a guy that likes older women, like that's just what he likes. And that's what he's going to want to.
Starting point is 00:36:41 And look, he had the, his wife before you was 13 years older than him, correct? Yeah, yeah. And he said, like, now, he didn't have children with his ex-wife, but, you know, he, like, one of the first things he said to me was, like, that he loved my, he referred to it as my mom bod. He's like, I love your mom bod. You know. Interesting. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:37:01 Yeah. So, you know, it was not, you know, it made me feel like, wow, like, it was one of the first times anybody ever really said that to me. Yeah. And it made me like kind of look down at myself and go, okay, this is a type and people like, some people like this type. And I should just embrace that that is what I have because that is who I am. A mom bod. Like I said, I also look like at least 10 years younger than most people my age.
Starting point is 00:37:29 Right. I do zero to get that. Like I don't dye my hair or wear excessive makeup or anything. I don't, I mean, I try to eat well and get some exercise. but like I'm not I'm not working hard. No, but I think that age sometimes is more than just how you look physically. It's how you feel emotionally and that comes through. There are just some people that are ageless.
Starting point is 00:37:55 Yeah, I think, yeah, I mean, thank you. And I do think that is true. And I, you know, I kind of joke that I'm sort of a goofball. Like I'm just sort of, you know, I like having a good time. And like I said, I am sociable. And I, and when once. I get sort of like going turned on. I'm just so comfortable, like being in that mood.
Starting point is 00:38:15 Like, yeah, it just does. I love, I just love sex. I love being around sexy people, you know. And it does. I just kind of like spark right up. And let me ask you this because I've done a lot of HRT episodes recently and people go nuts for them because there are so many, whether it's men or women out there that are struggling when they're older with the lack of hormones.
Starting point is 00:38:38 and they're having to do hormone therapy. Like, you know, for you, because you're in your late 50s, do you take hormones or are you just like completely still into sex and you went through menopause and you're totally never lost interest or lost the desire? I mean, what's your story when it comes to that? Yeah, so I am completely through menopause. I actually continue to have an IUD partially just because it got stuck in there. It won't be coming out ever.
Starting point is 00:39:08 Oh my God, that's a little scary, but hilarious, but I don't know. We did our research, and apparently that is just fine. Oh, okay. Oh, I know what I wanted to tell you. I've literally wanted to tell you since this happened. I learned to squirt. You are kidding. Because you know that's on my fucking bucket list and it's going to happen to me.
Starting point is 00:39:30 I know. It never happened. Fuck the menopause talk. Tell me about your squirting. This guy, he got me to do it. You're kidding. Yeah, and now I do it all the time. Wait, tell me exactly how that happened.
Starting point is 00:39:45 Okay, so I would say the first thing is, and I had read that, you know, you're supposed to, I went to the bathroom before I had sex, which I usually do, and then I go afterwards, too. So we were having pretty hardcore, like banging sex. Like it was going on, changing positions, on the counter, on the bed, off over here, kind of on the floor. Like we were just kind of banging all over the place. And then at one point, he like pulled his hand out and he, I mean, pulled his dick coat. And he put his hand in there. And it was like, he just kind of like, kind of went fast in there. And I let go.
Starting point is 00:40:24 I mean, it was water everywhere. Like, oh my God. And you had never before in your life. Never. Never. Nothing like that. Okay. But had you ever tried?
Starting point is 00:40:37 I had tried on my own. I tried kind of thinking through it when I was having sex with other people. I had read about it. Okay. This gives me hope. Okay. So you had gone in there with your own fingers tried to touch the right spot, do all the right things. I thought one of those vibrators with a little, you know, double like the rabbit kind of thing.
Starting point is 00:40:55 I did that. I was like, I'd be up there, you know, and I'd, I mean, I'd had great orgasms. Great. But inside and outside, great organisms. But it never. And I'd get really wet and juicy. but never, never squirted. Well, this, so then it was, so one of the things I can say, like I kind of said, you know,
Starting point is 00:41:15 to my go, I feel like my pussy just got so confused because there was so much action going on that it just kind of like, let go. And then I started to pay attention to it. And one of the things I will tell you that I learned, okay, so usually when I'm having sex, a lot of times I'll like kind of like flex my kegel muscles, right? Yeah. Because it kind of, it feels good, feels good. feels good to them.
