Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 601 - Lara had a Gangbang While her Boyfriend Watched

Episode Date: February 27, 2023

Lara had a gangbang while her boyfriend watched and she called in plus a whole lot more. How many guys were at the ganbang? How was it all set up? And, what exactly went down? Tune in for all the details including how and why she decided she wanted to hoo up with my previous guest Aaron (episode #558), what exactly her and her boyfriend want to do with Aaron and how all played out, how and why she decided to go on to Fetlife to find lifestyle event to attend, the gangbang party she found and exactly what was going down there, the stripper she played around with to get things started, the gangbang she had with 6 guys and exactly how that went down, how she felt about it, the one dvp (double vaginal penetration) she had that she loved and exactly went down, their creampie fetish and what they both love about it, the couple they met at a hotel takeover and exactly what they all did with each other, how and why she loves picking up girls for her boyfriend to hook up with, the couple her boyfriend has been a third for for many years and all the naughty things they enjoy doing with each other, the one time she sent her boyfriend to cuck another husband and how and why that tuned her on so much, how and why she doesn’t enjoy playing solo with her boyfriend even though she cool with him playing solo, their dirty talk scenarios including creampies with other guys, how and why she’s going to school to become a sex therapist, how and why she thinks sex is so important for a relationship/marraige, why fantasy and role playing is so important and why it’s the best way to start being open with your partner, how she learned how to be so good at dirty talk, how you can bring dirty talk into your bedroom plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of LARA plus all of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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to it and is super interesting. So thanks Taylor for that great review. Write me a review if you want. Today I have on Erica. Now Erica has been on the show before. I had a lot of people at once contact me to be back on the show. Like a lot of update people. Normally I post those updates early in January,

but everybody that I reached out to for updates didn't get back to me until just now. So I have a lot of hot updates coming in for you. the girls are always interesting and Erica does not disappoint she's back on this bitch like if she was alive during the phone sex days she could have been a phone sex operator because wait till you hear her tell her stories oh my goodness you're going to die she's pretty dirty the way she talks but she wasn't always that way and that's what's like super interesting about her her backstory is out there her first episode it's 322 erika likes women and three three Resoms and orgies and everything but included.

I don't know what the exact title is, but it's something along those lines. And she does. Erica is into it all. And she has been into her open relationship with her guy from the get-go. They do all kinds of things. She called in to talk about the fact, she was supposed to come on and talk about the fact that she had sex with my guest,

Aaron. Now, Aaron was the young Orthodox Jewish kid who wound up at a swingers club and lost his virginity and has been swinging. ever since he's a really young guy who's living a double life now he contacted me to put me in touch with her and I did and then she's like oh I'm hook it up with him tomorrow I'm like you got to come back on she but she was coming back on anyway with an update so she talks about what happened with Aaron as well as a recent hotel takeover she went to as well as a gang bang scenario that took place at a hotel that she involved her and her guy

have like a big cream pie kink she talks a lot about that she talks about slightly hooking up with the hot stripper she's very into girls but like I said we talk about that gang bang there's like six guys included she talks all about that she talks about a DVP and how she loves that and what went down on one of those

and she just talks about their open relationship like Sam has other people that he hooks up with like a couple that he's been with for a very long time and he goes and lives out his fantasies with them and screws them and she's cool with that. She doesn't see people solo without him. She prefers things with him. She's come to the understanding recently that she's very much an exhibitionist.

She loves being watched and she loves hot wife fantasy. She talks about all the dirty talk. Her and her guy do. I'm telling you the whole episode sounds like dirty talk just because of the way she talks. I'm telling you, you'll see what I mean. But she's just, you know, living her best. life and happy and she happens to be very into the psychology behind sex. I don't think that's a correct way to say it, but she is going to school currently to be a sex therapist. Right now,

she's becoming a psychologist. She's getting that degree and then she's going to get her PhD in sex education. And she's going to be a good person to be out there helping people because she's super open. She is super curious. And, And you're going to love her. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Erica. Hi, Erica. Welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Thank you.

They say good things coming three. So here I am for the third time. Yeah, you were on. The second one was more about you just taught, like we did a girl talk episode, right? The first one was a great episode. It's 522, right? That's the number. I think it's like titled Erica is into women.

and threesomes, orgies, and more. That's the one episode where you hear all of your backstory. That's really fascinating because you do have a history. You were swinging, you had an ex-husband, you were swinging with him, and then you were cheating on him, and then you left him, and then you met the guy that you're with now. And you guys have been very open and very sexual and doing a lot of things since you, from the get-go of meeting each other. People want to hear that whole story, because it is really interesting.

