Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 628 - Neil and his Wife Started Swinging with Their Neighbors and They Have All Been Swinging Ever Since

Episode Date: May 1, 2023

Neil and his wife started swinging with their neighbors and they have all been swinging with each other ever since. Who’s idea was it to start swinging with their neighbors in the first place? How many neighborhood couples do they swing with? And, exactly what do they all do together when they meet up? Tune in to hear all the details including how one of the neighborhood couples were already swingers and how they all decided to take a trip together, their first Temptation resort experience they went on together and exactly what went down including the crazy catamaran trip they took and all the other sexy games that took place, why they just observed on that first trip, how they started researching the lifestyle when they got back and the rules they created for themselves, their next trip to Temptation resort and exactly how their first soft swapping experience went down and how they felt about it, how when lockdown hit they continued swinging with their neighbors, how and why they started hooking up secretly with one couple behind the other couples back, the code word they had to keep everything on the DL, the fantasy scenarios they played out with them and how keeping it all on the DL added to how hot it all was, their recent first hard swap experience at a new Temptation resort and exactly what went down and how they both felt about it, how and why they started a lifestylewebsite and all the information thats included on the site, his top three tips for newbies in the lifestyle. The types of events they dig vs. the ones they don’t dig and why plus a whole lot more. Check out their lifestyle website here: temptedpineapples.com **To see anonymous pics NEIL and his WIFE plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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something that all my Patreon members get to sign up for. It's free if you're a Patreon member. And there's a whole place where now, callers of my show, as well as listeners are posting like all kinds of X-rated stuff over there. So it's getting to be like a fun community of like even nodder things. I'm not a part of that community over there. I run the Patreon. But if you join my Patreon and get access to that, it's super fun. Sign up. It's $5 a month. You could cancel it any time. If you're listening on a podcast app, make sure to follow my show. And if you love my show, give me five stars. That kind of thing always helps. Now, today I have on Neil. Now, Neil has a super interesting story and he has a super interesting website he created for lifestyle newbies or even if you're not a newbie and you want

all the information on the lifestyle. Go to his website. Okay, it's called temptedpinapples.com. That's at Pineapples, plural.com. I'll put the link in the description. But Neil called in to tell me about how him and his wife had some neighbors in town. Okay, two other neighbors in town started talking, and one of the neighbors were like swingers. And one of that neighbor got the two other neighbors, including him and his wife, into going to a lifestyle resort just to check it out. And that's when their journey started. They went to Temptation Resort.

He talks all about what went down the first time all three couples went there. Sounds like a fucking fun place. Let me tell you, okay? He goes into exactly what went down that first time. They kind of like observed that first time, but he talks about everything that they did observe. And then they went back again. And he talks about like the soft swapping experiences they had.

And then when the pandemic happened and things got locked down because they were all neighbors. They had like the best lockdown ever because they. they started like hooking up with each other. But there's like a little bit of a twist that's kind of funny. So there's like three couples and two of the couples, them and another couple, the two ones that were the newbies, decided to start hooking up solo behind the other couple's backs. But it was like, it had to be really done on the DL because they all lived in the same place, right?

They're like across the street from each other. So they had like code words and they were like sneaking around and they're like all playing with each other, but then the two, them and the other couple were playing separately and really going to town because their wives were really into girl and girl action. He talks about all that, and then they, when the COVID went away, they all went back to Temptation Resort. He talks about their first hardcore swap and what went down with a couple that they met there. And, and then he talks about his website, why he started it, all of the information that they put on there. Because listen, when they first started to get into the lifestyle, they did a lot of research. They wanted to find out

about everything. That's the kind of people they are. And that's why they decided to start their website. They make no money on it. There's no ads there. There's no upsell. It's just a free website to go to and get all the information. And I think it's a fantastic website because whenever I have a swinger episode up, a lot of times people email me looking for the kind of information that they have on their website. And I'm like, I don't have that information. Listen to my episodes, but you'd have to listen to 100 episodes to get all the information that they have on their website. Okay, they have it all there. Dating sites, the cruises, the resorts, events, where to find them, how to find them.

Toys, outfits, games, party ideas. And then they have a podcast section of, like, lifestyle podcasts that they recommend. I'm included on there, of course. But that's what he talks about at the end, you know, how and why he started that website, what's included on there. It's very informational. and it's really all the information that you need to get into it. And then he gives like his top three tips. For newbies getting into the lifestyle that he believes are the most important things to take into consideration.

He also talks about like the events that they prefer compared to the events that they don't and why and all that good stuff. Listen, he sent me in a pick of him and his girl. They're super hot. Those anonymous picks are on my. Patreon if you want to see them join that. That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. I think I didn't give the link before. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The links to everything in the confessions hotline and my website is all and their website and my website is all in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Neil.

Hi, Neil. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How about yourself? Good. So listen, you're calling in to talk all of your. about your lifestyle, you and your wife, right? It's your wife? Yeah, it's my wife and then some neighbors and some sexy stories around that.

But I mean, you're married to someone and you're married to your wife. You guys are in the lifestyle. You know, obviously there's going to be other people involved and they just happen to be your neighbors. And this is like something that was like a COVID discovery, right? You were like in lockdown. I mean, but I don't, or did it happen beforehand?

Because you like went on a Swinger vacation, correct? Is that how it all started? Yeah, so it started in, I guess, December of 2017. Oh, okay, so before, right, okay. Yeah, so we were at a Christmas party with some of our neighbors who were really good friends with. And one of the couples had been to temptation quite a few times. And they had kind of told us about it. They were not in the lifestyle.

They're just voyeurs. and they liked that party atmosphere. And they thought we would enjoy it because we travel with them and do some things with them. So we were at the Christmas party. It was us and another couple. And that couple that had been to temptation a few times. So they extended an invite. They had a trip plan for February over the Valentine's week.

So they said, hey, we're going to be going. We think you guys would love it. It's a great time. It's fun. And so if you want to go with us, We've got a trip plan. We're going to be there. So we were drinking wine, having a good time.

And then we all kind of said, okay, let's do it. Let's book it. So the next day, we got together. We checked schedules and everybody booked the trip. So the three couples were all basically going together. The three couples are all neighbors? Yes. We're all neighbors and all really good friends.

