Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 621 - FETISH FRIDAY: Kyle is into Jerking Off, Masturbation Clubs, Hooking Up with Couples and More

Episode Date: April 14, 2023

Kyle is into jerking off, masturbation clubs, hooking up with couples and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he started masturbating? How much does he masturbate? And, where does he masturbate?? Tune in to to hear all the details including how and why he not only enjoys masturbating but also loves watching other guys masturbate as well, how many times he can masturbate in one day, how and why being uncircumcised helps him and why he’s fascinated by other men who are also uncircumcised, how and when he started hooking up with couples behind his wife’s back, where he met them and what exactly went down with them, the woman in town he is cheating on his wife with for long time, how and why she loves gives the best blow jobs and his tip for giving a good one, when he realized he wanted to see other guys jerking off, when he started going to masturbation clubs and exactly what he does when he’s there, how far he goes with the other guys and the type of guys he’s into. the rules and regulations they have in place, the demographics of the men that attend them, the adult bookstores he’s been to and what he enjoys doing there, his gloryhole experiences with couples, the swingers club experiences he’s had , how and why he’s cammed on Chaturbate, his experience finding guys on Reddit, how and why he loves using cock rings and the top ones he recommends plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Now, today I do have on Kyle. And like I just said, he is very into masturbation. In the middle of this, in the beginning, not in the middle. In the beginning of this episode, I do call it like an addiction because he likes to masturbate a lot. Like he's like sometimes seven to ten times a day. And I'm like, oh, you sound like you're a little addicted.

But really what I think it is, and I brought this up at the end of that episode, is like a fetish. I think he has a masturbation fetish. He's really into it, as well as being into other things that we. get into but we first talk about how he does like not only watching people men masturbate men who are like him uncircumcised with a big dick a big white dick uncircumcised is like what he likes to watch and it's actually what he has going down himself he did measure himself he's got a big dick and he talks about that and if you want to know if he's telling the truth go over to my patreon but uh he does

talk about how he got into watching as well as being watched because he went on to chatterbate. We'll watch other guys. He would go on there as well to get the adoration from men watching him because like I said, he has a big exhibition side. He also has a voyeur side. He does like to watch. He has been to masturbation clubs. I didn't even know that there were masturbation clubs.

He says that they happen like one or two times a month. But he has attended those when he travels. for work. He talks about what exactly is going down there, what he's, you know, what he sees, what he's into doing when he goes there. He's also been to adult theaters. He talks about going to glory holes and what goes down there. He's not into guys. He's only into women. When it comes to guys, he likes to watch guys masturbate, but really when he goes into glory holes and he goes to adult theaters, it's more to watch couples having sex. He really enjoys that. I, He has been to a swingers club.

He has a woman in town that he sees. She's married. He's married. They, you know, hook up every now and then. She's really into giving blow jobs and he gives some tips about how to give the bass blowjob because that's what she was into. He wanted to give the bass FNBJ and he taught her how. And so I was like, give me some of those tips yourself, which he does.

He's also hooked up with couples. He had a couple couples that he hooked up with. He found those on Reddit too. when he talks about exactly what went down there. He enjoyed watching. He also participated. Now, listen, like I said, this is a guy that has a masturbation fetus. And I say it's a fetish because he could do it seven to ten times a day.

He's going in his conference room. He's going in the bathroom. He's doing it while he's driving. You know, he loves it. And he also loves cock rings. And that's what we talk about towards the end, which I think is interesting. And I made him get a little specific about it. And he did send me picks of his cock ring stash that he has.

He has a lot of them. He's really into them. I had a guy once that was into them. Only one guy did I ever meet that, you know, played with them and used them. And I liked it as a woman on the receiving end while a guy's wearing it. If you're having sex with them, it does add to it. And it is fun. So I suggest you listen to what he has to say about cock rings.

He's very into them. He plays around with a lot of them. He talks about the ones that he likes the best. So if you want that information, make sure to listen all the way to the end. And then if you want to see the exact ones he's talking about and his stash, as well as see him in all of his glory on my Discord, go sign up from my Patreon, p.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. I'm going to be right back on with Kyle.

Hi, Kyle. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you? I'm good. So you have an interesting. story because you do go to like masturbation clubs, which I don't really know much about.

Okay, I'm sure some of my guess I've been to them, but I've never really heard someone that goes as much as you do. You do have a big masturbation thing going down. And it's something, I mean, you said in your email to me that you do it like seven to ten times a day at work and bathrooms. I mean, that's a little excessive. And you do, like I said, also go to these masturbation clubs. You also have a thing for uncircumcised dicks. So we just got to get into it because

I'm ready. Yeah, is all of this going down? Like, let me just get a little backstory on you. Are you married and how long you've been married for? Yeah, I am married. I've been married a little over 12 years. I've been with my wife for a little over 20 years. So I'm assuming that you do these masturbation. masturbation clubs behind her back.