It's 522 episode. I'll put a link to that in the description. here. Then you called up and talked about blow jobs and we had a whole girl talk episode because you could come from blowing a guy and that's a whole other thing that people have to go listen to. But recently I know we were chatting because you were and now I know that there's gangbings involved in this conversation and updates because you're always out there doing crazy things. But I do also know, and I just want to start off with this real quick and tell me the update. you were about to bang one of my callers.

Now, I have had on that thing before. Like, I have had two callers that have found each other and hooked up and had sex, you know, and then one of them came back and told me about it. And the guy turned out to be a douchebag. It was a girl that called it. It was a very interesting story. But with you, you were set up to have sex. Should we talk about it?

Absolutely. With my little orthodox Jewish boy who is like swinging behind his community's back. Okay. He has been. And he reached out to me afterwards. I mean, I had to like fucking put a stop to him because he was like using me as his like personal dating person. Like he just became obsessed with cooking up with all the women on my show. And so I hooked him up with you somehow, right? He asked me to talk to you and he reached out to you, correct?

Yes. Mm-hmm. Yeah, he reached out to me via WhatsApp and I listened to his episode. And maybe a week or two prior, Sam and I, my boyfriend, we were just talking about, like, unfulfilled fantasies. And one of the things that I told him that I was interested in doing was actually training a young guy. Oh, interesting. Yeah, like finding a kid, I mean, not a kid, like a 20 to like 22, 23 year olds, he was really an experience with women. And because I remember fucking guys at that age, like, they had no idea what was going on.

And they didn't know how to, like, eat a woman out or even, like, finger them, you know? And so, not to mention, I mean, sex lasted, like, eight seconds. That was it. And so, like, it would be really hot to have a guy that I find. And I just, like, train them, spend them out to the wild. So maybe spend like two or three months, like once every couple weeks banging in, but have it be like very instructional. I'm going to school to be a therapist. I want to be a sex and relationship therapist.

Yeah. So I'm very comfortable talking about it and everything. And I thought, no, this is something different. So then Aaron just kind of fell into my lap. But as you know, he lives across the world. So I'm like, oh, this is probably not the best. You know, it's not really what I was looking for. So I said to my boyfriend, I said, you know, part of me just wants to be that motherly type figure that can gently guide him into realizing like what he's potentially doing.

So we did video that a few times. It was all just him asking me questions. I think he was jerking off like under the covers. I mean, just hearing my voice and just asking me questions about. Oh, okay. Like, what's my favorite position? What, you know. Oh, for sure.

Give Sam a blow job, like da-da-da. I wasn't having video sucks with him, but he would ask me questions. And then we would get off the phone call and it would be maybe 10 or 15 minutes long. And then he would message me like, I came while we were on the call. Oh, yeah. So you know he was joking on. Yeah. Oh, for sure. So fast forward a couple months and he messages me that he's actually going to be in my area for a family wedding. And I said, okay, we set up a time to meet and the first week, something came up on my end. I had to cancel the day before. And then the following week we set up to meet and then he canceled an hour before he was supposed to be at my house. He said he had a fever.

or something and then he went back across the pond after that. But I had kind of distanced myself from him anyway. I had a little bit of a plan. I don't do anything with guys without Sam there. So Sam was going to be there. And then Sam and I kind of like role played out what we wanted the rest of the time to look like. And Sam and I definitely have a cream pie kink. We have a couple of trusted single guys.

They're not really single. They're married with a hall pass. and so they do regular testing and everything and so we will do that way yeah that play with them and sam loves fucking me with another guy's cream pie and me now he does not do any kind of like clean up or anything like that we just like the dirtiness right so he was so sam and i decided okay erin's going to fuck me then sam's going to fuck me then sam's going to fuck And then we're going to have Aaron just kind of fit in the corner and cuck him a little bit. And then I'm going to have Aaron fuck me again.

After. So that was kind of our plan. But like I said, it didn't work out. Well, let me just tell you, if Aaron's listening to this episode, which you probably will, he's already come from this. I'm sure. Sorry, happened. No, your whole fantasy is hot, even, because I was thinking like, oh, maybe we should really have this in the beginning of the episode, or people are really going to be into it. But you make it hot.

You know, it's kind of like a story that went nowhere because you never even fucking hooked up with him, but you made it still sound good, I think. Yeah. Well, and so I'm still actively trying to find that young guy. I recently got on set life. Mm-hmm. And I had not been on their crime. Let me tell you, it's the Wild West. Really?