So it was a little bit of, there was some nervousness around that. Just, okay, we're going to be at a resort. It's a topless resort. We're going to be like seeing our neighbors, wives, boobs, and kind of be in that situation. So there was a little bit of nervousness about that, but we talked about it and everybody said that they were going to be good with it. So we booked it and we went. And then so we go on that trip. And at that time, we didn't really know anything about the lifestyle. Yeah. We were just going. We heard it was a fun resort. It's a party resort. It's a topless

option on which my wife likes to do that. So we just thought it would be fun. So we get there and we meet a lot of cool people. We have a lot of fun. We kind of get through the topless nervousness thing within the first five minutes. Like everybody's hugging each other and saying, hey, and everybody's, all the ladies are topless. And then after five minutes, that just doesn't even become a thing because you're just in that environment and nobody cares about it anymore. And so what we thought was going to be kind of the biggest issue wasn't even an issue at all. So we go in the first day, I think we got there on a Thursday. So the first day, we kind of, we just meet a ton of people.

And you've had some guests on that have talked about this resort in the past. And just the community itself is just there's everybody so welcoming and friendly. And they introduced themselves and talked to you. So we just met a ton of really cool people. And but we really didn't know much about the lifestyle. So we started asking some of those questions and learning from people. And it was our first kind of experience in that type of environment where it was almost like spring break plus girls gone wild. combined. It was just that crazy party atmosphere. So we had a great time. The first night,

we go to the, they have a theme night every night. So my wife dressed kind of sexy, and we were a little conservative because we weren't sure exactly how far we could push the envelope. So we go, we have a great time. And then the next day on that Friday, our friends had invited us to go on what's called the boobs cruise. So, it's a... It's basically like a large catamaran cruise that leaves from this small marina right next to the Temptation Resort. And they had told us about it. They said it's a wild party. It's kind of it can get crazy.

It's a lot of fun. It's great people watching. And they didn't really want to spoil anything and tell us too much about it. But so we all agreed to do it. So the next day, which is a Friday, so we go down around 10 o'clock, we walk over maybe 100 yards from the resort. We sign up. and everybody's kind of waiting to get onto the ship. And it's,

it's funny because the marina is, um, there's other ships there too, other cruises that are going out when they've got like families and kids and stuff like that. Um, so like we're, you've got 150, um,

people from temptation from desire and they're dressed in, like, thongs and like see through tops and, um, you could just tell it's like a crazy group of people. And we're getting on the boat right beside these families and, and these, the wise.

of these other husbands are looking at us and with these dirty looks and that was pretty fun. Just getting on the boat. Yeah. So we get on the boat and it basically, it's called the boobs crews because essentially all the women go at a minimum topless. And then it's just a big party from there. So we get on the boat, we start to leave. And as soon as we pull away from the marina, basically all the tops come all. Some people get completely naked.

You've got naked women. You've got naked guys. And they crank the music up. The crew starts passing out drinks. And then it's just, it starts like full on party. And there's a guy that runs it. And he's like the MC. And so he's on the microphone.

And he's basically, hey, we're going to party. This is going to be the craziest cruise ever. And he's like pumping everybody up. And no kidding. Within 10 minutes of leaving the port, he gets on the mic. And he's like, hey, do we have any squirters? And these two girls raised their hand and like, we're squirters.

So he's like, come to the front of the boat. So these two ladies go to the front. They strip completely naked. They lay down on that mesh kind of canvas thing that runs across the front of the catamaran. Their husband gets on either side and everybody kind of crowds around. And he gets on the micran. He's like, okay, on the count of five, we're going to see how long it takes you to squirt. So he counts down to five.

And then the two husbands start fingering both of their wives. And then within probably 30 to 40 seconds, both women are squirting all over the day. And they got a microphone down at their mouth. You can hear them moaning. Wow. It was just absolutely crazy. So we're like, we're just kind of step it. Like, this is the first time we'd seen anything like this live.

Like, we were just blown away. So we're just like, okay, this is going to be what it's like. And so, and then after that for the next hour, as we're kind of cruising to this island, it is just full on party. People are getting blow jobs. Girls are making out and dancing. There's a couple people who are having sex on the sides of the boat. And we are just, we're all just sitting back like, oh, my God, what are we in here? It was basically like being on the set of a porn movie.

Let me just tell you. I know that you don't work for the cruise ship company or like, you know, temptation people. But like, you really are selling it, okay? Because I've had other people come on and talk about these cruises and like, you know, don't worry, like you don't have to have sex. and it's not like that's the only thing. Like you're here and you're like, no, it's like being on a fucking porn set. So I'm like, I think you're doing a much better job selling this cruise than most people do.

So go on. Yeah, it was, it was insane. So, yeah, so we go to this little island. Everybody gets off the boat and has lunch. And it's like a common island where other cruises kind of come in. So everybody has to put clothes back on. So we have lunch, have a couple drinks. And then we get back on the boat.

And then they kind of, they basically sail back. And that's about another hour or so on the way. back. So the party kicks back up again. Everybody's having fun. And then about halfway through the MC gets on. He's like, all right, I want all the guys to come to the front of the boat and get in a big, like, semicircle line. And I want all your wives to get in front of you. So most of the people go up to the front of the boat and they kind of get in this line. Me and my other buddy were, we're kind of like, okay, I don't know what's going to happen here. So we're going to stand back and just watch a little bit.

So everybody gets in this line And then he based the emcees like All right I'm gonna count down to 10 And when I do I want all the sexy ladies To give their guys the best blow job they've ever had So he counts down and then basically There's like 40 to 50 blow jobs taking place And a giant line on the front of this boat

And we're just like oh my God This is so crazy So and then it was funny Because my buddy and I were just kind of like in shock And then our wives are in front of us. And they kind of look at each other and they're like, and they look back at us and they're like, hey, we'll do it. You guys want a blowjob.