That would is correct. And now, is there any kind of hooking up with guys that are going on during those events? No, not really. Yeah, there's occasional touching a little bit. I mean, certainly a lot of voyeur is in both directions. But no, my thing is definitely not to necessarily hook up with men, but just to sort of be present in those places and enjoy the experience. Right. So now, I know that you did say that this masturbation, I would say you're a little addicted to it.

I mean, it's like a seven to ten times a day is definitely on the end of the spectrum, right? And most people don't do that. I assume so. I never really pulled anyone, but I think that's probably a fair assessment. Yeah, right? But so go all the way back. Like, when did you get really into masturbating? Because you said it was from the get-go, correct?

Yeah. And, you know, I couldn't tell you for sure. I mean, I would guess like 9-10, something like that. And once I kind of figured it out, it just became part of my life. I don't think, you know, you know, you say addicted. I don't know. I've never, you know, talked to any real professionals about it. Yeah.

It's something I can go without if circumstances dictate. But if it's available, like, I'm just, that's part of my day most days. Right. But, I mean, seven to ten days, seven to ten times a day every day. Listen, I'm an addict and I quit drinking, right? But I could go a week without drinking if I was busy or it couldn't go out. I never drink at home. I mean, it doesn't like, a dick, a big addicted to something doesn't mean like you can't live without it.

It's sort of like you just constantly have this itch that needs to be scratched and you can't not fucking scratch it. I don't know. Seven to ten times this day is a lot. I'm not saying it's a bad thing. Masturbating, calming, sex. All of that is a stress release. So I would assume you're relieving stress. You're relaxing.

But to me, when you are in that kind of state, there is a checking out that's going on. on for sure. Yeah, that's fair. I'm not, you know, it's also not, like, often it's, you know, multiple times and, you know, kind of back to back to back. So it's not like seven to ten individual times. Oh, okay. Take it out of my day.

Oh, okay. Because that I was like, that's a lot of times going. Because I know that you do say that you go into conference rooms, bathrooms. So I'm, like, thinking you're going in that conference room where we're talking right now. Like, you know, seven times. So you could just jerk off like multiple times or like in one, uh, in one, uh, jerk off session is what you're saying. Yeah, for sure. Usually like two to three.

Certainly twice, but two to three usually. And I know, and one other thing, because you do have a thing for uncircumcised cocks when you see them, you like that. That's what you look for. But you also are uncircumcised yourself. And there's something about having that foreskin that helps you with jerking off. I never knew that.

Is that a thing? Yeah. I mean, I, you know, again, without pulling other men or talking specifically about it. Yeah. I mean, one thing that, you know, I don't know if I'd say help, but facilitates is that, you know, generally I don't use lube. And so, you know, that means that if I want to go do it, it can happen real fast. I don't have to find a bottle of lube and clean up afterwards, etc. And so that does, I think, make it a little bit easier to do it more quickly and more, I don't know, but efficiently, you know, so it's not as big a time-consuming event often. Yeah, yeah. So, but you can come to.

two times in a row, one out right after the other, in that time that you sneak off or go do your thing. Yeah, I mean, honestly, and, you know, I'm getting into my 40s now, so we'll see how long it lasts as I get older. Okay. I'll take it for it. Hopefully it'll last longer, but I mean, I don't have a much, if any long downtime. So, I mean, I can get off as many times in a row as I want to usually. Wow. That's like multi-orgasmic. I wonder if a lot of guys are like that. I don't think so. I wouldn't guess so. No, but I don't know. Have you ever tested your testosterone?

I've not. I would guess it is. Right? But no, I never have. Yeah, I think you have. And I'll tell you this, you know, from the guys that I've pulled, I have a lot of guy friends. And a lot of them were big fucking players and even the biggest player. I would say those guys slow down more towards the end of their 40s.

That's when I've seen guys sort of coming out. And then a lot more when they reach your 60s. So you got a good 10 more years of 7 to 10 times the day. Great. All right. Yeah, you're 40. Yeah. So wait.

So now with your wife, I mean, what's because, you know, you do this stuff behind her back, the masturbation clubs. Is there because, you know, you're jerking off. You have this high sex drive. I wonder, is your wife enough for you when it comes to women? Or is there any kind of cheating that's going down as well? there? Yeah, there has been. Not necessarily because she's not enough. I mean, but just, you know, I, it's honestly fun. Variety is fun. But that's more of a, like, people that I've met for fun

experiences. You know, I think I said my email. I think my wife and I have a reasonably normal sex life. I have a very, very high sex drive. So, you know, she knows that I jerk off as much as I do. But we also like very frequently. And that's part of it too. You have sex a lot, right? You're so everything's fine in your marriage, but to get a little variety or have fun on the side, you sometimes do entertain other females. Correct. Are you the one with couples, too? Is that you? I have been with two different couples, yes.