Oh, 100%. I set up my profile, did it put any face pics or anything, just some lingerie, goudoir pictures, which I did send you boudoir pictures from a photo shoot that I did with Sam to put on the Patreon. Yes, people have to see you to believe you. Yeah. So there are so many events on set life. Because we had been on, we're on SLS as swingers, but there aren't that many events that are kind of publicized on there. Yeah.

And that has like the house parties, the gang bang parties, I mean, all the things. And, oh, and we just did a hotel takeover. So I can talk about that too. I know. I know some stuff, but I don't know at all. But yeah, go on. Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

So we got on that. And I put on my profile that my daddy and I, I were looking for a young sub guy to play with. And I mean, people come out of the fucking woodwork. And these are guys, they're muscular, they're attractive. And they want me to, like, put a fucking cage on their cock and they want to clean my house. I had one guy message me and he's like, I just want to give you money. I'm like, money for life.

Yeah, that's Fendom. Financial domination. Yeah. Cha-ching. Although, this is going to sound really bitchy, but he wanted the meetup. He said, okay, how much are you going to give me? He goes, $40. $40.

$40? Fuck you. And I'm like, dude, I have to drive like 20 minutes to get to you. Like, I'm not driving 20 minutes for $40. fuck like it better have three figures or i'm not coming yeah and he was like oh it's turning me on that you don't want it i'm like no no you don't understand it has to have at least three figures like i'm not trying to turn you on i'm just telling you it's not happening but yeah so we have had some fun we recently this week actually went to a gang bang party that was posted on fat yeah tell me

about that. That's what I did hear. Somebody recently told me, like, you know, fat life isn't a good place to, like, meet people to hook up. There's other apps that are better for that. But what fat life is great for is getting in the know of what is going on in the lifestyle in your area. Like the parties, like you said, the events, the hotel takeovers, like that's what goes down there, right? But we'll talk about whether you met people on fat life. Why don't you start with the gang bang that you went to recently? Okay. So the other day, I was just kind of perusing what was going on on fat.

And I saw a gang bang that was literally a half a mile away from my house on a Monday night. Wow. Isn't it crazy? People have no idea that this shit is going down a half a mile from their house too, probably. I know. I know. And it was at a nice hotel. Like they got a really nice suite and everything.

And, you know, they changed. charged for the single guys that went. And then they said couples and single women were free to come. And so I messaged the organizer and it was also open bar. So it's like, okay, it's free. It's half a mile from my house. And now I'm just interested because I'm so curious about other people's kings. I love just hearing about what makes, what turns people on.

and all that. So I said to Sam, I said, let's just go. So even if we don't end up doing anything, we can still experience it. There's all the girls. And the girls that were participating were both by, but not my type. Like, I'm really pretty picky when it comes to women. And I said, so if you decide you want to fuck one of them, like, that's cool. I'll probably just end up watching.

So we get there, like maybe 10. 10.30 at night. And the vibe is really chill. And like, people are just kind of hanging out. But let me ask you a quick question because I'm curious about like how this gets set up. Because it's a gang bang, but they're inviting couples and multiple girls. I mean, when they say it's a gang bang, is it that, okay, if you're a girl and you're coming, you're getting fucked by tons of guys?

Like, I mean, how is it set up that it's a gang bang and not an orgy or just a swingers party? You know what I mean? Like what's the difference? So I think there's in this particular situation, I can't speak to all of them. Yeah, just this one. That's what I'm asking. The guy that set it up, I think he's trying to kind of get like an entertainment slash party business off the ground. So he had a couple of women who he knows in a lifestyle who like to be gang banged.

So he set it up like there is a gang bang for them. But since he's trying to kind of set up parties and. general, I think that's why it was more open to couples and single females as well, just to kind of get that word out there. So it's sort of like the gangbang girls he has. It's like the entertainment. Like come see a gang bang and you could participate and other things will go on. But that's sort of how he's creating this party atmosphere. The gang bang is like the theme. It's like the theme. Exactly. Oh, okay. Interesting. Because while we were there, we were talking with him and, you know, he was kind of talking about his vision for the future and everything, partnering with. different clubs put on events and things like that so we get there everyone's just kind of chilling and i go to make sam and i drink and this one guy he was really cute he's probably like 25 or 26 he immediately starts chatting me up and i i didn't wear lingerie or anything i just wore

kind of like a like a cocktail type dress but not you know short like maybe a club dress i guess And he starts chatting me up and then another guy starts chatting me up. We all kind of talk together and then all of a sudden I've got like six or seven guys, you know, talking to me. And I am definitely an exhibitionist. I've been discovering this aspect of myself over the last few months. So they had a stripper to kind of get the party really started and she comes out and she is a very attractive. black woman, she's got to be like six foot too. And she also has like stripper heels on.