Starting point is 00:41:38 So I do a lot of that. And in this moment, I did the opposite. I sort of like pushed down almost like, you know, like not like you having a poop, but like a little push down. Like I was opening that passage instead of tightening it up. And so that's what I learned is like when I feel like I'm in that moment when I'm like, wanting to tighten. You mean like when you feel like you want to tighten and maybe push yourself over the edge,
Starting point is 00:42:04 instead you relax and open. Yes. push it open. And it's not really relax. It's a little bit of a push. Oh, okay. So not relax. And then boom, it comes. It's like, boom, that's it. Because I think what I've always done is tightened it way up. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Maybe that's what I do. Yeah. And instead, it's like let that go. Like push that out. Push it out. Push at that moment. And it's a push. It's not like I said, like you said, it's not a, because I would think, oh, maybe, I think maybe what I try to do is and try when I'm trying to do different things is like relax into it open up like you know that's different ways of like expanding your
Starting point is 00:42:40 orgasms okay so your push kind of like you're gonna pee push but not like that extreme but kind of like that like you have but i've already emptied my bladder so there's really nothing there any like it's not that we know that it's not pee right yeah but it comes from the same place so it's that same push like you could somebody had said to me before it happened um this was actually one of the lifestyle people. Somebody had said to me, well, something like, it almost feels like you have to pee, just let it go. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:16 But I actually give it a little push. And it, like, and it's, it comes, and it felt like we, just the other day we were having sex, and he was fucking me from behind, and I started to squirt, and he literally pulled his dick out and, like, watched me. And he was like, I saw it. I'm like, flopping out.
Starting point is 00:43:34 Oh, my. my goodness, I'm so jealous. Now, let me ask you this, because this is what I've heard and this is what I think is the case. That, like, once you do it and you could do it once, then you could do it all the time. Correct? That's exactly true. It doesn't happen every single time we have sex, but yes, I would say that it's, yes. Now that I figured it out, it just happens. At first, I was worried, like, what if I'll never be able to do it again? Yeah, yeah, yeah. But then it just became more and more, like, normal. Right. And somebody told me, too, that, like, it's, more common in older women. So, like, I think that you're in a good spot.
Starting point is 00:44:09 Just, like, you're going to nail this this time. Yeah, because, you know, I had another friend who told me, and she was older than me, and it was something that she had never experienced before. And she didn't wind up squirting because she thought she had to pee and she had that feeling, but her guy was telling her to squirt. But she was like, she got freaked out and she didn't squirt, but she was about to. And she had never experienced that before. So, yeah, maybe it is an older thing.
Starting point is 00:44:34 like, you know, that it can happen when you're older or more. I think maybe things are loosened up a little bit more. We're kind of more comfortable with everything, you know, but, but like it was so much, that first time, it was so much. It was like the classic, like, oh, my God, we wet the mattress. Right, right. Like, oh, my gosh. And now we have to be a little more careful.
Starting point is 00:44:56 Does the orgasm feel different? Or are you going to be one of those people? Because I have had some people tell me, like, it's not even that great, doesn't feel that great. No, I would say. It's not like the the intense orgasm part that you have it was like is almost separate to that. Like I think it's almost like a party trick for the dudes. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:45:16 That's what I think so. Because I mean, I think some guys really like that for sure. Yeah, I think so too. And I feel like it's in some ways it is because it's definitely not as heightened is like a good orgasm like when they're like, you know, a dick or a dildos deep down inside there and you're like really, you know, it's not. not as intense as that. And does it happen at the same time as your orgasm or no? It doesn't happen at the same time. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:45:40 Oh, and the other thing about it, oh, my, this is so funny. But the other thing I noticed is that once it happens, it does, if we're still fucking, which a lot of times we are, because he isn't gone. But it does kind of wash away some of the lubricant of the natural, you know, the wetness that you was already there. Yeah. Yeah. So, like, and we find that it's a little dry around the edges for a bit.
Starting point is 00:46:03 And so like we have to sort of like, you know, kind of get a little bit more of that like, you know, mucusy stuff kind of down around the edges because it kind of, it changes the viscosity. That was something I have noticed. Oh, wow. Yeah. So sometimes you like just kind of like spit or lick down there a little bit to sort of really kind of get it going again. Now do you square with other guys? That's the big question. I have not.
Starting point is 00:46:27 Just with him. Not. Just with him. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, which I think is interesting. and I want to keep practicing. Yeah, so it's only when you're like, fucking him that it happens.
Starting point is 00:46:41 But you're fucking other guys. You just haven't gotten down with that. It just hasn't happened with other guys yet. But I think it's just, you know, like he just really knows like what to do, where that button is now. Yeah. So he's really on it. And I think I need to sort of keep working with other guys.