Okay, let's get into that. So, like, how does those situations? Because you're like, oh, sometimes I do, but that's normally when I'm looking for some, you know, variety on the side. I mean, do you go out looking for it? How did you meet those couples that you hooked up with? and what went down? Yeah, so met them both on Reddit. The first time my wife was going to be out of town with my son for a couple weeks or a week or something.

So I spent some time and met some folks that were coming into town who were looking. And they, I think, played with multiple different people while they were here. But on a Friday night and then Saturday morning, we had a couple hookups in their hotel. And so, but what were you looking for? I mean, you're not giving me many details. I got to, like, pull the shit out of you. Okay. So like, you know, you go on Reddit, I go on Reddit, I meet this couple and I met them in their thing, and that's it.

I mean, what are they, like, when you go on Reddit, what were you looking for that you found these people? And then what did you wind up doing with them? Like, what was that scenario that you were looking to experience? Yeah, so I was just going on Reddit to look to see who, you know, they've got them, the feeds that are specific to locations. So for my hometown, looking for just basically anything I thought would be interesting, found these folks. had always wanted at that time it was the first time to honestly among other things just watch two other people back in the same room oh okay see it and smell it and hear it but was also interested in participating so I ended up talking with the woman and a couple for a while over some

chats got to know her hit off we had a nice connection we went out to dinner had a couple drinks hug out for a little bit met them back at their hotel came in people on some music she started blowing him while I sat in the chair and watched a little bit and got myself hard. Then she blew both of us at the same time. Then he fucked her for a little bit. Then I got up on the bed towards the top by the pillows. And she went down on me while he was fucking her from behind. He got off. And then I fucked her for a while and pulled out and came on her. And we all had a hug in a nice conversation and cleaned up a little bit and went home, once bed. And then we had a similar experience the next morning. And then I've talked with them

several times and we'll probably do that again at some point. They don't live too far away. But that was that one. And were they super hot? Like were they around your age range, older, younger? They're around my age range. She's definitely, I think she's really sexy. I don't think if the average person saw her on the street, they go, oh, my God, that woman's fucking incredible.

But she was super hot. He was just sort of a normal dude. They're around my age. I had similar interests and likes sexually and non-sexual and get a relationship with them. Yeah, yeah. And because you know you're a voyeur because of what you also like to do, watching guys, jerking off and stuff like that, I'm assuming that part of you is what went looking for the couples,

like you said, to watch. Yeah, and I'd always wanted to be part of something like that, but, you know, in the right place and not just with anyone. And they were a good fit and worked out well. And what about the other couple? You said a couple couples? Yeah, the other one was when I was traveling. It was actually in New York. Similar deal, you know, looked online on Reddit for a while, kind of filtered through some stuff and found a couple that I liked.

And it was much more of a just meet in a hotel room. And we didn't have much of a, as much of a connection before. And a pretty similar experience in terms of what went down. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's cool. And then you also play, I'm assuming, because sometimes you like a little variety. I know guys like you. You know, if I talk to 100 cheaters, everyone cheats in very different ways.

And for many different reasons. I know guys like you who have a completely normal, healthy, happy relationship at home. and this is just about variety, right? That's you. Do you also hook up with solo women and do you go looking for that or no? I do. I don't, I wouldn't say I'd go looking for it. Yeah.

It's mostly been with one woman here in town that we met after a NBA game at a bar, some friends of friends. We have the same profession. And that's probably been going on seven or eight years. It's very intermittent. There's a period of time. We both worked downtown that she had Friday afternoons off. We kind of had a standing.

I'd go pick her up at work. and she loves to give head and what man doesn't like that. Oh, my God. So these are nooners like during the day in the back of the car? A lot of times. I mean, sometimes other places, et cetera. And then she was really into like trying to figure out how to give the best blowjob. So we would work together and I would show her at least what I liked and, you know, kept

working through that. And for a while, that was pretty regular. It hasn't been for quite a while. But it could be again at any moment or if one of us, I mean, she's married too. If one of us finds ourselves, you know, alone for. for a week or a weekend or something like that. We usually reach out and find a way to hook up. I think it's so interesting what people are really doing behind closed doors and in secret and stuff.

I mean, here you are two married people. I know what you do for a living, right, with high-powered jobs in the back of the car, you know, cheating on their spouses, trying to figure out how to get the best blowjob. To be clear, it's not usually the back of the car. It's usually driving around. Oh, while driving even better. I love it. Yeah.