So she's like six, five, six. Like an Amazon woman. Amazon woman. Yeah. And she kind of zeroes in on me. And she has her nipples pierced. I also have my nipples pierced. She, and I was like, oh, your nipples are so hot.

I'm like, I have mine done too. And she goes, can I see? I said, sure. And I had on a strapped with dress. So I just kind of pull my dress. down and she immediately starts like sucking on my nipples in front of everybody and then I said oh I have my clip pierced too and you slugs really can I see it said absolutely so I didn't have panties on with my dress I pull up my dress the shower my piercing and all the guys there's probably like

20 guys there they're all just watching me and and the stripper and she starts licking my a little bit, just like, playful. And then she moves on to the other guys and she's given dances and everything. And, but now it's got like all lives on me because of that. And so Sam and I are talking. I said, oh, I don't know. Like, maybe I do want to do something tonight. It's like, whatever you want to do, babe, it's fine with me.

And I had a fantasy about doing kind of an anonymous gang bang at a club. I've been to one club in New York City And we don't live in New York City But we could travel there And he said they have it set up Where there are maybe like two beds And they allow single guys in the club And he's been there where it's just been like

Guy after guy has fucked The girls that are laying there And I have an anonymous sex kink too I guess I have a lot of kinks now that I'm talking about them all But like oh that would be really hot So I turned in and I said, okay, I think I do, I think I do want to do this. While you're at the gangbank. We kind of briefly, yeah, while we're at the gaming.

Yeah. So nothing has really happened with the other girls that the gangbanks are actually for. Like I said, they weren't attractive. I'm sorry to say. But whatever. I think the host of the party was glad that I got shit started. So I go with the whole stripper scenario. Yeah.

That was the first hookup that's happening. Yeah, yeah. And then I say to a couple of the guys like, all right, let's go. Let's do it. So I say to Sam, I'm like, okay, this is what I want to do. I don't want to kiss anybody. I don't want to give blow jobs to anybody because I'm really careful when it comes to STDs and everything. And I have no idea who the fuck these guys are.

Like, I want everyone to wash their hands before they touch me and wear a condom. That's the rules that I have. And I'm not a pillow princess at all, but I basically just said to everybody, it's like, look, you can fuck me. These are the rules. You're responsible for your own orgasm. And once I say I'm done, I'm done. Right. And they're like, all right.

Immediately. I mean, I take my dress off. I lay down on the bod. And immediately there's like five or six guys around me. And Sam's there. he's holding my hand. He's kind of running security to make sure everything is, you know, everyone's following the rules. And, and yeah, I actually just got fucked by like six guys, I think. I was squirting. The first guy went down on me, made me come so hard. And then I squirted on his face. And that's kind of a party trick.

Totally. And then after that, it was just off to the races. And Sam said he could not believe, I mean, the guys were lined up if I had wanted to go all night I it would have just big guy after guy after guy and then I was just done after that because for me it wasn't even about getting fucked it was just the experience of kind of having that multiple partner in a row I mean I've done DP I've done DVP, there was none of that, because it wasn't that kind of hookup. It was just lay on the bed, fucking. And then move on to the next one. Right, you were moving out that true gang-bang fantasy.

Exactly. So it was a Monday night. How did you like it? You know, I liked it, but I don't think I would, I wouldn't do it again in that setting. I've done multiple guys in like a true kind of hookup type of situation where there is kissing and oral and all of that. And I much prefer that. Right. Because you could do DVP.

You'll blow the guys. I mean, because everything is like there's testing and stuff done ahead of time. Right? Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. And so I've done that with, I think the first time I called in, I had done one of those with three guys.

And the one guy had kind of been in dad. I've done a couple more since then with guys that were actually really good and have had really good experiences. I actually had one DPP where both of the guys, neither of them, Sam, came in me at the same time. Okay, DVP, because I didn't know what DVP was, I think before someone came on my show. But DVP is two dicks in one badge because I knew what DP is, you know, dick in your ass and your pussy. But DVP, for anyone that doesn't know, is like two guys' dicks inside you at the same time. And now, I don't even know how you maneuver that physically. Like, can you just tell me the position that you're in?