And I hate to say it, but my buddy and I were like, we declined because we were so like nervous. We've never been in that situation. So we kind of turned them down and we regret it to this day. But yeah, it was just nice. And then on the way back, so as we're pulling back into the marina, like I said, most of the people that are on the boat are staying at temptation. and there's this little concrete dock that kind of comes off of the Temptation resort. And it's kind of, I guess, customary that a lot of the people that are at Temptation,

they walk out onto that dock to greet the boat as it comes back in. So as we're coming in, the MC's like, all right, we got to give them a show. We got to show them out how crazy of a party we are. So everybody moves to kind of the front of the catamaran. Yeah. And it's just people are getting blowjobs. People are having sex. There's naked guys doing dick cartwheels.

It is insane. And then they kind of sail by this group of people that are on the dock and everybody's cheered. And then it kind of circles back and goes to the marina. Oh, that's fucking hilarious. Yeah, it was crazy. So that was dates too. And then we get off the boat. We go back in, we've got to go back over to the resort.

We get in the pool. It's probably, I don't know, 3.34 o'clock. And we're just still in shock. And what's even crazier is like most of the people that were having sex or squirting or doing all these crazy things are staying at the resort. And they're back in the pool with you. So you've got like this. You're like, okay, I've seen you do some crazy stuff today. And I've seen it.

And it's just, anyway, it was just, it was crazy. And then the rest of that trip, we just tried to learn as much as we could about the lifestyle. And it really opened our eyes. And, you know, did you have any sex? Like, did you do? do you even have sex just out in public for the first time? Did you wind up hooking up with other people? Or were you just observing that time?

Yeah, on that trip, like I said, we didn't really know much about the lifestyle. So we didn't, we had a lot of crazy sex with ourselves. And we did some stuff like kind of in public on the balcony. But we didn't really do anything with other couples. We were proposition quite often. But we had no rules. We had not really talked. about what we were comfortable with.

We didn't really know anything about it. So we just kind of agreed that, hey, we're not going to do anything this time. Let's go back home and, like, let's do some research and kind of figure out what we're interested in. And then maybe we can pursue it from there. So that's basically what we did. So we left and went back home. And then it was funny, the couple that invited us to go, they, like I said, they're not in

the lifestyle. They're more voyeurs and people watchers. And they've been going, they had been going for probably seven or eight years. but the third couple, I guess we'll call them couple number two, they were very much like us. So it opened up their eyes. They were very interested in the lifestyle. And so when we got back, we started listening to tons of podcasts.

We started doing research. And we would get together and hang out like every couple weeks and drink. And we would play sexy games and we would talk about the lifestyle. So they were kind of on the same journey as us. And we would listen to the same podcast. and we would debrief and talk about them. So about halfway through the year, we decided to book another trip back to temptation

for basically that same time frame in February. And this was February of 2020. So we booked the trip, and then we kind of continue to learn as much as we can, and then we go on that trip. And this time, we were prepared. We had established some rules. What were they?

What were they? Yeah. So our rules were more, so my wife wanted to play with another woman. and we weren't quite sure whether like she would be comfortable with me playing with a woman or I wasn't quite comfortable if she was going to play with a man, but we both knew that she wanted to play with a woman and we were both comfortable with that. So we figured we would kind of start there and then if we wanted to expand things and things happen naturally, then we could. So that was kind of our rules going in. And our other friends, the other couple number two, they kind of went in with the same rule set.

So we get there. It's kind of the same thing. We have a great time. We go on another Boob's cruise. It was good, but it wasn't even close to the craziness of that first one. And we meet this really cool couple, and they happen to have the same rules that we did. So he was really good with watching his wife with another woman, but he didn't want his wife playing with another man. So we got to know them quite a bit.

And then one night, I think it was there last night, and they had a hot tub room. with a hot tub on the balcony. So we're at the theme night at the party, and then the party's winding down, so they're like, hey, do you guys want to come back to the hot tub? So we went back, and there were two other couples that went back as well.

So there's four couples total. And we're all hanging out, and the hot tub's not too big, so the four ladies got into the hot tub. So they basically stripped down to just their panties and got in. And the guys just kind of hung out on the outside, sat on some chairs, and had a couple beers,

and we're drinking. So then the sexy talk started and then a couple girls started kissing and then all of a sudden all four women are in the hot tub playing and kissing and making out. And the guys are just like watching the show and I was completely so like excited because I'd never seen anything like this with my wife. So that goes on for probably 15 or 20 minutes. And then the two other couples that had come back with us, they were good friends and they were hard swap couple and they played a lot. So I guess they had kind of worked themselves up enough to where they were like, we're going to leave and we're going to go play. So those two couples left and they went to another room to kind of continue the fun between the four of them. And then so my wife and the other wife were still in the hot tub together.

So they kind of picked up where things left off and started playing. And then they did that for about 10 or 15 minutes and then decided to move it to the bedroom. So they go in and get on the bed and me and the other husband are kind of, we're still sitting. on the deck right by the bed where you can kind of see through the door to watch. And the girls just played. And it was the first time my wife had gone down on another girl. And then the other lady went down on my wife. And they probably played for another 20 or 30 minutes.

And then they looked over at us and like, hey, do you guys want to join? So we looked at each other and were like, yeah. So we kind of knew the rules where I wasn't going to touch his wife. He wasn't going to touch mine. So I go over and I get on the side of the bed with my wife. he gets on the side of the bed with his wife. And we start playing and my wife takes my pants off and starts to give me a blowjob. And I could kind of see him.

And it was a little bit interesting because, like, that's the first time my wife and I had been in that situation where we're playing around and doing those types of things in front of another couple. And I wasn't quite sure, like, if I was going to have performance anxiety or if I was going to have any kind of issues. But I thought it was super exciting, very thrilling. I was rock hard. So I was just blown away. So she's giving me a blow job. I'm playing with her. And then I pulled her to the side and I start to have sex with her.

And I mean, we were just having the most amazing time. But I kind of look over and the guy, I could tell he was struggling a little bit. I don't know if he had too much to drink or performance anxiety. So I kind of whispered to my wife, hey, I think we should leave and give them some privacy. Because at that point it was a little awkward that we were doing our thing. and they couldn't do theirs. So we left and said, thank you. This was amazing and kind of said goodbye.