Oh, so wait, so you drive around. You guys are efficient. You get stuff done. You're driving around and she's blowing you. So when you, I mean, just real quick, just because I love talking about blow jobs. And I did a little episode about it recently. And what did you find or what tips did you give her to give the best BJ? Well, I mean, the number one overall tip, I'm sure you would agree, if you like to talk about it, is enthusiasm that you're into it.

And it's, you know, hopefully turning you on as well. certainly into it and it's not checking a box or anything like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That eye contact and a variety of other techniques for sure as well. Oh, eye contact. You like the girl to look up while, you know, your cock is in her mouth and make eye contact with you? Yeah, both in her mouth, but, you know, what I always tell her is, like, that's super sexy. The sexiest thing is to lick my cock from my balls all the way up to the head while staring me at the eyes, like intense eye contact while you're doing that.

Oh, interesting. I don't think I ever worked eye contact into my BJs. I'm going to try it. I mean, you've got to have the eye contact that's sort of showing the man. Like, this is everything I want to be doing right now. Like, your cock is my number one favorite thing. Right, right, right. Yeah.

So let's get into the fact because you like, you know, cock is your number one. Your cock is your number one favorite thing. And also, you know, looking at other guys jerking off happens to be something that you're really into as well. Now, when did that? start as far as like, I mean, was it like looking at porn when you were younger? Yeah. So, I mean, I think it was always there and I didn't really know it. Like, I was always interested as a younger person, you know, circumstances where people are changing or you're in a bathroom and you can see someone like just always interested in seeing what other guys' cocks look like.

Yeah. Then my wife had a medical issue four or five years ago where we couldn't have sex for, I don't know, the better part of a year. And so, like, I don't know that I knew what I was doing at the time, but kind of took the opportunity to figure out and really explore what it is that I liked and what turned me on and, you know, what things I wanted to experience in my sex life. Well, I still, you know, according to you, I've got 10 more years. But part of that sort of, like, allowed myself to understand that, like, you know, a particular, like, never really like watching men have sex, but particular parts of the man either solo. or, you know, cultivating the type of men that are in the porn that I'm watching as well, became a thing and just sort of allowed myself to acknowledge that and explore it and enjoy it and kind of took off from there. So what was the type that you were looking for?

Like, what specifically was it? Big white uncut-cococks. Big white uncut-coc-coc. So, like, basically, yeah. Yes, correct. Are you big? I mean, I'm sorry. Yeah, I think I am.

I mean, like most men, I have measured myself. Many times. Oh, you have? Most of my measure? How, okay, so what's your measurements? So with a, you know, I do a Taylor's tape and a bone press deal. I'm a little shy of eight, over seven and a half, a little shy of eight. And then almost six, six, five and eight tenths girth.

That's thick, no? Six, six around? Yes. Yeah, it's not, it's a little shy of that. But yeah, pretty well close to that. Wow. Okay. So, yeah, so you're big, you know, it's weird.

It's funny. I can't wait to see the comments. When I do post. episodes with guys and we do get into their dick size and they talk about how big it is. So many guys are like, oh, he's fucking lying. I don't know. It's just guys in their dick size. It's kind of funny how they get really, I don't know what the word would be.

Jealous? Sure. So wait. Okay. So you also have a big white uncircumcised cock and that's what you wound up looking for. So did it start off with porn? and then how did you get into the whole masturbation clubs? I didn't even know that those existed.

Well, yeah. I mean, it started with the porn, like, during that time, like, went ahead and got the porn hub premium and, like, started searching not knowing what would be out there. But there is a fair amount of porn that you can find that is cater to, you know, uncut of cox. Yeah, of course. And, you know, some of it is male, female, but then some of it's just men. Mm-hmm. I do the right searches. And I found myself seeing it and liking it.

And also really liking, like, like, women that like... it whether you know hopefully verbally like really enjoy like porn where women are talking about how they like that the guys uncut and playing with it and like that really turned me on and then but as part of that like you stumble across the fair amount of you know dudes that are just shown themselves off and then kind of ventured into chatterbate where people are doing that and there's hashtags that you can find and then you know got myself on chatterbate a few times as well to have people make the similar comments back to me and really enjoyed that oh and now so when you're on chatter bait.

Is it mostly guys that are on there watching you? Did you find? Yeah, for sure. Right, right. And that was cool. I mean, you just like that attention, whether it's men, women, even though you don't have an attraction to guys, but you like that adoration. Yeah, I think that's fair.