Just like with DP, like, what guys in the bottom? Oh, okay. So they're not like two next to each other. Interesting, right. No. And then I got on top of me. And two of the guys that we play with, they go. I don't know how they do it, but they can just come on command.

And so they're both in my pussy And I'm like, I want you to come. And they're like, now? I'm like, yeah, now. And they both just fucking came in my pussy at the same time. And was that like the biggest turn on for you? Oh, so hot. It's so fucking hot.

And your guy, is he watching too? Because this is his thing as well. He was watching. I was actually like giving him a blowjob like while it was happening. Yeah, he loved it too. Oh my God. What's the name for that? Two dicks in your pussy and a dick in your mouth. Is that like spit roasting? Airtight. I don't know what the fuck that is. That's something. That's the Erica. That's the Erica special. That's the area. Especially, yeah. I don't know if there's a term for it. Oh, my goodness. Well, yeah. When earlier in that day, I had something else I had never had. The one guy was licking my clit while I can't remember if it was spam or the stuff.

third guy was fucking me. And like, the one guy was underneath me kind of in like a 69. And licking my clit while I was getting fucked. And that was so hot. Like a threesome with two guys instead of like a girl doing that. It was another guy. And now wait, with that DVP, like after those two guys both came in, then you let Sam come in. I mean, just he come in and then fuck you as well because that's his big part of it.

Yep, yep. And he had been fucking me like throughout. It's just, yeah, we wanted those cream pies. And as they're fucking me at the same time, I started thinking like, okay, yeah, if they came inside me at the same time, that would just be like top of the mountain for a minute. It really was. It was great. So yeah, so we've definitely been having some fun all around. And we like the multiple guys situation. We find it more fun than like three sums that we've done. with women. And is that because you, because I know you really do like women. Is it because it's harder to find the unicorns that you're attracted to? I mean, how come not as many checks as you guys? Yeah, it's also like, it's, I think, harder to find. We have had a few couple swaps and we love that, but it's really hard to find that four-way connection with someone.

right for everybody or with a couple right right but we did we went to a hotel takeover a few weeks ago and we had dinner with this one couple a couple times and they actually listen to your show now too

oh you're kidding to our episodes and everything yeah and we did finally fuck them and that was great too and now you're totally open just remind people because a lot of times people go guys people go mental when this is the kind of situation where the girl gets to fuck kinds of guys, but the guy can fuck other people.

You're down with your guy with women. Oh my gosh. I love seeing him. So we were at a party, which we had found on fat, but one of our single ended up being like best friends with the host, just serendipitously. So we were at that party, and there was

not that many hot women there, but there was one woman who was really hot. And it was her first kind of swapping situation. And she was there with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend was just watching. He wasn't participating. So it was pretty late in the night.

And I had already fucked the single guy and then another guy with Sam. And I was kind of just done for the night, but we were still talking and socializing. And I said to this woman, I just think you're so beautiful. I really, really would like to watch you with Sam. And she kind of like lit up like a Christmas tree and she's like, are you serious? I said absolutely I am. And so they went into the room and her boyfriend and I watched while she gave Sam a blowjob. And afterwards she said it was just so hot for her to have a woman, you know, say that to her. And and Sam loved it too. You know, because it's like I think it's a little bit different when it's just a little bit different when it's just. your girlfriend that's really encouraging it. Like it's not just that I'm okay with it. I love it.

I love watching him with another woman. Right. That's like super hot to you. I mean, you made that happen. So that's like a whole fantasy that I'm sure a lot of guys would love. I mean, like you said, not only is, are you allowing it? You're, you know, facilitating it. You're making it happen because you like love it.

So that's probably so much a part of the turn on besides the fact that he's with some other person, you know? Yeah. And so that woman and I. we actually ended up, you know, just like exchanging contact information. And the four of us have had a group chat going and just talking about different things because they kind of have a similar dynamic. You know, I say Sam is my daddy, Dom. Like, he's very much a pleasure, Dom.

And that's how her boyfriend is as well. But she's been really curious about being with a woman. Like she hasn't done it, but she wants to try it. Right. And she said, you know, she said, all these. like you're so hot, but just the vibe that you give off makes me feel really comfortable. So she asked me like, would I be willing? You know, just do some exploration with her.

I said, absolutely I would. And that's what I love about this community. Like being able to meet like-minded or just open-minded people that you could have those conversations about, you know, she's also a mother. Like we can talk about motherhood and just life shit. but then also the sexual things. And having that spirit of openness allows for infinite possibilities when it comes to different relationships. Right. Because now it's not just your friend.