Starting point is 00:46:58 Like, you know how it is. Like one of the things I love about having sex with people I've never had sex before is the awkwardness and the oddness is like kind of a turn on to me. That's interesting. No, I don't know how that is. That would be like, that's like the worst part of it for me. But that's why you like variety. I mean, I think that that must be a part of it, you know.
Starting point is 00:47:16 It is. It's kind of like meeting a new person for the first time. And like that's how I want to meet them. Yeah, that's interesting. And you like that. That awkwardness is the turn on for you. It is. It is a turn on.
Starting point is 00:47:27 And it's also like a, it's like a chance for me to sort of just be like my true intersexual self, like just kind of letting that go and, and there's no emotions attached to it. So there's no, you know, there's no big problem with it. And anyway, but the downside of that is that they don't necessarily know all your buttons, right? They don't know quite how to, how to press them all. Whereas when you're with somebody, you know, that you have sex with on a regular basis, and you're close to and have good communication with, you can really like explore those things. So both ways are great, you know, and that's what I'm. really loving about this new relationship that I'm in.
Starting point is 00:48:05 It's just really exploring all those things that, you know, feel good. And like, it's so easy to just be like, oh, yeah, keep doing that. You know. Yeah, be totally open, I mean. But yet also in love. I mean, you also have a great relationship outside of that, right? Yes. Yes, we really do.
Starting point is 00:48:23 And it really is, I really feel very much in love. And, you know, in love and in lust. It's great. It's just great. Now, what is he like the best? Like, I mean, does he know that? Are you still into gangbangs? He knows all about them, but I don't know how he feels about him.
Starting point is 00:48:44 Like he, I told him about the podcast. He knows about the forest podcast. And I think he kind of basically listened to a part of it and was not able to hear the rest. So I think it's a little bit of like kind of still a tender thing for him. Yeah. He really wants to do things together, but he's not really comfortable with the, the, that. And maybe it's in the way, like, okay, I've never, I mean, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:49:11 The first, my, my ex-husband, he and I were, like, got together at 19. I never really had, like, the whole, like, oh, that was your former girlfriend or, but now I have, I am with somebody like that, and I realize, like, it still doesn't bother me. Like, I don't care that he had girlfriends before me or a wife before me. Right. And literally have no jealousy or. problems with that, but I know that other people do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:49:34 Have it, you know, like feel some sort of uncomfortableness about that. Yeah. So I think, I think maybe there's a little of that, you know, thing. Like recently he came face to face with that person that I worked with that I had that little flick with. Yeah. And he knew and the other person knew too about each other. and there was definitely like a little bit of like I could tell for him he was a little like freaked out about having to meet that person. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:06 Listen, I think that everybody's different. And I think the guy who wants his wife to go off and fuck like fuck another guy and come home and tell him and videotape it or call him is a very specific type of guy. And I don't necessarily think that's the same type of guy that's in the life. lifestyle. I think it's just two different types of people, you know, and your guy is not into that. He's not wired that way. It's a different thing. Right. And I'm like, like you said, I like variety, so I'm happy to sort of change it up. I'm like, okay, this is, you know, it's like I feel like, this is better for you. I think of me. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. This is, this is great. Like I get everything with this. No, because you also, I think like you said,
Starting point is 00:50:51 in that other relationship when it was just that one thing where you were going out, yeah, you had all the variety, but you also enjoy seeing your partner fuck other people. Right. You like being an exhibitionist. I mean, there's a lot of things that turn you the fuck on and you're into it. And you like putting yourself in that position. So this is way more more in line with who you are than your previous like gang bang betty scenario. This guy is better for you, I think.
Starting point is 00:51:19 Yeah. Yeah. Who cares if you can never see guys solo? Like what, who cares? Who cares? Exactly. And I think, you know, if we really wanted, if I really wanted to have, you know, two, three, four men, we could certainly put that together eventually through the lifestyle and other couples. Like, if that was something.
Starting point is 00:51:37 But I'm okay with not. Like, I'm really like, hey, for God's sakes, I have five or six gangbings in my life. I know, like, five or six men. I'm not like going, like, I feel a little bit like, yep, I've checked that off the bucket list. Of course. I totally get that about you. Like, you don't need, you've been there done that. You're like now on to new things.
Starting point is 00:51:56 You're squirting. Now you're having like foursums, six sums. I mean, you're like living life. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm not that experience with women. So I still, you know, I'm still like intrigued by like doing more with them. And, you know.