And then we walked. And as we're walking back to our room, it was almost like the extreme walk of shame. My wife is topless. She's got her panties on that are still wet and see-through. I'm in boxers with a raging heart on. And we're walking across the resort back to our room. And we're just carrying our clothes and looking at each other with these big smiles on our face.

It was just one of the coolest experiences. we've had. And so we get back. We have amazing sex between the two of us. The next morning we have crazy sex. And then that couple left that morning, that following morning, so we didn't see them again. And then our other friends, couple number two, they actually had their first experience that same night. So they had met another couple and they kind of did the same thing where the girls played and the guys watched and then the guys played with their own spouses. So we get back together the next morning. We're just, we're sharing our stories and talking about it. We're super excited. So we, we finished that trip. We come back home and us and this other couple are just ready to go.

Like, we're ready to go out, start dating. We, we start working on our SLS profiles. And, and then literally three weeks later, the pandemic hits and everything goes into lockdown. So it puts the brakes on everything. And so the first, first month, or so everybody's trying to be smart and isolate. So we're kind of isolating with our family and everybody else is doing the same. And then then we start kind of forming. A lot of people did this. They kind of formed their lockdown group where you had maybe two or three couples or families that they would kind of hang out together and isolate together. And that's what we did. So so we started hanging out with those those same two couples and their families. And everybody was working from

home. So we were getting together two or three nights a week and drinking and playing games. And because we had all kind of been in that environment and temptation together, we could do some really fun, sexy games where you have dares. And it was just fun. We had a lot of a really good time. So through that, that probably I'd say a good four to five months, we were playing those games. And we would have more open and honest conversations about the lifestyle and things that we wanted to do and things that we wanted to try once the lockdown ended. And the one couple, couple number two, that was kind of on the same journey and path that we were on. They, they would, we would get together and go for walks during the day.

And we would talk a lot just amongst the four of us because we were kind of interested in the same things. And then one day we're out for a walk and the two ladies were talking. And they started sharing that they were, they were really nervous about going out and playing with other people because they were, they both were into women. but they weren't confident in their skills or their abilities to please a woman. Right. But that other third couple had tons of experience. So that's why they were the odd people out kind of, right? Yeah, they were the odd people out.

So that couple, the guy was very jealous about any man touching his wife. And his wife would play with women every now and then. But that was the extent that they were willing to kind of go down the lifestyle path. And where we were going down a different path. And we felt that if we shared that with them and we kind of started going down that path, that it would create some really awkward situations. So we started hiding some of that from them. And then, like I said, the girls were talking about wanting to improve their skills and get feedback around, are they doing things right?

So it just came out that, hey, why don't we play? And then that way the girls can play and we know each other honest and we can have those honest conversations. And so we had a good week of just talking it through and making sure everybody was comfortable. And we didn't want to ruin a friendship or do anything that would jeopardize that. So eventually we got to the point where everybody was comfortable. And then we came up with a code word. So the thing was, is like if we were all together hanging out with the three couples and one of us used that code word, it was like a sign to the other couple that, hey, we're interested. and playing. So about a week goes by and we're hanging out, having planned some games, and

the other couple brings up the code word. So my wife and I hear it right away. We look at each other and we kind of acknowledge it. So we keep hanging out. It's about midnight. Everybody kind of goes home. And then the husband of the other couple, he texts us about 20 minutes later, he says, hey, are you guys good to go? So we're like, yeah, we're ready. So he drives over and picks us up. and we're like high school kids sneaking out of the back of the house. Right, because you guys are all neighbors, so they'll see like you guys. Exactly. It's so funny.

Yeah, so we sneak out of the back of the house. We get in his car. He kind of, he drives quickly to his house, and he's only like one little street over. It's maybe like two, three blocks. So he pulls into the garage, so nobody sees us getting out of the car. We shut the garage behind us. And we go into their house. And they've got younger kids, and they were in bed upstairs asleep.

And so we were kind of down in the living room. And the first 20 minutes were a little awkward. Everybody was scared to kind of make a first move. And it was more just conversations and having drinks. And then finally, the other husband's like, hey, I think it's getting really hot in here. I think you ladies need to take your clothes off to get more comfortable. So they kind of take their clothes off and they sit back down with us on the couches. And then at that point, we just start almost like orchestrating things.

and like we're puppet masters. So we just said, hey, it'd be really good if you two would kiss each other. We think that would be super hot. So then they would. And we were like, hey, we think this, if you kiss their nipples, that would be hot. And then, hey, why don't you go down? So we were just kind of orchestrating it. And we watched.

The guys just kind of watched the girls play. And it was super hot. This couple's very sexy. They're both college athletes. I mean, just amazing people. So it was just an amazing experience. And I just, I want to paint the picture, too, about you guys. I mean, because you sent me a ready anonymous pick,

so I know you guys are super hot too. So it's like, it's like, you know, you got four, you got two super hot couples all hooking up together, right? That's the pick. Yeah, it was just amazing. Both of, yeah, my wife's very attractive and his wife's very attractive. And it was just, and they're just, they're just, they were just amazing together and sexy together.

So they, so they finished playing. I think we probably played for a good hour and a half where the guys mostly watched or played with our own wives and the girls played. And then the next. next day, everybody's working from home, so we would go for a walk together and we would debrief. And we would talk about everything. Like, what happened? What did you like?

Is there any moment that you felt jealous or did you get upset about something that you thought you wouldn't? Is there anything that you wish you hadn't done? So we would just go through in detail everything. And then a week or two later, we'd play again. And we would do a little bit more. And then it got to the point where we were, each time we'd get together, like each person would pick a scenario or a fantasy that they wanted to try or see how it would work out. So it might be, I would say, okay, I want to be having sex with my wife from behind while she's going down on the other girl.

So we would do that. Or it would be, I want to get a double blow job. Or I want to be having sex with my wife and the other girl eating her out at the same time. So we would just keep coming up with these different scenarios and things that we wanted to try. And we would try them. And then we would do the same thing the next day. We'd get together. We'd talk about it.