Mm-hmm. That's interesting. So, like, was that, like, when you realize that about yourself, was that confusing to you at all, or was it clear, like? It was kind of clear, kind of enlightening and also, like, liberating and, you know, kind of invigorating. Okay, so you, so when you went on to Chatterby, where would you do that when you were like home alone and your wife was out? I mean, how, how, because I would think you'd have to do that in secret, right? Your wife doesn't know about this kind of stuff. Yeah, that's right. No, yeah,

definitely at home. She works well and so I can work from home often and so able to do that. So you have a little bit of the exhibitionist going on as well as being a voyeur, correct? Yeah, for sure. And I'd say, I mean, probably more than a little bit, probably a decent. out in both directions. Right, right, right. Equally both. Correct. Yeah. So how did you wind up at a masturbation club and tell me exactly what goes down? Because I know that you said you once traveled to NYC. I didn't know that they had those here. Yeah. And I assume they're still going post-COVID, but just, you know, going up there for work and figuring out like what would be a fun thing to do. What could I do? That would be fun. That would sort of be a part of this type of experience.

Spend enough time on Google and you can find one. And it's like once or twice a month, on certain days of the month, you know, random places. kind of like just empty, not really apartments, but more like almost looks like an art studio that's, you know, empty absence and furniture. And it's kind of come and go, no pun intended, over a period of some number of hours and you can show up. And you have to sign up in advance or you can sign up there. I think one of them have a screening thing, which makes some sense. And it's basically there usually have rules. Porns on the screen. Rules against, you know, penetrator of sex and rules on where you can come and accept her, which makes some sense. But just kind of do it's wondering,

I'm either jerking off or watching other people jerk off. Now, so where can't you jerk off? Like on the floor? I mean, where do you jerk off? Like where it come, you know? They don't want on any cloth or surfaces that you can't clean come out of. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So are you, everyone's standing up?

Like, paint the picture. Like, are there couches or are there? Yeah, there's couches and chairs. People are, some people are standing up, kind of milling around. Most people that are, like, intensely, you know, if you're walking around, you can do what you can do. but like when you're really trying to get off most people have found a place to sit down usually there's a group of people kind of standing around watching sometimes encouraging a little bit um I think that paints it well enough I think what's encouraging meaning like touching as well

maybe a little bit but more like you know just making comments like but you got a nice cock like oh the stuff you love this is right up your alley I mean masturbation this masturbation club scenario sounds like top of the mountain for you because it's like everything you wanted in one place. You're being watched. You're getting to watch. Right? I mean, are you... Yeah, I mean, top of the mountain would be, you know, fucking a woman who's really into me while a bunch of people watched. But this is... Oh, we'll get to that. You're getting close to the summit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Have you ever... So you haven't done that yet. No, I've, you know, I've been to some theaters where I've watched other people and, you know,

been in the group of people watching and encouraging, but not been the star of that scene yet. Yeah, I just posted an episode with Casey where she had a whole Bukaki gang bang in an adult theater. I mean, really hardcore. And I just, and there were couples there watching her and a lot of solo guys. And you just, like I said, you can't believe that these things are going down, probably in places that people walk by, right? Yeah, I've been part of that, but never the Bukaki part. I've never had the, you know, woman who's participating and want all the men to come on her, but certainly been in, you know, groups of people that have been watching. And it is, it's couples, it's singles, is, et cetera. Right, right, right. Now, that masturbation club, I mean, are you, when you're sitting there

and you're jerking off, are you on a high alert or scanning the room for that guy that's uncircumcised or is like any guy jerking off kind of a turn on? Definitely looking for the unkut guys. Mm-hmm. And what are the demographics in places like that? It's usually a little bit older.

People in their probably low end would be mid-30s up to you know, high end probably mid-50s. Mm-hmm. And are, I would assume Or is it like, you know, I mean, do you see a lot of wedding rings or even noticing stuff like that? No, I have no idea.

That's not, it's not gay guys? Like, is it gay guys? Maybe, I mean, you know, because I'm assuming. I don't think so. I think it's probably more men like me. I mean, I think if you were gay, you know, you probably have access to things that are more explicit than that. I don't know. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

It's interesting. I just think. I'm asking you one. Yeah, but I think, you know, for a gay man, what a great place to go if you want to see a bunch of straight guys, quote unquote, jerking off. Because like you said, it's probably full with a lot of guys like you who are doing this on the DL privately. I don't know what I think.

Gay men love a straight guy that, you know, maybe teeters on the edge. Yeah, yeah. No, I've got to believe that that's right. But obviously no one's going around saying, hey. Yeah, yeah, I'm gay. Right. But, no, I once had a guy that was big into glory holes and he would set them up and he would do a lot of guys coming over. and he would see like guys with the indent on their finger, you know, like they took their ring off before.

Yes. Do you know what I'm saying? For what it's worth, I'm pretty sure I just leave my ring on. I don't. You don't care. I can. Yeah. Now, did you ever go, like you said, like sometimes somebody has touched.