You could also be, you know, a play partner, you know, like you said, you could talk about your kids. So you have like everything there. And your guys find out, do you guys hook up solo without people? Or Sam's always there, right? So we haven't, he has hooked up. up, he has a couple that he has been a third for for about 10 years now. And it's actually funny because the other day we were at brunch, and I had never met them. We were at brunch and they were actually sitting at the bar when we walked in.

So we all met and lovely couple. I definitely would not be interested in either of them, but they love having Sam. The husband in that couple is a cleanup guy. And so he loves eating to come out of his woman after Sam's coming her. So, you know, he has that going. And that's just a very sporadic thing. Like that's maybe once every three or four months that he plays with them. I've hooked him up one other time someone posted on FLAS.

They were looking for someone for like a Sunday after. afternoon playtime date. And I was actually away with my kids and I saw it and I messaged the husband and I said, you know, my boyfriend's an incredible lover. Da-da-da. Like sent him all these pictures. And that was really hot because I set the whole thing up for Sam. He went there while he was fucking the wife.

The husband was sending me like live update pictures. Oh, wow. So I'm sitting there on the beach. Yeah. With the kids like shielding my phone. So that I could see these pictures. Hilarious. Yeah.

So I mean, we don't play alone. Like we're not Polly. But if the situation is right, I'm okay with him playing. I prefer. I highly, highly prefer to be there. For myself personally, I just don't want to do anything without him there. That's my rule. That's not his rule.

But, you know, and that's open. for evolution over time. I mean, we are at where we're at today, but five years from now, maybe we're at a completely different place. But I think you have to do, for any couples that are kind of interested in this, you have to do what feels right at the time. And maybe that's just getting your feet wet by having parallel play where, you know, you and another, you're as a couple, there's another couple in the same bed, and you're both, you know, just only with your own partners, but you're getting to experience, like, the sights and sounds of another couple next to you

or a soft swap or you want to do, but every couple kind of have to find that boundary or that comfortable level. And what I typically hear a lot of the times is that over time, boundaries, rules, regulations, if it kind of fall to the wayside. I think they're very important in the beginning because you really have to tread lightly and make sure you talk about things

and communicate just to make sure every step of the way everything is okay with people. But I think over time, the most successful couples that I've talked to that have been doing this for many years, like I'm talking double-digit years. They don't, you know, anything goes at that point. Like they had rules in the beginning,

but those go away after you really, that one's pretty okay with what's going down. Have you found that some of your rules have gone away yet? I mean, we didn't really have any rules. Oh, you're right. You don't really have it. The solo play for me is just the boundary I put up because my connection to Sam is so strong and so deep that I feel like my sexual energy can sometimes be tied to that.

And I know it wouldn't be as good for me if he wasn't there. I would think, though, maybe if Sam really was into it, maybe you would be into it because it would be him included in some way, but like you just want him there. Yeah. Right. Yeah. I mean, we've definitely dirty talked out a scenario where one time I will come up in the

middle of the night. And this doesn't happen very often. But I will come up in the middle of the night and we had thought, like, right before we went to sleep. I woke up and I was up. I was, we'll go super horny. So I started, like, stroking his cock in the middle of the night and, like, kissing his cheek and everything to wake him up. And as soon as he gets hard, I get on top of him, I start riding him.

And he could feel, like, has come inside me from when we had fallen asleep earlier. And then he just out of the blue starts dirty talking to me, like, oh, baby, did you sit home from your girl's night? And I'm like, yeah. And I'm like, oh, I have a dirty secret to tell you. And so we dirty talked the whole time I was riding him about me meeting a guy at a bar. And he was only in town for like two nights on business. And I went back to his hotel room and on button his pants and started giving him a blowjob. And it's like how big this is coffee.

Sam has a nine-inch cock, so it's not like there's any kind of competition. Yeah, but he likes to, he likes it when our play partners are well-endowed. And so we just like Dirty Talks the whole thing about me giving us that a blowjob and then he's fucking me and coming inside me and then me coming straight home to Sam. And so it's definitely a fantasy of ours. I'm just not. And honestly, if something like that legit happened, it wouldn't, because I wouldn't have sex with a stranger without a condom, but it is really hot to think about. Yeah, and I think that's important. Sometimes things could just be a fantasy, but it's not something that you need to live out, but you guys do like the hot wife. That's kind of like a hot wife fantasy. Yeah, exactly. So, I mean, like I said, it's all built on communication and trust and openness. And I just, I couldn't be happier. I mean, we, we share all aspects of our lives together.