We'd kind of laugh about things that we thought were great that weren't. And we really just kind of got our confidence with each other trying all these different things. And it was really naughty because the other couple didn't know. And we would do things like we'd be hanging out together at, like, say, we were at the other couple's house. and my wife would wear sexy lingerie underneath her outfit and she'd sneak away to the bathroom and then she'd take her clothes off and take pictures and the lingerie in their house. And then we'd come back to the, she'd come back and she'd kind of let me know that it was done. And then we'd wait a little bit and send them the text message with the picture while we're all together.

And they would realize that it was in their house and they would do the same thing. So we just had, it was just crazy. We would do these little games back and forth. And that went on for probably a good six months of just this crazy lockdown, playful experience. I know a lot of people had a bad lockdown, but ours was pretty awesome. Wait, what was the code word? Like, if I'm hanging out at you guys, like, what would somebody have to say out loud that was the code? So our code was hydrate.

So basically, like, you need to drink water. So it was like, oh, I've been drinking a lot tonight. I need to hydrate. Oh, okay. It's good. Yeah, we need to hydrate too. And then that was the code word. I like it.

That's good because I was like thinking like, what would you say that would sound like it's a normal conversation, but was like, you know, enough to be like code. So it was hydrate. We need to hydrate. Oh, my God. Yeah, we need to hydrate. And everybody picked up on it right away. And the other couple just thought that, oh, we got to drink water because we drink it so much. Now, during that time, because you're seeing each other very separately.

Like, are you, what are you doing with that other, the other couple? Like you're still seeing them too, correct? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, most of the time we were all hanging out together as the three couples. And we were playing games. And then when everybody would go home, we would kind of sneak off to the other couple's house or they would sneak over to ours. Yeah.

And then we'd hook up. And then the other couple, there were a few times where we thought maybe they were on to us. But, yeah, they never found out during that period. And then, I guess then fast forward a little bit. We did all that. That was, it was crazy and fun. And then the pandemic started to kind of end and things started opening back up. So at that point, we had done almost everything we could do.

The only thing we didn't do was hard swap. We soft swapped and pretty much did everything you could possibly do. So we kind of agreed, okay, now it's time to go out into the wild and start dating other people and start kind of getting back out there and doing some of those things that we wanted to do before the pandemic hit. So we did. So we updated our SLS pages and then my wife and I started going out on dates and the other couple started going out on dates. And then we kind of did the same thing. We'd get back together and we would talk about our dates and we would talk about did we like the other couple.

And were there anything that they did that we didn't like? And we kind of would, it was just a really good, almost like a, a. a group project where we were we were learning from each other and talking about things and and we learned a lot like okay we did this and it really didn't go that well or they were really smooth and how they transitioned when they were playing and so we learned a lot through those kind of both couples going out and dating and we kind of stopped playing yeah we stopped playing for a little while while we were doing that because we had kind of changed our focus to go out and do different things and then as things even opened up even more

we like we started going to, we went back to temptation a couple more times. We did a couple lifestyle hotel takeovers. We went to a couple house parties with some friends that we had met while we were going out and dating. So we really started just pushing things and getting more and more into the lifestyle. And we still were for the most part soft swap that entire time and the other couple was as well. So now like we've kind of progressed and we've done a lot of really fun things. And then we just had our first hard swap experience in February.

It's for that, that first couple that had originally invited us to Temptation with them. They had a birthday and they just opened up a new Temptation resort in the Dominican. So we wanted to go try that out. So we went there and the three couples all went together. And my wife and I got this really Mac Daddy room with an awesome hot tub. We figured we wanted to have a place where we could bring people back and have some fun. So we got this great room. So ours was kind of the party room.

And so like multiple nights we had different people that would come back and we'd have four or five people in the hot tub, six people in the hot tub, eight people in the hot tub. And the girls would play and have some fun. And we met this really sexy couple from Greece and got to know them really well. And then it was the second to last night. we ended up playing with our friends again, that couple number two, like the third couple had gone to bed. They stayed and we ended up planning. We had, it was just awesome. We were out on the balcony where anybody can walk by and see.

And then we're just all making out. I ended up having sex with my wife over the railing of the balcony. People are walking by underneath and like cheering you on. It was, that was just crazy. And it was super sexy and fun. And then that then the very next night with my wife and I were staying one extra day. So, and we were there by ourselves and all in our friends had left. So we ended up connecting with that Greece couple.

And they came back and we, we had both agreed. Said, okay, we really like this couple. We were like, let's let's see if the hard swap situation happens. Let's do it. And then we'll talk about it and see how it goes. So that was our first hard swap situation. situation. I had sex with the other wife. My wife had sex with him. It was it was really hot. The girls played and we just we just had an amazing time and neither one of us had any jealousy.

And so we've kind of yeah, so we've taken that next step in our lifestyle journey. And and so now we're kind of at the place now where we're starting to maybe look at doing some different things where the where heart swap is is included in that. And it's just we've just had an amazing time. And I had mentioned earlier that I have a website. I've got a background in technology and my wife and I were, like, as we were going through our journey and kind of trying to learn as much as we could, it was somewhat hard to find information. So some friends had recommended certain podcasts and a few people had recommended certain sites, but there wasn't really a place that you could go to get a lot of that information in one central area.

So we, like, for example, like just trying to find out, like sexy outfits for the different theme night. So we did, I mean, we, we did a lot of research and trying to find different places that had different types of outfits and, or different types of sexy games that you could play when you're getting together with other couples to kind of break the ice. So we just, we struggled trying to find that information. And so last year, as we were kind of getting more and more into the lifestyle and starting to go to different events and do different things, I told my wife, I was like, I really want to build a website and just put all this information out there. And I'm not looking to make money.

We're not selling anything. There's no ads. It's just it doesn't cost us that much a month to host it, and I can do all the work myself. So I built the website, and it's tempted to find out. Yeah, it's so great. I'm on it right now. It really is such a smart thing. I think it's going to be so super helpful to people.