Have you also touched other guys? No, not really. No. No. And no penetrative sex ever is allowed in these masturbation clubs, right? Yeah, that's usually the rule. Yeah. Now, what about when you've gone to these bookstores?

Do you ever go into like Gloria? and have anything go down and those kinds of things? I've done that a couple of times. It's cool, but, I mean, for me, I only want a woman on the other side, and oftentimes there are men, so I've had experiences where I go in, and I can tell it's a dude. I'm like, okay, well, sorry, not my deal, but they're okay. I'm, like, better, you know, where people are out in the open and there's more visual stimulation.

But wait a second. So you, though, okay, let's just go back to the glory hole situation. you've gone in there and had women on the other side for sure? Yes. Okay. But you could tell the difference between a guy or a girl. Like, how can you tell? Is you bend down and look in and say, is this a man or?

Oh, okay. You're looking. I mean, you can't tell by the feeling. We're talking. I mean, no. I mean, you could never tell by the unless I guess if there was a mustache or something. But no, you could tell by the feel, I'm sure. Right.

Okay. So I've never, listen, I've never been in a. Glory Hall and you know you have to just like bear with my dumb questions but so you when you go in because you very because I'm assuming you know a lot of guys are going to be on the other side and that's definitely what you're not into you go down and you look through first and you verify what's going on on the other side or you can just talk I mean the walls are thin but yeah yeah I mean listen I think a lot of people don't verify most of the time I'm talking to guys that go into these places and they're interested in guys doing it.

You know, I think it's interesting you're going in and you only want a woman on the other side. How many times have you encountered a woman on the other side? A lot? Well, I haven't been to that many, two that I can think of. And if you haven't been to that many, that's a lot. Because I would think that there's not a lot of women doing that, but you have encountered two times women on the other side. Yeah.

I mean, I guess maybe you'd be a surprise, but it's usually a couple in there and the guys watching his wife do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, no, I've had those couples on. I mean, you're right. It's not like a single woman. It's most of the time a couple. The guy's watching his wife.

So you first verify so you've never had a guy do anything to you. Yeah, correct. And then the touching, though, that has just happened at those masturbation clubs. Yeah, or I mean, even if, you know, people standing around, there'll definitely be guys that offer like, hey, do you want me to trick you off or watch this or whatever? Like, no, no, thanks. But they might, like, put their hand on your shoulder. Yeah, yeah. come up next to you, that type of thing.

Have you ever gone on Reddit and looked for a guy to do like solo masturbation one-on-one? No, because I don't like to do any of that stuff where I live instead of when I'm traveling. I'm looking for, you know, kind of a bigger or broader experience. Yeah, yeah, and why? You don't really have to do the work to set it up if there are these masturbation clubs, right? Right. Yes. And they exist. I know you mentioned one in Portland or, right? Or was it Portland or? No, Portland. There's a theater called the Oregon Theater. That's where, you know, I've got a friend who lives there.

I've been there several times. And I think there are probably glory hills and stuff there, but it's just a big kind of old school movie theater. And at the front, in front of the last row chairs, there's several beds and couches set up and just all sorts of different people doing different things. So I know that you did say you've got caught many times. I mean, where have you got caught? I would assume it's jerking off.

Yeah. It's just, you know, like I roll over in bed. And that's usually how to start my day. And, you know, I think she's left for work. And then she comes back upstairs to grab something or it comes back from the bathroom or something. I'm like, oh, shit. Sorry. Thought you were gone to work.

Oh, so it's from your wife getting caught. Yeah. Yeah. She's never, though, found out or doesn't know exactly what it is that you're jerking off to, like other guys jerking off? Not that. No, but I mean, she's certainly come into. our bedroom or like open the front door and I'm on the couch and there's porn on. It's usually more standard porn. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But we watched some of that together from time of time.

I mean, she knows the porn stars that I like and some of them we like together, et cetera. Yeah. Have you ever been to any kind of swingers club or anything while you've been traveling? Yeah, I actually went one time here with the woman that we've had the sort of long-term friends with benefits relationship. She and I went. It's a one that's hosted in a hotel here. didn't stay all that long, just kind of wandered around, had a couple drinks, saw what we saw, saw some people, you know, they had some rooms that were, you know, kind of open. Yeah. You don't really go in them, but kind of watch. And we just wandered around a little bit, got ourselves sufficiently turned on and went home and fucked like rabbits for a few hours.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And now, because you were so turned on by everything that you saw there, but you didn't do anything while you were there and let people watch you guys? No, we didn't. Right. Now, were you afraid? Because you're like in your own town. You're cheating on your wife. She's cheating on her husband.

Were you guys afraid of seeing anyone you know? I think we probably were. I mean, that probably played into the decision not to do anything. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, you know, sort of had to like, well, look, we're there. No one necessarily knows we're there together necessarily if we're not doing anything. And like, if we happen to see someone we knew, well, they're there too. So, you know, kind of the mutually assured destruction type of thing.