And there's just no shame or guilt between us. And we have a great time. Like, we have a very deep connection and trust. And it all kind of radiates from there. Right. So how about, like, with your schooling, you're going to school for sex education. I mean, you know, is that like an online thing? Is it in person? Because I'm wondering, like, do you talk openly about who you are, what you do? Or I don't know, I wonder. So I'm going to school to be a therapist, me and my master's. And so when I graduate, I will then do like my post grad hours.

And I want to focus on, there's another certification for like sex therapy. So that's where I'm focused. But actually, I was talking to Sam a couple days ago about potentially. pursuing a PhD. And I would be so interested in the research of just kink. And I think kink and non-traditional lifestyles are really kind of becoming more mainstream, just due to social media and TikTok and all that. But I want to know, like, what is it about a couple that is the main facilitator of having a very open, fulfilling sex life. And I think too many times we hear from couples like everything is great,

but we just don't have sex. Everything's not great if you're not having sex because that intimacy that you share, and I will say that, I mean, Sam and I have a lot of sex. It sounds like we're playing with other people all the time. I mean, these instances that I told you about today, are over a six-month period. Like we maybe have like one extracurricular playtime a month, just depending on our schedules because we have real lives.

I mean, we're busy, working, going to school full time, everything like that. But I think that the connection and the intimacy that Sam and I have is what allows us to experience these things with each other. So I would like to research like what is that ingredient? Like how can we foster vulnerability between partners so that a partner can even just share a fantasy with the other? Or I know a lot of partners, they don't tell each other about like masturbating or watching porn or like reading erotica because they don't want to be ashamed or feel that guilt for what they're truly curious about. Yeah, for sure. And let me tell you, I hear a lot of stories about people who crossed over to the other side of where you are,

like hooking up with other people and living out all those fantasies because they were up front and honest about what they were into. And they started to watch porn. And then they started to have fantasies. And then they decided to cross the line and do it. I mean, I just had a couple Jade and Thomas on. And that's how it started. So opening up, listen, some people will never go past fantasy or enroll. playing but if you have a good enough imagination role play is fucking hot like you could really like

believe like you know absolutely so but and some people though that will lead to them you know fulfilling that fantasy out in real life but that's always a good place to start for sure right it's the openness and the vulnerability it's being able to truly look at your partner and say like this is who i am this is what i would like and and that will translate into your kids communication across the board. I mean, it translates into like the way you want your dishwasher loaded. Right. If you don't feel like you can communicate your needs about your preferred sexual position,

how can you, it's so integral to a true partnership. And so that's kind of my life's goal now is to be there and to be the one that can help facilitate those fulfilling moments for couples. because I do think that once you have a partner that you feel secure sexually with, you can have a very holistically fulfilling relationship. Were you always so good at dirty talk? Because you are like, I mean, I was thinking before, like nobody, they don't have phone sex operators anymore.

Like, welcome to 2003. I sound so old if I said, oh, you should be a sex phone operator. But you couldn't fucking done that. I mean, the way you talk and shit, like that poor Aaron was coming before he got off the phone. with you when you were just talking. I mean, have you always been so good and open and into dirty talk? Absolutely not. No. That has all just developed during my relationship with fam over the last two years. Before that, absolutely not. Well, talk about that. That's interesting. Like, how did you go from someone who wasn't that's so open about it and so good at it and really, you know?

Piece by a piece, I guess. He's really the first partner. that I've had that is a dirty talker. So even just things like, oh, good girl, the very first time that we hooked up, I'll never forget it, he kind of, I had on like a filthy robe, and he kind of undid it and it slipped off my shoulder, just very, like, movie-esque. And he ran his hand down me, like down my arm.

He was just like very nice. And I could have just come just from him saying very nice. And it just kind of went from there. Like he likes to whisper things in my ear like while he's fucking me. Like he starts like, oh, you know, my little fuck toy or, you know, your daddy's toy. You're my cock slut, things like that. And so from there, I just started getting a little bit more comfortable. So while we're fucking, I'll just be like, use me, daddy.

Like, does my pussy feel good? Or things like that. And it's just fun. We don't talk to each other like that outside the bedroom. But once we start getting into it, it's like the sky's full in it, you know. So it took one person to step up and just start talking and communicating even in just like that hot kind of dirty way with somebody. And then the other person might feel more comfortable to do it too. Right. And I think if you're in a long time partnership or marriage, I don't think anyone would feel comfortable going like zero to 60 with dirty talk right after that.