Starting point is 00:52:11 And I love women. Like I love women as friends. So I love the idea of learning to explore their bodies more. Now, what is your guy into that? Like is that his thing? Like what is he into the most? And he likes women of all shapes and sizes. Right.
Starting point is 00:52:28 He just loves women. Yeah. And I, he's not sitting around going, gosh, I can't wait to see you with another woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think, you know, he would be, he has seen a little. And I think that he's totally comfortable with that. But it's not like, like, I know for some guys that's such their turn on. They just can't wait for that women to be with other women.
Starting point is 00:52:50 Yeah. And that's certainly not his thing. Like, I think that he's sort of like, just wants that sort of like kind of swap i think he really likes to swap right that's what i'm going to go with he's really comfortable with that and that's really fun like i love looking over and seeing him fuck some other women i also think it's kind of funny when i i don't know i get a little happy for him when it's like maybe a younger woman i'm like oh you got to have a little bit of a younger woman tonight or and he's and he's always like yeah but you're the best you know and and that's
Starting point is 00:53:19 what we all want to hear in the end anyways when we yeah but how amazing is it that you're you really, and you could sense by the way you're saying it, that you're really just like so open and to, and love seeing him have a great time with whoever. There's just zero jealousy attached anywhere. You're a rare breed. I love seeing him happy. Like, I love seeing him happy. And I, and sex makes us both happy. I mean, it makes people happy.
Starting point is 00:53:46 And I love that. Like, I'm like, I love looking over and seeing him happy, me happy. You know, I think it's great. Like it's just such a, it's just so great. So, yeah, so we're really enjoying, we're enjoying that whole scenario. Yeah, so like Gangbanks, Betty is now like Swinger Betty, swing or Betty, swing or party. Swinger Betty, that's right. Swinger party, Betty.
Starting point is 00:54:08 What title you give this one? You know, I think, like, guys are salivating listening to this because it's like everybody wishes, like, I think a lot of guys would love to meet someone like you, Betty. I think like I said, you're a very rare breed. Most people are not wired to have zero jealousy and be so open to variety and want to be with different people that make them feel uncomfortable. You know, I mean, it just, but that's you. And you're living your best life. And I think that's, like I said, I think that that's a big part of why people think you seem young and you're open. I mean, just the way you talk, it's like, I, you know, I have to change your voice a bit.
Starting point is 00:54:48 But like if people really, like the way you talk about it, it just, it really comes through your enthusiasm and you're just genuine pleasure that you're having. And there's just nothing attached to it. No darkness. No. You know what I mean? It's really good. Yeah. It's really good.
Starting point is 00:55:04 Yeah. Life is very good. And I'm definitely living my best life. And I'm so happy that I have a great partner to live our best lives together. Like I call them my partner in crime. No. And I think it's amazing because like you were. You're more a relationship person.
Starting point is 00:55:20 Just because you want variety and you like all that kind of sex, you're more wired to want to be with someone. I mean, you had that time where you were doing your thing, but you start to feel lonely. And I think that's where we had last left off. You were looking for somebody. Yes, right. I was looking for that person, like that, you know,
Starting point is 00:55:35 friends with benefit kind of thing. I didn't expect to fall in love, but I definitely wanted a relationship of some kind. So I'm super happy that I put it out there in the universe and it came in. came. Yeah. I was I was open to it and and I definitely did. I jokingly told him like, you know, that whole fall and winter when I was, you know, just fucking lots of, I was like, I did my work. I definitely did my work around this. Yeah. And he knows about all that. Like you were open during that time, right? Before you wound up getting together. He knew what you were doing. You were out living in the, you were fucking tons of people. He was doing what he wanted. But then your guy's life got messed. right and then you got back in touch yeah yeah we just yes he actually was going through a divorce too oh so that's when he was doing it yeah yeah things just kind of had hit bottom and he you know
Starting point is 00:56:29 just wasn't in a place where he wanted to he just couldn't just he didn't want to just jump into a new relationship at that moment he was like no I need to process this and and so it was wise like we both did what we needed to do for six or nine months timing you know timing yeah big difference Do you think your husband knows what the fuck is going on with that guy? No. No. I think my ex-husband is vaguely aware that I'm dating somebody, but I don't think he has any idea of what that really is. Where I live, he's not far away.
Starting point is 00:57:05 We haven't yet run into each other at the same time. But I mean, your kids know this guy, so don't they think they go home and tell you them, oh, mom's dating some young hot guy? Well, they've been really good about not doing that. Oh, okay. But they, yeah, I mean, I think at one point, he pulled into my driveway and was like, oh, whose, you know, vehicle is that? And my kid said, oh, that's mom's friend. And he just kind of went, oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:57:32 So, I mean, I think he's aware. I have heard that he's, you know, now trying to date online as well. I don't know too much. I'm happy for him to find. I hope he finds what he needs. Right. You know, I don't know. I don't know what that is, but I hope he finds what he needs.