It's temptedpinapples.com, right? Yeah, tempted pineapples.com. So, and the whole idea was just to try to provide helpful links or helpful information to people that are in the lifestyle so that they don't necessarily have to hunt and peck and try to find things on the web. So, like I said, there's free games that you can download, like Icebreaker games, or, like, like sexy questions and things like that that you can play to um if you're at a house party yeah or if you're at a group yeah and then uh there's uh all the clothing websites that we use to get sexy lingerie or dominatrix style outfits or shoes or accessories all all the different sites that we've

purchased things over over the course of time and you have a you have so many and what's great want to just explain because I'm I'm looking on your website while you're talking and I'm going to all these places and all the information and like on the outfits thing like you have so many different places that you recommend and what's really great is you give like a tiny little paragraph not even a paragraph like two sentences on each one to explain it too so you know like do I want to go here do I want to go there but you give it's really great information but it's not like blah blah blah, like it's not, you know what I mean? Like, it's just set up, like, really well.

Yeah, and it's, and like I said, we're not making anything off of it. Like, I'm not, I'm not getting coupons or codes or discounts for people that make clicks. I just, it's just the sites that we use to buy things and sites that we like. And we've purchased something from every one of those sites. And we, and a lot of times, like, if we're going back to temptation and they've got a sexy theme night, that's where we go to find outfits. or if we go to a hotel takeover and they have a theme. So we love that.

And I even still use it. So like whenever we go to buy something, I'm like, oh, I'm going to go to my website and check because it's hard to remember all the different sites. And so we've got links on there too to like a few of the bigger hotel takeover companies so that you can go to those sites and see the events that they're having in different areas throughout the United States. There's links to some of the lifestyle cruises. so if you're interested in doing one of those.

We've got some blogs on there. Like we try to, like for some of our adventures where we went to temptation or we went to a hotel takeover, just try to document some of the things that we learned in our experience and maybe some tips for people like, hey, you can do this or you can do that or you may want to bring this with you. Just some of those lessons learned just to help people out along those lines. Like I said, it's just a lot of different lifestyle resources. that you have podcasts in there that you recommend. Strictly anonymous is one of them.

And it says fantastic show where anonymous people can share their crazy stories. Not all stories are lifestyle related, but many are and the show is amazingly entertaining. I love that. That's like what I like about your, like I said, like you're, you're not just like giving links to places. You're really like kind of explaining and you're being straight up. That's the perfect way to talk about my show on your site that is about lifestyle. you're saying like there's not all lifestyle but some are so maybe check it out it's great information yeah and and your podcast is on there because we've listened to a lot of those stories and it's

not all of them are lifestyle stories and some are just different situations that people around some are just sexy stories and conversations and and even through those we we've learned a lot like we've learned different points of views and different perspectives on things and there's even some things that like like for example i i didn't really know much about pegging and And I've heard a lot of people talk about that. And I mean, there's a lot of like guy phobia around that if you're a straight male. And just listening to the stories. I mean, my wife and I are having that conversation.

I'm like, like a prostate orgasm sounds like it's one of the most amazing things that guys can have. And so we're having those conversations. And I don't think we would have had those without your show. And some of the guests and the stories. So it's just been amazing for us. And we really appreciate what you do. and I'm sure a lot of other people do. Yeah, but what's great is that because you guys are the type that have always been gathering and learning and wanting to learn.

You have done all the work for people. I can't tell you how many times people come to me for this kind of information that you have on your website. So now I could just be like, go over here because I don't have the time. A lot of times I'm like, could just listen to this episode or something. But, you know, people are always looking because you also have all the dating site. When you explain like this one is for this, this one is for that. All the ones that people talk about. You'd have to listen to 10 of my shows to get to hear about all of these, but you have them all in one place, which I think is just really invaluable information for people, especially starting out.

And who better to know what people starting out would want to know than people who, you know, recently were in that same exact place, you know? You know what other people are looking for because you were looking for it just recently. Yeah, and we tried, and it was good because we've made a lot of friends in the lifestyle over the last few years. So when I was building the site, I would send it to them and say, hey, check this out. Like, does this resonate with you? Does it have the information that you would want? Is there anything you would add? So I was trying to get some good feedback from our friends.

And we made some tweaks. And the hardest part was finding, like, sexy graphics that I could use without having to pay. Well, I ended up paying some royalties through a few companies just to get some to make sure everything was legit. But, like, finding some of those graphics to match some of those different themes. was fun, but it worked out great. And we want to continue to expand it. I think as we do more things and we go to different events and we learn more. And I think we're going to add more content to it.

And we want to do more blogs about our experiences. And it's just at some point we may open it up to where other people can share their experiences and kind of like a blog format. Yeah, we just want it to be a helpful thing. And like I said, we're not trying to make any money. We're not selling any products. It just we just want to help people. Yeah, you should just attach a discord to it. I mean, I just started my Discord on my Patreon now is becoming like that kind of a thing.

It's like a forum and people could really talk to each other and stuff. So maybe you could, you know, connect a Discord to this for people, you know, and then people could start talking to each other. What would you say now since, you know, you've been there, done that and you have learned a lot. Like, are there any kind of tips or things that you would think are like the top three tips for new couples who are getting into the lifestyle that you would recommend? Yeah, so I think a lot of your guests talk about this, and I think it's a common theme, is number one,

and it is communication. So you have to be honest about what you want, what you like, what you're interested in, even if you're worried that your partner may not be into that, or maybe you anticipate a certain answer, I think you still just have to have that open, honest communication. And that was us for that first year while we were trying to figure things out. It really was.

Like, we talked about things that we had never talked about. I mean, we'd been married for, at that point, we had been married for 24 years. Really? You look so young in the pictures. How old are you guys? Yeah, we're about to turn 50. So we've been together for 25 years now. In the pictures you said.

Well, that's the other thing with the lifestyle. definitely focuses you on staying fit and in shape because you're back out there dating again and you want to look your best. Yeah, that's right. So that's been good for us too. But yeah, the communication thing. We just, it opened up so many new lines of communication. We started talking about things.