And we weren't there all that long. She's a bit like the female version of me to some degree with a super high sex drive and a husband that doesn't like to fuck that much. And so like when we get the opportunity, that particular weekend, we were both home alone. Like we'll try and do something interesting to turn ourselves on. But like if we have that opportunity together, I mean, given our match sex drives, like if we weren't going to do anything there, we need to get somewhere soon because, I mean, we'll spend hours, you know, place. to release all that sexual tension is what you're saying well yeah and like we both just like we're both kind of wired that way like you know i can get off and go right back at it and want to you and she is as well yeah yeah it would be interesting if you tested your testosterone because you know i have all these women

coming on talking about getting testosterone pellets and guys get pellets too especially when they get a little bit older and they start to lose it you know hormones just when they do decline you see a difference in your sex drive so you must have really fucking high and her too she's He's wired that way. And you are, you probably do have very high testosterone from the get-gap. That would make some sense. Now, these masturbation clubs, I know I'm just harping on that because I just haven't had that. I just, I don't, I haven't heard a lot about it.

I mean, are they typically in most cities? Do they have them? I mean, you said that they happen like one or two times a month. How do you find them when you're traveling? Reddit as well? Google. Oh, Google. So what do you, you put in masturbation club and they have them?

in most cities? I wouldn't say most. I mean, there's one in New York, I know. I haven't really looked that much in other cities. I found the theater in Oregon, but, you know, I don't suppose they exist. They may, you know, in Indianapolis or Joplin, Missouri. But, you know, I think there's something for everyone in New York or L.A. or Miami, right? Right. So the big, the big cities. Yeah. And now, have you ever put up, because I know that you do chatterbate and you've done it a couple times. Like, have you ever put, do you have any kind of, uh, like, profiles on any kind of adult sites or anything like that? I have from time to time, but usually just use Reddit, but I post my own stuff on Reddit too, for sure.

Well, what do you do on Reddit? And who are you? I don't know if you want to give a shout out, but you know, you can if you want, but like, what do you do there and what's, I don't really know how to work Reddit. I probably should for my show, right? Because there's a whole, uh, community of people on there, engaging in sexual. activities, correct? Yeah, yeah. Well, not only that, but, and I'll just keep my name private off of it, but I, you know, also will post pictures of myself, videos of myself, videos of myself with other people, you know, my wife and I posted videos of that I was fucking on air and, you know, just to see people's comments about it. Oh, okay. So she knows that you do that over there. Some of it. I mean, I've got a profile

she doesn't know about and then sometimes it says. Yeah, yeah. So what, so because you love that, like, that's that exhibitionist in you. So what are the videos? that you post of yourself. Oh, it would just be, you know, pictures of my cock. You know, and there's a couple different, you know, threads in there that I like that are related to that, whether it's un-cat cocks or I really like cock rings. So that thread as well. Oh, and what do you dig about cock rings? I had one guy that used them all the time, but it was because you had like a getting it up and keeping it up problem. What you obviously don't have that. What do you dig about the cock rings? Does it make it last longer or something for you? Yeah, I can. It just intensifies the experience. I've got a variety

of them that are worn in a variety of positions and techniques that, you know, depending on what I'm doing, will just enhance the experience for me. Explain those. I mean, I'm going to tell you as a woman who was with this guy that had them, to me, it added to the pleasure. I like that kind of feeling. I think a lot of women haven't experienced that because a lot of guys don't use them. But it was something that I would, I liked. It was hot. To me, I could feel it. It was different. It was. a guy having sex with you with one on as opposed to without and it was something new and interesting. So why don't you give some information on how you make it more pleasurable and what you use it for? Because I don't think many people ever have tried one. So the basic ones,

you know, because everybody just released to I thought like, oh, it's just something goes over the shaft of your cock and keep sharp. Yeah. But the really good ones go back behind, they go over your balls and your cock and sit behind there. And so, you know, I don't like the metal ones, but, you know, that's sort of your basic. But then I also like either in combination or I've got some that are you do it all at once, but they'll go, one ring sits back behind your balls and over your cock. And then the other one goes around the top of your scrotum, basically, and cinches your balls down. You see a lot of guys when they're jerking out sometimes kind of pull down on their balls.

Yeah, yeah, I know what you want you on. It kind of does that for you. And I really like that experience because my balls really suck up when I get to. hard. So I don't have like anything hanging. So I like to stretch them down. It creates a different sensation. So I like that too. Oh, interesting. I bet you a lot of guys are like, oh, I'm going to go buy a fucking cock ring. Does it, does it though also on top of all of that make you last a little bit longer? Or is it mostly because of the increased sensation? For me, it's the increased sensation. I mean, I think, you know, if you have them restrictive enough, you know, they can make you last longer.