Now. But I think having those, you could call them sober conversations where, you know, you're not in the middle of a sexual act. It's kind of like when you do maintenance on your relationship, you cannot do maintenance. You cannot grow as a couple if you're in the middle of a conflict. Because the way that I'm not in the middle of a conflict, because the way that I'm not in the middle of a conflict, because the way that I'm not in the middle of a sexual act, because the way that I'm not, our brains work is, you know, your ability to reason shuts down when you're in a conflict. So, in the same thing, like, you don't want to make a decision about being a swinger while you're in the middle of sucking because you're not making those decisions. But, you know, having a sober conversation when you're just out on a date night or staying on the couch and saying, hey, you know, this might seem a little out there, but how do you feel about just kind of spicing up the way we talk to each other? in the bedroom.

And they might be like, what do you mean? And if it's the husband, for example, he could say, like, I just, when I'm fucking you, I just think you are so hot and you're just such a good girl. And just like, kind of put something a little bit vanilla-ish out there and see how she responds to it. Obviously, there should always be consent, even with dirty talking. So if your partner says absolutely not, then. then don't do it.

But I think having having the ability to have those conversations is very important. Or you could kind of test the waters a little bit while you're fucking and be like, oh, your pussy feels so good on my cock, something like that, where it's not degrading, it's nothing like that. It's not over the top. Or if you're the woman, like, oh, fuck me, you know, fuck me. Or even just, if the guy is fucking you and it feels good, tell him. be like, oh my God, that feels so good.

Like right there, don't stop. Like, or I'll just, I'll say like, oh, like press in. Press in a little more. Like, I'll give a little bit of instruction. And all that can be really hot for the guy as well because you are showing that like, they're pleasuring you and you're enjoying it. You're giving that positive feedback. There's really no one on the planet that doesn't want positive feedback.

And that absolutely translates into the bedroom. Yeah, for sure. And now you said in the past couple months you've been really realizing you're an exhibitionist. Is that in role-playing fantasy talk or in real life? No, I mean, that's real life. Like, at that hotel takeover with a couple, the way that it worked is the bottom, like the ballrooms and everything were kind of like where a traditional, like, club type five was happening. We had the bars and the dancer or the DJ. There was a striver pole.

And then they had a wine floor set up. Now the whole hotel was just this party. So we went up to like where the party floors were, where people just had their rooms open. And they were having drinks and different things going on on the party floor. And we went up and we started hooking up with that other couple. And I realized that everyone in the room, like we were the only ones that were fucking. They were all watching us. And that's incredibly hot for me.

And then that other house party that I talked about were Sam had hosted or had gotten the blowjob from from the one woman. When I was playing with Sam and another guy, there were couples and other single guys who were just kind of around the bed, like touching themselves and just watching. And that to me is just so fucking hot because I feel like I'm a porn star in that moment, you know. and just to know that like seeing me have pleasure is giving giving another guy hard or turning on a woman that's incredibly hot for me well listen do you have any place that people like that you give out like i mean i don't know do you give out your fat life or anything or should we just make people go to my patron if they want to see how hot you are because you are very i think just go to the patreon

because you know if i give out the fat it does have my location everything on there so i do when maintain an anonymity. Yeah, yeah, yeah, perfect. So no shout out, sorry, guys. Don't email me. So listen, Erica, thank you so much for calling in and telling your stories. Like, you really are. Thank you.

I mean, too bad. There's no phone operators. Although you should have like an erotica podcast. I would say, you know, down the line, I would definitely be open to having a podcast and other things. But, you know, this is where I'm out right now. And we'll see what happens in the few. No, and I just love that.

Then you just come on my show and do it because it's fucking great. My audience is going to love. Thank you. You talking about anything is like hot. So thank you for calling in and sharing your story. Poor Aaron, he fucking missed out. Aaron, what's your problem? That's what happens when you're young.

You look back when you're younger and you're like, oh, I miss that opportunity, that opportunity. I think he's just too young to really have realized what he missed out. He should have taken two aspirins and showed up. I mean, he just had a fever. Who the fuck cares? I know exactly No but maybe he was being

Considerate I mean I think he was I mean in the long run I really didn't need to get sick But no That's so funny Anyway thank you Erica Thank you for calling in

Thank you for sending me some more hot picks of you People should go listen to your first episode 522 and then the Girl Talk episode I'll put links to both of those And then link to my Patreon So they could see you You're a 10 And they'll have to go there to see you

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