We actually started talking about some of our past relationships that we never really talked about, like, which was interesting, some maybe some situations that happened that were super hot and sexy that we shared, that we never would have shared before. So the communication thing is key, and I think you just have to constantly check in with each other and get that communication as you go. And that was us. Every time we had an experience, we had that communication. And I think we were a little unique in the sense that we had our really close friends that we were kind of going through the experience together. So that gave us another close friendship where we could get feedback from them.

and we could be open and honest with them. So it wasn't just my wife and I. It was another couple that were our close friends. So I don't, I mean, not everybody has that. Some may have some close friends that they can open up to and share those things with. So we were a little unique in that. But like I said, communications number one. Number two, I think you just, you got to find those events and the places that you can go that are lifestyle-centric that.

like match to what you're interested in. So like we found out right away, like we went to a couple house parties and that just wasn't our thing. We were not really into like the big, yeah, we're just not really into the big orgy scenario. Like we, you just end up getting like everybody's trying to play and you don't really have the control over, okay, I'm not really interested in that person, but I'm in this situation. And now I almost feel like you've got pressure to make out with this person because they're there in this big group. So we do enjoy. the game. So like in some of the house party games, we had some really, a lot of fun, like kind of the icebreaker games that people play before all the heavy play starts. Yeah. So that was almost

like college where it's like, like spin the bottle times 10 where you get to do all this crazy stuff. So that was a lot of fun. And we're both exhibitionists, so we kind of figure that out. So we enjoyed playing with each other in front of other people. But once the big group play started, It just, it wasn't our thing and it kind of created some weird dynamics. So we kind of learned right away that that really wasn't our jam. But we would have never known that unless we put ourselves out there and tried and went to those situations. We even went back a second time. Well, maybe it was just that first time.

So we know that. What's your guys preferred kind of events that you guys love? So we love going to the hotel takeover events. We actually thought that initially we thought that that was going to be. very similar to the house party and it wasn't it was it was more similar to the temptation resort experience where it's just a bunch of people everybody's dressed super sexy they have a theme night uh they have a dance floor it's just it's just a big social event where everybody is just having a great time and you're with like-minded people so you just it's just a big social sexy party

and then at the end of the party if you want to go play or you meet somebody that you're connected with you have that opportunity because you're all there together. And a lot of times in those events, we would go with people that we knew or people that we had met. So you had some friends there. So you always had like a home base that you could kind of come back to and hang out with those people. So we really like those events and have fun at those.

And we really enjoy going to temptation. We've always had a blast when we go there. We want to try desire. We haven't done that yet. We know a lot of people that have. But that's a little bit more of a quiet, kind of more intimate, smaller number of people atmosphere. But we also want to try going fully nude and being a resort like that. We've never done that.

So we're just trying to continue to push the envelope, test different things, try different things, figure out what we like, what we don't like. We finally went to our first lifestyle club in December of this past year in Vegas. and that was a really sexy experience. So we want to try and travel and do some more of that. We're going to be empty nesters at the end of this in August when our final child goes off to college. So we're just excited about getting out there and doing a lot of really cool things. And let me tell you, though, because while you were saying that, I was looking like, oh, where, you know, so somebody that's listening right now, you're talking about, like, go to different events and see what you like.

A lot of times what people are trying, what people email me about is like, how do I find events? Like, where are the events? I live in the middle of nowhere. Like, I can't find the, how do I find a Swinger's Party? You know, you do have an area, and it's called events, right? You click on events on your website, and you have all these different places where you could go online, correct, and find parties and these kinds of events in your area. Yeah, they're either in, potentially in your area.

A lot of those companies, like, for example, the friction company that was the first event that we went to. They do one here locally in our city, which is, it was awesome. So we just drove 10 minutes and we were at this party. But they do parties all the way up and down the East Coast. So if you wanted to go to one in New Jersey, you wanted to go one in Washington, D.C., or you wanted to go to one in New York. They have these parties all up and down the East Coast. And then there's other companies that do the exact same thing,

and they may do them more in the South, like in Atlanta or Tampa or Alabama. and then you've got companies that specialize more in the Midwest. And those companies work closely together. It's kind of interesting. They're not really this big rivalry. Yeah. I've listened to some podcasts with some of the people that run those companies. And it's nice because they help each other out.

It's like it's the same clientele. They all want to be successful. Yeah, that's cool. And they want to continue. Yeah, they want to grow the lifestyle. So they're very open and they help each other. And there's just something out there for everybody. Yeah, that's great.

And so that's a great place, but I'm just letting people know, like, to find the events. Because sometimes that's half the battle, especially for people that aren't in huge cities but are close to them. They could go onto your website, temptedpinapples.com, and find a bunch of places to click on to look to see the events in their nature, close to them. Yeah, and the other way to do that is if you go to the, if you subscribe to one of those dating sites. And the dating sites are, it's kind of depending on where you're at, certain sites are better than others as far. as like the number of people that use them in those locations. But almost all the dating sites have events pages and they have links. Yeah.

So if you want to go and sign up for a dating site in your area, they're going to have like advertisements and links to different parties and things that are happening in that area. And you can find things that way too. So even if it's not one of the bigger companies that do the big huge takeovers, it might be a smaller event, but at least you have that visibility to what's happening in your area, which is a good, good place to go to. Okay, good. So you got communication, find events that match, and then what's your third biggest tip?

And then I have a question about whether that other couple ever found out that you guys were secretly fucking behind their back. Don't forget that one. Yeah, the third tip, I think it's just like embrace the community and really like try to get And you've got to be honest. I mean, we've met a lot of people that are amazing people that we're still really good friends with that we've never played with. And I think sometimes people come into it and they, well, if I'm not playing with that person, I don't want to have a relationship with that person. And we kind of take the different approach.

Like we, you may be up front and honest up in the beginning and say, hey, look, there's just not that sexual chemistry there, but you guys are amazing people. And we'd love to hang out with you. So we've, we've created so many friendships. that way where we just with people from all over the country that we've met that we stay in touch with and we'll go on vacation and we'll invite them and we won't play with them but they come and they're there and we have an amazing time so I think just embrace the community it's a small community it's getting bigger for sure yeah but so be open because you never know yeah of course because listen you never know that's called networking right I mean and it's a part of everything

you never know yeah maybe you're not going to have sex with that couple But, like, you become friends with them. Maybe they know somebody that you will. So you're just saying, like, you know, keep that open. And so you can do other things. Well, let me ask you this because I don't want to forget. Like, did that other couple ever find out that you guys were all hooking up behind their back? So they did.