Starting point is 00:57:47 So, but fortunately, my adult children are super. They don't know about my lifestyle. Nor do they need to. Exactly. I'm very, I'm not. Nobody knows. Nobody, no kid wants to know about their parents' sex life, okay? Nobody.
Starting point is 00:58:02 Exactly. Sorry. So, yeah. So, like, my older child knows a little bit that she knows it through my ex-husband, who told her that we were swingers in the past. And I think she has some inkling. Oh my God. He told your daughter.
Starting point is 00:58:17 Yes. Yes. Yes. I know. I know it's weird. I was like, really? You didn't like, oh, God. No.
Starting point is 00:58:23 You're right. Like, nobody really wants to know what their mom and dad is doing. No. Oh. Like, no. And so I just don't share that. But I don't really, I'm not like lying. I just don't share it.
Starting point is 00:58:35 Listen, I say this many times on my show because sometimes people make comments on YouTube just to fucking dig at people. They want to be judgy douchebags. And they'll be like, Oh, does she, do her kids know what she does or blah, blah? And I'm like, does your kids know how you fucked your wife last night? I mean, no one knows about that. Your sex life is your own private business.
Starting point is 00:58:54 Okay, people talk about my show because we're talking about these things, but nobody tells their family members about their sex life, even vanilla people. So why should swingers? It's not, no one's fucking business. Exactly. And that's why, you know, we have wonderful venues like yours, strictly anonymous, where we can talk about it and we, you know, nobody has to know. Exactly. And people, like I said, guys are going to be like salivating. Like, oh my God, too bad. Like gang bang, baby is off the market. Because I'm telling you with your last episode, we put out your email. And I was getting emails from guys every day. I was like, forward you. Here's another one. Here's another one. Yeah. There were so many. I did get some really sweet emails. And I did try to respond to most of them. Some of the guys were hard. I mean, they were sending picks, remember? I know. It was some great ones.
Starting point is 00:59:42 I know. It was too bad. Some of them were really far away. I was like, yeah, this is not. I can't fly across the country to meet up with somebody for sex. It's just not my lifestyle. Yeah. I think I've told you I live in work a very conservative sort of. Yeah, no, I know. That's what I love about you. Like I said, if people would see you, they would think you're like, you know, the soccer mom next door. Like, you know, you would never know that you were doing gangbangs before. Then now you're in the lifestyle. You'd like love to fuck younger guys. and, you know, everything that you're up to, no one would ever have any idea. But I love this update.
Starting point is 01:00:19 I love a happy ending. Like I said, I remember the first episode that at the end, it was a little bit sad because it was weird. Like, how are you like cheating on a guy that, you know, you were able to fuck other people? And then we had the second episode where you were fucking all these young people, but there was something missing. And now we had that missing part. So maybe your guy could listen to this episode and be happy.
Starting point is 01:00:41 And I hope so. And yeah, and it's nice to sort of, I love that like you kind of gave this three-part segment and kind of filled you in on. Yeah. And I think that this is where you belong. I think it's great that you guys are just playing together. I think who cares that he never wants you to be with other people solo? A lot of swinging couples that I know that are successful, they don't play alone. They just don't.
Starting point is 01:01:06 They never do. And that's a very common in the lifestyle. You know, so I think that it works. Hopefully he listens to this, you know, because this one's a good one. And I'm very happy for you, Gang Bang, Betty. You're no longer Gang Bang Betty. I think you're like Swinger Betty, Swinging, squirting, Betty. Swinging squirt.
Starting point is 01:01:29 I don't know. I don't get a late, like title. I can't wait. I'll wait to see what you end up with. Yeah, it will definitely be up soon. Thank you so much for calling in. If you could send me like, yeah, if you could send me like one or two picks for like, for the thing anonymous, you know, always anonymous, nothing X rated.
Starting point is 01:01:49 You're good at that. We'll put it there. People could see, get a little bit of a visual for the episode. But thank you so much for calling in with the update. It was awesome. Okay. Thank you. Good luck with your squirting.
Starting point is 01:02:02 Thank you. Oh, you, I'm going to try what you told me. I'm going to. If it works, I'm going to, it's, you know, you have to. it's you to thank. Yeah, let me know. I will, I will. All right.
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