I don't like them as restrictive. But like it will definitely, you know, like right before a guy comes, like where you get really, really hard. Yeah. You're hard and then you're like fucking hard. It'll be like that the whole time. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so, you know, the sort of lead up is closer to getting off the entire time. But it doesn't restrict me.

I mean, I can get off very quickly or not. Like, I can control that. Right. It's not a cock cage. It's a cock ring, which is a very different thing. Right. Yeah, yeah. And you're not into any of that tease and denial stuff for you.

No, not for me. And now do you use the cock rings with your wife? Yeah, yeah, we fucked yesterday. I'll tell her I've got one that goes back, like I said, behind your balls and you're over the shaft of your cock. Right. But then it has a vibrating thing that's back under, like in your perineum. Oh, and so that hits her as well. And you?

No. That's for you. Just for me, yeah. Then you can wear it the other way where it's the vibrating thing instead of being back behind your balls is on. Oh, my God. I bet you a lot of guys are going to be like, I want to go get one of those. And you said you don't like the metal. What's the material that you put on?

Oh, a silo. Right, okay, because that feels more natural, correct? Yeah, and the silicon ones you can stretch out, because if you're putting it over your cock and your balls, you've got to stretch it out and get it back there. The metal ones, you have to kind of plop everything through one by one, and that's a little harder to get off. But I've got a fairly robust collection of different styles, and like we really like one. I like it, and my wife does, too, but it kind of has like a ring and then a loop that sort of arches over the ring. So it's three parts. So you put the big ring over everything and then put your balls through.

So there's like a ring back behind your cock and your balls and then a little arch over the top of your scrotum. And so it kind of does it all at once, but it also glows in the dark. Oh, cool. That's so funny. And she has a glow in the dark butt plug and the two together. If you get in the dark hotel with blackout curtains can be a lot of fun. Yeah. So wait a second.

Could you do me a favor? Because for my Patreon, I always include like picks and stuff, you know? Yeah. Maybe send me a pick of these things because I feel like other people will maybe want to try one out because I don't think a lot of people utilize the cock rings. A lot of people, because in all my sleeping around, okay, and I've slept with a lot of guys. It was only one guy I came across that used them. And I remember it being hot and fun. And I think that a lot of people don't actually play around with them or have never tried them. And I will say as a woman,

I enjoy them. I'm assuming your wife enjoys them on her end when you wear them and increases her pleasure in some way as well, correct? Because I remember it did for me. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Send me picks of your cock rings, the ones that you're talking about, and I'll post them. I mean, they don't have to be your specific one if you want to send me the picture on Amazon or the link. Yes, send me a pick of your stash of cocklings. I think that would be interesting. Now, I do have this thing, and it's, you know, it's strictly up to you. If you want, I have a private Discord channel. For my guests, it's free to go on there and post anonymous picks of themselves. The Unspeople, censored ones, the ones that I don't really deal with.

If you do want to go on there, I will send you a link. And you could post stuff on there if you want. It's a private Discord, but it's for free as a guest. And you can go get some adoration there if you'd like to. But send me. Yeah, that'd be great. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'll send you the invite for that.

So if people want to see you and all your uncircumcised glory, they could go sign up for my. You'd have to, those people have to sign up for my Patreon to see you on discord but for you it's free to put out there and I'll put some picks of those cock rings because I think that's a good little tip for people because it is fun and I don't think a lot of people try them out for sure don't you think yeah I'm a huge proponent yeah yeah so listen Kyle I think this was like a great interesting story I you know I like the masturbation the angle of it because that is really title of your story right you have a little bit of this cheating and stuff going on, but really who you are is a guy who loves to fucking masturbate, right?

I think that's a fair assessment. Yeah, yeah, yeah, which I don't think I've had on before, you know, and it's like, it's not a fetish. I mean, what do you think it's a fetish? That might be a better word for it than addiction. Do you think maybe it's a masturbation fetish that you have? Yeah, that could be right. Yeah, I wish I didn't fucking call it an addiction in the beginning because I was very off

with that and you corrected me. but I think this is much more of a masturbation fetish. And I'm sure that exists, right? You're talking to someone, so yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Kyle. So you might go on a Friday for Fetish Fridays. But anyway, listen, Kyle, thank you so much for calling in. Thanks in advance for you're going to send in some picks for my Patreon members of the Cochrings

and so the heads up for some guys to go and try it. I suggest every couple goes out and tries it because it is fun. I'm going to put those on my Patreon. You're going to go into my Discord and put some more. interesting stuff over there. I'll send you all of that information. But thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. Super interesting. Thank you. Appreciate it. Thank you, Kyle. All right. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and

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