And we kind of told them. So I know they had some suspicions. Because like I said, we would get together and we'd play these sexy drinking games and truth or dare. And there were times where I kissed the other wife of that second couple and the other husband had kissed my wife. And like, we had done some of those fun games. So I'm sure that they were like, okay, they got to be doing something. But this last trip that I mentioned where we went to the New Dominican Temptation Resort, we played with our friends that couple number two while we were there. and we had that awesome experience on the balcony.

And so the next night, we were at the, like, the theme night party, and we were having some fun there and everybody was drinking. And the wife of that other couple that did not know came up to our friends. And they were like, hey, what did you guys end up doing last night? So they kind of said, yeah, we went back to their room and we had some drinks. And then we ended up playing. And he kind of let the cat out of the bag. and so they found out that way,

but it didn't cause any kind of crazy. We kind of figured at this point in our journey where we were going out and playing with other couples and they know all about that, it was kind of time to be able to say, yeah, we had some fun together. And so they haven't really brought it up. They haven't asked us any questions.

I think they don't really want to know the details, but they do know now that we play. Now, what we did tell them was that was our first time playing. So they don't know about all the past. history. So we just kind of said, yeah, that was the first time we'd ever play. Right. And we left it at that. Okay. So now my other question is, how open and honest are you with everybody else that in your life, like all the regular people in your life? You know, does anyone know or do you live like, is this like your secret life that you live? Um, it's mostly secret.

So, um, we, a lot of our close friends know that my wife and I are kind of wild and crazy and like, they know we go to strip clubs. They know that she likes girls. They don't really know about the lifestyle and the parties and the things that we go to. But they like our daughter who is in college, she's she's almost 21. Like so she knows we go to Temptation Resort. We were honest with her about that because she can see our location and all that type of stuff. But we just taught her.

We were like, and she knows that we like to have a good time. We like to go places. We like to dress up and do these theme nights. So she doesn't know about the lifestyle stuff. but she knows that we go to that resort and she knows that my wife goes topless and she knows we like to have a good time. So she knows a little bit about it. Our son kind of knows a little bit about it from that same perspective. I've got a couple close friends that know and our other friends, the couple number two that we played with, they've got some close friends that know, but it's a very

tight circle that we have that trust relationship and we're not going to be judged. But I don't really have any family that knows. My wife, my wife's side of her family is very religious. So if they found out, they'd almost like exile her. So we're just, we're trying to be as tactful as we can. But the positive is that if you look at the trends and you look at more people getting in the lifestyle, it is becoming more accepted. And I think it's, people are more open to it. So eventually, I think it's going to get to the point where it's, it's not that big of a deal to come out and tell people about it. except maybe people that are

uber religious and would judge you for it but that's kind of where we're at right now. 30 years from now those people won't be alive you know I mean it's kind of like eventually it'll be those kind of people will be extinct like the dinosaurs. It's a very you know your kids are different they're not going to think twice about it

they're younger they grew up in a different time so things are definitely changing I think that that's great you guys sound like you're fucking fun you're having like you're living your best life okay you like I said you look like you're 35 and you're living the life of like a 35 year old but you're 50 i'm going to put your anonymous picks on my discord channel um i'm not on my discord channel i'm going to put your anonymous picks i have anonymous

picks of you and your wife and like i said you're you guys are like really hot i thought you were way younger i'm going to put those up on my patreon you're a patreon member right yes i am yeah so if you want to go on discord too like you know about my discord now people are doing all kinds of things over there just you could do whatever also definitely put i'm definitely going to put a link to your website i think it's fantastic. I will be giving it to other people in the future too. I think you did a great job on on it. I'm going to put that in the description. Uh, so people could go there. Feel free also to go onto my Discord. You could promote that website there as well. And you could put more racier stuff if you want to. But the pick that you sent me, I will put that up on my Patreon. Thank you so much

for calling in. You know, one day maybe your wife could call in and talk about just her journey herself, you know, with women and stuff like that could be a good episode if she ever wants to call it. Yeah, yeah. I think she'd love that. Yeah, yeah, that would be cool. Like, my listeners always love to hear from women, too. So I just feel like she's got that whole girl, girl thing that journey she went on. It would probably be interesting to hear that story from her perspective. So if she ever wants to come on, let me know.

And I'll have her on. But you were like the best storyteller. Like, I didn't have to say one fucking word through this whole thing. Like, you were so good. You gave me a great episode. Thank you so much for calling in. And I'm so, and thank you for including my. podcast on your website, I think that's great.

Oh, you're welcome. And the storytelling, I've heard you kind of drive some of those conversations and give people feedback. So I was trying to take notes and make sure I did the same things that you wanted people to do. Yeah, you were really good. I mean, a lot of people don't, listen, I'm talking to regular people, right? I'm not talking to celebrities that are used to, like, giving interviews and stuff. You know, so a lot of times it's hard to get people to talk or tell the story and people

complain, oh, you're cutting them off. But, like, half the time, I'm like, you trust me. you should be happy that I'm on this fucking conversation guiding it, but you were actually good. And it didn't even tell. Like sometimes I think if someone's overprepared, it's actually worse because they're trying to stick to a script. I think you're just a natural. You told a great story.

I love your journey. I think I love what you did. And I'm so glad that you called it and shared your story and your website on my show. So thanks again, Neil, for calling in. And make sure to go over to my Discord after this airs. it'll probably air. I like to put my best episodes, and this will be one of the best ones.

I mean, that's how I rule my show on a Monday. So I already have my one for this Monday coming out, so it'll be next Monday. For sure, yours is going to be up. So after it's up, you could go on my Discord and, like, promote the shit out of your thing, too, as well. But I'm going to promote it in the intro, and I'll put the link to your website in my description.

All right. Well, thank you so much. And thank you for everything that you do. and thank you for having me. It's been fantastic. Yeah, awesome. Thanks, Neil. Bye. Thanks. Bye-bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available, not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories

taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over. the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format,

and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to My Discord, my Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos.

There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book. access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to

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